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IF Spirit Were Honest: This is Why Your Intuition Feels Blocked · Spunky Spirit with Cari Mugz

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  Speaker 1: You're listening to this Monky Spirit podcast where intuition meets
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  Speaker 1: real life. Hello and welcome to this episode of Spiky Spirit.
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  Speaker 1: I am psychic medium Carrie Mugs, and today we're going
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  Speaker 1: to talk about your intuition because I have a class
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  Speaker 1: coming up on the April eleventh that's sold out, but
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to be doing another one, probably online for
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  Speaker 1: more people to get in, and also too, I'm going
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  Speaker 1: to Bend, Oregon on April eighteenth, and we're going to
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  Speaker 1: be talking about protective intuition, grounding signs and symbols, and
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to see how that goes, and if it
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  Speaker 1: goes well, I will probably be doing one in Idaho
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  Speaker 1: falls in different areas all over, traveling different places to
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  Speaker 1: do them, just depending on where and how many, just
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  Speaker 1: depending on where you guys are and if you want me.
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  Speaker 2: There, that's kind of how it's going to look.
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  Speaker 1: So today we're going to talk about intuition because it's
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  Speaker 1: so hard and I have so many people ask me
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  Speaker 1: all the time, how do I know?
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  Speaker 2: How do I?
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  Speaker 1: And the thing is is, I've told you a lot
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  Speaker 1: of times that intuition is so spirit Teaching spiritual spirituality
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  Speaker 1: is kind of hard because we all have it's like
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  Speaker 1: a fingerprint. We all have our own way, so it's
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  Speaker 1: not a one size fits all kind of thing, and
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  Speaker 1: everybody has their own spiritual fingerprint.
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  Speaker 2: And so it's hard for me to.
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  Speaker 1: Be able to teach a general place or a lot
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  Speaker 1: of people at at the same time, just because so
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to focus on even though I teach I'm
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  Speaker 1: going to be teaching a lot of people in groups,
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  Speaker 1: I want to like focus on your what you what
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  Speaker 1: your players are, what your abilities are, what your things are,
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  Speaker 1: so you.
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  Speaker 2: Know what things connect you.
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  Speaker 1: Because for me, connection is meditation and.
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  Speaker 2: Nature, and for some.
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  Speaker 1: People that it's it's breath work, and for some people
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  Speaker 1: it's running. Some people it's different. And everybody has their
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  Speaker 1: own thing, and so I'm going to kind of tie
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  Speaker 1: these classes into figuring out what your individual thing is,
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  Speaker 1: even though I'm teaching a whole people at the same time.
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  Speaker 1: But I promise you, I think the number one cause
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  Speaker 1: of this intuition thing is that you don't trust yourself.
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  Speaker 1: You have intuition, you hear it, you know it, and
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  Speaker 1: you kind of just know, but you don't trust it.
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  Speaker 1: You don't and that's.
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  Speaker 2: Where it's hard.
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  Speaker 1: Because that's where we get to the point where you know,
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  Speaker 1: we second guess it, we wonder, and sometimes it has
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  Speaker 1: to be completely like none. Like I had a client
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  Speaker 1: the other day and there's just no denying it, she said.
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  Speaker 1: She was like, just know, all these things are happening.
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  Speaker 1: There's just no denying it. And and that's great when
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  Speaker 1: it's like that, but a lot of times it's not,
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  Speaker 1: and people are confused and they you know, they don't
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  Speaker 1: know what their intuition, how to hear their intuition, how
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  Speaker 1: to hear themselves. And so we're kind of gonna go
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  Speaker 1: over that today because I mean, let's be honest, you're
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  Speaker 1: not confused. You already know exactly what you want, right,
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  Speaker 1: You already know what's there. You just don't either like
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  Speaker 1: the answer you're getting or you don't use it. Like
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  Speaker 1: it's that one meme that we always have where I
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  Speaker 1: ask spirit for a sign, but now I want a
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  Speaker 1: more signier sign, Like we know you know deep down
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  Speaker 1: what the answer is, you know, but you want somebody
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  Speaker 1: to validate it. You want somebody's outside sourced, which I
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  Speaker 1: try and teach you all the time. It's an inside job, guys,
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  Speaker 1: It's an inside job. And so you need to really
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  Speaker 1: just trust yourself on this.
