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BONUS: The Valley, VPR, and Vision Update! · Untraditionally Lala

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  Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous. It is Lala Kent and my brother.
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  Speaker 2: Easton back in our cozy little space, ready to do it.
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  Speaker 1: Q and A. You know, Ocean started school today and it.
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  Speaker 2: Is her last first day of school with this group.
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  Speaker 2: They were all in the same class and now it's
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  Speaker 2: their first no, their last first day of school at
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  Speaker 2: this school and already and you want know who brought
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  Speaker 2: that up? Sena in the group chat, I was like,
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  Speaker 2: do you spend you with time?
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  Speaker 1: Thank you?
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, I literally talk to you about this all
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  Speaker 2: the time, Shina that time passing cripples.
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  Speaker 3: Melly, would you bring it up? I have to tell
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  Speaker 3: everybody who's listening. We were in the car yesterday, just
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  Speaker 3: the fam, and Lauren says she gets up out of
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  Speaker 3: sleep because time. Yes, that is wild and you do
• 1:03
  Speaker 3: need to be medicated. Just that is wild.
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  Speaker 4: It's time. Guess here's the thing.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, it is sad that it's the last first day
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  Speaker 3: with this group, but how magical you get to do
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  Speaker 3: it with another group, Like I.
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  Speaker 1: Don't think about that at all. I'm like a new group.
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  Speaker 2: That means I don't know you, I don't know if
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  Speaker 2: I like you, and I don't know that I.
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  Speaker 1: Fuck with you.
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  Speaker 4: How exciting that you get to find all those things.
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  Speaker 2: Out and see, this is why I should be medicated,
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  Speaker 2: because then I could have that mindset.
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  Speaker 1: Instead, I go to bed.
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  Speaker 2: I wake up at one thirty every single night or
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  Speaker 2: morning and go, oh my god.
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  Speaker 1: When I wake up.
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  Speaker 4: Time has passed.
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  Speaker 1: Time has passed.
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  Speaker 2: Ocean is going to be different, so says older. And
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  Speaker 2: now I panic because that also means that when time passes,
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  Speaker 2: people die.
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  Speaker 1: All right, let's move on. I'm freaking out.
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  Speaker 4: I need a fucking beata blocker.
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  Speaker 2: So we're doing a Q and A today because the
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  Speaker 2: reason I brought up the first day of school was
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  Speaker 2: because it's chaotic the first day of school. I can't
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  Speaker 2: even imagine what it's going to be like when the
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  Speaker 2: curriculum is more than just finger painting.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I really.
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  Speaker 4: Thinking about that last night.
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  Speaker 3: Thank god I don't have to sit down and do
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  Speaker 3: her homework with her, because I will have no idea
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  Speaker 3: what to do.
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  Speaker 4: But that's your job.
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  Speaker 2: We'll be hiring a tutor because if I am responsible,
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  Speaker 2: I can barely do division.
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  Speaker 1: I can't even multiply.
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  Speaker 4: Here's the thing.
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  Speaker 3: I'm going to stand behind her and like that. That's
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  Speaker 3: right with a calculator hidden.
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  Speaker 4: Yep, you did it. Yeah, there's no other way I
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  Speaker 4: can do it.
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  Speaker 2: I'm sheer panic. So that's why we're doing the Q
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  Speaker 2: and A today. The first question from that's Missus Castro
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  Speaker 2: underscore one two six. Would you ever consider doing a
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  Speaker 2: reality show of just your family?
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  Speaker 1: I would watch.
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  Speaker 3: I I'm gonna interrupt you because you're the only one
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  Speaker 3: who doesn't want to do it.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like that's no. Mom doesn't want to.
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  Speaker 3: Do that at all, and that's the sad thing because
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  Speaker 3: mom is is reality gold.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I've had people come in and gauge my level
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  Speaker 2: of interest and it's at a solid negative five million.
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  Speaker 4: I would love to do a reality show with you guys.
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  Speaker 2: The thing is is my family is my safe space.
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  Speaker 2: And at the end of the day, everyone knows that
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  Speaker 2: reality TV that doesn't have the dramatic effect and it
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  Speaker 2: just can't be happy, go lucky in the moments that
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  Speaker 2: we are arguing.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want.
