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- 0:03Speaker 1: On November fourteenth, twenty nineteen, a septic contractor named Rebecca
- 0:09Speaker 1: Tillman was working the yard at for Ashford Glen Court
- 0:12Speaker 1: in Portsmouth, Ohio when she spotted something near the fence line.
- 0:17Speaker 1: It was a photograph, cut cleanly with scissors, propped behind
- 0:21Speaker 1: a frost killed rose bush, partially hidden by dead leaves.
- 0:24Speaker 1: In the photograph, people were missing, not blurred, not damaged
- 0:29Speaker 1: by weather, removed. She photographed it before she touched it.
- 0:33Speaker 1: That detail matters, because what investigators would piece together over
- 0:37Speaker 1: the following days was not a burglary. Nothing had been taken,
- 0:42Speaker 1: not in the ordinary sense. What had happened inside that
- 0:45Speaker 1: colonial house on Ashford Glen Court was far more specific,
- 0:49Speaker 1: far more patient, and far harder to name. Forty one
- 0:53Speaker 1: original framed photographs had been quietly removed from Kelly Stevens's
- 0:58Speaker 1: home over the course of roughly four months. Each one replaced,
- 1:02Speaker 1: some with altered faces, some with different people staged in
- 1:07Speaker 1: familiar settings, some with Kelly herself cropped out entirely, leaving
- 1:12Speaker 1: only the background she had stood in front of for years.
- 1:15Speaker 1: The originals were not destroyed. They were preserved. That is
- 1:19Speaker 1: the detail that stays with you whoever did this wanted
- 1:22Speaker 1: Kelly Stephens to doubt her own memory of her own
- 1:25Speaker 1: life and wanted to keep the evidence of the original
- 1:28Speaker 1: for themselves. This is how one person dismantled another person's reality,
- 1:33Speaker 1: one frame at a time. Kelly Stephens was forty four
- 1:37Speaker 1: years old in twenty nineteen, living in a two story
- 1:41Speaker 1: colonial at four Ashford Glencourt in Portsmouth, Ohio. She worked
- 1:46Speaker 1: in accounts receivable. She had been divorced since twenty fifteen.
- 1:50Speaker 1: Her daughter, Page was seventeen that year, a high school
- 1:53Speaker 1: junior with her own orbit of school and friends. Kelly's
- 1:57Speaker 1: household ran on precision, not the anxious kind, the earned kind,
- 2:02Speaker 1: the rhythm of a woman who had rebuilt her life
- 2:05Speaker 1: on her own terms after a difficult divorce and knew
- 2:08Speaker 1: exactly how to keep it steady. Her cat Briscoe, was
- 2:12Speaker 1: twelve years old and on hyper thyroid medication twice a
- 2:17Speaker 1: day every day, at six fifteen in the morning and
- 2:21Speaker 1: six fifteen in the evening. Kelly administered the dose. Her
- 2:25Speaker 1: veterinarian doctor Nolan, had documented the medication record. In fourteen months,
- 2:31Speaker 1: she had never missed a single administration. That consistency is
- 2:35Speaker 1: not a small thing. It is the foundation of everything
- 2:39Speaker 1: that follows, because the argument that would later take shape,
- 2:43Speaker 1: the suggestion that Kelly was confused forgetful, unreliable about the
- 2:48Speaker 1: details of her own home, ran directly against a fourteen
- 2:52Speaker 1: month medical record that said otherwise. She met Thomas Donnelly
- 2:55Speaker 1: in April of twenty nineteen on Route nine. He stopped
- 2:59Speaker 1: to help. He presented himself as a recently widowed HVAC worker,
- 3:05Speaker 1: a man raising a daughter of his own, someone who
- 3:08Speaker 1: understood what it meant to manage a household alone. The
- 3:13Speaker 1: connection felt natural. By May, they were dating. By summer,
- 3:17Speaker 1: he was spending weekends and evenings at Ashford Glencourt regularly.
