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We Can Talk When Direct Communication Functional Adults 5D Mystics Enlightenment Peeps Come Together · Inspiring Human Potential

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Welcome, welcome to my lovely I HP community.
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We have some I HP special content.
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This one is focusing on our lovely 5D Mystics and functional
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adults, Those who do know how to be in direct communication or
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they want to right here, our lovely throat chakra.
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So the people who know about can we talk?
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Of course we can talk, yes. OK, so I'm going to start with
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the ability to get my voice cleared and to remind anyone
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who's not a regular listener here.
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We bring human, spiritual, and spirituality elements together.
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These are all subject matters. None of this is anything to do
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with believing or not believing because adults actually know
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about subject matters and emotional adults let me add.
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So if you use your active brain optimized as a human 101, then
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you will know how to use left and right mode equally.
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And that's because you have integration of the mind.
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So you don't take things in a ego sensitive way because your
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ego yourself is you and you're OK with it being there, not
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being there. Free will, not free will.
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You have no actual parameters that create an uncomfortable and
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unnecessary actual situation. So it's for mature emotionally
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and mentally speaking people. You can only be mature
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emotionally and mentally speaking if you have the ability
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to become a differentiated self. And these are psychological
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terms because I learned from the psychoeducators.
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So spelling out first how you are gonna be in 5D for sure,
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which is you're not like Oh my God, how dare they.
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None of that. No, no, no, no, no.
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If you have any of that, you mean even if you do while you're
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listening to the episode, FYI, that is called your adaptive
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child making its way up towards. I don't like this.
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And that's karma, FYI, because it's not you being conscious
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about the fact that I don't like that is your two year old and
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you can handle yes, 2 year old. It's OK.
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We don't have to like it. It's not our thought.
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It's not our belief. We're listening to an episode of
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someone else and that's not us. And we don't have to greedy like
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or dislike. It's a person who's blabbing
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their mouth. One if you cannot handle
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blabbing of mouth with ease and fun, then you're not mature
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emotionally yet because your right brain hemisphere is taken
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over with whatever charge states your past has.
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And adaptive children love to do this thing called projection of
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their inner child wounds, which is your unresolved trauma, not
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mine. And I am not a therapist.
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I'm in fact a content creator, an online entrepreneur, and
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supporting people who want to develop personally.
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So the self of you be Yourself requires you to be in what?
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Purusha awareness. Pure consciousness?
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5D, unconditional love. So again, I use words on
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purpose, not pretending. And let me make it clear, it's
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not a race. You don't have to be here.
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It's your life. And you can be adaptive
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children. There are plenty of them out
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there. And you'll find leaders for you
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as well, because they share the same I don't like that that you
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do. And they will be the ideal
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parent that you would have wanted to want or whatever it is
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that you think the world should look like, whatever your
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projection of this perfect thing.
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So, you know, my ideal of the perfect whatever is that we all
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shake hands, hug each other, have a beautiful playground.
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And I don't see it coming yet. And you know what I remember
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learning as a kid growing up? Maria Utopia, it's never going
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to happen. I'm like, OK, then I guess I'll
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just have to continue to bring forth the future I want to see,
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which is I'm going to hug people, speak to people and
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treat it like a playground. Everybody else can live their
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nightmare. There you go.
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So again, 5D, it is pure consciousness for reason.
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We have a 2 year old and we have fun in our brain and our body
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because we do learn how to handle the right brain stuff
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that comes up. Now some people, they got a real
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big tsunami and here's where we're not going to be talking
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about that right now. If anybody has tsunami, there's
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good somatic sensor mode and trauma experts that you can go
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to, They'll teach you about how cancel culture is not mature
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emotional stuff. And as Michael Yapko points out,
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when people say you're toxic, they usually are exaggerating
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and it's because they don't know how to create, in fact, what
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it's called an effective response for how you're working,
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how you're talking, how you're presenting.
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The reality is it's they don't know how to handle your
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communication. So they're going to say you're a
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toxic, you're evil, you're the and there's your adaptive child
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projecting their abuser or their perpetrator, or they're rescuing
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someone or their victim of something.
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And again, this is all not a physical victim of something.
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A physical victim of something will spell out very clearly.
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And usually they don't go sharing that kind of experience
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with just some random stranger. When you're having any
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conversation, it's a conversation.
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Now if you need to prove your right.
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Again, that's adaptive children, They don't have conversations.
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They have little competitions. It's 3D man, FYI, so you can go
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listen to the 3D people. Purusha, Prakriti.
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It's pure energy and pure consciousness.
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Prakriti is pure energy. Purusha is pure consciousness.
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And I'm trying to find the words here.
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It is awareness, self-awareness. So you can do it with a
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psychotherapist, you can do it on your own.
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It all depends. But what's most important, as I
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was saying is functional adults have a handle on their left and
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right brain mode because they work with integration of the
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mind. So unless there's some
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structural brain situation which you would know about because
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your life would get really, really hard and you will have
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had to go get some support. And that's like when I see a lot
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of people that don't, it's really, really very sad because
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they watch movies and they think that their addictive behaviors
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are cool. They don't realize that
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excessive, clean eating or excessive of anything is
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excessive. And therefore not in equanimity
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or new traveling van, No matter how much yoga they do,
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apparently they're not really clear on the whole excessive
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word being excessive charge and not 00 is easy to understand.
