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Tyra Banks making new changes to ‘Dancing With The Stars,’ Miley Cyrus is opening up about her journey to sobriety, American Music Awards fall 50% - will it get cancelled? · Naughty But Nice with Rob Shuter

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  Speaker 1: Scrible advice. Welcome to the Naughty but nicely. I'm your
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  Speaker 1: host of Shooter. It is Tuesday, which means our favorite,
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  Speaker 1: our friend Delna Dixon is joining us ms D are
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  Speaker 1: you there? Hello? Hi am, I'm back. Our friend JT
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  Speaker 1: jumped into to help us out. But we're glad you
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  Speaker 1: are back. Are you back in the city or are
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  Speaker 1: you in Georgia? No, I'm back in Georgia, and I
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  Speaker 1: have to say it's a little chilly this morning. It
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  Speaker 1: was a little tough to get out of bed, so
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  Speaker 1: I have to turn up that heat. I'm glad I'm
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  Speaker 1: talking to you. Mr Hardy. Well, we will make it hot,
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  Speaker 1: hot hot time promise because it is. What time is?
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  Speaker 1: Do you? Is big exclusive. At the top of the show,
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  Speaker 1: Tyra Banks is planning more changes to Dancing with the Stars.
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  Speaker 1: Last night was the season finale. We're not going to
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  Speaker 1: give away the winner just yet, but can see it
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  Speaker 1: everywhere all over online and TV. It's an exciting show.
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  Speaker 1: The ratings were up in the key demo, so that's
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  Speaker 1: so important for TV. It's not the total number, it's
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  Speaker 1: basically young people that they care about. It's terrible bisded
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  Speaker 1: lots and lots of older people can watch shows, but
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  Speaker 1: they care about that young demographic. She was up in that.
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  Speaker 1: Now I'm told next season she's going to put in
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  Speaker 1: even more changes. Tyra is not just the host of
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  Speaker 1: the show, she's the executive producer. So sources are telling
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  Speaker 1: me the following. I think this is a really good idea.
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  Speaker 1: She wants to add more fashion to the show. Obviously
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  Speaker 1: her background is in a modeling fashion that whole world,
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  Speaker 1: so she wants to add more fashion to the show.
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  Speaker 1: She's even going to add maybe a Tyra Banks save.
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  Speaker 1: We've seen these saves that they do on American Idol,
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  Speaker 1: and I think the judges on Dancing with the Stars
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  Speaker 1: they have a safe too. Now the host is going
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  Speaker 1: to have a save. Why not. Tyra is going to
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  Speaker 1: try and get some more American top designers doing the costumes,
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  Speaker 1: more controversial stars like Carol Baskin, and also, to get
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  Speaker 1: this this is so interesting, Tyra wants it to be
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  Speaker 1: more of a reality show, not totally, but more of one.
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  Speaker 1: So she's even thinking about maybe putting all the contestants
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  Speaker 1: in one house like America's Next Top Model, like Big Brother,
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  Speaker 1: and then we can have some behind the scene drama
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  Speaker 1: of them all living together. What do you think, mistery,
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  Speaker 1: Are you for the changes or leave it alone? Well,
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  Speaker 1: I did watch last night's show, and I have to
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  Speaker 1: say I do believe people were tuning in for the outfits.
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  Speaker 1: Tara hads on some unusual dresses. Um. At one point
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  Speaker 1: she looked like a bedazzled skeleton. Yes, exactly. UM, So
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  Speaker 1: I think it's smart. You know, obviously this is going
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  Speaker 1: to bring in young people, but I don't think she
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  Speaker 1: should alienate the core group of people who love Dancing
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  Speaker 1: with the Stars. And we know that all ages like it,
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  Speaker 1: so she needs to speak to her full audience. But
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  Speaker 1: you know what, Tyra, it's your show. Do what you
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  Speaker 1: want to do, make the changes. I mean, in this
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  Speaker 1: household last night we were talking about what you're wearing.
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  Speaker 1: So you're doing something right. M D and my good self.
