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Ep. 104. Elevating the Nerdy Voices of the Rainbow: Episode 17 - David! · Vigilante Vibes Podcast

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Hello to all the comic fans, Marvel geeks, and all the nerds
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in between. Welcome to another episode of
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the Vigilante Vice podcast where we talk all things Marvel along
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with other fandoms, but without the toxicity that's taking up
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way too much space in each and every fandom.
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I'm your host, Megan Nicole, and today I'm joined by the person
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behind the oh gosh, where did I go?
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Oh, I'm so sorry. I'll start that over.
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I'm your host, Meg. I have like 3 different ones,
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three different intros, and I read the wrong one.
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I'm your host, Megan Nicole, and we're here to have another
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episode of Elevating the Nerdy Voices of the Rainbow where we
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lift up the voices of the LGBTQ plus communities.
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Today joining me, the person behind non-stop Nerd.
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I have David and I'm very excited to talk to you.
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Hello, how are you today? So good, I'm so glad you're
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here. Happy to be here.
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Yeah, we've talked a little bit back and forth throughout the
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Facebook groups for a while. It's cool that we actually get
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to meet now. Yes, it's really nice to to
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finally meet you outside of like Facebook comments.
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Yeah, Facebook comments are great, but like, you know, it's
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not the same. Right.
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Why don't you tell our listeners a little bit about you all?
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Right. Well, like you said, I'm David.
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I run Non-stop Nerd. It's a blog that I've been
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running for like 5 or 6 years now that I talk about anything
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under the nerd culture umbrella, whether it be video games,
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movies, comic books, tabletop games, you name it.
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Anything from this, my own opinions or just making fun
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lists like some of the coolest things on Star Wars, or just
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movie reviews, video game reviews, just whatever is on my
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mind. I, like a lot of nerdy folk,
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like to go on tangents about what we love and what we're
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passionate about, and I find the blog can be very therapeutic so
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that we're not talking so much ear off.
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I'm kind of just putting it on the page and posting it.
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I am a writer in in many sense of the word where the the blog
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is what I write mostly, but I am working on my first novel
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currently. Currently editing the first
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draft to eventually start the second draft.
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I'm hoping to have the second draft by the end of the year.
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I've also have another work in progress that is a collection of
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comedy horror short stories that is not very far along.
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My novel's much more further along than that.
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And I also write for a 'cause I'm in Buffalo, NY, I write for
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a local online magazine called Buffalo Rising, where I have a
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column called Nerd Scene where I I write about local conventions,
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gaming stores, comic shops, and anything that's kind of nerdy in
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Buffalo, NY. You're a busy guy.
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Oh my gosh. Yes, 'cause then I also have a
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day job and, you know, hobbies like playing the video games and
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watching the movies. Oh.
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My gosh, how do you fit all of that in and on top of creating
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your own novel? Yeah, it just just busy.
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So you like that's, that's very fair.
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I like what you said about it being therapeutic to do your
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blog 'cause I totally get that. I think that's why a lot of us
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do this. But what are some of the things
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you like to put on your blog? You said lists, you'd like
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things you're passionate about. What are you passionate about?
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Some of this might be a long answer.
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Some of the things that I love most is in nerd culture,
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something that I just love in general.
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Like DC Comics is is one of the absolute biggest ones for me.
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That goes back to, you know, when I was a little kid and my
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brother and I had Batman and Robin pajamas.
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He had Batman pajamas, I had Robin pajamas, and I grew up
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watching the DCAU. Those cartoons really shaped
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helped shape me I feel. Other big ones being Sonic the
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Hedgehog. That goes back to also being a
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kid with like the first Sonic Adventure game.
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Kind of teaching me that a video game can have a much more in
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depth story than just saving the world, just stopping the
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villain, just saving the Princess.
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As much as I love, you know, Mario, etcetera, Sonic Adventure
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had six overlapping stories, all with a character growth and I
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thought that was really interesting.
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I feel like that really got me to latch on to that series.
