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We Can't Be Friends feat. Jackie Woodyear · We Talk Back

• 0:00
  Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back podcast, the production of iHeartRadio
• 0:04
  Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network.
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  Speaker 2: So we're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion.
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  Speaker 3: Who talks. What's up?
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  Speaker 1: Y'allish girl a j holiday? What's up? Tam Bam?
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  Speaker 3: Y'all is tam Bam? I love y'all. Welcome back, so
• 0:24
  Speaker 3: we talk back. I missed, y'all. How was your weekend? Girlfriend?
• 0:30
  Speaker 1: My weekend, I didn't do much. It was cold outside
• 0:35
  Speaker 1: as fuck. I got a bunch of food on Saturday
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  Speaker 1: in Hiberneda. I bought a projector earlier last week. So
• 0:45
  Speaker 1: I've been watching TV on the wall.
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  Speaker 3: Oh that's cute. I used to have I.
• 0:51
  Speaker 1: Don't like TV's in the bedroom. Yeah, so that's like perfect.
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  Speaker 1: And it has like Netflix and YouTube already installed on it,
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  Speaker 1: so it's perfect. The only thing is that it has
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  Speaker 1: a remote and I turned it off and it kept
• 1:09
  Speaker 1: coming back on.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know what that is exactly.
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  Speaker 1: Imagine sleeping and you wake up and this ship on
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  Speaker 1: your fucking wall right in.
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  Speaker 3: Some bullshit playing. He was probably watching.
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  Speaker 4: I was not, girl'll be watching.
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  Speaker 1: Poor nobody's feeling so disgusted watching porn nowadays, the older
• 1:36
  Speaker 1: I get it just getting nasty, and like, what the fuck?
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  Speaker 1: What is wrong with me? I don't watch that ship
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  Speaker 1: for real?
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  Speaker 2: I never could get into it. I could never do it.
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  Speaker 2: I need plot, and then it just takes too much time.
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  Speaker 1: So you want to you want a movie porn?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Like why?
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  Speaker 3: I need to know because if I don't know, it's.
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  Speaker 1: Just ill.
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  Speaker 3: To me.
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  Speaker 1: Videos be looking like they having sex for real and genre.
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  Speaker 3: So I went. I came to Charleston this weekend. Came
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  Speaker 3: for a sad event. My friend his his friend passed away.
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  Speaker 2: So I came for a funeral that was Sunday and
• 2:17
  Speaker 2: it was a nice I mean sad event, but it
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  Speaker 2: was beautiful. On Saturday, we did go to a place
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  Speaker 2: called Gulla and Grooves.
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  Speaker 3: And I really enjoyed it. It was like vibe. It
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  Speaker 3: was a nice vibe. It was an older crowd.
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  Speaker 2: It was live music, singing all the millennial songs that
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  Speaker 2: we all loved to sing along.
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  Speaker 1: I need to check Gulla and Grooves. You had at
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  Speaker 1: Mike Mike Brown, right, It was you know.
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  Speaker 3: It was nice.
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  Speaker 2: The drinks were nice, the vibes were nice. And then
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  Speaker 2: I went to the bathroom. I just walked in the
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  Speaker 2: bathroom and was like two women in the stall. I
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  Speaker 2: don't know who they were because they were obviously already
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  Speaker 2: in the stall, but they were like, I guess they
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  Speaker 2: were together because it was like, somebody ain't nanny stink,
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  Speaker 2: somebody nanny's here?
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  Speaker 3: Shut up? So stupid to ask.
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  Speaker 1: Me come to the front. Who was taking a ship
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  Speaker 1: and gull and grooves? This weekend, y'all stuck up the
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  Speaker 1: bathroom and bitches is bad. You remember that day we
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  Speaker 1: stuck up that bathroom on the way back from Atlanta?
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  Speaker 3: What did we eat?
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  Speaker 1: We had boba and had regular milk in it.
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  Speaker 3: You had bubo tea? Fucking with you? Because I don't
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  Speaker 3: even that's not something that I would even buy. Get it.
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  Speaker 2: Drink that ship we both had to do over and
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  Speaker 2: somebody was trying to get the stall. She was like
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  Speaker 2: pulling on the door and her husband was like she
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  Speaker 2: was speaking a different language yelling at her husband.
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  Speaker 3: Because clear she had the ship too.
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  Speaker 1: She couldn't get in the bathroom.
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  Speaker 2: Yo, for you, good times, good times?
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  Speaker 4: Shame.
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  Speaker 3: Do we have a baddy who talks back? This week?
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  Speaker 1: We do, okay, and it's a fellow Gemini, So I
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  Speaker 1: thought it was perfect okay for this week's batty who
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  Speaker 1: talks back. It is Juanita Jordan. Okay, they're they're labeling her,
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  Speaker 1: labeling her as one of the smartest geminis. Okay, it
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  Speaker 1: says while Jordan was cheating in ninety three with females
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  Speaker 1: lighter than Juanita because you know he liked the white girls. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: she stayed and then she waited until that Nigga retired.
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  Speaker 4: And divorced him.
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  Speaker 1: Now she owns half of everything. So every time you
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  Speaker 1: bought them new elevens, whatever, Rachel, whatever, Juanita is getting
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  Speaker 1: a check okay. And she was an attorney and now
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  Speaker 1: she's worth uh somewhere around one one hundred and seventy
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  Speaker 1: million dollars the key.
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  Speaker 3: I fuck want to be like Mike. I don't want to
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  Speaker 3: be like why Nita.
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  Speaker 1: Guy. We all aspire to be like why Nita?
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  Speaker 3: Why Nita?
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  Speaker 2: You are a baddie who talks bad. We celebrate you
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  Speaker 2: this black history. We love your girl.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, So don't be trying to get even with these
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  Speaker 1: men unless it's in court period.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, I'm here.
