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My Best Friends Forever · Pursuit of Sassiness

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Speaker 1: Hi, everyone, welcome back to my podcast. I wanted to
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Speaker 1: have my best friends on because I talked to them
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Speaker 1: every single day and they're my ride or die girlfriends.
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Speaker 1: I have my best friends on, Angela and Betty, who
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Speaker 1: also happened to be sisters, so I have amazing two
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Speaker 1: best friends.
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Speaker 2: Hi. How are you.
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Speaker 3: I'm good. I'm so excited.
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Speaker 2: You're glowing today, am I?
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Speaker 4: Yeah, you are this natural like glow.
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Speaker 2: I don't know. I think it's love glow. Yeah.
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Speaker 1: I mean I've been getting so much love, especially Mother's
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Speaker 1: Day was recently. I just feel so happy, so I
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Speaker 1: think people can see that that's good.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I was Mother's Day.
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Speaker 3: It was good.
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Speaker 1: I didn't know what we were doing, and Isabella kept
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Speaker 1: telling Aaron like, let's do a little surprise for mommy
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Speaker 1: and not tell her. And so usually I always take
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Speaker 1: Isabella to school, but we had the reunion, and so
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Speaker 1: Jesse and I both had to wake up super early,
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Speaker 1: and I didn't have a nanny.
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Speaker 3: So I actually text Jesse.
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Speaker 1: I'm like, what do you want to do because we
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Speaker 1: have to get Isabella to school?
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Speaker 3: Do you want Aaron? Would you like Aarin to drop
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Speaker 3: her off?
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Speaker 1: And he's like, yeah, please please, thank him for me.
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Speaker 1: So Aaron actually took her to school, but before that,
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Speaker 1: she's like, let's go buy mommy, let's go print a picture,
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Speaker 1: buy her a frame, and I'll write her a card.
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Speaker 1: So they had like a very sweet hour together, which
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Speaker 1: is kind of the first for us.
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Speaker 2: Nice.
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Speaker 1: And then he took her to school and she showed
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Speaker 1: him the classroom, so it was really sweet. And then
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Speaker 1: for Mother's Day, we went to Aaron's mom house and
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Speaker 1: I just got to like relax by the pool and
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Speaker 1: they're like, take a nap, we have Isabella. So it
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Speaker 1: was just like very relaxing and I felt like like
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Speaker 1: everybody was catering to me.
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Speaker 2: Oh, you needed that, especially after the trip your reunion
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Speaker 2: New York.
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Speaker 1: I know all the press, there's been so much, so
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Speaker 1: I finally feel like I'm on vacation even though I'm not.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it shows like you are glowing. I'm
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Speaker 4: so happy you had a good Mother's Day. Like, I
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Speaker 4: haven't seen Isabella in so long too. How is she
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Speaker 4: She graduated?
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Speaker 1: Right? She actually she graduates tomorrow. Yeah, so she's graduating
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Speaker 1: from preschool. She's very excited, but very nervous, even though
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Speaker 1: she's super outgoing. She actually has stage fright, which I
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Speaker 1: didn't even know.
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Speaker 3: I just started realizing that.
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Speaker 1: Wow, what does she say does she just gets nervous,
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Speaker 1: super nervous.
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Speaker 3: She's like, I don't want you guys to look at me.
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Speaker 3: Don't sit in the front.
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Speaker 1: And I've been trying to like encourage her, and I'm like,
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Speaker 1: it's totally normal to feel get nervous.
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Speaker 3: Mommy gets nervous all the time. But you're gonna be amazing.
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Speaker 3: You're gonna do great.
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Speaker 1: So we've been like, we've been prepping her, but she's like,
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Speaker 1: I want you to sit next to daddy, but you
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Speaker 1: guys can't sit in the front. And we're like, we
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Speaker 1: got it, we got it. So we're just encouraging her
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Speaker 1: and we're very excited. I can't believe the baby girl
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Speaker 1: is graduating.
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Speaker 3: I can't believe it.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, So I love to tell this story because it's
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Speaker 1: super unique of how we met.
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Speaker 3: Do you remember how we mess Yeah?
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Speaker 4: My god, it was like a main character and she
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Speaker 4: was she was. I remember like we were in Italy
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Speaker 4: and Capri, Capri Jack Brie is it And it was
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Speaker 4: our first time too, so like just being in Capri
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Speaker 4: and going down to the beach and just like seeing Isabella.
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Speaker 4: I was like, who is this beautiful child like in
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Speaker 4: her diaper running around?
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Speaker 2: It was like a model beach.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm like, oh my god.
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Speaker 2: Well it started with you weren't there yet, but we
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Speaker 2: were laying down next to Jesse at the beach and
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Speaker 2: at the beach club. At the beach club was it Fontalina, Yeah, yeah,
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Speaker 2: And Betty was like a fried lobster from her son.
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Speaker 2: I was miserable. I was, and I was just in
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Speaker 2: my own world tanning and our friend over her Jesse
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Speaker 2: on the phone talking about a house he was selling
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Speaker 2: about it. It was like Beverly Hills million dollar listing,
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Speaker 2: YadA YadA ya, you know how Jesse speaks on the phone.
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Speaker 2: And my friend was like, oh, you're into real state,
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Speaker 2: and they both started bonding over that because she was
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Speaker 2: she's in real estate. And then Jesse's like, oh, I'm
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Speaker 2: here with my wife and my baby, and we're like, hmmm,
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Speaker 2: I'd love to see who the wife is. And I'm like,
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Speaker 2: must be like a blonde, like you know, it's fake
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Speaker 2: boobs injected really very fancy like vibe like typical. And
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Speaker 2: then out of nowhere, I just look up and there's
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Speaker 2: this girl, which is you. You came down the mountain,
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Speaker 2: it's like a hike to get down there, and you
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Speaker 2: were holding Isabella and it was you were really hot
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Speaker 2: and you were so like plain Jane and your tank
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Speaker 2: top and jeans, shorts and flip flops, while everyone's like
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Speaker 2: in linen and like bougie swimwear Massoni cover ups, I mean,
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Speaker 2: including us. But it was so cool, like you like
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Speaker 2: triped us out. You weren't what we thought you were
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Speaker 2: gonna be as his.
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Speaker 1: Wife, and I love that you befriended Jesse Firs.
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Speaker 3: And then Isabella had to nap.
