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Manifestation Trends & Date Set Ups · On Air with Ryan Seacrest

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  Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us.
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  Speaker 2: On air with a Ryan Seacrest, but.
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  Speaker 3: Two point seven kiss FM.
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  Speaker 1: So Michael in the back room was invited to a
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  Speaker 1: wedding a few days ago, and you were invited but
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  Speaker 1: without a plus one.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, which this one was fine because a lot of
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  Speaker 4: single friends were there. But I have three coming up,
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  Speaker 4: and the group of friends that are going into these
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  Speaker 4: weddings all have plus ones because they're in relationships.
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  Speaker 5: So I feel awkward when I go and I have
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  Speaker 5: no one else, no one else.
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  Speaker 4: To share a hotel, no chance with maybe a guy
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  Speaker 4: friend or just I don't know another friend where I'm
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  Speaker 4: not like alone, like sitting by myself, like at certain
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  Speaker 4: parts of the night.
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  Speaker 5: I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: A lot of times when people are getting married, they
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  Speaker 1: sort of a rule if you haven't been with the
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  Speaker 1: person for three months or something like that, then we're
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  Speaker 1: not really invited, right. They don't want strangers at their wedding.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, Tanya, I didn't want me to bring anybody.
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  Speaker 6: No, I had a hard We had no plus ones.
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  Speaker 6: If you were the only people I gave plus ones.
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  Speaker 6: Two were like people that were in the wedding, So
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  Speaker 6: like two of my best friends that are single.
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  Speaker 7: I said, if they wanted to bring somebody.
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  Speaker 1: Ryan, you give me a deadline to have to, like
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  Speaker 1: tell you if somebody was filling.
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  Speaker 7: Everybody gives a deadline for their wedding.
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  Speaker 1: But she didn't really want me to bring somebody. I
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  Speaker 1: could tell by the deadline everybody.
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  Speaker 2: That's why they didn't bring anybody. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I think that.
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  Speaker 1: It's up to the bride and the groom because if
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  Speaker 1: they don't want somebody, they don't know what their wedding.
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  Speaker 1: I kind of get that, Sysney Mikayla.
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  Speaker 5: I mean I get that too.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, instead a wedding that like I don't know
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  Speaker 4: a lot of people I only know like that that
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  Speaker 4: don't go well, I guess that's an option too.
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  Speaker 2: But that is that's true.
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  Speaker 1: That's a great option. Don't let them take up your
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  Speaker 1: weekend looking for somebody. Yeah, I find somebody.
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  Speaker 5: I never thought of that. But I also love the brides,
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  Speaker 5: so I feel like I need.
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  Speaker 1: To, oh, you know, not so much if she want
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  Speaker 1: to let you bring a friend.
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  Speaker 5: Not true.
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  Speaker 2: It's not about her not letting her bring a friend.
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  Speaker 2: It's just that you have these rules that you just
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  Speaker 2: maxed out with the guest list.
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  Speaker 1: There's a cutoff point too, but don't take it personally.
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  Speaker 1: But you can also very easily, and I can give
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  Speaker 1: you exactly what to say.
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  Speaker 3: I know how to blow off weddings really easily.
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  Speaker 1: You can tell me as tany you said tell people
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  Speaker 1: for years she had to work for me on America's
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  Speaker 1: at forty one weekends, which.
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  Speaker 3: Was never true. She never had to work there true.
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  Speaker 7: But I just get out of weddings that way.
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  Speaker 6: I got out of spending the night with men that
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  Speaker 6: I didn't want to spend the night with.
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  Speaker 3: Well, you don't need me as an excuse to not
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  Speaker 3: spend the night with a guy.
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  Speaker 7: It was an amazing excuse, MICHAELA.
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  Speaker 1: You can always and if they I can leave you
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  Speaker 1: a voice mail or something that says, hey, you got
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  Speaker 1: to see it.
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  Speaker 8: See it.
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  Speaker 3: Mind that.
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  Speaker 1: We moved up to countdown at eight forty tomorrow Sunday morning. Yeah, Michaela,
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  Speaker 1: you're always going through it.
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  Speaker 3: Did you anything go on with this guy on Raya?
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  Speaker 9: No?
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  Speaker 4: Ever since I asked that, it's been like slow, like
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  Speaker 4: having gotten like the messages back kind of fizzled out,
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  Speaker 4: So I think, oh, I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: Ever since you asked if he was in a relationship
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  Speaker 1: because your friend told you that he's guilty.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, guilty, unless he just doesn't like that, I like,
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  Speaker 4: kind of snooped.
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  Speaker 5: I guess I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: Whatever.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, well, not the one.
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  Speaker 3: He's not the one.
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  Speaker 1: There's plenty of Garretts and Billies and Tommy's on Rio.
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  Speaker 2: Who will you end up with? Will it be a Trevor?
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  Speaker 3: Maybe it's a Trevor, Oh, I love it?
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  Speaker 2: And Andrew.
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  Speaker 7: Or what Robert?
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  Speaker 3: No?
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  Speaker 2: Maybe Michael?
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  Speaker 7: What about Wyatt?
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  Speaker 3: It will not be a Wyatt.
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  Speaker 7: Xander.
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  Speaker 3: It's never a Xander.
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  Speaker 2: No, never, Xander.
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  Speaker 1: Might be a Gabe, Johnie Xavier Jack. Well, well, she'll
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  Speaker 1: tell us when you find somebody in Raya.
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  Speaker 5: Maybe I'll find someone at the wedding.
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  Speaker 3: You do it. It's them.
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  Speaker 1: us now. I need everybody to lean in on this.
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  Speaker 1: When Christian calling with an issue, Sisney Tany in Long Beach, Christian,
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  Speaker 1: good morning.
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  Speaker 10: Hey, good morning. How's it going.
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  Speaker 3: It's going all right here? How can we help you?
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  Speaker 3: What's up?
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  Speaker 10: All right?
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  Speaker 11: So?
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  Speaker 10: I need a little advice. Basically, my boyfriend is has
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  Speaker 10: been living with me, crashing with me for a few months,
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  Speaker 10: and he doesn't pay rent, which, hey, that's fine for me.
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  Speaker 10: I'm paying it all. I don't really, I'm not really complaining,
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  Speaker 10: but just recently, my sister needs a place to stay.
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  Speaker 10: We have the space, and I'm like, it's my sister,
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  Speaker 10: of course, you can live with us for as long
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  Speaker 10: as you need to to get on your feet. And
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  Speaker 10: he's pissed because he's like, I don't want to live
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  Speaker 10: with your sister. And I'm kind of like, but you
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  Speaker 10: don't pay rent, you know what I mean?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean for those who don't pay rent, did
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  Speaker 3: they get right?
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  Speaker 2: It's not making him rent, you know, it's kind of.
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  Speaker 10: I don't want to, Like, I don't want him to
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  Speaker 10: be uncomfortable in like a space that we're supposed to share.
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  Speaker 10: But I pay one hundred percent of the rent. You know,
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  Speaker 10: you paid fifty.
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  Speaker 2: Then it would be okay for him to be upset.
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  Speaker 10: Yeah. I think if we were like, if it was
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  Speaker 10: an even split, it would be like, Okay, you have
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  Speaker 10: every right this is your home to sure, let's talk
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  Speaker 10: about it, let's come up with something, or maybe I
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  Speaker 10: would just say okay, sorry to my sister. You got
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  Speaker 10: to find another situation. But in this particular instance, since
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  Speaker 10: I'm the only one paying and basically both of them
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  Speaker 10: want to live there for free, I don't know. I
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  Speaker 10: feel like blood is kind of thicker than water in
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  Speaker 10: this case. And a little bit I'm with you.
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  Speaker 1: I seeing if you're funding one hundred percent of the rent,
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  Speaker 1: then you get to call the shots no matter what
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  Speaker 1: the situation is.
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  Speaker 3: And if you're feeling.
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  Speaker 1: Tanya, absolutely, if you're paying one hundred percent of the rent,
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  Speaker 1: you don't get.
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  Speaker 7: To say, bro, it's just not true.
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  Speaker 3: Some people are It's just true.
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  Speaker 7: It's just not true.
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  Speaker 2: But you know what, I don't think it comes down
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  Speaker 2: to money. It's family, period. If he's going to marry
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  Speaker 2: you, you guys gonna go the distance or whatever like this,
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  Speaker 2: things like this happen, you're gonna have to take family
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  Speaker 2: in or help out or whatever, and you got to
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  Speaker 2: roll with the.
