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- 0:00Speaker 1: On the Bechdel Cast.
- 0:02Speaker 2: The questions asked if movies have women and them, are
- 0:05Speaker 2: all their discussions just boyfriends and husbands, or do they
- 0:08Speaker 2: have individualism? It's the patriarchy. Zephy and Beast start changing
- 0:13Speaker 2: with the Bechdel Cast.
- 0:16Speaker 3: Hey, tuts Hey, doll, Hey, honey, Bunny.
- 0:20Speaker 2: Hey, excuse me of that's actually not cool. Oh that's
- 0:26Speaker 2: not cool when you do that. And then I'm surrounded
- 0:28Speaker 2: by women that are like, wait, what it's not cool
- 0:32Speaker 2: when they do that.
- 0:33Speaker 3: But I have been speaking that.
- 0:34Speaker 4: I just watched the feminism getting.
- 0:38Speaker 3: Very eyes by a character who is a man. Actually.
- 0:43Speaker 1: Welcome to the TUTSI episode of the Bechtel Cast.
- 0:49Speaker 4: My name is Jamy Loftis.
- 0:51Speaker 3: My name is Caitlin Toronte. This is our show where
- 0:53Speaker 3: we examine movies through an intersectional feminist lens, using the
- 0:57Speaker 3: Bechtel Test simply as a jumping off point. But Jamie,
- 1:02Speaker 3: what is the Bechdel Test.
- 1:04Speaker 2: Bechdel Test is a media matter created by friend of
- 1:07Speaker 2: the show, Alison Bechtel, originally created as a bit a
- 1:13Speaker 2: fun joke for her excellent comic DEXs to watch out
- 1:16Speaker 2: for in the eighties. The version of the test we
- 1:19Speaker 2: use requires that two characters of a marginalized gender speak
- 1:23Speaker 2: to each other about something other than a man. They
- 1:25Speaker 2: must also have names, and the exchange should be meaningful
- 1:31Speaker 2: in some way. This is like zero point five percent
- 1:35Speaker 2: of what we talked about on the show, but still
- 1:37Speaker 2: my favorite way to find out that someone has actually
- 1:39Speaker 2: never listened to an episode.
- 1:40Speaker 1: They're like, yeah, that's.
- 1:41Speaker 2: You, and then you just kind of what we go
- 1:43Speaker 2: through the script right, No, and today this is our
- 1:47Speaker 2: tenth year as a podcast, and one of those episodes
- 1:51Speaker 2: that you're like, you think it would have happened.
- 1:52Speaker 4: Earlier, it just didn't.
- 1:54Speaker 2: And I don't know if I've had this many notes
- 1:59Speaker 2: in quite some time.
- 2:00Speaker 3: I'm pages, pages and pages of notes. So much to say, oh,
- 2:05Speaker 3: so much to do. So let's let's cut our guest.
- 2:08Speaker 3: Let's get our guest on the mix. We need her
- 2:10Speaker 3: desperately today. Yes, she's a writer and comedian.
- 2:13Speaker 4: It's Nori Reid.
- 2:15Speaker 5: Hi. Hello.
- 2:17Speaker 6: I want to start just by giving a really huge
- 2:20Speaker 6: disclaimer that.
- 2:21Speaker 5: I chose Toutsy. I chose Toutsy.
- 2:24Speaker 6: I have never I have never seen the film. I've
- 2:27Speaker 6: heard of it in pop culture, referenced and shows, and
- 2:30Speaker 6: I've never seen it, and Caitlin and Jamie did not
- 2:34Speaker 6: reach out to me to do Tootsy. Okay, so save
- 2:37Speaker 6: the hate mail, put the pens down, put the pens down,
- 2:42Speaker 6: do not cancel this show.
- 2:44Speaker 5: They I did this. I did this.
- 2:45Speaker 6: Are we recording on Trinsday in visibility?
- 2:48Speaker 4: Yeah?
- 2:49Speaker 6: Yeah it put the pens down.
- 2:52Speaker 5: I put him down.
- 2:53Speaker 2: There was a part of you that like, should I
- 2:55Speaker 2: text Norri be like you don't have to do this today?
- 2:59Speaker 4: Find any other.
- 3:02Speaker 6: Yeah, they asked me to do Tutsy on trains Day visibility.
- 3:05Speaker 6: I was kind of I was kinda like, uh, I mean,
- 3:08Speaker 6: if you want me to, I guess it sort.
- 3:10Speaker 3: Of gave you no choice. Yeah, yeah, you're like, you
- 3:13Speaker 3: have to do this.
- 3:14Speaker 6: You're gonna call my agent.
- 3:16Speaker 4: It would be really cool if you did this.
- 3:19Speaker 6: You guys had guns. It was so weird.
- 3:22Speaker 5: It was like weird.
- 3:23Speaker 3: We kind of tied you up a little bit.
- 3:24Speaker 5: I like that that part.
- 3:26Speaker 3: Was that part was hot Light.
- 3:29Speaker 6: Yeah, which Tutsy that pervert would have loved.
- 3:33Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. Okay, so you had not seen this movie,
- 3:37Speaker 3: so no any so.
- 3:39Speaker 2: When you said that in the email, when you were like, Titsy,
- 3:41Speaker 2: I've never seen it was like my god, Well, let's
- 3:44Speaker 2: just see what happens.
- 3:46Speaker 1: God.
- 3:47Speaker 6: First of all, like who like the fact that the
- 3:50Speaker 6: whole movie you have to suspend your disbelief that like
- 3:55Speaker 6: people don't know that that Toutsy is a man, Like
- 3:58Speaker 6: like that's so funny. Like everyone's just like, yeah, that's
- 4:01Speaker 6: a that's a that's ais woman. Right, It's like, no,
- 4:06Speaker 6: that's Dustin Hoffman. What are you talking about?
- 4:09Speaker 5: That was wild?
- 4:10Speaker 2: That was so wild that the Yeah, the world that
- 4:15Speaker 2: this movie takes place in, You're like, what are the
- 4:18Speaker 2: rules here? There's like even on the idea of like, oh,
- 4:23Speaker 2: it would be way easier for an older woman to
- 4:26Speaker 2: get a job than a white guy in his forties,
- 4:31Speaker 2: You're like, what am.
- 4:34Speaker 3: I he's so difficult to work with. Yeah, and men
- 4:37Speaker 3: who are difficult to work with famously they can't find work.
- 4:42Speaker 3: Just kidding.
- 4:43Speaker 2: Yeah, The premise that there is a deeply empathetic maternal
- 4:47Speaker 2: figure inside of every frothingly angry cisman just such a
- 4:53Speaker 2: strange premise.
- 4:54Speaker 6: Yes, if a man, if a man is short enough,
- 4:57Speaker 6: he has to become a woman. And that is the
- 5:00Speaker 6: that is the message of the movie. I'm obsessed with,
- 5:03Speaker 6: like acting class culture, so like I did love like
- 5:07Speaker 6: the footage of them and acting class and like, you know,
- 5:11Speaker 6: I love Barry, Like I have such a soft spot
- 5:15Speaker 6: for like actors.
- 5:16Speaker 5: So I really did love that part.
- 5:18Speaker 6: Of it, you know.
- 5:19Speaker 2: Sure, Yeah, I mean there are this movie. I think
- 5:23Speaker 2: it has its moments, but there's so.
- 5:26Speaker 3: Few at far so to you, so few.
- 5:30Speaker 2: So this was your so this was your first? Uh
- 5:33Speaker 2: yeah what what give us? The give us the cliff notes?
- 5:37Speaker 4: Yeah? Are you a fan?
- 5:39Speaker 6: I there were there were moments where I was disassociating.
- 5:43Speaker 6: I'm gonna be honest with you, Like there are moments
- 5:45Speaker 6: where I had to get on my phone and like
- 5:47Speaker 6: go on Instagram because I was just so overwhelmed with
- 5:52Speaker 6: like what was going on? Yeah, he like also was
- 5:55Speaker 6: like such a bad person and like I was just
- 5:57Speaker 6: like wow, like you were awful and like that was rough,
- 6:02Speaker 6: Like he was just such a bad, bad person to
- 6:05Speaker 6: everyone in his life. Yeah, like he was just sucked.
- 6:09Speaker 6: Like the one part that made me laugh that I
- 6:11Speaker 6: really maybe I shouldn't have laughed, but it really got
- 6:14Speaker 6: me is towards the very end, when like when the
- 6:18Speaker 6: horrible like older actor on set, like the doctor what's
- 6:24Speaker 6: his name, oh, doctor Brewster? He goes whenever it's finally
- 6:27Speaker 6: revealed this whole time that tutsies a man and then
- 6:30Speaker 6: he gets the button and he says, does Jeremy know?
- 6:34Speaker 6: That really made me laugh, Like I was like, that's funny,
- 6:38Speaker 6: that's actually funny.
- 6:40Speaker 3: Because he's talking about his room Bill Murray's character.
- 6:44Speaker 6: Yes, Jeff, I'm so sorry go Yeah, he was like
- 6:47Speaker 6: he was like, does Jeff know? Like that? Really?
- 6:50Speaker 5: I was like, that's that's funny. Yeah, that's objectively funny.
- 6:53Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's a moment. That's a moment in uh
- 6:57Speaker 1: in a long movie.
- 6:59Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 7:00Speaker 6: And like the Fall character, like his his love interests,
- 7:04Speaker 6: like who is like the dummy?
- 7:06Speaker 5: Like I just hate I hated that. I hated that, like.
- 7:10Speaker 6: She was being pushed around and like lied to and
- 7:13Speaker 6: was like the.
- 7:13Speaker 5: Dumk Terry Guard character. I just like hated that.
- 7:17Speaker 2: I yeah, the Crime of because Terry. I think Terry
- 7:22Speaker 2: gar is giving a really good performance in a movie
- 7:24Speaker 2: that just like doesn't.
- 7:25Speaker 4: Deserve her at all.
- 7:26Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yes, that scene where she's yelling at her
- 7:31Speaker 2: I was like, she's so good in like her big
- 7:33Speaker 2: scene and then she disappears, she falls off the Cloe cliff.
- 7:37Speaker 3: Yes, I have so many notes about her. There's there's
- 7:42Speaker 3: too much Jamie. What is your relationship with this movie?
- 7:45Speaker 1: This?
- 7:46Speaker 2: I feel like probably a lot of people have it.
- 7:48Speaker 2: So my mom loved this movie, which I watched. There's
- 7:53Speaker 2: like a free version of this movie on YouTube, and
- 7:56Speaker 2: I was going through the comments because there was a
- 7:57Speaker 2: ton of views on it, and I was seeing that
- 7:59Speaker 2: a lot of like, Oh, my mom loved this movie
- 8:02Speaker 2: and we watched it together. So I remember my mom
- 8:07Speaker 2: sitting me down and watching this movie with me in
- 8:10Speaker 2: probably high school. I remember liking it at the time,
- 8:15Speaker 2: and I hadn't really come back to it since. So
- 8:19Speaker 2: I came back Leary being like, well, a lot of
- 8:24Speaker 2: changes I was in high school. I'm a completely different
- 8:28Speaker 2: person and this could just go so many ways, and
- 8:32Speaker 2: I did not like the way that it went. I
- 8:35Speaker 2: am not a fan of this movie, but it's one
- 8:38Speaker 2: of those movies that people still, I mean people our
- 8:41Speaker 2: age still will really go to bat for in a
- 8:45Speaker 2: way that I don't know.
- 8:46Speaker 4: I was Coleman through letterboxed.
- 8:49Speaker 2: I was like, what do people say about the movie
- 8:52Speaker 2: TUTSI in the mid twenty twenties, and it is still
- 8:55Speaker 2: I think, like kind of delusionally praise the elements of
- 9:01Speaker 2: this movie that just like, maybe it seemed intriguing in
- 9:04Speaker 2: nineteen eighty two, but I'm like, I don't think that
- 9:07Speaker 2: there's really a case for it.
- 9:08Speaker 4: I'm sure there's.
- 9:09Speaker 3: A nostalgia component.
- 9:10Speaker 4: I'm sure.
- 9:11Speaker 3: I mean, for the time in nineteen eighty two, there
- 9:14Speaker 3: were hardly any movies that were addressing gender as a
- 9:20Speaker 3: concept and feminism and women trying to stand up for
- 9:26Speaker 3: themselves and be empowering, and like, this just was not
- 9:29Speaker 3: a thing that was happening in most movies of this era.
- 9:32Speaker 3: So I imagine that's why, like people of our mom's generation,
- 9:36Speaker 3: and especially women of our mom's generation, really hold this
- 9:40Speaker 3: movie close to their hearts.
- 9:41Speaker 4: But yeah, revisiting it.
- 9:43Speaker 2: Now, you're just like, I don't we need to circlettack.
- 9:47Speaker 4: Like what's going on in this movie. I like Dorothy.
- 9:53Speaker 2: I hate Michael Darcy Dorsey. I couldn't hate Michael Dorsey
- 10:00Speaker 2: more if I try a piece of shit, And I
- 10:02Speaker 2: just I object with the I'm like, Dorothy would have
- 10:06Speaker 2: nothing to do with Michael Dorsey.
- 10:08Speaker 6: And she's she is hot. I mean like, like, yeah,
- 10:11Speaker 6: the most unbelievable part of the movie is that Dorothy
- 10:15Speaker 6: and Jessicaalaine Ling's character Julie. Yeah, that's the fact that
- 10:20Speaker 6: they didn't hook up is so it's like they they
- 10:23Speaker 6: would have hooked up if this was real life, Like
- 10:25Speaker 6: they would have had sex. Like like Dorothy's so hot,
- 10:28Speaker 6: She's like really, like she's got it.
- 10:31Speaker 2: And like exactly what Julie's looking for to Like.
- 10:34Speaker 3: Julie's inviting her over late at night. Literally they're having
- 10:38Speaker 3: so much wine together, like so much wine.
- 10:41Speaker 5: She's like, you're so beautiful, like come on, stop.
- 10:44Speaker 2: The soft focus meeting her like family, like her baby,
- 10:49Speaker 2: She's in love. I have the character. I mean, I
- 10:53Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't like the movie. I think
- 10:56Speaker 2: some of the characters are interesting, but they're just like
- 10:58Speaker 2: where it they end up is so like Julie's ending
- 11:01Speaker 2: is so depressing. I'm like, do not under any circumstance
- 11:04Speaker 2: of state. Michael Dorsey, no get away from him. Sandy
- 11:08Speaker 2: Lester's disappeared from the movie.
- 11:11Speaker 4: Anyways. I don't know. It's a weird one.
- 11:14Speaker 2: I under Yeah, I think that this is a big
- 11:16Speaker 2: nostalgia movie for people. But if it's been a while,
- 11:19Speaker 2: give it another watch maybe and get back to us. Uh.
- 11:23Speaker 4: Kaitlyn what's your history with TUTTI.
- 11:25Speaker 3: I saw this during the Great Kaitlyn movie binge of
- 11:27Speaker 3: two thousand and five, and major huge, yeah, huge, Yeah.
- 11:33Speaker 3: I thought it was corny as hell and low key bad.
- 11:38Speaker 3: I did not like it at all. I thought, good
- 11:40Speaker 3: for you, and not for the same not for the
- 11:43Speaker 3: exact same reasons. I don't like it today, but I
- 11:45Speaker 3: think there is some overlap. I've never liked the Michael
- 11:49Speaker 3: Dorsey character. I don't care about his problems or his journey,
- 11:54Speaker 3: and like you were saying, Nori, I was having a
- 11:56Speaker 3: hard time suspending my disbelief.
- 11:59Speaker 2: Also, they just like promote Dorothy to showrunner like out
- 12:03Speaker 2: of know They're like, well, she's gonna do what she's
- 12:05Speaker 2: gonna do. I was like, have you ever seen how
- 12:07Speaker 2: people treat actors? They're like, shut up, meet puppet, get
- 12:11Speaker 2: it right.
- 12:12Speaker 4: Like it's so.