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  Speaker 1: We're on the TV show for a little while in
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  Speaker 1: the morning show, and I was shocked to find out
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  Speaker 1: how much what you wear is so important. I'm a
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  Speaker 1: content guy, which is why I love podcasting. I'm in
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  Speaker 1: my pajamas right now. I love content, I love gossip,
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  Speaker 1: I love news. However, TV is really a visual medium,
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  Speaker 1: of course, it is. How could I not think it
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  Speaker 1: was so fashion. What you wear bright colors really do
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  Speaker 1: pop and it makes a difference. Also to the numbers
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  Speaker 1: are up. So people were hating on Tyra when she
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  Speaker 1: first took over. Change is difficult. People don't like change.
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  Speaker 1: I've got used to her after about eight nine weeks.
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  Speaker 1: I really enjoyed the show last night. She made me
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  Speaker 1: scream laughing. Her clothes were outrageous. Even the judges were
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  Speaker 1: dressed up in kind of unusual fashion too. I think
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  Speaker 1: this myself is a good idea, but that doesn't matter
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  Speaker 1: because I care about what you think. It's a pole
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  Speaker 1: of the day. Tyra Banks is going to make even
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  Speaker 1: more changes to Dancing with the Stars. Are you team
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  Speaker 1: Tyra or are you bring back Tom bergeron? Go vote
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  Speaker 1: is Naughty Gossip and be sure to check back tomorrow
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  Speaker 1: to hear your results. MD. What are you working on? Love? Well,
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  Speaker 1: we know that numbers are everything, so these are some
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  Speaker 1: bad news for the American Music Awards. They are a
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  Speaker 1: disappointment in the ratings because viewership is down almost fifty percent.
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  Speaker 1: So the show got about three point eight million total viewers,
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  Speaker 1: and that's a fifty percent ratings decline and a forty
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  Speaker 1: three percent lost audience dip. Now, you have to understand,
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  Speaker 1: back in two thousand and nineteen, it only lost about
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  Speaker 1: four percent of the audience, and it was actually up
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  Speaker 1: a little bit from two thousand and eighteen. But the
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  Speaker 1: American Musical War don't have to worry. It wasn't Taragi
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  Speaker 1: because let me tell you, she did some amazing fashion changes.
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  Speaker 1: It seems all the award shows are down this year.
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  Speaker 1: The Oscars fell, the Emmys were around nine percent, the
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  Speaker 1: a c M a c M Awards was over thirty
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  Speaker 1: and the Billboard Music Awards where is about fifty Now,
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  Speaker 1: I think I have a theory of why this is happening. Obviously,
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  Speaker 1: we're in the middle of a pandemic and the shows
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  Speaker 1: look a lot different. I mean, you know, Taragi was
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  Speaker 1: talking to a cardboard cutout Beyonce at the American Music Awards,
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  Speaker 1: So it's not the same thing. You don't have the audience,
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  Speaker 1: you don't have those weird cuts when they cut to
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  Speaker 1: the audience and you see their faces and they're on
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  Speaker 1: their phone, and I think people just have other things
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  Speaker 1: on their mind than watching these kind of weird kind
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  Speaker 1: of delivery of the award shows. What do you think wrong?
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  Speaker 1: I think it's a combination of both. There's certainly different.
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  Speaker 1: The excitement has definitely gone from having an empty auditorium
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  Speaker 1: this award show. It normally holds about seven eight thousand people.
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  Speaker 1: There is probably about fifty in the room, so it's very,
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  Speaker 1: very difficult. But I think the big reason is that
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  Speaker 1: we are too too busy with their own lives to
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  Speaker 1: watch celebrities who seem to have so much get awards.
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  Speaker 1: It just feels a little tone deaf to me. Honoring
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  Speaker 1: people who are super rich and super famous and they
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  Speaker 1: look like they have perfect lives, it doesn't feel like
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  Speaker 1: the right moments. So maybe it's a little bit of
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  Speaker 1: that too, talking about celebrities who we think has an
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  Speaker 1: amazing life but actually is struggling. Miley Cyrus has come
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  Speaker 1: forward to say that she is now two weeks sober
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  Speaker 1: after falling off the wagon. She's twenty eight years old.
