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A Quick Stop At Johnny's House: Never Argue! · Johnny's House

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  Speaker 1: Options, but you want to hang out with us, and
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  Speaker 1: we appreciate that. Sunny today with the high seventy seven
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  Speaker 1: fifty seven right now, right A celebrity couple came out
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  Speaker 1: and say, I don't know about have the rest of y'all,
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  Speaker 1: but we don't em of we don't even fight.
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  Speaker 2: Who it is Travis Kelsey and Taylor Swift.
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  Speaker 3: Is he a smart man? You're a smart man. What
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  Speaker 3: are you fighting about? Your house half fun at the
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  Speaker 3: top of your game. You're both rich, but the thing
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  Speaker 3: most people couples fight about.
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  Speaker 4: Money is yes, absolutely, so what are you fighting about? Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: So, I guess. They were talking with George Clooney on
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  Speaker 2: New Heights, their podcast, which you can hear on the
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  Speaker 2: iHeartRadio app, and George Clooney said that him and his
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  Speaker 2: wife a mall, they've never fought in ten years.
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  Speaker 4: Again, what are you fighting for?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: So, Travis said that he and Taylor had never gotten
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  Speaker 2: into an argument or haven't yet, you know, although he
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  Speaker 2: noted that they've been only together for two and a
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  Speaker 2: half years, so obviously ten years two and a half
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  Speaker 2: years is a big difference.
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  Speaker 1: But I think in time you mature, you know, like
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  Speaker 1: when I was younger, I would argue.
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  Speaker 4: I mean.
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  Speaker 1: The first time the young lady i'm seeing now we
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  Speaker 1: had a disagreement. I said, okay, let's set some boundaries here.
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  Speaker 1: I will never go toe to toe screaming back and forth.
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  Speaker 1: I will never do that. That will not walk away
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  Speaker 1: before that happens. If I do something that hurts you,
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  Speaker 1: it is not my intentions to do that. All you
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  Speaker 1: got to do is bring it to my attention and
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  Speaker 1: I'll apologize for it and try not to do it again,
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  Speaker 1: because if I want you in my life, I want
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  Speaker 1: you to be happy. I'm not here to go. Okay
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  Speaker 1: on the man, drus If I did something, hey, you
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  Speaker 1: know what when you said that the other day that
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  Speaker 1: hurt me, you know, I'm sorry. That's totally my fault.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't mean to do that, and I'll stop and
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  Speaker 1: I'll move on. But that going, I just don't have
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  Speaker 1: the energy to do it. I used to though, I'm
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  Speaker 1: going three four days, go to sleep, wake up.
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  Speaker 4: So you over it yet? Are you over yet? It does?
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  Speaker 2: It does take a lot of like sort and stuff,
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  Speaker 2: but and it depends on your argumenting like style style.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, I grew up.
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  Speaker 2: Unfortunately I did see my mom and dad like raise
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  Speaker 2: their voice, and so I thought that that's how you are. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: you have an argument, and so like I have raised
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  Speaker 2: my voice a lot. But like with more relationships like now,
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  Speaker 2: like Kim and I have gotten into some not so
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  Speaker 2: nice arguments. But like you learn, you do learn, and
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  Speaker 2: it's like okay, why and then you feel embarrassed and
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  Speaker 2: you're like, why am I doing that?
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  Speaker 4: I'm too old to be doing that.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and again, like you said, it's arguing styles. If
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  Speaker 1: that's what you say, if you can you go up
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  Speaker 1: in a household, and that's what you saw, that's what
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  Speaker 1: that's how you do it.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Unfortunately, when you get a little older, you like and
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  Speaker 1: I mean, especially coming from someone who was divorced.
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  Speaker 4: I'm not doing that again, Yeah I am not me?
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  Speaker 4: What about you?
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  Speaker 3: My wife and I used to argue like it was
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  Speaker 3: our job. This is pre separation, but like we and that.
