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WAR of the ROSES: Sascha & Dave · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: He d I mean if you get free roses, it's a trap.
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  Speaker 1: War of the Roses starts right now on John Jay
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  Speaker 1: and Ridge one of four seven Kiss FM. John jing Rich,
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  Speaker 1: It's time for War of the Roses. You're in a relationship.
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  Speaker 1: You suspect somebody could be cheating, so you come to
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  Speaker 1: us to find out. We will find out for you.
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  Speaker 2: Sasha, good morning, Good morning.
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  Speaker 1: Who are we talking about? Who do you think is
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  Speaker 1: cheating on you?
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  Speaker 2: My boyfriend Dave, we've been together for a few years.
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  Speaker 2: We're taking things slow like we wanted, and everything's like
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  Speaker 2: really good so far, like and especially right now, like
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  Speaker 2: we've hit our stride. But so he has he has
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  Speaker 2: a daughter and she's graduating high school this year and
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  Speaker 2: school's like wrapping up like any week. And he has
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  Speaker 2: been talking to his ex like a lot, like and
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  Speaker 2: obviously I know that they share a daughter, Like, so fine, okay,
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  Speaker 2: but it's like it's still making me super uneasy. They're
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  Speaker 2: planning graduations in college. But like the problem is like
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  Speaker 2: he's one who left her. I know she's still in
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  Speaker 2: love with him, and she will call him randomly often
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  Speaker 2: and he picks up immediately no matter what we're doing.
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  Speaker 2: Like even if we're like mid conversation, he'll pick up
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  Speaker 2: immediately and it's just weird. And I just can't shake
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  Speaker 2: this ceiling like in my stomach every time, like this
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  Speaker 2: phone his phone light's up and her name's there, and
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  Speaker 2: like I really, honestly, I don't even know what to
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  Speaker 2: do with all of it. And I don't know. She's
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  Speaker 2: super rude and cold to me when I'm around, and
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  Speaker 2: I just feel like something's up.
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  Speaker 3: That's enough. But you know, the graduation thing, it's like
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  Speaker 3: you have to when you have kids. I speak from
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  Speaker 3: a little experience. You gotta just be cool for the
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  Speaker 3: sake of the kids, because you don't want them to
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  Speaker 3: be the thing. But the celebration and you are in
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  Speaker 3: more contact than you probably want to be because there's details, right.
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  Speaker 4: And Sasha can't like hop off on him because then
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  Speaker 4: she kind of looks like the crazy and she's like,
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  Speaker 4: this is my kid, Like what else do you expect?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what I mean, you're nicer. You're probably
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  Speaker 3: nicer to your Rex than you would have been because
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  Speaker 3: it's your kid and you want to make it special
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  Speaker 3: for them. So how did their relationship end?
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  Speaker 2: Honestly, like he was just kind of like done with
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  Speaker 2: her and like left her one day, like it was
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  Speaker 2: a really not a good wit end. And so that
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  Speaker 2: that's what makes me. It makes me feel like there's
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  Speaker 2: got to be still that blood, Like it can't be
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  Speaker 2: all this like Punky Dory call me anytime. It's just, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: it wasn't a good ending.
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  Speaker 1: Well, here's the thing too, I believe I thought I
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  Speaker 1: saw Oprah talk about this. If you have a child
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  Speaker 1: with someone and you break up and you go back
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  Speaker 1: and have sex with that person, that's not cheating.
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  Speaker 4: Said that she didn't just made.
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  Speaker 1: I think it was my friend Rob.
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  Speaker 4: I think the biggest red flag to me is that
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  Speaker 4: she is like rude and cold to you because either
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  Speaker 4: she thinks maybe like you're the reason their relationship ended,
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  Speaker 4: or you're the real reason their relationship can't rekindle all
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  Speaker 4: the All.
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  Speaker 1: Right, well, let's get him on the phone and see
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  Speaker 1: who sends the flowers to. What's his name, Sasha Da
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  Speaker 1: All right, we're gonna call Dave. See who sends the
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  Speaker 1: flowers too. You're ready call him?
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  Speaker 5: Ready?
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  Speaker 1: All right? War the Roses continues next with John Jay
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  Speaker 1: and Rich. John Jay and Rich, we're in the middle
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  Speaker 1: of War the Roses got Sasha on the line. Her boyfriend,
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  Speaker 1: Dave has a daughter that's about to graduate high.
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  Speaker 2: School, college, high school.
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  Speaker 1: High school. Dave has been talking a lot to his
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  Speaker 1: ex because they have a kid graduating, so that makes
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  Speaker 1: a lot of sense. But Sasha says, Dave's acting weird
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  Speaker 1: when he gets the phone calls from her, and now
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  Speaker 1: Sasha feels a little weird about it. That's pretty much
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  Speaker 1: the whole situation, Ry, Sasha, I hit.
