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Top 4 narcs who tried to outsmart the jury · The Mental Healness Podcast

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  A narcissist biggest mistake is truly believing that they are
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  the smartest person in any room that they enter any room that we
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  enter. Because I'm a diagnosed
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  narcissist, right? So I my mind kind of worked the
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  same way, you know what I mean? In a courtroom, their ego is a
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  death sentence because you know when narcissistic people take
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  the stand, they feel like they're going to trick the jury
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  into believing them, even when all the evidence points to the
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  contrary. Right today y'all had a special
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  episode today I'm breaking into one.
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  I'm I'm breaking out one of my my guilty pleasures, right?
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  Watching these court cases when high profile narcissistic people
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  testify in their own defense. The top four times recently that
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  I've seen narcissists testify in their own defense to try to save
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  themselves, to try to trick the jury, to try to gaslight the
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  entire world because the world be watching these cases, right?
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  Like they tried to save themselves, but they actually
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  ended up burying themselves instead.
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  And I was like, y'all won't like these court cases cause a lot of
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  y'all have probably seen them. Some of them are very recent,
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  some of them are a couple years old and whatnot.
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  The first one I'm going to cover is Ali Abulaban.
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  He's better known as the gin kid on TikTok.
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  He used to do like the the Scarface skits and the Skyrim
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  skits or whatever. He had a wife and he had his
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  daughter on the skits on his on his TikTok account as well.
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  Got very popular, had a million followers, was verified on
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  Instagram, all kinds of stuff, right?
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  He got on the stand and lost his damn mind.
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  He got on the stand and lost every bit of mind that he had.
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  He treated the witness stand like a damn, like it was like
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  obviously like a TikTok live 'cause he knew the cameras were
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  on him. He knew this was he, he knew
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  that this is on TV. He knew, he knew all this was
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  going on. So he got on, he got up there
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  and literally, he, I don't know, he killed his wife Alia Boulevon
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  shot his wife and her new friend in the head like he was abusing
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  the hell out of her. Alia Bulawa was a just the, a
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  connoisseur of domestic violence, years of documented
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  domestic violence against his, his wife Anna, right?
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  Years of domestic violence against her used to beat her
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  senseless sometimes all the way from Japan and the Philippines
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  all the way to America, right. Then she finally got fed up and
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  he was cheating on her, doing all kinds of craziness.
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  He cheated on her, beat her, doing all kinds of craziness.
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  And she finally got fed up and said, hey, you need to leave.
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  You need to move out. He moved out, but he thought you
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  belong to him. He said you belong to me.
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  You're not going anywhere. I, I you, you're not you.
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  I don't care if we're broken up. You are not leaving me.
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  So they have a daughter together.
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  So he took his daughter's iPad, left it in, left it in his old
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  apartment that he had moved out of to record stuff like he
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  recorded like he so he can hear stuff on like a he he did an
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  open Discord chat and so he listened to it on one end and
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  heard another man's voice in the apartment.
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  Drove back over there, pretty much unlocked the door.
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  He kept a key right. He supposed to gave her he
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  supposed to turn in his key, unlocked the door and within one
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  second of going in the house, shot Anna and her friend Ray.
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  Her friend Ray killed them both and tried to play the victim,
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  tried to make it seem like, oh, I snapped.
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  I didn't know what was going on, but he planned it out.
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  He drove over there with his gun.
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  This man hopped up on the witness stand.
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  It was like he was more upset about losing his career than his
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  wife. Look up Ali Abdullah Ban when
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  they're doing those jailhouse interviews.
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  He said my. Career is over, my life's over.
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  You think I wanted this, You think I wanted this to happen?
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  Anna, 'cause this he losing. His mind, he like it's clear he
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  admitted to shooting them. He said he did in a crime of
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  passion. He didn't know Anna was cheating
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  on him, even though their text messages revealed that he was
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  cheated on. Anna literally cheated on her,
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  playing on her face, cheating on her the whole time with
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  different women even in the same apartment, even in the same
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  apartment that they were living in, was still cheating, losing
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  his shit, right? So he shot them both, got on the
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  stand and tried to blame Anna. Anna was cheating on me.
