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Ep 2: The Secret to Manifesting and Why You May Be Stuck · Making Miracles Happen Masterclass

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  SPEAKER_00: We've been having a little bit of technical difficulties getting her testing one, two, three.
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  SPEAKER_03: There you are.
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  SPEAKER_03: Listen, I my camera, you know, I was we y'all was looking at me earlier, so you saw me.
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  SPEAKER_03: And then I was like, okay, so I gotta get on another computer because the camera's not working anymore magically.
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  SPEAKER_03: And then I set up my mic, and you can't my mic doesn't work either.
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  SPEAKER_03: So I I don't know.
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  SPEAKER_00: Well, even even though we we can't see you, I'm still gonna, I'm still gonna pin you.
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  SPEAKER_03: That works.
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  SPEAKER_03: That works.
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  SPEAKER_00: So we'll just let your energy come through the screen.
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  SPEAKER_03: Lord have mercy.
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  SPEAKER_03: I'm here, y'all.
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  SPEAKER_03: That's all I gotta say.
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  SPEAKER_03: Magic happens.
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  SPEAKER_03: Maybe not the way we want, but magic happens.
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  SPEAKER_00: Yes.
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  SPEAKER_00: So Adrian, I am gonna let you explain to the people what it is that you do.
• 1:02
  SPEAKER_03: Well, before I get into that, I'd like to ask everybody why they're here.
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  SPEAKER_03: So if you can write in the chat, what is it that you want to know?
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  SPEAKER_03: Why are you here to grow?
• 1:09
  SPEAKER_03: What made you sign up?
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  SPEAKER_03: I would like to know that so that we can move on to that as soon as I'm done.
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  SPEAKER_03: So my name is Adrian Blackwell, and I was a celebrity psychic medium.
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  SPEAKER_03: And uh my guides used to tell me, No, you're a healer, you're a healer, you're a healer.
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  SPEAKER_03: And I didn't believe it.
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  SPEAKER_03: I truly didn't believe it until I actually started doing healing work and was changing people's lives.
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  SPEAKER_03: And the reason I asked why people why they're here is because that is what I do in essence.
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  SPEAKER_03: As a psychic, I used to ask people, you know, what question do you have about your future?
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  SPEAKER_03: What would you like to know?
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  SPEAKER_03: Now I get to ask people, what do you want to create in your future and let's make it happen?
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  SPEAKER_03: So I help people shift their energy so that they create the life they want, truly want.
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  SPEAKER_00: Yes.
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  SPEAKER_00: And we're gonna give a little bit of a backstory because Adrian and I go way back, way back to I think I think we said it was 2004, if I'm not mistaken.
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  SPEAKER_03: Um, between 2004 and 2006, I was trying to calculate, and I think it was the year 2006 that you first went to Burning Man.
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  SPEAKER_03: So that's about 18 years.
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  SPEAKER_03: Yes.
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  SPEAKER_00: So Adrian and I met at a festival called Burning Man.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if you don't know what Burning Man is, it's a it's a festival in the desert.
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  SPEAKER_00: And and we won't get too much into the story because we only have so much time and and I really want to give the opportunity for people to ask questions.
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  SPEAKER_00: But the the reason that that's important is because Adrian planted a seed when I met her, and she wasn't even aware at the time.
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  SPEAKER_00: And we didn't know fast forward to 2023 that we were we were gonna be in the place that we are now, and and so Adrian, you have done so many things and been so instrumental in my life, and and I think it's really important because our relationship, we're talking about relationships, our relationship has has helped me in so many ways.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I just really want to give you the stage to to share with the people.
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  SPEAKER_00: What what about our relationship have have you had lessons with and and how does that tie into to what you do?
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  SPEAKER_03: Um that's a really interesting question.
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  SPEAKER_03: I'm putting you on the spot.
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  SPEAKER_03: I wasn't expecting that one.
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  SPEAKER_03: I actually had something come up right away.
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  SPEAKER_03: I'm just like, damn, she just took it there, didn't she?
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  SPEAKER_03: Okay, that's how we're gonna start this thing.
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  SPEAKER_03: All right.
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  SPEAKER_03: So, what about your relationship?
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  SPEAKER_03: Okay, so our relationship, what one of the things that really stands out to me is when my guides were talking to me and they said, You need to you need to message Lisa.
• 3:54
  SPEAKER_03: We were talking on Facebook, you need to message Lisa and tell her about your master manifestor course.
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  SPEAKER_03: And I they they literally said to me, She's not going to do it right now.
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  SPEAKER_03: And it was like they were just trying to warn me that she's not gonna do it right now, she's gonna do it later, but you need to let her know about it.
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  SPEAKER_03: So I wrote you and I let you know about it.
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  SPEAKER_03: And there was this resistance that I never really see with you that had come up.
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  SPEAKER_03: And so I'm like, what is this resistance?
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  SPEAKER_03: Like, I was kind of angry at my guide, like, why would you tell me to tell her about something she does not want?
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  SPEAKER_03: And they were like, She's going to do it one day.
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  SPEAKER_03: You just have to let her know about it, right?
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  SPEAKER_03: And so I remember just feeling into this for a while.
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  SPEAKER_03: So fast forward, I think it was three years later.
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  SPEAKER_03: I like no joke, it was like three years, and you were like, you know, I was gonna sign up for this healer's course.
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  SPEAKER_03: And I was like, if Adrian was doing a course, I'd rather do it with her.
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  SPEAKER_03: I'm just gonna sit on this and I'm gonna wait before I take this course.
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  SPEAKER_03: And I remember when we were on the phone talking that week, you said, I normally sign up for things right away, and I waited.
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  SPEAKER_03: And she said, and then you sent an email out saying that you were gonna teach this course.
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  SPEAKER_03: So I give away my master manifestor course as a part of my healing course, and so she took it.