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  Speaker 10: Punches, right. I think that's a good point. I mean,
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  Speaker 10: you know, I hope that we're in this for the
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  Speaker 10: long haul, but I don't know that yet. And my
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  Speaker 10: sister is my sister, you know.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, Like if this was me and my sister or
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  Speaker 2: my brother had to come and live with us or whatever.
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  Speaker 2: I would just tell Michael. It wouldn't be like we
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  Speaker 2: need to talk about it and see if it works.
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  Speaker 2: It was like, well, let's make it work.
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  Speaker 1: I do think you, oh, it's your part to make
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  Speaker 1: it work together. And I do feel like if you're
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  Speaker 1: funding rent, you call the shots. I just think that's
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  Speaker 1: the way it goes.
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  Speaker 3: It's not well tonya. Have you ever funded all the rent?
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  Speaker 7: Have I ever funded all the rent?
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  Speaker 12: No?
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  Speaker 6: But I think that it doesn't matter because I think
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  Speaker 6: there's a lot of people in relationships where one person
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  Speaker 6: works and one person doesn't. That person funds everything, but
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  Speaker 6: they have equals, say, in the relationship. Many people live
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  Speaker 6: that way. It's a great point. Thank you, Mark.
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  Speaker 1: Are you talking to yourself about making a great point?
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  Speaker 10: Mark?
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  Speaker 2: Such a great point.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, No, it's like your own conversation over there, patting
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  Speaker 1: yourself on the back.
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  Speaker 7: Mark said, great point that. Thank you, Christian.
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  Speaker 1: Good luck with this situation. A tricky one, but do
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  Speaker 1: what you feel it's best in your heart. And thanks
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  Speaker 1: for calling.
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  Speaker 10: Hey, Thanks, Ally, I appreciate it.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, family, first period, take care.
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  Speaker 1: Why don't two point seven kiss FM? I know Sistanty's
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  Speaker 1: a dog person. Tony is a dog person. I'm a
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  Speaker 1: dog father, the dog father.
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  Speaker 2: You say it like that sounds so powerful.
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  Speaker 3: I gotta have to say the dog father, dog father.
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  Speaker 7: Let's see, I'm married a dog father.
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  Speaker 3: MICHAELA. Are you a dog person or a cat person?
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  Speaker 7: Oh?
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  Speaker 5: Dogs all the way? I'm alertic to cats?
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  Speaker 3: Are you really? Are you so like them?
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  Speaker 9: No?
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  Speaker 1: I'm I know people that say they're allergic. Just don't
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  Speaker 1: have to be your own cats or cat people.
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  Speaker 5: And I'm to some dogs too.
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  Speaker 3: Sadly, it's very sad. Ruby. Are you a dog or
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  Speaker 3: a cat person?
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  Speaker 2: I love dogs. I love both, but I love dogs.
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  Speaker 2: I know I like cats too. Let's not trash the cat.
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  Speaker 1: To make a choice. Yeah, I could not have both.
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  Speaker 1: I had to make a choice. I've gone down the
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  Speaker 1: dog path. But I have best friends that had dogs
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  Speaker 1: all their lives and they became cat people.
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  Speaker 2: Cats are cool. I love both. I want to get
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  Speaker 2: a cat next.
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  Speaker 1: You have too many things already.
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  Speaker 7: Take care of themselves, very self sufficient.
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  Speaker 3: But all right, then get a cat, Tanya, you should
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  Speaker 3: get a cat.
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  Speaker 7: I don't want a cat.
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  Speaker 1: Whoa whoa was a strong negativity. Anyway, the cat hate. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: there's cat loathing there. Jenny and Guardina is on the
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  Speaker 1: line and Jenny, your boyfriend is terrified of dogs. You're
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  Speaker 1: a dog person and he's terrified at dogs.
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  Speaker 11: Yeah, so you know, like he's so scared of dogs.
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  Speaker 11: And I'm like, is that a deal breaker? Because like
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  Speaker 11: my whole life, I've always loved dogs, and I've always
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  Speaker 11: sent a side of having like two kids and two dogs.
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  Speaker 11: He's like such a great guy and everyway we're very compatible,
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  Speaker 11: but like, I don't know if I can marry a
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  Speaker 11: guy who doesn't love dogs. We've been together for a year,
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  Speaker 11: so I'm like, is this a deal breaker?
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  Speaker 1: I have to tell you, I have a buddy who
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  Speaker 1: comes over every once in a while and Georgia and
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  Speaker 1: my dog tries to sit next to this friend of
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  Speaker 1: mine and he doesn't like dogs, and it kind of
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  Speaker 1: bothers me. It really bothers me that he doesn't He
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  Speaker 1: doesn't like Georgia sniffing around him or getting.
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  Speaker 3: Near his knee, And I have to say it.
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  Speaker 1: It does bother me now that I say anything, no,
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  Speaker 1: but it festers inside of me. I don't know that
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  Speaker 1: I could date somebody that is terrified of my dog. Georgia,
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  Speaker 1: and that'd be a real problem.
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  Speaker 2: Why does why does as your boyfriend hate dogs so much?
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  Speaker 2: Or did he have a trauma back in the day.
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  Speaker 11: Oh no, his family never been like a pet family,
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  Speaker 11: so he's never really been around dog.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, So then there's hope now because he has had
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  Speaker 1: a bad experience with the dog, never having a dog,
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  Speaker 1: there's hope for him to fall in love with your dog,
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  Speaker 1: and that then this should be not.
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  Speaker 3: Be a deal breaker for you.
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  Speaker 2: This can be reversed.
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  Speaker 1: It can be reversed. It's just like one of those
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  Speaker 1: things procedures you can reverse.
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  Speaker 2: Sure, you want to look at it like that.
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  Speaker 3: You know what I'm thinking. I know, so, Jenny, I
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  Speaker 3: think this is fine.
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  Speaker 1: If you get there from that, because reversible just came.
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  Speaker 2: Like, you know what, I was thinking the same thing.
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  Speaker 1: But I say, thank you, Jenny, you don't need to
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  Speaker 1: deal break on this.
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  Speaker 3: I think you can convince him to be a dog lover.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, and if he's a good guy, they're hard to find,
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  Speaker 1: so give this a shot.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I thank you, guys, all right, thanks Jenny.
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  Speaker 6: One of my girlfriends isn't like dogs, but when she's
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  Speaker 6: around a guy that she likes, she loves his dog,
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  Speaker 6: you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 3: So she's lying to him to stay with him.
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  Speaker 6: Not they're not together, but like it's just like she
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  Speaker 6: like has a crush on him and she like likes
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  Speaker 6: that dog.
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  Speaker 2: You know, does she like your dog?
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  Speaker 7: No?
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  Speaker 1: I would pretend to like cats for someone.
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  Speaker 3: Good people are hard.
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  Speaker 2: What about snakes?
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  Speaker 1: I mean it depends on.
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  Speaker 2: You meet the perfect girl and then you go and
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  Speaker 2: she has a snake.
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  Speaker 1: It's not something I love. That might be a problem
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  Speaker 1: for me. She has a snake slithering around in a
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  Speaker 1: glass container.
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  Speaker 3: Oh gosh, but I would try.
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  Speaker 3: Also, do you use chatchy pt? Everybody does every day?
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  Speaker 1: You ever named it?
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  Speaker 3: Geo?
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  Speaker 2: Yep, that's my chatchypt's name, all right.
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  Speaker 3: So there are some things you should never tell GEO.
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  Speaker 1: One personally identifiable information, your full name, your date of birth,
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  Speaker 1: your email address. Wait, why tonya, Tanya? I can't even
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  Speaker 1: say it on the air. There may be chat bots listening. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: buffer that out. Number two. Never say to chat GPT
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  Speaker 1: health information, including seeking health advice. Oh I do that
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  Speaker 1: all the time, all your issues.
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  Speaker 3: It's a problem.
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  Speaker 2: But why is that a problem. It's a problem. It
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  Speaker 2: literally told me that I needed to take my son
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  Speaker 2: to the emergency room.
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  Speaker 3: That's your son, not you.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I was like putting all of his symptoms in
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  Speaker 2: there and then we went and the good thing we did,
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  Speaker 2: they said, we caught it just before it turned into pneumonia.
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  Speaker 3: That's well, pneumonia's a bad thing. You don't want that.
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  Speaker 1: Then it worked out for you this time, but will
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  Speaker 1: it every time next? Don't ever tell your chat gypt
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  Speaker 1: illegal activity even as a joke, Tanya.