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It means when I'm thinking of my past, my present and potential
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future, I'm like, yeah, you know what?
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I don't know what's going to happen.
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Oh, the right brain mode is what stands with the unknown
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uncertainty and unwanted. And the integral mindset helps
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people to deal with all of that. But again, it's only gonna be
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beautiful with the flow state from within when you're able to
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be yourself. So attachment, secure attachment
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in your body, restored in by itself.
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And so in 6 1/2 minutes or seven, however many this is, you
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can go away if you do not unconditionally love yourself
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with flaws and imperfections and other people and humanity, and
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know that we are always learning new things and we don't fuck up.
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We just don't know shit all the time.
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It can go away because here's where we love humanity.
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I'm a human. I love being a human, which is
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why I bring all of it together. And it's amazing.
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So direct communication. Can we talk?
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Of course we can. Now we learn how.
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Just not to. Who's we?
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The Zen Masters, because there's just so many egos out there.
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It really is a pain in the ass. Honestly, I was a teenager and I
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was very clear on it. I grew up and I was like, you
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know what I was reminded of? How much I don't like to walk
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with egg shell people. And that's most people.
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The ones who are unfortunately not really moving anywhere, at
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least they stabilize and so it's easy to handle.
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The stable people, because they've chosen to commit to
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their monkey doll, butterfly brain mindset, doesn't matter
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again if they do yoga or they're enamored with their like or
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they're one siphon in a way that's cutting everything up.
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So once we see their patterns clearly, can we talk?
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Of course we can. We know exactly how to talk and
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have fun. The ones we have more fun with
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are the ones who want to talk with us and they say we can
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talk. Now come on over.
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And that's where we get to have fun.
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So again, it's all fun and games for real, not pretend.
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And we actually focus on important matters, by the way,
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because we also realize that blah blah, blah, blah, blah,
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blah, blah is really using air. So when you're socializing, it's
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called socializing for reason. When you're doing means you're
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working, which is something that is different than our lovely
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relationships that we love to. What's the word that we love to
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build? That's the word.
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So in this lovely Leo season, my lovely 5D Mystics, I want to
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address you because we've been talking about relationships and
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you have in your peripheral view, I'm sure, bunch of
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beautiful relationships. So yes, you can talk.
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If you can't talk to people, here's the deal.
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If they don't want to talk, they will make it very clear and at a
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certain point there won't be any talking.
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And that's just very straightforward and don't worry
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about however you feel about it. So if you've been in a situation
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and or more situations where you have seen this happen, if you're
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5D and love cycle, it means you're aware that you're getting
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to work with what? What word do we use when we
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don't like something? Like a person you love who does
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not want to talk to you because they just don't, doesn't matter
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what's going on, the death of child.
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This is all their stuff, not your stuff.
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Remember, your stuff is all in your body and your day-to-day.
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When you're stepping out of the bed, you're by yourself.
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Doesn't matter if somebody's next to you, you get out with
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your own 2 feet, they get out with their own 2 feet.
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So you're a body with a brain and your brain is where you get
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to practice integration. You're a differentiated self
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means you won't think the same as that other human being.
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If they're in your bed with you or however many you might have,
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doesn't matter. They all, entire group of your
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oversole will have different feet than you.
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The ocean that connects you is because you're from one piece of
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energy. This does not mean you agree on
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everything from the mind to the heart to the body, and it
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doesn't have to be. That's the beauty of being in
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the Enlightenment. So Asia pins and masters is we
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don't need to agree and we don't go live in mountains and do
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nothing either, meaning we don't want to be isolated away from
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cities. We like, like Jesus did, to walk
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with the people in the cities to actively destigmatize those poor
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addicts of whatever behaviors they're doing and to say to the
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non disciples, fuck off and go learn about psychoeducation
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instead of shoving people's head down the sand.
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And we don't do it that way either, by the way, we don't do
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the fuck off. You know what we do when we see
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people who are actually ganging up on people that they shouldn't
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be ganging up on because you know, doesn't matter how tired
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you might be? What do you do when your loved
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ones annoy you? Let me let me ask people who are
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5D and if you have an answer, which is love, then you are 5D.
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If you don't, then you're not in 5D.
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So here's what I get to learn and got to learn and I love it.
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I love my Neapolitan heritage. They're all over the place.
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I love them in my space, my face, everything as a kid and I
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would get so when I came back from college I would get
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harassed about why I wasn't married and why I didn't have
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kids and when were they going to have kids.
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And so I would get really in my family members faces or my tone
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was all over the place and my mother explained to me something
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called cultural differences, which apparently is not really
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true because even the Americans do this so it's a whole thing.
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But what I got to learn was something of equanimity land.