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  Speaker 3: So it's a good thing we got separated because it
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  Speaker 3: let us both figure out how to act and then
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  Speaker 3: we got back to here. We very rarely argue now,
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  Speaker 3: like I say, smart ass things, she rolls her eyes, whatever.
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  Speaker 3: Like we've had maybe two or three big ones over
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  Speaker 3: the last couple of years where I consider in an
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  Speaker 3: argument other than that got disagreements because that's what life
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  Speaker 3: brings it.
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  Speaker 4: But we don't really argue anymore.
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  Speaker 2: You get a better understanding of that person. I mean
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  Speaker 2: obviously an argument, not yelling, but like having that kind
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  Speaker 2: of conflict and then conflict resolution. Yeah, it makes you stronger.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like, Yeah, and it's just like, what are
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  Speaker 2: you arguing about? Like, what's the point When you're younger,
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  Speaker 2: you argue to win?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 3: Dumb things, things that aren't really worth arguing over. That's
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  Speaker 3: why I when they said that, these people say this,
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  Speaker 3: they don't live in life. They live in a bubble,
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  Speaker 3: so they've got nothing that there is no bumps in
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  Speaker 3: their road.
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  Speaker 1: So what are they gonna argue about unless there's two
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  Speaker 1: people trying to be compatible and you're not, and then
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna bump heads all the c because you're not
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  Speaker 1: supposed to be together.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but most arguments stem from a bump in the road.
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  Speaker 3: They don't have bumps in their road. They just don't.
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  Speaker 1: And plus they got all the professional help that they
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  Speaker 1: can get id a bump. I had a bump in
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  Speaker 1: the road. What happened, we did this, Well, maybe you
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  Speaker 1: should handle this way and it's done. I mean, they
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  Speaker 1: deal with real life. Let's say, you know whatever, are
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  Speaker 1: one of their loved ones passes away. That's the same
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  Speaker 1: thing that happens with me. But like you wouldn't argue
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  Speaker 1: over that.
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  Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 3: They don't deal with the day to day. You know, man,
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  Speaker 3: we're light on cash. Oh man, I did this, Like, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: it's how work.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I read, I will the mere word argument bothers me.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna make that happen. Are you one of
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  Speaker 1: those have a relationship with someone and you you just
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  Speaker 1: don't argue, You don't have arguments. Are you one of
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  Speaker 1: those who listening now going well, I'm in an argument
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  Speaker 1: right now, and I'm sure that's some people listening right
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  Speaker 1: now mad about what happened last night. That's just the
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  Speaker 1: reality that you're in right now. Are you a couple
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  Speaker 1: that you don't argue anymore? What is your secret? What
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  Speaker 1: do you learn from doing it? Four oh seven now
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  Speaker 1: one nine one on six seven x el mobile four
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  Speaker 1: one o sixty seven live stream social media. If you up,
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  Speaker 1: we want to hear from you. Arguments in your relationship.
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  Speaker 1: You just don't do it. We want to hear from you,
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  Speaker 1: so call us on Johnny's ire. It is Johnny's house,
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  Speaker 1: sunny with the high of seventy seven. It's fifty seven
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  Speaker 1: right now. I gotta do a thank you. Carmen, who
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  Speaker 1: runs the Baby DJ program, her sister just bought a
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  Speaker 1: house in my neighborhood. And she texts Carmen and they
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  Speaker 1: listening to the show this morning, say if I want
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  Speaker 1: to come over and you still watching, Oh, that's very nice.
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  Speaker 2: Wow.
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  Speaker 4: Don't get me wrong. If I had all them clothes
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  Speaker 4: in my car right now, would.
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  Speaker 2: You imagine if their neighbors saw you dragging your laundry
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  Speaker 2: to another house.
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  Speaker 3: I would hope someone posting their little ring video door
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  Speaker 3: so I can see it.
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  Speaker 4: Look at this. Hey what I doing? Hey open your
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  Speaker 4: garage and I back my car in the clothes. But
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  Speaker 4: I would have accepted that dirty.
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  Speaker 2: They're going to think you're cheating with the neighbor.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, there's no there's no right here.
