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- 1:07gummies. When I grew up it was get good grades, study the thing you want to study and your life
- 1:12is going to be amazing. But they don't tell you that road is paved with a bunch of lies.
- 1:17Imagine this you're drowning in debt stressed out by the weight of financial burdens and convinced
- 1:22that wealth is for someone else someone luckier or more privileged. Now picture the complete
- 1:26opposite financial peace total freedom and becoming a self-made millionaire. The most paramount
- 1:32thing in your adult life is the credit score and so I started chasing that and so you just sort of
- 1:36swipe and swipe and swipe and it trains your body to be okay with debt. The idea of just
- 1:41accumulating debt and having that be your path to a peaceful non-stressful life is a total myth.
- 1:46I pulled my credit report someone had used my social security number. I had more in debt than I had
- 1:51in salary. I found the Ramsey plan and it changed my life so I went through it and decided I can
- 1:55do an 18 months of him willing to give up these things. If you're just willing to make a small
- 1:59sacrifice it will pay dividends for the rest of your life. This is the story of George, an ordinary
- 2:04guy who once fell into every money trap you can think of credit cards student loans and a culture
- 2:09that glorified debt. Today George is a sought after speaker co-host of the Ramsey show America's
- 2:15second largest talk radio show and a champion for helping others break free from toxic money myths.
- 2:20Money should not be the goal. Money is a tool to help you accomplish your goals.
- 2:2497% of the 10,000 millionaires that we studied said that they can control their financial
- 2:30destiny. It has nothing to do with money. It would be about character. Your character matters.
- 2:34That's what will carry you through life and as a byproduct I think people find success.
- 2:38This conversation will challenge how you think about money success and what it means to truly live
- 2:43like no one else. Welcome to success story. I'm your host, Scott Clary. The success story podcast is
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- 3:46You went from around $80,000 in debt to millionaire status and along the way
- 3:53you discovered a lot about breaking free from the system that I think most people miss.
- 4:00So talk to me a little bit about your journey because you described yourself as sort of an
- 4:04average millennial with very average debt and very average education in terms of you know I'm
- 4:10putting money into college and I'm gonna go live the American dream and I'm gonna go find a job.
- 4:15So what did you discover about this system that a lot of people find themselves in and that was
- 4:19broken? Well like a lot of people when I grew up it was you know go to school get good grades
- 4:26get into the college of your dreams study the thing you want to study and your life is going to
- 4:30be amazing but what they don't tell you is that that road is paved with a bunch of lies because
- 4:36you get to the end of that and you're $100,000 in student loan debt you have some credit card debt
- 4:41you've got a car payment and you're trying to achieve this American dream with an 800 pound
- 4:46gorilla strapped on your back and so you're feeling the weight that's what people are feeling
- 4:50today when they're living paycheck to paycheck in their 20s and 30s it's mainly because they
- 4:54fell for those lies early on and so what I realized is that the system is designed to keep you
- 5:00broke if you follow this current kind of toxic money culture we find ourselves in what do you
- 5:05learn well at 18 you got to open a credit card get as many as you can utilize all the rewards
- 5:11in meanwhile companies are raking in billions of dollars Americans are going into record levels
- 5:15of credit card debt every year then they tell you well you're an adult now you need a nice car you
- 5:19can't be driving around that hoopty from high school so you pick up a $500 car payment so you can
- 5:24feel like all right I'm an adult now then what do they tell you stop renting stop renting you
- 5:28got to get a mortgage you got to get a mortgage get a house get a house in the from the boomers
- 5:31who got to pay $30,000 for their house you know years ago so all of these decisions have left
- 5:37left us really strapped capped zapped financially and we're left to pick up the pieces and that was
- 5:43me graduating from college you know with a bunch of credit card debt with a bunch of student loan debt
- 5:48climbing my way out and luckily I found the Ramsey plan and it changed my life getting out of that
- 5:53mess you know it's funny I always thought that one of the most predatory things was those little
- 5:58credit card booths that they have on university campuses during frost or rush or whatever it is and
- 6:04I'm like man this has to be one of the worst decisions financially to get into out of young age
- 6:10because first of all yeah people use credit cards but you don't know what you're doing you don't
- 6:14know what credit card you're signing up for you don't know what you're you're not using that stuff
- 6:17for strategic debt either you're using that stuff to go out to bars and to go shopping and for food
- 6:23and then on top of that you have all the debt that the university puts on to you and you have
- 6:26student loans you have lines of lines of credit that are advertised and marketed to you like I
- 6:31went through the same thing I was very fortunate because I was in a position where I actually got
- 6:38a fair amount of my tuition paid for because my mom worked for the university and that's actually
- 6:42one of the smart life hack it is a big life hack but not everybody can do that so when you were
- 6:50going through this system now hindsight's 2020 looking back but what were some of the things that
- 6:57you I mean like what was that did you participate in credit cards you start to take out a line of
- 7:03credit for school like walk us through your situation because I think that's going to make it
- 7:08really real for people that are going through it right now absolutely yeah so I grew up with
- 7:13immigrant parents they're from the Middle East from Egypt and Syria so when they came to the states
- 7:17they kind of adapted to this American money culture and when it came to college it was kind of
- 7:22just like oh we'll figure it out and I went wow they've they've got some money sitting around
- 7:26they're not worried about this at all what that turned into was hey we're going to help you take
- 7:31out loans in your name to go to college and so I didn't fully understand what was happening when
- 7:37you're 17 or 18 you're just bright eyed bushy tails ready to take on the world and pursue it your
- 7:41dream and then on top of that I was told well you got to have a you got to build your credit score
- 7:47that's the most paramount thing in your adult life is the credit score is this three digit number
- 7:52that tells you America what's your word financially and so I started chasing that and to do that
- 7:57I had opened a credit card and so I got the mx sky mile so I thought well I'll be able to visit my
- 8:03parents that Thanksgiving for free if I get this credit card and then I got the discover cashback
- 8:08because had rotating cashback at restaurants and entertainment and I thought that's a smart thing
- 8:13while I'm going out I might as well make money and so these are the kinds of decisions you make at
- 8:1718 years old as a knucklehead and so that led me down this primrose path and there's a sunk
- 8:23cost fallacy that a lot of experience where you go what's another payment I'll get that next month
- 8:29I'll worry about at the end of the month when the credit card bill comes in and so you just sort of
- 8:33swipe and swipe and swipe and it trains your body to be okay with debt and one of the most controversial
- 8:39things that ramsey has been preaching for 30 years now is that there is no such thing as good debt
- 8:45we're okay with a mortgage debt we won't you know yell at you for getting the mortgage and
- 8:49paying it off but the idea of just accumulating debt and having that be your path to a peaceful
- 8:54non-stressful life is a total myth and a lot of people are falling for it thanks to social media
- 8:59it's interesting right because then you start to look at and I know you speak about this a lot you
- 9:03start to look at your credit score and to increase your credit score what do what do people say well
- 9:09open more lines of credit and have a couple more credit cards and you know don't don't use it all
- 9:14don't worry don't use it all but you have to get these credit cards to be able to increase your
- 9:18credit scores then you can afford a mortgage and then you can afford to borrow more money and you
- 9:22can put yourself in more debt and you can pay more for things than they are really worth so this
- 9:27it's this I think there's a huge issue with early like early childhood education around finance
- 9:34because there is none there really is no smart early childhood education around finance so then we
- 9:39just succumb to whatever is marketed to us but when you okay so you are a typical millennial
- 9:46you're you graduated university college you have all this that you're working side hustles to
- 9:53make ends we can try and pay off this debt as well what I think is already more ambitious than
- 9:57most people just try and get this job and work a nine to five w two so what was the sort of like the
- 10:05the straw that broke the camel's back so to speak in terms of I need to fix my life I'm not happy
- 10:11I'm not being I'm not able to pay off my debt the traditional system is broken what was that
- 10:16sort of inflection point in your life that pushed you to go discover Ramsay pushed you to go look
