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What skill did you have to learn as a parent because of your child? · Anele and the Club on 947

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  Speaker 1: Wake up with a bang and the club on nine
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  Speaker 1: four seven.
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  Speaker 2: If you've just joined us, you are just in time
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  Speaker 2: to hear what could have easily turned out to be
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  Speaker 2: the worst moment of my life.
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  Speaker 3: All Right, this is really scary stuff.
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  Speaker 1: It's really scary stuff.
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  Speaker 2: I went to Greece thinking that I'm there to drink
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  Speaker 2: April spirits and wear linen.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, it turns out I was auditioning.
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  Speaker 2: I was going to audition to be the latest member
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  Speaker 2: of Baywatch.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, what happened? So beautiful day, right, A tad.
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  Speaker 3: Windy, Okay, like the Mediterranean breeze.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a little bit of a strong breeze. And
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  Speaker 1: that day, the.
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  Speaker 2: Birthday, goal Ahead hired a boat in Greece.
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  Speaker 1: And Mechanosa birth.
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  Speaker 2: They goes hired a boat, takes about twenty two of
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  Speaker 2: us on this thing.
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  Speaker 1: Off we go.
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  Speaker 2: Then we dark somewhere and and uh, there's two guys
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  Speaker 2: who are running the ship, the captain and another guy
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  Speaker 2: who was helping him out. And it's nice and they
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  Speaker 2: Bryan prawns and they're just making.
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  Speaker 4: They're just making like this spread right, right, I don't know,
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  Speaker 4: this is what I'm imagining, right, And Chisel.
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  Speaker 2: Chisel, Tan, good, gold and browning little. The music is playing.
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  Speaker 2: I know my husband had played the national anthem was
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  Speaker 2: the first song that played, and all sang this national anthem,
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  Speaker 2: you know, a beautiful day. The kids decide, oh, they're
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  Speaker 2: getting in the water.
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  Speaker 4: Because at the point you've talked now and now everyone
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  Speaker 4: can jump in the sea.
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  Speaker 2: And what's nice about you know, the Mediterranean and water
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  Speaker 2: is that it looks like one.
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  Speaker 4: Big swimming pool and it's like that it's got that turquoise.
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  Speaker 2: Greeny you can see all the way to the bottom.
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  Speaker 2: Stunning water feels good. Kids go in and they're playing
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  Speaker 2: with that little scooter that takes you underwater. And then
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  Speaker 2: it's like almost holding an electric skateboard.
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  Speaker 3: Right, that's cool, that's fan and.
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  Speaker 1: You're holding on both sides.
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  Speaker 2: So they're using that and they're going around the boat
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  Speaker 2: and oh, it's fun times, fun times.
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  Speaker 1: But I'd said, and.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, oh, this current looks like it's a
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  Speaker 2: bit strong, right, But the current looks like it's a
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  Speaker 2: bit strong.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm I'm on watching kids duty.
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  Speaker 2: But I knew I was going to swim, but I
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  Speaker 2: didn't know I was going to have to swim that quickly. Right,
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  Speaker 2: because then I like him, my son. He's swimming, but
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  Speaker 2: he's close. Then I'm like, no, man, but he's not
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  Speaker 2: so close. But then he's swimming towards the boat. So
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  Speaker 2: in my mind, I'm like, okay, I like it can swim,
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  Speaker 2: so it's all good. And he's swimming towards the boat.
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  Speaker 2: But I'm looking at him and I'm like, but now
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  Speaker 2: you've been swimming for a while towards this boat, but
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  Speaker 2: you're not getting closer to this boat, and you are
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  Speaker 2: just drifting away.
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  Speaker 5: Which is the worst thing apparently that could happen, by
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  Speaker 5: the way, like.
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  Speaker 2: That, so I, you know, cost my mom goes in
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  Speaker 2: where I'm like, I like a swim and I think
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  Speaker 2: I even me saying that I made him panic because
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  Speaker 2: then he looked around.
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  Speaker 3: And realized it's he's not winning.
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  Speaker 2: He's not winning, and he's drifting away from the boat,
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  Speaker 2: which is safety for him.
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  Speaker 4: But there's nothing scarier than when you're in the water
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  Speaker 4: and you're swimming and you just feel yourself going backwards.
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  Speaker 2: Her and he just for the first time, looked little.
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  Speaker 2: He didn't look like, you know, like like it's a
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  Speaker 2: sturdy boy.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, he just looked little.
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  Speaker 2: And his head is just bobbing, and this water is
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  Speaker 2: just taking him away.
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  Speaker 5: You saw your baby, dude.
