Latest / The Breakfast Club / The Breakfast Club REWIND (Luenell, Kehlani, Ask C&E and More!)
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- 0:00Speaker 1: We're his in spirit. Yeah yeah, and we're gonna be
- 0:03Speaker 1: playing some of our top interviews and some throwbacks. So
- 0:06Speaker 1: keep a lock. But it's gonna be running the boards
- 0:08Speaker 1: and uh, we'll see ell in the new year. Happy holidays.
- 0:11Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Slum. Good morning, wake up, wake up way,
- 0:16Speaker 1: this is good time to get it off your chat
- 0:19Speaker 1: a man of blass. We want to hear from you
- 0:21Speaker 1: on the Breakfast Block. Hell know who's this yo? What
- 0:24Speaker 1: it is? Managed the boy block eighty from VA seven
- 0:27Speaker 1: five seven? Man? What's up? Broke it off your chest?
- 0:30Speaker 1: What's going on? Dj N Man? I had a call
- 0:34Speaker 1: y'all probably like last year around November man in Weston
- 0:38Speaker 1: freestyle for y'all. Quite like two months later, somebody hitting
- 0:44Speaker 1: me up from her own scam account for Joe Man,
- 0:48Speaker 1: y'all need left fat Joe know somebody around here using
- 0:52Speaker 1: his face card scamming, say they scam you out of
- 0:57Speaker 1: They scammed me all the night and they tried. What
- 1:01Speaker 1: it was he hit me up talking about some man
- 1:03Speaker 1: I heard you on the Breakfast club and you know
- 1:06Speaker 1: what I'm saying, like, thank you got it? Man? So
- 1:10Speaker 1: with the ID call, that's what messed me up. I'm
- 1:13Speaker 1: thinking my life bought the change. He called me on
- 1:15Speaker 1: the IG. I see fat Joe face. I say yo,
- 1:18Speaker 1: he said yo, and then the call. Then I take
- 1:22Speaker 1: a picture real quick and put a hand from my
- 1:24Speaker 1: I g and then the call in. Hes like, I'm
- 1:27Speaker 1: in the studio. I'm gonna call you. I'm gonna call
- 1:29Speaker 1: you back on visit right now. So we were conversating
- 1:32Speaker 1: over like two days and on never video me back,
- 1:35Speaker 1: and stuff started getting a little sketching. He started asking me.
- 1:38Speaker 1: He like, yeah, so I want to see if you're serious.
- 1:41Speaker 1: So I want you to put up a little money
- 1:43Speaker 1: to get your record on Breakfast Club for about a
- 1:47Speaker 1: week and we're gonna see what the people say, and
- 1:49Speaker 1: if the people like it, then we're gonna take you
- 1:51Speaker 1: to the labels'll talk to the labels or something. How
- 1:54Speaker 1: much of the asshole, how much it won? It was like,
- 1:58Speaker 1: it's probably like a hunting dollars. So that one made
- 2:01Speaker 1: me really even more skeptical. I'm like, come on, man,
- 2:04Speaker 1: Joe trying to if he really trying to help me
- 2:06Speaker 1: change my life. I know he ain't gonna ask me
- 2:08Speaker 1: for the one fifty, but it's like maybe they want
- 2:10Speaker 1: to see if you know what I'm saying, you're willing
- 2:12Speaker 1: to put something towards boy, your career or you believe yourself.
- 2:15Speaker 1: But let's hear this freestyle. Let's hear a new one.
- 2:17Speaker 1: It's almost a year later. Oh yeah, I got one
- 2:20Speaker 1: for y'all. This is off. My song called need Me
- 2:23Speaker 1: is available on all platforms on the block, aidy b
- 2:27Speaker 1: l O K die EID Come on, I want my
- 2:31Speaker 1: shorted back. I love it bits more than rap. Yeah, bro,
- 2:33Speaker 1: my hold on the track left for a message. She
- 2:35Speaker 1: never called me back. Guess what goes around don't always
- 2:38Speaker 1: come back around like a cold the sack. She was
- 2:41Speaker 1: with rappers like Little Yad letting them call the shots.
- 2:45Speaker 1: Is that why you ain't called me back? But don't baby,
- 2:47Speaker 1: if you call it rap? Now she win six nine.
- 2:53Speaker 1: You know you can't curse on the radio. I think
- 2:55Speaker 1: jay Z might call you now. Oh my fa but
- 2:58Speaker 1: wait wait wait, hell got your shirty was listen with us?
- 3:03Speaker 1: Well you won't bring it back? No, no, no no.
- 3:05Speaker 1: I love the fact I've never heard anybody used called
- 3:08Speaker 1: the sack and a rap coold to sac Well, I
- 3:10Speaker 1: wanted to a cold de sac. But I want to
- 3:12Speaker 1: tell everybody. If somebody hit you on Instagram and they're
- 3:15Speaker 1: not verified, meaning that blue check, that's not them. I
- 3:18Speaker 1: just want to tell because people tell me you hit
- 3:20Speaker 1: me up, No it wasn't me. If you don't see
- 3:22Speaker 1: that blue check, it's not me. And I'm not going
- 3:24Speaker 1: to create a different page to hit you. And the
- 3:28Speaker 1: getting them hundred and fifty dollars and people trying to
- 3:30Speaker 1: act like it's not him. Hello, who's this because it's
- 3:33Speaker 1: Drake d what I'm getting a few chess bro, Yeah,
- 3:35Speaker 1: I was just I was listening to your man. Somebody
- 3:37Speaker 1: the school shooting at Sean Man asked that question, like
- 3:39Speaker 1: what schools like airports and all that, and it's crazy, man,
- 3:44Speaker 1: like these people that to this thing like oh the image,
- 3:47Speaker 1: it don't make the school not look safe. And it's like, bro,
- 3:50Speaker 1: people go to courthouses and airports that you say every day.
- 3:53Speaker 1: People say I'm not going to work because it's not safe. No,
- 3:56Speaker 1: they're safe in there because they go through the middle
- 3:58Speaker 1: of Texas. They know that. All right, people was checked.
- 4:01Speaker 1: I wouldn't mind as a parent at my school or
- 4:03Speaker 1: my kids school had metal textives and had to put
- 4:05Speaker 1: their bags through those real machines. Now, I want to
- 4:08Speaker 1: know that you took every ple caution to make sure
- 4:10Speaker 1: the school was safe. But a lot of people they don't.
- 4:13Speaker 1: Well it's that they like to react or whatever it is.
- 4:15Speaker 1: They don't. They don't put things in motion until something happened. Nope, nope, nope,
- 4:19Speaker 1: no prevent defense. And I agree with you, man, Like
- 4:21Speaker 1: it would really like decrease my parental paranoia if I
- 4:25Speaker 1: knew that my child school had like metal detectives, and
- 4:28Speaker 1: I mean really really like make them go through it
- 4:31Speaker 1: when they come in that school, check their bags, you know,
- 4:33Speaker 1: wanning them down all of that. Yeah, Like I like, listen,
- 4:37Speaker 1: I'm safe as a parent, all right, bom I like
- 4:39Speaker 1: that man, I'm I'm telling my kids these schools all
- 4:42Speaker 1: four years we got transferred nothing because you guys just
- 4:45Speaker 1: made sure nothing happened. Like most of the people wait
- 4:47Speaker 1: till something happened, then any want to put stuff in place.
- 4:49Speaker 1: But oh we were sorry for the families being noticed.
- 4:52Speaker 1: Was going to happen in our neighborhood. Man, please anywhere.
- 4:57Speaker 1: I agree with my brother, But thank you, be safe.
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- 5:25Speaker 1: Breakfast Club Envy, Angela Year and Charlemagne the Gods your
- 5:34Speaker 1: time to get it off your chests, whether you're mad
- 5:36Speaker 1: or blast sore, Brother Sam, we want to hear from
- 5:39Speaker 1: you on the Breakfast Club Hellos this hey listen tray
- 5:43Speaker 1: calling from ninety seven point nine making Georgia. I just
- 5:47Speaker 1: want to say to the infamous Charlemagne the Cheeses and
- 5:50Speaker 1: MP DJ Emiratus DJ Envy might get it off the chest.
- 5:55Speaker 1: As a brief song to Lady Leely farewell song Positi
- 6:01Speaker 1: who is Leally Lely's in s w V. We got
- 6:03Speaker 1: to Angela who average trying to be funny? Guys, come on,
- 6:10Speaker 1: I know, I know, gosh, come on stop Charlamne the
- 6:12Speaker 1: Jeezy Hey, beautiful black d you like to get to
- 6:27Speaker 1: know you. Good luck my lady, Oh love, I love that,
- 6:33Speaker 1: thank you? Yeah, that's amazing. Was it all right, Hello,
- 6:37Speaker 1: who's this? Hi? Yes? Some day and go ahead. I'm sorry, well,
- 6:44Speaker 1: y'all usually give me a well good morning? Where my well?
- 6:46Speaker 1: Good morning now, Queen? I mean a minute, what's happening, queen?
- 6:55Speaker 1: How are you sitting? Positive? What's happening all the y'all?
- 7:00Speaker 1: Stlomon of God, DJ every my earl angela ye want.
- 7:06Speaker 1: I want to shout you out, baby, because I had
- 7:08Speaker 1: to get on here before you last. You know, it's
- 7:10Speaker 1: been a minister. Yall heard me, And I want to
- 7:12Speaker 1: say congratulations on your future endeavors, you know, miss, and
- 7:17Speaker 1: I'm gonna miss listener to everything you do, giving out
- 7:20Speaker 1: the great I'm sorry. It's about because giving out those
- 7:24Speaker 1: great you know, a PNS, voicing your comments everything. And
- 7:28Speaker 1: my second thing, I want to get off my test Charlemagne.
- 7:31Speaker 1: I have not gotten my book. I ain't get my books.
- 7:37Speaker 1: All right, We're gonna try this again, Eddie. I've asked
- 7:39Speaker 1: my books. Who weren't Edie? Were you at Eddie? Eddie?
- 7:43Speaker 1: Sender a black effect? Uh snap back to send a
- 7:46Speaker 1: black effect snap back courtesy and Mitchell and next too.
- 7:49Speaker 1: Please we're gonna make that up to you. Holidays and
- 7:53Speaker 1: dj Iffy I love you too. Man. Your car shows
- 7:56Speaker 1: was jumping. I followed your story throughout your whole car shows.
- 8:00Speaker 1: You really didn't did it big this year giving back
- 8:03Speaker 1: to each community, and I'm really proud of you as well,
- 8:06Speaker 1: like y'all really do it big. And y'all gonna it
- 8:08Speaker 1: with or without itsaly even though it's gonna probably stuff
- 8:11Speaker 1: without it. Um, y'all gonna do big. Well, thank you Mama.
- 8:17Speaker 1: It was I'd beyond right after the Breakfast cloud too,
- 8:21Speaker 1: as you will. Okay, great, so I can still listen
- 8:24Speaker 1: to you. But it's like I said, it's it's not
- 8:26Speaker 1: gonna be the same without the three y'all, the three
- 8:28Speaker 1: of me. Well, thank you, Mom. You where you from?
- 8:32Speaker 1: I'm from day y'all know, y'all to day. Remember y'all
- 8:36Speaker 1: love my smile know we said that? Yeah, okay, see
- 8:46Speaker 1: y'all always mess my name up. It's not well, thank you?
- 8:52Speaker 1: She nise happy, y'all right, black effects nap back. All right,
- 9:00Speaker 1: we'll get it off your chest and it's the Breakfast
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- 9:23Speaker 1: is dj Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne Nay. We are the
- 9:27Speaker 1: breakfast club. We got a special guest in the building. Yes,
- 9:29Speaker 1: and she smells amazing. It's the first time that she's
- 9:32Speaker 1: here in person. I know, ladies and gentlemen. Col Hey, hey, welcome,
- 9:37Speaker 1: thank you. How's your spirit? It's awesome? Okay, that's incredible.
