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Should Abby give the guy who made her his second choice another chance? · Scotty and Abby UNFILTERED

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  Speaker 1: Tampa Bay's best music is Jadget ninety four.
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  Speaker 2: Nine and welcome to another episode of Scotti and Abby Unfiltered.
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  Speaker 3: First off, thank you for the comments.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you for the ratings, because so far we're in
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  Speaker 2: the five star range, which honestly, I'm impressed by us,
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  Speaker 2: because there are some episodes that we do I'm like, what.
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  Speaker 3: The hell did we talk about?
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  Speaker 2: But I appreciate the support because a lot of the
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  Speaker 2: comments are so funny. And now I'm getting comments and
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  Speaker 2: before we even get into because there's a comment that's
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  Speaker 2: been made to me numerous times for multiple people in
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  Speaker 2: the office out on the streets that's making me feel
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  Speaker 2: like a troll in Tampa.
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  Speaker 1: Bay about the podcast.
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  Speaker 2: Not about the podcast, just about me in general. I
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  Speaker 2: just going to run it by you because I need
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  Speaker 2: you to be brutally honest with me. Okay, so I'm
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  Speaker 2: gonna get to that in a second. But I also
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  Speaker 2: did want to just run this by you, Abby. Somebody
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  Speaker 2: just asked me in Instagram about the bringing their anniversary
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  Speaker 2: to Saint Pete Saint Pete, Tampa. Okay, if you were
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  Speaker 2: to give them the restaurant recommendations for a perfect anniversary night,
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  Speaker 2: where would you send them.
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  Speaker 1: Well, me and you both have the same recommendation. Do
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  Speaker 1: you want to say it? On three?
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  Speaker 3: Don't even say it. You can't say what are you
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  Speaker 3: gonna say?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, don't overthink it?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, okay, one two.
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  Speaker 1: Three, Elliott Astor, Oh, I didn't even say that. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: So you said Saint Pete.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I was gonna try to give a little
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  Speaker 2: Tampa credit to Yeah, but I didn't even think Elliott Astor.
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  Speaker 1: Well, because you said Saint Pete. Immediately, if I could
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  Speaker 1: think of one restaurant, if I had thousand dollars to
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  Speaker 1: just go Ham. I'm not saying these people up a
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  Speaker 1: thousand dollars, but if I had, like, okay, five hundred dollars,
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  Speaker 1: two people, two fifty each, that's fair. Okay, five hundred
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  Speaker 1: dollars to go out dinner somewhere. I'm going to elliot Aster.
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  Speaker 2: That is a place I have not been yet. But
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  Speaker 2: we have our friend Alexia who does her show on
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  Speaker 2: Magic and she has raved about it.
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  Speaker 1: I would love to go.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, So here's the places I said, because didn't even
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  Speaker 2: think elliot Astra.
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  Speaker 3: I said, June on the Peacock.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, you think that's anniversary worthy.
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  Speaker 3: I think at night for sure.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, it's it's a it's a great spot.
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  Speaker 2: And it's like I like the location. Yeah, like what
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  Speaker 2: we talked about. It's like your location for the night.
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  Speaker 2: That's huge.
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  Speaker 1: That's true. I do feel like that's a romantic part
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  Speaker 1: of Saint Pete. I said, I do like Alelo. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know if that's again anniversary worthy.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, Then I said Olivia, I do.
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  Speaker 1: Like Olivia Again, I don't know if it's anniversary. Where.
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  Speaker 1: When I think anniversary, I think you gotta go to
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  Speaker 1: Burn's Steakhouse, you gotta go to pont These are Tampa places,
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  Speaker 1: so I'm giving you like I'm more familiar with Tampa
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  Speaker 1: restaurants and I am sat people.
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  Speaker 2: That's why I asked, because I'm like, well, somebody also
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  Speaker 2: might be coming here, or maybe they want to switch
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  Speaker 2: things up in the Tampa Bay area.
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  Speaker 3: And it's like, what is truly worth it?
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  Speaker 2: Because that's the biggest question, is like, when I'm about
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  Speaker 2: to spend some dollars, y'all.
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  Speaker 3: It needs to be worth it.
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  Speaker 2: Because when you go out to dinner and you just
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  Speaker 2: got a mediocre meal and it's a mediocre environment, but
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  Speaker 2: that bill is not mediocre at all. That makes me
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  Speaker 2: so mad, but there's nothing you can do about it
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  Speaker 2: because you paid the bill and they serve the food.
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  Speaker 3: You've got to deal with it.
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  Speaker 2: So these are the places that are kind of I
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  Speaker 2: also said Savvi on Winlocker, which that's my spot, that's
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  Speaker 2: where I go.
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  Speaker 3: But I have never said it.
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  Speaker 2: I've never celebrated a wedding anniversary, so that might be
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  Speaker 2: a new level.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's your anniversary. This is one of the
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  Speaker 1: biggest days of the year, so you have to go
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  Speaker 1: to one of the nicest restaurants in Tampa or.
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  Speaker 3: Saint Bete elliot Aster it is.
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  Speaker 1: That's why I said eliot Astro. And also I have
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  Speaker 1: not heard one person complain about eli Aster.
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  Speaker 3: That's true, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 1: Like if I say Olivia, you might have someone saying
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  Speaker 1: it's overrated. I love Olivia. I think Olivia is great,
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  Speaker 1: but I think elliot Aster is one of those places
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  Speaker 1: that's gonna hit every time.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, I'm gonna put that down for myself, but I'm
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  Speaker 2: glad you said that because I didn't even think about that.
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  Speaker 2: I forget about it because it's in the Vanoy And
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  Speaker 2: if you don't go in the VANOI You'll never know
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  Speaker 2: it's there.
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  Speaker 1: I would like for our company to take a saleid aster.
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  Speaker 3: I think if we got number one p.
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  Speaker 1: Twenty four fifty Yeah, like that's never gonna happen.
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  Speaker 2: Here's what's crazy, as like it could. I mean it's tough,
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  Speaker 2: you think so. I do think so because we were
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  Speaker 2: like making leaves and balances.
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  Speaker 1: We've gotten women twenty five fifty four. But I thought
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  Speaker 1: that was pretty standard for you.
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  Speaker 2: It's a great place to be, huh. But I think
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  Speaker 2: we're the highest we've ever been with people. Really, So
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  Speaker 2: this is like behind the curtain for like radio, but
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  Speaker 2: like that's how if we get ratings that are people
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  Speaker 2: in a certain age grow, that's where we literally get
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  Speaker 2: to celebrate big time.
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  Speaker 1: So as long as we're good with women, like the
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  Speaker 1: company's happy with us per But if you're person's twenty
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  Speaker 1: five fifty four, then it's like, oh, you're like killing it,
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  Speaker 1: killing it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's how like the standard of looking at it is.
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  Speaker 2: But like women are, that's who we talk to.
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  Speaker 1: Women is really who you want to win with it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so I think that's again you're talking to mister optimist.
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  Speaker 3: I believe.
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  Speaker 2: I believe that, even if it's just one time, I
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  Speaker 2: think it's coming. I think things that we got building,
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, I think that's sooner rather than later.
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  Speaker 1: I know, maybe we can do it on our one
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  Speaker 1: year nivers three. That's so we go in February.
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  Speaker 3: Well honestly it should be.
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  Speaker 2: Oh man, this is like just spitball and ideas, but
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  Speaker 2: like we go in February, or we go at the
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  Speaker 2: new signing of a contract.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, that's that's that's like in three years. I could
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  Speaker 1: be dead by then. Hopefully, let's actually seven.
