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- 0:03Welcome
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- 0:04This
- 0:04Daring
- 0:04Adventure
- 0:05podcast,
- 0:06where
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- 0:07on
- 0:07bridging
- 0:07the
- 0:07gap
- 0:08between
- 0:08where
- 0:08we
- 0:09are
- 0:09and
- 0:09where
- 0:10we
- 0:10want
- 0:10to
- 0:10be
- 0:11in
- 0:11order
- 0:11to
- 0:11live
- 0:12a
- 0:12bigger
- 0:12and
- 0:13bolder
- 0:13life.
- 0:14In
- 0:14this
- 0:14podcast,
- 0:15we
- 0:15will
- 0:15provide
- 0:16inspiration,
- 0:17tips,
- 0:17and
- 0:17skills
- 0:18you
- 0:18need
- 0:18to
- 0:18make
- 0:19your
- 0:19life
- 0:19the
- 0:19adventure
- 0:20you
- 0:20want
- 0:21it
- 0:21to
- 0:21be.
- 0:22Here's
- 0:22your
- 0:22host,
- 0:23mindset
- 0:23mentor
- 0:24and
- 0:24life
- 0:24coach
- 0:25Trista
- 0:25Guertin.
- 0:31Trista: Hey,
- 0:31Trista: everybody.
- 0:32Trista: Welcome
- 0:32Trista: back
- 0:33Trista: to
- 0:33Trista: This
- 0:33Trista: Daring
- 0:33Trista: Adventure
- 0:34Trista: thank
- 0:34Trista: you
- 0:34Trista: so
- 0:34Trista: much
- 0:35Trista: for
- 0:35Trista: joining
- 0:35Trista: me
- 0:35Trista: today.
- 0:36Trista: I
- 0:37Trista: am
- 0:37Trista: your
- 0:37Trista: host,
- 0:37Trista: Trista
- 0:38Trista: Guertin.
- 0:39Trista: This
- 0:39Trista: is
- 0:39Trista: episode
- 0:39Trista: 79
- 0:40Trista: on
- 0:41Trista: Relationships
- 0:42Trista: Can
- 0:42Trista: Be
- 0:42Trista: Complete.
- 0:44Trista: I
- 0:44Trista: wanted
- 0:45Trista: to
- 0:45Trista: talk
- 0:45Trista: about
- 0:45Trista: relationships
- 0:46Trista: because
- 0:47Trista: I
- 0:47Trista: was
- 0:47Trista: working
- 0:48Trista: with
- 0:48Trista: a
- 0:48Trista: client
- 0:48Trista: this
- 0:48Trista: past
- 0:49Trista: week
- 0:49Trista: and
- 0:49Trista: she
- 0:50Trista: was,
- 0:50Trista: she's
- 0:50Trista: going
- 0:51Trista: through
- 0:51Trista: a
- 0:51Trista: divorce.
- 0:53Trista: And
- 0:54Trista: it's
- 0:54Trista: painful,
- 0:55Trista: of
- 0:55Trista: course,
- 0:56Trista: any
- 0:56Trista: relationship
- 0:57Trista: that's
- 0:57Trista: ending
- 0:58Trista: will
- 0:58Trista: usually
- 0:59Trista: involve
- 1:00Trista: some
- 1:00Trista: sort
- 1:01Trista: of
- 1:01Trista: pain
- 1:01Trista: and
- 1:02Trista: particularly
- 1:02Trista: a
- 1:02Trista: marriage
- 1:03Trista: can
- 1:03Trista: be
- 1:04Trista: a
- 1:04Trista: very
- 1:04Trista: painful
- 1:05Trista: process.
- 1:06Trista: And
- 1:07Trista: we
- 1:07Trista: will
- 1:07Trista: experience
- 1:08Trista: a
- 1:08Trista: range
- 1:09Trista: of
- 1:09Trista: emotions,
- 1:10Trista: including
- 1:10Trista: grief
- 1:11Trista: and
- 1:11Trista: sadness
- 1:12Trista: and
- 1:13Trista: disappointment
- 1:13Trista: and
- 1:14Trista: frustration.