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  Speaker 1: You'll naviget get even cheating back.
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  Speaker 3: I love that. That was a good one. Mm hmm.
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  Speaker 2: Why Anita Jordan, Yo, let's get into scenes.
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  Speaker 1: Man, what we got going on this week? So I
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  Speaker 1: know you all have s t I and King going in.
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  Speaker 1: Uh so fifty cent and t I was supposed to
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  Speaker 1: do it versus. At some point, t I said he
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  Speaker 1: had talked to fifty cent about it because they was
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  Speaker 1: like in La shopping some TV shows or some shit.
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  Speaker 1: So they was kicking it, and he said fifty cent
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  Speaker 1: verbally agreed, right, he was like, yeah, I'm gonna publicize
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  Speaker 1: at first, and then you just come in after me.
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  Speaker 1: This is their conversation. So I guess once t I
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  Speaker 1: started like publicly talking about doing the verses with fifty fifty,
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  Speaker 1: like I don't know this nigga, and I don't know
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  Speaker 1: what he's talking about, essentially, and that's what all this
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  Speaker 1: beef is about. That's where it started. And then fifty
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  Speaker 1: then goes to post the worst edited photo of Tiny
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  Speaker 1: mm hmm possible.
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  Speaker 3: That was me because he don't even have nothing to
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  Speaker 3: do with it.
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  Speaker 1: She we all tell she's sweet. I don't like when
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  Speaker 1: people play with Tiny. I don't.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just mean. H he had just a mean,
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  Speaker 3: hurtful person.
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  Speaker 2: It's the cancer, the cancer he got that we can
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  Speaker 2: be Listen, I know we can be sur retal snakes
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  Speaker 2: when we want to want to. Yeah, so that's ugly,
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  Speaker 2: but he got like, you can't keep being this kind
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  Speaker 2: of ugly out here and not expect to get that
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  Speaker 2: energy back. He's gonna get a recording, and it seems
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  Speaker 2: like t I gonna be the one to give it
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  Speaker 2: to him. You heard the songs thing that came out with.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, he came out with a song called War that
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  Speaker 1: shit litasally, I guess a diss record to whomever.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I feel like War.
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  Speaker 2: Was already recorded. But he uh, he just is perfect timing. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: so Tipstow got it. Yeah, he is one of the
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  Speaker 2: best rappers out here.
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  Speaker 3: I still, what's that song? Let him know?
• 7:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a bop. That's a hit for sure. Well,
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  Speaker 2: I'm excited, and I hope this definitely stays lyrical and
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  Speaker 2: doesn't become anything outside of that.
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  Speaker 3: King.
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  Speaker 2: This is the first time I seen King crash out
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  Speaker 2: and I supported it. This is the first crash out
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  Speaker 2: and I was like, go off King and talking about
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  Speaker 2: your fucking mama.
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  Speaker 1: So I just don't think fifty cent is of the
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  Speaker 1: culture anymore. And probably he just feels like he doesn't
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  Speaker 1: need to do a verse. You know what I'm saying, Like,
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  Speaker 1: I just get something. It's something. It's something about that
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  Speaker 1: shit surrounding the Diddy case and how he did the
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  Speaker 1: documentary and then the tweets. I just I don't know
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  Speaker 1: about fifty cent no more. And I don't think enough
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  Speaker 1: people be calling him out of his bullshit either.
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  Speaker 2: He lost me once I saw how he treated his
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  Speaker 2: biological son that looks exactly like him.
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  Speaker 3: That's when I it was over for me.
• 8:28
  Speaker 2: So yeah, Larry haven't all right?
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  Speaker 3: So you ganda.
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  Speaker 2: Woman starts a business of beating men who cheat on
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  Speaker 2: their partners, so you gotta want that. Has started a
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  Speaker 2: shocking business beating men who cheat on their wives, sharing
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  Speaker 2: her contact on social media so any woman can hire
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  Speaker 2: her to deal with unfaithful husbands, and she beating up
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  Speaker 2: all kinds of men. She talks about, beating up men
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  Speaker 2: who still for women, beating up men who have physically
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  Speaker 2: harmed women. And it's not just her. She got a
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  Speaker 2: game with her and she really likes she really out here.
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  Speaker 2: She said, this is keeping her lights on, Like people
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  Speaker 2: are really paying her money to go whoop niggs ass
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  Speaker 2: when they cheat, when they hurt these women when they
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  Speaker 2: steal from these women, when they beat these women. This woman,
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  Speaker 2: and I think we just need to start like an
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  Speaker 2: international charities, like they're just need to like go around
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  Speaker 2: the world because these men need a reckoning.
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  Speaker 1: Apparently that is so ironic, y'all. I have had this
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  Speaker 1: business idea for quite some time. It's called b yob
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  Speaker 1: beat your own bitch, where you can hire my company
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  Speaker 1: to beat your bitch up.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like, go back episodes from years ago and
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  Speaker 2: you talk about this and this woman actually really did
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  Speaker 2: it like you would saying that as a joke. This
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  Speaker 2: woman is really out here.
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  Speaker 1: She beating the men up though. But I mean, if
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  Speaker 1: you got a woman that's on your ass and like
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  Speaker 1: your sister ain't nowhere around, your mom ain't nowhere around,
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  Speaker 1: you could just call up be wild beat.
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  Speaker 2: But what if it's a big getting you to be
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  Speaker 2: his wife because she ain't cleaning up the house, Like
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  Speaker 2: how he wanted all right clean that kitchen?
• 10:14
  Speaker 1: Watch how about you paying for wild were cleaning were
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  Speaker 1: beating all nasty ass wives? Why you ain't clean that kitchen?
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  Speaker 3: These are jokes.
