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Why We Resist Believing It Can Be Easy (And How to Finally Let It Be) · Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio

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Speaker 1: Welcome to Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio, the sacred space
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Speaker 1: for spiritually mature, self led souls who are ready to
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Speaker 1: embody the version of themselves that already has their desire.
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Speaker 1: I'm your host, Amy Yancey, and today I want to
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Speaker 1: talk to you about something that affects almost everyone on
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Speaker 1: the spiritual path, especially when you're on the edge of
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Speaker 1: your next breakthrough, and it's an energy I see often
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Speaker 1: as an intuitive coach when people come to me wanting
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Speaker 1: to create a result. Why do we resist believing that
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Speaker 1: it can actually be easy? Why do we hold on
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Speaker 1: to this inner story that what we want must be
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Speaker 1: profoundly difficult. Why do we harbor a deep down belief
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Speaker 1: that it won't work for us? And more importantly, how
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Speaker 1: do we shift this energy before we dive in? If
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Speaker 1: the three month Intuitive Coaching Package. All right, I want
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Speaker 1: to give a little bit of backstory as to where
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Speaker 1: this is coming from. I've had back to back clients
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Speaker 1: show up holding this energy, smart, brilliant, amazing, devoted people
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Speaker 1: and they've hit the wall on what they're willing to
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Speaker 1: allow themselves to have without even knowing it. Or they're
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Speaker 1: repeating the same pattern over and over again, or they
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Speaker 1: feel like they've been at it for so long something
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Speaker 1: should happen, or they're looking for some miraculous answer to
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Speaker 1: explain all the work that they've put into their journey.
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Speaker 1: So let me start here. Most of us were raised
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Speaker 1: in a culture that idolizes effort and glorifies a glory struggle.
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Speaker 1: We're taught directly and indirectly. But if something comes too easily,
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Speaker 1: it's probably not real, not valuable, or it won't last
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Speaker 1: the whole. It's too good to be true. What we
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Speaker 1: don't realize is that mentality has developed and crystallized in
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Speaker 1: our subconscious mind, this belief that suffering purifies us, and
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Speaker 1: that ease if we choose ease and things happening just
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Speaker 1: allowing them to happen, that we're lazy, ungrateful, or it's unsafe,
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Speaker 1: something bad's going to happen. When we say we want
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Speaker 1: more more, whether it's more money, more love, more freedom,
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Speaker 1: more business, more home, there's a part of us that
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Speaker 1: panics at the idea of receiving it without a massive
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Speaker 1: exhaustive journey. And even more we glorify and get on
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Speaker 1: our soapbox to tell stories about the massive exhausting journey
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Speaker 1: with so much passion and conviction that we block things
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Speaker 1: from happening immediately and precisely in a way that feels natural, comfortable,
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Speaker 1: and right as I'm reading off my script here, I'm
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Speaker 1: flashing all these images. I remember when I was in college,
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Speaker 1: there was a friend of a friend. There was a
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Speaker 1: couple and they weren't in college, and they wanted to
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Speaker 1: go to Europe. And they talked about how they script
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Speaker 1: and saved and put all their change in the jar
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Speaker 1: so that would be their spending money, and they waited
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Speaker 1: to get the best rate on the ticket and they
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Speaker 1: told this, tell this big story about how they got
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Speaker 1: to Europe. Right, we are more connected to that. And
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Speaker 1: I remember listening to that and it imprinted on me that, hey, wow,
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Speaker 1: if you're going to do something big, you've got a
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Speaker 1: scrimp and you've got to save and you've got to exert.
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Speaker 1: Same group of friends, different couple. They were getting married,
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Speaker 1: and they talked about moving into their apartment, and they
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Speaker 1: both had to get two jobs, and they applied everywhere,
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Speaker 1: and they did all these things, this massive, exhaustive journey
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Speaker 1: that I'm talking about, so that they could get this apartment.
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Speaker 1: And the reason why it flashes is that imprinted on
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Speaker 1: me again that anything I wanted to do that was cool,
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Speaker 1: it needed to be guided by this time of struggle,
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Speaker 1: of skimping, of going without a struggle, of transforming into
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Speaker 1: this being who who just can have this thing by scrimping?
