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- 0:00Welcome to Reform Thinking. So imagine for a second that it
- 0:05is June of 1859. You are sitting on the Muddy
- 0:08Waters of the Pejo River in China, right by the Taku Forts.
- 0:12That is a brutal historical moment.
- 0:14Yeah, it really is. A British naval squadron is
- 0:16trying to bypass these forts and, well, things are going
- 0:19horribly wrong. The Chinese artillery is just
- 0:22treading the British ships. Right.
- 0:23And the Americans are sitting right there watching it happen.
- 0:26Yes. Sitting just out of range is an
- 0:28American Commodore. Just say a Tatnall.
- 0:31Now the United States is strictly neutral in this
- 0:34conflict. Tatnall has absolute orders not
- 0:36to engage. He is supposed to stay
- 0:39completely out of it. Spot on.
- 0:41But as he watches these British sailors, people who speak his
- 0:44language, who share his ancestral heritage, getting
- 0:47decimated in the water, he just snaps.
- 0:49He just cannot take it anymore. No, he cannot.
- 0:52He turns to his men, orders his American ship to tow British
- 0:55reserves straight into the line of fire, and utters this phrase
- 0:58that is basically echoed through history ever since.
- 1:01He says blood is thicker than water.
- 1:03And, you know, we praise that kind of loyalty.
- 1:05We make movies about it, honestly.
- 1:07We are totally hardwired to look at that visceral, undeniable
- 1:10pull of earthly kinship and call it a virtue.
- 1:14But today we're going to look at a text that makes a pretty
- 1:17startling claim. A.
- 1:18Massive claim, really. Yeah, the claim is that this
- 1:22kind of blood loyalty, as beautiful as it is, is fragile.
- 1:26It is temporary, and in the end, it is entirely doomed.
- 1:30Our mission for today's Deep Dive is to unpack an essay
- 1:32titled The Family of God. Written by the 19th century
- 1:36Anglican Bishop JC Ryle, it is from his book Practical
- 1:39Religion. Right, and he zeroes in on this
- 1:42tiny bit massive phrase from Ephesians chapter 3, verse 15,
- 1:45which talks about the whole family in heaven and earth.
- 1:48It is a phenomenal piece of writing and it requires a
- 1:50complete shift in how we think about our relationships.
- 1:53Ryle is aiming straight at our most cherished earthly
- 1:56institutions and pointing out their fatal flaws.
- 1:59But he does not do it just to be pessimistic, right?
- 2:03No, absolutely not. He does it to set up a robust,
- 2:06concrete theological argument about an entirely different kind
- 2:09of family. He wants to walk us through the
- 2:12doctrine of sovereign election, the mechanical necessity of the
- 2:15new birth, and the absolute, unshakable security of the
- 2:19believer. He builds his stark contrast
- 2:22between our present, often painful reality and a
- 2:26guaranteed, flawless future. Yeah, he takes the very real,
- 2:30agonizing struggles we face in our earthly homes and puts them
- 2:34up against the backdrop of an indestructible spiritual bond.
- 2:37And for you listening right now, whether you are, you know,
- 2:40driving to work or doing the dishes or just trying to catch
- 2:42your breath, I want to frame this clearly right out of the
- 2:44gate. We are not just tossing around
- 2:46abstract theological vocabulary today.
- 2:48Well, this is highly practical. Very practical, this deep dive
- 2:51is meant to be a lens for you to view your own daily
- 2:54frustrations, the pain of your broken relationships, and the
- 2:57final destination you were speeding toward.
- 2:59This is about real life. So we should probably start
- 3:02right where Ryle starts. He actually begins by heavily
- 3:04validating the earthly family. Yeah, he brings up that exact
- 3:07anecdote about Commodore Tatnol at the Taku Forts.
- 3:10He talks about the warmth of Christmas gatherings and the
- 3:13undeniable comfort of shared blood.
- 3:15He does, and it is a brilliant rhetorical move.
- 3:18I mean, Rile is not some monk living in an isolated cave
- 3:22shaking his first at human affection.
- 3:24He is writing from a specific theological view regarding
- 3:27common grace. And just to break that down for
- 3:29a second, common grace is this idea that after the fall of
- 3:33humanity in Eden, God did not just let the world instantly
- 3:36descend into absolute chaotic darkness.
