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Dirty Rush: Sisterhood becomes Scandalous · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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Speaker 1: Welcome to Dirty Rush, The Truth about Sorority Life, with
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Speaker 1: your hosts me Gia, Judice.
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Speaker 2: Daisy Kent, and Jennifer Kessler.
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Speaker 1: Hey, guys, it's Gia. Welcome to an episode of Dirty
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Speaker 1: Rush that is so hush hush, it's completely anonymous. We
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Speaker 1: are taking you inside some of the most sourid sorority
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Speaker 1: scandals that were never meant to be shared. The stories
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Speaker 1: you are about to hear expose the dirty side of
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Speaker 1: sorority life, from misconduct to cover ups and everything in between.
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Speaker 1: These scandals have been kept secret until now.
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Speaker 2: I was in a sorority at a school in southern
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Speaker 2: California and my sorority had a formal at Dodger Stadium
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Speaker 2: and it was the coolest formal I think in the
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Speaker 2: history of the sorority or probably ever because who has
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Speaker 2: their formal Dodger Stadium. But we did this year and
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Speaker 2: everyone was so excited for it. It was so fun
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Speaker 2: and it was just everyone was just looking forward to it.
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Speaker 2: So I was actually on exec when this happened, so
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Speaker 2: it was even more scandalous for me in the sense
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Speaker 2: that we had to deal with aftermath a bit. But
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Speaker 2: during our formal, we you know, as a formal night goes,
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Speaker 2: a lot of people had a little bit too much
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Speaker 2: to drink, and it was way too nice of a
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Speaker 2: venue and way too historical of a venue to host
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Speaker 2: a sorority formal because there was a lot of throw
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Speaker 2: up happening everywhere, and long story short, we got kicked
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Speaker 2: out two hours before our formal was supposed to end,
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Speaker 2: So our formal got cut really really short, rightfully so,
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Speaker 2: but the scandal of it all was the fact that
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Speaker 2: they had a wedding in there the very next morning,
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Speaker 2: and so it was this whole thing about how they
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Speaker 2: had to like rip up the carpet and clean it
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Speaker 2: up and like flip it over for the wedding the
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Speaker 2: next day, and we were banned from ever doing an
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Speaker 2: event there again. And I would probably argue to say
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Speaker 2: that we were the last sorority fraternity event to ever
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Speaker 2: happen at Dodger stadiums if I was Dodger Stadium, I
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Speaker 2: would never do one moving forward either, So I completely understand.
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Speaker 2: But it was the scandal of my time in the
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Speaker 2: sorority at school and during college, because it was the
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Speaker 2: talk of the town, and especially being on exec it
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Speaker 2: was just one of those things that we had to
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Speaker 2: call so many people into standards because it was I mean,
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Speaker 2: it was such a show.
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Speaker 3: It just was.
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Speaker 2: It was just like not only did we get kicked out,
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Speaker 2: but we had to like pay like the security deposit,
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Speaker 2: We got our hands slapped from like our advisory board,
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Speaker 2: and it was just not good at all. It was
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Speaker 2: not a good look. But also it was just it
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Speaker 2: was just bad, bad, bad. But it is one of
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Speaker 2: those events that looking back on it, everyone still talks
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Speaker 2: about it. Remember when we had our formal at Dodger
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Speaker 2: Stadium and look, I had the time of my life.
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Speaker 2: I was not one of the people that threw up everywhere,
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Speaker 2: so I was. I was not in trouble, but it
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Speaker 2: was it was definitely fun.