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  SPEAKER_03: She ended up taking it.
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  SPEAKER_03: It was three years later, but she took it, and it was in such divine timing because she was writing me every single week that another miracle was happening, another thing was happening.
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  SPEAKER_03: Oh my god, this course is bringing me something else.
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  SPEAKER_03: Guess what else?
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  SPEAKER_03: It was literally every week I saw all this stuff unfold, and it was in that moment I was talking to my guides, and I go, I get it.
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  SPEAKER_03: I get it.
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  SPEAKER_03: I get why I need to know three years in advance.
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  SPEAKER_03: I get why I need to tell her about it.
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  SPEAKER_03: I I got it because we were making a connection for the future.
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  SPEAKER_03: And that is the beautiful thing about everything that we we connect to and that we create.
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  SPEAKER_03: Because I was I was hearing Jane Nicole earlier, and she was like, Okay, so you believe you want to be a millionaire, right?
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  SPEAKER_03: You think you believe you want to be a millionaire?
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  SPEAKER_03: Now we can put that, we can label that anything.
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  SPEAKER_03: You think you want to be in a relationship, you know, you think you want to be a millionaire, you think you want to be all of these things.
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  SPEAKER_03: And sometimes, yes, we do have the belief, but is the timing right?
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  SPEAKER_03: What are you gonna do with that money when you get it?
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  SPEAKER_03: You know, are you gonna be broker in two years than you were when you first started?
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  SPEAKER_03: Do you know how to manage that money?
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  SPEAKER_03: Have you learned how to manage your mind so you can have that faith?
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  SPEAKER_03: Do you know how to have a healthy relationship?
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  SPEAKER_03: So these things all come into play when we talk about the universe and we talk about manifesting and divine timing is so perfect because there's lessons that we have to learn.
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  SPEAKER_03: I can't imagine, and I talk about this a lot.
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  SPEAKER_03: I can't imagine taking a five-year-old and saying, we're gonna put you into college.
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  SPEAKER_03: Could you imagine that right now?
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  SPEAKER_03: You would think that I was crazy.
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  SPEAKER_03: If you told me that, I would tell you you're crazy because it doesn't make any sense.
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  SPEAKER_03: We have to learn, we have to work our way up to that kind of knowledge.
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  SPEAKER_03: But yet, most of us don't understand that we don't have that knowledge and we there's something we still need, or something we still need to learn, and that's what divine timing is.
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  SPEAKER_03: It's allowing us to move at our own pace.
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  SPEAKER_03: And so, what I had to learn with you is that everything doesn't have to happen right now.
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  SPEAKER_03: We have to learn at our own pace, right?
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  SPEAKER_03: So when you were like, Okay, so she told me about this, this course, great, whatever.
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  SPEAKER_03: When you were ready, you were like, I want to take a healer's course, but I'm going to be patient and let me really think about this.
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  SPEAKER_03: And then the right course came along for you now, which is why we're actually right here on this webinar, this this challenge here today.
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  SPEAKER_03: Absolutely.
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  SPEAKER_03: That was a huge lesson for me.
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  SPEAKER_03: It was really about being patient and let everybody move at their own pace.
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  SPEAKER_00: And and I'm gonna add another layer into that because there is something that we'll be talking about in in a couple of days of about how we attach in in relationships.
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  SPEAKER_00: And Adrian just talked about how our relationship grew and and how it had different iterations at different times and that divine timing.
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  SPEAKER_00: One of the things that Adrian taught me was who I am in relationship.
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  SPEAKER_00: Adrian, do you remember that?
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  SPEAKER_00: No.
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  SPEAKER_00: So what I'm I'm about to share with with you and with the people something that's very important, a piece of of advice that you told me that is still in my head.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm ready.
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  SPEAKER_00: And and and that, and that is you said, Lisa, it's obvious.
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  SPEAKER_00: You said it's obvious.
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  SPEAKER_00: You're avoidant.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I was like, what are you talking about?
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  SPEAKER_00: And that seed that you planted when I was trying to figure out what was holding me back from the relationships that I wanted to have, those deeply connected relationships, that seed that you planted of it's obvious you're avoidant, literally sent me on the next iteration of my own journey.
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  SPEAKER_03: You never know what somebody's gonna say that's gonna do it, right?
• 9:02
  SPEAKER_03: I because I remember after that we had these conversations about how the reason we both allowed ourselves to be in the type of relationships that we're in now is because we keep our tennis shoes by the bed in case we need to run.
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  SPEAKER_03: And as long as long as we have our tennis shoes there, we feel safe.
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  SPEAKER_03: You take away our tennis shoes, we want out of the relationship, period.
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  SPEAKER_03: But as long as we have our shoes and we can run away at any time as our safety net, we're like, you know, we can chill here a little bit longer, we can have deeper communication and conversations, we can see if we can work out this problem, and everything gets more intimate and gets deeper because we have the tennis shoes by our bed.
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  SPEAKER_03: That's the avoidant.
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  SPEAKER_03: Those are the people I work with, by the way.
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  SPEAKER_03: I love working with avoided people because I'm like, you are my homies, like I know me, I know you.
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  SPEAKER_03: So that's why it was so obvious.
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  SPEAKER_03: It's like, how do you not know that?
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  SPEAKER_03: Like, we feel more comfortable knowing that we can leave at any moment than staying.
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  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so if you had to give one piece of advice, you know, just like you gave that little tidbit to me that planted the seed, if you could plant a seed for the people that are watching, what would that seed be?
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  SPEAKER_03: Get really clear on what the hell you want.
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  SPEAKER_03: There's no way, like I ask people, what why are you here?
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  SPEAKER_03: You know, and and some of the answers, like one of somebody said something about relationships that I thought was really awesome.