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  Speaker 1: She was on Apple Music and she admits that she
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  Speaker 1: had trouble during the pandemic and now she's only two
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  Speaker 1: weeks sober. So she said that instead of getting furious
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  Speaker 1: with herself for having a drink, she gets curious. She
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  Speaker 1: doesn't get mad, but she asks herself what happened? Why
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  Speaker 1: did she reach back for the booers. She said that
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  Speaker 1: she's not really be a person in moderation, and she
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  Speaker 1: doesn't think everybody has to be sober. She thinks everybody
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  Speaker 1: has to do what's best for them. Have you been
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  Speaker 1: indulging in alcohol or food or or whatever it is
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  Speaker 1: that that you do, Misty during the pandemic? What have
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  Speaker 1: you been doing? I totally understand this is a really
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  Speaker 1: difficult time, and it's so easy to just go to
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  Speaker 1: that fridge, open it up, looking their mindlessly and grab food.
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  Speaker 1: I eat a lot of nuts, I'm going to be honest,
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  Speaker 1: and we got a lot of chocolate in this household.
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  Speaker 1: So sometimes you have to stop and say why am
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  Speaker 1: I doing this? And my board? Um? You know, am
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  Speaker 1: I sad about what's going on? Um? And we know
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  Speaker 1: when Miley does something, she does it a hundred and
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  Speaker 1: twenty percent. She doesn't really have, you know, a sense
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  Speaker 1: of moderation, like she said. So it's challenging and I
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  Speaker 1: find it so interesting that celebrities let us into this
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  Speaker 1: part of their lives. Do you remember when Dak Shephard
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  Speaker 1: did that and he talked about how he had been
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  Speaker 1: eleven days sober after dealing with his drugs addition and
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  Speaker 1: his drinking again. So I think this is to humanize
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  Speaker 1: because sometimes we put him on a pedal stool. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I do too. What's Tyler Perry being up to talk
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  Speaker 1: about being a good guy and humanized? What's he been?
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  Speaker 1: What's he been doing? He's so good. So he's been
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  Speaker 1: donating food and gift cards to five thousand families ahead
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  Speaker 1: of Thanksgiving, as we know, we're celebrating on Thursday. Now,
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  Speaker 1: you know, he's an actor, he's a writer, producer, He's
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  Speaker 1: got the Tyler Parents studios right here in Atlanta. So
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  Speaker 1: he announced that he was going to be giving away
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  Speaker 1: all this nonperishable items um to the first five thousand
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  Speaker 1: families who came to his studio. Now, the line began
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  Speaker 1: at eight a m. And they were out of supplies
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  Speaker 1: by ten a m. Yeah, the line was down the
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  Speaker 1: street in downtown Atlanta. I think there were there were
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  Speaker 1: thousands and thousands of cards. It just goes to show
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  Speaker 1: you how tough it is for people this season. I mean, Rob,
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  Speaker 1: what do you think about that? It's intense? Think he's
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  Speaker 1: a hero He's an absolute hero, and for for somebody
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  Speaker 1: who makes sort of some silly movies too. I do
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  Speaker 1: love Medea to use all that money, a lot of
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  Speaker 1: that money that he's made making Medea movies, and put
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  Speaker 1: it to just fundamental change and goodness and kindness. I
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  Speaker 1: absolutely adore him. I'm not sure I'm a fan of
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  Speaker 1: him as an artist. I'm not sure it's my thing,
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  Speaker 1: but as a human being, which I think is even
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  Speaker 1: more important. There is no bigger start in my book
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  Speaker 1: than Tyler Perry. Quickly, before we go to break, Kristen
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  Speaker 1: Stewart is speaking out about a debate that's going on
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  Speaker 1: in the acting community. Should should only gay actors play
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  Speaker 1: gay roles? So Kristin says, it is a very gray area.