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So as she's explaining to me the culture and she's explaining
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there's no need for you to get that upset because they don't
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mean it in a bad way. Da da da da da.
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And I'm listening because that's what we do.
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You're like, you know, it is true.
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If they have a different culture, it's really unfair of
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me to blow up in their face. This is called becoming a grown
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up and this is called you learning how to uncharge your
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younger charge states. And this is called becoming
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emotionally mature versus staying an adaptive child and
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projecting the idealization. In this case, for me, it's why
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would you take away from somebody who wants a career,
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somebody else wants family, someone career.
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What's the difference? Stop harassing people about it.
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But also because I've been taught about the whole feminist
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movement. I've been taught about things as
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a kid. When you're a teenager, you got
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this energy. That's why, again, you choose as
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you're growing up, if you're going to become a grown up or
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not. Most people don't.
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They're like this is who I am and I'm always going to yell at
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you so you see people who as 40 year old women.
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I'm a woman and I do the whole she her, I'm a heterosexual.
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I think is the way. I don't know the all the
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verbiage by the way. So forgive me for anybody who
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does. You can educate me.
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But what I'm trying to say is I see women my age getting pissed
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off at people the way I got pissed off as a young person and
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then realized like why would you get pissed off?
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They're not doing it on purpose. You get to master your ego or
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not. Period.
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Is easy for it's easy. It's easy to understand.
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Unless you want to stay an adaptive child, which most
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people do because they think that that means I'm standing up
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for something. You know when I've explained
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equanimity to people, they're like, but that means you're not
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taking a side. Yeah, I'm not taking a side.
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That's the point. I'm accepting that there are
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different sides, like a grown up can.
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And I'm knowing that the busyness of importance is not
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out there. I need to go vote and do shit
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and get good leaders up there that can save the planet versus
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whatever this is. So we actually know how to focus
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back to direct communication with people who are grown up.
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So we don't have any of the shit that goes down between kids.
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Because again, we don't actually create relationships with those
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people in the way of talking about anything.
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We let them have the floor. You know what a 2 year old
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wants. I've seen 2 year old.
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Yes, I laugh every time I get a parent with their kid and
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they're wanting desperately to have an adult conversation
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because they just can't handle only having kid conversations.
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And again, no, no judgment intended.
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But it's like, yeah, did you not notice that?
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Of course you're going to have that whole thing go down.
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You didn't know that an ego is going to be wanting your like
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they're they're poor and defenseless and and small.
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You chose to have them like, what's the deal?
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You know what the saddest part is for a actual enlightenment?
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So age person, I've always felt bad for the kids and I know the
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parents get pissed off because they're like, are you accusing?
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No I'm not. I just feel bad for the kids.
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And here I'm going to bring in my lovely teacher Sue Martin,
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who's a psychiatrist. Psychologist.
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I forget her official title but she helps people.
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Official therapist, lady. And as I'm learning in my trauma
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educational certificate class, I'll never forget her gesture
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cuz I was just like, Oh my gosh, I was as she did this.
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I'm thinking of all the children that were born before today and
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all the children that will be bored and I'm like, this is
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actually going to happen to every single one of them.
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And she's smacking. Her one hand is fixed like a
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person, like, you know, an individual and then the other
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hand is pushing up against it And and she was doing this and
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she's like, do you know? Or she says something along the
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lines of how do you think it is that children, they're so full
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of energy and then they get completely out of the energy and
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basically that their energy is brought to zero.
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And it's obviously because the parents calm down, stop this,
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stop that. Obviously it's not something
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normal to have a kid running all over the place either, meaning
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that we can't do any extremes. But the point is, these poor
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infants and children, as they're growing up, their energy,
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because a parent is a human being who also has, again, a
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life and stress and sleep and things like that.
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So long, so short. When I think of kids, I think of
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all the energy of life that gets shoved out of them.
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And it's very sad. But on another note, since we're
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in a 5D society, that's going to all change.
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And here, let's get to that one. So can we talk?
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Of course we can. I'm so sorry to bother you.
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No, you don't bother me. That's what people who want to
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have relationships with each other, they will do.
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They will allow you to know, stop being silly.
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Of course I want to communicate with you.
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Of course I want you in my life. And they will keep allowing you
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to know that. This is when you are growing as
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people together, not the opposite.
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So people that grow together and are able to communicate direct
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communication doesn't mean we speak the same love language,
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No. Some people have a ability to be
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their own safe haven, secure base.
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I'm a solo Poly, for example. Some people are not polyamorous.
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Some people are only the monogamy type and they're also
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not a secure attachment of themselves.
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So they have perhaps the disconnected, their body and
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their head are not connected to each other and so they don't
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have emotional memories and they don't know how to use that right
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brain stuff. It's overwhelming.
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So before they can maybe be able to be comfortable in thinking
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about somebody else and that other person's emotional needs,
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they will have to gain an awareness of their own emotional
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plane and therefore build their own relationship with their
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body. And that's where it's all
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different for every person. This is why those addictive
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behaviors they're not just alcohol, sex, drugs, or food.