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  SPEAKER_03: So let me let me go back here.
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  SPEAKER_03: I'm here to improve my relationships and become more securely attached so I can be more consistent in my relationship.
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  SPEAKER_03: That is very specific.
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  SPEAKER_03: This is a person who's gonna get exactly what they want because they know what they want, they know the outcome that they want.
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  SPEAKER_03: People will give me some of the, and I'm sorry to say this, but I'm gonna be honest.
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  SPEAKER_03: Some of the crappiest answers, you know.
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  SPEAKER_03: I you know, I just I want to feel better.
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  SPEAKER_03: Well, what is feel better gonna get you?
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  SPEAKER_03: Because I'm gonna tell you like this.
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  SPEAKER_03: I'm gonna explain to you the human condition.
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  SPEAKER_03: The human condition says, I do not want to change unless there is a reward on the other end of that thing.
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  SPEAKER_03: Yes, I might feel better, but what am I gonna gain from feeling better?
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  SPEAKER_03: For real, like I know this sounds crazy, but this is the way our brain works.
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  SPEAKER_03: What am I gonna get from doing like, you know, work on myself?
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  SPEAKER_03: I've had people, I had people, because you remember as a psychic, you know, most people come to you for love.
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  SPEAKER_03: And so I had all these people coming to me for love, and I was like, listen, if you do this work, I don't see it working out with the relationship that you want, but I see you being happy in a relationship, and it's gonna be better than anything you've ever experienced.
• 11:36
  SPEAKER_03: Well, but I want this person though.
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  SPEAKER_03: This this is the person that I want.
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  SPEAKER_03: So you rather have this person than be happy, yes, was the answer that I got.
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  SPEAKER_03: So, guess what you're gonna get?
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  SPEAKER_03: You're gonna get this relationship and you're gonna be miserable, or you're gonna get the next relationship, you're gonna be miserable because you don't have priorities.
• 11:51
  SPEAKER_03: You don't know what you want me in.
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  SPEAKER_03: You have to know what the end result is, and it can't be airy, fairy, or flighty.
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  SPEAKER_03: It has to be so exact that it's a reward.
• 12:04
  SPEAKER_03: It's like if you were gonna enter sweepstakes and they said if you enter a thousand times, you're guaranteed a win.
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  SPEAKER_03: Would you give some crappy answer as to what you want the end?
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  SPEAKER_03: Like, I'm gonna enter a thousand times, just just just so I feel good for a little while.
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  SPEAKER_03: Just I don't know, like nothing specific, just you know, maybe feel a little bit better.
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  SPEAKER_03: So you really you don't want the relationship, you don't want the house, you don't want the you don't want anything out of this, you just want to feel better for a little while.
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  SPEAKER_03: Okay, so that's what you're gonna get.
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  SPEAKER_03: You're gonna get feel better for a little while.
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  SPEAKER_03: Well, see, there's an ebb and flow in life, and the ebb and flow says you can't feel good all the time because we have to grow, and sometimes the grow means that we have to go through pain, right?
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  SPEAKER_03: There's growing pains, it's we have challenges.
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  SPEAKER_03: You like taking a test, you know, like taking a test is a challenge.
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  SPEAKER_03: You're like, oh my god, I'm gonna pass the test.
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  SPEAKER_03: Did I study enough?
• 12:55
  SPEAKER_03: Right.
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  SPEAKER_03: So you have the worry challenge, you have the physical challenges, you have the relationship challenges, all these different types of challenges you're experiencing.
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  SPEAKER_03: So it's not gonna feel great all the time.
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  SPEAKER_03: That's just life.
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  SPEAKER_03: So you're literally asking, and you're asking just to feel better, it's better for a little bit of time.
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  SPEAKER_03: Because you have to go through the ebb and flow of life.
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  SPEAKER_03: Now, if your your end result is I truly want to be happy from the inside out.
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  SPEAKER_03: Whatever I manifest, I want it to come from a place of happiness, my relationships happy.
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  SPEAKER_03: You know, how I manifest my next house, happy, how I manifest my money, I want to be happy.
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  SPEAKER_03: I want to be happy from the inside out and manifest through that.
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  SPEAKER_03: You know what you're gonna experience, even in the down times, it's gonna take you so much to truly get you down because you're resonating on a frequency of happiness.
• 13:44
  SPEAKER_03: It takes a lot to get somebody down when they're happy.
• 13:47
  SPEAKER_03: So you can go through a challenge and still be happy.
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  SPEAKER_03: You're going through the challenge.
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  SPEAKER_03: Thank you for giving me this challenge.
• 13:53
  SPEAKER_03: Thank you so much.
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  SPEAKER_03: Like that's like the first thing that will come up in your mind when you go through a challenge.
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  SPEAKER_03: It's like, thank you for giving me this challenge.
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  SPEAKER_03: What am I supposed to learn from this?
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  SPEAKER_03: And you find the answers and the solutions fairly quickly when you come from that place.
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  SPEAKER_03: So happiness is actually a really good one, but not some outside force creating that happiness.
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  SPEAKER_03: It has to be the happiness from the inside, not happiness from the outside.
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  SPEAKER_03: And then you still have to think about well, when you're happy, what are you what does the end result look like?
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  SPEAKER_03: So you still have to get specific because when you're happy, you're manifesting, you're in the middle of manifesting something really, really, really, really good.
• 14:28
  SPEAKER_03: Don't you want to be in control of what you're manifesting?
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  SPEAKER_03: Or do you just want to let the universe randomize it?
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  SPEAKER_03: Let's just put the random button and see what comes.
• 14:39
  SPEAKER_03: Now, there might be more challenges in that randomization.
• 14:43
  SPEAKER_03: There might be a lot of fears that come up, you know, things that you haven't cleared yet might just be right in your face, and you're like, okay, thank you.