- 9:40Speaker 1: How's yours? It feels good? I feel good today. Good.
- 9:43Speaker 1: It seems so good, so positive. I love to see that.
- 9:45Speaker 1: I am happy. What was I jumping? What's happy? And
- 9:51Speaker 1: what's what's what's so positive? As good as positive? Good?
- 9:55Speaker 1: Why do we do that to humans? Like? Why are
- 9:58Speaker 1: you so happy? Exactly? You should be the she could
- 10:01Speaker 1: make somebody else happy positivity. I'm blessed. My family's taken
- 10:06Speaker 1: care of. We all have our health. My daughter is
- 10:09Speaker 1: extremely genius. I just got back from two weeks of
- 10:13Speaker 1: like different fashion weeks that I've never experienced. Literally no,
- 10:17Speaker 1: because I want to see my child. So I was like,
- 10:20Speaker 1: that's cool to say another week, but I want to
- 10:22Speaker 1: go see my baby. So I'm going home. But did
- 10:24Speaker 1: it take some ad justing being outside again? I got
- 10:27Speaker 1: a new perspective of like now I appreciate being outside more.
- 10:31Speaker 1: So now I'm just taking advantage of every time that
- 10:33Speaker 1: I'm outside. So what's the perspective? I mean, I think
- 10:36Speaker 1: I was so like nervous all the time and just
- 10:39Speaker 1: like shook consistently being outside and just like, Okay, it's
- 10:42Speaker 1: one thing being super present online, like you can do
- 10:45Speaker 1: that from anywhere and you can still completely be yourself
- 10:47Speaker 1: like behind the scenes, but like when you're outside, like
- 10:50Speaker 1: you know, you have to meet people and all things
- 10:53Speaker 1: like touch people and hug people and need all those things. Um,
- 10:56Speaker 1: But my new perspective is just like enjoy every moment,
- 10:59Speaker 1: like I can create the experience that I want to
- 11:01Speaker 1: create when I'm outside. Didn't have a good time. As
- 11:03Speaker 1: a person myself who suffers from like really bad anxiety,
- 11:07Speaker 1: I enjoyed it because, like you know, it's all of
- 11:11Speaker 1: external stuff that you can't control that really makes your
- 11:14Speaker 1: anxiety go through the room. So it's something about being
- 11:17Speaker 1: in the house every day, knowing what the kids at,
- 11:19Speaker 1: knowing what a wife at, it gives you a different
- 11:21Speaker 1: sense of comfort. I can't lie, I haven't quite adjusted
- 11:24Speaker 1: to being outside with your kids. Though. The problem is
- 11:27Speaker 1: not you with the kids though, right there's there's I
- 11:31Speaker 1: feel so bad because I feel like they're suffering. I mean,
- 11:34Speaker 1: I don't want to say, I don't want to play
- 11:35Speaker 1: like who's suffering the most? But I've children are right now,
- 11:38Speaker 1: I must be really awkward because they're not socializing and
- 11:41Speaker 1: they're not getting those like other Like my kid mostly
- 11:43Speaker 1: knows adults. She has like two baby friends, and we're
- 11:46Speaker 1: really safe about it. But like she mostly knows adults,
- 11:48Speaker 1: and it's probably shouldn't be the case right now. But
- 11:51Speaker 1: how did your parents and style differ from the way
- 11:54Speaker 1: you were raised. I think my mom was very She
- 11:58Speaker 1: just didn't have as much support as she should have.
- 12:01Speaker 1: I mean, I think most of our generations parents didn't
- 12:03Speaker 1: have the support that they should have had. My mom was,
- 12:05Speaker 1: you know, three kids, single mom, crazy nine to five. Like,
- 12:11Speaker 1: I have friends and I'm like, if they want to
- 12:13Speaker 1: help me, I'm like, I will let you help me,
- 12:15Speaker 1: you know what I mean? And I think that that
- 12:17Speaker 1: alone changed the game. And you're rich, you know, I
- 12:20Speaker 1: can't afford the babysitting. I truly can't. And my babysitter
- 12:24Speaker 1: is the best. How's it going to be when you
- 12:26Speaker 1: go on tour? Because you know, you least a new
- 12:28Speaker 1: single album's coming out. Yeah you're going on tour? Yeah,
- 12:31Speaker 1: how is that gonna be? With the baby? I mean,
- 12:33Speaker 1: her dad's awesome and he's super like fluid where it
- 12:36Speaker 1: comes to my career. So he's like, you want you
- 12:38Speaker 1: want me to come with her? And just like we
- 12:39Speaker 1: all hang out and like we'll go back and forth
- 12:42Speaker 1: and we just have a great system and the we're
- 12:44Speaker 1: a great co parenting team and we just will take
- 12:46Speaker 1: it as it comes. That relationship always like that where
- 12:48Speaker 1: y'all were great co parents and y'all could. Yeah, pretty much.
- 12:51Speaker 1: We're both like team baby. So it's like we don't
- 12:54Speaker 1: view each other in any other way than like we're
- 12:56Speaker 1: teammates and family. So I wonder how rare that is
- 13:00Speaker 1: When you hear it, it sounds rare, but I don't.
- 13:02Speaker 1: I don't have any facts to back it up. But
- 13:04Speaker 1: you know, you always hear about baby daddy drama and
- 13:06Speaker 1: baby mama drama. Like you don't ever hear about like
- 13:08Speaker 1: healthy co parenting too much. I mean I think, I
- 13:11Speaker 1: mean I can't apply necessarily to my situation, but I
- 13:13Speaker 1: think people have a bad habit of viewing each other
- 13:15Speaker 1: as x's instead of viewing each other as co parents, right,
- 13:19Speaker 1: and then they apply X drama and X attention and
- 13:24Speaker 1: X like chaos when really, at the moment you guys
- 13:28Speaker 1: become parents, you guys need to view each other as literally,
- 13:31Speaker 1: whoever this baby is parents. That's it, Like you need
- 13:34Speaker 1: to all the X thing needs to go out the window.
- 13:36Speaker 1: So it's almost like you got to take the person
- 13:38Speaker 1: a lot of it and deal with the business. Yeah, literally,
- 13:41Speaker 1: and then your team baby, And if you're if you
- 13:42Speaker 1: guys aren't functioning as a proper team, then the only
- 13:44Speaker 1: one that really comes down on hard, like super hard,
- 13:47Speaker 1: is the baby. So absolutely, what did you do different
- 13:50Speaker 1: during the pandemic? Like I applied myself to learning how
- 13:54Speaker 1: to edit and direct videos, and me and my photographer
- 13:58Speaker 1: who doesn't shoot videos or editos, decided to start a
- 14:01Speaker 1: production company so that the videos we would drop at
- 14:04Speaker 1: least looked like they came from something professional. So what
- 14:08Speaker 1: started out it's kind of like a let's do like
- 14:10Speaker 1: a make their production company actually became a real one
- 14:12Speaker 1: and we just bought equipment and like literally sat in
- 14:14Speaker 1: my garage every day and learned on YouTube. And now
- 14:17Speaker 1: we're directing videos for other artists. So that alone was
- 14:21Speaker 1: its own, like completely own things to a different passion
- 14:24Speaker 1: for you now, like like you want to be an
- 14:26Speaker 1: art director in the video directors he looking at scenes,
- 14:28Speaker 1: you're looking at sech looking. Yeah, I've always done that,
- 14:31Speaker 1: though I didn't even know that. What I was doing
- 14:33Speaker 1: up until this point was technically co directing all my
- 14:35Speaker 1: stuff because I'd come up with an idea and I
- 14:37Speaker 1: would give it to a director like this is exactly
- 14:39Speaker 1: what I want to do. Now you take it and
- 14:40Speaker 1: flush it out. And now I'm not knowing that the
- 14:42Speaker 1: whole time, I can technically call myself a co director
- 14:45Speaker 1: at that point. All when we come back, don't move.
- 14:48Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club Morning.
- 14:54Speaker 1: Everybody's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlemagne, the guy we are
- 14:58Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club was still Charlie. What do you learn
- 15:02Speaker 1: about yourself last year during the pandemic, yourself specifically, so
- 15:05Speaker 1: many things, so many things. I learned that I'm super limitless.
- 15:11Speaker 1: I learned that that's all I aspired to be. And
- 15:13Speaker 1: it's funny because I just did it sit down with
- 15:15Speaker 1: Alicia Keys, and when she said that, I was like, man,
- 15:18Speaker 1: you put it all into words, like it's one thing
- 15:20Speaker 1: to like be limitless, and it's another thing to like
- 15:22Speaker 1: know that it's possible to be, you know, because we
- 15:25Speaker 1: are all limitless. But it takes a long time to
- 15:27Speaker 1: unlock that feeling of like, oh, I can really do
- 15:30Speaker 1: whatever I want to round this bitch, like if I'm
- 15:33Speaker 1: taking care of myself and I'm doing it the right way,
- 15:35Speaker 1: like the world is mine type and I don't know.
- 15:39Speaker 1: I just I went to therapy. I started. I love
- 15:42Speaker 1: my therapists. There's a lot of things that I learned.
- 15:45Speaker 1: I don't know. I didn't go forever well, I was.
- 15:49Speaker 1: I used to be in therapy, and then I think
- 15:50Speaker 1: I got really hard hit it with it because I
- 15:52Speaker 1: was just like, you know, I'm at that point where
- 15:54Speaker 1: like I know what my therapist is gonna say, and
- 15:55Speaker 1: like I know what she's gonna tell me, and like
- 15:57Speaker 1: I can apply to myself, but you truly, really I
- 16:00Speaker 1: was like you never actually graduate out of therapy. I
- 16:03Speaker 1: was just at that point where I was like, you
- 16:04Speaker 1: know what, I'm a mom now, I'm two years into motherhood.
- 16:08Speaker 1: Like I'm experiencing a new set of things that I
- 16:11Speaker 1: need to get the tools to work through. So that's
- 16:14Speaker 1: why I went back. The song Alter is about being
- 16:20Speaker 1: able to maintain the relationship with people when they've passed
- 16:23Speaker 1: on because of the work that you put in, you know,
- 16:26Speaker 1: on this side, UM, I had a lot of people
- 16:28Speaker 1: that passed away in the last couple of years, a
- 16:30Speaker 1: lot of friends really really young. I also really got
- 16:33Speaker 1: really close to my father who passed away when I
- 16:35Speaker 1: was one. UM in this last year, just like doing
- 16:38Speaker 1: proper ancestor work and like making sure that you know,
- 16:42Speaker 1: they were always venerated and fed and had things to
- 16:45Speaker 1: light them and guide them and just taken care of
- 16:47Speaker 1: and through putting the time in and like little by
- 16:50Speaker 1: little by little and really developing like a discipline with it.