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  Speaker 2: So if you're a victim of missing violence, you don't
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  Speaker 2: mean any harm. I just joking, promise, y'all.
• 10:37
  Speaker 1: This is one of Dammy's classmates. So apparently the South
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  Speaker 1: Carolina accused of scamming customers arrested for the eleventh time.
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  Speaker 1: Okay uh. The owner of South Carolina children's boutique accused
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  Speaker 1: of scamming several customers was back behind bars on Monday.
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  Speaker 1: This just this past Monday. Pamela Brooks scorns scorns thirty. Well, no,
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  Speaker 1: she's not your classmate. Long before, so quick, you are
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  Speaker 1: so fucking fast was booked into the Cherokee County Detention
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  Speaker 1: Center and charged with obtaining property under false pretenses. So
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  Speaker 1: January first, she was arrested in Anderson County and extra
• 11:30
  Speaker 1: died it to Fairfield County, where she was formerly charged.
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  Speaker 1: Then she was arrested in Easley Police department on January seventh,
• 11:38
  Speaker 1: and February fifth, she was arrested in Spartanburg County Sheriff's
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  Speaker 1: office and released at six twenty five pm. Then again
• 11:48
  Speaker 1: on February Who the fuck is this lady? WYDDI world
• 11:52
  Speaker 1: rode in her like this February fifth, and second time
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  Speaker 1: of February fifth, the rest of my Easley Police Department
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  Speaker 1: an hour after leaving Spartanburg County.
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  Speaker 3: God damn, like, what kind of how.
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  Speaker 1: February eleventh, she turns herself into Abbeyville County Sheriff's office.
• 12:16
  Speaker 1: On February thirteen, she's arrested by Pickens County.
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  Speaker 3: God damn, she's just all over.
• 12:24
  Speaker 1: On February thirteenth, day before Valentine, she was arrested by
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  Speaker 1: Greenville County Sheriff's Office. February nineteenth, she was booked in
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  Speaker 1: sair Riginally she finally.
• 12:33
  Speaker 3: Made it to Columbia, YEP.
• 12:36
  Speaker 1: She was booked into Richland County Detention Center on the
• 12:39
  Speaker 1: hold for Greenwood Police Department. On February twenty, she was
• 12:46
  Speaker 1: arrested by Greenwood and then on February the twenty third,
• 12:49
  Speaker 1: she was booked again into the Cherokee County Detention Center,
• 12:53
  Speaker 1: where she started at looks.
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  Speaker 3: Well, y'all run into a white lady.
• 12:58
  Speaker 2: Just stay away from anyway. Lady selly clothes right now, suspect.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And you know the thing I hate is that now
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  Speaker 1: they got all her mugshots up here. I s feel
• 13:08
  Speaker 1: a guy noticed, bitch, let me zooming. She just got
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  Speaker 1: this look on her face that like, yeah, I did it, and.
• 13:16
  Speaker 3: I'll do it again, do it tomorrow.
• 13:20
  Speaker 1: She probably messing with people credit cards, That's what I think.
• 13:23
  Speaker 1: He's probably because how are you?
• 13:25
  Speaker 2: She needs to find a new late bitch. You need
• 13:28
  Speaker 2: to find a new scam. You are not good at
• 13:30
  Speaker 2: this one.
• 13:32
  Speaker 1: S C Boutique owner ninth. The rest involved allegations of
• 13:35
  Speaker 1: not shopping returning two hundred dollars of items in Richland County.
• 13:41
  Speaker 1: What is she stealing in returning shit? I'm confused anyway,
• 13:46
  Speaker 1: She's a blonde bombshell. Y'all used to work in Dillard's, right.
• 13:51
  Speaker 1: I used to work in dealers for a couple months
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  Speaker 1: when I was in college. And when I tell y'all,
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  Speaker 1: the white people be stealing and black people are just
• 14:01
  Speaker 1: policed too much because I mean, we had a senator's
• 14:05
  Speaker 1: wife who would girl. She was basically like keeping lost
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  Speaker 1: prevention employed because she used to steal out lillers. And
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  Speaker 1: it's not that they don't have that's all it is.
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  Speaker 1: Is really a mental health ship because you got the money,
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  Speaker 1: you just rather not spend it. Or maybe it just
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  Speaker 1: excitement or getting away with the ship. Yeah, thrill, I
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  Speaker 1: mean all the time, and nobody's watching them, but y'all
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  Speaker 1: watching all the black people steal right.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's one thing he ain't never got to worry
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  Speaker 2: about me doing is stealing some shit. I'm too scary,
• 14:41
  Speaker 2: and I would look like a thief. I would look
• 14:44
  Speaker 2: very incriminated. Why you sweating so hard, bitch in the
• 14:50
  Speaker 2: middle of the winter. Why are you sweating like that?
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  Speaker 2: Because you're a thief. That's why it would be obvious.
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  Speaker 1: I just, y'all, I just have I am karma. I
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  Speaker 1: know that about myself. I'd be doing it coming around.
• 15:02
  Speaker 1: But my karma is also very quick. Anytime in life
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  Speaker 1: when I have done some ship and I have no
• 15:07
  Speaker 1: business doing, when I tell you, instant bullshit be happening
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  Speaker 1: to me. So I don't do too fucking fast, like
• 15:16
  Speaker 1: I gotta do the right thing because Mike karma be
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  Speaker 1: coming around like well, I mean, God, be like, bitch,
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  Speaker 1: now you know better?
• 15:24
  Speaker 3: Right here you go? Broken boom?
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: That was Yeah. I got a messy I got an
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: eminem a messy meme. I don't know y'all think this
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: is funny, but I do.
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  Speaker 3: Let's hear it. Uh.
• 15:40
  Speaker 1: This is from Petty King Underscore Petty King on Instagram.