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  Speaker 7: Well, I don't really do illegal activity.
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  Speaker 1: Well you say, really really want to press but I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: so today's quote, worry is like a rocking chair. Worry
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  Speaker 1: is like a rocking chair. It gives you something to do,
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  Speaker 1: but it gets you no place.
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  Speaker 7: Oh wow, that's great quote.
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  Speaker 1: We are going to get through it together. Lock arms.
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  Speaker 6: bombs around the Los Angeles area. On New Year's Eve,
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  Speaker 1: I do believe that when you think something it can happen,
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  Speaker 1: and you put it out the universe, it can happen.
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  Speaker 1: And if you think something negative or bad, it can
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  Speaker 1: also happens. True, you almost have to control your thoughts
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  Speaker 1: output into the universe. I can't catch all my thoughts,
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  Speaker 1: but I can kind of can con my manifestation of
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  Speaker 1: things in the universe.
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  Speaker 8: You know.
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  Speaker 1: They say if you write it down or you say
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  Speaker 1: it over and over again, it will and can happen.
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  Speaker 3: You can will it to happen.
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  Speaker 2: That's exactly what this method is. Kind of like that,
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  Speaker 2: because you're doing both.
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  Speaker 1: Essentially, they're saying it's a scary, powerful method of manifestation.
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  Speaker 5: Uh huh.
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  Speaker 1: It's called the ten ten ten method. It's on TikTok
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  Speaker 1: right now. Sisney tell us about it.
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  Speaker 2: The idea is to write ten things you're grateful for,
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  Speaker 2: ten things you want to manifest, and ten I am affirmations.
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  Speaker 1: Why ten?
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  Speaker 3: That's a lot? Can it be three?
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  Speaker 2: Well, it can also be the same thing every day,
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  Speaker 2: if they're the same things that you're thinking of. But
• 14:38
  Speaker 2: the point is to do this daily. It's a daily
• 14:41
  Speaker 2: practice and people are feeling more positive and focused and
• 14:45
  Speaker 2: apparently it's helping them attract what they want, whether it's
• 14:48
  Speaker 2: a dream job, maybe that relationship, or just better mindset.
• 14:53
  Speaker 2: And what makes it different from other manifestation hacks is
• 14:57
  Speaker 2: how structured it is. You're not just like wishing or visualizing.
• 15:02
  Speaker 2: You're actually writing it all a down every single day.
• 15:04
  Speaker 2: It's the every single day.
• 15:05
  Speaker 1: Part that's I guess that frequency does trigger your brain
• 15:10
  Speaker 1: in a different way other than thinking it. So if
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: you're physically writing it down, I would try this begins
• 15:15
  Speaker 1: to think it.
• 15:16
  Speaker 2: I would try this to people swear that it works.
• 15:19
  Speaker 2: Some TikTokers say that they saw results within weeks, and
• 15:23
  Speaker 2: it's kind of like a low, low key therapeutic.
• 15:26
  Speaker 7: Tell me one more time. It's ten things that you are.
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: Grateful, ten things you want to manifest, and ten I
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: am affirmations.
• 15:32
  Speaker 3: I'm going to do the three three three method. I
• 15:36
  Speaker 3: don't think I ever.
• 15:40
  Speaker 2: Try to want to proby.
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: I can't even think of ten things I want to
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: affirm them. Yes, no, yes, you can give me an
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: example of ten affirmations. I am strong, I am beautiful,
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: I am willing, I am worthy.
• 15:53
  Speaker 3: It's not like I'm talking.
• 15:54
  Speaker 7: I am funn I am that's the whole point.
• 15:59
  Speaker 11: I am.
• 16:00
  Speaker 7: I am smart, I am intentional, I am a catch.
• 16:05
  Speaker 3: I am a cat getting into this.
• 16:08
  Speaker 7: I'll do fast, aren't you. I'm good at You're a
• 16:12
  Speaker 7: fast runner.
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: I'm impatient. I'm more impatient than that. I am impatient,
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: but I wear that as a bragging tag.
• 16:19
  Speaker 10: Yeah.
• 16:20
  Speaker 3: I think my impatience benefits all of you.
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: And that's your one of your affirmations.
• 16:23
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I get bored easily. That benefits you.
• 16:28
  Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, we'll go with that.
• 16:31
  Speaker 3: There's a lot of work that manifestation practice.
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: What at two point seven kiss FM, If you just
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: got here, we're about to start a second date update.
• 16:40
  Speaker 3: So here is the issue. I took a survey the
• 16:44
  Speaker 3: other day and I was talking to.
• 16:48
  Speaker 7: What I was talking to people.
• 16:50
  Speaker 3: I took a survey.
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: The survey was women that I asked, and what are
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: the are they are single? And they said they cannot
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: find anybody good here, they cannot find anybody.
• 17:04
  Speaker 3: Quote normal here.
• 17:05
  Speaker 7: Why aren't they dating you?
• 17:08
  Speaker 3: I didn't ask that question in the survey.
• 17:10
  Speaker 2: WHOA is this a live survey?
• 17:11
  Speaker 3: This is a live survey. Do you Sometimes I'll just
• 17:14
  Speaker 3: stop at tables and I'll ask questions. Sin, No, I
• 17:17
  Speaker 3: definitely do not do that. Yeah, this was one of
• 17:19
  Speaker 3: those instances.
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: Anyway, They were like, I can't find anybody normal, but
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: Christian thought he found someone normal, right, just just to.
• 17:27
  Speaker 6: Put a pin in that, or just to just to
• 17:30
  Speaker 6: if somebody says that, that's such like an open door
• 17:33
  Speaker 6: for you to come in and be like, enter me,
• 17:37
  Speaker 6: enter me, That's.
• 17:37
  Speaker 3: What I'll say. Yeah, yeah, okay, yeah, got it. Yeah,
• 17:41
  Speaker 3: just taking notes here from Tanny. Giv me dainy advice.
• 17:43
  Speaker 6: No, when someone says I can't find anybody normal, you say, Hi,
• 17:47
  Speaker 6: I'm Ryan.
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: Yes normal, he's not normal?
• 17:51
  Speaker 3: Do I want to be normal?
• 17:52
  Speaker 11: Yes?
• 17:53
  Speaker 7: Oh my gosh, you're so normal compared to like all
• 17:56
  Speaker 7: these weirdos I've dated out there.
• 17:58
  Speaker 3: Oh thanks? So yes, where's the bar on this? Anyway?
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: Christian and Sherman Hooks, reaches out and says, we've actually
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: never gone out, but we were going to go out
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: and he canceled abruptly.
• 18:12
  Speaker 3: I have a theory as to why, and I need
• 18:15
  Speaker 3: to know if I am right.
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: Okay, Christian is on the line here in Sherman's Christian,
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: good morning, and thanks for reaching out to us.
• 18:21
  Speaker 3: What's your theory on why is this a guy named
• 18:24
  Speaker 3: Dylan Christian?
• 18:26
  Speaker 10: Yeah?
• 18:27
  Speaker 3: Okay, So why do you think he bailed on you
• 18:29
  Speaker 3: before you went out?
• 18:31
  Speaker 13: That's the thing I'm not quite sure. I mean after
• 18:35
  Speaker 13: we matched. I did send him a photo, so I mean,
• 18:41
  Speaker 13: like I said, we met on Scruff and we hit
• 18:44
  Speaker 13: it off like crazy, and then I was traveling for
• 18:47
  Speaker 13: work and the entire time we were chatting back and
• 18:48
  Speaker 13: forth and it was just going like so right, you know, yeah, wait,
• 18:56
  Speaker 13: you don't know what Scruff is?
• 18:57
  Speaker 3: I don't.
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: I also don't.
• 18:59
  Speaker 13: Oh come on, Ryan, it's a gay dating app. It's
• 19:02
  Speaker 13: like Grinder a bit better.
• 19:03
  Speaker 3: It's better than grin.
• 19:04
  Speaker 10: I think what makes it better?
• 19:06
  Speaker 3: Why Scruff better than grind?
• 19:08
  Speaker 10: The selection of men?
• 19:10
  Speaker 3: Got it?
• 19:11
  Speaker 7: Okay?
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: So, anyway, you met this guy on Scruff and why
• 19:14
  Speaker 3: do you think he bailed?
