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How to Know When a Spirit Is Actually Around You · The Unity Code - Where Science Meets Energy, Consciousness, and Spirit.

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  SPEAKER_00: This is why I do what I do, is because I want everybody to know the power that they have, the abilities they have, the sovereignty they have in working with spirit.
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  SPEAKER_00: Welcome to the Unity Code, where we explore what becomes possible when we stop keeping spirituality on the sidelines and start using our connection to spirit to actually change lives.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm Nicole Pope, a medium teacher and former transformation corporate executive.
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  SPEAKER_00: I've spent more than 20 years obsessed with data, patterns, systems, and one question.
• 0:37
  SPEAKER_00: What actually creates change?
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  SPEAKER_00: These days I'm asking that same question about energy, consciousness, the soul, and our connection to spirit.
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  SPEAKER_00: And no, we're not keeping this theoretical.
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  SPEAKER_00: On the podcast, we're going to teach it, test it, demonstrate it, play with it, and bring real people into the conversation.
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  SPEAKER_00: We'll explore mediumship, energetics, intuition, ancestral patterns, human potential, and some things I'm not even sure we have language for yet.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because the goal is bigger than becoming more spiritual.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's about discovering what you're capable of, using it to transform yourself, expand your life, and step into possibilities you couldn't access before.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is the Unity Code, where spirit meets experimentation, transformation, and a community curious enough to find out what else is possible.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm so glad you're here.
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  SPEAKER_00: Hello, everyone.
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  SPEAKER_00: Welcome back to the Unity Code podcast.
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  SPEAKER_00: I am going to make a little bit of a bold claim that I believe by the end of this episode, you will be able to identify when a spirit is around you.
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  SPEAKER_00: I know.
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  SPEAKER_00: I that, yep, I will absolutely make that bold claim.
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  SPEAKER_00: I will assume that you don't have a dead bell because that's a dead giveaway for when a spirit is around you.
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  SPEAKER_00: But honestly, I am coming to this massive realization now more than ever that everyone has the ability to do what I do.
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  SPEAKER_00: And the only difference between you and me is I have just put more time, blood, sweat, and tears into the learning of the language of spirit than you.
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  SPEAKER_00: Maybe, maybe not.
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  SPEAKER_00: But I truly believe that spirit is accessible to everybody.
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  SPEAKER_00: And this was made so clear in a recent client session that I had because this woman came in.
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  SPEAKER_00: I mean, I gotta be honest with you, psychic as shit.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like she was intuitive off the charts.
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  SPEAKER_00: And she was somebody who was so primed for this session that we had, but she came in wanting to continue the conversation with her departed soulmate.
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  SPEAKER_00: And by the end of that session, by the end 60 minutes, she was communicating with him herself.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like she became a medium in literally less than 60 minutes.
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  SPEAKER_00: She was able to recognize how she knew a spirit was showing up, what it looked like in her body, how she could pull in evidence of who the person was that was trying to walk in and communicate with her.
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  SPEAKER_00: She could lean into the answers that spirit was giving her, like yeses and no's.
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  SPEAKER_00: I mean, when I say this session for this client was life-changing, it was life-changing because she walked in heavy with grief and and not understanding if her soulmate heard her when she constantly talked to him.
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  SPEAKER_00: And she was really frustrated that she couldn't receive the responses back.
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  SPEAKER_00: And in 60 minutes, she was able to articulate exactly when a spirit came in, who was the spirit and continue the communication herself without needing me as a literal medium between the two of them.
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  SPEAKER_00: I mean, fucking mind-blowing.
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  SPEAKER_00: Mind blowing.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if that wasn't mind-blowing enough, she literally the next day, less than 24 hours later, sent me an email saying how she was actively having conversations with her soulmate from across the veil.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like, can like can this is what we strive for.
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  SPEAKER_00: And this is why I just I feel like everybody should be so empowered with this work because everybody can do it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Everybody can do it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Your propensity to be able to do it is, you know, directly correlated to the ability for you to calm your busy mind, to clear your energy, to be able to pick up on the subtle cues that spirit brings you.
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  SPEAKER_00: But these are all things that can be trained.
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  SPEAKER_00: These are all things that you can learn, these are all things that you can practice to make progress on so that you are able to pick up on the subtleties of spirit.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because the biggest gap that I see with my clients is education of how spirit actually feels and looks.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that is the exact reason that I did not know that I was a medium for 36 fucking years of my life, is because nobody told me either.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so we're gonna break that down for you today.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like we are gonna break the mold.
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  SPEAKER_00: We are gonna teach you what it looks like and feels like when a spirit is showing up in your space.
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  SPEAKER_00: And yes, this is entirely spirit-led.
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  SPEAKER_00: I am allowing them to walk through and they will be giving me the examples live as I'm recording this with all of you so that you can also experience what I'm experiencing as you listen to this episode.
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  SPEAKER_00: And yes, I want all the freaking juicy updates.
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  SPEAKER_00: Message me, DM me, add it to the community.
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  SPEAKER_00: Make sure you're tagging me in the community because if you don't tag me, I don't see your comment.
