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Bro job · JLJ This Morning

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  Speaker 1: So yesterday I did.
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  Speaker 2: A audio only version of the show. Uh and and
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  Speaker 2: I'm looking right now at my charts it is number
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  Speaker 2: one of all of my like ninety audio shows.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you.
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  Speaker 2: I'd like to sometimes do just audio only versions of
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  Speaker 2: show just to get the audio lists something extra because
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  Speaker 2: you guys are listening audio wise to my shows. You
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  Speaker 2: know videos, now I can do video. I'm sitting there looking,
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, it's still it's and it's number one, like
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  Speaker 2: it's triple the number two. So it's just it's amazing
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  Speaker 2: how much this is. Yeah, it's it's crazy. Yeah, it's crazy. Hi,
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  Speaker 2: by j J this morning.
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  Speaker 1: How are you. My brother got a job? Yes, kids.
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  Speaker 2: Him being off was very interesting because he had the
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  Speaker 2: same job for twenty six years. I moved home seventeen
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  Speaker 2: almost eighteen years ago in two thousand and nine, and
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  Speaker 2: he had a job. So our relationship was very different
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  Speaker 2: because we never he had a job Monday through Friday
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  Speaker 2: radio schedule. I was an entrepreneur, do whatever I'm doing
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  Speaker 2: my thing. But like we never really we never really
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  Speaker 2: asked me about what I was doing. I never asked
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  Speaker 2: hibout what he was doing. We just kind would do
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  Speaker 2: our thing. Two roomates of the house do our thing.
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  Speaker 1: Well.
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  Speaker 2: Him being home for it has only been got wild
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  Speaker 2: because he stopped in May end of May, so June
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  Speaker 2: July only went two and a half months much to
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  Speaker 2: work today last this comes out of me yesterday, two
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  Speaker 2: and a half months a lot of us.
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  Speaker 1: I was in a long time to be out of
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  Speaker 1: a job.
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  Speaker 2: That's that's very I have friends who seriously are still looking,
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  Speaker 2: and I sent all my energy to you. Depends on
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  Speaker 2: your field also, and just experienced everything like that. And
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  Speaker 2: my brother's older and it's a little tougher and he
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  Speaker 2: got a lot of what he wanted actually in terms
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  Speaker 2: of location, hours times, but he's going to learn the
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  Speaker 2: type of job like d of stuff. For me, it's
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  Speaker 2: really interesting because I was I just do whatever I want.
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  Speaker 2: No one's here. Usually it's just me doing my job.
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  Speaker 2: I have my semi routines. I'm an entrepreneur, you know,
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  Speaker 2: I have there so as I have jobs at home,
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  Speaker 2: sometimes I have jobs outside the home. Sometimes I have
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  Speaker 2: interviews in the morning. Like for example, yesterday I had
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  Speaker 2: nothing planned till three pm. That's the interview. But I
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  Speaker 2: planned work to do. But it was like but it
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  Speaker 2: was just like it was nothing plased. So I may
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  Speaker 2: get up a little later, I make get up a
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  Speaker 2: little earlier. I may do some work at two o'clock
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  Speaker 2: in the morning. I could just and having him ask
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  Speaker 2: it what are you doing?
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  Speaker 1: What are you doing? What are you doing?
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  Speaker 2: And commentary on everything I'm doing with it, so and
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  Speaker 2: ask me what do I do next? What's gonna say?
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  Speaker 2: I'm not I was not used to that. I'm used
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  Speaker 2: to just doing whatever the f I want and not
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  Speaker 2: worry about what's going on. Nobody asks me. I don't
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  Speaker 2: know if I talk to does not have a boss?
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  Speaker 2: I am the boss. Nobody answered to you, really, So
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  Speaker 2: the kid goes, what's your schedule there? But other than that,
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  Speaker 2: I just do what. I'm just not used to having
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  Speaker 2: somebody here while I'm here. So it's kind of funny
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  Speaker 2: when people say, like when housewives are like the husband's
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  Speaker 2: home for two weeks, like go back to work, like
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  Speaker 2: it's it's very interesting. Uh.