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  Speaker 2: And so today we're gonna talk about that.
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna talk about because of spirit, we're honest, it
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  Speaker 1: would tell you the truth, and the truth is you
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  Speaker 1: kind of tried to avoid it. You kind of are scared,
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  Speaker 1: you already know, and you kind of just push it
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  Speaker 1: away saying you don't know, or.
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  Speaker 2: You kind of act like.
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  Speaker 1: When you deep you know, sometimes you don't want to
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  Speaker 1: know the answer, especially during like romance or love, like
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  Speaker 1: you know the answer, but you don't want to go
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  Speaker 1: and do that. Just like when I was going into mediumship,
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  Speaker 1: I knew the answer, but I didn't want to do it.
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  Speaker 2: I was scared.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't want to I didn't want to put myself
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  Speaker 1: out there. So it's kind of like that, and so
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  Speaker 1: we are going to talk about that. Because when people
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  Speaker 1: come to readings, or when you go to a reading,
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  Speaker 1: you kind of already know.
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  Speaker 2: Like I went to.
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  Speaker 1: I think Mystic Miffits had a thing this last weekend.
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  Speaker 1: They had a gallery, not a gallery, but like a
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  Speaker 1: convention thing at one of the hotels.
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  Speaker 2: I can't even remember, but I went.
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  Speaker 1: I was because I was looking at some stones. I
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  Speaker 1: was looking for some crystals.
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  Speaker 2: And I got a reading. And I hardly ever get.
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  Speaker 1: Readings because I and I just thought, you know what,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna try it. I'm just gonna try it, see
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  Speaker 1: what comes up.
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  Speaker 2: And here's the thing.
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  Speaker 1: Everything that kept coming in but in the.
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  Speaker 2: Tarrant reading, it was a Tarot deck. It was a
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  Speaker 2: tarot reading.
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  Speaker 1: She did awesome, And everything that kept coming up was
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  Speaker 1: I would look at my husband and be like, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: this is exactly like I would be like, oh my gosh. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: And I know because I do readings too, and I
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  Speaker 1: know that there it's legitimate. But I just everything that
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  Speaker 1: came up with the reading I already knew.
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  Speaker 2: I already knew.
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  Speaker 1: And I would look at my husband and laugh because
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  Speaker 1: he already knew it too, because we talked about it.
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  Speaker 1: It was all about what was coming up for me
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  Speaker 1: in the year, what I needed to get rid of,
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  Speaker 1: what I.
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  Speaker 2: Needed to do.
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  Speaker 1: It was kind of awesome. If you've never had a
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  Speaker 1: tarot reading, I don't do them, but I if you,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I could probably list to the lady who
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  Speaker 1: did it at the anyways, And the thing is, you guys,
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  Speaker 1: is I already knew. I already knew all of the
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  Speaker 1: information that she was giving me. I already knew what
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  Speaker 1: she was telling me, and I was laughing because I
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  Speaker 1: already knew it. I just didn't want to face it.
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  Speaker 1: You don't want to face the things you have to change.
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  Speaker 1: You don't want to face things that you have to do.
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  Speaker 1: You don't want to face you know, letting go of
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  Speaker 1: certain things. And so I think that and when people
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  Speaker 1: come to me, it's the same thing. They just come
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  Speaker 1: and every once in a while. So some people do
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  Speaker 1: come for mediumship and because they have a past loved
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  Speaker 1: one that they want to visit, and some people come
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  Speaker 1: just for validation. They just want to visit their past
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  Speaker 1: loved one once in a while, or they want to
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  Speaker 1: be validated that they're on the on the right path.
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  Speaker 2: They know they're on.
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  Speaker 1: The right path, they just wanted to be validated. And
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  Speaker 1: that's totally fine, because that's what I did at this
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  Speaker 1: thing this last weekend. But I wanted to think about
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  Speaker 1: the last time you had a gut feeling and how
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  Speaker 1: you felt it immediately. You felt it immediately, like you
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  Speaker 1: just knew and you just had that quiet, instant knowing,
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  Speaker 1: and then you questioned it, right, you questioned it.