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Speaker 1: So the plan was like I take care of Isabella,
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Speaker 1: she naps, she wakes up from nap, and then I
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Speaker 1: have to walk down in order to get to this
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Speaker 1: beach club. It's called Bontalina. It's super famous in Capri.
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Speaker 1: It's like the very end of the island and it's
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Speaker 1: so hard to get there and you have to take
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Speaker 1: like three hundred steps.
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Speaker 2: And it's like one hundred ten degrees like.
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Speaker 3: Hot, yeah over humid.
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Speaker 2: Yeah.
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Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm not trying to look cute. I have
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Speaker 3: a baby.
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Speaker 1: So I had one of those straps and I had
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Speaker 1: her in the front with my headphones and just like
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Speaker 1: walked down by myself and I remember.
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Speaker 3: You guys, and you guys were just super.
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Speaker 1: Friendly and you actually started helping me with Isabella.
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Speaker 2: I'm like, can I play with your daughter? You're like,
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Speaker 2: of course, you're like take her. And we were just
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Speaker 2: playing with her, and you were I mean, you had
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Speaker 2: your eye on us, but we were next to each other.
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Speaker 2: So we just clicked and.
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Speaker 4: She she was so social, like as a child, she
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Speaker 4: was just like okay, cool, Like I met you guys,
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Speaker 4: we're gonna plan.
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Speaker 3: Like I held her.
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Speaker 2: She didn't even cry at all. She's been always independent.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, ever since she was a little girl.
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Speaker 1: I mean she loves to like she's just the life
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Speaker 1: of the party. And I think she's always going to
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Speaker 1: be that way. She just has that personality.
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Speaker 2: She has no fear.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, so we actually that was one of my favorite
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Speaker 1: trips because I feel like we immediately bonded.
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Speaker 3: Yes, and we were just laughing all the time.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, there's another funny story, do you remember now? And
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Speaker 2: we were drinking in the what is yeah, the town square,
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Speaker 2: and Betty kept saying, excuse me, sir, excuse me, sir, sir, sir, sir,
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Speaker 2: and he like looked at her, like what she's like.
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Speaker 4: It started like when Jesse was like, I love wine
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Speaker 4: and all he does is like sit there at night
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Speaker 4: and just drink wine. And I'm like, yes, like I
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Speaker 4: found my like wine buddy. So we all sat down,
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Speaker 4: We're drinking. And I didn't know this that Cabernet is
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Speaker 4: a California wine. I sound so stupid right now, but
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Speaker 4: I didn't.
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Speaker 2: I didn't know that either. Not everyone knows that.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, and I'm like, my knife, as I did, you did?
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Speaker 2: I mean, she she.
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Speaker 4: Was married to Jesse, was gonna know that. I just
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Speaker 4: kept saying, like, I want a red wine, a dry
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Speaker 4: red wine. Do you have cabernet? And He's like, ma'am,
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Speaker 4: we do not have italy, ma'am.
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Speaker 2: That is no cabinet. And I'm like, oh crap, there
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Speaker 2: goes my spicy margarita. Yeah. I wouldn't even dared to
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Speaker 2: order that.
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Speaker 3: I feel like all I had to drink was a
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Speaker 3: little white wine. But I don't remember. At that time.
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Speaker 1: I wasn't really drinking, but I was just having so
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Speaker 1: much fun with you guys, because.
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Speaker 3: You were just very funny.
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Speaker 2: You were in tears.
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Speaker 3: I was one of the like, you guys are so funny.
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Speaker 1: And how rare is that to like connect with somebody.
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Speaker 1: We all live in LA but we're just in Italy.
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Speaker 1: And it was like the best thing.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was like an instant connection.
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Speaker 3: Yeah.
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Speaker 2: And then we kept in touch after we came back.
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Speaker 2: You and Jesse had us over and we did the
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Speaker 2: Christmas party at your other apartment.
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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we used to love to do Christmas parties
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Speaker 1: and we would kind of go all out and bite everybody.
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Speaker 1: So you got to meet ye, Brittany and everybody. And
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Speaker 1: so what I love about you guys is you've seen
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Speaker 1: me through go through everything we have.
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Speaker 4: We met you at like the time in your life
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Speaker 4: where everything just I think started changing, like crazy, turning
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Speaker 4: life back because.
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Speaker 2: Isabella was like what one and a half?
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Speaker 3: Yeah, she was really young.
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Speaker 2: Yeah. So and then that's when you started having your
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Speaker 2: doubts about leaving Jesse, right, was it from then? Because
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Speaker 2: you were closed off? But then like with us, you
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Speaker 2: were very like like you were shining, but then like
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Speaker 2: with Jesse, you would just like kind of cave in
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Speaker 2: and sometimes seem sad, which we just thought that was
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Speaker 2: your personality of being quiet. Yeah, yourself introverted.
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Speaker 1: Are like that, Yeah, Betty and I are scorpios.
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Speaker 2: I was like, maybe that's who she is, but obviously,
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Speaker 2: as time tells, we saw everything.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, do you think I'm the same person that I
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Speaker 1: was when you met me?
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Speaker 2: With us? Obviously, I think to the outside world you
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Speaker 2: seem more at peace, heard like happier, You're glowing. Yeah,
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Speaker 2: you're like not on edge, it's just just living through life.
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Speaker 4: I feel like you're also because you're in a period
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Speaker 4: where so many things are happening and changing, you're finding
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Speaker 4: out who you are more.
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Speaker 2: You know.
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Speaker 4: I feel like when you were married to Jesse, you
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Speaker 4: were kind of like taking on the wife role and like, oh,
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Speaker 4: it's Jesse's like wife partner. Like I don't know why.
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Speaker 4: I just feel like now you're kind of more into
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Speaker 4: who am I? Like what can I do without without
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Speaker 4: a man or with a new man? Like who am I?
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Speaker 4: And you're still like figuring that out?
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Speaker 1: Yeah, as I say the mom, Yeah, I know, it's
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Speaker 1: kind of crazy to think that I'm in my thirties
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Speaker 1: and like I'm now starting over and doing it all
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Speaker 1: over again. But honestly, I'm so happy now and I'm
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Speaker 1: so glad looking back. It just makes perfect sense, and
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Speaker 1: I'm glad, yeah that I know.
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Speaker 2: You live and you learn, Like even when the fires happened,
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Speaker 2: you were like, I just need to get Isabella out
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Speaker 2: of the house and we need to leave. Like you
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Speaker 2: didn't think of like the stuff you have to pack
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Speaker 2: to leave. I forgot everything. Oh yeah, I leave their passport.