- 3:22Speaker 1: Kelly knew his schedule as well as her own, or
- 3:25Speaker 1: thought she did. In August of twenty nineteen, she began
- 3:29Speaker 1: seeing a therapist named Ryan Hoffman, a licensed clinical social
- 3:33Speaker 1: worker in Portsmouth. The reason she gave was persistent disorientation,
- 3:39Speaker 1: a sense that small things in her home were slightly off,
- 3:43Speaker 1: a photograph at a different angle, a color that didn't
- 3:46Speaker 1: look right, a memory that didn't match what she was seeing.
- 3:51Speaker 1: She described it as the feeling of walking into a
- 3:54Speaker 1: room and not quite trusting what you found there. Hoffmann listened,
- 4:00Speaker 1: took notes. After their second session, he wrote a single
- 4:03Speaker 1: word in the margin of his file replacement. In September
- 4:07Speaker 1: he added a second word external. He did not yet
- 4:11Speaker 1: know about the photographs. He would not know for months,
- 4:14Speaker 1: but something in what Kelly was describing had already told
- 4:18Speaker 1: him that the disorientation she felt was not coming from
- 4:21Speaker 1: inside her. It was being installed from outside. Kelly kept
- 4:26Speaker 1: going to therapy. She kept giving Briscoe his medication at
- 4:30Speaker 1: six fifteen, twice a day without fail She kept working,
- 4:34Speaker 1: kept maintaining the house, kept being the steady, methodical person
- 4:39Speaker 1: she had always been, and Thomas Donnelly kept coming back.
- 4:43Speaker 1: The first image that didn't add up was small enough
- 4:45Speaker 1: to dismiss. Late June of twenty nineteen, some time after
- 4:49Speaker 1: Thomas had begun spending weekends at Ashford Glen Court, a
- 4:53Speaker 1: framed photograph on the hallway wall sat at a slightly
- 4:56Speaker 1: different angle. Kelly noticed it the way you noticed it,
- 5:00Speaker 1: crooked picture in a hotel room, a flicker of wrong
- 5:03Speaker 1: than nothing. She straightened, She moved on, but the images
- 5:07Speaker 1: kept coming, and with each one, Kelly's sense of reality
- 5:11Speaker 1: began to fray. A wedding photograph on the mantle showed
- 5:14Speaker 1: Kelly's face at a color temperature that didn't match the
- 5:18Speaker 1: light in the original memory. A print in Page's old
- 5:21Speaker 1: room had a shadow where there hadn't been one. A
- 5:25Speaker 1: family portrait near the staircase felt compressed, narrower than Kelly remembered,
- 5:30Speaker 1: as though the frame had quietly swallowed something at the edges.
- 5:35Speaker 1: None of these things were proof of anything that was
- 5:38Speaker 1: exactly the problem. Thomas was the one who had access
- 5:41Speaker 1: to the house when Kelly worked late. He knew the
- 5:44Speaker 1: six fifteen alarm. He knew that Briscoe's medication schedule was
- 5:48Speaker 1: the fixed point of Kelly's day, the one moment she
- 5:51Speaker 1: would always be occupied, always in the kitchen, always looking
- 5:55Speaker 1: at the cat and not the walls. He had been
- 5:58Speaker 1: inside the house enough to know its rhythms better than
- 6:01Speaker 1: any stranger would, and he had been insided for months
- 6:05Speaker 1: before anyone looked at a single frame. The replacement work,
- 6:08Speaker 1: according to the investigation's later reconstruction, ran from late June
- 6:13Speaker 1: through mid October of twenty nineteen, roughly four months. Forty
- 6:18Speaker 1: one photographs. Thomas used legitimate access, not forced entry, no
- 6:23Speaker 1: broken locks, no pride windows, just a man with a
- 6:27Speaker 1: key and a schedule he had memorized moving through rooms
- 6:31Speaker 1: that trusted him. The mechanics were deliberate. Some reprints had
- 6:36Speaker 1: Kelly's face altered, eyes cropped, expression subtly off. Some staged
- 6:42Speaker 1: entirely different people in scenes that had been hers. At
- 6:45Speaker 1: least one original showed Kelly removed from the frame altogether,
- 6:50Speaker 1: leaving only the context around her, the dock, the water,
- 6:54Speaker 1: the summer light, but not the woman who had stood there.