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: It's a I guess a retweet I gave a nigga
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  Speaker 1: some Stinkkuchi before, because yeah, bitch, stop begging. Did you
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: imagine like trying like no, you know, you want to
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: just have some company, but maybe you're just having a
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: bad day. Maybe you just got from the gym. These
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: niggas love exactly.
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: Paramos are like extra when you're fresh from the gym
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  Speaker 2: or something. I don't know, but they be one that.
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  Speaker 1: But ill why we can't say no. I got to
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: give you a reason why it's no.
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  Speaker 3: I don't want to smell that push hair.
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  Speaker 1: Like I was gonna say no, baby, not today. My
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: couchie saying.
• 16:38
  Speaker 3: We have to say that because some biggas just don't
• 16:40
  Speaker 3: know how to take them for.
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: I guess she said, fuck ahead, then you want some
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: hair COUCHI yeah, But here is st.
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  Speaker 3: The biggas will not breathe and you with this.
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: No integrity, zero, no integrity. When I used to work
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: in the office in Colombia, I remember it was this
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: white Mark and uh, this dude Linel Linel asked Mark
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: would he fuck Rianna even if for Kuchi was stink?
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: And Mark was like, hell no, man, I have more
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  Speaker 1: self respect than that. Meanwhile, these niggas like, yes, I'm
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: in there, like y'all nasty.
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: I was talking to this guy, one of my friends,
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  Speaker 2: and he was saying that another girl we know from college, Cuchie,
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  Speaker 2: used to always be stinking, and I was like always,
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  Speaker 2: He's like always. I'm like, how many times did you
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: go back for some stink pussy for you to know
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: how it always was stink? And he's gonna bust out
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: laugh again, you nasty, and you probably the reason why
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: it was always stink.
• 17:41
  Speaker 3: Exactly what are we talking about? Exactly? You keep going
• 17:45
  Speaker 3: back to get stink, Kucci, that's what you talking about.
• 17:48
  Speaker 3: Always niggas get on my nerd.
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: They be telling on themself so badly because why you
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: in there?
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  Speaker 3: Right? You kept going back there just like it.
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: To get what he can get. No self respect, y'all.
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: We can't be friends.
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  Speaker 4: If we can't be love us.
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  Speaker 3: That wasn't redition.
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: That's we're talking about today, y'all. Kid, Men and women
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: actually be friends, like real platonic friends. Is it even possible?
• 18:30
  Speaker 3: Right, let's get into it. We'll be right back. Guess what.
• 18:40
  Speaker 4: I'm back, y'all.
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: We had to bring her back because we had so
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: much fun with her on that episode, that we did
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: on the American Dream that we had to bring her back,
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: and we're talking about these nays.
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, not real, y'all. We literally be coming out
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: with topics and tim and be like, I don't talk
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: about niggas looking up and it's so easy to talk
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: about y'all.
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: I just don't want to be one of those podcasts
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: that the only thing we talk about is is all
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: the time.
• 19:11
  Speaker 4: There are so much better things to talk about.
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: But to that, it's fine, Well, today we do not
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: really talk about men per se today. So I have
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: had like ongoing issues and relationships I don't know about
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: y'all with having male friends and maintaining your relationship. Yeah,
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: do y'all think that women can actually have male friends
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: because men don't think so.
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: Yes, I do think you can have a male friend
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: a platonic relationship.
• 19:44
  Speaker 3: Would they fuck you? Probably right, I think they would.
• 19:49
  Speaker 3: But as long as you don't cross their boundary, you're
• 19:53
  Speaker 3: just friends.
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: I think that's the boyfriend's problem though, right knowing he's
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: a man, right knowing that, let's test it. Call your
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: best male friend and say, hey, man, I was thinking
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: you want this pussy and see if he declines.
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: Now I do have some male friends that be like hello, like, bitch,
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: are you I was just having that conversation with my
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: boot and he was like, oh, tell us more y'all
• 20:26
  Speaker 2: heard that, yeah, with my boot. And so I was
• 20:36
  Speaker 2: having this conversation and he knows our close friend Terry,
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: and he was like. I was like, that's my good friend,
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: that's like one of my best homeboys. He would never
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: have sex with me. He was like, if you tried
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: to have sex with Terry, Terry would say no for
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: baby two weeks and.
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: Then even if you ain't even ask him again, He's right,
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: you still got some of that pussy trying to give
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: me a little bit. Let me get a third, let
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: me get a three five and that ass sample.
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: So and so do you agree with that?
• 21:14
  Speaker 4: Like, I just like the key word that was said
• 21:17
  Speaker 4: was boyfriend. Right, you did say boyfriend? And how many
• 21:22
  Speaker 4: times have you cut off cut off friends? You know
• 21:27
  Speaker 4: what I mean because of the opinion of a boyfriend,
• 21:30
  Speaker 4: only to not have that boyfriend anymore and then you
• 21:33
  Speaker 4: and then you have the more you have more the
• 21:34
  Speaker 4: loss of your friendship and you really can't even get
• 21:36
  Speaker 4: it back, is what he's supposed to say. Oh, I'm
• 21:40
  Speaker 4: ready to be friends again exactly. I know, like the
• 21:45
  Speaker 4: friendship and they had any respect for themselves, that friendship
• 21:48
  Speaker 4: would be gone, you know. But I mean, what can you.
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: Do, yeah, like you abandoning your urns every time you
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: get into relationship. And I don't even want to call
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: the guy insecure because I know, like we jumped to
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: that a lot, like, oh, you just insecure. But men
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: know how men are, right, So I do have some
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: guy friends who damn near family, Like I wouldn't even
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: want to play with them like that, calling them on
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: the phone by smashing, like I would be embarrassed, would
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: be so weird to even do that. But then you
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: have some guy friends where you might you introduced him,
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: not even like in person, right when you're talking about
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: this person, so you are a significant other like yeah,
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: my friend or my homeboy whatever, because I have they
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: hate the homeboy. Shit, it's not your fucking homeboy, because
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: they'll smash. I do have some guy friends that I
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: know what sash.