• 14:50
  SPEAKER_02: Okay, we're saying we got a nice fast.
• 14:53
  SPEAKER_03: Or you can be really specific and say, I want to be healed so I can experience this type of relationship.
• 15:00
  SPEAKER_03: And you get specific on what type of relationship that you want.
• 15:04
  SPEAKER_00: Adrian, I want to say something here because this is Adrian and Jay Nicole were not at the morning session.
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  SPEAKER_00: But guess what?
• 15:17
  SPEAKER_00: All three of us have talked about one united theme, and that is clarity.
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  SPEAKER_00: Clarity in what you desire.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's the first step.
• 15:29
  SPEAKER_00: That makes sense.
• 15:29
  SPEAKER_00: We all we all know what we're talking about.
• 15:31
  SPEAKER_00: There you go.
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  SPEAKER_00: Proof.
• 15:35
  SPEAKER_03: I swear I didn't tell them.
• 15:37
  SPEAKER_03: I didn't tell them.
• 15:41
  SPEAKER_03: Clarity is everything.
• 15:42
  SPEAKER_03: Like when whenever I work with somebody, it's so funny because you know, I I I tell my clients, I tell people that I work with, I tell them in my webinars, I'm telling it to you guys, you know, we can have it all.
• 15:52
  SPEAKER_03: We really can have happiness in every area of our life.
• 15:54
  SPEAKER_03: And to think that we have to give up love for money or money for love, and and us avoidance, we always think we have to make a choice.
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  SPEAKER_03: We really do.
• 16:03
  SPEAKER_03: We really think it's like it's either it's either this or that.
• 16:06
  SPEAKER_03: It's either, and it's it's kind of like saying, Well, which hand would you rather have the right or the left?
• 16:11
  SPEAKER_03: It's like, oh, that doesn't make any sense.
• 16:13
  SPEAKER_03: I'd like to have both, right?
• 16:15
  SPEAKER_03: So when you think about it, you can truly have it all.
• 16:19
  SPEAKER_03: So I get my clients on the phone and I'll say, So what's the one thing that we're working on?
• 16:22
  SPEAKER_03: She goes, you know, but I want it all.
• 16:25
  SPEAKER_03: Everywhere I work with women mostly.
• 16:27
  SPEAKER_03: So it's like every woman will always be like, Adrian, you said I could have it all, but what's the number one thing you want right now?
• 16:33
  SPEAKER_03: If you could fix one thing in your life right now, what would it be?
• 16:36
  SPEAKER_03: What's that number one thing?
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  SPEAKER_03: But but Adrian, I want it all.
• 16:40
  SPEAKER_03: And I'm gonna explain to you how I explain to my clients there is a passion burning in you for something, and if you haven't tapped into it, you're lying to yourself.
• 16:50
  SPEAKER_03: And so I'm telling you, the first thing you need to work on is discovering who you are inside so that you can get to the passion of what you want.
• 16:58
  SPEAKER_03: But there's one thing you want to create, and there's one thing you want to fix in your life right now that's more burning than anything else.
• 17:04
  SPEAKER_03: You you can taste it.
• 17:06
  SPEAKER_03: Sometimes you hate it, sometimes it makes you angry, sometimes it makes you excited, but there is a passion in you.
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  SPEAKER_03: I don't care what emotion is feeding it, but there is a passion in you.
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  SPEAKER_03: And that passion is going to change everything in your life.
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  SPEAKER_03: So if your passion is you hate the way you look, or your passion is I want to be in a beautiful relationship, I don't care what the passion is, I need to tap into that number one passion because when we start healing that, it's almost like healing the root of a tree.
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  SPEAKER_03: The branches change, the leaves change, the fruit changes by clearing that one thing or bringing in that one thing.
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  SPEAKER_03: But it comes from that burning passion.
• 17:49
  SPEAKER_03: And so many of us are looking for the thing that makes us happy and joyful.
• 17:53
  SPEAKER_03: And oh, yeah, I want to have this relationship.
• 17:55
  SPEAKER_03: But a lot of times, even stronger than that relationship is something that you hate about yourself.
• 18:02
  SPEAKER_03: And alchemy is about let's tap into that hate.
• 18:04
  SPEAKER_03: Okay, this is good.
• 18:05
  SPEAKER_03: All right, this is an emotion.
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  SPEAKER_03: Emotions aren't bad, they just tell us where we are, how we feel.
• 18:10
  SPEAKER_03: That's it.
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  SPEAKER_03: So if we can tap into that hate and we can transmute that into a powerful energy that manifests for you in a positive way, we can do that.
• 18:20
  SPEAKER_03: But you have to know that that is where your passion is stemming from.
• 18:24
  SPEAKER_03: I hate my situation so much, Adrian, that I want to change it into something else.
• 18:29
  SPEAKER_03: Well, let's tap into the hate then, let's tap into that passion and discover where that's coming from and then transmute it into something different.
• 18:36
  SPEAKER_03: So you can have the relationships that you want in the way that you want them.
• 18:43
  SPEAKER_03: But you have to know, you have to have the clarity to know what you want first, how you're feeling first.
• 18:50
  SPEAKER_03: And a lot of us really don't know that for the simple fact that if it's a negative emotion, we don't realize the impact that it's making.
• 18:57
  SPEAKER_03: We're looking for the positive thing.
• 18:58
  SPEAKER_03: But if you're in, if you're really feeling the hate, anger, the frustration, all of that, you may not know what you want the result to be at the end, right?
• 19:07
  SPEAKER_03: It's the opposite of how you're feeling, that's for sure.
• 19:10
  SPEAKER_03: That's clarity.
• 19:11
  SPEAKER_03: So that's the thing that you want, is the opposite of what you're feeling.
