Latest / Reflexiones cristianas con José Ordóñez / 405 Testimonio Matrimonial de Jose Ordonez y Yasmith 4 parte
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- 0:04Podcast number four hundred and five. This is the third part of our testimony,
- 0:14testimony of marriage between José Ordoñez and Jazz Smith. This is the number
- 0:20three part of a preaching that we had the opportunity to do here, in
- 0:25Bucaramanga, in the midst of our people, telling them that testimony of what
- 0:32it was like to know us to start a life of poverty and you will
- 0:37realize that we face the common and common problems and challenges of any marriage.
- 0:42Don' t miss the fourth and fifth part so you can see the outcome
- 0:47of this beautiful story that already counts thirty- five years. Yes, thirty
- 0:53- five years of a happy marriage that has gone through all kinds of situations,
- 0:58but has as secret to great voices the love for Christ. That has
- 1:03brought us here very well to settle down and enjoy one third of our marriage
- 1:08testimony. Welcome. When I met my beautiful princess, I didn' t
- 1:23know what a man' s love was. His father had died eight months
- 1:29after he was born from cancer. Every man around her was in fact cold.
- 1:42Sometimes all she saw was that tax sananderian. She never grew up with
- 1:52the word of affection of a dad who told her she was pretty, who
- 1:57made her braids, who combed her, who accompanied her on her first day
- 2:00to school, who waited for her after returning from her school at home to
- 2:05tell her that she was important. He didn' t teach her how to
- 2:08write her front pages. He didn' t buy his first notebooks. It
- 2:13wasn' t her company to teach her how to ride a bike, and
- 2:17my wife never felt the affectionate embrace of a male around her with her arms
- 2:23and I told her dad' s here. It' s all right.
- 2:30You' re gonna have me by your side. Until the last of my
- 2:32days, my wife never knew what the presence of an affective man was in
- 2:40her life. It was hard to get into Joseph' s life, into
- 2:51his mind, into his creativity, to know his dreams, but his dream
- 2:55was the ones that made me fall in love. They totally fell in love
- 3:00with me because I was a crazy dreamer. Mom used to call him crazy,
- 3:02he dreamed. He believed he could accomplish many things. The problem is,
- 3:07no one believed in him. Nobody did. When I married him so
- 3:13in love, so excited, with so much admiration and with so much desire
- 3:21to see him arise, to see that those beautiful dreams could be fulfilled,
- 3:25that that slow one would come out and eat the world with teeth. And
- 3:32then I told him my love you' re gonna make it. You are
- 3:38unique in the world, because you are unique in the world. He always
- 3:43believed it and believed it from the heart, even though he went and knocked
- 3:50on doors to be given work, to be allowed to see a little his
- 3:54talent, to close the doors, to mock him did not believe. But
- 3:58I was there and I felt that deep desire for admiration and say you can
- 4:06make me love, because you are unique, because I am sure that after
- 4:13so many years I realize that dreams God puts them in the heart and when
- 4:15your dreams are aligned with God' s dreams, those dreams are fulfilled And
- 4:21then I was there and I told him to move forward together in the midst
- 4:30of absolute poverty and the most tremendous need. I didn' t care because
- 4:39I believed in him, because I became the number one fan, because I
- 4:45was dying of laughter with every weird thing that came out, with every madness,
- 4:50with every thing. In fact, it' s 34 years and I
- 4:54think I' m the number one fan, because I' m still dying
- 4:59of laughter with all the crazy things and all the inventions they make. So
- 5:01if you see us one day together and I let out a laugh, you
- 5:08know he' s making me laugh with his boadas. Or I just showed
- 5:12myself to you in Pantaloneta again my fan my naive princess with whom the moment
- 5:27we got married, we went to live from the first night in a single
- 5:32room, in a single house, with a mattress lying on the floor,
- 5:39the one that lived for some time there, with that mattress lying on the
- 5:46floor, the day I could buy her a bed, gave her a vertigo
- 5:49a pot, a single pot. That' s right, cold the lentils
- 6:00and flipped them, made the rice and flipped it, fried an egg in
- 6:04the same pot and then sat on a little table that I had since I
- 6:11was a kid and ate the little rice, the egg. When there were
- 6:13eggs, we would party the egg and tell me you' re unique in
- 6:21the world. And you' re gonna make dreams one day we became dads.
- 6:31My wife breaks from love. In fact, there is one detail that
- 6:36few know about, and that is that you suffered from precancy when you were
- 6:46given chain to mature the fetus in your womb. The doctor says I don
- 6:51' t guarantee her or the mother' s life because she' s very
- 6:58ill. We have to open him up to a last- minute caesarean section
- 7:03and I can' t guarantee him the life of any of them. Two
- 7:08do a caesarean section. I don' t have thirty- five thousand pesos
- 7:13that' s worth getting my wife and daughter out of the clinic at Florida
- 7:17Blanca hospital when that was there in Florida Blanca. He' s not there
- 7:26anymore, and since I didn' t have thirty- five thousand pesos,
- 7:30I went up to the social work office and there was an immediate doctor'
- 7:38s meeting when they heard someone telling jokes and at the end of jokes I
- 7:44paid to let me get my wife out of there within two days, as
- 7:49a result of the eagerness I had to buy her milk, a first jar
- 7:55of milk, which I didn' t have to buy a jar of milk,
- 8:00I crashed and lost the whole one in front. If you come a
- 8:03little closer to me, you' ll see my face full of scars up
- 8:05ahead. I don' t think I' m talking about a woman and
- 8:20a woman friend four months after our incipient marriage, a marriage for which no
- 8:28one gave anything at all. After giving birth to our daughter, Jasmide,
- 8:33she is scarred in the belly. I' m with my whole body injured
- 8:37without teeth and my daughter is next to us eight months old. Premature was
- 8:46very hard. This is podcast four hundred and five, but there are four
- 8:56hundred and four more waiting for you in Joseph Ordonez Cristiano. I' ve
- 9:00got good news for you. We started our fourth workshop for marriages from 19
- 9:07to 23 August. So look for all the information in José Ordoñez Cristiano,
- 9:11because it will be a whole week where we will study all the themes of
- 9:18marriage and all the new studies, which we will include there fifteen hours,
- 9:26a whole week working to make your marriage better. Remember it very well separate
- 9:30it from now, from the 19th to the 23rd of August, look for
- 9:35more information in José Ordonez Cristiano com for now I wish you to have a
- 9:41nice day and God give you the opportunity to enjoy every moment of your marriage,
- 9:46which should be special if Christ is there, God bless us