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It's gambling, clean eating, doing too much of yoga, doing
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too much of anything. The one siphon focusing Only
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you'll notice the difference. If you are well-rounded, it
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means you distribute your energy in a way that's easy going.
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So knowing if you're in your optimal human well-being is
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integration of the mind because you can work with your thoughts
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and your sensations. The emotions that arise are from
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the body. It's the brain stem that will
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lead to you knowing, am I. So when I would get pissed off,
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when these people would keep asking me year after year, I'd
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come back from college, why aren't you married?
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Fuck off, man, And then never do that.
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Because I wasn't allowed to curse.
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And I still wouldn't curse to any elder I I do respect those,
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those teachings. I curse with my community
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because we can be, you know, peers together.
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But with people who are of a specific because they have a
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role, you just get taught certain things.
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And that's that social dynamic. And it isn't even in the way of
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other people who, seriously, man, I mean, there are those
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adaptive children, the, the monogamous ones, the ones who
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are owners of each other, OK, those relationships.
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Yeah, those people. I mean, whatever.
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It doesn't matter what orientation.
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When you see them, when you see them, they're possessive.
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They don't want to share their people with anybody, and they're
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in each other's business, like parents.
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I'm like, what the fuck? This is really off.
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Like, no, no, no, no, no. I'm moving away from that
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immediately. Because, you know, here's what
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it is to be a free soul you freely love.
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So you're you're, you're definitely not going to mix well
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with the Middle Ages. People from the Scarlet Letter.
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OK, this is what they are. When I see some women or men,
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ah, cheating, then I'm like, wow, you obviously don't know
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that we're in 2023. You seriously need to
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destigmatize the whole purgatory, sin, whatever it is
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you're still looking at. Or at least I didn't mean
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separated from social stuff because we're not in the Middle
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Ages. We don't want to be there.
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So how about you get out of your, you know, brain and stop
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imposing your belief system on somebody else.
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Now I did grow up with Jesus and I did grow up with religion and
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I remember very clearly all knowing all powerful free will.
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I also remember clearing saying hey, there ain't no evil.
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I see all these psychology people.
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They're talking about the ego, self and insecurity and lo and
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behold, all people who are still adoptive children there again
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not able to do direct communication.
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They're the ones who, like Michael Japko says, use the word
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toxic because they can't create an effective response because
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they don't know how to handle people who are different than
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them, that's all. And handle doesn't mean because
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they need to handle us, by the way.
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No, they don't know how to handle their own emotional
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stuff. So my example of me, I didn't
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know how to handle my emotional stuff, but I did because I was
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respecting. I would get very fired up and
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passionately create a discourse. I wouldn't offend people because
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that's only for the adaptive children.
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We can maintain functional adulthood.
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We don't shame, blame, fault, or revenge.
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We don't attack people because they think differently than us.
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I've learned respect as a kid. I would never point a finger.
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I even learn how not to point a finger at a human being for
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telling me their thoughts. But I will passionately respond
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to you and start to have a discussion.
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So this is exactly why my lovely family, which educates my
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parents, taught me don't get too fired up.
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It's cultural differences. Learn how to be at ease.
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It's okay and no big deal. When people talk to you to help
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you to learn how to be a person in life.
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Not everybody is lucky. I get that.
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They don't have a parent like that.
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Or parents. That's the part of why only the
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functional adults can understand what I, HP is about.
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And only those who understand this also understand why.
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Compassion beyond the reasons if some group is shoving some human
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being down the shit hole, you're going to step in.
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And as I was trying to give you example, not going to say fuck
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off. No every time.
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They like to try and push that person down because, you know,
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it's unfortunate when people actually pick one of their group
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members to throw down the shit hole they all gang up on the
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one. It's very easy to figure out who
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are the teenagers in town, isn't it?
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You know what an adult gets to learn how to do to teenagers who
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don't know how to stay in the middle?
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Well, you know, and bring up a whole bunch of different
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conversations that lead them to understand what you're doing.
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It's an energy that isn't quite equanimous, I would say.
22:22
So much so that at some point, no, no.
22:24
But we love this person. Oh, yes, I'm sure you do.
22:28
Of course you do. Of course.
22:29
They're family. I know it.
22:31
I know you love them. That's the minute that maybe,
22:36
maybe no, they don't maybe anything.
22:39
They just back off and shut the fuck up without having said one
22:43
word. No shame, no blame, No, nothing.
22:46
Except for, you know, I'm going to keep reiterating what I just
22:49
said. Like the Zen master, Forgive,
22:53
forgive, forgive. But we don't do the whole
22:55
forgive. We're we're just they're
22:56
lovable, they're beautiful, they're this, they're that.
22:58
Whatever it is that it takes to get those people who are trying
23:01
to shove another human being down the shithole to just
23:05
disengage. Go do your little hand gossiping
23:08
with the little hands and Roosters.
23:10
We're not part of that game, Shushu.
23:14
So direct communication, it's not insulting.