- 12:13Speaker 3: Rare, and like there was just so much about Like
- 12:17Speaker 3: I don't think Dustin Hoffman was doing a good job
- 12:21Speaker 3: because there are a lot of roles where CIS men
- 12:23Speaker 3: play women in a movie or a show. I'm thinking
- 12:29Speaker 3: of Louis Anderson, especially in Baskets. Yeah, constantly forget that
- 12:36Speaker 3: that's Louie Anderson at.
- 12:38Speaker 6: A certain point, you're like, Okay, that is a trans
- 12:40Speaker 6: woman and we have to be honest about that.
- 12:43Speaker 3: Yeah, so it can be done very well. Not to
- 12:48Speaker 3: the same degree, but I think John Travolta as the
- 12:51Speaker 3: mom and Hairspray, Like, sometimes I'll be watching these characters
- 12:54Speaker 3: and I'm like, think, I forget that that's.
- 12:56Speaker 6: Summer, Like my yeah, you're like, that is high school girl,
- 13:02Speaker 6: like you.
- 13:02Speaker 3: Just that's a girl. That's a teenage girl, yes, for sure.
- 13:05Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 13:05Speaker 3: And then there's Dustin Hoffman doing whatever the hell that
- 13:09Speaker 3: is with Dorothy, like with that accent, his idea of
- 13:13Speaker 3: what a woman acts and moves like it just felt
- 13:17Speaker 3: so cartoonish and goofy to me because, unlike you, Jamie,
- 13:23Speaker 3: I do not like Dorothy. I think she's better than
- 13:27Speaker 3: Michael Dorsey, but.
- 13:28Speaker 4: I fives by comparison.
- 13:32Speaker 3: And I also like the character that Dorothy plays, Miss Kimberly.
- 13:37Speaker 3: I find her grading like the whole performance. I just
- 13:41Speaker 3: I don't. I have never liked this movie. I never
- 13:43Speaker 3: felt compelled to watch it again, and so revisiting it
- 13:48Speaker 3: for this episode, like twenty years after the first time
- 13:50Speaker 3: I saw it. I also was like, kind of I
- 13:54Speaker 3: think I had, like Mendela affected myself with this movie.
- 13:58Speaker 3: I thought it had. I thought the themes of like
- 14:02Speaker 3: and he lives as a woman for a while and
- 14:05Speaker 3: that really teaches him a lesson about how sexist he
- 14:09Speaker 3: used to be.
- 14:10Speaker 2: Well, I think that that's what people thought the takeaway
- 14:14Speaker 2: was at the time. I think that is a popular
- 14:16Speaker 2: narrative around this movie. And then you watch it, you're like, and.
- 14:19Speaker 3: Then you watch it and that barely happens.
- 14:22Speaker 2: No, he the movie would have it that, like, he
- 14:26Speaker 2: invents feminism and then ignores it and.
- 14:29Speaker 3: Then ignores it and learns nothing from it. Yeah, yes,
- 14:33Speaker 3: that is the trajector of the story. So anyway, Yeah,
- 14:35Speaker 3: it was a very interesting we rewatch. We have so
- 14:39Speaker 3: many notes, so much to discuss. Let's take a quick
- 14:44Speaker 3: break and then we'll come back for the recap. Sure,
- 14:57Speaker 3: and we're back.
- 14:58Speaker 1: Well, what happens in Tutsie, I'll tell you.
- 15:05Speaker 3: We meet Michael Dorsey Boo by Dustin Hoffman Boo. Michael
- 15:14Speaker 3: is an actor who we see teaching acting classes, putting
- 15:18Speaker 3: on theater makeup and fake mustaches and all that stuff.
- 15:22Speaker 3: He's auditioning for various roles and stage plays and things.
- 15:27Speaker 3: But he keeps getting rejected. They're always looking for someone
- 15:30Speaker 3: else for money. Michael works at a restaurant as a
- 15:34Speaker 3: waiter with his playwright friend slash roommate Jeff played by
- 15:39Speaker 3: Bill Murray.
- 15:41Speaker 2: Also, I totally memory holed Bill Murray being in this
- 15:44Speaker 2: movie in a pretty large role. I was like, I,
- 15:48Speaker 2: I just I didn't remember. Also, in my memory, Geena
- 15:51Speaker 2: Davis is the lead, not Jessica Lang.
- 15:53Speaker 3: There's so much Mandela effect with this movie.
- 15:56Speaker 2: Yeah, including it being good. There's so many weird things
- 16:02Speaker 2: about this but yeah, yeah, Bill Berry, we can't get
- 16:05Speaker 2: around it.
- 16:05Speaker 3: There he is, He's there, and he and Michael are
- 16:09Speaker 3: trying to raise eight thousand dollars to put on a
- 16:11Speaker 3: play that Jeff wrote. Also a part of this production
- 16:16Speaker 3: that they're trying to put on is their friend Sandy
- 16:20Speaker 3: played by Terry Garr, an actor who is prepping for
- 16:25Speaker 3: an audition for a soap opera and Michael coaches her,
- 16:30Speaker 3: but she doesn't get the part. Then, Michael finds out
- 16:34Speaker 3: that he didn't get a part in a play that
- 16:36Speaker 3: he was supposed to be up for, so he goes
- 16:38Speaker 3: to his agent, George played by the director of this movie,
- 16:43Speaker 3: Sidney Pollock, to be like what the heck George, and
- 16:47Speaker 3: George reveals that Michael has a reputation of being very
- 16:50Speaker 3: difficult to work with and no one will hire him.
- 16:54Speaker 2: But you know who people do love the hire middle
- 16:58Speaker 2: aged women. They're the most working as people in the world,
- 17:03Speaker 2: as we all know.
- 17:05Speaker 3: So off screen, Michael decides to start presenting as a
- 17:12Speaker 3: woman to try to get so we cut to him
- 17:15Speaker 3: in a dress, wig makeup. He has decided to become
- 17:23Speaker 3: Dorothy Michaels since no one will hire Michael Dorsey. But
- 17:29Speaker 3: he's only going to do this for auditions. He's not
- 17:32Speaker 3: going to like live as a woman because he is
- 17:34Speaker 3: still a sis man.
- 17:35Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 17:36Speaker 3: He goes for an audition for the same role that
- 17:39Speaker 3: Sandy got rejected from a soap opera called Southwest General.
- 17:44Speaker 3: Dorothy also gets turned down at first because she's seen
- 17:49Speaker 3: as not the right type. She's too soft and delicate.
- 17:54Speaker 3: So Dorothy gives an impassioned speech that shows that she
- 17:59Speaker 3: can be.
- 18:00Speaker 2: To the events feminism she events feminism on the soap opera.
- 18:04Speaker 3: Yeah, and the director, Ron Carlyle played by Dabney Coleman,
- 18:11Speaker 3: is impressed by this and casts Dorothy in the role
- 18:15Speaker 3: of Miss Kimberly, the hospital administrator. And so just just
- 18:20Speaker 3: to clarify, we've got Dustin Hoffman playing the character of
- 18:24Speaker 3: Michael Dorsey, who is playing the character of Dorothy Michaels,
- 18:28Speaker 3: who was playing the character of Miss Kimberly. Yes, so
- 18:32Speaker 3: there's so many layers. It's like Shrek with onions. Onions
- 18:36Speaker 3: have layers, very onion like performance. Yes.
- 18:40Speaker 4: Yes.
- 18:41Speaker 3: So during the audition, Dorothy meets Julie Nichols played by
- 18:45Speaker 3: Jessica Lang.
- 18:46Speaker 2: Who what an oscar for being in this movie.
- 18:50Speaker 3: Which I guess I sure weird wain to be weird.
- 18:58Speaker 2: I mean, she's a good you know, like, yeah, she's
- 19:01Speaker 2: doing a good job. And I'm like, was it huh, It's.
- 19:05Speaker 3: Not like a standout performance or anything.
- 19:07Speaker 2: No, I thought she was Geena Davis for half the movie.
- 19:10Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, Okay. So Julie is a cast member who
- 19:15Speaker 3: plays a nurse on this soap opera and Dorothy slash
- 19:21Speaker 3: Michael takes an instant liking to Julie. He's got a
- 19:26Speaker 3: little crush. Then Michael, still dressed as Dorothy, approaches his
- 19:32Speaker 3: agent George and reveals like, oh it's me Michael, and
- 19:37Speaker 3: tells George that he auditioned as Dorothy and landed the
- 19:42Speaker 3: role of Miss Kimberly, and George is horrified by all
- 19:46Speaker 3: of this. He thinks that Michael is sick in the head.
- 19:50Speaker 3: Then a short time later, Michael as himself is hanging
- 19:54Speaker 3: out with Sandy. She doesn't know that he is pretending
- 19:58Speaker 3: to be this Dorothy person, especially because Dorothy landed the
- 20:02Speaker 3: role that Sandy was trying to get and that would
- 20:05Speaker 3: be a huge betrayal to their friendship, something that which
- 20:11Speaker 3: Michael keeps secret the whole time.
- 20:13Speaker 2: So yeah, now we're introducing the classic element of deceiving
- 20:19Speaker 2: women for most.
- 20:19Speaker 4: Of the movie.
- 20:20Speaker 2: It's so bizarre though, because it's like the movie tries
- 20:23Speaker 2: to rationalize it in this way. Many times, it almost
- 20:26Speaker 2: seems like intentionally to keep Sandy excluded from being anything
- 20:32Speaker 2: except a like desperate love interest basically, where yeah, like
- 20:37Speaker 2: she is like Bill Murray's in on it the whole time.
- 20:41Speaker 2: Bill Murray and the agent. They're making these nasty little
- 20:44Speaker 2: comments to Michael that I think intended to make Michael
- 20:47Speaker 2: look like a better person by comparison, even though he
- 20:51Speaker 2: fucking sucks, but like Sandy, the whole premise of it
- 20:55Speaker 2: is like, oh well, she's too emotional to handle knowing
- 20:59Speaker 2: that I did this thing, like and and did it,
- 21:04Speaker 2: you know, after she failed to get this job. But
- 21:06Speaker 2: it's like they're like, well, I would tell her, but
- 21:09Speaker 2: she it's just so old school, like they're like, I would,
- 21:12Speaker 2: but she's too hysterical to handle the plot of the
- 21:15Speaker 2: movie TUTSI.
- 21:15Speaker 4: I'm like, well, then what is she doing here?
- 21:18Speaker 2: Right?
- 21:18Speaker 3: Well, you called her love interest, but she's a love
- 21:20Speaker 3: interest that he's not interested in.
- 21:23Speaker 2: No, she's interested in him. I mean that's I feel
- 21:25Speaker 2: like that happens to a lot of like comic actors,
- 21:30Speaker 2: a lot like Terry garr undisputably haughty, right, but like sure,
- 21:35Speaker 2: she's presented as too emotionally fragile and less desirable than
- 21:39Speaker 2: Jessica Lang, just like by the story and by the
- 21:43Speaker 2: fact that Michael is like not interested in her and
- 21:46Speaker 2: therefore feels comfortable treating her like shit because he's not
- 21:49Speaker 2: attracted to her, so no need.
- 21:51Speaker 4: To treat her like a person.
- 21:53Speaker 3: Certainly, Yeah, although they do have sex, because what happens
- 21:57Speaker 3: next is she leaves to take a shower. They're about
- 22:02Speaker 3: to like go grab some food or something. Michael undresses
- 22:07Speaker 3: to try on some of her clothes because he's been
- 22:10Speaker 3: shopping for women's clothes to play this Dorothy character. And
- 22:15Speaker 3: then Sandy walks in on Michael while he's almost naked,
- 22:19Speaker 3: and he plays it off as he wants her, he's
- 22:22Speaker 3: attracted to her. Cut to they've just had sex, and
- 22:26Speaker 3: then she's like, you'll probably ignore me now, and he's like, no,
- 22:30Speaker 3: I won't.
- 22:30Speaker 2: I know he does, and then he does, and then
- 22:33Speaker 2: he just does for basically the rest of the movie. Yeah,
- 22:37Speaker 2: and then he'll show up and be like, hey, sorry,
- 22:39Speaker 2: I'm late by seven hours and she's like, oh, all good.
- 22:44Speaker 2: It was like Sandy, Sandy, God, yeah, yeah, that.
- 22:48Speaker 4: Scene was disturbing. I did not like that scene.
- 22:53Speaker 2: And it is not the most coercive, disgusting scene in
- 22:56Speaker 2: the movie.
- 22:56Speaker 4: They save that for the very end.
- 22:58Speaker 3: Yes, oh god, Okay, So Michael as Dorothy heads to
- 23:05Speaker 3: the first day of shooting the soap opera, Dorothy finds
- 23:09Speaker 3: out that her character on the show has to kiss
- 23:12Speaker 3: a man. We'll talk more about this, but Dorothy is
- 23:17Speaker 3: uncomfortable because Michael is uncomfortable with kissing a man. So
- 23:22Speaker 3: Dorothy stands up for herself and she changes the scene,
- 23:27Speaker 3: goes off script, and everyone's like, sure, okay, that works too,
- 23:31Speaker 3: And this is the beginning of have Dorothy either have
- 23:36Speaker 3: either of you.
- 23:36Speaker 2: Ever performed in like where you're like, hey, I would
- 23:41Speaker 2: like to make an extreme change to the script, and
- 23:44Speaker 2: everyone's just like, all right, we have no choice, Like
- 23:49Speaker 2: it is just so bizarre.
- 23:51Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that usually does not happen like that.
- 23:54Speaker 4: I don't know.
- 23:55Speaker 2: I don't know any soap opera heads in the crowd.
- 23:58Speaker 2: Can you just be like, actually, no, I know that
- 24:00Speaker 2: that's not true, but it is very weird that they
- 24:03Speaker 2: present it as true and the fact that no if
- 24:08Speaker 2: that this is true, and no one else has ever
- 24:10Speaker 2: taken advantage of it before, Like, no one else goes
- 24:14Speaker 2: off book for the entire unless unless Julie does it
- 24:20Speaker 2: at one point and I'm not remembering, but.
- 24:22Speaker 3: I think only in response to dorit they got it.
- 24:25Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 24:26Speaker 3: Yeah, No, Usually that gets you fired if you're just
- 24:28Speaker 3: continuously going off book for the role that you that
- 24:34Speaker 3: lines are written for you and you're expected to say
- 24:37Speaker 3: those lines as written. If you don't do that, you
- 24:41Speaker 3: get fired.
- 24:42Speaker 2: But but people love Dorothy Michael. People are going cuckoo
- 24:47Speaker 2: for Dorothy Michaels, which I again like I it's I guess,
- 24:52Speaker 2: like an interesting idea that like they're like, oh, Dorothy's
- 24:57Speaker 2: character not even heard. Like Dorothy's character seems to really
- 25:01Speaker 2: appeal to, like working in single women and like appeal
- 25:07Speaker 2: to middle aged women, which is an interesting idea. Unfortunately,
- 25:11Speaker 2: there are no middle aged women in the movie to
- 25:15Speaker 2: really engage with. Like you meet a producer at the beginning,
- 25:19Speaker 2: there's like two women on set who fall into this
- 25:22Speaker 2: age range, and I'm like, well, I wonder what she
- 25:24Speaker 2: thinks about this, but they you never really find out,
- 25:27Speaker 2: and so it just becomes this weird detail that Dorothy
- 25:30Speaker 2: Michaels appeals to middle aged women because the women we
- 25:33Speaker 2: meet are like hot young women.
- 25:35Speaker 4: So I don't know.
- 25:36Speaker 3: Yeah, right, Because Dorothy's episodes of Southwest General start airing
- 25:41Speaker 3: on TV and people are becoming like huge fans of Dorothy,
- 25:46Speaker 3: they're flocking to get her signature. Her co stars Julie
- 25:51Speaker 3: and April Page, who's the Geena Davis character, also really
- 25:55Speaker 3: appreciate Dorothy's work on the show. Ron the director isn't
- 25:59Speaker 3: so great because he's sexist and he's always being condescending
- 26:04Speaker 3: to Dorothy and to Julie.