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  Speaker 2: That put out for people to judge and say I'm
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  Speaker 2: on Eastern side, I'm on Lisa's side, I'm on La
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  Speaker 2: la side.
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  Speaker 3: But we don't read comments, so it doesn't matter. We
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  Speaker 3: just live our authentic life.
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  Speaker 2: But sometimes it's hard Easton to not see those things.
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  Speaker 2: You go into the explore page and you see something
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  Speaker 2: that you did not intentionally want, like you didn't search
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  Speaker 2: for it.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I can see that. I would love to
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  Speaker 4: do it for the question.
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  Speaker 1: For the question, I would like to really, Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: What are you kidding me? Like we living our vitual
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  Speaker 4: lives with a camera. It is so fun. Our lives
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  Speaker 4: are fun. Mom, it is.
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  Speaker 2: Fun, but it's not fun for actually people would beg
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  Speaker 2: to differ that watching.
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  Speaker 1: Fun is fun.
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  Speaker 4: Are arguing is fun?
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  Speaker 1: That is true?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's right.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, last night.
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  Speaker 4: I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 3: But what we all fight about is like stupid crumbs.
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  Speaker 1: It's very stupid.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, because when we actually it is something I really
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  Speaker 3: don't think we ever really fight it.
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  Speaker 1: We get it really light hearted argument.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, Like that's where I'm saying, like I don't we
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  Speaker 3: don't fight. We have little arguments, but they're fun.
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  Speaker 2: You know, for us being around each other twenty four
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  Speaker 2: to seven, you would think that there would be more
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  Speaker 2: blow ups or like I'm sick of you, get out
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  Speaker 2: of my face.
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  Speaker 3: And that just doesn't know And that's where like I
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  Speaker 3: think of the show a lot and I'm like, there
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  Speaker 3: really is like nothing that I would ever be afraid
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  Speaker 3: of putting out there because we never honestly have.
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  Speaker 4: Blow up fights.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, we hang out and we have the funnest conversations.
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  Speaker 3: Lisa just being fucking Lisa and Gigi is okay, So
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  Speaker 3: stop tears.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna stop you.
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  Speaker 4: Though.
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  Speaker 2: I remember having conversations with people who are now on
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  Speaker 2: the Valley who had this, We had this same exact.
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  Speaker 2: They thought, my family's fun, this is how we.
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  Speaker 1: Do things, and then it shifts.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and then you stop being who you are because
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  Speaker 2: you've seen things in the comments section and you get
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  Speaker 2: worried and you're no longer like I enjoy who you
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  Speaker 2: are right now, Easton.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want you to change.
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  Speaker 2: And you can say all day long that a reality
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  Speaker 2: show would be fun and that would never happen.
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  Speaker 4: It happens. Well, I would take your advice on that
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  Speaker 4: because you've done it.
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  Speaker 2: And I don't want Mom to ever change either, No,
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  Speaker 2: and she would it just it naturally happens, So I'm not.
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to set my family up like that.
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  Speaker 1: That's where I'm at, Okay.
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  Speaker 2: By underscore Lynn unders score May says, how is your eye.
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  Speaker 2: So I had another person ask me like, can you
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  Speaker 2: go into more depth about what happened with your eye?
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  Speaker 1: So back on Mother's Day, and.
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  Speaker 2: I won't bore everybody with a long winded story.
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  Speaker 1: But on Mother's Day I made a very.
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  Speaker 2: Vain post about my eye and I was like, it's ugly.
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  Speaker 1: Remove this shit.
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  Speaker 2: Cut to I am set to leave the country to
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  Speaker 2: film something. I then feel like we have to take
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  Speaker 2: care of this situation for vanity purposes. I don't want
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  Speaker 2: to show up on camera with this on my eye,
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  Speaker 2: so I go to see an ophthalmologist rather than an optometrist. Now,
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  Speaker 2: the optometrist originally said that's an inflamed penguecula, which is
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  Speaker 2: from sun exposure dust when just you know the elements
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  Speaker 2: of being outside and it's almost like a callous on
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  Speaker 2: your hand protectant that your eye forms. The only reason
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  Speaker 2: I started tweaking out was because again I didn't want
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  Speaker 2: to be on camera with that on my eye. So
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  Speaker 2: that mixed with the vein post, I then felt like
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  Speaker 2: I needed to update you guys that the ophthalmologist said
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  Speaker 2: this is pre cancer on your eye and we need
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  Speaker 2: to start you on chemo drops. That sounds terrifying. It's
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  Speaker 2: a topical chemo. It's called five FU and they paired
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  Speaker 2: it with lotomax, which is a steroid I had to
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  Speaker 2: do or have to do those. I'm not done yet.