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Speaker 2: Whether there's a fire.
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Speaker 1: Well, there was a fire near us by actually Runyon Canyon.
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Speaker 1: The hiking trail like blew up quickly and thank god
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Speaker 1: they stopped it fast. But we were going to be
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Speaker 1: evacuated and I didn't want to be in traffic or whatsoever.
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Speaker 3: And I had Isabella, I'm like, we need to go.
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Speaker 1: I had a conversation with Jesse and Aaron and we're like,
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Speaker 1: we're going to go to Aaron's mom's house. That's, you know,
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Speaker 1: almost an hour away.
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Speaker 2: Did Isabella understand what was happening.
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Speaker 3: A little bit, but I wasn't trying to frighten her.
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Speaker 1: And I remember just packing like her BJ's diaper, like
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Speaker 1: just a couple things. And then when I got there,
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Speaker 1: I was like, I didn't pack anything important. I was like, honestly,
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Speaker 1: nothing matters right close, none of the Like I've grown
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Speaker 1: so much as a person and you realize, like in
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Speaker 1: an emergency, none of those things actually matter.
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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, definitely.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's true.
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Speaker 1: So back to traveling, I want to I used to
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Speaker 1: travel every summer. That was kind of the thing that
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Speaker 1: we used to do. I haven't done that many years.
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Speaker 1: I finally went on my first trip to Hawaii with Aaron,
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Speaker 1: which was amazing. But I want to plan another trip
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Speaker 1: because I feel like, ready, we miss I miss Paris. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: and I would like, I want to do Paris with you, yea,
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Speaker 1: because I feel like, you know Parish really well. If
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Speaker 1: I could live anywhere, it would be Paris, Like I
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Speaker 1: would have an apartment.
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Speaker 2: It always says that I would.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just I don't know, Like walking outside just
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Speaker 4: I don't know. It's just so beautiful and bread taking.
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Speaker 4: It's like this is all I need, Like I just
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Speaker 4: need to step outside and I'm good.
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Speaker 3: I'm happy.
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Speaker 1: Just all the cafes and like all the parks and
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Speaker 1: gardens and museums and you can make it whatever you sure. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: And I got to experience Paris in different ways obviously,
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Speaker 1: like the best way ever. We always used to stay
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Speaker 1: at the Ritz, so it's kind of like very special
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Speaker 1: to me and I proposed to the right.
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Speaker 3: He did ye, and.
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Speaker 1: It was pretty romantic and very special, and like, I
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Speaker 1: just feel like the Ritz is one of the best
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Speaker 1: places to stay in Paris. Is just like exceptional service
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Speaker 1: and everything's just perfection. So I actually enjoyed looking at
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Speaker 1: Laura Sanchez was having like her bachelorette weekend, and I
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Speaker 1: love looking at the outfits. And I think Kim Kardashian
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Speaker 1: stayed at the Ritz. Whenever they take pictures, I'm like, oh,
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Speaker 1: that's in the elevator, that's I know everything.
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Speaker 3: I love that. I really like it.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I know the Bachelorette was a good fashion vibe.
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Speaker 4: I mean Kim k oh my god, I fails it.
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Speaker 4: But like her look was, I was like dumbfounded. She
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Speaker 4: looked so elegant, beautiful, her jewelry.
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Speaker 2: Her hair.
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Speaker 4: I'm like, this is the best, in my opinion, she's
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Speaker 4: ever looked.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, even Chris Jenner, oh your serving looks.
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Speaker 3: Oh my god.
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Speaker 1: Everyone's talking about how she must have had another surgery
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Speaker 1: because she does look like she's forty.
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Speaker 3: She does like in her forties.
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Speaker 2: She does, and the hair do I think, I mean,
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Speaker 2: they always pull it off really well. Katy Perry. I
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Speaker 2: didn't really like that much. She didn't stand out. I mean,
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Speaker 2: if there's like Kim always, you're not gonna stand out.
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Speaker 3: I think she just loves.
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Speaker 2: Just look I love it.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, you love him.
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Speaker 1: I actually love is Eva Longoria. I absolutely love how
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Speaker 1: she dresses everything from head to toe, her makeup, her hairstyles.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, like I want to have her stylist when.
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Speaker 2: I always screenshot her looks.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, always always sending each other Instagram memes and photos.
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Speaker 1: And actually, something that most people don't know is Angela
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Speaker 1: is basically my stylist.
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Speaker 3: Very low key, she really is.
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Speaker 1: I need her approval on everything. She dresses both of us, right,
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Speaker 1: oh yeah, oh yeah, yeah.
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Speaker 2: I mean Michelle's fun because we see it in the press,
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Speaker 2: on TV, at events.
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Speaker 1: Buddy, like our day to day life, Please explain how
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Speaker 1: you have bet Yeah, I.
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Speaker 2: Mean Betty's is like a different situation. It's more like funny.
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Speaker 4: I mean we make a good time out of it.
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Speaker 4: Like she'll literally go on a shopping spree for me
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Speaker 4: and she'll be like, Okay, the box arrived, Like let's
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Speaker 4: do this.
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Speaker 2: And she'll be like no because she doesn't like to
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Speaker 2: get dressed. And I'll get a glass of wine and
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Speaker 2: I'll be like, mom, Betty's closed, are here, and she'll
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Speaker 2: be like, oh, I'm so ready to see this. And
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Speaker 2: Betty will where like out of the twenty outfits too
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Speaker 2: will work, but those like eighteen outfits, it's a shit show.
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Speaker 2: Just it tracked up. It's like a fashion show. You're thinking, yeah,
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Speaker 2: Whereas with you, you'll put it on and I'll be like, oh,
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Speaker 2: I don't know, I love it.
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Speaker 4: It's funny.
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Speaker 1: But you'll also tell me without trying to be mean.
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Speaker 1: You'll be like, do you have other objects?
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Speaker 3: I'm like, you just tell me.
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Speaker 1: I'll be like, that's so like prom But most of
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Speaker 1: the time I do think I have good style.
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Speaker 2: You do. We're different though. You're very like plain elegant,
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Speaker 2: whereas like I'll like tight, like body fitting outfits and
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Speaker 2: I realized you don't love that, so I'm like, wait,
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Speaker 2: I gotta think of like Michelle and her style. You
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Speaker 2: can't just be like you got a shop for the person, right, Yeah?
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Speaker 1: Yeah, Well going back to you guys, because you both
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Speaker 1: still live together, Yes, you live at home.