• 19:18
  Speaker 13: So that's what I'm trying to find out because we
• 19:20
  Speaker 13: were finally going to link. I was traveling we U
• 19:23
  Speaker 13: when we connected and matched, and then when I got
• 19:26
  Speaker 13: back to LA, we were scheduling a date for Saturday night,
• 19:29
  Speaker 13: and that afternoon, just like a few hours before the date,
• 19:33
  Speaker 13: he said, okay, like what are what are you going
• 19:35
  Speaker 13: to show?
• 19:35
  Speaker 9: Like?
• 19:35
  Speaker 10: What are you gonna wear?
• 19:37
  Speaker 13: So I sent him a photo was gonna wear that night,
• 19:39
  Speaker 13: And mind you, we had sent plenty of photos before that,
• 19:42
  Speaker 13: It's not like he'd never seen me before. But then
• 19:45
  Speaker 13: no response, and then an hour later he messaged me
• 19:48
  Speaker 13: that he doesn't think tonight's going to.
• 19:49
  Speaker 3: Work sorry because of what you sent him. What were
• 19:53
  Speaker 3: you wearing? What was the outfit?
• 19:55
  Speaker 13: I was wearing a great date fit like that I've
• 20:00
  Speaker 13: fit like some tight like it was tight.
• 20:03
  Speaker 10: Yeah.
• 20:03
  Speaker 13: I was wearing the slim black pants, white button down
• 20:06
  Speaker 13: shirt and you know it's just like slightly sheer, so
• 20:09
  Speaker 13: sexy but not too sexy, crop leather jacket that I
• 20:11
  Speaker 13: got in Miami last year. I looked good, like it
• 20:13
  Speaker 13: was date night good, not over the top.
• 20:16
  Speaker 3: And you think this guy bailed on you just because
• 20:18
  Speaker 3: of your look?
• 20:19
  Speaker 10: Yeah?
• 20:19
  Speaker 13: I think he was like, I don't like that outfit.
• 20:21
  Speaker 13: I don't like this guy anymore. And I'm like, well,
• 20:23
  Speaker 13: what's the catch because I have other things in my closet.
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: I mean, if that's the case, this guy's pettea And
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: do you really want to.
• 20:28
  Speaker 3: Get the scruff so good? Just go back on scruff
• 20:30
  Speaker 3: and find another dude.
• 20:32
  Speaker 10: Well, I might just do that.
• 20:33
  Speaker 13: But we were hitting it off like.
• 20:34
  Speaker 10: It was a good back and forth.
• 20:36
  Speaker 8: Leading up to that.
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: Okay, hold on, you sound cute and great.
• 20:41
  Speaker 10: Thanks, I am.
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: He's very humble. You've known him for two minutes and
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: thirty seconds, Tanya. I like the vibes, all right, hold
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: on one second. You like a sheer shirt and a
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: crop leather jacket from yeah, I do. All right, Well,
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: then what's this guy Dylan all about? And is he
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: really a good guy? If they met and the guy
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: bailed because of his look, we'll get back to that.
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: I think he's gonna come on with his next a kiss.
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: Hight let me explain this. We're in the middle of
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: a second date.
• 21:06
  Speaker 10: Update.
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: Christian reached out to us. He met Dylan on a
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: dating app and they were about to go out. Dylan asked, Christian,
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: what are you wearing for the date. Christian sent a
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: photo of him in tight jeans, kind of a sheer
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: white shirt and a cropped jacket, and after that picture was.
• 21:23
  Speaker 3: Sent to Dylan, Dylan bailed on the date.
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: Christian wants to know why because he felt like he
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: hit it off with this guy even though they never
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: met and gone out. He thought there was a connection.
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: And that's why we're making the call right now. Dylan
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: is on the line. Christian, can you hang on second?
• 21:38
  Speaker 8: Oh?
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, be very quiet. Let's see we can
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: find out. Hello Dylan, Hi, how are you.
• 21:49
  Speaker 13: Good?
• 21:50
  Speaker 8: Good?
• 21:50
  Speaker 3: My name is Ryan.
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: You're on the air with Tany and Siciny on Kiss
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: FM calling about a guy you met named Christian?
• 21:57
  Speaker 3: Did you meet a guy named Christian recently.
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: From Sherman?
• 22:03
  Speaker 8: Actually? Think you guys have I think you might have
• 22:06
  Speaker 8: the wrong number.
• 22:08
  Speaker 3: Is your name Dylan?
• 22:10
  Speaker 10: Yeah?
• 22:10
  Speaker 3: Are you on scruff the dating app? Yeah?
• 22:17
  Speaker 8: But you can have to be like way more like.
• 22:20
  Speaker 3: Did you be a guy Christian and almost go out
• 22:24
  Speaker 3: with him?
• 22:26
  Speaker 13: Umm?
• 22:29
  Speaker 8: Let me see you wait a minute? Wait? Does he
• 22:32
  Speaker 8: have like a piercing and his eyebrow?
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: That I don't know, but let's assume he does. Were
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: you about to go on a date with him, and
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: you bailed on him at the last minute. Does that
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: sound familiar?
• 22:45
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 22:47
  Speaker 9: All right, so he had he had a yeah, he had,
• 22:50
  Speaker 9: and he had a piercing and his eyebrow and his
• 22:53
  Speaker 9: hair is bleached blonde.
• 22:55
  Speaker 13: He's very cute.
• 22:56
  Speaker 8: Yeah I do remember now. Sorry, like you know those
• 22:59
  Speaker 8: appses many people.
• 23:00
  Speaker 3: Sorry, So did you did you go out with him
• 23:03
  Speaker 3: or not?
• 23:06
  Speaker 11: No?
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: Okay, why not? That's why we're calling. We happen to
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: know a little bit of the story here. But why
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: did you not go out with this guy named Christian?
• 23:14
  Speaker 9: Wait a minute, hold on, hold on, hala did he
• 23:17
  Speaker 9: have Ryan Seacrest called me to find out why I
• 23:19
  Speaker 9: ghosted him?
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: Kind of.
• 23:23
  Speaker 8: Oh my god, sorr iconic.
• 23:25
  Speaker 10: This is like a new one.
• 23:27
  Speaker 8: Okay, I'll tell you.
• 23:30
  Speaker 14: So.
• 23:32
  Speaker 8: This is why I like ask guys this question.
• 23:34
  Speaker 9: I would e gauge until like the like the expectations
• 23:37
  Speaker 9: you know, on the night, see if they're like, you know,
• 23:40
  Speaker 9: chill a casual and if I'm feeling chilling casual, great
• 23:44
  Speaker 9: we'll go out. But this guy was like totally not
• 23:46
  Speaker 9: chilling casual.
• 23:49
  Speaker 3: Okay, what was he like?
• 23:51
  Speaker 9: His outfit like was not chilling, casual, like he had
• 23:54
  Speaker 9: this like leather jacket with like a dressy shirt and
• 23:58
  Speaker 9: fancy pants. It was like so trying so hard. Honestly,
• 24:02
  Speaker 9: it gave me like such like first date energy's like
• 24:04
  Speaker 9: turn me so off.
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: Okay, well that is a great answer, Dylan, thank you
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: for answering the question. Christian is on the line with
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: us right now. He thought you had a connection. He
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: thought maybe you did bail on because of his outfit
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: and he would like a second chance with you.
• 24:18
  Speaker 3: Dylan, Christian go ahead.
• 24:20
  Speaker 8: Oh hello, Dyan, Hi, how are you.
• 24:29
  Speaker 13: Better now that you thought my Offit was try hard?
• 24:35
  Speaker 9: Well, I mean, baby like, it was like meet the
• 24:37
  Speaker 9: parents cute. I was like looking for like, you know,
• 24:40
  Speaker 9: let's see how it goes. Maybe we'll end up back
• 24:42
  Speaker 9: in my place. Cute, but like not like you know, eager.
• 24:48
  Speaker 13: Okay, okay, so then tell me that you could have
• 24:51
  Speaker 13: FaceTime me and I could have tried on different outfits.
• 24:55
  Speaker 9: Okay, well now now that's interesting. My little jesss up, doll.
• 25:00
  Speaker 9: I don't know you had like hard eyes for me.
• 25:04
  Speaker 13: Well you love my eyes, and you just told Ryan
• 25:08
  Speaker 13: that you think I was cute?
• 25:11
  Speaker 3: He did, seem yes, I did say it.
• 25:15
  Speaker 8: I did say you had cute eyes.
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: I had, Dylan, Okay.
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: Would you like to go out with Christian again?
• 25:20
  Speaker 3: Christian? Would you like to ask Dylan out while we're here?
• 25:25
  Speaker 11: Yes?