• 19:14
  SPEAKER_03: But we have to tap into that level of passion.
• 19:17
  SPEAKER_03: And so that really means getting to know yourself and not trying to be positive.
• 19:20
  SPEAKER_03: I don't do the whole positive thinking thing because we have to get to the root of what is causing this pain.
• 19:27
  SPEAKER_03: And when it does, you naturally think positive.
• 19:29
  SPEAKER_03: You don't have to force yourself to think positive.
• 19:32
  SPEAKER_03: I'm not, I'm not about force.
• 19:34
  SPEAKER_03: I don't do affirmations.
• 19:35
  SPEAKER_03: I do not believe in affirmations anymore.
• 19:37
  SPEAKER_03: And back in the day when it was the only thing I had, I used affirmations to change my life.
• 19:41
  SPEAKER_03: But I will tell you right now, affirmations will make your life worse before they make them better.
• 19:46
  SPEAKER_03: And I say, can we bypass that, please?
• 19:48
  SPEAKER_03: Can we bypass the pain?
• 19:49
  SPEAKER_03: I have a faster way of doing it.
• 19:51
  SPEAKER_03: Let's do it quicker.
• 19:53
  SPEAKER_03: When you naturally start thinking positive thoughts, you don't have to force an affirmation.
• 19:58
  SPEAKER_03: You don't have to force a positive thought.
• 19:59
  SPEAKER_03: It should come naturally.
• 20:01
  SPEAKER_03: How do we get there?
• 20:03
  SPEAKER_03: And so I believe the fastest way of getting there is really truly through healing.
• 20:06
  SPEAKER_03: And there's multiple ways of healing, whether you're doing energy work or you're working with a coach, somebody who's bringing up those emotions in you, they're bringing up that feeling, they're bringing up that passion in you.
• 20:16
  SPEAKER_03: That will literally change your life.
• 20:20
  SPEAKER_00: Mic drop.
• 20:24
  SPEAKER_00: I I just want to say, Jay Nicole and Adrian, you have dropped so much wealth of knowledge.
• 20:35
  SPEAKER_00: And I I I gotta speak to it.
• 20:40
  SPEAKER_00: If if you didn't get something out of these two conversations, you were not listening.
• 20:47
  SPEAKER_00: Right.
• 20:48
  SPEAKER_00: And and so I'm gonna place Adrian's free gift in the chat here in just a moment.
• 20:56
  SPEAKER_00: But I want to give for our last what 13 minutes, I want to give an opportunity that if any of you have any questions about what was talked about today, if you want to post it in the chat, the two women will give give their feedback.
• 21:12
  SPEAKER_00: Even if you want to share an aha moment.
• 21:20
  SPEAKER_00: And while you guys type in the chat, I'm going to post Adrian's link.
• 21:28
  SPEAKER_03: I think my free gift is has a lot of healing, y'all.
• 21:31
  SPEAKER_03: The more healing you do, the faster things change.
• 21:34
  SPEAKER_03: So I think there's like three different downloads that you can download.
• 21:37
  SPEAKER_03: You can actually just click and listen, and people have literally changed their lives just by clicking and listening to my healing.
• 21:42
  SPEAKER_02: So enjoy.
• 21:47
  SPEAKER_00: And there it is.
• 21:51
  SPEAKER_00: All right.
• 21:53
  SPEAKER_00: No questions, you guys.
• 21:55
  SPEAKER_00: Were they that clear?
• 22:01
  SPEAKER_03: Here, I would I actually have a question that I'd like to know from everybody, which is do you have a little bit more clarity as to what you'd like to attract or create after this conversation?
• 22:16
  SPEAKER_02: I love that the clearest thing for me was clarity.
• 22:21
  SPEAKER_02: I love that.
• 22:26
  SPEAKER_00: We have Claire asking, what other types of energy healing would you suggest?
• 22:33
  SPEAKER_00: Either one of you can answer that.
• 22:35
  SPEAKER_03: I would just like to acknowledge, like to sell a billion copies of my first book.
• 22:40
  SPEAKER_03: That's what I'm talking about right there.
• 22:44
  SPEAKER_02: That's what I'm talking about.
• 22:46
  SPEAKER_02: I love that.
• 22:50
  SPEAKER_02: All right, so what other types of energy healing?
• 22:52
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, what I think we might all have something to say about that.
• 22:58
  SPEAKER_00: Janico, we can let's see, let's hear from you.
• 23:02
  SPEAKER_01: Sure.
• 23:03
  SPEAKER_01: Um try out so try out all the types that you you come across.
• 23:08
  SPEAKER_01: Um so I me personally, I I practice theta healing, uh Reiki, angelic Reiki healing, um uh digging, um even just self-reflection, like literally journaling and doing warning pages to uh to transmute energy.
• 23:34
  SPEAKER_01: Um is very powerful.
• 23:36
  SPEAKER_01: It sounds so like we healing really can be simple.
• 23:42
  SPEAKER_01: Like all of this manifestations really can be uh simple.
• 23:45
  SPEAKER_01: I'm not saying easy, there's a difference between easy and simple.
• 23:49
  SPEAKER_01: It really can be simple, like just literally journaling and and allowing what is there to come out, um, and then asking yourself questions and digging really can be transformative.
• 24:09
  SPEAKER_01: So those would probably be my top three recommendations right now.
• 24:16
  SPEAKER_01: There's so many types, there's so many forms of healing.
• 24:18
  SPEAKER_01: So I'd love to hear what Adrian has to say about that as well.
• 24:21
  SPEAKER_03: Yeah, thank you for passing the mic back to me.
• 24:23
  SPEAKER_03: All right, so when it comes to energy healing, this is what I have to say about it.
• 24:28
  SPEAKER_03: You know, the first thing you have to do is is I Jana Cole even said it, she said try everything.