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  SPEAKER_00: I want to hear how this works for you.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I want you to be just blown away by how easy this is.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because it is so easy.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so Spirit is having me start by breaking it down really simply that spirit does not have a voice box.
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  SPEAKER_00: Spirit does not have a physical body, spirit is essentially made up of energy.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so what we're doing is fine-tuning your ability to notice subtle energy shifts within your body, within your space, within your own mind as well, because this is how spirit shows up.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so, if I'm giving you an example, is you know when somebody is walking in the room that you are just like naturally attuned to, whether you're a mom and this is these are your mom or dad, and these are your kids, or maybe it's a significant other, or maybe it's a pet.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like you know when somebody walks in the room before you even have to turn your head and can visually see they have walked in the room.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is what I'm talking about with the energy shifts is that like things happen and you naturally have this ability to know when certain people have stepped in the room.
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  SPEAKER_00: And yes, I think this is the best way to try to explain this is by giving you your own real life examples that you can reflect back on that allows you to more accurately understand how you are recognizing your own energy shifts in your everyday 3D experience.
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  SPEAKER_00: And then we're going to apply those directly to how you can now use that with spirit.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, do we all know somebody that walks in the room and we know they've walked in the room before you even turn your head?
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  SPEAKER_00: Like for me, that's definitely my husband.
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  SPEAKER_00: As soon as he walks in the room, the whole energy shifts.
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  SPEAKER_00: When he is driving home from work, I know when he's leaving work because the energy shifts, because he's set the intention to come towards home.
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  SPEAKER_00: And by setting that intention, I know he's on his way.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because that's how cued into his energy that I am.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so, do you have someone like that in your life?
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  SPEAKER_00: And that notice, and then we're gonna like totally micro break this down because when they step in the room, what happens in your body?
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  SPEAKER_00: It feels slightly different, it feels a little bit maybe uncomfortable.
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  SPEAKER_00: Maybe you get tingles on your arms.
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  SPEAKER_00: Maybe you just feel called to turn your body because you know somebody's there.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's what I'm talking about.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I want you to think about the way that this person enters your space and how you and your body knows they have entered your space, or how does your body react when they enter your space?
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  SPEAKER_00: Like taking a look at that micro moment.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because that's gonna be super helpful because you'll do the same thing, you'll notice it the same way when spirit is walking into your space.
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  SPEAKER_00: Not yet, spirit.
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  SPEAKER_00: God, I just saw spirit starting to do it.
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  SPEAKER_00: I guess we can go there.
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  SPEAKER_00: So that's kind of like example number one of how you know spirit has shown up in your space because you're repeating that pattern that you already know of how somebody shows up.
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  SPEAKER_00: So if we'd like to clear your energy, clear the room, make your mind blank.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're not making any assumptions.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're not gonna tell you who necessarily is coming in quite yet.
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  SPEAKER_00: But I'm gonna invite spirit into your space, whether that's your car, whether that's your room, whether that's your office, maybe you're at the gym.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's gonna be awkward.
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  SPEAKER_00: But yes, we are inviting the ghosts in.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's what we're doing.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I just want you to notice when I'm gonna count down.
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  SPEAKER_00: Maybe you've already noticed it, but I'm gonna count down.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I want you to notice how your energy shifts in the moment that spirit steps forward.
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  SPEAKER_00: And they are at a distance, they are not close to you.
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  SPEAKER_00: Do not freak out about this.
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  SPEAKER_00: So imagine them walking into the room.
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  SPEAKER_00: And when I get to one, I want you to notice what your body does.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: Three, two, one.
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  SPEAKER_00: What just happened in your energetic field?
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  SPEAKER_00: I know many of you had many different responses because I felt them all at once.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so for some of you, there was a feeling of expansiveness.
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  SPEAKER_00: For some of you, there was this like almost gasp energy and holding your breath.
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  SPEAKER_00: For some of you, there was big emotions that bubbled up, like tears that maybe started moving into your space.
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  SPEAKER_00: For some of you, it kind of feels like a little creepy, like somebody's watching you from behind.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna put that one out there because I feel that one too.
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  SPEAKER_00: Let me see if there's any of the ones that I missed.
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  SPEAKER_00: Some of you, your ears rang.
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  SPEAKER_00: Some of you got cold, some of you got hot.
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  SPEAKER_00: Both are both are normal.
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  SPEAKER_00: And then for some of you, you just felt this need to like look.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm feeling all of these reactions.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so these are all totally natural reactions of what it feels like when a spirit enters your space.
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  SPEAKER_00: For me, just another one to call out is I my eyes go to a certain space in the room and they just kind of get stuck there.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's how I know where a spirit is in a room.
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  SPEAKER_00: And then, you know, I'll use my third eye to confirm it.
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  SPEAKER_00: But my yep, yep.
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  SPEAKER_00: I know who walked in my room.
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  SPEAKER_00: Still standing at the doorway, too.
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  SPEAKER_00: So those are different ways that you can notice spirit has kind of entered the room.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now at that point, they're just kind of in physical proximity to you.