- 10:20at money differently well the the irony here is that you know I'm literally a camel George camel
- 10:26and so the straw that broke my back here was when I got I had identity theft and so I pulled my
- 10:32credit report because I got calls from collectors being like hey you owe us money on this AT&T bill
- 10:37and I'm like I don't even have AT&T I going from a Verizon collector going hey you owe us money
- 10:41and Verizon I'm like dude what what's going on here so I pulled my credit report and found that
- 10:45someone had used my social security number address name all these things to open up these
- 10:51credit lines at these phone companies and so that's when I saw the scarier part was seeing all
- 10:56of my debt listed out on that credit report I had never seen it I was just kind of heading the
- 11:01sand going I think I have some over here with Sally man I think I've got some over here here's
- 11:05my credit card bill I get the picture but seeing it all right there and realizing that I had more
- 11:11in debt than I had in salary that was a gut wrenching moment lump in the throat pit of the stomach
- 11:18where you're just like oh my gosh how did I get here like I'm $40,000 in debt and I make $37,000
- 11:24like how am I going to ever pay this off it felt like just chains and that's when I had discovered
- 11:30Ramsay and it was my first kind of big boy job they they let me work here as an email marketing
- 11:36coordinator that was my first job and I figured it out convinced them I could do the job and so
- 11:41that's when I went through financial piece university which is our flagship nine lesson money course
- 11:46and as a new team member if you haven't gone through financial piece university you're required
- 11:49to go through it to get you know a full picture of here's here's what we do this is the product that
- 11:54has changed a lot of people's lives you need to be in on this mission if you're going to work here
- 11:59so I went through it and decided oh my gosh I can actually get out of this and it's not going to
- 12:03take a lifetime it's going to take me 18 months I can do it 18 months if I'm willing to do these
- 12:09things if I'm willing to give up these things and so there's the thing I wanted which was debt
- 12:14freedom there's the price that I had to pay to get that and then there was the willingness to pay
- 12:19that price and the best thing about financial piece university is it shows you here's the price
- 12:24you didn't have to pay but it also motivates you to have the willingness to do it that's where a lot
- 12:28of people stop they see the price and I go no thank you I'm not going to sell the car I'm not going
- 12:33to get two more side jobs I'm not willing to do that I want comfort but I was willing to be
- 12:38uncomfortable for a short season for 18 months so that I could have peace on the other side for
- 12:43the next 18 years and that's that's the trade off that I just want everyone to grasp if you're
- 12:50just willing to make a small sacrifice for a short period of time it will pay dividends for
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- 14:05the different things that we sort of just touched on we spoke about credit cards and line of credits
- 14:09and mortgages and and leasing your car and credit score they're all damaging to various degrees
- 14:16but I think that some people would argue that there's a place for all of those in people's lives
- 14:20as well there's some there's some utility to getting out a mortgage if you or maybe there is
- 14:25I don't know I know that Ramsey has a pretty hard and fast opinion on on debt right so out of all
- 14:32those things is there a place for them at all in a an early person's life is there anything they
- 14:39can use strategically is there any point for example of trying to even focus on a credit score
- 14:44are all these things really just myths that are going to damage your your life your ability to
- 14:48afford things your ability to build wealth later on well I had these fears as well you know when
- 14:53when you dive into the Ramsey plan and it's like hey cut up all of your credit cards close them down
- 14:58and you know don't worry about your credit score eventually it's going to disappear and you're
- 15:02going to live life without it just fine these are things that you know when you're young you're
- 15:06scared you're like I don't know that's not what I've heard and then living it out personally
- 15:11when I cut up my cards in that class I closed the accounts I paid off the cards my credit score
- 15:16went to indeterminable within about six or eight months it was just gone and then I want to have
- 15:22to rent an apartment and they're like oh you'll just need a little more deposit and as long as
- 15:26you have proof of income and you don't have a criminal history you're fine I went oh okay so that
- 15:30was one myth busted I went to rent a car without a credit card or credit score and then went wow
- 15:34yeah we have a debit card policy you'll seem to add a little more to the deposit upfront but other
- 15:38than that you're good to go and I went oh wow another myth busted and then I went to get a house
- 15:43to get a mortgage and this was the big kahuda everyone goes well you need a credit score to get a
- 15:47house to get a mortgage and I went through a process called manual underwriting to no score alone
- 15:53and this is what they used to do back in the 70s and 80s before credit scores were rampant they
- 15:58would look at your act a real person would look at your personal financial history look at your
- 16:03income you do have stable income look at your tax returns look at all these things to go do you
- 16:08have the ability to repay this mortgage do you have a solid down payment what is your debt to
- 16:12income ratio and so based on all those parameters they gave me mortgage with no credit score
- 16:18and so that's when I realized that there really isn't a lot of hoops to jump through and my life
- 16:22is actually better having opted out of this system entirely and so that takes that's a big sort
- 16:30of a curve if you can make that curve you're going to be just fine but a lot of people they go no
- 16:34thank you I'm going to keep living the way I'm living or I'm going to do it for a tax deduction
- 16:39or my tax guy said I can write this off I'm going to do the lease and they're trying to finesse
- 16:44the system and it's burning so many mental calories that could be used for you know more beneficial
- 16:50things to your life and that's what I'm saying out there you can you can live a life in the system
- 16:55and you can build wealth but what I found is it's much more peaceful and simpler to just buck
- 16:59the system entirely when you look at bucking the system and getting rid of the credit score what
- 17:04it's forcing you to do is to not be over leveraged and to be more financially responsible because
- 17:09now like you're saying they're asking you to actually just reserve a little bit more of your cash
- 17:14for the purchase you're making which is just smart financial sense anyways because how do people
- 17:18get into trouble they just over leverage themselves I'm very curious in your opinion what would be
- 17:25the most predatory financial product that you've seen people get hooked into oh man there's so
- 17:33many it's like choosing your least favorite child you know there's there's the most predatory
- 17:40for different people groups so I'm going to I'm going to say for lower income folks the payday
- 17:45loan and the tote the note car lot those are the most predatory products out there because it puts
- 17:51you in an endless cycle when you have a 400% interest rate it feels impossible to climb out of that
- 17:57even if it's a low amount of debt it makes it so difficult to get out of that and so you're left
- 18:02re-entering that cycle over and over again then we look at the middle class the biggest wealth
- 18:07killer is the car payment and as cars have gotten more expensive you know the same thing happened
- 18:12with student loans we saw this the colleges said hey the governments are going to back the student
- 18:16loan companies so we can increase tuition because people will just take out more loans because the
- 18:22student loan companies are happy to give it because the money's backed by the government and so you
- 18:26saw this just spiral out of control and tuition you know blew past the rate of inflation the
- 18:32rate of the housing market everything it just exploded the same thing kind of happened with the
- 18:36car the car market post-COVID you know supply and demand issues we got to make the chips we got
- 18:42to increase the supply and car manufacturers went well we could raise prices and people will
- 18:46still take out loans because what's a $500 car payment versus a $350 car payment and people
- 18:52are already used to payments into their life so we saw the average car payment increase to over
- 18:57$700 now and people are just going well you got to have a car payment you got to drive something
- 19:02reliable you got to drive something safe and I'm like dude a 2003 Honda Accord is safer than some
- 19:08of the cars that are out there on the road to the okay that thing's a beast you cannot take it down
- 19:12and so we also have justified a lot of these purchases emotionally and psychologically
- 19:18truthfully because we just want them we want the nicer car we want the nicer house we don't want
- 19:23to have to budget and save up and pay for things with money we actually have we'll just put it on
- 19:28the card and then as you look at the younger generations they've really gone away from credit cards
- 19:33but now they're addicted to buy now pay later a firm and clarinet all these services because they
- 19:39go well credit card equals bad I know that 25% interest that's not good but would buy now pay later
- 19:45I can still have all the things I want now without having to need the money right now upfront
