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Alignment Over Hustle: The Smarter Way to Grow Your Money | Money Manifestation Chapter 4 · Rock My Finances

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  Speaker 2: Welcome back to this amazing money Manifestation series and we
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  Speaker 2: are on chapter four today. We have talked a lot
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  Speaker 2: about the different methods that we can use, the tools
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  Speaker 2: that we can use. Go back and check out chapter three.
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  Speaker 2: It's just really fun on all the different ways that
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  Speaker 2: we can think about money manifestation. So today we are
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  Speaker 2: going to talk about efforting. We're going to talk about efforting.
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  Speaker 2: We're going to talk about what is alignment? Do we
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  Speaker 2: need to push harder or do we need to be
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  Speaker 2: aligned and let it flow? And we want to know
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  Speaker 2: the right way to grow our money. So is effort
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  Speaker 2: The answer is more education the answer. I'm a certified
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  Speaker 2: money coach along with the financial advisor, and so I
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  Speaker 2: love the coaching world. Well, a lot of us coaches
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  Speaker 2: think that we need more coaching, like constantly coaching. And yes,
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  Speaker 2: we have amazing coaches out there, and I can say
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  Speaker 2: that sometimes it's not always about efforting and paying for
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  Speaker 2: a program and jumping into work. We have to have
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  Speaker 2: time to put the work to use as well, if
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  Speaker 2: that makes sense. So most people have been conditioned to
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  Speaker 2: believe that they have to just work harder, push more,
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  Speaker 2: do more, and then their money situation will improve. But
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  Speaker 2: I see over and over and over a time, people
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  Speaker 2: are just doing more and they're feeling worse. They're feeling
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  Speaker 2: even less than and exhausted and tire. They're feeling more
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  Speaker 2: pressure and more stress, more urgency, and they're feeling like
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  Speaker 2: they're just not getting ahead, like nothing's working. They're trying
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  Speaker 2: a system after system, program after program, a different podcast,
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  Speaker 2: a different radio show, a different TV show, learning about
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  Speaker 2: money this way or that way, or reading a new
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  Speaker 2: book like it's just over and over and over again,
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  Speaker 2: and they're still not where they want to be. So
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  Speaker 2: today I want to introduce a different way thinking about this,
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  Speaker 2: and that is alignment over hustle. Okay, sure you've heard
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  Speaker 2: the words before, maybe not, but if you have, the
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  Speaker 2: truth is it's not just about what you're doing with
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  Speaker 2: your money, it's the state that you were doing it from.
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  Speaker 2: How are you feeling my effort when you're actually doing it.
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  Speaker 2: Your thoughts create your feelings. Your feelings create your state
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  Speaker 2: or your emotion, and your emotion drives your financial decisions.
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  Speaker 2: I like to use the word emotion because women feel emotions.
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  Speaker 2: Tony Robbins uses the word state. I know some people
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  Speaker 2: might not like the word emotion because they don't want
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  Speaker 2: to be an emotional being, but we do. We have
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  Speaker 2: our left side of our brain and the right side
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  Speaker 2: of our brain. That's just pretty much all of us. Right,
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  Speaker 2: So if you're making decisions from pressure, I need to
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  Speaker 2: fix this. I need more. I am behind than you're
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  Speaker 2: operating from a stress response. And when you're in that
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  Speaker 2: state or you're feeling that emotion, your brain is focused
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  Speaker 2: on urgency, not clarity, So you actually might make rushed
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  Speaker 2: toc you might make uninformed decisions. You might avoid looking
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  Speaker 2: at all the different aspects before you make the decision,
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  Speaker 2: and you might even overcorrect. Right, you might feel stuck
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  Speaker 2: and do nothing. Just don't even pick up anything that
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  Speaker 2: has to do with that money decision at all. Be
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  Speaker 2: an ostrich and that's what's keeping the cycle going, not
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  Speaker 2: because you're doing something wrong, just because the state or
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  Speaker 2: the emotions that you're feeling while you're doing it. So
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  Speaker 2: let's define alignment. I know we all get our tires aligned, right,
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  Speaker 2: so we know when our tires are aligned, we are
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  Speaker 2: driving straight and balanced. Our tires are all working together
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  Speaker 2: and they're balanced on our car. Again, I know I'm
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  Speaker 2: weird with analogy, So I hope you can. Hope you
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  Speaker 2: can track me here. So if our car just got
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  Speaker 2: a good alignment, it's easier to steer, it's easier for
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  Speaker 2: our tires to all work together. So we want to
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  Speaker 2: be in alignment with our life as well. It feels
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  Speaker 2: different than stress and overwhelm. It feels calm. It feels
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  Speaker 2: like clarity, like you just you know the next step.