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  SPEAKER_00: You might be aware of them, but it doesn't mean that they're actively necessarily communicating with you yet.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because just like when, you know, my my 12-year-old son, oh, soon to it's oh, 13, his birthday is on September 30th.
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  SPEAKER_00: So 13-year-old son, by the time you listen to this, when he walks in the room, sometimes he'll just look at me and not say anything.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like spirit can do that too.
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  SPEAKER_00: They can just step in and like just make their presence known and not actively communicate anything.
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  SPEAKER_00: Totally normal.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so, what I want you to get used to is just knowing spirits there, first of all, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: But then also we can start to maybe start to engage spirit a little bit as well.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so another way that you might notice spirits show up is actually if they enter your energetic space.
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  SPEAKER_00: And when I'm saying your energetic space, I'm talking about your aura.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm talking about, yeah, I mean specifically your aura in the way that your energy kind of reads other people entering your energetic space.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so this one's really easy because I feel like everybody has had a very similar experience.
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  SPEAKER_00: But when someone enters your energetic space, and when they enter your aura, it feels like that energy when someone is standing right next to you, but they're not touching you, and there's like this electric energy on your skin.
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  SPEAKER_00: And when I say electric, it can feel differently for different people.
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  SPEAKER_00: So electric can be there's a buzzing kind of on the surface of your skin in certain areas of wherever they're walking in or wherever that person is close to you.
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  SPEAKER_00: You might get goosebumps, you might get the feeling of cold or the feeling of hot on the surface of your skin.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so if you think back to a time when somebody stood really closely to you but didn't touch you, like how did your body react?
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  SPEAKER_00: How is your body reacting now to me highlighting this for you?
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  SPEAKER_00: So for me, again, it feels, oh, I guess I didn't explain this one either.
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  SPEAKER_00: It feels kind of like tingles, like if your, if your leg or you know, falls asleep.
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  SPEAKER_00: You know what I'm saying?
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  SPEAKER_00: It can feel very tingly as well.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it's very subtle and it's very light, but it's very tingly.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so that is how you will know a spirit has actually entered your space.
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  SPEAKER_00: And when I feel that, then I know a spirit is wanting to start a conversation with me.
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  SPEAKER_00: Uh-huh.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so again, we're gonna do the same exercise.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're gonna make sure there's no spirits in your vicinity right now.
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  SPEAKER_00: Whoever entered the room is has left the building.
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  SPEAKER_00: And as we're going through this exercise, again, I'm gonna count from three, three to one.
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  SPEAKER_00: And at one, I want you to notice what is going on in your own energetic system.
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  SPEAKER_00: As we invite a spirit in.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay, so I'm gonna do it, and I just want you to pay attention.
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  SPEAKER_00: So three, two, one.
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  SPEAKER_00: Do you notice how it's a little more subtle this time?
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  SPEAKER_00: Maybe.
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  SPEAKER_00: I feel like there is somebody did have another big gasp, so I don't know who that was.
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  SPEAKER_00: But a lot of you are feeling buzzing in your energetic field.
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  SPEAKER_00: For me in particular, I'm feeling it on my like biceps, my upper arms.
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  SPEAKER_00: Some of you might be feeling it on your hand, some of you might be feeling it on different sides of your body.
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  SPEAKER_00: Maybe your crown is starting to tingle and light up as well.
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  SPEAKER_00: But I just want you to pay attention and you're doing this internal scan on your body, like on the outside of your body, to see where I am feeling this slight energetic pull or touch that indicates that a spirit has stepped in.
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  SPEAKER_00: And yes, they're still there.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, yes, you should still be feeling the tingles, you know, 20, 30 seconds later after I asked them to step in.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I want you to notice how your body, how your emotions are responding to spirit being in your energetic field.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because we invited them in, and I probably should have prefaced this.
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  SPEAKER_00: Do not worry, it is no one bad.
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  SPEAKER_00: I only invite light and love in.
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  SPEAKER_00: So these are definitely your departed loved ones that are stepping forward.
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  SPEAKER_00: Um, probably should have started the episode with that.
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  SPEAKER_00: But you know, I when you work with me, it's all about the intentions and vibe anyway.
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  SPEAKER_00: So there's nothing bad that's that's in your energetic field right now, but I want you to notice how your emotions are responding, how your body is responding to somebody being that close in your field.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because essentially that spirit is putting out an energetic resonance that your vibration is meeting.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so, for a lot of you, you might get this feeling of love, or you might feel a little bit of a buzzing in your chest, which would also be spirit sending you love.
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  SPEAKER_00: Some of you are really tired, and so this could be a soul that has stepped forward that is somebody who used to be very tired, and or this is a little bit draining for you, and that's okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: Takes a little bit of capacity, a little bit of practice to get used to working in the energetics of spirit.
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  SPEAKER_00: It can be draining, I'll be honest with all of you.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm seeing what else they want me to call out.
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  SPEAKER_00: Some of you might feel relieved.
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  SPEAKER_00: Oddly enough, some of you I think are feeling maybe a little sadder or more guilty than before.