23:17
It's actually we can talk. We hear everything you're saying
23:21
and we also hear the energy you're at, especially when it's
23:24
a projection of the victim or perpetrator or rescuer, meaning
23:30
you're taking sides of some sort that really is not yours to
23:33
take. And really what has taken place
23:35
is a suppression of your own shit that you don't even know
23:38
when you're projecting. Again, your own idea of how
23:40
things should be or of how a person should be so and people
23:44
want to tell other people how they should be.
23:47
So those couples, the people who sit in couples like that, they
23:50
want to be told who to be and how to be.
23:53
This is what adaptive children do with each other.
23:56
They help each other to find their spot in life.
23:58
So their direct communication is where they do do the little
24:01
triangle victim perpetrator and then they got rescuing.
24:06
They all have an agenda and they're a nice little group and
24:09
you can always tell, so they all do their thing and that's great
24:12
and dandy because we are of all walks of life.
24:15
Remember that every person matters in the moving forward
24:18
with our 5D plane by the way, so it's not negative or positive.
24:24
The different soul age groups 3D4D, I want to make that clear.
24:28
Any person is going to gravitate towards that which they're
24:33
journey wants for them, and it does depend on if they want to
24:36
move into the optimized version of their brain or not.
24:39
And that's if they want to move into integration of the mind and
24:43
restorative embodied self. Not everybody does because those
24:46
addictive behaviors look cool, the sex, the drugs, the alcohol,
24:50
the food. And people continue to think
24:52
that even having adult mind is something normal because it's
24:56
life that's boring and it's because the system shoves you
24:59
down and you have to make money. And you know, there's so many
25:02
ways people stay teenager and don't actually say, wow, I can
25:05
actually get up out of bed. I got 2 feet.
25:08
I got two hands, man, I got a job.
25:10
Let me see, what do I have as interest?
25:12
Let me think about that. Ooh, I love to talk about this
25:15
shit. I'm going to go.
25:16
So here's what a person who is in their own integrated mind and
25:20
restorative embodied self does. And this is where my
25:22
enlightenment so Age of Peoples are.
25:25
We're always enamored, so beautiful.
25:28
So when we have people behind us, because there are those, oh,
25:32
do they get enraged? And you know, when you got
25:35
readers continuing to share these types of data points, OK,
25:39
here's the deal. The adaptive children, they
25:42
cancel people out. Like Michael Yaptko says, they
25:45
will say these are toxic people. I'm going to get rid of them.
25:49
That's it. I'm not speaking to those people
25:51
because that's not 5. Deeply pure consciousness
25:54
Doesn't get rid of pure consciousness.
25:56
We're one big ball of energy. Hello anybody that does not make
25:59
it to your ears yet. So the direct communication is
26:02
not where we cancel people. No, no, no.
26:05
We figure out how to communicate or not because sometimes there
26:11
is not communication because there is not.
26:14
The agreeing to disagree. Very straightforward.
26:18
If you can't be yourself around people, there's nothing you need
26:21
to talk about or can talk about. Furthermore, some people
26:24
actually create judgments and they cast stones and they're
26:27
like, I'm the judger and condemner of all, and I decide
26:31
that you are evil and the devil and I will never speak to you
26:34
ever again. I have one person, oh, it was so
26:37
funny when she did what she did, But I also know her that well,
26:40
that I know she meant it. And I'm like, you know, I don't
26:43
think I lost anything today. It's too bad that this is the
26:46
only lifetime we'll know of our names in this way.
26:49
But it's OK, because you are in the Middle Ages for real.
26:53
And I have no intention of being around people who live the
26:55
Scarlet Letter for real because they totally would be like, oh,
26:58
you're a definite whore because you're a solo Polly.
27:01
It's like, no, I'm not. But it's OK for you to think
27:04
that that way you'll stay very far away from me.
27:07
I'm happy for that. So we're happy when people stay
27:09
far away from us because they think that we're evil when we're
27:13
not. And that word, by the way,
27:15
should only be used in religious context.
27:17
But the 4D still thinks of evil as poor human beings who need
27:22
support to understand if you have addictive behaviors.
27:26
And if people have these, please have compassion.
27:29
These are maladaptive responses. These are safety responses to
27:32
unresolved trauma, and a person who does not know the truth
27:36
about this will already feel guilty and ashamed of being
27:40
themselves. They will feel guilty for the
27:42
things that they will have done and they will feel shame about
27:44
being themselves. And they need to have these
27:48
somatic empaths, the ones who are my lovely 5D Mystics and
27:53
functional adults. People who want to live life
27:59
will take your hand. They will say I want self
28:03
compassion. They will feed off of the
28:06
compassion you provide them in a way of learning how to see
28:11
through the bullshit of the people who are not expanding.
28:15
And this is where it's not feeding off of you.
28:17
Please do not use these words in the 4D context.
28:20
There are no energy vampires and there are no dark auras.
28:23
These are human beings who have a nervous system like you do, so
28:27
at most you're picking up their nervous system.
28:29
You learn how to handle more energy if you want.
28:31
You don't have to. I can learn to say I'm
28:34
hypersensitive, I need to move away or whatever it is.
28:36
You can do whatever you want with direct communication.