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Speaker 1: And you know the whole story. You know what I'm
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Speaker 1: talking about. You know what I'm talking about. We all
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Speaker 1: have a story like that and we don't know where
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Speaker 1: it got implanted. But as you age, you don't move
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Speaker 1: away from that story. You keep it around. So when
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Speaker 1: it's something like starting a business or the romantic relationship
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Speaker 1: that actually works for you. You have this story that it
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Speaker 1: needs to be, this massive, exhausting journey, right. So here's
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Speaker 1: where it gets sneaky. Your brain is a meaning making machine.
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Speaker 1: It's constantly scouting for patterns to make you feel safe.
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Speaker 1: So when something didn't work out in the past, or
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Speaker 1: when you felt abandoned, rejected, or let down, your brain's
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Speaker 1: stores that is evidence of truth. It becomes your proof
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Speaker 1: that things don't work out or that belief doesn't work
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Speaker 1: for you. And here's the trickiest part. Those thoughts feel
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Speaker 1: incredibly logical, but they're just protection mechanisms. The ego would
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Speaker 1: rather be right about limitation than wrong about your greatness.
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Speaker 1: So this is the exact type of work we do
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Speaker 1: inside of my three month Intuitive Coaching package. We don't
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Speaker 1: just intellectually talk about blocks. We clear them, We shift them,
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Speaker 1: we transform them. We practice a new way of being.
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Speaker 1: You'll receive deep, grounded support to rewire your energetic and
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Speaker 1: emotional response to your desires, so you're not just wishing
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Speaker 1: for change, you're living in a frequency of it. I
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Speaker 1: design the three month Intuitive Coaching package to deal with
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Speaker 1: this very thing where there's a gap in your faith.
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Speaker 1: You can begin the three month in tuitive coaching package
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Speaker 1: today right now at Intuitive Coaching with Amay dot com. Okay,
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Speaker 1: so why we don't trust that belief will work for us?
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Speaker 1: If you believe a manifestation, even if you've seen it work,
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Speaker 1: you might still feel like you're the exception. Why because
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Speaker 1: of the emotional imprinting when we've had inconsistent outcomes, broken promises,
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Speaker 1: traumas around support and receiving, or we've developed this belief
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Speaker 1: like going to have describe to you that it has
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Speaker 1: to be this hard, arduous thing that we have to
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Speaker 1: script and make happen and become a different version of
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Speaker 1: ourselves so that we can create it. I mean that's true,
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Speaker 1: but in this very restrictive way, we subconsciously create this
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Speaker 1: belief that it things just don't always work out or
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Speaker 1: it's going to be really hard. But belief isn't fragile,
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Speaker 1: it's magnetic. So whatever you believe, you're going to attract
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Speaker 1: that result. So if you're holding all of those beliefs,
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Speaker 1: of course that's what's going to show up. It just
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Speaker 1: needs if you want to create a different result, you
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Speaker 1: just need to practice, not perform. So to activate the
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Speaker 1: vibration of your highest desire one more time. You just
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Speaker 1: have to practice being in the energy of it over
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Speaker 1: and over and over again. And that comes in a
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Speaker 1: lot of forms, a lot of forms. This is something
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go a script again. This is something I've
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Speaker 1: been doing my whole life before I called it manifestation.
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Speaker 1: I've said this many times on the program. I've always
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Speaker 1: felt very connected to faith and have always been a prayer,
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Speaker 1: whether that was connected to a church or not. And
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Speaker 1: I didn't even call it anything. I just knew that's
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Speaker 1: what I did. I prayed for what I wanted, and
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Speaker 1: then I moved in the direction of it. I've been
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Speaker 1: doing it as far as long as I can remember.
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Speaker 1: If there is something that I want, I practice being
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Speaker 1: in the energy of it. That's what we call it
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Speaker 1: in metaphysic and manifestation. I just did it like so
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Speaker 1: if I wanted to. When I wanted to go make
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Speaker 1: sure I went to college. I spent my downtime in
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Speaker 1: high school.
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Speaker 2: I read every book out there that the library had
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Speaker 2: or that I had access to, all that listed all
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Speaker 2: of the colleges and researched them like crazy.