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  Speaker 2: What I was gonna tell you though, right as I
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  Speaker 2: opened this and I wanted to say this all morning,
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  Speaker 2: I think I'm dying. You said you might not be
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  Speaker 2: alive in three years. Okay, I have things that are
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  Speaker 2: happening to me that make me feel like I'm dying.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, explain, and.
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  Speaker 3: This is for Abbey.
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  Speaker 2: You're gonna be the doctor for this podcast, but if
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  Speaker 2: anybody's actually a doctor. First off, one thing that's annoying
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  Speaker 2: is I can't even sit in my car anymore without
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  Speaker 2: getting up and being like just like a stiff board
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  Speaker 2: in my back.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, that's my thirties. Just coming out.
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  Speaker 1: I think that's just getting old.
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  Speaker 2: That sucks because I literally spent half the day yesterday
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  Speaker 2: just stretching.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you gotta go to like a chiropractor.
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  Speaker 3: Good thing, I got friends for that.
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  Speaker 2: The one that I think I'm dying for is like
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  Speaker 2: when I swallow my throat and my chest hurt.
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  Speaker 3: That doesn't sound normal. Does it?
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  Speaker 1: Are you sick?
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  Speaker 3: No, it doesn't feel like a sore throat.
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  Speaker 2: Here's what I think it is for anybody that's in
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  Speaker 2: the medical field. The other night, I had ground beef
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  Speaker 2: too late. Okay, so I know, but it's relevant see
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  Speaker 2: where this goes. I know, but I was laying in
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  Speaker 2: bed and then I woke up in the middle and
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  Speaker 2: I was like, God, I got some heartburn going on,
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  Speaker 2: Like damn. Like I think it's like I ate too late.
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  Speaker 2: Now I'm getting all that acid and like my throat
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  Speaker 2: and my chest.
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  Speaker 3: But I was too late. I didn't want to get up.
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  Speaker 2: I wasn't about to go drink some water try to
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  Speaker 2: calm it down. So I just let it ride, went
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  Speaker 2: back to sleep. But ever since then, I was like
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  Speaker 2: two days ago, my chest and my throat like kind
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  Speaker 2: of still hurt when I drink or I swallow, and
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  Speaker 2: so my hypothet is that, all right, maybe I just
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  Speaker 2: jacked up my esophagus with letting that, like the acid
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  Speaker 2: sit there for a little bit.
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  Speaker 3: Uh huh, that could be one or two. I'm dying.
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  Speaker 1: But the breathing thing is concerning.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think it's as much as a breath. No,
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  Speaker 2: it's not as much as do you feel it?
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  Speaker 3: I feel it like three things.
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  Speaker 1: You can see, two things you can feel.
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  Speaker 2: I feel it at the bottom of like my throat
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  Speaker 2: when I swallow, and then the top of my chest,
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  Speaker 2: like right where acid like reflex would happen.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, then that's probably what it is.
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  Speaker 2: But this two days ago, we think it's like a
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  Speaker 2: burn in the esophagus from the acid.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but your body doesn't heal as much at this age.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, I feel like I'm seventy of.
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  Speaker 1: Why don't you give it a week and then we
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  Speaker 1: can decide when to play in your funeral?
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  Speaker 3: All right, thank you?
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  Speaker 1: I have your funeral at Elliott Astros.
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  Speaker 2: I just needed to run by a while stressing. I
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  Speaker 2: was like all morning, I'm like, oh my god, do
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  Speaker 2: I go to the doctor today?
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  Speaker 3: Am I overreacting? But also I'm getting I'm not.
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  Speaker 2: Getting old, but I'm about to be thirty, and my
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  Speaker 2: back's going out, my throat's causing problems, so maybe it's
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  Speaker 2: not as far away as we think.
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  Speaker 3: Anyway, Well, death is.
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  Speaker 1: Imminent for all. Gosh, you know what, technically we're all dying.
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  Speaker 2: We all dear Lord, this is gonna be the sad one. Yeah, yes,
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  Speaker 2: it is coming for us. But I did I feel
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  Speaker 2: like in my soul, I feel invincible. Like I don't know,
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  Speaker 2: maybe you said something completely opposite two seconds ago, but
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  Speaker 2: like for me, I'm like, I'm gonna live a long life.
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  Speaker 3: But we don't know.
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  Speaker 1: You don't know what we were talking about. Who's that guy,
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  Speaker 1: Brian Johnson who's trying to live forever. Yes, he's doing
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  Speaker 1: everything in his power to live forever, and he still
• 7:20
  Speaker 1: got diagnosed with an autoimmune disorder.
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  Speaker 2: But he did say he's had that since he was
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  Speaker 2: like twenty, so luckily that might be something that has
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  Speaker 2: already been working on. But that goes to show like
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  Speaker 2: you could try everything. And that's what I was thinking
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  Speaker 2: as I was walking in the hallway. I'm like, I
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  Speaker 2: run and I work out, and I eat healthy, and
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  Speaker 2: I don't get good sleep, but I do as much
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  Speaker 2: as I can. I could be who knows, I might
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  Speaker 2: not even make it to thirty.
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  Speaker 1: You can make it three more months.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, you don't.
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  Speaker 2: Think so, Yes, I think so. Anyway, So last night,
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  Speaker 2: I'm surprised because I was thinking about this too, because
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  Speaker 2: you went out to the post Malone show I did,
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  Speaker 2: and on a week night, Like I remember doing that
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  Speaker 2: when I first got into radio and I was doing
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  Speaker 2: like the late night concerts, and I'd wake up and
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  Speaker 2: I'd come into the show. And that feels like the Strugs.
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  Speaker 1: And Roll study study to Maddy coming into the studio.
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  Speaker 3: But that crap hurts now.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I was impressed that you committed to it, which obviously,
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  Speaker 2: when a good show comes in, I wo'd probably do
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  Speaker 2: the same thing, like when Bruno Mars comes. I don't
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  Speaker 2: care what day it is. Yeah, yeah, I'm coming in.
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to the show.
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  Speaker 1: When it's your number one artist, you gotta go out.
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  Speaker 1: Like if Taylor's was performed on a Monday, I don't care.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not coming in Tuesday. I think I'm coming into
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  Speaker 1: work Tuesday after Taylor's with.
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  Speaker 3: No hell no.
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  Speaker 1: But post Malone was but post Malone, like I thought,
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  Speaker 1: I got those tickets. When it was on Memorial Day weekend,
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, that'll be fun for Memorial Day weekend.
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  Speaker 1: When it's a Wednesday, I'm like, I gotta go.
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  Speaker 3: That's what it is to do.
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  Speaker 1: I love post Malone, but I don't need to see
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  Speaker 1: a two hour show from him.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what you said earlier, you saw like what
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  Speaker 2: six seven?
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  Speaker 1: I sat through more of jelly Roll because he was
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  Speaker 1: He performed from like seven thirty to eight thirty, and
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  Speaker 1: then Postmolone didn't come on until like nine fifteen, and
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  Speaker 1: I was like, I gotta go.
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  Speaker 2: You're like, bro, it's late on a Wednesday.
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  Speaker 1: Uh huh.
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  Speaker 2: How was the show? Because Okay, jelly Roll recently went
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  Speaker 2: through a divorce. That's been all over it.
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  Speaker 3: And I see he said things at shows. Did he
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  Speaker 3: acknowledge anything.
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  Speaker 1: He was preaching? I will say it did feel a
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  Speaker 1: little not churchy. He was like he was given a message.
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  Speaker 1: He's like because he has an interesting story, like he
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  Speaker 1: went to jail, he got out of jail. What I
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  Speaker 1: thought was so funny was so him and his wife
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  Speaker 1: are getting divorced. And as you walk into ray J
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  Speaker 1: they had the preachers on the street corner the ones
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  Speaker 1: with the megaphone who are like, you're going to hell. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: He was talking about how Jelly Roll needs to repent
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  Speaker 1: for his divorce and stay with his wife. They were
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  Speaker 1: talking a lot about sex before marriage. They were like,
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  Speaker 1: you're going to or you're ruining your family if you
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  Speaker 1: have sex before me. I'm like, this is not the
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  Speaker 1: place to have that message. Like, I don't know what
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  Speaker 1: they I don't know what they think they're accomplishing.