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  SPEAKER_00: Please note, this is not you.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is the energy of the spirit.
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  SPEAKER_00: Some of you might even have a nervous system response of like flight or fight, which is completely real.
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  SPEAKER_00: Completely real, because as different energy enters our energy field, our nervous system is gonna pick up on this new energy and can sometimes have a little bit of a reaction to it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Totally normal.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's like nostalgic sadness, a wishing sadness, a wanting to continue the conversation sadness.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so I want to call that out for all of you.
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  SPEAKER_00: And the last thing I'm really calling, it's really interesting because every time I say something else, like that layer is removed, and I'm seeing the next layer.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm seeing so I don't know how many layers there are, but the last one that I'm seeing right now, or the next one I'm seeing right now, is this experience, this energy of like almost contraction, like you are feeling a little bit compressed in your energetic field because again, someone else has entered your space.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so that means that your energy kind of shifts a little bit, makes it a little bit smaller, moves a little bit.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so that would actually shift your energetic field into feeling maybe a little bit smaller or compressed.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I do want to call that out as well.
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  SPEAKER_00: So there's all these different ways that you can recognize, and yes, they are still there, continued, that a spirit has entered your space.
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  SPEAKER_00: Pretty neat, huh?
• 19:54
  SPEAKER_00: Pretty cool.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so what you can do with this is start to notice when you call in a departed loved one, let's say your dad isn't in the spirit world, you can call in dad and then notice if you're getting that feeling like he's walked in the room or he's entered your energetic space.
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  SPEAKER_00: And again, intentions are absolutely everything with this work.
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  SPEAKER_00: So if you are requesting a specific person, if you are requesting dad and you are feeling the energy of someone again entering the room or entering into your energetic space, I promise you, I promise you, I promise you, it's dad every single time.
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  SPEAKER_00: So whoever you're asking for is the person that's going to show up.
• 20:45
  SPEAKER_00: Spirit world does not fuck around.
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  SPEAKER_00: It does not.
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  SPEAKER_00: It comes from unconditional love.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so if you are requesting a specific person, they will deliver that specific person.
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  SPEAKER_00: And also it's because of your consent that you said, I agree that dad can come visit me.
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  SPEAKER_00: And you did not give consent to anybody else.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so nobody else can come in except for dad in that moment.
• 21:10
  SPEAKER_00: And so if you are looking to have more connections with spirit, these are ways you can do it.
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  SPEAKER_00: You can invite them in and see how your body is responding, if there is a physical response in your body when they step in, because that is the proof that they're there.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I understand that our mind and our logic are going to have a very difficult time with that because there is no proof in terms of eyes, ears, sounds, maybe smells.
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  SPEAKER_00: That can happen once in a while.
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  SPEAKER_00: Oh, that's what happened at the bus stop.
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  SPEAKER_00: I smelled cigarette smell for a good 10 feet walking to the bus stop.
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  SPEAKER_00: Up this morning, and there was nobody around.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I was like, whose dead person is this?
• 22:04
  SPEAKER_00: So if you're smelling things, that could definitely be an indicator of who is kind of stepping forward right now.
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  SPEAKER_00: I love how spirit just constantly sidetracks me, by the way.
• 22:14
  SPEAKER_00: Sidetracks me 24/7.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so again, as you're kind of inviting that energy in, you can start noticing that person showing up.
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  SPEAKER_00: And then this one applies to both of the scenarios that I'm talking about.
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  SPEAKER_00: And we started with the smells right there a second ago, but I'm gonna take it a step further because there are ways.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I'm gonna assume that what we just talked about is you inviting spirit in, you requesting a specific spirit, them coming in.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: And the other way is spirit kind of coming to you and letting them know or letting you know that they have stepped forward for you.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so there's a few ways that this can happen.
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  SPEAKER_00: Number one is what I just described with the smell.
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  SPEAKER_00: So you will have a loved one that steps forward based on a smell.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so what this looks like is that you will have what I call a phantom smell.
• 23:12
  SPEAKER_00: It's like phantom of the opera, but it's a phantom smell that comes in for probably about a second.
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  SPEAKER_00: You smell it once and it disappears.
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  SPEAKER_00: I would say my experience at the bus stop this morning is definitely the exception, not the rule.
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  SPEAKER_00: It normally is gone within one or two seconds.
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  SPEAKER_00: It is very rare for a smell to stick around for, you know, five, six, seven, 10, 20 seconds.
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  SPEAKER_00: It really just does not happen very often, but it can.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I don't want to exclude it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Just want you to be aware of what the norm is.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so as these phantom smells come in, what is so freaking cool about smells is usually it is the strongest trigger for you to have a memory.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, for example, when my aunt, my loving, amazing, beloved aunt, left planet Earth, there was a woman that came in.
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  SPEAKER_00: I was working at Starbucks at the time, and she came in wearing the exact perfume as my aunt.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right?
• 24:09
  SPEAKER_00: And even though it was a physical person and it wasn't a phantom smell, that smell showed up and I knew exactly what that smell was.
• 24:16
  SPEAKER_00: Do you know how many times I've smelled her perfume?