- 26:07Speaker 2: Yeah, he's very much like the worst guy ever character
- 26:12Speaker 2: again that like we see all the time to make
- 26:15Speaker 2: the other shitty guys in the room seem nicer by comparison,
- 26:19Speaker 2: Like he's just so awful that you're like, well, no
- 26:21Speaker 2: one's gonna see themselves in this guy, so maybe they'll
- 26:24Speaker 2: think Michael Dorsey is awesome?
- 26:26Speaker 1: Right?
- 26:27Speaker 3: Is that the actor who plays the horrible sexist boss
- 26:31Speaker 3: in nine to five?
- 26:33Speaker 2: Oh?
- 26:33Speaker 3: I think it is.
- 26:35Speaker 2: Maybe I haven't seen nine to five since we covered
- 26:37Speaker 2: it a long time ago.
- 26:38Speaker 3: Yeah, I recognized him, and then I was like, I
- 26:41Speaker 3: think that, So he's basically playing the same character in
- 26:43Speaker 3: both movies if I'm thinking correctly. Wild Okay, yeah, but anyway,
- 26:49Speaker 3: then Julie invites Dorothy over for dinner to run some
- 26:53Speaker 3: lines as well, which is exciting to Michael because he's
- 26:58Speaker 3: got a big crush one. But he shows up as Dorothy.
- 27:03Speaker 3: They bond and have a nice time. But oh no,
- 27:07Speaker 3: Michael remembers he was supposed to have dinner with Sandy.
- 27:11Speaker 3: This is the second time and there will be more
- 27:14Speaker 3: after this that he has blown her off or were
- 27:16Speaker 3: forgotten that they had plans.
- 27:18Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't tell how much of this I know that,
- 27:21Speaker 2: like we're obviously we're meant to feel for Sandy, but
- 27:24Speaker 2: sometimes her being stood up, I feel like it's like
- 27:27Speaker 2: visually supposed to kind of be a joke because we
- 27:31Speaker 2: see her like alone and drinking alone, and she forgives
- 27:35Speaker 2: him so quickly. I'm just like, I don't even know
- 27:38Speaker 2: how I'm meant to be feeling right now.
- 27:40Speaker 4: I feel bad, But like.
- 27:42Speaker 3: I think we're meant to pity her more than empathize
- 27:45Speaker 3: with her.
- 27:46Speaker 2: Sure, yeah, that is a great way to put it. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
- 27:50Speaker 2: I think we are sort of encouraged to view Sandy
- 27:52Speaker 2: as kind of pathetic in a way that is like upsetting.
- 27:56Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure, Terry guards her better. Yeah, Okay, So
- 28:03Speaker 3: Michael rushes over to Sandy's place. She's still upset that
- 28:07Speaker 3: she didn't get that part on Southwest General. She thinks
- 28:11Speaker 3: that Dorothy and her character Miss Kimberly suck, and this
- 28:17Speaker 3: is partly because she doesn't strike Sandy as the tough
- 28:22Speaker 3: character Miss Kimberly was supposed to be. So Dorothy starts
- 28:28Speaker 3: changing the script even more and making up her own
- 28:33Speaker 3: lines that are more quote unquote empowering to women, and
- 28:38Speaker 3: the fans are loving it even more. Dorothy gets a
- 28:42Speaker 3: bunch of fan mail. She does all these photo shoots.
- 28:46Speaker 3: She ends up on the cover of several magazines. Then
- 28:50Speaker 3: Michael goes to a party where he sees Julie, and
- 28:55Speaker 3: even though he's there with Sandy, he goes up to
- 28:59Speaker 3: Julie and try to hit on her, but she throws
- 29:03Speaker 3: a drink in his face. We'll talk more about the
- 29:07Speaker 3: whatever the love story between them, But then Julie invites
- 29:13Speaker 3: Dorothy to spend the weekend with her, her baby, and
- 29:18Speaker 3: her dad, Less played by Charles Derning, who has taken
- 29:24Speaker 3: a liking to Dorothy. Old Less has a big old
- 29:29Speaker 3: crush on Dorothy.
- 29:31Speaker 2: Yeah, him and his bad politics and his dead wife.
- 29:38Speaker 3: And then this weekend getaway with all of these people
- 29:42Speaker 3: is I think one of the corniest sequences ever committed
- 29:46Speaker 3: to film.
- 29:47Speaker 2: What the hell is that song playing? I think it's
- 29:51Speaker 2: an original song for this movie. I'd never heard it before.
- 29:55Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know.
- 29:58Speaker 4: What the hell was that.
- 30:00Speaker 3: It was no good And the whole time Michael dressed
- 30:04Speaker 3: as Dorothy because Julie doesn't know that Dorothy is actually Michael,
- 30:10Speaker 3: but Dorothy's like looking at Julie longingly. They have to
- 30:15Speaker 3: sleep in the same bed because even though this house
- 30:18Speaker 3: is huge, there's only one bed in one bedroom for
- 30:22Speaker 3: them to sleep in together. Meanwhile, Les is pining after Dorothy. Yeah,
- 30:30Speaker 3: this fucking guy. He goes on a tirade about gender.
- 30:34Speaker 3: He's very pro traditional gender roles.
- 30:37Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 30:37Speaker 2: He starts it like many scary fathers slash grandfathers, where
- 30:42Speaker 2: he's like, so, let me start by saying do whatever
- 30:45Speaker 2: you want, but and then says something extremely regressive or hateful.
- 30:50Speaker 2: So I'm like, okay, so don't so don't do whatever
- 30:53Speaker 2: you want. Anyways, it's firmly nineteen eighty three. It is
- 30:56Speaker 2: the Reagan administration.
- 30:59Speaker 3: Yeah, in this it sure is. Then Dorothy finds out
- 31:05Speaker 3: that her contract is being extended on this soap opera
- 31:09Speaker 3: for another year. But Michael doesn't want to keep playing
- 31:14Speaker 3: this Dorothy and by extension miss Kimberly character, so he's
- 31:19Speaker 3: trying to get out of it.
- 31:20Speaker 2: He wants to go play like let us off Broadway
- 31:23Speaker 2: or whatever the fuck. I kind of I'm like, you
- 31:26Speaker 2: can just tell, and I think this is intentional. You
- 31:29Speaker 2: can just tell based on the description of Bill Murray's
- 31:33Speaker 2: play that it's fucking awful, Like, oh, this sounds rank and.
- 31:38Speaker 3: He's such a pretentious piece of shit.
- 31:40Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 31:41Speaker 3: Then Julie asks Dorothy if she can babysit for Julie's
- 31:45Speaker 3: baby while she goes and breaks up with Ron the
- 31:48Speaker 3: director because Dorothy has empowered and inspired Julie to not
- 31:54Speaker 3: put up with Ron's bullshit and his mistreatment, and then
- 32:00Speaker 3: returns home. After this, she's sad the relationship is over.
- 32:04Speaker 3: She's feeling lonely, and Dorothy tries to kiss Julie because
- 32:10Speaker 3: Dorothy is actually Michael and Michael is in love with Julie,
- 32:14Speaker 3: but Julie doesn't know any of that, and so she
- 32:16Speaker 3: thinks Dorothy is a lesbian and she's like, oh, no,
- 32:22Speaker 3: thank you, Yucky. I don't want to be friends anymore.
- 32:26Speaker 4: It feels I this.
- 32:28Speaker 2: I'm sure this comparison has been made before, but it
- 32:30Speaker 2: feels very similar in well, not similar in tone necessarily,
- 32:34Speaker 2: but like it's like a Mulan thing going on here,
- 32:39Speaker 2: where I feel like it's they're tolding this very specific
- 32:41Speaker 2: line to like reinforce well, ultimately, all of these characters
- 32:44Speaker 2: are straight where it's like, oh, there's an attraction between
- 32:48Speaker 2: these people, but something isn't quite right, like m hm,
- 32:52Speaker 2: and so the movie, can you know, have it all
- 32:55Speaker 2: always and we can still end with like a sister
- 32:59Speaker 2: couple at the end of them movie.
- 33:01Speaker 3: Right, So, then Julie's dad less is like, hey, Dorothy,
- 33:09Speaker 3: will you marry me? And Julie is all like, oh
- 33:12Speaker 3: my god, you're gonna have to tell my dad that
- 33:14Speaker 3: you're a lesbian and all this stuff.
- 33:19Speaker 2: Yeah, it becomes all of a sudden so urgent for
- 33:22Speaker 2: Dorothy to out her I mean, at least Julie's mind,
- 33:26Speaker 2: for Dorothy to out herself to a guy she's met
- 33:29Speaker 2: one time, Like, You're like, that's no, there's no, what.
- 33:34Speaker 3: Is so ridiculous? Yeah, he's he's proposing after knowing Dorothy
- 33:39Speaker 3: for like two seconds. Then there's a scene where John
- 33:44Speaker 3: Van Horne, who is the actor who plays the doctor
- 33:48Speaker 3: Doctor Brewster in the soap opera. He has stalked Dorothy
- 33:54Speaker 3: all the way home. He's trying to get into her apartment.
- 33:58Speaker 3: He manipulates his way inside, then assaults Dorothy.
- 34:03Speaker 4: Oh yeah, he stares to rape her.
- 34:05Speaker 3: Yes, it's yeah, and only doesn't when Jeff comes in
- 34:11Speaker 3: and he handles this whole thing. Everyone handles this whole
- 34:13Speaker 3: thing very either poorly or bizarrely.
- 34:17Speaker 2: Yeah, but John, I just kind of drop it after it,
- 34:20Speaker 2: after it happens where he, like Michael is just like whoa.
- 34:27Speaker 3: Yeah, John leaves. But then Sandy shows up and Michael
- 34:32Speaker 3: has to hurried lee, you know, like shower off all
- 34:34Speaker 3: of his Dorothy makeup, and Sandy's like, why aren't you
- 34:38Speaker 3: returning my calls? And he's trying to play the whole
- 34:43Speaker 3: thing off. He continues to lie to her. She calls
- 34:47Speaker 3: him out for his dishonesty. We'll talk more about this
- 34:50Speaker 3: scene and their whole relationship, but she ends up storming out,
- 34:55Speaker 3: and so now Michael is at a loss for what
- 34:57Speaker 3: to do. His friend Sandy is him his love interest.
- 35:01Speaker 3: Julie doesn't want to be friends with him slash Dorothy
- 35:06Speaker 3: anymore because she's homophobic. Michael doesn't want to be Dorothy anymore.
- 35:12Speaker 3: But he's stuck in this contract on this soap opera.
- 35:15Speaker 3: And on top of all of that, the editor of
- 35:17Speaker 3: the show spilled celery juice, and.
- 35:23Speaker 2: Juice exists, and I'm like, it's been what was happening
- 35:26Speaker 2: in the eighties, I don't know, but he's spilled.
- 35:29Speaker 3: The editor spilled celery juice all over the footage. So
- 35:33Speaker 3: they have to do a scene live on TV, so
- 35:38Speaker 3: Dorothy takes that opportunity to remove her wig and makeup
- 35:44Speaker 3: and drop the falsetto voice and reveal that the character
- 35:50Speaker 3: Miss Kimberly is actually a man, her brother Edward, giving
- 35:56Speaker 3: this whole soap opera explanation for why everyone is like,
- 36:00Speaker 3: oh my god. Julie walks up to Michael and punches him,
- 36:07Speaker 3: and now Michael is really really sad. He pushes over
- 36:10Speaker 3: a mime in a park.
- 36:13Speaker 2: I forgot about that and I watched this movie yesterday.
- 36:16Speaker 4: He does push over a mime and crushes over a mime.
- 36:20Speaker 3: He meets up with Less to give the engagement ring back,
- 36:24Speaker 3: and Less is disgusted and humiliated because he's also homophobic
- 36:30Speaker 3: like father, like daughter, But Michael's like, well, I'm in
- 36:33Speaker 3: love with your daughter. Julie unless is like, eah, all right,
- 36:37Speaker 3: but just so you know, she never talks about you
- 36:40Speaker 3: or anything. So then Michael, despite that, approaches Julie to
- 36:45Speaker 3: try to like smooth things over, and she's still pissed
- 36:48Speaker 3: at him, and he gives this like barely an apology.
- 36:52Speaker 2: And crucially, she says, I miss Dorothy and then yeah,
- 36:56Speaker 2: which is intriguing. But then he's like, well, I'm Dorothy,
- 37:01Speaker 2: you're my girlfriend now, and she's like, hmmm, maybe I am.
- 37:05Speaker 4: And you're like, what a bleak ending? Yeah?
- 37:08Speaker 3: Yeah, and that's how it ends. So let's take a
- 37:10Speaker 3: quick break and we'll come back to discuss.
- 37:23Speaker 2: And we're back, Okay, I mean, where to where beget Nori?
- 37:30Speaker 3: Is there any place you wanna you want to start?
- 37:37Speaker 6: I don't know. I don't know. Yeah, I don't know.
- 37:40Speaker 7: I don't know.
- 37:41Speaker 3: There's just too much. Should we start with a little
- 37:45Speaker 3: bit of context, I guess for this and then we
- 37:47Speaker 3: can really dive. Sure, there's not a whole lot, but
- 37:51Speaker 3: this movie was inspired by a play that a writer
- 37:55Speaker 3: named Don Maguire wrote in the early seventies called Would
- 37:58Speaker 3: I Lie to You? About an unemployed male actor who
- 38:01Speaker 3: cross dresses to find jobs. The script was shopped around
- 38:05Speaker 3: Hollywood for years. It went through different rewrites, different producers
- 38:10Speaker 3: and directors were attached, different stars were attached, and then
- 38:14Speaker 3: the script eventually was shared with Dustin Hoffman, who wanted
- 38:19Speaker 3: the role and also wanted complete creative control of the project.
- 38:24Speaker 2: So Dorothy Michaels coated behavior.
- 38:27Speaker 3: Yeah, He's like, I'm just gonna do whatever the hell
- 38:30Speaker 3: I want and no one can say anything about it. Yeah,
- 38:33Speaker 3: and he wanted Sidney Pollock to direct, and to try
- 38:37Speaker 3: to get him interested, Dustin Hoffman approached Elaine May to
- 38:42Speaker 3: do a rewrite of the script, and she did a
- 38:45Speaker 3: couple things. She added the Bill Murray character Jeff. She
- 38:50Speaker 3: fleshed out Sandy's character, so Sandy was even less thought
- 38:54Speaker 3: out than she currently is.
- 38:57Speaker 2: So what am so?
- 38:59Speaker 4: I'm guessing?
- 39:00Speaker 2: Elaine May added, like Sandy's one good scene. Maybe I
- 39:03Speaker 2: don't know.
- 39:04Speaker 3: I yeah, let's go with that. Let's go with that. Yeah,
- 39:07Speaker 3: so she made different changes. Elaine May is not credited
- 39:10Speaker 3: as one of the writers, but she did this rewrite.
- 39:14Speaker 6: Of course not of course, of.
- 39:15Speaker 2: Course, we don't want to We don't want to get
- 39:18Speaker 2: the ugly idea that women were involved in this production.
- 39:23Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 39:23Speaker 2: Yeah. The crediteds Greade writers are Larry Gilbert and Murray Shishkel.
- 39:30Speaker 3: And then before production began, Dustin Hoffman worked with a voice,
- 39:34Speaker 3: speech and body language expert named Lillian Glass to learn
- 39:39Speaker 3: how to speak and have the body language of a woman, which, again,
- 39:45Speaker 3: to me, the performance he gives feels very just like
- 39:50Speaker 3: weird and stilted and like he is capital p performing
- 39:56Speaker 3: woman or like his bizarrow idea of what a woman is.
- 40:01Speaker 6: Like Yeah, and the accent was just like it really
- 40:05Speaker 6: blew me away. It was like so strange, Like there
- 40:08Speaker 6: was a stutter that he put into it, which.
- 40:11Speaker 5: Was so like what was that choice?
- 40:13Speaker 6: Like that, like like the he would stutter and it
- 40:17Speaker 6: was like, why is that part of this woman's experience?