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  Speaker 2: I think it's just I feel this is in my
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  Speaker 2: bones what I was born here to do.
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  Speaker 1: And I hate that for them go do something else.
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  Speaker 1: Let's go to brunch, I spok at dinner with friends.
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  Speaker 2: There's part of me that's like, I wonder what that's
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  Speaker 2: like mentally to be so uncaring and like you like,
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  Speaker 2: you know, what's the word, no.
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  Speaker 3: Shame at all, to be able to say whatever the
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  Speaker 3: hell you want.
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  Speaker 1: And I think that's great. And listen, I'm not saying
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  Speaker 1: don't fight for your convictions and don't if that's what
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  Speaker 1: you believe you're supposed to evangelize people. I just don't
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  Speaker 1: think the way they're doing it is effective.
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  Speaker 2: No, That's what I'm saying, is like the confidence to
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  Speaker 2: stand out on their corner. Yeah, and just yell these
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  Speaker 2: very dividing things as loud as you can and for hours.
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  Speaker 3: And it's a commitment.
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  Speaker 1: It's always like crusty old men. So I think it's
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  Speaker 1: either them going senile or they're just bored. They're like,
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  Speaker 1: you know what, I've got my four oh one keg,
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  Speaker 1: I got like twenty years left. What do I want
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  Speaker 1: to do? Let me tell people how perverted they are
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  Speaker 1: by fucking see.
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  Speaker 2: That's the I mean again, you believe in what you
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  Speaker 2: want to believe. I just don't like when people try
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  Speaker 2: to tell me what to believe.
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  Speaker 3: That's my thing.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, look, it's your life. You do you booah,
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  Speaker 2: You don't got to tell me Like I didn't ask you,
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  Speaker 2: so why are you telling me?
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  Speaker 1: Just feel like there's better places to evangelize. Go to
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  Speaker 1: a coffee shop. That's where you're going to find the
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  Speaker 1: spirit of the Lord with a warm croissant and a
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  Speaker 1: hot coffee.
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  Speaker 2: I'd be so pad' if I was having a nice,
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  Speaker 2: warm pissot and somebody's yelling in my ear.
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  Speaker 1: The post Malone concert is a godless place, which is
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  Speaker 1: why he probably decided to show up. But that's just
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  Speaker 1: not like fertile soil for the gospel.
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  Speaker 3: I do wonder if like anybody walks by and they're.
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  Speaker 1: Like, yeah, there's you know what, there's gotta be like
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  Speaker 1: one and that's why they keep doing it.
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  Speaker 2: I guess somebody keeps coming back at least one percent
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  Speaker 2: of the people that they yell at and.
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  Speaker 1: They're like, we made a difference if we bring one
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  Speaker 1: sheet back to the flock, and that's all that matters.
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  Speaker 3: But the show was good in general.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it was great. If I jelly Roll did a
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  Speaker 1: great job. I thought Post he did a great job.
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  Speaker 1: It was packed.
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  Speaker 2: How is he as a I've seen Post Malone when
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  Speaker 2: he was the rapper and that was awesome. Yeah, he
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  Speaker 2: danced all around the stage. Songs are good. Never seen
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  Speaker 2: him as like the country singer. Was it entertaining to
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  Speaker 2: watch if he didn't know the songs?
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  Speaker 1: Well, everything just seems really small after seeing the Eras tour,
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  Speaker 1: Like I was up in section two or three, so
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  Speaker 1: I was in you know, the upper echelon, not upper echelon.
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  Speaker 1: I was on like the upper part of the of
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  Speaker 1: the field facing the stage. I could see I had
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  Speaker 1: a great view. Like they're not bad seats you were
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  Speaker 1: far though, but I'm looking at the stage, I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: oh my god, it looks so small.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just like this.
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  Speaker 1: Little tiny runway. You can barely see it. And you
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  Speaker 1: did feel a little disconnected from the show because you
• 12:12
  Speaker 1: were so far back.
• 12:13
  Speaker 2: I wonder, I guess it's just an expense thing, because
• 12:16
  Speaker 2: again you said the aerostour that's set up versus this
• 12:19
  Speaker 2: setup or other artists set ups. Yeah, it's like not
• 12:21
  Speaker 2: even comparable, but they're still like again that's rage a. Well,
• 12:24
  Speaker 2: you're a massive artist.
• 12:25
  Speaker 1: It just makes me wonder why you wouldn't want to
• 12:27
  Speaker 1: stage that big, you know, even if you're just post alone, Like,
• 12:30
  Speaker 1: why wouldn't you want it at least make it long
• 12:32
  Speaker 1: so you can maybe cut through the floor. Because I
• 12:35
  Speaker 1: was thinking about the two people that I set up
• 12:37
  Speaker 1: on that blind date. I gave them floor seats, but
• 12:39
  Speaker 1: it was section, and so I was kind of hoping.
• 12:43
  Speaker 1: I was like, I hope they can see because he's
• 12:45
  Speaker 1: just in that section. He's just up in the front
• 12:47
  Speaker 1: tunnel runway, and or.
• 12:48
  Speaker 3: Even like the floor seats might not eve even have
• 12:50
  Speaker 3: the best view.
• 12:51
  Speaker 1: You might not have seen it.
• 12:52
  Speaker 2: You know, that's rough, I know, especially Luckily they got
• 12:55
  Speaker 2: free tickets.
• 12:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, they were free. And I set you up with
• 12:57
  Speaker 1: maybe a new friend who, you know, everything has a cast.
• 13:00
  Speaker 2: I mean maybe I don't even know what they look like.
• 13:02
  Speaker 2: I know what the girl looks like.
• 13:04
  Speaker 3: So I abby set up two people to go on
• 13:05
  Speaker 3: this blind date. That's so cool.
• 13:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so I got these floor seats, but I had
• 13:09
  Speaker 1: already had this section two of three tickets, and I
• 13:11
  Speaker 1: was like, you know what, let me give the floor
• 13:12
  Speaker 1: seats away because I know I'm not going to stay
• 13:14
  Speaker 1: for the entire concert. Let me set up two people
• 13:17
  Speaker 1: on a blind date and see what happens. And I
• 13:20
  Speaker 1: was so excited because I really felt like I had
• 13:21
  Speaker 1: made a pretty good pairing. And I had been texting
• 13:24
  Speaker 1: them days before, just making sure we were all good.
• 13:27
  Speaker 1: And obviously I was a little preoccupied over the weekend
• 13:29
  Speaker 1: because my brother got married. Oh yeah, you're kind of busy,
• 13:31
  Speaker 1: and so I didn't really check in with him until Tuesday.
• 13:33
  Speaker 1: He said, hey, blah blah blah, here's what you need
• 13:35
  Speaker 1: to know. So she responded, and he opened my text
• 13:38
  Speaker 1: like he could see the red seats, but he didn't
• 13:40
  Speaker 1: say anything. Granted, the text didn't need a response, but
• 13:43
  Speaker 1: he didn't say anything, and so that's when I started
• 13:45
  Speaker 1: getting a little nervous and I thought, this is kind
• 13:47
  Speaker 1: of on me. I thought about texting him, just being like, hey,
• 13:49
  Speaker 1: if you're going to back out, tell me now, because
• 13:51
  Speaker 1: I got the vibe he was going to back out,
• 13:52
  Speaker 1: but I was really hoping that he wouldn't, So I
• 13:54
  Speaker 1: texted him two hours before the concert, asking him to
• 13:56
  Speaker 1: update his ticket Master and he said, yeah, I'm sick.