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  Speaker 1: Somebody like her who has had access to so much work,
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  Speaker 1: she said, she she's young, she's white, she used to
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  Speaker 1: be straighted, not anymore. She's skinny. She's aware that all
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  Speaker 1: that helped her get a lot of work. She all
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  Speaker 1: so too. They would never see somebody's experience being told
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  Speaker 1: by somebody that hadn't lived it. And on the other hand,
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  Speaker 1: again she says, it's a very slippery slope because does
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  Speaker 1: this mean that she can never now play a straight
• 10:15
  Speaker 1: character as somebody who is now out? Could she do that?
• 10:19
  Speaker 1: In conclusion, she said the following, I think it's all
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  Speaker 1: about thinking about what you do and not being an
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  Speaker 1: a whole. This is a tricky one. I mean it's
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  Speaker 1: called acting for a reason. But I do think that
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  Speaker 1: groups that have been historically excluded from getting parts people
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  Speaker 1: of color, gay people, and people that are not skinny men.
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  Speaker 1: Is when roles come up that they can can play,
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  Speaker 1: should they get it? What do you think? Mistake? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: this is very, very complicated, and it happens a lot
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  Speaker 1: in the black community when you have a role and
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  Speaker 1: like the actor, the person you're playing was black, so
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  Speaker 1: maybe we should get a black character. Especially it's even
• 11:04
  Speaker 1: been to the point where it's like this was a
• 11:06
  Speaker 1: dark skinned black person. We need to get a darker
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  Speaker 1: skin and black actress. And people could say, Okay, that's great,
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  Speaker 1: but then how can black actors play roles that don't
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  Speaker 1: seem characteristically of color? And the answer that most people
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  Speaker 1: give is that for a group that's marginalized, we live
• 11:23
  Speaker 1: in a world that's the majority all the time. So
• 11:26
  Speaker 1: we're experiencing your world, we're seeing how it happens, but
• 11:30
  Speaker 1: it doesn't necessarily happen the way back, and it goes
• 11:33
  Speaker 1: back to that point of to make a kinder, happier,
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  Speaker 1: more peaceful world, we have to spend time with people
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  Speaker 1: who don't look like us, who don't sound like us,
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  Speaker 1: who do different things from us, and then we'll all
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  Speaker 1: understand the differences in our culture, our race, our gender,
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  Speaker 1: our orientation. Well said Misty, We're going to take a
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  Speaker 1: quick break and we will be right back. Welcome back
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  Speaker 1: to Ignaughty the Night Show. I'm your host, Rob Shooter,
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  Speaker 1: with our friend Miss D joining us from Georgia. Hey, Misty,
• 12:05
  Speaker 1: let's get to the poles. So, oh, misd this relates
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  Speaker 1: to you, Claire Crawley and Dale Moss, who Miss D
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  Speaker 1: has met. Dale are ignoring the cheating rumors. So there
• 12:18
  Speaker 1: was rumors that he was hooking up with other models,
• 12:22
  Speaker 1: and they've decided to just ignore them. They're not even
• 12:25
  Speaker 1: going to issue a response. What do you think about this?
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  Speaker 1: Should they ignore the rumors or should they clap back?
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  Speaker 1: Sixty six percent said ignore them? Where are you? Misty?
• 12:36
  Speaker 1: I say ignore it? Now. I have met Mr Mars
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  Speaker 1: and I have to say, not only is he gorgeous,
• 12:42
  Speaker 1: but he's incredibly charming. He has this way of making
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  Speaker 1: you feel that you are the only girl in the room.
• 12:48
  Speaker 1: So if somebody is looking from the outside end, it's
• 12:51
  Speaker 1: gonna seem like Dale is only interested in that woman
• 12:55
  Speaker 1: he's speaking to. But we know on his mind he's
• 12:58
  Speaker 1: only thinking about Claire. So yeah, they should just ignore it. Listen,
• 13:02
  Speaker 1: it's the holiday sea to let this cute little couple
• 13:06
  Speaker 1: enjoy their time together the first, you know, Thanksgiving, Christmas,
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  Speaker 1: New Year's. Let them have their fees, taken him home
• 13:14
  Speaker 1: for Thanksgiving. He's going to the family, which I don't
• 13:16
  Speaker 1: think they got to do on her a few episodes
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  Speaker 1: of The Bachelor. Let me ask you, mistake, had I
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  Speaker 1: had a papparazi photographer across the street watching you and
• 13:25
  Speaker 1: Dale have a cup of coffee, couldn't have looked a
• 13:29
  Speaker 1: little flirtatious. Probably. I'm sure I was batting my eyelies
• 13:33
  Speaker 1: and being batting my eyelashes and being like, hmmm, is
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  Speaker 1: he interested? Is he interested? No? I mean I'm a
• 13:43
  Speaker 1: little bit older than him. I mean I know she is.
