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Caregiver Appreciation Day: Meaning, Important Dates, and Thoughtful Ways to Say Thank You · Home Care Powered By AUAF

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  SPEAKER_01: Welcome to the Home Care Podcast.
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  SPEAKER_01: Imagine waking up tomorrow and um realizing that literally every basic function of your day, getting out of bed, making coffee, just stepping into the shower safely, suddenly requires a project manager.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right.
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  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
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  SPEAKER_00: Someone to just coordinate your existence, basically.
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  SPEAKER_01: Exactly.
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  SPEAKER_01: And for millions of people, that project manager is a very real person.
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  SPEAKER_01: So the mission of today's deep dive is really to unpack this often invisible world of caregiving.
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  SPEAKER_01: We're looking at the people doing the heavy lifting in the background of our society.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's totally hidden labor.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like it's happening all around you, right next door, maybe even in your own home, but it's largely invisible unless you're the one actively living it.
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  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, 100%.
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  SPEAKER_01: So to do this, we are pulling from two really distinct sources today.
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  SPEAKER_01: We've got this super insightful article by Rana Batani called Honoring the Hands That Heal.
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  SPEAKER_00: Mm-hmm.
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  SPEAKER_00: A really great piece.
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  SPEAKER_01: It really is.
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  SPEAKER_01: And we're pairing that with detailed service information from a long-standing Chicago land agency called Home Care, powered by AUAF, just to see what the physical infrastructure of care actually looks like.
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  SPEAKER_00: Which is so important because, you know, blending the emotional side of it with the actual on-the-ground logistics is really the only way to get the full picture here.
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  SPEAKER_01: Aaron Powell Okay, let's unpack this.
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  SPEAKER_01: If we look at a household like um uh a complex machine, the caregiver is basically the operating system.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right.
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  SPEAKER_00: I like that analogy.
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  SPEAKER_01: Right.
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  SPEAKER_01: Like they run quietly in the background, executing a million little commands so the whole system of the family doesn't just completely crash.
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  SPEAKER_01: And we actually have specific days dedicated to this.
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  SPEAKER_00: Aaron Powell You do, yeah.
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  SPEAKER_00: Which is a start at least.
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  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, exactly.
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  SPEAKER_01: According to the sources, Caregiver Appreciation Day is widely recognized on March 3rd, and then National Caregivers Day lands on the third Friday in February.
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  SPEAKER_01: But honestly, even just the word caregiver feels, I don't know, a bit too small for what they actually do.
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  SPEAKER_00: Aaron Powell It definitely softens the reality of the work.
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  SPEAKER_00: I mean, what's fascinating here is that this is not always a regular job, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: It's not a standard nine to five.
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  SPEAKER_01: Not at all.
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  SPEAKER_01: We're talking meal prep, bathing, laundry, transportation, medication reminders, companionship.
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  SPEAKER_00: Aaron Powell Right.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it sounds like a chore chart when you list it out like that, but these aren't just chores.
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  SPEAKER_00: These are the literal mechanisms that allow seniors or people with disabilities to actually maintain their independence.
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  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, if I skip my laundry, I just wear a wrinkled shirt, it's whatever.
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  SPEAKER_00: Exactly.
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  SPEAKER_00: But if a caregiver misses a complex medication reminder, or if they aren't there to physically stabilize someone in the shower.
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  SPEAKER_01: That's an immediate crisis.
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  SPEAKER_00: Yes.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's a fall, it's a hospital visit.
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  SPEAKER_00: The stakes are just on a completely different level.
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  SPEAKER_00: And doing these tasks is what allows someone to stay in their own home and gives the family that crucial peace of mind.
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  SPEAKER_01: Which brings us to the really hard part.
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  SPEAKER_01: Since this is an invisible high-stakes operating system, how do you even say thank you to someone doing all of that?
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  SPEAKER_00: Right.
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  SPEAKER_00: It feels like nothing is gonna be enough.
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  SPEAKER_01: Exactly.
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  SPEAKER_01: But Tani's article has some simple ideas, a handwritten note, for example.
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  SPEAKER_01: There's a specific message she suggests, thank you for the care and comfort you give each day.
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  SPEAKER_01: And she also mentions small gifts like a scented candle or a gift card for coffee, gas, groceries.
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  SPEAKER_00: Which are all nice things, obviously.
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  SPEAKER_01: They are.
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  SPEAKER_01: But I have to play devil's advocate here.
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  SPEAKER_01: Is a scented candle or a five-dollar coffee card really enough for someone who is literally managing bathing routines, medications, and emotional breakdowns?
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  SPEAKER_01: It feels a little disproportionate.
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  SPEAKER_00: I get that.
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  SPEAKER_00: I mean, this raises an important question about what recognition actually means in this context.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because the small tokens like the note or the coffee, they do serve a purpose.
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  SPEAKER_00: They validate the caregiver's patience.
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  SPEAKER_00: They pierce that invisibility we talked about.
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  SPEAKER_00: They say, Hey, I see you.
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  SPEAKER_01: I see the heavy lifting.
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  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I guess that psychological validation is huge.
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  SPEAKER_00: It is huge.
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  SPEAKER_00: But the ultimate gift mentioned in the source material, the thing that actually sustains a caregiver is time off.
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  SPEAKER_00: Respite care.
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  SPEAKER_01: Ah, right.
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  SPEAKER_01: Stepping in so they can step away.
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  SPEAKER_00: Exactly.
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  SPEAKER_00: Stepping in to help with errands or offering a quiet break.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because addressing their most critical need isn't about giving them a candle, it's about preventing total burnout.
