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Dirty Rush: Sex Lives of Sorority Girls · Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to Dirty Rush, The Truth about Sororiti Life with
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  Speaker 1: your hosts me Gia Judice.
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  Speaker 2: Davey Kent, and Jennifer Kessler. Hi, guys, welcome back to
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  Speaker 2: another episode of Dirty Rush. Jen here today and we
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  Speaker 2: have a really special guest. You guys will know her
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  Speaker 2: from being on the Bravos show Southern Charm. Hello, Miss
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  Speaker 2: Sally Carson.
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  Speaker 1: Hello, and how are you very well? How are you
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  Speaker 1: very exciting? I love it.
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  Speaker 2: We are so happy to have you here. Thank you
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  Speaker 2: for joining us, so you guys. The theme for today's
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  Speaker 2: episode is inspired by Sally's new podcast in the iHeart
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  Speaker 2: Family and it is called Sex Unlocked and it is
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  Speaker 2: hosted by Sally and my girl Laala Kent. I am
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  Speaker 2: so excited for you guys, as I'm sure all of
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  Speaker 2: the listeners are as well.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, we've been having so much fun.
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  Speaker 2: You just dropped your first episode.
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  Speaker 3: We've done about I think four oh god like four yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, okay, we just dropped though. I know that was
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  Speaker 2: a yes, really juicy one, but I'm gonna let people
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  Speaker 2: listen to it. Yes, okay, but today for Sally and
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  Speaker 2: I we are going to talk about sex in college.
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  Speaker 2: Yay yay. So let's start first. Yeah, Sally, So what
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  Speaker 2: sorority were you in? I know you went to University
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  Speaker 2: of South Carolina.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, I was in Capitelta okadi yeah, kd okay, And
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  Speaker 3: so I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: You know, we're going to kind of delve into the
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  Speaker 2: theme of sex in a sorority. What that looked like
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  Speaker 2: for you, for your sorority sisters. And I know you're
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  Speaker 2: very open about sex, obviously you have this podcast, right.
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  Speaker 2: Have you always been like that? Were you like that
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  Speaker 2: in college? You know?
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  Speaker 3: I actually was super closed off in high school, and
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  Speaker 3: like my senior year of high school, a lot of
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  Speaker 3: girls in particularly girls like they would be like, oh,
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  Speaker 3: you're hiding things or you're so shady or stuff like that,
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  Speaker 3: just because I didn't want to tell them my business.
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  Speaker 3: And then I was like, you know what, if y'all
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  Speaker 3: are going to call me these names, I'm just gonna
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  Speaker 3: be an open book. So I think that's what made
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  Speaker 3: me transition into being just like super open.
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  Speaker 2: Were girls like that in college too?
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  Speaker 4: Like?
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  Speaker 2: Were they? So you're more open in college?
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  Speaker 3: And I was more open in college, So, like everyone
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  Speaker 3: knew my business in college, so it wasn't an issue
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  Speaker 3: but I think I was scarred from high school because
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  Speaker 3: I mean, like a lot of the girls were like
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  Speaker 3: mad that I wasn't telling my business because I thought it.
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  Speaker 2: Was supposed to be private. I love that you're an
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  Speaker 2: open book because that's what we are here, but I
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  Speaker 2: hate that that's you were shamed into it.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, And but like I like living my
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  Speaker 3: life openly now because when someone calls you out about something,
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  Speaker 3: it's like you can't you exactly exactly?
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  Speaker 1: And I love it well.
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  Speaker 2: So in college as opposed to in high school, that
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  Speaker 2: would you say you were kind of living it up.
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  Speaker 2: You're hooking up with guys more than high school less
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  Speaker 2: than high school.
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  Speaker 3: I would say less because I had a boy I had,
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  Speaker 3: I was a boyfriend girl in college and after college,
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  Speaker 3: like I was really big into having like relationships, and
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  Speaker 3: I had like a five year relationship. Yeah, so a
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  Speaker 3: very long relationship in college. So I really wasn't like
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  Speaker 3: being crazy. And that's why I feel like being crazy
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  Speaker 3: now because I never had the crazy life.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah in college you certainly do now, I mean I do, right.