- 16:53Speaker 1: Just the way I was able to transform my understanding
- 16:57Speaker 1: of grief. I think I lost maybe five friends that
- 17:01Speaker 1: were probably all under the age of twenty eight twenty
- 17:04Speaker 1: seven in the last couple of years to like random
- 17:07Speaker 1: freak drug situations, and I had gotten to the point
- 17:10Speaker 1: where I was like, I have to understand, like why
- 17:13Speaker 1: I feel you guys so much, and like how can
- 17:16Speaker 1: I help you guys? And dad da da dah, and
- 17:18Speaker 1: the people I'd become surrounded within my spiritual community were
- 17:21Speaker 1: just like, look, this is how we can help you,
- 17:23Speaker 1: you know, grapple with that, and through that, I feel
- 17:25Speaker 1: like I'm a lot closer to everyone. So that's what
- 17:27Speaker 1: the song is. Isn't that amazingly normal? Like when you
- 17:29Speaker 1: start doing like that spiritual work and the healing work
- 17:32Speaker 1: and that energy work on yourself and you got your
- 17:34Speaker 1: all to set up in the crib, you really do
- 17:36Speaker 1: be talking to your people or yeah, and then you
- 17:38Speaker 1: then you start having to differentiate like did I just
- 17:41Speaker 1: make that up? Or did I see that? Did I
- 17:43Speaker 1: make that up? Or did I feel that I didn't
- 17:45Speaker 1: think of that? That was that was somebody there and
- 17:47Speaker 1: it's comforting. So what's the title Blue Water Rolled About? Well,
- 17:51Speaker 1: there's a surface level title version definition and then there's
- 17:55Speaker 1: like a deeper one. But we had started the what
- 18:00Speaker 1: was the deluxe for? It was good until it wasn't
- 18:01Speaker 1: my last album in this house that I did a
- 18:04Speaker 1: writing camp bat on a street called Blue Water Road,
- 18:07Speaker 1: or and I left after the first week and went
- 18:10Speaker 1: into like a couple of ceremony processes. I came back
- 18:14Speaker 1: and I just like was completely different and heard the
- 18:17Speaker 1: music differently and was like, this doesn't sound like it's
- 18:20Speaker 1: a deluxe for my last album. This sounds like it's
- 18:22Speaker 1: a completely new project. And when I think of Blue
- 18:26Speaker 1: Water Road, to me, it's a river, and a river
- 18:29Speaker 1: super spiritually significant to me, and to be discreet, but
- 18:35Speaker 1: like still give explanation. Like a river, it just keeps flowing.
- 18:39Speaker 1: It's it's a life source. And then on the flip
- 18:41Speaker 1: side of thinking about it as a location, it gave
- 18:44Speaker 1: me an ability to put people into my world because
- 18:47Speaker 1: it gave it a literal location. I performed a lot
- 18:50Speaker 1: of my old music and been on stage and almost
- 18:52Speaker 1: had laughing moments where I'm like, I can't believe I
- 18:54Speaker 1: was there all I can't believe that was me, or
- 18:56Speaker 1: I can't believe I thought that, or like, oh wow,
- 18:58Speaker 1: look how far I've comes since I thought that, And like,
- 19:00Speaker 1: I don't realize it's doing things for people in the audience,
- 19:02Speaker 1: but for me, I'm like, that's hilarious, you know. But
- 19:05Speaker 1: when I hear my perspective as a nineteen year old
- 19:07Speaker 1: or twenty year old girl, I'm like, oh, baby, you
- 19:10Speaker 1: needed somebody to sit you down and tell you leave
- 19:13Speaker 1: it alone and go get it together. And now I'm
- 19:17Speaker 1: I'm twenty six and I'm dropping songs that are just
- 19:20Speaker 1: about like I don't really like I don't need anybody.
- 19:24Speaker 1: And I think I was coming from such a place
- 19:25Speaker 1: of like need in the past. You can hear it.
- 19:28Speaker 1: You can hear it in the lyrics. And now I'm
- 19:30Speaker 1: just like, WHOA, Thank God I grew up, you know,
- 19:32Speaker 1: but we all we all go through it, you know,
- 19:35Speaker 1: Road and Nick Cannon playing your career. Wheren't you signing Nick?
- 19:37Speaker 1: At one point I wasn't signed to Nicky kind of
- 19:40Speaker 1: not really. So when I first met Nick Cannon, I
- 19:43Speaker 1: was on America's Got Talent. I was fifteen, sixteen years old,
- 19:47Speaker 1: time had passed, my band had broke up. I was
- 19:50Speaker 1: like working two jobs and in high school. And he
- 19:52Speaker 1: called and he was like, I see the vision. I
- 19:54Speaker 1: get it, like you're meant to be solo artists, Like
- 19:56Speaker 1: come back to LA, Let's try it again. I want
- 19:58Speaker 1: to support. And when I came back to La, he
- 20:00Speaker 1: had surprised me with my first apartment. I had never
- 20:03Speaker 1: slept in a bed by myself. I never had my
- 20:05Speaker 1: own room. At the time, I was couchopping between a
- 20:08Speaker 1: bunch of friends working two jobs. Like I just fell
- 20:11Speaker 1: on the floor and couldn't believe it. He made sure
- 20:14Speaker 1: that if I needed anything that I had it as
- 20:17Speaker 1: long as I was not out here bullshit, And he
- 20:21Speaker 1: changed my life forever. Like that's family to me. He
- 20:23Speaker 1: silently has changed the lives of so many people. And
- 20:27Speaker 1: we don't know until someone sees like an interview of
- 20:30Speaker 1: mine and they'll come grab me and be like, you know,
- 20:32Speaker 1: Nick Cannon did the same thing for me. Wow, And
- 20:34Speaker 1: he don't get his flowers for that, but he doesn't.
- 20:36Speaker 1: You got to salute him. Yeah, well, we appreciate you
- 20:38Speaker 1: for joining us, Thank you for having Thank you so much.
- 20:40Speaker 1: A pleasure me. It's the first time you've been up. Yeah,
- 20:42Speaker 1: nice to meet y'all. Realized all right, it's Kalani, it's
- 20:44Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Good morning, it's topic time called eight
- 20:53Speaker 1: hundred five eight five. One wanted to join it to
- 20:55Speaker 1: the discussion with the Breakfast Club, talk about it morning.
- 20:58Speaker 1: Everybody in steed Envy and Jelu yee, Charlemagne the guy.
- 21:02Speaker 1: We are the breakfast club. Now, if you're just joining us,
- 21:05Speaker 1: we're asking if social media ruined relationships. Now, this conversation
- 21:10Speaker 1: comes from drink camps and Bootsey. Bootsey was gonna drink camps.
- 21:12Speaker 1: And this is what you have to say. Everything marriages
- 21:16Speaker 1: at first your bit, you just see that work you
- 21:22Speaker 1: and it's come home. Now she got about thirty thousand looking.
- 21:26Speaker 1: But when you don't act right, and she hit my
- 21:29Speaker 1: tide about all of them aground? She ain't getting so
- 21:34Speaker 1: all that time you didn't put in with no money
- 21:37Speaker 1: up everything YouTube, No, you had to look at was
- 21:40Speaker 1: your side at work, your cat home and come back.
- 21:45Speaker 1: Now you hit my tide. You look at you and
- 21:49Speaker 1: you see about just look better. It made us hold
- 21:52Speaker 1: eight hundred five eight five one on five one. Let's
- 21:55Speaker 1: go to the phone lines. Hello, who's this? This was
- 21:57Speaker 1: the Velly was good? What's uping about Rizzarelli? You sound
- 22:01Speaker 1: like a cheetah? Yeah? Sorry, yeah, I'm sorry. I apologize.
- 22:05Speaker 1: Who are you sorry to listen? I'll cheat every woman
- 22:08Speaker 1: I've been and so make it a good person. How
- 22:13Speaker 1: old are you trying to make a good person? Just
- 22:16Speaker 1: makes me your honest person. How old are you Rizzarelli? Thirty?
- 22:20Speaker 1: Oh thirty? So damn all you know? With social media? Listening?
- 22:23Speaker 1: Social media does ruin a relationship. I've been well, no,
- 22:27Speaker 1: without without here, without social media, you would have ruined
- 22:30Speaker 1: every relationship. Tell us how though, I want to hear
- 22:34Speaker 1: how why you gotta you gotta understand. I've learned that
- 22:38Speaker 1: people gotta learn how to conduct themselves over social media. Okay,
- 22:42Speaker 1: as people as in you, well, of course, but I'm
- 22:46Speaker 1: just saying humor racing. Oh, you know, everybody. I think
- 22:50Speaker 1: social media is over sensualized everything. You know, Hey, I
- 22:54Speaker 1: don't think you should blame social media on the fact
- 22:55Speaker 1: that you're prone to cheat. That depends on who you
- 22:58Speaker 1: follow right, Well, no, no, not really, you don't, depending
- 23:02Speaker 1: on who's following and who's following you. It's just what
- 23:07Speaker 1: it's put out. This fool like social media is everybody
- 23:12Speaker 1: go out to just to show themselves forward. They're gonna
- 23:15Speaker 1: show up what they're doing. They're gonn show up by
- 23:17Speaker 1: body looks, and it should over strict you a lot
- 23:20Speaker 1: of everything. It suits me a little sense a lot.
- 23:23Speaker 1: So what are you gonna do now? Moving forward? To
- 23:25Speaker 1: change things for yourself. So you're not a cheating I
- 23:29Speaker 1: learned from my situation. Okayitation, you know what I'm saying.
- 23:33Speaker 1: But I want to some people as a groupments everybody,
- 23:36Speaker 1: you know, uh, as a human race. You know, I
- 23:38Speaker 1: want them to be able to do the same thing
- 23:40Speaker 1: I can mix my wrong you know that. You know
- 23:46Speaker 1: everybody ain't cheating, rise Arelli. Some of us are members
- 23:49Speaker 1: of the faithful black male community. Okay, ain't man? Hello,
- 23:53Speaker 1: who's this? You are the girl and I never had
- 23:59Speaker 1: and I on and get to know you bad? Leave
- 24:03Speaker 1: uncle O, what's gonna talk to us? Mama? I was
- 24:06Speaker 1: saying that social media has definitely messed it up? Or um,
- 24:11Speaker 1: you know in the relationship you really a cheat it
- 24:14Speaker 1: huh not at all? So why why is it? Why
- 24:16Speaker 1: is it messing up your relationships? Did no? And it
- 24:19Speaker 1: mess it up? Thank god? And almost did? But what happened?
- 24:23Speaker 1: Oh gosh, um, you're almost cheated social media like like
- 24:27Speaker 1: we're talking about. But like what happened. It's easier to
- 24:32Speaker 1: cheat media, all right. So somebody reached out to you,
- 24:35Speaker 1: you respond it even though you have a man or
- 24:37Speaker 1: what you know? Actually, I um saw it on the
- 24:42Speaker 1: social media. I not the phone and read you know,
- 24:47Speaker 1: all right, you call him doing some things? Yes, okay,
- 24:50Speaker 1: well listen, it's easier. It's easier to cheat when you
- 24:53Speaker 1: are cheatah, if you're not a cheetah, and then it's
- 24:55Speaker 1: not hard. Did not cheat at all? Right, period, it's
- 24:58Speaker 1: easier to get caught on social I'll say that. So
- 25:00Speaker 1: you're still with your cheating. Definitely, you're still with your cheating. Now. Yeah,
- 25:08Speaker 1: that's right. Okay, that's good, that's good. That's I'm gonna
- 25:12Speaker 1: reform cheating. Ain't nobody here judging nobody, not at all,
- 25:16Speaker 1: not at all. How long you've been clean? How long
- 25:18Speaker 1: you've been sober? Sober? Well? How long is he not cheated? Man?
- 25:23Speaker 1: I was a cheater. I've been cheated. I'm talking about
- 25:26Speaker 1: the man. How long is the man not cheated? About? Now?
- 25:31Speaker 1: And I'm gonna tell you something. Just like women know
- 25:33Speaker 1: when they man it's cheating, they know when they man
- 25:35Speaker 1: it's not cheating. So she can say that two years
- 25:37Speaker 1: with confidence. There you go. Yeah, okay, period, Well, thank you, mama,
- 25:42Speaker 1: thank you, yes man. Eight hundred five eight five one
- 25:45Speaker 1: o five one. Now, what's the moral of the story
- 25:47Speaker 1: If there is a moral and the moral of the stories.
- 25:49Speaker 1: Exactly what I said. You can literally see a million
- 25:51Speaker 1: people on Instagram, but if you only have eyes for
- 25:53Speaker 1: one person and that's all it's gonna be. You know
- 25:55Speaker 1: what I mean? What Boosey is saying, it's real, but
- 25:58Speaker 1: it only applies to people who are only cheat Me.
