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- 0:01Speaker 1: The world is becoming increasingly proficient at telling stories that
- 0:04Speaker 1: deny God. As such, we need Thinking Christian to become
- 0:08Speaker 1: as natural as breathing. Welcome to the Thinking Christian podcast.
- 0:11Speaker 2: I'm Dr. James Spencer.
- 0:12Speaker 1: Through calm, thoughtful, theological discussions, Thinking Christian highlights the ways
- 0:16Speaker 1: God is working in the world and questions the underlying social, cultural,
- 0:20Speaker 1: and political assumptions that hinder Christians from becoming more like Christ.
- 0:24Speaker 2: Now, on to today's episode of Thinking Christian. Hey, everybody.
- 0:29Speaker 2: Welcome to this episode of Thinking Christian. I'm your host, Dr.
- 0:31Speaker 1: James Spencer, and I'm happy to welcome Ryan Skoog. He's
- 0:35Speaker 1: the author of Lead with Prayer and also the president
- 0:38Speaker 1: of an organization called Venture. And so we're going to
- 0:41Speaker 1: have kind of a wide-ranging discussion today about his business,
- 0:45Speaker 1: his ministry work, about prayer, and about the global church. So, Ryan,
- 0:49Speaker 1: welcome to the program, man. It's great to have you here.
- 0:51Speaker 3: Hey, I'm so excited to be here. This is awesome. Yeah.
- 0:54Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 0:55Speaker 2: So tell us a little bit about yourself.
- 0:57Speaker 1: We talked a little bit in the pre-interview just about
- 0:59Speaker 1: the different ways that your businesses are kind of structured
- 1:03Speaker 1: and how you do what you do. So maybe talk
- 1:06Speaker 1: a little bit about what Venture is and then how
- 1:08Speaker 1: all of it sort of supported, funded, how it all
- 1:11Speaker 1: works together.
- 1:12Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 1:13Speaker 4: So when I was 18, I got started into mission
- 1:17Speaker 4: work by smuggling Bibles into China. Like that's what you
- 1:20Speaker 4: had to do early before smartphones. And Got apprehended by
- 1:23Speaker 4: the police and had these miraculous rescues and eventually met
- 1:27Speaker 4: a guy named Brother Moses. And he had been beaten
- 1:30Speaker 4: 100 days straight in front of the prisoners of his
- 1:34Speaker 4: prison for his faith. And they literally bring him up
- 1:38Speaker 4: in front of them and they say, deny your faith
- 1:40Speaker 4: in Christ. And he would just with tears in his
- 1:42Speaker 4: eyes say, I can't. He's done too much for me.
- 1:46Speaker 4: And I met Brother Moses as an 18-year-old. And this guy...
- 1:51Speaker 4: had more joy in his eyes than anyone I'd ever met.
- 1:55Speaker 4: And I thought, this is a saint. This guy had
- 1:58Speaker 4: been beaten and down more than anyone I've ever met
- 2:00Speaker 4: and had more joy than anyone I've ever met.
- 2:02Speaker 3: I'm hooked.
- 2:03Speaker 4: I want to serve the global church. And I grew
- 2:07Speaker 4: up in a family, kind of a travel family. My
- 2:10Speaker 4: dad started a travel company, and then my brother started
- 2:13Speaker 4: a travel tech company, and I started one. You kind
- 2:15Speaker 4: of had to start a company to show up at
- 2:17Speaker 4: the dinner table is the culture of our And my
- 2:20Speaker 4: dad never took us to Disney World, even though we
- 2:23Speaker 4: had passes all around the world. We went to refugee camps,
- 2:27Speaker 4: and we went to places in gnarly, gnarly areas. So
- 2:30Speaker 4: out of that, I just was hooked on wanting to
- 2:32Speaker 4: see God's kingdom break out in the really difficult, crazy places.
- 2:37Speaker 4: And the word venture, it means to go to a
- 2:40Speaker 4: difficult or dangerous place. And for us, we define that
- 2:44Speaker 4: by the three uns. So we go to places that
- 2:47Speaker 4: are unsafe. unreached and unresourced. And unsafe, when I say unsafe,
- 2:53Speaker 4: we're talking war zones, persecuted areas. We've had seven of
- 2:56Speaker 4: our partners killed for their faith. Even just one several
- 3:00Speaker 4: months ago, Brother Thunkham. Another one was tortured and put
- 3:05Speaker 4: in stocks, like a 16th century torture device. I mean, real,
- 3:09Speaker 4: real stuff. Another 51 have been arrested in the past
- 3:12Speaker 4: two years. So really unsafe areas. And then we go
- 3:16Speaker 4: to areas where 80% of a village would be trafficked and,
- 3:20Speaker 4: and we'll see God's kingdom break out. And now it
- 3:23Speaker 4: was 0%, you know, that kind of thing. And then
- 3:25Speaker 4: we go to unreached. And when I say unreached, like
- 3:27Speaker 4: hinterland places where up in the Himalayas and, and, uh,
- 3:31Speaker 4: places where if a woman is having her period, they
- 3:34Speaker 4: think that she's cursed by the gods and they kick
- 3:36Speaker 4: her out of the village. And, uh, they're sacrificing animals
- 3:40Speaker 4: to rocks and trees while the kids are still starving.
- 3:42Speaker 3: I mean, just crazy, crazy out there places.
- 3:45Speaker 4: And then when I say unresourced, unfortunately, only 1% of
- 3:50Speaker 4: Christian giving goes to the unreached. So if it's super
- 3:53Speaker 4: bad and they've never heard Jesus and virtually no one's
- 3:57Speaker 4: giving there, that's where we want to be. And we're
- 4:00Speaker 4: seeing the kingdom of God break out. We've seen over
- 4:03Speaker 4: 15,000 house churches planted and those house churches have risen
- 4:09Speaker 4: up and stopped trafficking and rescued thousands of girls out
- 4:13Speaker 4: of trafficking and gotten meals like 85 million meals to
- 4:17Speaker 4: people through farming and feeding and you know training in
- 4:19Speaker 4: feminine hygiene like we're talking about where women are not
- 4:22Speaker 4: being kicked out so just transforming villages some villages where
- 4:26Speaker 4: so many people became christian the brothel in the town
- 4:30Speaker 4: shut down because of lack of demand because the reformation
- 4:33Speaker 4: that happened in the village so just beautiful things the
- 4:36Speaker 4: kingdom of god in these tough places is breaking out
- 4:39Speaker 4: and even uh Gordon Conwell Theological Seminary, they have a
- 4:42Speaker 4: center for global Christianity and they've been tracking people, how,
- 4:45Speaker 4: how the movement of Christianity around the world and missiologists
- 4:49Speaker 4: are saying, we're not seeing numerically, we're not seeing the
- 4:52Speaker 4: largest movement, movement towards Christianity in our lifetime. We're seeing
- 4:55Speaker 4: the largest movement towards Christianity in the history of the church.
- 5:00Speaker 4: Like this is, we're living through the largest and most
- 5:02Speaker 4: explosive growth the church has ever seen in the history
- 5:06Speaker 4: of the church. And it, It doesn't feel like that
- 5:08Speaker 4: all the time in the West. You feel a little
- 5:10Speaker 4: bit of a dimming light or something. But as one
- 5:13Speaker 4: of my academic missiologist people crassly said, just remember we're
- 5:18Speaker 4: crushing it around the world, man. We're crushing it. And
- 5:21Speaker 4: so that's, I love being able to be a part
- 5:25Speaker 4: of this because I see firsthand, I've been collecting stories
- 5:28Speaker 4: from our partners and matching them up with the chapters
- 5:30Speaker 4: of the book of Acts. And I've got a story
- 5:32Speaker 4: for almost every single a chapter in the book of Acts,
- 5:37Speaker 4: a story from one of our partners that matches similarly.
- 5:40Speaker 4: And so it's like, it is happening all around us.
- 5:43Speaker 4: And so that's the venture side. And then I'm also
- 5:46Speaker 4: a business owner. So I kind of split my time,
- 5:49Speaker 4: own several travel technology companies and some other, like in
- 5:55Speaker 4: the food service and things like that. A little bit
- 5:57Speaker 4: of venture capital, if you will, like a mini, very,
- 5:59Speaker 4: very small, but our businesses cover all the admin of venture.
- 6:04Speaker 4: so that when people give, 100% of it goes straight
- 6:06Speaker 4: to the programs and projects and partners that I was
- 6:08Speaker 4: telling you about. And so I kind of split my
- 6:10Speaker 4: time back and forth between both of those and just
- 6:13Speaker 4: seeing God do unbelievable things. And Venture, it.
- 6:17Speaker 3: Actually started as a, like, early days, it started as
- 6:21Speaker 3: a bike ride.
- 6:22Speaker 4: A friend of mine in college, he was in college,
- 6:25Speaker 4: I'm just out of college, and he goes, dude, because
- 6:28Speaker 4: everybody said dude back then.
- 6:29Speaker 3: He was like, dude, you know, right?