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  Speaker 2: I then I just didn't I didn't even go down
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  Speaker 2: because there was stairs that you go down and then
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  Speaker 2: to dive off.
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  Speaker 1: I literally just jumped over the jumped over.
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  Speaker 2: The boat and I just started swimming towards him because
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  Speaker 2: I was you know, also don't want him to panic,
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  Speaker 2: because when you get to somebody who's panicking and water,
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  Speaker 2: then they can also.
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  Speaker 1: Take you down.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's too late for this, I can imagine now.
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  Speaker 3: The panic is.
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  Speaker 2: Everything is going through my head that my dad guys,
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  Speaker 2: what is my dad going to say?
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  Speaker 1: So I swim past him.
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  Speaker 3: Well that's easy because you're going with the current.
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  Speaker 6: And I'm strong now.
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  Speaker 2: So I swim past him and I come around and
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  Speaker 2: then he kind of like bashes.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, but they're not strong like literally.
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  Speaker 2: So then then I hold him by his bum and
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  Speaker 2: I push him and.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, swam.
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  Speaker 2: Then I'm swimming behind him, and when I get to him,
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  Speaker 2: I push him again and then I swim so I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: so he's got me pushing and him badly.
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  Speaker 6: So you're pushing against the carriage and you're managing to
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  Speaker 6: do this yes, wow, mom, guys, Mom's.
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  Speaker 4: And then but how far? How far had he drifted
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  Speaker 4: from the boat, Like are we talking about?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know very far?
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  Speaker 5: Where's everyone else?
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  Speaker 2: They're like standing there their eyes are like because everybody
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  Speaker 2: else was on the board. It's just the kids who
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  Speaker 2: were on the on the place where we dive over.
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  Speaker 1: And and then the one guy is like one of Georgia.
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  Speaker 3: Where is Georgian?
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  Speaker 4: This is what I was about to ask you, where
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  Speaker 4: are they Georgians?
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  Speaker 1: Tallius?
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  Speaker 2: One of them was Bryan and then the other one
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  Speaker 2: was with us.
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  Speaker 1: But he was like, this is what that hope is for.
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  Speaker 3: Fair this life boy. Throw the life boy there.
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  Speaker 1: They're true.
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  Speaker 2: There were two big bags of they look like stand
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  Speaker 2: bags that were floating that had a long road tied
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  Speaker 2: to the to the boat. And it's like, yeah, Goden's
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  Speaker 2: very strong.
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  Speaker 1: This is what it's for.
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  Speaker 6: He's like Africans look at them causing driving it's not
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  Speaker 6: durban so and.
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  Speaker 3: They also fine ends well.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, but literally Wonga, who is the strongest swimmer out.
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  Speaker 3: Of all the also the oldest is also the oldest.
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  Speaker 2: He said to me, Yo, I've never seen a panic
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  Speaker 2: like that.
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  Speaker 1: He's like you and it's like he's like he sees it.
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  Speaker 2: He's like, you were fine because like also the life jacket, right,
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  Speaker 2: you were fine until you realize like it's no longer
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  Speaker 2: closer to the close the boat. Everybody else's closed the
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  Speaker 2: boat because I'm there to make sure that they closed
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  Speaker 2: the boat. Then I was like, no, man, but now
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  Speaker 2: he's far.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, he's going on his un Mediterranean tours to from
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  Speaker 4: Greece to Italy.
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  Speaker 2: That's when we realized that it's not a swimming bullet,
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  Speaker 2: it is actually the ocean.
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  Speaker 5: Did you get back on the boat and ever cry.
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  Speaker 3: No, I was actually had a lamb chopped. You have
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  Speaker 3: a lamb chop.
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  Speaker 1: And and and and a little favorage.
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  Speaker 5: Well said, goodness, you didn't have one before.
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  Speaker 1: I just a little and then I just stayed in
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  Speaker 1: the water.
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  Speaker 2: Then I was like the furthest from from the boat,
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  Speaker 2: and there was a rule everybody must stay in here
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  Speaker 2: where I can see you. I stayed in the water
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  Speaker 2: for the entire two hours.
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  Speaker 6: Those kids were in the water being the line of dmage.
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  Speaker 6: You were a literal lifeguard.
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  Speaker 2: Literally, I just and then they were like kids, how
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  Speaker 2: do you Because to stay in the water, you must
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  Speaker 2: obviously taddle like you know, you must keep you must
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  Speaker 2: keep afloat, and they just impressed that I could do that.
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  Speaker 2: For two hours, I was like, no, I was on adrenaline.