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Speaker 3: Yes, Angela is the older one.
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Speaker 1: You're the stylish one, and so Betty you're just more
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Speaker 1: simple right.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I like for me my style. Yeah, it's simple.
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Speaker 4: It's up to me, like, oh, we're a baggy T
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Speaker 4: shirt and like baggy pants all day. And Angela is
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Speaker 4: more like, let's do something tight, let's do some heels,
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Speaker 4: let's like more feminine. And I'm like, like, I don't care,
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Speaker 4: I don't care, like I like chill. Yeah, but yeah,
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Speaker 4: it's it's interesting, like we kind of balance each other
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Speaker 4: out though we're.
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Speaker 2: So different yet, Like I mean, I think us three
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Speaker 2: balance each other. Yeah, you know what you're like the
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Speaker 2: middle ground of us.
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Speaker 1: Well, what I love about us is I feel like
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Speaker 1: we're kind of like sex in the city.
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Speaker 3: Like all three of us.
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Speaker 1: Are so different with such different personalities. So when we
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Speaker 1: go out to lunch or dinner, like it's just so
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Speaker 1: funny we crack up.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, very true.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, So I haven't actually seen you in a couple
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Speaker 3: of weeks.
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Speaker 1: We used to do like daily or weekly or monthly dinners,
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Speaker 1: but we haven't had the chance to do that just
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Speaker 1: because we both we've all been so busy.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's been crazy.
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Speaker 3: How is your dating life going?
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Speaker 2: Oh?
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Speaker 4: God, mine is like not happening, non existent as of now.
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Speaker 4: I'm just like overwhelmed. I think with like life and
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Speaker 4: work and just trying to get stuff in order. So
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Speaker 4: I just feel like dating now, I'm emotionally unavailable.
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Speaker 2: I think you need to start putting yourself first.
18:28
Speaker 4: You never do, yeah, but I think before like putting
18:32
Speaker 4: myself first would be kind of like doing something for
18:35
Speaker 4: myself versus like going on a date.
18:38
Speaker 2: I feel like you feel guilty if you ever like
18:41
Speaker 2: put yourself first, Like.
18:42
Speaker 4: Self care is something I need to do way more,
18:47
Speaker 4: and I feel like I need to prioritize that before dating.
18:52
Speaker 4: That makes sense, because how can I be available emotionally
18:56
Speaker 4: on a date if I'm not even there for myself.
18:58
Speaker 2: That's a healthy way to look at it.
19:00
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, what about you, Angela.
19:03
Speaker 2: I haven't been on a date in ten years, and honestly,
19:10
Speaker 2: it used to affect me because all like ninety five
19:13
Speaker 2: percent of my friends are married and have kids and
19:18
Speaker 2: I'm thirty six. I'm just living life as it goes,
19:24
Speaker 2: and it doesn't affect me anymore because I've found my
19:27
Speaker 2: peace and happiness like within me, So it's not like,
19:32
Speaker 2: oh my god, I need to be married by next
19:35
Speaker 2: year and have a child. Like sometimes you don't need
19:39
Speaker 2: to do things in order. It's how whatever happens happens.
19:43
Speaker 2: Like I could have a kid on my own. I
19:45
Speaker 2: don't need a husband, you know, because he can't be
19:49
Speaker 2: traditional anymore. I think that's kind of like done.
19:54
Speaker 3: I think so too, because we've been an.
19:56
Speaker 2: Old school but and I like traditional ways.
19:59
Speaker 1: But yeah, it's very interesting for you guys because you
20:02
Speaker 1: guys are Armenian, very Armenian or that type of culture,
20:07
Speaker 1: similar to the Persian culture. It's like the only thing
20:11
Speaker 1: parents really care about is like who are you gonna marry,
20:14
Speaker 1: When are you gonna get married, When are you gonna
20:15
Speaker 1: have kids?
20:16
Speaker 2: Right?
20:17
Speaker 1: And so I always kind of had that in the
20:18
Speaker 1: back of my head. And so to me, I always
20:21
Speaker 1: had a goal that I wanted to be married before thirty.
20:24
Speaker 1: That was kind of like a check that I wanted,
20:27
Speaker 1: which I did.
20:28
Speaker 3: And you know, but you.
20:30
Speaker 2: Know what, I kind of really admired how your mom was.
20:34
Speaker 2: I feel like the first person to tell you, like Michelle,
20:38
Speaker 2: stop wasting your years and leave Jesse. Yeah, she wasn't like, oh,
20:44
Speaker 2: you know, you have a daughter, like stick it out.
20:47
Speaker 2: Continue Like usually moms will be like no, like this
20:52
Speaker 2: is how it is. It's not greener on the other
20:55
Speaker 2: side of the world. Yeah, especially like.
20:58
Speaker 4: Like Middle Eastern mom or like you know, more conservative
21:02
Speaker 4: traditional old school moms, or like what are you gonna
21:04
Speaker 4: do divorce? Like what direction are you gonna go? What
21:09
Speaker 4: are people gonna think? How are you gonna get married again?
21:12
Speaker 1: Right?
21:12
Speaker 4: So it's kind of like stick it out and deal
21:14
Speaker 4: with it versus.
21:15
Speaker 2: Now, which is kind of like the advice we gave
21:19
Speaker 2: you when you said I think I'm ready to leave,
21:22
Speaker 2: and I.
21:23
Speaker 3: Was like, are you sure.
21:25
Speaker 2: I'm like, just try to work it out, be with him,
21:29
Speaker 2: whereas Betty was kind of understanding your feelings more and
21:34
Speaker 2: I was very much like Michelle, give it a chance,
21:37
Speaker 2: like really scare him, make him understand you're gonna leave
21:41
Speaker 2: if he doesn't change. Well.
21:44
Speaker 1: I appreciated both your opinions and what I remember Betty
21:48
Speaker 1: that you always kind of compared like what your family
21:51
Speaker 1: was like and they weren't exactly happy, and you're like,
21:54
Speaker 1: I wish my parents would have left.