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  Speaker 2: You were like, okay, what like do what do I do? Like?
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  Speaker 2: Is this really legit? Is this just me? Is this?
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  Speaker 2: What is this?
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  Speaker 1: And some people google it, some people chatdp it, But
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  Speaker 1: you just know, you just know, and you need to
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  Speaker 1: trust your guts. So and then you maybe waited for
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  Speaker 1: a sign, and then you got a sign and then
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  Speaker 1: you're like, Okay, I want to sign to your sign.
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  Speaker 1: And honestly, you guys, this is so typical and it's
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  Speaker 1: so normal. So I want to give yourself some grace
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  Speaker 1: if you do do this, because the truth is, you
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  Speaker 1: already got the sign. The truth is you already know.
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  Speaker 1: The truth is that sometimes we can be so overwhelmed
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  Speaker 1: with anxiety and so overwhelmed with everything that's going on
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  Speaker 1: in the world that we don't hear ourselves. And that's
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  Speaker 1: what's most important is we need to listen to ourselves.
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  Speaker 1: We need to listen to our gut instincts and what
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  Speaker 1: we already know.
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  Speaker 2: So I've talked about this a lot to you.
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  Speaker 1: Our intuition and anxiety are different. Intuition comes with no feelings.
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  Speaker 1: So for instance, and I use this all the time,
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  Speaker 1: if you're sitting at a long time ago and you
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  Speaker 1: used to do dishes at the counter. If you're sitting
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  Speaker 1: out doing the dishes and all of a sudden your
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  Speaker 1: mind goes wild and you're like, oh my gosh, I'm
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  Speaker 1: so worried about my daughter and she wasn't well today
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  Speaker 1: and I need to check on her. And you have
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  Speaker 1: anxiety and you have emotion with it, and you're worried
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  Speaker 1: and you're stressed. That's not intuition, that's anxiety. Anxiety comes
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  Speaker 1: with emotion. Anxiety comes with fear. Anxiety comes with what next.
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  Speaker 1: Intuition comes with Like it just is. So if you're
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  Speaker 1: sitting doing the dishes and all of a sudden you hear,
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  Speaker 1: I need to check it on my mom. You don't
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  Speaker 1: have any emotions to it. You just do it, and
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  Speaker 1: that's what you need to do. So I think I've
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  Speaker 1: told this story before, so if you've heard it, it's
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  Speaker 1: just beary with me. But when I was going through
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  Speaker 1: my first divorce and my ex was having very many
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  Speaker 1: different you know, it's just it is what it is.
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  Speaker 1: It's fine, but there was other women involved, and in
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  Speaker 1: the moment, I was like stress anxiety, like oh my gosh,
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  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, and and it was so worrisome and
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  Speaker 1: I was. There was fear, and there was all this
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  Speaker 1: stuff like chaos and torture and hell. And but one
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  Speaker 1: morning I just woke up and I heard, go get
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  Speaker 1: a tape recorder. I didn't have any feeling to it,
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  Speaker 1: didn't have any emotion to.
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  Speaker 2: It, just go get a tape recorder.
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  Speaker 1: So I went and got one of those tape recorders
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  Speaker 1: at Walmart at six in the morning. And he had
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  Speaker 1: been having some surgery, so he was home that day
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  Speaker 1: and I put the recorder underneath the bed or the couch,
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  Speaker 1: I can't remember, and he had called he had called
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  Speaker 1: his friend that day, and I heard all of the
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  Speaker 1: conversation on the tape recorder, and so that was intuition.
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  Speaker 1: All of the rest of that stuff will what was
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  Speaker 1: happening was total anxiety, and it was hell and it
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  Speaker 1: was crazy, but.
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  Speaker 2: That one moment was intuition.