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Speaker 3: My scandalous story happened last year. This was an absolutely crazy,
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Speaker 3: unexpected thing to see because the craziest part was we
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Speaker 3: found out about something that had happened at our school
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Speaker 3: in a California store through a news article and a
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Speaker 3: news report rather than through word of mouth. So basically,
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Speaker 3: an unexpected situation happened on a very common street in
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Speaker 3: my college town where a lot of sorority houses are
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Speaker 3: and also a lot of fraternities, and basically we found
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Speaker 3: out that there had been a man who was arousing
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Speaker 3: the area, kind of poking his head into houses, keeping
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Speaker 3: an eye on the girls' schedules. And it turns out
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Speaker 3: that there was an intruder in a sorority at my
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Speaker 3: school who had been planning, for lack of a better term,
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Speaker 3: planning an attack on a sorority house. So he had
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Speaker 3: kind of coordinated the time to enter a home when
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Speaker 3: he knew that there were girls who were not in
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Speaker 3: the house, and it turns out that he was actually
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Speaker 3: a convicted felon. He was in the house at around
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Speaker 3: three AI when a lot of the girls were asleep,
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Speaker 3: and he fled the home through one of their bedrooms
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Speaker 3: at about six AM. So the timing of that is
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Speaker 3: really scary because it means he was in the house
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Speaker 3: for three hours, completely unknown, unattended, just kind of making
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Speaker 3: himself at home in this sorority house. And it turns
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Speaker 3: out that he was a man who was watching the
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Speaker 3: girls in the communal showers. He had taken food from
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Speaker 3: the house, he stole underwear from one of the girl's rooms,
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Speaker 3: and it turns out once he was arrested and this
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Speaker 3: whole situation was uncovered, it turns out that he's actually
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Speaker 3: convicted felon. He had multiple firearms in his possession in
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Speaker 3: his car, and he was ended up being tried for
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Speaker 3: growling and peeking as well as invaded privacy and the
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Speaker 3: possession of ammunition by a felon. So this was something
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Speaker 3: that happened that was really obviously very scary because I
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Speaker 3: can confidently say I felt so safe in my college town.
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Speaker 3: It felt so safe in my sorority house, and when
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Speaker 3: this all came out, it definitely kind of shook the area,
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Speaker 3: and it obviously led to us considering a lot more
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Speaker 3: safety protocol and safety measures. I know there are a
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Speaker 3: lot of schools, especially in California, who have security guards
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Speaker 3: who sit at the front door of storty houses to
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Speaker 3: make sure that the girls are safe, especially in busier areas,
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Speaker 3: but my town does not have that, and I think
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Speaker 3: this situation definitely led us to consider whether or not
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Speaker 3: we were doing enough to keep everyone safe, especially because
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Speaker 3: a lot of the houses here have a lot of windows,
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Speaker 3: they have a lot of you know, back entrances, girls
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Speaker 3: coming in and out of the house constantly, and sometimes
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Speaker 3: the doors don't get closed.
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Speaker 4: All the way.
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Speaker 3: So in an area that has, you know, some safety concerns.
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Speaker 3: It's definitely it was definitely a situation that really spooked us.
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Speaker 3: And it was also something that was so insanely unexpected
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Speaker 3: because this is an area that is really busy. There
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Speaker 3: are several Greek Life affiliated houses on that street. And
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Speaker 3: so the fact that this man was able to come
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Speaker 3: in while the girls were sleeping, he had done his research,
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Speaker 3: he knew when they were all asleep and managed to
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Speaker 3: get into a bedroom is really, you know, for lack
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Speaker 3: of a better term, scandalous but also just very scary.
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Speaker 3: So that I think is a big story that was
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Speaker 3: told here. I also have another situation that happened. So
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Speaker 3: before I joined Greek Life, I had heard a lot about,
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Speaker 3: you know, kind of the stereotypes and the stories of
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Speaker 3: going through recruitment and what it means to be an
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Speaker 3: exec And I've heard a lot about this through family members,
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Speaker 3: and a story that I heard before I had even
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Speaker 3: joined my sorority was through one of my close family
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Speaker 3: members who was in a sorority herself in college. And
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Speaker 3: as the story goes, some of the details are a
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Speaker 3: little bit hazy, considering I think a lot of the
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Speaker 3: information was kept off of the Internet for legal reasons,
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Speaker 3: but one of the members of her sorority in an
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Speaker 3: exec position, had actually been money laundering the entire time
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Speaker 3: she was in an exec position. She had been taking
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Speaker 3: money directly from the sorority, directly from the national foundation,
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Speaker 3: and had been wiring it into her own account, which,
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Speaker 3: if you know anything about exec in a sorority, that
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Speaker 3: is extremely extremely difficult. That is something that I have
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Speaker 3: no idea the logistics, I have no idea how she
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Speaker 3: could have even managed that. But it turns out she
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Speaker 3: had been doing that for her entire time as an
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Speaker 3: exec member in the sorority. She had taken thousands and
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Speaker 3: thousands of dollars to the point where, if I remember correctly,
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Speaker 3: the sorority actually had to file for bankruptcy and had
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Speaker 3: to request more funds from the national organization. And once
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Speaker 3: this all came out, it turned out that this girl,
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Speaker 3: you know, had been taking a lot of money from
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Speaker 3: other places. She had been buying herself expensive jewelry. She'd
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Speaker 3: been buying herself, you know, luxury items, all from her sorority.