- 26:01Speaker 1: I am a member of a proud member of the
- 26:04Speaker 1: faithful black male community. I am reformed and the keep talking. Okay,
- 26:09Speaker 1: black men don't cheat, all right. I've been cleaned for
- 26:13Speaker 1: October twenty sixteen, felt that in my soul. Bro I'm
- 26:16Speaker 1: clean over six years now, Okay, that's right, all right,
- 26:20Speaker 1: because it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning morning. Everybody is
- 26:22Speaker 1: DJ Envy Angela Yee Charlomagne, the guy we are the
- 26:26Speaker 1: Breakfast Club were still kicking it with Lunell Charlomagne. Now,
- 26:29Speaker 1: how do you prepare to do shows when you don't like,
- 26:32Speaker 1: are you ever in the mood not to be funny? Sometimes? Okay,
- 26:36Speaker 1: but rarely like they say, like never said, it's in you,
- 26:40Speaker 1: not on you, So it's in me to be funny. Um.
- 26:44Speaker 1: I you know our brains, comics, brains are wired different.
- 26:49Speaker 1: Like I even have things to laugh at at my
- 26:52Speaker 1: own mother's funeral. You know what I'm saying? So well, yeah,
- 26:55Speaker 1: for you to hear her friends saying exactly, I was crying,
- 27:02Speaker 1: but crying you laughed at your friends, mamma because she
- 27:09Speaker 1: did like five verses. I'm like, yo, the funeral, like
- 27:15Speaker 1: what are you doing? What was the song? I don't know.
- 27:18Speaker 1: I'm kind of block it out my mind, but I
- 27:20Speaker 1: do remember that situation happening for sure. Did you want
- 27:24Speaker 1: the funeral to be over just because you didn't want
- 27:26Speaker 1: to be there because you know grief is hard? Or
- 27:28Speaker 1: did you have another gig? No? It was, it was terrible.
- 27:32Speaker 1: Then it was terrible. Man. I'm gonna ask you know what,
- 27:35Speaker 1: You're doing so much, so many shows and on the
- 27:37Speaker 1: tour for nine months, how often do you get a
- 27:39Speaker 1: chance to refresh material and talk about new things? Oh?
- 27:43Speaker 1: Every day? I don't. I'm not scripted type comic man,
- 27:48Speaker 1: Like I don't write my material down. I just like
- 27:53Speaker 1: I write bullet points down and things that I happened
- 27:56Speaker 1: because for me, for me, I feel that I need
- 28:00Speaker 1: to leave myself open to change. Like if I say
- 28:03Speaker 1: I'm gonna do this, this, this, this and this and
- 28:06Speaker 1: that's it. But on the way to the show this
- 28:08Speaker 1: and this might happen now I want to talk about
- 28:11Speaker 1: that and change the whole thing. So I just kind
- 28:14Speaker 1: of flow with it. But I do have, of course
- 28:17Speaker 1: standard stuff that I talk about per every show. And
- 28:22Speaker 1: I'm also you know, preparing to do my first Netflix
- 28:24Speaker 1: special Dave Chappelle producer nice, and I'm ready to shooting tonight.
- 28:32Speaker 1: You know, I don't. I don't. I don't, I don't.
- 28:34Speaker 1: I don't have any anxiety about doing it. Already got
- 28:37Speaker 1: my fit, already, got my shoes, We just got locked
- 28:40Speaker 1: down on location. I want to shoot it in Oakland
- 28:43Speaker 1: for so much time in my life, and you know,
- 28:47Speaker 1: work out some details and then we'll do it. You
- 28:49Speaker 1: feel like you get the credit you deserve for all
- 28:51Speaker 1: that you've done and and open indoors for so many
- 28:55Speaker 1: different people in women, I don't really think I've opened
- 28:57Speaker 1: that many doors for anybody. Number One thinks no, because
- 29:02Speaker 1: there's nobody that's actually like me walking through them feeling.
- 29:06Speaker 1: And then also, um, do I feel like I get
- 29:10Speaker 1: I think I get all the credit from the people.
- 29:14Speaker 1: The people give me my props constantly. I think I'm
- 29:19Speaker 1: the people's you know, comic type check. But the industry
- 29:24Speaker 1: I think is still a little scared to me because
- 29:27Speaker 1: you know, I have been known to Papa off, and
- 29:29Speaker 1: I know a good contract when I see one. I
- 29:31Speaker 1: know a trash one when I see one. It's so
- 29:33Speaker 1: much easier for them to work with a young, ambitious, eager,
- 29:39Speaker 1: quasi naive person that it is from. You get an
- 29:43Speaker 1: old bat like me that's coming with my attorney, coming
- 29:46Speaker 1: with my management. And then my team is black, it's
- 29:49Speaker 1: not white. A lot of times people in the industry,
- 29:52Speaker 1: whether it's a musician or a comic, they get to
- 29:54Speaker 1: a certain level than their whole team turns into this
- 29:58Speaker 1: U CATAJ committee. Yeah, and you know I'm I already
- 30:04Speaker 1: got my team with me. My agency I work for
- 30:07Speaker 1: is multi cultural. My male ages is black, female. Um,
- 30:11Speaker 1: my manager is black, My lawyer is black and from Oakland.
- 30:15Speaker 1: My accountant is Latina. You know, my house people Latino
- 30:20Speaker 1: e Latinas. So I just I think I come with
- 30:24Speaker 1: a lot for the average white male to be intimidated with.
- 30:31Speaker 1: So I think that you know, my talent is you know,
- 30:36Speaker 1: certifiable obviously, but um, you know, I've never been a
- 30:40Speaker 1: regular on it any kind of show like a you know,
- 30:43Speaker 1: like a family, you know, like like like like yeah,
- 30:47Speaker 1: I've never worked with like sad and one of those things.
- 30:50Speaker 1: I've never done that, and I've never had like a
- 30:53Speaker 1: lot of specials or anything like that because I'm trying
- 30:56Speaker 1: to be, you know, the next black woman in late night.
- 30:58Speaker 1: That's my goal because every night, you know, like I
- 31:02Speaker 1: grew up in the Carson era, Okay, but it's still
- 31:05Speaker 1: a white man after white man after white man, amber
- 31:07Speaker 1: white man after white man after white man in late
- 31:09Speaker 1: night and they got two names Jimmy. So you know,
- 31:13Speaker 1: it's time to break that up. That is my goal,
- 31:16Speaker 1: and I think, I mean, I've been trained for that
- 31:18Speaker 1: since before I left her. What do you think about it?
- 31:22Speaker 1: I'm just gonna talk to you about some trending topics.
- 31:24Speaker 1: And you know, we saw bificuat Fox say that, you know,
- 31:26Speaker 1: she doesn't like the fact that Nick Cannon has all
- 31:28Speaker 1: of those kids. She don't think he can probably spend
- 31:31Speaker 1: time with all of them. And you know, they need
- 31:33Speaker 1: black families, need a strong black figure. What do you
- 31:36Speaker 1: think about that? Well, I'm the eighth of eight children myself.
- 31:39Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I have seven brothers and sisters. Is all
- 31:42Speaker 1: on my Instagram Adelue nell L E E L L.
- 31:45Speaker 1: My whole family. You just had a family of un
- 31:48Speaker 1: I got a niece sitting right there. That's my sister's daughter. Um.
- 31:51Speaker 1: I don't think it's a problem that you have so
- 31:52Speaker 1: many kids. I think it's a problem that you have
- 31:55Speaker 1: so many mamas. Yeah, a lot of people problem. Yeah.
- 32:01Speaker 1: You know, you can't be everywhere all the time, and
- 32:05Speaker 1: everybody's not going to get along. Talking to Nick about
- 32:07Speaker 1: this on his show on television, I don't know what
- 32:11Speaker 1: his goal is. And anytime you have two women praying
- 32:15Speaker 1: at the same time, that's problematic. I think it's problematic. Yeah.
- 32:21Speaker 1: And but the women, they have to take some accountability too.
- 32:26Speaker 1: Obviously they want to have these children. You know, what
- 32:29Speaker 1: do you tell yourself when your baby Mama number eight
- 32:33Speaker 1: or baby Mama number nine. Nick can live his life
- 32:37Speaker 1: and do what he want, But you know I wouldn't.
- 32:40Speaker 1: I wouldn't have a baby for I'd just be a
- 32:43Speaker 1: side chick that has his benefits too. All right, We
- 32:47Speaker 1: got more with lu Nelle when we come back. It's
- 32:48Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Good morning morning. Everybody's ch Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne,
- 32:54Speaker 1: the guy we are the Breakfast Club were still kicking
- 32:56Speaker 1: it with lu Nelle Charlomagne. I wonder why why nick
- 32:59Speaker 1: situation is so loud though, because I think, like Eddie
- 33:01Speaker 1: Murphy got ten kids with dad, you don't have nine
- 33:04Speaker 1: baby mamas though, just two? Really? Five of those kids
- 33:10Speaker 1: are from the cool okay, and then he's got Paige,
- 33:14Speaker 1: but then it's the Spice girl. Oh yeah her so
- 33:18Speaker 1: oh yeah, I think he got more than three baby
- 33:20Speaker 1: mother You got three. There's three Google that Eddie got three.
- 33:25Speaker 1: I don't know, but that's a good perspective. I never
- 33:26Speaker 1: thought about it like that. It's not the kids, it's
- 33:28Speaker 1: the amount of baby man. Correct. The kids will adapt,
- 33:31Speaker 1: you know, they'll play with their brothers and the sisters
- 33:33Speaker 1: and all that. But let's say he wants to get
- 33:36Speaker 1: all the kids together. Yea, now all the moms are together? Yeah,
- 33:41Speaker 1: whose rain has been bigger than who's? Who's got one?
- 33:43Speaker 1: Who don't have one? Children? With five women? Five? Lord, Eddie,
- 33:50Speaker 1: I was trying to have your back, Eddie, Paige, Nicole, Paulette,
- 33:54Speaker 1: Tamara And yeah, I don't know Paula and Tamara. But
- 33:58Speaker 1: you know, it's not for me to know. I don't
- 34:00Speaker 1: know what would happened. If I had ten kids with
- 34:03Speaker 1: six different guys, they'd be calling me a hu. So
- 34:09Speaker 1: it's double standard. It definitely is. I get the only
- 34:12Speaker 1: thing I disagreed with when she said that he can't
- 34:14Speaker 1: he can't be a strong black male figure for the kids.
- 34:18Speaker 1: I disagree with that part. He still is. He's still
- 34:21Speaker 1: a good dude. I think she meant like in the household.
- 34:23Speaker 1: Yeah he's like yeah, yeah, I agree with that. I agree.
- 34:26Speaker 1: He's not gonna be able to spend the time. If
- 34:28Speaker 1: you got three kids sick at the same time, yeah,
- 34:31Speaker 1: and three different houses, Yeah that's wild. Yeah, yeah, I
- 34:34Speaker 1: mean I have six and it's difficult for me and
- 34:38Speaker 1: they all in my same house. Yeah yeah, I saw that. Man,
- 34:42Speaker 1: I got six VU be shooting them down? But you
- 34:46Speaker 1: know what, but they all in the same house, so
- 34:48Speaker 1: it's not like I gotta go to you know, you infertile.
- 34:51Speaker 1: Yeah that's who? Well, right, us eight are fame parents.
- 34:57Speaker 1: So you're the youngest. Yeah, I'm the baby. Okay, all
- 35:00Speaker 1: your siblings are alive and everything. No, okay, I have
- 35:03Speaker 1: one sister. I got a murder. Oh h how was
- 35:07Speaker 1: that growing up? You being the youngest, Did you get
- 35:08Speaker 1: picked on or were you the one that they always protected? No,
- 35:12Speaker 1: I got picked on. That's why that's so strong. Yeah.
