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Stop Being The Nice Girl Who Gets Used! - G.L. Lambert Bonus Chapter · Black Girls Are Easy Podcast

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Speaker 1: You don't just read a book like HO Tactics in
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Speaker 1: one day. You read it and put it into practice.
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Speaker 1: You don't just listen to an audiobook like HO Tactics once,
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Speaker 1: you play it each day until it seeps into your subconsciousness.
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Speaker 1: PO Tactics changes the way you look at love, and
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Speaker 1: HO Tactics too, takes it to an entirely new level
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Speaker 1: in showing you how to get your happy. Ending you, guys,
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Speaker 1: I can't wait. PO Tactics two by G. L. Lambert
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Speaker 1: coming very soon.
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Speaker 2: Welcome to HO Tactics Gold Edition bonus section how to
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Speaker 2: Outsmart Men written by G. L. Lambert narrated by Patrick Stevens.
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Speaker 2: You can spot a player a mile away, or so
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Speaker 2: you have led yourself to believe men can't spot smart
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Speaker 2: hoes because, as you just learned, they move in silence
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Speaker 2: and make themselves invaluable before ever asking for anything materialistic
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Speaker 2: Male hose a k A max or players don't have
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Speaker 2: to move in silence or endear themselves. They use the
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Speaker 2: kryptonite of attention and interests. What do typical tinas want
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Speaker 2: out of life? Love that he wasn't around or didn't care,
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Speaker 2: Mommy was too busy competing or judging you ex boyfriends
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Speaker 2: loved conditionally, Knowing these women are desperate for validation, A
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Speaker 2: male hove doubles down on the compliments, on promises, and
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Speaker 2: works hard those first few weeks or even months to
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Speaker 2: be consistent until a woman loses herself in the potential
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Speaker 2: that he may be different. Even when a woman is cautious,
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Speaker 2: the hope of true love can blind her. Male players
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Speaker 2: don't win because of looks or rely on persistence. Most
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Speaker 2: utilized charm, confidence, and wit to lure a woman into
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Speaker 2: his lap. What is game. It's not a series of
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Speaker 2: pick up lines and jokes, nor is it acting cool
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Speaker 2: and unbothered. Game is the ability to read a woman's vibe,
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Speaker 2: put her into a category of like minded women he's
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Speaker 2: known or experienced, and then muster the courage to invade
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Speaker 2: her personal space until her attitude is diffused and the
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Speaker 2: guard is lowered. When you see the cliche image of
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Speaker 2: the smooth talker walking up and whispering in a girl's
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Speaker 2: ear or making some Bill Bellamy inspired sexual innuindo you
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Speaker 2: only see a small part of what a male's game
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Speaker 2: truly is. Not every woman reacts to dirty talk or
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Speaker 2: sensual conversation players know the game. Be they white, black,
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Speaker 2: or green, it doesn't matter the race or culture. These
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Speaker 2: men make knowing women their business. He can look at
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Speaker 2: the woman in the business suit and know that she
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Speaker 2: isn't going to react to jokes the same way the
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Speaker 2: younger woman in converse would. He can tell from her
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Speaker 2: response to hey, how are you if she's the defensive
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Speaker 2: yet interested, or if she truly doesn't want to be bothered.
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Speaker 2: Women pretend to be different, but they have many tell
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Speaker 2: signs that give away how they really feel. An average
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Speaker 2: man gets intimidated, he gets annoyed. He only has one
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Speaker 2: gear to shift into unless a girl is receptive to
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Speaker 2: generic what's your name? Beautiful? Game players have several gears,
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Speaker 2: which makes him a chameleon. When cruising for ass he
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Speaker 2: can quickly adapt his verbiage to make himself into whatever
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Speaker 2: he feels this woman is looking for in a man.
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Speaker 2: In the end, all he needs to do is get
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Speaker 2: one smile or one flirty comment returned, and he knows
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Speaker 2: that the hunt is all but over. You've experienced the
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Speaker 2: corny stereotypes of guys asking for your number, or the
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Speaker 2: tired lines for men that direct message you online and
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Speaker 2: feel that's as deep as it goes, slip through your
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Speaker 2: defenses because they know how to inspire excitement in a
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Speaker 2: world full of hey texts, and I'd love to get
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Speaker 2: to know you. Come on lines. You're looking for someone
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Speaker 2: that can make you grin, no matter if you've sworn
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Speaker 2: off love, think you're too busy, or are still healing.
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Speaker 2: A guy who comes correct will make you think twice
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Speaker 2: because ninety percent of women who claim they don't want
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Speaker 2: anything serious still imagines finding prince charming. Therefore, you will
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Speaker 2: see a man like this who knows how to talk
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Speaker 2: to women as a breath of fresh air. I routinely
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Speaker 2: get messages about how a man stood out as different,
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Speaker 2: and the women who send these emails are often coming
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Speaker 2: off a bad relationship or a long stretch where they
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Speaker 2: couldn't get a man to look their way if they
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Speaker 2: were standing naked in a hardware store. These girls are
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Speaker 2: what I call open because females tend to judge their
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Speaker 2: appeal by the last man that tried to talk to them.
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Speaker 2: Max don't always get the women they go after, but
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Speaker 2: their batting average is insanely high because they have good timing.
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Speaker 2: Most of the women reading this understand that coming off
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Speaker 2: a bad drought or a shitty relationship makes you vulnerable.
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Speaker 2: Your confidence is lowered, and you desperately need someone to
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Speaker 2: chase you in a way that isn't lame or overly sexual.
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Speaker 2: Male hose understand this and look for that kind of opening,
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Speaker 2: because a woman on the rebound or sick of dating
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Speaker 2: is ripe for the picking. In the previous chapters, you
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Speaker 2: learned all the hohe tactics there are to learn. You've
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Speaker 2: seen how Maria manipulated the fuck out of her Mark
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Speaker 2: and got in his pockets by using her in depth
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Speaker 2: knowledge of lust against men. Put that in perspective with
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Speaker 2: these male players, because so called hose are nothing more
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Speaker 2: than female max. It's only when men feel threatened do
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Speaker 2: these women get labeled derogatorily. Maria and women like her
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Speaker 2: are after money, status, or material goods. Max are after sex, money,
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Speaker 2: or material goods. Men will always be driven by pussy,
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Speaker 2: even those that are smart enough to see their own
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Speaker 2: savage urges for what they are. Society toasts the male players.
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Speaker 2: While we openly tell little boys to respect women as
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Speaker 2: if they all were mom, we secretly pat them on
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Speaker 2: the back and tell them to go out there and
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Speaker 2: be a heartbreaker. Men love to see younger males exploit
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Speaker 2: women because it's a victory for all of mankind. He
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Speaker 2: got the pussy means we all got the pussy. There
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Speaker 2: is and will always be a brotherhood where females are
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Speaker 2: seen as the enemy that is hunted for sport. There
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Speaker 2: are more male hoes than female ones. They just don't
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Speaker 2: have the stigma attached to them because this is a
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Speaker 2: man's world. There's nothing wrong with macking or hoeing, or
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Speaker 2: whatever you want to call the ability to use what's
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Speaker 2: in your head to get what they got the same
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Speaker 2: way that a mark gives a hoe what she wants freely.