• 14:00
  Speaker 1: I can't go. I'm sick.
• 14:01
  Speaker 3: You're saying you said what he said he was six
• 14:03
  Speaker 3: and the fourth of July.
• 14:04
  Speaker 1: I said, oh, I'm still sick from the fourth of July.
• 14:06
  Speaker 1: Which I'm like, that's just bullshit, Like it's just so well,
• 14:09
  Speaker 1: you're gonna be a coward. Just say you're a coward.
• 14:11
  Speaker 1: So I'll tell you what he said.
• 14:13
  Speaker 2: I think, And again I can't say I've never done
• 14:15
  Speaker 2: crappy things like that where it's like you're scared to
• 14:18
  Speaker 2: say the truth. But as you've gotten what I don't
• 14:19
  Speaker 2: know how old this guy is, like you learned that lesson.
• 14:22
  Speaker 2: It's just better to be honest and get it done with.
• 14:24
  Speaker 2: It's a little uncomfortable, but it's better than setting someone
• 14:26
  Speaker 2: up to be like either scrambling or it makes you
• 14:29
  Speaker 2: seem so ungrateful.
• 14:31
  Speaker 1: If you didn't want to go. If he had told
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: me a couple of days before, Hey, listen, I put
• 14:35
  Speaker 1: myself out there.
• 14:36
  Speaker 3: Seemed like a good idea.
• 14:37
  Speaker 1: It seem like a good idea at the time I'm
• 14:38
  Speaker 1: actually talking. Why I say you're talking to somebody else.
• 14:40
  Speaker 1: I just don't feel good about it. Yeah, maybe I'll
• 14:43
  Speaker 1: be like a little pissed, but I'm not gonna be
• 14:44
  Speaker 1: pissed at you because now it's on me to scramble. Yeah,
• 14:47
  Speaker 1: but for you to not say anything Tuesday when I
• 14:50
  Speaker 1: texted you, and then the concert's Wednesday, and I text
• 14:52
  Speaker 1: you again and you back out two hours before, that's
• 14:55
  Speaker 1: shitty behavior like that goes.
• 14:56
  Speaker 2: I wonder what these again. I guess maybe I've been
• 14:59
  Speaker 2: that guy. But now there's so many videos online where
• 15:02
  Speaker 2: people are like, guys, all you gotta do is this
• 15:05
  Speaker 2: this this like, stop being this kind of guy.
• 15:08
  Speaker 3: I wonder if these.
• 15:08
  Speaker 2: Guys look at these videos and they're like, yeah, I
• 15:11
  Speaker 2: don't know what that's like.
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'd rather just do what's comfortable for me. Who
• 15:16
  Speaker 1: cares about the girl that was excited to go out
• 15:17
  Speaker 1: with you and honestly like she's a really cute girl.
• 15:21
  Speaker 1: I'm like, you messed up, buddy.
• 15:22
  Speaker 2: I mean that goes to say what we said so
• 15:24
  Speaker 2: many times, like guy guys is stupid.
• 15:26
  Speaker 1: Sometimes that's all will dumb. So anyway, he said, hey,
• 15:28
  Speaker 1: sorry for the late text. Was hoping i'd shake it,
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: but feeling sick from the Ford's still so not going
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: to be able to make it, but thanks for the opportunity,
• 15:35
  Speaker 1: And I said I'd chat to BT come up with
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: something for me, because I was like, I want to
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: be a bitch, but I don't want a screenshot to
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: make me look like a bitch, Like I want him
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: to know him being a bitch. But it's deniable bitch.
• 15:45
  Speaker 3: It gets put publicly.
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's deniable bitchery. So I said, I hope you
• 15:49
  Speaker 1: feel better, but I don't appreciate the last minute heads
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: up if you were still feeling and then I put
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: in quotes sick, you should have let me know earlier.
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: Waiting until two hours before wasn't fair to anybody involved.
• 15:59
  Speaker 3: And I hope he takes that as a massive lesson
• 16:01
  Speaker 3: moving forward.
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I hope he takes that as a big fuck you.
• 16:03
  Speaker 2: Actually, yeah, well right, now, yes, I think that is
• 16:06
  Speaker 2: exactly what it is.
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: I told the girl, I said, listen, if he slides
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: into your DMS after seeing how cute you are and
• 16:11
  Speaker 1: tries to get with you, you absolutely cannot go out with him.
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: I'm like, that's my price. I'm going to give you
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: these floor seats. Do not go out with this man.
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: If he slides into your DMS.
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: Oh, you should have a better standard for yourself. If
• 16:21
  Speaker 2: he's doing that, now, ain't gonna do that to you
• 16:24
  Speaker 2: on a date?
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: I know. Well, I also just think it just shows
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: for me like the older I get, the more I
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: find integrity to be really hot. Yes, and you, I'm
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: not saying he'll never get there. He's twenty five, he's
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: a young guy. But like, you could have given me
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: the bare minimum integrity, and when I texted you on
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: Tuesday you could have backed out. Then absolutely, that's what
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: pisses me off. You should have backed out Tuesday. I
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: would have been pissed and I still probably would be
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: talking about it right now, of course, But like two
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: hours before, is dickhead behavior.
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: Absolutely because of the efforts and the things that you
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: have done to make this happen, I know, and it's
• 16:55
  Speaker 2: a lot.
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: You applied, You applied, I didn't reach out to you.
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: You sent me a video, you sent me a headshot,
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: you put in an application, and now you're making it
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: my problem.
• 17:05
  Speaker 3: And maybe you were sick.
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: But just say that in the beginning, yeah, and then
• 17:10
  Speaker 2: let it ride like I would have said, Man, I
• 17:12
  Speaker 2: am honestly not feeling great.
• 17:14
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I do want to be there.
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna see if I could shake this, but giving
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: you the heads up so maybe you can have somebody
• 17:19
  Speaker 2: on backup, because I don't want to leave this girl
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: high and dry, because imagine if you couldn't find somebody.
• 17:22
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and he was at a postal Own concert alone.
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: What a way to say that. He could have said, Listen,
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: I want to you know, I'm been feeling really sick
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: since the fourth I was gonna wait until tomorrow to
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: see if I was feeling good. But I don't want
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: you to be left. I don't want her to be
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: left without a date. That's I'm really be apologetic, but
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: there's a way to go about it. Instead, he was like, oh,
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry name Jake.
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah that sucks, but I'm glad at least that you
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: know somebody else still stepped up and yeah, I hope.
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: I don't know how Again, like I said, I don't
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: know what these two look like. I don't know if
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: they're comparted.
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: To photo right now.
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: Yeah, see what these two are like? Because you said
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: he was a little bit younger, so I really.
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: Liked his application. I looked at this guy, I'm like, oh,
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: he's so like adorable and the same. Like I've gotten
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: to the age where I see guys in their early
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: twenties and I'm.
• 18:02
  Speaker 2: Like, you're not gonna here now, past the point of like,
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: damn you fine, but I think I.
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: Can like objectively look at them and go, you are handsome.
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: But it's like they're so much younger to me now
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: that I'm yes you no, I get that.
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: I'm put in my pocket.
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so this is I don't want to show it
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: on kish.
• 18:21
  Speaker 3: That's the guy.
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I know, he's a stuch. What the heck?
• 18:25
  Speaker 3: I'll tell you what happen the guys that you find?
• 18:27
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, listen.
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: I'm The thing is, I'm not going to do the
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: girls wrong. I was not going to set up a
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: girl with a weird ugo. That's why I had them
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: send in the videos because I'm like, I can get
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: a vibe. I'm really good at sussing out the vibe.