28:40
On that note, there is a person who you all know is a good
28:43
friend, even though he keeps on insisting that he wants to go
28:47
out. And I'm like, we're not going to
28:49
go out because I have nothing to say to you.
28:50
And as long as you keep talking about being Darth Vader, I have
28:53
nothing to say to you. And I don't want to hang out
28:56
with your energy because it's a boring one and one that
28:59
sometimes their nervous system really throws me off.
29:04
I need to move away from them and I have done everything I
29:06
can. Now they know they don't take
29:08
offense, but I literally, at times will run away from them.
29:12
I don't know what the deal is, but it's not a big deal.
29:15
It's just something that you understand.
29:18
Humanly speaking, every person does the best they can.
29:20
So this person, for example, they've done therapy.
29:23
They are in a sweet spot. They could get somewhere else.
29:27
They don't want to. They're 60 and older, whatever.
29:30
And they continue to disregard the fact that their persona is a
29:35
bullshit persona, even though the fact that they say it's not
29:38
a persona, It's who I am. So longs for short though
29:41
they're cute, meaning they're a beautiful person.
29:44
And that doesn't mean though their nervous system is always
29:47
at ease. No, it's not.
29:48
They have probably what I'm going to say is a bit of
29:52
attached cry and they get very much like the one year old, very
29:56
excited when they're around people that they love and they
30:00
get very excited in different ways that I do believe that
30:04
their mind also works a certain way.
30:05
And I say believe because I don't try to get into anybody's
30:08
mind, but I've observed some people that actually fuel the
30:12
fire of this person and they have a way of knowing how their
30:15
mind works. So that means that in their own
30:19
thinking cap, while they're interacting with people, they
30:22
have things going on. So long, straight, short.
30:25
They're a beautiful, again, Big Bear, but they're definitely
30:29
someone that if you are sensitive, you're going to
30:32
notice that their energy gets a little bit all over the place.
30:36
That's what I'm trying to say. So I've said I need you to move
30:40
away from me. I need you to stop putting your
30:42
hand on my shoulder. I need you whenever that is.
30:45
And they have learned how to do that.
30:48
So they still actually like to tease and what not.
30:50
But again, they've learned not to take offense.
30:53
So we can always talk when we are doing direct communication
30:57
because functional adults don't shame, blame, fall to revenge.
31:00
We don't give people lists of demands.
31:02
We say, look, this is what I'm trying to tell you.
31:04
This is how I am and this is what you can or can't do.
31:08
And it needs to work. And if it doesn't, it's OK.
31:11
But I'm not going to be able to do what you're bringing into the
31:14
table. And it is judging.
31:16
So people who have a empowered self, and this person does, in
31:20
this case, they know who they are.
31:22
They accept who they are. They don't take offense because
31:26
they know they're quirks and flaws and they accept them so
31:30
they know that not everybody can match what they're doing.
31:32
This is the part about being a functional adults.
31:34
It doesn't mean that they're in the environment so age if it
31:36
doesn't mean that they don't have a monkey brain.
31:38
No, it means it's a human being who knows how to hear.
31:42
And when you repeat yourself enough times is where a 2 year
31:45
old will always figure it out. All of us, if somebody repeats
31:48
themself. This is why when people don't
31:49
want to talk, if they repeat themselves enough times, sooner
31:54
or later the two year old and me gets the message.
31:57
All of us have the two year old. The difference is we have
32:01
Krishna, Leela, the love cycle people.
32:04
We're curious, we want to know, we want to understand.
32:07
We're not offended, we are wanting to understand clearly
32:10
what is being shared. And of course, again, when the
32:13
playground, you got a kid or kids that don't want to play
32:16
with you, it's going to make you cry, but you're going to
32:19
understand that it's because you have nothing in common to share.
32:23
And that is something not bad. It's because we're
32:26
differentiated self. So you don't take offense at the
32:29
two year old that doesn't want to play with you.
32:31
The difference here is adaptive children, They're not actually
32:35
functional adult 2 year old. OK, so shame is when a person
32:40
actually feels bad about being themselves.
32:43
I'm a bad person and guilt is where you feel guilty because of
32:48
something you did. Shame is a defense mechanism.
32:52
It is a way that we will have learned to keep ourselves safe
32:54
from harm in the past. This as an infant.
32:56
And shame then can also be a way to blame oneself for something
33:00
that has happened to ourselves that wasn't really your fault.
33:06
And when people feel ashamed for that, this is actually a way to
33:11
control the safety by controlling actions and beliefs.
33:15
But it keeps people locked into spaces that isn't positive.
33:20
So when we understand the difference between these
33:23
powerful feelings, we begin to understand and eliminate
33:26
negative self judgments and self talk.
33:28
So people who have self talk and self judgment, the shame,
33:32
defectiveness is something about unworthiness.
33:35
It's where it's not self sabotage, it's actually you not
33:38
knowing how to handle the emotions that arise.
33:42
The fear of rejection, da da da da da.
