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The One Where They Film The PumpRules Reunion · Untraditionally Lala

• 0:06
  Speaker 1: Hello, my loves, and welcome back to the Give Them
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  Speaker 1: Laala Podcast. I'm your host, Lala Kent. How we doing,
• 0:13
  Speaker 1: Jessica Kerr? We are so good, But more importantly, how
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  Speaker 1: are you doing? My brain is a tad fried still.
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  Speaker 1: I want to get into all of the things, but
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  Speaker 1: before we start, I obviously want to take a moment
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  Speaker 1: to talk about the six people who lost their lives
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  Speaker 1: yesterday in the Covenant school shooting, three of which were
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  Speaker 1: little kids, and the fact that this is still happening.
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  Speaker 1: And I was talking to Sheena and now I'm a mom,
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  Speaker 1: and I don't feel like you have to have a
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  Speaker 1: kid to be devastated by something like this, obviously, but
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  Speaker 1: you start thinking about I one day am going to
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  Speaker 1: have to send Ocean to school? And the fact that
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  Speaker 1: I don't feel comfortable and I don't think a lot
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  Speaker 1: of parents feel comfortable sending their kids to school. After
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  Speaker 1: Sandy Hook, it was like, this is you know what's
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  Speaker 1: happening in churches, It's happening at schools. Nothing is off limits,
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  Speaker 1: and I just find it important. I didn't post on
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  Speaker 1: social media. I felt like a lot of people were
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  Speaker 1: posting on social media. I didn't quite this sounds stupid.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't quite know like even what to say. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: like what is there to say? Like it shouldn't be happening,
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  Speaker 1: but like what is the move that we make? How
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  Speaker 1: do we fix it? How do we change it? Like?
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  Speaker 1: When is enough enough?
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  Speaker 2: You know? And at this point, it's it's it's so
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  Speaker 2: disgusting that it sounds so cliche to say is enough
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  Speaker 2: because it's been said so many times?
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  Speaker 1: Right, Like what are we gonna do? Now? Are we
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  Speaker 1: gonna do? Like we can all post on our social media?
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  Speaker 1: And I think that's beautiful, and I it's the reason
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  Speaker 1: why I love social media so much. But what are
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  Speaker 1: we going to do? Action? But I don't even know
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  Speaker 1: what to do. I know, like how do we contribute
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  Speaker 1: to ending it?
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  Speaker 2: I know it's it's I mean, it's there are there
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  Speaker 2: are action pieces, and there are people, bless you all
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  Speaker 2: speaking out about it. Here are the steps we take?
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  Speaker 2: And and I you know, right now, I'm just reading
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  Speaker 2: up every time something like this happens, which it's even
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  Speaker 2: heart wrenching to say every time something like this happens
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  Speaker 2: because it happens so many times. Every time something like
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  Speaker 2: this happens, I look, I do the research I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: what are people saying? What are action items? And it's
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  Speaker 2: just heartbreaking that we're still here, We're still we're still
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  Speaker 2: dealing with this, and it's innocent souls and children and
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  Speaker 2: adults who went to school that day, not you know,
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  Speaker 2: who knows what.
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  Speaker 1: Was going to make a difference in these kids' lives,
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  Speaker 1: like showing up thinking it's going to be a completely
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  Speaker 1: normal day. This horrendous person who did this was a woman.
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  Speaker 1: It's two percent of mass shooters across the country are women.
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  Speaker 1: I read that she was a gamer, and this may
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  Speaker 1: not be what anyone wants to hear. The gaming freaks
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  Speaker 1: me out. I feel like it desensitizes people. And yes,
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  Speaker 1: I think we absolutely need to pass gun laws, but
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  Speaker 1: I think you have to have a mental evaluation to
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  Speaker 1: purchase certain games. I've noticed a pattern of even when
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  Speaker 1: I was a young kid and there was a shooting
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  Speaker 1: at Trolley Square where I live, where I grew up,
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  Speaker 1: and I was very very young, and this person was
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  Speaker 1: also playing those games where you're shooting at people, and
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  Speaker 1: I just don't think that it's a healthy thing to
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  Speaker 1: be playing. And you know, some people can separate like
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  Speaker 1: this is a game, but other times. I feel like
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  Speaker 1: when you sit there and you're doing it over and
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  Speaker 1: over and over and over again, it freaks me out,
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  Speaker 1: and people may come for me and say it has
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  Speaker 1: you know, it's just a game. It has nothing to
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  Speaker 1: do with that. I think there's a lot of things
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  Speaker 1: that play into the fact that someone could run up
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  Speaker 1: in a school and do something like this. But I'm
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  Speaker 1: just trying to wrap my head around it and see
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  Speaker 1: how change can be made because we're really not safe anywhere. Nope.
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  Speaker 2: I texted you know all of the families I used
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  Speaker 2: to babysit for, and I just I'm thinking about you
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  Speaker 2: today in Nashville. You know, I'm thinking about you today.
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  Speaker 1: I love you. I hope you're safe.
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  Speaker 2: The one thing I do have to say about that
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  Speaker 2: church parking lot, that church, that church, that specific church.
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  Speaker 2: Up until twenty twenty, oh my god, sorry, so thank you.
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  Speaker 2: Up until twenty twenty.
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  Speaker 3: I would go to that church parking lot before I
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  Speaker 3: babysat and sit there in my car because I lived
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  Speaker 3: in East Nashville and that is Green Hills slash Bellmead area,
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  Speaker 3: So that's where I babysat and nanny and up until
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  Speaker 3: twenty twenty, a few months before I moved here to
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  Speaker 3: La I would arrive like twenty minutes early to babysit
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  Speaker 3: and I had my coffee, and there was something about
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  Speaker 3: that church parking lot that.
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  Speaker 1: Was so peaceful.
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  Speaker 2: And I could sit in my car and drink my
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  Speaker 2: coffee before to babysit and just like reflect and pray
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  Speaker 2: and get ready for the day. And it was always
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  Speaker 2: that church parking lot because it was there was something
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  Speaker 2: so peaceful about it. And when I was, you know,
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  Speaker 2: looking at the photos and videos yesterday and reflecting on
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  Speaker 2: those times in that parking lot, I thought, I wonder
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  Speaker 2: why I would pick that parking lot literally every morning.