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Speaker 1: I mean I spent hours and hours I could tell
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Speaker 1: you about every college in the country practically, even though
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Speaker 1: I wound up going here in Los Angeles. I went
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Speaker 1: to USC. I went to a Christian college in right
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Speaker 1: out of high school. I knew all the Christian colleges
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Speaker 1: I and it was because that was my way of
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Speaker 1: practicing the vibration of going to college. When anything I
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Speaker 1: want to do, when if it's a home, I practice
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Speaker 1: being in the vibration of a home. When my ex
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Speaker 1: husband and I were buying our first home, I watched
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Speaker 1: all the HGTV shows and I went to every open house. Yeah.
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Speaker 1: I just know how to do this really, really well.
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Speaker 1: And so when I encounter a client who is arguing
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Speaker 1: for their limitations, it's really jarring to me. It's really
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Speaker 1: I'm like, what what do you mean? Of course you
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Speaker 1: can have it, pray and then start moving towards it.
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Speaker 1: Even now, there's something that I want, I literally tend
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Speaker 1: to it every single day. There is a luxury apartment
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Speaker 1: building that I want to live in here in Pasadena, right,
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Speaker 1: I can just be like, oh, I want to live
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Speaker 1: in it. I have a picture of the building on
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Speaker 1: as my wallpaper on my laptop. I check their website
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Speaker 1: probably once a week to see what units are available
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Speaker 1: and what the current pricing is. I drive at least
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Speaker 1: four times a week. It's about three four miles from here.
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Speaker 1: I drive, I circle the block of the building once
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Speaker 1: a week. I park, and I get out and I
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Speaker 1: walk the area. It's in this kind of like cool
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Speaker 1: walkable area of Pasadena. I walk the area. I don't
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Speaker 1: think anything of this because this is me practicing the vibration,
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Speaker 1: and of course I do the math on it constantly
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Speaker 1: to see where I need to be. I know I'm
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Speaker 1: self employed. I know what documentation I have to show
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Speaker 1: as a self employed person. Yeah, I've looked at all
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Speaker 1: of their other properties. I've read all of the reviews.
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Speaker 1: I want to live there. I will live there. And
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Speaker 1: it's because I know how to practice the vibration. So
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Speaker 1: it's one of the reasons why I start doing this work,
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Speaker 1: so I could talk to other people who are practicing
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Speaker 1: a vibration. What I realize is that people often come
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Speaker 1: to metaphysics, especially now since it's been on the Internet
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Speaker 1: and manifestation, and they see the highlight reel of oh,
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Speaker 1: you can have what you want. But I don't think
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Speaker 1: there are enough teachers talking about practicing a vibration and
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Speaker 1: so then when you set out to do something huge,
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Speaker 1: you don't have the energy to hold it. I just
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Speaker 1: did a show on that, and it has a lot
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Speaker 1: to do with what I'm talking to you about here.
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Speaker 1: In this program, we commit to stories that keep us
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Speaker 1: from receiving When something feels emotionally threatening, like we can't
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Speaker 1: have it and we don't want that disappointment. That's the threat,
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Speaker 1: is the disappointment, we create a very elaborate reason why
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Speaker 1: we can't have it. And it amazes me how locked
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Speaker 1: in people get to these stories and like, this story
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Speaker 1: is keeping you from what you want. It's not that
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Speaker 1: you can't have it, it's the story. These stories sounds
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Speaker 1: so rational though when we're telling them, and believe me,
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Speaker 1: I have definitely It's not like I just bypass all
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Speaker 1: of this. No, I have my moments like this as well,
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Speaker 1: and I have to catch myself constantly. So these stories,
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Speaker 1: again seem so rational, but often they're just delays, loops,
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Speaker 1: protective blocks in disguise. They're actually not as big of
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Speaker 1: a deal as we think we think there is. So
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Speaker 1: this must mean something, right, it doesn't. It just means
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Speaker 1: you're holding onto that story. We don't need to earn
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Speaker 1: our desires, we just need to allow them. So I
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Speaker 1: want you to start making a bold internal decision right now.