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  SPEAKER_01: That makes so much sense.
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  SPEAKER_01: So building on that idea of respite care, let's pivot to where families can actually find that reliable relief.
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  SPEAKER_01: Because you can't just leave your grandma with complex medical needs with a random neighbor for the weekend.
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  SPEAKER_00: No, absolutely not.
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  SPEAKER_00: You need a professional infrastructure you can actually trust.
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  SPEAKER_01: Which is where home care powered by AUAF comes in.
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  SPEAKER_01: They have a 30-plus year history in the Chicagoland area.
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  SPEAKER_01: And the services they offer map perfectly onto all those high-stakes tasks we just talked about.
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  SPEAKER_00: They've basically formalized the family caregiver role.
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  SPEAKER_01: Exactly.
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  SPEAKER_01: Personal care, lighthouse keeping, private sitters, and specialized care for Alzheimer's and dementia.
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  SPEAKER_01: But here's where it gets really interesting.
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  SPEAKER_01: Their footprint and their linguistic diversity are just massive.
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  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, that part is incredible.
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  SPEAKER_01: Right.
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  SPEAKER_01: Just the service areas alone.
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  SPEAKER_01: We're talking Chicago, Arlington Heights, Barrington, Bloomingdale.
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  SPEAKER_01: Huge radius.
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  SPEAKER_01: Evanston, Skokie, Schaumburg, it just goes on.
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  SPEAKER_01: And the languages.
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  SPEAKER_01: Their staff is fluent in English, Assyrian, Arabic, Spanish, Polish, Russian, Ukrainian, and Persian.
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  SPEAKER_00: Which is a game changer.
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  SPEAKER_00: I mean, think about the vulnerability of having someone help you bathe.
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  SPEAKER_01: Oh, yeah.
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  SPEAKER_01: If you can't even speak the same language, that sounds terrifying.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right.
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  SPEAKER_00: If an elderly Ukrainian patient is confused or in pain, having a caregiver who speaks their native language is not some luxury perk.
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  SPEAKER_00: It is a fundamental requirement for them to feel safe and independent in their own home.
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  SPEAKER_01: It totally removes that friction.
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  SPEAKER_00: And because AUAF is licensed by the Illinois Department on Aging, and they partner with major insurances like Blue Cross, Humana, Melina, they are fully integrated into the healthcare system.
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  SPEAKER_00: But it's the language fluency that really makes it work on a human level.
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  SPEAKER_01: That's a great point.
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  SPEAKER_01: But while professional agencies are amazing, what about the families who are already doing this work themselves, like the daughter who quit her job to take care of her mom?
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  SPEAKER_01: How does the system support them?
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  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, the financial hit for those families can be devastating.
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  SPEAKER_01: Totally.
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  SPEAKER_01: But there is a crucial detail in the AOAF source about this.
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  SPEAKER_01: In Illinois, you can actually become a paid family caregiver through the community care program.
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  SPEAKER_00: Yes.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if we connect this to the bigger picture, the impact of that program is just profound.
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  SPEAKER_01: Aaron Powell Because they're getting paid for the laundry, the cooking, the medication tracking they were already doing for free.
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  SPEAKER_00: Exactly.
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  SPEAKER_00: The state and agencies like AUAF, who help families navigate all the complicated requirements, are essentially saying this is professional essential health care.
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  SPEAKER_00: They are officially validating family caregiving as a real job.
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  SPEAKER_01: Aaron Powell So what does this all mean?
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  SPEAKER_01: Well, if you are listening to this right now, or if someone you know is quietly carrying the weight of family caregiving in Illinois, you don't have to do it for free.
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  SPEAKER_00: No, you don't.
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  SPEAKER_01: And you don't have to do it without institutional support.
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  SPEAKER_01: There are real pathways out there.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's a massive paradigm shift in how we value this labor.
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  SPEAKER_01: It really is.
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  SPEAKER_01: So just to recap our journey today, we started by pulling back the curtain on the profound daily impact of caregivers, recognizing them on March 3rd, and honestly, all year round.
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  SPEAKER_01: We looked at tangible ways to show gratitude, from handwritten notes to the vital gift of time off.
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  SPEAKER_01: And finally, we explored the robust safety net provided by agencies like home care, powered by AUAF in Chicagoland, and how family members can actually get paid for this essential work.
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  SPEAKER_00: Which honestly leaves me with one final thought to ponder, something that kind of builds on everything we've talked about from the sources today.
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  SPEAKER_01: Oh, I'm intrigued.
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  SPEAKER_01: Let's hear it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Well, we constantly talk about independent living as the ultimate goal, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: But if the intensive daily work of caregivers is what truly allows a house to remain a safe haven, maybe we need to completely redefine our concept of independence.
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  SPEAKER_01: Wait, how do you mean?
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  SPEAKER_00: Like, is true independence actually just an illusion?
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  SPEAKER_00: Is it really just the result of a perfectly balanced, totally invisible web of community and caregiver dependence?
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  SPEAKER_01: Oh wow.
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  SPEAKER_01: That completely flips it.
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  SPEAKER_01: We only feel independent because someone else is flawlessly managing our dependencies in the background.
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  SPEAKER_00: Exactly.
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  SPEAKER_00: Independence is gifted to us by the labor of others.
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  SPEAKER_01: That is such a powerful thought to end on.
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  SPEAKER_01: Thank you so much for joining us for this deep dive today.
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  SPEAKER_01: Take a moment today to thank the caregivers in your own life, and we will catch you next time.