- 40:21Speaker 6: I don't.
- 40:23Speaker 2: He's just like he's always doing too much. Like there's
- 40:27Speaker 2: just always this energy of like Oscar nomination for me
- 40:31Speaker 2: in all of his roles.
- 40:32Speaker 4: I mean, I think Rainman is the most egregious.
- 40:34Speaker 2: Of those, but like sure, but like he's just always
- 40:38Speaker 2: trying to get an Oscar. I there was an interview
- 40:42Speaker 2: that he did maybe ten years ago around this and
- 40:44Speaker 2: if you can listen to other Bechdel Cast episodes for
- 40:47Speaker 2: you know it doesn't Hoffmann fucking sucks.
- 40:49Speaker 3: As a person, bad bad guy.
- 40:51Speaker 2: But there was an interview he did about this because like,
- 40:54Speaker 2: I don't know, once the credits are rolling, I was
- 40:56Speaker 2: just like, who is this really?
- 41:01Speaker 4: Like who is this movie for?
- 41:03Speaker 2: And I feel like he kind of gets at it
- 41:05Speaker 2: unintentionally in this interview because he gets very emotional talking
- 41:09Speaker 2: about Titsy he's crying, Oh my yeah, And you're like, god,
- 41:15Speaker 2: I love actors, but if he's so irritating, he's he's crying, crying, crying,
- 41:20Speaker 2: And he says this. He's talking about the process of like,
- 41:24Speaker 2: you know, finding Dorothy basically, and the accent and all
- 41:28Speaker 2: these things, and towards the end of the interview, he
- 41:30Speaker 2: says that he was feeling emotional and talking to his
- 41:34Speaker 2: wife about it and said that the reason the character
- 41:38Speaker 2: appealed to him is because, quote, there are too many
- 41:40Speaker 2: interesting women I haven't had the experience of knowing in
- 41:43Speaker 2: this life because I have been brainwashed. That was never
- 41:47Speaker 2: a comedy for me unquote. So what are you saying
- 41:49Speaker 2: there is that he has never in his life considered
- 41:53Speaker 2: talking to a woman he's found unattractive, and so by
- 41:57Speaker 2: playing a woman that he did not find attractive, that
- 42:00Speaker 2: actually was life changing for him. And he was crying
- 42:03Speaker 2: about this, and you're like, Okay, so I guess the
- 42:06Speaker 2: movie is for whoever feels that way, like.
- 42:10Speaker 6: Sociopaths, like people who don't experience the emotion or feeling
- 42:15Speaker 6: of empathy, and they have to actually become that human
- 42:20Speaker 6: being to feel any possible empathy. So Tyra Banks. I
- 42:26Speaker 6: think that is who.
- 42:27Speaker 2: This Yeah, Dustn't Hoppen and Tyra Banks should really sit
- 42:32Speaker 2: down and try to define empathy together.
- 42:36Speaker 4: And just I don't know. First of all, I don't
- 42:39Speaker 4: buy that.
- 42:40Speaker 2: This movie uh changed his views on women anyways, similar to.
- 42:46Speaker 3: How him playing a woman in the movie, like the
- 42:49Speaker 3: Michael Dorsey character seemingly learns no lessons. Yea, the movie
- 42:54Speaker 3: wants you to think he learns a lesson, but when
- 42:56Speaker 3: you look closer, what growth does he actually clear demonstrate?
- 43:01Speaker 3: I would argue very little. I just want to go
- 43:04Speaker 3: through how I have a monologue, if you'll indulge me,
- 43:09Speaker 3: not unlike Dorothy giving all of her monologues. Yeah, okay,
- 43:13Speaker 3: So we have Michael Dorsey as sis man, dressing in
- 43:17Speaker 3: disguise more or less as a woman so that he
- 43:20Speaker 3: can try to get acting roles. So first of all,
- 43:23Speaker 3: he's literally taking a man, taking away jobs and income
- 43:28Speaker 3: from women.
- 43:30Speaker 2: While playing into all of these like horrific still persistent
- 43:33Speaker 2: stereotypes around drag.
- 43:37Speaker 3: Yeah, and through this character, through Dorothy and then again
- 43:41Speaker 3: by extension miss Kimberly. All these fans fall in love
- 43:47Speaker 3: with Miss Kimberly because she's bold, she's assertive, she's empowering,
- 43:52Speaker 3: she stands up to sexism. Women want to be like her,
- 43:56Speaker 3: and the show is more popular than ever because of
- 43:59Speaker 3: this Miss Kimberly character. There's even a producer who says
- 44:02Speaker 3: something like, you're the first woman character who is her
- 44:07Speaker 3: own person, who can assert her own personality without robbing
- 44:11Speaker 3: someone of theirs. And it's like, Okay, well that's a
- 44:14Speaker 3: fault of the writer's room for not writing any dynamic
- 44:21Speaker 3: women characters.
- 44:21Speaker 2: But anyway, well, yeah, that again that producer character, Like,
- 44:25Speaker 2: I was interested when she first shows up, but then
- 44:30Speaker 2: it's like you sort of are led to believe she
- 44:31Speaker 2: has no power on what happens in the show, that
- 44:34Speaker 2: it seems like she's in charge of.
- 44:37Speaker 4: Right, Just like, what wouldn't this be within your power?
- 44:40Speaker 4: Maybe I miss.
- 44:41Speaker 3: Something I don't know shrug, But anyway, so Miss Kimberly
- 44:46Speaker 3: is regarded as this beloved, empowering woman, the only woman
- 44:50Speaker 3: character like that on this soap opera. But again, the
- 44:55Speaker 3: actor playing her is actually a cis man, and so
- 44:59Speaker 3: we have to think about, well, what are the implications
- 45:01Speaker 3: of that here? And I have a whole list of options.
- 45:05Speaker 3: I'm curious what y'all think of this because of the
- 45:09Speaker 3: specific choices that Michael is making for Dorothy slash Miss Kimberly,
- 45:14Speaker 3: Like he's the one changing all of these lines of
- 45:17Speaker 3: dialogue and like making this character more assertive, And so's
- 45:21Speaker 3: the movie suggesting like, oh, yeah, well, only a man
- 45:23Speaker 3: would think to like take these creative liberties and do
- 45:27Speaker 3: something like that. Sure playing into the notion that men
- 45:31Speaker 3: are just inherently more assertive and dominant. Or is it
- 45:37Speaker 3: suggesting that because men are socialized to be more assertive
- 45:44Speaker 3: and dominant and women are socialized to be polite and delicate,
- 45:49Speaker 3: that a man pretending to be a woman is the
- 45:52Speaker 3: only way a woman character could be assertive and dominant
- 45:56Speaker 3: because of the way people of different genders are so
- 46:00Speaker 3: socialized differently. Or is the movie trying to comment on
- 46:06Speaker 3: the one dimensional tropy ways that characters who are women
- 46:11Speaker 3: tend to be written, especially by writers who are men.
- 46:15Speaker 3: Because the Miss Kimberly character is originally written to be
- 46:19Speaker 3: more flat and stereotypical, Julie's nurse character on the show
- 46:24Speaker 3: is similarly flat and stereotypical. But if this is commentary,
- 46:29Speaker 3: I would argue that it is not very effective because again,
- 46:33Speaker 3: a cisman who has lived his whole life as a
- 46:35Speaker 3: misogynist being the one who sheds light on this and
- 46:39Speaker 3: opens everyone's eyes to the way women are being represented
- 46:42Speaker 3: on screen. You know, not the best person to deliver
- 46:46Speaker 3: this message, yea.
- 46:47Speaker 4: Or is it.
- 46:48Speaker 3: Saying that people will finally listen about sexism when it's
- 46:53Speaker 3: a man pointing it out, because this happens all the
- 46:56Speaker 3: time in real life, where people who are pressed and
- 47:00Speaker 3: marginalized will point out that they are being oppressed and marginalized,
- 47:05Speaker 3: and no one listens until people with privilege point out
- 47:10Speaker 3: that others are oppressed and marginalized, and then everyone starts
- 47:13Speaker 3: to listen to that. I don't think it's that one,
- 47:17Speaker 3: But there's just all these weird I say.
- 47:21Speaker 2: My takeaway I when I wish I had asked my
- 47:24Speaker 2: mom what her takeaway was at the time, because I
- 47:26Speaker 2: think that's a good interesting study. But like I think
- 47:30Speaker 2: what they're trying to do here, and then like in
- 47:32Speaker 2: the context of the story, it doesn't really work or
- 47:36Speaker 2: makes sense. I mean, so much of this doesn't worker
- 47:38Speaker 2: make sense. It's kind of upsetting. But that like I
- 47:40Speaker 2: think that it's like, oh bye, the tyrebanksy by embodying
- 47:45Speaker 2: Dorothy Michael's able to learn empathy for women. But that's
- 47:50Speaker 2: really not how the story plays out. But I do
- 47:53Speaker 2: think that that was maybe a lot of people's takeaway.
- 47:55Speaker 2: If I were to hazard a guess at what my
- 47:57Speaker 2: mom took away at the time, I think it was that.
- 48:00Speaker 6: And if it, yeah, Like, if it was that, then
- 48:04Speaker 6: the reveal would be so much different. Like in his
- 48:08Speaker 6: like reveal where it's live on camera and he's revealing
- 48:13Speaker 6: that he's actually a man, it would have had some
- 48:16Speaker 6: dialogue around, like, and I learned that from being my
- 48:21Speaker 6: sister that you guys treat women in a really bad
- 48:24Speaker 6: way because I'm her brother and I'm a man, and
- 48:27Speaker 6: I like there would have been dialogue around how he
- 48:30Speaker 6: played he was his sister and he now knows that
- 48:35Speaker 6: you know women like but like literally there was.
- 48:39Speaker 5: None of that.
- 48:40Speaker 6: And like, after he's revealed to be a man, there's
- 48:43Speaker 6: no reflection nothing. It goes directly into him trying to
- 48:49Speaker 6: repair any relationship that he can to have sex with
- 48:53Speaker 6: Jessica Lang and he literally like goes to the bar,
- 48:57Speaker 6: Like the bar scene with her father is one of
- 49:00Speaker 6: the weirdest fucking scenes. I think that Ever, when he's
- 49:04Speaker 6: like he's like I am a man. Like like it
- 49:06Speaker 6: goes back to like don't worry. I'm a man and
- 49:09Speaker 6: I'm gonna.
- 49:09Speaker 3: And I'm not gay, I don't not worry about bad and.
- 49:12Speaker 6: I want to buy you a beer as a man,
- 49:15Speaker 6: and like, what are man, I'm gonna have.
- 49:16Speaker 5: Sex with your daughter?
- 49:18Speaker 6: I was like, what the fuck is going on? What
- 49:21Speaker 6: is happening? Like nearly fifteen minutes before this father was
- 49:26Speaker 6: trying to have sex with Dorothy and like literally now
- 49:30Speaker 6: Dorothy's like, I'm a man, Like I was like, what
- 49:32Speaker 6: is going.
- 49:35Speaker 2: It's took the people who the movie lets us see
- 49:39Speaker 2: their reaction versus the people that we don't. Is so
- 49:41Speaker 2: telling because it's like, personally, I don't give a shit
- 49:44Speaker 2: what Wes thinks.
- 49:46Speaker 4: Of all this.
- 49:47Speaker 2: I am curious what happens with Terry Garr. But the
- 49:51Speaker 2: last thing we the last we see of her, she's
- 49:53Speaker 2: like what and that's it, Like She's gone, yeah. This
- 49:58Speaker 2: movie is like it's just so ultimately around like whatever
- 50:02Speaker 2: anything it might that people thought it was trying to say.
- 50:05Speaker 2: I feel like it really back pedals on at the
- 50:07Speaker 2: very last minute where it's like, but to be clear,
- 50:10Speaker 2: we were all straight systems, straight no worries.
- 50:14Speaker 4: Let's drink a beer.
- 50:14Speaker 2: Let's crack up cole One, Let's let's let's uh, let's
- 50:18Speaker 2: put some P and to V and go.
- 50:19Speaker 3: Not men are men and women are women, And don't
- 50:22Speaker 3: get it confused.
- 50:23Speaker 2: Okay shows up to her place of work. He's like,
- 50:27Speaker 2: you're my girlfriend now, and let's get out of here.
- 50:31Speaker 6: My favorite character was like, I feel like the beginning,
- 50:34Speaker 6: there's a crew member who has a headset. She's black,
- 50:38Speaker 6: and like I feel like she's like the only character
- 50:40Speaker 6: who like knows that Dorothy's a man. Like I feel
- 50:44Speaker 6: like like there's moments where she's kind of like looking around,
- 50:46Speaker 6: kind of just.
- 50:47Speaker 3: Like y'all see missed, Like what are we doing?
- 50:50Speaker 5: Like like what is happening?
- 50:52Speaker 6: Like I feel like I trusted her with my life,
- 50:54Speaker 6: Like I was like, this woman knows exactly what's going on,
- 50:57Speaker 6: but no one will listen to her. She's the rightest
- 51:00Speaker 6: person on.
- 51:00Speaker 3: Set, like in the way that black women are almost
- 51:04Speaker 3: always the most discerning exactly people in the room. And
- 51:08Speaker 3: if only she was given any lines of dialogue.
- 51:12Speaker 2: I kept waiting for her to have something to do,
- 51:15Speaker 2: and it's I learned a little more about the actor
- 51:19Speaker 2: Lynn Thigpen.
- 51:20Speaker 4: Who passed back in she died quite young.
- 51:23Speaker 2: She died in two thousand and three, in her fifties,
- 51:26Speaker 2: but she had again just like it is so frustrating,
- 51:29Speaker 2: especially when it's like the this is really the only
- 51:32Speaker 2: black character with like meaningful dialogue and she still has
- 51:36Speaker 2: nothing to do. And of course, like she's played by
- 51:40Speaker 2: a like Tony Award winning, like incredible actor who had
- 51:45Speaker 2: like won in Obi won a Tony she okay, iconically
- 51:49Speaker 2: to me, to two millennial things that she's.
- 51:52Speaker 4: A part of.
- 51:53Speaker 2: She plays the chief in Where in the World is
- 51:55Speaker 2: Carmen San Diego? And she also plays the moon and
- 52:00Speaker 2: bearing the Big Blue House, right like I was, like, okay,
- 52:05Speaker 2: a legend. But of course, like this movie just completely
- 52:09Speaker 2: squanders her talent and doesn't write her a character.
- 52:12Speaker 4: It's just a mess.
- 52:14Speaker 2: It's a mess.
- 52:15Speaker 3: Yeah, I think the reason the takeaway for so many people,
- 52:21Speaker 3: even though by our standards today feels like scraps, it's peanuts.
- 52:26Speaker 3: It's almost nothing. But at the very end, when Michael
- 52:30Speaker 3: approaches Julie and he says, I was a better man
- 52:34Speaker 3: with you as a woman than I ever was with
- 52:38Speaker 3: a woman as a man, I just got a line
- 52:42Speaker 3: to do it now without the dress.
- 52:44Speaker 2: He really thought he was doing something, Yeah, and she's.
- 52:50Speaker 3: Just might he might say that, and he might feel that,
- 52:54Speaker 3: but we don't see evidence of that. We're not shown
- 52:58Speaker 3: anything to that effect on screen. Yeah, so it falls
- 53:03Speaker 3: really flat.
- 53:04Speaker 2: I had saying I want to there. There was a
- 53:08Speaker 2: letterboxed review from a user I really like. Sally Jane
- 53:11Speaker 2: Black wrote a review of this movie a couple of
- 53:13Speaker 2: I think a couple of years back that I think
- 53:16Speaker 2: like kind of captures a lot of like why this
- 53:19Speaker 2: movie doesn't work.
- 53:20Speaker 4: So I just wanted to share a little bit of it.