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Speaker 1: It gets to be easy for me. I get to
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Speaker 1: receive exactly what I desire, and all you have to
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Speaker 1: do is practice the vibration. Let go of the stories,
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Speaker 1: let go of the noise, Let go of a judgment,
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Speaker 1: Let go of the blaming and complaining, Let go of
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Speaker 1: the belief that you need this massive, hard earned journey
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Speaker 1: to get you to what you want. Because you get
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Speaker 1: to receive exactly what you desire, and it gets to
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Speaker 1: be easy, not because you're special, not because you worked
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Speaker 1: hard enough, but because ease is natural, because ease is
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Speaker 1: your birthright, because receiving is natural, and receiving is your birthright. So,
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Speaker 1: as Louise Hay would often say, I'm paraphrasing, stop arguing
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Speaker 1: for your limitations so you can have what you want.
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Speaker 1: Stop arguing for your limitations so you can have what
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Speaker 1: you want. I get it. You might have been disappointed
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Speaker 1: and you're bummed, and now you're telling a story about
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Speaker 1: why you can't have it, or why it's going to
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Speaker 1: be too hard, or why staying where you're at is better.
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Speaker 1: Maybe it's better, Like I have a client right now.
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Speaker 1: I seriously doubt she listens to this podcast, but it
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Speaker 1: doesn't matter. It's everybody's story. Right now, she's telling me that, oh,
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Speaker 1: it's just better, Amy if I just stay single, it's
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Speaker 1: more fun. No, no, it's not. It's that you don't
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Speaker 1: want to have to admit that, Hey, I just made
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Speaker 1: up this wacky story that is keeping me from what
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Speaker 1: I want, And don't take it personally. Anytime I'm telling
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Speaker 1: myself a story, I'm like, hah, that's just a story.
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Speaker 1: That's just a start, and you can feel it in
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Speaker 1: your body. If it feels all tight and restrictive, it's
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Speaker 1: a story. If it feels all confusing, you know, very smart,
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Speaker 1: brilliant people all of a sudden it doesn't make sense
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Speaker 1: to them. I have my moments like that too, I know,
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Speaker 1: and I'm like I don't know, or I'm confused or
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Speaker 1: heaven forbid, overwhelmed. That's not a word I use often
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Speaker 1: because my mind's pretty organized and I do the work
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Speaker 1: to keep my life pretty organized. But when I hear
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Speaker 1: myself say that, I'm like, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
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Speaker 1: I just entered limitation land, and I gotta get myself
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Speaker 1: out of there. Some story I'm telling myself right now
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Speaker 1: is based on full on limitation. And I get it.
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Speaker 1: I get it. Happens, it happens. You're not wrong, that happens.
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Speaker 1: There's no reason to feel embarrassed. That happens. Just learn
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Speaker 1: a new way of being right. And the new way
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Speaker 1: of being is it gets to be easy, and I
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Speaker 1: get to have exactly what I want and choose a
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Speaker 1: different course of action. Right. You don't have to take
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Speaker 1: the longest path. And then from there practice practice. Everything
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Speaker 1: you do is practice until it manifests, and you don't
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Speaker 1: stop practicing until you have it. That's it. That is
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Speaker 1: so make a habit of letting joy and ease feel
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Speaker 1: safe in your body. Make it a habit of saying, oh,
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Speaker 1: I know what to do, Oh this is easy, this
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Speaker 1: is easy. I'll share this. And I've said this on
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Speaker 1: the program before. Some of the best salespeople I've ever
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Speaker 1: met in my working life, before I start my business,
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Speaker 1: they were not as smart as people in the room.
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Speaker 1: They didn't have all the fancy degrees. You know. What
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Speaker 1: they knew how to do is come into work on time,
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Speaker 1: make their calls, follow up with their clients. They knew
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Speaker 1: how to be personable, check their ego, they knew how
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Speaker 1: to sell. They weren't trying to change the world with
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Speaker 1: their actions. And I get it. Some of us are
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Speaker 1: in industries where we're trying to change the world. But
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Speaker 1: before you can change the world, you have to change yourself.
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Speaker 1: If you can hold a different vibration, the vibration miracles,
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Speaker 1: the vibration of ease, the vibration of receiving exactly what
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Speaker 1: you ask for without struggle and a story of hardship
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Speaker 1: to go along with it, you raise the vibration of
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Speaker 1: the planet. You are changing the planet. So yeah, just stop.
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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm gonna say this. Stop overthinking it, stop
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Speaker 1: overthinking it. Just let yourself have what you want and
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Speaker 1: then it'll start to click. You're like, oh, I could
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Speaker 1: just do this, Oh I just do this, and before
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Speaker 1: you know it, it shows up in this god wacky way.