• 13:47
  Speaker 1: I'm a little bit older than clear, but that's okay. Um,
• 13:50
  Speaker 1: so yeah, no, like I said, he just when he's
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  Speaker 1: listening to you or talking with you. He really does
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  Speaker 1: make sure that he's focused on you. He's just that
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  Speaker 1: kind of guy. Um. And so for Claire, I'm so
• 14:01
  Speaker 1: excited because she was able to see not only is
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  Speaker 1: he that kind of guy, but realized, oh wait a second,
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  Speaker 1: this is just for me. So go on, Claire and Joey,
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  Speaker 1: You're fine. Hey, don't forget to vote on today's poll
• 14:14
  Speaker 1: about Tira Banks making even more changes to Dancing with
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  Speaker 1: the Stars on our Twitter page at Naughty Nice Rob.
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  Speaker 1: At Facebook page is Naughty Gossip. I'm sure to check
• 14:24
  Speaker 1: back tomorrow to hear your results. And now it's time
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  Speaker 1: for the nicest Nicest. Well I have to say after
• 14:35
  Speaker 1: the American Music Awards, I am now the biggest Justin
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  Speaker 1: Bieber fan. I love him, I do, and so of
• 14:43
  Speaker 1: course he is our nicest of the day because he
• 14:46
  Speaker 1: gave romantic birthday wishes to his wife, Haley Baldwin. Of course,
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: he took to social media and he had a tribute there,
• 14:56
  Speaker 1: a slide show of stunning images of his birthday bear,
• 15:00
  Speaker 1: and of course he wrote, now he's the yummy corner,
• 15:03
  Speaker 1: and he wrote something yummy. He said, my eyes are
• 15:05
  Speaker 1: for you. My heart is for you, my soul is
• 15:09
  Speaker 1: for you, my love is for you. I am home
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: wherever you are. You are my safe place. I am
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  Speaker 1: completely and utterly obsessed with who you are. My biggest
• 15:21
  Speaker 1: dream is growing old with you, just to me. But
• 15:25
  Speaker 1: that's a long time too, because he's only like twenty seven.
• 15:28
  Speaker 1: He's still a baby. I gotta say, I don't think
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  Speaker 1: I I'm quite as into him as you, Misdy. But
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: he did open the show pretty spectacularly. I forgot what
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  Speaker 1: a great singer. Oh my god, I know, I know,
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: too bad. The ratings were not very good, as Misty
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: told us. And now it's time for a naughtiest stuff today.
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: Nought noughty, Prince Harry, it's just lending the cottage from
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  Speaker 1: more House to Princess Eugenie. So we broke the news
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  Speaker 1: that Eugenie and her husband are moving into Prince Harry
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  Speaker 1: and Megan Markle's UK residents. Remember the Queen gave them
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  Speaker 1: Frogmore Cottage on the estates of Windsor. Well, now the
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  Speaker 1: Sexes have loaned it to Eugenie. However, when they are
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  Speaker 1: back in London, they do expect, I guess to sleep
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  Speaker 1: on the couch maybe they've got to spare room. This
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  Speaker 1: is why they're the naughtiest. It's not theirs to give them.
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  Speaker 1: It is owned by the Queen, so the Queen lets
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  Speaker 1: them stay there rent free. It's her property. It gets
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  Speaker 1: a little bit complicated because the Queen does not own
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  Speaker 1: Buckingham Palace. It belongs to the Crown Estates, which basically
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  Speaker 1: means the people. So the Queen couldn't decide to put
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: Bookingham Palace up for sale, like if she needed a
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  Speaker 1: little extra cash. She can't sell it. It's not hers.