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  Speaker 2: We talked to a lot of girls, a lot of women,
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  Speaker 2: and a lot of women even my age that look
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  Speaker 2: back on those days. And you know we talk about
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  Speaker 2: like all the crazy one night stands. I didn't have
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  Speaker 2: that many. And I don't think it was because I
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  Speaker 2: wouldn't have him being honest like you are. It was
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  Speaker 2: because no one I didn't have. There was no guys
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  Speaker 2: that were really interested in me. In college, I was
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  Speaker 2: crazy and secure. I went to University of Texas and
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  Speaker 2: I wasn't a five and I had a ton of friends.
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  Speaker 2: But in terms of boys, I was very heavy. I
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  Speaker 2: was so insecure about my body. Yep. I was so
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  Speaker 2: insecure about my body and my looks and you know everything. Yeah, people,
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  Speaker 2: you know, the guys would ask you out for mixers
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  Speaker 2: and matches and would you know it was I just
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  Speaker 2: would never was never getting asked. And so I did
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  Speaker 2: hook up with a couple of guys in college, and
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  Speaker 2: but and did way more than I think I would
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  Speaker 2: have because I was just so desperate to be like,
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  Speaker 2: you know, intimate with a guy, touched by a guy,
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  Speaker 2: kissed by a guy. So if there was a guy
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  Speaker 2: that was interested, like it was game on.
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I mean, like I feel like insecurity can
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  Speaker 3: lead you into like a very almost like dark path
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  Speaker 3: that like you wouldn't you were making decisions that you
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  Speaker 3: wouldn't normally make just to feel like loved and like
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  Speaker 3: have attention.
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  Speaker 2: And I've hundred percent been there.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I honestly feel like I go through that now,
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  Speaker 3: which is just you know, I mean, that's life, especially
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  Speaker 3: for women in the day and age.
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  Speaker 1: It's like a hard it's hard to be a woman,
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  Speaker 1: it is.
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  Speaker 2: And I think at that age also, and I said
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  Speaker 2: to my daughter more times than probably she's wanted to hear,
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  Speaker 2: but I think my opinion is that women, not all women,
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  Speaker 2: women are different, but the women, most of the women
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  Speaker 2: that I've spoken to about it, sex changes. Something happens mentally, emotionally,
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  Speaker 2: and even for me, my experience has been even if
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  Speaker 2: it's a guy that, let's say necessarily I didn't even
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  Speaker 2: necessarily like or wasn't even necessarily interested in having sex
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  Speaker 2: with that person, made me feel attached all of a sudden,
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  Speaker 2: I really like that person, regardless of what he was. Yes, right, yes,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know if you felt like that, Oh.
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  Speaker 3: My god, I get so like anytime it would go
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  Speaker 3: to that level, I would be you know, just latched
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  Speaker 3: on like a leech and like, you.
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  Speaker 1: Know, attachment issues for sure.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's how I.
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  Speaker 1: Was, And I mean, like I feel like it still
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  Speaker 1: is kind of that way, but it was more so.
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  Speaker 2: When I was. It changes, for sure, but I definitely
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  Speaker 2: think there's there's something about that emotional connection that feels
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  Speaker 2: like it's forming when you're intimate, visibly intimate.
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  Speaker 3: Right thousand percent, even if you're like I would say,
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  Speaker 3: even if you're just having sex with someone that you're
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  Speaker 3: like not even that interested in or whatever, Like I
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  Speaker 3: always feel if there's like someone else that I had
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  Speaker 3: like a deeper connection with, I would always feel more
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  Speaker 3: lonely after that night. Yep, then like yeah, so then
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  Speaker 3: it would just make me more emotional, and then i'd
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  Speaker 3: like cry the next day because I'm like I did
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  Speaker 3: that to feel loved, but now I feel even more lonely,
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  Speaker 3: which is sad.