- 6:58Speaker 1: That particular photograph was never reprinted. Instead, Thomas cut it
- 7:03Speaker 1: with scissors. He removed the figures with precision, then left
- 7:08Speaker 1: the cut piece propped against the fence behind a frost
- 7:10Speaker 1: killed rose bush on the far edge of the yard.
- 7:13Speaker 1: It was an early method. He abandoned it he moved
- 7:17Speaker 1: on to reprints. He did not throw the original away.
- 7:20Speaker 1: On November fourteenth, twenty nineteen, a septic contractor named Rebecca
- 7:26Speaker 1: Tillman was working the back corner of the property at
- 7:30Speaker 1: for Ashford Glen Court. She found the piece of photograph
- 7:33Speaker 1: before she touched it, she photographed it first with her phone,
- 7:37Speaker 1: the cut edges, the fence post, the dead rose canes
- 7:41Speaker 1: around it. Then she called. Five days later, on November nineteenth,
- 7:46Speaker 1: Thomas Donnelly was arrested. The charge was unrelated probable cause,
- 7:51Speaker 1: investigators had not yet connected him to the photographs. That
- 7:55Speaker 1: connection came in the second interrogation session, when Detective Arcas
- 8:00Speaker 1: Pruett of the Portsmouth Police Department set forty one photographs
- 8:04Speaker 1: on the table and waited. Thomas confessed, but the originals
- 8:08Speaker 1: were still missing for seven days, investigators searched for them.
- 8:13Speaker 1: What they found on day seven was a storage unit
- 8:16Speaker 1: on the south side of Portsmouth registered to a name
- 8:19Speaker 1: that did not appear in any case file yet Thomas D.
- 8:24Speaker 1: Merrit inside forty one original framed photographs from four Ashford
- 8:28Speaker 1: Glen Court, wrapped in moving blankets, arranged in chronological order,
- 8:33Speaker 1: not destroyed, not hidden, carelessly arranged. When Ryan Hoffman learned
- 8:39Speaker 1: about the storage unit, the originals preserved, sequenced, held, he
- 8:44Speaker 1: told investigators something they hadn't asked him directly. He said
- 8:48Speaker 1: it sounded like someone who wanted to hold the original
- 8:51Speaker 1: while presenting the world with the copy. Hoffman had written
- 8:54Speaker 1: the word replacement after Kelly's second therapy session. He had
- 8:58Speaker 1: written external a month later, in September, still without knowing
- 9:04Speaker 1: about a single photograph. The notes weren't a diagnosis. They
- 9:08Speaker 1: were in observation that the disorientation Kelly described did not
- 9:13Speaker 1: feel like something generated from within her. It felt installed.
- 9:18Speaker 1: And now there were forty one pieces of evidence that
- 9:21Speaker 1: it had been. Kelly had never missed a medication dose
- 9:25Speaker 1: fourteen months, six fifteen morning and evening, doctor Mannett. In
- 9:30Speaker 1: doctor Nolan's veterinary records, every alarm answered, the same woman
- 9:35Speaker 1: who couldn't trust her own eyes in her own hallway
- 9:38Speaker 1: had not missed a single scheduled moment in over a year.
- 9:42Speaker 1: That record mattered to Detective Prude. It meant the forgetting
- 9:46Speaker 1: wasn't Kelly's. The version of Kelly that existed in her
- 9:49Speaker 1: own home, confused, doubting, quietly, unmoored, had been built for
- 9:54Speaker 1: her picture. Thomas Donnelly in that interrogation room, seated across
- 9:58Speaker 1: from Detective Pruet forty one photographs arranged on the table
- 10:02Speaker 1: between them. The simplest read of what Thomas did is surveillance.