• 22:39
  Speaker 3: Absolutely, I think most of them would.
• 22:41
  Speaker 4: I agree that you're at the end of the day,
• 22:44
  Speaker 4: I think I think men.
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: I think men can have female friends, but women can't
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: have male friends. Like we really be niggas friends. We
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: really put you in that friend z because.
• 22:57
  Speaker 4: Men, But how was a man friends with women? A
• 23:00
  Speaker 4: woman's not friend with a man, if you.
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: Know, That's what I'm saying again, because we're not going
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: to smash that man. We're not going to we're not
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: willing to have sex with that man. Your male best
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: friend will possibly be willing to have sex with you
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: at some point if you if the occasion may arise.
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: I think some guys end up in the friend place
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: right because we put them there, But they didn't they
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: they probably their intentions weren't always that when y'all met.
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: You see what I'm saying, So we put the difference
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: between men and women is that men will smash you
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: then put you in the friend zone. We just put
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: men in friend zone and we don't get.
• 23:41
  Speaker 4: Right and guy, and then we're not friends anymore. But
• 23:48
  Speaker 4: my thing is, okay, I think like guys, like when
• 23:51
  Speaker 4: you smash.
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: The friend zone, guy, and and now you're not friends. Yeah, okay,
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: go ahead, we'll come back.
• 23:59
  Speaker 4: But I think like whenever the conversation is he's not
• 24:01
  Speaker 4: your friend because he was smashed, right, what does what
• 24:05
  Speaker 4: he would do have to do with me. And that's
• 24:09
  Speaker 4: where I find issue with the whole situation because it's
• 24:12
  Speaker 4: just like at the end of the day, and do
• 24:15
  Speaker 4: you trust me? Because whether it's my friend or a
• 24:18
  Speaker 4: man I met on the street last night, we all
• 24:21
  Speaker 4: have the capability of getting together and doing what adults do.
• 24:25
  Speaker 4: Because he's my friend and we just talk each other
• 24:27
  Speaker 4: as friends, I'm choosing not to do that. I don't
• 24:29
  Speaker 4: want to do that with him. I want to do
• 24:30
  Speaker 4: that with you, which is why I'm.
• 24:31
  Speaker 3: With you period.
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: I just know. I think men know that men don't
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: they lack integrity? Really yes, right there you go, yeah,
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: because men don't trust other men, right, And I understand
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: because it's just they be like a little predatorial. So
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: they just I mean, but if your girl going, she's going,
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: it's nothing exactly we could do.
• 24:52
  Speaker 4: About It's nothing you can do about it if your
• 24:54
  Speaker 4: man is going.
• 24:55
  Speaker 3: So what about like the work wife and the work husband.
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: I never played some type of games like at the
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: job me.
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: I don't know, like I've never been in my environment
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: where I had like it was always gay men because
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: I work in a dominant industry, so there was never
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: a work husband to have had. But I think if
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: I worked in a place like that, especially in my twenties. Friendly, Yeah,
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: I would have had seven work husbands, you know, like
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: the rotation mind like right, Yeline, exactly, seven work husbands,
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: fucking won you know, and somebody wife coming to beat
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: your ass.
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: I didn't say they were married to somebody else. Usually
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: that's the dynamic, Like, that's why you call them work husband,
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: because you got your actual husband at the house, You
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: got your actual wife at the house, so you played
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: around on a job.
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: You can only be a work husband if you're already
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: married to somebody else.
• 25:53
  Speaker 4: Now, But I think in general, like you know, people
• 25:56
  Speaker 4: typically have somebody outside of work that they're dealing with,
• 25:59
  Speaker 4: whether dating or married.
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: I heard about somebody getting They asked me that at
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: the job like that.
• 26:03
  Speaker 4: Plenty of time. Yeah, I'm sure, man, I got some time.
• 26:07
  Speaker 4: I mean, but that's like your man is crossing boundaries.
• 26:09
  Speaker 4: Then at that point, you know, and if your man
• 26:11
  Speaker 4: is uncomfortable, if your significant other is uncomfortable with you
• 26:15
  Speaker 4: having like a close relationship with some of the opposite
• 26:18
  Speaker 4: sex in the workplace, then if they are unwilling to
• 26:20
  Speaker 4: respect that boundary, then that's them, and then from there
• 26:24
  Speaker 4: it's your decision what you do from there.
• 26:26
  Speaker 3: So let me let me ask you all this.
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: If you have, like you're in a great relationship, your
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: guy cheats on you with his work wife, and y'all
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: decide to stay together.
• 26:34
  Speaker 3: Can he keep his job or do he need to quit?
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: You know, I'm getting that nobody's got to go.
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: Now, Benxide, do you find security knowing that he has
• 26:47
  Speaker 2: to go back to that work wife every day?
• 26:49
  Speaker 3: You know you can't.
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: You cannot.
• 26:52
  Speaker 3: I don't think you can be.
• 26:54
  Speaker 4: Comfortable secure in that situation.
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: But you know, I don't know. I just I just
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: feeling like humans just be doing human shit. So I
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: just really don't be trying to control people. So really
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: that's what it's about with me, Like I don't have
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: to have none of these people that I talk to.
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: I don't have to talk to these people every single day.
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: It's the fact that you think I shouldn't that I
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: got a problem with because I don't have a problem.
• 27:15
  Speaker 3: Now and talk.
• 27:18
  Speaker 4: Now it's time to clock in.