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  Speaker 2: I think that that is very interesting. I think we
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  Speaker 2: should put quotes around it, and I think you should
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  Speaker 2: presame it. And I did it to feel loved and
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  Speaker 2: now I feel more lonely. I actually want to, like
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  Speaker 2: exactly right, like write that down.
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  Speaker 1: Like in the moment, it feels great, yeah, but then afterwards,
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  Speaker 1: it's like.
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  Speaker 2: There's like this weird disconnect. Well, with your boyfriend in college?
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  Speaker 2: How was And I'm asking you because you said, you
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  Speaker 2: know you are an open book, but at that age
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  Speaker 2: you're still so young. But how was sex back then?
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  Speaker 2: Was it enjoyable for you?
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  Speaker 4: No?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, no, it wasn't.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, now looking back at it, I'm like, oh
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  Speaker 3: my gosh, I didn't know what was out there until
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  Speaker 3: like now, the years that I'm living, I'm like, I didn't.
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  Speaker 1: I don't even think like I had orgasms in college
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  Speaker 1: because I didn't know what I was doing.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't either, not even close.
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  Speaker 4: Ye.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, And now I'm like, it's it's gotten better and
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  Speaker 3: better and then better. So because we learn ourselves, we
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  Speaker 3: learn our bodies.
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  Speaker 2: We know you know, and you learned to ask what
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  Speaker 2: you you know for what you want without feeling insecure
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  Speaker 2: about that. And I mean I remember, so again I
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  Speaker 2: didn't have I didn't have a lot of sex in college.
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  Speaker 2: I lost my virginity. I was nineteen. And again that
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  Speaker 2: wasn't because I was holding on.
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  Speaker 1: It was because I just no, I.
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  Speaker 2: Didn't boyfriend and nobody was really interested or that's how
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  Speaker 2: it felt. But then right after college, in my early twenties,
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  Speaker 2: I because I was thinking about this before the pod,
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  Speaker 2: I remember like getting with guys and like being all
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  Speaker 2: about I give the best blow jobs and feeling like,
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  Speaker 2: you know, I was. I felt like that that was
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  Speaker 2: something that I could almost like brag about. And the
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  Speaker 2: truth is that was not ever about me, right, That's
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  Speaker 2: about like, I'm going to make you love me. I'm
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  Speaker 2: going to give you know, I'm going to give you
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  Speaker 2: oral sex, and not because I wanted to necessarily, not
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  Speaker 2: because I enjoyed it at all.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 2: But it was just a way of saying, you know,
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  Speaker 2: look how special I am. I love to give blowjobs.
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  Speaker 4: You know.
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  Speaker 2: That's what I was about at that age.
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  Speaker 1: Do you or did you?
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  Speaker 2: Nope?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, nope, No women women, I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: I know there are some women that do enjoy it.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know that many to me. I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: If you watch sex in the City you're.
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  Speaker 1: So young, yeah, I love sex from the Sydney you.
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  Speaker 2: Do, Okay, So Samantha goes at one point, she goes,
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  Speaker 2: they don't they were talking about low down. She's like,
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  Speaker 2: they don't call it a job for nothing, And.
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  Speaker 1: It's true, It's so true.
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  Speaker 3: I that is like if you ask, and I'm like
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  Speaker 3: dating you fine, Like I will, I will suck it
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  Speaker 3: up for you.
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  Speaker 2: But yeah, literally and figuratively.
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  Speaker 1: But I have friends that will rather give a blow
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  Speaker 1: job than have such sex.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it doesn't feel it doesn't feel intimate to me.
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  Speaker 1: I agree.
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  Speaker 4: I'm like.
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  Speaker 1: This nasty thing out of my mouth, right.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you very much. And my jaw hurts is a
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  Speaker 2: whole thing.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm like, I mean, I'll do it, but like,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, whatever, it's not something I want to.
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  Speaker 2: Do, right. I mean I didn't either, I don't either,
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  Speaker 2: so anyway, but we're trying. I'm all over the place.