- 6:31Speaker 4: He said, let's, Let's, uh, let's bike across the country
- 6:35Speaker 4: and raise money for hurting kids and missionaries. And I
- 6:37Speaker 4: was like, oh man, I had no idea you're a cyclist.
- 6:41Speaker 3: He goes, oh, I'm not. And I was like, do you,
- 6:44Speaker 3: do you even have a bike? He's like, nah. And
- 6:46Speaker 3: I was like, do you, do you know how to
- 6:47Speaker 3: raise money? Do you have any money? He's like, no, no, no.
- 6:50Speaker 3: I was like, when do you want to go? And
- 6:51Speaker 3: he's like two months. And, you know, I helped organize it.
- 6:54Speaker 4: He went on it with some friends and it raised
- 6:56Speaker 4: like $ 16, 000, which to us, I mean, that could have been.
- 6:59Speaker 3: A million bucks, you know?
- 7:00Speaker 2: It was huge back then.
- 7:01Speaker 3: She's like, wow, this is epic.
- 7:05Speaker 4: And by God's grace, I was starting a company right
- 7:08Speaker 4: around that time, my first company. And so as the
- 7:13Speaker 4: company would grow, adventure would grow. And a guy named
- 7:15Speaker 4: Don Miller, who wrote this book, Blue Like Jazz, he
- 7:17Speaker 4: went on one of our tours and wrote about it
- 7:20Speaker 4: in his next book, and that took off. And so
- 7:21Speaker 4: it just started these tough things for tough places. And
- 7:25Speaker 4: so it's just on an adventure that never ever planned
- 7:29Speaker 4: that God had. And it's just been wild. So that 16,000,
- 7:32Speaker 4: I think it's raised over 65 million now. So it
- 7:35Speaker 4: was something that God's just really taken off. I never
- 7:38Speaker 4: would have thought it would kind of become what it is,
- 7:41Speaker 4: but it, it's, uh, it's been a really, really wild
- 7:43Speaker 4: ride to see that happen.
- 7:45Speaker 2: How do you identify the places you end up going?
- 7:48Speaker 3: Um, yeah.
- 7:50Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 7:52Speaker 3: Super, super good question.
- 7:53Speaker 4: Um, So we have what's called an unscore for different
- 7:56Speaker 4: regions around the world. And, and we, we give an unscore.
- 8:00Speaker 4: So how unsafe is it? How unreached is it? And
- 8:03Speaker 4: we partner with, you know, whether it's, we look at
- 8:05Speaker 4: state department databases, Joshua product project databases. We'll look at, um,
- 8:10Speaker 4: it's a pretty academic. We have a PhD from Princeton.
- 8:13Speaker 4: It was our director of international programs. She taught at Columbia. Um,
- 8:17Speaker 4: Ben Bernanke was one of her colleagues, just an absolute global,
- 8:20Speaker 4: global genius kind of person. you know, white, white papers
- 8:24Speaker 4: on international tax law and all these things. And so
- 8:27Speaker 4: she academically helped us create, um, this is, she's almost
- 8:30Speaker 4: done with her second doctorate, uh, this unscore and, and it's,
- 8:34Speaker 4: it's way more detailed and economic and everything like that,
- 8:37Speaker 4: but it comes down to here's the, the most unsafe,
- 8:41Speaker 4: unreached and unresourced places on the world. And they get
- 8:44Speaker 4: you to, you know, we, we have partners in, uh,
- 8:47Speaker 4: Somalia and, and Sudan and Myanmar and, uh, Bhutan and,
- 8:52Speaker 4: allows and, and a lot of these really, really hotspot
- 8:55Speaker 4: play Pakistan, you know, like really hotspot places. And, uh,
- 8:59Speaker 4: that's if, if I told you like the percentage wise
- 9:03Speaker 4: fastest growing church in the world is actually in Iran.
- 9:06Speaker 3: Like you, you.
- 9:08Speaker 4: You never even believe that, but that's what's happening. The
- 9:10Speaker 4: kingdom of God is breaking these places like, like nothing else.
- 9:13Speaker 4: And it's miraculous and dreams. And like, it just, all
- 9:18Speaker 4: these crazy things are happening.
- 9:20Speaker 1: One of my buddies runs a nonprofit, it's called Grain
- 9:24Speaker 1: for Pain, and he takes sacks of grain over to
- 9:27Speaker 1: South Sudan. He was actually trying to do his dissertation
- 9:30Speaker 1: on education in South Sudan and do some stuff there.
- 9:33Speaker 1: But the school he was with said it was too dangerous,
- 9:36Speaker 1: like he couldn't get in to do the field work.
- 9:38Speaker 1: And so I'm familiar with that sort of part of
- 9:41Speaker 1: the world just through his work. It's sort of a
- 9:43Speaker 1: fascinating ministry that he's running as well. But it's really interesting,
- 9:49Speaker 1: like how you, the unscore, I love that.
- 9:52Speaker 2: It's, that's impressive.
- 9:54Speaker 4: Oh, we're so excited to be able to like bring
- 9:58Speaker 4: this out to the forefront. and, and share with people like, Hey,
- 10:02Speaker 4: the worst places are getting the least amount of money.
- 10:04Speaker 4: Like we should really change that. And so, and, and
- 10:08Speaker 4: for us, it's not just about venture, our organization, like
- 10:10Speaker 4: if we can get the word out for all the
- 10:12Speaker 4: other ones. And, you know, when you, when you work
- 10:14Speaker 4: in the tough places, uh, everyone's just like, how can
- 10:19Speaker 4: we work together? Like it's not competition. There's not any
- 10:22Speaker 4: of that kind of stuff that you could see in
- 10:23Speaker 4: other ministries or nonprofits.
- 10:25Speaker 3: It's just like, you're here. You care about these people too.
- 10:28Speaker 3: Let's go. You know?
- 10:30Speaker 4: And so I tell people where we work, they don't
- 10:32Speaker 4: even know what a denomination is. Um, you know, and
- 10:36Speaker 4: so like, you'll see Catholic bishops working with, you know,
- 10:39Speaker 4: just village pastors and, and it's just beautiful. Uh, persecution
- 10:43Speaker 4: in some ways helps, helps mitigate a lot of the other,
- 10:48Speaker 4: challenges that you would see in the Western church?
- 10:51Speaker 2: You know, it's fascinating you talk about that. I've been
- 10:53Speaker 2: teaching through Revelation.
- 10:54Speaker 1: And so you kind of hit these different points in the,
- 10:57Speaker 1: you know, you're going through the seven letters. And one
- 10:59Speaker 1: of the things I've kind of realized this time teaching
- 11:03Speaker 1: through it is that, you know, the Jews and the
- 11:06Speaker 1: Christians were often viewed as the same during that period
- 11:10Speaker 1: of time.
- 11:12Speaker 2: The Christians were viewed as a Jewish sect.
- 11:14Speaker 1: But as we go through the book of Revelation, you
- 11:16Speaker 1: start to see these different hints that the background is
- 11:19Speaker 1: shifting and the Jews are really distancing themselves further and.
- 11:22Speaker 2: Further from Christians.
- 11:23Speaker 1: Because they had dispensation from Rome not to participate in
- 11:26Speaker 1: all these different pagan worship ceremonies, and they could avoid
- 11:31Speaker 1: persecution in that way and kind of throw it all
- 11:33Speaker 1: on the Christians. And so that just comes to mind
- 11:36Speaker 1: as you talk about that persecution does forge a community.
- 11:40Speaker 1: Because it really demonstrates, hey, we're all in this together.
- 11:44Speaker 3: Absolutely. The differences stop mattering. They really do.
- 11:49Speaker 4: You've got two factors. One, most of where we work,
- 11:53Speaker 4: they're illiterate and won't be literate in our lifetime.
- 11:56Speaker 3: That's just the reality.
- 11:57Speaker 4: And so we practice disciple-making movement model where it's house
- 12:02Speaker 4: churches that plant house churches. And people have audio Bibles
- 12:05Speaker 4: and they memorize 60 stories of the Bible and And
- 12:08Speaker 4: they say it's better to memorize 60 stories and obey
- 12:10Speaker 4: them than to know the whole thing and not obey it.
- 12:13Speaker 3: And so it's a real obedience focused.
- 12:16Speaker 4: And people like Esther, she's 26, hiking through tiger infested jungles,
- 12:21Speaker 4: goes to a village, starts training in feminine hygiene, and
- 12:24Speaker 4: then starts sharing the gospel. And she prayed for a
- 12:27Speaker 4: five-year-old and an eight-year-old boy who were both crippled. And
- 12:30Speaker 4: they both get up and start walking. And the whole
- 12:31Speaker 4: village gets baptized. And I mean, that's the kind of
- 12:34Speaker 4: stuff that's just crazy that's happening.