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  Speaker 1: She can't sell the crown jewels. They're not really hers,
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  Speaker 1: windsor castle is hers. It's a private residence. If she
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  Speaker 1: wanted to sell it, technically she could. But the cottage,
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  Speaker 1: I mean it's a mansion, but they call it the cottage.
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  Speaker 1: The cottage on the grounds wasn't really Harris to give
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  Speaker 1: a Where have you ever given something away, mistery that
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  Speaker 1: wasn't really yours to give? I'm sure I have. I
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  Speaker 1: don't have to think about it for a moment, but
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  Speaker 1: I'm thinking back to this cottage situation. You know, obviously
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  Speaker 1: I haven't been in my apartment in New York City
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  Speaker 1: for a while, so I do tend to have friends
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  Speaker 1: go and just kind of stay there just to keep
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: an eye on the place because I'm not there. I
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: want to make sure that no robberts popping, So I
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: kind of understand where Harry and Megan are coming from. There, like,
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  Speaker 1: just keep an eye on the cottage, you know, run
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  Speaker 1: the toilet every once in a while and make sure
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  Speaker 1: it's still working. I don't know, you're too generous. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: it's time for a moment of rob You get a rob,
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  Speaker 1: get Robb, you get rob you do, thank you very much.
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  Speaker 1: For twenty minutes, so we try to make you a
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  Speaker 1: giggle or laugh, but for a minute or a moment,
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  Speaker 1: we're a little bit more serious. So it feels great
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  Speaker 1: to admit it really just feel great to admit that
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  Speaker 1: you need a little help and you have to keep trying.
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  Speaker 1: It took the smartest person I've ever met to teach
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  Speaker 1: me that. It was Jessica Simpson. I used to went
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  Speaker 1: for jess jess got knocked down a lot, and she
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  Speaker 1: did it publicly. She always got back up, and she
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  Speaker 1: was never ashamed to admit she needed a little bit
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  Speaker 1: of help. The only chance any of us have, only
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  Speaker 1: chance any of us have of living a good life,
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  Speaker 1: of being happy is when we keep trying. We've got
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  Speaker 1: to get back up and we've gotta keep trying. And
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  Speaker 1: it's fine if we need a little bit of help.
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  Speaker 1: How are you misty at asking for a helping can?
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  Speaker 1: I've learned you have to ask for help. And I
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  Speaker 1: think back to Gossip Table. You know, it was a
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  Speaker 1: tough roote for me at the beginning because I just
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  Speaker 1: wasn't sure like how to deliver a story in the
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  Speaker 1: best way. And I spoke to one of our producers, Rob,
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  Speaker 1: and I gotta give her her prose and asked her
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  Speaker 1: how can I do my job better? And she gave
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  Speaker 1: me such a clear and concise answer. It was so simple.
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  Speaker 1: She said, make sure each story you give actually gives
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  Speaker 1: a payoff. And once she told me that, it changed
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  Speaker 1: everything for me. And of course your advice, Rob, that
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  Speaker 1: you gave me all the regular So don't be afraid
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  Speaker 1: to ask for help. Most of the time people are like, sure,
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  Speaker 1: let me help you. I want you to do the
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  Speaker 1: best you can. I think we fear that people are
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  Speaker 1: going to be like, oh, are you not smart? You
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  Speaker 1: couldn't figure this out on your own. But I think
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  Speaker 1: people want us to succeed, and so they're willing to
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  Speaker 1: give us the help that we need. Yes, and if
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  Speaker 1: they don't want you to succeed, most people are such narcissists.
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  Speaker 1: They love to tal walk. I love people asking me
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  Speaker 1: for help us. It gives me a chance to rattle
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  Speaker 1: on for twenty minutes and pontificate and make myself feel
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  Speaker 1: like I'm really smarter that I know. Ask for help,
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  Speaker 1: people will give it you. It doesn't matter why. They
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  Speaker 1: might give it you because they're they're an eager maniacle.
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  Speaker 1: They might give it you because they genuinely want to
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  Speaker 1: help you. Either way, you will get the help you need.
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