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  Speaker 1: And so it's a still That's why when people say
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  Speaker 1: it's a still small voice, it's a knowing, it's just
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  Speaker 1: a gut feeling. You listen to those things, because I
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  Speaker 1: had a lot of gut feelings during that whole charade anyways,
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  Speaker 1: but I didn't really listen to him because my feelings
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  Speaker 1: were involved. I didn't want to leave. I didn't want to.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I had invested fifteen years, we had four kids.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't so I knew the answer. I knew the answer,
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  Speaker 1: but I kept not listening to my gut.
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  Speaker 2: And that's kind of what it is.
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  Speaker 1: And now I look back and think, oh my gosh,
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  Speaker 1: I didn't need all of that proof.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't need all of that.
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  Speaker 1: But if I would listen to my gut, I would
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  Speaker 1: have left way before.
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  Speaker 2: And so that's just.
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  Speaker 1: Kind of I already knew. I already knew, And that's
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  Speaker 1: kind of what intuition is.
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  Speaker 2: You already know.
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  Speaker 1: But it's sometimes it's good to get validation. But in
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  Speaker 1: that instance, I waited too long. I waited too long
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  Speaker 1: to try and get validation, to try and catch him,
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  Speaker 1: or to try in, and so that I didn't need it.
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  Speaker 1: I could have left just on the fact that I
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  Speaker 1: didn't like this anymore. I don't need an excuse. I
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  Speaker 1: don't need anybody's validation, I don't need anybody's approof Well,
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  Speaker 1: I could just leave because I want to and so
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  Speaker 1: and I knew, I knew that, and I should have
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  Speaker 1: listened to. The only regret I have is I should
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  Speaker 1: have listened to my intuition sooner, but I needed because
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  Speaker 1: I had outside sources and other people telling me things
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  Speaker 1: and me wanting so badly for things to be okay
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  Speaker 1: that I didn't listen. And so that's kind of what
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  Speaker 1: intuition is. We know, we know, and I keep saying.
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  Speaker 2: That over and over again. It's like I should just
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  Speaker 2: put on repeat. We know, we know, we know, so
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  Speaker 2: let's see.
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  Speaker 1: So when you already have the answer to it, there's
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  Speaker 1: some signs, and I wrote these signs down. So you
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  Speaker 1: keep thinking about the same thing.
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  Speaker 2: Over and over.
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  Speaker 1: You keep thinking about it, or you keep thinking about it,
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  Speaker 1: or your body feels tight when you ignore it, or
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  Speaker 1: so like if you're like, okay, this is done, but
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  Speaker 1: then it comes popping in your head again or not
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  Speaker 1: with emotion, not anxiety, because anxiety can loop. Anxiety can
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  Speaker 1: be like you constantly think about the same thing over
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  Speaker 1: and over, trying to fix the end result. This is
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  Speaker 1: intuition just dip popping in. For instance, I had a
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  Speaker 1: friend who said, you know, I was thinking about making
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  Speaker 1: an appointment with you, but I just kind of I
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  Speaker 1: said I would wait, or it would wait, and then
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  Speaker 1: you just kept popping up in different conversations, or you
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  Speaker 1: just kept popping up here or you just kept popping
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  Speaker 1: up there, then that's like a you know sign. But
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  Speaker 1: if there was anxiety around that, if there was like,
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  Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I'm so scared, I don't want to
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  Speaker 1: do this, I don't want to do this, that's anxiety.
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  Speaker 2: Do you understand. So it's kind of a different thing.
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  Speaker 1: So if you keep thinking about it, if it keeps
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  Speaker 1: popping up, then that's an indication that you might want
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  Speaker 1: to go for it or try it. Your body feels
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  Speaker 1: tight and you ignore it, you feel relief when you
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  Speaker 1: imagine the truth, you feel relief. That's kind of hard too,
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  Speaker 1: because I have to admit sometimes during intuition, when you
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  Speaker 1: have intuition, you don't really the relief comes later after
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  Speaker 1: you see the whole truth and when you keep asking
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  Speaker 1: for comfort all the time. These are just signs that
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  Speaker 1: you already know. Spirit is just like you already know.
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  Speaker 1: So spirit's like, okay, truthful is truth is when you
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  Speaker 1: feel these things you already know, you already know the answer.