- 10:07Speaker 1: A man gains access to a woman's home, documents its interior,
- 10:11Speaker 1: perhaps to sell what he learns, perhaps to use it
- 10:15Speaker 1: later in some financial play. That version almost holds he
- 10:19Speaker 1: did compromise financial accounts Kelly had not yet discovered. He
- 10:24Speaker 1: did use an alias, he did operate on a schedule
- 10:28Speaker 1: that required precise intelligence about her movements. But that version
- 10:33Speaker 1: collapses the moment you look at the storage unit. A
- 10:36Speaker 1: surveillance operation extracts and discards. It does not wrap forty
- 10:41Speaker 1: one original photographs in moving blankets and arrange them by
- 10:45Speaker 1: date in a rented unit. It does not preserve, It
- 10:48Speaker 1: does not sequence, theft of opportunity, does not keep the
- 10:52Speaker 1: thing it takes more carefully than the original owner kept it.
- 10:56Speaker 1: Picture the unit on day seven of the investigation. Not
- 11:00Speaker 1: a dump, not a cash but something closer to an archive.
- 11:04Speaker 1: Each frame wrapped, each one in order, registered under a
- 11:09Speaker 1: name Thomas D. Merritt, that Thomas had apparently held in
- 11:13Speaker 1: reserve for exactly this purpose. Now, picture the reprints on
- 11:17Speaker 1: Kelly's walls, her face cropped at the eyes, or removed entirely,
- 11:22Speaker 1: or replaced by strangers in her own frames. Hoffmann's word
- 11:26Speaker 1: was replacement, not removal, not theft. Replacement, the substitution of
- 11:32Speaker 1: one version for another, while the original is held somewhere
- 11:37Speaker 1: only one person can reach. Three weeks after Thomas's arrest,
- 11:42Speaker 1: a woman named Christine Yardley, called the tip Line. She
- 11:45Speaker 1: was thirty eight from Dayton. In twenty fourteen. She had
- 11:49Speaker 1: hired a house sitter for approximately six weeks, a man
- 11:53Speaker 1: who called himself Thomas Donnelly. After she moved, she found
- 11:57Speaker 1: photographs interior angle photograph of her home that she had
- 12:01Speaker 1: never taken. The case from twenty fourteen remains open. Investigators
- 12:06Speaker 1: do not fully know in their own words what Thomas
- 12:10Speaker 1: was building. That phrase, what Thomas was building is the
- 12:14Speaker 1: one that resists a clean answer, because every scenario that
- 12:18Speaker 1: fits part of the evidence leaves something unexplained. Financial motive
- 12:23Speaker 1: explains the account compromise, but not the preservation. Surveillance explains
- 12:28Speaker 1: the access and the schedule, but not the arrangement. Control
- 12:33Speaker 1: explains the psychological erosion, the slow replacement of Kelly's reality
- 12:38Speaker 1: with aversion she couldn't quite recognize, but it doesn't fully
- 12:42Speaker 1: account for why the originals were kept at all, cataloged protected.
- 12:47Speaker 1: What investigators confirmed is this, Thomas Donnelly systematically replaced the
- 12:52Speaker 1: visual record of Kelly's life inside her own home across
- 12:56Speaker 1: four months, using access she gave him willingly. He press
- 13:00Speaker 1: deserved what he took. He used a name that wasn't
- 13:02Speaker 1: his to hold it, and he had done something similar
- 13:06Speaker 1: five years earlier to a woman in Dayton who didn't
- 13:09Speaker 1: know his real name. Either. What he intended to do
- 13:11Speaker 1: with the archive, whether Kelly was ever meant to find it,
- 13:15Speaker 1: or find it differently, or never find it at all,
- 13:18Speaker 1: was not established in the confession or in the four
- 13:21Speaker 1: counts to which he pleaded guilty in March of twenty twenty.