- 19:50so that's another addiction for the younger generations and then of course the credit cards one
- 19:54are the kind of the overarching nemesis from you know people in their 30s to people in their 60s
- 20:01were just so used to it you have 16 cards in your wallet now that you've justified for different
- 20:06purposes maybe it was a there was a bonus with points if you sign and then we see this new credit
- 20:10card act they're trying to pass that basically will crush credit card rewards and so now people
- 20:16are petitioning against this I don't know if you've seen no what is this and there's in so basically
- 20:21Visa and Mastercard have had the monopoly as the processors in its crushing business owners
- 20:26you know when you look at the fees they're charging business owners the extra 3% or 3.5%
- 20:31if it's an MX card that's why a lot of businesses say we don't take MX because they're not going
- 20:35to take a 4% hit on every purchase for the pleasure of you swiping your MX so what they're saying
- 20:40is hey there's going to be other processors that are going to enter the space you're not going to
- 20:44have the monopoly on it and that's going to hurt all of the reward systems that are tied to that so
- 20:50capital on discover all of these places that have the Visa Mastercard logo on it and so when you look
- 20:56at how they're able to devalue points at any time the fact that people don't even redeem them the
- 21:00blackout dates the mental psychology of what is 100,000 points oh it's a $10 gift card I didn't
- 21:07realize that it just felt good to be a chucky cheese getting more points and more points
- 21:12so that one overall is is I wouldn't say it's as predatory as the others but it's definitely one
- 21:17of the biggest killers because it's sort of a silent killer because the payment is low
- 21:22you're let's a $200 monthly payment on my credit card the problem is you're never going to
- 21:26pay that thing off making that minimum payment you've got to be putting a thousand bucks on that
- 21:31balance in order to make it go away forever and so there's there's a lot out there and the first
- 21:36two-thirds of my book breaking free from broke I systematically am going after the credit score
- 21:41the credit card the auto loan investing traps mortgage traps to help people go hey I know this is
- 21:47what we have all believed but there's a different path and here's what you need to know and I do it
- 21:51with a lot of research and also a lot of humor because this stuff can get heavy if you're not
- 21:55making jokes about it I think it's stressful because what you do is you're you're really just
- 21:58re-educating people on how to look at finance and it's really a paradigm shift from everything they've
- 22:04known their entire young and adult life people know this but everybody buys a house with a
- 22:10mortgage a majority of people buy a house with a mortgage and when you start to do the math and you
- 22:14start to figure out how much extra this house is costing me over 25 or 30 years it hurts like it
- 22:20really it's really really hurts it's a very uncomfortable conversation because then it forces
- 22:26people to understand that the financial system is not there to benefit them so they kind of have
- 22:32to take their own financial future into their own hands which isn't uncomfortable thought
- 22:36I mean you you have stats and you have data but if you don't use your credit cards if you have
- 22:43nothing on your credit cards there are credit card companies that will just shut your card down
- 22:49you're doing all the right things you open a line of credit you open a credit card you're not
- 22:53using it because you're not using it they're not making money off of you so then they shut it down
- 22:57oh exactly well they're always offering you well hey if you do good we'll give you more
- 23:01line of credit or hey hey your credit score could be higher if you opened up more lines here you go
- 23:07that's the marketing we hear the marketing is never hey before you make that purchase is it in the
- 23:11budget did you save up do you actually have the money and savings is it gonna derail other financial
- 23:15goals have you invested in your Roth IRA yet nobody's marketing do you like that they're going hey
- 23:20buddy over here I got some candy in the van you want some more line of credit and we're falling
- 23:24for it as adults we're going sure absolutely and it's it's not because we're dumb it's because
- 23:30we've been led to believe all these things in society misguided guidance counselors well-meaning
- 23:35parents they're all complicit in this crime of leading us to the source of of pain and frustration
- 23:41and as I talk about in the book the inflection point is realizing that it's not all your fault
- 23:46but it is your responsibility so if you just say it's it's not your fault then that says well I'm
- 23:52just a victim of life life happened to me but it's not all your fault meaning there were other
- 23:57things there were other sources there were other influences forces at play here but you're still
- 24:01the one who signed the dotted line for that credit card you need to take responsibility because if
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- 24:58you get your podcasts what do you advocate for when somebody is just graduated university college
- 25:04maybe they do have some debt because they had to take up money and then you know they didn't have
- 25:08a mom who worked for the university they had to actually pay it off themselves had to take
- 25:12us some student loans what's the strategy what's the 18 month strategy that people should
- 25:18should adopt so that they start to go down the right path are there any investments that do make
- 25:22sense is it about uh making a job and doing all these side hustles is it easier to be frugal or
- 25:30is it easier to make more money all these different thoughts i i know that i'm not spending money
- 25:35on stupid shit but what do i do next what's the strategic move in my career so that i can actually
- 25:42make money and live the life that i want that's a great question well step zero is stop borrowing
- 25:47money you got to stop the bleeding here we got to stop the source of the pain and once you decide
- 25:52i'm done with debt i'm taking debt off the table i'm not going to keep swiping that card i'm not
- 25:56going to go get more debt your next step is to kind of do a financial audit what is my actual
- 26:01financial reality what am i making what am i spending and the way you do that is through a budget
- 26:06it's a lot of people hate the dreaded b word because they go oh my gosh it's so restrictive
- 26:10budgets are for broke people or i don't make enough to budget and that's the most hilarious part
- 26:14is everyone can find their own reason to opt out but i realize until i did a budget i was going to
- 26:19stay broke and so listing out your income listing out your expenses and going all right i have to
- 26:24live on less than i make that is the singular goal this month and every month if i make 5,000 i
- 26:29can't spend 5,500 i can't do it that's what got me to this place and so once you do that budget
- 26:35you'll find out very quickly do i have margin to spare to start attacking my debt and hitting my
- 26:40financial goals or am i in the red do i need to create more income and cut spending and so there's
- 26:46a formula for this thing called margin that's what you're needing here you need margin we talk about
- 26:50this in business all the time profit margin so margin is really there's two ways to get it you either
- 26:55need to make more or spend less and i highly recommend both especially if you're in this if you're
- 27:01in this phase of life where you're going all right i need to get out of debt i need to get my
- 27:04savings in place i got to start investing my income and so there's a lot of ways to spend less
- 27:09right we all know you can hey let's evaluate the subscriptions let's do a no spend month let's stop
- 27:15eating out there's all kinds of things that take sacrifice like i mentioned what are you willing to
- 27:19give up you're gonna have to give up a few subscriptions you're gonna have to give up eating out
- 27:22you're gonna have to give up just willy nilly spending on you know little treats during the day
- 27:26you're going out for lunch the gas station runs whatever it is for you and then on the other side
- 27:32you got to make more and that might mean hey i can't just go get a 20% raise at my normal job
- 27:39i need to go get some side hustles right now and the best way to do that is to use the skills that
- 27:43you have that's gonna be your best way to make like good money fast is i'm gonna go do freelancing
- 27:49with the current skill set that i have you could also do the kind of gig economy jobs like uber lift
- 27:55instacart whatever it is that you can just sign up for today and go make money
- 27:59but some of the best money you can make if you're just an average person and you don't have a high
- 28:04skill set is just go dog sit dog walk babysit handyman work i mean you can charge a high hourly rate
- 28:11and be making 25 30 50 bucks an hour doing these things in your neighborhood without even having to
- 28:17go far and so that there is some great ones there on top of going hey how do i get my core income
- 28:22if i make $30,000 a year it's going to take more money to get out of a hundred thousand
- 28:27dollars of debt i got to go make $60,000 so what is the education the skills i need to level up
- 28:33in my career or even switch career paths entirely and once you do that you can start following the
- 28:39ramsey baby steps and getting out of debt and doing all the things you're just being more aggressive
- 28:43about your career to things a good thing and i think that i've had this conversation a lot and