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  Anna did me wrong. I never thought she would do.
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  I never thought she, she would do the same thing to me that I
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  did to her. Honor, honor, honor, honor,
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  honor, honor. Took no accountability.
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  None. Was cussing at the damn look,
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  was cussing at the prosecutor calling her crazy out of her
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  mind, calling her. She's like talking shit.
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  Like literally cussing. It's just losing his mind on the
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  stand. Just rageful.
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  He blamed drugs, he blamed alcohol, he blamed bipolar, he
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  blamed everything but himself. And in the end he got he he got
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  crazy. He even yelled at the judge a
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  couple times. Y'all narcissistic rage on full
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  display with Ali Abbulaban. He got found guilty.
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  He's doing a life serving life without the possibility of
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  parole. And even like when he even like
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  when they did the victim impact statements, he was cussing at
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  honest. He was yelling at honest sister
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  evil man. That's number one y'all.
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  This is in no particular order either, right?
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  The next one is the most. The next one I'm going to talk
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  about is the most recent one that happened right?
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  This man actually Alia Blvd. been convicted about two or
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  three years. The next guy, Brendan Banfield,
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  he got convicted earlier this year.
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  This been a couple months ago, literally a couple months ago,
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  this man hired Brendan Banfield lived in Virginia.
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  So the next state over from me was married for a long time to
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  his wife, right was super was married to his wife and was
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  cheating on her the whole time with different women, different
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  people on like own adult escort websites finding trying to find
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  sugar babies. He was an IRS agent, not one of
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  the ones who work in the office. He had a gun and a badge like a
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  police. He's like a cop, a cop for the
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  IRS. Him and his wife had a daughter
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  and in order to like his wife worked in the hospital and
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  whatnot, she worked, she was like a high-powered nurse in the
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  hospital. He was a IRS agent and they had
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  a daughter and they so in order to help out with their daughter,
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  they hired a Brazilian au pair, a nanny from Brazil, right?
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  I'm not going to call it au pair.
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  They hired a nanny from Brazil. Brendan started having having an
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  affair with the AU pair, a documented affair.
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  Everybody, you can see it coming.
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  Like you go watch the case. You can see this coming, lying
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  to everybody, manipulating everybody like this man.
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  Instead of just divorcing his wife and being with the AU pair,
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  he convinced the AU pair. He said, you know what the Nana,
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  He said, you know what I want? We need to kill my wife so we
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  can take, I'll have all the money and we can raise our
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  daughter together. And the Brazilian au pair, the,
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  the nanny, she was like 2122 years old.
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  Brandon is like my age. He's like almost 40 or whatever,
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  right? And she went along with it.
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  And they sort of, they thought about hiring a hit man, but you
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  know what he did? You know what these these sick
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  bastards did? Instead of just hiring a hit man
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  or doing it themselves, they created a fake, a fake profile
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  on the Fetlife website, right? Fetlife BDSM website or whatever
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  right under his wife's name under his his wife's name is
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  Christine under his wife Christine's name they created a
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  fake profile using her pictures and convinced a man to come over
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  there and to live out a grape fantasy.
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  GGRAPE drop the G right and and to do a grape fantasy.
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  He they said they convinced him to bring a knife and some bro
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  board some handcuffs or whatever.
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  So he comes over Brendan the like the nanny sees him, sees
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  the sees the other guy like his name was Joe.
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  He sees the guy Joe coming in the house with his handcuffs and
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  his knife calls Brendan. Brendan comes back, kicks the
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  door in, shoots the shoots the the guy Joe and then strangle
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  then stabs his wife in the neck, stabs his wife in the neck,
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  kills his wife. The the old parent or nanny
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  calls 911 and they all faked the thump.
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  It's like, oh, this man broke into the house and he he stabbed
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  Christine and Brendan saved me, blah, blah, blah.