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  Speaker 2: And I think it's because, and you know, if you
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  Speaker 2: don't believe in this, that's fine, but this is my
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  Speaker 2: personal beliefs. I think it's because there were angels all
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  Speaker 2: around there, and so it just gave me a sense of,
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  Speaker 2: I guess peace, to think surely those angels were leading
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  Speaker 2: those innocent souls up to heaven after that horrific, horrific.
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  Speaker 1: Thing.
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  Speaker 2: So it's just, you know, in one of the women
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  Speaker 2: I was texting with yesterday, her good friend lost her daughter,
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  Speaker 2: it's just, oh yeah, in that shooting, so it's just yeah,
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  Speaker 2: it's heart wrenching, and my heart goes out to that
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  Speaker 2: community's I mean, there are no words. There really are
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  Speaker 2: no words. I wish I had the words, but I don't.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I don't either. So I just wanted to
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  Speaker 1: take a moment to acknowledge that. And this podcast is
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  Speaker 1: going to be interesting today. I still feel like my
• 7:27
  Speaker 1: brain is a little bit fried from Thursday's reunion. Last
• 7:33
  Speaker 1: week on the podcast, we were sitting here and I
• 7:35
  Speaker 1: was prepping for the reunion, and it's like, crazy, this
• 7:39
  Speaker 1: is where I get funny with time. I'm like, wow,
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  Speaker 1: it's already over. I was looking forward to going to
• 7:45
  Speaker 1: Palm Springs and purchasing my home, my first home. That's over.
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  Speaker 2: It's like that's time though, crazy Bravo housewarming weekend for you. Yep,
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  Speaker 2: obviously I want to know all about it. I want
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  Speaker 2: to know, as I'm sure your friends do. We want
• 8:03
  Speaker 2: to know what you can say about the reunion. I
• 8:06
  Speaker 2: did tell you this morning. I saw the look in
• 8:08
  Speaker 2: your eyes on your Instagram video afterwards, and you just
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  Speaker 2: looked exhausted physically emotionally. I'm sure everyone else was. So
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  Speaker 2: I want to hear about the reunion.
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  Speaker 1: I want to hear.
• 8:18
  Speaker 2: About Palm Springs, which is a huge housewarming weekend.
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  Speaker 1: That yes, the reunion was. It was all of the things.
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  Speaker 1: And you know, I don't want to say I wasn't
• 8:33
  Speaker 1: directly affected by this. You've got Arianna who obviously was
• 8:38
  Speaker 1: directly affected by it. She most likely will carry this
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  Speaker 1: with her. She won't ever be the same person. There's
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  Speaker 1: certain things you experience in your life where yes, everything
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  Speaker 1: kind of molds you into who you are, but there
• 8:53
  Speaker 1: are certain things where you're like, oh, this, I will
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  Speaker 1: never be the same, whether it's looking at relationship differently,
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  Speaker 1: And you know that doesn't necessarily mean it's a bad
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  Speaker 1: thing that you'll never be the same. You know, my
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  Speaker 1: whole situation that happened with me, I will never be
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  Speaker 1: the same for the better, and I believe that that's
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  Speaker 1: what's going to happen to Ariana. You have Sena, who
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  Speaker 1: was best friends with both of them. She's directly affected
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  Speaker 1: by it. James Raquel is his ex fiance, Katie. The
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  Speaker 1: whole everyone was directly affected by it. For me, we're
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  Speaker 1: talking about two people who I really couldn't stand ever.
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  Speaker 1: I stomached them hardly even that, but it was and
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  Speaker 1: we're all going to be doing podcasts about this, I'm sure,
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  Speaker 1: and everyone's going to talk about their own personal experience
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  Speaker 1: with the reunion. For me, I was triggered for many reasons.
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  Speaker 1: Took me back to my own situation and how he
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  Speaker 1: whose name we shall not mention, moved as far as
• 9:59
  Speaker 1: infidelity and the cheating and things like that. Can is
• 10:02
  Speaker 1: it called infidelity if you're not married?
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  Speaker 2: I think so. I'm gonna google it, but I've always
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  Speaker 2: called it that.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, let me let me look. It reminded, you know,
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  Speaker 1: Sandoval reminds me of him, and then you know, I
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  Speaker 1: just everything went through my mind, all the projection that
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  Speaker 1: Sandoval has put on me for many years, including this season, Raquel,
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  Speaker 1: you know, projecting onto me about her shit and calling
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  Speaker 1: me these names when she was doing what she was doing,
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  Speaker 1: and it all came out in that moment. No one
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  Speaker 1: was safe. It was like a blood bath with words.
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  Speaker 1: I I blacked out. You did, oh yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Because of emotion rage or just because you were nervous,
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  Speaker 2: and you're like, holy shit, Like no, it's.
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  Speaker 1: Not that I was nervous. I only cried one time,
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  Speaker 1: and you guys will see why, iride. But the rest
• 11:00
  Speaker 1: of the time. I mean I was in fight mode.
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  Speaker 1: Like when I said I'm ready to eat, I was
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  Speaker 1: eating you were I completely I felt like a lion
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  Speaker 1: who had just made the most epic kill for the
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  Speaker 1: rest of my crew. What do they call a lion tribe?
• 11:23
  Speaker 1: What is it? Pride? Like? I felt like I was
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  Speaker 1: with my pride and we had wildebeasts for days.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, like a lot of it.
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  Speaker 1: Oh that sounds insane, but that's literal, Like that is
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  Speaker 1: how I felt.
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  Speaker 2: I mean I can picture it. So that's a great,
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  Speaker 2: you know, picture question. Because I'm sure everyone else has
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  Speaker 2: read this too. I've read a few things, and if
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  Speaker 2: you could speak on them, great. Number One, I read
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  Speaker 2: that you and James were like, I don't know if
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  Speaker 2: I read basically you and James were like the loudest,
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  Speaker 2: most emotional, angry ones.
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  Speaker 1: That is true, Okay, that is true.
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  Speaker 2: Number two, I read that Ariana was relatively calm for
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  Speaker 2: it being watched, I mean done to her.