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  Speaker 2: You know this day is going to be a good day.
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  Speaker 2: It feels steady, like you're not off balance. It feels
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  Speaker 2: like you have a sense of purpose or a sense
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  Speaker 2: of direction. You might even just know that you're moving forward,
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  Speaker 2: but it feels good you Actually, I call it when
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  Speaker 2: I'm in the flow. When I am completely feeling my alignment,
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  Speaker 2: I am in the flow, I usually get crazy, like
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  Speaker 2: this morning, I got all this This whole download came
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  Speaker 2: to me this morning lying in bed, half asleep, half away,
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  Speaker 2: half awake. It always happens that way, I think, because
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  Speaker 2: I'm not stressed out yet, right and I'm still kind
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  Speaker 2: of half asleep. So all of this money Manifestation series
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  Speaker 2: came to me about all the different tools that we
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  Speaker 2: can use, the different the different words we use with
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  Speaker 2: this alignment we need to be in. And I just
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  Speaker 2: felt like in a flow and I literally did what
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  Speaker 2: six hours worth of work in like two hours because
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  Speaker 2: I was in flow. It just flowed right out of me.
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  Speaker 2: That's what I call alignment. It feels really good. So
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  Speaker 2: I was raised and borned and born in California, you know,
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  Speaker 2: lived in California forever my whole life, and I know
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  Speaker 2: my really big decisions. When I'm in alignment, it just happens,
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  Speaker 2: and it happens quickly. I moved out of my hometown
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  Speaker 2: and moved to a different city, like an hour and
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  Speaker 2: a half away, and that happened within like three or
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  Speaker 2: four weeks. Like I made the decision and it happened.
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  Speaker 2: Did the same thing when I moved down south, I
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  Speaker 2: moved from northern California to southern California. I was in
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  Speaker 2: the flow with that decision. Boom done easypsy. I can
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  Speaker 2: notice the difference between that and a time that I
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  Speaker 2: was not in the flow is when I sold my house.
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  Speaker 2: I was not in a flow with that at all.
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  Speaker 2: I was efforting that. That was a stressful old time city.
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  Speaker 2: We had to hire a mediation mediator. It was horrible.
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  Speaker 2: None of that for me was what I was in
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  Speaker 2: the flow of what I wanted to do, and I
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  Speaker 2: could feel that. I can feel the difference of the two.
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  Speaker 2: So think back at a decision that you've made that
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  Speaker 2: you felt just completely aligned. It was right with what
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  Speaker 2: you wanted to do and go. And it might even
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  Speaker 2: have been something crazy, like me moving to southern California.
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  Speaker 2: Why would I do that? There's no reason to do that.
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  Speaker 2: I just did it. I knew I was in the flow,
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  Speaker 2: and I knew was I was in alignment, and I
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  Speaker 2: was so excited about it and it was great, okay.
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  Speaker 2: And then think of a decision that you made that
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  Speaker 2: you're still kind of crunchy about. You might have a
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  Speaker 2: little bit a resentment. I try not to hold resentments.
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  Speaker 2: I try to forgive myself and others right away, because
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  Speaker 2: you know that's just not going to be any good
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  Speaker 2: for us to be holding around any resentments. And you
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  Speaker 2: could still feel a little crunchy. I call it crunchy.
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  Speaker 2: So when we feel a little bit crunchy about something,
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  Speaker 2: we're not aligned, we're not in the flow. I hope
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  Speaker 2: that makes sense. And it doesn't mean when I'm in
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  Speaker 2: the flow, it doesn't mean everything's perfect by any means.