• 25:26
  Speaker 13: Yeah, we should. We should go out and you shouldn't
• 25:28
  Speaker 13: ghost me and you should tell me where you want
• 25:31
  Speaker 13: me to wear it and I'll wear it.
• 25:33
  Speaker 8: Well. Maybe you just like damn mailing Instagram or something.
• 25:39
  Speaker 13: Oh, oh I should d M you?
• 25:41
  Speaker 10: Wow?
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: Would you do simple?
• 25:46
  Speaker 3: Cannot do this any longer?
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: Oh I could do it for hours.
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: Dylan opened the door, Christian, walk on through and let's
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: go meet somewhere in person, make some progress.
• 26:01
  Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean you're lucky I answered the call. So
• 26:03
  Speaker 8: do you want to like?
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: Yeh me a what like?
• 26:05
  Speaker 8: I don't have all that?
• 26:07
  Speaker 13: Okay, I'm lucky.
• 26:08
  Speaker 10: I'll play.
• 26:08
  Speaker 3: I'll play.
• 26:10
  Speaker 13: I'll do it right now.
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: All right, we're gonna get out of this conversation over here,
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: all right, And you guys.
• 26:16
  Speaker 3: Good lucky Christian, you guys, Sherman.
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Sidney will be walking around every night trying to
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: find you guys.
• 26:26
  Speaker 10: Well, good look, all right.
• 26:27
  Speaker 3: Thank you gentlemen. That was a second date update.
• 26:31
  Speaker 9: This is.
• 26:33
  Speaker 3: Entertainment on Air with Ryan Seacrest Kiss FM. Ryan Seacrest here,
• 26:40
  Speaker 3: thanks for listening to us, Sisney and Tanya.
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: I mean, I think the great thing about being on
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: the radio every day is that we do get a
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: sense that we get to know people.
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: You don't have a call a call in and I
• 26:49
  Speaker 3: will talk for a few minutes. If you're like I've
• 26:51
  Speaker 3: known them all all along, we've never met.
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: But you do get a sense of somebody when you
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: get a chance to hear from them on a regular basis.
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: When we talked to somebody for a few minutes, and
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: that's what happened with Kathy. Kathy listens to us on
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: the iHeartRadio app in Pennsylvania, and she called in and
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: she said, Ryan, I have to set you up with
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: my sister. Now, I'm not a setup kind of person,
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: but I would like to understand why Kathy, who has
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: never met me, thinks that her sister be a good
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: person in my life.
• 27:24
  Speaker 3: I just was curious to know. So, Kathy, are you here?
• 27:27
  Speaker 3: I am here now, Kathy is your sister on the line.
• 27:32
  Speaker 10: I don't know.
• 27:33
  Speaker 7: Also, maybe Kristen, maybe it's time we start doing setups.
• 27:37
  Speaker 3: I don't know. Is it Kristen?
• 27:38
  Speaker 5: Is that her name.
• 27:40
  Speaker 15: Christy Kristen whatever.
• 27:42
  Speaker 3: Okay, got it. We do have her.
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: She worked with the Alzheimer's Association. She's teaching geriatrics at
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: a college locally.
• 27:51
  Speaker 3: He said.
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: She's in a Yogan pilates. She worked with a trainer
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: for a year. She hiked Machipichi. I'm looking back at
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: the notes. She helped build schools in Peru.
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: I love that connection to me, so this makes sense.
• 28:05
  Speaker 3: She worked at an elephant sanctuary in Thailand. We got
• 28:08
  Speaker 3: to meet this woman.
• 28:09
  Speaker 16: Yes, how you Well, there's a couple other things and ladies,
• 28:14
  Speaker 16: you're gonna like this number one.
• 28:15
  Speaker 15: Ryan, you did a bit a couple of weeks ago
• 28:17
  Speaker 15: about the perfect height for you.
• 28:19
  Speaker 16: Do you remember what it was?
• 28:21
  Speaker 3: Was it any hype?
• 28:22
  Speaker 10: It was?
• 28:23
  Speaker 15: It was a story that you did about how height
• 28:25
  Speaker 15: and relationship.
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we had us subtract inches based off of our Hiama.
• 28:30
  Speaker 3: I don't discriminate about Hi. Why Kristin are you there?
• 28:34
  Speaker 5: I am hello, Kristin.
• 28:36
  Speaker 3: Hi, It's Ryan.
• 28:37
  Speaker 10: How are you?
• 28:38
  Speaker 13: Hi?
• 28:38
  Speaker 8: Ryan?
• 28:38
  Speaker 16: I'm good.
• 28:39
  Speaker 13: How are you?
• 28:39
  Speaker 3: I'm great? So you sound amazing, by the way, started
• 28:42
  Speaker 3: working in a nursing home.
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: You did all this other great work for people and
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: places around the world and your sister.
• 28:49
  Speaker 3: You know, your sister called this radio show for us
• 28:51
  Speaker 3: to meet.
• 28:53
  Speaker 16: Yes, and you told me she did that.
• 28:55
  Speaker 12: I didn't just ambush you.
• 28:57
  Speaker 15: I ambushed her too. I didn't ask her, I didn't
• 28:59
  Speaker 15: tell I just did it.
• 29:01
  Speaker 3: So Christy, tell us about yourself. What do you do
• 29:03
  Speaker 3: now every day?
• 29:05
  Speaker 16: So right now I am a medical searchier worker, and
• 29:10
  Speaker 16: so I go and visit older adults and adults with
• 29:13
  Speaker 16: disabilities at home and just help them get services set
• 29:17
  Speaker 16: up and just make sure that they can be happy
• 29:20
  Speaker 16: and healthy at home and get everything that they need.
• 29:23
  Speaker 3: She's such a good person.
• 29:24
  Speaker 15: Yeah, well, yeah, thank you.
• 29:27
  Speaker 16: Christy is a Scorpio and you're a Capricorn, and I
• 29:30
  Speaker 16: also look that.
• 29:31
  Speaker 15: Up Tanya, you'll probably appreciate this. Yeah, but they're very
• 29:35
  Speaker 15: very compatible. They also have excellent work work ethics. They're
• 29:40
  Speaker 15: both very driven, and that's definitely both of you. Both,
• 29:45
  Speaker 15: you know, very specialists in your fields. So I just
• 29:51
  Speaker 15: feel like everything's kind of aligning for the two of
• 29:54
  Speaker 15: you to meet and just see what happens, I think
• 30:00
  Speaker 15: for each other.
• 30:01
  Speaker 3: Kathy has done some real homework on this, Christy. Where
• 30:06
  Speaker 3: do you live?
• 30:07
  Speaker 16: I live in Philadelphia. Yeah, the Northwestern section of the city.
• 30:13
  Speaker 3: Okay, Tanya doesn't like that apparently.
• 30:16
  Speaker 6: Well, I just feel like long distance is hard for
• 30:19
  Speaker 6: you because you're always working, so it's not going to
• 30:20
  Speaker 6: be like ideal for you to like how far is
• 30:24
  Speaker 6: Hershey Park from you?
• 30:26
  Speaker 16: Maybe an hour and a half.
• 30:30
  Speaker 15: Minutes where we grew up.
• 30:32
  Speaker 7: When are you and Hershey Park on tour.
• 30:37
  Speaker 3: Summer tour and stop in Hershey.
• 30:38
  Speaker 7: Park across the like freeways? What are we talking about?
• 30:44
  Speaker 3: I have to tell you my Both of my parents
• 30:46
  Speaker 3: are from Chambersburg, Pennsylvania. They met in high Way. Yet
• 30:51
  Speaker 3: do you know Chambersburg?
• 30:53
  Speaker 8: I went. I went to Shippensburg University.
• 30:55
  Speaker 3: You did not go to Shippensburg I did.
• 30:57
  Speaker 16: I went to Ship I did.
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: She's a Shipper? What does that mean?
• 31:01
  Speaker 3: I went to college?
• 31:03
  Speaker 16: I went to yeahs wouldn't know that.
• 31:06
  Speaker 3: You wouldn't know what.
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: That's what he says, and he goes back to his roots.
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: Okay, So, Kathy Christy, we have to be continue this
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: because we must take a break.
• 31:17
  Speaker 3: But I'm going to tell my mom you went to Ship.
• 31:20
  Speaker 2: What if I do another call?
• 31:23
  Speaker 3: My mom went to the Pocono.
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: But we do some sort of like match game type
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: stuff like between you two to see if there's real connection.
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: There's already connections. She went to Shippensburg, my mom, I
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: want more.