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Speaker 1: Last week was a whole week of god wacky miracles
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Speaker 1: and shit that I thought that my you know, my
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Speaker 1: hyper intellectual mind would be like, no, it shouldn't be
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Speaker 1: that way. I just did it, like I just trusted
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Speaker 1: or I just I remember, I will and I was like,
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Speaker 1: oh no, And I heard myself say, why do you
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Speaker 1: need an oh no right now? Why don't you just
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Speaker 1: center yourself do what you know you need to do,
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Speaker 1: and then of course show up, show up, show up,
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Speaker 1: shop shop, shop, right, and you don't have to It
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Speaker 1: doesn't have to be so hard. It took me a
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Speaker 1: long time to really grasp this. But you know, as
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Speaker 1: you know, in my forties mid forties now, and I
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Speaker 1: look around the landscape and the people that are living
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Speaker 1: lives that I truly admire. They're not making their life
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Speaker 1: so hard with a mental drama. They just do what
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Speaker 1: they do and they do it to the very best
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Speaker 1: of their ability. There's a lightness, there's there's a joyfulness,
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Speaker 1: there's an ease, there's a freedom. But that doesn't happen
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Speaker 1: because of some outside result. Something shifted within them that
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Speaker 1: created that reality. And so my prayer is is that
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Speaker 1: this show will help somebody shift into this mode. And
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Speaker 1: if you're ready to stop dancing with struggle and start
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Speaker 1: partnering with simplicity, I'd love to support you inside of
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Speaker 1: my three month intuitive coaching package. Again, it's designed for
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Speaker 1: people going through this. This is a high level, high
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Speaker 1: frequency container. For those who are ready for meaningful accelerated transformation.
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Speaker 1: You can learn more and begin at Intuitive Coachingwithamy dot com.
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Speaker 1: All Right, thank you for listening to this show. If
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Speaker 1: this episode opened up something for you, please just start
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Speaker 1: moving towards what you want. Drop the story of I
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Speaker 1: can't drop the story of well, this and this and
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Speaker 1: this and this and comparing this to that. Just let
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Speaker 1: it go so and just do you I want this thing.
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Speaker 1: I'm going to trust what I'm sensing. I'm going to
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Speaker 1: trust my intuition and I'm going to walk towards it
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Speaker 1: every single day, and I'm not going to stop till
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Speaker 1: I get there. I'm not going to stop until I
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Speaker 1: get there. I'll assess, I'll learn along the way, and
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Speaker 1: I'll keep going and keep going and keep going. And
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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna let myself go way low vibe because
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Speaker 1: something didn't go exactly the way I plan, Because I
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Speaker 1: want you to hear me, it's not going to go
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Speaker 1: the way you planned. It's going to go in this
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Speaker 1: god wacky way that's actually far more beautiful and miraculous
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Speaker 1: than anything you could ever imagine. I just went through
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Speaker 1: a week of like back to back to back back miracles,
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Speaker 1: and it happened that way. But it took me shifting
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Speaker 1: into an energy, and I had to shift, I promise you.
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Speaker 1: Every single day last week I opened my eyes with
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Speaker 1: one energy and I had to consciously choose to shift
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Speaker 1: into another vibration. Practice, practiced the energy that was a
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Speaker 1: match to my desired result, and then it showed up.
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Speaker 1: And so I know you can do this. I can
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Speaker 1: guide you and support you in doing this. I know
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Speaker 1: you've done it already. It's just sometimes some things feel
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Speaker 1: so much bigger than us, but they're not. So. Ease
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Speaker 1: is not your enemy. Struggle is not a requirement a big, lengthy, massive,
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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I did this and this and struggled
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Speaker 1: and skimped and resisted and refrained and restricted myself until
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Speaker 1: I got there. That story is not required either. You're
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Speaker 1: already enough, and belief can work for you. You can believe
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Speaker 1: something into existence, and you believe and then you think,
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Speaker 1: and then you feel differently, and then you take different actions,
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Speaker 1: and then you speak differently. So let it be easy,
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Speaker 1: Let it happen now, Let it be yours. Thank you
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Speaker 1: so much for listening to the show. I look forward
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Speaker 1: to connecting with you again. Take care, Goodbye,