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  Speaker 2: It right, Yeah, yeah, I just need like peace of
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  Speaker 2: mind here, Ca.
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  Speaker 1: You're ready to call him?
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  Speaker 5: I'm ready.
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  Speaker 4: Hello, Hi, there is Dave available speaking perfect Hi Dave.
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  Speaker 4: So my name is Charlotte and with a new company,
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  Speaker 4: we're called J and R Flowers. Remember that, because that's
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  Speaker 4: the whole point of this is to get the word out.
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  Speaker 4: We've actually chosen you to be a part of our
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  Speaker 4: social media campaign, so you get to be a micro influencer.
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  Speaker 4: Here's why it's really cool for you, Dave. You get
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  Speaker 4: to send our most romantic bouquet of flowers to whoever
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  Speaker 4: you want. It's totally free for you and every turn.
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  Speaker 4: We just hope that maybe you post about us on
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  Speaker 4: whichever social media platform you use the most and it
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  Speaker 4: is our pure passion bouquet, so you get to surprise
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  Speaker 4: somebody special in your life.
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  Speaker 6: That was a lot of information, just a little flowers.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, perfect.
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  Speaker 5: Okay.
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  Speaker 4: So a lot of people are like, what's the catch,
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  Speaker 4: You're gonna get my credit card information or something like that,
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  Speaker 4: and we are absolutely not. We just want to get
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  Speaker 4: the word out.
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  Speaker 2: The only yeah yeah, So the only.
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  Speaker 4: Real information that I need from you is we're going
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  Speaker 4: to send the flowers out with a nice little car.
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  Speaker 4: And I was just tell people, this is your chance
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  Speaker 4: to personalize it. So depending on the nature of your relationship,
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  Speaker 4: you know, some people get fun in the card or
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  Speaker 4: a little flirty.
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  Speaker 1: Some people get like, oh, you know.
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  Speaker 6: Like whoa I So what kind of flowers are they?
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  Speaker 4: It's our pure passion Okay, So it's a dozen long
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  Speaker 4: stem red roses and it comes in a really nice
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  Speaker 4: crystal vase, so definitely like a wow piece. So just
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  Speaker 4: let me know what you want on the card. We'll
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  Speaker 4: start with the message and then we'll go name an
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  Speaker 4: address and I'll give you a time that they'll be delivered.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, my god, it's so bad at this stuff. There's
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  Speaker 6: something like you mean the world to me, I love you.
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  Speaker 4: That's very sweet.
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  Speaker 3: You mean the world to me.
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  Speaker 4: I love you, Okay, And then who did you want
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  Speaker 4: to address this to?
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  Speaker 1: Sasha?
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  Speaker 4: Sasha, She's gonna love this a nice gift.
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  Speaker 2: I like, super, I'm like so confused, Like, hold on
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  Speaker 2: a second, Dave, Hi, What yeah? I called the radio
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  Speaker 2: station and like, I just want to know why you're
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  Speaker 2: like always talking to.
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  Speaker 6: Your eggs, Sasha, are you serious right now? What is happening?
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  Speaker 6: You call the radio station for what?
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  Speaker 2: Just because I needed to know the truth, Like I
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  Speaker 2: just need information. I'm just I need it. Oh my god?
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  Speaker 6: What truth? There's nothing to be untruthful about whatever this is.
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  Speaker 6: It feels childish to me.
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  Speaker 2: Hey childish, Dave. She's the one that's literally calling you
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  Speaker 2: all the time and you answer immediately every single time,
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  Speaker 2: like you're texting all day. And I know it's about
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  Speaker 2: like graduation stuff and like going to college and parties.
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  Speaker 2: Like I get it, but she also hates me, Like
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  Speaker 2: what am I supposed to think?
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  Speaker 6: You're supposed to think that I'm being a dad. That's
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  Speaker 6: my daughter's mom, you know that, right? Like of course
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  Speaker 6: we're talking more right now. It is graduation, Seaman. She's
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  Speaker 6: the mother of my child. Okay, like she helped me
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  Speaker 6: raise this amazing little kid. It's not romantic, it's biological.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, do you get that? I don't know, I get it,
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  Speaker 2: but like, can't you understand like why this would feel
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  Speaker 2: weird from my side? Like I get all that.
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  Speaker 6: I mean I do, I do. You don't understand it?
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  Speaker 6: And honestly, I kind of think that this is like
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  Speaker 6: part of what our age difference leads to. Like you're,
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  Speaker 6: you know, ten years younger than these, so sometimes I
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  Speaker 6: think we handle stuff a little differently, like maturity wise.