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Speaker 2: Women give these men what they want without a gun
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Speaker 2: being put to their head because they chose to. It's
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Speaker 2: not a crime, it's not wrong. It's on that person
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Speaker 2: for being a sucker. Now that you understand what a
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Speaker 2: smart hoe is, it's time to protect yourself from the
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Speaker 2: male version. Some of you won't ever use home tactics
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Speaker 2: in a real way. You will choose to go after
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Speaker 2: an authentic relationship with someone who can at least pass
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Speaker 2: the headphone test. I want you to use this chapter
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Speaker 2: to sniff out any man you date. No matter if
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Speaker 2: you're looking for love, a come up, or just bored
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Speaker 2: and entertaining him, at least one out of the next
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Speaker 2: ten guys you meet will be trying to play you
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Speaker 2: using the same tactics we've discussed, but in a male
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Speaker 2: centric way. Exposing him on the first date let him
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Speaker 2: pull you too. Many women think the best way to
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Speaker 2: protect their heart is to live closed off and assume
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Speaker 2: every man that walks over is full of shit. That's
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Speaker 2: just as closed minded as men who believe all women
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Speaker 2: are hoes looking to play them. You can't win if
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Speaker 2: you don't play the game. So instead of rolling your
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Speaker 2: eyes and not giving any man whose family members you
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Speaker 2: don't know a chance, hear him out. All you need
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Speaker 2: is one date to expose a male hoe. So why
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Speaker 2: not play along and test them? This trial by dating
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Speaker 2: won't cost you anything but a night out, and let's
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Speaker 2: face it, you most likely want an excuse to wear
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Speaker 2: one of those outfits in your closet that you never
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Speaker 2: get to wear. Step one, let him say tell you.
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Speaker 2: You must have an appreciation for good game. It's an
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Speaker 2: honor to be approached with something more original than excuse me, miss,
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Speaker 2: you've been courted by guys who probably say, hey, what's
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Speaker 2: your name, I'm trying to get to know you. That
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Speaker 2: is horrible game, but some of you entertain that to
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Speaker 2: hear a man speak eloquently or intrigue you with a
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Speaker 2: challenging line of conversation is like night and day. Go
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Speaker 2: on that ride and wait for that feeling. The feeling
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Speaker 2: I'm referring to is that tingle in your shoulders or
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Speaker 2: chest when he says something so cold that you can't
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Speaker 2: even muster the brain power to fire back in your
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Speaker 2: normal way. A man like that deserves your number, but
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Speaker 2: after you give it up, test him to be sure
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Speaker 2: if he's legit or one of these guys who gets
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Speaker 2: his confidence from Reddit forums and pick up artist websites.
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Speaker 2: The first step just to let him think he's winning.
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Speaker 2: It's okay to play the role of the helpless damsel
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Speaker 2: that's impressed and gives out her number, but remember you
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Speaker 2: are playing a role. I've talked to women who are
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Speaker 2: extremely shy around boys, and they describe this freezing effect
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Speaker 2: a cute guy has on them that reduces them to
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Speaker 2: this groupie like state where they can't think of anything
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Speaker 2: interesting to say. I want you to channel that energy.
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Speaker 2: Let him believe he's blowing you away and that the
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Speaker 2: war is already won. What this does is lull him
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Speaker 2: into a false sense of victory, boosts his confidence, and
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Speaker 2: give him incentive to move on to step two. Step two,
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Speaker 2: let him set the date. When you're hoen you let
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Speaker 2: a man set the date to see what he's working with.
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Speaker 2: In this instance of ho hunting, you still let him
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Speaker 2: choose where he wants to take you. The purpose of
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Speaker 2: this is that you still don't know if he's trying
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Speaker 2: to play you, so you don't want to punish a
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Speaker 2: genuine man by making the first date all about eating
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Speaker 2: on his dime. A player won't pay too much for pussy,
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Speaker 2: but he understands that he needs to invest in a
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Speaker 2: place where he can further unleash his conversation in order
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Speaker 2: to exploit you. In his mind, the first date is
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Speaker 2: all about sizing you up, because you are the mark
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Speaker 2: he wants to be able to tell if you're going
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Speaker 2: to be first night sex, first week sex, or a
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Speaker 2: woman who has money that he can siphon for months
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Speaker 2: to come. Let's set a scenario where Ricardo the Mac
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Speaker 2: tries to work you with his dick tactics. Imagine that
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Speaker 2: you met Ricardo at a normal place gas station, elevator,
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Speaker 2: he held the door at a store, doesn't matter. The
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Speaker 2: point is you popped up on his radar and he
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Speaker 2: was a perfect gentleman, but also funny and engaging to
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Speaker 2: the point where you said, why not and exchange them
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Speaker 2: from me? How do you get in a person's good
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Speaker 2: graces by being different? What do men do when they
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Speaker 2: get a girl's number. They text a reminder of hey,
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Speaker 2: this is such and such, and then they begin to
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Speaker 2: bore the fuck out of you through text. The reason
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Speaker 2: this works is that if a guy's handsome, you see
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Speaker 2: those dry texts as amazing lust blinders. If he's not
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Speaker 2: that cute, you put up with it because it's something
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Speaker 2: to do. The point is men under the age of
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Speaker 2: forty will generally text first, and you accept that as
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Speaker 2: just how the world works, or expect it because you've
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Speaker 2: grown accustomed to using your fingers more than your mouth.
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Speaker 2: Male hoes use their mouths not because they can't text,
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Speaker 2: but because it's the best way to mind fuck a person.
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Speaker 2: Ricardo calls you the day after you meet and continues
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Speaker 2: where he left off. What sets him apart from the
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Speaker 2: abbage man. You know, besides actually calling, is that he
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Speaker 2: doesn't press for some When can we hang out? Lazy date?
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Speaker 2: Ricardo knows his fellow man, and he knows that they
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Speaker 2: want to get you to the level of come over
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Speaker 2: and chill. You're expecting laziness, and he gives you real courting.
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Speaker 2: Most women are already head over. Heels off that tiny
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Speaker 2: bit of effort. Where do you want to go, beautiful?
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Speaker 2: I don't care if I got to put you on
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Speaker 2: my back. We'll go. Chivalry mixed with humor feels genuinely
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Speaker 2: like he wants to make you happy. This Pua does
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Speaker 2: want to make you happy, happy enough to drop your
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Speaker 2: guard and spread those legs after the dessert course. Again,
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Speaker 2: you must tell silver Tongue Ricardo to surprise you by
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Speaker 2: picking the date himself. He will already be prepared for this,
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Speaker 2: because most women in real life are indecisive when it
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Speaker 2: comes to answering the question what do you want to do?
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Speaker 2: Shoot down his first suggestion to throw him off balance.
