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The Daily Mess The Battle To Be Right Plus Why Do We Say Cold Hard Cash · Arroe Collins Like It's Live

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  Speaker 1: Absolutely. There are a ton of podcasts out there. Aren't
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  Speaker 1: they saying something like a million four or 4.1 million
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  Speaker 1: or twazillion or gazillion? Where are you going to find them?
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  Speaker 1: That's been my goal, to create Arrow.net, A-R-R-O-E.net, 21 different
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  Speaker 1: podcasts in one place. One of the biggest ones, that voice.
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  Speaker 1: That voice, yeah, from NBC's The Voice. I've spent the
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  Speaker 1: past 11 years with those who have been featured. Well,
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  Speaker 1: let's listen to their conversations. Only on Arrow.net, A-R-R-O-E.net. Enjoy
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  Speaker 1: your exploration. Hey, it's me, that question guy. You know,
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  Speaker 1: the dude that's always asking questions because it's so much
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  Speaker 1: fun to do the research. For instance, can we stop
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  Speaker 1: being the generation that endlessly thinks everything we say is right? Plus,
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  Speaker 1: why do we always say cold hard cash? I mean,
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  Speaker 1: it's everywhere. It's in commercials. It's in TV shows. It's
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  Speaker 1: in movies. Cold hard cash. My name is Harold. I'm
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  Speaker 1: a daily writer, a silent wolf. I stand on the
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  Speaker 1: sidelines to do nothing but watch, listen, study, then activate.
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  Speaker 1: I call it the daily mess. It is a chronological
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  Speaker 1: walkthrough in everyday world. It is my morning writing. When
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  Speaker 1: a subject arrives inside of me, dude, it's time to
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  Speaker 1: dig in. It's still keeping that daily journal, but by
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  Speaker 1: doing the research, the picture is going to become clearer.
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  Speaker 1: This is the daily mess. Can we try just a
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  Speaker 1: little bit harder on not always trying to be right
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  Speaker 1: versus wrong? Uh-oh, this is the real deal. No matter
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  Speaker 1: how much you think you're right, there is a big, big, big,
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  Speaker 1: big chance that you are so damn wrong. It usually
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  Speaker 1: happens when a person becomes extremely committed to defending their answer.
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  Speaker 1: Here's why it goes wrong, and I'm not shocked by this.
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  Speaker 1: Number one, overconfidence. I know I'm right. What are you?
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  Speaker 1: I mean, a lot of us suffer from confirmation bias.
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  Speaker 1: It's when you dismiss the evidence against you. Uh-oh, how
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  Speaker 1: about this one? When we want to be right, but
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  Speaker 1: are very wrong because we're forced to explain it. Then
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  Speaker 1: it's refusing to change the conversation. Oh yeah, totally a
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  Speaker 1: false precision and clearly we're missing the obvious. It's usually
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  Speaker 1: overlooked because we're spending way too much time trying to
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  Speaker 1: prove ourselves. Just remember one thing, being committed to truth
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  Speaker 1: is very different than being committed to to being right.
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  Speaker 1: Truth versus right. Here's what research shows. The person willing
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  Speaker 1: to say, you know, I just might be wrong is
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  Speaker 1: actually right, which I guess is my way of saying
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  Speaker 1: I might be wrong. But in reality, if you step back,
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  Speaker 1: guess who's right? Look at me. Look at me. I'm Errol.
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  Speaker 1: Coming up next, why do they always say cold, hard cash? Hey,
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  Speaker 1: thanks for coming back to The Daily Mess. They've been
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  Speaker 1: doing it for decades, or have they? Saying cold, hard cash.
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  Speaker 1: We see it in TV commercials. We see it on
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  Speaker 1: TV shows and even movies. Well, it kind of means
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  Speaker 1: exactly what it's expressing. Cold, hard cash. It's real, physical money.
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  Speaker 1: Here's the funny twist in this story. Uh, who is
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  Speaker 1: using cold, hard cash today? I mean, are we talking
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  Speaker 1: about paper bills and coins? Cold, hard cash? Here's how
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  Speaker 1: it breaks down. Cash is money you spend right now.
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  Speaker 1: Hard is tangible and unquestionably real. And cold adds an emphasis.
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  Speaker 1: Did you get that? suggesting that something is very solid, impersonal,
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  Speaker 1: and undeniably cold, hard cash. The phrase first appeared not
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  Speaker 1: in the 18th or the 17th century or any time
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  Speaker 1: during the Shakespearean period. Now it was the 20th century.
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  Speaker 1: We get the blame. It's not an original thought. No way.
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  Speaker 1: Before cold, hard cash, our great-grandparents were saying just hard cash. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's it. Hard cash. Well, why is this even important?
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  Speaker 1: Because it really is a mental thing. It's psychology that
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  Speaker 1: gives reason to this. Cash feels different. You can hold
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  Speaker 1: on to it. You can count it. You can hand
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  Speaker 1: it over to someone. And when it's gone, it's gone.
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  Speaker 1: That's why cold, hard cash really has no excuses. It
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  Speaker 1: has no promises. I mean, show me the money. The cha-ching.
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  Speaker 1: What's money called today? ATM. ATM. apple cash app and
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  Speaker 1: uh do you guys offer tap i'm intrigued by this
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  Speaker 1: because what are we going to be saying in five
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  Speaker 1: to ten years when it comes to cold hard cash
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  Speaker 1: the pennies are gone now what's next i'm thinking it's
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  Speaker 1: going to be the nickel i'm arrow and that's the
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  Speaker 1: daily mess