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: And I thought he was cute. He was I think
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: he's twenty three. I was like, I gotta find a
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: twenty three year old for him. And none of the
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: girls were younger than twenty five. There might have been
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: a couple twenty four year olds in there, but even still,
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: I don't I don't like that much of an age
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: gap for that age range. Yeah, it's different as you
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: get older, Like you dating your girlfriend, like twenty nineteen
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: thirty one, not that big of a difference at that age.
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: Twenty three and twenty four, there's some differences.
• 19:04
  Speaker 3: How old is she?
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: She's twenty five, so I had set her up with
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: another twenty five year old. They had both gone to
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: really good universities. She went to Florida. Funny thing about
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: her that I found out she lives down the street
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: from my aunt, like the street that I pretty much
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: grew up on with my cousins whenever I visit them.
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: She lives five houses down the street, went to the.
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: Same high school.
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: That is insane, like the small world moments.
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: Very small moment or world moments.
• 19:27
  Speaker 3: So I either.
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: I had really liked her application because she again was
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: wearing like a UF sweatshirt. She looks super cute, just
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: very genuine, and she said, this is such a fun opportunity,
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: and I was like, I want to set up somebody
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: that realizes that, even though it's nerve racking to put
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: yourself out there, what a cool way to meet somebody.
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: Hell yeah, what a fun opportunity. So I was like,
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: I really wanted to pick her. So I'm like, if
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: there's a guy that works for her, I'll pair her
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: up with somebody. And so the original guy I picked
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: was like the last guy to apply, and I was like, perfect,
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: just in time, and he seemed really nice and genuine.
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: His friends had nominated him, and then he applied and
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: I stalked him. I was like, oh, he looks really
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: objectively attractive. Like I think as long as there's an
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: initial physical interest, they'll at least make it work for
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: a night. And they I felt like, personality wise, do
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: we gel too. He went to I won't say what school,
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: but he went to another let's see, I'll just give
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: you like a he went to like University of Michigan.
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: That's how the school he went to but he went
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: to like a University of Michigan. Y.
• 20:22
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I got good, good school.
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: And then they both paid the boy jobs and I
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: was like, oh, this could be really cool.
• 20:27
  Speaker 3: Okay, so they're both in their career.
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, established they seemed like a similar vibe. Anyway,
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: they were both each other's types on paper, types on paper.
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: And so then when he backed out, I was like,
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: what am I gonna do? And so I texted two guys.
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: One was twenty seven, but he seemed a little bit
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: more introverted and he couldn't get off until eight and
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: I was like, no, no, no, you're missed like half the concert.
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: And then I texted the guy who ended up going
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: because I was like, I think he'll be down. He's
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: a little bit young, so I don't know that it's
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: a romantic pairing, but I think he'll be fun and
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: I think he'll be nice to her.
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And it looked like that picture because he Abby
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: showed me a picture and he's with like two other
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: women and it's like maybe like friends or family, like
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: so it obviously should know how to talk to women.
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: Wait, that's me and her. Wait that was you, guys,
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: that was us last night does not look like that's
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: me and her. That's the day.
• 21:15
  Speaker 3: Okay, I was just looking at the okay, and.
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: Even that's literally us so funny. They're cute, right they are.
• 21:20
  Speaker 2: Actually, no, they're very cute. And actually they look like
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: they would pair very well together. They would be a
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: good looking couple together. Now, whether it goes that way
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: or not, that's so funny that I didn't realize that. No,
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: I know, but I hope that he was at least
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: conversational enough.
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: Did he seem like very personable when.
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: He was running latent he called me and he's when
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: I know, so like, I want to make him like
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: the Bay shor bachelor. Now, I'm like, I want to
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: find him. The thing is, he's just young, and so
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I need you to age up a couple
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: of years and then I want to set you up
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: on Bay Shore with a bunch of girls.
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: I think, I mean it could work. Technically, it could
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: because as long as he's a mature dude that's willing
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: to step up to the plate, it could work.
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: But he's I will ride for this guy now since
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: he literally wouldin two hours like texted and said he
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: could go.
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: Isn't that crazy the difference though, Like, look at that
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: vast difference where the one guy waits two hours before
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: he cancels. The other guy literally responds immediately calls when
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: he's showing up late.
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like that's the difference.
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: Is it's the massive things that.
• 22:16
  Speaker 3: You have to do, No, just show up.
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: Showing up is eighty percent of it.
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: Gosh, and we're talking about this earlier too, because not
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: only did this girl get ghosted. A couple of weeks
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: ago on the podcast, you were talking about how you
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: didn't get ghosted, but you got canceled on.
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: I got canceled on last minute.
• 22:31
  Speaker 3: That and that was the annoyance.
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna have I talked about this before
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: on the.
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: Podcast yet I don't think so.
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: I don't think I've talked about this on the podcast.
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: So I'm back on the apps, although I think I'm
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: about to delete them again.
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: It's just not it's not doing what.
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: It's not hinging the way it needs to Hinge. So
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: let me find this guy so we match on Hinge.
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: I don't want to go back on Hinge because I'm
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: a little fraid he unmatched me. But June twentieth, oh,
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: it's my parents are in an anniversary. He he texted me
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: and said that he was just confirming our date. He said, hey,
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: I'm still down for m Bird tomorrow. Remember this, because
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: I was like, why do all these guys keep asking
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: me how to Embird? Embert's not like a good date place.
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: I brought this up to multiple people, and they've all
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: thought it's weird because that's the place that amature works, right. Yeah,
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: and this is the second time somebody's asked me out
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: to m Bird.
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: Like.
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: Embert is not a date place on a weekend.
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: No, I would absolutely because it turns into like a club.
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: That is what I've seen over there.
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: That's what I thought. So anyway, I said, hey, hey, that
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: should work, but I'm pretty sure Embert is under construction.
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: And so then he offered up Jackson's or American Social.
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: Jackson's is fine, American Social is not.
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's very fascinating what a restaurant says about somebody.
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: American Social is like a sports bar.
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and it gets very viby, like very twenty two
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: to twenty seven.
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's still emberd vibes. Yes, it's it's not always
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: a club, but it kind of gets club.
• 23:46
  Speaker 3: Oh it turns to it. I mean that area at night.
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: Who it's just not a first date spot. No, Jackson's
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: is a restaurant. But because he's already listed off these
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: other two places, I'm like, Nine's feel like icky, and
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: so I said, yeah, that works for me, and.
• 23:57
  Speaker 3: Then like Jackson's kind of expensive too.
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: So here's here's what I said.
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: After that.
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: I said, so my parents are saying this was Father's
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: Day weekend. I said, so my parents are staying with
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: me right now, decide to hang through tomorrow. I can
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: do Wednesday or next weekend.
• 24:08
  Speaker 3: Okay?
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: Is that fine? Yeah? Okay, I don't know if that
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: was maybe two blunt No, I think that's again.
• 24:13
  Speaker 3: If my whole thing is like, if you want to do,
• 24:15
  Speaker 3: he would like, I will move mountain.
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: Be useless to men.
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, well it's like you have things going on, that's life,
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: Like life will happen. So now, as the guy, you
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: should be like, oh cool, like audible move things around.
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: So then he said, I'll get I can't do Wednesday,
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: so let's do next weekend. And then I thumbs it up.
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: And then on Thursday, he said, hey, Abby, you want
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: to go for a drinks at Jackson's at seven thirty
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: on Saturday, and I said, hey, hey, I'm in Wesley
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: Chapel until seven Saturday. Earliest I can do.
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: Is eight ish.