- 12:36Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 12:37Speaker 4: And you're right, the persecution, we recently had, you know,
- 12:41Speaker 4: you talk about Revelation and the martyrs, and there was
- 12:46Speaker 4: a Tertullian who said the blood of the martyrs is
- 12:48Speaker 4: the seed of the church. Well, their brother Thunkham was
- 12:53Speaker 4: killed in November in the northwest region of a, I'm
- 12:56Speaker 4: not supposed to say which country, but in the northwest
- 12:58Speaker 4: region of one of these countries, and Normally, like, in
- 13:02Speaker 4: that region, our team would see, like, 20 people come
- 13:05Speaker 4: to Jesus a month, and we're really excited about that,
- 13:08Speaker 4: those 20. And he died, he was killed for his faith,
- 13:13Speaker 4: and they even declared it was for his faith, for
- 13:16Speaker 4: inciting people to believe in God was the actual, you know,
- 13:20Speaker 4: claim against him. And they just, they shot him six times,
- 13:24Speaker 4: and I thought, man, the church is going to retreat.
- 13:27Speaker 4: And one of my old crusty missionary mentors had said,
- 13:30Speaker 4: You're going to see one of two things happen.
- 13:32Speaker 3: Either the church will retreat or you're actually going to
- 13:34Speaker 3: see a revival.
- 13:36Speaker 4: And in the past six months, we've seen over a
- 13:39Speaker 4: thousand people come to faith in Christ and hundreds of
- 13:41Speaker 4: house churches started in that area, that very region where
- 13:45Speaker 4: he was killed. And so it's like the church just
- 13:47Speaker 4: rallied around his death and went forward instead of backwards.
- 13:52Speaker 3: So it's just so inspiring. Yeah.
- 13:55Speaker 2: That's pretty unbelievable.
- 13:58Speaker 1: I mean, when I think about, you know, we're trying
- 14:01Speaker 1: to do a lot with discipleship, even in the West,
- 14:03Speaker 1: and we work a good bit with Eastern European churches
- 14:07Speaker 1: that are in relatively dangerous areas, but nothing like what
- 14:11Speaker 1: you're talking about.
- 14:12Speaker 2: You know, this is where being a Christian isn't.
- 14:14Speaker 1: Exactly at the social capital is a lot different than
- 14:16Speaker 1: places where Christians are.
- 14:17Speaker 2: Just being killed for being Christian.
- 14:19Speaker 1: But when you think about discipleship in a non-literate space,
- 14:23Speaker 1: the only experience I have with it is when I
- 14:25Speaker 1: was with Moody Bible Institute, we used to send these
- 14:29Speaker 1: small solar-powered, almost indestructible audio players out to bush.
- 14:33Speaker 2: Pastors in Africa.
- 14:34Speaker 1: And so is that sort of what your system kind
- 14:38Speaker 1: of looks like?
- 14:39Speaker 3: Yeah, so we'll do the audio Bibles.
- 14:42Speaker 4: We have oral cultures are very, very focused on memorization.
- 14:46Speaker 4: It's in a way we don't understand. Kind of, the
- 14:49Speaker 4: only explanation I have is pre-your-cellphone use to memorize phone
- 14:55Speaker 4: numbers of all the people you knew.
- 14:56Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah.
- 14:56Speaker 4: And your mind could hold a ton of phone numbers.
- 15:01Speaker 4: And now, like, I can barely remember my own sometimes,
- 15:04Speaker 4: you know, like that kind of a thing. And so
- 15:07Speaker 4: oral cultures are bent towards memorization. So they memorize and
- 15:10Speaker 4: probably have memorized more scripture than most Christians in America
- 15:14Speaker 4: or in the West.
- 15:15Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 15:15Speaker 4: And so that focus on memorization and the audio Bibles
- 15:20Speaker 4: are just phenomenal. And there's audio Bibles, but there's also
- 15:24Speaker 4: discipleship material you can put on smartphones. And, you know,
- 15:27Speaker 4: you can go to a village in the middle of
- 15:28Speaker 4: nowhere and they don't have running.
- 15:30Speaker 3: Water, but they have smartphones. Like, it's just weird, this
- 15:33Speaker 3: world that we live in.
- 15:33Speaker 4: And I think it's by God's grace we're able to
- 15:36Speaker 4: get the gospel and get discipleship material and things. But
- 15:40Speaker 4: we're We're really focused on this. It's called DMM, Disciple
- 15:43Speaker 4: Making Movements, or CPM, Church Planning Movements. And movement training
- 15:49Speaker 4: is instead of trying to figure out all the parts
- 15:52Speaker 4: of the Bible you don't understand, work on obeying the
- 15:55Speaker 4: parts you do. And C.S. Lewis even said that. He said,
- 16:00Speaker 4: it's not the parts I don't understand in the Bible
- 16:02Speaker 4: I have a problem with. It's the parts I do
- 16:04Speaker 4: understand I have a problem with because they're really hard.
- 16:06Speaker 3: They're really difficult to do. And that's C.S. Lewis.
- 16:10Speaker 4: So I'm like, okay, that's really important to keep that
- 16:13Speaker 4: obedience-based discipleship. So they want, in the places we serve,
- 16:18Speaker 4: they want every believer to do five things. They want
- 16:21Speaker 4: every believer to be praying and in Scripture one to
- 16:25Speaker 4: two hours a day. They want every believer spending time
- 16:28Speaker 4: with the lost weekly. Every believer is serving the poor
- 16:32Speaker 4: and the needy. And the reason you say needy is
- 16:34Speaker 4: sometimes people, you know, you could be a millionaire, but
- 16:37Speaker 4: you lost your son. Like, you're needy.
- 16:40Speaker 3: You might not be poor, but boy, you're needy. So
- 16:42Speaker 3: it's poor and needy.
- 16:43Speaker 4: And then every believer is weekly getting together, doing something
- 16:47Speaker 4: called the Discovery Bible Study, where you walk through, the
- 16:51Speaker 4: Word is in the center, and you have a facilitator,
- 16:54Speaker 4: and that can rotate. And then you ask simple questions about,
- 16:58Speaker 4: what does this say about God? What does this say
- 16:59Speaker 4: about people? How can I obey this? And you hold
- 17:01Speaker 4: each other accountable to that. And next week, like, how
- 17:05Speaker 4: did you obey what you said you're going to obey?
- 17:07Speaker 4: And it's a real high accountability on that. And then,
- 17:11Speaker 4: and then every believer is training someone else to do these. And,
- 17:14Speaker 4: and those five things, you know, our, our joke is
- 17:18Speaker 4: whether or not you're at a mega church or mass,
- 17:20Speaker 4: are you doing those five things of disciple making and, and,
- 17:24Speaker 4: and how you worship is much less important and how
- 17:28Speaker 4: you practice the, the, the elements of disciple making. And most,
- 17:32Speaker 4: most American or Western disciple making or discipleship is how
- 17:36Speaker 4: you can be a disciple, but very little of it
- 17:39Speaker 4: is training you how you can make disciples.
- 17:42Speaker 3: And it's like missing half of it.
- 17:44Speaker 4: And actually, I would say some of the greatest growth
- 17:47Speaker 4: in my life is when I'm helping disciple someone else,
- 17:50Speaker 4: not just trying to be a disciple myself.
- 17:52Speaker 3: And the woman at the well said, give me this water.
- 17:55Speaker 4: And Jesus says, no, I want to make you a well.
- 17:58Speaker 3: I don't want you just to have the water.
- 17:59Speaker 4: And it And I think maybe like 90% of our
- 18:02Speaker 4: discipleship can be like having the water, not being the well,
- 18:06Speaker 4: if that makes sense.
- 18:08Speaker 2: It does.
- 18:08Speaker 1: And I would say even when I do a lot
- 18:11Speaker 1: of work in the AI space, you know, thinking about
- 18:13Speaker 1: technology and those.
- 18:14Speaker 2: Kind of aspects.
- 18:15Speaker 1: And so some of the questions that have been raised about, hey,
- 18:17Speaker 1: what about AI sermons or what about AI generated content?
- 18:21Speaker 2: You know, if they're writing articles and those kind of things.
- 18:23Speaker 3: Uh-huh.
- 18:24Speaker 1: And the way I usually talk about it, I'm like,
- 18:26Speaker 1: I would hate for AI to rob me of the
- 18:29Speaker 1: ability to write something because the process of writing is
- 18:34Speaker 1: so formative just in and of itself. The process of
- 18:37Speaker 1: teaching someone else is often, you know, like that idea
- 18:40Speaker 1: of when you're making a disciple, you're actually getting more
- 18:43Speaker 1: growth than if you're just trying to grow yourself. Like,
- 18:46Speaker 1: I think that those opportunities, if we're not careful, we
- 18:49Speaker 1: lose them. And it's a really crucial point I think
- 18:52Speaker 1: you're making is that we tend to, learn an awful
- 18:55Speaker 1: lot when we're interacting with people, we're trying to help
- 18:58Speaker 1: them grow.
- 18:59Speaker 3: Oh yeah.
- 19:00Speaker 1: It just naturally comes up.
- 19:02Speaker 2: Oh man, I need to grow too.