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  Speaker 2: That one of you was going to return to South
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  Speaker 2: Africa in a box and I could not have I
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  Speaker 2: could not have that.
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  Speaker 5: Oh the Illuminati rumors. Can you imagine my word?
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  Speaker 2: But then when I was telling people the story, somebody
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  Speaker 2: said they literally learned how to swim purely because they
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  Speaker 2: hold liked swimming so much. And she said, I didn't
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  Speaker 2: know how to swim, but because my child liked it
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  Speaker 2: so much, I had to learn because if something like
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  Speaker 2: this happens as a parent, you'd never forgive yourself that
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  Speaker 2: you couldn't go in to save your child.
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  Speaker 6: Of course, Well, I'm a friend who was a swimming
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  Speaker 6: instructor at like a gym black place, and she was
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  Speaker 6: saying what what they saw was people who had had
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  Speaker 6: kids who couldn't swim also signed up for classes immediately
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  Speaker 6: as their kids started as well, so they were almost
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  Speaker 6: not on the same level. But you also want to
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  Speaker 6: know what to do now you've got a house for
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  Speaker 6: the pool and you've got a child.
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  Speaker 3: That's interesting.
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  Speaker 2: So my question is as parents, What skill did you
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  Speaker 2: learn purely because you thought it would help you with
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  Speaker 2: your child?
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  Speaker 4: Like you never rode a bicycle, but they started rising
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  Speaker 4: bicycles and you were like a girl, I have.
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  Speaker 1: To learn how now, or you could never cook. And
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  Speaker 1: then you had children and.
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  Speaker 2: You felt that kids must eat a home cooked.
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  Speaker 3: Meal to learn how to do.
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  Speaker 2: You were more than okay with eating takeouts for the
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  Speaker 2: rest of your life, but now you've got kids and
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  Speaker 2: you feel, okay, I need.
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  Speaker 1: To start cooking.
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  Speaker 3: This is an interesting conversation.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's an interesting conversation to have parents, because another
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  Speaker 2: thing is as a parent, you could be helping another
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  Speaker 2: parent to show you a life skill that you need
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  Speaker 2: and it's gonna kick in one day when it comes
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  Speaker 2: to helping.
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  Speaker 1: Your own child.
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  Speaker 2: Did you go for matt lessons because you were terrible
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  Speaker 2: at maths, but now you don't want a child.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, you don't want that in your child, to be
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  Speaker 4: scared of masks exactly.
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  Speaker 2: So now you're going back to have grade one, grade two,
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  Speaker 2: grade five mats lesteners.
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  Speaker 3: That's interesting.
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  Speaker 2: Oh one one, eight thirty eight, nine four seven Parents unite.
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  Speaker 2: It's all jumping the same WhatsApp group senters a voice
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  Speaker 2: from zero.
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  Speaker 1: Eight four double zero double zero nine four seven.
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  Speaker 2: Did you what did you upskill yourself in purely because
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  Speaker 2: of being a parent.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, purely because your kids were either doing it, attempting it,
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  Speaker 4: going to start it, and you were like, no, no,
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  Speaker 4: I need to know how to do this.
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  Speaker 2: First hair cuts a friend of ours he started. He
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  Speaker 2: learned how to cut hair because he wanted that bond
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  Speaker 2: for him and his son, sure that he wants to
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  Speaker 2: be the one to cut their hair. Guys even bought
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  Speaker 2: a barberge. It's an entire thing in the house, right,
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  Speaker 2: That's so cool.
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  Speaker 1: It's sweet.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's very cool.
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  Speaker 1: We want to find out.
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  Speaker 7: My husband signed up for swimming lessons because a few
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  Speaker 7: years ago went to Trulie and my son was swimming.
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  Speaker 6: He almost drowned.
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  Speaker 7: I don't know what happened. My husband just jumped in
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  Speaker 7: with shoes everything to save him.
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  Speaker 8: I'm actually going back to school because I just thought
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  Speaker 8: about it. I'm not having children who don't have masters.
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  Speaker 8: And I had to learn how to play soccer. After
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  Speaker 8: my son was interested in playing soccer, I enrolled him
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  Speaker 8: in a club, support him in his stream. I'm now
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  Speaker 8: a team manager, just to make sure that my son
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  Speaker 8: gets the best out of his stream.
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  Speaker 4: I was going to say, I think there's a lot
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  Speaker 4: of parents like this, like your kids have taken up
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  Speaker 4: some sport that you've never played. Now you've got to
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  Speaker 4: you've got to learn the rules. You've got to be
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  Speaker 4: able to help them. They want to play in the guarden.
