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Do you have a friend who won’t let you take a picture of them when you go out together? · Anele and the Club on 947

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  Speaker 1: Wake Up with a bang, Wake Up and the club.
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  Speaker 2: On nine four seven trolling TikTok.
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  Speaker 3: I came across this, so I don't know what it is,
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  Speaker 3: Like I'm just so over this girl because every time
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  Speaker 3: we are together, go out, or whether we are just
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  Speaker 3: you know, in the same space or whatever, we're friends.
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  Speaker 4: Mind you, she.
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  Speaker 3: Never wants to take pictures with me, And I'm like,
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  Speaker 3: I don't know what it is because we both looking good.
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  Speaker 3: I'm looking extationally well, like fit is fitting, Saints is sainting, girl,
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  Speaker 3: and you want to waste all of this by not
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  Speaker 3: taking pictures. I'm so fit up at this point, and
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  Speaker 3: she was just stay home because wowsers.
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  Speaker 2: You entitled this little bit. If your friend doesn't want
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  Speaker 2: to take photos, Guys that don't want to take photos
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  Speaker 2: not everyone has got like this social media life that
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  Speaker 2: they need to constantly update, like leave.
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  Speaker 5: People alone, Like I'm with a friend, not this problematic
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  Speaker 5: person the other Like I've gone to many places and
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  Speaker 5: I never have the urge to pull out my phone
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  Speaker 5: and say let's take a photo. Every photo I have
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  Speaker 5: of an outing is because someone else who was there interested.
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  Speaker 1: But is it the worst though? If you want your
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  Speaker 1: friend wants to take photos.
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  Speaker 2: But if I don't want to be in the photo,
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to be You can take photos please by
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  Speaker 2: all means you and the waiter go find a nice
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  Speaker 2: little wallet area for you guys and knock yourself out.
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  Speaker 2: And I say this as somebody who actually does like
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  Speaker 2: taking photos, but not.
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  Speaker 5: All the time, not exhausting, frank you, as someone who
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  Speaker 5: who's not obsessed with creating and curating social media moments.
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  Speaker 5: It's because the photo people don't know when to stop.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, because it's like after the ten minutes, if will
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  Speaker 2: you stop? No, because there's always a better shot and
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  Speaker 2: a better angle and better lights, and oh, I went
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  Speaker 2: to the part of me and then there's a piggle bag.
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  Speaker 1: Probably I don't go out enough, so I need to
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  Speaker 1: take photos when I go out. Otherwise otherwise what am
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  Speaker 1: I posting? What have I got coming up with my
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  Speaker 1: phone as memories?
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  Speaker 6: So I was I want found myself in a very
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  Speaker 6: weird situation where I had a whole bunch of girls
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  Speaker 6: over at my house. But one of the girls that
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  Speaker 6: came along was one of our guy friends girlfriends, right,
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  Speaker 6: so I was kind of meeting her for the first
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  Speaker 6: time properly, and she kept filming everything the whole night
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  Speaker 6: that eventually I got somebody to say to her, please,
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  Speaker 6: can she just stop filming everything that's happening, Like why
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  Speaker 6: why are you doing this? Plus also I don't really
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  Speaker 6: want you filming everything happening in my house.
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  Speaker 2: Guys, then they put like the phone and then then
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  Speaker 2: you see the phone is being set up and you're like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: what's that? It's now I'm just filming everything? Why and
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  Speaker 2: why why am I part of your keeping up with
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  Speaker 2: the Kardassians.
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  Speaker 5: Like oh, the food is coming out, and must also
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  Speaker 5: pose before you even touch a stake game, it must
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  Speaker 5: be photographed.
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  Speaker 6: So there are so there are people within our family
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  Speaker 6: circle that don't want I'm not saying immediate family, I'm
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  Speaker 6: saying extended that don't want photos. So they're like, you
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  Speaker 6: can take the photo, but don't post it anywhere. And
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  Speaker 6: suddenly when people can't post a photo anymore, they're like, oh,
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  Speaker 6: you do want a photo of the moment. So because
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  Speaker 6: this person she doesn't want photos of her, we just
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  Speaker 6: take a photo it, but we never post it online.