- 19:04Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 19:05Speaker 4: And I mean, if you don't mind me geeking out
- 19:06Speaker 4: for a second on this, um, Jim Wild, Jim Wilder, uh,
- 19:10Speaker 4: he's a neuro theologian and, and so he, he, he
- 19:14Speaker 4: maps how theology affects your brain. And, and so we
- 19:18Speaker 4: have these neural networks that are like our center for.
- 19:21Speaker 3: What I'll call the fruit of the spirit.
- 19:23Speaker 4: Character, And love and awe and worship and kindness and
- 19:28Speaker 4: joy and all these things. And that area of the brain,
- 19:32Speaker 4: you cannot see growth in that area without tapping into
- 19:36Speaker 4: the relational part of your brain. Meaning that character growth
- 19:40Speaker 4: is basically contingent on relationship. So, for example, you can't
- 19:46Speaker 4: just tell someone a precept of courage. They have to
- 19:49Speaker 4: see courage embodied. and modeled in a person and have
- 19:52Speaker 4: relationship with that person to truly see growth. And that's
- 19:55Speaker 4: why fatherlessness is a huge issue. And that's why literally
- 20:00Speaker 4: Jesus came as a person, had relationship, and modeled. And
- 20:05Speaker 4: it's as if our brains were wired for the Incarnation.
- 20:09Speaker 3: That's cool. And that's where.
- 20:11Speaker 4: Like ascetic Buddhism and all those other things, they fail
- 20:16Speaker 4: because they don't have a relational aspect to them. Like
- 20:19Speaker 4: our brains were wired that we had to have story
- 20:22Speaker 4: embodied relationship. And so we had to, for us to
- 20:26Speaker 4: know God's love, we had to see a cross. That's
- 20:29Speaker 4: the way our brains are wired. And so we had
- 20:31Speaker 4: to see the incarnation. And so Jim Wilder's stuff is
- 20:34Speaker 4: just fantastic on this. It plays into prayer as well.
- 20:39Speaker 4: Bowling Green did a study on meditation versus prayer.
- 20:43Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 20:44Speaker 3: And they had one group doing like, have you heard
- 20:46Speaker 3: about this?
- 20:47Speaker 2: I've heard about this study, yeah, but go ahead. Oh, yeah, yeah.
- 20:51Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah.
- 20:52Speaker 4: So Bowling Green, they had one group doing like sand
- 20:55Speaker 4: is soft and water is wet, all this mindfulness and meditation.
- 20:58Speaker 3: And then they had the other group doing.
- 21:00Speaker 4: Like God is love and God is with me right
- 21:02Speaker 4: now and Jesus is real and like all these other things. And,
- 21:07Speaker 4: you know, there's benefits to meditation, there's benefits to prayer
- 21:10Speaker 4: that are really clear. Those benefits were 10x for the
- 21:15Speaker 4: group that was praying to a relational God, because those
- 21:18Speaker 4: benefits can't really fully be ignited in their neural networks
- 21:24Speaker 4: without the relational part. And so when it comes to prayer,
- 21:27Speaker 4: it comes to discipleship, it's all of that. And I
- 21:31Speaker 4: think to your point with AI, AI can give us
- 21:34Speaker 4: all the principles, but it can't embody... That's right. That
- 21:38Speaker 4: courage in a person. And so, you know, God, He
- 21:41Speaker 4: didn't tell us, be courageous. He gave us David and Goliath,
- 21:45Speaker 4: the story. And then we can go, oh, okay. And
- 21:48Speaker 4: then we can see someone in us, you know, I
- 21:50Speaker 4: can see my brother Thuncam give his life for Christ.
- 21:53Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 21:53Speaker 4: And I see courage. You know, like, have relationship and
- 21:56Speaker 4: have a story. And then all of a sudden those
- 22:00Speaker 4: beautiful things happen. Sorry, that's like a tangent.
- 22:02Speaker 3: No, not at all.
- 22:04Speaker 2: It's great.
- 22:04Speaker 1: I mean, I think I haven't read through the neuroscience stuff,
- 22:08Speaker 1: so I'll have to check out Jim Wilder. I'm interested
- 22:11Speaker 1: to read some of that stuff. I've stayed more in
- 22:13Speaker 1: the cognitive psych space with the embodied cognition and those.
- 22:16Speaker 2: Kind of ideas.
- 22:17Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 22:18Speaker 1: And it's just so, it's such a crucial point because
- 22:21Speaker 1: I can remember, you know, I went to seminary and
- 22:25Speaker 1: it's a pretty sanitized environment. right? You're sitting in a
- 22:28Speaker 1: really nice classroom. It's usually air conditioned.
- 22:31Speaker 3: If it's not, people are complaining, right?
- 22:33Speaker 1: You know, and so you're listening to a professor talk
- 22:36Speaker 1: and the professors are great, but they're always on campus.
- 22:39Speaker 1: Like you don't really interact with them much anywhere else.
- 22:42Speaker 1: And so you have sort of this artificial space that's
- 22:45Speaker 1: created where there isn't a lot of time for you
- 22:48Speaker 1: to look out and see courage for you, you know,
- 22:50Speaker 1: to use your example, right? Where is a college professor
- 22:52Speaker 1: really demonstrating courage?
- 22:54Speaker 2: Well, they're not often.
- 22:56Speaker 1: But this I remember in my systematic theology class, the
- 22:59Speaker 1: first one I'd ever taken, we were talking about the
- 23:02Speaker 1: sovereignty of God. And this gentleman from Africa kept saying
- 23:07Speaker 1: that he didn't understand it.
- 23:08Speaker 2: He didn't understand it.
- 23:09Speaker 1: So the professor was finally like, well, why don't you understand?
- 23:11Speaker 1: And he tells this story about African soldiers who came
- 23:15Speaker 1: in and, you know, abused his wife and his kids,
- 23:19Speaker 1: left him for dead. And he's like, I don't understand
- 23:21Speaker 1: the sovereignty of God. I'll never erase that from my brain.
- 23:26Speaker 1: I mean, it sort of encapsulates and framed everything I
- 23:29Speaker 1: did from theology that.
- 23:30Speaker 2: Point on forward.
- 23:32Speaker 1: It was such a powerful relational story where you're seeing
- 23:35Speaker 1: this guy and he was an older gentleman. I mean,
- 23:37Speaker 1: he was in tears telling the story. And you're just like,
- 23:41Speaker 1: that is what we're dealing with. That's how this stuff
- 23:45Speaker 1: fits into life.
- 23:46Speaker 2: And so I think.
- 23:47Speaker 1: There's something really crucial to what you all are doing
- 23:50Speaker 1: because doing discipleship in context... in hard context in difficult
- 23:58Speaker 1: space is very different than the way we usually deal
- 24:02Speaker 1: with it in the West where we're doing it. It's
- 24:06Speaker 1: not that hard things don't happen to people in the West.
- 24:08Speaker 1: I don't want to, I don't want to portray that.
- 24:09Speaker 3: No, no, no. Yeah.
- 24:11Speaker 1: But oftentimes we have luxury that, that other folks just don't.
- 24:16Speaker 4: Yeah. I, I, the one thing that's really hits me,
- 24:18Speaker 4: you know, cause I've been in, I've been in places
- 24:20Speaker 4: where they're, they're, A couple hours from mortar rounds going off,
- 24:24Speaker 4: we got evacuated with the army showing up. They're lighting
- 24:29Speaker 4: the policemen on fire with gasoline and things like that.
- 24:33Speaker 3: So I've been there.
- 24:34Speaker 4: And what I do daily is I remind myself that
- 24:39Speaker 4: as I go to bed, our partners overseas are waking
- 24:43Speaker 4: up and they're not safe. And when I wake up,
- 24:46Speaker 4: I don't even think about whether I'm safe or not.
- 24:49Speaker 4: You know, one of our partners, I won't even say
- 24:53Speaker 4: her name. I'll just call her, I don't know, Sandy.
- 24:56Speaker 4: But she's in a really difficult war zone. And many times,
- 25:01Speaker 4: 1130 at night, they bust into her house and they
- 25:03Speaker 4: grab her cell phone and see what's on there. So
- 25:06Speaker 4: we have to delete every communication we have with her
- 25:08Speaker 4: and she has to delete it on her side. And
- 25:11Speaker 4: we work with her to move millions of meals and
- 25:15Speaker 4: plant churches in this really difficult area.
- 25:17Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 25:18Speaker 4: Like the idea that we don't even think about the
- 25:22Speaker 4: fact that we wake up and we're safe and we,
- 25:24Speaker 4: you know, like how often do you think about danger?
- 25:27Speaker 4: And so that's something that I just live with because
- 25:30Speaker 4: that's in my inbox and that's, you know, in our
- 25:33Speaker 4: connections and when we go overseas. And so, yeah, I
- 25:37Speaker 4: guess maybe what you're saying, and this is just thinking
- 25:40Speaker 4: out loud, but maybe our theology would have a different.
- 25:43Speaker 3: Bent to it if there is danger.
- 25:44Speaker 4: You know, like if there's... You know, like there's just stuff.
- 25:48Speaker 3: Like that that hits.
