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YOUR HARD WORK WILL BE WORTH IT - 2023 Motivational Speech · Motivation study

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  Speaker 1: On the other side of temporary pain, you get introduced
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  Speaker 1: to your other self. We think everything's permanent. And because
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  Speaker 1: we think it's permanent, we make permanent decisions based on
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  Speaker 1: temporary conditions.
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  Speaker 2: I'm super proud of where so many of you are
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  Speaker 2: right now. But I don't let anybody settle. I don't
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  Speaker 2: want us to become complacent. Man, I want you to
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  Speaker 2: engage with you. I want you to start confronting yourself.
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  Speaker 3: It's up to you to assemble yourself.
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  Speaker 4: You have to work on you.
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  Speaker 5: What we do is we shackle our mind.
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  Speaker 6: We are a prisoner in our own mind that this
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  Speaker 6: is all I can do. This is all I'm good at.
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  Speaker 4: We really do believe it's further away.
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  Speaker 1: Like, we honestly believe this thing is like a 20-year thing.
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  Speaker 1: And so because we believe that, we keep it there
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  Speaker 1: and we miss out on these, you know, possibilities in
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  Speaker 1: our life.
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  Speaker 4: You have the.
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  Speaker 6: Power within yourself to change millions of lives.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah.
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  Speaker 6: By facing life, by facing yourself.
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  Speaker 8: Most people go through life quietly and safely, tiptoeing to
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  Speaker 8: an early grade. Find out what it is you want
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  Speaker 8: and go after it as if your life depends on it.
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  Speaker 1: You need to create a different relationship with pain in
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  Speaker 1: your life.
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  Speaker 8: The foundation of all strength is pain.
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  Speaker 4: There's always going to be storms on the horizon, but
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  Speaker 4: you've got to have.
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  Speaker 7: The strength, the out and out arrogance to just keep
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  Speaker 7: getting up and keep carrying on.
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  Speaker 3: It's doing.
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  Speaker 4: That's how you get great at your craft.
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  Speaker 8: And so if you're not willing to be a fool,
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  Speaker 8: then you'll never start anything new. And if you never
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  Speaker 8: start anything new, then you won't develop. And so the
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  Speaker 8: willingness to be a fool is the precursor to transformation.
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  Speaker 8: And that's the same as humility. And so if you're
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  Speaker 8: going to write your destiny, you can do a bad
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  Speaker 8: first job. You're going to get smarter as you move forward.
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  Speaker 9: I promise you, you are turning into a warrior.
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  Speaker 10: Because the stuff that you're going through, the stuff that.
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  Speaker 9: You have to experience, what don't kill you makes you stronger.
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  Speaker 1: Like, I want you to understand. Like, I don't know
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  Speaker 1: your story.
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  Speaker 9: I don't know the depths of what some of.
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  Speaker 7: You have had to deal with.
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  Speaker 5: But I'm here to tell you, man, you can do
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  Speaker 5: hard things.
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  Speaker 8: And as long as there's breath in your lungs, there's
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  Speaker 8: hope in your.
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  Speaker 1: Heart, too.
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  Speaker 9: But what you cannot do is you cannot quit doing
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  Speaker 9: the process. Stop sitting around moping and complaining and waiting
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  Speaker 9: for somebody to connect the dots for you. Put the
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  Speaker 9: work in and take the stairs to the top.
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  Speaker 3: To get that good is a terrifying journey of self-discovery
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  Speaker 3: and confronting who.
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  Speaker 7: You really are.
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  Speaker 3: Because you cannot make change until you acknowledge where you're
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  Speaker 3: actually at.
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  Speaker 7: Nothing is easy. Anything worth having is hard to get.
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  Speaker 7: Admit that you can have anything you want, but it's
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  Speaker 7: going to be hard work. Admit that you are the
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  Speaker 7: only reason that you are where you are, and you
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  Speaker 7: are the only reason that you ain't where you want
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  Speaker 7: to be. Admit. Take responsibility and accept it. Get off
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  Speaker 7: your ass and get to work.
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  Speaker 11: If you're suffering terribly, There's two options in front of
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  Speaker 11: you in some sense. One is you're suffering terribly and
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  Speaker 11: it's unjust and you're suffering terribly because the cosmos itself.
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  Speaker 11: The other possibility is you're suffering at least in part
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  Speaker 11: because you're not everything you could be.
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  Speaker 9: Most of us, we live in a box and we
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  Speaker 9: don't want to go outside that box at all, ever.
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  Speaker 6: Outside that box is all these possibilities of life.
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  Speaker 5: I now know that there is no cap on the
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  Speaker 5: human mind There's no cap.
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  Speaker 10: We cap it ourselves.
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  Speaker 8: And there is a literature, too, that suggests that people
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  Speaker 8: are a lot more unhappy when they look back on
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  Speaker 8: their lives about the things they didn't do than they
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  Speaker 8: are about the mistakes they made while they were doing things.