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  Speaker 1: You know, she was calm. She stayed seated the whole time,
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  Speaker 1: but she was Samurai sorting these motherfuckers. Whether it's oh yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it was like amazing, incredible to just watch and see
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  Speaker 1: her just empowered. When I was watching her, I was
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  Speaker 1: like this, I don't want to say this is the
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  Speaker 1: Ariana that I recognize because she's obviously hurting, But when
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  Speaker 1: this is the Ariana that she deserves to be, this
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  Speaker 1: person where it's like you fucked up and now you
• 12:50
  Speaker 1: get to see what it's like to be on my
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  Speaker 1: bad side. There's something about a chick and we're not
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  Speaker 1: calling them scorned, we're not calling them emotional. They're with
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  Speaker 1: a fucking voice and now you're not safe. And I
• 13:03
  Speaker 1: loved her posts where she said what doesn't kill me?
• 13:06
  Speaker 1: Better run? Yes, be so good? Yes that was so good?
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  Speaker 2: Did you because I've read mixed reports, did anyone or
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  Speaker 2: you can just speak on this for yourself, get physical
• 13:21
  Speaker 2: or get to the point where it was about to
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  Speaker 2: get physical and then security had to step in.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, that did happen. I was not about to get physical.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not really a physical person. I mean I did
• 13:33
  Speaker 1: push kristin that one time. I don't want to say
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  Speaker 1: it's not in me. But again it goes back to
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  Speaker 1: like this is why I'm sober, because I have done
• 13:43
  Speaker 1: things when drinking that I wish I would not have done.
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  Speaker 1: But I think the reunion is going to be crazy
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  Speaker 1: for people to watch. It was a mind fuck. I
• 13:57
  Speaker 1: loved having a group of people who weren't looking at
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  Speaker 1: me saying that wasn't very nice, lalla, and instead they
• 14:03
  Speaker 1: were like tooting away with me on my same train.
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  Speaker 1: But you know, we go on break and Schwartzey said
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  Speaker 1: to me, you know, he Sandoval feels this, that and
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  Speaker 1: the other about you, like you don't your big talk,
• 14:20
  Speaker 1: but you don't act on what you say. And I said,
• 14:23
  Speaker 1: if I were to act on it, on what I say,
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  Speaker 1: I'm back up what I say. Then I'm catching a
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  Speaker 1: case and I'm not doing that. And nobody put me
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: in the slammer for my words. It's true, you know,
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  Speaker 1: So this this is all you get, are my words,
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  Speaker 1: because anything more than that, I'm catching a case and
• 14:44
  Speaker 1: I don't want a deal. All right. I'm in the
• 14:47
  Speaker 1: family court system. I'm not trying to be in the
• 14:50
  Speaker 1: criminal justice system.
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  Speaker 2: M M. I know. Two about two weeks ago on
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  Speaker 2: the podcast or three whatever, I said, I really hope
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  Speaker 2: that you go into the reunion and you're able to
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  Speaker 2: discuss what you've gone through, that Katie's able to discuss
• 15:07
  Speaker 2: what she's gone through. We know that the most talked
• 15:10
  Speaker 2: about topic right now is scannabal But are you able
• 15:13
  Speaker 2: to say were you were there any sort of diving
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  Speaker 2: into that or is that save it for the reunion?
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  Speaker 2: We'll see.
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  Speaker 1: No, I think you're obviously going to have to watch
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  Speaker 1: the reunion. But it's weird because last week on the podcast,
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  Speaker 1: I was saying, you know, a whole season happened before
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: all of this, and everyone's storyline is equally as important.
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  Speaker 1: It needs to be discussed. But then we get there
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: and we couldn't keep it out of our mouths because
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: the whole season really doesn't even matter because this one
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: thing kind of took that, like from my perspective and
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: what I've always thought and what's been put out there. Now,
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  Speaker 1: you guys will watch the reunion and see and once
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  Speaker 1: it airs, I'll be able to share all the bus
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: behind the scenes of what maybe didn't make it. But
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  Speaker 1: I've always thought like Schwartzy was the decoy if he
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  Speaker 1: didn't know that it was going on. He claims that
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  Speaker 1: he only he just found out, but I feel like
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  Speaker 1: I'm calling bullshit. He had his hands over his eyes
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  Speaker 1: saying no, no, no, no no no no no no In
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  Speaker 1: order for you to not see what was right in
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  Speaker 1: front of you, and also just little things that I
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  Speaker 1: just felt like everything led up to Holy shit. I
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  Speaker 1: cannot believe that these two people could say the things
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  Speaker 1: they were saying to everyone. Katie, take accountability, Lalla, you
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  Speaker 1: need to be real all of these things, and then
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: behind the scenes they're doing what they're doing that to
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  Speaker 1: me is a very sick human being. And you guys
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: are going to be shocked. From an entertainment standpoint, we
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: killed it, we killed the season, we killed the reunion,
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  Speaker 1: but take that out of it. I mean, this is
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  Speaker 1: real life. Everyone was extremely triggered walking into that room.
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  Speaker 1: It was within seconds that it was explosive. Yeah, like
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  Speaker 1: James and I could not stop. I was out of
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  Speaker 1: my seat. My mom asked me, like what happened, and
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: I said, I don't even know. I don't even know.
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  Speaker 1: And it's scary for me to like, these are the
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  Speaker 1: people that we've surrounded ourselves with, Like, these are scary motherfuckers.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to be around people who move that way.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm interested to see because again I've read that
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: we shot the reunion, it was five hours of taping.
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  Speaker 1: But you have to remember the second we arrive, like
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: from the time we get out of the car, a
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  Speaker 1: camera is on all of us. So my call time
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: was eight thirty. I got up at four am to start.
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  Speaker 1: I did my own face, Bradley came to do my hair.
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  Speaker 1: I got there at eight thirty and cameras were rolling.
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  Speaker 1: So cameras were rolling from the time everyone arrived to
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  Speaker 1: the time we left, which we got out of there
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  Speaker 1: at like seven.
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  Speaker 2: Question, oh my god, on because you obviously have to
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: have a break, right, do you have like a lunch break?
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: And then we get like five minutes here and there?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, two things again, speak on of you if you can.