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  Speaker 2: I once read on Twitter, We're a dad who had
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  Speaker 2: an engineering degree and his son was doing a law degree.
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  Speaker 1: He registered and did.
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  Speaker 3: Love with the Sun because because he wanted to support it.
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  Speaker 1: Want to support the Sun.
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  Speaker 2: I was just like, I could hardly get past ninety.
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  Speaker 6: I was gonna say, I hate fun and games until
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  Speaker 6: we all have to sit there with our transcripts and
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  Speaker 6: your kid is like, really.
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  Speaker 1: Is this you?
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  Speaker 2: Is this you?
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  Speaker 1: Is this that? Where's the eighty percent?
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  Speaker 3: You?
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  Speaker 1: Ernest? You and Cluffendale? Good morning?
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  Speaker 9: Good morning? See how are you doing?
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  Speaker 1: That's so good?
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  Speaker 4: How are you?
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  Speaker 1: Ernest?
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  Speaker 9: I'm very well. Probably some sixteen years ago, my son
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  Speaker 9: came from a scuba diving party that before kids in
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  Speaker 9: that again, I want to dives and I don't think so.
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  Speaker 9: Three months later I said, Okay, you're gonna do it.
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  Speaker 9: I'm gonna have to do it, and we did. It,
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  Speaker 9: and I went on to become a div instructor.
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  Speaker 4: So you started scuba diving because your kid had a
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  Speaker 4: scuba party.
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  Speaker 9: It's correct.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 9: Then I ended up with support with me and I
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  Speaker 9: ended up becoming a div instructor.
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  Speaker 3: Wow.
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  Speaker 1: And is that what you still do today?
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  Speaker 9: No, I don't do it anymore, you know. I think
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  Speaker 9: I had my fun and then we moved on. Now,
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  Speaker 9: you have dived a lot of places. I oversee Greece, spaying,
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  Speaker 9: Portugal by us.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: And then did your son ever, you know, continue the
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  Speaker 2: interested in scuba diving or did you just leave you
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  Speaker 2: to scuba by yourself?
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  Speaker 9: You care for quite a while in search. At the
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  Speaker 9: age of thirteen, it became a rescue driver.
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  Speaker 3: Wow. Okay.
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  Speaker 2: It is the one thing that terrifies me. I hope
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  Speaker 2: my son never wants a scuba dive ever.
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  Speaker 6: Beautiful thing I don't want to A long drive is beautiful,
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  Speaker 6: not scuba diving.
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  Speaker 2: It's just being underwater. And I don't know, like whats
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  Speaker 2: you run out of a well.
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  Speaker 4: There's currents underwater, run out of all the precautions and place.
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  Speaker 9: If you run out of here, you'll know before you're
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  Speaker 9: gonna run out of here. You got, if you've got
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  Speaker 9: a good instructor, a good doubly little enely check your
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  Speaker 9: hair and.
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  Speaker 2: Are you are you able to get rid of all
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  Speaker 2: of that stuff that weighs you down. Let's say there's
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  Speaker 2: an emergency and I just can I just take everything
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  Speaker 2: off and swim to shore, absolutely.
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  Speaker 9: Off your weight about your b CD and you flow
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  Speaker 9: to the top of your your.
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  Speaker 3: You know how expensive that stuff is and leave it
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  Speaker 3: at the bottom of the open. Huh, no child of mind.
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  Speaker 6: Sending him back to fend your stuff down there?
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  Speaker 10: Boy?
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  Speaker 1: And then what about if you run into a shark?
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  Speaker 3: A you punched it in these really?
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, Tillie, what we did do we do with shocks
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  Speaker 9: in animal abated time, no coage, and you probably got
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  Speaker 9: about forty to sixty shocks somewhere around you, ething from
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  Speaker 9: two meters to four meters.
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  Speaker 6: But I have a problem with that because I'd be
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  Speaker 6: genuinely offended at the sharks didn't think I was worth it.
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  Speaker 4: Toll a fellow, Good morning, Welcome to ANNELI in the club.
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  Speaker 4: North Riding is where you are, morning team morning a
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  Speaker 4: tall a fellow, you. I think I think a lot
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  Speaker 4: of moms are about to take a tip from you.
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  Speaker 3: What did you learn?
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  Speaker 10: So my baby brother started playing rugby at an early age,
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  Speaker 10: and I figured I need to learn an emergency skill.
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  Speaker 10: So I learned first aid and it came in handed.
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  Speaker 10: This year, he took a book to his head.
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  Speaker 3: And fell, and you knew what to do.