• 24:18
  SPEAKER_00: Like twice ever in my life because she lived in Florida and I'm in Massachusetts.
• 24:25
  SPEAKER_00: But at that moment, I smelled it and I knew exactly what it was.
• 24:29
  SPEAKER_00: I knew it was exactly her perfume, and I knew that was her coming by to say hi.
• 24:33
  SPEAKER_00: And no, I've never smelled it since.
• 24:35
  SPEAKER_00: It was just that one time.
• 24:41
  SPEAKER_00: When I have departed loved ones come by, I will often smell cigarettes based on specific ones.
• 24:47
  SPEAKER_00: I gotta be honest with you, I will smell weed with certain other departed loved ones.
• 24:52
  SPEAKER_00: It happens.
• 24:53
  SPEAKER_00: I will smell alcohol with other departed loved ones.
• 24:56
  SPEAKER_00: And so, like what will be key here with the smells is that you will be able to very clearly relate it to a specific person.
• 25:04
  SPEAKER_00: So I realize that cigarettes, you know, quite a lot of people smoked, especially of the generations that are no longer here.
• 25:10
  SPEAKER_00: And so it will you we will talk about that in a second.
• 25:14
  SPEAKER_00: But traditionally you'll smell perfumes or flowers associated with somebody.
• 25:18
  SPEAKER_00: And so, like, let the smell guide you into who it is.
• 25:22
  SPEAKER_00: And so if you're not quite sure who it is, this kind of gets into the next category of the ways that your departed loved ones will stop by and let you know that they're there is you suddenly think of them.
• 25:38
  SPEAKER_00: This can look several different ways.
• 25:41
  SPEAKER_00: So I'm gonna walk through a few examples of what it looks like when a loved one comes by and you suddenly think of them, but that can look like they just pop into your head in the middle of nowhere for no reason.
• 25:57
  SPEAKER_00: And there's no logical like explanation of why you would suddenly think of them or a memory of them.
• 26:04
  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
• 26:05
  SPEAKER_00: Like this is the number one thing that most people experience, and they're like, oh, it's my brain.
• 26:11
  SPEAKER_00: I was just thinking of them because it's St.
• 26:13
  SPEAKER_00: Patrick's Day and my grandmother was Irish.
• 26:18
  SPEAKER_00: Like, okay, maybe there's a correlation, but were you actively trying to recall your grandmother?
• 26:25
  SPEAKER_00: Or on St.
• 26:26
  SPEAKER_00: Patrick's Day, did she just pop into your head?
• 26:28
  SPEAKER_00: Because those are two very different conversations.
• 26:30
  SPEAKER_00: Because if there's logic that brings you to remembering the person or remembering the memory, it's probably you, it's probably your brain.
• 26:38
  SPEAKER_00: But if you are in the middle of celebrating with your friends, singing the grand old tunes, right?
• 26:45
  SPEAKER_00: Like dirty old town, right?
• 26:46
  SPEAKER_00: Of my husband loves St.
• 26:49
  SPEAKER_00: Patrick's Day.
• 26:50
  SPEAKER_00: So I know all the songs, even though I'm technically more Irish than him.
• 26:54
  SPEAKER_00: So if you're singing, you know, any of the old bar songs, and all of a sudden your grandmother pops into your head when you are just there having a great time enjoying life with your friends.
• 27:03
  SPEAKER_00: That is a perfect example of yes, it's within context, but you didn't have an active reason to think of your grandmother.
• 27:09
  SPEAKER_00: She just popped in your head out of nowhere.
• 27:11
  SPEAKER_00: That is spirit stopping by.
• 27:13
  SPEAKER_00: That is your grandmother stopping by to say hello.
• 27:16
  SPEAKER_00: Think of me.
• 27:18
  SPEAKER_00: I'm here watching over you.
• 27:22
  SPEAKER_00: Mm-hmm.
• 27:23
  SPEAKER_00: And so this same thing is true across different signs or symbols that you'll get.
• 27:30
  SPEAKER_00: And I'm going to try to explain this really, really simply.
• 27:33
  SPEAKER_00: Essentially, when you are smelling phantom smells like cigarettes, which could be several people, but then your mom pops into your head, that is your mom stopping by.
• 27:44
  SPEAKER_00: When you are listening to classic rock on the radio, and out of nowhere, your dad pops into your mind, even though he really liked this music, but you weren't actively thinking of your dad, that is your dad popping by.
• 27:58
  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
• 27:59
  SPEAKER_00: When you see a cardinal, the first person who pops into your head is who is kind of bringing that cardinal forward for you.
• 28:08
  SPEAKER_00: Maybe that's grandmother.
• 28:12
  SPEAKER_00: And so the difference is we're not searching, we're not reaching, we're not trying to figure out who is stopping by.
• 28:19
  SPEAKER_00: We're letting your departed loved ones pop in with a thought, with a memory, with a feeling, with an emotion.
• 28:31
  SPEAKER_00: And when they pop by with this information, that is them popping by to say hello.
• 28:36
  SPEAKER_00: That is from me.
• 28:41
  SPEAKER_00: It is literally that simple.