- 13:25Speaker 1: The forty one originals were returned to Kelly in June
- 13:28Speaker 1: of twenty twenty by the evidence unit. The doc photograph
- 13:32Speaker 1: was not re hung, the case closed on paper. In
- 13:35Speaker 1: March of twenty twenty, Thomas Donnelly entered a guilty plea
- 13:39Speaker 1: to four counts criminal trespass, tampering and two counts of
- 13:43Speaker 1: identity fraud tied to financial accounts Kelly had not yet
- 13:46Speaker 1: discovered were compromised. He confessed the photograph project in a
- 13:50Speaker 1: second interrogation session with Detective Marcus Pruett, after Pruitt laid
- 13:55Speaker 1: all forty one originals across the table in front of him,
- 14:00Speaker 1: in the same chronological order Thomas himself had used in
- 14:03Speaker 1: the storage unit. That detail matters. Pruitt didn't ask Thomas
- 14:08Speaker 1: to explain the photographs. He simply placed them there, one
- 14:12Speaker 1: by one and waited. The confession followed. The storage unit
- 14:16Speaker 1: had been found on day seven of the inquiry on
- 14:19Speaker 1: Portsmith's South Side, registered to a name that didn't exist,
- 14:24Speaker 1: Thomas D. Merrit inside forty one original framed photographs from
- 14:29Speaker 1: four Ashford Glen Court, each one wrapped in moving blankets,
- 14:33Speaker 1: arranged in order, the same photographs Kelly had been looking
- 14:36Speaker 1: at for months without knowing they were gone. Every original intact,
- 14:41Speaker 1: not one had been destroyed. That fact, the preservation, is
- 14:46Speaker 1: the detail that resisted. Every clean explanation investigators offered. Financial
- 14:51Speaker 1: motive could account for the compromised accounts, The precise knowledge
- 14:55Speaker 1: of Kelly's schedule, her six fifteen medication alarm, her late shifts,
- 15:00Speaker 1: her routines. All of that fit a surveillance frame. But
- 15:03Speaker 1: neither of those theories explains why a man who spent
- 15:06Speaker 1: four months systematically replacing the visual record of someone's life
- 15:10Speaker 1: would then drive the originals to a rented unit, wrap
- 15:14Speaker 1: them carefully and file them in order. Ryan Hoffman, Kelly's therapist,
- 15:19Speaker 1: was consulted by investigators specifically on that point. His interpretation
- 15:24Speaker 1: was precise. He described it as the behavior of someone
- 15:28Speaker 1: who wanted to hold the original while presenting the world
- 15:31Speaker 1: with the copy not destruction possession. Hoffman had written the
- 15:36Speaker 1: word replacement in his notes after Kelly's second session in
- 15:41Speaker 1: August of twenty nineteen, in pass months before anyone knew
- 15:45Speaker 1: what was happening on the walls of for Ashford Glen Court,
- 15:49Speaker 1: he had written external in September, his clinical intuition had
- 15:53Speaker 1: outpaced the evidence by two months. That gap is not
- 15:57Speaker 1: a comfort. Three weeks after Thomas's wars rest, Christine Yardley
- 16:01Speaker 1: called the tip line from Dayton. She was thirty eight
- 16:06Speaker 1: in twenty fourteen. She had employed a house sitter for
- 16:09Speaker 1: approximately six weeks, a man who gave his name as
- 16:13Speaker 1: Thomas Donnelly. After she moved, she found photographs she had
- 16:17Speaker 1: never taken, interior angle shots of her own home. The
- 16:21Speaker 1: two Thoy fourteen case remains open. Investigators stated plainly that
- 16:27Speaker 1: they do not fully know what Thomas was building across
- 16:30Speaker 1: these cases or across these years. What the record confirms
- 16:35Speaker 1: is narrower than what the record implies. Thomas Donnelly entered
- 16:39Speaker 1: Kelly's life in April of twenty nineteen, built her trust
- 16:43Speaker 1: across spring and summer, and began replacing her photographs in
- 16:47Speaker 1: late June. He used legitimate access evenings weekends the windows
- 16:53Speaker 1: her schedule created to remove forty one originals over four months.
