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Be The One Emitting Your Own Frequency & Dealing With Other People’s Projections · Beyond Limits With Olivia Marie

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  SPEAKER_00: Welcome to the Live Wealth Podcast, hosted by me, Liv.
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  SPEAKER_00: And with that, let's get into the show.
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  SPEAKER_00: Hello, hello, welcome back to another episode of the Live Well podcast.
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  SPEAKER_00: I am excited as always to be diving into another episode.
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  SPEAKER_00: And today we are really talking about being the one emitting your own frequency and dealing with other people's projections.
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  SPEAKER_00: This has come up so many times lately that I was like, all right, let's just make a podcast episode.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is coming up with clients, it's coming up with people in Telegram days, it's coming up with questions and DMs and everything like that.
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  SPEAKER_00: It is a big question because projections are one of the big things that really dictate sales in your business, whether you are emitting your own frequency or whether you absorb other people's and their projections, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: And so being someone who is solid when other people project their limitations onto you will dictate whether you are unstoppable or whether you dip into fear and doubt.
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  SPEAKER_00: And this is something I have very much built.
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  SPEAKER_00: Um, I very much used to take on other people's energy, frequency, projections, and so we're gonna kind of go through all of that today.
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  SPEAKER_00: One of the big things I see is very much a normalizing of absorbing other people's projections.
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  SPEAKER_00: And when we don't have enough personal power, essentially we absorb other people's projections and we absorb other people's frequency, other people's energy, etc.
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  SPEAKER_00: Way back when I first discovered that I was an empath, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: And this is not just only true for empaths, but I bring this empath in because it's come up before that, oh, I'm an empath, so I naturally absorb people's energy projections, and also depending on your human design and your open centers, you can absorb through wherever your open centers are, other people's frequency and projections.
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  SPEAKER_00: But taking them on and like having it affect your energy and your frequency is very much your responsibility, very much not something we blame other people for.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so I definitely, you know, as an I'm gonna say a recovered empath, a recovered empath, yes, I still feel people now, but I don't absorb their frequency or absorb the projections like I did because I have solid personal power.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so when we think about emitting our own frequency, I want you to think about it like a lighthouse, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: When a lighthouse is emitting its own light, it doesn't matter what's going on in the darkness of the void of the room of where it is, its light is so strong and so bright that it does not matter.
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  SPEAKER_00: And when we think about light versus dark, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: It doesn't matter anyone else's dark, and by dark I mean projections, negative energy, etc.
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  SPEAKER_00: If your light is strong, you illuminate anything.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so it's less about protecting yourself, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Everyone says, Oh, how do you protect your energy?
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  SPEAKER_00: And I guarantee, if you go back to my podcast episode, like two, three years ago, I think I have something called how to protect your energy, which is like things I did to protect my energy as I was building personal power.
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  SPEAKER_00: But you move from needing to protect yourself and then to just being someone who's in your power, which is a lot less exhausting than needing to always have to protect yourself to such a degree that you know it either makes or breaks you if you don't um use some like protection energetic practices.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, in order to really be the one emitting your own frequency, we need to first dissolve the things that are true in our frequency, that other people's frequency is then activating and resonating within us.
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  SPEAKER_00: So if we are taking on other people's limiting beliefs, projections, negative energy, it's because there is still something in our frequency that is truth to that.
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  SPEAKER_00: So let's say someone has a projection that rich people are evil.
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  SPEAKER_00: If I still had a thread of that of truth in my field, in my energy, then I would absorb it because it has something to stick to.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: It has like, oh, it's resonant with an idea that's already in my field.
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  SPEAKER_00: If that's not in my field, I don't absorb it.
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  SPEAKER_00: It becomes like oil and water.
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  SPEAKER_00: They're just separate, it just runs off.
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  SPEAKER_00: So the number one thing to start evaluating, because we always take self-responsibility, we don't blame other people, remember from my world, is all right, if you're absorbing other people's negative energy, limitations, whatever it is, what part of you still believes that?
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  SPEAKER_00: What part of you still has that fear and doubt?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because if you didn't, you wouldn't stick to you, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Or whether they think you can, I don't know, make a million dollars, if they, you know, but don't believe you can have this business, they don't believe you can do this, it's because on some level, you don't believe it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now they can still have that opinion, have that projection, but the projection won't affect you if it doesn't have resonance with you.