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  Speaker 2: Three rounds a week on, three weeks off, and in
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  Speaker 2: that time I see my ophthalmologist twice.
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  Speaker 3: The first week off and then the week before you
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  Speaker 3: start correct correct.
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  Speaker 2: So the reason because so many people were like, you
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  Speaker 2: haven't updated us, the reason for that is I was
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  Speaker 2: so just blindsided by the time I made the initial
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  Speaker 2: post of vanity, get this off my fucking eye, to
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  Speaker 2: oh we're talking about my vision here to where I
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  Speaker 2: didn't want to talk about it because I didn't want
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  Speaker 2: to jinx it. The first two rounds of the chemo
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  Speaker 2: drops knock on Wood has gone splendidly well, and the
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  Speaker 2: doctor is thrilled about the progress that we're making and
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  Speaker 2: the die that they put in. Literally two days ago
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  Speaker 2: last week because it's Monday, there were almost no signs
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  Speaker 2: of pre cancer cells anymore.
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  Speaker 1: Knock on Wood.
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  Speaker 2: So I start round three this week is this is
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  Speaker 2: my last round. So I haven't kept anyone updated because
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  Speaker 2: I want to know. I don't want to come out
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  Speaker 2: and here I am coming out talking about this, but
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  Speaker 2: so many people have asked, if you have something on
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  Speaker 2: your eye, you guys, I highly recommend going to an ophthalmologist,
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  Speaker 2: not an optometrist.
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  Speaker 1: I was misdiagnosed.
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  Speaker 2: Had I not had to leave the country to go
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  Speaker 2: do something, I would have just sat there and been like,
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to go away when it goes away.
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  Speaker 2: I never in a million years I have twenty twenty vision.
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  Speaker 2: I never thought, and I asked. I asked the optimology ophthalmologist.
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  Speaker 1: What causes this? And she goes, honestly, just bad luck.
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  Speaker 2: You didn't wear sunglasses less than maybe someone else. You
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  Speaker 2: didn't do anything wrong.
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  Speaker 1: And it was just wild. So there's the update.
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  Speaker 2: I'm praying to God that after round three is done
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  Speaker 2: and I go in, they still say.
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  Speaker 1: We're all good.
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  Speaker 2: Here, I did ask, what do we do after? You know,
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  Speaker 2: God willing all is good? She said, I'm going to
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  Speaker 2: see you at six months on the dot for the
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  Speaker 2: rest of your life. That is what you will have
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  Speaker 2: to do. I'm like, the fucking eye doctor, Maya right,
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  Speaker 2: It's like every six months, really, isn't it.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah? I go twice a year. Is that enough? I
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  Speaker 4: don't know if I'm gonna get judged, but I go
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  Speaker 4: twice a year.
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  Speaker 1: I thought you went like only once a year.
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  Speaker 4: Oh no, do you?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, but I do a whole bit.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like water picker floss tongues when hydrogen po.
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  Speaker 4: Thing wrong with my teeth. By the way, that's good. Well,
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  Speaker 4: twice a year.
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  Speaker 2: So that's what happened with the eye. And that's why
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  Speaker 2: I haven't kept anyone updated. I just felt like I
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  Speaker 2: was going to jinx it.
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  Speaker 4: You yeah, you you you are that type of person.
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  Speaker 3: If I talk about it, it won't go away, or
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  Speaker 3: I'll what I careful.
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  Speaker 4: What you wish for? You're that type of person.
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  Speaker 2: Well, in my mind, it's like maybe if I never
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  Speaker 2: would have done the Vein post about how ugly it.
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  Speaker 1: Was, maybe it would have never been. And it's like, no,
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  Speaker 1: that's not how it works at all.
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  Speaker 4: It's just that the whole time, which just fast.
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  Speaker 1: The whole time.
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  Speaker 2: Susan m with three US eighty nine says, what do
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  Speaker 2: you think of all the viewers saying this season of
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  Speaker 2: The Valley is forced and dark? I have not seen
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  Speaker 2: anyone say that it's forced. I've heard a lot of
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  Speaker 2: people say that it's dark.