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And now it makes you so happy that the I feel like it's this
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is an amazing time to be a Sonic fan with the movies, the games
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coming out, Lego sets. There are tabletop games of it
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now. Like there's a lot of cool
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stuff. The comics, the the IDW comics,
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I've only read the first collection so far and they're
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incredible. Other big one, Teenage Mutant
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Ninja Turtles is something that I will always sit in front of
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the TV for, play the video games of, go to the theater for a
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variety of video games being Crash Bandicoot, Jack and
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Daxter, a lot of mascots, Sly Cooper, etcetera, things like
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that. So all these things that I
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really love end up showing up in my blog a lot.
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I'm a big movie fan in general. My original career goal was I
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want to be a filmmaker. That has kind of changed into
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focusing on writing and being an author.
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Because the more I hear about filmmaking and just, oh, the
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studio rejected the script that I spent five years writing, that
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sounds horrible. Or hey, this, this actor took
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control of my project. Well, that sounds awful.
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I don't want to do that. That sounds even like indie
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work. That just doesn't sound
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enjoyable. This way I can just write the
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book the way I want. And I plan on self-publishing so
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I don't have to deal with a publisher taking control of
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anything. I can just write it and people
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can read it. And sure, I'm not going to be
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some millionaire author, that's fine.
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I just want to get the art out there.
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Just want to get the story out there because I spent so much of
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my time, so much of my life talking about pop culture.
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I kind of also want to like create it and be a part of it.
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Yeah, yeah, totally get that. I mean, nerd culture is such a
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huge world. And I, I get it.
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I want to put my footprint in there too, somewhere because
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it's like, it's such a beautiful thing to be involved in.
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Like people don't who aren't involved in don't really get it.
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But it's so vast, it's so big. There's so many different parts
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of it, and all of it stems from what you're passionate about.
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Absolutely. I think that part of that too,
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with what we're passionate about, I think that comes from a
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connection to it or, or you feel safer in it than you might in
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the real world, whether it be work or school or what have you.
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You know, I was always, you know, a much quieter kid growing
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up. And eventually I realized I was
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like a pansexual, pan romantic man and, you know, afraid to
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tell people certain things, afraid people to tell people
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about myself or, you know, I was picked on.
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I mean, my main bullies were like my own siblings, my own
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family. But that's let's let's not jump
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into that. But when you know, I'm the butt
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of jokes or what have you, I feel like, I feel, I feel like I
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can be safer sitting down and playing Crash Bandicoot or
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watching Power Rangers. And I feel, and because of that,
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I forms connection with that more than people sometimes, you
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know, and I feel like other people are the same way and
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talking about, you know, the latest Marvel movie or what have
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you. I feel like brings that level of
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comfort that we all need. Yeah.
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I agree. So you said you're a pansexual
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man. Could you kind of tell me what
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that means because I'm a straight woman?
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This is all so new to me so I'm just trying to learn as well.
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Yes. So the root word pan technically
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means all. And when I was, you know, kind
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of figuring out my own identity for a while, I, I kind of
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thought of myself as being bisexual, but then eventually I
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was kind of thinking like by means 2 and that doesn't feel
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right where I do have attraction to other genders as well.
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So originally I was thinking of myself as pansexual because, Oh
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my try to tell anyone of any gender, but people have there's
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kind of a discussion within the LGBT community about, hey, maybe
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that's somewhat by erasure because bisexual doesn't
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necessarily mean to, to genders strictly, It means two or more
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genders. Pansexual is more the attraction
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regardless of gender and after learning the real meaning of
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pansexual, like no, I am still that because that also feels
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very correct to me. Someone's gender is like like
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caring about someone's gender in terms of like finding a partner
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is like caring about eye color or hair color or height.
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Like, sure, you might have like that preference, but if you find
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your person and they're like a different eye color than you
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usually like, is that really a big deal?
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Like, I don't know, like gender just isn't at all an important
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detail for me. I care more about someone's
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heart and mind. I care more about intelligence
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and humor and common interests. I.
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Think that's pretty fair. I mean, that's really
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interesting. I can imagine that's hard to
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kind of figure out because there's a lot of things in the
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LGBTQ communities that if I saw myself in that position, I would
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be like, how would I even like know, like asexual asexuality?
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Like I look at I'm like, what if I think I'm just really picky?