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  Speaker 6: And I think you need to respect people's wishes. If
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  Speaker 6: I don't want to photo, I don't want to photo,
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  Speaker 6: and that's the friend I am.
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  Speaker 2: I can't extend this to people who just they on
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  Speaker 2: a video call. Like now let's say we're at a
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  Speaker 2: dinner party at my house, right then you're on a
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  Speaker 2: video call. Then the next thing, I must be part
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  Speaker 2: of your video call. And now I'm muting strangers via
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  Speaker 2: your phone.
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  Speaker 1: No, no, no, look, I mean I'll draw the line.
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  Speaker 1: That's definitely a line to draw, Like we don't have
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  Speaker 1: to be video calling everyone to show them what we're doing.
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  Speaker 1: But I mean taking photos of us as friends and
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  Speaker 1: we're doing things together. And for me, for me, it's
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  Speaker 1: not the posting online. For me, it's just having the memories.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, and if one of your friends says I don't
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  Speaker 6: want a photo of me, then you just don't take
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  Speaker 6: the mooto.
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  Speaker 1: Photos crop them out.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, you can hear this.
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  Speaker 1: It's awkward because now if it's let's say we're five friends.
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  Speaker 1: Now I've got to say, okay, Jared, please step away.
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  Speaker 6: No, Jared probably won't step up to have the photo.
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  Speaker 6: He'll probably be on the sidelines. You just don't say, Jared,
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  Speaker 6: come in the photo.
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  Speaker 2: Come such a b it's the moment all of us.
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to be in the photo the end
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  Speaker 2: because this lady, yeah, is close to disowning her friend
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  Speaker 2: because the friend doesn't like to take photos listen to her.
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  Speaker 3: So I don't know what it is, Like, I'm just
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  Speaker 3: so over this girl because every time we are together,
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  Speaker 3: go out, or whether we are just you know, in
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  Speaker 3: the same space or whatever, we're friends, mind you, she
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  Speaker 3: never wants to take pictures with me. And I'm like,
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  Speaker 3: I don't know what it is because we're both looking good.
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  Speaker 3: I'm looking extationally well, like fit is fitting, Saints is sainting, girl,
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  Speaker 3: and you want to waste all of this by not
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  Speaker 3: taking pictures. I'm so fait up at this point.
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  Speaker 5: And she was just stay home because wowsers, oh no,
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  Speaker 5: and that she will let you would gladly stay home.
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  Speaker 5: I speak for both of us. Given the option to
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  Speaker 5: stay home, we'll take it.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, I mean, I think we can go out. I
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  Speaker 1: don't still take a few photos. It doesn't have to
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  Speaker 1: be away.
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  Speaker 6: So she says, we've got all of this and it's
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  Speaker 6: gonna go to waste. Why waste? Who? Who are you?
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  Speaker 1: Who?
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  Speaker 6: Do you need to show it? Then take a photo?
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  Speaker 6: Take a selfie?
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  Speaker 2: Generally in the beginning of time we walk clothes just
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  Speaker 2: to cover ourselves up to go out here. Now, not
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  Speaker 2: every time I go out. My foot must be fitting
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  Speaker 2: because I'm scared that.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Now we're taking photos and you are running this curated
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  Speaker 2: life that we are, all these additional characters in.
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  Speaker 5: We must all be dressed, everyone in full makeup because
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  Speaker 5: you never know, Hey, we might be in Monaco by lunchtime.
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  Speaker 1: I understand that there are limits to this, but I
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  Speaker 1: still think we can take it for photos.
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  Speaker 2: Do you have a friend who won't let you take
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  Speaker 2: a picture of them with them.