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  Speaker 1: There has to be.
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  Speaker 2: And this goes back to you talking about like our
• 11:01
  Speaker 2: fights being fun, and I'm like, people crave the drama.
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  Speaker 2: I think people are actually starting to really want some lightheartedness.
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  Speaker 3: It's yeah, I agree. We've talked about this a lot.
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  Speaker 3: That's why I feel like if I've said, like.
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  Speaker 4: Schwortz even you like they need.
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  Speaker 3: Somebody, they need somebody to like lighten it up because
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  Speaker 3: everybody is about their business in there and.
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  Speaker 4: That's great, but like there's no like light joke to
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  Speaker 4: bring it out right.
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  Speaker 1: Like everyone goes in with a machine.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I will say the thing for me that I
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  Speaker 2: think it's missing is the really deep rooted friendships. I
• 11:45
  Speaker 2: don't feel like there's enough at stake.
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  Speaker 1: Does that make sense?
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  Speaker 4: No, it does.
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  Speaker 2: It's like there's just like it's very up like surface
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  Speaker 2: where I'm I want, like the thing that made vander
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  Speaker 2: pump Roles so special as you could be like, wow,
• 12:00
  Speaker 2: they've been roommates for ten years before this show even
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  Speaker 2: came to be, you know. Yeah, So I remember entering
• 12:09
  Speaker 2: vander pump Roles and people being like when we were
• 12:13
  Speaker 2: filming the reunion, they're like, you don't know us La lad,
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  Speaker 2: this group has history, and I was so intimidated by
• 12:18
  Speaker 2: that because I felt like such an outsider. And now
• 12:21
  Speaker 2: I'm sitting here and I'm like, you know nothing about us.
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  Speaker 1: We got history.
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  Speaker 4: Funny how the shoe goes around?
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  Speaker 1: I know, right, were just passing the shoe nicely. But
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  Speaker 1: I have heard it's very very dark.
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  Speaker 4: And the couple that I've watched are very very.
• 12:39
  Speaker 1: Dark, especially Jackson Brittany.
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  Speaker 4: What couple, No, just the whole thing.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, a couple of episodes, the couplet, the couple, Like.
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  Speaker 4: The couple of episodes I watched were very dark.
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  Speaker 1: All right, so we're about to get a little dark.
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  Speaker 2: Lynn's underscore Mullins, Did you know about Brock's affair? Yes,
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  Speaker 2: I did, but not for a while. So that Glamour
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  Speaker 2: article came out today, Shina called me and said, I
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  Speaker 2: just want to give you the heads up, like tomorrow
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  Speaker 2: this article is coming out with the excerpt, and like,
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  Speaker 2: I may need to tap you in. I'm very nervous.
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  Speaker 2: I won't share exactly what she said on the phone
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  Speaker 2: because that's between she and her husband. But I thought
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  Speaker 2: the excerpt that Glamour pulled from her book was beautifully written,
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  Speaker 2: well done, mark my words. I truly believe that it
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  Speaker 2: will be okay.
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  Speaker 1: I love it.
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  Speaker 2: My Good Side, a memoir by Seena She will be
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  Speaker 2: a New York Times bestseller. Brittany Howard three two one says,
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  Speaker 2: has your opinion of Brock change since it has come
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  Speaker 2: out that he had an affair? So I've I've I've
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  Speaker 2: had time to process it. Not that that matters. I'm
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  Speaker 2: not in the relationship. Brock has always been a tremendous
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  Speaker 2: not always. We've had our ups and downs, and I've
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  Speaker 2: you know, said some things to him and you know,
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  Speaker 2: called out some red flags to me. But since then,
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  Speaker 2: what I have watched is him be a great father
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  Speaker 2: to Summer Moon. I've seen him with Ocean and Sosa,
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  Speaker 2: and I just find him to be a very hands on,
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  Speaker 2: great dad.
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  Speaker 3: Every time I see him around, he is always very
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  Speaker 3: hands on and on top of everything.
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  Speaker 4: He's a good father.
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  Speaker 1: And people can say whatever they want about his past.