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  Speaker 1: And then in one of.
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  Speaker 2: Those months was scary because I don't know how much
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  Speaker 2: I've said or not said, or you've seen on my
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  Speaker 2: social media. So I don't tell all my business, but
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  Speaker 2: I'll tell you guys a little bit more so I
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  Speaker 2: brother collapse last in July, and it was in the
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  Speaker 2: hospital for a while and a whole, and I hadn't
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  Speaker 2: really take care of him for a lot of that
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  Speaker 2: month until almost all basically all of July, a little
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  Speaker 2: bit a little in August, you know, And it's been
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  Speaker 2: it's been a trip because I have my mother and him,
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  Speaker 2: and he's my right hand man. He tolds my mom,
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  Speaker 2: and I didn't take care of both of them, So
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  Speaker 2: that was a trip take care of him because we
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  Speaker 2: never we've never he's always he's never been that sincly before.
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  Speaker 1: We've never been that position before.
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  Speaker 2: And it was it was it was it was that
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  Speaker 2: was heavy.
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  Speaker 1: That was heavy.
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  Speaker 2: There was some nice parts to it. We did we
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  Speaker 2: didn't hang out together a little more and we ran
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  Speaker 2: errands together, a little errands together and had some fun
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  Speaker 2: doing mats. So that that was just I to learn
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  Speaker 2: some more about him. I learned some things about him
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  Speaker 2: I didn't I didn't know we just because we just
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  Speaker 2: we're not we're not big on hanging out together.
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  Speaker 1: We have just two different lives very much so.
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  Speaker 2: But we we have a lot of things in common
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  Speaker 2: and things and then we have things that are just different.
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  Speaker 2: I was learning about stuff. And you know, we're we're family.
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  Speaker 2: You know, we help each other out. G R and I,
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  Speaker 2: we both are very much We have a lot of
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  Speaker 2: base level things that are the same. We feel the
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  Speaker 2: same about, you know, dignity and compassion and you know,
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  Speaker 2: being there for certain people and showing up. We're both
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  Speaker 2: big about that. We're both big on that kind of
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  Speaker 2: stuff and we have no problem with that.
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  Speaker 1: Uh.
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  Speaker 2: They're they're just basic things that we we we were on,
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  Speaker 2: you know, and uh, and that that's always nice, right,
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  Speaker 2: It's always nice to be able agree there with your
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  Speaker 2: brother to agree with you on We're only three years apart.
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  Speaker 2: We like a lot of same music, it's on the
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  Speaker 2: same TV shows, things like that.
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  Speaker 1: So all that, so all of that, all of that,
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  Speaker 1: uh is.
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  Speaker 2: One thing. It's good almost almost like this is like
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  Speaker 2: this live right, these live one that got bat to
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  Speaker 2: it again. I have to ask Candace mac a question
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  Speaker 2: audio and radio and we go vice send me a video.
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  Speaker 2: I look at that a little later. So that's okay.
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  Speaker 2: And Tam, he's been great. But that's also been my
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  Speaker 2: brother out helping us us out. Riccardo and Xander, my
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  Speaker 2: sister and brother in law, Flobo he was just and
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  Speaker 2: it was great. And Secondacy Caesar, it was off. But
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  Speaker 2: it's a trip. I I like having my space. I
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  Speaker 2: realized I like having my space, like having I have
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  Speaker 2: to answer the body. It's it's kind of it's my
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  Speaker 2: business and I'll talk about what I want to talk
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  Speaker 2: about it. That's why I leave the house, that we
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  Speaker 2: do it what's going on. And also it's kind of
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  Speaker 2: nice not to have that worry of I hope he's okay,
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  Speaker 2: he's okay. Now he's back in. I new he's had
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  Speaker 2: a new job. I'm gonna wish him super well there.
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  Speaker 2: You know, how does he gets a new job. You
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  Speaker 2: get a little nervous, You think to do this and
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  Speaker 2: he'll be He'll be fine. It's just been It's just
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  Speaker 2: it's just a whole new experience to me. It's kind
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  Speaker 2: of exciting also that have a new experience. M hmm,
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  Speaker 2: you're not just we somebody will they work at jobs.