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  SPEAKER_00: So that's the difference.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you notice that you're absorbing things into you, it's because part of you still identifies with that, and so that's kind of like the work to clean up.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because you will continue to deal with this at every level, and so you could start trying to have to protect yourself and protect yourself and protect yourself, but then that signals to your nervous system that you need to constantly protect yourself.
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  SPEAKER_00: And a nervous system that keeps getting the signal protect, protect, protect, protect, protect.
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  SPEAKER_00: How are they gonna feel safe?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because you keep needing how to protect yourself from Joe and Sally and people you know, your friends, your family, your partner, strangers on the internet.
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  SPEAKER_00: You gotta protect yourself from all of this.
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  SPEAKER_00: No, what how are you gonna feel safe?
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  SPEAKER_00: Your nervous system is gonna be hyper-vigilant and start looking like, oh my god, I have to protect myself from all of these potential things, all of these potential people.
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  SPEAKER_00: How am I gonna do so?
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  SPEAKER_00: And then it doesn't feel safe, and then we get anxiety, and then we give away our power, and it becomes one whole big vicious loop.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like we think about the amount of people, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because in this day and age, it's not just parents and people we know, it's strangers on the internet, it's the whole cancel culture feel fear and all that.
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  SPEAKER_00: And then, you know, when we're scared of other people's projections, we then don't say what we mean.
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  SPEAKER_00: And when we don't say what we mean, we can't be seen in our truth.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're holding back in all that we are, and when we're holding back in all that we are, we cannot be highly paid.
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  unknown: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: The version of you that is highly paid is the version of you who's operating in your full truth.
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  SPEAKER_00: But right now you're operating in a half truth or in a lukewarm truth, you're kind of being vanilla.
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  SPEAKER_00: The vanilla version of you is not making sales with ease and repeat.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, in order to shift from taking on other people's projections to emitting your own frequency, start identifying what aspects of their projections and truth are you taking on, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Are you actually like you feel in your bot in your body, and you'll know.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because if it's not, then it'll happen, you'll have a projection, they won't even think about it, and like you'll kind of move on with your day.
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  SPEAKER_00: You'll be completely neutral.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, what it really means to truly emit your own frequency is that you kind of become like oil to water, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Your light is so strong that it illuminates anything, it's stronger than any lack, negativity, projections, any kind of dark, even though there's no such thing as like bad or wrong or not as it should be, just for like the analogy purposes of context, it's just duality.
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  SPEAKER_00: You're strong.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I guarantee that you've encountered people who emit their own frequency and it's strong.
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  SPEAKER_00: And you almost know that like you can't really project onto them, or you might get really triggered and reactive and try to.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, in order to stay solid in your own frequency, when things come up or people say something, so you don't waver, we have to be cleaning up your personal power and specifically cleaning up the ways where you're still giving your power away in that aspect, depending on what their projection is.
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  SPEAKER_00: I cannot tell you once I built personal power, I stopped absorbing other people's projections.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I get a lot of them.
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  SPEAKER_00: I am a five-one line in human design.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if you are five-line, bless DM me, but we will be five-line friends because a five-line attracts a lot of projections.
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  SPEAKER_00: We are actually here to unfortunately, we bring out a lot of unhealed aspects of people.
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  SPEAKER_00: So we attract projections because we are essentially walking triggers, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: So especially like this goes for everyone, but especially if you're a five-line, like I know you know, you got it.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you know you know.
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  SPEAKER_00: Once I started admitting my own frequency and I cleaned up all these areas and I brought my personal power back within me versus needing them to make me feel okay, make me feel good, loved, safe, validated, whatever it is, it's a game changer.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: You're and this goes like guess for business and money and sales and all that.
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  SPEAKER_00: It also goes for any other area of your life.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm just hopping on to let you guys know about the new power program.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is changing the game when it comes to building uncircumstantial personal power.
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  SPEAKER_00: Your nervous system will never be the same.
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  SPEAKER_00: We will be covering everything to become unstoppable in your personal power.
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  SPEAKER_00: That personal power then gives you the audacity to truly be all that you are.
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  SPEAKER_00: We will be covering everything to break out of the wounding, trauma, and conditioning that creates circumstantial personal power, building that audacity to have a rock, solid confidence and speak your truth, dissolving those physical symptoms that go with a lack of personal power, releasing fears and doubts, being able to set boundaries and hold them with ease so you no longer feel pleased, how to not dip into your power no matter the circumstance, and be the one admitting your own power and really dissolving that feeling of being a victim of your life and really how to anchor in, taking your power back and being the creator of it.
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  SPEAKER_00: It is so juicy, it's so good.