- 35:17Speaker 1: And like I said, we just had a family reunion
- 35:22Speaker 1: in Arkansas and it was only four days. Is usually Thurs, Friday, Saturday, Sunday,
- 35:27Speaker 1: and that's enough. So during the family union, are you
- 35:32Speaker 1: the one that has to do comedy or you do
- 35:34Speaker 1: you do comedy during your family union? I absolutely do not,
- 35:36Speaker 1: but I have. I have, and they always trying to
- 35:40Speaker 1: get me. You know you're gonna be and I just
- 35:42Speaker 1: come a little rock. You couldn't come text scanner. I'm like,
- 35:45Speaker 1: I didn't come here for that, you know. I came
- 35:47Speaker 1: to spend time with my sibs. That's what it is.
- 35:50Speaker 1: That what's the hardest part about being a comedian that
- 35:52Speaker 1: people don't talk about um relationship and parenting. Oh very difficult.
- 36:01Speaker 1: It makes it so difficult that you're on the road. Yeah,
- 36:04Speaker 1: And that's why one of the reasons why I want
- 36:06Speaker 1: to be the next Black Woman in Late Night because
- 36:08Speaker 1: I want to be stable. But when I have a grandchild,
- 36:12Speaker 1: I don't want to be on the road for that.
- 36:15Speaker 1: My daughter's gonna need me. I need to be around.
- 36:19Speaker 1: I kept be doing this and leaving her alone with
- 36:22Speaker 1: the first you know, the first time mother. And I
- 36:26Speaker 1: know how difficult I was because I got my mother
- 36:29Speaker 1: passed away. In the next month, I got pregnant, and
- 36:32Speaker 1: so I had to have my child without my mom.
- 36:34Speaker 1: I don't want my daughter to have to do that.
- 36:37Speaker 1: So I want to get stable and not be on
- 36:40Speaker 1: the road so much. The road is the audiences is
- 36:44Speaker 1: my That's where my heart lies, you know, the insect gratification,
- 36:48Speaker 1: the meeting of the people. That's why it's not like
- 36:51Speaker 1: a bummer for me to be back in the clubs
- 36:53Speaker 1: as opposed to the arena. The arena is a big machine.
- 36:56Speaker 1: That's a big monstrosity of machine. But in the club
- 37:00Speaker 1: I can talk to somebody right there. I can talk
- 37:02Speaker 1: to somebody right there. They can smell me, they can
- 37:04Speaker 1: feel me, and all that kind of stuff. And I
- 37:07Speaker 1: really like the clubs and stuff. But I just do
- 37:10Speaker 1: not I want to even if I got my show,
- 37:13Speaker 1: when I get nice shows existence and I get my
- 37:16Speaker 1: late night show, I will still want to do stand
- 37:20Speaker 1: up somewhere around the country, maybe twice a month. Got you,
- 37:22Speaker 1: but not not every week like I'm doing. They can
- 37:27Speaker 1: see you this week and you're gonna be at Carolines.
- 37:29Speaker 1: I am starting tonight and then um to tomorrow on
- 37:34Speaker 1: Saturday and one on Sunday. That's right, So two shows tonight,
- 37:37Speaker 1: two shows Saturday, one show on Sunday. Makes your head
- 37:40Speaker 1: out to Carolines and shout out to the good people
- 37:42Speaker 1: like Carolines. It always holds it. Now, but who you're
- 37:46Speaker 1: going out of time? And are you going? Charltagne? I
- 37:48Speaker 1: feel like you haven't sat and watched me. I wanted
- 37:50Speaker 1: to go. I want you to. I feel like people
- 37:55Speaker 1: that see me is one thing where if you don't
- 37:57Speaker 1: see me on stage, you really don't know. Now, I'm
- 38:00Speaker 1: gonna coming this weekend. I'm here this weekend. Okay, what
- 38:02Speaker 1: you do now, I'm come. I'nna come this weekend. I'm
- 38:04Speaker 1: gon text Greg Gooday, I'm coming. All right. I don't
- 38:06Speaker 1: know what day yet, but I'm coming. That's okay, Yeah, alright,
- 38:09Speaker 1: it's little now check her out of Carolina this weekend.
- 38:12Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, and your picture still
- 38:14Speaker 1: up there? You see what It's never coming down? Well,
- 38:17Speaker 1: I mean it might come down from in here and
- 38:19Speaker 1: put up somewhere else. Well, I'm very excited to the
- 38:22Speaker 1: breakfast club. Good morning, you get you. I'm gonna fatten
- 38:38Speaker 1: all that around your want this man two Dolden blowers.
- 38:42Speaker 1: Many wait with Charlemagne to make a judgment. Who was
- 38:46Speaker 1: gonna be on the donkey of the day. They chose
- 38:48Speaker 1: you breakfast many of the day to day donkey today
- 38:54Speaker 1: go to a young woman named Tiger Russia Tis. It
- 38:57Speaker 1: is twenty nine years old and she's from the great
- 38:59Speaker 1: state of New Jersey. Up on a clous box from
- 39:00Speaker 1: New Jersey demo. Now, before we talk about Todger, let
- 39:04Speaker 1: me ask y'all the question out there. When the last
- 39:06Speaker 1: time you got stood up? When is the last time
- 39:09Speaker 1: you told someone you wanted to take them out and
- 39:11Speaker 1: didn't show up? Huh? When is the last time you
- 39:13Speaker 1: told someone to come over and you fell asleep on
- 39:16Speaker 1: their ass? I have homeboys now who are not married,
- 39:19Speaker 1: not in a committed relationship, not part of this faithful
- 39:22Speaker 1: black male community, and they tell me stories like this
- 39:25Speaker 1: all the time, especially when we out of time. All right,
- 39:28Speaker 1: women come to the hotel and be downstairs in the
- 39:30Speaker 1: lobby for hours because said individual has fallen asleep on
- 39:33Speaker 1: their ass. Every time I hit stories like this, I
- 39:36Speaker 1: feel for those women, because to me, this is a
- 39:39Speaker 1: different level of disrespect. All Right, If a man calls
- 39:42Speaker 1: you over and tells you that he fell asleep on you,
- 39:44Speaker 1: he's an eight lyne because he was going through his
- 39:47Speaker 1: phone and decided to call a couple of different chicks,
- 39:49Speaker 1: And whoever got there first is who he's with. Hinch,
- 39:52Speaker 1: Why he is not answering for you or b You
- 39:54Speaker 1: just don't excite him like that. Okay, you're not falling
- 39:57Speaker 1: asleep on a woman. You are really excited to see.
- 39:59Speaker 1: In fact, that adrenaline rush you get from seeing a
- 40:02Speaker 1: being around a woman you're into. It's gonna wake your
- 40:05Speaker 1: ass up, all right, you got a woman coming over,
- 40:07Speaker 1: you get excited, all right. You think you're gonna get
- 40:09Speaker 1: some ass. So you gonna hop your ass in the shower,
- 40:12Speaker 1: and that shower gonna wake you up. Then you're gonna
- 40:14Speaker 1: lotion up, throw on some basketball shorts, in the fresh
- 40:16Speaker 1: T shirt, spray some cologne on, roll up something, smoke,
- 40:19Speaker 1: paul you a glass or something, and waiting for the
- 40:21Speaker 1: young lady you called over to arrive. Okay, I fell asleep,
- 40:28Speaker 1: He fell asleep. How boring was your box that the
- 40:31Speaker 1: thought of you coming over puts a man to sleep,
- 40:33Speaker 1: all right, So yes, ladies, you should feel extremely disrespected
- 40:37Speaker 1: when you come to see a man and he tells
- 40:38Speaker 1: you I fell asleep. That you wouldn't feel disrespected? Gives
- 40:41Speaker 1: that happened to you? Yeah, I'd be annoyed that I
- 40:42Speaker 1: came out of my way. Then that's exactly what happened
- 40:45Speaker 1: to Taja M. Russell. Now, according to the New York
- 40:47Speaker 1: Daily News, Tiger was the side chick. All right. That's
- 40:50Speaker 1: the New York Daily News words, not mine, all right.
- 40:53Speaker 1: Tiger was this young man she was visiting side chicken.
- 40:56Speaker 1: The young man told authorities that he asked Russell to
- 40:58Speaker 1: come to his house for sex, but he fell asleep
- 41:01Speaker 1: before she arrived. Disrespectful. When Tiger got to the man's house,
- 41:05Speaker 1: she called him eight times, eight times, but he didn't
- 41:09Speaker 1: pick up. After eight phone calls, she allegedly texted man,
- 41:14Speaker 1: I see you want to die, followed by you wasted
- 41:19Speaker 1: my money to come out of here. And then around
- 41:21Speaker 1: four am, security camera saw Maga knocking on this young
- 41:25Speaker 1: man's door and he still didn't answer. Ladies, when this
- 41:29Speaker 1: is over, rewind and listen to what I said about
- 41:31Speaker 1: a man disrespecting you. The level of disrespect this young
- 41:34Speaker 1: woman Tiger received. It's four in the morning. You got
- 41:38Speaker 1: there and called eight times, You're knocked on his door,
- 41:41Speaker 1: and he eggetting the hell out of you, not to
- 41:43Speaker 1: mention you already his side, chick, What else is there
- 41:46Speaker 1: to do, especially after you sent him that I see
- 41:50Speaker 1: you want to die texts, Well, you gotta attempt to
- 41:54Speaker 1: kill him. Let's go to News twelve New Jersey to
- 41:56Speaker 1: see how Tiger and Russell handled this situation. A woman
- 41:58Speaker 1: is accused of setting a man's home on fire after
- 42:01Speaker 1: she was invited over for a late night rendezvous. Police
- 42:04Speaker 1: say the small, twenty nine year olds Hasia Russell, went
- 42:08Speaker 1: to the home on Barbara Avenue, North Jersey. Dot Com
- 42:10Speaker 1: reports the man fell asleep did not answer the door.
- 42:14Speaker 1: They say that's when Russell set the home on fire.
- 42:17Speaker 1: The man was taken to the hospital with burns and
- 42:19Speaker 1: smoking elation. Tiger was determined to have a hot date.
- 42:22Speaker 1: All right, Remember when I told you that if a
- 42:24Speaker 1: man falls asleep on you before you get there, that
- 42:26Speaker 1: means the thought of your poom poom makes them sleepy.
- 42:28Speaker 1: You out there giving out that boring ass box. Well,
- 42:30Speaker 1: I think Tiger realized that in her mind, and she
- 42:33Speaker 1: was not leaving that house that night without the word
- 42:35Speaker 1: fire coming out of that man's mouth. She wanted that
- 42:38Speaker 1: worry to be you to describe her vagina, but she
- 42:40Speaker 1: didn't get that opportunity, so she decided to set his
- 42:43Speaker 1: crib a blaze. Okay, I'm gonna be honest with you.
- 42:46Speaker 1: Other than her having an arson charge and an attempted
- 42:49Speaker 1: murder charge and being held without bail, I kind of
- 42:51Speaker 1: feel him, all right. See, let's just be a lesson
- 42:54Speaker 1: to you fools, all right. Stop standing women up like
- 42:57Speaker 1: that after you didn't waste dead time and g and
- 43:00Speaker 1: money that comes see you. All right, it's disrespectful and
- 43:04Speaker 1: just not right. But ladies, don't be like Taja. When
- 43:07Speaker 1: a man doesn't value you, doesn't appreciate you, stands you up.
- 43:11Speaker 1: Don't do what Taja did, even though it hurts not
- 43:14Speaker 1: to react. All right, don't do it Taija did. Yeah.
- 43:17Speaker 1: I know you really want to work this out, but
- 43:19Speaker 1: I don't think this man is ever gonna change. All
- 43:22Speaker 1: right when you do, but they don't. I just think
- 43:24Speaker 1: it's best you go your separate ways, all right. Sometimes
- 43:27Speaker 1: you have to ask yourself, why should I stay in
- 43:29Speaker 1: this relationship. When you're hurting, baby, you ain't happy baby.
- 43:34Speaker 1: Let's just just so many other things you gotta deal with.
- 43:36Speaker 1: So I just think that you shouldn't let it burn.