- 53:23Speaker 2: She says, quote Feminism is not men learning to empathize
- 53:27Speaker 2: with women by using them. Feminism is not a man
- 53:30Speaker 2: praying on a woman who has been his friend for
- 53:32Speaker 2: years to keep up a lie. Feminism is not using
- 53:34Speaker 2: Michael's disgust at being kissed by a man as the
- 53:37Speaker 2: inspiration for his changing character to be stronger. Skipping ahead
- 53:41Speaker 2: a little bit, there is an undercurrent of turf thinking
- 53:44Speaker 2: here in the service of making a film addressing the
- 53:46Speaker 2: plight of cisgender women. This film presents the argument of
- 53:49Speaker 2: those right wing misogynists parading as quote unquote feminists that
- 53:52Speaker 2: men will dress as women to invade women's spaces, prey
- 53:55Speaker 2: on them, lie to them, manipulate them. That a man
- 53:57Speaker 2: presenting feminine is nothing but a predator. While this is
- 54:00Speaker 2: emphatically not a film about a trans woman, it still
- 54:03Speaker 2: rings in the hearts and minds of those who want
- 54:05Speaker 2: to hate trans women. The argument is not, and should
- 54:08Speaker 2: not be walk a mile in our shoes. It should
- 54:11Speaker 2: be patriarchy holds you back too. It goes on from there.
- 54:16Speaker 2: It's a we can link it in the description. I
- 54:18Speaker 2: thought it was a really thoughtful review of this movie that,
- 54:22Speaker 2: of course random letterbox users were being absolutely unhinged in
- 54:26Speaker 2: the comments of oh god, but I think like she
- 54:30Speaker 2: she you know, sort of expands on also very regressive,
- 54:34Speaker 2: homophobic and transphobic and misogynist stereotypes that appear in this
- 54:38Speaker 2: movie and sort of try to tell you that it's
- 54:41Speaker 2: like a progressive, thoughtful character.
- 54:44Speaker 6: I don't know, I really I really like that so much.
- 54:47Speaker 6: It reminds me of do you guys watch We're Housewives
- 54:50Speaker 6: of Beverly Hills? By chance?
- 54:52Speaker 4: I have?
- 54:53Speaker 6: Yeah, Well, there's there's a nonprofit called like walk a
- 54:56Speaker 6: Mile or something, And there was one season where Taylor
- 55:00Speaker 6: wants all the husbands to be in this like marathon
- 55:05Speaker 6: race where the whole premise is that you're gonna run
- 55:09Speaker 6: in heels, and they're all cackling and all the husbands
- 55:13Speaker 6: are going, that's crazy, Like we have to wear heels
- 55:16Speaker 6: like you, and like it's supposed to raise money for
- 55:19Speaker 6: like survivors of domestic abuse, and it literally the whole
- 55:23Speaker 6: thing's like how funny that this big man is gonna
- 55:26Speaker 6: wear these stupid little heels.
- 55:29Speaker 5: That we wear.
- 55:31Speaker 6: And it's like the whole thing is so gross and
- 55:35Speaker 6: so like like to me, this is the same culture
- 55:38Speaker 6: as TUTSI. It's like it's this such so so strange,
- 55:43Speaker 6: and it's about how different gender experiences like are supposed
- 55:48Speaker 6: to relate to each other and in like this like
- 55:50Speaker 6: umbrella of misogyny and it's really weird and gross and
- 55:55Speaker 6: it just reminds me of that, Like how funny that
- 55:58Speaker 6: these men are going to put heels on and it's
- 56:00Speaker 6: supposed to like raise money for women's survivors.
- 56:03Speaker 5: It's like that's so weird.
- 56:05Speaker 2: Yeah, that's insulting and bizarre.
- 56:09Speaker 3: Yeah, well, similar to again, even though Michael Dorsey is
- 56:16Speaker 3: a cis man pretending to be a woman. There's still
- 56:21Speaker 3: transphobia inherent in the way that everyone who knows about
- 56:25Speaker 3: what Michael is doing thinks it's weird and that he's
- 56:28Speaker 3: stick in the head, Oh my god, you're gonna wear
- 56:31Speaker 3: women's clothing out in public.
- 56:33Speaker 2: Well, and like crucially he really only ever talks to
- 56:37Speaker 2: other CIS men about.
- 56:38Speaker 3: This, right because it's George and Jeff and they're both like, ow, yucky,
- 56:43Speaker 3: what are you doing, you weirdo? And Michael's just like
- 56:47Speaker 3: shrug a.
- 56:48Speaker 6: Shrug, yeah, Like they never explicitly say it, but there's
- 56:51Speaker 6: this weird underlying feeling of like all the men being like,
- 56:55Speaker 6: of course we want to do this too, Like obviously
- 56:58Speaker 6: I want to wear a dress too, but that's it's
- 57:00Speaker 6: disgusting and shameful, and there's this like weird underlying current
- 57:04Speaker 6: of like of like, yeah, of course, like men would
- 57:07Speaker 6: be wearing dresses if we could, like, but we're not
- 57:09Speaker 6: supposed to. And like it's just like their whole relationship
- 57:14Speaker 6: to like cross dressing is this weird feeling of it
- 57:18Speaker 6: existing and it being very inherent in culture but so
- 57:23Speaker 6: shameful that like you obviously can't talk about it or
- 57:26Speaker 6: do it, but like the way they talk about it
- 57:29Speaker 6: is like this weird like knowingness that it's there and
- 57:32Speaker 6: it happens and that people do it.
- 57:35Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Yeah, no, I've it's so
- 57:39Speaker 2: like and and I think, going back to like something
- 57:41Speaker 2: you said earlier, Kaitlyn, it's just like if this was
- 57:44Speaker 2: the best that like pop culture had to offer at
- 57:47Speaker 2: the time, like what a sign of how bleak things
- 57:50Speaker 2: were at this time? Or there is this And there
- 57:53Speaker 2: are two other movies I that I honestly have not
- 57:55Speaker 2: seen either of them, but they came out in either
- 57:57Speaker 2: nineteen eighty two or nineteen eighty three that floor similar
- 58:02Speaker 2: themes as Victor Victoria with Julie Andrews comes out this
- 58:06Speaker 2: same year, and then Yentle with Barbistrays and comes out
- 58:09Speaker 2: the year after with what I understand to be similar premises.
- 58:14Speaker 2: I have not seen the movies, but like.
- 58:15Speaker 4: This was clearly like on like this was something that.
- 58:20Speaker 2: Yes, that was there, it is it was in the
- 58:23Speaker 2: zeit guys at this time, but like not in a
- 58:26Speaker 2: way that it just feels like it's stopping short of
- 58:29Speaker 2: saying anything intentionally or like in this very Reagan eraw
- 58:34Speaker 2: way presenting something and then at the end saying well,
- 58:37Speaker 2: but never mind, and let's let's restore the quote unquote
- 58:41Speaker 2: normalcy and let's restore order.
- 58:44Speaker 3: Yeah, everyone take off your costume. Yeah, and live as
- 58:49Speaker 3: the gender you were assigned at birth.
- 58:52Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 58:53Speaker 5: Yeah, it was. It was.
- 58:54Speaker 6: It was interesting to watch this as a trans person
- 58:57Speaker 6: and kind of like see the progress that has been made,
- 59:01Speaker 6: Like I you know, we are regressing so much as
- 59:04Speaker 6: a society. Obviously if you look at anything that if
- 59:07Speaker 6: you're awake and you can see anything that's happened in
- 59:09Speaker 6: our country, it is terrifying for trans people. But with
- 59:14Speaker 6: that said, like it is crazy just to see the progress,
- 59:17Speaker 6: like as a trans person who's like in the industry,
- 59:20Speaker 6: it's like wow, like this is where we were at
- 59:23Speaker 6: that moment, Like you just there was like the jokes
- 59:26Speaker 6: that were made, the the only way people were interacted
- 59:29Speaker 6: with him cross dressing was through like psychiatry of like
- 59:32Speaker 6: like okay, you need to see a psychiatrist. You need
- 59:34Speaker 6: to like fix this and figure it out. And it
- 59:38Speaker 6: was crazy just to see that like there has been progress,
- 59:40Speaker 6: like there has been It's been amazing to see that
- 59:43Speaker 6: there's progress and that I don't know, just like I
- 59:48Speaker 6: forget I forget that that, Like, you know, we.
- 59:51Speaker 3: Have come away, yeah, comparatively, possibly a long way in
- 59:57Speaker 3: forty five years since this movie came out. Also with
- 1:00:01Speaker 3: all of the legislation.
- 1:00:03Speaker 6: And they're going back regressing.
- 1:00:05Speaker 3: Yeah, but culturally there are significant differences where we actually
- 1:00:09Speaker 3: have trans characters on screen played by transactors.
- 1:00:14Speaker 6: I just remembered, like, was it last year something like
- 1:00:17Speaker 6: some right wing production company they released a movie about
- 1:00:23Speaker 6: like CIS men basketball players having to do drag and
- 1:00:26Speaker 6: be cross dress and be women to like play basketball. Really,
- 1:00:32Speaker 6: I like, yeah, yeah, I saw ads for it, and
- 1:00:36Speaker 6: I was like, wow, like we are back at Tutsi. Huh,
- 1:00:39Speaker 6: Like like that's so funny, Like we're back, We're back.
- 1:00:41Speaker 2: At Tutsi and now we're correctly classifying it as Republican.
- 1:00:46Speaker 4: That's so bizarre.
- 1:00:49Speaker 2: I yeah, yeah, I don't know. I rewatched a section
- 1:00:54Speaker 2: of Disclosure just because I remember Tutsy coming up quite
- 1:00:58Speaker 2: a bit in that documentary or like there's multiple clips
- 1:01:02Speaker 2: from it, and the section that I watched. I think
- 1:01:05Speaker 2: it's interesting that and just like a point that I
- 1:01:07Speaker 2: didn't consider on this first run, but how men in
- 1:01:11Speaker 2: drag in the eighties specifically were kind of often positioned
- 1:01:16Speaker 2: as a way to make it in a way that
- 1:01:19Speaker 2: we see all the time seem like women had it
- 1:01:23Speaker 2: better than men at this time. Women had more opportunities.
- 1:01:27Speaker 2: And there was I forget what the other eighties movie was,
- 1:01:30Speaker 2: but they used Tutsi as an example of like, well,
- 1:01:32Speaker 2: a man in drag has a chance of being more
- 1:01:36Speaker 2: successful in a professional environment, which is just like so
- 1:01:41Speaker 2: ridiculous on premise, and would be treated better and paid
- 1:01:45Speaker 2: more and respected more than if they were just a
- 1:01:48Speaker 2: random guy. And then there was a different movie that
- 1:01:51Speaker 2: was cited that I wish I could remember the name
- 1:01:52Speaker 2: of that is even more ridiculous, where it's like men
- 1:01:55Speaker 2: in drag that are like the plot narrative is that
- 1:01:58Speaker 2: they're trying to get better house, and you're like, in
- 1:02:02Speaker 2: what world it's I don't know. I'm sure that someone
- 1:02:06Speaker 2: has written a like doctoral thesis on why exactly this
- 1:02:10Speaker 2: was happening in this moment, but it was like you
- 1:02:11Speaker 2: see it again and again, it's just bizarre.
- 1:02:15Speaker 6: It just reminds me of the eighties in terms of, like,
- 1:02:18Speaker 6: in terms of women's liberation of like, you know, sexuality
- 1:02:22Speaker 6: is power, Like I feel like it was you know,
- 1:02:24Speaker 6: the seventies at the sixties, Like now I'm going back
- 1:02:28Speaker 6: multiple decades, but I just feel like with like liberation,
- 1:02:31Speaker 6: it must have been some sort of pushback and some
- 1:02:33Speaker 6: sort of like pushback against this, like women being sexually
- 1:02:38Speaker 6: free and being like, oh so now you're like because
- 1:02:41Speaker 6: you know, with misogynists like only viewing women as sexual objects,
- 1:02:45Speaker 6: and like, I just feel like there's some weird relationship
- 1:02:49Speaker 6: between like women being more sexually liberated and being like,
- 1:02:52Speaker 6: oh so now you have privilege and now you can
- 1:02:55Speaker 6: like have more than men because you know, I can
- 1:02:59Speaker 6: only look at you as sexual object or something.
- 1:03:02Speaker 3: Right, and that threatens people, And that's why there's always
- 1:03:05Speaker 3: the cycles of progress and then backlash and then progress.
- 1:03:10Speaker 3: I mean, it's why there's so much anti trans legislation
- 1:03:14Speaker 3: happening right now, because trans people are more visible and
- 1:03:18Speaker 3: freer to exist in the world than they once were,
- 1:03:22Speaker 3: and that upsets a lot of horrible people and hence
- 1:03:27Speaker 3: the pushback.
- 1:03:28Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, yeah, like what you were saying, I
- 1:03:31Speaker 6: know you were talking specifically about drag, but in terms
- 1:03:35Speaker 6: of like the trans experience, Like I feel like there
- 1:03:38Speaker 6: is a lot of hatred of specifically men towards trans
- 1:03:42Speaker 6: women because men are miserable and they even with all
- 1:03:46Speaker 6: the privilege that they experience, they're so deeply unhappy. And
- 1:03:51Speaker 6: when they see someone feeling liberated, someone taking their destiny
- 1:03:56Speaker 6: into their own hands and a symbol of freedom, it
- 1:04:00Speaker 6: makes them angry, so angry that they're still stuck in
- 1:04:04Speaker 6: that prison of masculinity, that even with all the privilege
- 1:04:08Speaker 6: that they get, makes them so deeply unhappy because they
- 1:04:11Speaker 6: can't be allowed to feel and have emotion and all
- 1:04:15Speaker 6: those you know, whatever the weird gender politics that we have.
- 1:04:20Speaker 6: And then it comes also from CIS women, where like
- 1:04:23Speaker 6: they see trans women and they go, you're just a
- 1:04:25Speaker 6: man and you have the privileges of a man and
- 1:04:28Speaker 6: now you're a woman, but you but you were socialized
- 1:04:31Speaker 6: as a man, and there's a lot of anger there,
- 1:04:35Speaker 6: and you know, trans people can't win. It's like, you know,
- 1:04:39Speaker 6: you're just you're really put in that position where you're
- 1:04:41Speaker 6: just like I don't want to be a symbol for anything.
- 1:04:44Speaker 6: I just I'm just a person and I don't.
- 1:04:46Speaker 3: Want to live.
- 1:04:48Speaker 6: Yeah, I just you know, in today's trans today of visibility,
- 1:04:51Speaker 6: like right now, visibility sucks. It sucks to be visible
- 1:04:55Speaker 6: as a transperson, right now because of all the attacks
- 1:04:58Speaker 6: and all the you know, horrible stuff that's going on
- 1:05:02Speaker 6: again trans people the transity visibility as a phrase is
- 1:05:06Speaker 6: so weird.
- 1:05:07Speaker 5: It's like I.
- 1:05:08Speaker 6: Don't know who wrote that, but they it should have
- 1:05:10Speaker 6: been punched up, like transity of visibility is so weird,
- 1:05:14Speaker 6: Like like what do you mean visibility? Transity of empowerment?
- 1:05:18Speaker 6: Like there's so many better words.
- 1:05:20Speaker 2: I feel that way about a lot of taglines of
- 1:05:24Speaker 2: that nature, where sometimes it's like even when someone's like
- 1:05:27Speaker 2: you are valid or whatever, you're like, can we like
- 1:05:30Speaker 2: do a little better than that? Like I don't know,
- 1:05:33Speaker 2: it just feels like I given, of course everyone deserves
- 1:05:35Speaker 2: to be visible, but then what's so weird?
- 1:05:39Speaker 3: I almost feel the same way about like International Women's Day,
- 1:05:43Speaker 3: where I'm just like, okay, thanks for being nice to
- 1:05:47Speaker 3: me and acknowledging women this one day, But like what
- 1:05:52Speaker 3: if we could just do that all the.
- 1:05:53Speaker 2: Time or or that I mean, I whatever, like let
- 1:05:58Speaker 2: women exist, like the word exists bothers me too.