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  Police. A few months later, the police
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  come back to the house. The nanny that moved into the
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  master bedroom, the like threw all Christine's shit out.
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  They had to move the nanny's living in the master bedroom.
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  They just parenting this, their daughter like they this is
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  their, this is their daughter. They arrest the nanny, the nanny
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  sit, they arrest the nanny first.
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  The nanny sits in jail for a whole year, right?
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  The nanny sits in jail for an entire year and then she finally
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  decides to testify against Brandon.
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  Brandon gets a Brendan gets arrested, he goes to trial and
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  the nanny testifies against and she says, hey, this is Brendan's
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  idea. Brendan created a Fetlife
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  website. Brendan did this.
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  Brendan lured Joe Ryan over here.
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  Brendan shot Joe Brendan stab Christine.
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  I also shot Joe. He he was still moving and
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  whatever. And Brenda Banfield got on there
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  and just tried to make a scene. He tried to paint his his
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  deceased wife that he stabbed as a as a, as a FedEx, like since
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  she was in the BDSM like, oh, she was a cheater too.
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  She had a fairest too. Tried to paint her as a villain.
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  You already stabbed her. You already killed her, now you
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  want to paint her as the paint her as the villain here.
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  Oh, Christine had affairs. I had affairs as well.
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  Just sitting on the stand. Smug as hell.
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  Just as smug as he wants to be. Smug as hell.
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  It's crazy. And then of course, he gets
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  busted up. They get he gets busted or
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  whatever all the evidence was against him.
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  The nanny testified against him. Other people testified testified
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  against him. The cops like he ended up going
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  to jail like they found him guilty life in prison. the AU
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  pair thought she was going to get time served but they gave
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  her ass 10 years. She she she also she got life in
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  prison as well. But she was also narcissistic.
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  Brandon was probably a psychopath narcissist, but the
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  the nanny who was in on the plan to kill him to kill two people
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  in the takeover Christine's life was also a narcissist as well.
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  Because how delusional are you to think they're like, oh, he's,
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  he's setting this plan up to kill his wife.
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  He won't do that to me though. Huh?
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  So that's number two. Brennan manfield #3 y'all
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  probably already know this one. Alex Murdoch.
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  Murdoch, Alec Murdoch, Alec Murdoch, South Carolina, old
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  high-powered attorney, whatever lawyer in South Carolina who was
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  a drug addict. Murdoch was like, yeah, Murdoch
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  was a pro because he was a lawyer.
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  He spent his life in court, literally spent his life in
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  court. He thought he could lawyer his
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  way out of a double homicide. He killed his wife and his
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  youngest son, Maggie and Maggie and Paul Paul.
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  Paul Mags and Paul Paul. Right?
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  Like he did this right here, like he, his body language and
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  all the interviews and stuff. It turns out not only he's a
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  psychopathic narcissist, he was a drug addict, He was a thief.
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  He was stealing money from people, paraplegics,
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  quadriplegic, quadriplegic. He was stealing money from his
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  clients. And all of that was catching up
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  to him. And instead of just taking
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  accountability and going to jail for his, his financial crimes
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  and his, his drug addiction or whatever, you know what this man
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  did? He decided to go home and killed
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  his wife and son and staged it to make it seem like 224 foot 7
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  junkies did it right. This man in this crazy as hell
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  shot his wife and his son in the head.
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  Both of them. I mean, I mean, they're not
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  Well, he shot Paul in the head with a shotgun, blew his brains
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  on top of his head and then just annihilated Maggie with a a
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  blackout blackout rifle like a machine gun just shot her up.
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  That's crazy. All because Paul, Paul had got
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  into a boat accident, right? Paul, Paul had dropped, driven a
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  boat drunk and crashed and wrecked the boat in a boat,
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  killed one of his friends that was on a boat, Mallory, I think
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  his name was Mallory, killed Mallory, threw off the boat or
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  whatever. And Mallory's family was suing
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  Alec because Alec is Alec's boat, Alec's son.