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  Speaker 2: I certainly did. What I know about life is it
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  Speaker 2: doesn't always go as we planned. There are a million
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  Speaker 2: moments that I look back on in my own life
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  Speaker 2: and go, damn, you know, if I could get a redo,
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  Speaker 2: I would really do that differently. I know for a
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  Speaker 2: fact he feels that way.
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  Speaker 1: The moment. And this is my own opinion, This is.
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  Speaker 2: Not what I feel people should do in a relationship
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  Speaker 2: if they've been cheated on. For me, the moment that
• 15:00
  Speaker 2: you find out that your person has cheated on you,
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  Speaker 2: if you decide to stay, that is you forgiving that
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  Speaker 2: person and you have to find a way to move
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  Speaker 2: on from it. Yes, you cannot hold it over their
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  Speaker 2: head forever. And by the way, I'm not saying that
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  Speaker 2: she is doing that, because it's just me talking. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I know that I'm the type of person that would
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  Speaker 2: hold it over your head for the rest of your life.
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  Speaker 1: Any little fight.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you want the grocery stores because you're a fucking cheater,
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  Speaker 2: You're a low life, fucking loser.
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  Speaker 4: No, I guess you would be like, oh, you forgot
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  Speaker 4: the quinoa? Who are you texting this time? You wouldn't
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  Speaker 4: be able.
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  Speaker 2: To leave the house or text or take a phone
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  Speaker 2: call without me wondering who are you talking to?
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  Speaker 1: I call you? You miss my phone call? Who you fucking?
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  Speaker 1: I would have to just be done.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, but there's a lot of people who aren't.
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  Speaker 2: No, and you're gonna find out in the book and
• 15:52
  Speaker 2: you know. I'm sure Shina will do a podcast about
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  Speaker 2: it and her thoughts and whatever. I don't want to
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  Speaker 2: share too much about her.
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  Speaker 4: What a story.
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  Speaker 1: First, it's her story, and I'm just here to support her.
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  Speaker 2: And tell what we know and say what we know
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  Speaker 2: from my perspective on cheating, you know, because she's gonna
• 16:10
  Speaker 2: have a fabulous party, and I have a new pair
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  Speaker 2: of shoes i'd like to wear and.
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  Speaker 1: I have nowhere to wear them. What am I gonna
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  Speaker 1: wear six inch heels to my daughter's pick up? Actually,
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: there's a really hot dat at pickup, so I might.
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  Speaker 1: I might.
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  Speaker 4: Guys, don't even.
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  Speaker 1: I will be walking up in my new Jimmy choes.
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  Speaker 3: I'll start taking her to school every day now and
• 16:31
  Speaker 3: you can stay at home.
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  Speaker 1: He's really hot. People have asked me are you dating?
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: And I say, I prefer to say that I'm talking
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: to men, because when you say I'm talking to a
• 16:43
  Speaker 2: man or men or whatever, a guy, it means it's
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: very casual. Right the moment you say I'm dating, it's
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: opening this world of like there's potential for it to go.
• 16:56
  Speaker 4: Somewhere, and so you're closed off.
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: I'm not why a man? Can I tell you?
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: If a man did what I did and said I
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: just want kids, I got an egg donor and a surrogate,
• 17:08
  Speaker 2: people would.
• 17:08
  Speaker 3: Be like, oh, that's what I want to do, and
• 17:10
  Speaker 3: nobody's doing that to me, So done it.
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: It's just words. Okay, it's just fucking worse.
• 17:15
  Speaker 4: All right. If there's any guys out here that have
• 17:17
  Speaker 4: done what.
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: She did, they would be applauded.
• 17:21
  Speaker 2: I go out and do it, and everyone's like, Uh,
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: she's so wounded. How's she going to explain that that
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: she doesn't have a dad.
• 17:28
  Speaker 4: The only reason why.
• 17:29
  Speaker 3: People say that is because they're taking your old story of.
• 17:36
  Speaker 4: The man who shall not be named.
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: In a box.
• 17:41
  Speaker 4: Yes, that's the only thing is because you had a bad.
• 17:43
  Speaker 3: Relationship and now you're doing these So they're like, oh,
• 17:46
  Speaker 3: the relationship has done.
• 17:47
  Speaker 4: It without moved on from all and that's the thing.
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: So I moved on from all events you have.
• 17:53
  Speaker 4: People have it.
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: Okay, well they should because they were directly affective.