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Speaker 3: So obviously, no surprises. She was in fact dropped. She
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Speaker 3: was put on whatever the most extreme version of probation
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Speaker 3: is and was no longer able to be a part
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Speaker 3: of that sorority anymore. And it turns out she actually
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Speaker 3: managed to acquire two hundred thousand dollars of embezzled funds
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Speaker 3: from her sorority house, using the money to purchase items
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Speaker 3: like gifts, expensive expensive gifts for her boyfriend, including a car,
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Speaker 3: buying him drugs, and paying for every day living expenses,
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Speaker 3: including her own personal housing separate to living in her
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Speaker 3: storrity house. I'm not sure where she is today, but
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Speaker 3: I would assume that there has been some sort of,
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Speaker 3: you know, felony convictions they are considering. That is probably
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Speaker 3: the highest degree of fevery for about lack of a
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Speaker 3: better term.
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Speaker 5: The biggest scandal that happened throughout my four years in
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Speaker 5: my sorority. I was in kind of what was advertised
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Speaker 5: as like the nice, sporty, cool down to earth sorority,
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Speaker 5: and that was kind of There wasn't a lot of
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Speaker 5: bells and whistles and glitz and glam throughout the recruitment process.
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Speaker 5: It really felt like all these girls were very genuine
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Speaker 5: and a large part of that were the senior class
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Speaker 5: was very involved in recruitment, which is kind of less
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Speaker 5: of a thing, just because typically by the time you
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Speaker 5: know it's their fourth year in your sorority, a lot
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Speaker 5: of the girls have dropped their sorority or aren't as involved.
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Speaker 5: And when I was going through recruitment as a freshman,
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Speaker 5: the seniors were very heavily involved in the process. They
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Speaker 5: were all on exec There was a big group of
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Speaker 5: friends that yeah, like all had different exact positions, and
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Speaker 5: it seemed like, wow, this this sorority has amazing retention, right,
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Speaker 5: and like everyone seems to still love it four years in.
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Speaker 5: And that think was that was a reason why me
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Speaker 5: and a lot of my friends joined this sorty. It
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Speaker 5: felt like it was a lot of very genuine girls,
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Speaker 5: and I do think that that was very much the case.
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Speaker 5: But on the other side of it, I think that
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Speaker 5: group of senior girls really had like an iron grip
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Speaker 5: on the control over the sorority and they were very,
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Speaker 5: very involved in like the overall image we quickly found
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Speaker 5: and I will never forget, Like the first chapter meeting
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Speaker 5: we had, they had overheard one story that happened between
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Speaker 5: like a three girls out of our whole seventy person
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Speaker 5: new member class. They heard one story and like ripped
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Speaker 5: us a new one at chapter, they told us, we
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Speaker 5: have never heard this bad of a story about any
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Speaker 5: new member class. You guys are the worst PC ever.
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Speaker 5: They literally told us that, and then we named our
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Speaker 5: group chat the worst PC ever. And they every time
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Speaker 5: at chapter they would just yell at us. They really
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Speaker 5: were on a power trip. And this kind of just
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Speaker 5: set the tone for the year because we were as
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Speaker 5: a new member class were scared to go to the house,
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Speaker 5: We were scared to go to meals, we were scared
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Speaker 5: to go to events because we didn't want to like
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Speaker 5: be you know, live up to our name as being
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Speaker 5: like the worst PC ever. And it all came to
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Speaker 5: a head when it was right when we had gotten
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Speaker 5: back from winter break. It was January, and my sorority
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Speaker 5: has things called pinnings. There are these events. They're basically
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Speaker 5: like a frat wedding between a sorority. It's like a
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Speaker 5: seniors sorority girl and a senior frat guy who have
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Speaker 5: been dating for a while and they have we throw
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Speaker 5: in this big party whatever. Everyone gets very drunk and
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Speaker 5: their emotions were running high, and a big thing with
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Speaker 5: the senior classes, they would always declare that like the
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Speaker 5: first bust was the senior bus and nobody else could
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Speaker 5: get on it. Well, we're taking a bus home from
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Speaker 5: the venue and there is a girl that doesn't who's
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Speaker 5: a freshman. She doesn't feel very well and she also
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Speaker 5: was assigned to be like a sober monitor for the night,
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Speaker 5: and she's like only like and she wants to get
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Speaker 5: on the first bus home. Well, that first bus home
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Speaker 5: was the senior bus, and there was a particular she
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Speaker 5: was on exec and there was one senior who was
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Speaker 5: on a very much a high horse. They all were,
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Speaker 5: but this one in particular, she just wanted full control
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Speaker 5: over everyone in the sorority and everyone to know it
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Speaker 5: that like she was boss and basically this freshman who
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Speaker 5: was supposed to be.