- 1:06:02Speaker 4: You're like, yeah, that, I don't think.
- 1:06:05Speaker 2: We're asking for enough. I think we should be asking
- 1:06:08Speaker 2: for more than visibility and existence.
- 1:06:11Speaker 6: Also, if you can't like afford groceries or like gas
- 1:06:17Speaker 6: or like if you can't have like healthcare, it's like
- 1:06:20Speaker 6: who cares? How like visible or invisible or like if
- 1:06:25Speaker 6: it's your day, or like it's like who the fuck
- 1:06:27Speaker 6: cares if none of us can survive, Like you have
- 1:06:30Speaker 6: to survive to exist, Like you can't exist without food.
- 1:06:35Speaker 6: Like it's just I feel like it's so patronizing to
- 1:06:39Speaker 6: just like try to have these days highlighting people when
- 1:06:41Speaker 6: it's like we just as people are trying to like survive, Like,
- 1:06:46Speaker 6: h it just makes me very angry against like the
- 1:06:48Speaker 6: billionaire class. I'm sorry, I just get very that's exactly.
- 1:06:50Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like okay, for the other three hundred and
- 1:06:54Speaker 3: sixty four days of the year, can you pay me enough?
- 1:06:57Speaker 2: Yes? Yeah? Like live the patronizing, Like how how so
- 1:07:03Speaker 2: many social movements were like co opted by like companies
- 1:07:06Speaker 2: for like one day out of the year to be like,
- 1:07:08Speaker 2: oh yeah today, like Shelle Gasoline loves trans people.
- 1:07:14Speaker 4: And you're like, what the fuck are you talking about?
- 1:07:17Speaker 4: Like I got an.
- 1:07:21Speaker 3: I got an email from an escape room place that
- 1:07:25Speaker 3: was like happy International Women's Day, women get forty off
- 1:07:30Speaker 3: of an escape room, and I'm like existent and patriarchy
- 1:07:35Speaker 3: is an escape room.
- 1:07:37Speaker 6: Oh my god, that's so funny.
- 1:07:39Speaker 2: That's great. I remember one of my favorite like commentary
- 1:07:43Speaker 2: on that kind of like patronizing representation, no politics stuff
- 1:07:49Speaker 2: was I think it was Iffy wady Way. During the
- 1:07:52Speaker 2: George Floyd protests in twenty twenty, he made a fake
- 1:07:56Speaker 2: post from Spaghettios Spaghettio says black lives matter, and it
- 1:08:03Speaker 2: just like it was so funny and like just perfectly
- 1:08:05Speaker 2: was like what what does what does it mean? What
- 1:08:08Speaker 2: does it mean to say Spaghettio's believes that black lives matter?
- 1:08:12Speaker 2: What is Spaghettio's doing about.
- 1:08:15Speaker 6: My favorite version of that? And this was not even commentary,
- 1:08:18Speaker 6: this was real life is on. There was one year
- 1:08:22Speaker 6: for International Women's Day where Burger King tweeted and was like,
- 1:08:26Speaker 6: we think that women belong in the kitchen. And then
- 1:08:29Speaker 6: it was like it was like highlighting their like their
- 1:08:32Speaker 6: like management program, and it was like this is nuts,
- 1:08:36Speaker 6: this is nuts.
- 1:08:37Speaker 5: You can't do this, you can't do this.
- 1:08:39Speaker 3: Oh they think women belong.
- 1:08:42Speaker 6: In Yeah, said we think that women belong in the kitchen,
- 1:08:45Speaker 6: and then it had a link to their like program, Yeah, what.
- 1:08:48Speaker 4: Are we doing? What's going on?
- 1:08:51Speaker 3: Exactly?
- 1:08:52Speaker 6: I feel nostalgia for those days we've things have gotten
- 1:08:55Speaker 6: so bad that I'm missing the performative representation I miss I.
- 1:09:00Speaker 2: Miss banks celebrating pride. I miss Bank of America pride
- 1:09:05Speaker 2: because that I mean, like speaking to your point like
- 1:09:08Speaker 2: that isn't even really happening anymore. Like they're like, oh,
- 1:09:11Speaker 2: we don't need to pretend to be an ally anymore.
- 1:09:13Speaker 6: There's no more pretending.
- 1:09:15Speaker 2: Ugh, I mean it's yeah, I do feel weirdly.
- 1:09:19Speaker 4: I was.
- 1:09:19Speaker 2: I think when that like twenty sixteen trend was going on,
- 1:09:23Speaker 2: it was miserable, but you're just like, wow, people used
- 1:09:26Speaker 2: to fake allies better, like.
- 1:09:30Speaker 6: Billionaires used to pretend like they didn't want us all
- 1:09:32Speaker 6: dad like they like they used to be like no,
- 1:09:35Speaker 6: we we want you to be alive. And now no
- 1:09:38Speaker 6: more of that. It's like, no, we want you to
- 1:09:40Speaker 6: die and like you need to die.
- 1:09:42Speaker 2: It's like what well, it's and I think that like
- 1:09:45Speaker 2: getting back to to see like, I think that there
- 1:09:48Speaker 2: is that energy thereof like the feminism that Dorothy Michaels
- 1:09:53Speaker 2: represents is catchphrase feminism and she's a Republican.
- 1:09:58Speaker 6: For out of the way, Dorothy is a Republican.
- 1:10:01Speaker 3: Oh yeah, for sure, there's a scene where Dorothy as
- 1:10:05Speaker 3: Miss Kimberly on the show. In one of her what
- 1:10:08Speaker 3: is supposed to be an empowering speech that she gives
- 1:10:13Speaker 3: on set, she's talking to a patient who has been
- 1:10:19Speaker 3: violently abused by her husband, and Miss Kimberly is like,
- 1:10:26Speaker 3: if you're being beaten by your husband, then you should
- 1:10:29Speaker 3: just beat your husband back. That's what I would do.
- 1:10:33Speaker 3: And she's discouraging her from extracting herself and her children
- 1:10:37Speaker 3: from this abusive relationship. She's like, no, just beaten back.
- 1:10:42Speaker 2: It's all very like U. And also the actor there
- 1:10:47Speaker 2: was like it disagrees with I don't know, it's just
- 1:10:50Speaker 2: always like Dorothy has to be the most feminist in
- 1:10:54Speaker 2: the room, even though Michael's behavior bears this out. Negative
- 1:10:58Speaker 2: twenty percent doesn't make any sense speaking going back to
- 1:11:02Speaker 2: Dorothy Michaels is a Republican. The second you said that, Nori,
- 1:11:05Speaker 2: I was like, oh, she kind of like Dorothy Michaels
- 1:11:07Speaker 2: kind of looks like Anita Bryant, like homophobia Era Bryant,
- 1:11:13Speaker 2: Like it's.
- 1:11:14Speaker 6: So true, that's so true. Like the costuming, Yeah, like
- 1:11:18Speaker 6: that is.
- 1:11:19Speaker 4: Her, Yeah, yeah, like she is.
- 1:11:21Speaker 2: She's a friend to no one I just don't under
- 1:11:23Speaker 2: I don't know Dorothy Michaels at best is talking in
- 1:11:26Speaker 2: these platitudes that are also clearly written by men, which
- 1:11:31Speaker 2: you know, I could see someone arguing is commentary, but
- 1:11:34Speaker 2: it's not, because it's like, it can't really be commentary
- 1:11:37Speaker 2: on TV that much because we don't really know who's
- 1:11:40Speaker 2: making the TV. We can assume that it's a room
- 1:11:43Speaker 2: full of sismen, but we don't see that. We don't
- 1:11:45Speaker 2: understand why this woman producer has no power on her
- 1:11:49Speaker 2: own show. We don't know what the one black woman
- 1:11:52Speaker 2: in the movie is thinking at any time that the
- 1:11:55Speaker 2: actor isn't like, you know, putting into her eyes.
- 1:11:57Speaker 6: Basically, I have a question, Oh please, if this movie
- 1:12:02Speaker 6: was made today, how do you think it would end?
- 1:12:05Speaker 4: Okay?
- 1:12:06Speaker 2: So I have sort of a good answer to that
- 1:12:08Speaker 2: because this movie was adapted for Broadway recently, Yeah, within.
- 1:12:13Speaker 3: The past like six or seven years, I think, right.
- 1:12:15Speaker 2: And like one Tony's and all of this stuff. It's
- 1:12:20Speaker 2: weird because not very there were lines that changed, but
- 1:12:25Speaker 2: there was not a lot about the plot that changed. Sorry,
- 1:12:28Speaker 2: I have uh I did this research about a week ago,
- 1:12:31Speaker 2: so I need a second up to pull it up.
- 1:12:33Speaker 2: But I think the main difference was that there was
- 1:12:36Speaker 2: a lot of queer criticism of the Broadway musical, being like, well, what.
- 1:12:42Speaker 4: The hell like what was that?
- 1:12:45Speaker 2: Because it was once again written and directed by sis
- 1:12:51Speaker 2: straight guys, the Broadway Musical was praised in the general sense.
- 1:12:57Speaker 2: It was nominated for Tony's it did well. The setting
- 1:13:01Speaker 2: was changed from soap operas to I think Broadway, but
- 1:13:06Speaker 2: there was a ton of criticism around how little changed.
- 1:13:10Speaker 6: Ah my god.
- 1:13:11Speaker 2: It reminded me of a conversation we had on our
- 1:13:13Speaker 2: two Wong Fu episode Caitlin, because that had a similar
- 1:13:17Speaker 2: trajectory as did Priscilla, Queen of the Desert. They were
- 1:13:20Speaker 2: also both adapted into Broadway and like didn't do a
- 1:13:23Speaker 2: lot of course correcting on the flawed source material.
- 1:13:28Speaker 3: Thanks.
- 1:13:28Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know, I feel like depressingly, the answer
- 1:13:32Speaker 2: is maybe I don't. I don't know how differently it
- 1:13:34Speaker 2: ends a what do y'all think?
- 1:13:36Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, do you have a pitch for.
- 1:13:39Speaker 6: I haven't thought too much about it, but I think, like,
- 1:13:42Speaker 6: I think there would be the speech would be different.
- 1:13:45Speaker 6: I think it would include what he learned. Maybe this
- 1:13:48Speaker 6: is more hopeful than maybe this is, like what I
- 1:13:50Speaker 6: would hope rather than like what would actually happen, as
- 1:13:53Speaker 6: you just said, what the it got rebooted and nothing changed,
- 1:13:56Speaker 6: But like I just would hope that like there would
- 1:13:59Speaker 6: be a different speech, Like there would just be some
- 1:14:02Speaker 6: different speech. Yeah, and him and Julie would not get
- 1:14:05Speaker 6: back together. They would not He would not be able
- 1:14:07Speaker 6: to get with her. He would have a really hard
- 1:14:10Speaker 6: conversation with with the character the woman.
- 1:14:13Speaker 4: That he was leading on Sandy.
- 1:14:15Speaker 6: I think he would not win in the end. He
- 1:14:17Speaker 6: would win nothing. He would have lost everything, and I
- 1:14:21Speaker 6: think would just have to like live with like that.
- 1:14:23Speaker 6: That was weird that he did a weird thing.
- 1:14:27Speaker 2: Yeah, which is like not even punishment enough really, like, yeah, yeah.
- 1:14:33Speaker 3: He should donate all the money he earned on the
- 1:14:35Speaker 3: show too.
- 1:14:36Speaker 6: Yes, yes, the women, Yes, yes.
- 1:14:41Speaker 4: The way.
- 1:14:41Speaker 2: I'm curious what you both think about Julie's storyline. I
- 1:14:47Speaker 2: thought Julie to be so perplexing. There are elements of
- 1:14:52Speaker 2: her that like, I don't know. There were like little
- 1:14:55Speaker 2: commentary bits to Julie's character that I was like.
- 1:14:58Speaker 4: That's interesting.
- 1:14:59Speaker 2: We won't be getting it to it, but that's interesting.
- 1:15:01Speaker 2: One of the more subtle things is that she does
- 1:15:04Speaker 2: not discuss publicly that she is a mother. I thought
- 1:15:08Speaker 2: that was a kind of that felt like actual effective
- 1:15:12Speaker 2: commentary of like, well, being a mother and being an
- 1:15:15Speaker 2: unmarried mother, you would be perceived as unattractive or old
- 1:15:19Speaker 2: or whatever it was, and so she doesn't talk about
- 1:15:21Speaker 2: her child publicly and only sort of tells people that
- 1:15:24Speaker 2: in the nineteen eighty two version of A Green Circle,
- 1:15:27Speaker 2: because there there is clearly some stigma with that. You know,
- 1:15:34Speaker 2: there is some light commentary on how poorly women were
- 1:15:39Speaker 2: represented in TV at this time, but again it's completely
- 1:15:43Speaker 2: undercut by the fact that, like I mean, in the
- 1:15:47Speaker 2: I think when we meet Julie, she's she's like, Hi,
- 1:15:50Speaker 2: I'm the slutty nurse, and then you're like, well, because that, yeah,
- 1:15:53Speaker 2: that's the character that has been written for her, right
- 1:15:56Speaker 2: she has to play. And it's not that she is
- 1:15:59Speaker 2: an aware of that. It's that she is accepted that,
- 1:16:02Speaker 2: like she or you know, it's like sort of position
- 1:16:05Speaker 2: like she's accepted that there she will never be treated differently,
- 1:16:08Speaker 2: so so like might as well laugh about it, which
- 1:16:12Speaker 2: is like, sure, you can fall into complacency when you're
- 1:16:15Speaker 2: when you don't think you'll ever be treated like a
- 1:16:18Speaker 2: person at work. But then the movie sort of posits like,
- 1:16:22Speaker 2: and so what she needed was Michael Dorsey to make
- 1:16:26Speaker 2: her realize that wasn't.
- 1:16:27Speaker 3: Okay teach her about feminism, right, Yeah, yes, that is baffling. Also,
- 1:16:35Speaker 3: later on, she's talking about how how much she values
- 1:16:40Speaker 3: Dorothy as a friend and how much Dorothy has taught
- 1:16:44Speaker 3: her and inspired her, and that's why she breaks up
- 1:16:47Speaker 3: with Ron, and I'm like, okay, but like that breakup
- 1:16:51Speaker 3: scene happens off screen, I don't really have any other
- 1:16:55Speaker 3: any other indication.
- 1:16:56Speaker 6: Didn't she come back and say she didn't or did
- 1:16:58Speaker 6: I make that up? I feel like I have a
- 1:17:00Speaker 6: memory that she was like I didn't do it, or
- 1:17:02Speaker 6: like she.
- 1:17:02Speaker 3: Does eventually, and then she says like, I'm lonely. Who
- 1:17:05Speaker 3: am I gonna have dinner with now? And I think
- 1:17:08Speaker 3: she says something that almost implies that Dorothy teaching her
- 1:17:12Speaker 3: about standing up for herself and being empowered as a woman,
- 1:17:17Speaker 3: like has made her lonely and made her because of
- 1:17:20Speaker 3: the awareness she has, she's now like unhappy with the
- 1:17:26Speaker 3: world and power dynamics and stuff like that, which fair
- 1:17:30Speaker 3: like people who are aware and informed and enlightened are
- 1:17:35Speaker 3: also often deeply unhappy because of.
- 1:17:39Speaker 2: I was like, well, I mean I can really I
- 1:17:41Speaker 2: didn't yet, So I'm not criticizing that's my perhaps my
- 1:17:46Speaker 2: lived experience. That's exactly how I feel right now. So yeah,
- 1:17:49Speaker 2: I'm not criticizing that. And I'm also maybe just reading
- 1:17:53Speaker 2: into it because she doesn't explicitly say that. But what
- 1:17:56Speaker 2: we do know, or what she does say, is that
- 1:17:59Speaker 2: Dora Dorothy has taught her so much because Dorothy's always herself,
- 1:18:03Speaker 2: and the joke is, well, Dorothy isn't herself, that's not
- 1:18:06Speaker 2: even Dorothy, that's a guy named Michael Dorsey, but Michael
- 1:18:10Speaker 2: Dorsey as Dorothy has taught Julie how to be an
- 1:18:14Speaker 2: empowered woman.
