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111: Why Change Feels So Scary—Especially When You Didn’t Choose It
Change doesn’t just knock; sometimes it blows the door off the hinges. We dive into the kind of change you didn’t choose—losses that upend your plans, injuries that shake identity, and detours that feel like freefall—and show how to find your footing again without pretending it’s easy.
We start with the brain. Uncertainty isn’t neutral; it’s costly. That electric-shock study where a guaranteed shock was calmer than a 50% chance? It reveals how ambiguity spikes stress and drains focus. Layer that with identity—how tightly we cling to roles like athlete, partner, or founder—and no wonder forced…
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