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: I want to get deeper.
• 31:34
  Speaker 3: Well, Christy and Kathy old on one side.
• 31:36
  Speaker 7: I just feel like you're not being realistic about this.
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think it'll work out too far, it's
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: so far. But I want to tell my mom that
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: she went to ship.
• 31:46
  Speaker 2: Let's get to know her more.
• 31:48
  Speaker 3: We get what's the points in Lancaster County?
• 31:51
  Speaker 8: So you never know.
• 31:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's too far.
• 31:55
  Speaker 6: We will only be able to see her on the weekends.
• 31:57
  Speaker 6: And Ryan wants someone to spend his life with. You
• 31:59
  Speaker 6: want something to cuddle?
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: How about everyone gets out of my business.
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: We don't know that Ryan doesn't cuddle.
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: Oh true, you know.
• 32:07
  Speaker 3: That because you did ask on this show the other day.
• 32:10
  Speaker 7: We had asked multiple axes.
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah, somehow I don't like any of this right now.
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: Thank you for being here. Let's get to the caller
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: here on the line in Whittier, naughdy A good morning.
• 32:24
  Speaker 14: How are you?
• 32:26
  Speaker 12: Morning's good?
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: How are you?
• 32:27
  Speaker 3: We're doing well? Thank you?
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: So you have a wedding dilemma. This is a very
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: familiar category for us.
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I do.
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: I don't remember last time somebody called it had a
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: good story about their wedding.
• 32:41
  Speaker 3: It's always a wedding dilemma.
• 32:42
  Speaker 7: Well, there's a lot.
• 32:43
  Speaker 6: First of all, there are a law of decisions that
• 32:45
  Speaker 6: go into planning a wedding.
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: It's a lot of work. Yes, and people recommend to
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: not do it in some places. Now yes people, some
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: places people, some people tell me just don't do it.
• 32:58
  Speaker 5: No way.
• 32:59
  Speaker 2: Celebrating the love is the best.
• 33:01
  Speaker 3: Celebrating is different. I can celebrate love if I need
• 33:04
  Speaker 3: this ceremony to celebrate love, but not eve. What's your issue?
• 33:07
  Speaker 3: What happened?
• 33:09
  Speaker 12: So my friends and I were going to a wedding
• 33:12
  Speaker 12: up in Riverside, and well, I mean the four of
• 33:16
  Speaker 12: us we decided to go together, and uh, three of
• 33:20
  Speaker 12: us love in Wittier and one lives in Diamond Bar.
• 33:24
  Speaker 12: So my friend who lives in Diamond Bar, I mean,
• 33:26
  Speaker 12: she doesn't drink or anything. So she offered to drive
• 33:30
  Speaker 12: us to the wedding from her house, which is really
• 33:33
  Speaker 12: super super nice. However, I mean she did say like
• 33:37
  Speaker 12: we would have to drive to her house and then
• 33:39
  Speaker 12: she would take us from there to Riverside, which I
• 33:43
  Speaker 12: mean that makes absolute sense. And she was just really
• 33:47
  Speaker 12: nice about driving us there in the first place. But
• 33:52
  Speaker 12: that also means that none of us.
• 33:55
  Speaker 11: Really get to drink either.
• 33:57
  Speaker 13: Because because your place.
• 34:01
  Speaker 3: I mean, but what's the dilemma. But what's the dilemma?
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: She's trying to do you a favor, So just cut
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: out the favor and figure out another way to get
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: to and from the wedding.
• 34:11
  Speaker 12: Well, I mean, my other friends they're saying that I
• 34:13
  Speaker 12: should suggest that, like she just come before the wedding,
• 34:17
  Speaker 12: like pick us up from our halls and then drive
• 34:19
  Speaker 12: us all the way to Riverside to the wedding.
• 34:22
  Speaker 3: So, I mean, I don't think that's fair.
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: It's like, first of all, she doesn't drink, so she's
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: probably always being asked to drive, and that's fine, But
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: she's not gonna come pick everybody up and then car
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: pull you out to the wedding and back. I think
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: it's totally reasonable for her to ask you to drive it.
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: Why don't you just take a taxi or have someone
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: drop you off at her house.
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't have a car that'll cut down the time,
• 34:48
  Speaker 2: take a lift or something.
• 34:51
  Speaker 12: It's like an hour a little over an hour to
• 34:54
  Speaker 12: drive away.
• 34:54
  Speaker 3: Well that's why she's not coming to pick you up.
• 34:57
  Speaker 3: This is not a wedding dilemma, Nadia, this is like
• 35:00
  Speaker 3: a selfish friend dilemma.
• 35:03
  Speaker 2: Oh, do you can split the ride share? Split the
• 35:10
  Speaker 2: ride share with the friends that are coming from with you.
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: That's reasonable for you to go to this friend's house
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: for her to drive you to the wedding since she's
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: not drinking.
• 35:19
  Speaker 12: I mean, I mean she was really nice about it,
• 35:22
  Speaker 12: like to let us, like, you know, drive us from
• 35:25
  Speaker 12: her house.
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: But like then none of the like yet, this is
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: not a real problem and has nothing to do with
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: the wedding or ask to spend the night.
• 35:35
  Speaker 2: Maybe you can spend the night and day.
• 35:36
  Speaker 3: There are several solutions to this, and we.
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: Are not a good luck. Yes, please realize your friend
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: is doing something generous and kind. Have a good day,
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: all right, goodbye. So do you have a friend that
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: doesn't drink and are always getting stuck driving?
• 35:53
  Speaker 3: I have a friend like that.
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: I also have gotten into restaurants. I know it's very
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: popular to have non alcoholic beverages on the menus, but
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: I find that sometimes I'll go into the restaurant and
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: they are like, we have non alcoholic beverages.
• 36:04
  Speaker 3: I I don't want that. I don't. Is it bad
• 36:08
  Speaker 3: for me to say I don't want that?
• 36:09
  Speaker 9: No?
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: Are They're so excited to show you the non alcoholic
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: beverage list. I'm not as excited to see it as
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: there to show me you.
• 36:15
  Speaker 2: Not the real deal.
• 36:16
  Speaker 3: I mean, if you're if you're gonna have one, have
• 36:18
  Speaker 3: one for me. I don't want to have the calories
• 36:21
  Speaker 3: of the non alcoholic one.
• 36:22
  Speaker 7: Right, what's the point?
• 36:23
  Speaker 14: Right?
• 36:24
  Speaker 3: Well, that's the problem.
• 36:25
  Speaker 10: I think.
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: Then we need a point. Yeah, right, there is an issue.
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: If you need a point that there's no issue. But
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: I'm saying I like to have a point to have
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: the drink to write.
• 36:38
  Speaker 2: You gotta tell me twice.
• 36:40
  Speaker 3: I'm just telling you.
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: I almost feel guilty thinking I don't want to waste
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: the calories. I have a point over here. Yeah, and
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: my sober friend is driving some bottom up, so enjoy.
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: You're on kiss f M.
• 36:55
  Speaker 3: Good morning, Kiss FM.
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: Well, I just was looking at my phone and it
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: says he I got a notification Sisiny met Michael sixteen
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: years ago today.
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: Oh lovely, you have that on your phone.
• 37:05
  Speaker 7: That is a notification in your phone.
• 37:08
  Speaker 3: It's weird the things I have.
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: Oh, I love that yes, I don't know. I got
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: to get there because I can't put my own calendar
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: in my phone.
• 37:14
  Speaker 7: A true blind day.
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: I didn't know anything about him besides his name and
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: where he worked, and I didn't know what he looked like.
• 37:20
  Speaker 2: I just met him.
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: You guys both got lucky. You're both catches. You know
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: you you're both catches. Eight hundred five to one O
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: two seven. Alyssa's on the line. Hi, Alyssa, good morning,
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: it's all of us. Here's kiss. How's your dag gone?
• 37:34
  Speaker 11: It's great?
• 37:35
  Speaker 3: Great, great great great. How can we help you?
• 37:38
  Speaker 14: Well, I have kind of a funky situation at work
• 37:43
  Speaker 14: and I'm not sure what to do. So my boss
• 37:46
  Speaker 14: brings her dog to work every day, and you know,
• 37:50
  Speaker 14: I love dogs and I would be fine with that,
• 37:53
  Speaker 14: but we're on the eighth floor of our building and
• 37:56
  Speaker 14: she doesn't keep track.
• 37:57
  Speaker 2: Of it at all.