- 1:15Trista: And
- 1:15Trista: this
- 1:15Trista: is
- 1:16Trista: all
- 1:16Trista: normal.
- 1:17Trista: It's
- 1:17Trista: all
- 1:17Trista: a
- 1:17Trista: part
- 1:17Trista: of
- 1:17Trista: our
- 1:17Trista: human
- 1:18Trista: experience.
- 1:19Trista: And
- 1:20Trista: it
- 1:20Trista: doesn't
- 1:20Trista: mean
- 1:21Trista: that
- 1:21Trista: anything
- 1:21Trista: has
- 1:21Trista: gone
- 1:21Trista: wrong.
- 1:22Trista: It
- 1:22Trista: is
- 1:23Trista: something
- 1:23Trista: that
- 1:23Trista: we
- 1:23Trista: will
- 1:24Trista: have
- 1:24Trista: to
- 1:24Trista: go
- 1:24Trista: through
- 1:25Trista: and
- 1:26Trista: we
- 1:26Trista: can't
- 1:27Trista: rush
- 1:27Trista: it
- 1:28Trista: and
- 1:28Trista: we
- 1:28Trista: can't
- 1:29Trista: resist
- 1:29Trista: it
- 1:30Trista: and
- 1:31Trista: we
- 1:31Trista: can't
- 1:33Trista: numb
- 1:33Trista: it
- 1:33Trista: and
- 1:34Trista: buffer
- 1:34Trista: it
- 1:34Trista: away.
- 1:35Trista: We
- 1:36Trista: just
- 1:36Trista: have
- 1:37Trista: to
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- 1:38Trista: it.
- 1:38Trista: We
- 1:38Trista: have
- 1:38Trista: to
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- 1:39Trista: it
- 1:39Trista: and
- 1:39Trista: we
- 1:39Trista: have
- 1:39Trista: to
- 1:39Trista: process
- 1:40Trista: it
- 1:40Trista: just
- 1:40Trista: like
- 1:40Trista: any
- 1:41Trista: other
- 1:41Trista: emotion.
- 1:42Trista: And
- 1:44Trista: I
- 1:44Trista: know
- 1:44Trista: for
- 1:44Trista: myself,
- 1:45Trista: I've
- 1:45Trista: often
- 1:45Trista: spent
- 1:46Trista: time
- 1:46Trista: arguing
- 1:47Trista: with
- 1:47Trista: reality.
- 1:49Trista: Trying
- 1:49Trista: to
- 1:49Trista: figure
- 1:49Trista: out
- 1:51Trista: why
- 1:51Trista: the
- 1:51Trista: relationship
- 1:52Trista: ended,
- 1:54Trista: if
- 1:54Trista: there
- 1:54Trista: was
- 1:54Trista: something
- 1:55Trista: that
- 1:55Trista: could
- 1:55Trista: have
- 1:55Trista: been
- 1:55Trista: done
- 1:56Trista: differently,
- 1:56Trista: if
- 1:57Trista: I
- 1:57Trista: had
- 1:57Trista: made
- 1:57Trista: different
- 1:57Trista: choices
- 1:59Trista: and
- 2:00Trista: somehow
- 2:01Trista: just
- 2:02Trista: not
- 2:04Trista: believing
- 2:05Trista: that
- 2:05Trista: it
- 2:05Trista: should
- 2:06Trista: be
- 2:06Trista: over,
- 2:07Trista: and
- 2:07Trista: that
- 2:09Trista: something
- 2:09Trista: really
- 2:09Trista: has
- 2:09Trista: gone
- 2:10Trista: wrong,
- 2:10Trista: and
- 2:10Trista: there's
- 2:10Trista: this
- 2:11Trista: remorse
- 2:11Trista: and
- 2:12Trista: this
- 2:13Trista: confusion.
- 2:14Trista: It's
- 2:14Trista: something
- 2:15Trista: that
- 2:15Trista: plays
- 2:15Trista: on
- 2:16Trista: your
- 2:16Trista: mind
- 2:16Trista: from
- 2:17Trista: time
- 2:17Trista: to
- 2:17Trista: time
- 2:18Trista: you,
- 2:18Trista: you
- 2:18Trista: land
- 2:19Trista: up
- 2:19Trista: ruminating
- 2:19Trista: about
- 2:20Trista: it.