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  Speaker 2: Row mean twenty six years a long time. It's a
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  Speaker 2: long time. And I I think this change is gonna
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  Speaker 2: be good for him. We all need change. We can't
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  Speaker 2: just be stale in the same situation. But then I'm
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  Speaker 2: always creating change, So maybe I'm not the right person.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm always like change, change, change, change, change all
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  Speaker 2: the time, so you know, and uh, but then I'm
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  Speaker 2: coming up in a in a week from now, I'll
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  Speaker 2: be leaving and I'll be gone for a month and
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  Speaker 2: about a month and a half. And so that's interesting too,
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  Speaker 2: uh not here being not here, so some time we've
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  Speaker 2: got a chance to spend time together, you know, eat together,
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  Speaker 2: which you don't know me do. We've got shopping together
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  Speaker 2: if you don't normally do had some laughs, so it
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  Speaker 2: was kind of cool. So why so, But I'm glad
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  Speaker 2: he got a job, and I'm just because of the
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  Speaker 2: monitary stuff, because monitary wise we're did okay, that's fine,
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  Speaker 2: And I knew that, you know, I want him. I
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  Speaker 2: wanted him to take his time and find the right gig.
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  Speaker 2: He's got unemployment. Said about that he had some money
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  Speaker 2: left over the last job, but I was I wanted
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  Speaker 2: him to tell it's like, it's nothing worse than going
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  Speaker 2: getting taking any job because you're fearful. We don't know
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  Speaker 2: if you want to do it. Learn anything for me
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  Speaker 2: this morning. Besides, my brother, you're back to work. Do
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  Speaker 2: not do that. I know it's hard. I know it's
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  Speaker 2: hard out there. Trust me. I have I have sold recycling,
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  Speaker 2: sold my clothes, So being back up out sold CDs
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  Speaker 2: to make money, to make rent, to make a bill happen.
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  Speaker 1: Trust me, I know how hard it is out there.
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  Speaker 2: Sometimes, so just get just to pay a basic bill
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  Speaker 2: and then exctin things come up, and like said my brother,
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  Speaker 2: the hospitality came up. If you don't have any insurance,
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  Speaker 2: you got to pay for yourself cars, stuff comes up.
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  Speaker 2: But I just but still I'm just like, it's if
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  Speaker 2: you can, if you can really vet these jobs, any
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  Speaker 2: situations as well as you can and really trying to
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  Speaker 2: find one that it is best for you, that's gonna
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  Speaker 2: because sometimes you'll see take a job, you get a paycheck,
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  Speaker 2: you're making less than.
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  Speaker 1: To live off of that you're doing.
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  Speaker 2: You're spending more money trying to get their transportation wise
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  Speaker 2: or whatever that you don't make enough money. Anybody goes
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  Speaker 2: out and you have nothing. Really you know you still
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  Speaker 2: have enough or you're gonna get two jobs at three jobs.
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  Speaker 2: I rather for me is you know me, I rather
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  Speaker 2: have two or three jobs that I really enjoy than
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  Speaker 2: one job that I hate. I do that ever, again.
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  Speaker 2: But I turned thirty nine, I said never again. I
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  Speaker 2: will never do that again. That's what I said. I'm
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  Speaker 2: James I Jr. Onnybody, have a good day to day
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  Speaker 2: and really think and if you're think about they about
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  Speaker 2: your jobs, they mut your home situation, They about your jobs.
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  Speaker 2: Think about both of those today.
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  Speaker 1: Are you know? If you're an entrepreneur like me, think
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  Speaker 1: about that situation to you? Are you do?
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  Speaker 2: You know?
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  Speaker 1: Are you good? You do okay? Because i love what
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  Speaker 1: I'm doing and.
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  Speaker 2: I'm having some newer success out of it, and I
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  Speaker 2: asally great people i'm working with.
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  Speaker 1: So for me, I'm good. We'll see you next time. Mhm.