- 3:39Right. God preserves certain
- 3:41institutions to restrain evil and promote human flourishing,
- 3:44and Ryle views the earthly family as the chief surviving
- 3:47relic of Eden. It is one of the few pleasant
- 3:50things that actually made it out of the garden.
- 3:52When human nature became corrupted, a lot of institutions
- 3:54just fractured immediately, but that community of blood stuck
- 3:58around as a huge unifying principle.
- 4:00And Ryle says he approves of these family gatherings with all
- 4:03his heart. He says it does his soul good to
- 4:05see them kept up. But, and this is the turn, he
- 4:08refuses to let the reader just stay in that comfortable,
- 4:11sentimental place. He quickly pivots to the built
- 4:14in inescapable tragedy of the earthly family, the tragedy of
- 4:18the vacant places. Yeah, the gaps that inevitably
- 4:21appear at firesides as the years pass.
- 4:23I was actually trying to think of the best way to describe
- 4:25this. An earthly family is not really
- 4:27like a stone fortress. It is much more like a
- 4:30beautiful, lavishly decorated rented house.
- 4:33Oh. That is a great way to put it.
- 4:35Like when you first move in, the rooms are full of life, the
- 4:38lights are bright and it feels so permanent.
- 4:40But the reality is the lease is always running out.
- 4:43Eviction is a mathematical certainty.
- 4:45Even the closest family cannot freeze time.
- 4:48The nest eventually scatters. Yeah, old heads might survive
- 4:52long enough to see their children launch into the world,
- 4:55but disease, distance, time, they all take their toll.
- 4:59After a certain number of years, it is incredibly rare to see the
- 5:03entire family in one room ever again.
- 5:05The sorrow is just unavoidable. And what is fascinating about
- 5:08Ryles argument is how he leverages that exact sorrow.
- 5:11He uses the grief we experience in the earthly family to point
- 5:14toward the superiority of the spiritual one.
- 5:17So the pain of the empty chair at a holiday gathering acts as
- 5:20the main catalyst in his logic. Spot on.
- 5:23Why does it hurt so much when a family member moves away or
- 5:26passes on? Ryle would argue that the grief
- 5:28we feel points directly to a human longing for an unbreakable
- 5:32family structure. We grieve because we were
- 5:34designed for permanent communion, but we are stuck
- 5:36living in a temporary decaying setup.
- 5:39Yes, Ryle takes that natural loyalty we feel for our blood
- 5:43relatives and says, well, imagine a family where that bond
- 5:45exists without the fragility. Imagine a family where the least
- 5:48never expires. He is forcing the reader to look
- 5:51past the scene temporary reality to the unseen permanent reality.
- 5:57The ache we feel is actually a symptom of a larger design.
- 6:00And that leads to a massive, highly practical question.
- 6:02Because earthly blood ties are strong, but they expire.
- 6:05Right. So if the earthly family is
- 6:07something you just fall into by natural birth, how does a person
- 6:10enter this permanent spiritual family?
- 6:12What are the actual criteria for membership?
- 6:15And Ryle is completely unyielding on this point.
- 6:18Our earthly qualifications mean absolutely nothing here.
- 6:21He strips away every single human credential.
- 6:23So membership does not happen by natural reproduction.
- 6:26Not at all. You can be born into the most
- 6:28devout, historically religious household in your country, but
- 6:32that natural birth grants you 0 status in the spiritual family.
- 6:36Wealth cannot buy a seat at the table.
- 6:39And he says outward church affiliation is completely
- 6:42insufficient, which had to be controversial for his Victorian
- 6:45audience. Oh, highly controversial.
- 6:48Ryle explicitly states that being a baptized Protestant or a
- 6:52faithful churchman does not secure your membership.
- 6:55The only entrance is through a new birth authored entirely by
- 6:59the Holy Spirit. We really need to pause and
- 7:01explain that because when Ryle says new birth, what is the
- 7:05actual mechanism he has to talking about?
- 7:07It sounds like he is saying religion is not about polishing
- 7:09up your outside behavior. Right, it is not about behavior
- 7:12modification, it is about undergoing a complete structural
- 7:15overhaul on the inside. This is often discussed under
- 7:18the category of effectual calling or regeneration.