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  Speaker 1: You just keep wanting validation. So these are the things
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  Speaker 1: that like when you you know you already have the answer,
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  Speaker 1: but you keep thinking about it over and over again.
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  Speaker 1: Your body feels tight and you ignore it. You feel
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  Speaker 1: relief when you imagine telling the truth, and you keep
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  Speaker 1: asking for confirmation. This is spirits, like, Okay, let's be honest,
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  Speaker 1: you already know the truth. You keep asking for science.
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  Speaker 1: Just do it, just keep just do it.
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  Speaker 2: You already know, you already know.
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  Speaker 1: And so this is why you don't trust it. And
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  Speaker 1: I want to be kind of gently when I say this,
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  Speaker 1: because I want to give yourself some grace, because intuition
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  Speaker 1: is something you learn and it's a process.
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  Speaker 2: It's not something that you just all of a sudden.
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  Speaker 1: We've been taught to validate outside sources from our parents,
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  Speaker 1: from our religious leaders, from our presents, like from our government.
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  Speaker 1: We've been taught this, trained to give validation from asside sources,
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  Speaker 1: and in reality, it's just already we already need it inside,
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  Speaker 1: but we get nervous to trust that. So there's nothing
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  Speaker 1: wrong with you if you don't trust it yet. That's
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  Speaker 1: what I'm trying to say. There's nothing wrong with you.
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  Speaker 2: You're not broken.
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  Speaker 1: There's nothing wrong with you not trusting your intuition. It's
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  Speaker 1: a normal thing. But we got to train you, or
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  Speaker 1: you got to train your brain. You got to train
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  Speaker 1: yourself to trust the intuition when you feel it. You've
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  Speaker 1: been conditioned not to. Like I said, you doubt yourself.
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  Speaker 1: You look outside for answers. You're afraid that you're going
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  Speaker 1: to make the wrong decision. This is a big one,
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  Speaker 1: and a lot of people think, well, if I make
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  Speaker 1: this decision, what if it's wrong. The thing is is
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  Speaker 1: you can make wrong decisions, but your purpose never changes.
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  Speaker 1: It just takes a little bit longer for you to
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  Speaker 1: get there right, or you learn some different lessons on
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  Speaker 1: the way, So your end result is always going to
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  Speaker 1: be the same man result.
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  Speaker 2: It's just if you make the wrong decision.
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  Speaker 1: And take you a lot longer to get there. And
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  Speaker 1: I know some people say, well you miss the boat,
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  Speaker 1: or the boat leaves, but the boat kind of circles
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  Speaker 1: until you're ready to get on it. Because what's for you,
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  Speaker 1: we'll never leave. So now I do know that. I
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  Speaker 1: think there's a book called a Big Oh. It's by
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  Speaker 1: the lady who wrote Eat, Pray, Love, Big Magic, And
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  Speaker 1: she does say that ideas do come to certain people
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  Speaker 1: and if they don't work on that, then they go
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  Speaker 1: to somebody else. That's kind of it's a big spiritual
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  Speaker 1: thing that it's meant for the collective. Because if something
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  Speaker 1: you're supposed to do and you don't do and the
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  Speaker 1: collective needs it, then they'll give that to somebody else.
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  Speaker 1: So that's kind of how that works. I think I'm
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  Speaker 1: not completely sure, but I kind of feel like that
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  Speaker 1: that's how it is. So and sometimes it's not about
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  Speaker 1: being wrong. It's just about going on the journey, right,
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  Speaker 1: Like just going on the journey.
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  Speaker 2: So sometimes you think it's.
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  Speaker 1: The wrong direction or the wrong decision, and it's really not.
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  Speaker 1: It's really Can I just tell you I've learned more
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  Speaker 1: from things that I thought were the wrong decision, Like
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  Speaker 1: I could say that my decision to marry my ex
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  Speaker 1: husband was the wrong decision, but it wasn't because I
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  Speaker 1: had four amazing kids and it's turned me into the
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: person I am today, who I love, who is so
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: much stronger, who doesn't take shit, who doesn't and let's
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  Speaker 1: be honest, marriage is a two way street. It wasn't
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: all him, like I did. I was brand newly in
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: her new religion. I was pretty like, like, this is
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: how it goes black and white because I had to
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: be a perfect like it wasn't I wasn't perfect, and
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: he probably had to go do those things because he
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: had to figure out stuff from his stuff.