- 25:49Speaker 4: And so that's really what's been one of the great
- 25:53Speaker 4: journeys in my life is this one question. And that's
- 25:56Speaker 4: what if the church in the West were to sit
- 25:59Speaker 4: at the feet of the exploding global church and say,
- 26:01Speaker 4: can you teach us to follow Jesus?
- 26:04Speaker 3: Yeah. Not the other way around.
- 26:05Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 26:06Speaker 4: Because we might have a lot of information in the West,
- 26:08Speaker 4: but like they embody these things of the scripture in
- 26:12Speaker 4: ways that I need to learn. And that's what, that's
- 26:15Speaker 4: actually what led to, writing a book lead with prayer
- 26:18Speaker 4: was because I, you know, the church is exploding.
- 26:22Speaker 3: And I thought, man, like what is the leadership principle?
- 26:25Speaker 3: What's driving this? Like what?
- 26:27Speaker 4: And there are some things about the disciple making model
- 26:29Speaker 4: where they're all disciples who make disciples, but the real
- 26:32Speaker 4: driver wasn't the leadership principle.
- 26:35Speaker 3: It was a prayer life.
- 26:36Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 26:37Speaker 4: And I was, you know, like, and when I say
- 26:40Speaker 4: prayer life, like Roosevelt, our partner who's serving in a
- 26:43Speaker 4: war zone for three decades, um, Um, I asked her
- 26:46Speaker 4: about her prayer life and she goes, Oh, I, when
- 26:49Speaker 4: I was 18, I wanted to tithe my time and I,
- 26:53Speaker 4: I'm sorry.
- 26:54Speaker 3: I'm sorry.
- 26:54Speaker 4: I wanted to tithe, but I had no money. So
- 26:56Speaker 4: I figured the only currency I had was my time
- 26:57Speaker 4: is what she said. So I started praying for two
- 27:00Speaker 4: and a half hours a day. And that's what I've
- 27:01Speaker 4: been doing the past 30 years. I was like, Oh,
- 27:04Speaker 4: so when you say prayer, And I say prayer.
- 27:08Speaker 3: We're talking about different things.
- 27:09Speaker 2: It's different.
- 27:10Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 27:11Speaker 2: And you're on a different level there.
- 27:12Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah.
- 27:14Speaker 4: And I, and so I came back and I realized
- 27:16Speaker 4: I got a shelf full of leadership books on how
- 27:18Speaker 4: leaders lead.
- 27:20Speaker 3: Deep into their lives.
- 27:22Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 27:22Speaker 4: And, and really targeted. I don't have a single book
- 27:25Speaker 4: on how leaders pray.
- 27:26Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 27:27Speaker 4: And, and so we, my buddy Cameron Doolittle and Peter Greer,
- 27:31Speaker 4: who runs hope and cam runs John Mark Comer's ministry.
- 27:35Speaker 4: we went on a journey and interviewed over a hundred
- 27:38Speaker 4: leaders around six different continents.
- 27:41Speaker 3: And we, we did the whole gambit.
- 27:42Speaker 4: So we did, you know, Francis Chan and John Mark
- 27:45Speaker 4: Homer and Tim Mackey and Johnny Erickson Tata and John
- 27:48Speaker 4: Ortberg and Mark Patterson, all these folks. We interviewed Christian billionaires.
- 27:53Speaker 4: We interviewed mega church pastors, and then we interviewed people
- 27:56Speaker 4: in the war zones. And we interviewed people planning churches
- 27:59Speaker 4: in the Himalayas and people running banks in the middle
- 28:01Speaker 4: of Africa. And we like interviewed, We hit the whole bit,
- 28:04Speaker 4: you know, from business to leadership to, you know, ministry
- 28:09Speaker 4: and pastors and everything in between. I didn't want anyone
- 28:13Speaker 4: to say, oh, that's for them. And so, you know,
- 28:16Speaker 4: I mean, two different billionaires we interviewed, and they pray
- 28:19Speaker 4: more than most pastors I've ever met. You know, like really,
- 28:22Speaker 4: really powerful things. And we stumbled upon an incredible discovery,
- 28:28Speaker 4: and that's that I thought their prayer lives would be
- 28:32Speaker 4: all over the map. You know, I mean, we're all
- 28:34Speaker 4: these desperate, you know, like some guy in the mountains
- 28:36Speaker 4: in the Himalayas, Francis Chan and a New York financier.
- 28:39Speaker 3: You know, like they're going to be so different.
- 28:42Speaker 4: And the, and the exact opposite was true. Their prayer
- 28:45Speaker 4: lives were so similar and I couldn't believe it. And
- 28:49Speaker 4: we were like, so every chapter in the book of
- 28:50Speaker 4: lead with prayer is this, there's the commonalities that we
- 28:53Speaker 4: saw amongst all the leaders, these similarities. And, uh, and
- 28:57Speaker 4: it just was so life-changing for me. It's changed, completely
- 29:00Speaker 4: changed my life. Learning to pray at the feet of
- 29:03Speaker 4: these leaders.
- 29:05Speaker 1: What are some of the commonalities?
- 29:08Speaker 4: Yeah, I'll give you like two or three real quick ones.
- 29:12Speaker 4: The first one was friendship first.
- 29:17Speaker 3: And what I mean by that is I thought they
- 29:20Speaker 3: would be so good at just praying heaven down on earth.
- 29:23Speaker 3: And they were.
- 29:24Speaker 4: I mean, they all did that. But the core of
- 29:29Speaker 4: their prayer lives was friendship. And so, for example, Rosabelle,
- 29:34Speaker 4: who I told you about, she took in her first
- 29:38Speaker 4: war orphan. when she was 16, and now we partner
- 29:41Speaker 4: with her to care for about 5,000 war orphans. And
- 29:45Speaker 4: she's in a war zone, but she starts her day,
- 29:48Speaker 4: she goes, I just love Jesus. I just take a
- 29:52Speaker 4: walk in the woods, in the jungle, and I'll look
- 29:55Speaker 4: at a spider web and go, oh God, it's so intricate.
- 29:59Speaker 4: Can you weave my heart that way? And she said,
- 30:02Speaker 4: I just spend time with my friend Jesus. And then
- 30:04Speaker 4: you go over and talk to Francis Chan and he's like,
- 30:06Speaker 4: oh man, I've got all these pressures on my ministry
- 30:08Speaker 4: and international. I just have to go take a walk
- 30:11Speaker 4: with my friend Jesus and just be with him. And
- 30:14Speaker 4: then I talked to a New York financier who's downtown
- 30:17Speaker 4: Manhattan over hundreds of millions of dollars. At one point
- 30:20Speaker 4: he was over billions of dollars of capital and he
- 30:23Speaker 4: puts these big blocks of time in his calendar that
- 30:26Speaker 4: say waste time with God. And I was like, what?
- 30:29Speaker 4: And he said, it's a double entendre. In his world,
- 30:33Speaker 4: if you're not trading, you're losing money. Time is money, man.
- 30:36Speaker 4: You're wasting time. He said, but I put it there
- 30:41Speaker 4: because that's what friends do. Friends spend time without agenda.
- 30:45Speaker 4: They waste time with each other. And that was the
- 30:48Speaker 4: foundation of the prayer. Several other pastors and folks were
- 30:52Speaker 4: just like, oh, I just stop and talk to them
- 30:54Speaker 4: throughout the day. Each day, I just talk with my friends.
- 30:57Speaker 4: I just have to be with God with no agenda.
- 30:59Speaker 4: And so I just started, I started practicing that, like
- 31:02Speaker 4: just taking a walk and being with Jesus and just
- 31:06Speaker 4: letting him talk and asking questions like, how can I
- 31:09Speaker 4: please you today? And, and who should I pray for today? And, and,
- 31:12Speaker 4: and what, you know, all of those things, it was,
- 31:15Speaker 4: it was like the disciples, man, they, every night they.
- 31:18Speaker 3: Had these, what, a campfire with Jesus. Yeah.
- 31:21Speaker 4: And they would be like, it said later that night
- 31:23Speaker 4: that the disciples would ask him, Hey, you know, like,
- 31:25Speaker 4: where do we miss you?
- 31:26Speaker 3: And, How did we do today? And what was that?
- 31:30Speaker 4: And it was just this beautiful relationship and friendship.
- 31:33Speaker 3: And Jesus said, I don't call you servants anymore. I
- 31:35Speaker 3: call you friends.
- 31:37Speaker 4: And he said, if you abide, then you're going to
- 31:38Speaker 4: have fruit that remains. And so it's utterly abiding. So
- 31:42Speaker 4: that was the first one, was the friendship first. That
- 31:44Speaker 4: radically changed my whole framework of prayer and my relationship
- 31:50Speaker 4: with Jesus. Even Mother Teresa talked about when she, four
- 31:54Speaker 4: times a day, for very long periods of time, she'd
- 31:56Speaker 4: go pray.
- 31:57Speaker 3: Remember that? Yeah. Do you remember that interview they had
- 32:00Speaker 3: with her on that?
- 32:01Speaker 2: It was unbelievable.