• 24:34
  SPEAKER_03: The the only aspects of us that will not heal is when we give up trying to heal.
• 24:40
  SPEAKER_03: It took me years and years and years of just being clear on how I wanted to feel to get the results that I wanted, which were very specific.
• 24:48
  SPEAKER_03: They never changed for me to find the answer to the thing that I wanted.
• 24:54
  SPEAKER_03: And let me just give you a little bit of backstory on this.
• 24:57
  SPEAKER_03: You know, I told you earlier my guys were telling me I'm a healer.
• 25:00
  SPEAKER_03: The psychic and the medium stuff was only a tool to help me understand healing, and so I can get deeper into the healing work.
• 25:06
  SPEAKER_03: And I told them no for about six or seven years.
• 25:08
  SPEAKER_03: I said, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
• 25:10
  SPEAKER_03: I'm a psychic because I was doing TV, I was doing radio.
• 25:13
  SPEAKER_03: I'm like, this is what people want, this is who I am.
• 25:16
  SPEAKER_03: I really honestly thought it was who I was.
• 25:21
  SPEAKER_03: Okay, and so I was getting the answers, but I was saying no to the answer.
• 25:26
  SPEAKER_03: I was saying no.
• 25:28
  SPEAKER_03: I wasn't ready.
• 25:30
  SPEAKER_03: Could you imagine if I had given up when I wasn't ready?
• 25:34
  SPEAKER_03: When I was ready, either I would have never gotten ready, or when I was ready, I would still be needing to now start to get the answers and start to get clarity and maybe get back on my journey, or I would have given up and that would have been the end of it.
• 25:48
  SPEAKER_03: I would have just been a psychic medium who never went any further in my own growth, never be changing lives the way that I'm changing today because I just wasn't ready.
• 25:56
  SPEAKER_03: So the the simple act of keep saying yes, the simple act of moving forward, the simple act of coming to events like this is the energy.
• 26:05
  SPEAKER_03: That is the energy healing.
• 26:08
  SPEAKER_03: And you're gonna discover more energy healing along the way.
• 26:11
  SPEAKER_03: But I I tell people like this 60% of healing is awareness, 40% is the other stuff.
• 26:19
  SPEAKER_03: If you can't get awareness, you can't clear anything.
• 26:22
  SPEAKER_03: So this is where you need to be.
• 26:23
  SPEAKER_03: This is the energy healing you need right now.
• 26:27
  SPEAKER_03: Congratulations.
• 26:32
  SPEAKER_00: Thank you, Adrian, so much for that.
• 26:35
  SPEAKER_00: And and I'll add to that, you know, if if you're not well versed in energy healing, or you're just starting to get introduced to healing work, there's something very simple that you can do.
• 26:50
  SPEAKER_00: Very simple.
• 26:51
  SPEAKER_00: All of us can do it.
• 26:53
  SPEAKER_00: You open your front door and step outside and put your feet in the dirt or the grass or whatever whatever earth is at your front door.
• 27:04
  SPEAKER_00: Just stand there, put your feet in it.
• 27:08
  SPEAKER_00: Ground yourself.
• 27:10
  SPEAKER_00: That's healing.
• 27:11
  SPEAKER_00: It's a very subtle healing, but it's but it's a way that anyone can have access to to energy healing and in a way that's that doesn't have to be woo-woo, right?
• 27:30
  SPEAKER_03: I I love that staying, put your feet on the ground, but you can also do it in the sunlight and you bring the sun in because people, their depression lifts when they're in the sun, right?
• 27:39
  SPEAKER_03: So it's all of that, everything that you mentioned.
• 27:42
  SPEAKER_03: I don't know how subtle it is.
• 27:43
  SPEAKER_03: You said it's a subtle healing.
• 27:44
  SPEAKER_03: I remember somebody telling me years ago before I really dived into the energy work.
• 27:48
  SPEAKER_03: She said, whenever my daughter is sick, the school knows because my daughter will go lay in the grass.
• 27:53
  SPEAKER_03: She naturally knows that it creates negative ions and it balances out the body.
• 27:59
  SPEAKER_03: And she feels better when she's in the dirt and she's in the grass.
• 28:02
  SPEAKER_03: I mean, you have to think about it, like being in places like New York, you know, the concrete jungles, you know, that takes us away from our healing.
• 28:09
  SPEAKER_03: It takes us away from nature.
• 28:11
  SPEAKER_03: So being willing to go out there and smell a rose and put your feet in the grass and stand in the sun is bringing yourself back into nature, is bringing yourself back into balance.
• 28:19
  SPEAKER_03: So I don't think it's subtle at all.
• 28:21
  SPEAKER_03: I think that's a major healing that you just mentioned.
• 28:23
  SPEAKER_03: And I'm glad you mentioned it because I forgot.
• 28:26
  SPEAKER_03: Because it's so simple.
• 28:31
  SPEAKER_00: Right.
• 28:32
  SPEAKER_00: And it's so it's so simple, right?
• 28:33
  SPEAKER_00: And and you you brought it up is children, children know, children innately know the things that are healing for them.
• 28:42
  SPEAKER_00: It's as we go through life and we experience things as adults, we forget, and then we have to relearn it by coming to events like this, right?
• 28:53
  SPEAKER_01: Remembering that's what we're doing, remembering.
• 28:55
  SPEAKER_01: I'm so glad you said that, Adrian, because I was gonna tag that on like you can do both at the same time.
• 29:00
  SPEAKER_01: Put your feet in the earth and the ground and connect to Mother Earth.
• 29:04
  SPEAKER_01: If you if you want to get a little, and at least it said this doesn't have to be woo-woo, but if you want to get a little more woo-woo, intentionally connect to the earth and at the same time intentionally connect to the sun, and then you got both heaven and earth coming in and healing you, the heaven and earth energy healing.