- 2:21Trista: of
- 2:21Trista: course
- 2:22Trista: what
- 2:22Trista: happened
- 2:22Trista: particularly
- 2:23Trista: with
- 2:23Trista: the
- 2:23Trista: marriage
- 2:24Trista: is
- 2:25Trista: that
- 2:25Trista: you
- 2:25Trista: go
- 2:26Trista: into
- 2:26Trista: it
- 2:27Trista: and
- 2:27Trista: you
- 2:28Trista: have
- 2:28Trista: this
- 2:28Trista: vision
- 2:29Trista: of
- 2:30Trista: how
- 2:30Trista: we
- 2:30Trista: think
- 2:30Trista: the
- 2:30Trista: relationship
- 2:31Trista: should
- 2:31Trista: be.
- 2:33Trista: and
- 2:34Trista: how
- 2:34Trista: they
- 2:35Trista: will
- 2:35Trista: be,
- 2:35Trista: the
- 2:35Trista: other
- 2:35Trista: person
- 2:36Trista: will
- 2:36Trista: be.
- 2:37Trista: particularly
- 2:38Trista: with
- 2:38Trista: marriage,
- 2:38Trista: we
- 2:38Trista: have
- 2:39Trista: this
- 2:39Trista: fantasy.
- 2:41Trista: We
- 2:41Trista: have
- 2:41Trista: this
- 2:42Trista: idea
- 2:43Trista: of
- 2:43Trista: the
- 2:43Trista: romance
- 2:44Trista: and
- 2:45Trista: that
- 2:45Trista: it,
- 2:46Trista: it
- 2:46Trista: lasts
- 2:46Trista: a
- 2:46Trista: lifetime.
- 2:48Trista: And
- 2:49Trista: maybe
- 2:49Trista: if
- 2:49Trista: you
- 2:50Trista: have
- 2:50Trista: kids,
- 2:51Trista: you
- 2:51Trista: have
- 2:51Trista: an
- 2:51Trista: idea
- 2:52Trista: of
- 2:53Trista: how
- 2:53Trista: they're
- 2:53Trista: going
- 2:53Trista: to
- 2:53Trista: be
- 2:53Trista: as
- 2:53Trista: adults
- 2:54Trista: and
- 2:54Trista: how
- 2:54Trista: that
- 2:55Trista: relationship
- 2:55Trista: should
- 2:56Trista: be.
- 2:57Trista: But
- 2:57Trista: in
- 2:57Trista: actual
- 2:58Trista: fact,
- 2:58Trista: it
- 2:58Trista: rarely
- 2:59Trista: works
- 2:59Trista: out
- 2:59Trista: that
- 2:59Trista: way
- 3:00Trista: and
- 3:01Trista: it
- 3:01Trista: doesn't
- 3:02Trista: live
- 3:02Trista: up
- 3:02Trista: to
- 3:03Trista: our
- 3:03Trista: vision
- 3:03Trista: and
- 3:04Trista: what
- 3:04Trista: we
- 3:04Trista: imagined
- 3:04Trista: it
- 3:05Trista: to
- 3:05Trista: be.
- 3:06Trista: And
- 3:06Trista: then
- 3:07Trista: when
- 3:07Trista: it
- 3:07Trista: doesn't,
- 3:09Trista: we
- 3:10Trista: believe
- 3:10Trista: that
- 3:10Trista: something
- 3:10Trista: has
- 3:11Trista: gone
- 3:11Trista: wrong.
- 3:12Trista: sometimes
- 3:12Trista: the
- 3:12Trista: story
- 3:13Trista: happens
- 3:13Trista: quite
- 3:14Trista: differently
- 3:15Trista: in
- 3:15Trista: reality
- 3:16Trista: than
- 3:16Trista: we
- 3:16Trista: thought
- 3:16Trista: it
- 3:16Trista: would
- 3:17Trista: and
- 3:17Trista: it
- 3:18Trista: ends
- 3:19Trista: as
- 3:19Trista: it
- 3:19Trista: did
- 3:20Trista: for
- 3:20Trista: my
- 3:20Trista: client.