- 28:49i thought about it a lot i think that if you want to be happy and fulfilled and successful whatever
- 28:54however redefine that in life there will be seasons of your life that are uncomfortable and unbalanced
- 29:00and i think that when you are in your 20s before you have a family that's why i love entrepreneurship
- 29:07because you can have this season of unbalanced amount of work that contribute that can eventually
- 29:12contribute to your overall life goals whether or not and it can be dog walking making a couple extra
- 29:18bucks there it can be if you're a great marketer if you want to run social media for somebody use
- 29:23you're selling your services on fiber or upwork you can do uber there's so many different ways to
- 29:28make money and technically all those are very entrepreneurial but it's just side hustles really
- 29:32that if you are living a frugal life and you're making an extra thousand bucks a month that adds up
- 29:39that really does add up and you can you can give you know 10 12 hours of your day to work to make
- 29:48that money so that you can be happy later on when you do want to spend time with your kids and have
- 29:53a little bit more of that balance and i think that that's also very important because when you
- 29:58look at your balance or you look at your budget you start to figure out how to create more margin
- 30:04you're also not wasting time like drinking on the weekends or going out parting because now you
- 30:09understand your priorities you understand this is a beautiful prime moment of your life where you
- 30:14have the time and energy to do all the extra stuff that's just going to contribute in the long run
- 30:20so it's just like a healthier lifestyle across the board i don't know if you when you talk to
- 30:24students there's probably a couple responsible ones but i would say that most people don't even think
- 30:30this way when they're you know 18 19th 2021 well absolutely well there you know there's the
- 30:36phomo and so what i like to do is flip it into jomo the joy of missing out the joy of going listen
- 30:42there there's like oh my gosh i'm not and there's the the joy of going hey i'm running my own race
- 30:47i'm being productive i feel a level of dignity and excitement about my future versus feeling like
- 30:53i'm just wasting my life away going to another bar on a friday night with my buddies who also don't
- 30:58want to make anything of themselves and so you got to really surround yourself with the right
- 31:02people a lot of times you know relationships and money have a strong tie and you become who you
- 31:08hang around and so if you a bunch of your friends want to stay in debt and make terrible choices to
- 31:12you know kind of prop up a lifestyle then you need to exit that friend group and find different
- 31:18friends and that's a difficult breaking away and it's not that you're better than them and that
- 31:23you're like hey guys i'm doing my own thing and you guys just just just go hey i've got goals
- 31:29can't make it and eventually they realize all right this guy's not a part of this anymore he's
- 31:34opted out he's running his own and they'll probably be intrigued by what you're doing they go dude
- 31:38you're like a different person how way you you got a new job good for you you got out of how do
- 31:43you do that and so i like to you know instead of ramming financial wisdom down people's throats
- 31:49i want to live my life in such a way that they go what's he doing i got to ask him about that
- 31:54now they're intrigued and they're more willing to follow whatever plan you're doing you know i see
- 31:58a guy with a six pack i have questions when i see a guy with a beer belly i'm not like dude how'd
- 32:03you get that body tell me more and the same thing applies when it comes to money and so you know
- 32:08Dave Ramsey for many years now has been building a business completely debt free the building that
- 32:13we're sitting in has never had a incentive mortgage on it because of Dave's principles and so
- 32:19i am inspired by the way david built wealth there's a lot of people that are inspired by you know
- 32:24robbera kiyosaki in the way he's leveraged debt to build wealth that's fine i'm not for everyone
- 32:29i'm for the person who wants to do this peacefully without the stress of being so over leveraged
- 32:35that your families on the brink of disaster i can't live like that i got a baby you know like
- 32:39you're i think life changes once you have a family and you realize i can't live life on the
- 32:43edge because of some tiktok i can't just put it all on black and roulette and hope for the best
- 32:48i gotta just do a budget put it put away money my 401k save for her any day and live on those
- 32:54that i make so you're talking about this through the lens of investing i see a lot with entrepreneurship
- 32:59because that's sort of my background but not everybody wants to be a a billion dollar unicorn
- 33:04founder not everybody needs to be i think i think kiyosaki is billions of dollars at this point
- 33:09leverage in total access for the average person who does not want to commit their entire life to
- 33:14building a huge real estate portfolio maybe that's not the strategy for you maybe you just want to
- 33:22have a couple rental properties maybe you don't even want to have a rental property maybe you don't
- 33:25want to headache maybe you just want to be completely focused on your family and work is just
- 33:31work but the majority of your life is spent with your family your kids your parents whatever
- 33:36everyone has different goals and i think that that's something that a lot of financial
- 33:39the quote unquote gurus miss they think that everybody wants to be like them everybody wants to have
- 33:44a thousand doors everybody wants to build a company is worth a hundred million dollars it that's
- 33:49not the case that's really really not the case and i think that's very important to to identify
- 33:54absolutely yeah there's there's been this weird shift in social media and in the financial space
- 33:59where they're like i'm getting calls on the ramsey show where an 18-year-old is saying hey
- 34:05i need a i want a million dollars by the time i'm 25 how do i turn a hundred thousand to a million
- 34:10by 25 and i just go why and they go i don't know just a question they just hear it on social media
- 34:18spattered off and they think well if i don't have a million dollars by 25 i'm a loser and grand
- 34:24cardone is out there going if you don't make 400 grand you suck and your life is terrible and like
- 34:28weird like you got to stop believing these lies like turn off these inputs that are making you feel
- 34:33less than and instead figure out what a realistic healthy goal is with a proper motive behind it
- 34:39and you will be much happier you'll be much more successful because you're not going to fall flat
- 34:43on your face because you were over leveraged with risk and so that's where i'm going i always ask
- 34:48and then what that's my favorite new question to ask anybody who goes i'm going to do this thing
- 34:53and i want it i need a million and then what you have you have you have 50 rental properties
- 34:58and then what well then i want a hundred and then what and you realize if there's just an endless
- 35:03chase towards money with no real goal and they have failed to understand that money is simply a tool
- 35:09it's a brick you can build a building with it you can throw it through a window but it's just a
- 35:13brick it's a moral money should not be the goal money is a tool to help you accomplish your goals
- 35:20and a lot of people get that twisted especially younger people who are just getting their advice
- 35:24from social media i think that that's it's very very wise um i think that a lot of people's personal
- 35:30north stars are being replaced by some like someone on social media is north star and it's not going
- 35:36to lead you to happy life because it's not even what you want so we spoke about you can make a
- 35:40little bit more money um you can take some side hustles you can you know play entrepreneur you have
- 35:45your nine to five and you play entrepreneur from five to nine or on the weekends and then you
- 35:49make semester cash you use it to pay down your debt a lot of people and you mentioned this before
- 35:55we even pressed record are interested in frugality and i think that frugality minimalism i think they're
- 36:04interesting concepts i don't think they're clearly defined and i don't think people really understand
- 36:07what it means and what it doesn't mean and i think that sometimes people take it to an extreme and
- 36:11you'll see again gurus on youtube they have a condo with a mattress on the floor nothing else
- 36:17which i also don't think is a way to live a life so what are thoughts what are your thoughts on
- 36:20frugality uh where do they play into this journey of building wealth how do you do it properly what
- 36:26should you spend money on what you should you not spend money on if you want to be a little bit more
- 36:30frugal or minimalist we found doing a millionaire study with over 10,000 millionaires that it's not
- 36:37they got there by being frugal it's not like well i say i didn't buy it you know a Starbucks drink
- 36:42and therefore i was a millionaire a lot of people go well Dave just wants people to skip Starbucks and
- 36:46all of a sudden i'm going to be able to buy a house no what he's saying is be intentional with every
- 36:50purchase and while you're trying to achieve a goal you need to make sacrifices and one of the
- 36:55sacrifices that a lot of millionaires have made is that they don't drive Lamborghini's you're
- 37:00thinking of people who are flexing on social media multi multi multi millionaires maybe billionaires
- 37:06but the average millionaire the person who retires at you know 62 with three or four million
