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The Boundary Every Eldest Daughter Needs to Hear

Don’t feel like doing something? Give it to the eldest daughter. She’ll handle it.

For years, I was my family’s unofficial help desk, until I realized it was never my job to fix everything. Plus, the difference between selfishness and a boundary.

Share this with the eldest daughter who’s carrying everyone’s stuff, and follow so you don’t miss the next lesson.

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