- 16:58Speaker 1: He altered some reprints, cropped, eyes, shifted, expressions, faces removed.
- 17:04Speaker 1: He left the dock photograph by the fence behind a
- 17:07Speaker 1: frost killed rose bush, an early experiment he abandoned before
- 17:11Speaker 1: the substitution method was refined. He held the originals under
- 17:15Speaker 1: a false name, He compromised financial accounts she had not
- 17:19Speaker 1: yet found, and he had operated under at least one
- 17:22Speaker 1: other alias in at least one other city at least
- 17:26Speaker 1: five years before Page. Stephens was in college by the
- 17:29Speaker 1: time this story became fully known. Briscoe thirteen now still
- 17:34Speaker 1: receives his medication at six fifteen in the morning and
- 17:38Speaker 1: six fifteen at night. The forty one originals were returned
- 17:41Speaker 1: to Kelly by the evidence unit in June of twenty twenty.
- 17:45Speaker 1: The doc photograph was not re hung. There is a
- 17:48Speaker 1: question this case leaves that the guilty plea did not answer,
- 17:52Speaker 1: and the charges did not require anyone to answer. What
- 17:56Speaker 1: was the end point not what Thomas did? That is
- 18:00Speaker 1: document forty one photographs deep wrapped in moving blankets, but
- 18:05Speaker 1: what the completed version was supposed to look like, whether
- 18:08Speaker 1: Kelly was meant to eventually see a home that no
- 18:11Speaker 1: longer matched any memory she trusted, whether the financial compromise
- 18:16Speaker 1: was the destination or a side project, whether the archive
- 18:20Speaker 1: in the storage unit was a trophy or a draft.
- 18:24Speaker 1: Investigators used the phrase what Thomas was building and left
- 18:28Speaker 1: it open. That openness is not a rhetorical device. It
- 18:32Speaker 1: reflects a genuine limit in what the confession produced and
- 18:36Speaker 1: what the charges required him to explain. What is not
- 18:39Speaker 1: open is what Kelly experienced. For months, she sat in
- 18:43Speaker 1: Ryan Hoffman's office and described a feeling she could not locate,
- 18:47Speaker 1: a persistent sense that her own home did not match
- 18:50Speaker 1: her recollection of it. She had been to therapy since
- 18:53Speaker 1: August of twenty nineteen, working to understand why her memory
- 18:57Speaker 1: felt unreliable, why familiar rooms produced to low grade wrongness
- 19:01Speaker 1: she couldn't name. The wrongness was real, Her memory was
- 19:05Speaker 1: not failing her. The house had changed forty one times.
- 19:09Speaker 1: At minimum, the house had changed, and the man responsible
- 19:13Speaker 1: had been sitting across from her at dinner, questioning her recollections,
- 19:17Speaker 1: framing her disorientation as stress. That is the mechanism that
- 19:22Speaker 1: makes this case distinct from trespass or fraud. The photographs
- 19:26Speaker 1: on the walls were not simply moved. They were replaced
- 19:29Speaker 1: with versions designed to produce doubt, cropped eyes, altered expressions,
- 19:34Speaker 1: familiar scenes with something slightly off, and each time Kelly
- 19:38Speaker 1: looked at one and felt that small wrongness, Thomas was
- 19:41Speaker 1: positioned to explain it away. Her perception was the target,
- 19:45Speaker 1: not just her home. Joanne Calder noticed the aspect ratio.
- 19:50Speaker 1: Rebecca Tillman photographed the dock before touching it. Sandra Kurtz
- 19:54Speaker 1: remembered the white pickup. Ryan Hoffmann wrote one word in
- 19:58Speaker 1: a margin the case. It broke because people paid attention
- 20:01Speaker 1: to small things that didn't fit, and because they trusted
- 20:05Speaker 1: what they noticed. Kelly Stevens paid attention to small things.
- 20:09Speaker 1: For months, she was told repeatedly that she was misremembering
- 20:14Speaker 1: she wasn't. This show is made by Hobo Media