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  Speaker 2: Number one, lunch break? Was it like this is like
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  Speaker 2: la la basically the entire crew, the entire cast sitting together.
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  Speaker 2: And then on the other side of the building it
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  Speaker 2: was Sandoval and Raquel. That's my first and my second
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  Speaker 2: is the fucking photos talked about around the world. Raquel
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  Speaker 2: and Sandoval outside looking like a couple like sitting down
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  Speaker 2: sand of all venting about something, bitching about something to
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  Speaker 2: one of the producers. They're in black, so I'm assuming
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  Speaker 2: they changed into that during lunch to like not get
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: anything on their clothes. But do you have anything to
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  Speaker 2: say about either of that.
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: The first, I don't know where Sandoval, Schworts and Raquel
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  Speaker 1: were even placed. Like, I only saw them when we
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: were on the floor on the stage. Wow, I don't
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  Speaker 1: know where they ate lunch. But yes, it was the
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  Speaker 1: rest of us. We're at a table, cameras were on us.
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  Speaker 1: We ate together, talked some shit. Clearly Sandoval was upset
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: about something. Sandoval's a narcissist, Okay, It's the same reason
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: why he wanted producers to reshoot his first scene with Raquel.
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: He didn't think it would make him look good. It's
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: all about I can do dirty shit, but the public
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: can't know. I know all about that. I know all
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: about that. And by the way, at the reunion, he
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: was throwing daggers at all of us, trying to bring
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: up a lot of different shit. And I told I
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: said to everyone, I want you to watch what he's
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: doing right now. This is he's the same as my ex,
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: all right. His ship is sinking. He's gonna try his
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: hardest to get everyone else's to sink first. This is
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: a dangerous person. He's gonna pull out some crazy shit.
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: You got skeletons he's bringing them out right now, scary
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: scary person. That is scary. And then he and Raquel
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: were outside. I'll save whether they're in a relationship, not
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: in a relationship, you guys will find out during the reunion,
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: if not before then because there's a leak. But the
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: leak gave me. But I did notice that they went
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: to Moossow and Franks after Raquel and Sandoval said And
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: it's just the only reason I keep bringing it back
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: to myself is because experience, right when you're watching someone
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: who thinks they're moving in a way where like no
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: one can ever catch me, and no one's gonna understand
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: how I move. But then you've dealt with someone, you've
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: been in that situation, and seeing how who someone moves
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: the exact same way, it's just interesting. So I'm bringing
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: it back to me because I've experienced this level of
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: crazy before. But they went out to dinner and it
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: was the same place that he took Ariana to for
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: their anniversary back and I think it was January. That's
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: where they went. And you know, they just have these
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: same patterns, the same It's like you can't teach what
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: is it? You can't teach an old dog new tricks,
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: but just like seeing the pattern of behavior and it's like, wow,
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: you're really a fucking one trick pony here right. Oh,
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: Raquel's been elevated. They no longer go to these like
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: little and places like my ex love to do Sportsman's Lodge.
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: Oh all right, I'm noticing a pattern. He took Ariana
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: to Musso and Franks or whatever. Now he's been outed,
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: Raquel's been upgraded. She's no longer the mistress, she's whatever
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: she is or isn't. We're taking her to Musso and
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: Franks for a bottle of and some oysters. It's just
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: the level of insanity. If you're a normal person, you
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: sit there and go that's not how it's working. That
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: means nothing. He eats there, he likes that place. No,
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: this is a calculated person who moves this way. And
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: they don't even fucking realize they move that way because
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: it's so normal to them.
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: But you, and I'm just saying this because you said
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: it earlier on you were on Jeff Lewis this Morning.
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: You that's why you were able to call it. That's
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: why you were able to say, hey, I'm seeing something,
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: and you'll see it all or whatever. You'll see some
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: of it on episodes later on in season ten of
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: vander Pump Rules. But that's why because you saw the patterns,
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: and I know you mentioned again on Jeff Lewis you
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: said Katie said something about we've got the would you
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: say about the seats because I loved that.
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: Katie said on Watch What Happens Live, you know Lala
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: and I are sitting in the cheap seats. Yes, we're
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: not even in it, and we're seeing things that are weird.
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: Because Katie and I only had like a handful of
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: situations that were like, eh, love the brakes hold up
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: and to the outside world it's like, no, that's what
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: friends do. But it was the tiniest little nuances that
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: you'd go something ain't right. Cut to where we are
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: now and the friend group is like, I can't believe
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: that these red flags weren't seen the time that we
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: walked in and Raquel and Santoval were in a room
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: under the covers and we just thought, oh, they're closed.
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: They wouldn't be doing it in plain sight. And I'm like,
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: this is what's so crazy is when your tunnel vision
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: and you're in it, you don't see the red flags,
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: And a lot of people asked me after, like, did
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: you call Ariana or anyone else out for not seeing
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: red flags the way most of them called you out
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: at last year's reunion. Did you talk about how she,
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: you know, hooked up with Sandoval while he was with Kristen?
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: And I said, I didn't even bring that up. No
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: one else did either, because that didn't feel good. Like
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: last year when I was, let's call it like it is,
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: I was victim shamed pretty heavily, but I I'm tough,
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: like I knew that that was coming. But I certainly
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: didn't want to do that to Ariana. Like her heart
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: is hurt, she is most certainly a victim in this.
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: She didn't see the red flags because I get it.
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: You were in it. You were a tunnel vision, and
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: you don't expect the person that you're sleeping next to,
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: who you love and adore, to do that to you,
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: and you most certainly don't expect your best friend to
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: be doing that to you.
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: That's the one thing that I know I've seen talk
• 24:42
  Speaker 2: back and forth about, like, you know, was Raquel. Do
• 24:47
  Speaker 2: you think Tom Sandoval convinced Raquel it's fine? We're I'm
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: in an open relationship, and I've seen talk about that,
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: and I think you have a really good viewpoint on that,
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: which is if you don't mind speaking on that, what
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: are your thoughts? And some people are like, you know,
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: there's rumors Tom Sandoval convinced Raquel this was okay.