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  SPEAKER_00: We will leave the description for it down below, as well as the link to join.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm so excited to help you rewire your nervous system from all the stuck emotions and trauma and anchor in personal power.
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  SPEAKER_00: We'll also be going through the exact processes and methods to build it so you don't dip ever again.
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  SPEAKER_00: So if you want your nervous system to be unstoppable when it comes to personal power, take your power back and get off that roller coaster of external circumstance.
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  SPEAKER_00: I will see you inside.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because when you are solid in your power, everything else flourishes.
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  SPEAKER_00: Your relationships flourish, your money flourishes, your business flourishes, everything does, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: And so when you emit your own frequency, you can then hold boundaries with ease.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because boundaries are not about just setting boundaries.
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  SPEAKER_00: A lot of people come to me and say, Well, I try to set boundaries, but so and so doesn't, you know, respect them or follow them.
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  SPEAKER_00: They don't follow them, that's a you problem.
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  SPEAKER_00: That is a you in your like lack of personal power problem.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because A, you either set the boundary and then you've caved, which tells them that you're not serious, or B, you set it, but that you don't have the power to actually enforce it.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so you cave again.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so the thing is, is that when it comes to boundaries, yes, we need safety to set boundaries, but safety will allow you to set boundaries.
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  SPEAKER_00: Power allows you to hold boundaries, which are two different things, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Setting is just saying it for like the first time, and like, you know, I need you to not talk about this or I need you to do this.
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  SPEAKER_00: And then if they push back, power is what happens after they try to not to respect it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right.
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  SPEAKER_00: The first time they they don't respect it, that's on them.
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  SPEAKER_00: But like if they continue to and like there's no repercussions or you don't enforce the boundary, then it's on you.
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  SPEAKER_00: But if that doesn't feel fully locked into your nervous system, then power is going to be a difficult thing for you to hold.
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  SPEAKER_00: And then you'll take on other people's projections.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so this is what happens when we take on those projections that aren't ours, is that they create leaks in our energetic field.
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  SPEAKER_00: Other people's projections about what we should do or shouldn't do, or what's possible for us, or about what's not about though their beliefs about something.
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  SPEAKER_00: And this, no matter what belief or truth you have, there is someone with a like a possible projection that's the opposite.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'll give an example.
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  SPEAKER_00: For example, you guys know I'm very much healing your nervous system is simple, it does not have to take a lot of time.
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  SPEAKER_00: It does not take a lot of time for me, my clients.
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  SPEAKER_00: There are many people who it takes a lot of time for.
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  SPEAKER_00: They're just don't have all the information and are doing things like putting their face an ice bath instead of actually addressing the root cause.
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  SPEAKER_00: So they project that no, you're wrong.
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  SPEAKER_00: Healing your nervous system takes time, it takes like a year.
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  SPEAKER_00: I've been healing my nervous system for a year, and I'm still always dysregulated.
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  SPEAKER_00: These are like some of the comments I'll get on my Instagram.
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  SPEAKER_00: Imagine if I were to take that on, and then I would dilute my truth.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I'm like, oh, maybe I should say I should be more vanilla, and be like, you know what?
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  SPEAKER_00: It might take a long time.
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  SPEAKER_00: How would that serve my clients?
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm here to empower women to be like, no, it does not take time.
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  SPEAKER_00: It takes four steps.
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  SPEAKER_00: I take you through them in safety, and that's it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Or in power.
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  SPEAKER_00: Some people think, like, oh, it's normal to absorb other people's energy.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm an empath, so I just absorb energy, and like that's just the way I have to be.
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  SPEAKER_00: Or I'm a five-line, so I just have to absorb other people's projections.
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  SPEAKER_00: I attract other people's projections, but I don't absorb them, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: And so very much I'm don't subscribe to those limitations.
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  SPEAKER_00: If I were not to say that and be quiet, then I'm actually not helping anyone, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm not helping people heal our nervous system.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm not helping people have personal power.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm not helping empaths or five lines who like just feel like that's what that has to happen because it's not.
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  SPEAKER_00: So when we take on those projections, we become more vanilla version of ourselves.
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  SPEAKER_00: When we are a vanilla version, we water down our power and we receive in life the same degree of personal power we have, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because our personal power is the representation of our totality.
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  SPEAKER_00: Our power is a representation of all that we are.
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  SPEAKER_00: We turn down our power on who all that we are, we turn down what we receive.