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  Speaker 2: Things still happen, issues still come up, even when I'm
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  Speaker 2: in the flow, it just feels different. I'm not operating
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  Speaker 2: from panic. I'm not operating from emergency. Like just today,
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  Speaker 2: I'm in the middle of doing the podcast and my
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  Speaker 2: son is going for a new job. So he got
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  Speaker 2: the job. Now he's going to, you know, do all
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  Speaker 2: the paperwork and stuff today. And I just had this
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  Speaker 2: crazy thought because I'm type A over controlling all that
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  Speaker 2: great stuff, codependent all that. Does he have a Social
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  Speaker 2: Security card? Does he have his ver certificate? Does he
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  Speaker 2: have his ID? Does he have all this stuff? And
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  Speaker 2: he's not answering my phone, And I'm like, I got
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  Speaker 2: to get on this podcast and it's live and I
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  Speaker 2: can't do that. And I'm like lah lah lah right,
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  Speaker 2: So I'm I'm in a panic now. And I created
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  Speaker 2: that panic all by my little loansome self, which was crazy.
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  Speaker 2: It was my old patterns coming in there, because when
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  Speaker 2: I'm on a timeline, I used to get in a panic,
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  Speaker 2: and I felt like that made me work faster, better, stronger. No,
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  Speaker 2: it's just what I was used to growing up being
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  Speaker 2: raised in an alcoholic home. I was in panic a
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  Speaker 2: lot of the time because I didn't know what I
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  Speaker 2: was going to walk into after school, what I was
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  Speaker 2: going to wake up to, what I was going to
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  Speaker 2: come home to, what was going to happen. So I
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  Speaker 2: lived in a state of panic a lot, and I
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  Speaker 2: got used to that. So now that I'm not in
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  Speaker 2: that panic, I can flip back to it easily and
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  Speaker 2: quickly without even trying to. So I had to take
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  Speaker 2: a breath, relax, put everything down. Text my son just
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  Speaker 2: saying I was just thinking about this. Do you have
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  Speaker 2: your folder? And I'm still a little stressed about it?
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  Speaker 2: He texted me, yep, I got it. Ah, panic gone.
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  Speaker 2: Then I noticed myself going into old patterns and thinking, okay,
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  Speaker 2: there was a nearro reason for me to have any
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  Speaker 2: panic on that really no thought about it at all,
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  Speaker 2: Like that was my codependency jumping in there, trying to
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  Speaker 2: make sure that I again, it's about me. I wasn't
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  Speaker 2: going to get interrupted while I was doing my podcast.
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  Speaker 2: So I got into an urgency mode and then it
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  Speaker 2: went into panic. Took a buff cleared all of that.
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  Speaker 2: Once I cleared it, then I reached out to him
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  Speaker 2: and of course he had everything. It was great. Our
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  Speaker 2: body tells us when we're in alignment, and we're not
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  Speaker 2: in alignment. So this is one more reason why we
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  Speaker 2: want to go back to chapter three of this and
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  Speaker 2: find our emotional scale and check out the emotional scale
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  Speaker 2: if we're not sure where we're at, which practice makes perfect,
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  Speaker 2: which perfect none of us are never need to be.
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  Speaker 2: But practice feels a little bit better because then we
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  Speaker 2: know what's happening, what are we feeling Like. I knew
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  Speaker 2: immediately that that panic feeling was not not my normal flow,
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  Speaker 2: that was not my alignment, that was not my joy,
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  Speaker 2: that was nothing, that was kaka. I don't like that
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  Speaker 2: feeling at all, So I knew that that was my
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  Speaker 2: old patterns popping up. But I've been doing a lot
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  Speaker 2: of this work for a really, really really long time,
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  Speaker 2: so it feels natural to me to be in flow now,
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  Speaker 2: which is wonderful. It used to be the opposite. So
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  Speaker 2: everybody's in their own space at their own time. When
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  Speaker 2: you are out of alignment, it feels rushed, overwhelmed, confused,
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  Speaker 2: panics reactive. Here, I am reacting to the thoughts and
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  Speaker 2: the panic that I'm thinking, which I didn't even need
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  Speaker 2: to do right, and I feel like I need to
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  Speaker 2: do it all right now, Like what am I gonna do?