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Speaker 6: And let me back up here.
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Speaker 5: The thing about, so if you were assigned as a
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Speaker 5: sober monitor for an event, that means in those jobs,
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Speaker 5: en roles usually go to freshmen because it's in like
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Speaker 5: a lottery system, and younger girls just tend to be
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Speaker 5: the sober monitors because the older girls don't want to
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Speaker 5: be And it's your job that there is at least
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Speaker 5: one sober monitor on every bus. And this girl was
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Speaker 5: the sober monitor for the night, and she gets on
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Speaker 5: the quote senior bus on the way back to UCLA,
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Speaker 5: and this senior girl looks this freshman who is a
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Speaker 5: it's her job assigned by sorority to be on this bus,
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Speaker 5: and she starts shouting at her that she needs to
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Speaker 5: get off the bus. This is a senior bus that
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Speaker 5: our new member class has some nerve for always like
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Speaker 5: you know, overstepping. And when she was a freshman, she
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Speaker 5: knew her place. And basically this freshman is like, hey,
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Speaker 5: I'm supposed to be here. I need to be on
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Speaker 5: this bus, like I don't want to get in trouble,
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Speaker 5: and this she like pushes past the senior girl, and
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Speaker 5: the senior girl pushes her, physically pushes her off the bus,
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Speaker 5: and some other girls like jumped in and are also
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Speaker 5: yelling her to get off the bus, and emotions were
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Speaker 5: riding high. Everyone was clearly intoxicated. But this was awful like.
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Speaker 5: They treated her terribly and so much so that this
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Speaker 5: girl went home and wrote a long letter and sent
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Speaker 5: it to our two hundred person wide whole sorority grouped
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Speaker 5: me about the reasons why she was dropping the sorority
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Speaker 5: and how awful like she was treated at this event
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Speaker 5: and how she would never want to be in a
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Speaker 5: sorority the ad girls that treated, you know, the younger
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Speaker 5: classman that way, and that there had been multiple occurrences
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Speaker 5: of this, and that this was like the final straw
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Speaker 5: and the rest of us freshmen were like a gas
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Speaker 5: that someone finally stood up and said something, but also
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Speaker 5: that it pushed her so much to the edge that
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Speaker 5: she dropped. And we didn't know explicitly what had happened
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Speaker 5: from this text, but that something must have went down
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Speaker 5: that really just put her to a breaking point. So
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Speaker 5: that event was like on a Friday night. That Sunday,
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Speaker 5: we had an emergency what we would call fireside, which
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Speaker 5: was like a sorority wide meeting chat where we would
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Speaker 5: really open up and get to the bottom of what
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Speaker 5: was going on, and that clearly there were serious issues
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Speaker 5: that were going on in the sorority. And our advisor came.
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Speaker 5: She was in tears. She was so distraught that this
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Speaker 5: is what it had come to, that like the sorority
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Speaker 5: that she knew and loved had like was treating each
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Speaker 5: other this way and it was a big deal. And
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Speaker 5: that senior that was the main queen bee she was
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Speaker 5: supposed to have a pinning the next week it was
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Speaker 5: canceled revoked. She had been dating her boyfriend for all
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Speaker 5: four years of college. She did not get a pinning,
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Speaker 5: and she essentially like was barred from future events, and
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Speaker 5: that whole senior like senior class had just like a
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Speaker 5: dark cloud over them. And I think our new member
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Speaker 5: class was we moved in the house next year the
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Speaker 5: following year, and we were like the closest PC ever,
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Speaker 5: I think, because we honestly were all like trauma bonded
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Speaker 5: by how awful these seniors were. And yeah, it just
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Speaker 5: was this like awful, crazy thing. And the worst part
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Speaker 5: about it is that it didn't stay like insulurt didn't
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Speaker 5: stay a story within our sorority. But everybody knew about it.