• 17:58
  Speaker 3: But no, that's the only reason I'm saying you get
• 18:01
  Speaker 3: that is because I think people are putting you in
• 18:03
  Speaker 3: that box.
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: Wow, you're a fucking genius. That's actually true. I'm sure,
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: I'm sure of it.
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: You nailed it on the head.
• 18:09
  Speaker 4: Did I just throw a pin in it?
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's not the right tur or whatever.
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: Kylie Nowell ninety five, I currently have a two year
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: old and a four month old. Advice on being a
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: new mama of two. She's got a boy and a girl,
• 18:22
  Speaker 2: a lot.
• 18:22
  Speaker 4: Of red Bulls, probably red bull be twelve.
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: No, but can I tell you there is a tremendous
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: shift when two.
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: Kids enter the world.
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: Okay, because you're constantly trying to get two babies ready.
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: One's happy than one's screaming. Then they're both screaming. It's
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: just a lot.
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: I think my.
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: Advice would be two and it's easier said than done.
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: You just have to roll with it. Zero expectations. You
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: wake up and to whatever you believe in, say, God, Universe,
• 18:59
  Speaker 2: it is in your hands, and just make me capable today.
• 19:04
  Speaker 4: Just get me through the day and we'll be all right.
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: And you know what survival? Survival?
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: Do you think that I wanted to give my ten
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: month old screen time on the way home from Texas? No,
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: but she's screaming bloody murder, and so she's gonna be
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: watching Miss Rachel. Do you think I want to put
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: headphones on her No, so I didn't fill the whole
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: plane had to listen to Phonics Phonics Fahniics song the
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: thing everybody.
• 19:29
  Speaker 4: Everybody on a plane know somebody with a kid?
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree, And coming from Texas, the whole plane
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: was filled with kids.
• 19:37
  Speaker 3: I've been on a plane with multiple kids and I'm
• 19:39
  Speaker 3: not kidding you. I'll put my headphones in I don't
• 19:41
  Speaker 3: even hear them, and like the dad will look at
• 19:42
  Speaker 3: me and be like, I'm so sorry, and I'm like,
• 19:44
  Speaker 3: I don't even hear it.
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: Man, you're good noise canceling headphones. What the fun are
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: I saying?
• 19:49
  Speaker 3: But like, not only that, but this is where I'm like,
• 19:52
  Speaker 3: I always put myself into their shoes and I'm like,
• 19:54
  Speaker 3: you know what, I hear it. They are hearing it
• 19:58
  Speaker 3: and trying to figure out how to stop it for
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: all of us.
• 20:01
  Speaker 4: So why am I going to be like you son
• 20:03
  Speaker 4: of a bitch?
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: Well, can I tell you? It's more for the parents
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: of the kids crying because you feel like you're still attached, right, yeah,
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: like and.
• 20:13
  Speaker 4: You feel the hate like but no one else is
• 20:17
  Speaker 4: thinking that.
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: But when I hear a crying baby, I'm not thinking
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: one thing about it.
• 20:20
  Speaker 5: But when it's my own little I can feel nervous
• 20:24
  Speaker 5: system crashing.
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: Yes, my so my advice is just remember it's all fleeting.
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: There will be a day, like when you get through
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: all of the tough times, there will be a day
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: when the house is clean. And by the way, I'm
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: actively trying to practice what I preach.
• 20:44
  Speaker 3: Because and I want to say the house clean, because
• 20:46
  Speaker 3: that is one thing that you are always complaining about
• 20:50
  Speaker 3: because Ocean loves.
• 20:51
  Speaker 4: To just bring toys out.
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but then I go to other people's houses and
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: I'm like.
• 20:55
  Speaker 4: Damn, yeah, but that's the other thing.
• 20:56
  Speaker 3: But Lisa Gigi always says to Lauren when he's freaking
• 21:00
  Speaker 3: out about the mess. She always goes, there's gonna be
• 21:02
  Speaker 3: a day where you miss this mess.
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: I know. And I've tried to get better. I've really
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: tried better.
• 21:07
  Speaker 3: You you haven't been as uptight, I will say when
• 21:12
  Speaker 3: I walk in the house and Lisa's blown it up
• 21:14
  Speaker 3: as well.
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: Really the tornadoes, the tornado, she literally makes her own mess,
• 21:20
  Speaker 2: and like we just.