33:45
OK, so all of our relationships are always going to be a risk,
33:48
which is why if your two year old is not in Krishna Leela,
33:52
you're not going to be able to accept when your friends don't
33:54
want to talk to you. If instead you have Krishna
33:57
Leela, once it's clear you accept and that's it.
34:01
So like I was saying, I got a scarlet letter, medieval ages
34:04
person. And when what happened happened,
34:07
I was not like, Oh my God, out there they I was what did I say?
34:11
I said, well what I said was it's very easy to cast a stone
34:16
and be a hypocrite. But that was to my friends who I
34:19
was like, wow, Can you believe it?
34:21
And then it's like, yeah, wait a minute, that's exactly how
34:23
adaptive Children Act. Again, projecting from a
34:26
distorted ego is where it's projection for a reason.
34:30
And we're not involving ourselves in another person's
34:34
story or mind. We are just relating to the
34:38
energy, the emotion and our own part.
34:41
So we take ownership. So for example, in this scenario
34:44
and others that I've experienced, of course I have a
34:47
role to play. There's ownership all over, all
34:49
of our relationships. Twin flames, soul mates, you
34:52
name it. We don't in fact have a whole
34:54
runner chaser. That's not, that's dehumanizing
34:57
people we know. We don't care about the science
34:59
between the charge, the mind and not mine.
35:01
You got a mouth, you talk, you don't want to talk.
35:04
It's good. Your choice that ain't chasing a
35:06
running shit. That's choosing I'm not going to
35:09
talk, OK, don't talk. We don't need to talk because we
35:13
can figure things out. What What things?
35:16
Nothing to do with another person who doesn't want to talk.
35:18
Everything to do with your own mind, energy, body, your own
35:22
self is very easy. How the Third Eye stays open and
35:25
on for the actual 5D people, which is why we don't actually
35:30
go into the whole drama land. So when we're moving into our
35:34
manifestation, it's always, by the way, Leo season.
35:38
This Leo season is always giving people choices.
35:42
What choice K to be the version of yourself that you want to be.
35:47
So the year after year after year, I need one of you who is
35:52
new to Ascension and are looking for guidance.
35:56
We have paid subscription based model content.
35:58
We also have episodes that are free tomorrow.
36:00
I'm going to come out with a couple of them.
36:03
And relationships are focused because that's how we learn to
36:07
be our lovely empowered selves, our functional adults.
36:11
We get to move into integration of the mind restored, embodied
36:16
self, your optimized human 101, infinite higher human
36:20
consciousness, potential experience.
36:22
So in a growth mindset is that first step and just your mindset
36:26
overall, but it's one that gets you out of those other mindsets.
36:31
So when you look at yoga, they have Monkey, Dole, Butterfly,
36:35
the one focus and then this enamored by one's own mindsets
36:40
and those are all 3D 4D plane people who are 5D plane.
36:45
We do inner growth and that's always, we don't have enemies,
36:48
we don't have anyone in an enemy box.
36:51
We're one big ball of energy, but we don't cut cords.
36:54
We don't call people toxic. We don't call them names.
36:57
We use words. Yes, we use words.
36:59
This is different people that are adaptive children.
37:02
They don't know. The difference, in fact, is why
37:04
we don't talk to them too much. Meaning once they begin to
37:07
present to us, their little egg shells are like, OK, I'm going
37:10
to see if I can hop over this one or figure out how to speak
37:13
to you so the shell don't break. And again, direct communication
37:18
is how we do it by being straightforward.
37:20
If we're hurt and sad, we'll say we're hurt, we're sad.
37:23
If we're accepting, I'm accepting something, I don't
37:25
like it. They're not going to lie because
37:28
they won't like what they hear. No, we're going to say the
37:30
truth. Like when people that we love
37:32
will say, you know, I've gained a little bit of weight.
37:35
Yes. Yeah.
37:36
I think that maybe you've been doing a little bit of something,
37:39
something, something. Now the ones who actually want
37:42
their well-being will take it into consideration.
37:45
They're the ones who mention it, the ones who turn around and
37:47
then go bank about it to somebody else.
37:49
Did you notice that they're not actually taking their in her
37:55
child and saying there's no need to be offended or upset?
37:59
I'm the one who mentioned it. I'm the one who.
38:01
So other times that's not the case, right?
38:04
Other times we will have said things and I have a person on
38:07
there forget they have held this interaction to their finger, but
38:11
it's because they have situations of insecure emotional
38:14
stuff. They've not worked through it.
38:16
No, no, they have found solace. They've not moved into any soul.
38:20
A troop beyond. I forget which one they're in.
38:23
And again here's what happens when a grown up figures because
38:27
you get told you hurt my feelings.
38:30
I'm so sorry. I did not mean to hurt your
38:32
feelings. I am straightforward like this.
38:35
So and you know what happens when you have grown-ups that
38:37
say, wow, that's really rude way of saluting me and it's like
38:41
shit, I forgot again, I don't have filters.
38:44
I'm so sorry. They'll be like, you know, it's
38:45
OK. The people who are genuinely
38:48
grown-ups are the people who don't have sensitive egos, so
38:51
they're not going to be in a space of emotional upset.