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: Exactly, Like, don't tell me what I can't do, because
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: I'm never telling the grown ass man what he can't do. Like,
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: you know, what, what's right, I'm wrong? But what is
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: good for the goose, is good for the ganders. You
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: cannot be out here with all these homegirls. And then
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: you Saya and me about every guy I talk about.
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: Remember I've said this before, how my ex was compiling
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: a list based on general conversation. Imagine I'm like, yeah, oh,
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: videographer Thomas. Like he got Thomas Ballad, Thomas guy, and
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: then got.
• 27:59
  Speaker 4: A different people that you've talked to.
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: No, just their names, random people I've talked about, people
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: that he knows that I know. He had it like
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: listed in his phone and then like one night, nine
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: o'clock at night, we get into bed, He's like, he
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: wants to go over the list. Thomas. Today you have.
• 28:21
  Speaker 4: Jeff was not the list before, and now now he's
• 28:24
  Speaker 4: on the list. Where did he come?
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: A nigga with dreads Like, if you don't know the name,
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: it's a description there.
• 28:30
  Speaker 3: But that just sounds like someone who's very insecure.
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: Very Meanwhile, like you got home, you got female friends.
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck about when my homeboy just
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: recently we haven't spoken in a long while because he's
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: been in a relationship for the last five years and
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: I've been in a couple of relationships in the last
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: five years. But he was like, I didn't have a
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: problem not talking to anybody, but I didn't want to
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: let you go. Like he didn't want to not talk
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: to me, but his girl was opposed to him having
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: female friends. So we both geminized. Like we talk a lot,
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: but you know what I'm saying, when we do talk
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: is like extensive conversation about all things. So imagine not
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: being able to have a not an outlet, not like
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: you need an outlet outside of your relationship, right, but
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: sometimes you do need the perspective from the opposite sex,
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: but from someone else, because I can't really talk to
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: you about you exactly.
• 29:22
  Speaker 4: That's exactly the word I was gonna use with perspective, Mike.
• 29:25
  Speaker 4: Everybody's different, everybody comes from different background, life experiences, and
• 29:30
  Speaker 4: for you to say that I can't talk to another
• 29:33
  Speaker 4: human being is crazy. That's to me. That's because especially
• 29:37
  Speaker 4: like you said that y'all would get on the phone,
• 29:38
  Speaker 4: y'all chit chat, laugh, whatever, talk. My thing is, it'd
• 29:43
  Speaker 4: be weird if y'all got on the phone and y'all
• 29:46
  Speaker 4: could only you know, when when she wasn't around, right,
• 29:50
  Speaker 4: you know what I mean? Or like whenever she whenever
• 29:52
  Speaker 4: he called, whenever you call, he's like, oh, let me
• 29:54
  Speaker 4: call you back up with my girl. Now that's weird, right,
• 29:58
  Speaker 4: But if you can have conversations, he couldn't do that.
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: But because I set the tone in my relationship.
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: I'm just like, I think I'm toxic right now because
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: you're saying I'd be like, get off the phone.
• 30:11
  Speaker 3: Here.
• 30:13
  Speaker 4: Can't you talk to his homeboys when you're around?
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: I mean what they Yeah, I guess he got like
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: I just feel like I'm so busy that when I'm around,
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: that's my time.
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: What you know, he can't, but imagine living in the
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: house with somebody, right, Okay, and y'all have different Yeah,
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: Like I have male friends, I'm going to talk to
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: them in front of my man, Like, and you could
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: possibly meet this person at some point. I don't have
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: a lot of people that live in Charleston, but I
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: have people, you know, all over you could possibly meet
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: this person at some point, Like this is I'm not
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: hiding nothing when I'm talking to this person on the phone.
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: And I want you to be able to do the
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: same thing with the opposite sex. I don't really put
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: that much emphasis on the sex of the person it's
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: a friend.
• 30:56
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree, yeah, but but.
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: Men don't seem to think that. No, do you have
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: some guy friends who are currently guy friends that you
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: have had sex with? And now y'all just like.
• 31:10
  Speaker 3: Me, Now what.
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: Why would you ask me that in front of everybody,
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: in front of my friend company.
• 31:21
  Speaker 2: Not No, So you asked me, Do I have any
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: guy friends that I've had sex with before in.
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: My life and they're your friend now and you would
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: never have sex with them again? But y'all, relationships started
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: off off as.
• 31:34
  Speaker 3: Yes, I do.
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: I have hollered at you.
• 31:36
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I have. You know I've been Yeah, would you.
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: Would you like?
• 31:44
  Speaker 4: Would you with your homegirl on a guy who was
• 31:47
  Speaker 4: your friend who you had.
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: Listen to?
• 31:53
  Speaker 4: Likelves back you covid.
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: She got the whole problem in my relation when that
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: episode came out World War Three at Home because I sold.
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: I didn't wait for that start calculating like it was COVID,
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: y'all worry. I was okay, couchie buddies look good. Couchie buddies,
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: y'all could go back and listen to five years ago.
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: But Tammy was dingle. I'm in a relationship. It is
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: COVID and my friend isn't he? And I'm like, I
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: know a guy. It was really nice, gonna be good,
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. She in the house like
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: you're not cats, be bumping it up, and I can
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: imagine that she was going through lockdown COVID righting the
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: couch hurt some dick.
• 32:59
  Speaker 4: It was so nice.
• 33:00
  Speaker 3: He was such a nice guy. And it was like,
• 33:02
  Speaker 3: this is so wild. I can't believe.
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: Because I was so scared. Right, I was like, I
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: told her, like, yeah, tell me come over here. She
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: showed me a picture of he was very attractive. I
• 33:14
  Speaker 2: was like, you tell him come over here.
• 33:16
  Speaker 3: And then I was joking though I wasn't serious, and
• 33:18
  Speaker 3: then she was like he on the way.
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: No, I gave the numbers.