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: If Raquel wasn't best friends with Arianna, because I just
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: don't see how you could do that to your best friend,
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: you know, like girls are supposed to that's what you
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: lean in on when the dude does you dirty. So
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: let's say that Raquel was just some girl. She was
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: still Raquel, but she wasn't in the group or whatever,
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: Like I get it. Shit happens. I believe that Sandoval
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: groomed her.
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: You believe that now, or you believe that if she
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: wasn't she wasn't.
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: Best friends with Arianna, I would say, you groomed this girl.
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: But you don't believe that because she's best.
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: It's like you're dirty. You did it to your best friend.
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: You did, so there's no excuse for that. Like Arianna
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: made it very very clear, they're not in an open relationship.
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: If they were, do you really think that they would
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: have kept that a secret.
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and the one person that would have no own
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: that to be true is Raquel because she was best.
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: Friends with her, right, Like, yes, she's dumb as rocks.
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: She's dumb as dumb, like you're gonna see, you're going
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: to see on this reunion, and so many people are saying,
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: why is Raquel taking the brunt and Santaval's not getting
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: much heat. Santoval is getting a lot of heat. And again,
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: if Raquel weren't Arianna's best friend, I would say as well,
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: like hey, like we gotta shift here. The only person
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: that can wreck a home is the person that has
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: the home right. But I can't wrap my mind. I'm
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: thinking of people, women who I'm extremely close to. I
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: cannot imagine banging their man and then like allowing my
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: friend to confide in me about her relationship while while
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: I'm fucking the dude the whole time, Like you guys
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: are gonna see as this season goes on, and I'm
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: trying to like censor myself a bit. So if I'm
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: getting jumbly or not making sense, just keep in mind.
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: It's like my mind is working and actively saying, like
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: reel it in here, Okay, you can share that. No,
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: reel it in here, right, I don't want to get
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: in trouble. I've seen the whole season, and it is
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: your jaw is going to be on the floor. Like
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: even Andy when he arrived, Katie and I saw him
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: as we were coming out of the bathroom and he
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: was like, I cannot believe the season, like he was gobsmacked.
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: Well, he talked about it on his stories, which I
• 27:30
  Speaker 2: was keeping up with, which funny side note, he was like,
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: I was on the plane, I was watching the entire
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: rest of the season of vander Pump and nobody around me.
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: You bet your ass. If I was in coach, if
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: I was in the last seat and I saw Andy
• 27:44
  Speaker 2: get on the flight with that laptop and open it up,
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: I'm have you ever seen Bridesmaids where she like puts
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: the sunglasses on and like disguises herself.
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: Of course that's me.
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: I'm disguising myself to look like a stewardess. I Am
• 27:57
  Speaker 2: just I'm gonna watch the rest of the season. I mean,
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: and I can't even wait. It's hard not to sneak
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: onto your laptop.
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I tried to go back, so now the
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: link expires, so like, once we watch it, it's like you
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: saw it. Now it's going bye bye. So I wanted
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: to watch again last night. We haven't seen the final episode,
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: so anything that we filmed when cameras went back up,
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: I haven't seen that part. I've only seen the finale episode,
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: well what was supposed to be the finale episode. And
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: I said this on Jeff Lewis the other day. Had
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: this not happened, Raquel would have won the whole season. Really,
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: there are moments where you're watching her. Now you watch
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: her and you're like, Wow, you're sick, You're fucking sick.
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: But if you go into a place where you can
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: forget that all of this happened, you would watch that
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: and be like, wow, my heart goes out to her.
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: She is finding herself, she has found her voice. Like
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: really you would you would be very torn, like did
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: she fuck up by kissing Schwartz? Was it dirty? Or
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: like is this just a girl who's like, you know
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: what I'm fucking doing me? Man? Like I've been through
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: a lot of stuff. I've had like a cookie cutter
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: life from the time I was a child, and now
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: I just want to like get out there and be
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: free and not worry about it. This is my group
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: of friends. I like them. I don't fuck with you guys.
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: Sorry if I made it seem like I did fuck
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: with you guys. It's just beyond like. It's hard to
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: even talk about because I don't even know what to say.
• 29:34
  Speaker 2: That being said, do you look back at any of
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: the moments, let's take Scandval out of it. Do you
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: look back at any of the moments with Raquel if
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: Scandival never happened, and think, Eh, I should should I
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: could have EASEDEP or I should have been what like? How?
• 29:47
  Speaker 2: Or are you like absolutely not I should? I was
• 29:49
  Speaker 2: exactly how I should have been. My responses, all of it.
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: So I don't know if this will make it into
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: the reunion. I'm gonna say it now because it's not
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: like that big of a deal. But there was a time,
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: this was years ago, I was still drinking. We were
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: in Vegas with my mom, my dad, a few other people,
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: James and Raquel, and I remember sitting there and this
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: was brought up season at Seven Seasons reunion, where James
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: was obviously heavily drinking and called me the sea word.
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: My dad was so upset he left the table. But
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: when James, after everything had like blown up and James
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: and Raquel left the table, my mom said to me,
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: and this had to have been twenty seventeen, my mom
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: said to me, I do not like that Raquel. I
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: get a bad vibe from her. She moves like a snake.
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: I want you to be careful. And so my mom
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: basically co signed and my mom, I like her word
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: is like gold to me.
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: And your mom also loves everyone.
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: My mom loves everybody, everybody, So when she especially now,
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: when she tells me I don't get a good vibe,
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: I'm like, er, I'm pumping the brakes, you're staying over there.
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: But she said that to me in twenty seventeen, and
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: I just it was almost like she just co signed on,
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: like the way Raquel triggered me so much. I just
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: didn't like her. And everyone was like she's so sweet,
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, no, something is off, Like she's fucking stupid,
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: but she's moving weird, right. I always felt it, So
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: even if this didn't happen, like I still was like,
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: I don't like you that much and I'm really fucking trying.