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What if I don't know? I feel like you have to really
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be in really good terms with yourself to come to that, not
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that label, but to know what you are.
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Yes, yeah. Honestly, it was kind of a long
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journey for me, and it could be longer for other people.
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And that's very OK. You know, I grew up, I was born
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in 93. Growing up in like the 90s and
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early 2000s, you know, people used gay, gay as a slang term
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for bad. Oh, I don't like that shirt
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that's gay. Like so it was you looked at as
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a bad thing to not be straight. So like I think like I forced
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without even like realizing, just subconsciously like forced
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myself to like only look at myself as straight, only look at
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women for people who I'm attracted to.
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And, you know, it was something that I kind of couldn't fight
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myself with for for too long where eventually I would have
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like crutches on other boys. And I would look back at like
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other friendships I had when I was even younger thinking like,
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oh, I don't think that was just a friendship.
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I think that was like a legit crush on this boy.
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And I, you know, was not in a situation at home where I felt
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like I could tell anyone for a long time.
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And I kind of just suddenly I just kept to myself and me, I
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was kind of well, was wondering different things about myself,
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like, oh, like, is it just physical attraction versus
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romantic attraction? Eventually, you know, I'd
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realize that it's everything. But eventually, like in high
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school, you know, had found out like because of other people and
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their experiences that like, hey, like other people who are
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in my circle are very accepting of this.
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Very slowly, like very, very slowly, it came out like, oh, I
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think I'm bisexual. I told them like, hey, maybe it
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is just physical attraction. I don't know.
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My attraction toward women is much stronger.
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But part of that goes into, again, maybe I wasn't allowing
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myself to just feel attraction openly to other people because
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of this negative stigma that I was taught as a kid.
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And you know, even if it is just physical attraction to some
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people and romantic to others, that is also OK.
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Everyone feels attraction differently.
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It's a very wide spectrum. But then when when I kind of
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like started letting myself just feel attraction, I started
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really like, oh, I have a romantic crush on this person.
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I want to date this person. I'm physically attracted to this
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person. And then like I've noticed like
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I have, I'm pickier in some areas, like masculine presenting
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people I'm a little pickier with, but that doesn't mean I'm
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not attracted to morass and the people is There's exceptions for
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everything. Like I don't use like with not
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being attracted to people who are very masculine.
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I don't usually like people with beards.
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There's definitely been exceptions to the hat do.
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You think that's because you have a beard?
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That that I mean, that went back to long before I had one.
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Oh, OK. I was always curious about that,
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'cause I, I don't know. It's so I, I like see a gay
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couple together and I'm like, I like when there's differing
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personalities together. I think that's really cute.
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So when I see two guys with a beard, I'm like, damn it, you
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guys could just like break off and make these other, I don't
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know. Yeah, no, like I think it, it is
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just personal preference because like everyone has preferences.
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But also wonder if that goes back to me, just tell myself,
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no, I need to only be attracted to women or people who are
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female presenting. But again, as I've aged, I've
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kind of just opened myself up to, hey, like, maybe look at
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this person as more as like who they are rather than the beard
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or their eye color or their gender.
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And yeah, again, the preferences still exist, but none of it
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really matters as much. You know, like I'm married to a
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woman. I'm just like, I'm in a very
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straight passing relationship. But.
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And I, you know, only ever want to be my wife.
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I love her to death, but that doesn't make me not a pansexual
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man. But I've like, wondered like,
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you know what? Like, if I somehow didn't have
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my wife like I it, I don't think the gender of my next partner or
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a different partner would matter at all to me.
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I've been on dates and updated men, updated trans people.
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Elvis just didn't work out for one reason or another, 'cause
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I'm with my wife and I'm happy with my life.
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But yeah, just, I think it just, yeah, kind of went on a little
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bit of ramp, but kind of just to say that I feel like I'm
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somewhat more attracted to people who are female
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presenting. But I could definitely still see
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myself with someone who is very masculine and very manly.
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It just, you know, for whatever reason, my brain is like, yeah,
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you're very, my brain just tells me you're very open to a variety
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of people who are female presenting, whether it be body
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weight, body shape, different faces, etcetera.