• 33:21
  Speaker 4: I'm pretty sure not to overeat some dick.
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what we called it over meat. So I
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: get y'all exchange them, like I gave him your number,
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: gave you his number. They they talked before he got there, right,
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: did you not know?
• 33:37
  Speaker 3: We didn't y'all talk on the floor.
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: Got there, No, so he just came over there.
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: He just came over there. I was so scared. I
• 33:45
  Speaker 2: was scared, but he when he got doing.
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: Scared this random cock. I mean, come on, right, did
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: you have.
• 33:58
  Speaker 4: Terrified? He says, it's safe, right, my friends.
• 34:03
  Speaker 3: I was scared. But when he got I opened the door,
• 34:05
  Speaker 3: he looked more scared than me.
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: So that's what made it better. He looked just as nervous,
• 34:10
  Speaker 2: more nervous than I was.
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: That Nigga was happy the agreement.
• 34:14
  Speaker 4: Wants to go over there and break off a little
• 34:17
  Speaker 4: piece of meat.
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: I literally said, my homegirl needed.
• 34:20
  Speaker 4: Yeah, they didn't hang out.
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: It didn't happen.
• 34:25
  Speaker 3: It's just like some poor nottle ship that happened. Somebody
• 34:29
  Speaker 3: ordered something.
• 34:31
  Speaker 4: I'm here to fix the length under the seat.
• 34:33
  Speaker 3: It was not this Papa John and I got safty.
• 34:39
  Speaker 3: I need to pay my rent.
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: No, it was nothing like that.
• 34:44
  Speaker 3: We came in, we talked for hours.
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: Okay, anything, and that's where I'll leave it because I
• 34:51
  Speaker 2: have a boot now and.
• 34:52
  Speaker 3: This is so I'm driving.
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: It was just supposed to be the drop off these motherfuckers.
• 34:57
  Speaker 3: We started.
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: She cooking, he cooking Joel off rice at his house.
• 35:03
  Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, Colin was wild time. You're gonna chalk it
• 35:06
  Speaker 4: up the color being what is.
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: Happening like giving me gifts.
• 35:10
  Speaker 3: I was sitting her pictures of shoes.
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I got those, Whizzler, my fault, I got those.
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: This is supposed to be one night on dam girl.
• 35:25
  Speaker 2: But listen up, back on topic, guys, right, because I
• 35:29
  Speaker 2: ain't talked to.
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: That nigga years. Okay, right here in Charlotte, just in
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: case you want to pass them on down arms, just
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: in case you haven't need you need, I'll keep that
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: in mind.
• 35:43
  Speaker 3: So okay, let me just say this. I have a
• 35:45
  Speaker 3: lot of male friends, right, Uh huh. I just have
• 35:48
  Speaker 3: a lot of friends period.
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: Female and mail.
• 35:50
  Speaker 3: Right. But I'm newly seeing someone.
• 35:54
  Speaker 2: It's getting a little bit more serious and I don't
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: exactly know how to navigate. And mean friendships are friendships
• 36:03
  Speaker 2: that might be a little more than friendships, but not really.
• 36:07
  Speaker 2: You know, white people, I can call and be like,
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: let's go to dinner, you know, and I know they
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: want to fuck.
• 36:12
  Speaker 3: You know, I know they want to fuck.
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: You want to go to dinner and have good vibes
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: or no, have a good time exchange andorry.
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: Yep, but you don't need them anymore because you got
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: your partner. That's how that's supposed to work. You know
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying you won't need those, But I.
• 36:28
  Speaker 4: Mean, doesn't everybody serve a different purpose? Like that's that's
• 36:30
  Speaker 4: the white we go out with our homegirls for.
• 36:33
  Speaker 3: You know, this.
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: Particular reads people want to smash. So when her now
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: this guy she's trying to build something with, would he
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: be okay with you? Still going you? Essentially these men
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: are still courting you.
• 36:50
  Speaker 4: Okay. Well, I'm gonna say this if it's if not
• 36:52
  Speaker 4: your friend, right because just because you have a good
• 36:54
  Speaker 4: time when you go out to eat and have a
• 36:56
  Speaker 4: good time, doesn't mean that that's your friend. That's just
• 36:59
  Speaker 4: like a dude.
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: You know, who you like to eat with. I mean,
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: but y'all, y'all are people I know, I like to
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: talk with different all.
• 37:10
  Speaker 4: Right, So people are for different reasons in life. So
• 37:15
  Speaker 4: if it's just a dude who you go to dinner
• 37:17
  Speaker 4: with and have good time with, but what they been.
• 37:20
  Speaker 2: Around like over a decade, you know, it's just like
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: throwing someone away, you know, I don't know, I don't
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: know how.
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: But men will wait in the cut for a decade.
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah they will, even while they got all types of
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: other ship going on. They might not even want to us.
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: They will wait ten years for that pussy, because they
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: I mean, I'm getting pussy. I mean in the meantime,
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: you know, they'll wait ten years away.
• 37:40
  Speaker 4: It's nothing like pussy.
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: That's what they say.
• 37:47
  Speaker 3: Ten years.
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: That's how they get it over there, Like you want
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: to go to dinner.
• 38:00
  Speaker 4: Here, like tonight, tonight. And Tammy's like, all right, well,
• 38:05
  Speaker 4: you know.
• 38:06
  Speaker 2: No girl, her about that guy that until I went
• 38:12
  Speaker 2: on a date with him and he thought he was
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: gonna fuck.
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: Who the fuck was that? And Tammy was like rapping,
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: rapping or doing yeah, doing acting on movie scenes and
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: some fucking weird ship. That's what she want to do
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: for hours.
• 38:28
  Speaker 4: There's like a there's a trend on TikTok that was
• 38:30
  Speaker 4: like you got me, You got me drunk thinking I
• 38:32
  Speaker 4: was gonna have sex, but really, but now I'm resilent.