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Speaker 5: And at the time yik yak, which is like an
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Speaker 5: online reddit style like anonymous forum where people can submit
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Speaker 5: like tips and things and like up arrow downer or
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Speaker 5: them if they're more popular, and people were talking all
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Speaker 5: over about how our sorority was just like totally and
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Speaker 5: of course like reputations, everything was totally like the mean
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Speaker 5: girl sorority and that you know, the seniors were awful
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Speaker 5: to the freshmen and that it wasn't assorty, that anyone
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Speaker 5: wanted to be a part of. So it not only
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Speaker 5: like made us all feel horrible, but it really tainted
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Speaker 5: our reputation when we had like worked so hard to
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Speaker 5: be the girls the house that had like the nice,
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Speaker 5: hard working, genuine down to earth girls. And so I
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Speaker 5: think we did repair that rep but those seniors in
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Speaker 5: my head still just have like a dark cloud over them.
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Speaker 5: And I would never want to treat a younger classman
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Speaker 5: the way, and we made it a point that we
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Speaker 5: would never treat the younger classmen the way that they
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Speaker 5: treated us.
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Speaker 7: So we did virtual rush because it was COVID when
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Speaker 7: I was rushing, and this very key important detail. So
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Speaker 7: it's freshman year and everything is supposed to be shut down,
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Speaker 7: but we're doing like secret frat parties and things like that.
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Speaker 7: And at one of the frat parties, my friend hooked
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Speaker 7: up with this guy who we all called George Bush
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Speaker 7: because he apparently had like a massive bush and she
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Speaker 7: is she was like a super virgin, like had never
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Speaker 7: seen a penis in her life, and she ended up
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Speaker 7: hooking up with him one night when we were at
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Speaker 7: a secret frat party, and she actually ended up losing
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Speaker 7: her virginity to him, and he was like telling her like,
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Speaker 7: sit on my sit on her face, and she's gonna
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Speaker 7: make her come and like all of these dirty things.
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Speaker 6: And she like hadn't even seen a penis before, so
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Speaker 6: she was really.
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Speaker 7: Confused as to like what any of that meant. And
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Speaker 7: she was like genuinely a fresh virgin.
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Speaker 6: So she's hooking up with him.
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Speaker 7: He's on top of her and they're like making out,
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Speaker 7: and her nose starts bleeding and he like pulls away
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Speaker 7: and she's like, oh my god, like your face has
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Speaker 7: blood all over it, Like what's going on? And then
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Speaker 7: he was like, actually, your face has blood like dripping
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Speaker 7: from it. So they like get up and they go
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Speaker 7: to the bathroom and he like boner staking out like
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Speaker 7: bush in full action, is like wiping the blood off
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Speaker 7: of her face, and she bolted the room and ended
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Speaker 7: up ubering home so like literally wiping blood it off,
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Speaker 7: and then she just like like ghosted him. So the
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Speaker 7: next weekend, we had like a virtual Zoom Sisterhood event
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Speaker 7: where we all got put into breakout rooms to just
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Speaker 7: kind of like get more comfortable with each other and
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Speaker 7: like be able to know that like we can confide
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Speaker 7: in these older girls. So they were like kind of
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Speaker 7: asking us to like tell stories, and we were all
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Speaker 7: talking about like bad hookup stories. So my friend ends
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Speaker 7: up telling this story and mentions the George Bush and
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Speaker 7: about eight girls at one time the breakout room was
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Speaker 7: like sixteen girls. We're like, what, like does it happen
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Speaker 7: to be this guy in this fraternity And a day
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Speaker 7: and we found out all collectively, like at the same time,
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Speaker 7: each girl was telling their story that they had had
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Speaker 7: sex with him, like within.
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Speaker 6: The past month. So there was nine girls half.
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Speaker 7: Of our breakout room, more than half of our breakout
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Speaker 7: room in that zoom during a sisterhood event had hooked
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Speaker 7: up with the same man within the past three weeks.
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Speaker 6: And it just definitely is not in there.
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Speaker 7: We were pretty rowdy to say the least, and in
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Speaker 7: our sorority house. So the next year we were in
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Speaker 7: our sorority house living there and there was something passed
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Speaker 7: down called Remy the Rat, and it was like a
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Speaker 7: little stuffed rat that we would all hide in the
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Speaker 7: house and then the person who found it had to
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Speaker 7: hide it again. But we actually ended up doing a
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Speaker 7: dildo instead, so instead of Remy the Rat, we had
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Speaker 7: Drake the dildo, and like every time we would come
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Speaker 7: home from going out or anything, we would just always
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Speaker 7: find it, like mess with it.