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  Speaker 10: I knew what to do, but luckily there was the
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  Speaker 10: first eight day already. But because I don't want a
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  Speaker 10: panic and I don't want my mom to panic, I
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  Speaker 10: knew a skill that was really helpful with the situation.
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  Speaker 2: You see, because you know exactly what needs to happen,
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  Speaker 2: so you let them do what they need to do.
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  Speaker 1: But you are quite aware where we are in the problem.
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  Speaker 4: Well yeah, because they teach you to be calm right
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  Speaker 4: in an emergency situation.
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  Speaker 10: Yes, so now, and you're like, oh, thank you to
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  Speaker 10: my parents for paying for that first aid because it
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  Speaker 10: came in so handy.
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  Speaker 3: That's amazing.
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  Speaker 2: See, I'd become after I shrieked, though, if I if
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  Speaker 2: you can just allow.
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  Speaker 3: Me to lay that one now, you must shriek afterwards.
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  Speaker 4: Livana will tell you you stream afterwards in the moment,
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  Speaker 4: should be calm.
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  Speaker 1: My words, Thanks the God.
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  Speaker 2: We're going to Linda and Krucus the good morning, Linda.
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  Speaker 1: We're good, Linda.
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  Speaker 11: How are your fine? My daughter is studying you in
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  Speaker 11: accounting Sea Stream. I had to take up into a
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  Speaker 11: level seven qulotations to understand their frustrations because we to
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  Speaker 11: was just for drinking hard. But I guess right now,
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  Speaker 11: I've got a new cultation now and and now I
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  Speaker 11: understand I can be able to be useful in a car.
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  Speaker 4: So you too, So you studied level seven finance just
• 14:23
  Speaker 4: to help her.
• 14:25
  Speaker 11: Yeah, so that I can understand what what what? What
• 14:27
  Speaker 11: a hair translations?
• 14:29
  Speaker 9: Was I want to get it?
• 14:30
  Speaker 2: And what were her frustations? How did you diagnose the problem?
• 14:34
  Speaker 2: After you managed to accelid it?
• 14:38
  Speaker 11: And now I understood that you know what I have had,
• 14:41
  Speaker 11: you know, the balances and so forth. So I was
• 14:45
  Speaker 11: able to work with her, you know, as much as
• 14:47
  Speaker 11: I'm not an expect but I was able somehow to
• 14:50
  Speaker 11: understand it. Now it'll be true to ask.
• 14:53
  Speaker 3: This is amazing, Linda, that's amazing. That's amazing.
• 14:59
  Speaker 5: That.
• 15:01
  Speaker 11: Oh god, she does, she does, she's doing her finally actually.
• 15:06
  Speaker 2: Now okay, and she can still come home and bounce
• 15:09
  Speaker 2: off you to be like, oh this is stressing you?
• 15:10
  Speaker 1: What do you think and then you.
• 15:12
  Speaker 11: Know, yes, yes, yes, I'm also using an experience of
• 15:15
  Speaker 11: that adult I've been in working environment, you know, yeah,
• 15:19
  Speaker 11: I still know. Yeah, I'm able to assist.
• 15:22
  Speaker 4: Now, this is amazing because I think a lot of
• 15:25
  Speaker 4: people have this way. You if you have kids and
• 15:27
  Speaker 4: they study something, you have no idea about that field, right,
• 15:31
  Speaker 4: So they're having conversations, they're having conversations with you, and
• 15:35
  Speaker 4: you can't understand what they're talking about. It's brilliant.
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: I think it's major bonding.
• 15:39
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 15:39
  Speaker 2: I think it's one way to bond with your kids
• 15:41
  Speaker 2: because it is you.
• 15:43
  Speaker 11: Know, so you're kind of like understand the part that
• 15:45
  Speaker 11: she's trying to follow, you know, yeah, yeah, I have
• 15:51
  Speaker 11: to find I have to find it the whole James.
• 15:54
  Speaker 11: Now I understand that it's going to take longer than
• 15:56
  Speaker 11: I thought.
• 15:56
  Speaker 3: Yes, well exactly, And now you understand.
• 16:00
  Speaker 2: And when I'm doing my fourth year of first year,
• 16:03
  Speaker 2: you understand mom that I do.
• 16:07
  Speaker 11: It doesn't know junior junior qualitation. Now they need to
• 16:10
  Speaker 11: be prospered in order to qualify for ability.
• 16:13
  Speaker 3: You know, yes, exactly. That's incredible.
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: Little wow, Superman, superbody, hand her cake. Now, go back
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: to making your morning and La and the club on
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: nine four seven