• 28:44
  SPEAKER_00: That is something what I call the best medium, she was my best medium for me.
• 28:50
  SPEAKER_00: What I call the best medium, that is the number one thing she explained to me.
• 28:54
  SPEAKER_00: And based on that, I had no idea how often my departed loved ones were stopping by.
• 29:01
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, once I learned that, I was like, they are fucking with me all the time.
• 29:06
  SPEAKER_00: All the time.
• 29:08
  SPEAKER_00: And so if you are going through this in your own mind and being like, holy shit.
• 29:13
  SPEAKER_00: Like I thought of my aunt this morning, my grandmother while I was while I was cooking lunch.
• 29:18
  SPEAKER_00: When I was doing dishes, my uncle popped into my head.
• 29:21
  SPEAKER_00: And later on, I heard an owl and I thought of my grandmother.
• 29:25
  SPEAKER_00: Yes, yes, that is how often they will come by, that and more or that and less, right?
• 29:33
  SPEAKER_00: But they can stop by quite a bit, especially for those of you that have so many departed loved ones.
• 29:42
  SPEAKER_00: The other side, I'm laughing because in the middle of that statement, this is wild.
• 29:52
  SPEAKER_00: My I had a college professor that died.
• 29:55
  SPEAKER_00: He just popped into my head.
• 29:58
  SPEAKER_00: Well, I was in the middle of explaining that all to you.
• 30:01
  SPEAKER_00: So that's exactly how it works.
• 30:03
  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
• 30:03
  SPEAKER_00: So who popped into your head while I was just explaining that to all of you?
• 30:10
  SPEAKER_00: That is who was stopping by.
• 30:12
  SPEAKER_00: Like, why the fuck would I think about my college professor that died?
• 30:16
  SPEAKER_00: By the way, that is a wild story because when I was training in mediumship and I was in practice circles, this professor stopped by in one of the readings.
• 30:27
  SPEAKER_00: Wasn't it practice?
• 30:29
  SPEAKER_00: Practices are for the person that is practicing, like it is for the medium, not for the not for the sitter.
• 30:33
  SPEAKER_00: And so there was something about this professor that this medium needed to learn on.
• 30:39
  SPEAKER_00: But when she read him, I was like, this sounds like my college professor.
• 30:44
  SPEAKER_00: This is the weirdest thing in the world.
• 30:47
  SPEAKER_00: Couldn't place him, so I had to go Google him.
• 30:49
  SPEAKER_00: And yeah, he had died.
• 30:50
  SPEAKER_00: And I was like, oh, look at that.
• 30:52
  SPEAKER_00: It really was him.
• 30:54
  SPEAKER_00: So yeah, that can happen.
• 30:59
  SPEAKER_00: He's so funny, too.
• 31:02
  SPEAKER_00: I really liked him a lot.
• 31:04
  SPEAKER_00: He was a good guy.
• 31:05
  SPEAKER_00: Uh, he was, I'm gonna say it.
• 31:08
  SPEAKER_00: I hope you're oh god, it's so good.
• 31:12
  SPEAKER_00: The final that I had with him in college, I'm I'm going down the rabbit hole.
• 31:17
  SPEAKER_00: I just this one's a good story.
• 31:18
  SPEAKER_00: It's worth, it's worth the it's worth the side quest here.
• 31:21
  SPEAKER_00: He was one of the professors that you had to fill like the blue notebook in your final.
• 31:26
  SPEAKER_00: And I was OCD about my grades because, you know, I have perfectionist problems just like everybody else.
• 31:32
  SPEAKER_00: And so, like, my I was one of the last four that was completing my final.
• 31:38
  SPEAKER_00: He got so sick of waiting around for how long we were taking that he literally took us to the school pool so he could do laps while we sat on the side of the pool finishing, finishing our test.
• 31:54
  SPEAKER_00: And if that wasn't the most ridiculous evidence, I mean it definitely was.
• 31:58
  SPEAKER_00: It definitely was.
• 31:59
  SPEAKER_00: So that's okay.
• 32:01
  SPEAKER_00: I'm going back up.
• 32:03
  SPEAKER_00: The side quest is over.
• 32:04
  SPEAKER_00: Thank you for my my departed professor that stopped by here today.
• 32:08
  SPEAKER_00: But this is what I'm talking about, okay?
• 32:11
  SPEAKER_00: And so, do you notice what I just went through when that professor popped into my head, right?
• 32:15
  SPEAKER_00: Like it was mid-sentence.
• 32:17
  SPEAKER_00: I was talking to all of you.
• 32:18
  SPEAKER_00: He stopped by.
• 32:19
  SPEAKER_00: I started laughing.
• 32:20
  SPEAKER_00: Obviously, the dead bell went off because we have to add a little drama around here.
• 32:25
  SPEAKER_00: And then it took me down nostalgia lane.
• 32:29
  SPEAKER_00: I started laughing about two stories about this professor that popped into my head about how he just randomly showed up in a reading one time when I was like, who the fuck is this guy?