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  And Alec knew that he gets he, he got sued, his financial
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  crimes will come to light. So instead of just taking his
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  licks, paying that money, going to jail for his financial
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  crimes, he decided to obfuscate and try to misdirect people and
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  killed his wife and his son and got on the stand and said, oh,
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  somebody else did it. He swarming he swarming down and
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  somebody else did it until a Snapchat video that his son had
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  put put on his phone before he died like before he got shot.
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  His son had put a Snapchat video out in the Snapchat video put
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  Alec at the scene of the crown right and then Alex tried to
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  Alec tried to explain it the way y'all didn't hear.
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  I was there, but I left really quickly.
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  I don't know who killed mags and paw paw and bus bus and bus
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  there. You know Bubba, Bubba the dog
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  named Bubba Bubba come on Bubba, come on Bubba Bubba.
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  People recognize Alex's voice on the on the camera or whatever.
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  He tried to deny it at first, but of course he end up going to
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  jail, found guilty because he tried to deflect, he tried to
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  blame it. He thought he was smarter than
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  everybody else to get his lying ass of all the stand and try to
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  make it seem like he didn't do anything wrong.
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  He, he, he was in the right. Alec Murdoch, blah, blah, blah,
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  blah, blah took his ass straight to jail, right?
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  Guilty, double murder. And then he, he said life in
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  prison for both of those crimes, but then he got like 100 years
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  for the financial stuff. He was going to jail regardless.
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  He was going to jail regardless, but his drug addiction and his
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  narcissism and his selfish, his selfishness decided like his
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  hubris, his fucking ego. They led him to kill his own
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  wife and son. His ego led him to do that,
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  which is crazy insane, right? So Alex Murdoch was probably one
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  of the most evil on here, right? Last but not least, Robert
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  Tillis. Robert Tillis is the guy in Las
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  Vegas ball headed guy in Las Vegas, right?
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  This dude claimed that a professional assassin framed him
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  for murder. He even showed the jury his shoe
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  lifts like he's, he's shorter, right?
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  So he wants to, he has a height, height, height complex.
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  He wants to be taller. So he showed the jury his, his
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  he he worth listing the shoes to be taller like the narc.
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  The it's kind of like the narc belief that if they lie loud
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  enough, the world has to believe it.
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  This man was he was an evil man. Look at Robert Tillis in Las
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  Vegas, Las Vegas County commissioner or something like
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  that. I forgot his exact role, but I
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  think it's the city administrator, public public
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  administrator. And this man literally ruled his
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  office and had everybody in his office hating his ass.
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  Everybody that worked with Robert Tillis hated him.
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  They said they couldn't stand him except for one woman.
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  Her name was Roberta Lee Kent. Roberta Kent, of course, they
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  started sleeping together. He started having an affair on
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  his wife who he has strangled and abused, right?
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  He started having an affair over on his wife with Roberta in the
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  office and the people in the office who hated him because he
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  was making their life a live in hell, followed him, caught him
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  sleep. It's caught him banging Rebecca,
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  banging, banging Roberta in the back of Roberta's car on lunch
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  break, right? And that got him, that made him
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  lose his county commissioner job.
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  And plus they they showed this, they showed this, they showed
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  the video of him sleeping with that woman.
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  They showed that to a, to a, to a reporter.
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  They showed it to the reporter, right?
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  And the reporter made made a bunch of articles on it.
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  The reporter made a bunch of his name was Gurman.
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  Gurman made a bunch of articles on Teles.
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  That led to Teles losing his next election.
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  So losing his losing his job. And Teles, instead of taking
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  accountability, blamed Gurman. Instead of just taking
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  accountability for what he had done, he blamed Gurman for him
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  losing his job. So guess what he decided to do?
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  Put on a fucking big straw hat and an orange vest and go stab a
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  gurman in his house in broad daylight in the middle of the
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  day. He went over there and stabbed
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  the gurman and left his body out there beside the garage.