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And that doesn't matter. We're like with men or masculine
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friendly people. I'm a little pickier, but I feel
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like it doesn't really matter in the long run compared to who
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they are as a person. Well.
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Thank you for explaining that, that made you made it make a lot
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of sense. I we all have preferences, you
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like what you like, but so in all of the nerd cultures, have
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you seen any kind of representation that you feel
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best portrays being a pansexual man?
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There's not tons from what I've experienced or or seen or read.
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I think the biggest example for a pansexual man in media is
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Deadpool. Oh yeah, he is canonically A
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pansexual man. I haven't read tons or any of
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the Deadpool comics from being honest, so I don't know tons
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about his relationship history. I know that he is or has been in
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love with death, which is just awesome.
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And obviously there's the Deadpool movies, which I love,
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and he assuming he's pansexual in the movies.
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He hasn't said one way or the other he is with Vanessa or
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spoilers for Deadpool Wolverine. They're kind of, they have a
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rocky relationship right now. And I'm happy to see that he is
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with Vanessa, regardless of the partner's gender because I feel
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like they work so well as a couple and I find myself really
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fighting for them to stay together.
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But it is also really cool to see a, you know, a pansexual man
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in a straight passing relationship in media like
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Deadpool, because in a lot of media they have, you know, oh,
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this person is not straight, Therefore they're with someone
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of the same gender, which is also, you know, super valid.
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But I I'm in a straight marriage to a woman who I love to death,
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but that doesn't make me any less pansexual.
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Same thing with Deadpool. I do wish that somewhere in the
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movies that they would kind of like mention it just to like
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confirm like, no, this is what this is.
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But obviously do so organically brought up a guy he did in high
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school or something. I don't know, but that would be
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kind of cool. Any other example isn't
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explicitly pansexual but just LGBT open for interpretation in
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general. A big example for for that is
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Steven Universe. I don't know if you're familiar.
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It's probably one of my favorite shows where people like the
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characters just talk about love and who they love.
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And there's several couples who are same sex couples.
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I mean, they're, I mean, they're also like aliens made out of
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light. But so gender is very, very not
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important in that respect. But for the sake of the
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characters, they are very clearly like women date like in
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relationship with with other women, But then they talk about
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men they're in love with and they never explicitly talk about
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sexuality. They just talk about love and
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who they're in love with and what they love and the
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relationship relationships that they have.
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And they, we see them talk about what makes their relationships
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work and like we're, and they never bring up gender, They
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never bring up their like sexuality.
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They just talk about like the feeling of love.
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And that's really what it, what's important at the end of
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the day, I feel is just love and happiness and comfort.
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And Steven Universe is like the perfect representation of that,
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I feel. Another another one that was
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kind of touched on in the Marvel Universe was Loki.
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He's a pansexual man and it was mentioned in the first season of
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Loki, but it was more they kind of left it open for
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interpretation if he's bisexual, if he's pansexual, because he
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just kind of dropped a little bit.
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Yeah, see, that's that. That's a good one too.
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He kind of just seems like, hey, whoever, you know.
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Yeah, I think it's perfect that he's clearly in love with.
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I've only seen Season 1 and I saw when I first came out.
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What's her name? Sylvie.
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Sylvie, 'cause that's himself. And I think Loki being in love
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with himself is perfect. It's very on brand for the
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character. But clearly, you know, gender is
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not something that he cares about in a partner.
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Again, going back to like, you're straight, but like how
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much do you care about the eye color of your your partner?
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You might really like blue eyes, but if you found someone you're
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level with who has brown eyes, does it matter?
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Yeah, yeah, it's not a deal breaker.
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And that's how I look at at gender really.
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Like it's just this very minor detail.
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It's that doesn't take away from who they are as a person.
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That's really cool. Like as a straight woman, it's
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hard to relate to that because I just like men.
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I like the things that come on men.
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I just like the package men. So I can't imagine like looking
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at yeah, you get it. I can't imagine looking at a
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woman and being like, yes, but there are some women that make
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me think like I could probably give it a go.
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I could probably try just to see it.