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Speaker 6: And one day we had been like a tailgate for.
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Speaker 7: A football game and we were all intoxicated and went
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Speaker 7: back to the sorority house and we're all playing in
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Speaker 7: my room and the window was open because some people
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Speaker 7: were smoking. We were just being like honestly trashy and
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Speaker 7: playing with a dildo and we were like physically all
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Speaker 7: fighting with it, and one of my friends just like
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Speaker 7: threw it out the window and actually ended up hitting
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Speaker 7: a little girl, like a child, like probably a six
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Speaker 7: year old little girl, smacking her in the face. And
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Speaker 7: so like a couple days later, our sorority mom or
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Speaker 7: house mom ends up being like, hi, guys, So we
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Speaker 7: did a meeting a little girl and her mom came
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Speaker 7: by the house and complained about this bruise on this
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Speaker 7: child's face and showed us a picture of it. It
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Speaker 7: was literally like the shape of a dildo on a
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Speaker 7: six year old's face. And when when we threw it
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Speaker 7: out there and it hit her in the face, like
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Speaker 7: you could hear it literally like smack her face and
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Speaker 7: then hit the ground and it sounded like flesh like
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Speaker 7: we all were on the ground hiding so drunk, like
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Speaker 7: so messed up and like laughing obviously, but we didn't
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Speaker 7: know that it would like actually get that bad to
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Speaker 7: the point that they would show back up at our house.
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Speaker 6: Like with proof of the dildo hitting her in the face.
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Speaker 7: So we all got in really big trouble, like terrible trouble,
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Speaker 7: and we ended up like having to hide from our
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Speaker 7: house mom for the rest of the year.
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Speaker 4: All right. So a couple of my juicy stories that
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Speaker 4: came from living in the sorority house. One of them
23:43
Speaker 4: was the first week living there, I had a neighbor
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Speaker 4: and was getting to know her. She was like a
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Speaker 4: cool girl whatever, And like a couple of nights after
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Speaker 4: our first night's going out, like someone was like packing
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Speaker 4: up all her stuff and she was nowhere to be found,
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Speaker 4: and we were all super confused. We found out that
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Speaker 4: she actually punched another girl in a different sorority for
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Speaker 4: like kissing her boyfriend or something, and she got kicked
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Speaker 4: out of our sorority house and the girl had like
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Speaker 4: a black eye.
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Speaker 3: It was like a.
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Speaker 4: Huge scandal on my campus. Another one, I was at
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Speaker 4: a frat party one time with like all my sorority
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Speaker 4: sisters and whatever. We were dancing. I had that phone
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Speaker 4: wallet type thing, so all my cards were in there
24:34
Speaker 4: and it fell off and I realized the next morning
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Speaker 4: and I was like, she wears my wallet with all
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Speaker 4: my cards. And we were leaving for Mexico spring break
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Speaker 4: the next week, and so me and my friends went
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Speaker 4: to like the frat house. We went through all the
24:49
Speaker 4: garbages everywhere, just trying to find it, and we couldn't
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Speaker 4: find it anywhere. I was panicking, and my guy friend
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Speaker 4: from the frat came up to me at another party
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Speaker 4: like the next day, and he was like, oh, no,
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Speaker 4: I know what happened to your cards. Like a kid
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Speaker 4: in my frat saw them all on the ground and
25:06
Speaker 4: was like, whoever's these are like this, and he chucked
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Speaker 4: them into the woods. So then I texted the guy
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Speaker 4: and I was like, you can either go like find
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Speaker 4: every single one of my cards and give me them back,
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Speaker 4: or like I'm reporting you to whatever it is, like
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Speaker 4: the frats. And so he went on to the woods,
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Speaker 4: got every single one and like returned them back to me,
25:27
Speaker 4: and they were all like filthy, dirty, like disgusting. I
25:31
Speaker 4: know one story of a girl who at a bar,
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Speaker 4: she was like previously getting with this guy and he,
25:40
Speaker 4: I guess just ended things with her. They were on
25:42
Speaker 4: bad terms, and so she like walked by him and
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Speaker 4: like kind of called him a name at the bar,
25:48
Speaker 4: and these two other girls ended up like totally like
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Speaker 4: jumping her and like pouring their drink on her. And
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Speaker 4: I know she had a broken foot and a concussion
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Speaker 4: for like weeks, and it was a huge thing in
25:58
Speaker 4: her sorority. She couldn't do like the recruitment because they
26:03
Speaker 4: didn't want to see. They didn't want new girls to
26:05
Speaker 4: see like a girl with a broken foot and wonder
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Speaker 4: what happened?