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Speaker 2: He will reach for a place that's comfortable and where
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Speaker 2: he works his women. Often. You don't want to be
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Speaker 2: on his home turf, so reject his first idea. As
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Speaker 2: if you don't like their food or don't feel like
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Speaker 2: doing that activity. Pick up artist like hoes, are taught
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Speaker 2: to go where they can be free to touch restaurant tables,
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Speaker 2: block hands, and separate, so he'll most likely try to
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Speaker 2: steer clear of dinner. Steer him back to dinner. But
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Speaker 2: do this in a way that doesn't seem picky or bitchy.
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Speaker 2: Make him understand that it would normally be a good idea,
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Speaker 2: but you have a serious hang up with the place.
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Speaker 2: He'll probably struggle to think of a backup because you
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Speaker 2: threw him off his square. But when he does find
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Speaker 2: a new place, accept it with open arms and be excited.
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Speaker 2: Ricardo now feels as if it's only a matter of time.
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Speaker 2: But then step three happens. Step three hijack the date.
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Speaker 2: Ricardo has taken you out for a dinner date at
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Speaker 2: a medium price restaurant where he can sit next to you,
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Speaker 2: order drinks, get you loose, and mind fuck you into
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Speaker 2: falling in love with him in three hours. This is
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Speaker 2: the part that takes real effort, because, unlike most girls
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Speaker 2: who get scavenged by players, you will go left where
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Speaker 2: they would have gone right. He's going to focus on you.
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Speaker 2: You you. What do you like to do for fun,
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Speaker 2: your family history, your last relationship, your girlfriends and co workers,
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Speaker 2: your dreams and aspirations, et cetera. What men do is
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Speaker 2: read you like a textbook, take mental notes, and then,
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Speaker 2: based on all the information you just gave away, rebuild
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Speaker 2: their lives as if it's compatible to your own. By
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Speaker 2: the end of the night, he'll be referencing things you
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Speaker 2: mentioned as if you two have so much in common
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Speaker 2: and actuality, it's game. Do not give this man the
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Speaker 2: rundown of your entire life, as if he's a therapist.
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Speaker 2: He hasn't earned that. No one you've only known for
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Speaker 2: a few days has earned the right to know You
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Speaker 2: hijack the date by turning the tables back on him.
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Speaker 3: Him.
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Speaker 2: Him. You want to know his story, because, unlike the
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Speaker 2: average desperate woman, you didn't come on this date to
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Speaker 2: vent and get all of your life's so on fair
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Speaker 2: relationship stress off your chest. A player will tell you
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Speaker 2: that he works a good job, then give you an
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Speaker 2: idea of what he does, but not the specifics because
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Speaker 2: he's lying. Next, he will talk about his expanded plan
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Speaker 2: to be his own boss, or tell you that he
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Speaker 2: already has a side hustle. Basic bitches are his side hustle,
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Speaker 2: getting loans, getting them to invest in his ideas using
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Speaker 2: their credit cards. It's so easy for man to live
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Speaker 2: like a baller and impress new pussy when spending another
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Speaker 2: chicks money. Don't pay attention to the moves he says
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Speaker 2: he's making, the people he knows, or the pictures that
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Speaker 2: prove that it may be true. It's a smoke screen. Next,
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Speaker 2: he will talk about his mother or grandmother, depending on
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Speaker 2: who is in his life. More a man knows that
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Speaker 2: women see respect and love for mothers as a good
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Speaker 2: sign that he was raised properly and cherishes women. Again,
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Speaker 2: blow past that stuff and dig deeper. Do not accept
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Speaker 2: the information he volunteers because players are like politicians. They
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Speaker 2: have their talking points and they will go Sarah Palin
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Speaker 2: on that ass and redirect the question the moment you
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Speaker 2: ask about something that's off limit. Know this strategy. Feel
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Speaker 2: him out by listening to his clean cut answers, and
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Speaker 2: get him off his game during the the first half
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Speaker 2: of the date by not talking about your past and
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Speaker 2: present life in ways other than simple statements. Instead, always
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Speaker 2: be asking to know more about something he shared. Now
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Speaker 2: you go in for the kill. Step four. Three questions
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Speaker 2: he must answer. Ricardo is not having much fun. If
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Speaker 2: he's a player, he's a normal guy who has a
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Speaker 2: genuine interest in you, then opening up about his life
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Speaker 2: in a real way is new and interesting. Remember that
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Speaker 2: girls usually do most of the talking, so it will
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Speaker 2: come as a shock when you come off as interested
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Speaker 2: in what he has to say about his life. Guys
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Speaker 2: love to talk and throw opinions out. It's a part
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Speaker 2: of the male ego. The difference is some regular guy
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Speaker 2: will talk about his love of Star Wars versus a
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Speaker 2: player that's not talking about personal loves, just his big moves,
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Speaker 2: so he can come off as impressive enough for you
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Speaker 2: to think you hit the jackpot. Players brag about what
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Speaker 2: they can do for you, how they're living, bring up
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Speaker 2: the issue of money or luxury things they own. Every
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Speaker 2: fifteen minutes. Make a mental note of this, as a
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Speaker 2: conversation about pets will randomly go back to his income
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Speaker 2: or his business moves. Pay attention to what's coming out
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Speaker 2: of his mouth. Don't just rush to talk about the
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Speaker 2: things you do. It's not your interview or your time
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Speaker 2: to vent. It's about exposing him. Let's assume for our
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Speaker 2: experiment that Ricardo is on his heels trying to get
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Speaker 2: the conversation back to a point where he's winning you
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Speaker 2: over and flirting. Now it's time to unleash the squirm
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Speaker 2: motherfucker questions that will test his true honesty. How long
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Speaker 2: does it usually take you to fuck women? On average?
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Speaker 2: No man is prepared for this question because ladies don't
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Speaker 2: ask about You've just taken it to Maria the host
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Speaker 2: status by being this forward about fucking. Ricardo will try
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Speaker 2: to play it off and either turn it into a
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Speaker 2: joke or try to make those women he's dealt with
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Speaker 2: in the past not as special as you. Mind you,
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Speaker 2: this is a serious question that you want an answer to,
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Speaker 2: not some wise crack about jump offs. Second, he doesn't
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Speaker 2: know if you're a freak or a saint, so any
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Speaker 2: question that makes you out to be different is bullshit.
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Speaker 2: Get a real answer. If I told you I wanted
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Speaker 2: to get down tonight, how would you fuck me? This
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Speaker 2: will make any man squirm, even a mac, because no
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Speaker 2: woman returns fire like this so randomly on the first date.
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Speaker 2: You are as the internet would say, trolling him to
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Speaker 2: shock him into speaking his mind. A normal guy would
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Speaker 2: be stumbling all over the place trying to understand who
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Speaker 2: the hell you are. A mac would try to keep
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Speaker 2: his cool and play up the role he's been taught
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Speaker 2: by the pimpology peddlers. If his follow up is some
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Speaker 2: dating show answer about how he would take you back,
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Speaker 2: lay you on his Egyptian cotton, and lick your belly button,
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Speaker 2: then keep trolling him. Ask him if he eats ass,
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Speaker 2: likes to take a finger in his ass, or if
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Speaker 2: he's had a golden shower. Your job is to see
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Speaker 2: if he ever breaks character. These men are not sincere.