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  Speaker 2: But in terms of college, was there like one was
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  Speaker 2: it you had a boyfriend from f when you're senior year?
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  Speaker 1: Now.
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  Speaker 3: I went into college with a boyfriend from high school
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  Speaker 3: and then we broke up, So like there was like
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  Speaker 3: a little bit of time in between where I kind
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  Speaker 3: of like, you know, made out with a couple guys
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  Speaker 3: and then I actually had I.
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  Speaker 1: Was dating around.
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  Speaker 3: I mean my grandmother always told me, and she was
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  Speaker 3: like play the field until like you found find that guy.
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  Speaker 3: So I had three different guys at one time.
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  Speaker 2: A fan already of your grandmother.
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  Speaker 3: And she's great, and I was like Okay, I really like,
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  Speaker 3: I really liked one, but I didn't want to put
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  Speaker 3: all my emotion like into him because I knew if
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  Speaker 3: he left, I'd be so sad. So I had two
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  Speaker 3: other guys, and I mean I was hooking up with
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  Speaker 3: all of them. I mean, not not having sex, but
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  Speaker 3: like I was having sex with Jackson. He ended up
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  Speaker 3: being my five year boyfriend. But yeah, I mean like
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  Speaker 3: it was probably for a year that I was hooking
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  Speaker 3: up with all three of them, and then Jackson said, hey,
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  Speaker 3: like I want to be serious, So I dropped the
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  Speaker 3: other two and I was like, okay, me and Jackson are.
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  Speaker 2: I was like the sex with Jackson as opposed to.
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  Speaker 1: It was good. He was someone that.
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  Speaker 3: He really liked the back door, which was just like
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  Speaker 3: interesting and new for me, but it made him happy,
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  Speaker 3: So I was like, what do you like it? Not
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  Speaker 3: at first, and then I kind of got accustomed to it,
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  Speaker 3: I guess.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, it wasn't like all the time, but that's
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  Speaker 1: just something that like was like on a special.
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  Speaker 2: Occasion, could you talk to your friends about it? And
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  Speaker 2: your sisters, your sty sisters, like, could you did you
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  Speaker 2: guys see yesh.
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  Speaker 3: My god, my soorty sister shout out to her. She
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  Speaker 3: gave me a inema one time. I really on my
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  Speaker 3: hands and knees, like in the bathtub.
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  Speaker 4: And.
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  Speaker 2: No, that's sisterhood. That should be a third yes, like
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  Speaker 2: you have to be able to give your sister.
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  Speaker 3: And I am best friends with her to this day.
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  Speaker 3: She just had a little baby girl like four days ago.
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  Speaker 3: So I mean, it really is my Katie. Girls have
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  Speaker 3: stayed my sisters, I mean my whole life. They've gone
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  Speaker 3: through everything with me.
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  Speaker 2: I love that.
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  Speaker 1: They're amazing, that's really I mean.
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  Speaker 2: We talked to a lot obviously, we talked to a
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  Speaker 2: lot of girls that were in sororities, and you know,
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  Speaker 2: it depends a lot of them do that is sort
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  Speaker 2: of those are their people for the rest of their lives.
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  Speaker 2: That's what one would hope for. It's just so funny
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  Speaker 2: because I remember in college in my we was living
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  Speaker 2: in the house, showing my roommate I had hemorrhoids, and
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  Speaker 2: for like the first time, I didn't know what was
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  Speaker 2: going on. They were like golf balls, but I remember
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  Speaker 2: like literally showing them to her and her screaming. But
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  Speaker 2: like the kind of thing that now I don't think
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  Speaker 2: I would subject many people to that. I don't know
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  Speaker 2: what it was through sorority sisters exactly. I mean, and
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  Speaker 2: there was always obviously talk of sex, you know, in
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  Speaker 2: terms of like that point in college with your sorty sisters,
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  Speaker 2: and I don't know, but it was complicated for me.
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  Speaker 2: I really didn't even know at that point, like I
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  Speaker 2: had had a couple of hookups, how to even enjoy it.