• 32:40
  SPEAKER_00: And then also the hilariousness of that final and the fact that he was like swimming laps in a pool when I handed in my final.
• 32:51
  SPEAKER_00: And so this is kind of the goal.
• 32:53
  SPEAKER_00: And so if you're wondering why your loved ones are showing up and what you do about it, I want you to default to the expectation that they are just coming by to say hi.
• 33:03
  SPEAKER_00: They are not coming by to scare you, to warn you, to protect you.
• 33:08
  SPEAKER_00: And so, like, if there's any fear-based emotions that are coming with this conversation, I want you to remove them now because our loved ones come from unconditional love.
• 33:19
  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
• 33:21
  SPEAKER_00: If you are jumping into a fear-based narrative, I promise you that is your brain.
• 33:27
  SPEAKER_00: That is not why they're stopping by.
• 33:29
  SPEAKER_00: If there were something that were truly bad that were about to happen to you, I promise you your loved ones would not casually be coming by.
• 33:38
  SPEAKER_00: You would have an internal reaction within your own intuition, or you would have an internal, like massive knowing.
• 33:50
  SPEAKER_00: And so any fear-based information does not lie with departed loved ones.
• 33:56
  SPEAKER_00: So I just want to remove that completely from your field because they're more likely than not coming by to just say hello.
• 34:02
  SPEAKER_00: But also, if while they're there and they stop by, you have these memories that pop up or these laughter that pop up, like that is really the intention of why loved ones come in, is because they want to continue the conversation with you.
• 34:19
  SPEAKER_00: They want you to laugh, they want you to be joyful, they want to wanna remember the memories with you, they want to experience how much you love them and want you to know how much they love you too.
• 34:34
  SPEAKER_00: And so I want you to think about the memories that you remember are a mirror to the love they're trying to show you.
• 34:43
  SPEAKER_00: And so if you remember, oh, if you remember Christmas morning with your mom and dad and sneaking downstairs, and I'm seeing it's the 70s in my head, and you have like that yellow, orangish shag carpet, and you're like sneaking downstairs before the parents are up, right?
• 35:05
  SPEAKER_00: And you get caught, and you're kind of laughing about the fact that you were trying to be sneaky and got caught, and mom was so fucking ready for you because she was just waiting in the kitchen with her coffee with the lights off, and you recall that memory with such love and laughter.
• 35:28
  SPEAKER_00: That is the exact emotion she wants you to feel, and because she has that love and laughter that she wants you to experience too.
• 35:39
  SPEAKER_00: And so that love is reciprocal.
• 35:41
  SPEAKER_00: Whatever she's showing you, whatever you're remembering, you're it is on purpose because she wants you to be reminded of how loved you are and how much she had so much fun in that moment, too.
• 35:55
  SPEAKER_00: Let me see if Spirit can help me explain that a little more clearly.
• 35:58
  SPEAKER_00: One second.
• 36:01
  SPEAKER_00: The love you experience in reliving the memories is the love that they wanted to show you by visiting.
• 36:15
  SPEAKER_00: Boom.
• 36:16
  SPEAKER_00: So good, right?
• 36:17
  SPEAKER_00: So freaking good.
• 36:34
  SPEAKER_00: That comes with the connection to spirit, because there will be a point in this journey, especially as you're starting to feel spirit, invite in specific spirits, have random spirits, of course, random being like various members of your departed loved ones, or on the other side, as they are kind of popping in, you're gonna start getting used to being able to kind of read the energy and read who's coming in.
• 37:00
  SPEAKER_00: Because if you feel like dad is coming in and you're inviting dad into your energetic field, there is a really fucking cool thing that happens because everybody has unique energetic fingerprints.
• 37:11
  SPEAKER_00: So just like your fingerprint is unique compared to all of the other people on planet Earth, every soul also has a unique energetic essence.
• 37:24
  SPEAKER_00: And so, what can be really cool is after a while, if you've called in dad enough times, you might understand and be able to discern what is the energetic signature of dad.
• 37:37
  SPEAKER_00: Because that's how like spirits tell each other apart is through their energetic essence, their unique vibrational frequency.
• 37:46
  SPEAKER_00: And so if you can call in dad enough times that you start to recognize what his energetic frequency looks like, feels like as he's kind of entering your space, then when dad visited visits you, you might be able to immediately call out that it's dad without you having to like call him.
• 38:05
  SPEAKER_00: You might be able to recognize that dad's walking in because that's the vibrational frequency that you feel.
• 38:11
  SPEAKER_00: So there might be a realization there, and also you might just have a deep knowing of who is stopping by without any sort of thought patterns, memories, etc., that pop up.
• 38:25
  SPEAKER_00: And that's okay too.
• 38:26
  SPEAKER_00: That is called clear cognizance.
• 38:28
  SPEAKER_00: That is an actual thing.
• 38:34
  SPEAKER_00: This is definitely a thing.
• 38:35
  SPEAKER_00: I'm again, I'm gonna put like the ADHD on notice just because I can tell, like I work with a lot of people that are actually diagnosed ADHD.
• 38:44
  SPEAKER_00: And then for me, I definitely understand the frequency because everybody in my family is ADHD.