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Speaker 2: They write a script and stick to it. Once you
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Speaker 2: throw them off it, they will keep trying to get
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Speaker 2: back to what they know. His refusal to be real
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Speaker 2: proves what kind of person he is and saves you
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Speaker 2: the trouble of getting to know this loser. Why are
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Speaker 2: you gaming me? This is the final question. After he's
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Speaker 2: done trying to recover, keep it real and let him
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Speaker 2: in on the secret that you know he's just spitting
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Speaker 2: game trying to get you open. He'll play you like
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Speaker 2: crazy and stick to his authenticity, but don't buy that.
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Speaker 2: Let him know that it's okay. He can be real again.
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Speaker 2: He will stand strong in the pocket. But this is
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Speaker 2: where your whole tactics come into play. Diffuse his anger
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Speaker 2: and aggression about being called out by stroking his hand,
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Speaker 2: put him back at ease, and ask him about how
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Speaker 2: he usually operates. Is the way he picked you up normal?
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Speaker 2: Does he come to this place often? How much pussy
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Speaker 2: does he get with this act? You have gone from
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Speaker 2: prey to friend over the course of dinner, and he
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Speaker 2: will warm to that after the embarrassment wears off. This
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Speaker 2: goes back to men liking to talk. Why is the
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Speaker 2: mafia nearly dead? Because men like to talk about their
22:50
Speaker 2: hustles much more than the old school guys. Did you
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Speaker 2: are exposing him? You're coming with the tactic of teach
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Speaker 2: me o wise one and he'll brag all night. Step five,
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Speaker 2: What flaw did he see in you? At the end
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Speaker 2: of the night, ask him one last thing. What flaw
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Speaker 2: did he see in you when he approached you? Was
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Speaker 2: it the looks? Was it the way you were dressed?
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Speaker 2: Or was it just his own ego that made him
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Speaker 2: try to run game? At this point, if this guy
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Speaker 2: is a real dude, he'll keep it a hundred and
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Speaker 2: tell you why he chose to go at you. And
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Speaker 2: not the next woman. It may have been as simple
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Speaker 2: as you were the first girl he saw that day,
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Speaker 2: or it may be revealing like you are a little
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Speaker 2: on the chubby side and those are the women he
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Speaker 2: runs game on most successfully. The reason you ask is
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Speaker 2: so that you can take a closer look at what
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Speaker 2: you project in your day to day life and improve
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Speaker 2: the next time someone who goes to the same pickup
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Speaker 2: artist forums as this guy, or has read the same
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Speaker 2: MacBooks he is studied tries to approach you, it won't
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Speaker 2: take but five minutes to recognize his hustle. Even the
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Speaker 2: best dick tactics will fail if you know how to
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Speaker 2: take a man off his script. Some of you may
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Speaker 2: think this is a simple exercise, but when it comes
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Speaker 2: time to go on a date and go left into
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Speaker 2: the realm of random questions like those I laid out,
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Speaker 2: you will be afraid. Women freeze up and trying to
24:25
Speaker 2: apply spartan techniques from men don't love women like you,
24:29
Speaker 2: and this is no different. In order to expose these
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Speaker 2: male hose, you have to be willing to open your
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Speaker 2: mouth and challenge them. If you try to hint, beat
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Speaker 2: around the bush, or freestyle what I just wrote to
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Speaker 2: create a less direct method, you will fail. Most of
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Speaker 2: you are involved with men whom you can't figure out,
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Speaker 2: no matter if it's date one or date five. Throw
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Speaker 2: this monkey wrench in his machine and watch how he responds.
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Speaker 2: It's better to aggressively expose a man and let improve
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Speaker 2: your suspicions wrong than to keep your mouth shut and
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Speaker 2: get worked like a mark. Chapter twenty two. Using Hoe
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Speaker 2: tactics to save your relationship. It's time to take these
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Speaker 2: tactics out of the realm of tricks, treats, and sponsors
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Speaker 2: and turn them inward on your current relationship. All relationships
25:38
Speaker 2: hit rough patches where someone feels unappreciated, bored, or as
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Speaker 2: if a distance is starting to build. For those of
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Speaker 2: you with partners, the idea isn't to suck them dry
25:50
Speaker 2: and move on. It's to establish value or create a spark.
25:55
Speaker 2: I don't care if you've been together for nine months
25:57
Speaker 2: and nine years. The dates should be exciting, the birthday
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Speaker 2: gifts should blow you away, and the sex should always
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Speaker 2: be phenomenal. Here comes the butt, But most women who
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Speaker 2: come to me for relationship advice have endless sob stories.
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Speaker 2: He would rather play video games than come to bed
26:17
Speaker 2: at night, he jumps to go hang out with his friends,
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Speaker 2: but drags his feet at date suggestions. He buys himself
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Speaker 2: whatever he wants with no budgeting, then penny pinches on
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Speaker 2: Birthday or Christmas gifts for you. When he does get
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Speaker 2: in the mood for sex, there's no foreplay, no creativity.
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Speaker 2: He just goes in with a semi hard dick and
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Speaker 2: finishes just as fast as he started. Who wants to
26:44
Speaker 2: live life like that? Being able to brag about having
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Speaker 2: a man means nothing when you aren't doing shit but
26:50
Speaker 2: growing bored together. It's time to stop holding on to
26:54
Speaker 2: mediocrity and start hoeing up. Why doesn't he take you out?
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Speaker 2: A man in a relationship is more likely to take
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Speaker 2: a new girl he meets on the side out to
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Speaker 2: an expensive restaurant than a woman he's been with for years.
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Speaker 2: Why because one he has to impress to fuck, the
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Speaker 2: other he doesn't even want to fuck. Your goal is
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Speaker 2: to get your man to see you in the same
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Speaker 2: light he used to when you first started dating. For
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Speaker 2: those of you who have never been taken out or
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Speaker 2: treated to nice things even at the start of your relationship,
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Speaker 2: this isn't for you. If you're coming from a history
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Speaker 2: of a man never showing you value. Then it's clearly over,
27:39
Speaker 2: and I suggest you switched to m dlwl Y to
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Speaker 2: hit reset. For those of you that were treated with
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Speaker 2: value at some point, who allowed a man to win
27:50
Speaker 2: you over through actions not words, continue, look at yourself
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Speaker 2: in the mirror. What of the first rules of home
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Speaker 2: tactics is to look good enough to want to fuck yourself.
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Speaker 2: When you get into a relationship, you're no longer on
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Speaker 2: the hunt. You don't do as much clothes shopping, get
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Speaker 2: your hair done as much. You stop working out and
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Speaker 2: settle into home cooked meals or takeout. All of these
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Speaker 2: things affect your physical image. You went from sexy to
28:23
Speaker 2: looking committed and plain. Once again, look in the mirror.
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Speaker 2: Do you still look like the woman he first met?