- 1:18:16Speaker 3: But I'm also just not really seeing evidence of that,
- 1:18:19Speaker 3: so I don't know what she's talking about.
- 1:18:22Speaker 2: Yeah, I think like any progress in Julie's character is
- 1:18:25Speaker 2: spurred by Dorothy, and at the end that it just
- 1:18:28Speaker 2: ends up being like kind of sad, h when you.
- 1:18:32Speaker 6: Say sad like one of the saddest scenes for me
- 1:18:35Speaker 6: is when Michael is so late to that dinner that
- 1:18:40Speaker 6: h oh with Sandy, such Sandy makes and then like
- 1:18:43Speaker 6: he's like you should be mad at me, be mad
- 1:18:46Speaker 6: at me, Like don't apologize and like them putting her
- 1:18:49Speaker 6: character in such a low point that the perpetrator is
- 1:18:54Speaker 6: telling her like, why are you not mad at me?
- 1:18:57Speaker 6: It's like, yeah, like you wrote the scene, Like you
- 1:19:00Speaker 6: wrote the scene, and you wrote it to where she's
- 1:19:02Speaker 6: that pathetic. That really was sad.
- 1:19:05Speaker 2: Oh it really bummed me out. Yeah, where it's like
- 1:19:09Speaker 2: I don't know, for the only like Julie and Sandy
- 1:19:13Speaker 2: both hot, white blonde ladies, so already.
- 1:19:16Speaker 4: You're like, Okay, this is what the movie's doing.
- 1:19:18Speaker 2: But Sandy is just treated so horribly by the plot
- 1:19:21Speaker 2: in a way that like, I think that we're supposed
- 1:19:24Speaker 2: to I mean, obviously Michael having sex with her is
- 1:19:27Speaker 2: framed as a joke, even though it's like co weird,
- 1:19:31Speaker 2: coercive sex, and then he treats her poorly for the
- 1:19:34Speaker 2: rest of the movie.
- 1:19:36Speaker 4: It just made me so sad.
- 1:19:37Speaker 2: Yeah, watching her with the with the food alone and
- 1:19:40Speaker 2: then immediately forgiving him.
- 1:19:42Speaker 4: I do.
- 1:19:43Speaker 2: I like when she lashes out at him. I like
- 1:19:47Speaker 2: that when she says I never said I love you.
- 1:19:49Speaker 2: I don't care about I love you. I read the
- 1:19:51Speaker 2: second this is all very second my feminism. I read
- 1:19:54Speaker 2: the second sex. I read the Cinderella complex. I'm responsible
- 1:19:57Speaker 2: for my own orgasm. I don't care. I just don't
- 1:19:59Speaker 2: like to be lied to. I feel like there's something
- 1:20:02Speaker 2: in there, but it doesn't pay off in any any way.
- 1:20:06Speaker 2: It's just sort of like lip service because like Terry
- 1:20:09Speaker 2: garr is selling me on it. I do think that
- 1:20:11Speaker 2: there is I mean going back to like the idea
- 1:20:14Speaker 2: that like being empowered can also translate to feeling kind
- 1:20:19Speaker 2: of isolated and lonely. That's sort of what she's saying here.
- 1:20:22Speaker 2: She's like, I am a feminist.
- 1:20:25Speaker 4: I you know, I've.
- 1:20:26Speaker 2: I've done the work, I'm doing my best, and I
- 1:20:29Speaker 2: just I feel like shit, I just want to be
- 1:20:31Speaker 2: treated like a person by you, and like there's like
- 1:20:35Speaker 2: there's there's like truth in that. Unfortunately he never does that,
- 1:20:40Speaker 2: so like why bother.
- 1:20:41Speaker 3: He never tells her he was lying to her the
- 1:20:43Speaker 3: whole time, He never apologizes, he never comes clean in
- 1:20:47Speaker 3: any way. She just never appears on screen after that scene,
- 1:20:50Speaker 3: So there's no resolution there. Yeah, like you said, Jamie,
- 1:20:53Speaker 3: like them having sex feels very like he tricks her.
- 1:20:58Speaker 3: He lies about his intention of why he was naked.
- 1:21:02Speaker 3: There's also a weird thing where she sees him and
- 1:21:04Speaker 3: she's like, Michael Parentheses horrified. But then she's like Michael
- 1:21:09Speaker 3: Parentheses in True Morning, I'm like, Okay, what the hell
- 1:21:14Speaker 3: is this? And then he's like, yeah, I want you.
- 1:21:16Speaker 3: And then so they have sex. She says something like
- 1:21:20Speaker 3: men have sex with me and then they lose interest
- 1:21:22Speaker 3: and they ignore me, and I don't want that to
- 1:21:24Speaker 3: be this way. But also, the movie is so all
- 1:21:29Speaker 3: over the place with how it characterizes her, because for
- 1:21:32Speaker 3: most of the time, it seems like like the way
- 1:21:35Speaker 3: she's waiting around and constantly being stood up by Michael,
- 1:21:40Speaker 3: the movie wants you to think that she's pining after
- 1:21:43Speaker 3: him and expecting to get into a serious, committed relationship
- 1:21:47Speaker 3: with him. But then at the end she says, I
- 1:21:50Speaker 3: don't even care about any of that. I just don't
- 1:21:53Speaker 3: want to be lied to, which fair, But then what
- 1:21:57Speaker 3: was all that other stuff where the movie makes it
- 1:21:59Speaker 3: seem like she does deeply care about that stuff. So yeah,
- 1:22:03Speaker 3: I just feel like the movie cannot make up its
- 1:22:05Speaker 3: mind on how we are supposed to perceive her how
- 1:22:09Speaker 3: she actually feels about the situation.
- 1:22:13Speaker 2: Well, and also there's a big to do made of
- 1:22:15Speaker 2: like she doesn't want to do the play with him
- 1:22:17Speaker 2: anymore because he's been so deceptive. And then at the end,
- 1:22:21Speaker 2: the only indication of her existence is.
- 1:22:23Speaker 4: That she does do the play.
- 1:22:25Speaker 2: There's like a sign with their names on it, so they,
- 1:22:28Speaker 2: I mean, everyone is just so trapped because.
- 1:22:32Speaker 3: She says like, normally I would say screw your play,
- 1:22:34Speaker 3: but because I'm a professional, I'm gonna do it anyway,
- 1:22:37Speaker 3: so I'll see you it rehearsal or whatever.
- 1:22:39Speaker 2: And then she says, I do I do like this
- 1:22:42Speaker 2: is just like I love Terry Garr. But like when
- 1:22:44Speaker 2: she when she does that whole speech and then she goes,
- 1:22:46Speaker 2: are these chocolate covered cherries?
- 1:22:48Speaker 4: I laughed. I like it.
- 1:22:50Speaker 3: Also, there's a part where he so Michael is talking
- 1:22:55Speaker 3: about Sandy to his roommate Jeff, and he's saying something like, well,
- 1:22:59Speaker 3: I never promised her that I would be exclusive, but
- 1:23:02Speaker 3: I'm kind of letting her think that so as to
- 1:23:04Speaker 3: not hurt her feelings. So he says that. Then in
- 1:23:08Speaker 3: a later scene, Michael as Dorothy is talking to Ron,
- 1:23:13Speaker 3: Ron regurgitates that exact same thing about Julie, where Ron
- 1:23:17Speaker 3: is like, well, I never promised I would be exclusive
- 1:23:20Speaker 3: to her, but I'm telling her that I'm exclusive, so
- 1:23:23Speaker 3: is to not hurt her feelings. And I would think
- 1:23:25Speaker 3: that would be a moment of Michael being like, oh
- 1:23:28Speaker 3: my god, that's so shitty and I did that same
- 1:23:30Speaker 3: shitty thing.
- 1:23:31Speaker 2: And he just keeps packing.
- 1:23:32Speaker 3: He has no reflection, no introspection whatsoever. He's just like, well,
- 1:23:40Speaker 3: you suck Ron, You're a shitty guy. And it's like,
- 1:23:43Speaker 3: you're also shitty.
- 1:23:45Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 1:23:46Speaker 6: The only change that we see, the only progress that
- 1:23:49Speaker 6: we see, is that Michael just starts liking dresses like
- 1:23:54Speaker 6: more like he just starts to have more of appreciation
- 1:23:56Speaker 6: for the craftsmanship of like like like like by the end,
- 1:24:00Speaker 6: he's like, this is a Houston and like I love Houston.
- 1:24:04Speaker 6: And it's like, oh so like literally the only thing
- 1:24:06Speaker 6: that you've changed is you like like designer clothing. I
- 1:24:09Speaker 6: don't like Like it was so bad and superficial.
- 1:24:12Speaker 3: There were so many opportunities for him to learn the many,
- 1:24:17Speaker 3: many ways that women are oppressed and marginalized simply because
- 1:24:23Speaker 3: of their gender, and he learns basically nothing, except for
- 1:24:27Speaker 3: he says something like it's so expensive to buy all
- 1:24:31Speaker 3: these clothes and lingerie.
- 1:24:33Speaker 2: And handbags that it does remind me of a date
- 1:24:36Speaker 2: I went on years ago where it was like a
- 1:24:40Speaker 2: guy emphatically explaining to me how expensive skincare products were
- 1:24:45Speaker 2: for women, for like Mony, and then at the end
- 1:24:48Speaker 2: being like kiss please, like I didn't, and you're just
- 1:24:52Speaker 2: like okay, Like I don't know. I there's just so
- 1:24:57Speaker 2: much going on in this movie that makes me very
- 1:25:00Speaker 2: sad for all marginalized people of the nineteen eighties. It's
- 1:25:05Speaker 2: so and I feel like this is something I know
- 1:25:08Speaker 2: we're running out of time, but something that feels actually
- 1:25:11Speaker 2: very in conversation with not the Bechdel Test, but like
- 1:25:14Speaker 2: Alison Bechdel's work, which was you know, happening throughout the eighties,
- 1:25:19Speaker 2: the idea of like for many people. And I saw
- 1:25:22Speaker 2: this in the comments I saw this on letterbox, mostly
- 1:25:25Speaker 2: from older users, saying that this was the closest they
- 1:25:29Speaker 2: saw in a very successful movie to lesbian representation and
- 1:25:34Speaker 2: how depressing is that. Like God, There's been a lot
- 1:25:39Speaker 2: of pieces written about this over the years. One I'm
- 1:25:43Speaker 2: gonna quote from is from a blog called diva Drivel
- 1:25:46Speaker 2: kind of a good thing, kind of a good name
- 1:25:49Speaker 2: called looking for the Lesbian in TUTSI. I just wanted
- 1:25:53Speaker 2: to to share this perspective because I actually I like
- 1:25:56Speaker 2: I do. I do see the appeal of Julia's character,
- 1:26:00Speaker 2: even though it resolves in the most republican way possible.
- 1:26:03Speaker 2: So from this piece, in spite of the baggage that
- 1:26:06Speaker 2: comes with a film that presents dated ideas about gender
- 1:26:08Speaker 2: and sexuality, I still find myself drawn to Tutsy because
- 1:26:10Speaker 2: of the unresolved ambiguity of Julia's sexuality. Julia's blonde, beautiful,
- 1:26:15Speaker 2: moderately famous, and already entangled in a front relationship, blah
- 1:26:19Speaker 2: blah blah. Despite Julie's aversion towards seeing Dorothy out of
- 1:26:24Speaker 2: her clothes, as Michael pleads, she confesses to having quote
- 1:26:28Speaker 2: the same impulses unquote as Dorothy. In a curious statement,
- 1:26:32Speaker 2: she tells Dorothy that she is responsible for the encounter
- 1:26:35Speaker 2: because she is just not well adjusted enough, which is
- 1:26:39Speaker 2: such a specific choice of words.
- 1:26:41Speaker 4: There, it continues, what does Julie mean by this well adjusted?
- 1:26:47Speaker 6: To what I just got to say? I just want
- 1:26:50Speaker 6: to say that TUTSI walked so that Carol could run.
- 1:26:54Speaker 2: Okay, they're in conversation, Oh yeah.
- 1:27:02Speaker 4: But yeah.
- 1:27:03Speaker 2: Implicit in her statement is that lesbians are not well
- 1:27:05Speaker 2: adjusted women because they indulge these impulses.
- 1:27:09Speaker 4: While well adjusted.
- 1:27:10Speaker 2: Women learn to bottle them up and put them away,
- 1:27:12Speaker 2: which is like, I, honestly, I have no idea what
- 1:27:16Speaker 2: we're supposed to think about Julie. By the end of
- 1:27:19Speaker 2: this movie, it seems like Julie herself is very unresolved
- 1:27:23Speaker 2: about what this whole experience has meant to her, and
- 1:27:26Speaker 2: the movie kind of doesn't care enough to give us
- 1:27:29Speaker 2: any sort of meaningful resolution. I think we are just
- 1:27:32Speaker 2: supposed to be like, well, now she has to date
- 1:27:35Speaker 2: Dustin Hoffman, like that sounds miserable.
- 1:27:39Speaker 3: She threw a drink in his face. Cloes. There's a scene,
- 1:27:42Speaker 3: Oh Yeah, where Dorothy and Julie are hanging out and
- 1:27:46Speaker 3: Julie is talking about her relationships with men and ron
- 1:27:50Speaker 3: and just dating in general and how complicated it is
- 1:27:54Speaker 3: to be a woman in the eighties, and she says
- 1:27:56Speaker 3: something like I wish a guy would just be honest
- 1:27:59Speaker 3: enough to walk up to me and say, listen, I'm
- 1:28:02Speaker 3: confused about this too. I could lay a big line
- 1:28:05Speaker 3: on you, but the simple truth is I find you
- 1:28:07Speaker 3: really interesting and I'd really like to make love to you.
- 1:28:11Speaker 3: So later, when Michael, who is again at a party
- 1:28:16Speaker 3: on a date with Sandy, blows Sandy Off goes up
- 1:28:20Speaker 3: to Julie says that exact same line, and of course
- 1:28:25Speaker 3: Julie throws a drink in his face because that is
- 1:28:28Speaker 3: a that is a nutso thing to say to someone.
- 1:28:30Speaker 3: He's coming on so strong, and then he's like.
- 1:28:33Speaker 4: Oh yeah.
- 1:28:34Speaker 3: But it also kind of makes Julie seem like she
- 1:28:37Speaker 3: doesn't know what she wants because she just said she
- 1:28:39Speaker 3: wanted that thing.
- 1:28:40Speaker 2: I don't think Julie does know what she wants, And.
- 1:28:43Speaker 6: The underlying message is that women are liars. I think
- 1:28:46Speaker 6: like there was a very male, very misogynistic message there
- 1:28:50Speaker 6: that I was hearing around, like women say they want
- 1:28:53Speaker 6: nice guys, but then when nice guys like I heard
- 1:28:59Speaker 6: that like gross manosphere kind of language.
- 1:29:02Speaker 2: You know, totally yeah, Michael is manosphere code.
- 1:29:06Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 1:29:08Speaker 2: Like it is presented like Julie doesn't know what she wants,
- 1:29:12Speaker 2: but the movie doesn't care about that. Like I would
- 1:29:15Speaker 2: be willing to engage with a character who's like unsure
- 1:29:18Speaker 2: about like what do I want out of a relationship,
- 1:29:21Speaker 2: Like what is my sexuality order, my preferences, bah blah
- 1:29:24Speaker 2: blah blah, but like the movie doesn't care. So it's
- 1:29:28Speaker 2: just like you're presented with all of this stuff. It's
- 1:29:30Speaker 2: also kind of like weirdly like Dorothy's doing some like
- 1:29:36Speaker 2: mommy stuff on the trip, and like in a way
- 1:29:40Speaker 2: that felt so manipulative, where she's like talking about her
- 1:29:44Speaker 2: dead mother, and then it felt like Michael as Dorothy
- 1:29:48Speaker 2: was like I'm your mommy now.