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  Speaker 1: When you guys are together, You guys are those friends.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, look, Frankie, I take photos, but I just don't
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  Speaker 2: feel the need for them to be taken all the
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  Speaker 2: time and literally forcing people who don't want to be
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  Speaker 2: part of it to also be part of the photos.
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  Speaker 1: Do you think do you think it should be at
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  Speaker 1: the beginning of the evening or the beginning of the event,
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  Speaker 1: we take a few photos and then we leave it.
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  Speaker 2: But the fact that we are now out here figuring
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  Speaker 2: out the schedule for photos. Okay, I'm tired. I'm tired already.
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  Speaker 2: I'm just tired. Just bring the killer Maari Margaret zero
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  Speaker 2: eight four double zero double zero nine four seven. Do
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  Speaker 2: you have a friend who just refuses to be in
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  Speaker 2: your photos? Are you the friend who refuses to be
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  Speaker 2: in photos? And how are you never getting it? In
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  Speaker 2: this life of Mark Zacha Beg. Yeah, I was.
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  Speaker 3: Like, I was like Marcus, So, I don't know what
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  Speaker 3: it is, Like, I'm just so over this girl because
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  Speaker 3: every time we are together, go out, or whether we
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  Speaker 3: are just you know, in the same space or whatever,
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  Speaker 3: we're friends, mind you, she never wants to take pictures
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  Speaker 3: with me, And I'm like, I don't know what it
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  Speaker 3: is because we're both looking good. I'm looking extationally well,
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  Speaker 3: like fit is fitting, Saints is sainting, girl, and you
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  Speaker 3: want to waste all of this by now taking pictures.
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  Speaker 3: I'm so fit up at this point, and she was
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  Speaker 3: just stay home because waws is.
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  Speaker 7: I totally agree with the girl, Like a we are
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  Speaker 7: two k's, like, we love to capture our moments, so
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  Speaker 7: let us be like. Also, if you have friends that
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  Speaker 7: don't really ting pictures, find new friends. Is stations my
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  Speaker 7: new friends that can go out with her and like
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  Speaker 7: literally create content with her.
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  Speaker 3: I definitely have no objection to being in photos, but
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  Speaker 3: I have an objection to those photos being posted everywhere.
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  Speaker 4: I am one of those friends that I'll take one
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  Speaker 4: or two pictures and that's it of the whatever event
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  Speaker 4: or whatever. But I have friends that want to take
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  Speaker 4: one hundred pictures in one position, like how different are
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  Speaker 4: the picture is going to be?
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  Speaker 2: Tallana, you're in Lombardy is good morning.
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  Speaker 8: Good morning.
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  Speaker 2: For some of the radio. Oh we made you do it, Tallana.
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  Speaker 2: We made you do it just because you just wanted
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  Speaker 2: to get on a theil in the club to tell
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  Speaker 2: people how much you hate taking photos.
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  Speaker 8: Oh, I really hate it. So I recently lost weight
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  Speaker 8: and it's because of how extreme happened. So I started
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  Speaker 8: intermitted first thing, and I really don't like how I look. Okay,
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  Speaker 8: I look fine. I do get compliments, but my family's
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  Speaker 8: not the same size. I don't like that. So my
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  Speaker 8: friends don't want to take pictures. They want to post,
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  Speaker 8: even upon requests to say pease, some posts and they're
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  Speaker 8: like more from the food. But I don't feel good.
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  Speaker 8: I'm not comfortable with that. I'm not on twitting me.
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  Speaker 8: I don't even post myself off.
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  Speaker 9: What's up?
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  Speaker 8: Why are you posting me?
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  Speaker 3: Like?
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  Speaker 9: You see?
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  Speaker 2: Because it's the the immediate thing to weight loss is
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  Speaker 2: that they think you want to flaunt it, and not
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  Speaker 2: everyone is bolt like that.