21:57
Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, I mean seeing, I mean that's what was
22:02
Speaker 4: really like looking at your situation too. I think it
22:06
Speaker 4: was very brave of you to do what you did,
22:08
Speaker 4: because I know so many kids like who wish their
22:11
Speaker 4: parents divorced, and they the thing, like the ways life
22:16
Speaker 4: would have been different for them if they grew up
22:19
Speaker 4: as adults who their parents did divorce, it would have
22:22
Speaker 4: been so much less toxicity in the house, less arguments,
22:27
Speaker 4: like it just honestly changes the kids, a better relationship
22:31
Speaker 4: with each parent separately, Like you're not hearing every day
22:35
Speaker 4: like your dad did this, your mom did this. It's
22:37
Speaker 4: so toxic, and like staying in that environment and growing
22:41
Speaker 4: up into an adult and constantly hearing that, especially for.
22:44
Speaker 2: Us, because I think maybe that's why we're still single
22:47
Speaker 2: and not.
22:47
Speaker 4: Even to like we still live with our parents because
22:51
Speaker 4: it's just the like cultural norm. So even till today,
22:54
Speaker 4: like still hearing that. It's just so draining. It's so toxic,
22:58
Speaker 4: and obviously there's gonna be some things about that that
23:03
Speaker 4: is affecting our dating life and what kind of partners.
23:07
Speaker 2: We're looking for. Beddy will be like I won't tolerate that,
23:11
Speaker 2: and then I'll be like, I mean, like this is it,
23:13
Speaker 2: Like this is how it is, like you have to
23:15
Speaker 2: deal with his stuff.
23:17
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're more accepting, like you're kind of stuck more
23:20
Speaker 4: in that old school thing.
23:23
Speaker 2: Like I won't stick with the guy if he's like
23:25
Speaker 2: abusive and alcoholic, a drug head or anything.
23:29
Speaker 4: But like the little things, but they are kind of
23:33
Speaker 4: big things.
23:34
Speaker 2: Like my patience is there, whereas you're like, nah, yeah.
23:39
Speaker 1: Do you also think being in LA is a factor
23:43
Speaker 1: like dating and such a busy.
23:45
Speaker 2: I'm sure, but I don't know any better, Like we haven't.
23:50
Speaker 2: I mean, I was dating my ex boyfriend was in Australia,
23:54
Speaker 2: so that was a big step for me to like
23:56
Speaker 2: go back and forth every month and a half two years.
24:01
Speaker 2: And I actually like respect my parents for that, for
24:06
Speaker 2: allowing me to do that. And they knew it wasn't
24:09
Speaker 2: going to work out because I'm the type that I
24:12
Speaker 2: can't survive without my family, so they allowed me to
24:18
Speaker 2: learn on my own through my mistakes that it wouldn't
24:22
Speaker 2: work out.
24:23
Speaker 4: So I mean, I mean you have that personality though,
24:27
Speaker 4: like yeah, I always tell her, like she'll be like
24:30
Speaker 4: I want to do this, and I'm like, but you
24:32
Speaker 4: know this is going to happen, and she's like, well,
24:35
Speaker 4: I'm still going to do it anyway.
24:36
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like let me learn on my own way. Yeah. Yeah.
24:41
Speaker 1: I feel like That's how I've always lived, right since
24:44
Speaker 1: I can remember.
24:45
Speaker 2: Right, But in Sydney, everyone was like twenty six and
24:50
Speaker 2: like a CEO, already wanting to get married and have kids,
24:54
Speaker 2: like guys, Whereas over here in LA they're into like
24:59
Speaker 2: they're just like boys. I don't know, like let me
25:02
Speaker 2: have the nice car, let me go to the like
25:05
Speaker 2: most happening restaurant, and oh it's Thursday night, like this
25:10
Speaker 2: club or I don't know, Yeah, it's just like its
25:14
Speaker 2: old yeah fast, Yeah, like every decade has its own
25:20
Speaker 2: special time and you need to like accept the growth
25:24
Speaker 2: and let go.
25:26
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, I still believe in love. I found my
25:30
Speaker 3: love again, Yes you do.
25:32
Speaker 1: I think it's hard out there, but I think there
25:35
Speaker 1: is somebody for everybody, and you have to make the effort.
25:39
Speaker 1: And for you guys, I always say, like, you guys
25:42
Speaker 1: are homebodies, so am I like, you have to go
25:45
Speaker 1: out in order to meet people. It's not going to
25:47
Speaker 1: happen if you just always stay home. So I'm constantly
25:51
Speaker 1: encouraging you both because I want to see you guys
25:54
Speaker 1: one day.
25:55
Speaker 2: You actually do push us.
25:57
Speaker 4: To like get out of our comfort zone.
25:59
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean you you take us out of our
26:01
Speaker 2: comfort zone a lot, like doing this podcasting the podcast.
26:06
Speaker 1: Or like well, thank you again, because again, yeah, this
26:10
Speaker 1: is obvious.
26:11
Speaker 4: Thank you for having us.
26:12
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I just wanted people to get to know
26:14
Speaker 1: who I am. I literally talk to you guys every
26:16
Speaker 1: single day, whether it's text, messages, Instagram. We're having multiple
26:20
Speaker 1: conversations on all platforms.
26:24
Speaker 2: It'll be like laughing at a TikTok and then you'll
26:26
Speaker 2: be like venting about something that bothered you that day
26:29
Speaker 2: and I'm like okay. And then it'll be like, what
26:33
Speaker 2: do you think about this outfit? And I'm like okay.
26:35
Speaker 2: Three combos, autos.
26:37
Speaker 4: And all on different platforms like Instagram, text message, voice note.
26:41
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, the voice notes infamous for that.
26:45
Speaker 1: And Betty's kind of my therapist because you've studied so
26:49
Speaker 1: much and you have an old soul.
26:52
Speaker 2: Yeah I do. Yeah, Betty's psychology comes in handy.
26:56
Speaker 4: I mean yeah again, it's like The Sex and the
26:57
Speaker 4: City like Triad. It's like the therapist, the stylist, and
27:01
Speaker 4: like the main character guy.
27:04
Speaker 2: You know.
27:06
Speaker 4: That's funny.
27:13
Speaker 1: So how did you guys feel when you met Aaron
27:15
Speaker 1: for the first time?
27:17
Speaker 2: Trying to remember our I think it was as yeah,
27:22
Speaker 2: oh yeah, Beddy and him clicked of course right away.
27:25
Speaker 2: They were talking about dreams.
27:27
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, oh yeah we were.
27:30
Speaker 1: And I was like, whoa Aaron takes his He's tall, handsome,
27:34
Speaker 1: and he takes his dreams very serious.
27:36
Speaker 2: Yeah, and Mozelle just kept like sipping on our margarite.