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  Speaker 1: Well, she just moved in, so I ain't made that
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  Speaker 1: many connections yet. I'm just thinking, but thank you. That
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  Speaker 1: was very kind to you. I just have to wash myself,
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  Speaker 1: all right, They said couples who do not argue, and
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  Speaker 1: celebrity couples say, no, we don't have argument. Brian say,
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  Speaker 1: because you have got no problem?
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  Speaker 4: Right? Were your problems?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: Everyone has problems, problems, but they're much easily solved when
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  Speaker 3: you're a gazillionaire and you're at the top of whatever you.
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  Speaker 1: Do, and plus a lot of arguments over financing and
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  Speaker 1: you got worried about that when you're rich. Let's talk
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  Speaker 1: with Sarah from Orlando. Sarah, good morning, Good morning, all right,
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  Speaker 1: and how long you been married?
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  Speaker 4: Sarah?
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  Speaker 5: So, I've been married for three weeks, but my husband
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  Speaker 5: have been together on and off.
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  Speaker 6: For nineteen years.
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  Speaker 4: What that was a long engagement?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: So do you do you argue? Rarely argue? What's going on?
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  Speaker 7: So we rarely argue.
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  Speaker 5: We have a lot of discussions, and there are some
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  Speaker 5: things that we don't tend to see eye to eye on,
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  Speaker 5: and after after talking and lengthy discussions, if we still
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  Speaker 5: don't see eye to eye, we just kind of look
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  Speaker 5: at each other and go, you know what, agree to disagree, yeah,
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  Speaker 5: and move on, lay it to rest.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, now, I mean that's something that But for
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  Speaker 1: nineteen years you've heard you've had to learn to communicate
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  Speaker 1: with each other.
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  Speaker 4: You know.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, Now what type of we're talking about this? What
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  Speaker 1: type of household did you grow up in? Did your
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  Speaker 1: parents argue or they didn't?
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  Speaker 5: My parents argued all the time, led to a divorce,
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  Speaker 5: and even when my mom got remarried, they argued a lot.
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  Speaker 5: Now I was used to constant fighting.
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  Speaker 4: Now the two things will happen.
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  Speaker 1: You can look at that and say and you just
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  Speaker 1: absorb it, or you can sit back and go, you
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  Speaker 1: know what, whatever I do. I don't want to be
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  Speaker 1: like that, you know. Yeah, Yeah, Okay, Well I'm glad.
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  Speaker 1: I'm glad it worked out for you and share Sarah,
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  Speaker 1: thank you for sharing that this morning.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: Absolutely, have a wonderful day.
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  Speaker 4: All right, We love you too, Bye bye? Right what
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  Speaker 4: they sayd over there?
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  Speaker 2: Somebody said it's very rarely that my husband and I argue.
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  Speaker 2: We've been together for six years. Let's see here, somebody
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  Speaker 2: thinks it's unhealthy if you don't argue in a relationship.
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  Speaker 4: What depends on what you call an argument? That's what
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  Speaker 4: it is.
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  Speaker 3: You're supposed to have disagreement, Yeah, and not see eye
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  Speaker 3: to eye on this. If you either talk it out
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  Speaker 3: or you argue.
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  Speaker 1: See like, for me, arguing is we're sitting there, you know,
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  Speaker 1: yelling at each other, right and other people like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: just having a heated discussion. So I think everybody could
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  Speaker 1: be different. Discussing a disagreement. Isn't arguing, No, I mean
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  Speaker 1: that's that's human interaction. When it turns into an argument,
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  Speaker 1: that's a problem. Avoiding it is unhealthy. Brian, what they
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  Speaker 1: said over there, this is actually pretty smart. This is
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  Speaker 1: from the XL Moble Power by Toorney Dan Neulan. Interrect
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  Speaker 1: need a check. It's a no brainer. Just call it
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  Speaker 1: Toorney Dan Neulan.
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  Speaker 3: I said, in my first marriage, all we did was
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  Speaker 3: argue because I was never having any of my needs met.