- 37:12dollars in net worth which by the way is a great life you know people like what am i gonna
- 37:17three million is nothing in today's world or it won't be anything in 20 years says the guy who
- 37:22doesn't have ten thousand dollars in the bank and so when we look at actual millionaires we found
- 37:27that they drove older used cars not like 25 years old but a four year old toyota or Honda
- 37:34so not a luxury car it wasn't in the top three and not a brand new car and and the other thing
- 37:41they did was they paid off their mortgage they didn't hang on to a mortgage for the tax deduction
- 37:46they actually paid it off because they were they were able to free up that mortgage payment to then
- 37:52invest more or give more or accomplish other financial goals so you know it was interesting
- 37:57seeing that study going okay there's a correlation here between people who build wealth and people
- 38:01who are intentional with every dollar and they're not cheap skates this is not extreme cheap skates
- 38:05on TLC where a guy is you know basically like skirting the lines of ethics and morals to try to
- 38:11save a buck these are just people going I'm gonna buy quality now to avoid buying more stuff later
- 38:17I'm gonna research to find the best deal I'm gonna negotiate I'm gonna find the promo code
- 38:22where it matters and another thing they did is they paid cash now or they don't buy it now
- 38:28frugal people are not swiping their credit cards in debt they're not trying to leverage a reward
- 38:34system they're simply going okay I've saved up enough money to buy a thing that I really want
- 38:39and what you'll find is that they've won it's your own money that you worked hard to say for
- 38:43you're way more intentional with that purchase I would imagine if you did a study showing what are
- 38:48people buying on credit cards versus what are they using their own money for the stuff that was
- 38:51purchased on credit cards it's probably sitting in a goodwill by now or sitting in a closet with
- 38:55tags still on it so a great question ask yourself from my friend Rachel Cruz is if nobody saw this
- 39:01purchase when I still want it nobody saw it nobody saw the clothes out where the car I drive the
- 39:07house when I still want it or was it really just to show off a little bit and frugal people just
- 39:14aren't concerned about what other people think it's one of their superpowers is they just simply
- 39:19don't care about your opinion on how they live their life so I think it's very powerful
- 39:24like I'm in Miami right now so it's it's you're probably I think seven Lamborghini's
- 39:30driven by while we've done that I have no doubt I have no doubt and the watch is the people where
- 39:35and the and the money they spend on clubs and restaurants it's just ridiculous now that Miami is not
- 39:40the whole world but Miami is a Miami is like a social media threw up on a city that is the
- 39:46pet's way to describe Miami and I think that you have to be very cognizant of how you're being
- 39:52marketed to because people are selling you again the people are selling you how do you
- 39:58you know how can you build stronger relationships with your friends are selling you how can you
- 40:02look sexier how can you feel like you're being marketed to all the time and if you succumb to
- 40:07all this marketing the things you're buying are never really for you they're all for your friends
- 40:12or the people that don't really care about you anyways maybe yeah you buy it to flexing your
- 40:17in your little group but if you're posting that stuff on social media it's not for your friends
- 40:21or your peers or your family it's for people that you don't even know and it's just a very toxic
- 40:26culture I mean that that culture of social media buying these ridiculous brand names overleverging
- 40:33yourself of like a firm clarina all these buy now pay later and get and putting money into things
- 40:40that you can't even afford just to post it on social I think that's almost as toxic as
- 40:48you know the whole predatory finance industry it's just as bad it's really just as bad and I think
- 40:54that right now we have people that are succumbing to both so they again they want to they want to look
- 40:58cool but they also want to over leverage themselves to achieve that status and it's just a really
- 41:04nasty spot for people that are young I didn't grow up with social media so I never had to deal with
- 41:08it but I can only imagine what it would be like growing up now with all this pressure to look a
- 41:13certain way or to have a certain thing or thinking that success means you drive a lambo or success
- 41:19means you're always in a different country on vacation I think that it's tough dude it's very tough
- 41:25like I there's a lot of psychological trauma that must go on when people are exposed to social
- 41:30at a young age I think that's probably what drives a lot of this yeah and we're all craving deep
- 41:34down we're just like hey I want to put my head on the pillow at night and be able to sleep well
- 41:39and have the people in my life actually want to hang out with me and like me have decent
- 41:43relationships with my family have a functional family that I actually want to be around I want to
- 41:48have time to explore the things I want to do instead of do things I have to do and yet we pursue a
- 41:54path that removes all of that from our lives if we got to make that next bill because we're over
- 41:59leverage in debt because we got four hundred dollars in our car payment we got two hundred bucks
- 42:03in the credit card payment we have to go to the job we hate we don't have time for our hobbies
- 42:07and so what I'm all after is I want to talk about money so that we can stop talking about money
- 42:12because then we can actually pursue things that really matter money is just an obstacle holding
- 42:17us back and until we turn it into that tool to create a life that doesn't exhaust us we're going to
- 42:22be running in this rat race and the problem is when you run other people's races there's no finish
- 42:27line the goalpost will keep moving when you're going well I got to have what they have over there
- 42:32and the grass always gets a little bit greener on the other side you always want a little bit more
- 42:36and so contentment is a huge I mean that is that's the antidote is contentment and gratitude and
- 42:43by byproduct that is generosity when you're more open-handed and you're giving you're less
- 42:49focused on yourself less focus on what other people think about you and so that's something I
- 42:53turn to when I tend to get that way because I'm not a perfect human there's moments where you're
- 42:58like just I wish I had what they have I just got to go look at the life I have now like me from
- 43:0410 years ago their mind would be blown if they could see where you are now the family that you have
- 43:10the things that you have the level of wealth you've built and so it's it's hard because we live in
- 43:14such a fast-paced society we're just so future-thinking we never stop to realize how far we've even come
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- 45:04mentioned it rooms our long-term goal planning and our long-term thinking what was more personally
- 45:10for you when you look at all the different money rules that Ramsey teaches what do you think was
- 45:16the hardest one for you to incorporate into your life so if I'm thinking through the baby steps
- 45:23you've got you know baby step one thousand dollar emergency fund baby step two get rid of debt using
- 45:28the debt snowball method baby step three get the emergency fund saved up three to six months of
- 45:32expenses baby step four and that's 15% of your income into retirement baby step five save for
- 45:38college baby step six pay off the mortgage early and then baby step seven living give like no one
- 45:44and so now being in that baby step seven phase what I've realized is it's it's actually a difficult
- 45:50spot to be in because your body has been training to go all right I need to get real tight I need to
- 45:58keep my hands closed fisted I need to create that margin and so apart that I'm really wanting to
- 46:03get better at this year is on the giving side is going how can I be more open to the opportunities
- 46:08around me to give and be more open handed instead of going well I could use that to get a rental
- 46:14property I could use that to build more wealth or put more money into my daughter's five 29 college
- 46:19savings plan so what's helped me is having very specific goal for each area and that way there is
- 46:25margin to do those things because I pre-planned it when you don't pre-planned where your money is
- 46:29going when you don't do that budget it's easy to let the money just sort of float away into things
- 46:34that don't matter or just stack up a savings account and so it's been a fun exercise to go where
- 46:40do I have a flat tire in my life when it comes to giving spending saving and how can I set clear
- 46:45concrete goals so that that tire can stay intact and that's been a fun challenge for me but paying
- 46:51off the house when you look at just the sheer dollar amount when you look at a mortgage when you're
- 46:56looking at 200,000 300,000 it's you got to eat the elephant one bite at a time one bite at a time
- 47:02and so that's the making that extra mortgage payment when you can that was a that was a fun
- 47:07challenge but it was definitely the hardest for my wife and I because you're going this is a big
- 47:11mountain like I remember $40,000 in debt like I thought that was insurmountable and now you're looking
- 47:16at $250,000 on a mortgage going we're going to knock this out in a few years how are we going to do
- 47:21that but it's amazing what happens when you just have a focus goal you're tracking it you're going
- 47:26all right if we just make one extra mortgage payment right here we're going to pay it off this