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  Speaker 2: I live across the country from this kid, I don't
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  Speaker 2: have his social and all that stuff, like they want
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  Speaker 2: original paperwork. I can't do anything with this, Like why
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  Speaker 2: don't I even pick up that stick? To even think
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  Speaker 2: that I could even pick up this topic to do
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  Speaker 2: anything like that was crazy. So I felt just useless
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  Speaker 2: and not being able to help in all of those feelings,
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  Speaker 2: the urgency, the pressure, the noise in my head, just
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  Speaker 2: thinking of all these things. What it's really important to
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  Speaker 2: understand is that you can't solve a problem from that
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  Speaker 2: state that I created it. So I did know that.
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  Speaker 2: So I took my deep breaths, I did my Diamond method,
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  Speaker 2: and I stopped breathed, felt stepped out of it. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: that's when I'm like, oh, duh, just reach out to
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  Speaker 2: him and make sure he's got it. Easy peasy. Here,
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  Speaker 2: I am running around and seeing if I have the
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  Speaker 2: birth certificate or the Social Security card so I can
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  Speaker 2: send him a copy. I didn't need to do any
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  Speaker 2: any of that. You're gonna hear me say breathe a lot,
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  Speaker 2: because that really helps me calm down. The reactive decisions
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  Speaker 2: usually don't create long term results. They just they're short
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  Speaker 2: term stupid things. Right, So now I'm out of it. Now.
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  Speaker 2: That's why shifting your state comes first. We have to
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  Speaker 2: shift our emotions. So now I'm in a better state,
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  Speaker 2: I can reach out to him, and I know my
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  Speaker 2: next best step comes to my mind easy pasy Because
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  Speaker 2: when we move into that place of calm and clarity,
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  Speaker 2: even just for a little minute, right ninety seconds, you
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  Speaker 2: start to see different options, you make different decisions, and
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  Speaker 2: that's where the real change begins. That's the fun change,
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  Speaker 2: because you're going to think of things that you would
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  Speaker 2: have never thought of before. So in order to find
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  Speaker 2: our alignment, the Diamond method is stop, breathe, feel shift
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  Speaker 2: Ta dah. So we're going to stop. Yeah, stop this panic,
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  Speaker 2: take a breath. Feel what I'm feeling. I knew what
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  Speaker 2: I was feeling was being out of control and that
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  Speaker 2: I was going to get bothered. During the podcast, I
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  Speaker 2: knew I was feeling urgency and panic, but I shifted
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  Speaker 2: it by saying, none of this is my business. This
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  Speaker 2: is not my monkey, not my circus. I can leave
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  Speaker 2: it up to him. There's no reason to feel panic.
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  Speaker 2: This is not my situation. Breathe again, and then I
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  Speaker 2: can shift. So we're going to stop pause, the reaction.
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  Speaker 2: Whatever we're reacting to, pause it, breathe, give your body
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  Speaker 2: a second to calm down, feel it, notice what's really
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  Speaker 2: going on. Without judging it. I'm not going, oh my god,
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  Speaker 2: my stupid code dependency popping up again, look at me,
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  Speaker 2: not even control this d D. I didn't judge it.
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  Speaker 2: I just said, oh yeah, that's a familiar panic feeling
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  Speaker 2: of not wanting to be bothered, and so I jump
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  Speaker 2: into an urgency to fix it when it's not even
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  Speaker 2: any of my business or concern. So when I feel that,
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  Speaker 2: it interrupts the pattern because now I'm feeling calm and
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  Speaker 2: clarity versus the urgency fixing it. Right, So we stop,
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  Speaker 2: we interrupt the pattern. We breathe, calm the nervous system.
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  Speaker 2: We feel, create awareness, and we shift creates the change.
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  Speaker 2: So this is where we want to use the tools.