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Yeah, and I mean that's part of the the spectrum too.
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Like, I know people who, you know, are gay and they consider
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themselves very gay, but then they've had like one
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relationship where they were with with someone who was
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opposite gender or vice versa. Like, Oh no, I'm very straight.
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When they had that one relationship that was someone
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who was the same gender as them. And I think it just, you know,
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again, this is a spectrum. Everyone just feels attraction
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differently. And at the end of the day, what
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matters is, you know, if they're happy and they're comfortable
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and who who cares? Yeah, I also think there's some
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relationships or sometimes when you get with someone that it's,
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there's nothing physical about it.
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It's emotional love that it's like it goes beyond the body and
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what you can do with those things.
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So I think I have seen, like I have some friends who are gay.
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They said, yeah, I was in a straight relationship once.
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I mean, they just kind of felt right.
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But I wasn't a physically attracted to her.
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And it that took a while to kind of figure out 'cause like in my
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brain I'm like, oh, wait a minute, are you bi or it's,
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it's, there's so much that goes into it.
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And I don't envy anyone that has to go through these emotions and
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figure it out for themselves because it's such a big thing.
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It seems so hard. Yeah, it it has caused a lot of
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stress in my life, especially when I was younger, like high
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school throughout most of college.
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I kind of like really figured everything out when I was in
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college. And that was oh, God, like 10
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more years ago. But something that like a way of
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thinking that has helped me that I've kind of developed is sure,
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like there are these words, these labels, pansexual,
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bisexual, gay, straight, non binary, asexual, whatever.
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And you know, I'm a writer. I have a degree in English and
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creative writing. So like, words do matter to me
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and words are very comforting, but they also don't matter in
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the long run as long as you're happy.
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Like if I were to describe to you or just say anyone were to
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describe to you how their attraction works and you think,
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oh, that that's what bisexual is, That's what this is.
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But if they think of themselves, no, no, I'm gay.
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If if that word at the end of the day is what makes them happy
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and comfortable with themselves, they're gay.
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Great. Like the definition doesn't line
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up there technically, but for them, that word, that one word
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brings them happiness to call themselves that, then that's
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what they are. That's all that matters.
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I could see it. I definitely can see it.
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Some people, you know, they've spent so much of their life not
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fitting in not, and wondering why they can't fit in and they
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finally find a label or a word that they can identify as and
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they're, they hold on to it. And I get that.
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I, I think that happened to me when I became a mom.
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I, as soon as I did, I was like, I'm a mom, I'm a mother.
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And I held on to that word because it's like, that's mine.
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That's who I am. Yeah, I mean that.
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I think that's one of the reasons why, you know, people,
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regardless of sexual orientation or gender or what have you, hold
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on to the word of like nerd. Like I write A blog called
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non-stop Nerd and I write about nerd culture and you can only
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see parts of my office around me.
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But like, nerdy posters and decor.
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I have nerdy tattoos and I just love anything that's nerdy, and
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I think part of that is just finding this word or this
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community that makes us feel comfortable with life in this
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the world around us. Yeah, I, I definitely get that
26:08
about the word nerd. I think we're all kind of like
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at one point all of this stuff we are passionate about was so
26:15
taboo. It was like it was just not the
26:17
thing to do. And now it's like, being a nerd
26:21
is cool and like, I like that. I like that it's becoming more
26:24
mainstream so that younger people can love this stuff
26:28
without the fear of being judged.
26:31
So I think it's great that people want to cling on to the
26:35
word Nerd 0. Yeah, when I when I was a kid, I
26:38
was made fun of for like me and my friend were talking about
26:41
Song the Hedgehog and we were made fun of for it.
26:45
I remember freshman year of high school, I was reading the first
26:47
comic ever read, which was comic that I bought from my friend for
26:51
Johnny the Homicidal Maniac was created by Jonan Vasquez, who
26:56
made Invader Zim. That's who got me to read it
26:59
because oh, I love Invader Zim. I grew up in with Invader Zim.
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Let me read this comic and I would like read it in homeroom
27:05
and there's a lot of dark humor in it.