- 7:21Because the natural human heart is not viewed as just slightly
- 7:24flawed, right? No, it is viewed as spiritually
- 7:27dead. You cannot teach a corpse to
- 7:29love God. Therefore, the new birth has to
- 7:31be an act of sovereign resurrection.
- 7:33The Holy Spirit changes the core disposition of a person.
- 7:37Yes, he gives them new affections, a new understanding,
- 7:41a new will. Ryle uses terms like the
- 7:43household of faith and the mystical Body of Christ to
- 7:46define this group, noting that it is entirely the result of the
- 7:50election of God. God chooses the members and the
- 7:53Spirit regenerates them. And once that happens, Ryle
- 7:56argues, you can identify the members of this family by three
- 8:00defining characteristics. Let us walk through those
- 8:02because they really explain how this massive, invisible group
- 8:05functions day-to-day. OK, so the first characteristic
- 8:08he lists is that they have one father, and he contrasts this
- 8:12with the typical dynamic of his era.
- 8:14Yeah, in the 19th century, the concept of a father could often
- 8:16carry connotations of this austere, distant disciplinarian.
- 8:20Someone you feared more than you loved.
- 8:21Absolutely. But Ryall points out that
- 8:23believers approach God not with a slavish fear of a punisher,
- 8:27but with the tender, bold confidence of adopted children.
- 8:30They cry. ABBA father.
- 8:32They look to him as a reconciled parent.
- 8:34A parent who is full of pity even to the least and feeblest
- 8:38of his children. The phrase our Father which art
- 8:41in heaven is not just some empty recited routine for them.
- 8:45It is a legal and relational reality which.
- 8:49Shifts the entire paradigm of religion from a cold transaction
- 8:53to a really intimate relationship.
- 8:54It changes everything. Then he moves to the second
- 8:56characteristic. They share one name,
- 8:58specifically the name of Jesus Christ, and I love the
- 9:02historical image he uses here. He compares this to a common
- 9:05surname uniting a Highland clan. It is such a brilliant metaphor.
- 9:09In a Scottish Highland clan, your individual identity was
- 9:12totally secondary to the clan identity.
- 9:14The name you wore on your tartan dictated your alliances, your
- 9:17protection, your standing in the world.
- 9:19Exactly. Regardless of what visible
- 9:22church these believers attend or what earthly labels they wear,
- 9:25as living members of Christ, they all rejoice in one Savior.
- 9:29The name of Christ ties them all together.
- 9:31To the outside world, the name might just seem like historical
- 9:33trivia, but to the family members it is a total shield.
- 9:37It provides comfort, hope, rest, peace.
- 9:41If you are in the clan, the chief's reputation becomes your
- 9:45reputation. Right.
- 9:46Someone comes after you, they have to deal with the head of
- 9:48the clan. Yeah.
- 9:49Which leads us right into the third characteristic.
- 9:52And this is where things get slightly complicated.
- 9:54Ryle says they all have one likeness.
- 9:57They share a spiritual DNA, Yeah.
- 9:59They're all led by the same spirit.
- 10:01They hate sin, they love God, they rely on the Bible as a lamp
- 10:04to their feet, and they share an identical inward experience.
- 10:08That inward experience is the key identifier.
- 10:11Ryle lists things like repentance, faith, hope,
- 10:14charity, humility, and inward conflict.
- 10:18Every single member of this family, without exception, knows
- 10:21what it is like to battle against their own internal
- 10:23corruption. They share the same spiritual
- 10:25immune system. Basically they are fighting off
- 10:27the same types of spiritual diseases.
- 10:29To illustrate this shared spiritual DNA, Ryle gives a
- 10:32really striking example. He talks about a converted
- 10:34Englishman trained at Eton and Oxford.
- 10:37A man who has enjoyed every privilege of highly civilized
- 10:4019th century society, right? Then, Ryle says, imagine this
- 10:45highly educated scholar meets a converted Hindu who comes from a
- 10:48background of gross heathenism and holds entirely different
- 10:52cultural habits. Massive cultural chasms.
- 10:54Massive educational chasms. But Ryle insists that if they
- 10:57can speak the same language, they will feel like old friends.
- 11:00In half an hour, the Oxford scholar will find he has far
- 11:03more in common with this man than he has with his old college
- 11:06dreaming buddies. Ryle attributes this instant
- 11:09kinship entirely to the unity of the Spirit's teaching.