- 43:41Speaker 1: Might might just put bis meminems or something, some peanut
- 43:43Speaker 1: eminem's or something. My goodness, I feel her pain a
- 43:46Speaker 1: little bit. All right, Well, thank you for that donkey today.
- 43:49Speaker 1: Now it's very literal and true to her words. What
- 43:53Speaker 1: did you get having her heart as thought at four
- 43:55Speaker 1: in the morning. All right, we got more coming up
- 43:57Speaker 1: next with a breakfast club. The breakfast club. If she
- 44:03Speaker 1: has an issue respecting what you need from her, then
- 44:07Speaker 1: it feels like, you know, I don't know how a
- 44:10Speaker 1: relationship can work if you're telling somebody that certain things
- 44:13Speaker 1: aren't acceptable and they're not in agreeance with you, or
- 44:15Speaker 1: they're not saying, Okay, I'm gonna let him know not
- 44:18Speaker 1: to call me anymore. I won't take his calls anymore.
- 44:20Speaker 1: And she's still speaking to him. Well, according to her,
- 44:23Speaker 1: she has been spoken to him, and I believe her. Okay.
- 44:25Speaker 1: My deeper concern is the fact that there's this reoccurring
- 44:30Speaker 1: theme of selfishness that she doesn't seem to get. But
- 44:34Speaker 1: you said she's not talking to him at all, So
- 44:36Speaker 1: she did listen to you, right, So the problem is,
- 44:40Speaker 1: like Chris rockinscribed, like the penis in the glass case,
- 44:43Speaker 1: Like if you allow people to hang around, you know,
- 44:45Speaker 1: one day, maybe we have an argument when he calls,
- 44:48Speaker 1: maybe she decides to take the call. But you said
- 44:49Speaker 1: she's not she's not talking to him anymore. And look,
- 44:52Speaker 1: you believe her. She says she doesn't speak to him,
- 44:55Speaker 1: and that's it, and you believe her. I do believe her.
- 44:58Speaker 1: But so you're telling me that you think this, like
- 45:00Speaker 1: to a laugh, I thought you just said she's not talking.
- 45:02Speaker 1: I don't think it's acceptable. You told her something she
- 45:05Speaker 1: told you she doesn't speak to him. You believe her.
- 45:07Speaker 1: So that issue feels like it should be a close
- 45:09Speaker 1: issue because she's not speaking to him, right all I
- 45:12Speaker 1: ask to tell a guy, listen, I'm in a relationship.
- 45:14Speaker 1: I need you to stop doing it. Okay, So you
- 45:16Speaker 1: want her to be more confrontational. Absolutely, So it's not
- 45:20Speaker 1: acceptable for you if she's just like, I'm not talking
- 45:22Speaker 1: to him anymore and just fades out and doesn't respond
- 45:25Speaker 1: to his messages or calls. Right, you don't block the guy.
- 45:27Speaker 1: You don't you don't let him know to stop calling
- 45:31Speaker 1: it sounds like to me that you know, uh, you
- 45:34Speaker 1: don't want you Okay, addressed it right, she doesn't want
- 45:39Speaker 1: to stop. I do feel like because I'm also that time,
- 45:42Speaker 1: I don't really block people like that, and like some
- 45:45Speaker 1: of my exes might sometimes hit me up, but I
- 45:47Speaker 1: just am not responsive to it. To me, that's good enough,
- 45:50Speaker 1: but you know for you it's not. And she told
- 45:53Speaker 1: you about it, so she's being open and honest with
- 45:55Speaker 1: you in that way, and she's not speaking to him anymore.
- 45:58Speaker 1: I think you know her to do things the way
- 46:00Speaker 1: that you want her to do them, and she's doing
- 46:02Speaker 1: them the way that is her behavior. I'm not a
- 46:05Speaker 1: confrontational like don't speak too many or leave me alone,
- 46:08Speaker 1: don't call me a black you type of person. I'm
- 46:10Speaker 1: more of a if you hit me and do these things,
- 46:12Speaker 1: I just won't respond. But you don't like the way
- 46:14Speaker 1: that she's handling it. No, But I mean, but to
- 46:17Speaker 1: hear you, to hear you expression like that allows me
- 46:20Speaker 1: to look at it from a different perspective because the
- 46:24Speaker 1: main thing is that you don't want her speaking to him,
- 46:26Speaker 1: and you want that respect right now, The way that
- 46:29Speaker 1: she does it is maybe more in line with her personality.
- 46:33Speaker 1: And when you say it that way, that is right.
- 46:38Speaker 1: Some people are not hush like that or brutally honest.
- 46:41Speaker 1: I'm more of a I'm a just you know, I'm
- 46:44Speaker 1: not trying to have this conversation to do all that.
- 46:45Speaker 1: I'm ana just fade out, right. So instead of me
- 46:48Speaker 1: calling herself, which maybe I can look at it as
- 46:51Speaker 1: me attempting to put the way I feal things on
- 46:54Speaker 1: with deal with things on her. Yeah, she doesn't have
- 46:57Speaker 1: to handle it. But I do feel like if the
- 46:58Speaker 1: result is what you guys went like, that's the result
- 47:01Speaker 1: that you wanted, do not communicate with him, You're still
- 47:04Speaker 1: getting that result. Okay, school, Thanks she and So I
- 47:06Speaker 1: just want to say to all three of you guys, um,
- 47:10Speaker 1: I really stilly appreciate the way the show us evolved
- 47:14Speaker 1: into a voice the community, Like I really appreciate that.
- 47:17Speaker 1: It's one. Let you guys know that. I think, thank you,
- 47:20Speaker 1: we appreciate you listening. You're the best. But yeah, so
- 47:23Speaker 1: I wish you luck with your relationship and you know,
- 47:25Speaker 1: keep those lines of communication up. But she should be
- 47:27Speaker 1: able to tell you anything. I think it's good that
- 47:29Speaker 1: she comes to you and let you know what's going on,
- 47:31Speaker 1: but you don't want her to not tell you right right,
- 47:34Speaker 1: all right, thank god, no problem, take care all right?
- 47:37Speaker 1: Ask ye ain't andred five eight five one oh five one.
- 47:40Speaker 1: If you need relationship advice and any type of advice,
- 47:42Speaker 1: call ye. Now it's the breakfast Club. Good morning. I'm
- 47:46Speaker 1: gonna keep a real way of what there's some real
- 47:48Speaker 1: advice with Angela yet, ask ye morning. Everybody's d j
- 47:53Speaker 1: envy Angela yee. Charlemagne the guy we are the breakfast
- 47:56Speaker 1: club with in the middle of ask ye Hello, who's this? Hi? This? See? Hey?
- 48:00Speaker 1: What's your question for you? Hie? Okay, So, long story short,
- 48:05Speaker 1: I wanted to ask you if you're seeing this guy
- 48:08Speaker 1: and you're all in with him, which I was, and
- 48:11Speaker 1: he wanted to test you to see how you do
- 48:13Speaker 1: react in a situation. Um like, given I was all
- 48:17Speaker 1: in and he wasn't just yet, so he wanted to
- 48:19Speaker 1: do a little test. Is he there right now? Yes?
- 48:23Speaker 1: He is? Okay, so what did he do to you?
- 48:26Speaker 1: He basically told me to get out at one o'clock
- 48:28Speaker 1: in the morning, and he and he's a situation so
- 48:34Speaker 1: he want to tell me to get out at twelve
- 48:36Speaker 1: o'clock at night and had a dead straight face and
- 48:40Speaker 1: let me go ahead and do so. But I was like,
- 48:44Speaker 1: I was all in with you and are you serious
- 48:46Speaker 1: right now? And he was like yes, I'm like really
- 48:48Speaker 1: like like f you, I was all in, like I
- 48:51Speaker 1: wasn't holding anything back and like everything it was so funflicted.
- 48:57Speaker 1: I told him, because like if you want to test somebody,
- 48:59Speaker 1: why are we you test them that way? And yes,
- 49:01Speaker 1: I was up, Yes I cut you out because you
- 49:03Speaker 1: made me feel like everything I did was a subside,
- 49:06Speaker 1: like it was like all a lie and you just
- 49:08Speaker 1: look at me dead in my eyes, go on, come
- 49:10Speaker 1: me get out. He's like, well, you know I would
- 49:11Speaker 1: never do that. For really, you should have laughed it
- 49:13Speaker 1: off and be like, oh you're joking, Like why would
- 49:16Speaker 1: someone think that that is a joke. You know, that's
- 49:18Speaker 1: not that's not funny, especially in the middle. That's actually dangerous.
- 49:21Speaker 1: What if something could happen to you? What if you
- 49:23Speaker 1: left the house? It was a test, and I should
- 49:26Speaker 1: have laughed it off. I should have known, like better
- 49:28Speaker 1: officer's a heartline. You should ask both side of the
- 49:30Speaker 1: story and at this big grown age, why are we
- 49:33Speaker 1: testing people in relationships grown age? Because it's been hurt
- 49:38Speaker 1: in the past every relationship. My wife can I can
- 49:43Speaker 1: we speak to him? I don't understand what's going on
- 49:45Speaker 1: here is we'll talk because he wanted to talk. So
- 49:49Speaker 1: so what happened? Why would you kick her out of
- 49:51Speaker 1: the house. I'm an honest and loyal, an honest guy
- 49:54Speaker 1: in every relationship with beiding, I think much stepped on
- 49:57Speaker 1: it hurt well, my wife asked me where in the time.
- 50:00Speaker 1: I didn't want to do it. So we're into that.
- 50:08Speaker 1: I'm into a different thing. I actually like, like you guys,
- 50:11Speaker 1: you don't want to hear were lingerie, and like I
- 50:14Speaker 1: enjoy bisexual men, and I enjoy watching gay porn like
- 50:17Speaker 1: you don't cost Okay, so he's bisexual, remember, Okay, Now,
- 50:28Speaker 1: I don't understand the test of kicking someone out. What
- 50:30Speaker 1: does that prove? And I just wanted to see how
- 50:33Speaker 1: but he's situation would go if we was into one.
- 50:35Speaker 1: And it was a simple little question. Were never kicked
- 50:38Speaker 1: her out of my house at one in the morning,
- 50:39Speaker 1: But you shouldn't even threatened somebody to do that. How
- 50:42Speaker 1: do you think that makes her feel? But then she
- 50:45Speaker 1: decided to say, she's gonna sit in my face. I guy,
- 50:48Speaker 1: I was willing to, I said, I wanted to. What's
- 50:50Speaker 1: wrong with that? That's sexuation? So I tested her earlier.
- 50:54Speaker 1: Im glad I did, Mike. I found out how she
- 50:55Speaker 1: really is. Yeah, but what about how you are? I
- 50:58Speaker 1: don't understand. Let me tell you that I was so
- 51:03Speaker 1: angry I can't remember because baby blacked out. Who wouldn't
- 51:08Speaker 1: who wouldn't Let me ask you, sir, who wouldn't get
- 51:10Speaker 1: mad if someone kicked them out of the house at midnight?
- 51:13Speaker 1: That man his match, like I broke stuff, like I
- 51:16Speaker 1: wanted to grab her, said I wish I could. I
- 51:21Speaker 1: wanted to spend in him face. What's what's man er?
- 51:24Speaker 1: How did you turn by sexual? I'm now we're asking
- 51:27Speaker 1: the real questions. Okay, I'm glad. Now are you asking I.
- 51:30Speaker 1: We'll talk about this then, so like it's not man lingerie,
- 51:34Speaker 1: it's like lingree that I would wear. Okay, Yeah, sometimes
- 51:39Speaker 1: we match walk around wearing heels, and that's why he
- 51:42Speaker 1: thinks he's by. Now he thinks he's by just because
- 51:44Speaker 1: he wore your panties. Let me tell you, guys, his
- 51:49Speaker 1: wife exhorted him and how weerae and nothing the pictures
- 51:53Speaker 1: and put him on social media pretending it. But I
- 51:58Speaker 1: would say this, that sounds it's very traumatic for you, sir.