- 32:02Speaker 3: Yeah. And she goes, they're like, he's like, what do
- 32:05Speaker 3: you do when you pray? And she's like, not much.
- 32:07Speaker 3: I just sit with my friend Jesus. And I listen.
- 32:11Speaker 3: And the reporter was like, oh, you listen. What does
- 32:13Speaker 3: he say?
- 32:14Speaker 4: She goes, oh, not much. He just sits there with
- 32:17Speaker 4: me too. And, you know, it's just so cool. So
- 32:20Speaker 4: that idea has been, like on Sundays, I don't ask
- 32:24Speaker 4: God for anything. I spend a whole prayer time just
- 32:26Speaker 4: thanking Him, being with Him. I pretend that all my
- 32:29Speaker 4: prayer requests have already been answered. What would you say
- 32:32Speaker 4: to God if all my prayers have been answered? And
- 32:35Speaker 4: so then on Wednesdays, I always do, it's always, God,
- 32:39Speaker 4: what's your prayer list today? You know mine, what's yours?
- 32:42Speaker 4: And I just try and listen, and I'll text people
- 32:45Speaker 4: that come to mind, and things like that.
- 32:46Speaker 3: Just listening. It's just beautiful. So that's the first one.
- 32:50Speaker 4: The second one was, I thought they would have just
- 32:54Speaker 4: the I just realized that they didn't have a prayer time.
- 32:58Speaker 4: All these leaders we interviewed, they crafted a day with God.
- 33:03Speaker 4: So there were morning habits and there are evening habits
- 33:05Speaker 4: and there are midday habits and there are, you know,
- 33:07Speaker 4: certain triggers and there were, you know, once a week
- 33:10Speaker 4: habits and like they really crafted a day with God.
- 33:14Speaker 4: And that, you know, so like John Marcoma, Dallas Wheeler,
- 33:17Speaker 4: John Ortberg, these guys were, what is your morning psalm?
- 33:20Speaker 4: You wake up and the first thing out of your
- 33:22Speaker 4: mouth is a psalm.
- 33:23Speaker 3: And, and, you know, just the word of God and
- 33:25Speaker 3: prayer on your lips.
- 33:27Speaker 4: And, um, and I started rolling out of my bed
- 33:30Speaker 4: under my knees every day and, and just having that
- 33:33Speaker 4: posture of surrender and saying, okay, Lord, I need you.
- 33:35Speaker 3: I'm, you know, I can't do this without you.
- 33:38Speaker 4: And, um, it was just beautiful, uh, to have that
- 33:41Speaker 4: type of posture and add those morning habits and I'll
- 33:44Speaker 4: take a walk and, and then, um, and then like
- 33:48Speaker 4: throughout the day, Um, they would have, you know, the,
- 33:51Speaker 4: the Pope who created the, the idea of having a
- 33:53Speaker 4: church and a bell tower, Pope Savinius, like in 605, he,
- 33:55Speaker 4: he came up with this idea of like, yeah, I'm
- 33:58Speaker 4: going to have a tower and a bell in the
- 34:00Speaker 4: center of every town. It's going to ring every hour
- 34:02Speaker 4: and remind people that God's with them, remind people to
- 34:05Speaker 4: stop and praise God, remind people. So like, like metaphorically,
- 34:09Speaker 4: all these leaders we talked to had these bell towers.
- 34:11Speaker 3: In their day. Um, and some of them were crazy.
- 34:14Speaker 4: Like Mark Batterson was like, when people annoy me, I
- 34:17Speaker 4: take it as a bell reminder to pray.
- 34:20Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 34:20Speaker 4: And he says, he's just like, I pray all the
- 34:22Speaker 4: time because people really annoy me. So like, it's just fun,
- 34:26Speaker 4: you know, but like, like what is, what is your
- 34:28Speaker 4: practicing the presence of God look like?
- 34:30Speaker 3: How do you practice for the day? I have these
- 34:32Speaker 3: prayer cards on my desk.
- 34:34Speaker 4: We took the habits of all the different leaders that
- 34:37Speaker 4: we interviewed and created a deck of prayer cards. And,
- 34:40Speaker 4: and they're just like little simple things like, God, remind
- 34:43Speaker 4: me of your love in this moment. Make me a
- 34:45Speaker 4: blessing to people here. Just little sentence prayers and breathing
- 34:49Speaker 4: prayers just throughout the day. And then what are evening habits?
- 34:53Speaker 4: Our family, we take communion every night now and remember
- 34:57Speaker 4: the body and the blood of Christ.
- 34:58Speaker 3: It's been so transformative. It came out of a really.
- 35:01Speaker 4: Dark time in our family and having to do with
- 35:04Speaker 4: my daughter having these demonic nightmares. And we took communion
- 35:08Speaker 4: and she didn't have them. And we took communion the
- 35:10Speaker 4: next night and I was like, Kids, we're Catholic. We're
- 35:12Speaker 4: going to take communion every night.
- 35:16Speaker 3: And we've been doing that for years.
- 35:18Speaker 4: And I can't tell you how transformative remembering the body
- 35:20Speaker 4: and blood of Christ is.
- 35:21Speaker 3: That's cool.
- 35:23Speaker 4: Or what's your campfire with Jesus at night, where you
- 35:26Speaker 4: just kind of review the day with the Lord? And
- 35:30Speaker 4: how can I please you, Jesus? Where did I miss it?
- 35:33Speaker 4: What do you mean by this happening? You know, like
- 35:35Speaker 4: all those disciple questions and And so crafting a.
- 35:38Speaker 3: Day with God is so different.
- 35:40Speaker 4: You just walk in with your friend throughout the day,
- 35:42Speaker 4: not having your prayer time be done on your workout,
- 35:44Speaker 4: on your, you know, it's not a box you check.
- 35:47Speaker 4: It's leave the phone off the hook and be with
- 35:50Speaker 4: them all day. And that's way different, you know, than
- 35:54Speaker 4: what I was doing personally. So those two are transformative.
- 35:57Speaker 4: And then the last one was investing in prayer. One
- 36:01Speaker 4: of the guys in Australia, he's like, he says, mate,
- 36:05Speaker 4: where's prayer line items?
- 36:07Speaker 3: In your budget. I was like, what?
- 36:10Speaker 4: He says, Hey, if you value something, it makes it
- 36:13Speaker 4: to the budget. And, and so in venture, we started
- 36:16Speaker 4: doing 24, uh, seven, seven round the clock prayer centers
- 36:20Speaker 4: in the different countries that we serve. And since doing those,
- 36:24Speaker 4: we've seen unbelievable things like a thousand person mass baptism
- 36:29Speaker 4: in a country where it was completely unreached. Uh, 26
- 36:32Speaker 4: unreached people groups are all present and the government tried
- 36:35Speaker 4: to shut it down. And the leaders got together and said,
- 36:39Speaker 4: if you shut this down, we'll all vote against you.
- 36:41Speaker 4: And the leaders were like, you can have your baptism.
- 36:43Speaker 4: It was like this critical mass moment where the church
- 36:46Speaker 4: was able to have enough voice to rise up. And
- 36:50Speaker 4: things like that started happening since we started really investing
- 36:55Speaker 4: time and energy in prayer. So like in Venture and
- 36:58Speaker 4: our team here, you can pray on the clock. And
- 37:01Speaker 4: we learned that from Gary Haugen. And he has half
- 37:04Speaker 4: an hour a day on the clock that people can pray.
- 37:06Speaker 4: And he said, I did the math, and it's almost
- 37:11Speaker 4: like $ 4 million a year that we invest into prayer
- 37:15Speaker 4: as an organization.
- 37:16Speaker 3: And that's so vital.
- 37:18Speaker 4: So what does it look like to invest in prayer
- 37:20Speaker 4: in your own personal life, invest in prayer as a culture,
- 37:23Speaker 4: as an organization? And so the leaders we interviewed, they
- 37:27Speaker 4: invested in prayer.
- 37:29Speaker 3: They made it. And for some leaders, kind of going back.
- 37:34Speaker 2: To what we talked about.
- 37:35Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 37:37Speaker 4: They'll put their life at risk to have a prayer meeting.
- 37:41Speaker 4: They're not going to stop having a prayer meeting.
- 37:44Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah.
- 37:44Speaker 4: And, and, and, and, and, uh, I've, I've got pictures, man, of,
- 37:49Speaker 4: of these things being interrupted by communist soldiers. And like
- 37:53Speaker 4: Laos is actually a 1970s communist country, like the old
- 37:56Speaker 4: school Russian communism. People don't realize that there's still relics
- 38:00Speaker 4: of that existing still around.
- 38:02Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 38:03Speaker 3: Oh yeah.
- 38:03Speaker 4: No, no right to assembly. No more than nine people.
- 38:06Speaker 4: you know, all these things. And, um, yeah, it's crazy.
- 38:10Speaker 4: So they'll put their lives at risk to have a
- 38:12Speaker 4: prayer meeting. And I was like, wow, that's so inspiring.
- 38:16Speaker 2: I will say, I got a taste of this, what
- 38:19Speaker 2: you're talking about. Yeah.
