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Doesnt Want Her SIsters Kids · The Erica Show

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  No, that's the Erica Show on g One. It's Arica and Trevor Ann's
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  on the phone, and you have a pretty significant dilemma right now. Oh,
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  this sounds so bad. It sounds so bad. Okay, my sister
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  approached me about leaving custody of her kids, my niece and my nephew.
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  Okay, to me, if her and her husband dies, and you know,
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  they're in the middle of figure and out, they're will they're doing the
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  whole thing. The problem is, and I know this sounds bad. I
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  know, Okay, I don't want kids, and I specifically don't want her
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  kids. Oh my gosh, Okay, with her kids, do you love
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  them or like they just fad or what? No. I love them and
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  everything I do. But the way that my sister and her husband are raising
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  them, they're prats, they're real breaths. They're like the gentle parenting essentially
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  no parenting thing, and these kids just do whatever they want. And I
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  don't know how to tell my sister I don't want her kids. Well,
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  hopefully shown bad and he just like never in the near future, so I
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  probably wouldn't start with your kids are brats? Yeah, yeah, maybe just
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  you know, I, you know, I'm not sure if I want kids,
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  So I want to make sure that if you know, people who have
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  kids should want kids, So maybe there's somebody else in your life that wants
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  kids. I mean, this is a big discussion. So like my husband
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  and I we need a living wheel because you never know if something can happen,
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  And we have discussed, like who gets our kids. There's a very
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  short list of who, like my mom would be the first person, but
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  of course that's her grandchildren, so yes, she would do it. But
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  then my mom's getting older, So who who's next in line? Where do
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  I fall on that list? I don't know. Yeah, I don't know,
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  because you have clearly said you don't want kids, and so if I
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  were her, like maybe she doesn't realize like I would want to know if
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  you don't want them. I want to know that because I want somebody that
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  wants my kids, that will love them unconditionally and will embrace even their brattiness.
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  So how would you handle the situation? What should Anne done? In
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  eighty six? So one O five one do you want to vibe? It's
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  the Erica Show. Anne doesn't want her sister's kids in the living will She's
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  like, I don't want the kids. How do I tell her? What
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  do y'all think? Would you be able to tell your sister that you don't
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  want her kids? Angie? What would you do? You may want to
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  just, you know, talk to your sister and just say, look,
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  I mean, as you can see, I don't have kids. You know,
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  I don't plan to have any kids, and I might not be the
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  best person for the job. I would say that I would want I would
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  want to know if somebody didn't want my children, because obviously I'm not here,
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  I'd want somebody that would want them. Yeah. Yeah, she definitely
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  needs to not keep quiet about it. For sure. She needs to try
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  to get with her sister and come come up with some other solution. I'm
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  telling you, Thanksgiving dinner is going to be pretty awkward this year. She
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  might not be invited, Amaze