- 47:30much faster we're going to save this much in interest and looking at that the amortization
- 47:34schedule on your mortgage seeing how much interest you're paying see how much you could save if
- 47:38you made an extra payment that lit a fire under us and I think it likes to find her under a lot of
- 47:42people to get rid of that mortgage faster yeah I mean if you look at the amortization and the total
- 47:47amount that you're going to pay over the course of your mortgage you could almost buy a second home
- 47:51yeah I mean most people now with interest rates where they are you're talking about paying an extra
- 47:56$300,000 on top of your mortgage to the lender as a thank you and that's why we recommend a 15
- 48:02year mortgage a lot of people get up and arms go well I want the flexibility in the wiggle room
- 48:07of a 30 year and who can afford a well who can afford to give a lender an extra 300 grand that's
- 48:12insane and so I'd rather have that money in my hands to do better with it than making a lender
- 48:18richer to sponsor the next you know Taylor Swift tour when when do you invest where do you invest
- 48:25you mentioned 401k's that's obviously sort of the more traditional investment super super safe
- 48:31that's sometimes company sponsored and they do some sort of matching as there as well but what are
- 48:38some of the investment ideas that you think would help people so where do you put your money when
- 48:44you start to have a little bit extra you budgeted everything you know that you have some margin
- 48:48if there anything else you should put money into well I kind of see it as as buckets and as
- 48:53the buckets get full you move on to another bucket and so in baby step four when we say invest 15
- 48:57percent of your household income gross income into retirement accounts that for a lot of people
- 49:03that would be a 401k if you're a traditional employer it might be a 403b it might be a TSP if
- 49:09you're a government or military and a lot of people like like you they're going hey I'm self-employed
- 49:13I guess I can't invest or I'm going to put my money in a single stock and there's a lot of great
- 49:19investment options for those that are self-employed freelancers business owners and at one
- 49:25example if you're solo or if you're solo plus a spouse is a solo 401k that's a great option or
- 49:30you can dump a lot of money into that thing with tax advantages there's also a set IRA that you
- 49:36can get if you have a bigger team and then as you expand the company you could create that 401k
- 49:41plan but there's a you know those are the main ones and then anyone with earned income can open a
- 49:45Roth IRA so you have a traditional IRA and then you have the Roth IRA which is very similar but
- 49:51it's using after tax money so you don't get a tax deduction on it but that money's going to grow
- 49:55tax-free and you can withdraw it tax-free you already paid Uncle Sam once so if that account that
- 50:00Roth IRA has two million in it that's like two million dollars of take home pay in your life at
- 50:04retirement and so those are the buckets we look at when it comes to retirement now when you get to
- 50:10that baby step seven mark you have a paid forehouse you can increase investing from 15% to 20 30 40 50
- 50:17percent if you want and eventually if you make enough money you're going to run out of options when
- 50:21it comes to your traditional retirement accounts because the Roth IRA has a seven thousand dollar
- 50:26limit the 401k has the 22,500 dollar limit and so once you get above those as you start to really
- 50:33build some serious wealth and get your income up you can then go into a taxable brokerage account
- 50:38so this won't have the tax advantages of a retirement account but it's a great place to
- 50:43socket away money that you can use before retirement so a lot of people say hey I might want a
- 50:48retire at 50 and pursue something else well you can use this as sort of a bridge account to bridge
- 50:53the gap between 50 and 59 and a half when you can access those funds in retirement without penalty
- 51:00and so that's where I put my money I try to max out the 401k in a Roth I love anything Roth
- 51:05is my friend because I know I'm I got the variables in check I know that what the tax rates are
- 51:11now I don't know what they'll be 20 30 years from now there's also no required minimum distributions
- 51:16RMDs on those Roth accounts because you've already paid Uncle Sam when you have the traditional
- 51:21accounts Uncle Sam says hey don't hang on to that to your 90 we need a piece of that pie and so
- 51:26they require you to take money out of that account so that they get their share before you pass
- 51:32away and so you know when it comes to the retirement accounts I'm a big fan of the Roth IRA a Roth 401K
- 51:38or Roth TSP Roth 403B whatever version you have of that and then moving on to the taxable accounts
- 51:45and then a secret sort of one that's not talked about a lot is the health savings account and HSA
- 51:51and this is part of your health insurance so if you have a high deductible health plan and HDHP
- 51:56they come with NHSA a health savings account it's just like a normal savings account
- 52:01but it should be used for health expenses but what's cool about this is that once you hit a threshold
- 52:06usually a thousand bucks in that account anything beyond that you can invest just like you wouldn't
- 52:11a 401k and so you can actually build some serious wealth you know up to the maximum that's allowed
- 52:16to for contributions you know whether it's 4000 or 8000 of your family you can contribute more
- 52:22to invest there as well and what's really neat is that after I believe 65 years old you can
- 52:27use that money like a traditional 401k for anything now it's you have better tax advantages when
- 52:32you use it for health expenses because you get to do that tax free but it's still a great sort of
- 52:37bonus retirement account if you've run out of those other options first of all I don't think
- 52:42I've ever heard of an HSA and I feel like this is something that you probably encounter a lot there's
- 52:47all these different there's all these different financial products that people aren't educated on
- 52:53they don't understand how they work and what ends up happening is there's nothing inherently wrong
- 52:59with this but when it's happening is if you do make a little bit of extra money you think well
- 53:03listen I found a way to make some extra money I might be I might be good at making money now
- 53:09what are the chances I might be good at investing and they start doing stock picking and they start
- 53:14doing real estate and they start realizing and they start maybe they put 15 20 thousand dollars
- 53:20into into a startup that you know they're their nephew started and they oh gosh and they look at
- 53:28you just gifted your nephew 20 grand just know that they just you were not getting they look at all
- 53:32these different options and I think that one of the biggest things that I've learned as an entrepreneur
- 53:37is just because you're good at building business or just because you're good at making money say you're
- 53:42an executive in a company pulling in a couple hundred thousand dollars it does not mean you're
- 53:46a good investor it never means you're a good investor just by de facto of you to become a good
- 53:53investor you have to do it again and again and again and you have to learn how to do it properly
- 53:58and I think that when you make a lot of money you start to get a little bit of an inflated ego
- 54:05about well if I figured out how to make money over here I'm sure I can be effective over there
- 54:10and I think that that's when people start to lose quite a bit and that's when they make some really
- 54:14bad financial investment decisions which can actually ruin a lot of the progress that you've made
- 54:20in structuring your life and budgeting I mean like if you talk about people that basically lose their
- 54:26whole retirement on on poor investment and I think that's really because they're being a little
- 54:31bit too ambitious if somebody is a little bit riskier or wants to be riskier and you can tell them
- 54:36no that's a bad idea but what would be your advice for somebody that does want to play with a
- 54:40little bit of money in things that are maybe more high risk is it don't do it is it do your research
- 54:45first is it put it into a fund before you put it into into an individual pick what's sort of your
- 54:51advice for that person well the most fun way is just go to Vegas and just you know blow somebody if
- 54:56you got it that's the most fun you can have with high risk high reward but really when it comes
- 55:02down to it there are things you can do that I'm not mad at you for but you got to look at it
- 55:07this way could you put that amount of money on your kitchen table and light it on fire if that
- 55:11would give you a little pit and a stomach and that would hurt your financial world then you can't
- 55:16take that risk now if you're already investing 15% of your income into retirement and you have
- 55:21some fun money that you want to put into crypto or a single stock that's fine you know don't let
- 55:25it be a big part of your net worth don't let it be don't obsess over it the problem is a lot of
- 55:29people download you know Robinhood put some money into one of these 24 seven crypto currencies
- 55:35and then watch it with stress as it goes up and down and up and down and up and down that's not
- 55:39a peaceful way to live and you're not going to make money doing it the people that make money
- 55:44are the ones that view wealth as a crock pot and you were talking my Instagram gratification
- 55:49earlier we live in a world full of microwaves we want it now and we want more listen the S&P 500