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Speaker 2: Do you still turn yourself on to the point where
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Speaker 2: you stare in the mirror and think, damn, I should
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Speaker 2: take a picture? Or has your look become blah? Men
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Speaker 2: are liars. They won't tell you that you've put on weight,
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Speaker 2: that your hair is a mess, that your fashion sense
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Speaker 2: is lacking, or anything that will cause an argument about
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Speaker 2: sensitive topics of a woman's appearance. He will keep giving
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Speaker 2: you lips He will keep telling you he loves you,
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Speaker 2: but his actions prove what he's really thinking. He's not
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Speaker 2: going to take a woman he no longer thinks as
29:08
Speaker 2: sexy out unweekly dates or even monthly dates, because you
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Speaker 2: lost your trophy aspect. The new girl that he's eyeing
29:17
Speaker 2: at work, or the front desk chick at the gym,
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Speaker 2: he'd take her to the moon just to see the
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Speaker 2: looks on the alien's faces when he walks in with
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Speaker 2: a bad bitch. You're no longer that in his eyes.
29:31
Speaker 2: More importantly, you're no longer that in your own eyes.
29:35
Speaker 2: Whole power is dependent on sex appeal. I don't care
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Speaker 2: what your excuse is. You had a kid, you work
29:41
Speaker 2: long hours, you're trying to save money. Fuck all that.
29:43
Speaker 2: You have to bring your sexy back. The easiest way
29:48
Speaker 2: to start transforming yourself back into a sexy beast is
29:51
Speaker 2: to start doing your hair.
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Speaker 1: Go big.
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Speaker 2: Don't just switch the ponytail position or where bangs. Literally
29:59
Speaker 2: change up the way you wear your hair. We men
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Speaker 2: don't notice much, but anytime a girl changes her hair,
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Speaker 2: will think damn, she's looking good. Won't know why until
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Speaker 2: she points out she went from brown to red. But
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Speaker 2: it doesn't matter that we couldn't pinpoint the change. The
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Speaker 2: magic is that internally we feel a shift. Because a
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Speaker 2: woman's hair quickly turns her into something new. The next
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Speaker 2: step is to upgrade your wardrobe around him. This isn't
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Speaker 2: about going out and buying new clothes for work. It's
30:32
Speaker 2: about when you two are in the same space, put
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Speaker 2: on a show. Those old sweatpants or faded shorts that
30:40
Speaker 2: he's seen for months, if not years, toss them by
30:44
Speaker 2: cute little things that highlight your body type. You don't
30:48
Speaker 2: want your man to be on the couch watch you
30:51
Speaker 2: get up to get some water and think, there her
30:54
Speaker 2: flat asses and that Victoria secret pink crap again. You
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Speaker 2: want him to look over and say, my baby's looking
31:01
Speaker 2: good in those leggings. Stop being ordinary and switch it up.
31:06
Speaker 2: Lounge wear is inexpensive. It's the effort that costs. Go out,
31:11
Speaker 2: try things on, accentuate your positives and he will notice.
31:17
Speaker 2: Things like losing weight and going address sized down take time.
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Speaker 2: But if you looked in that mirror and feel as
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Speaker 2: if you've let yourself go to the point where you're unhappy,
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Speaker 2: it's worth it to lose the weight. Regardless if you
31:29
Speaker 2: look like old Kelly Clarkson or new Kelly Clarkson. The
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Speaker 2: first two steps will get you to where you want
31:35
Speaker 2: to be quick, don't fuck him. Remember that this is
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Speaker 2: whole tactics. You get more by not giving a man
31:45
Speaker 2: what he wants too fast. Your new hairstyle will make
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Speaker 2: him want to get it in that night, wearing new
31:51
Speaker 2: sexy clothes around will make him want to push you
31:53
Speaker 2: against the kitchen counter and get it in. There can
31:57
Speaker 2: be no sliding of the panties. Don't push him off
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Speaker 2: with the standard I'm tired routine. Use your hope power
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Speaker 2: and seduce his hard dick, kiss him, touch him, pretend
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Speaker 2: you're down, then pull back. When you're in a relationship,
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Speaker 2: you aren't going to hurt your man's feelings by saying
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Speaker 2: maybe if you're a good boy. The idea is to
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Speaker 2: rev him up by coming off like new pussy. If
32:24
Speaker 2: you give in, he'll come and you'll go back to
32:26
Speaker 2: being normal. Give it a day or two of him
32:30
Speaker 2: trying to get some, then you hit him with the
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Speaker 2: death blow. The common mistake women in relationships make is
32:38
Speaker 2: telling a man to take them out instead of inspiring
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Speaker 2: a man to take them out. Telling a guy you
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Speaker 2: want to go to Ruth Chris. May get you to
32:46
Speaker 2: Ruth Chris that once then he'll put his feet up
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Speaker 2: like his job is done for the rest of the year. So,
32:53
Speaker 2: at this point, with him full of lust over this
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Speaker 2: new you show him a dress you want. Doesn't matter
32:59
Speaker 2: if if it's an expensive one from sex or Fashion
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Speaker 2: Nova Clearance. Go sexy and tell never ask him that
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Speaker 2: you want to wear this on your date? What date exactly?
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Speaker 2: He's taking you out and didn't even know it, and
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Speaker 2: now he's about to buy you this sexy dress with
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Speaker 2: his debit card. To dismiss you with when I get
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Speaker 2: paid means that he's not getting sex and you're not
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Speaker 2: going to keep looking sexier and sexier each week if
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Speaker 2: he plays dumb about a date, same routine. The point
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Speaker 2: is to lead this horse to water. You're looking good,
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Speaker 2: You're going to be wearing a sexy dress. He isn't
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Speaker 2: getting any lately. That's incentive to not only take you
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Speaker 2: on a date, but to take you on a nice one.
33:49
Speaker 2: Once you get this one date, the whole part of
33:51
Speaker 2: the hustle ends and the relationship part begins as you,
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Speaker 2: as his woman, must have a legit, talk about what
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Speaker 2: you expect going forward. Why doesn't he trick on you?
34:06
Speaker 2: Men spoil to impress. The guy at the bar that
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Speaker 2: buys you and your friend drinks without asking for your
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Speaker 2: number or trying to hit on you, he's not doing
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Speaker 2: it for sex. He wants you to think highly of him.
34:17
Speaker 2: Older men with money are notorious for giving away thousands
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Speaker 2: of dollars to young women even after their dicks stop working.
34:27
Speaker 2: Tricking isn't about sex, it's about the male ego. For
34:31
Speaker 2: those of you in a relationship, you'll fall into two categories.
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Speaker 2: Men that don't trick because they don't have it, and
34:37
Speaker 2: men that don't trick because they don't need to impress you.
34:42
Speaker 2: You know your boyfriend or husband. You know how much
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Speaker 2: he makes, how much debt he has, and how much
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Speaker 2: he spends on himself. If he doesn't have a pot
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Speaker 2: to piss in, then you're not going to get much,
34:52
Speaker 2: nor should you try, because taking from him is like
34:55
Speaker 2: taking from yourself. If your man has a surplus of
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Speaker 2: money and is he sent paycheck to paycheck, then you
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Speaker 2: have a right to get in his pockets. One email
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Speaker 2: I received wasn't even Hoe tactics related, but it showed
35:10
Speaker 2: the power of other women. A married woman of two
35:14
Speaker 2: years found out that her husband had been seeing his
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Speaker 2: best friend's little sister, some cute little twenty two year old.