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  Speaker 1: You know that that was a still good for you.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know why we're bringing age into this. Like
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  Speaker 2: so now you're saying I'm a mature like that. That's
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  Speaker 2: not alas.
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  Speaker 6: I'm not saying it to insult you. I'm just saying
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  Speaker 6: that I've already done this whole toxic fighting thing before
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  Speaker 6: it and I'm not interested in it again. I just
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  Speaker 6: don't have the energy. You know. I want communication, not tests.
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  Speaker 2: Well I wasn't testing you. I want peace of mind.
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  Speaker 2: I just I don't know what other way to get it.
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  Speaker 6: Then, Okay, well I need you to understand that. You know,
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  Speaker 6: if we're talking getting really serious here. Maybe marriage, then
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  Speaker 6: my kid is always going to come first. Is the
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  Speaker 6: best thing that's ever happened.
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  Speaker 1: To talk to your kid all the time, It's.
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  Speaker 6: Going to be my priority.
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  Speaker 4: Maybe you talk to your kid all the time instead
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  Speaker 4: of your ex.
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  Speaker 6: That's her mom.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I get that you can care.
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  Speaker 4: But now she is getting to the age where she's
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  Speaker 4: getting into adulthood and you can communicate more with her
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  Speaker 4: rather than her mom. You may still have to communicate
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  Speaker 4: on parental issues and whatnot. But I think it's like
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  Speaker 4: you have to decide is your relationship worth that, Like,
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  Speaker 4: which relationship is more important with you. She's not saying
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  Speaker 4: don't have a relationship with your kid. She's saying it's
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  Speaker 4: making me uncomfortable the relationship you are carrying on with
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  Speaker 4: your ex, which I think as your new partner. It's
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  Speaker 4: fair to say.
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  Speaker 6: Being carried on with my ex. My ex is the
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  Speaker 6: mother of my child. The only time we ever communicate
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  Speaker 6: is when it's about my kid. So it's it's a
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  Speaker 6: double standard saying you want me to have a relationship
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  Speaker 6: with my daughter but not her mom. That doesn't make any.
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  Speaker 3: Sense, not a double standard, Sasha, would it feel would
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  Speaker 3: it feel any better, like kind of here's what I
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  Speaker 3: do if I get if I get a text from VX,
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  Speaker 3: I'll actually talk to my wife. But I'm like, hey,
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  Speaker 3: they're asking about this, I'm gonna tell them this for
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  Speaker 3: about the kids. Just so you kind of can keep
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  Speaker 3: the communication open. So Sasha's not wondering what's going on.
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  Speaker 3: She's got a clear picture, Like you're not having communications
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  Speaker 3: communication communications.
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  Speaker 1: So Sasha is sharing her insecurities, Dave is sharing his
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  Speaker 1: insecurities or his vibes. So you guys need to communicate,
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  Speaker 1: and I think you're in the right path. So there
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  Speaker 1: is a there is no end of this relationship. Plus
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  Speaker 1: Dave sent the flowers to her, Yeah, which is great.
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  Speaker 1: Yet yeah, yeah he did. By the way, On a
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  Speaker 1: little side note, I gotta say something, Sasha, Rich and
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  Speaker 1: I have been doing War of the Roses for about
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  Speaker 1: twenty five years, don't but twenty four years. Twenty four years.
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  Speaker 1: So when you say to him, I called the radio,
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  Speaker 1: there's a lot of other shows that have ripped us
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  Speaker 1: off and doing this segment now, so I would prefer
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  Speaker 1: that you say, hey, I called John Jay and Rich
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  Speaker 1: to do War of the Roses, not just the radio,
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  Speaker 1: not just some radio show because there's all out of
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  Speaker 1: them doing it.
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  Speaker 4: Because that's what I called the radio.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah it is.
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  Speaker 1: You did call the radio, but you did call John
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  Speaker 1: Jay Rich home of War the Roses. Because now I
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  Speaker 1: get mad at Kyle's like imitation is a form of flattery.
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  Speaker 1: It is, but it's also frustrating. Yes, it's also frustrating.
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  Speaker 2: See I get it. I'm like, loyal to your radio.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you, she's loyal to the radio.
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  Speaker 1: She's good. People, suck it up. Stop talking. Actually, there
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  Speaker 1: ya go, Sash, shut there you go. Okay, let's all
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  Speaker 1: be happy for one another. Now, all right, thank you
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  Speaker 1: guys for going there.
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  Speaker 6: There you go.
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  Speaker 1: Dave, you got our hearts. He's loyal, Sasha. Come on, guys,
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  Speaker 1: come on now, all right. That's War the Roses, you guys,
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  Speaker 1: John J. Rich