• 21:21
  Speaker 3: Got an office, not ours, not yours, not mine. Yeah,
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: there's open every dresser or every drawer full.
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: She will make the biggest mess you guys, and I'll
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: be like we should, like you should clean up as
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: you go, Like have you ever watched Ratta Tuey, Like
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: the biggest thing is like keep your station clean? And
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: she refuses and she goes, don't worry, It'll all be
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: clean by tonight, and I'm like, great, so the nighttime
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: can enjoy the.
• 21:48
  Speaker 4: Clean, wake up in the morning, and get it all
• 21:52
  Speaker 4: back out right.
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: Steven Alvarez with two Z's says, would you ever film
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: a scene for the new vander Pump Rules if you
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: were asked, No, I just don't even Here's the thing
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: I am craving you guys know, I effing love reality
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: TV with all my heart and soul. But the thing
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: that I love about it is that you are a
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: fly on the wall to all of these stories that
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: are so like even when cameras turned off, Miami's conquering
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: it right now, all the storylines are off like it
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: happened off camera, no matter what the storyline is happening.
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: Because these people are friends. There would be zero reason
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: for me to appear on the new season of vander
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: Pump Rules. I don't know any of them. I haven't
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: worked there in years. I couldn't help you.
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: System.
• 22:45
  Speaker 3: I mean, the only thing that you can honestly do
• 22:47
  Speaker 3: is I go in and get yeah and eat.
• 22:51
  Speaker 4: And also like all the people, like I know a
• 22:52
  Speaker 4: couple of them, they're.
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: Gonna need to in the valley then because I don't
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: go over the hill and.
• 22:57
  Speaker 3: I've seen I'm sorry, I don't see you get along
• 23:00
  Speaker 3: with any of those.
• 23:01
  Speaker 4: Girls getting along with them. They're like there you go.
• 23:05
  Speaker 4: Very different.
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, they're they're just for me. It wouldn't make sense.
• 23:10
  Speaker 3: And our generations are different, very very different.
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: And for the audience, why would it make any sense
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: for me to appear on your TV.
• 23:20
  Speaker 4: Just because because everybody wants to be given la la.
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: I don't know if or not so triggering for me.
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: When it was like your episode that you pop in
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: on the Valley, I.
• 23:32
  Speaker 5: Was like, none of none of no, not even reposting
• 23:35
  Speaker 5: on my IG and literally that episode where Jesse comes
• 23:41
  Speaker 5: up to me, I'm like, I don't no, no, no,
• 23:43
  Speaker 5: I'm just.
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: Here to bump around, just here to bump around. Don't
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: want to go there.
• 23:48
  Speaker 4: Don't want to go there.
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: But we did. We went there, and yeah, and I
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: couldn't get out fast enough.
• 23:56
  Speaker 3: I trust me, I know, I pick you up every time,
• 23:58
  Speaker 3: maybe because we drop you off pick you up.
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: The moment he entered my Space, I was like, Oh,
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna give birth right here.
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: Wong Nate twenty ninety nine.
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: Says has Ocean seen anything VPR or The Valley?
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: If so, what is her response?
• 24:16
  Speaker 4: No?
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: No, has she?
• 24:17
  Speaker 4: I haven't. Yeah, I don't think we watch any of that.
• 24:20
  Speaker 4: I haven't seen you guys at least no.
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: Has she seen me on TV?
• 24:23
  Speaker 4: Yes?
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: And it's very like normal for her, right, But I'm
• 24:29
  Speaker 2: certainly not like Ocean. It's nine p thirty. Come take
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: a seat and grab your snack. We're watching the Underpump
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: Rules and then The Valley together.
• 24:38
  Speaker 4: Isn't it weird?
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: Guys think I'm a degenerate, but I'm like, not, not
• 24:42
  Speaker 2: big of a degenerate.
• 24:43
  Speaker 4: Would she's six or seven?
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: However? Can I tell you what she asked me the
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: other day? She goes, Mom, that man on the TV,
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: the one with the cards. He has the cards? And
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: I was like, what are you talking about?
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: She goes with all the pretty ladies, they sit and
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: he has the cards?
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: Would he let me be on TV? I was like, Oh,
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: you want to be a little housewife?
• 25:02
  Speaker 5: Do you calling out I know she knows what she's
• 25:08
  Speaker 5: talking about, all right.