- 55:55which is the overall US stock market return 24% in 2024 that's amazing that's a mind-blowing
- 56:03return considering when I tell people hey if you put money in retirement over this long term
- 56:08you're going to make 10 to 12% that's been the historical average and they go where are you
- 56:12getting 10% that's not I don't get that I'm like I don't know what you're invested in but if you
- 56:17just a lazy investment into the overall stock market into a mutual fund or index fund would have
- 56:22netted you 24% in 2024 now that's not the average the average is 10 to 12 it might be down 20%
- 56:30this year who knows but over if you just put the money in consistently and let it sit there
- 56:36and don't touch it don't mess with the crock pot just let it cook then you're going to look in
- 56:41there 10 years from now 20 years from now and you're going to see it continually grow and grow and grow
- 56:45and the momentum that you get from compound growth will blow your mind it's difficult to get to
- 56:51$100,000 in an investment account but then getting to a million is actually easier because of the
- 56:57momentum you're building with compound growth 10% of 100,000 is 10,000 10% of $100 is 10 bucks and so
- 57:05you see that same 10% means a whole lot more as the balance grows over time and that's your money
- 57:11making more money which is that I mean I think Einstein said it's the eighth wonder of the world
- 57:17I don't know if that we can actually attribute to him but that's what I've heard on the go thank you
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- 58:39out of all the different sort of pushback that you get for sort of the Ramsey principles
- 58:46what would be the most common pushback what would be the most common thing that people say
- 58:51I have an issue with this particular principle and how would you address that man there's so many
- 58:56that choose from okay the biggest pushback why do you think that is though why do you think there's
- 59:00so much pushback against this it's just because that's not the way the people have been taught
- 59:05how to deal with money I think it's because the timeless principles that are so unboring have now
- 59:12seem to be outdated or like this is a dinosaur kind of mentality to have that you need to save
- 59:20her rainy day use money you actually have live unless you make get on a budget people want the
- 59:27newer sexier option and therefore the older ones feel like that's not for me and you know
- 59:33gods and grandma's ways of handling money just it's it's what Dave's been selling for 30 years
- 59:38and the principles haven't changed and it's not because he's outdated it's because they still work
- 59:44and all the noise you're hearing on social media is the stuff that isn't working but you don't really
- 59:49see the stories of people going hey man I gave that guy on my money for his get rich quick course
- 59:54and uh didn't get rich quick and here we are celebrating every day people who are following the
- 1:00:00Ramsay plan getting out of debt building wealth and so the biggest pushback overall when I see
- 1:00:06here here's the sentence I hear oh I like Dave but there's always a but and the biggest one is
- 1:00:12but I don't like that he's anti debt I think there's some debt that is good and that's where people
- 1:00:18get tricked up because you can justify almost any debt as good if you try hard enough and that's
- 1:00:24what I hear all the time well here's why it's actually smarter to keep your mortgage around here's
- 1:00:29why it's wiser to use your credit card instead of using your own money debit cards are dangerous man
- 1:00:36I never I've never felt like a bad boy in my life but when people tell me I'm such a danger to
- 1:00:40society using my debit card I feel really cool uh the credit score thing it's insane that he says
- 1:00:46you can't live without a credit score I've lived it I've heard countless stories of people who have
- 1:00:51lived it and so the mythology are basically around bucking the system is the biggest pushback we
- 1:00:56get is people say George we have no option we have to be a part of the system and the truth is
- 1:01:01there's a lot of ways you can opt out of the system do I still have a bank account yes I'm not on
- 1:01:07off the grid you know with just cash stacked in cans in my backyard I'm a person who lives in
- 1:01:13society who has an HOA but when it comes to the debt system there's lots of ways to opt out and
- 1:01:19there's not a lot of hoops to jump through in order to live without debt and anecdotally this is my
- 1:01:24experience you can't argue with that I found that I have built wealth faster with more peace by
- 1:01:31bucking that system of debt by not having a credit card by not having a credit score and you know
- 1:01:37I found that the the key to building wealth was my income days been saying that for 30 years your
- 1:01:42income is your greatest wealth building tool how are you using it whether you make 300,000 or 40
- 1:01:47thousand dollars you can build wealth or you can be broke and we're seeing this increasingly
- 1:01:53happen we're seeing the stats and the headlines people who you know two out of three people making
- 1:01:57a hundred thousand dollars a year or more are broke living paycheck to paycheck so I guess it wasn't
- 1:02:02about income so when people complain to say why I need to make go make more money in my life would
- 1:02:07be better not necessarily because lifestyle creep exists you're in Miami lifestyle creep is real
- 1:02:13the more money you make the more money I get to spend baby the more debt I can leverage the more
- 1:02:18lines of credit I can have that's an exhausting way to live I don't think humans were created
- 1:02:23to just get more lines of credit to play kissy face with a bank I think we were made to contribute
- 1:02:28to this world to impact our communities to raise great families and debt is only going to be a
- 1:02:34hindrance in an obstacle whether it's financial mental or emotional when you are over leveraged
- 1:02:40psychologically you will never feel comfort and you'll never feel peace because in your subconscious
- 1:02:50you'll always feel that everything could be taken away at any moment I think it was actually
- 1:02:54can I think it was one of the guys who was talking about this but I thought it was such a fascinating
- 1:03:00idea like when you over leverage yourself even if you know even if technically you can afford
- 1:03:05the next payment deep down you feel like at any point this could be taken away because it's not
- 1:03:10actually mine and when you live that life it's always stressed and there's always anxiety and you
- 1:03:16can mask it and you can go about your day but it's not necessarily a healthy way for most people to
- 1:03:22live and I think that that's probably one of the that idea alone about you know being over leveraged
- 1:03:30in my life what happens if I lose my job then I'm going to lose my house and then now you're
- 1:03:35hitting Maslow's hierarchy of needs and how do I you know how do I take care of my family
- 1:03:41that's a lot of stress that's a lot of stress and I think that that probably is very unhealthy
- 1:03:45for a lot of people to carry around I don't think everybody is built to just handle the idea of
- 1:03:50them losing everything overnight and so I think that you had a mortgage it sometimes it can be
- 1:03:57unavoidable but make it so that however you structure your life you can take a couple hits
- 1:04:06you can lose the job and you're not going to be out on the street tomorrow and I think when
- 1:04:10you can operate from a place of just feeling safe and secure in my opinion everything improves
- 1:04:18your health improves your your mental health improves your relationship with your friends and
- 1:04:23family improve because if you don't have that peace in your mind it's very hard to do anything else
- 1:04:30absolutely my friend Dr. John Deloney who you may have had on your show he talks about this idea
- 1:04:35of solving for freedom that's what most of us really need to be doing because the problem is not
- 1:04:42you know the living paycheck to paycheck that's a symptom of something deeper
- 1:04:46we are living very anxious lives and debt is part of that I mean we've seen levels of anxiety rise
- 1:04:52we've seen record levels of debt rising every single year I think there's a strong correlation
- 1:04:57between those two things because debt equals risk risk equals stress that's the only way to put it
- 1:05:05and so when you get debt out of your life you're solving for freedom freedom to me is not being
- 1:05:09you know I see these tiktoks and they're like we're five million dollars in debt and we love it
- 1:05:14and they're like we have nineteen thousand rental properties and we're on a beach every day
- 1:05:18and I'm going behind the scenes when that camera shuts off I know they're dealing with a lot of
- 1:05:23problems they're dealing with a lot of stress maybe it's marital stress instead of financial stress
- 1:05:27who knows I've just never I've never seen someone with a great life that I want that I admire
- 1:05:34who's riddled with debt the people who have the you know the true wealth that's maybe invisible
- 1:05:41wealth you don't know it but that farmer's got you know he's got plenty of money and he's not
- 1:05:44trying to flex those people have the best lives they have strong relationships they love the work
- 1:05:50they do they're not worried about someone taking their more taking their house away because they own
- 1:05:55it and when you own it there's a few very there's very few variables you can control in this world
- 1:06:00but one of the ones you can't control is how much you make how much you spend and the stuff that you
- 1:06:04own and the more over leverage you are the less you own and the more you have to manage and deal