• 38:48
  SPEAKER_00: So this is why I call out ADHD in particular or ADD, whatever, whichever variant you have or don't have.
• 38:56
  SPEAKER_00: But ADD or ADHD individuals tend to just know, which can be really fucking frustrating when you're looking for the evidence and logic.
• 39:04
  SPEAKER_00: They just know.
• 39:05
  SPEAKER_00: There is no reason they know, there's no logic why they know, they just know.
• 39:09
  SPEAKER_00: And so if you are somebody that has ADD or ADHD, and as I'm going through this experience, you just know who's stopping by, like that is completely normal, even though there's no logic to understand why that's normal.
• 39:21
  SPEAKER_00: It just is.
• 39:26
  SPEAKER_00: But I want you walking away from this episode, having fun with us.
• 39:32
  SPEAKER_00: And this is such a potent time to have this podcast episode because it is spooky season, everybody.
• 39:41
  SPEAKER_00: Like the veils are thin between worlds, and they're thin because they've always historically been thin between worlds as we approach Halloween/slash Sawin, right?
• 39:55
  SPEAKER_00: And so the energy and intention across many, many years, across many, many pagan civilizations, across like many, many indigenous cultures is like the veil is thin this time of year.
• 40:06
  SPEAKER_00: So the intention is out there.
• 40:07
  SPEAKER_00: So that means that the veil is absolutely gonna be thin.
• 40:10
  SPEAKER_00: It's gonna be easier to connect with your departed loved ones, especially this month.
• 40:13
  SPEAKER_00: So, like, I'm so like giddy up.
• 40:15
  SPEAKER_00: I'm so glad we started this month with this episode because now you can leverage the thin veil to work on your connection with your own departed loved ones, to call them in, to see how they're showing up in your life, to create the continued communication that you've always wanted and now you don't need a medium for.
• 40:42
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, unless you want to have specific conversations and resolve grief and trauma, like, yes, let's chat, but I also want you to be sovereign and connected to your own loved ones.
• 40:56
  SPEAKER_00: No one should keep you from that.
• 41:01
  SPEAKER_00: And so this is this is the work that I do, everybody.
• 41:03
  SPEAKER_00: This is why I do what I do, is because I want everybody to know the power that they have, the abilities they have, the sovereignty they have in working with spirit.
• 41:14
  SPEAKER_00: Because I'm gonna make the bold statement, you just walked away feeling and knowing that your loved ones are with you.
• 41:25
  SPEAKER_00: With actionable steps, tangible feelings in your body, because the body is the truth teller, not the mind.
• 41:36
  SPEAKER_00: Those experiences are real, and so is your connection.
• 41:42
  SPEAKER_00: And so I'm looking at the clock.
• 41:43
  SPEAKER_00: So 40 minutes later, you're able to sense when your loved ones are coming in.
• 41:51
  SPEAKER_00: You're able to know when spirit is stopping by.
• 41:58
  SPEAKER_00: And I fucking love this for you.
• 42:01
  SPEAKER_00: And yeah, we could have taken this episode into a whole different directions about signs and physical mediumship and all these things too, but I think the energy is where it's at.
• 42:11
  SPEAKER_00: Because again, it shows up in your body and you can't mistake it.
• 42:17
  SPEAKER_00: So I hope this was fun for you.
• 42:18
  SPEAKER_00: I hope this was fucking mind-blowing for you.
• 42:25
  SPEAKER_00: Because your loved ones miss you and want to talk to you too.
• 42:32
  SPEAKER_00: So thank you so much for being here.
• 42:33
  SPEAKER_00: If you loved this episode, could you please do me a giant favor and leave a review or tag me or comment just because I think this episode in particular just feels so perfect for everyone to embrace their own connection to spirit and make sure everyone, every single one of you knows how fucking powerful and magical you are.
• 43:00
  SPEAKER_00: And that would be amazing if you take a minute to do that.
• 43:04
  SPEAKER_00: If you need to continue the conversation with your loved ones with an actual medium, I'm always here.
• 43:10
  SPEAKER_00: So I'm never gonna ever, I'm never gonna deny that with all of you.
• 43:14
  SPEAKER_00: But if you are also having this conversation and you're wondering how much more you can connect, and can you actually exchange words and actual communication with your loved ones?
• 43:27
  SPEAKER_00: Let's chat.
• 43:28
  SPEAKER_00: Set up a time.
• 43:29
  SPEAKER_00: We can do some mentoring, we can do a one-on-one.
• 43:31
  SPEAKER_00: We'll see how far you can take this.
• 43:34
  SPEAKER_00: Thank you so much, everybody, and happy spooky season.
• 43:37
  SPEAKER_00: And get prepared for an entire month of podcasts, all related to the dead.
• 43:43
  SPEAKER_00: I cannot wait.
• 43:51
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• 43:53
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• 44:03
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• 44:11
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• 44:24
  SPEAKER_00: Because knowing what's possible is only the beginning.
• 44:27
  SPEAKER_00: The real magic is what you choose to do with it.
• 44:31
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