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  Speaker 2: But I took it personal. So that's the thing.
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: There's no blame here, Like everybody has their own journey.
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  Speaker 1: But if I were to say that marriage was the
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: wrong decision, I would be saying that my kids were
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: the wrong destiscision, and who I am today would be
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: the wrong decision. And so there's really how do I
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: explain it that there's really no wrong decisions?
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  Speaker 2: Right?
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  Speaker 1: There's really kind of not because part of the journey
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  Speaker 1: is in the growth and in the pain and in
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: the learning it.
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  Speaker 2: And here's the thing.
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: I look back at that and what I've changed something?
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: Not really because it's led me to who I am today,
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: and might have I walked away, I wish I would
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: have walked away sooner, but maybe there was something in
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: that that I needed to learn. Right, So I just
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: want you to think about not being wrong. It's about
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: what happens if you're right. So what happens if it's
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: the right decision. Because that marriage, if it would have
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: been the wrong decision, I would have said no to it.
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't have the life I do now, which I
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: absolutely love. So what if that really was the right decision? Right,
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: Because if you're right, you're going to go into something beautiful,
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: it's going to change you into something beautiful like that transitional,
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: that transitional butterfly thing. So how to start trusting yourself?
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  Speaker 1: Make small aligned decisions like make you know if it
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: feels in alignment. Make small ones, not big ones, not
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: big life threatening ones. Now I'm not talking about what
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: cereal to buy at the store. I'm talking about just
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: small alignments like do I start this business, or do
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: I go on this trip, or do I go little
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: things that you feel in alignment with that, maybe even
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: putting off start to do that. Things that feel good,
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: feel things that make you feel good, make you feel like.
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: There's some things in my business this year that when
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: I did it, I was like, I don't like this.
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: I don't I know it's helping people and I know
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: it's like you know, but I don't want to do
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: this particular thing anymore. And it was a good thing,
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: it wasn't a bad thing, but I just wasn't aligned
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: with it. I was doing it for different reasons than
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: what I wanted to do.
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  Speaker 2: And so it took a lot of.
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: You know, soul searching, but an intuition checking into my deficione.
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: But I'm going to stop doing those things because they
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: didn't align with me, and I'm going to do something
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: that does align with me. And that may seem like
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: a small decision, but to me it was big. So
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: do things that make you feel good. If something's not
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: working for you, it doesn't make you feel right, then
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: don't do it. And I know it's hard to let go,
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: and I know it's hard to, but you know what,
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: something better's coming.
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: Stop asking for more signs.
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: You can ask for one, maybe two, but stop asking
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: for more signs. I remember one time when I was
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: in high school, I was working at a store called Laments,
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: and there was a guy that I kind of liked,
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: and I kept saying to God at the time because
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: I was, you know, I'm like, okay, if this, show
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: me a sign that this is the right thing, or
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: show me a sign that this is the right thing.
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: And then a song came on and it was like
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: the total sign, like okay, well show me this if
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: he does if this happens then and finally Spirit was
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: like we're done. We're done with this like you know,
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: you know, and that relationship really didn't end up being
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: a long term relationship or had any effect on my
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: life anyway.
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: So it's just crazy. So just kind of watch that.
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: Stop asking for signs and strengthen your inner voice daily.
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: Talk to your guides daily, ask for your guides to
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: come through for you daily. Ask your guides to show
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: you an owl that day, or ask your joy guides
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: to make you laugh three times. And then when they
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: do those things, you know, laugh with them, have fun
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: with them.
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: It's a relationship.
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: It's a relationship with your intuition, it's a relationship with
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: your guides, it's a relationship with you and so and
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: it gets stronger than more you listen. And you can
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: try automatic writing, you can try meditation, you can try
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: all those things. But honestly, it's just listening to yourself
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: and knowing what is best for you. And there's no
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: wrong decisions. There's no you know what I mean, Like,
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: there's just you're protected and you're guided, and so if
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: you do kind of make some of the wrong decisions,
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: they're not really wrong, like right, they're just it's kind
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: of hard to explain. It's just a different path to
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: get you to where you need to be, just the
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: longer journey, and the joy is in the journey. So
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: don't be afraid of being wrong, don't be afraid of
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: making the wrong decision.