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  Speaker 8: Right exact, See it wasn't I tried to me. So
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  Speaker 8: I don't like it, and I need you guys to
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  Speaker 8: make pieces and we can take pictures from memories. I'll
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  Speaker 8: take them, like, don't post them please.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, But like Cindy said, as soon as you tell
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  Speaker 2: people who like to take photos that we may take
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  Speaker 2: the photos, but please don't post it anyway.
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  Speaker 1: They get a little but upset.
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  Speaker 2: But then to me, you're not taking from memories, You're
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  Speaker 2: taking it for shure.
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  Speaker 8: So now I'm gonna say no to pictures and then
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  Speaker 8: I'm gonna.
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  Speaker 9: Sing rude.
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  Speaker 1: And Tellana this is why I do agree with you. Right,
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  Speaker 1: It is a little strange that we have to have
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  Speaker 1: a conversation about you not wanting to take a photo. Right,
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  Speaker 1: So it does feel just a little bit weird that
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  Speaker 1: you have to now we have to now walk around
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  Speaker 1: telling people I don't want a photo. That's strange, right, right.
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  Speaker 1: That feels it feels counterintuitive. It feels like it should
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  Speaker 1: be the other way around.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, let me do that to strangers, not to you
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  Speaker 8: as my friend.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but even even with strangers. I just stop taking
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  Speaker 2: pictures of people, you know. And also I am allowed
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  Speaker 2: to say no, thank you.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to be and it's not weird that
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  Speaker 1: you don't, but people act like now you're being that
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  Speaker 1: weird one.
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  Speaker 2: What do you mean you don't a photo? Albertson what's
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  Speaker 2: your take?
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  Speaker 9: Hi? Guys, listen, I just really am a person who
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  Speaker 9: is more on creating a space for people. And if
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  Speaker 9: you're a friend, you need to know your friend how
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  Speaker 9: they are. You cannot create a space where a friend
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  Speaker 9: now feels uncomfortable, then you're not a friend. You are
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  Speaker 9: just being a person who is very enforceable, inversive and
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  Speaker 9: just entitled. Let's let's really try and create a better
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  Speaker 9: space for our people. If you love them, if you
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  Speaker 9: know how they are, then just don't don't do it.
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  Speaker 4: Guys.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't be fighting your preferences every time you
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  Speaker 2: and I are together exactly.
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  Speaker 9: Exactly, and that also means you don't exactly is how
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  Speaker 9: I am as a friend. Yeah, so it's okay you
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  Speaker 9: can take pictures for memory, but also can we just
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  Speaker 9: have that point where we enjoy we leave within the moment.
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  Speaker 9: Not everything is about capturing and posting. It's really really,
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  Speaker 9: we're just taking out the essence of spending time with
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  Speaker 9: each other and just enjoying the moment.
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  Speaker 2: And you're not listening to me.
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  Speaker 1: Actually, if you're just thinking about what the next photos.
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  Speaker 2: What the next photo is going to be. I know,
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  Speaker 2: we went for dinner about three weeks ago and I
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  Speaker 2: didn't take my phone right and it was so so shocking.
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  Speaker 2: They're like, oh, my friends are like, hey, let's use
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  Speaker 2: your phone because your phone takes pretty pictures. I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: I lifted at home. What do you mean? It's like
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  Speaker 2: because I actually wanted to be present.
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  Speaker 1: Yea, you know, as long as someone has a phone
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  Speaker 1: and we can we can take emergency. What is that's fine?
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  Speaker 2: You know, the only reason in my mind because at
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  Speaker 2: this dinner it was friends and my husband's there and
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  Speaker 2: my child's and in my mind, if those people are the.
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  Speaker 1: I'm shocked exactly.
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  Speaker 9: People.
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  Speaker 2: You know, those are people I worry about when I'm
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  Speaker 2: not you know, are not around them. So it's it's
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  Speaker 2: at home, guys down what but what how are we
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  Speaker 2: going to take photos? Just order your chicken livers and listen,
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  Speaker 2: start to making your morning and the club on nine
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  Speaker 2: four seven