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  This is just crazy, cold blooded, cold, calculated
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  murder. Because he held you accountable,
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  because he caught you, That you got caught in the act of doing
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  something that you actually did. It wasn't.
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  Yeah, it literally wasn't like he had made something up.
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  He, Telas had actually did it, Robert Telas had actually
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  cheated on his wife. It was making the work
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  environment for everybody at the public administrator's office
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  that live in hell, right. And so he got caught up.
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  He got caught up. Gurmann reported on it.
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  He I think he worked for the Las Vegas Constitutional Times,
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  something like that. I got to look, I was this office
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  out of my head. Yeah, the Las Vegas Times or
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  whatever and got him caught up. Tulles lost his election, blamed
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  Gurman and decided to kill Gurman guy on the stand.
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  Look, Tulles is such a pathological liar that you know
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  attorneys had to take an oath, right?
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  Attorneys say if they can't ask you questions that they know is
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  a lie. So the attorneys told him not to
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  testify in his own defense. He said, hey, look, man, you've
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  been lying. So you, you lie so fucking much.
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  We can't even we can't even direct examining you.
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  So I've never seen this happen before, but this man gave a gave
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  his own he like testified his own defense through like
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  narration by himself. He got to understand and told
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  his story without this attorney. His attorney was just sit there
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  and listening to him and then he got cross.
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  This cross examination was probably one of the best I've
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  ever seen. Like this attorney tore
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  Thalass's ass up, like confronted him and he got, he
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  had like he out, he had to. The hat was cut up.
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  The, the this big straw hat, the killer hat on in the camera
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  'cause it all got caught on camera was in Teles's house.
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  The shoes the killer killer wore were under Teles's couch cut up
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  in pieces and stuff like that. Like why would you cut the shoe
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  up? I don't know who put it there.
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  Sir. It was not me, Sir.
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  I didn't do that. Sir.
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  It was not me. I don't know who did it.
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  Whoever, whoever stabbed Mr. Gherman was not me.
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  I didn't stab Gherman. Everybody knew he did it and he
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  again, he thought he could trick people into believing that he
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  was going to, he was innocent. He didn't do anything.
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  Rabble, rabble, rabble. And Gabbard decided to lie.
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  One of the last questions that the that the the prosecutor
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  asked him, he's like, you're just the biggest victim.
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  He said, you're the victim in all of this, right?
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  Not German, not everybody else, not your wife who you strangled
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  or beat, not the people you tortured in the office, not
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  Roberta Lee Kent. You're the biggest victim here,
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  right? He said yes.
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  And the prosecutor said no further questions.
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  Of course they found his ass guilty.
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  Life in prison. I think he I think he hasn't got
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  sentenced yet. This is like last year or he
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  might have already got sentenced life in prison for murder,
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  whatever, right? So is there are there any
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  narcissist that I missed Right. If y'all want to episode 2 of
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  this Part 2, I have another one I thought of and I was just
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  talking y'all. I forgot about this guy.
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  He killed his shot his wife in the face and whatnot.
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  But the biggest take away from this is that why you ask
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  yourself the question like why do they take the stand when they
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  know they're guilty? Because their ego won't let them
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  stay silent. It won't.
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  The ego is so loud. It's just like I can trick them.
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  I can talk them into believing what I want them to believe.
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  They think that they can charm the jury just like they charmed
• 20:03
  you like in a relationship. But the facts don't care about
• 20:07
  their narcs feelings. So leave it in the comment
• 20:10
  section if I missed one or if you've seen these, any of these
• 20:12
  court cases. I like I like watching people
• 20:16
  testifying that on defender job, especially when they I know they
• 20:18
  lying. I just could read through them.
• 20:20
  I'm like you lying bastard. But anyways, y'all this'll be
• 20:23
  around kind of long. Have you made it this made it
• 20:25
  this far. Put a flame emoji in the comment
• 20:28
  section. I appreciate every single one of
• 20:29
  y'all mental illness.net for all things Lee Hammock and I am out
• 20:35
  peace.