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  SPEAKER_00: Receive in business and money and relationships and everything.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because I guarantee if you have personal power issues in your relationship, it's showing up in your business.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you're having them in your business, it shows up in your romantic relationships with your parents, with your friends.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's maybe in different ways and different degrees, but it's showing up in usually multiple areas.
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  SPEAKER_00: So if you know there are people also like close in your life who are projecting onto you a husband, a partner, a parent, a friend, notice if you actually get triggered by it, if you actually get reactive.
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  SPEAKER_00: That means there's truth.
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  SPEAKER_00: So let's say a parent or like your mom or your friend is saying that you know you better hurry up and settle down.
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  SPEAKER_00: You're never gonna find someone, you know, if you don't do XYZ, or you should be less picky, or you should, you know, have lower your standards, or blah blah blah blah, or they're projecting onto you.
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  SPEAKER_00: That will only affect you if part of you believes that.
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  SPEAKER_00: So you need to clean that up so that they can say something and then it doesn't affect you.
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  SPEAKER_00: Of course, and we set boundaries.
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  SPEAKER_00: Especially if maybe that's not the place you seek advice from if you know that what their beliefs and values are about something.
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  SPEAKER_00: We don't ever want to be seeking advice from someone who isn't where we are, or like you know, or higher.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're not asking like business advice from a friend who doesn't have a business.
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  SPEAKER_00: That wouldn't make sense.
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  SPEAKER_00: So same thing.
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  SPEAKER_00: So let's say someone close to you is projecting onto you that your business is not gonna be successful.
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  SPEAKER_00: That only affects you if you actually believe that to some degree.
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  SPEAKER_00: So you then have to clean that up and take back your power so that they can say something and it doesn't affect you.
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  SPEAKER_00: Or their beliefs about money, or the whole thing about the economy and this and this and that.
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  SPEAKER_00: People say lots of stuff all the time.
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  SPEAKER_00: I do not absorb it at all.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's a lot of projections, and I'm so neutral, but it's because I have personal power.
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  SPEAKER_00: And they may not even be doing it consciously, and they could be doing this out of like quote unquote love because they actually think they're being loving, they want to quote unquote protect you.
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  SPEAKER_00: So notice what part has truth.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because if you don't resolve that truth, it doesn't matter if it's someone close to you or a stranger, you're gonna keep attracting that projection until you heal that projection and you heal that part of you and you change the way your nervous system is responding to it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because every time you dip, every time you dull your who you are and you absorb other people's frequencies, A, it gets more noisy in your head.
• 17:47
  SPEAKER_00: You don't feel as tapped into your power, right?
• 17:49
  SPEAKER_00: You don't feel that tapped in, tuned in, turned on kind of feeling.
• 17:53
  SPEAKER_00: There's noise in your head, there's like noise in your body, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Depending on what your open centers are in human design, you'll absorb it in different ways.
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  SPEAKER_00: And you won't feel clear, you won't have that clarity.
• 18:04
  SPEAKER_00: The calmer you are, the clearer you think.
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  SPEAKER_00: But you cannot be like calm if you're reacting and in reaction mode to other people's projections and you're absorbing everyone else's frequency instead of emitting your own.
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  SPEAKER_00: And again, know that if you try to tell your brain, oh, other people are not gonna have projections, they're not going to do this, they're not gonna do that.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's a lie.
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  SPEAKER_00: They will.
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  SPEAKER_00: With so much love, I'm here to tell you that you will attract more projections.
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  SPEAKER_00: People may not, may they may do it out of love, they might do it reactionally, unconsciously, they might just like project on, they will do it.
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  SPEAKER_00: But when you clean up your personal power, you no longer become reactive to it.
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  SPEAKER_00: It is like a superpower, right?
• 18:41
  SPEAKER_00: Because if you let that bog you down, you're gonna then, like we said, show up in a vanilla version, turn down your power, turn down your frequency, and you become less receptive to everything that you desire.
• 18:54
  SPEAKER_00: Your personal power is your magnetism.
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  SPEAKER_00: So the things that take you out of your power are also taking you out of your magnetism.
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  SPEAKER_00: And the great thing is that it's literally that simple to be the one emitting your own frequency.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's all it takes.
• 19:06
  SPEAKER_00: So, with that being said, if you like this episode, please let me know.
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  SPEAKER_00: Send me a message on Instagram, and we will leave a link for the power program down below so that you can become the one who is emitting your own frequency instead of absorbing others and their projections and really become that woman with audacity who stays tapped into her power no matter what.
• 19:29
  SPEAKER_00: So, with that being said, I love you guys so much, and I will talk to you in the next episode.