• 24:39
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: Then he said, do you want to do eight thirty
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: and I said works for me. So Thursday he said, cool,
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: I'll keep you updated when I leave. Blah blah blah
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah, etcetera, etcetera. Saturday, eleven am, I'm
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: sitting in traffic on the way to our Laguna Palooza event. Hey, Abby,
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: sorry for the late notice, but I need to cancel
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: our date. I've connected with another person and want to
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: see where that goes. And I just thumbs it up.
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: Sucks.
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: I thought it was rude because I'm like, what happened
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: between Thursday and Saturday.
• 25:04
  Speaker 3: That's where it's really confusing. Did he like, because that's
• 25:07
  Speaker 3: what it.
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: Felt like bullshit to me, and like you went out
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: on a date on Friday.
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: And yeah, unless he again like, maybe I don't know
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: if I said this to you, I look gonna lose it.
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: Like maybe his conscious got to him, like maybe he
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: was talking to somebody and he realized, wait a second,
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: I no, I want to see where this goes, cause
• 25:23
  Speaker 2: I get that, like, and I think that's what I
• 25:25
  Speaker 2: said to you. Like when I was like just casually
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: dating and then I met my girlfriend, I was like,
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: I think I had like once I met my girlfriend,
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: and I think I had something up like maybe that week.
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: Literally it was the same thing. I was like, well, yeah, no,
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: this ain't gonna work.
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: But then don't confirm with me Thursday.
• 25:39
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what's weird, that's what you.
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: Honestly, after I canceled him with I canceled with him
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: on Sunday, I thought he was just gonna go to me,
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: and I was like, that'll be fine. So when he
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: followed up on Thursday, I'm like, oh, he really wants
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: to go out.
• 25:51
  Speaker 3: Yeah, he's actually fully in cause it's.
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: Like Thursday night, Thursday night he confirmed. So Thursday night happens,
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: it's like eight pm.
• 25:58
  Speaker 3: Yeah, twenty four hours literally.
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: Like it's it's not even thirty six it's like thirty
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: six hours Saturday morning. Hey, sorry for the late cancel.
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: I've met somebody else.
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: So on Friday, either he met someone on Friday or
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: he was talking to multiple people.
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: Before he Even if you did meet somebody on Friday.
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: I'm a little annoyed that you weren't even remotely excited
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: enough about me to just be like, well, let me
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: just see what's going on with Abbey.
• 26:21
  Speaker 3: Yes, because it's the first date.
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: It's not like we've been seeing each other and he
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: feels like, oh, now I've got these two girls and
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: they're overlapping, Like that's the.
• 26:28
  Speaker 3: Whole part of dating. Like you could see a couple
• 26:30
  Speaker 3: of people in the beginning and the very beginning.
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so like, are you exclusive with this person or not?
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: So like you decided to be exclusive with someone on Friday?
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: I called bullshit. So yesterday at nine to twenty two pm.
• 26:40
  Speaker 3: Wait a second, wait, how many days has that been?
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: So now it's been so June twenty seven, So that
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: was two weeks.
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: Okay, a little more than two weeks. Actually, yeah, we're
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: now in July.
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: Hey, Abby, that connection didn't work out, and I was
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: wondering if you'd still be interested to get together for
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: drinks this weekend.
• 26:56
  Speaker 2: Okay, this could be two things, though, because the one
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: could be he's an upstanding guy that didn't want to
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: be talking to multiple women.
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: Why are we talking to multiple women?
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: Well? Beaun't I don't know, because if he's dating, he
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: probably doesn't understand that. Like, as long as you're upfront
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: and honest and the beginning of dating, it's okay.
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: I have no problem. If you're talking to multiple people,
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: I actually would prefer that don't give me all your attention.
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think that's where he might like, I'm
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: just trying to do the benefit of the doubt to
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: this guy, is that maybe what he was doing, like
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: he didn't want to he got a confuse, Like in
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: the beginning, he's like, oh, wow, I found another match.
• 27:27
  Speaker 3: We went out, it was really good.
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: Let me cut off every other option so I could
• 27:30
  Speaker 2: just see where this goes.
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: And you're telling me that happened Friday night.
• 27:34
  Speaker 3: That's that's where it gets tough, you know what I mean?
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: Yes, Like I wonder if he hooked up with someone
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: Friday night and then he texted me Saturday, was just like, man, he.
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: Could have a date for Yeah, I mean he literally
• 27:43
  Speaker 2: could have had a great date Friday.
• 27:45
  Speaker 3: And he was like, wait a second, that was so good.
• 27:47
  Speaker 3: Let me see where it goes now.
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: And it ended after two and a half weeks.
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: That's the part that I'm like, all right, bro, you
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: might just be off. How do you feel about getting
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: that message?
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: I rolled my eyes when I got it, so I
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: figured and I had to talk to I had to
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: talk to chech to you about it?
• 28:00
  Speaker 3: It's chatgy me to your therapist.
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: Well, because I'm like, I just need like an object
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: objective computer opinion. Does that make sense? Because if I
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: send it to a friend, they're gonna have a motion
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: behind it. But if I send it to the Internet,
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: it's just gonna give me like basic facts.
• 28:13
  Speaker 3: Yes, and what did Chat say?
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: Chat Chap is telling me don't go for it?
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: Really?
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah? Chat was like okay, so you were clearly presented
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: as an option and you weren't the most desirable option.
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: And I was like, yeah, he did choose chat.
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: You know what?
• 28:27
  Speaker 3: Fuck?
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: I agree with Chat? Yeah, okay, that makes sense.
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Like, and I guess the
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: toxic part of my brain goes, would my future husband
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: see a photo of me and go I'd rather go
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: out with this other girl? Let me cancel on her
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: Saturday morning?
• 28:41
  Speaker 3: That's true, do you know what I mean?
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 28:42
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, no, okay, Like.
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: When you saw a photo of your girlfriend, you were like,
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: I'm going out with that girl.
• 28:47
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, do you know what I mean? Absolutely?
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: And it's not that I think you need to be
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: like all in and go super hard and pursue me
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: and make videos of me about me and be like
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: I want to ask this girlah blah blah blah like
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: Travis Kelsey, I just want you to go on the date.
• 29:01
  Speaker 3: Yes, like, just follow through, choose me.
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: Pick me, choose me, God agreement, love me.
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: Gosh, No, I think I do agree with that one
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: hundred percent though, like at least I'm not I think
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: waiting around for you, and I think that's what it
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: kind of feels like that's what I was just waiting
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: around for your text Yce, this is gonna happen now.
• 29:17
  Speaker 3: I'm good, I think, I.
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: Because I was getting kind of icked out by like
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: the em bird and then the American social thing that
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: I'm like, this isn't like a man. Does that make sense?
• 29:26
  Speaker 3: Like, yes, that does.
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: I'm glad because I felt nervous saying that.
• 29:29
  Speaker 3: No, I think it again.
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: That's why I say, like, there are certain restaurants that
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: kind of show who you are, Like it's just how
• 29:34
  Speaker 2: I feel like, if you're gonna take me to American
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: social I'm thinking I mean again, and this is I
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: don't know who listens to the podcast.
• 29:39
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: There's nothing wrong with these places.
• 29:42
  Speaker 3: They're just not There's just a vibe. You just you
• 29:44
  Speaker 3: might not want that vibe.
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: You don't take a woman who's twenty nine to American
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: social for a first date.
• 29:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, we're not gonna be chugging beers and just
• 29:51
  Speaker 2: having a rager for a date.
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: You take? Where would you what's a good first date spot?
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: I'm at in Tampa and Tampa, So if I was
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: gonna go to Tampa on a first date, I would go,
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: you know what, Oh God, I haven't gone to many
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: places in Tampa. Bulan's a great first date spot.
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: See, I would say no to Bulan.
• 30:07
  Speaker 3: It depends on the time.