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: Because we did have a moment of maybe like a
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: week or two where we really were getting along and
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: and bonding over our traumas. And you know, people talk
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: about why I told her about James and I you
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: guys are gonna die at the reunion when she says
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: you're gonna die, Like I literally I look at James
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: and was like, skirt, hold up, she's fucking insane. Oh
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: I can't wait to hear it. But the reason why
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: I told her and you guys don't see this. And
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: I even talk to one of our producers and I
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: just asked him because I love doing vander Pump Rules,
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: and there's things that are a part of my story
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: that are are big that I don't feel always makes
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: it onto camera, which is fine, like our editors do
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: a fantastic job of editing, but I just wanted to know, like,
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: is my sobriety journey like not? Is it not something
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: that you guys are interested in? Do you feel like
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: it's too heavy? Is it boring? Because I feel like
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: I talk about it, but it's usually cut out. It
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: kind of ends with I'm sober, and that just means like, oh,
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: she's she doesn't drink anymore, and it's like, no, there's
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: a lot that goes into it. Yeah, like I'm in
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: a program. It's like, my the not picking up a
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: drink is like just the cherry on top of everything.
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: And I also brought up I was like, because you
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: have to remember, like I do inner, I do interviews
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: and there's a lot of things I say. And then
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: I watched the episode and I'm like, wow, that is
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: definitely different how I pictured it in my mind. And
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: I also said, like, do you guys also like people
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: being on the fence of is she a mistress or
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: was she not a mistress? Because I'm like, I feel
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: like I've been very transparent and it's still when I
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: watch it, it's like, I'm it's like they enjoy it
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: looking like was she or wasn't she? You know, it's
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: like kind of a mind fuck. So I love the
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: way they edit. But because I have control over the podcast,
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: I will say that what didn't make it into these
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: episodes is talking to Raquel. And this was off camera
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: as well as on camera. There were things that I
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: spoke about, you know, with her, off camera, and then
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: it may have come up while filming. But Raquel and
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: I had many conversations, and I remember this one vividly,
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: and this entire scene got cut out. Maybe it just
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: wasn't that interesting, but I was telling her, you know,
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: I replay the way that I've treated you in my
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: mind a lot, and I have to let it go,
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: Like I I want to apologize to you for all
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: of my wrongdoings, and if you choose to take it
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: on like, that's on you. But it's basically step work, okay.
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: And I did this with her off camera as well
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: as on camera, and it never made it in the
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: whole reason why I told her about it, and we've
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: spoken about this before on the podcast, was because of
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: the friendship we were forming. I needed to come clean
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: with her, even though it was uncomfortable. Every single move
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: I make, and even if it doesn't make sense to you,
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: you're not my sponsor. You don't help keep me sober.
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: So like, I don't really give a fuck what you think.
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: You can try to sit here and pull out c situations.
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: And when you acted like this, well you did this
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: when you were sober. I don't give a fuck. Okay,
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: unless you're in the program practicing, you know how difficult
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: it is. Your opinion and your thoughts, shove them up
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: your ass. I don't give a fuck what you think.
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: So those were the moments that Raquel and I had
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: off camera, was like, very much, my sobriety is dependent
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: on me not having to hold on to secrets, especially
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: if we're trying to move forward in a friendship, and
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: I know these certain things. And by the way, she
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: did not care, Jessica, she did not care. Did you
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: talk of? Still brings it up at the reunion and
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: what she says, I was like, somebody give this bitch
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: a Lobotomi, what the fuck is happening?
• 35:48
  Speaker 2: It's what else does she have?
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: What you give someone a lobotomy?
• 35:51
  Speaker 2: Right, someone gives someone a lobotomy?
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: Yes, And by the way, something yeah.
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: And by the way, infidelity is I know we're going back,
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: but just so you guys now the action or state
• 36:01
  Speaker 2: of being unfaithful to a spouse or other sexual partner.
• 36:05
  Speaker 2: So you are using it right, Okay?
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: It says a surgical operation involving involving incision into the
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: prefrontal lobe of the brain. So yes, she's crazy.
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: Well here's my question, did you guys discuss it was
• 36:20
  Speaker 2: the actual first time you told her, which I think
• 36:22
  Speaker 2: it was.
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: It was on camera? Okay, and then we talked about
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: it one hundred and fifty one times since that moment
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: where it was no big deal, La, La, I appreciate it,
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: and I'm so proud of your sobriety, and you know what,
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: I'm so grateful that you told me. It was like
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: somebody after Vegas, Somebody give this bitch seventeen caravans for
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: all her personalities. That's the only way we're getting her
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: back to La all Right, she's a lot of different
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: people in compacted into one tiny SpongeBob SquarePants looking bitch,
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: like for real, enough is enough.
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: Nuts, Funge Mob, don't be, don't break Funge Mob. Do
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: you think she's always been this way or do you
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: think she grew this way? Like ever since she came
• 37:11
  Speaker 2: onto the scene, which was season four, right.
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: I think she has a lot of self hate.
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: Do you think it grew that way because of like
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: La and like seeing yourself talked about. As soon as
• 37:21
  Speaker 2: you're on a reality show, you're you're consuming all of
• 37:24
  Speaker 2: this hatred about you. No matter what, you're gonna get hate.
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: Do you think she grew into that person or do
• 37:30
  Speaker 2: you think it's kind of always been there?
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: No, I think it's someone who craves other people's validation
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: and it comes in the form of men. And you're
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: gonna see throughout this season we've had these conversations. I
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: pinned this girl. I knew it. And someone like Raquel
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: should never do reality TV. I mean as for her
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: own like mental wellbeing. You gotta step into reality TV,
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: and yes you're gonna have insecurities, but you better know
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: how to put up the wall and get real unaffected
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: very quickly. It'll eat you alive. Like if if I
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: allowed myself to let the outside world know like Lauren
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: from Utah, I would be in the fetal position, never
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: to return again. There's no fucking way, really, no way,
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: because even when I'm out like being vulnerable and like
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: a normal being normal and not you know, with my
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: shield on in my armor, I'm still very very guarded.
• 38:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I love Lauren from Utah, That's my girl. I
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: love Lala Kent too, though I love them both.
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: I love them both too because they're both who I am.
• 38:42
  Speaker 2: But no, that I mean, that's a great point. I mean,
• 38:46
  Speaker 2: you never really do. Did you ever feel like you
• 38:48
  Speaker 2: got close, close close with her?