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  Speaker 4: So we finally got divorced. I remarried.
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  Speaker 3: I have my needs met now in my relationship, my
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  Speaker 3: partner's needs are also met, so we rarely have a
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  Speaker 3: reason to argue.
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  Speaker 4: Oftentimes, arguing comes when needs aren't being met.
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  Speaker 3: It's physical needs, it's emotional needs, it's tangible like electricity
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  Speaker 3: bills being paid needs. And that's why I say Taylor
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  Speaker 3: and Travis have nothing to argue about they both meet
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  Speaker 3: each other's needs at every turn.
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  Speaker 1: So what's the point. And I think sometimes people don't
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  Speaker 1: hear it. It's like, hey, my needs aren't being met
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  Speaker 1: and you're hearing yourself. I got lights on. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I'm doing this. I'm doing that in my mind. I'm
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  Speaker 1: doing your needs. But you're like, what you're doing is cool,
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  Speaker 1: but it's not what I need, right, Because you have
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  Speaker 1: to know your significant other. If one of my needs
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  Speaker 1: is I need you to tell me positive things because
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  Speaker 1: I have bad self esteem, that's a need I need met.
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  Speaker 1: And if you don't, we're gonna argue when you write
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  Speaker 1: that off like that, right, you don't have a little problem, right,
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  Speaker 1: And that's you not knowing who you're married to or
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  Speaker 1: dating or whatever. Ray was going on a certain who
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  Speaker 1: delivery servant, don't know which one it was, all right,
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  Speaker 1: what happened to me?
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  Speaker 3: So they were delivering a bunch of food and they
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  Speaker 3: had a stack in their defense and I guess it's
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  Speaker 3: started tilting to one side and a chicken wing fell
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  Speaker 3: out of the container and landed on the concrete. So
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  Speaker 3: they picked up the chicken wing, put it back in
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  Speaker 3: the container, licked their fingers, and then delivered the food.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, you don't want to waste the deliver And
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  Speaker 3: it was all caught on a video doorbell. Yes, so
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  Speaker 3: they were like wow, because I'm sure they were like
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  Speaker 3: and no one's looking, let me put this back in.
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  Speaker 4: Wow. You never know.
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  Speaker 1: I think I think people need to get into mindset
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  Speaker 1: that there's almost a camera everywhere. Yeah, everywhere you go, Like,
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  Speaker 1: you don't think on a daily basis about it you're
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  Speaker 1: on camera.
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  Speaker 3: I think the statistic is over forty times a day
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  Speaker 3: you're on a camera somewhere, but you don't think about it.
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  Speaker 1: I guess if I dropped something, the first thing I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna do is look around and see who's saw me.
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  Speaker 1: And I guess if I did deliveries. I know if
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  Speaker 1: we're talking about it and I don't do deliveries, I
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  Speaker 1: know if there's a door cam, I'm possibly being recorded.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I would think that.
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  Speaker 3: Well, if I dropped the wing, I ain't picking it
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  Speaker 3: up because you're going to assume the restaurant shortened you.
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  Speaker 4: That's my mindset.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, what I wing is just gone, and you're
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  Speaker 3: going to assume the restaurant gave you eight instead of whatever.
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  Speaker 4: And you get mad at them, not me. Yeah, I
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  Speaker 4: agree with that. I sure wouldn't put dirty wings back
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  Speaker 4: in your container. I had a guy come to the door.
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  Speaker 4: He goes, man, I apologize.
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  Speaker 1: I was taking here and the pop fell out, the
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  Speaker 1: top fell off, the soulda in half of us gone,
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  Speaker 1: if you want to report it, I understand. And I
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  Speaker 1: was like, nah, I ain't worry about that, kid, don't
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  Speaker 1: need to sold anyway. Yeah, the movie, but they told
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  Speaker 1: me that that was going on, yeah instead of that,
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  Speaker 1: So we want to find out what what have you done?
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  Speaker 1: Not thinking that anybody was watching, and they do that.