• 37:57
  Speaker 14: She just lets it roam around, and like a few
• 38:01
  Speaker 14: times it's gotten on the elevator, which has led to
• 38:04
  Speaker 14: like a whole building live search, which is crazy, and
• 38:08
  Speaker 14: like like, like, I'm a I love dogs, and I
• 38:13
  Speaker 14: don't want this dog to get lost, and like if
• 38:16
  Speaker 14: it got on the elevator and went to the first floor.
• 38:20
  Speaker 14: She could end up out on the street, and so like,
• 38:24
  Speaker 14: I basically end up following this dog around all day
• 38:27
  Speaker 14: and I'm like not getting anything done. And it wasn't
• 38:31
  Speaker 14: something that was assigned to me.
• 38:32
  Speaker 13: It's just that I.
• 38:33
  Speaker 2: Can't for dogs in general.
• 38:36
  Speaker 14: Yeah, yeah, I can't let it like roam around and
• 38:38
  Speaker 14: get lost or hurt or whatever.
• 38:40
  Speaker 10: So, like, what do I do?
• 38:42
  Speaker 14: Because I don't feel like I can really talk to
• 38:44
  Speaker 14: her about this and suggest she not bring her in anymore.
• 38:49
  Speaker 14: I just I just don't know what to do with
• 38:51
  Speaker 14: my boss, you know, not.
• 38:52
  Speaker 7: Your boss, not like a coworker.
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: What would you do if we had somebody in there
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: bringing in their dog every day. I just want to
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: bring my dog in every day too.
• 39:03
  Speaker 2: Your dog is very well behaved. I wouldn't mind.
• 39:05
  Speaker 3: It's fair. My dog's human.
• 39:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, she's incredible. But if it was a dog that
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: was yes on the loose, and now you're feeling.
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: That she's responsibility by the way, something goes bad, you're gonna.
• 39:14
  Speaker 2: Like it's not right because something happens and you saw
• 39:17
  Speaker 2: it go down the elevator. Didn't say anything, then what
• 39:20
  Speaker 2: I know?
• 39:20
  Speaker 7: But it's her boss, she's supposed to say something.
• 39:23
  Speaker 2: It's your boss.
• 39:24
  Speaker 3: You just tell your boss how you feel.
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: You can't do that. You can't tell your boss how
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: you feel. No, have you never told your boss how
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: you feel?
• 39:33
  Speaker 7: Well, let's see. My boss is Biatta. I tell her
• 39:37
  Speaker 7: how I feel.
• 39:38
  Speaker 6: But if if she brought her dog every day, I
• 39:41
  Speaker 6: wouldn't And I don't think I would go to her
• 39:43
  Speaker 6: and say, hey, don't bring your dog.
• 39:45
  Speaker 3: No way, listen, what do you think the best way
• 39:47
  Speaker 3: to handle this is?
• 39:48
  Speaker 9: Like?
• 39:49
  Speaker 3: What do you think the best way to handle it?
• 39:50
  Speaker 9: Is?
• 39:52
  Speaker 5: Me?
• 39:53
  Speaker 10: I just I just don't know.
• 39:54
  Speaker 14: It's like it's like judging how someone's parents, you know,
• 39:56
  Speaker 14: like how they deal with their dog.
• 39:58
  Speaker 8: True, Like I.
• 40:02
  Speaker 10: Don't know.
• 40:02
  Speaker 2: You just have to deal with it. There's nothing you
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: can't do. This reminds me of when I lived in
• 40:07
  Speaker 2: an apartment and the manager lived above me, and she
• 40:10
  Speaker 2: was so loud it sounded like she was rollerblading or
• 40:13
  Speaker 2: moving the furniture every night. No, but I couldn't tell.
• 40:18
  Speaker 2: I couldn't complain.
• 40:19
  Speaker 3: Because that was the manager to kick you out for
• 40:22
  Speaker 3: them being too loud.
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: But but I you know, it's like it was like,
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: can you get other people at work to create a
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: committee that might explain this to her, that it's a
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: little not good, not just us, it's not just you.
• 40:36
  Speaker 6: What if you leash the dog to your desk or
• 40:39
  Speaker 6: buy a nice bed so it doesn't want to leave
• 40:40
  Speaker 6: the nice bed.
• 40:41
  Speaker 3: There's three great options. Listen, treats, lots of treats. It's
• 40:47
  Speaker 3: like a cute.
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: It's a cute horrible situation, you know what I mean.
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: It's adorable but also very difficult and tricky and sticky.
• 40:53
  Speaker 2: Only in LA we have like bosses bring their dogs
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: and so.
• 40:58
  Speaker 3: My dog's a good talk.
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: Your dog is great, so I said, I wouldn't have
• 41:02
  Speaker 2: an issue with her.
• 41:03
  Speaker 3: Oh well, then you watch what happens next week.
• 41:05
  Speaker 7: I know I wish we could bring our dogs here.
• 41:06
  Speaker 3: I think we can. Who said that.
• 41:11
  Speaker 7: A lot of people, but mainly the building management.
• 41:14
  Speaker 3: I'm emotionally attached to mine.
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: Well there's that.
• 41:18
  Speaker 3: So you're telling them that I don't think.
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: I don't think they can.
• 41:21
  Speaker 3: I think they will care. But we have to care.
• 41:25
  Speaker 2: You're just everywhere.
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: No one said anything not here though I haven't brought
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: like in here. Yeah I have actually once, but I
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: didn't I didn't know I know about that. That was
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: just one time.
• 41:38
  Speaker 2: Bring her to the forum.
• 41:41
  Speaker 10: On air with Ryan Seacrest on two.
• 41:45
  Speaker 3: Point seven Kiss FM.
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: So, Michael in the back room was invited to a
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: wedding a few days ago, and you were invited but
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: without a plus one.
• 41:54
  Speaker 4: Yeah, which this one was fine because a lot of
• 41:56
  Speaker 4: single friends were there. But I have three coming up,
• 41:59
  Speaker 4: and the group of friends that are going into these
• 42:01
  Speaker 4: weddings all have plus ones because they're in relationships. So
• 42:05
  Speaker 4: I feel awkward when I go and I have no
• 42:08
  Speaker 4: one else, no one else to share a hotel chance with,
• 42:11
  Speaker 4: maybe a guy friend, or just that I don't know
• 42:13
  Speaker 4: another friend where I'm not like alone, like sitting by myself,
• 42:16
  Speaker 4: like at certain parts of the night.
• 42:18
  Speaker 5: I don't know.
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: A lot of times when people are getting married, they
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: sort of a rule if you haven't been with the
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: person for three months or something like that, then we're
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: not really invited, right. They don't want strangers at their wedding.
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: I mean, Tanya, I didn't want me to bring anybody.
• 42:34
  Speaker 7: No, I had a hard We had no plus ones.
• 42:37
  Speaker 6: If you were the only people I gave plus ones
• 42:39
  Speaker 6: two were like people that were in the wedding. So
• 42:42
  Speaker 6: like two of my best friends that are single, I said,
• 42:44
  Speaker 6: if they wanted to bring somebody, Ryan.
• 42:47
  Speaker 3: It you give me a deadline to have to, like
• 42:50
  Speaker 3: tell you if somebody was fulling that.
• 42:52
  Speaker 7: Everybody gives a deadline for their wedding.
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: But she didn't really want me to bring somebody. I
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: could tell by the deadline everybody.
• 42:59
  Speaker 2: That's why I didn't anybody.
• 43:00
  Speaker 3: Yeah, well, I think that.
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: It's up to the bride in the groom because if
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: they don't want somebody, they don't know what their wedding.
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: I kind of get that, Sisney Michaela.
• 43:12
  Speaker 5: I mean I get that too.
• 43:14
  Speaker 4: I mean, instead a wedding that like I don't know
• 43:18
  Speaker 4: a lot of people, I only know like that that
• 43:20
  Speaker 4: don't go.
• 43:21
  Speaker 5: I guess that's an option too, But that is true.
• 43:25
  Speaker 3: That's a great option. Don't let them take up your
• 43:28
  Speaker 3: weekend looking for somebody. Yeah, find somebody.
• 43:33
  Speaker 5: I never thought of that. But I also love the bride,
• 43:35
  Speaker 5: so I feel like I need to, Oh, you.
• 43:38
  Speaker 3: Know, not so much if she won't let you bring
• 43:40
  Speaker 3: a friend.
• 43:41
  Speaker 12: Not true.
• 43:41
  Speaker 2: It's not about her not letting her bring a friend.