• 29:21
  SPEAKER_00: There you go.
• 29:22
  SPEAKER_00: There you go.
• 29:23
  SPEAKER_01: It's all about intention, too.
• 29:26
  SPEAKER_00: I just see in the chat, Chantel says, I'm having clarity on things I want in relationships, but I'm concerned if my habits as an avoidant are delaying my progress.
• 29:39
  SPEAKER_00: Any suggestions on seeing what habits are avoidant and how to replace those habits with habits aligned with my relationship goals?
• 29:50
  SPEAKER_00: That's clarity right there in the question.
• 29:53
  SPEAKER_03: It is some extreme clarity.
• 29:56
  SPEAKER_03: You know, here's my advice on that as an avoidant woman.
• 30:00
  SPEAKER_03: And and Lisa, I don't know if Jay Nicole, I don't know if she's avoiding, I don't know if she can speak to this.
• 30:06
  SPEAKER_03: But I know you and I definitely can because like we got a tinnitus here, right?
• 30:10
  SPEAKER_03: Look at my tinnishoes, and I'm like, Yeah, we got some advice for her.
• 30:13
  SPEAKER_03: Okay.
• 30:14
  SPEAKER_03: So here's the thing about avoidance.
• 30:17
  SPEAKER_03: Everything that we do keeps us from a relationship.
• 30:20
  SPEAKER_03: That is what avoidance is.
• 30:22
  SPEAKER_03: So it's about challenging yourself on how to be more intimate.
• 30:26
  SPEAKER_03: How how can you make a deeper connection with another human being?
• 30:31
  SPEAKER_03: How do you make a more intimate connection with yourself?
• 30:37
  SPEAKER_03: For me, it was I was always challenging men in really interesting ways.
• 30:44
  SPEAKER_03: You know, it's like, I don't need a man, I don't need you.
• 30:47
  SPEAKER_03: Okay.
• 30:48
  SPEAKER_03: And be like, oh, can I fix this for you?
• 30:50
  SPEAKER_03: I can fix it myself.
• 30:52
  SPEAKER_03: So my my biggest is like me too, me too.
• 30:59
  SPEAKER_03: So here was my biggest lesson.
• 31:01
  SPEAKER_03: And I think this is a lesson that really truly can help you answer that question.
• 31:05
  SPEAKER_03: Um, I had a roommate, and um, we were we would travel together because we would always be doing like the holistic fairs and whatnot.
• 31:12
  SPEAKER_03: And one night we're in a hotel and we're doing this meditation, and we're sitting in, he's like, sit in front of the mirror and do this meditation with me.
• 31:18
  SPEAKER_03: So we're sitting there, we're doing this meditation, and he stands up and we're done, and he puts his hand out to me and he says, Let me help you up.
• 31:24
  SPEAKER_03: And I said, No, I got this.
• 31:26
  SPEAKER_03: And I got up and he looked really hurt.
• 31:29
  SPEAKER_03: And I and I remember realizing that I had this belief that men didn't really have these strong, they don't get hurt, they don't have hurt feelings, they're just you know aggressive and mean.
• 31:38
  SPEAKER_03: And I just had my my mindset about men.
• 31:41
  SPEAKER_03: And he sat there and he said, You should really allow people to help you.
• 31:46
  SPEAKER_03: And I was like, But what if I don't need their help?
• 31:48
  SPEAKER_03: That's very defensive, by the way.
• 31:50
  SPEAKER_03: That's avoidance.
• 31:52
  SPEAKER_03: Okay, real defensive, right?
• 31:53
  SPEAKER_03: He said, But what if I don't need their help?
• 31:55
  SPEAKER_03: He's like, it doesn't matter.
• 31:56
  SPEAKER_03: Sometimes you just need to let somebody help you just because.
• 32:00
  SPEAKER_03: And I argued with him for about a half an hour.
• 32:02
  SPEAKER_03: I argued, I argued, argued.
• 32:03
  SPEAKER_03: It bothered me so much that for years, you guys, years, I would replay this conversation in my mind that I just don't understand what he's talking about.
• 32:12
  SPEAKER_03: What if you don't need somebody's help?
• 32:13
  SPEAKER_03: Why do you need to pretend that you're a damsel in distress?
• 32:16
  SPEAKER_03: And I mean, I had my whole story.
• 32:19
  SPEAKER_03: And one day, because I was so confused by this whole entire conversation that we had that's been bothering me for years.
• 32:26
  SPEAKER_03: The next time a man put out his hand and said, Can I help you up?
• 32:29
  SPEAKER_03: I just said yes.
• 32:31
  SPEAKER_03: I just said yes.
• 32:33
  SPEAKER_03: And it was only in that moment that I got this whole thing that he was trying to tell me.
• 32:37
  SPEAKER_03: Just let somebody freaking help you, whether you need it or not.
• 32:42
  SPEAKER_03: You know, somebody asked me the other day, they said, Why can't my guys just tell me what I need to heal so I can heal it myself?
• 32:47
  SPEAKER_03: And I said, Because the gift is each other.
• 32:50
  SPEAKER_03: We are not to meant to be here alone and avoidance, think we're meant to be here alone.
• 32:55
  SPEAKER_03: We got to do it by ourselves.
• 32:56
  SPEAKER_03: We have to be number one, we have to be superwoman.
• 32:59
  SPEAKER_03: I got to prove to everybody, including myself, that I don't need anybody.
• 33:03
  SPEAKER_03: But we do.
• 33:04
  SPEAKER_03: And that's the lie that we tell ourselves.
• 33:06
  SPEAKER_03: So that is how you can really incorporate like other people, you know, bring other people into your energy.
• 33:13
  SPEAKER_03: How can you let other people help you?