27:07
So, you know, I would read it and I would laugh and I would
27:10
hear like several rows down at some other desk, like a couple
27:14
of girls, like look at this guy, like read the comic for a bit
27:18
and laugh at himself. And I'm like, all right,
27:19
whatever. Like let me read this comic and
27:22
be happy. So like, now that, you know,
27:26
it's cool to to be reading those comics, to be watching these
27:30
these movies, to be playing these video games.
27:32
It is nice that people can do that without explicitly being
27:36
made fun of for that. Kids are now growing up with
27:40
video games and superhero movies being the norm, and that's
27:44
excellent. I do see, like, for whatever
27:47
reason that's created, the idea of it being cool has created a
27:50
level of toxicity within their community which it should not
27:54
have because people are, you know, want to gatekeep and they
28:00
want to claim it as their own. Like, oh, you suddenly like, you
28:04
know, Fantastic Four because the movies come up.
28:06
But I, I grew up reading this. You can't take that for me.
28:08
But they need to realize, like, no one's taking that from you.
28:11
Yeah, more people are just enjoying it and that's OK.
28:15
Well, it's like if someone said, oh, you relate to Deadpool
28:18
because he's pansexual, but you haven't read the comics so how
28:20
can you even relate to him? It's like, OK, well wait, whoa,
28:23
wait, who cares, right? Like.
28:26
Deadpool's also in movies and. Videos.
28:29
He was an animated series he guest starred in.
28:33
It's like if you're a fan of the character, you're a fan of the
28:37
stories, then you're a fan just as much as a comic read.
28:41
I'm a comic reader. But like, you and I are both
28:45
equal Deadpool fans. That's fair.
28:47
That's what it should be. Yeah, like probably the like the
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number one character that like I would be like is like my
28:56
character like is is Batman. You can see the bat cave sign
28:58
above my. I I have been looking at that,
29:00
yeah. My my wife made that for me,
29:01
actually. Oh, really?
29:03
Yeah. And like, my first tattoo was
29:05
the bat symbol. And, you know, I love Batman the
29:10
Image series. I love the Batman Arkham video
29:13
games. I love the the, you know, the
29:15
Michael Keaton to George Clooney movies.
29:18
I love the Christian Bale movies, this and that.
29:20
And there are people who have, you know, have only seen the
29:23
Christian Bale movies or they've only play the Arkham games and
29:26
they love Batman for that. But they haven't, you know, seen
29:29
Batman the Image series. They haven't read the comics,
29:32
That's OK. They love the character.
29:34
It's fine. The character exists in just
29:37
about every form of media. So like to love Batman because
29:40
of the video games without reading the comics is fine.
29:42
Like, just because I've read the comics doesn't mean that I'm a
29:47
bigger fan than someone else, you know?
29:50
Yeah, I don't know why there's this competition between nerds,
29:54
like who's read for so long, who likes the most, who knows the
29:58
most. It's like, who cares where?
30:00
If someone doesn't know, that's a great time to say, you know,
30:03
there are these comics that you can learn more about them if
30:06
you're that big a fan, you know, just to broaden what you know
30:10
about them. It's not you don't know anything
30:11
about them. You haven't read the comics,
30:13
First of all, I've read the comics.
30:15
I still don't know anything about them.
30:17
Comics are weird. Comics change.
30:19
They have the whole universe thing.
30:21
Like, relax, you're not. Oh yeah, you're just wild.
30:25
Oh yeah, like, I'm, I read DC Comics and you know, like they
30:29
bring up a character and I'm like, who is this?
30:32
And I like immediately bring up my phone, go to like Fandom
30:34
wiki. I'm like, oh, this character
30:35
from the 30s, Never heard of them.
30:36
OK. Yeah, like in the.
30:40
Sorry, go on. No no, let's say the the current
30:43
run of of Justice League. Just like Unlimited.
30:45
In the comics, a character who plays a major role is Doctor
30:48
Occult. I've never heard of Doctor
30:51
Occult. I looked him up, it turns out
30:53
he's actually the oldest recurring DC character before
30:58
Batman, before Superman. And I was like wow, I only
31:01
learned that in 2025. I've been ADC fan since I was
31:06
like in preschool or kindergarten.