- 3:22Trista: And
- 3:22Trista: what
- 3:23Trista: I
- 3:23Trista: suggested
- 3:24Trista: to
- 3:24Trista: her
- 3:25Trista: was
- 3:25Trista: that
- 3:27Trista: her
- 3:27Trista: relationship
- 3:28Trista: with
- 3:28Trista: her
- 3:28Trista: husband
- 3:30Trista: was
- 3:30Trista: complete.
- 3:33Trista: I
- 3:33Trista: think
- 3:33Trista: this
- 3:33Trista: is
- 3:33Trista: a
- 3:33Trista: really
- 3:34Trista: useful
- 3:34Trista: idea
- 3:36Trista: to
- 3:36Trista: try
- 3:37Trista: on
- 3:38Trista: because
- 3:38Trista: it
- 3:38Trista: gives
- 3:38Trista: you
- 3:39Trista: a
- 3:39Trista: completely
- 3:39Trista: different
- 3:40Trista: perspective.
- 3:42Trista: When
- 3:43Trista: it's
- 3:43Trista: over,
- 3:45Trista: if
- 3:45Trista: you
- 3:45Trista: can
- 3:45Trista: look
- 3:46Trista: at
- 3:46Trista: it
- 3:46Trista: as
- 3:46Trista: something
- 3:47Trista: that
- 3:47Trista: was
- 3:47Trista: meant
- 3:48Trista: to
- 3:48Trista: happen
- 3:49Trista: and
- 3:50Trista: did
- 3:50Trista: happen,
- 3:51Trista: Like
- 3:51Trista: it
- 3:52Trista: ended
- 3:53Trista: and
- 3:54Trista: the
- 3:54Trista: ending
- 3:55Trista: was
- 3:56Trista: meant
- 3:56Trista: to
- 3:56Trista: happen
- 3:58Trista: and
- 3:58Trista: that
- 3:58Trista: it
- 3:58Trista: did
- 3:59Trista: happen,
- 3:59Trista: so
- 3:59Trista: you're
- 4:00Trista: not
- 4:00Trista: arguing
- 4:01Trista: with
- 4:01Trista: reality.
- 4:03Trista: And
- 4:04Trista: that
- 4:05Trista: the
- 4:05Trista: way
- 4:05Trista: it
- 4:05Trista: ended,
- 4:06Trista: the
- 4:07Trista: story
- 4:07Trista: ending,
- 4:08Trista: the
- 4:08Trista: story
- 4:08Trista: of
- 4:08Trista: you
- 4:09Trista: and
- 4:09Trista: this
- 4:09Trista: other
- 4:09Trista: person
- 4:11Trista: ending
- 4:12Trista: has
- 4:12Trista: happened
- 4:12Trista: perfectly.
- 4:14Trista: And
- 4:15Trista: now
- 4:15Trista: it's
- 4:16Trista: over
- 4:18Trista: as
- 4:18Trista: opposed
- 4:18Trista: to
- 4:18Trista: looking
- 4:19Trista: at
- 4:19Trista: it
- 4:19Trista: as
- 4:19Trista: something
- 4:20Trista: that
- 4:20Trista: has
- 4:21Trista: gone
- 4:21Trista: terribly
- 4:21Trista: wrong.
- 4:22Trista: And
- 4:23Trista: shouldn't
- 4:24Trista: have
- 4:24Trista: happened
- 4:25Trista: in
- 4:25Trista: the
- 4:25Trista: first
- 4:25Trista: place,
- 4:27Trista: which
- 4:27Trista: is
- 4:27Trista: often
- 4:28Trista: how
- 4:28Trista: we
- 4:28Trista: look
- 4:28Trista: at
- 4:28Trista: things
- 4:29Trista: in
- 4:29Trista: our
- 4:29Trista: past
- 4:31Trista: and
- 4:31Trista: which
- 4:32Trista: serves
- 4:33Trista: us
- 4:34Trista: in
- 4:34Trista: no
- 4:34Trista: way.