27:40
Speaker 2: They're like mm hmmm. And Betty's like, well it means
27:44
Speaker 2: this that you saw this in your dream and Aaron
27:47
Speaker 2: was like going on and.
27:49
Speaker 4: It just kept continuing, and I'm like cool, like if
27:52
Speaker 4: you're into this, let's let's dive in.
27:54
Speaker 2: But no, he was this sweetheart. He's like Jesse was charming,
27:59
Speaker 2: but it's charms different. They're like you can't compare them
28:04
Speaker 2: at all. They're all different.
28:05
Speaker 4: And that's what's so funny to me. Like you went
28:08
Speaker 4: from like a guy in like suits all day and
28:12
Speaker 4: like loafers and like let's go hang out in Beverly
28:15
Speaker 4: Hills and Aaron is like let's go high hike yeah,
28:19
Speaker 4: and like have honey and like talk about a book.
28:22
Speaker 2: Yeah.
28:22
Speaker 4: It's so different, which is kind of you.
28:27
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, like being married to Jesse never changed you.
28:31
Speaker 2: I feel like you didn't. You weren't into the fancy
28:35
Speaker 2: like lifestyle as Jesse was.
28:39
Speaker 1: I mean I liked it. Everybody I think is gonna
28:41
Speaker 1: like it, But it wasn't like my motivation or I
28:45
Speaker 1: had to have it. Like I could go to a
28:47
Speaker 1: nice restaurant or I could have go to like a
28:49
Speaker 1: hole in a wall place. It doesn't matter to me,
28:51
Speaker 1: you know, if the food's good or if I'm with
28:53
Speaker 1: good company, that's all that really.
28:55
Speaker 3: Matters to me. Same yeah, same yeah.
28:58
Speaker 1: So all my friends really liked him, which I like,
29:02
Speaker 1: that was a crazy time because we had just started
29:05
Speaker 1: dating and I remember now we went to horses and
29:08
Speaker 1: the following day, Aaron's dad passed away suddenly had a
29:14
Speaker 1: heart attack. And actually that's I think what made our
29:19
Speaker 1: connection even stronger because you know, he was so close
29:23
Speaker 1: to his dad. I was so close to my mom,
29:25
Speaker 1: Like we were very close to our parents, and I've
29:28
Speaker 1: never experienced something like that before, and so I was
29:31
Speaker 1: just very supportive and like we were together day, night
29:35
Speaker 1: and day, and I think that made our bond and
29:38
Speaker 1: relationship so much stronger.
29:41
Speaker 3: Totally.
29:41
Speaker 2: But I mean, you guys went in with like some
29:44
Speaker 2: real life trauma, baggage issues, baggage and not fighting. Yeah,
29:54
Speaker 2: like you were going through divorce, you have a child,
29:57
Speaker 2: and then he lost his dad, and then your mom
30:00
Speaker 2: was six. It wasn't like sell what was your last date?
30:05
Speaker 1: Like?
30:06
Speaker 2: Right, it was very like real life.
30:08
Speaker 4: It was it was like shallow. I feel like you
30:12
Speaker 4: guys were fresh and shit got real and like when
30:16
Speaker 4: you go through like loss and grief, especially in a relationship,
30:20
Speaker 4: you really see who that person is. Yeah, and how's
30:23
Speaker 4: your partner coming for you in that time of need?
30:27
Speaker 4: So yeah, I mean from what I saw, Aaron was
30:30
Speaker 4: there for you when your mom passed, you were there
30:33
Speaker 4: for him when his dad passed. And yeah, I just
30:37
Speaker 4: the compatibility I think too. It just from the beginning,
30:41
Speaker 4: like you guys were on the same level.
30:43
Speaker 2: I feel like even though Aaron is the youngest guy
30:46
Speaker 2: you've dated, right, yeah, by far.
30:49
Speaker 1: He's two years older than me. Jesse was eight and
30:53
Speaker 1: a half years older than me. The X before Jesse
30:57
Speaker 1: was like fourteen years older than me.
30:59
Speaker 3: That was my biggest gap.
31:01
Speaker 2: How was that?
31:04
Speaker 3: It was good?
31:04
Speaker 2: Did you ever feel like I'm too young or like
31:08
Speaker 2: his energy was like old.
31:10
Speaker 1: Or like no, my ex boyfriend was very young, attractive
31:14
Speaker 1: or not young. He was like young, spirited, okay, and handsome,
31:19
Speaker 1: you know, English from London, had a house in London,
31:22
Speaker 1: lived in la He was very sophisticated, had a PhD.
31:27
Speaker 2: Where'd you go to London often?
31:29
Speaker 1: Yeah, that was the first time that I had traveled
31:32
Speaker 1: to Europe. I was going back and forth in London.
31:35
Speaker 1: A lot of people don't know this, And I was
31:39
Speaker 1: just very mature. I think, like I can be immature
31:43
Speaker 1: at times, a naive, but at the same time, like
31:46
Speaker 1: I grew up quickly, and.
31:48
Speaker 2: So I see where Isabella gets it from.
31:50
Speaker 3: Now, I guess you're right.
31:51
Speaker 1: Yeah, age is just a number, is just how two
31:54
Speaker 1: people are. I was very mature, so it was fine.
31:58
Speaker 1: It just didn't work out at the end. And I'm like, dude,
32:02
Speaker 1: I don't really want to go into detail about that.
32:05
Speaker 3: It just didn't work out.
32:07
Speaker 1: So I've been with a wide range, but Aaron is
32:11
Speaker 1: definitely the youngest. There are little times where I can
32:14
Speaker 1: see that he still has like a young spirit. But overall,
32:18
Speaker 1: I think we're a really good match. You guys are
32:21
Speaker 1: I do think like with everything you guys are like.
32:25
Speaker 2: Hopeless romantic, like from the notebook. Yeah, it still feels
32:30
Speaker 2: even your date nights or like what he'll plan for you,
32:33
Speaker 2: it's just different special.
32:36
Speaker 3: Yeah.
32:36
Speaker 1: He makes me feel very special and very seen and
32:40
Speaker 1: like I've never had all of these feelings that I
32:42
Speaker 1: still get, Like, I still feel that we're in the
32:45
Speaker 1: honeymoon stage and we've been together almost a year and
32:48
Speaker 1: a half later.
32:49
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like with Aaron sometimes not that you ever get jealous,
32:53
Speaker 2: but you'll get jealous. But with Jesse, when like you,
32:58
Speaker 2: when we saw you at the beach, I was like, oh,
33:01
Speaker 2: like she's gonna get like kind of annoyed by us
33:06
Speaker 2: and be like were these girls talking to my husband?