- 11:12It is a shared supernatural grace that just completely
- 11:15bypasses natural barriers. I have to push back on this a
- 11:18little bit, though, because reading that in the 21st century
- 11:20raises some immediate red flags. Does this idea of a universal
- 11:25family likeness not sound like, well, forced conformity?
- 11:28That is a very fair question to ask.
- 11:30If an Oxford scholar in a Hindu convert suddenly share an
- 11:34identical inward experience, are we talking about a kind of
- 11:36spiritual colonialism here? Does Ryle expect the whole world
- 11:40to adopt the manners and sensibilities of a polite
- 11:43Victorian Englishman? It is a highly perceptive
- 11:46challenge, and it is a question modern readers almost always
- 11:49bring to texts from this era. But if we examine Ryle's
- 11:53theological framework, he is not arguing for the erasure of
- 11:56personality or cultural background.
- 11:58He is not saying everyone starts drinking afternoon tea and
- 12:01reading Latin. No, not at all.
- 12:04The unity he describes is a unity of affection and
- 12:07allegiance, not a uniformity of cultural habits.
- 12:11The Oxford scholar remains an intellectual shaped by his
- 12:14environment. The man from a different
- 12:16continent retains his distinct cultural heritage.
- 12:19But their core unseen affections have been entirely realigned.
- 12:22Precisely, it is less about them adopting the same diet or
- 12:26wearing the same clothes, and much more about them grieving
- 12:28over the exact same internal flaws.
- 12:30They have the same center of gravity, yes.
- 12:32They both look at their own hearts and recognize their
- 12:34desperate need for grace. They both look at the cross of
- 12:37Christ and see their only source of hope.
- 12:40In an era of extreme cultural division and rigid class
- 12:43systems, Riles vision is actually a pretty radical,
- 12:46subversive social concept. It is.
- 12:48He's describing A unifying force that makes 2 socially opposite
- 12:52individuals instant kindred spirits.
- 12:55It bypasses class, race, wealth, education.
- 12:59It is a bond far stronger than any earthly metric of
- 13:02compatibility. It is a complete reordering of
- 13:05human loyalty. But this brings up a massive
- 13:09tension. If this family is so tightly
- 13:11unified, and if they possess such a strong, unbreakable
- 13:15spiritual DNA, why does the daily lived experience of a
- 13:18Christian often feel so incredibly fragmented?
- 13:22That is the big question, is it not?
- 13:23Yeah, Why does it feel so battered and chaotic?
- 13:26If you are listening to this and looking at your own life, you
- 13:29might be thinking my experience does not feel like an unbroken
- 13:31Highland clan. It feels like a daily disaster.
- 13:34And Ryle actually anticipates that exact reaction.
- 13:37That is the logical next step in his argument.
- 13:40He addresses that feeling of fragmentation by explaining the
- 13:42family's current geography. Right.
- 13:44To understand why things feel chaotic, you have to understand
- 13:46where the family is physically located right now.
- 13:48The geography of the family He points out that the family is
- 13:51currently split into exactly 2 parts, heaven and earth.
- 13:55And we need to note that Ryle firmly and explicitly rejects
- 13:58any 3rd state. He does, he states clearly.
- 14:02There is no purgatory. There is no intermediate House
- 14:05of purifying or training for those who die.
- 14:07Because the work of Christ is viewed as entirely sufficient.
- 14:10Exactly. I mean absolutely.
- 14:13There is no remaining penalty for the believer to pay after
- 14:16death. Therefore, there are only two
- 14:18locations for this family. The heavenly part is safe in
- 14:20paradise, while the earthly part is scattered across a wicked
- 14:24world, fighting, feeling and struggling.
- 14:27The contrasts he draws between these two parts of the family
- 14:30are just staggering. Let us look at their daily
- 14:33activity. OK, so the earthly family is
- 14:35described as being at school. They are carrying heavy crosses.
- 14:38They are militant, which means they are actively fighting the
- 14:41world, the flesh and the devil. They are on a live battlefield,
- 14:45but the heavenly family, Raoul says they are on an eternal
- 14:48holiday. Their warfare is completely
- 14:50accomplished. Their swords are permanently
- 14:52laid aside. The contrast in their condition
- 14:55is just as extreme. Earthly Saints are constantly
- 14:58groaning under the reality of the flesh.