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  Speaker 2: We can move our focus with appreciation, we can soften
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  Speaker 2: the thought with wouldn't it be nice if? Or we
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  Speaker 2: can walk ourselves through the diamond shift method. Right, this
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  Speaker 2: is so great. Our goal is not to stay in
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  Speaker 2: the feeling. The goal is to move out of the feeling.
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  Speaker 2: No matter what feeling it is, we always want to
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  Speaker 2: either advance to better feelings, or we want to scale
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  Speaker 2: up worse feelings. So when we are aligned, we're not
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  Speaker 2: working harder. It's literally working smarter. I got so much
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  Speaker 2: stuff done this morning when I was in alignment, Like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: so much stuff done. It's so wonderful, and that's how
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  Speaker 2: we're able to be able to grow our money From
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  Speaker 2: that state, it actually feels good and at lasts, so
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  Speaker 2: when we're in alignment, it feels different, feels calm, clear, steady, grounded, focused,
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  Speaker 2: and guess what, poof, You're just gonna know your next step,
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  Speaker 2: even if you don't know everything, even if you don't
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  Speaker 2: have your comprehensive financial plan yet, you're gonna know your
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  Speaker 2: next step to get your clarity around your money. There's
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  Speaker 2: less urgency. There's more direction from God, from our higher power,
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  Speaker 2: from our inner knowing, from our intuition, from our gut,
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  Speaker 2: whatever you want to call it. If we just stop, pause, feel, breathe,
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  Speaker 2: the next thing will float to the surface and it
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  Speaker 2: will be there for us on the very next step.
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  Speaker 2: So you're going to think more clearly, You're going to
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  Speaker 2: make more intentional choices. You're going to take steps that
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  Speaker 2: move us forward, like okay, if I'm stressed around money
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  Speaker 2: or that other statement that I said, I hope I
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  Speaker 2: have enough money to pay my bills this month. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: if we're stressed around that, you put in you, whatever
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  Speaker 2: feeling you are, We're going to stop, pause our nervous system.
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  Speaker 2: We're not panicking. We're going to breathe into that feeler,
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  Speaker 2: feeling well, feeling anxious because i don't know if I
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  Speaker 2: have enough money, so I'm unclear, So I'm feeling anxious
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  Speaker 2: about that, and I'm feeling less than I'm not feeling perfect,
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  Speaker 2: so I'm feeling out of sorts. Okay, now that I
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  Speaker 2: feel that, that's natural and normal to feel that. So
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  Speaker 2: what's one step that I could do that is going
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  Speaker 2: to help me not feel that? So I need just
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  Speaker 2: a little bit more clarity. Well, the first thing that
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  Speaker 2: comes up for me is know how much I spent
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  Speaker 2: last month. Okay, that's easy, without judgment, without put downs.
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  Speaker 2: So now I'm gonna say, Okay, what did I spend
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  Speaker 2: last month? And I'm going to go look at my
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  Speaker 2: checking account for last month, or my credit cards for
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  Speaker 2: last month, or my bank account for last month, and
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  Speaker 2: just get the next best step clarity. That's it. That's
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  Speaker 2: all I'm doing. That's it because alignment is not something
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  Speaker 2: that you wait for, Sorry you all. It takes something
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  Speaker 2: for you. It takes you to create it. So in
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  Speaker 2: order to create it, we have to know how we're feeling.
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  Speaker 2: Everything ties together. Here are you ready? Step one? Where
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  Speaker 2: are you out on the emotional scale? Where are you?
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  Speaker 2: Step two? Shift that the diamond, the diamond shift message method.
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  Speaker 2: How are we going to move out up from the
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  Speaker 2: emotional scale alignment? Where are we now? What decisions can
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  Speaker 2: we make now that we're in the flow. We can
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  Speaker 2: use the diamond method to move our thinking step by step,
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  Speaker 2: to place your brain into something that you can accept.
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  Speaker 2: Nothing fake. It can't be. You know, I'm wealthy now,
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  Speaker 2: When I just had the thought of I don't know
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  Speaker 2: if I can pay my bills next month, that's not
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  Speaker 2: going to happen. We have to just soften the thought.