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  Speaker 1: I talk to myself going to the bathroom here, I'll
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  Speaker 1: just go down the hall. I'll make some karate moves
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  Speaker 1: because I do that all the time anyway, and somebody
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  Speaker 1: will go like, yeah, y'all yeah, and I'll go bob
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  Speaker 1: like they think I'm crazy. But you know what, I
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  Speaker 1: don't care. I don't care.
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  Speaker 4: Row What do you do when you're thinking abouty's watching you?
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  Speaker 3: The one thing that sticks out to me, and I
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  Speaker 3: felt bad for a long time about it, but I
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  Speaker 3: mean bad like and in the senses it kind of
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  Speaker 3: made me look bad. It was a while back, but
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  Speaker 3: there was money on the floor, like a twenty dollars
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  Speaker 3: bill on the floor. I was broke at the time, okay,
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  Speaker 3: So I walked over to the twenty dollars bill like
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  Speaker 3: I was browsing and just put my foot on it,
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  Speaker 3: and I was just gonna stand there for a little
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  Speaker 3: bit till everybody cleared out, and then I was gonna
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  Speaker 3: get the twenty.
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  Speaker 4: Dollars to put it in my pocket.
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  Speaker 3: I was broke, yes, Well, I didn't know that there
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  Speaker 3: were people that were over on the other side that
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  Speaker 3: watched me walk over and put my foot on the
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  Speaker 3: twenty dollars bill, so they also stayed.
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  Speaker 4: Right they were to see if you're going to put
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  Speaker 4: yeah or not.
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  Speaker 3: And then someone said because the lady that we probably
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  Speaker 3: came from was right on the other side, and they
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  Speaker 3: they said to me, hey, you're gonna tell that lady
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  Speaker 3: stropped that twenty yeah good?
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  Speaker 4: Like up. I was like, I mean, I was about
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  Speaker 4: to judging me and everything. I was just looking at something.
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  Speaker 2: First, man, want to split it three ways?
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  Speaker 4: We could have done that, but no.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, so I didn't think they were paying attention, and
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  Speaker 3: I slow and I slow rolled stept on it like
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  Speaker 3: it was nothing and just kept browsing like I was
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  Speaker 3: looking for something and then they called me out.
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, damn it.
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  Speaker 1: If we were in a meeting and the meetings that
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  Speaker 1: we have and we saw that happen, I tell her,
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  Speaker 1: let's see what happened.
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  Speaker 4: I want to don't say worse. I was broke, man.
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  Speaker 4: That was lunch.
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  Speaker 2: Remember when I found like one hundred and fifty dollars
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  Speaker 2: on the floor and I turned it in.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, he did. Never got it back.
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  Speaker 2: They never called me like someone who claims it or
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  Speaker 2: if they don't claim that, we're going to call you.
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  Speaker 1: I think when you said that we mentioned that you
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  Speaker 1: were never call back because all they got to do
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  Speaker 1: is tell their friend, Ray, what did you do? And
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  Speaker 1: you didn't think anybody was watching.
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  Speaker 2: So one time at the grocery store. Actually this has
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  Speaker 2: happened a couple.
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  Speaker 4: Of times yesterday.
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  Speaker 2: So when I'm trapping with the kids, the kids want
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  Speaker 2: like stuff that I don't I want to buy, but
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  Speaker 2: so they'll like add something to the grocery card or
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  Speaker 2: they'll be like, oh, can I have this, And then
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  Speaker 2: they'll add like cookies or something, and I'm like, okay, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: we can get it. And then by the time we
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  Speaker 2: get up to the register. I'm like, you guys don't
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  Speaker 2: need these cookies. You guys don't need them, and so
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  Speaker 2: I'll like put them randomly on like a different shelf.
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  Speaker 2: And one of the one of the grocery workers saw
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  Speaker 2: me put the cookies in like the like the cereal aisle,
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  Speaker 2: and I was like, I'm sorry, and then I was like,
• 13:27
  Speaker 2: I don't want to make more work for you.
• 13:28
  Speaker 4: I'll go put them back.