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Speaker 8: Okay, So my scandalous story was something that remained a
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Speaker 8: mystery for all four years that I went to my
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Speaker 8: school and was in my sorority, And it was something
26:26
Speaker 8: that happened freshman year and we found out about its
26:32
Speaker 8: senior year. Everyone would have mixers or date dashes with
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Speaker 8: the fraternities, the sororities and fraternities would and we had one.
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Speaker 8: And I have to add that when I was initiated
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Speaker 8: into my sorority, they finally told us that our sorority
26:52
Speaker 8: was immediately on probation for something that the girls the
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Speaker 8: previous year had done, and so the newly niche shaded
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Speaker 8: p and ms were suffering the consequences of the older girls.
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Speaker 8: So essentially we were on probation for the first semester,
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Speaker 8: could not have one singular party. Second semester, we had
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Speaker 8: our first mixer with one of our favorite fraternities. This
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Speaker 8: was a night that no one could remember. Everyone was
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Speaker 8: beyond hammered, you know, saying stuff that they shouldn't have
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Speaker 8: been saying to people that weren't even their friends. Everyone
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Speaker 8: was just ridiculously drunkuspelling secrets, helping up with boys, etc.
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Speaker 8: The next morning, we wake up from a message from
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Speaker 8: the president of the fraternity within our group chat, because
27:48
Speaker 8: our group mees were the way that parties and communication
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Speaker 8: happened between fraternities and sororities. We woke up to a
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Speaker 8: message from the president with a picture of of their logo,
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Speaker 8: their letters in their chapter room and there was spray
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Speaker 8: paint covering like writing awful things on the wall. And
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Speaker 8: immediately our president held an emergency meeting. It was like,
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Speaker 8: what the actual fuck who did this on our first mixer?
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Speaker 8: You have ruined like their fraternity chapter room.
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Speaker 6: La la lah.
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Speaker 8: This is so offensive because you also drew our letters
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Speaker 8: on their letters, so it's a flat out like, wasn't
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Speaker 8: just anyone random? They know it was us. They're never
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Speaker 8: going to want to mix with us ever again. There
28:44
Speaker 8: is so many threats throughout the rest of the semester.
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Speaker 8: In our group chat during every chapter about who the
28:53
Speaker 8: fuck spray painted on this fraternity's letters. It was kind
28:59
Speaker 8: of like a story that was never really forgotten. Then
29:03
Speaker 8: flash forward to senior year. We are at a sorority retreat,
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Speaker 8: which has always been so much fun. It's the most
29:12
Speaker 8: fun for the seniors because the seniors get extremely hammered.
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Speaker 8: We go to a reservoir and drink and do games
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Speaker 8: and bond. The seniors also tell stories, and the stories
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Speaker 8: everyone tells are very good and they're from the past
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Speaker 8: and they make everyone laugh. It's mainly more fun for
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Speaker 8: the seniors, especially because everyone's drunk. All of a sudden,
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Speaker 8: this adorable girl stands up to tell a story. And
29:42
Speaker 8: this adorable girl is one of my really, really close friends.
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Speaker 8: She was insanely brilliant. She was on standards, just a
29:51
Speaker 8: perfect human. Everyone adored her, loved her. All she says
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Speaker 8: is I am the one that spray painted the The
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Speaker 8: fraternity's letters, and everyone screamed because everyone knew who this
30:06
Speaker 8: girl was in the sorority, and it was a story
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Speaker 8: that was passed down throughout our sorority, and the fact
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Speaker 8: that it was her, it was like the most hilarious, obnoxious,
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Speaker 8: no one could have guessed person to ever do something
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Speaker 8: like that. So that was a scandal because she kept
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Speaker 8: that fucking secret and she kept it. Well, that's my
30:27
Speaker 8: scandalous story.
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Speaker 1: There you have it. You just heard some of the
30:31
Speaker 1: most scandalous stories from sororities across the country. We want
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Speaker 1: to thank the voices who shared what they witnessed first
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Speaker 1: had and for exposing the side of sorority life were
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Speaker 1: not supposed to know about.