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: Or hearing the right thing.
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: Just trust yourself, give yourself some grace and trust you
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: trust everything, Trust your heart, trust your body, trust your
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: You know, because I wouldn't be here if it wasn't
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: some for some of wrong decisions that I made. So
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: just know that it's gonna be done. You're gonna be
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: led down the right path. So I because of this,
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: I am making some meditations and subliminals. So if you
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: don't know what a subliminal is, I listen to them
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: all the time. It's when I put my voice to
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: some music and I will say affirmations in my voice.
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: I'll say things like, your intuition is spot on. Always
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: trust your intuition. There's like twenty or thirty different affirmations,
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: and then i'll put them with music. But I'll turn
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: down my voice to just where you can barely barely
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: hear it. In fact, you can't probably sometimes you can't
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: even hear it, but your subconscious can hear it. And
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: I will meditate to it, or I'll even sleep to it.
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: And so I'll put those little headbands on that have that,
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: and i'll show you next time we do a podcast,
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: or I'll put it on my website, or I'll do
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: a video. So I'm starting to make these subliminals, and
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: right now I made one about trusting your intuition, and
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: so if you're interested in that, I'm going to combine
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: it with a meditation. So combined you could listen to
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: the subliminal at night before you go to bed, and
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: listen to the meditation in the morning. You don't have
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: to the meditation. You might want to be sent and relaxed.
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: But with subliminals, you can be listening to them no
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: matter what you're doing. You can be listening to while
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: you're doing the dishes, you can be listening to and
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: before you go to bed. You can just be listening
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: to me when you're walking. And so I'm going to,
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: you know, put them on my website and they will
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: be available separate or as a package subliminals and meditations,
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: and these ones, the ones I'm working on right now
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: is trusting your intuition. Just because I've had so many
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: people be like, how do.
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: I trust my intuition? How do I know it's true?
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: What if it's not? What if it is?
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: And these subliminals and this meditation will help you get
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: to that, to trust yourself, to trust your own intuition,
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: to trust you, to listen to your gut, to listen
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: to you. And so, and I'm also going to be
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: making other subliminals in the next few weeks too for you,
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: different ones as far as like how to meet your
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: guides or lots of different ones.
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: I have like five or six listed that we're.
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: Going to do, and so watch for those in the
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: upcoming episodes or on my website because I'm going to start.
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: Helping people on a bigger scale.
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: So because and this is the number one thing that
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: I get asked the most is how do I trust
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: my own intuition? How do I really know? And this
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: is your first step on how you really know and
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: how to trust yourself. So if the subleminals work on
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: your subconscious and the meta, they help you reconnect to
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: your intuition on a deeper level, so they kind of
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: he so together they can work so if you've been
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: second guessing yourself, together they work better. But you can
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: also buy them individually. And if you've been second guessing
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: yourself and you feel stuck or you keep going back
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: and forth, then these are for you. And I'll put
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: the link in the show notes for you. And you
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: don't need more answers.
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: You don't need.
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: You know, if Spirit was honest, you already know starts
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: telling you already know, you already know, you already know
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: what your.
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: Next move is.
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: You're just scared to do it, or you're wondering, if
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: you're stuck in fear. So listen to your gut and
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: trust yourself. I think that's the one thing I want
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: to tell you the most, is trust yourself. If I
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: didn't do I you know, when I first started this
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: doing readings, I was scared to death and I was
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: always afraid of being wrong. Because I wasn't wrong just
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: for me. It was different if I was wrong for me,
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: but if I was wrong for somebody else, then it
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: was like I just felt like the world was going
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: to fall apart and I and if I would have
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: stopped because I would have been so afraid of being wrong,
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't be here and I wouldn't have all of you,
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: and I wouldn't have my friends and all of you,
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: and it would be a different story, wouldn't it. And
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: it kind of makes me wonder, you know, what would
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: have happened if I, and I guess you know that
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: goes back to you. Would that have been a wrong choice?