- 15:00And when Ryle says the flesh, he means the lingering, sinful
- 15:05default programming that remains in a believer even after the new
- 15:09birth. It is a constant, exhausting
- 15:12internal friction. But the heavenly Saints are
- 15:15described as spirits of just men made perfect.
- 15:19All internal friction is gone. And their perception of reality
- 15:22is different too. Earthly members love by faith.
- 15:25They love with a massive amount of imperfection.
- 15:27They're trying to see through a thick fog.
- 15:29Yeah, while the heavenly members walk by sight, they love God in
- 15:33each other without any distraction whatsoever.
- 15:35The earth's members are often sick of themselves and sick of
- 15:38the sin around. Them they are daily learning
- 15:40wisdom, often very slowly and often through painful
- 15:43chastisement. While the heavenly members have
- 15:45finished their appointed tasks. You know, I was thinking about
- 15:48how to visualize this massive split in experience.
- 15:51It is kind of like a family where the older siblings have
- 15:54already graduated from university, they have their
- 15:56degrees, the pressure is off and they are resting comfortably at
- 15:59home on the sofa. But the younger siblings are
- 16:03currently sitting in a freezing exam hall, sweating profusely
- 16:08through their final exams. Oh man, the worst feeling.
- 16:11The exams are brutally hard. The younger siblings are sleep
- 16:15deprived, their pencils are breaking, they are stressed and
- 16:19they feel certain they're failing the test.
- 16:21That is a highly accurate way to capture the psychology of the
- 16:25earthly believer. And I think a lot of earthly
- 16:27Christians mistakenly judge the success, the size, or the health
- 16:31of the entire family based solely on those exhausted
- 16:34siblings in the exam room. We really do.
- 16:36We look at the struggling, weeping, tired believers on
- 16:40earth, the militant part of the family, and we assume the whole
- 16:43family is in a state of crisis, ISIS.
- 16:44We measure the privileges and the security of the family
- 16:47strictly by what we can see with our physical eyes.
- 16:50But Ryle points out that we are only seeing a tiny fraction of
- 16:52the reality. Right a massive company has
- 16:55already reached heaven. The far greater part of the
- 16:57family has already gotten home and is resting.
- 16:59But. Even for those older siblings,
- 17:01the ones resting at home in paradise, there is still a sense
- 17:04of anticipation, is there not? Heaven is not just a static
- 17:07state of floating on clouds. Absolutely not.
- 17:10The heavenly members are entirely happy.
- 17:12They're entirely free from sin and sorrow, but they are still
- 17:16actively waiting for three specific events.
- 17:20What are they waiting for? They are waiting for the second
- 17:22advent of Christ, the resurrection of their own
- 17:24physical bodies, and the final gathering of all believers.
- 17:28So even paradise involves anticipation.
- 17:30Heaven is essentially waiting for Earth to finish the race.
- 17:33Yeah, the older siblings are waiting for the younger ones to
- 17:36finally walk out of the exam hall so the whole family can sit
- 17:38at the dinner table together. That is such a beautiful
- 17:41summary. The triumph of the family is not
- 17:43fully realized until every single sibling is out of the
- 17:47exam hall and safely home. But here's the concept that I
- 17:50find most staggering, despite this drastic night and day
- 17:54difference in the current lived experience between the siblings
- 17:57sweating in the exam room and those resting at home.
- 17:59Their actual status and security in the eyes of the father are
- 18:03absolutely identical. Yes, this brings us to the core
- 18:07of Rile's theological comfort, the shared security of the
- 18:10striving and the resting. Rile asserts that both parts of
- 18:14the family are alike, safe and secure.
- 18:17Christ cares just as much for the militant members getting
- 18:19battered on earth as He does for the triumphant ones resting in
- 18:23heaven. He makes this absolute claim
- 18:25that not one single member will be missing at the last day.
- 18:29The theological weight of that claim is immense because the
- 18:32earthly believer often feels incredibly insecure.
- 18:36Ryle attributes this insecurity to the dimness of their faith
- 18:40and the burden of the flesh. We look at our own constant
- 18:43failures, our doubts, our anxieties, and we logically
- 18:45assume our position in the family is in jeopardy.
- 18:47But Ryle points out that our safety does not rely on our
- 18:50daily performance, it relies on an everlasting covenant.