35:21
Speaker 2: The affair wasn't what broke her heart. It was that
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Speaker 2: her husband had spent over one thousand dollars on Christmas
35:28
Speaker 2: gifts for this girl. What did he spend on her
35:32
Speaker 2: that year? Fifty dollars gift card and some Walgreens twenty
35:37
Speaker 2: dollars gift set of j Lo perfume that still had
35:40
Speaker 2: the discounted price sticker on the bottom. Why would her
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Speaker 2: husband treat the rug rat better than his wife, even
35:47
Speaker 2: after he had spent months fucking her because he wanted
35:51
Speaker 2: to impress that little girl with the idea that he
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Speaker 2: was a big shot and could take care of her.
35:57
Speaker 2: To get tricked on, you have to roll over and
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Speaker 2: play the game of male ego stroking. You don't do
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Speaker 2: that because you want to be an equal, a partner,
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Speaker 2: someone that brings something to the table. As I explained
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Speaker 2: earlier in this book, that independent woman. Shit doesn't excite
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Speaker 2: a man nor endear him to spend on you. It
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Speaker 2: tells him that you don't need him. I shouldn't have
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Speaker 2: to ask, or I can buy it myself doesn't get
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Speaker 2: you spoiled? Daddy, Can you please buy me? This does
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Speaker 2: wonders no matter what level you're on. Women hate to
36:34
Speaker 2: ask for things because they hate rejection. They hate to
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Speaker 2: seem weak, They hate to come off as needy. The
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Speaker 2: other woman plotting on riding shotgun in your man's car
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Speaker 2: and fucking him in your bed doesn't have a problem
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Speaker 2: submitting to get what she wants. It's all an act.
36:51
Speaker 2: You can still be a strong woman. You're just pushing
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Speaker 2: buttons to manipulate a man into thinking you need help,
36:58
Speaker 2: seeing as though you do, you want more than you're
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Speaker 2: willing to buy yourself. Is this such a bad game
37:04
Speaker 2: to play? The first step is to humble your attitude
37:09
Speaker 2: and dial down your independent streak for a few weeks.
37:13
Speaker 2: Start small things around the house. Ask his help instead
37:17
Speaker 2: of being Diana Prince. That jar you can open yourself,
37:21
Speaker 2: ask him to do it. That cabinet you can tighten yourself,
37:25
Speaker 2: ask him to do it. The laundry you can carry yourself,
37:28
Speaker 2: ask him to do it. Then it's in the way
37:31
Speaker 2: you ask pout, frown, speak low, and always invade his
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Speaker 2: personal space by hugging him or resting your head, on
37:39
Speaker 2: his shoulder or chest. Make him feel as if you
37:43
Speaker 2: need him for small things. This is priming him the
37:48
Speaker 2: same way Maria primed her Mark. Remember, you have to
37:51
Speaker 2: know what works and what doesn't. Starting small allows you
37:55
Speaker 2: to perfect your acting skills and determine what works given
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Speaker 2: your man's personality. To the coupdi gras comes after you
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Speaker 2: figure out how to pull his strings to do things
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Speaker 2: for you. With the working knowledge of what he can afford,
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Speaker 2: you push him to fifty percent of that. Some of
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Speaker 2: you who are in relationships for love and not money
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Speaker 2: may date men who tow the line of poverty. This
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Speaker 2: tactic will work and has worked even with poor men,
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Speaker 2: And I'll prove it. If your boyfriend is making fifteen
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Speaker 2: dollars working a forty hour week after taxes and normal
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Speaker 2: expenses in a non coastal city, he can still afford
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Speaker 2: that Xbox game or pair of Jordan's because that's within
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Speaker 2: his budget of two hundred dollars left over as disposable income.
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Speaker 2: Your job is to get at least one hundred dollars
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Speaker 2: gift to prove that he does care enough to give
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Speaker 2: you what he can spare. The more money a man has,
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Speaker 2: the higher that goes obviously, So if your man is
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Speaker 2: making eighty k per year, you raise the cost stuff
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Speaker 2: the gift. If he doesn't spend the money you know
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Speaker 2: he can afford. When you see him spending it on himself,
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Speaker 2: then you need to reconsider the relationship you have. If
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Speaker 2: he does spend, then, like any good trick, he'll spend again.
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Speaker 2: This is where you begin to train him like a
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Speaker 2: smart hoe. The purpose isn't to escalate your gifts. This
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Speaker 2: is your boyfriend, not someone you want to put a
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Speaker 2: strain on. Even at fifteen dollars an hour, he can
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Speaker 2: afford to pick up a fifty dollars a week expense
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Speaker 2: of getting your nails and toes done, so that's what
39:33
Speaker 2: you ask for. Next, make it his bill. Even at
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Speaker 2: fifteen dollars an hour, he can afford the seventy to
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Speaker 2: one hundred dollars phone bill you have ask for that.
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Speaker 2: Once you break him into being a giver, start getting
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Speaker 2: what you need from the relationship, be it bills, paid
39:52
Speaker 2: beauty maintenance, or even monthly shopping money. Don't feel bad.
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Speaker 2: He's going to blow that money on dumb shit he
39:59
Speaker 2: wants anyway, so why not finesse him into spending it
40:03
Speaker 2: on you. Alternatively, if you're worried about his future, then
40:08
Speaker 2: maybe the money you ask for is for you to
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Speaker 2: put in the bank under the cover of a joint
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Speaker 2: savings account. A woman earlier in the year took this
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Speaker 2: advice and asked for seventy five dollars every two weeks
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Speaker 2: that would go towards a vacation. The truth was there
40:25
Speaker 2: was no vacation. She knew her boyfriend was bad with money.
40:30
Speaker 2: Over a year later, they were in a bind, and
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Speaker 2: that two thousand dollars she got him to trick over
40:35
Speaker 2: time saved them from being evicted. Poor people don't save
40:41
Speaker 2: you know this. They see an extra few hours of
40:43
Speaker 2: overtime as throw away money they can spend at the
40:46
Speaker 2: bar or on food, and don't put anything away this way.
40:51
Speaker 2: If he does lose his job or has to get
40:53
Speaker 2: his car repaired, you have that money plus interest, ready
40:57
Speaker 2: to give back, regardless if you're being a team player
41:02
Speaker 2: or getting your needs met. You shouldn't be in a
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Speaker 2: relationship where you aren't getting anything out of your man.
41:08
Speaker 2: If he's working, he should be giving. If you're working,
41:11
Speaker 2: he should still be giving hoe tax Why isn't the
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Speaker 2: sex good? Deep into a relationship. Sex should be electric
41:23
Speaker 2: love making that puts even the nastiest ratchet novel to shame.