• 43:43
  Speaker 2: It's just that you have these rules that you just
• 43:46
  Speaker 2: maxed out with the guest list.
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: There's a cutoff point too, But don't take it personally.
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: But you can also very easily, and I can give
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: you exactly what to say. I know how to blow
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: off weddings really easily. You can tell them, as tany
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: U said, tell people for years she had to work
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: for me on America's at forty one weekends, which was
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: never true.
• 44:07
  Speaker 3: She never had to work there true.
• 44:08
  Speaker 7: But I just get out of wedding that way. I
• 44:10
  Speaker 7: got out of spending the night with men that I
• 44:12
  Speaker 7: didn't want to spend the night with.
• 44:14
  Speaker 3: Well, you don't need me as an excuse to not
• 44:16
  Speaker 3: spend the night with a guy.
• 44:17
  Speaker 7: It was an amazing excuse.
• 44:20
  Speaker 3: Michaela.
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: You can always and if they I can leave you
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: a voice mail or something that says, hey, you got
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: to see it, see it nine that we moved up
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: to countdown at eight forty tomorrow Sunday morning. Yeah, Michaela,
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: you're always going through it. Did you anything go on
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: with this guy on Raya?
• 44:38
  Speaker 9: No?
• 44:38
  Speaker 4: Ever since I asked that, it's been like slow, like
• 44:42
  Speaker 4: having gotten like the messages back kind of fizzled out.
• 44:44
  Speaker 5: So I think, oh, I don't know.
• 44:47
  Speaker 3: Ever since you asked if he was in a relationship,
• 44:49
  Speaker 3: because your friend told you that he's guilty.
• 44:51
  Speaker 4: Yeah, guilty, unless he just doesn't like that, I like,
• 44:54
  Speaker 4: kind of snooped. I guess, I don't know whatever. Yeah, well,
• 44:58
  Speaker 4: not the one.
• 44:59
  Speaker 3: He's not the one. They're plenty of Garretts and Billies
• 45:02
  Speaker 3: and Tommy's on ride.
• 45:04
  Speaker 2: Will you end up with? Will it be a Trevor?
• 45:07
  Speaker 3: Maybe it's a Trevor? Alright, love it?
• 45:08
  Speaker 2: And Andrew.
• 45:11
  Speaker 3: Or what Robert Noye?
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  Speaker 7: What about Wyatt?
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  Speaker 3: It will not be a Wyatt.
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  Speaker 7: Xander.
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: It's never a Xander, No, never Axander. Might be a
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: Gabe Jack Xavier Jack. Well just well, she'll tell us
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: when you find somebody in Rya.
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  Speaker 5: Maybe I'll find someone at the wedding.
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  Speaker 3: What are you doing?
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: It's kids, a family. Listen to us on iHeart radio,
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: listen on the car radio. However you want us, this
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: is us. You can get us now. I need everybody
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: to lean in on this one. Christian calling with an issue,
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  Speaker 1: Sisney Tani in Long Beach, Christian, good morning.
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  Speaker 10: Hey, good morning. How's it going?
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  Speaker 3: It's going all right here? How can we help you?
• 45:51
  Speaker 3: What's up?
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  Speaker 10: All right?
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  Speaker 11: So?
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  Speaker 10: I need a little advice. Basically, my boyfriend is has
• 45:59
  Speaker 10: been living with me, crash with me for a few months,
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  Speaker 10: and uh, he doesn't pay rent, which that's fine for me.
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  Speaker 10: I'm paying it all. I don't really, I'm not really complaining,
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  Speaker 10: but just recently, my sister needs a place to stay.
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  Speaker 10: We have the space, and I'm like, it's my sister,
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  Speaker 10: of course, you can live with us for as long
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  Speaker 10: as you need to to get on your feet. And
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  Speaker 10: he's pissed because he's like, I don't want to live
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  Speaker 10: with your sister. And I'm kind of like, but you
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  Speaker 10: don't pay rent, you know what I mean?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean for those who don't pay rent, did
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  Speaker 3: they get right?
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  Speaker 7: It's not making him pay rent, you know, it's.
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  Speaker 10: Kind of hard. I don't want to, Like, I don't
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  Speaker 10: want him to be uncomfortable in like a space that
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  Speaker 10: we're supposed to share, but I pay one hundred percent
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  Speaker 10: of the.
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  Speaker 2: Rent, you know, then it would be okay for him
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  Speaker 2: to be upset.
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  Speaker 10: Yes, I think if we were like if it was
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  Speaker 10: an even split, it would be like, Okay, you have
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  Speaker 10: every right this is your home to sure, let's talk
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  Speaker 10: about it, let's come up with something. Or maybe I
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  Speaker 10: would just say, okay, sorry to my sister, you got
• 47:02
  Speaker 10: to find another situation. But in this particular instance, since
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  Speaker 10: I'm the only one paying and basically both of them
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  Speaker 10: want to live there for free. I don't know. I
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  Speaker 10: feel like blood is kind of thicker than water in
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  Speaker 10: this case, and a little bit.
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  Speaker 3: I'm with you.
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  Speaker 1: I think if you're funding one hundred percent of the rent,
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  Speaker 1: then you get to call the shots no matter what
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  Speaker 1: the situation is. And if you're feeling Tanya, absolutely, if
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  Speaker 1: you're paying one hundred percent of the rent, you don't get.
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  Speaker 7: To say, bro, it's just not true.
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  Speaker 3: Some people aren't just true, it's just not true.
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  Speaker 2: But you know what, I don't think it comes down
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  Speaker 2: to money. It's family, period. If he's going to marry you,
• 47:44
  Speaker 2: you guys gonna go the distance or whatever like this,
• 47:47
  Speaker 2: things like this happen, you're gonna have to take family
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  Speaker 2: in or help out or whatever, and you got to
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  Speaker 2: roll the.
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  Speaker 10: Punches, right. I think that's a good point. I mean,
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  Speaker 10: you know, I hope that we're in this for the
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  Speaker 10: long haul, but I don't know that yet. And my
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  Speaker 10: sister is my sister, you know.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, Like if this was me and my sister or
• 48:05
  Speaker 2: my brother had to come and live with us, whatever,
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  Speaker 2: I would just tell Michael it wouldn't be like we
• 48:09
  Speaker 2: need to talk about it and see if it works.
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  Speaker 2: It was like, well, let's make it work.
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  Speaker 1: I do think you, oh, it's your partners to make
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  Speaker 1: it work together. And I do feel like if you're
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  Speaker 1: funding rent, you call the shots. I just think that's
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  Speaker 1: the way it goes.
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  Speaker 3: It's not well, tell you have you ever funded all
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  Speaker 3: the rent?
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  Speaker 7: Have I ever funded all the rent?
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  Speaker 11: No?
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  Speaker 6: But I think that it doesn't matter because I think
• 48:30
  Speaker 6: there's a lot of people in relationships where one person
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  Speaker 6: works and one person doesn't. That person funds everything, but
• 48:37
  Speaker 6: they have equals, say in the relationship. Many people live
• 48:42
  Speaker 6: that way.
• 48:43
  Speaker 7: It's a great point. Thank you, Mark.
• 48:45
  Speaker 3: Are you talking to yourself about making a great joint.
• 48:50
  Speaker 10: Point? Yeah?
• 48:51
  Speaker 3: No, it's like your own conversation over there, patting yourself
• 48:54
  Speaker 3: on the back.
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  Speaker 7: Mark said, great point, and I thank you, Christian.
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  Speaker 1: Good luck with this situation. A tricky one, but do
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  Speaker 1: what you feel is best in your heart. And thanks
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  Speaker 1: for calling.
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  Speaker 10: Hey, thanks all, I appreciate it.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, family, first period, take care.
• 49:10
  Speaker 3: Why don't you point savage kiss a fam? Well, I
• 49:13
  Speaker 3: guess that's it for us. We'll see you tomorrow.
• 49:18
  Speaker 7: You guys coming over tonight tonight.
• 49:21
  Speaker 2: Now I have dinner plans. Thank you so much for
• 49:23
  Speaker 2: the invite.
• 49:24
  Speaker 3: How about it not a same day invite?
• 49:26
  Speaker 6: Taco Tuesday, broke Kettle black, Yeah yeah, texting us an
• 49:30
  Speaker 6: hour before lunch.
• 49:31
  Speaker 7: Hey, guys want to be that noon?
• 49:34
  Speaker 3: For not going all right, We'll see you tomorrow. Guys,
• 49:37
  Speaker 3: have a good one. Thanks for listening to On Air
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