31:08
Yeah, well, it's like with White Tiger and Daredevil born again.
31:13
I've known of White Tiger. I know of Ava the the daughter
31:17
of Hector I I've known that, but I didn't know that he was the
31:20
first Latino superhero. I found that out like 2 months
31:24
ago. I had no idea.
31:25
Yeah, I would have would have never guessed.
31:27
I know about the only white tiger I know about is just in
31:31
the the Marvel Snap card game. That's that's my that's my
31:34
knowledge of the character. I and they've seen it a lot
31:38
with, you know, Marvel rivals being if you've played it or, or
31:42
seen it played or heard of it, but that's been a really big,
31:46
you know, part of the gaming community lately.
31:50
I think it's a great game, I think, and I have a lot of fun
31:53
with it. It's a very addicting game.
31:55
I see a lot of people, a lot of videos of, of cosplayers,
31:58
etcetera, like someone's interviewing cosplayer and
32:02
they're like, oh, I'm Squirrel Girl from Marvel Rivals and
32:04
they're clearly like the version of Squirrel Girl from from
32:06
Marvel Rivals. And a lot of comments is, well,
32:09
she's not just from Marvel Rivals, she's from this and
32:12
that. And I'm like, maybe this is
32:15
their introduction to the character and they fell in love
32:17
with the character from this game.
32:19
Why is that a bad thing? Like people, there's a lot of
32:23
people, and I'm willing to say potentially most people nowadays
32:27
who are familiar with Marvel because of the MCU.
32:30
Yeah, that only started in like 22,000 and 10:00-ish era.
32:35
Like Marvel existed a long time before that.
32:39
Yeah, it's true. And plus Marvel rivals, their
32:43
suits look so good. But why would you not want to
32:46
cosplay as that look? The character designs in that
32:49
game are excellent. Are fantastic and I've played
32:53
the game. If you've ever, if I've ever
32:55
been on your team, you'll know me 'cause I'm the one that keeps
32:57
getting killed by just the land shark.
32:59
So sorry guys. Oh, so everyone.
33:03
Well, it's like, you see everyone like Spider Man coming
33:05
in. You see like Venom doing his
33:07
thing. And then there's me.
33:09
I'm like usually I'm the Punisher and I'm just Spider Man
33:14
killed me the other day. And I was like, you know, man,
33:16
fuck this game, I don't care anymore.
33:18
I was so mad. I'm just one of the many penny
33:23
parkers leaving landmines for enemies to step on.
33:28
Well that's they love stepping on my landmines.
33:31
And that's OK. You're you're adding to the
33:32
team. That's fine.
33:34
I do like when one of these big games come out.
33:36
I'm not a gamer by any by anywhere.
33:39
I will play Mario and I'll play Marvel Rivals.
33:41
That's all I got in me. But I do like when these games
33:44
come out and there's this, this buzz, this excitement going on.
33:48
Like, do you remember when Pokémon Go came out?
33:51
Yes, that was one of the best summers ever.
33:54
I swear, like we were living. I remember when it first dropped
33:58
that weekend. Everyone was out, everyone was
34:01
having a fun time, Everyone was just vibing, everyone was
34:05
chilling. If we all showed up at the same
34:07
park, we knew why. We knew we were there to fight
34:10
that Gyarados. Yeah.
34:12
That that united humanity for like a couple months.
34:16
I did. That was the last.
34:17
That was like the last chance we had at World Peace.
34:20
Yeah. I want that to happen again.
34:24
I want something like that to happen again.
34:26
Because that was just, it was like all these people who had
34:30
nothing to do with each other, we all were like, so like who
34:34
was your starter? You know, like we just kind of
34:37
all chilled. It was fantastic.
34:39
Oh yeah, I remember that. I remember, you know, hanging
34:42
out with like current friends to play like Pokémon Go.
34:46
And then we'd be like going to college campus or a park and I'd
34:50
see someone that I was good friend with back in like middle
34:53
school. And I'm like, hey, Pokémon and
34:55
everyone's like time with Pokémon.