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: It depends on the time, It depends on the day
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: of the week.
• 30:09
  Speaker 3: I want something.
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: Because when I took my girlfriend on the first date,
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: we went to this place called Savvi on Winelocker. But
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: what I was going for was I wanted it to
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: be small. I wanted to be elegant, intimate, intimate, but
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: also nice.
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: I needed to have good drinks, casual food, but it
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: needed to be quiet enough for us to be able
• 30:27
  Speaker 2: to have a conversation in close quarters. So that's what
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: I would go for in Tampa. I wouldn't go to
• 30:32
  Speaker 2: someplace that's big, that's loud, that's busy.
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: That's what these places are.
• 30:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I wanted it to be locked in. Yeah, one
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: hundred percent focused on each other. And so like, even
• 30:40
  Speaker 2: what are the we went to one of the dates
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: in Three Corners Pizza right there in downtown Tampa. That's casual,
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: but it's still a cool place because it's still downtown. Yeah,
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: you don't need to spend all this money on your
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: first date. Yeah, I wouldn't go even though I love
• 30:52
  Speaker 2: this place. I love Kava, I wouldn't go to Kava
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: for the first date. No, Like, guess that's still too casual.
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: I don't need an expensive date. Honestly, if you asked
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: me to go for a walk on bage word, that's
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: fine with me, especially from a dating app situation. Let's
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: just see if we don't hate each other.
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean the first place I was gonna take
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: my girlfriend was this place called and I talked about
• 31:09
  Speaker 2: this because I threw up the other weekend at La Pluma,
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: so I was gonna go there.
• 31:13
  Speaker 3: That was gonna be the.
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: First dight spot because again, quiet one drink, easy to
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: have a conversation.
• 31:18
  Speaker 3: But it's nice.
• 31:19
  Speaker 2: It shows that you put in an effort, but it
• 31:20
  Speaker 2: shows that you're locked in on the focus. Yeah, that
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: should been the look. Wow, okay, well that's that sucks.
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm leaning towards don't respond.
• 31:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, there's no need. There's no need because I
• 31:30
  Speaker 2: think there's already an ick that's given.
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: I was a little icked out in the beginning, and yeah,
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: I'm just not I don't think it's the right vibe.
• 31:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, if you're already feeling that way now, well then
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: it's probably only going to intensify.
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: It's probably intensify or and I've.
• 31:42
  Speaker 3: Done this before, you just say ef it and you
• 31:44
  Speaker 3: do it just to see.
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: But I could, but I don't know that I care
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: enough to go. I don't know.
• 31:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah, if you don't have that feeling that pulled to
• 31:51
  Speaker 2: do it, then don't waste your time.
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: Here's what's well, I mean, here's the thing. It's like,
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: if I say yes and it's great, then it's like, oh,
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: I'm glad I took that chance. But then if I
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: go on, I'm like, I hate this guy. Then I'm
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: gonna be like why did I do that?
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: Like, yeah, why did I put myself down?
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah? When honestly, the prideful part of me wants to
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: be like fuck you.
• 32:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah. In that case, I think it's okay, Like, right.
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: You cancel on me mourning of because you found a
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: better connection on Friday. How stupid do you think I am?
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: Like me saying yes this date makes me feel like
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: I'm betraying my own competence.
• 32:21
  Speaker 3: That's what it is. Yeah, it's like you're lowering your standard.
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: It's like, quote unquote, am I so desperate that I'm
• 32:26
  Speaker 2: willing to just be the second girl?
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah? Actually I'm not. So I'm not responding.
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: Boom there it is okay, So I won't go out
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: with there. It is all right, delete hinge, get off
• 32:33
  Speaker 2: the way.
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: I know now I'm deleting the hinge that was my
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: last hingele is on.
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: I mean truthfully though, because it's like how many times,
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: and I know multiple people sat on dating apps and
• 32:42
  Speaker 2: they found somebody, But how many times could you put
• 32:44
  Speaker 2: yourself through that ringer?
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah? I think you have to go through stints. I
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: think you have to go through periods where you get
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: on them and then you get off them.
• 32:50
  Speaker 3: Like training for a race.
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I get to do train on, train off.
• 32:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: You don't want to just put all the time. It'll
• 32:55
  Speaker 2: be so depressed unless it works, and it does.
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: I mean, my brother and his girlfriend met on hinge
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: or it's like girlfriend, Oh my god, my brother and
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: his wife on nge, my brother and his raft man
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: on hinge, his laugh.
• 33:07
  Speaker 3: So it is possible, but it's just I'm sure it
• 33:10
  Speaker 3: just you gotta hit it when it's hot.
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: You gotta hit it when it's hot. When it's not
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: step off, And I think I'm just learning that I'm
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: not the type of person who likes a vibe being
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: instantly romantic, if that makes sense. Like, I don't want
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: to show up and have the context be like, Okay,
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: you've been doing this a lot, Like you're like looking
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: at me, You're like licking your lips.
• 33:26
  Speaker 3: Sorry, my lips are dry.
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: Okay, I'm like what are you doing. I'm like, it's
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: been happening enough times that I've got to say something.
• 33:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I have weird tics.
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I was like, are you okay? I'm like, why
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: are you seducing me? It's like when you had that
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: moaning thing and I was like, you got to stop.
• 33:41
  Speaker 3: I still do it.
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: Actually, I haven't heard you moan in a while. Good.
• 33:44
  Speaker 3: I'm glad I've been able to cut the hat.
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: I realized I don't like the context of showing up
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: and instantly being like this is a romantic situation. Like
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: I like for it to be like we really gell
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: and to kind of build. And I don't think you
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: can do that in a first date online environment.
• 34:00
  Speaker 3: That's true because you're literally setting yourself up for that environment.
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: You're just setting it up like this is immediately romantic,
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: whereas I would rather be like a friend group and
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: be like, oh me and Jason.
• 34:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, well that's how.
• 34:10
  Speaker 3: It usually is.
• 34:11
  Speaker 2: It's like you're going out and all of a sudden
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: the group and you just find yourself gravitating towards somebody
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: and next thing you know, you're talking to them a
• 34:16
  Speaker 2: little bit more than the other person. And next thing
• 34:18
  Speaker 2: you know, you're like, wait a second, you should go
• 34:21
  Speaker 2: out with that person.
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: That's what I mean, is like you just your vibes
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: start to like mash.
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah that environment, Like you've been doing that though, too.
• 34:27
  Speaker 2: It's like going out to these different events, that's it.
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: It seems like the better option. It does. It's exhausting.
• 34:34
  Speaker 3: You stay busy.
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: It's fine, it's come.
• 34:36
  Speaker 3: It will take a little break from hinge.
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: I know.
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: I will let me talkirl summer. I can't spend the
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: rest of July going. I wonder if Jason's going to
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: check me back.
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: No f fat, go out, be hot, get anyway, have
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: a good time.
• 34:48
  Speaker 3: Yeah, good time.
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: Let me run this body before I go to my meeting. Okay,
• 34:51
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna just say it bluntly. Okay, does my hair
• 34:53
  Speaker 2: look like shit?
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: Oh you're so concerned about your hair. Here's when I
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: tell you look exactly the same as you did two weeks.
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: You look fine.
• 35:01
  Speaker 2: Okay, Well, there's been multiple occasions over the past week
• 35:04
  Speaker 2: where someone like has made offhand comments about my hair.
• 35:08
  Speaker 2: So the first one is I was going into a
• 35:10
  Speaker 2: parking garage and this is all loved to this dude,
• 35:11
  Speaker 2: because this dude is like an OG listener, been rocking
• 35:14
  Speaker 2: with me for years. And as I was leaving the garage,
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: he's like, dude, we got to get a picture. He's like, dude,
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: they don't even worry about it though, with your hair, Like, like,
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: what do you mean my hair is like, I know
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: you haven't gotten a haircut. I'm like, no, no, no, no,
• 35:24
  Speaker 2: I'm growing it out. I'm not like deliberately looking like
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: shit for nothing.