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: I like this question to end on. Nina Nahas is asking.
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: Where do you see yourself in five years? So you guys, if.
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: You remember season eleven, I think I asked this question
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: to somebody and Schwartzy was like, I hate that question.
• 25:26
  Speaker 4: Same.
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: Why do you hate it?
• 25:28
  Speaker 3: Because I'm just worried about today and tomorrow and if
• 25:31
  Speaker 3: I can be better by today and one percent better tomorrow,
• 25:35
  Speaker 3: everything will be great in five years. I can't think
• 25:38
  Speaker 3: of that.
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: Okay, I don't mind this question at all.
• 25:43
  Speaker 3: That's so crazy that you are the way you are
• 25:45
  Speaker 3: with time, but you don't mind talking about five years
• 25:49
  Speaker 3: in the fucking sure.
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: I'm a walking hypocrisy. Welcome to being a human being
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: Online say the word hypocrite. I'm like, yes, it's called
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: being a person.
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: You're allowed to make judgments, accusations, but then when it
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: directly affects you, you go oh no, oh, hold on.
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: That's why people say put the shoe on the other foot.
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: We're all hypocrites. We're all no one makes sense.
• 26:16
  Speaker 4: You're all selfish. I'm selfish.
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: I like this question because I like the idea of
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: going in five years, I would like a bigger home.
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: I would like another baby in the mix, maybe two,
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: I would like to.
• 26:35
  Speaker 4: Have ocean will be But that's but.
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: That's definitely like that's inevitable, right, yeah, what I would
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: like in five years.
• 26:44
  Speaker 4: But time is is inevitable. So why do you get
• 26:47
  Speaker 4: so freaked out about it?
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: Because for me saying, where do you see yourself in
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: five years? Like, yes, obviously, in five years, I see
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: myself being forty well, no shit, I see ocean being
• 26:56
  Speaker 2: around ten.
• 26:57
  Speaker 4: Duh.
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: But I'm talking about the goals, like where do you
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: see yourself in five years? Oh, I would love to
• 27:05
  Speaker 2: have two or three shows on the air that I'm
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: not on but I produced and created. That's fun to
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: think about, right. I would like to buy another home somewhere.
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: That's it's like dreaming.
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: When you talk about where do you see yourself in
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: five years? I like to think about it.
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: As a dream, daydream, see, I take it as reality.
• 27:27
  Speaker 4: See. Well, and now you know how we look at
• 27:29
  Speaker 4: you with your time.
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: But Easton, you're not making sense because you saying like
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: you're funny with time. Yes, if we're talking about like
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: in five years, you're gonna But.
• 27:38
  Speaker 3: You just said when you wake up at you're like
• 27:41
  Speaker 3: ocean's gonna wake up and be bigger.
• 27:43
  Speaker 4: It's like, how do you not think of her being tending? Not?
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: Because when someone says, where do you see yourself in
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: five years?
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: I think about it as a chance to.
• 27:51
  Speaker 4: Oh, yeah, okay, not going well.
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: I picture five years Lily will be dead. Yep, No,
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: I don't do that.
• 27:59
  Speaker 3: See, I go in a different route of things are
• 28:02
  Speaker 3: going to be very different. Who knows where I'll be,
• 28:05
  Speaker 3: who I'll be around?
• 28:06
  Speaker 4: Like, I hate that question.
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: Most people do, Yeah, but I liked it.
• 28:10
  Speaker 3: That's where I that's why because you have a very
• 28:13
  Speaker 3: what's it called imaginative brain?
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: I have a very fucked up brain that makes very
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: little sense. But to me, it's.
• 28:20
  Speaker 4: Fine, Well if it makes sense to somebody.
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: As long as that's another reason why it's a good
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: thing that I don't have a man, because one thirty,
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: every single night, one thirty am, I wake up and
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: turn on sex in the city, and that just would
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: be a buzzkill for the person sleeping next to me.
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: That's how I get my mind to calm down.
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: Samantha Jones get fucked.
• 28:43
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I'll stick to the Big Bang Theory.
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: You guys, thank you for writing all of your questions
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: and it's Q and A. I love y'all.
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: Another episode of the regular old Give Them La La
• 28:55
  Speaker 2: pod drops Wednesdays.
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: We'll catch you again for a bonus on Monday. Bye
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: five