- 38:20Speaker 1: Number one, I think that the comments on prayer are
- 38:22Speaker 1: really great. I'm interested to get the book and read it. So, um,
- 38:27Speaker 1: lead with prayer is where I can find all that.
- 38:30Speaker 2: Right.
- 38:30Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 38:31Speaker 4: And, um, we actually have a lot of the, the
- 38:33Speaker 4: habits that we learned from the leaders that, You can
- 38:36Speaker 4: download for free. Leadwithprayer.com is the website. And you can
- 38:41Speaker 4: get these prayer cards, the deck of cards, and you
- 38:44Speaker 4: can get a whole schedule to map out a personal
- 38:47Speaker 4: liturgy and craft a day with God.
- 38:49Speaker 3: Nice. And all those things.
- 38:51Speaker 4: And stuff like how to do a prayer retreat and
- 38:54Speaker 4: all these other different things that we learn from these leaders.
- 38:57Speaker 2: Cool. Okay, so we'll put that link in the show notes.
- 39:01Speaker 1: Sure.
- 39:01Speaker 2: That's awesome.
- 39:02Speaker 1: Because I think people really ought to... we wrote a
- 39:06Speaker 1: book on prayer. Me and a buddy had a book
- 39:08Speaker 1: that we wrote on prayer and we had edited chapters.
- 39:10Speaker 2: And different things like that.
- 39:11Speaker 1: But we're such academic geeks that, you know, I said
- 39:15Speaker 1: the challenge for me in writing a book on prayer
- 39:17Speaker 1: is that I'm so much more prone to study than
- 39:19Speaker 1: I am to prayer.
- 39:20Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 39:21Speaker 1: That, you know, it takes me time to get into
- 39:24Speaker 1: prayer where it doesn't take me any.
- 39:25Speaker 2: Time to get into study.
- 39:26Speaker 1: If you, you know, set a, you know, a book
- 39:29Speaker 1: thick with footnotes in front of me, I'm like excited.
- 39:34Speaker 1: It's just so much harder for me to get into.
- 39:36Speaker 1: So that's taken me some time to sort of grow
- 39:38Speaker 1: into a prayer life. And, um, it's, it's kind of, um,
- 39:43Speaker 1: it's been fantastic, but it's also been one of those
- 39:46Speaker 1: challenges where it kind of is like, yeah, this isn't
- 39:49Speaker 1: natural for me yet. You know, I'm still sort of
- 39:52Speaker 1: disciplining myself toward it.
- 39:54Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what's helped me is these prayer cards because
- 39:58Speaker 4: it has all these different prayers. The early church fathers,
- 40:01Speaker 4: they called liturgy, they called it a lattice to help
- 40:04Speaker 4: the vine grow. And the idea was like these steps
- 40:07Speaker 4: to help you grow to heaven kind of thing. And
- 40:10Speaker 4: so these, I just have a couple of scriptures to
- 40:13Speaker 4: read slowly, like Lectio Divina style, where you just read
- 40:16Speaker 4: slowly five times And the global church always says, by
- 40:20Speaker 4: the fifth time, it just starts getting interesting.
- 40:23Speaker 3: And we're the ones that like, by the fifth time,
- 40:24Speaker 3: it gets boring. I know it now. It's like, well,
- 40:26Speaker 3: you don't know it. You don't know it.
- 40:28Speaker 4: It has to get in you. And so these prayer cards,
- 40:31Speaker 4: I'll just grab seven or eight of them. And it
- 40:33Speaker 4: helps you go from five minutes to half an hour
- 40:35Speaker 4: as you start walking through praying scripture and some written
- 40:39Speaker 4: prayers and guided prayers and simple things like holding your
- 40:43Speaker 4: hands down for 60 seconds and just letting go of
- 40:47Speaker 4: the pieces of your.
- 40:48Speaker 3: Life concerning you. And then flipping your hands up and
- 40:52Speaker 3: just walking through the fruit of the Spirit. Oh, Jesus,
- 40:54Speaker 3: help me to grow in your love. Help me to
- 40:56Speaker 3: grow in your joy. Help me to grow in your peace.
- 40:59Speaker 4: These beautiful things like that, just interactive prayers like that
- 41:01Speaker 4: have really, really helped me. And praying through the Psalms,
- 41:07Speaker 4: not reading through the Psalms, but praying through them, it
- 41:10Speaker 4: gives you the language of prayer. It gives you the
- 41:13Speaker 4: language of calling out to God or rejoicing with God.
- 41:15Speaker 4: I have my top 10 psalms that is actually like
- 41:19Speaker 4: top 30 because it keeps growing you know like oh
- 41:21Speaker 4: yeah this is my favorite psalm and this is my
- 41:23Speaker 4: favorite psalm you know but yeah it's it's beautiful i.
- 41:26Speaker 1: Will say that's definitely been one of those things that
- 41:28Speaker 1: i've used because what i found was that i had
- 41:31Speaker 1: to for one reading through the psalms gave me that
- 41:34Speaker 1: structure and like you're saying the words to say but
- 41:37Speaker 1: then i started sort of transitioning from that to writing
- 41:40Speaker 1: some of my own prayers out because I'm so much
- 41:43Speaker 1: more prone to writing than I am to just thinking
- 41:46Speaker 1: in my own head. And so I'd write some of
- 41:49Speaker 1: those out and I still have that sort of practice
- 41:52Speaker 1: that I'm doing and trying to continue to grow in that.
- 41:55Speaker 1: But it's, I've sort of, like I usually tell people,
- 41:58Speaker 1: I'm adapting to my strengths, right? I'm just going to
- 42:02Speaker 1: lean into the geek and that's going to, you know,
- 42:05Speaker 1: that's going to kick off the prayer life and then
- 42:07Speaker 1: it'll take on a life of its own later, but
- 42:09Speaker 1: for the moment.
- 42:11Speaker 2: I got to kind of lean in here. Cause I
- 42:13Speaker 2: don't know how else to do it.
- 42:14Speaker 3: No, those are, those are runways, man.
- 42:16Speaker 4: They're like runways to, for the plane to take off
- 42:18Speaker 4: as far as like, I start liturgically and I end
- 42:21Speaker 4: up extra extemporaneously, you know? And so I start reading
- 42:24Speaker 4: a Psalm and then I'll hit some line of it
- 42:26Speaker 4: and I'll go, Oh God, right now, this is what
- 42:30Speaker 4: I feel like.
- 42:31Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah. You know, can you meet me in this moment?
- 42:33Speaker 3: You know, it's just beautiful.
- 42:34Speaker 4: So yeah, it was like runways to get the help,
- 42:36Speaker 4: the plane take off to connect with God.
- 42:38Speaker 3: And, I love that. I write prayers all the time.
- 42:40Speaker 4: In fact, one of the– so Terry Looper, he's this
- 42:44Speaker 4: Christian billionaire guy that his company that he started, that
- 42:48Speaker 4: he owns– I think he just sold it, but he owns.
- 42:51Speaker 3: It's the size of the GDP of Belize. Like that's
- 42:54Speaker 3: how big his company is.
- 42:56Speaker 2: Wow.
- 42:57Speaker 4: And so like if someone's like, oh, I'm really busy,
- 43:00Speaker 4: I'm like– this guy really finds a way to pray.
- 43:04Speaker 3: You can do it.
- 43:05Speaker 2: You know, he's probably busier than you are. Yeah.
- 43:07Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 43:07Speaker 4: I'm guessing he kind of, you know, and then, or
- 43:10Speaker 4: as Peter Greer would say, so we're busier than Jesus.
- 43:13Speaker 3: That's why we can't pray. You know, like Jesus found time,
- 43:16Speaker 3: you know, it's just so good. But he, he has
- 43:19Speaker 3: this thing.
- 43:19Speaker 4: He said, write out a prayer that you can pray
- 43:21Speaker 4: every day until it goes from your head to your heart.
- 43:25Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 43:26Speaker 4: And, and he said, it's like, like water dripping on
- 43:28Speaker 4: a rock, eventually burrowing a hole, from your head down
- 43:32Speaker 4: to your heart. And he said, there's a prayer that
- 43:34Speaker 4: I prayed for 10 years. And I feel like it's
- 43:37Speaker 4: just now starting to be true in my life. And,
- 43:41Speaker 4: and it's just beautiful. There's something about that repetition. Um, yeah,
- 43:46Speaker 4: I know people say the definition of insanity is like
- 43:49Speaker 4: doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.
- 43:52Speaker 4: And I always counter that like mostly, but if you're
- 43:55Speaker 4: chopping down a tree, You do the same thing, and
- 43:57Speaker 4: then something happens.
- 43:58Speaker 2: Then something happens, right.
- 44:00Speaker 4: Yeah, or as you study Revelations, it said that there's
- 44:03Speaker 4: a bowl in heaven filled with the prayers, and when
- 44:06Speaker 4: it gets full, it tips out on the earth. Well,
- 44:09Speaker 4: that's praying something over and over and over and over, persistent,
- 44:12Speaker 4: and then something different happens.