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  Speaker 2: We shift into something more believable, and then we can
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  Speaker 2: anchor it in once it feels true. F word, y'all's
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  Speaker 2: got to feel really true. So as your state shifts,
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  Speaker 2: your decisions improve. And that's how alignment is built, step
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  Speaker 2: by step by step. It's not forced. You have to
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  Speaker 2: build it, create it guess what you have all the control,
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  Speaker 2: and us control freaks should love that statement because we
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: have all the control. Instead of worrying about what you're doing,
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  Speaker 2: I want you to all stop and what are you feeling?
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  Speaker 2: Who are you being? That's the control I want you
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  Speaker 2: to take over. Now, here's something really important to understand.
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  Speaker 2: Muscle often comes from fear. It sounds like I need
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  Speaker 2: to catch up, I need to fix this, I need
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  Speaker 2: more money right now, and while that might create short
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  Speaker 2: term action, it usually doesn't create long term clarity and confidence.
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  Speaker 2: So alignment, on the other hand, sounds like I understand
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  Speaker 2: where I'm at, I know my next step, I'm making
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  Speaker 2: decisions that support me and my future, and that creates stability.
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  Speaker 2: So this doesn't mean you stop taking action at all.
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  Speaker 2: It just means that you change the energy behind your action.
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  Speaker 2: Because aligned action is very different from reactive panic action. Right,
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  Speaker 2: aligned action feels intentional, focused, and sustainable. I can do
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  Speaker 2: aligned to action forever. Reactive action, where's me out? I'm exhausted,
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  Speaker 2: I'm rushed, I'm pressured, I'm inconsistent, I'm running around crazy thoughts,
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  Speaker 2: and I'm exhausted after It's like a panic attack. Over time,
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  Speaker 2: those create very different financial outcomes. So if you find
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  Speaker 2: yourself feeling like you need to do more, I want
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  Speaker 2: you to pause and ask what state am I in
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  Speaker 2: right now? How am I feeling? What are on my
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  Speaker 2: emotions right now? Am I operating from pressure or clarity?
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  Speaker 2: Because that's the answer that's going to tell you everything.
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  Speaker 2: And if you're in pressure, don't push harder. Shift first,
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  Speaker 2: Diamond method. You have to shift that shift first. Use
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  Speaker 2: the tools we talked about in the last episode and
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  Speaker 2: chapter three as well. Move up the emotional scale. Use
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  Speaker 2: the Diamond shift method. Get into your slightly better state
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  Speaker 2: your emotions, rite up the scale. Better clarity creates control,
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: The control builds confidence. We want the three c's to
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  Speaker 2: build your diamond life, clarity, control, and confidence, and from
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  Speaker 2: that place your actions usually start to work. So the
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  Speaker 2: next time you're feeling like hustling over more with your money,
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  Speaker 2: I want you to remember it doesn't feel like effort. Stop, breathe,
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  Speaker 2: feel and shift. Then you look at your money. That's
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  Speaker 2: how your money's going to grow for you. That's how
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: your money's going to walk in the door and bring
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  Speaker 2: all its friends. That's how you're going to see your
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: wealth attract more wealth, Your abundance attract more abundance, and
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: your joy attract more joy. We have to start with
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: how we feel. You can move your focus with appreciation
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  Speaker 2: and then we shift. Wouldn't it be nice if or
• 20:36
  Speaker 2: and you walk yourself through the Diamond shift method right,
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: just one little step up that emotional scale, and you
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  Speaker 2: will see this in your bank account. I promise you
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  Speaker 2: do this for thirty days. Do it for thirty days,
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  Speaker 2: and you're going to see something different in your financial world.
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: Do it with your love life. Change it everything I
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: just said to your love life if that's what you're
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: wanting more of, or a job if you're wanting a
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: different job, or a relationship with your friends or family,
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  Speaker 2: but all of everything I said. These techniques work with
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  Speaker 2: every type of situation. As long as you look at
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  Speaker 2: your feelings first, appreciate, and see where you go from there,
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  Speaker 2: you're gonna the next best step. Thank you so much
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: for listening to this chapter. Keep coming back because we've
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: got lots more chapters. I want you all to be
• 21:20
  Speaker 2: able to say, I rock my finances.
• 21:22
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