- 18:53Let us unpack that phrase everlasting covenant, because it
- 18:56sounds like a legal contract. It is a theological term
- 18:59referring to the agreement made between the Father and the Son
- 19:01before time began to redeem a specific people.
- 19:04Meaning your salvation was secured by a divine pact, not by
- 19:08your own fragile willpower. To illustrate this, Ryle uses a
- 19:12really intense metaphor. He says, you might as well try
- 19:15to pluck the stars out of heaven, as pluck 1 feeble St.
- 19:18out of Christ's hand. It is a vivid image of divine
- 19:22preservation. The stars are fixed in the sky
- 19:25by divine decree. No human hand, no matter how
- 19:28strong, can reach up and pull a star from its orbit.
- 19:32In the exact same way, the feeblest, weakest, most
- 19:35exhausted believer on Earth is held by a grip that cannot be
- 19:38broken by hell, by circumstances, or even by their
- 19:42own failures. Ryle actually quotes a Christian
- 19:44poet who captures this dynamic perfectly.
- 19:46He says more happy, but not more secure, the glorified spirits in
- 19:50heaven. I have to pause here, though,
- 19:53because if you are listening to this, you might be feeling a
- 19:54massive disconnect. I want to push back on behalf of
- 19:57the listener. Sure, go ahead.
- 19:59If the struggling, doubting person on earth is objectively
- 20:02just as secure as the person who's already safely in heaven,
- 20:05why do earthly Christians spend so much time agonizing over
- 20:08their standing? That is the reality for so many.
- 20:11Why do we wake up at 3:00 in the morning terrified that we are
- 20:14failing? How does Ryle address the
- 20:17massive, agonizing gap between absolute objective security and
- 20:22our incredibly shaky subjective feelings?
- 20:24Well, this is a classic centuries old pastoral issue.
- 20:28Ryle addresses it by carefully separating the feelings of
- 20:31safety from the fact of safety. Because our feelings are highly
- 20:34volatile. Highly they are affected by our
- 20:37physical health, our sleep, our daily circumstances, our recent
- 20:40failures and the constant attacks of the enemy.
- 20:43The burden of the flesh acts like a thick fog that makes our
- 20:46faith dim. So we constantly feel insecure,
- 20:49we feel like we are slipping. But the objective fact of our
- 20:52safety is anchored entirely in the capability of the head of
- 20:55the family, Jesus Christ. So the security of the younger
- 20:58sibling in the exam hall is not based on how well they are
- 21:01holding their pencil, it is based on the older brother
- 21:03standing at the door refusing to let them fail.
- 21:06Spot on. The psychological relief this
- 21:08offers is immense. Think about the alternative.
- 21:11If you're standing in this family, depended on your ability
- 21:14to maintain perfect faith or perfect conduct every single
- 21:17day, you would live in a state of perpetual crippling terror.
- 21:21But because you are kept by the strength of God, you can fully
- 21:24acknowledge your own weakness, your doubts and your failures
- 21:27without despairing of your actual standing.
- 21:30You are safe even on the days when you cannot see it or feel
- 21:32it. That is a staggering comfort.
- 21:35It takes the crushing burden of preservation off my shoulders
- 21:38and places it entirely on Christ.
- 21:41And because the security of the family is absolute, the final
- 21:43destination is also absolute. We mentioned earlier how earthly
- 21:47families face grim and uncertain futures.
- 21:49The uncertainty of human prospects is a heavy, paralyzing
- 21:53thought for many people. It really is.
- 21:54We simply do not know what will happen to our kids 20 years from
- 21:57now. Ryle talks about prodigal
- 21:59children who leave home and never return.
- 22:01He talks about bitter, lifelong quarrels over a few pounds.
- 22:05You know, people who played in the same nursery, who shared
- 22:08secrets as children, completely alienated from one another as
- 22:11adults over inheritance money. He also brings up disease,
- 22:15laying low the loveliest, brightest members of a family
- 22:18circle. If we possessed foreknowledge of
- 22:21those future sorrows, it would ruin any earthly family
- 22:24gathering. Right.