- 1:29:50Speaker 4: It was just really confusing.
- 1:29:53Speaker 3: Oh yeah, because they get into bed together, and then yeah,
- 1:29:56Speaker 3: Deutsch's I mean, I love sharing the bed with a friend.
- 1:29:59Speaker 2: Uh, and I hate movies that discouraged me from doing
- 1:30:02Speaker 2: that is fair.
- 1:30:04Speaker 3: I cannot share a bed with anyone under any circumstances.
- 1:30:08Speaker 3: I would rather sleep on the floor. We've shared a bed,
- 1:30:10Speaker 3: I know, but I'm so bad because I'm the worst sleeper.
- 1:30:16Speaker 2: Hated Settle. Seattle, you hated that.
- 1:30:21Speaker 3: We've shared multiple beds together. I think also in Washington,
- 1:30:26Speaker 3: d C.
- 1:30:27Speaker 4: Do you know I Seattle stuck out with me. See
- 1:30:29Speaker 4: you remember where we were?
- 1:30:31Speaker 3: I don't know. It meant to let me tell you something.
- 1:30:34Speaker 3: I have such bad insomnia that if someone is in
- 1:30:36Speaker 3: the bed with me, unless I have taken a Shmorgus
- 1:30:39Speaker 3: board of sleep Betime drugs, I will not sleep. I
- 1:30:44Speaker 3: have laid awake until seven am because a man was
- 1:30:48Speaker 3: next to me in a bed.
- 1:30:49Speaker 4: I hate to hear that.
- 1:30:50Speaker 3: And this has happened on multiple occasions in my life. Anyway,
- 1:30:54Speaker 3: they share the bed, Dorothy starts like petting Julie. She's like, no,
- 1:31:00Speaker 3: don't stop. My mom used to do this, and I'm like,
- 1:31:03Speaker 3: that could be a nice moment in a different movie,
- 1:31:06Speaker 3: but it's in this movie and it's weird. And then
- 1:31:09Speaker 3: this all culminates in Dorothy trying to kiss Julie, Julie
- 1:31:14Speaker 3: pulling away that you know, the scene we've been talking about.
- 1:31:16Speaker 3: And then the aftermath of that is Julie being like,
- 1:31:21Speaker 3: I'm too homophobic to be your friend anymore basically.
- 1:31:25Speaker 2: Which is kind of couched in the like, it's not
- 1:31:28Speaker 2: that I'm homophobic, it's that I need you to out
- 1:31:31Speaker 2: yourself to my dad today.
- 1:31:33Speaker 3: Yeah, and I feel like I'd be leading you on
- 1:31:37Speaker 3: because the mentality of the time was that here people
- 1:31:40Speaker 3: were so sexually aggressive that you can't even be friends
- 1:31:43Speaker 3: with them.
- 1:31:44Speaker 6: Yeah, I have to confess something. We have limited time left.
- 1:31:47Speaker 6: I have to confess something. Tell us I was sexually
- 1:31:51Speaker 6: attracted to her dad. Oh less, I don't.
- 1:31:55Speaker 7: Know, but I did get he was so sweet, he
- 1:32:02Speaker 7: was so sweet, and his wife died and he's a widower,
- 1:32:05Speaker 7: and he just like was like so nice to Dorothy
- 1:32:09Speaker 7: and like he just wanted like to be happy and
- 1:32:12Speaker 7: like live like a joyful small life and that Really,
- 1:32:15Speaker 7: if I was Dorothy, I could not have resisted and
- 1:32:19Speaker 7: I would have gone with Less.
- 1:32:20Speaker 4: Wow, he should have been so lucky.
- 1:32:24Speaker 6: He was just like he was solid. He was the
- 1:32:27Speaker 6: only man in that film that was a solid man.
- 1:32:30Speaker 3: But I hate him.
- 1:32:32Speaker 6: Well, did he do something bad? Am I forgetting that
- 1:32:35Speaker 6: he did something bad?
- 1:32:37Speaker 2: His last I think his last appearance is like sucks.
- 1:32:41Speaker 6: Oh yeah, because.
- 1:32:42Speaker 3: He's weird and homophobic. But then even before that he
- 1:32:44Speaker 3: goes on this tirade about how gender.
- 1:32:48Speaker 2: Needs to be this rigid, happy thing.
- 1:32:51Speaker 3: I couldn't say. He's also like he keeps being creepily
- 1:32:55Speaker 3: like touching Dorothy and invading her space and thing crossing
- 1:33:00Speaker 3: her boundaries.
- 1:33:01Speaker 6: In real life, Less would end up with a trans woman.
- 1:33:05Speaker 6: In real life, Less just trans attracted. He finds out
- 1:33:08Speaker 6: later in life he finds a woman who's trans, and
- 1:33:12Speaker 6: he lives a beautiful, happy life on the farm with
- 1:33:15Speaker 6: his trans lover. Like that is that's real life, that's
- 1:33:19Speaker 6: real life. In the movie, it's really weird, and there's
- 1:33:22Speaker 6: a lot of weird stuff going on. But in real life,
- 1:33:25Speaker 6: Less he has a beautiful trans wife. That's just that's
- 1:33:29Speaker 6: that's that's life.
- 1:33:30Speaker 4: That's beautiful.
- 1:33:31Speaker 3: I'm here for it.
- 1:33:32Speaker 2: Maybe that's maybe that's how it ends in everything else
- 1:33:36Speaker 2: is exactly the same, except Less has a beautiful trans wife.
- 1:33:41Speaker 4: At the end of them, like, he takes he takes
- 1:33:44Speaker 4: your dancing.
- 1:33:44Speaker 6: He just wants to dance.
- 1:33:48Speaker 4: We're I like.
- 1:33:49Speaker 2: The way he's presented is very sweet at first, and
- 1:33:51Speaker 2: then the layers start to peel back.
- 1:33:54Speaker 5: They do peel, they do peel.
- 1:33:56Speaker 2: Okay and Julie, Julie, this family, Like, I don't know
- 1:34:01Speaker 2: what the hell was going on with this family.
- 1:34:03Speaker 3: It's a mess.
- 1:34:04Speaker 6: There was sexual tension between them, Yes, I.
- 1:34:07Speaker 2: Was gonna say there was a very like the way
- 1:34:10Speaker 2: she I also just think it's whatever. I you know,
- 1:34:14Speaker 2: I want I want my mom to have a nice boyfriend.
- 1:34:18Speaker 2: Sure of course I do, why not? But I wouldn't
- 1:34:21Speaker 2: be like, I'll leave you two alone, good luck, Like
- 1:34:25Speaker 2: you're like, oh gross, gross, Like I want her to
- 1:34:29Speaker 2: have a great relationship that has nothing to do with me,
- 1:34:33Speaker 2: Like what gross? Like, Yeah, people love to hyper sexualize
- 1:34:39Speaker 2: the relationship between fathers and daughters.
- 1:34:41Speaker 4: It's their favorite.
- 1:34:42Speaker 3: Oh god, wasn't that a thing? Weren't we talking about
- 1:34:45Speaker 3: that in like Say Anything or something?
- 1:34:48Speaker 2: I Say Anything is one of the horniest father to
- 1:34:51Speaker 2: outer relationships ever because he gives her like a ring
- 1:34:54Speaker 2: at the beginning of the movie.
- 1:34:56Speaker 3: Yeah, he proposes to his own daughter or something.
- 1:34:58Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 1:34:59Speaker 5: Gross.
- 1:35:00Speaker 3: I know we're running out of time. I just have
- 1:35:01Speaker 3: a few quick things I want to rattle off. First
- 1:35:05Speaker 3: of all, I think this movie suffers from too many subplots.
- 1:35:08Speaker 3: There are like seven, and it should have been maybe three, tops.
- 1:35:12Speaker 3: But the subplots that we haven't really talked about are
- 1:35:17Speaker 3: the quick thing with the actor John Van Horn, who
- 1:35:20Speaker 3: plays doctor Brewster. He attempts to rape Dorothy.
- 1:35:25Speaker 2: And that's written off with what is definitely intended to
- 1:35:28Speaker 2: be a joke. Sally Jane Black talks about this at
- 1:35:30Speaker 2: her review as well, where Michael says rape is no
- 1:35:34Speaker 2: laughing matter, and then there's like a literal pause for laughs.
- 1:35:38Speaker 2: For the nineteen eighty two audience that's like, sure it is.
- 1:35:41Speaker 2: It's the funniest thing in the world.
- 1:35:45Speaker 3: Yeah, So that's a mess. There's a tiny, tiny little
- 1:35:49Speaker 3: Geena Davis subplot where it's I guess it's more of
- 1:35:52Speaker 3: a through line than anything, but the whole thing there
- 1:35:54Speaker 3: is that she keeps being almost naked in front of Dorothy,
- 1:35:58Speaker 3: not realizing that Dorothy actually Michael, and so she's like
- 1:36:02Speaker 3: in her bra and underwear all the time, and then
- 1:36:04Speaker 3: when she realizes that Dorothy is a man, her eyes
- 1:36:10Speaker 3: bulge and she's like, oh no, I've been naked in
- 1:36:13Speaker 3: front of him the whole time, And that's played as
- 1:36:15Speaker 3: a joke. There's a few instances where Sandy makes fat
- 1:36:21Speaker 3: phobic remarks, always about Dorothy, but she never knows that
- 1:36:25Speaker 3: she's talking about Dorothy.
- 1:36:27Speaker 4: And also Dorothy not for nothing, Dorothy isn't.
- 1:36:30Speaker 6: Fast skinny as hell, Yeah, because it's.
- 1:36:32Speaker 3: Dustin Hoffman and Dustin Hoffman is very thin.
- 1:36:36Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 1:36:36Speaker 2: I mean that's just again the like absolute, like crippling
- 1:36:40Speaker 2: depression of the nineteen eighties where we're just like.
- 1:36:43Speaker 4: What are you even saying?
- 1:36:45Speaker 3: It's it's mind boggling. Yeah, there's just there. I know,
- 1:36:49Speaker 3: we're we're there's more to say, but yeah, we're we're
- 1:36:53Speaker 3: running out of time. So I'm like, ahh, but I've
- 1:36:57Speaker 3: had a great time here today.
- 1:36:58Speaker 4: I have me too. Does this maybe pass the Bechdel test?
- 1:37:03Speaker 3: I don't know, Like, no, it doesn't unless someone were
- 1:37:08Speaker 3: to count Dorothy as a female character. But no, no.
- 1:37:11Speaker 6: Way, because like without that, like there was no scene
- 1:37:15Speaker 6: where two women were talking, right, I can't remember one.
- 1:37:19Speaker 3: I don't think so.
- 1:37:19Speaker 2: And if it did happen, it was a coincidence at best. Yeah,
- 1:37:23Speaker 2: like all of that, Like all of Sandy's friends are men,
- 1:37:26Speaker 2: which as an actor doesn't really make sense. It doesn't
- 1:37:30Speaker 2: seem like Julie, in spite of being a sweet person,
- 1:37:33Speaker 2: is friends with any of the other women on set.
- 1:37:35Speaker 2: It just like, is yet another example of every woman
- 1:37:39Speaker 2: in the story being just like narratively, Like there's these
- 1:37:42Speaker 2: little narrative baby gits around them so that they can
- 1:37:45Speaker 2: never speak to another woman. And yeah, I don't think
- 1:37:50Speaker 2: it passes the Bechdel test literally or spiritually.
- 1:37:54Speaker 3: No. But what about our nipple scale, the scale where
- 1:37:57Speaker 3: we rate the movie on a scale of zero to
- 1:37:59Speaker 3: five nipples based on examining it through an intersectional feminist lens.
- 1:38:05Speaker 3: This is tricky again. For the time, this was probably
- 1:38:09Speaker 3: a feminist masterpiece in nineteen eighty two, Sasha butmer bleak
- 1:38:15Speaker 3: as hell, But obviously looking at it in twenty twenty six,
- 1:38:21Speaker 3: everything that it is maybe trying to do falls absolutely short.
- 1:38:27Speaker 3: There are so many issues with all of the text,
- 1:38:30Speaker 3: all of the subtext, everything about it just is kind
- 1:38:35Speaker 3: of rotten to me. So I think I I'll give
- 1:38:39Speaker 3: it a half nipple for its legacy of being a
- 1:38:46Speaker 3: quote unquote feminist work for its time and paving the
- 1:38:50Speaker 3: way for other better stories that explore similar themes about
- 1:38:57Speaker 3: gender and misogyny and things like that. But again, by
- 1:39:01Speaker 3: today's standards, it is not really doing anything. So half
- 1:39:05Speaker 3: nipple and I'll give it to Terry Garr.
- 1:39:09Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna go half nipple too. If this is
- 1:39:12Speaker 2: like a movie that you loved, a nostalgic premises, like.
- 1:39:16Speaker 4: Revisit it. I think it's it is.
- 1:39:18Speaker 2: This probably was considered very like different and it it
- 1:39:23Speaker 2: I just have only really ever seen in the broadest
- 1:39:25Speaker 2: possible way this movie presented as a tale of empathy,
- 1:39:28Speaker 2: and I think if you go back and watch it,
- 1:39:31Speaker 2: the empathy just isn't there.
- 1:39:33Speaker 4: Where Where is it? Where is it?
- 1:39:35Speaker 2: At is the empathy in the room with us right now?
- 1:39:38Speaker 2: It is just a Reagan relic that, like you said, Kaylin,
- 1:39:43Speaker 2: and I think you know, if you got something out
- 1:39:45Speaker 2: of this movie and it led you to actual empathetic work,
- 1:39:49Speaker 2: then great. But yeah, for for our purposes, it does
- 1:39:53Speaker 2: not do well.
- 1:39:54Speaker 4: Half a nipple. Also going to Terry Garr, what about you, Nori?
- 1:39:59Speaker 6: Yes, I okay, So I'm gonna give a quarter nipple
- 1:40:03Speaker 6: for nostalgia like I really did, like you know, the
- 1:40:06Speaker 6: grainy camera that I was really loving, the style, the
- 1:40:11Speaker 6: colors that I was really into that nostalgia element. So
- 1:40:14Speaker 6: a quarter nipple for that alone, you know what. Another
- 1:40:18Speaker 6: quarter nipple for the love of my life less, So
- 1:40:23Speaker 6: half a nipple, okay. In terms of trans nipples, I'm
- 1:40:27Speaker 6: gonna do negative ten. It was so painful to hear
- 1:40:31Speaker 6: some of that dialogue. It was so transphobic and really hurt.
- 1:40:37Speaker 6: And also Dorothy was brick as hell, and no one's
- 1:40:41Speaker 6: believing that that's a woman. Okay, so negative ten. I'm
- 1:40:47Speaker 6: gonna give my half a nipple to my boy Less.
- 1:40:51Speaker 6: You know, before the the onion peels, you know, before
- 1:40:55Speaker 6: the layers were shown, he seemed like a nice guy.
- 1:40:58Speaker 6: But unfortunately we did see who he was, so that sucks.
- 1:41:01Speaker 2: But yeah, but in the reboot, he will be on
- 1:41:05Speaker 2: the farm with his gorgeous trans wife Yes.
- 1:41:08Speaker 6: Played by Sasha Colby from Groupos Drag Race.
- 1:41:13Speaker 2: Yes.
- 1:41:14Speaker 3: Yes, well, Nori, thank you so much for joining us.
- 1:41:18Speaker 6: Yes, oh my pleasure.
- 1:41:20Speaker 4: Thank you for enduring Tutsie. We're sorry.
- 1:41:24Speaker 6: I'm going to need some therapy. I'm going to need
- 1:41:26Speaker 6: to do some therapy after this. No, this was a
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- 1:42:06Speaker 2: And with that, let's we could we could fix Less,
- 1:42:13Speaker 2: We could fix Less. Yeah, let's go to his farm
- 1:42:15Speaker 2: and fix him. Couldn't fix Michael, but maybe less, but maybe.
- 1:42:18Speaker 6: Less put less of address as less.
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