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  Speaker 8: And so that's really worth thinking about, too, because there's
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  Speaker 8: redemptive mistakes. And a redemptive mistake would be a mistake
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  Speaker 8: that you make when you go out and try to
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  Speaker 8: do something. You know, you actually think, okay, I'm going
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  Speaker 8: to try to do this. and you're not good at it,
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  Speaker 8: you make a bunch of mistakes. It's like, what's the
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  Speaker 8: consequence if you pay attention? You're not quite so stupid anymore.
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  Speaker 8: That's the thing, is you've been informed by the results
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  Speaker 8: of your errors. Take some stumbling steps towards it. And
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  Speaker 8: as you take stumbling steps towards it, you become illuminated
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  Speaker 8: and enlightened and informed because of the nature of your experience,
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  Speaker 8: because you're pushing yourself beyond where you are, and you're
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  Speaker 8: going into the country that you have not yet been in.
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  Speaker 8: And you learn something, and so If you stand still,
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  Speaker 8: you fall backwards. You cannot stand still. Because the world
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  Speaker 8: moves away from you if you stand still. And there's
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  Speaker 8: no stasis. There's only backwards. And so if you're not
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  Speaker 8: moving forwards, then you're moving backwards. And that's more of
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  Speaker 8: the underlying truth of the Matthew principle. To those who
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  Speaker 8: have everything, more will be given. From those who have nothing,
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  Speaker 8: everything will be taken.
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  Speaker 4: Everybody wants to get to a place. Very few are
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  Speaker 4: willing to sacrifice to get there. Everything that has happened
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  Speaker 4: that's been good to me is slow. If you actually
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  Speaker 4: thought about your life in a 50-year window or an
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  Speaker 4: 80-year window, you would slow down. Everybody wants to succeed
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  Speaker 4: so fast because they want to prove something to somebody else.
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  Speaker 6: I started down the road of instead of the path
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  Speaker 6: of least resistance, I started choosing the path of most
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  Speaker 6: resistance to prepare myself for the journey that was coming
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  Speaker 6: my way.
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  Speaker 3: Wow.
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  Speaker 10: And most kids don't prepare themselves for the most resistance.
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  Speaker 7: No.
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  Speaker 10: They want to get out of They want to get
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  Speaker 10: out of things. Get off the hook.
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  Speaker 4: Right.
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  Speaker 10: Don't put in the extra reps. Right.
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  Speaker 3: They want the easiest path to get to the top, right?
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  Speaker 6: Right, exactly.
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  Speaker 5: We believe, like so many people, before I give them
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  Speaker 5: a workout plan, they're talking about recovery.
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  Speaker 10: Everybody that hears me speak, they.
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  Speaker 5: Want to go straight to recovery. Work out first.
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  Speaker 10: Work out first. Before you talk to me about recovery.
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  Speaker 10: How to recover, yeah.
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  Speaker 8: Work out first.
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  Speaker 10: You know, they want to put you in a box.
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  Speaker 10: They want to put a title on you.
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  Speaker 5: No, you're putting a title on me to make yourself
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  Speaker 5: feel better about yourself. I made this person. I made
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  Speaker 5: this person by diving in to the insecurities that life
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  Speaker 5: gave me.
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  Speaker 10: Because now they're yours.
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  Speaker 7: They're yours to own.
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  Speaker 10: If you're not smart, call yourself dumb.
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  Speaker 1: It's okay.
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  Speaker 4: Because you are.
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  Speaker 10: But take that not as you're putting yourself down. If
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  Speaker 10: you're fat, call yourself fat. I used to be 300 pounds.
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  Speaker 10: We want to talk so soft to ourselves. We're looking
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  Speaker 10: for that recovery day. And that recovery day... is everything
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  Speaker 10: in your life. Everything in your life is a recovery day.
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  Speaker 7: We're looking for it.
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  Speaker 10: It's not coming. It's not coming.
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  Speaker 5: Get over that recovery day. And that's the mentality I
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  Speaker 5: took with me. When you start to build yourself up
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  Speaker 5: and start to have the one thing that we don't
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  Speaker 5: have is confidence. Real, authentic confidence from hard work.
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  Speaker 1: Everything else goes away. You no longer look to other
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  Speaker 1: people for your self-esteem.
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  Speaker 10: That's right.
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  Speaker 5: You now know. I walk in the room now and
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  Speaker 5: I know the hours and years and decades I put
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  Speaker 5: into David Goggins.
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  Speaker 10: That's something, it's not on the wall. It's not a
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  Speaker 10: trophy on the wall. It's not a medal on your neck.
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  Speaker 5: I don't care how you perceive David Goggins because through
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  Speaker 5: my journey, I figured out the one piece I was missing.
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  Speaker 10: I thought it was cars. I thought it was women.
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  Speaker 1: I thought it was money.
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  Speaker 7: I thought it was everything.
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  Speaker 10: The one piece I was missing was me having the
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  Speaker 10: courage to face myself.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you.