38:56
On the external, we always remember encounters, so this is
38:59
where on the external, people can chime in in a lot of
39:02
different ways. When you are empowered from
39:05
within, you're always going to be happy to be around each other
39:09
and talk about things. The people who have the bruised
39:12
egos, they're not the ones that I'm talking about.
39:15
Those are people you don't talk to.
39:17
Eventually you lean to knowing we're not going to talk because
39:21
it's the am I bothering you? Kind of thing, but you don't
39:24
even go down that path. Because the reality is when
39:28
people make it seem like you are bothering them and they make it
39:34
not what's the word, they don't make it easy for you to be
39:39
yourself, that's you're not going to actually express who
39:43
you are. It's very interesting.
39:46
As we move into 5D, we'll talk more about this.
39:48
This one might be a continuation of a series, but can we talk?
39:53
Grownups always say yes, and actually the ones who really
39:58
like each other, they're on the phone and they try calling each
40:01
other. Now, some of us don't have the
40:04
ability I raised my hand to be on the phone, and that's because
40:08
social time is reserved for the night time when I'm done with
40:11
work personally. But for those people who have a
40:14
different types of schedule, you consistently talk to the people
40:17
that you're happy with. They want to consistently talk
40:20
to you. You want to consistently hear
40:22
how you doing. What's up?
40:23
Okay. So this is where for those of us
40:26
who are in a space of intuitiveness, and this is a
40:32
special message for my enlightenment.
40:34
So age group Mystics, you will have encountered different types
40:39
of individuals. And because adaptive children
40:43
project all of their insecurities upon a person who's
40:46
pure consciousness, it's not because they're wanting to.
40:49
It's because their fragments are coming forth so that they may
40:51
see themselves and then they may do something if they want to
40:57
with that emotion. OK, you don't do anything with
41:00
it. In fact, we don't get offended.
41:02
We don't think of anything when people do whatever we don't
41:05
bother with. We're not trying to read you.
41:08
We're trying to attuned to each other and then resonate and
41:12
build trust. So there are two different
41:13
things. Direct communication for the
41:15
adults is we're building a bond immediately.
41:17
Not just once, no immediately. So if you are envious, jealous,
41:21
spiteful, we're not going to really look at it.
41:23
You're going to do whatever you want with that.
41:25
You're not affecting our life. You're affecting your body, not
41:28
our life. So the ones of there are people
41:32
who think about a lot of things. If you're doing business and you
41:34
don't know how to take care of your business, man, I don't know
41:37
what to tell you. You obviously don't know how to
41:39
work with the bank or with finding out that there's even
41:43
people you work with that are assholes, they're going to take
41:45
your money away. How many people have given their
41:46
money to people who are official, license, whatever, and
41:49
they've ripped them off so long as they're short.
41:52
People live stereotypes a lot in the movies.
41:54
What I'm saying is, for all of the people who are 5D Mystics in
42:00
the Enlightenmental age group, we come together, the functional
42:03
adults, and we always can talk. And it's with direct
42:07
communication. We do not bother with the people
42:09
who make it where we can't be ourselves and we can't speak of
42:14
anything because their ego so sensitive that their adaptive
42:16
child is just always there. Have compassion.
42:19
Please though, remember again, anybody who's new to this word,
42:23
it means when people are acting in certain ways, they have
42:26
unresolved trauma. This is what I'm trying to get
42:28
to, and they have insecure attachment styles.
42:31
So they're either disconnected, ambivalent.
42:34
No. Avoidant is the disconnected
42:37
avoidant category, disconnected style.
42:40
We got the ambivalent category and the preoccupied style.
42:44
We got the disorganized attachment category which is the
42:47
fearful avoidant attachment style.
42:51
And the disorganized is actually the one that has the intertwined
42:55
of their defense mechanism system and their attachment
42:57
system. So they need to move first into
42:59
organized before they might be able to feel safe to create a
43:03
relationship. So just be aware that people do
43:05
the best they can. You are a person.
43:09
If you are able to be consistent and can she loving and her
43:13
consciousness, that means you know how to be as end master.
43:16
So you don't take offense when people get whatever they get,
43:19
but you learn how not to talk and that's because the nervous
43:24
system of those people will come out anyways.
43:27
When you feel that you can be yourself with the heart of you,
43:33
that's when you know you're in the right space.
43:36
It's a people who draw out of you more of the essence of life
43:40
that you are, and they want more of it.
43:44
So the part of what and how they interact, this is where you'll
43:48
want to understand what their attachment style or category is,
43:53
because that's the part that might create a disconnect.
43:57
And this is only for, again, those of you who are looking to
44:00
build relationships with all walks of life and direct
44:03
communication. Long story short, I hope you
44:05
enjoyed this new type of piece of content.
44:08
We'll be back with it potentially, because I do love
44:10
Can we talk? Of course we can.
44:12
And I want us to talk about more of those who are consistently
44:17
open to different types of dialogue on all topics.
44:20
So have a wonderful day. We'll be back again with more.