- 22:25If you could see the tragedies coming to the people sitting
- 22:27around your Thanksgiving table over the next decade, the room
- 22:30will be filled with gloom. But in stark contrast to that
- 22:33earthly dread, God's family has prospects that are good and only
- 22:38good. The future is completely legally
- 22:41guaranteed. Ryle outlines 5 specific
- 22:44guarantees for the future of this family.
- 22:46These are not vague, optimistic wishes.
- 22:48They're concrete certainties based on the character of God.
- 22:51Let us walk through those five guarantees.
- 22:53The first one is safe arrival. Safe arrival means every single
- 22:56member will successfully get home.
- 22:59Earthly believers may be tossed with tempests, battered by
- 23:02doubts, and bowed down with physical and emotional
- 23:04afflictions right now, but not one will perish.
- 23:07Ryle uses the imagery of a shepherd.
- 23:10The weakest lamb will not be left behind to die in the
- 23:13wilderness. When the final muster roll is
- 23:15called at the last day, no one will be missing.
- 23:18The second guarantee is glorious bodies.
- 23:20We will be delivered from aching frames and mortal weaknesses.
- 23:24Right now. Our physical bodies often hinder
- 23:26our spirits. We want to serve God, we want to
- 23:29pray. But we get tired, we get sick,
- 23:32we face chronic pain. In the future state, believers
- 23:35will receive resurrected bodies like their risen Lord, a body
- 23:39built to serve without weariness.
- 23:42A body designed to attend upon God without distraction or
- 23:45decay. I try to imagine how much
- 23:47comfort that specific point brought to people in Victorian
- 23:50England, where disease, cholera and infant mortality were so
- 23:54visibly rampant. And I think about how much
- 23:56comfort it still brings to anyone listening right now who
- 23:59is dealing with chronic illness or watching a parent's body
- 24:01fail. It is a promise of physical
- 24:04restoration. The third guarantee is the Great
- 24:06Gathering. This is a.
- 24:07Massive family reunion that completely conquers and ignores
- 24:11time and space. Think about the geography we
- 24:13discussed earlier. Ryle says it makes absolutely no
- 24:16difference where someone lived or where they died.
- 24:18Abraham, who dwelled in ancient tents, will meet someone who
- 24:21traveled by modern railway. The bones scattered in an
- 24:24Australian desert will join those resting in an English
- 24:27churchyard. They will all gather from the
- 24:29north-south, east and West into one happy assembly to part no
- 24:33more. It is the ultimate conquering of
- 24:35distance. The 4th guarantee is perfect
- 24:38unity. This represents the end of 6000
- 24:41years of strife, bickering and jangling among humans.
- 24:45Right now, earthly believers disagree on many things.
- 24:49Forms of worship, Church, government, specific theological
- 24:53points. But in the future state, our
- 24:55partial knowledge and dim vision will end.
- 24:58All misunderstandings will be buried forever, Ryle says.
- 25:01Aphram will not vex Judah, and churchmen will not quarrel with
- 25:04dissenters. There will be complete harmony
- 25:06in mind and judgment. We really need to give some
- 25:09historical context to that phrase.
- 25:10Churchmen will not quarrel with dissenters.
- 25:12Yeah, that was a huge deal in his day.
- 25:14In Ryles day you had the established Church of England,
- 25:17the Churchmen and you had the non conformists or dissenters
- 25:20like the Baptists and Methodists.
- 25:22The division was bitter, they argued, over politics, theology
- 25:27and society. They would often refuse to be
- 25:29buried in the same cemeteries. Looking at human history,
- 25:32looking at millennia of religious infighting, the
- 25:35promise of perfect unity seems like the most miraculous claim
- 25:39of all. It is like looking at a massive,
- 25:41complicated knot of thick cables that has been tightening and
- 25:45tangling for thousands of years, and God simply snaps it
- 25:49perfectly straight in an instant.
- 25:50It is a stunning prospect. Ryle understands that the
- 25:53friction we experience even among true believers today is a
- 25:57direct result of our limited understanding and our remaining
- 25:59sin. When the fog of the flesh is
- 26:01removed, the unity will be absolute.
- 26:04And the 5th and final guarantee eternal provision.
- 26:07Every single member will be eternally provided for.
- 26:10When the affairs of this world are finally wound up, there will
- 26:13be an everlasting portion for all.
- 26:15And Ryle uses a very specific, fascinating phrase here.