• 13:31
  Speaker 2: But he saw me like putting it on a random shelf,
• 13:34
  Speaker 2: and I didn't want to be like somebody that makes
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  Speaker 2: their job harder.
• 13:38
  Speaker 4: I almost did that the other day.
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  Speaker 3: I picked up something that I wanted, but then I
• 13:41
  Speaker 3: found what I really wanted, like six miles over, and
• 13:44
  Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm gonna put this down, and then I
• 13:46
  Speaker 3: started to and then I'm like I can't.
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  Speaker 4: I can, And I walked all the way back six
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  Speaker 4: holes over and put it back.
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  Speaker 2: Dang it.
• 13:51
  Speaker 1: I gotta tell you this happened when I was young,
• 13:53
  Speaker 1: Me and my brothers in storages buying junk food and
• 13:56
  Speaker 1: we got cookies and didn't want them. We put them
• 13:58
  Speaker 1: on the shelf. We walked out the door. Security came
• 14:00
  Speaker 1: and said, excuse us, So, yeah, we want to check
• 14:03
  Speaker 1: your bag. I want to check the back for what
• 14:05
  Speaker 1: they said with some cookies that you stole. And they
• 14:07
  Speaker 1: checked a bag and the guy was like, well where
• 14:09
  Speaker 1: are they And we took them back to the aisle
• 14:11
  Speaker 1: and said right there. And we went home and told
• 14:13
  Speaker 1: my mom we went back to the store. Oh hell broke.
• 14:19
  Speaker 1: So from this point on, when I saw that, I
• 14:21
  Speaker 1: put things back, I put them back. I want to
• 14:24
  Speaker 1: find out from you, what did you do when you
• 14:26
  Speaker 1: thought nobody was looking, but they were looking. Gonna hook
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• 14:42
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• 15:00
  Speaker 1: think anybody was watching. They watched what did you do?
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  Speaker 1: And you didn't think somebody was looking? And they were looking.
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• 15:12
  Speaker 1: good morning, good morning. All right, what do you do?
• 15:15
  Speaker 1: You didn't think anybody was looking.
• 15:17
  Speaker 7: I don't think this is too bad, but whenever I
• 15:19
  Speaker 7: go thrifting, I look for like games and puzzles and stuff,
• 15:22
  Speaker 7: and everything's always taped shut. I untape it because I've
• 15:26
  Speaker 7: been burned before. And I know, you know, a missing
• 15:28
  Speaker 7: puzzle piece.
• 15:29
  Speaker 6: Could be my thirteen treason.
• 15:30
  Speaker 7: I'm not gonna lie to you. Yeah, I definitely got
• 15:33
  Speaker 7: caught last time. They thought I was trying to steal,
• 15:35
  Speaker 7: and I have not done it since. I'm like terrified.
• 15:38
  Speaker 4: What did you open and what were were trying to do?
• 15:41
  Speaker 7: It was a Jenga set because my friend got one,
• 15:44
  Speaker 7: and it had a bunch of things like well wishes
• 15:46
  Speaker 7: from like a wedding because somebody had donated it before.
• 15:49
  Speaker 7: So I want to be wow you know that the
• 15:51
  Speaker 7: blocks didn't have stuff written on them. Yeah, they definitely
• 15:54
  Speaker 7: caught me.
• 15:54
  Speaker 4: So and what did I say?
• 15:57
  Speaker 6: I don't.
• 15:58
  Speaker 7: It was just kind of awkward. They're like, oh, hey, like,
• 16:00
  Speaker 7: can I help you? These are tape shut for a reason,
• 16:02
  Speaker 7: kind of just like a.
• 16:02
  Speaker 4: Little admonishing, ma'am. This is a thrift store.
• 16:06
  Speaker 6: Thrill.
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: No, you're not gonna get it any cheaper in the world,
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: and you're gonna find it in here.
• 16:11
  Speaker 4: Are you gonna steal?
• 16:12
  Speaker 6: No? I think that's so embarrassing.