- 1:06:11and that's why like you said you don't have to own 20 rental properties to have a good life
- 1:06:15that's a lie that's been told to you on social media if you love real estate go for it
- 1:06:19and buy those rental properties and cash and move slow and do it the right way I don't have any
- 1:06:23rental properties I may never have a rental property I've a paid for house I have money and
- 1:06:28investments and I just want to be with my family and watch my daughter grow up and not be worried
- 1:06:33about trying to make the next million that's an endless goal that's going to have very little
- 1:06:37meaning at the end of it so I think redefining what success means for you and then following a
- 1:06:42peaceful path to get there that's all we can do as humans at the end of the day if you were going to
- 1:06:48say like listen if people read my book breaking free from broke and they can only take away one lesson
- 1:06:55from it what would be the most important lesson that you'd want people to walk away with oh great
- 1:07:02question biggest lesson I would want them to walk away with is that a different life is possible
- 1:07:11and I end the book with a chapter on hope versus cynicism I think most people feel stuck they feel
- 1:07:19broke because they have leaned into their cynicism too hard and within each of us there's a
- 1:07:25cynical person a person who goes there's no hope why do it why try this is the system I'm in
- 1:07:31whatever it's someone else's thing they have to deal with to get me out of this I'm a victim of
- 1:07:35my own life and the part you need to grasp every day which is it sounds hokey but the people who
- 1:07:42make it the people who are optimistic the people who have that hope those are the ones that actually
- 1:07:46take action and so you know we have this new year new me no it's new actions new me what are the
- 1:07:53habits you're going to build and one of those habits might just be a gratitude journal it might be
- 1:07:58I'm just going to wake up every day and not think the world is against me and life is just going
- 1:08:02to happen to me what are you going to do to happen to your life and we found out a millionaire study
- 1:08:07this is the stat that sums it up 97% of the 10,000 millionaires that we studied said that they feel
- 1:08:14like they can control their financial destiny now we can't control a lot of things in our life we
- 1:08:19can't control what happens to us we can influence our health and our money and all these things but
- 1:08:23they when it comes to their money they said I'm in control of my financial destiny it's up to me
- 1:08:29if I don't hit a goal I'm at fault if I hit the goal credit to the work that I put in it's not
- 1:08:34just this blind luck of I was born into a certain life and therefore I'm going to have the trust fund
- 1:08:39or my hope my mom works at the college so I can go for free you get to create your own luck and create
- 1:08:43your own opportunity and those are the people I feel have the best lives so it's it's far more
- 1:08:49than money but like I said earlier money is a tool to get there and right now it's an obstacle
- 1:08:54for most people and there's a way to get over that hump and that's exactly why I wrote this book
- 1:08:59to help people grasp that hope and go all right here's the tactical steps I can take to get there
- 1:09:05it's not this fluffy woo woo here's the hard things I have to do tomorrow in order to hit this goal
- 1:09:10that I said I want to hit yeah and I think that's listen is that there's a wide variety of people
- 1:09:15that listen to this show and some of them are highly successful and and I think that
- 1:09:24even myself sometimes because I'm in an entrepreneurial world and I talk to all these great people
- 1:09:28you think oh everyone must have money figured out and everyone must be killed and that's not the case
- 1:09:33I think that I think that the biggest issue is a lot of people don't have money figured out and
- 1:09:38there's a shame around speaking about it so forget that even showing up and flexing on social
- 1:09:46media I think that even if people aren't showing up and flexing on social media a fair amount of
- 1:09:55people of listeners of individuals who you know in your day-to-day life they may seem like they're
- 1:10:01doing okay but you know when they when they get off the phone or when they when they go home after
- 1:10:06work at the end of the day there's a million different stresses running through their mind
- 1:10:10because they've never had the proper financial education and understanding of how to sort of get
- 1:10:15out of this almost this negative flywheel of debt and stress so I love these conversations because
- 1:10:23not many people have them a lot of people come on this show and say this is how you build a business
- 1:10:28that can be a hundred million dollar business or this is how you you know this is how you
- 1:10:33invest strategically and you use tons of debt and then you'll you know you'll never you'll never
- 1:10:40have to pay tax again because you're gonna front load the depreciation on the house and then
- 1:10:45you're also gonna get this life insurance policy or against it so there's all these interesting
- 1:10:53ideas that work for some people that are in the point zero zero one percent of their field but
- 1:11:00the average person just wants to be happy and fulfilled and not stress about money and I don't
- 1:11:05think I mean you probably have stats because you do a lot of research on this and I know that Ramsey
- 1:11:09has done actual studies but the average person is not happy and not secure and not fulfilled and
- 1:11:15and basically I think wondering I don't have enough money now I'm stressed about my financial
- 1:11:22future I'm never gonna be able to retire like there's all these thoughts they just sort of circle
- 1:11:27in their head and I think that your work and your book and what Ramsey does very well is they open
- 1:11:32you all open up the conversation for the average person that just wants to feel happy and safe
- 1:11:37and secure and I think that more conversations like that have to happen not that how to build the
- 1:11:43next Facebook Apple Amazon Netflix Google but just how to operate through my day and feel like
- 1:11:50I don't have to do the job that I'm that I hate until I'm 90 years old because I think that
- 1:11:55stresses more people out absolutely if those money problems are living your head you're living
- 1:12:00your head rent free it's time for a change and I hope that book helps people whether they're
- 1:12:05trying to get out of debt or trying to build wealth more peacefully they're trying to figure out
- 1:12:08what's going on with those noise out there should I be doing this should I be doing this I try to
- 1:12:13just cut through it with a whole lot of truth and and hit them straight with exactly what they need
- 1:12:17to do where do you want to send people so talk to me about socials website obviously books
- 1:12:22to be available anywhere you can get books on Amazon deserve a special website for it as well
- 1:12:27so anything you want to drop and put it in the show notes as well absolutely yeah you can get the
- 1:12:31book anywhere breaking free from broke I've guy I actually read the audiobook out loud we did
- 1:12:36some really cool things with it I'm a musician so I added some musical touches some sound design
- 1:12:41to make it fun to listen to and on top of that we have a free live stream coming up if you go to
- 1:12:46ramsey solutions dot com slash live stream you can sign up for that Dave Ramsey will be a part of
- 1:12:51that I'll be a part of that that's going to be a really good time if you if you need a little
- 1:12:55boost a little pep talk with some information and tactical steps we're going to be there with
- 1:13:00that free live stream coming up and then ramsey solutions dot com is the place to go you can find
- 1:13:04all my stuff there my YouTube channel we've got episodes releasing three times a week I've got
- 1:13:09another podcast with my friend Rachel Cruz called smart money happy hour so if you like a more
- 1:13:14candid conversation around money and trends and pop culture with a lot of humor in there
- 1:13:19go check out smart money happy hour as well and then of course we have the ramsey show three hours
- 1:13:23a day take in real calls from real people I'll be hosting this afternoon with whether my friend Ken
- 1:13:29Coleman so feel free to call in if you have any money questions we'd love to hear from your listeners
- 1:13:33I love it all right last question out of all the out of all the insight wisdom that you've
- 1:13:39sort of accumulated over your life and it could be career wisdom it could be money wisdom
- 1:13:43however you want to take it but if you were going to leave your kids with just one piece of insight
- 1:13:50or wisdom what would that what would that idea be I think it has nothing to do with money it would
- 1:13:55be about character I would say character matters if you're a person of character no matter what success
- 1:14:02you find in life you're not going to look back with regret if you are a person of integrity you
- 1:14:09are kind you are generous with your time your talents your resources your money that's who I
- 1:14:15think as I'm getting older the people that I respect in life it's not about how much money they have
- 1:14:21it's about character and again if you have a lot of money problems it's just going to be harder
- 1:14:26to be able to focus on the things that matter in your life that help build that character
- 1:14:30and so if I was talking my to my my little one year old right now and she could understand me
- 1:14:35that would be the one thing I would say I don't care if you get all A's in school you know I want you
- 1:14:40to make good decisions and all that stuff but your character matters that's what will carry you through
- 1:14:45life and as a byproduct I think people find success