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Speaker 2: Your man knows what you need to climax, and you
41:30
Speaker 2: know what makes him react to thrust harder and deeper,
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Speaker 2: role playing, shit talking, daring each other to whip it
41:37
Speaker 2: out in public. Nothing is awkward because you two are
41:39
Speaker 2: comfortably in love. That's the perfect world. The reality laid
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Speaker 2: at my door is populated by hundreds of women who
41:48
Speaker 2: hate the sex they're having. You used to go rounds
41:52
Speaker 2: now it's more like half round. You try to spice
41:55
Speaker 2: it up, but he doesn't seem engaged. Watch porn, put
41:59
Speaker 2: on wigs where lingerie, and his dick still doesn't get
42:02
Speaker 2: as hard as he used to the first time you
42:04
Speaker 2: offered up a blowjob, even on a good night, you're
42:08
Speaker 2: not having an orgasm. You're reaching for the pillow with
42:10
Speaker 2: thoughts of smothering him because you can't remember the last
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Speaker 2: time you got to finish first. Your man doesn't need viagra,
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Speaker 2: the sight of crotchless panties, or for you to do
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Speaker 2: a British accent. He needs new pussy. How do you
42:27
Speaker 2: upgrade an old vagina that's always there? Unlike the previous
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Speaker 2: section on getting back with an ex who hasn't hit
42:34
Speaker 2: in over a year, you aren't going to withhold sex
42:37
Speaker 2: for that long. So what now? Psychology is your friend?
42:43
Speaker 2: So the first step is to analyze who your man
42:46
Speaker 2: is and what drives him sexually. A mistake I witness
42:51
Speaker 2: consistently are women who think on the level of me, me, me,
42:55
Speaker 2: what is it about me that he doesn't like? As
42:58
Speaker 2: selfless as women can be, few rarely take time to
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Speaker 2: look at scenarios from a man's point of view. Therefore,
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Speaker 2: she thinks sex is about what she's lacking, not what
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Speaker 2: he's searching for. To rekindle his libido, you can turn
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Speaker 2: a man on. You can change physical things to fill
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Speaker 2: him with lust, as proved in the example above. Nevertheless,
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Speaker 2: being aroused isn't the same as being able to perform
43:25
Speaker 2: well in the bedroom. A man's penis isn't like a finger.
43:30
Speaker 2: He doesn't control it at will. What he does do
43:34
Speaker 2: is pile on stress and anxiety to the point where
43:38
Speaker 2: it blocks him from being all he can be. Again,
43:41
Speaker 2: I say psychology is your friend the same way we
43:45
Speaker 2: went over phone sex with strangers. In terms of testing
43:48
Speaker 2: the waters of dominant versus submissive, talking versus moaning, etc.
43:54
Speaker 2: You have to pre plan your whole attack by getting
43:56
Speaker 2: a handle on what your man needs as opposed to
43:59
Speaker 2: what you you've been giving him. The next time you
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Speaker 2: have sex, talk to him like you're directing a scene.
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Speaker 2: He's your actor. You have to motivate and lead him
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Speaker 2: to put on an Oscar worthy performance or just come.
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Speaker 2: This first session is all about cause and effect. You talk,
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Speaker 2: he comes. I don't care about what he says back
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Speaker 2: to you or what sounds he makes. I need you
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Speaker 2: to pay attention to one thing. What did you say
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Speaker 2: right before he came? For example, if you're on the
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Speaker 2: bottom and he's pumping away, don't say all that stupid
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Speaker 2: oh baby, you feel so good bullshit. Direct him. Tell
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Speaker 2: him to choke you. He'll oblige. Tell him to choke
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Speaker 2: you harder, like the little whore you are. If he
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Speaker 2: gets into it and comes twenty seconds later, it wasn't
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Speaker 2: your vagina. It was the idea of dominating you and
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Speaker 2: being able to fantasize that you're some closet freak. Let's
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Speaker 2: say you're riding him nice and slow. Don't just rub
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Speaker 2: your tits. He's seen that act it's played out. Go
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Speaker 2: the opposite direction and call him a little boy, tell
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Speaker 2: him that you're going to get a real man to
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Speaker 2: come over and finish up after he's done. If he
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Speaker 2: returns fire talks his own shit. Cool, but that's not
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Speaker 2: what we're looking for. If that belittlement makes him come
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Speaker 2: within a minute of saying it, you're onto something. That's
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Speaker 2: the research portion of this initial planning stage. Communication is
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Speaker 2: the next tibat. This is a relationship. You can't change
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Speaker 2: a weak sex life with spontaneity alone. Couples don't talk
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Speaker 2: about sex unless it's to complain. One woman told me
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Speaker 2: how she had enough and told her boyfriend of three
45:46
Speaker 2: years he needed to put in more work in the bedroom.
45:50
Speaker 2: He broke up with her. Telling a man he needs
45:53
Speaker 2: to please you is like telling a cat to go
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Speaker 2: shit in the toilet. Men don't know what you want.
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Speaker 2: They have been having sex the same way for ten
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Speaker 2: plus years, same stroke, same tongue tricks, same aggression level,
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Speaker 2: and it's gotten them this far. If you can't communicate
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Speaker 2: in specifics what you need, then you're basically just telling
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Speaker 2: him his dick is weak sauce, and that's the ultimate
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Speaker 2: insult to a mail. The communication I need you to
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Speaker 2: lead with isn't about I want you to do this
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Speaker 2: twist motion my college boyfriend used. He had me climbing walls.
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Speaker 2: You need to communicate by way of schedule. Men are
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Speaker 2: nothing but grown little boys. What excites boys games. Every
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Speaker 2: Saturday night will be fantasy night where you two get
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Speaker 2: to be as nasty as you want. Nothing is off
46:45
Speaker 2: limits when you're in the bedroom. Each week you switch
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Speaker 2: off fantasies, his turn, then your turn to lead. What
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Speaker 2: this does is make him look forward to something new.
46:57
Speaker 2: It's still your vagina, but mentally it's re The first
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Speaker 2: time you do this, go without sex for at least
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Speaker 2: five days prior really make him want it. When it's
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Speaker 2: his week, do whatever he asks. Submit to his game.
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Speaker 2: If he comes quick and the entire build up seems lost,
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Speaker 2: keep at it. It's not one session, it's the entire night.
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Speaker 2: Stay in character. If he had you being a sexy nurse,
47:26
Speaker 2: even after he finishes, remain that sexy nurse. Keep yourself
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Speaker 2: warm while he recovers, and unlike normal, when he goes
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Speaker 2: to sleep, he will be ready to go again because
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Speaker 2: his mind is uplifted by you being this other character.
47:42
Speaker 2: When the next session comes the following week, aim your
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Speaker 2: fantasy at what made him come during the research stage.
47:50
Speaker 2: Why should you make this all about him, because you're
47:53
Speaker 2: restarting his sex drive, not yours. This is home tactics,
47:58
Speaker 2: which means you give a man what he wants only
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Speaker 2: to get what you want. By the second week, you
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Speaker 2: will notice a change in his sex drive. He wants
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Speaker 2: to go more often, he's always giving you that look,
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Speaker 2: and his erections will be stronger. You've given him something
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Speaker 2: to get excited about, something to look forward to, and
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Speaker 2: that spreads to his subconscious, that part that actually controls
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Speaker 2: what makes him hard and what makes him soft. Once
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Speaker 2: you have his dick on a schedule, he's a slave
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Speaker 2: to using it, just as we were as teenagers, masturbating
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Speaker 2: multiple times a day. At this point, you can start
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Speaker 2: pushing him to do things on your fantasy list, as
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Speaker 2: his body is primed to need sex on that day.
