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New Dirty Little Secret:What Do You Do With a Dying Wish?” · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: Good up your chest comments you'll feel better.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome to the Dirty Little Secret.
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  Speaker 3: It's Billy the Kid. Candice Lopez is your producer who
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  Speaker 3: is here in your secrets. Anytime you want, just reach out.
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  Speaker 3: It's a non judgment zone. Eight three three seven eight
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  Speaker 3: seven one o two nine. Confess you got one.
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  Speaker 2: I don't even know how to like start this. So
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  Speaker 2: my sister just passed away, and like I just feel
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  Speaker 2: like I'm already messing everything up your sister.
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  Speaker 4: I'm sorry to hear that.
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  Speaker 3: So your your sister just recently passed away, Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Like very recently, Like we're planning out her services and
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  Speaker 2: things right now.
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  Speaker 4: I'm so sorry. I'm sorry to hear that.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you. I mean I just okay, So she had cancer,
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  Speaker 2: so we knew for a while that like it was coming.
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  Speaker 2: So I mean like we got time to say things
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  Speaker 2: and like, you know, time to prepare. You know, it's
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  Speaker 2: like a blessing, but on it's kind of also torture
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  Speaker 2: because you're grieving someone who's like right there in front
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  Speaker 2: of you.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I can't imagine. I can't imagine.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, bittersweet, like, yeah, there's certain things that okay, good,
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  Speaker 3: but I mean you're never ready for that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah no, no, I mean, I mean she's my sister.
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  Speaker 2: But yeah, so here's here's the secret. But before she passed,
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  Speaker 2: she was very clear about like specific things, and she
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  Speaker 2: told us how she wanted to be remembered and what
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  Speaker 2: she wanted the celebration of life to feel like. And
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  Speaker 2: the one thing she said to me was that she
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  Speaker 2: did not want her ex fiance there at all.
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  Speaker 4: Like she didn't want to hear anything.
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  Speaker 2: Nope, nope, not the service, not the celebration, nothing at all.
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  Speaker 2: I understand. Like it didn't go well, it didn't end well.
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  Speaker 2: There was some huge dramatic betrayal and it was messy
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  Speaker 2: and she cut him off completely.
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  Speaker 4: Here's the thing I nervous about this.
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  Speaker 3: I'm so nervous about Please don't tell me what I
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  Speaker 3: think you're gonna tell me, But go ahead.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think he's a bad guy, Like I actually
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  Speaker 2: always liked him. I just I don't think they were
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  Speaker 2: right for each other. Yes, okay, We're about to have
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  Speaker 2: her celebration of life at my parents lake house, which
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  Speaker 2: is her favorite place in the world. And I keep
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  Speaker 2: thinking about him. He was going to marry her at
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  Speaker 2: one point, and I mean, whether it worked out or not,
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  Speaker 2: that just doesn't disappear. Okay, And I haven't told him
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  Speaker 2: not to come, and I don't think I'm going to.
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  Speaker 3: Oh okay, Okay, that's better actually than I thought of
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  Speaker 3: what you were going to. I thought you were going
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  Speaker 3: to say you're dating this guy.
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  Speaker 2: No, that's so much worse.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, good. I can't believe I'm going to say good
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  Speaker 4: on this.
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  Speaker 3: But okay, but no, now that we know it's not that, right,
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  Speaker 3: you're not going to tell him not to come.
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  Speaker 2: I mean like if I were him and I didn't
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  Speaker 2: get to say goodbye and anyway, I mean like, I
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  Speaker 2: don't know how I look with that.
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  Speaker 3: But does it matter? Yeah, I'm just I'm just saying it.
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  Speaker 3: Does it matter what any what he feels If this
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  Speaker 3: was her wish.
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  Speaker 5: Right, if you guys had the conversation, you had it
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  Speaker 5: for a reason, right. Otherwise it's like, well, I have
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  Speaker 5: the conversation before she's gone about what she wants, so I.
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  Speaker 1: Feel like it would be right to do that for
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  Speaker 1: someone else who I know is like grieving too, and
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  Speaker 1: nobody else knows that she didn't want him there.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, So she only told you this, Yeah, because she
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  Speaker 5: trusts you probably right, Okay, but yeah, but that does
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  Speaker 5: and I understand that she's probably that's hard.
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  Speaker 3: Obviously you're in a state of mind when you're going
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  Speaker 3: through that that who knows poor thing what she was
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  Speaker 3: going through and.
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  Speaker 4: What she's thinking of. But do you honor your.
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  Speaker 3: Sister's wishes and do exactly what she says? Candice Lopez?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, you do trust her.
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  Speaker 4: You have to.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I know I could see where you're coming
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  Speaker 3: from though, because and I'm not saying it's not fair
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  Speaker 3: for this guy, because it doesn't sound like it's fair
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  Speaker 3: for him.
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  Speaker 4: I get it. He might be a good guy.
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  Speaker 3: He might be of course he's going to be grieving,
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  Speaker 3: but I don't know if someone's dying wish.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, you got to that.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, like, no matter what I do, I'm
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  Speaker 1: letting someone down.
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  Speaker 2: I just I need opinions.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I'm sorry you're going through this because you're first
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  Speaker 3: of all, you're grieving and that's a lot.
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  Speaker 4: Then you have to worry about the pressure of this.
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  Speaker 4: It can't be easy.
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  Speaker 3: I've always wondered, like, if there's certain people I wouldn't
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  Speaker 3: want at my funeral.
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  Speaker 5: You've wondered that, Oh yeah, is that weird. Yeah, it's
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  Speaker 5: weird for me.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, they never mind. Whatever you do, don't let pooh.
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  Speaker 4: Oh my god, No, you know I.
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  Speaker 5: Feel for you. Yeah, because I know you just want
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  Speaker 5: to do the right thing.
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  Speaker 4: But what is the right thing?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, what is the right thing?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and he might be a good guy, but you
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  Speaker 3: know what. Listen, you catch someone on a breakup and
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  Speaker 3: then this happens. Yeah, I got a couple girls might
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  Speaker 3: not be at my funeral. Hey, good luck. I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 3: First of all, I'm thinking about you and your family
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  Speaker 3: and let us know what happens.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, I laugh when things are weird. So sorry, but
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  Speaker 4: that's my crutch. But good luck.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, thank you.
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  Speaker 4: You're welcome.
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  Speaker 3: Oh man, Yes, I don't trust Pooh. If you can't
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  Speaker 3: make it to Billy's funeral, don't worry. We're gonna stream
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  Speaker 3: it at an AMC theater. That's something he'll do, bottle
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  Speaker 3: service making money. He'll put me on tour. He'll bring
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  Speaker 3: me around the Metroplex. He'll just John yeah who knows,
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  Speaker 3: in his car. I'll be in the back of his car,
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  Speaker 3: propped up, be doing cameos.
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  Speaker 4: Oh my god,