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: No? And thank god, look at what she does to
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: people who are close to her. I'm so glad I
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: was fucking vicious to her for so long because look
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: at what you do to the people you care about. Man,
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: you ain't getting close to me. I'm gonna let you
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: know you're dumb. I'm gonna let you know use a
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: stupid bitch. I'm gonna let you know all this, say
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: the fuck away from me. Yeah. I never.
• 39:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah, even like when she came and did the bambe
• 39:14
  Speaker 2: eyed bitch photo shoot and then, oh my god, I
• 39:16
  Speaker 2: was talking about this to Kyle the other day when
• 39:18
  Speaker 2: she came to Ocean's first birthday Brittany and Jackson's mind.
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: You she was not invited. She was not invited.
• 39:25
  Speaker 2: She just came and like posted in front of all
• 39:27
  Speaker 2: the things and posted for it. Hilarious. But I had never, like,
• 39:32
  Speaker 2: you know, her working with you or anything we ever
• 39:34
  Speaker 2: scheduled with her and you.
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: I was never.
• 39:36
  Speaker 2: She just didn't really talk to me, and that's fine.
• 39:39
  Speaker 2: But she it was after the reunion, so it was
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: after her and James broke off their engagement, and I
• 39:45
  Speaker 2: remember she walked Kyle was like standing in the corner
• 39:48
  Speaker 2: by himself at a table, and she walked up to
• 39:50
  Speaker 2: him and just started talking talking to him like, and
• 39:53
  Speaker 2: I was like, damn, this girl never talks to me
• 39:56
  Speaker 2: and she's talking his ear off.
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: And I walked up him and I was like, how
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: is that?
• 40:01
  Speaker 2: And he's like, she is a really nice girl.
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: And I'm like what wow. I have been around her
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: like four times.
• 40:07
  Speaker 2: She's never talked to me and she just times your
• 40:09
  Speaker 2: ear off. And he was like, she is so nice.
• 40:11
  Speaker 2: And now he's like, oh god, oh man. She seemed
• 40:14
  Speaker 2: like an angel, but obviously not.
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: You know what, it all solidifies though, huh, because I
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: you're you watch and like you got Sandoval who's like,
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: she's so nice and like co signing on her super hard.
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: Granted they were fucking the whole time. Then you got
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: Schwartz who's like, she's so deep and she's like really,
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: like so cool. I like her, and it's like, oh,
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: men really do like stupid chicks. They really love it.
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: You got a voice, you become terrifying to a man.
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: She's emotional, she's a bitch. No, you just don't like
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: the fact that I see you for who you are?
• 40:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 40:54
  Speaker 2: Or does she also she may open up two men
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: like you just said a few minutes ago. She's seeks
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: validation from men. So maybe she does. She gets around
• 41:03
  Speaker 2: a man and she opens up and she has a
• 41:05
  Speaker 2: and look, that's a good quality to open up, but
• 41:08
  Speaker 2: not if you're going to use it too.
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: But I also have like when some when a girl
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: says to me, like, I'm a guy's girl, like I
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: I bond with the boys. I'm like red flag, red
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: flag everywhere. How do you not bond with a chick
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: and you're a chick? Yeah, something that's a red flag?
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: Julia Fox. She said, if you're a woman and all
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: the men around you like you and get along with you,
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: something's wrong with you. Oh I like that, and I agree.
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: I fully agree.
• 41:38
  Speaker 2: Oh that's a great point.
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: Yes, Wow, it breaks me out, it really does. Let's
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: talk about last week's episode just and I know everyone's
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: kind of Oh, by the way, I wanted to talk
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: about this real quick because we were playing Cards against
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: Humanity in Palm Spring, Okay, and Jamie, our amazing vegan
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: Jamie Lynn, who's best friends with Shena, could not stand
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: the game and she was like, I would I just
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: want to ask, like, let's do one one round of
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: fuck Mary kill and her fuck Mary Kill? She said,
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: she saw it on Instagram. Was Trader Joe's, Costco or Target?
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: I need to know now what you chose, okay, and
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: why I chose to because someone's got to go. I
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: gotta kill somebody, so I guess I'll kill Trader Joe's,
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: even though I love their cookie butter cookies. I would
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: marry Costco because Costco she wife material Target. I'm fucking
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: because that's like the mistress, Like I'm going to Target,
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: going to Target, and I'm making a hole.
• 42:52
  Speaker 2: I could play that game for hours with things like that,
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: with like stores or like food or like brands, like
• 42:58
  Speaker 2: I could do.
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: Way more fun. By the way you put me in
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: best Buy or Target for twenty four hours, I'm blowing
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: through all my money. You are, oh, blowing through all
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: my money? Best Why? Yeah, I had to go to
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: best Buy in Palm Springs to get TVs for the bedrooms.
• 43:14
  Speaker 2: Okay, but I read online that you bought the house furnished.
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: I did. I bought it furnished, but for some reason,
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: they didn't have any TVs. And by the way, the
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: people I bought it from, this was their fourth home.
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: Oh my, so they were rarely there. It was an
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: excellent condition I mean fantastic condition. I was shocked not
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: a mark on the wall.
• 43:34
  Speaker 3: I love it.
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: But they only had a TV in the front room,
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: which I guess is normal. Most people that you talk
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: to who are like super healthy and get rum sleep
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: every single night, they never have they never have TVs
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: in their bedrooms. But that don't work for me, like,
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: I gotta have Seinfeld before I go to bed. They
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: did leave me all of their books, and I had
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: a Heyday.
• 43:56
  Speaker 2: Books, yes, like fiction, nonfiction.
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: What are we talking about? A lot of murder mysteries fiction,
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: a lot of New York Times bestsellers. Amazing. Stosse's was
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: not a part of this collection, which was kind of
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: a bummer, But that's okay. So before I got the
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: TV's in, which I left on Monday, they hung a Monday,
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: so I didn't even get to enjoy it. But I
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: did get them all set up so when I go
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: back this weekend, I can click it on watch my Steinfeld.
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: But yeah, you put me in either of those doors,
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: blowing through all the cash in the world, mine, yours,
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: your mom's done?
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: Did Brock hang your TVs?
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: No?
• 44:32
  Speaker 2: Oh, okay.
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: I hired a handyman. He was so sweet loved him.