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: I'm not like going out trying to look like shit.
• 35:30
  Speaker 3: But I didn't think it looked that bad.
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: And then yesterday I'm sitting in the office getting some
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: work and one of my favorite co workers comes by
• 35:36
  Speaker 2: and he's Sean.
• 35:38
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, the other Sean. He's still in the sales.
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: Where I actually don't know. I'm acting like I know.
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: I'm like, god, I got sewn from.
• 35:44
  Speaker 2: Sean's a good buddy of mine. But he said something
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: that was just made me laugh. He's like, man, you're
• 35:48
  Speaker 2: in that awkward phase with the hair.
• 35:49
  Speaker 3: Huh. I was like, I didn't think.
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: So take your headphones off, all right, take your headphones off.
• 35:54
  Speaker 3: Here it is. I feel like I just took my
• 35:55
  Speaker 3: pants off.
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: I really feel like you look fine. I do too.
• 35:58
  Speaker 2: I didn't think it looked that.
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: Maybe guys noticed because your hair has been like a
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: you've done the fade on the sides for a while. Yes,
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: that maybe they're noticing it because guys notice guys haircuts more,
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: whereas women are used to seeing different types of hair
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: on different people.
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: I guess I just made me feel like I was like,
• 36:15
  Speaker 2: wait a second. When I look at myself, I'm like, oh,
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: that's not that bad.
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: Like no, I didn't notice.
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: I think I'm honestly, my thought is I'm out of
• 36:21
  Speaker 2: the awkward phase.
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: You looked bad when you had the lego hair. What
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: was the lego Remember when your bangs came up and
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: it was like square like this, I could still do that.
• 36:29
  Speaker 3: Pulled your you see how long it is? Though, I
• 36:32
  Speaker 3: feel like.
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: That it looks so bad. You look like you here
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: do it again. You look like you should have like
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: leader hosen, like hello, I love little German boy.
• 36:47
  Speaker 3: You have to come in get some chocolate.
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: That's what you look like when you have your bangs
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: like that.
• 36:52
  Speaker 2: Okay, well that I'm not doing that. If I was
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: doing that walking around, of course, people call me disgusting. Yeah,
• 36:57
  Speaker 2: I looked like the pony that has bank.
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: What's your what? How far are you from where you
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: want to be?
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: Like?
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: What do you need to get?
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: I think I said I needed to get like six
• 37:05
  Speaker 2: to eight inches of hair.
• 37:07
  Speaker 3: I think I'm probably at like four.
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: It's a lot.
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: It's a lot as a lot is like it's long
• 37:11
  Speaker 2: or that's a long way to go.
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: I think you're I think you're almost there. It's growing fast.
• 37:16
  Speaker 3: I thought so too, might do it.
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: We got to get you some oliplex.
• 37:20
  Speaker 3: I don't know that is that like a pill.
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: It's like a it's a hair nourishing supplement, but you
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: put it on, it's like a mask.
• 37:27
  Speaker 2: I always feel like some of those things are just bullshit.
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: Nick Oil, Yeah, it's like, what the hell?
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: Why haven't we been as the man who listens to
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: Tony Robbins for advice?
• 37:36
  Speaker 3: Those things have changed my life.
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: Now I'm down to try because our boss is telling
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: me to, like do biotin.
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: Biotin is a supplement and it helps you produce more
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: of like your hair, skin and nail tents or something.
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: You could try that if also, I've been reading a
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: lot about GHK, a peide.
• 37:54
  Speaker 3: I don't know if I'm gonna do it's it's.
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: Like a copper peptide, and it helps your skin and
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: hair grow.
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: If it helps me one grow it but also not
• 38:02
  Speaker 2: lose it, that's what I'm looking for. That's what I've heard,
• 38:04
  Speaker 2: That's what I want. So okay, So it doesn't look
• 38:06
  Speaker 2: like shit. I think I'm close though, to being able
• 38:08
  Speaker 2: to like I.
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: Mean, you look like shit. O, your hair looks Yeah.
• 38:11
  Speaker 3: The hair is not the problem. Actually, yeah, that's not
• 38:13
  Speaker 3: one of my biggest worries.
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: You're good.
• 38:15
  Speaker 2: Well, it's I'm hoping by my birthday in October it
• 38:18
  Speaker 2: will actually be able to like style it a little differently.
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I think. So you've got you've got another three months.
• 38:24
  Speaker 3: Yeah, then we're gonna have some flow.
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: And look how far you've come.
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: See, I'm happy.
• 38:28
  Speaker 3: I'm committing to this.
• 38:29
  Speaker 2: I think it's gonna because I showed again Sean when
• 38:31
  Speaker 2: he was asking me, He's like, what are you going for?
• 38:33
  Speaker 3: I showed him the picture. He's like, oh, that's gonna
• 38:35
  Speaker 3: be good. I said, yes, it is.
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: Sean from sales.
• 38:37
  Speaker 2: Now I'm saying, come on now, well, thanks for being
• 38:40
  Speaker 2: part of this podcast. If you are in the area,
• 38:42
  Speaker 2: you come out to Scotty and Abby Live July thirty first,
• 38:45
  Speaker 2: and you could still get time. There's still some seats available,
• 38:48
  Speaker 2: so that's on the website. My Magic ninety four nine
• 38:51
  Speaker 2: dot Abby any partying words before I go and see
• 38:54
  Speaker 2: if we have any comments.
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: My parting words is putting yourself out there in pursuit
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: of emotional connection is chic. It's cool, it's chice. It
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: makes you a more interesting person.
• 39:03
  Speaker 2: Well, what did I read this morning? And it was
• 39:05
  Speaker 2: spot on? You could either live life. Gosh, you'd rather
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: try than be a coward? Something in that realm?
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: You just make that up right now?
• 39:13
  Speaker 3: No, no, no, I check that.
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: It sounds like something a seven year old would put on,
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: like the front of his bike. I'd rather try than't
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: be skinned.
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: No, I think it was I'd rather fail than be
• 39:23
  Speaker 2: a coward. I was like, that's the that's a little bit.
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: I'd rather fail than be a coward. You have to
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: ask yourself that every single day. Do I want to
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: be a coward? Or do I want to try.
• 39:32
  Speaker 2: And just give it a shot. But that's that's everything.
• 39:35
  Speaker 2: That's in relationships, that's with your job, that's what taking
• 39:38
  Speaker 2: new leaps and journeys.
• 39:40
  Speaker 3: And I'll save it for tomorrow. I finally did something.
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, you're gonna laugh because I don't think
• 39:44
  Speaker 2: this would be your trip at all. But I did
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: book something for my birthday, for the thirtieth, for my
• 39:48
  Speaker 2: thirtieth What.
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: Are you gonna do? Because we does it have to
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: do with that trip that we're gonna have to go
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: on for work.
• 39:53
  Speaker 2: I had to move some things around because of that trip,
• 39:56
  Speaker 2: but I officially locked it in.
• 39:57
  Speaker 3: I'll talk about it tomorrow because I.
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: Re they'll be excited.
• 40:01
  Speaker 3: You should be excited. You're gonna laugh though when you
• 40:03
  Speaker 3: hear it. Oh my gosh.
• 40:04
  Speaker 2: I don't think this is your cup of tea. But
• 40:06
  Speaker 2: for me and the boys and the girls, I think
• 40:09
  Speaker 2: they'll like it.
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: All right.
• 40:10
  Speaker 3: We'll talk about that tomorrow.
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: Bye bye.