- 4:35Trista: It
- 4:36Trista: doesn't
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- 4:36Trista: us
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- 4:37Trista: all.
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- 4:39Trista: And
- 4:41Trista: it
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- 4:42Trista: suffering.
- 4:43Trista: It
- 4:43Trista: just
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- 4:44Trista: suffering
- 4:44Trista: on
- 4:44Trista: top
- 4:45Trista: of
- 4:45Trista: our
- 4:45Trista: pain,
- 4:46Trista: but
- 4:47Trista: this
- 4:47Trista: suffering
- 4:48Trista: is
- 4:49Trista: not
- 4:49Trista: necessary.
- 4:52Trista: And
- 4:52Trista: if
- 4:52Trista: you
- 4:52Trista: can
- 4:53Trista: think
- 4:53Trista: about
- 4:53Trista: the
- 4:53Trista: relationship
- 4:55Trista: in
- 4:55Trista: a
- 4:55Trista: way
- 4:56Trista: that
- 4:56Trista: it
- 4:56Trista: was
- 4:57Trista: always
- 4:57Trista: going
- 4:57Trista: to
- 4:58Trista: be
- 4:58Trista: What
- 4:59Trista: it
- 4:59Trista: was
- 5:00Trista: for
- 5:00Trista: everyone
- 5:01Trista: involved
- 5:03Trista: and
- 5:03Trista: that
- 5:04Trista: nothing
- 5:04Trista: went
- 5:04Trista: wrong.
- 5:06Trista: It
- 5:07Trista: all
- 5:07Trista: just
- 5:08Trista: was
- 5:08Trista: what
- 5:08Trista: it
- 5:09Trista: was
- 5:09Trista: because
- 5:11Trista: that's
- 5:11Trista: our
- 5:11Trista: human
- 5:12Trista: experience
- 5:13Trista: and
- 5:13Trista: now
- 5:14Trista: it's
- 5:14Trista: complete.
- 5:16Trista: And
- 5:17Trista: what
- 5:17Trista: it
- 5:17Trista: gives
- 5:17Trista: us
- 5:18Trista: when
- 5:18Trista: we
- 5:19Trista: think
- 5:19Trista: about
- 5:20Trista: it
- 5:20Trista: that
- 5:20Trista: way
- 5:22Trista: is
- 5:22Trista: a
- 5:22Trista: little
- 5:22Trista: bit
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- 5:23Trista: space.
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- 5:24Trista: little
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- 5:27Trista: a
- 5:27Trista: little
- 5:27Trista: bit
- 5:28Trista: of
- 5:28Trista: release,
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- 5:30Trista: you're
- 5:30Trista: not
- 5:31Trista: beating
- 5:31Trista: yourself
- 5:31Trista: up
- 5:32Trista: and
- 5:32Trista: you're
- 5:32Trista: not
- 5:33Trista: beating
- 5:34Trista: the
- 5:34Trista: other
- 5:34Trista: person
- 5:35Trista: up.
- 5:36Trista: Otherwise
- 5:38Trista: you're
- 5:39Trista: spending
- 5:39Trista: time
- 5:40Trista: going
- 5:40Trista: back,
- 5:41Trista: looking
- 5:41Trista: backwards,
- 5:43Trista: ruminating,
- 5:45Trista: and
- 5:45Trista: trying
- 5:45Trista: to
- 5:45Trista: rewrite
- 5:47Trista: What
- 5:47Trista: happened
- 5:48Trista: in
- 5:48Trista: the
- 5:49Trista: past
- 5:49Trista: either
- 5:49Trista: the
- 5:49Trista: entire
- 5:50Trista: relationship
- 5:51Trista: beginning
- 5:51Trista: the
- 5:51Trista: relationship
- 5:52Trista: the
- 5:52Trista: end
- 5:52Trista: of
- 5:52Trista: the
- 5:53Trista: relationship.
- 5:54Trista: It
- 5:54Trista: doesn't
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- 5:56Trista: You
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- 5:56Trista: had
- 5:56Trista: this
- 5:57Trista: shoulda
- 5:57Trista: woulda
- 5:57Trista: coulda
- 6:00Trista: but
- 6:00Trista: it
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