33:09
Speaker 2: And you were so sweet and you're like Hi, I'm like, oh, okay,
33:15
Speaker 2: honest yeah, that was like a first for me. I
33:18
Speaker 2: don't know are girls like that you?
33:20
Speaker 3: Honestly, I don't know.
33:21
Speaker 2: I like, I were so sweet. I'm like, this is weird.
33:26
Speaker 1: I had zero jealousy with Jesse, and I don't actually
33:30
Speaker 1: know why. Maybe I do, Like I don't know, I
33:34
Speaker 1: don't know what it was, but with him, I just
33:36
Speaker 1: wasn't jealous.
33:37
Speaker 3: I think I was so used to him.
33:39
Speaker 1: Always being gone, being out talking to everybody that or
33:43
Speaker 1: like we didn't we didn't have that connection.
33:45
Speaker 2: You didn't even have that fear like, oh, he's cheating
33:48
Speaker 2: on me right now. I'm sure at times you did,
33:51
Speaker 2: but you would never bring that up to us, like
33:54
Speaker 2: he's out, he's drinking, like he must be cheating, Like
33:57
Speaker 2: that never went like you just I just think that
34:01
Speaker 2: I disconnected.
34:02
Speaker 3: I think that's what it was.
34:03
Speaker 1: And with Aaron, you have you're like a fricking hot firecracker.
34:09
Speaker 3: No, I'm not that bad, but I have.
34:11
Speaker 1: Like what some of us maybe once a month and and
34:15
Speaker 1: like you'll put me one.
34:16
Speaker 2: We could ask Eric.
34:18
Speaker 1: I'll ask him next time. But yeah, he I guess
34:21
Speaker 1: I am jealous now. And it's just because I do
34:24
Speaker 1: love him so much and I do think he's like
34:28
Speaker 1: a great catch. He's a great personality. I think I
34:30
Speaker 1: think he's very handsome. So yeah, I'm learning a lot
34:34
Speaker 1: about myself and I can be a little firecracker.
34:37
Speaker 2: I think it's there's nothing wrong with that. It spices
34:40
Speaker 2: it up.
34:41
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, it just shows that you're really invested.
34:44
Speaker 2: I mean, doesn't Aaron get jealous.
34:47
Speaker 3: He does a little bit, a little bit here and there.
34:52
Speaker 1: But I think it's normal, and I think it's healthy
34:54
Speaker 1: to be something jealous. And that's the thing, Like I
34:56
Speaker 1: wasn't jealous at all in my past relationship, and I
34:59
Speaker 1: don't think that was healthy at all.
35:01
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, and then you guys talk about it, you
35:04
Speaker 2: learn what bothered him, what bothered you? No, I think
35:08
Speaker 2: it's just it. It's needed.
35:11
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a little it's healthy, I guess, yeah, in
35:14
Speaker 4: small doses.
35:15
Speaker 2: Yeah, But about wedding, do you guys talk about that?
35:19
Speaker 2: Do you think you'll have a big wedding or have
35:22
Speaker 2: it very.
35:23
Speaker 1: We don't have like deep deep conversations, but we're both
35:26
Speaker 1: on the same page. Like we I just moved in.
35:29
Speaker 1: I've I've said that to some people. It moved in
35:32
Speaker 1: a couple months ago. I lived on my own for
35:35
Speaker 1: a year and it was just like the right time.
35:38
Speaker 1: I think we were really strong and it was something
35:40
Speaker 1: actually Isabella also wanted, we all wanted, so we moved
35:44
Speaker 1: into his place. It's been great and obviously, like before
35:48
Speaker 1: I moved in, it's like, you know, I'm not just
35:50
Speaker 1: going to move in to move in, you know.
35:52
Speaker 2: Yah.
35:52
Speaker 3: Point is to have a future.
35:54
Speaker 1: And he's like, of course, like I completely agree with you,
35:57
Speaker 1: and oh yeah.
35:58
Speaker 2: I mean you guys did take it fast. But also
36:01
Speaker 2: like how he said, life gave you a lot of
36:04
Speaker 2: like these obstacles together where you got through each step.
36:10
Speaker 3: So yeah, so that's the goal.
36:13
Speaker 1: He has made comments like, oh, I want a big wedding,
36:17
Speaker 1: and you know, I kind of have been there, done that,
36:21
Speaker 1: and you know, to me from my experience, like a
36:26
Speaker 1: wedding can be so expensive even if you try to
36:29
Speaker 1: do it like a small intimate everything adds up and
36:33
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, I think that it's
36:35
Speaker 1: more about the guests and you're hosting, and and it
36:38
Speaker 1: goes by so fast, Like I would rather just take
36:42
Speaker 1: like a couple of week vacation or like, you know,
36:46
Speaker 1: just do something super super intimate like at the beach
36:50
Speaker 1: or something like I don't want this full grand wedding whatsoever.
36:56
Speaker 1: And to me, it just be like more intimate and
36:58
Speaker 1: private to just do like us our best friends and
37:01
Speaker 1: like immediate family.
37:03
Speaker 3: Right, that's what I want to do.
37:05
Speaker 2: I agree, And I host your bachelorette.
37:07
Speaker 3: I've never had a bachelorette. No, really, we never did that.
37:12
Speaker 2: Jesse didn't do one either.
37:14
Speaker 3: We didn't do that.
37:15
Speaker 4: Shocking. I would think he would want like he would
37:18
Speaker 4: really want one. I don't know, that's interesting.
37:22
Speaker 3: I never thought of it.
37:23
Speaker 1: And I wasn't like, oh, I want to go to
37:26
Speaker 1: Vegas or Miami, Like, no, if I would have a
37:29
Speaker 1: bachelorette like again, I would just want to go to Paris,
37:33
Speaker 1: to Paris and go to a nice restaurant and like
37:37
Speaker 1: enjoy the day.
37:38
Speaker 4: Yeah, I love how you still want to go to Paris,
37:40
Speaker 4: Like I feel like other people would have such a
37:43
Speaker 4: kind of bittersweet attitude. I was once proposed to there
37:48
Speaker 4: and then we got divorced. I don't know if I
37:50
Speaker 4: want to go back like old memories. Yeah, walking into
37:53
Speaker 4: the rights.
37:54
Speaker 2: Are you going to like remember that? Is it gonna
37:56
Speaker 2: make your heart sink? Or you're just gonna with like
38:01
Speaker 2: Aaron and be like I'm not phased by it.