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  Speaker 2: You know, I was alone. I think at that age
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  Speaker 2: that's probably common, right, I feel like, yeah, I.
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  Speaker 3: Don't even remember like being with my girlfriends in college
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  Speaker 3: and like talking about like orgasns early right Like now,
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  Speaker 3: you know, I'm like, oh my god, this sex was
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  Speaker 3: amazing and that's how we like me and my girls
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  Speaker 3: talk now. But like in college, I just remember it
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  Speaker 3: being very like uh yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, no, I a hundred percent. I don't think
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  Speaker 2: I had ever had workout maybe even into my mid
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  Speaker 2: twenties with not I've had lots of them, but not
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  Speaker 2: with someone, not with a guy.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Just couldn't let go in that way.
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  Speaker 1: The guys too.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, when I look back on it, in college,
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  Speaker 3: I had fun and I was just I feel like
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  Speaker 3: I was just having sex with my boyfriend because that
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  Speaker 3: was like what put it right?
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  Speaker 1: But I wasn't necessarily doing it because I I was like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: it feels so good, you know.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, all our listeners that are in sororities now are
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  Speaker 2: going to something to look forward to, something feel yeah. Right, yes, listen,
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  Speaker 2: and I know that we are obviously there are girls
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  Speaker 2: at that age that are enjoying sex.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, probably now more in this generation. I feel like
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  Speaker 1: there's so much online, right, that's true.
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  Speaker 3: That's true, Like it's guidance, I guess, yeah, yeah, but yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I mean I feel like it was just so innocent
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  Speaker 3: when when I was in school.
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  Speaker 2: Right, So listen, We're going to bring in some stories
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  Speaker 2: from some of our listeners and see you know what
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  Speaker 2: we think. Okay, so we're going to start out with Kate.
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  Speaker 4: Hi, my name is Kate, and I went to Clemson
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  Speaker 4: and I've never been known to be a sleepwalker, but
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  Speaker 4: one time when I was spending the night at my
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  Speaker 4: situation ship's house, I was singing with him and woke
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  Speaker 4: up in the middle of the night, I guess, and
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  Speaker 4: slept walk to his roommate's room and got into bed
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  Speaker 4: with him and woke up at nine am the next morning.
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  Speaker 4: So confused where I was, but more especially, I looked
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  Speaker 4: to my right and it was the guy I was
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  Speaker 4: sitting with roommate. And you can imagine how mortifying and
• 15:35
  Speaker 4: embarrassing that was. And again, I'd never slept walk before,
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  Speaker 4: so I was so confused.
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  Speaker 2: But yeah, oh my god, wait, I need I need
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  Speaker 2: to know what happened.
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  Speaker 1: What happened? Did she tell I don't know she slept
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  Speaker 1: walk at that time?
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  Speaker 2: What about the boyfriend? Was he like what the fuck?
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  Speaker 2: What happened?
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  Speaker 1: Did he believe her when she was like, I don't
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  Speaker 1: know how I got here.
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  Speaker 2: Here's the thing, it's actually a really good way if
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  Speaker 2: you're huh, if you are hot for your boyfriend's roommate. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I was sleepwalking.
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  Speaker 1: Friend roommate whatever.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I should use that one because like a lot
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  Speaker 3: of people love to say that I am a homie helper,
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  Speaker 3: which you're what homie hopper, like like you hook up
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  Speaker 3: with your friend, You're like, you'll hook up with like
• 16:28
  Speaker 3: a guy and then like one of his guy friends,
• 16:30
  Speaker 3: which technically, like I think they all are talking about
• 16:33
  Speaker 3: West and Kyle, right, But I don't know. That was
• 16:37
  Speaker 3: just like a random one off. But my friend's in college,
• 16:40
  Speaker 3: Like I hooked up like you looked up.
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: They're saying that you. They're talking about you and West
• 16:44
  Speaker 2: and Kyle. Yeah, because I hope CAD's hold on, you're
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: that Sally. Holy shit. So on a second, are you
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: dating Kyle right now?