- 52:01Speaker 1: That sounds like a traumatic thing when you trust somebody
- 52:04Speaker 1: and they betrayed you your trust in that way. But
- 52:08Speaker 1: but if you can find somebody right who accepts you
- 52:13Speaker 1: from who you are, why would you cause why would
- 52:18Speaker 1: you cause issues in your relationship unnecessarily? He's not bisexual
- 52:24Speaker 1: just because he wore a woman's laing. I didn't hear
- 52:28Speaker 1: that part. He said, That's what I'm trying to get to.
- 52:31Speaker 1: His wife was making him feel ashamed of it. But
- 52:33Speaker 1: he probably found his match, which was me, because I
- 52:36Speaker 1: am into bisexualman who wear lingerie and watching that type
- 52:40Speaker 1: of thing. He slept with a man before? Has he
- 52:44Speaker 1: slept with a man before? The guy? You know? The guy?
- 52:47Speaker 1: But sexual a man together, like have a three way
- 52:51Speaker 1: with two guys and he will receive and might be
- 52:54Speaker 1: giving me oral and getting back from like I mean,
- 52:58Speaker 1: I enjoy that stuff like this. I'm listening. Okay, if
- 53:01Speaker 1: you let whatever y'all like to do in your relationship
- 53:04Speaker 1: is your guy's business. But I do want to say
- 53:05Speaker 1: in reference to the question. Okay, don't sabotage your relationship
- 53:09Speaker 1: because something previously didn't work out. You got to start
- 53:13Speaker 1: from zero man and yelled at or to get out,
- 53:16Speaker 1: no matter if you wrote it down on a piece
- 53:17Speaker 1: of paprit shouldn't do you Guys have to learn how
- 53:20Speaker 1: to communicate in a better, more responsible way, and every
- 53:24Speaker 1: relationship is a risk. Are you willing to take that risk?
- 53:27Speaker 1: Because no matter what, no matter what type of test
- 53:30Speaker 1: you put somebody through, you don't know what's gonna happen
- 53:33Speaker 1: when a real thing comes up. So don't create drama
- 53:36Speaker 1: because you've been traumatized before. No drama with its nout're gone.
- 53:45Speaker 1: A woman comes in house, you spend sixty I don't
- 53:49Speaker 1: think you respect you because you're bottom to stop it.
- 53:51Speaker 1: But I will say this. Just listening to this conversation,
- 53:54Speaker 1: I realized that you guys don't listen to each other.
- 53:56Speaker 1: You guys continually talk over each other. And there's no
- 53:58Speaker 1: possible too many people in the room. Two people, but
- 54:01Speaker 1: you can possibly understand each other if y'a don't get
- 54:03Speaker 1: each other's thoughts out. Every time she talks, he talks
- 54:05Speaker 1: over him, and every time he talks, she talks over him.
- 54:08Speaker 1: How could y'all possibly understand each other and listen to
- 54:10Speaker 1: each other if you're not allowing each other? And he'd
- 54:12Speaker 1: rather be with a man. He just told her that.
- 54:15Speaker 1: He was like, that's why I I'd rather deal with
- 54:16Speaker 1: a man, because men, you know, don't do all of this.
- 54:19Speaker 1: That's what he said that. All right, Well, look maybe
- 54:24Speaker 1: you guys are in a match then if that's what
- 54:26Speaker 1: you're saying your preference is, like, that's why I did
- 54:28Speaker 1: what I did. No, you doing what you did? I'm
- 54:31Speaker 1: glad you did. All right, guys, it feels like he doesn't.
- 54:37Speaker 1: This is you know, you're not for him through life.
- 54:41Speaker 1: I was all in, you know, willing to take that
- 54:43Speaker 1: risk for you know, taking another chance on being hurt
- 54:46Speaker 1: again by being all in with one. I felt like
- 54:48Speaker 1: it wasn't match. I didn't feel like I needed to
- 54:50Speaker 1: test him. I never did test him. I made a
- 54:52Speaker 1: promise to myself to that further on early in the morning.
- 54:56Speaker 1: Have y'all had preference and at least now you know
- 54:59Speaker 1: what it is? Right? Yeah? Now, I got to be
- 55:02Speaker 1: an independent I told you that that was anybody would
- 55:05Speaker 1: be angry doing Are you saying that anybody wouldn't be angry.
- 55:08Speaker 1: They would have. I didn't react with that. I was
- 55:09Speaker 1: supposed to react belligerent. It sounds to me like you
- 55:13Speaker 1: need a power top in your life. Man, Man, would
- 55:17Speaker 1: you respect him if he was a power top and
- 55:19Speaker 1: not a messy bottom? They listen, man, I didn't didn't matter.
- 55:23Speaker 1: It was only giving her chance because she had me fallen.
- 55:25Speaker 1: I wasn't even gonna date women again. Okay, but what
- 55:29Speaker 1: do you see? Do you hear what he's saying? Women again? Yeah,
- 55:32Speaker 1: she doesn't want to be with you. It looks like
- 55:34Speaker 1: this is not what he wants. And maybe I mean
- 55:36Speaker 1: I've moved on. We could be friends, but let's move on.
- 55:39Speaker 1: Maybe him doing this was his way of trying to
- 55:41Speaker 1: break up with you in a passive way. I put
- 55:43Speaker 1: both put your lips on him. I probably should have
- 55:45Speaker 1: put just one of them on sting handle it. He
- 55:47Speaker 1: don't want that no more? Boo, he want cheeks. Okay,
- 55:51Speaker 1: you don't have what he want no more. It's over.
- 55:53Speaker 1: That's what it sounds, all right. Woman is not gonna
- 55:55Speaker 1: work if he goes through like testing them like are
- 55:57Speaker 1: testing and I'm like playing game like what people? Most
- 56:00Speaker 1: you ever hear? Crime of passion I just ate him
- 56:03Speaker 1: who she threatened the crime of passion? He said, he
- 56:09Speaker 1: only f guy you know on datum. Wow, good luck, guys,
- 56:13Speaker 1: Thank you go your separate ways. Please man drop one
- 56:16Speaker 1: of clues bomb for Tyler Perry because I know he
- 56:18Speaker 1: executive produced that phone call. That was asking you, guys,
- 56:22Speaker 1: we answer any question. Sound like a Tyler Perry movie.
- 56:26Speaker 1: We got rumors on the way tonight on bet Plus. Wow.
- 56:34Speaker 1: That was incredible. That call gave me everything I need.
- 56:38Speaker 1: I'm taking that home on me. I'm gonna listening to
- 56:39Speaker 1: that later on the podcast. I'm gonna listen to that
- 56:42Speaker 1: late on the Brookers Club podcast. That was an incredible
- 56:44Speaker 1: phone call. All right, but Diddy says he is uncanceling
- 56:48Speaker 1: the canceled We'll tell you what he's talking about. Besides,
- 56:51Speaker 1: you think his feet is to have to wear women's hiles.
- 56:53Speaker 1: I don't know. We ain't offer him no expert advice. Easy,
- 56:56Speaker 1: what kind of advice? She threatened the man with murder?
- 56:59Speaker 1: She said, she said, you ever heard of a crime
- 57:00Speaker 1: of passage? We just let that go on there. It's like, well,
- 57:04Speaker 1: he responded, he said, that's why I don't that's only
- 57:07Speaker 1: the only guys don't damn there you go? Wow the
- 57:09Speaker 1: hell you go too far? What the breakfast Club? It's
- 57:19Speaker 1: that time again, asked Charlomagne and dj Envy anything pick
- 57:23Speaker 1: it up, pick it up, pick it up morning. Everybody
- 57:27Speaker 1: is DJ Envy and Juli Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We
- 57:30Speaker 1: are the breakfast Club. It's time for ass C and E.
- 57:33Speaker 1: If you need relationship advice at any type of advice,
- 57:35Speaker 1: you can call us. Hello. Who's this? Yo? Yos? Do
- 57:39Speaker 1: not have to be anonymous on the radio. You gotta
- 57:41Speaker 1: do to say another name. You could have made up
- 57:42Speaker 1: a name, But what's your question for seeing me? Bro?
- 57:44Speaker 1: He was still a name either way, A little I
- 57:48Speaker 1: was living food right and I knew the person I
- 57:50Speaker 1: was living food too, but it was an old cobo
- 57:55Speaker 1: and the dude, the boyfriend came out and started like,
- 57:58Speaker 1: what's the would you saying with my girl stolen on me?
- 58:01Speaker 1: I'm literally delivering foo like doing that dude stole on me?
- 58:05Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I'm trying to figure out
- 58:06Speaker 1: did I get him stranging? Knows that I would telling
- 58:09Speaker 1: the hood way like, man, shut up that man, punch
- 58:11Speaker 1: you in your face right then and there you ain't
- 58:13Speaker 1: doing nothing. You ain't gonna do nothing after the fact,
- 58:15Speaker 1: leave it alone. Why you go back to the house, Broe,
- 58:17Speaker 1: you better stay away from that man. Hey that point? Hey,
- 58:20Speaker 1: that punch hurt everything about Hey, did that punch hurt? Nah?
- 58:24Speaker 1: Don't lie, tell the truth, Tell the truth. So why
- 58:26Speaker 1: you ain't hit him back? Then? If the punch ain't
- 58:28Speaker 1: hurt because it was like literally stolen on me, then
- 58:30Speaker 1: literally just put me in the joke old and then
- 58:32Speaker 1: then he put you in the dope feet. So you
- 58:38Speaker 1: ain't he beat you up there? He beat you up.
- 58:40Speaker 1: It's okay. So when you got back up what happened?
- 58:43Speaker 1: Literally he will gone. Like when you woke up he
- 58:45Speaker 1: was doing Yeah, after you woke up, he was gone.
- 58:47Speaker 1: He ain't gonna stick around. You sleep for ten minutes
- 58:49Speaker 1: and the words of Craig's daddy and Friday, Okay, you
- 58:54Speaker 1: win something, you lose something, but you live to fight
- 58:56Speaker 1: another day. Huh. No, man, I ain't gonna do nothing
- 59:00Speaker 1: and stop, But why do you want to retaliate? Leave
- 59:03Speaker 1: with you exactly on his head? How old are you?
- 59:07Speaker 1: How old are you? How old are you? How old
- 59:10Speaker 1: are you? Well? Listen, I was born in nineteen hundred
- 59:14Speaker 1: and seventy eight. I turned for it. I turned forty
- 59:16Speaker 1: four yesterday. You come. We come from an era where
- 59:18Speaker 1: if you lose a fist fight, you just lose a
- 59:20Speaker 1: fifth fight. Leave it at that, Leave it alone, bro,
- 59:24Speaker 1: Ain't that okay? Well listen, if you want to retaliate
- 59:26Speaker 1: asking for a fan one, then oh that's a I
- 59:30Speaker 1: don't do that because he bro with me. Trust me, bro,
- 59:34Speaker 1: he whipped your ass one time. It ain't worth it
- 59:37Speaker 1: ain't worth it because think about it like this, right,
- 59:39Speaker 1: think about it like this. You retaliate, you do something, now,
- 59:43Speaker 1: you go into jail. It's if it's a fan one.
- 59:45Speaker 1: I'm cool with that, though, as long as they ain't
- 59:46Speaker 1: no like this, wouldn't dude put him in the dope
- 59:48Speaker 1: and he's just gonna get putting the dope feet again.
- 59:50Speaker 1: You're gonna train, You're gonna train before the next fight.
- 59:53Speaker 1: That look, it ain't no training. It ain't no training
- 59:57Speaker 1: with it. You train. It's okay, man, Listen, I listen.