- 26:19He says every vessel, from the smallest to the greatest will be
- 26:23filled to the brim with glory. The concept of capacity there is
- 26:26brilliant. The smallest vessel and the
- 26:29greatest vessel. It implies that people might
- 26:32actually have different capacities for glory or joy in
- 26:35the next life, but everyone is filled to their specific brim.
- 26:39That is a highly nuanced theological point.
- 26:41Imagine you have a tiny thimble and a massive wooden barrel, and
- 26:44you plunge them both to the bottom of the ocean.
- 26:46They're both completely full. Yes, the thimble cannot hold
- 26:50nearly as much water as the barrel, but the thimble lacks
- 26:53nothing. It is entirely saturated.
- 26:55Which suggests a total absence of envy in the future state.
- 26:59No one feels shortchanged because everyone is 100%
- 27:03satisfied according to their own measure.
- 27:05The thimble is not looking over at the barrel with jealousy,
- 27:07thinking I wish I had more because the thimble is
- 27:10overflowing. There is no room for comparison
- 27:12when you are entirely satisfied. The human tendency to compare
- 27:16and covet is completely eradicated.
- 27:19What they receive, they will never lose.
- 27:22It is an inheritance that does not fade away.
- 27:24So we have unpacked the universal bond of the earthly
- 27:26family, the mechanics of membership in the spiritual
- 27:29family, the geography that currently divides us, the
- 27:32absolute security we share, and the unshakable future waiting
- 27:36for us. But Ryle was a highly practical
- 27:38pastor. He never left his readers with
- 27:40just academic theory, knowing these staggering prospect's
- 27:44demands A practical response from you, the listener, right
- 27:47now. He closes the essay by looking
- 27:50the reader straight in the eye with a direct challenge.
- 27:53He strips away all the comforting religious labels and
- 27:55asks plainly, Do you yet belong to the family of God?
- 27:58He makes it highly personal. Very personal.
- 28:00He says there is no answer to say you are a baptized
- 28:02Protestant or a faithful church attender.
- 28:05That is insufficient. He urges the reader to seek
- 28:07Christ, to believe on him, and to obtain this free pardon
- 28:11today. He invites those outside the
- 28:13family to open their eyes to the eternal value of their souls, to
- 28:17recognize the danger of their natural condition, and to join
- 28:20the happiest, most secure family in the world.
- 28:24And for those who are already in the family, those who have
- 28:26experienced that new birth, Ryle gives some very specific
- 28:29directives on how to live worthy of the name.
- 28:32He says, first of all, be thankful when the old earthly
- 28:36family firesides eventually go cold and the loving faces leave
- 28:40us. We have a far better gathering
- 28:42yet to come. That reality should produced
- 28:45immense daily gratitude. He also tells believers to abhor
- 28:49all quarrels. If we are destined for perfect,
- 28:52unbroken unity in the future, we should strive for it now.
- 28:55We should behave as if the honor of the entire family depends on
- 28:58our personal conduct. Making the master's name
- 29:00beautiful to outsiders, living in such a way that people
- 29:03looking at how we handle suffering, how we handle each
- 29:06other, might say, we will go with you.
- 29:08That is the ultimate testimony of the earthly family of God.
- 29:11Our conduct while we are sweating in the exam hall should
- 29:14make others want to know the Father who is waiting for us at
- 29:16home. This has been such a rigorous,
- 29:18clarifying look at Ryall's thoughts, and as we wrap up, I
- 29:22want to leave you, the listener, with a final thought to ponder.
- 29:26We talked at the beginning about the gaps and the vacant places
- 29:29at our earthly firesides. The sorrow that inevitably comes
- 29:32as time passes and leases run out.
- 29:34Think about that sorrow. What if the grief we experience
- 29:38at the inevitable breaking of our earthly family circles is
- 29:41not a design flaw of the universe?
- 29:44What if it is not an accident or a mistake?
- 29:46What if the intense pain of the empty chair at your holiday
- 29:50table is precisely the intentional mechanism God uses
- 29:54to force you to look up? To force you to seek out the
- 29:56only family table in existence where an empty chair will never
- 29:59ever exist. It is a compelling, highly
- 30:02practical thought. The ache of earthly loss is
- 30:04designed to drive us toward eternal permanence.
- 30:06Thank you for joining us on this deep dive.
- 30:08Thank you for listening.