• 33:15
  SPEAKER_03: And that's really gonna shift you from being an avoidant person who can allow somebody in from an avoidant person who couldn't.
• 33:22
  SPEAKER_02: Does that make sense?
• 33:23
  SPEAKER_02: Is that helpful?
• 33:27
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, Jay Nicole, you want to chime in?
• 33:30
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I'm gonna avoid them too, y'all.
• 33:32
  SPEAKER_01: I'm gonna avoid it too.
• 33:39
  SPEAKER_01: Um, so yeah, one thing that has really, really helped me this year is having these.
• 33:45
  SPEAKER_01: I came into 2023 with the intention of attracting my divine partner.
• 33:52
  SPEAKER_01: And with that, um my intention, I I just intuitively knew that I needed to uh uh embody love.
• 34:03
  SPEAKER_01: And so that is something that has greatly helped me this year.
• 34:08
  SPEAKER_01: Um uh working with Lisa, she she helped me uh really, really begin to embody love even more and more and more.
• 34:16
  SPEAKER_01: And I I feel like I have always been a very loving person, but just having that intention coming into 2023 has changed the game.
• 34:26
  SPEAKER_01: Like I am on love on a whole nother level, y'all.
• 34:30
  SPEAKER_01: Like, for example, like I accidentally drowned some ants that were crawling in my shower and I cried about it.
• 34:44
  SPEAKER_00: That's love.
• 34:46
  SPEAKER_00: It is, isn't it?
• 34:49
  SPEAKER_01: So I'm saying, like, it's on a whole nother level this year, y'all.
• 34:52
  SPEAKER_01: For real, for real.
• 34:53
  SPEAKER_01: But one quick thing that I can give y'all or give you uh Chantel and anybody else who is uh this resonates with that is a quick thing is having the intention on a daily basis to be open to give and receive love.
• 35:10
  SPEAKER_01: Like literally just walking down the street and having the intention to give and receive love has changed the game and made me had me intentionally embodying love just throughout my days.
• 35:22
  SPEAKER_01: You know, Chantel, we've been working on having this intention challenge.
• 35:25
  SPEAKER_01: And so that could be one of your intentions for the day is I am being open and willing to open and ready to give and receive love throughout the day.
• 35:37
  SPEAKER_01: And so, and and that has just had me more open and connecting with more people and on a different level, and it's been really, really fantastic.
• 35:46
  SPEAKER_01: So that's a quick tweak, but having that intention and really just studying love and and and understanding the different aspects of love.
• 35:55
  SPEAKER_01: And yeah, that's that's another one that I would say.
• 35:58
  SPEAKER_01: Um, and I don't know, can I quick can I answer Eva's question?
• 36:02
  SPEAKER_01: She had a great question in here too.
• 36:03
  SPEAKER_01: Lisa, I didn't know.
• 36:04
  SPEAKER_00: Absolutely.
• 36:04
  SPEAKER_00: I I want to honor people's time.
• 36:06
  SPEAKER_00: I know we're at time, but if if you're willing to just hang with us for a couple more minutes and we'll address this question.
• 36:14
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, she has said um we just had an intense Libra solar eclipse intended to clear relationships that don't serve us.
• 36:21
  SPEAKER_01: Ooh, any suggestions on how to confirm which relationships are being released, how to expedite the release of those relationships.
• 36:30
  SPEAKER_01: Uh, so my recommendation would be to tap in, to get into a place, whatever you need to do to tap into to being in connection with the divine, whether that's a meditation, um, a prayer, um sage, incense, crystals, all of the above, whatever you need to do to tap into the divine and then ask the question, or maybe pull cards, you know, and ask the question, um, what relationships are being released and see what is revealed to you.
• 37:01
  SPEAKER_01: And um then as far as expediting the release, doing a cord cutting ceremony or um an intentional, if you're not familiar with how to do a cord cutting ceremony, you can just go into intentional meditation and prayer and ask your guides or your the divine to um help you or the angels to help you uh cut the cords and heal and seal those those uh cords that have been detached.
• 37:32
  SPEAKER_00: Thank you.
• 37:34
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, well, wow.
• 37:37
  SPEAKER_03: We we can I say something real quick before you I mean people I you know y'all, I just want to make sure everybody got you know what they said.
• 37:44
  SPEAKER_03: So somebody said I thought I knew what I wanted, but the way you described it with the burning passion, that made me think a little bit more.
• 37:50
  SPEAKER_03: And I just wanted to acknowledge it.
• 37:51
  SPEAKER_03: I mean, there's nothing I have to say to it other than the thank you for sharing that, because I think that's true for everybody.
• 37:57
  SPEAKER_03: Just to say that out loud, that it makes me think a little bit more means that all of us could be thinking a little bit more.
• 38:03
  SPEAKER_03: Because if you can create the life that you really want and there is no limitation, why wouldn't we give some more thought to it?
• 38:09
  SPEAKER_03: Why wouldn't we try to perfect that so that we could really create the lives that we wanted?
• 38:12
  SPEAKER_03: So I really love that comment.
• 38:15
  SPEAKER_00: Thank you.
• 38:17
  SPEAKER_00: Thank you all so much.
• 38:19
  SPEAKER_00: This this was so beautiful, and I mean Adrian came through even without being on the screen, right?
• 38:31
  SPEAKER_00: We gotta give her some credit for that because she was going through some technical difficulties and and came through, just came through, right?
• 38:41
  SPEAKER_03: Still am, but as long as you show up, I'm telling you, some kind of miracle is gonna happen.
• 38:45
  SPEAKER_03: So the simple fact that you guys all got what you needed from this experience, that's the miracle.
• 38:52
  SPEAKER_00: Thank you.
• 38:53
  SPEAKER_00: So, Jay Nicole and Adrian, thank you both so much for just sharing so much wealth of knowledge here.