- 1:00:01Speaker 1: I didn't got punched on camera. Bro, You know you
- 1:00:04Speaker 1: don't seen the Can I get a drop? I ain't
- 1:00:06Speaker 1: got no time for retaliation? Who cans like we're too old?
- 1:00:08Speaker 1: Let it go. Let it go, you've already know you
- 1:00:12Speaker 1: that's even worse. Exactly, I got punched in the head
- 1:00:15Speaker 1: and got seen by millions of people. You think you
- 1:00:17Speaker 1: think I'm sitting around here. You know, all the more
- 1:00:21Speaker 1: reason for you to let it go, sir, all the
- 1:00:23Speaker 1: more reason I retaliate. No, why, okay, jail. You're gonna retaliate.
- 1:00:27Speaker 1: You're gonna hurt him. You're gonna go to jail. Is
- 1:00:29Speaker 1: it worth it? No, we don't know if you're gonna die.
- 1:00:30Speaker 1: You're gonna hurt him, now, Okay, So imagine a question.
- 1:00:34Speaker 1: If you go get a fair one, you and him
- 1:00:35Speaker 1: just fight straight up. If he beat you again, then
- 1:00:37Speaker 1: what they gonna go for a third time. I'm gonna
- 1:00:40Speaker 1: call him fair fight. You're gonna what I'm gonna call him? Fight? Dude?
- 1:00:45Speaker 1: Su All right, I'm gonna tell you what to do then,
- 1:00:47Speaker 1: because you said you either want to fight again and
- 1:00:49Speaker 1: you want to press charges. Right, Oh, you just said
- 1:00:53Speaker 1: you want to get rescreen to get restraight, No, they
- 1:00:55Speaker 1: got a press charges? Oh I want you to press yards. No, no, no, no,
- 1:01:01Speaker 1: I'd rather you press charge. I'd rather you get a
- 1:01:04Speaker 1: rescreen in order. You're about to lose your job and
- 1:01:07Speaker 1: you're about to go jol with doing something stupid and alone. Man,
- 1:01:10Speaker 1: That man, That man then beat you up so bad
- 1:01:11Speaker 1: you want to get a rescreening order. So I don't know.
- 1:01:13Speaker 1: Why are you acting all tough? Now? Let it go, bro,
- 1:01:15Speaker 1: have a good one man, But no, don't hang up
- 1:01:17Speaker 1: on this man. You don't want You're gonna let it go.
- 1:01:19Speaker 1: Maybe do you have kids? Bro? Nah man, let it
- 1:01:25Speaker 1: Your mom and daddy gonna have to visit you in
- 1:01:26Speaker 1: jail because you're gonna do something stupid. Leave it a
- 1:01:28Speaker 1: little when something we lose something, Let it go. Did
- 1:01:30Speaker 1: your girl? See you did your girl? So you get
- 1:01:31Speaker 1: beat up? Nah? I then so let it go. Nobody
- 1:01:35Speaker 1: saw it. Nobody even know that's and you anonymous. Nobody
- 1:01:38Speaker 1: knows this happened. Bro. If it's not on video, nobody
- 1:01:42Speaker 1: saw it. Let it go. Chase the narratives tell everybody
- 1:01:44Speaker 1: you beat him up. Nobody seen it it up. You
- 1:01:47Speaker 1: could have called up here line does yes, I ain't
- 1:01:52Speaker 1: a will see. Don't do nothing stupid, bro, God bless
- 1:01:55Speaker 1: you man, goodness, grac Then you're healing energy. Man, he
- 1:01:58Speaker 1: got knocked out. The man then hit you and old
- 1:02:00Speaker 1: you out and you talk about you want the first
- 1:02:02Speaker 1: thing he did when he called up, he was saying,
- 1:02:04Speaker 1: should I get restraining on it or retaliate? Then you
- 1:02:07Speaker 1: know how bad somebody got to do you. If you
- 1:02:08Speaker 1: want to get cred in order, let's get the restraint.
- 1:02:10Speaker 1: Let's relax, man, come on, let it go. I seeing
- 1:02:12Speaker 1: the eight hundred five A five one oh five one.
- 1:02:15Speaker 1: If you got questions for us, call us now. It's
- 1:02:16Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. The morning. It's topic time. The phone
- 1:02:25Speaker 1: called eight hundred five A five one oh five. Want
- 1:02:27Speaker 1: to join it to the discussion with the Breakfast club,
- 1:02:29Speaker 1: talk about it morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee,
- 1:02:34Speaker 1: Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Now after
- 1:02:37Speaker 1: you're just joining us, we're asking if social media ruined relationships.
- 1:02:42Speaker 1: Now this conversation comes from Drink Champs and Booty Bootsey
- 1:02:45Speaker 1: was on drink Camps and this is what he had
- 1:02:46Speaker 1: to say. Everything marriages at first, your bit, you just
- 1:02:51Speaker 1: see that work you and come home. Now she got
- 1:02:57Speaker 1: about thirty thousand looking you don't act right, and she
- 1:03:01Speaker 1: hit my tide out all of them aground. She ain't
- 1:03:06Speaker 1: getting so all that time, you didn't put it in
- 1:03:09Speaker 1: with no money everything w two, No, you had to
- 1:03:12Speaker 1: look at what your side at work? You can't home
- 1:03:18Speaker 1: and come back now you hit my tide, you get
- 1:03:21Speaker 1: your can you see about just look better? It made
- 1:03:25Speaker 1: us whole eight hundred five eight five one on five one.
- 1:03:27Speaker 1: Let's go to the phone lines. Hello, who's this yo?
- 1:03:30Speaker 1: This was a relly? Was good? DJA? What's up my GRELLI?
- 1:03:33Speaker 1: You sound like a Cheatah? Yes, yeah, I'm sorry. I apologize.
- 1:03:38Speaker 1: Who are you sorry too? Listen, listen, I'll cheating or
- 1:03:41Speaker 1: every woman I've been and so make it a good
- 1:03:45Speaker 1: person for how old are you ever saying to make
- 1:03:48Speaker 1: me a good person? But it just makes me your
- 1:03:50Speaker 1: honest personal How old are you? Arrelli? Oh? Dirty? So
- 1:03:54Speaker 1: damn all? You know what social media? Listen, social media
- 1:03:57Speaker 1: does relationship. I've been without without here for without social media,
- 1:04:02Speaker 1: you would have ruined every relationship. That's how though, I
- 1:04:07Speaker 1: want to hear how why you gotta you gotta understand?
- 1:04:10Speaker 1: I learned that people gotta learn how to conduct themselves
- 1:04:13Speaker 1: over social media? Okay, as people as in you, well,
- 1:04:17Speaker 1: of course me. But I'm just saying as humor racing
- 1:04:20Speaker 1: all you know, everybody, I think social media is over
- 1:04:24Speaker 1: sexualized everything. You know, Hey, I don't think you should
- 1:04:27Speaker 1: blame social media on the fact that you're prone the cheat.
- 1:04:30Speaker 1: That depends on who you follow, right, well, no, no,
- 1:04:34Speaker 1: I'm not really. You don't depend on who he swallowed
- 1:04:36Speaker 1: and who's swallowing you. It's just what its put out
- 1:04:41Speaker 1: is full like social media is. Everybody go out there
- 1:04:45Speaker 1: just to show themselves for They're gonna show up what
- 1:04:48Speaker 1: they're doing. They're gonna show our funny bodies, looks and
- 1:04:51Speaker 1: should I learned from my situation. Okay, situation, you know
- 1:04:55Speaker 1: what I'm saying. But I want to as the people
- 1:04:57Speaker 1: as a group, as everybody, you know, as a human race.
- 1:05:01Speaker 1: You know, I want them to be able to do
- 1:05:02Speaker 1: the same thing I to mix my wrong. You know
- 1:05:05Speaker 1: that everybody ain't cheating Rizarelli. Some of us are members
- 1:05:12Speaker 1: of the faithful black male community. Okay, Amen, Hello, who's this?
- 1:05:20Speaker 1: You are the girl and I've never had and I
- 1:05:22Speaker 1: want to get to know you bad leave uncle on
- 1:05:27Speaker 1: what's gonna talk to us? Mama. I was saying that
- 1:05:30Speaker 1: social media has definitely messed it up for um. You know,
- 1:05:34Speaker 1: being in the relationship, you really are cheated huh, not
- 1:05:37Speaker 1: at all? So why why? Why is it messing up
- 1:05:40Speaker 1: your relationships? In? No, and it mess it up, thank god,
- 1:05:43Speaker 1: it almost did. But what happened? Oh gosh, um, you're
- 1:05:48Speaker 1: almost cheated media like like we're talking about, but like
- 1:05:52Speaker 1: what happened. It's easier to cheat media, all right, So
- 1:05:57Speaker 1: somebody reached out to you. You responded, even though you
- 1:05:59Speaker 1: have a man or what you know? Actually, I um
- 1:06:03Speaker 1: saw it on the social media. I not the phone
- 1:06:08Speaker 1: and read you know, all right, you call him doing
- 1:06:11Speaker 1: some things? Yeah, okay, well listen, it's easier. It's easier
- 1:06:15Speaker 1: to cheat when you are cheatah, if you're not a cheetah,
- 1:06:17Speaker 1: and then it's not hard. Did not cheat at all? Right, period,
- 1:06:21Speaker 1: it's easier to get caught on social media, I'll say that.
- 1:06:23Speaker 1: So you're still with your cheatah, definitely, you're still with
- 1:06:26Speaker 1: your cheating now. Yeah that's right. Okay, that's good. That's
- 1:06:32Speaker 1: good that I'm gonna reform cheating. Ain't nobody here judging nobody,
- 1:06:38Speaker 1: not at all, not at all. How long you've been clean,
- 1:06:41Speaker 1: how long you've been sober? Sober? But how long is
- 1:06:44Speaker 1: he not cheated? Man? I was in a cheater. I've
- 1:06:47Speaker 1: been cheating. I'm talking about the man. How long is
- 1:06:49Speaker 1: the man not cheated? About? Who? Earth? Now? And I'm
- 1:06:54Speaker 1: gonna tell you something. Just like women know when they
- 1:06:56Speaker 1: man it's cheating, they know when they man it's not cheating.
- 1:06:59Speaker 1: So she can say that two years with confidence. There
- 1:07:01Speaker 1: you go. Yeah, Okay, well thank you mama. Yes man.
- 1:07:06Speaker 1: Eight hundred five eight five, one oh five one. Now,
- 1:07:09Speaker 1: what's the moral of the stories? If there is a moral,
- 1:07:11Speaker 1: and the moral of the stories exactly what I said.
- 1:07:12Speaker 1: You can literally see a million people on Instagram, but
- 1:07:15Speaker 1: if you only have eyes for one person, then that's
- 1:07:17Speaker 1: all it's gonna be. You know what I mean. What
- 1:07:19Speaker 1: Boosey is saying, it's real, but it only applies to
- 1:07:22Speaker 1: people who are prone to cheat. Me. I am a
- 1:07:24Speaker 1: member of a proud member of the faithful black male community.
- 1:07:28Speaker 1: I am reformed and keep talking. Okay, black men don't cheat,
- 1:07:33Speaker 1: all right. I've been cleaned for October two thou sixty
- 1:07:37Speaker 1: felt that in my soul, Bromle for six years now, Okay,
- 1:07:41Speaker 1: that's right, all right, it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning morning.
- 1:07:44Speaker 1: Everybody is dch envy Angela yee, Charlomagne, the God we
- 1:07:49Speaker 1: are the breakfast club now? Um, Charloman, you got a
- 1:07:53Speaker 1: positive note? Yes, Oscarol wild one shade. People who count
- 1:07:56Speaker 1: their chickens before they are hatched act very wisely because
- 1:08:00Speaker 1: chickens run about so absurdly that it's impossible to count
- 1:08:04Speaker 1: them accurately. You understand that, you'll understand life. Breakfast club bitches,
- 1:08:08Speaker 1: you know I'm finish. Are y'all done?