- 44:13Speaker 2: Yeah, something different happens. Yeah.
- 44:15Speaker 1: That's very good, man. Hey, we're coming up on the
- 44:19Speaker 1: end of our time together. And I usually ask guests
- 44:22Speaker 1: kind of a closing question. So I'm going to modify
- 44:24Speaker 1: it a little bit for you because I'm kind of
- 44:26Speaker 1: interested in what you think. So usually the question I
- 44:29Speaker 1: ask is, what do you think that the church could
- 44:31Speaker 1: do to be more faithful in being and making disciples?
- 44:35Speaker 2: That's the normal question.
- 44:37Speaker 1: So what I'm wondering is if we can kind of
- 44:39Speaker 1: tailor that to your global experience and say, what do
- 44:43Speaker 1: you think the Western church really needs to do, start
- 44:47Speaker 1: to think about, attend to, that would help them help
- 44:51Speaker 1: the Western church be more faithful at being and making disciples,
- 44:55Speaker 1: maybe even in relation to the global church. Like, how
- 44:59Speaker 1: do you, how do you see the Western churches strengths,
- 45:03Speaker 1: maybe hindering us from moving ahead as disciple makers and
- 45:07Speaker 1: becoming disciples in ways that we could really learn from
- 45:11Speaker 1: that global church?
- 45:15Speaker 4: Um, there is a, uh, six-figure study that was done
- 45:19Speaker 4: on the prayer lives of leaders in America. It was
- 45:22Speaker 4: paid for by one of the biggest foundations in the
- 45:24Speaker 4: country and one of the most reputable polling firms. And
- 45:28Speaker 4: the data came back and it was so bad that
- 45:31Speaker 4: they never published the study.
- 45:33Speaker 3: And I got to see it.
- 45:35Speaker 4: And the guy who paid for it said, this is
- 45:37Speaker 4: one of the most depressing studies I've ever seen. And
- 45:41Speaker 4: the deal is, is that we're not praying in the West.
- 45:46Speaker 4: We're just not. And the Christian leaders are not building
- 45:48Speaker 4: cultures of prayer or talking about prayer. And yet in
- 45:52Speaker 4: Timothy 2.1, Paul said, I write this letter to you,
- 45:57Speaker 4: first of all, to urge you to pray. And so here,
- 46:02Speaker 4: Paul discipling Timothy, and the first thing he says, here's
- 46:07Speaker 4: why I'm writing this letter to you, is I'm urging you,
- 46:10Speaker 4: the number one thing as.
- 46:11Speaker 3: A disciple is you gotta pray.
- 46:12Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 46:14Speaker 3: And so.
- 46:15Speaker 4: The one thing that came out of the study was
- 46:17Speaker 4: the more education, the more leadership, and the more experience
- 46:21Speaker 4: that someone had, the less they prayed, not the more.
- 46:26Speaker 4: And I genuinely think the scripture that says, my people,
- 46:30Speaker 4: humble themselves and pray. And humble yourself is before the
- 46:36Speaker 4: prayer part.
- 46:37Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 46:37Speaker 3: Because if you think you got it, you don't need
- 46:40Speaker 3: to pray. Yeah, yeah. Right? Yeah. And so you've got
- 46:45Speaker 3: to humble yourself and go, I don't have this.
- 46:47Speaker 4: God, without you. Like Moses, I can't go one step
- 46:50Speaker 4: without you. And then seek my face. And it says
- 46:55Speaker 4: prayer twice, really. Prayer and seeking. Go for it. Then
- 46:59Speaker 4: I'm going to heal your land. And I think the
- 47:02Speaker 4: global church has a lot to teach us about suffering
- 47:05Speaker 4: and sacrifice and how obedience-based discipleship versus knowledge-based. But I
- 47:11Speaker 4: think the thing that they can teach us the most,
- 47:14Speaker 4: is instead of, you know, if you have a two
- 47:17Speaker 4: by two, people would think prayer is on one side
- 47:19Speaker 4: and productivity is on the other. And I would say,
- 47:22Speaker 4: I wouldn't, we don't agree with that. We think prayer
- 47:25Speaker 4: is on one and activity is on this, but productivity
- 47:29Speaker 4: is a prayerful leader.
- 47:31Speaker 2: Gotcha.
- 47:32Speaker 4: And I think, you know, the myth of activity being
- 47:37Speaker 4: productivity is is a prayerless activity actually being productivity is
- 47:43Speaker 4: what's keeping us. And so I think if we learn
- 47:48Speaker 4: to pray as leaders and we teach others to pray
- 47:51Speaker 4: the way Paul said, the first thing I'm writing you
- 47:53Speaker 4: is I want to teach you how to pray. And
- 47:55Speaker 4: we talk about it more and we start building cultures
- 47:57Speaker 4: of prayer and we start leaning in. Jesus promised if
- 48:01Speaker 4: we abide, we're going to see fruit. And the global
- 48:05Speaker 4: church abides. Cause they have nowhere else to go and
- 48:10Speaker 4: they see, and they see fruit. So that's, that's something
- 48:13Speaker 4: I would probably, it's probably one of the big dreams
- 48:17Speaker 4: of my life is I could be helpful in the
- 48:20Speaker 4: spark of seeing prayerful leaders form cultures of prayer.
- 48:25Speaker 3: And I think that would change everything.
- 48:27Speaker 2: Fantastic answer, Ryan. Really? That's amazing. Thanks so much for
- 48:32Speaker 2: being on the show, man.
- 48:33Speaker 3: Oh, like I said, an honor.
- 48:35Speaker 1: Yeah, it really has been a great conversation. I'm glad
- 48:38Speaker 1: Billy Halliwell connected us. It's just for the listener's viewpoint.
- 48:43Speaker 1: Billy Halliwell, he's a journalist. He does a lot of
- 48:46Speaker 1: work with CBN and various other Christian stations, but he
- 48:49Speaker 1: connected Ryan and I. And so it's just been a
- 48:52Speaker 1: real pleasure to meet you. This is the first time
- 48:53Speaker 1: we're talking, but this has been a fantastic conversation.
- 48:56Speaker 3: I really appreciate it. Oh, yeah. Yeah, I love it.
- 48:58Speaker 4: And any other time, I'd love to be back. I
- 49:00Speaker 4: love these conversations and so much fun to talk about.
- 49:04Speaker 4: We didn't, we didn't get to dive into it, but
- 49:05Speaker 4: there's a whole neuroscience of prayer. That'd be really fun
- 49:07Speaker 4: to dive into.
- 49:09Speaker 2: I'd actually love to have you back to talk about that.
- 49:11Speaker 2: That'd be fantastic.
- 49:12Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah. Love to.
- 49:13Speaker 2: So we'll, we'll get.
- 49:14Speaker 1: It scheduled because, uh, yeah, those are things that I
- 49:17Speaker 1: think are really crucial and, um, it's an area that,
- 49:21Speaker 1: I mean, like I said, prayer is one of those
- 49:23Speaker 1: areas that I've always struggled with. Um, I came to
- 49:26Speaker 1: Christianity late, didn't really understand a lot of those disciplines.
- 49:29Speaker 1: Studying came easy to me, reading the Bible came easy
- 49:32Speaker 1: to me, you know, but, um, even obedience to some
- 49:35Speaker 1: degree came easy to me.
- 49:37Speaker 2: But prayer never really has.
- 49:39Speaker 1: It's, it's an interesting sort of one of those where
- 49:41Speaker 1: I'm just like, yeah, you know, I'm, it's a, it's
- 49:44Speaker 1: an ongoing process for me. So, um, talking about prayer
- 49:47Speaker 1: is one of those things I really love to do. And, uh,
- 49:51Speaker 1: so anyway, um, give the website one more time. We'll
- 49:56Speaker 1: include it in the show notes, but yeah.
- 49:58Speaker 3: So the, the organization to that serves the global church
- 50:01Speaker 3: is venture.org. Okay.
- 50:03Speaker 4: And then, uh, leadwithprayer.com is where you can get the
- 50:06Speaker 4: free resources. And, uh, yeah, and the book you can
- 50:09Speaker 4: get anywhere. It's, I think it's in seven or eight
- 50:11Speaker 4: different countries, um, around the world now. It's, it's, we're
- 50:15Speaker 4: just blown away by the reception of it.
- 50:17Speaker 2: So, yeah. Very cool.
- 50:19Speaker 1: All right, everybody, we're going to put those in the
- 50:20Speaker 1: show notes. I'd recommend you go check them out. Um,
- 50:23Speaker 1: check out Ryan's organization and check out the book, lead
- 50:26Speaker 1: with prayer, check out the website, lead with prayer, and, uh,
- 50:30Speaker 1: we'll catch on the next episode of thinking Christian. Just
- 50:32Speaker 1: want to take a second to thank the team at
- 50:34Speaker 1: life audio for their partnership with us on the thinking
- 50:36Speaker 1: Christian podcast. If you go to lifeaudio.com, you'll find dozens
- 50:40Speaker 1: of other faith-centered podcasts in their network. They've got shows
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