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: But like people do that in the makeup aisles at
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: like regular stores, you know, talking about I'll go to
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: buy like makeup and half of them are already opened
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: because they want to see the actual color and try
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: it out on their skin before.
• 16:26
  Speaker 4: They buy it.
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: So it's like you should feel bad that you're doing
• 16:29
  Speaker 2: that at the thrift store.
• 16:31
  Speaker 4: Not disagree with, but.
• 16:35
  Speaker 6: Disagree awkward.
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you got bunched at a thrill store. Ostal, all right,
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: from a popkin to cold good morning the day, Good
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: day to you two, all right. Didn't think anybody was
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: looking what you do?
• 16:49
  Speaker 6: Talk about? Sixteen years old and I was walking with
• 16:53
  Speaker 6: my oldest sister and I so called a tip it
• 16:56
  Speaker 6: to litter.
• 16:59
  Speaker 4: Wait, what do you mean? What do you mean attempted
• 17:01
  Speaker 4: to litter? So called?
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: If you have trash, right, you have trash in your hand,
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: it doesn't go to contain, it hits the ground, you're littering.
• 17:08
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 17:09
  Speaker 6: Well the cops were there. Yeah no, well no, no,
• 17:16
  Speaker 6: they threatened me with a ticket, but I was under age,
• 17:19
  Speaker 6: so you know, he gave me a really good, you know,
• 17:21
  Speaker 6: conversation about it. You know. But I looked left right,
• 17:25
  Speaker 6: you know, and then it was a it was a
• 17:27
  Speaker 6: soda bottle, O bottle, And as soon as I chopped it,
• 17:32
  Speaker 6: it rolled and the officer was like, did you just litter?
• 17:35
  Speaker 6: And I'm like no, And then the bottle came rolling
• 17:38
  Speaker 6: down right and.
• 17:41
  Speaker 4: You were not good at it at all?
• 17:43
  Speaker 6: Yeah, and then the bottle just comes rolling down in
• 17:45
  Speaker 6: front of me and I'm like, uh, yeah I did.
• 17:48
  Speaker 6: And then, you know, he gave me a good talking
• 17:50
  Speaker 6: to it and told me how much a ticket could be.
• 17:52
  Speaker 6: I could get a major trouble.
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: But I thought no one.
• 17:54
  Speaker 6: I thought no one saw me. I looked left, I
• 17:56
  Speaker 6: looked right, you know, I well I didn't see the one.
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: Wow, you didn't do it again?
• 18:02
  Speaker 6: Yeah, no, no, no, no, no, never since then everever.
• 18:06
  Speaker 6: I didn't even get a chance because he made me
• 18:08
  Speaker 6: pick it up. So it's not like it's staying on
• 18:09
  Speaker 6: the ground. I had to take it with me.
• 18:10
  Speaker 4: That's funny. No, that's not mine. And it rolls all
• 18:12
  Speaker 4: the way back down. Yeah, a tempting tolitter is illegal.
• 18:17
  Speaker 4: All right, you hold on be what you got over there,
• 18:20
  Speaker 4: man x.
• 18:21
  Speaker 3: Power by Attorney Dan newl and interrect need to check it. So, no, Brenner,
• 18:24
  Speaker 3: just call Attorney Dan Newland. So said they really had
• 18:27
  Speaker 3: to go pee.
• 18:27
  Speaker 4: One time.
• 18:28
  Speaker 3: They were trying to find something at the store, so
• 18:31
  Speaker 3: they were shimming around, just trying to do the peepy
• 18:33
  Speaker 3: dance to hold it, and someone was watching him the
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: whole time and said, hey.
• 18:36
  Speaker 4: You're a great dancer.
• 18:37
  Speaker 7: Oh my good stuff.
• 18:39
  Speaker 4: But it was just a peepy dance. At that point,
• 18:41
  Speaker 4: You're like, you know what, I can't even hold it anymore.
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: Whenever you try to steal from a thrift store, we're
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: gonna hook you up brunch for to a Timmy's New
• 18:49
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