38:04
Speaker 1: I don't know because I haven't really put myself in
38:07
Speaker 1: that position yet. I want to have new experiences in
38:10
Speaker 1: Paris with Aaron because we haven't done that, and it's
38:13
Speaker 1: like it's an entire city. I'm not gonna not go
38:16
Speaker 1: there because I was proposed there, of course, So.
38:20
Speaker 3: I don't know how I'll feel.
38:22
Speaker 1: I've had little situations like that, but like again, he's
38:25
Speaker 1: still part of my Life's Jesse's always going to be
38:27
Speaker 1: in my life because we share Isabella and I'm human.
38:31
Speaker 1: There's like moments where I have those feelings.
38:34
Speaker 2: Yeah, you do have feelings. I think you're just so
38:38
Speaker 2: like closed off and very much like I hate Jesse
38:43
Speaker 2: or you know, you don't. You just get upset and
38:48
Speaker 2: you want to be good with him for Isabella because
38:51
Speaker 2: that's what matters. Yeah.
38:52
Speaker 4: I really think like one day you guys are just
38:55
Speaker 4: going to.
38:55
Speaker 2: Be like, oh yeah, Betty always says it.
38:57
Speaker 4: I always say this, like down down, Like in the future,
39:01
Speaker 4: I could just literally see you guys like having lunch
39:03
Speaker 4: together casually and just being like, yeah, Isabella's doing so well,
39:07
Speaker 4: how are you?
39:08
Speaker 2: How's everything. I don't know why.
39:09
Speaker 4: I just have this feeling like you guys are gonna
39:11
Speaker 4: like have this vision.
39:13
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just see it.
39:14
Speaker 4: I don't know why.
39:15
Speaker 1: And I feel like you're pretty like psychic. Yeah, you
39:18
Speaker 1: can call a lot of things out that will happen.
39:21
Speaker 4: Like intuitive, I guess. Yeah, I just have a feeling,
39:25
Speaker 4: I hope.
39:25
Speaker 2: So.
39:27
Speaker 1: I mean, Aaron grew up in that type of environment,
39:30
Speaker 1: like that's very normal to him. He had a dad
39:32
Speaker 1: and stepdad and they always like Thanksgiving, they were all
39:37
Speaker 1: together and they were all friends, and so he's like,
39:40
Speaker 1: you know, it can happen and it's very normal to him,
39:44
Speaker 1: and he's you know, I appreciate that because I don't
39:47
Speaker 1: know if all men would be like that. So changing subjects.
39:56
Speaker 1: I was at run Yan and I always have crazy
39:59
Speaker 1: things happen.
39:59
Speaker 3: To me Rania, and now you do.
40:02
Speaker 2: I didn't do anything, did you see?
40:05
Speaker 1: I was hiking And then I got a FaceTime call.
40:08
Speaker 1: I just sold a house to the YouTuber Mike Malick.
40:12
Speaker 1: They call him Big Mike, and he was facetiming me.
40:15
Speaker 1: He never face times me, so I answer it and
40:18
Speaker 1: it's him and logan Paul Wow, and they're like giving.
40:23
Speaker 3: Me this face. I'm like, what's going on?
40:25
Speaker 1: And they were watching Santa Barbara and they're like, oh
40:29
Speaker 1: my god, this is insane. And then he's like, thank
40:32
Speaker 1: you so much for selling my house. He's like, I've
40:35
Speaker 1: been so busy, I haven't even thank you.
40:37
Speaker 2: That's sweet. Yeah, well I didn't know you guys had
40:40
Speaker 2: a relationship like that. Yeah, we're in touch with your clients. Yeah.
40:44
Speaker 1: I think it's really important. You know, you don't just
40:47
Speaker 1: sell a house and never talk to them again. It's like,
40:49
Speaker 1: I build these relationships because you know one day he's
40:53
Speaker 1: going to want to buy again, or he might know people.
40:55
Speaker 1: And yeah, he's like the super funniest guy ever. I
41:00
Speaker 1: love watching his YouTube and I just approved of the episode.
41:05
Speaker 1: He just approved or he just thought like the whole
41:08
Speaker 1: thing because he only knows us real estate related and
41:11
Speaker 1: then professional level, very professional, and he doesn't know me
41:15
Speaker 1: any other way. So it was just really funny to
41:17
Speaker 1: get their reaction, and Logan was just looking at me like.
41:22
Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's funny.
41:26
Speaker 3: Yeah, so that's pretty cool, really cool.
41:28
Speaker 2: That is cool.
41:29
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm like, I think.
41:31
Speaker 2: I should go to run Yan like I'll know.
41:33
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm telling you guys go out and.
41:36
Speaker 4: About like a magical canyon.
41:39
Speaker 3: Everybody goes there because it's like the perfect place.
41:42
Speaker 1: To run, and I mean I to go. Yeah, yeah,
41:46
Speaker 1: I haven't gone as often. I used to go every
41:49
Speaker 1: single day. Now I'm going about four.
41:51
Speaker 2: Days a week. So it's a lot.
41:54
Speaker 1: It is a lot, really, yeah, I mean I used
41:57
Speaker 1: to go. I used to walk like fifteen thousand steps.
41:59
Speaker 1: Now I'm doing like six seven thousand steps. That's not
42:03
Speaker 1: that much, but it's still my good.
42:06
Speaker 2: You look amazing.
42:07
Speaker 3: Thank you. I think I'm just happy and healthy.
42:10
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's come from it, like starts from within, you know.
42:12
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what shows on your face. Yeah that's true.
42:15
Speaker 1: Yeah. Thanks, Well, I think it's time for us to
42:19
Speaker 1: go have lunch and maybe a margarita.
42:21
Speaker 2: Margarita time.
42:23
Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you guys for coming on, for having us.
42:27
Speaker 2: Yes, it was a blast.
42:28
Speaker 3: It was a blast.
42:29
Speaker 4: Thank you. Thank you for having us. Honestly, like again,
42:32
Speaker 4: like you really push us out of our comfort zone
42:35
Speaker 4: and this was like the cherry on top.
42:37
Speaker 1: Honestactly, pursuit of sassiness. We're always in the pursuit of
42:41
Speaker 1: something and I always want everybody and I encourage my
42:44
Speaker 1: friends people I don't know, like do something that you're
42:47
Speaker 1: uncomfortable doing, because you're gonna thank yourself later.