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: I know, I know. By the way, Best Buy geek
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: Squad wanted to charge seven hundred dollars to hang the TVs.
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: No geek Squad.
• 44:43
  Speaker 2: I'm a big task rabbit gal.
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: I think that rabbit.
• 44:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah that I sent your mom that website to use
• 44:48
  Speaker 2: in Palm Springs. I don't know if they have people
• 44:50
  Speaker 2: out there, but can.
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: I tell you what. The neighbor came over and brought
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: me a candle and was like, I wanted to welcome
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: you to the neighborhood. I was like, come again, that
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: guy's been a Yeah, I've been in I've been in
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: LA for ten years. Not once has anyone come over
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: to like welcome me anywhere in Utah. All the time,
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: I just have to go with my mom, like the
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: neighbors moved in, We're gonna take them this, that and
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: the other. And I'm like a castle, a castlele fucking
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: castle role right. So God. Also, Leo's the funniest person
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: in the fucking world. The Gusbands, The Gusbands give me life.
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: They came with me this week and they're just so easy,
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: Like you say, I come to Palm Springs. By the way,
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: we're gonna be running errands whole time. They're like, great, fabulous,
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: lets do it. Yeah, it's great, amazing, They're just like
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: five star. I know, I love my gaze more than
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: anything in the world. But we were playing this game,
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: the Flip game with the heads up or whatever, and
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: we were talking about lime Wire, and if anyone remembered
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: limewirey do you remember yes? And Leo was like, oh,
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: there was a time where my dad was like trying
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: to get on his computer and you know, LimeWire fucks
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: every computer up. And my dad was like, why is
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: the internet so slow? Why is the dial tone ting forever?
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: And he was like I was sitting there going between
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: the gay porn and lime Wire, like you're fucked.
• 46:12
  Speaker 2: Wait that was Leo here, love Leo.
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: He's so funny. I hope he doesn't get mad at
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: me for saying that, but it was just hysterical. I
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: fucking love that.
• 46:19
  Speaker 2: Oh that's so fun. LimeWire was the shit all of
• 46:22
  Speaker 2: my But do you remember some of your songs? Like
• 46:24
  Speaker 2: most of my songs had like like dre beats, dot
• 46:28
  Speaker 2: com as never.
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: Said they did, they all did. But there's so many
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: songs that I had on my like old school iPod
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: that I still remember that.
• 46:35
  Speaker 2: I can't get on an iTunes.
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: On iTunes weird like songs that people probably like mashed
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: together and said put it on LimeWire and I just
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: happened to find it SoundCloud or Spotify had but like
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: if you put your headphones in, it only played through
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: one headphone, you know, or it was like one lyric
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: was on here and then like the chorus was in
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: the other.
• 46:56
  Speaker 2: It's like, that's so funny. Speaking of remixes, that guy
• 47:00
  Speaker 2: who remixed send it to Darryl?
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: Are you kidding? Send it to Darryl Boom?
• 47:05
  Speaker 2: It was epic, so good what was it, Zach Zach
• 47:09
  Speaker 2: something music?
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: I don't know. It was so good five star and
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: shout out to my send it to Darryl hoodies because
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: I I took I did the twenty percent down on
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: my house, which I made back already with the freaking sweatshirt.
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: So I want to say thank you all to or
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: for ordering the Senate to Daryl Hoodies. Also, the La
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: Times did an article on Darryl because of Send It
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: to Darryl. Darryl that came out on Thursday, like the
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: morning of the reunion. Darryl's the shit. Daryl's the shit.
• 47:41
  Speaker 2: You You've got a badass team. Darryl's incredible.
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: I feel very protected, very happy. I feel after. I
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: have an interview tomorrow for vander Pump, But for me,
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: it's like seasons over time to hibernate until we god
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: willing get another season.
• 47:59
  Speaker 2: I feel good about that other season.
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: Well, it's crazy to think that everyone else, like you guys,
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: my friends, are only going to see episode eight tonight,
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: and I feel like I've lived a million lifetimes since
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: episode seven.
• 48:14
  Speaker 2: The fact that the reunion is not going to air
• 48:17
  Speaker 2: for what seven weeks?
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: Eight weeks? Oh no, we're so episode it's seven. I
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: believe we have fourteen episodes, maybe fifteen plus the reunion.
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: I mean, we got a minute, we got a minute.
• 48:28
  Speaker 2: Woh, we'll be a live in a different life by then.
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we'll be beheading each other for a whole
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: new set of things. Oh my god, by the time
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: we hopefully pitt cameras up again. I'm kind of remembering
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: what last week's episode was. I know Raquel called me
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: a mistress bimbo last week. Correct she shared it in
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: her six inch heels and wet seal, looking fucking bikini
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: and her precision eyeliner in the one hundred and nine
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: degree heat in Valley Village. I was like, what are
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: you doing. I'm the Mistress binbo in my neon flats
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: and a linen jumper. Come again, I know. And then
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: her standing there creeping into the car. I was like,
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: I'm done by what the fuck breathing over your shoulder?
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: I was like, what is she doing? If you guys
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: want to sit there and be like like Chihuahua followers,
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: what the fuck are you talking about? Get away from us?
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: You're stupid. Like all of her comebacks, I'm like, why
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: do you even try? And then her interview standing up
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: to Lalakhan, I was like, that's standing up to someone. Oh,
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: I know. So I hope that you guys enjoyed this episode.
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: I feel like, literally I blacked out during this episode.
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: Two This did I make any sense?
• 49:50
  Speaker 2: This podcast episode?
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: This podcast episode fantastic.
• 49:53
  Speaker 2: It was fantastic my mind, Like, I don't even know
• 49:56
  Speaker 2: you made all a sense of the world.
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: I don't even know how I'm gonna do Amazon Live
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: like not short circuit.
• 50:01
  Speaker 3: Oh my Amazon Alive.
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: I know you'll be great. You'll be great anyway, y'all.
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: I hope that you enjoy tonight's episode. I'm super excited.
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna go watch it at Sheena's house. We're gonna
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: have like a little get together play with the babes.
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: I love you all. Thanks you for listening to another
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: episode of the Give Them While a Podcast, Thank you
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: for dealing with my brain fog, and I will catch
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: you next week.