48:44
Speaker 2: If the chemistry starts to die out, use the early
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Speaker 2: morning special technique. A man's penis has the most blood
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Speaker 2: flowing to it in the morning. Why Because it's not
48:56
Speaker 2: in the process of digesting food to break down what
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Speaker 2: you eat. Blood flows to the stomach in the morning
49:04
Speaker 2: on that empty stomach, the blood flow is abundant, not preoccupied.
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Speaker 2: In ratchet terms, you're going to have a rock hard
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Speaker 2: dick to bounce on during this window. Take it without warning,
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Speaker 2: be a wild woman, and unlike other times when he's
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Speaker 2: just getting off work as a headache or his team
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Speaker 2: just lost a game, his focus mentally and physically will
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Speaker 2: be ripe for you to have great sex minus the
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Speaker 2: gimmick of fantasy night. This instills confidence in him. He
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Speaker 2: doesn't need you to talk dirty or set a scenario
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Speaker 2: up in the morning crust in his eyes. He can
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Speaker 2: still renovate that pussy by land strong pipe. That's the
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Speaker 2: key to this instilling confidence. Men are people too. They
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Speaker 2: know and they're not giving it. They're all sexually and
49:57
Speaker 2: it's a point of shame. Instead of correcting it, they
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Speaker 2: just hide behind apathy and the bad sex continues. By
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Speaker 2: using your hotch arm to rebuild his self esteem, to
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Speaker 2: make him out to be this stud that has you
50:11
Speaker 2: turned out, clears his mind and boosts his sex drive. Naturally,
50:18
Speaker 2: relationships require constant rejuvenation or both parties become bored or complacent.
50:25
Speaker 2: It's not enough just to point out the problems or
50:27
Speaker 2: wait for the other person to fix it. If you
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Speaker 2: notice it, you handle it. That's love. There are so
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Speaker 2: many things hoes do that revolve around other women's boyfriends
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Speaker 2: or husbands, and it's not about lack of love. It's
50:43
Speaker 2: about lack of inspiration. Be inspiring, hijack his mind in
50:49
Speaker 2: the same way these hoes do, and you can get
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Speaker 2: anything you want from your man better gifts, date nights,
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Speaker 2: good sex, and the list goes on. You can't be
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Speaker 2: too prideful or too shy to exercise your feminine wiles
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Speaker 2: over your man, because if you don't mind fuck him
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Speaker 2: with love, another woman will mind fuck him with the
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Speaker 2: fantasy of something new.
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Speaker 3: Talk to me, Talk to streak ouch, streak me Ouch,
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Speaker 3: bring your voice.
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Speaker 2: Chapter twenty three, How to become a sugar baby without
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Speaker 2: giving up sugar. Are you a sugar baby or are
51:46
Speaker 2: you an escort? Are you hoeing in the ways laid
51:49
Speaker 2: out in the first half of this book where you
51:51
Speaker 2: have yet to take off your clothes or are you
51:54
Speaker 2: still living in the dark ages where a man comes
51:57
Speaker 2: to you with cash in hand, fucks you and you
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Speaker 2: brag that you just got paid. Secret arrangement sites are
52:05
Speaker 2: not hoe tactics. They're fancy forums for prostitution. Having some
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Speaker 2: fat guy eat your box in a hotel for tuition money.
52:14
Speaker 2: Isn't being a sugar baby your pay for play. If
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Speaker 2: the only way you get is to give sexual favors,
52:22
Speaker 2: then you're not using this book right. Any woman that
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Speaker 2: is down with her back against the wall can use
52:29
Speaker 2: these steps to dig herself out in less than a month. Fact, however,
52:34
Speaker 2: you must separate real life hustle from internet fantasy girl.
52:38
Speaker 2: I got a friend that pays just to eat dinner
52:40
Speaker 2: with me every two weeks. Step your game up. Basic
52:44
Speaker 2: bitches love to embellish and make the art of trading
52:47
Speaker 2: sex for money sound fancy by claiming the romantic title
52:51
Speaker 2: of being a sugar baby, but few of them are
52:54
Speaker 2: actually sugar babies. They're escorts, are side chicks that must
52:58
Speaker 2: perform for that money or risk being cut off. They
53:02
Speaker 2: use their bodies, not their minds, which goes against the
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Speaker 2: core of this book. Google the term sugar baby and
53:09
Speaker 2: you'll see hundreds of hits for how to be a
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Speaker 2: sugar baby without giving up any sugar. Most of you
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Speaker 2: aren't against being given things by men you don't like,
53:20
Speaker 2: so why not actually get what he has to give,
53:22
Speaker 2: instead of daydreaming as if working these tricks is out
53:26
Speaker 2: of your reach because you don't have the confidence that
53:29
Speaker 2: you can pull it off without crossing a sexual line.
53:32
Speaker 2: But you can. I'm about to be a stripper. Why
53:38
Speaker 2: does that cross so many minds? Because the art of
53:42
Speaker 2: dancing naked for money, no matter how moral or high
53:45
Speaker 2: class you are, seems like an easy hustle when your
53:48
Speaker 2: education paycheck and the broke guy you're in love with
53:51
Speaker 2: fails you. You don't have to be in the best shape,
53:55
Speaker 2: you don't have to know how to dance. All you
53:58
Speaker 2: have to do is smile and rock to beat, occasionally
54:01
Speaker 2: crawl to the guy tipping the most, and I fuck
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Speaker 2: him like he has a shot so you can squeeze
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Speaker 2: an extra twenty out. That's the two fantasies. I should
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Speaker 2: strip or I need to find a sugar daddy, fuck
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Speaker 2: the fantasy. Whole Tactics is a legit way to earn
54:18
Speaker 2: without having to dance, suck, or get touched. Each one
54:23
Speaker 2: of you can use this book to make more than
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Speaker 2: the strippers that floss trash bags of money online or
54:29
Speaker 2: the fake sugar babies that fail to reveal what they're
54:33
Speaker 2: really doing for Grandpa Millionaire. I don't care if you
54:37
Speaker 2: currently dance for money or let your former best friend's
54:40
Speaker 2: dad feel you up for Coachella tickets. There is always
54:43
Speaker 2: time left to reset and revamp your methods and exercise
54:47
Speaker 2: your power over these tricks. You're a goddess, not some
54:54
Speaker 2: wealthy man's prostitute. This chapter will help any woman that's
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Speaker 2: ever been disappointed with her bank account balance and thought
55:02
Speaker 2: about going to the dark side. Using examples I've gotten
55:06
Speaker 2: since Home Tactics was first released, I'm going to show
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Speaker 2: you how to be a sugar boss without giving up
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Speaker 2: a fraction of what these rookies give up.
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