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: But I don't think I tried to stop. I mean,
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: and I'm gonna be honest, like there were times when
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: I was like, no, I don't want.
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: To do it, and spirit just pushed me. Anyways.
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: I don't know if there would have been a way
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: that I could have stopped or could have said no,
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: because it was pretty pushy for this. So that's pretty
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: funny actually, So yeah, there is no wrong answer. You'll
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: you'll know, you'll your compass, your GPS system will just
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: direct you and tell you and you'll stop and have
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: to make decisions. And if you go down the wrong road,
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: I promise you, your GPS system will redirect you back.
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: It's we have a GPS system embedded in s and
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: if we do go down the wrong road, we might
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: go down for a minute, have some different scenery, see
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: a different journey, but we'll feel it and our GPS
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: system will guide us back. So I want you to
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: think of your intuition as that GPS system and listen
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: to it, listen to to guide you and direct you,
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: because there is no wrong way. There really isn't a
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: wrong way. And if you get too far off course,
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: or you get too far off then your guide and
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: your GPS system are going to bring you back.
• 27:02
  Speaker 2: So hopefully that helps.
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: Hopefully that's not fear and you're not stuck in fear,
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: because that's the biggest thing is you get stuck in fear. Right,
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: you get stuck in how is this going to play out?
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: And don't get stuck and listen to yourself. I was
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: stuck in for a long time in that in that marriage,
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: and now we're both better off people, we're both better off,
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: our kids are better off. And but for a long
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: time we were stuck in something that it just was
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: torture to try and.
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: Get out of it.
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: And so I guess what I'm trying to say is trust,
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: Just trust yourself, because Spirit's like, let's be honest. In fact,
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: I should probably run a series called If Sparah were honest,
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: this is what they would say, because today, if Spirit
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: were honest, Sparah would say, you already know you are
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: ready now, so trust that and move forward. You don't
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: have to make a jump, just go in little, tiny
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: baby steps. And I think that that's what I meant
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: when I said do things that do little things that
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: put you in alignment.
• 28:01
  Speaker 2: Just do little baby steps and see how it figures out.
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: So if you want to start a new business, don't
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: just jump into the new business, do baby steps, like
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: start researching it, start looking at places, start doing little
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: things at a time, and you'll feel the alignment. And
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: that's where you do the little things that keep you
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: in alignment. Like me, when I start doing this, I
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: started doing readings for friends and family, and then it
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: started to escalate and have more and more and more.
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: In fact, I didn't do any readings. I did readings
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: for like two or three years before I did any
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: readings locally because I was so afraid of the religious stigma,
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: the and what people would say. And as soon as
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: I let go of that, it was crazy.
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: So I love you guys so.
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: Much, and I hope that helps, and I will put
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: all of this stuff in the show notes below. About subliminals. Subliminals,
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: I just want to tell you some people I like
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: them as long as you know where they're coming. From
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: and you trust the source, because sometimes when you get
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: a subliminal like on YouTube and stuff like that, you
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: don't trust the source, know the store of source, then
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: they can add some things in there that you don't want.
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: But I really like them. I have seen a difference
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: with That's why I kind of started making my own.
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: But I have enough clients for people or friends who
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: trust me enough, and I just thought, well, I'm going
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: to make them for other people because you don't hear
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: that much about them, and I'm going to put them
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: with a meditation and hopefully they help people like they
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: help me, because sometimes you do feel stuck and sometimes
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: you don't trust your intuition, and this is this is
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: the way you can go forward and have your subconscious
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: re retrain your brain. So and they could be free
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: trying if you don't and if they don't work for you,
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: they don't.
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: But I know that they work for me.
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: So so all of this stuff is going to be
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: the show notes and oh and I just want to
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: see too. These podcasts will probably be every other week,
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: not every week, just because I have so much going on,
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: so every other week unless something important comes up and
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: I need to like hurry and get out to you,
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: then probably other every other week. But I love you
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: guys so much, and I will see you next time.