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: No, we're not dating.
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: He must be the luckiest I don't know what. So
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: wait a second. So you hooked up with West, So
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: let me just be I don't know if you know
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: the stories. Let me be very clear. I did not
• 17:10
  Speaker 2: ever hook up.
• 17:11
  Speaker 3: With Okay, so you were rumored to hook up with
• 17:15
  Speaker 3: with West, right, yeah, okay, yes, yes, that's crazy.
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: This is a different episode. You have to bring me
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: on with I have to.
• 17:25
  Speaker 3: We have to.
• 17:25
  Speaker 2: It's the dumbest fucking thing.
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: I remember all of that.
• 17:29
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, it was so horrible. I cannot even
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: tell you how. I need a glass of wine. This
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: is a different n But let me assure you on
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: the lives of my husband and children. I never hooked
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: up with kissed held hands with West Wilson, who I
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: loved like he was so good to me, got Kyle
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: and trust me, Jesse and everyone on the show was
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: so sweet, warm and adorable.
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: When they will fool you.
• 17:55
  Speaker 2: He didn't fool me because we didn't fuck. I had nothing,
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: There was no fooling.
• 17:59
  Speaker 3: They'll like into thinking they're like really good guys. I
• 18:04
  Speaker 3: personally think Kyle is a great guy.
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: Love Kyle.
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but like.
• 18:09
  Speaker 3: I don't think I think like West and I spent
• 18:12
  Speaker 3: a weekend together and he was like it almost feels
• 18:15
  Speaker 3: like now he was like putting on a show of
• 18:17
  Speaker 3: like such a nice guy.
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: Like really that gave me so.
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: Much attention, And like, I see I don't know him,
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: but believe it please that I don't know him at
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: all in that way.
• 18:29
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: And then Jesse, Yes, you don't like Jesse.
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: No, I love Jesse.
• 18:34
  Speaker 3: There I was, I have a special place for my
• 18:36
  Speaker 3: heart in my heart for Jesse. He's has he's had
• 18:40
  Speaker 3: a history with my roommate, Okay, and I just saw
• 18:46
  Speaker 3: how he acted one night at a strip club and
• 18:48
  Speaker 3: it was a big turn off. Yes really yes, Like
• 18:52
  Speaker 3: he disappeared like he was like in the back room
• 18:56
  Speaker 3: with like yeah all night, each their own no judgment, yeah,
• 19:02
  Speaker 3: no judgment, but it just really gave me nick.
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: All right, So our next fabulous sex story from college
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: is coming from Parker.
• 19:26
  Speaker 4: Hi. There, this is Parker and I went to the
• 19:31
  Speaker 4: University of Arizona, and my crazy story is about a
• 19:38
  Speaker 4: guy who was in a fraternity I'm not going to name,
• 19:41
  Speaker 4: and we have been hooking up for a while, going
• 19:45
  Speaker 4: to foremals, doing all the things. We weren't dating, but
• 19:49
  Speaker 4: we were in a situationship, as you might say. And
• 19:54
  Speaker 4: after one of the foremals, we went back and we
• 19:58
  Speaker 4: hooked up whatever did the thing. And while we were sleeping,
• 20:04
  Speaker 4: I was sleeping over at his place. He got up
• 20:07
  Speaker 4: in the middle of the night and I was like
• 20:10
  Speaker 4: trying to say, like, what are you doing, like blah
• 20:12
  Speaker 4: blah blah. It woke me up. We hadn't been sleeping
• 20:15
  Speaker 4: for that long, and she wasn't answering me, and I
• 20:18
  Speaker 4: was like, what are you doing? Trying to talk to him,
• 20:22
  Speaker 4: and all of a sudden, he starts to pull his
• 20:26
  Speaker 4: pants down and starts paying on the floor in the
• 20:30
  Speaker 4: middle of his room, and I was like, oh my god,
• 20:33
  Speaker 4: Oh my god, what are you doing? Like I was
• 20:34
  Speaker 4: trying to get him to go to the bathroom, and
• 20:37
  Speaker 4: he was completely asleep and fully sleepwalking. I had no
• 20:40
  Speaker 4: idea what was going on. And pete on the floor,
• 20:45
  Speaker 4: put his pants back on and got back into bed.