34:57
And I'm like, I remember around like Gen. 3, I felt embarrassed
35:01
to like Pokémon. So I kind of like stopped
35:03
watching the anime because I was, you know, my mom and my
35:06
siblings were like, why are you watching that?
35:08
So I kind of just forced myself to stop.
35:10
But now it's back to everyone, regardless of who they are.
35:14
Is is like yo, I love Pokémon. Like where was that?
35:18
Yeah. Where was that like 10 years ago
35:20
when I was bullied about liking Pokémon?
35:22
100% I remember when Pokémon Go dropped, me and my best friend,
35:28
we would go out, we would stay out all hours of the night
35:31
looking for gyms, looking for everything.
35:34
And I remember like it was such a big deal.
35:36
Cops were like, they'd be like, what are you guys doing 'cause
35:39
we're just walking around at like 2:00 AM like clearly.
35:43
And he's like, you're just playing Pokémon.
35:45
That that's it. And like, that's all I'm doing.
35:48
But I mean, I agree. At one point it was like, you
35:52
like Pokémon. And then there was gatekeeping
35:54
as a kid. They're like, you can't like
35:56
Pikachu. That's the easiest one.
35:58
It's like the what? So gatekeeping's always been
36:02
around. It's just never been so much in
36:05
your face. Right there, there was once also
36:10
in middle school, I was just wearing AI was wearing a
36:12
Nintendo hoodie. It was just a plain red hoodie
36:15
with the word Nintendo on it, like the Nintendo logo with like
36:18
the Oval. And it was a really, really
36:21
comfy hoodie. It was very warm, but I was just
36:23
wearing it and 11 kid just walked up to me and he like got
36:29
real in my face. Like one of the tallest kids in
36:31
school got my face. He's like Nintendo's gay.
36:34
And I was like, OK, I backed away against like walkers, like
36:37
all right. Meanwhile, they're like kind of
36:42
the kings of of video games. Like, I don't know, he says.
36:46
He says that, but I guarantee he is playing Super Smash Brothers.
36:50
Yeah, yeah. I've noticed that people who
36:55
talk trash about Nintendo are the first ones to say they will
36:59
humble you in Mario Kart. And it's like, hang, hang on,
37:03
pick a side here because like, I don't understand what I'm not
37:06
picking up what you're putting down.
37:08
Absolutely. So stupid.
37:11
So we're kind of getting to the end of our episode.
37:14
It's been such a joy having you here.
37:17
Would you mind telling your listeners where they can find
37:19
you? Yes, you can check out my blog
37:24
at nonstopnerd.com. That's where I write about, you
37:28
know, all things nerdy for my social media where I do post my
37:34
articles for my blog as well as updates on my fiction rating.
37:40
You can find me on social media either under just nonstop nerd.
37:45
I think on Instagram it's nonstop under score nerd and
37:48
then like some other I think maybe like Twitter, it's like
37:52
nonstop nerd blog. But any variation of like
37:55
nonstop nerd or nonstop nerd blog, you can find me.
37:58
The profile picture should be the same of a little like chibi
38:02
cartoon version of me, like doing like the Superman thing
38:04
with like the Yeah, like opening the share of the Superman logo
38:07
there. That that's me.
38:11
Yeah. So yeah, if you that that's
38:13
where you can find me if I either on social media or it's
38:16
on my website and also up nerd. But I recommend social media
38:21
where I can see what I eventually post about my book
38:24
being published in the future. Yeah, and wherever you guys are
38:29
listening to this episode, just check the show notes and you'll
38:32
see all the links to where you can find David at non-stop Nerd.
38:36
So thank you so much for being here.
38:39
Like I said, you're an absolute pleasure.
38:41
It was so nice getting to know you.
38:45
Yeah, thank you so much for having me.
38:46
This is a lot of fun. Like a lot of people who are
38:50
going to come on here, I love talking about nerdy things, so
38:53
this has been a blast. If you ever want me on again in
38:56
the future for, Yeah, this series that you're doing,
38:59
another series, I would love to just come on and talk nerdy
39:01
stuff with you. Yeah, you know, I'm always down.
39:04
You're welcome back anytime. It would the IT would be my
39:08
honor. Great.
39:10
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