• 20:48
  Speaker 4: So of course I literally hopped out of bed, jumped
• 20:52
  Speaker 4: over the pee, and ran out of his apartment and
• 20:56
  Speaker 4: he stopped looking up after that. So there's my story.
• 21:01
  Speaker 4: I really want to know what your guys is take
• 21:04
  Speaker 4: on why guys pee when they're drunk. I don't know
• 21:07
  Speaker 4: what that is, but I'm traumatized.
• 21:10
  Speaker 3: Why this sounds it's way too home for me. I mean,
• 21:16
  Speaker 3: this is the ex I was telling you Jackson of
• 21:19
  Speaker 3: five years. He would do this all the time, get out,
• 21:24
  Speaker 3: and I found it very funny, Like he couldn't like
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: he would wake up really drunk and like disoriented and
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: like not know if he was at my house, like
• 21:35
  Speaker 3: wherever we were, and I'm gonna have videos of him
• 21:38
  Speaker 3: just stumbling around and he'll like open cabinet drawers and
• 21:42
  Speaker 3: like think it's the toilet and start peeting it and
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: I'm just cackling videoing him. So like, but situationship, I'd
• 21:49
  Speaker 3: get out of there, like I knew this guy for
• 21:51
  Speaker 3: three years.
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: Back then again, if a guy did that, I know
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: that I would have just been like he he he,
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: And it wouldn't have even phased me for a second.
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: I would have jump right back into bed. Same whenever
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: like I would have been like let like it wouldn't
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: have me.
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: I would have been like shaking him like wake up
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: yeah today, no, no way day.
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: No, I wouldn't go for it. Wait, I feel like
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: you have a Oh you don't have a boyfriend now?
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: Is Jackson still in your life?
• 22:15
  Speaker 4: No?
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: Was he your love? Was he the one so far?
• 22:18
  Speaker 4: So far? Yeah?
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: He was the one that got away for sure? I
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: can tell yeah, not a way.
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: Where'd you go?
• 22:25
  Speaker 3: Well?
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: I left him.
• 22:26
  Speaker 3: I fell in love with uh, well thought I fell
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: in love with the neurosurgeon in Virginia.
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: But I mean not at the same time.
• 22:35
  Speaker 3: Like we took we we were long distance, so we
• 22:38
  Speaker 3: like broke up for a little bit of time and
• 22:40
  Speaker 3: then we were like, let's stay to other people and
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: make sure we were each other's person. And then I
• 22:46
  Speaker 3: met my ex fiance and I remember the day before
• 22:50
  Speaker 3: I got engaged, Jackson called me. He faced on me
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: and one of my girlfriends had told him, and he goes,
• 22:57
  Speaker 3: my ex fiancee is going to propose to you tomorrow.
• 23:01
  Speaker 3: He's like, if it's a rain you're searching for, like
• 23:04
  Speaker 3: I'll buy.
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: One right now. And I was like, I'm sorry, I'm
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: marrying this other guy.
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: Does he know how you feel? Now?
• 23:11
  Speaker 3: No, because like, I really don't think that we'd work
• 23:13
  Speaker 3: out now, like, especially with my life, like, and everyone
• 23:17
  Speaker 3: thinks that I should reach out to him, but I'm like,
• 23:19
  Speaker 3: I am not. He looks happy, he has a cute girlfriend.
• 23:22
  Speaker 3: I'm like, I am not ruining this guy's life, okay,
• 23:26
  Speaker 3: because I am a.
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: Ball of chaos in the very best way.
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: Yes, I was like, we need to get Sally together
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: before listen.
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: I am a ball of chaos at age fifty eight.
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: My husband is he's like this and you only have
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: to have I think one of each.
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: That's what I need.
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: Yes, Okay, guys, that is it for this episode of
• 23:46
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