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: This bitch that is so mean.
• 38:39
  Speaker 3: That is so you'll be entertained at the very least.
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: You don't try again next time.
• 38:47
  Speaker 4: You should have caught me during COVID.
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: So I think that the guys think that these men
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: are just waiting they turn essentially.
• 38:58
  Speaker 4: Yeah, and maybe some are, but those.
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: Aren't your friends. Then see what I'm saying. You should
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: be you should when we talk about these people, they
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: wouldn't be like, that's my friend. It would be this
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: guy I know. But exactly, aren't all niggas just waiting
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: their turn? Not all, That's what I'm saying, not all.
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: So the ones that aren't those are your actual friends.
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: Anybody who's waiting his turn. We are miscategorizing those people
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: that is not your friend, that nigga doesn't know.
• 39:25
  Speaker 2: This guy finished saying, like you could call your friend
• 39:28
  Speaker 2: and be like, oh, would you want some of this play?
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: Be like that dude wasn't my friend.
• 39:34
  Speaker 3: I was.
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: I was, Yeah, that was. He was never a friend
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: of mine.
• 39:38
  Speaker 2: So you feel like it's a guy that you know
• 39:40
  Speaker 2: that is your friend that if you offer them sex,
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: they would turn it down.
• 39:44
  Speaker 3: I can't think of it.
• 39:45
  Speaker 4: I don't even Yeah exactly, I agree. But we're also
• 39:51
  Speaker 4: like talking about sex like it's not something that you
• 39:54
  Speaker 4: just call up and do over COVID or that you.
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: Can do, you know what I mean, like.
• 39:59
  Speaker 3: Like that ship up.
• 40:03
  Speaker 4: But I'm just saying it can be casual and it
• 40:06
  Speaker 4: can be to fulfill a me, Like that's what all
• 40:09
  Speaker 4: mammals in life. They need to eat, they need to drink,
• 40:12
  Speaker 4: they need to sleep, and they need to fuck, right,
• 40:15
  Speaker 4: you know what I mean. So to me, it's like, yeah,
• 40:18
  Speaker 4: of course a man's gonna have I'm cute, you know,
• 40:20
  Speaker 4: like there's a whole lot of ass on this couch.
• 40:22
  Speaker 4: Y'all can't see it, but it's a lot, you know
• 40:24
  Speaker 4: what I mean, And it's some wonderful bone structure going on.
• 40:27
  Speaker 4: So like, of course, like you you're as an attractive person,
• 40:32
  Speaker 4: your people are going to be attracted to you. And
• 40:34
  Speaker 4: when they see that thing moving and you're walking around
• 40:37
  Speaker 4: like yeah.
• 40:38
  Speaker 3: Going to write.
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: So I feel like I'm being unrealistic saying that. You know,
• 40:44
  Speaker 2: guys that are not gonna like they're gonna turn you down.
• 40:47
  Speaker 4: And then you're smart and then you're funny and all
• 40:49
  Speaker 4: that ads, but get attract.
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: I would never call on I even play with them,
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: like yeah me too, right, yeah me too. Those are
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: your friends, is what I'm saying. Yeah, but I definitely
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: have guys. But he don't look at you and be
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: like nasty. No, but I call him my friend, but
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: I know he would smash me. That's what I'm saying.
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: We miscategorizing people, that's.
• 41:07
  Speaker 4: Really and I also agree with that.
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. Yeah, so there are some people
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: that I wouldnt even I would feel disgusted even playing
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: with them, calling them about absolutely sex, you know what
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: I'm saying. But there are some that I definitely will
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: could call and they like yeah babes, ye women right. Yeah,
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: So that's I'm saying. Those people aren't your friend. That's
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: not your friend. Really they want to be They want
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: to smash you. I mean, I guess you can.
• 41:38
  Speaker 3: Because I just think all niggas want to fuck me though.
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: But just we just talked about little little like Terry.
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: You know, yeah, you think the same thing.
• 41:48
  Speaker 2: That's that's why you're Yeah, I don't want to think
• 41:51
  Speaker 2: about it exactly. But not because he's un attractive, because
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: I know.
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: What, women can have guys as friends. I mean, excuse me.
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: That's why I said men can have women as friends,
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: but we really can't, you know what I'm saying, because
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: not friends that these guys want to be. And even
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: if they don't want I mean they don't want to
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: be a boyfriend or your husband. They want to smash
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: at the minimum. Okay, they want to do that. So
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: is it really a friend?
• 42:16
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's still a friend.
• 42:19
  Speaker 4: I think I think it's little. I don't think I
• 42:21
  Speaker 4: don't think everybody is I don't think everybody is your friends.
• 42:24
  Speaker 4: I think like you have there are people that you have,
• 42:27
  Speaker 4: same with girls, right, everybody's not your friend, right the
• 42:29
  Speaker 4: way that you know, but y'all are friends, right sometimes
• 42:35
  Speaker 4: sometimes most most of the time. Okay, you got your
• 42:43
  Speaker 4: dinner friends, you got your travel friends, you got your
• 42:46
  Speaker 4: and you know it's different levels, and like sometimes people
• 42:49
  Speaker 4: don't last your whole life, right, So the same way
• 42:53
  Speaker 4: in the way that you handle those relationships, you can
• 42:55
  Speaker 4: handle the relationships that you have with men. And although
• 42:59
  Speaker 4: they may be they're on the different they're on the
• 43:01
  Speaker 4: signing scale of patonic sism, and so you know, if
• 43:05
  Speaker 4: they're on that lower level, then you know one might
• 43:08
  Speaker 4: slip up and something might happen. Right, But like, there
• 43:10
  Speaker 4: are friends that you that are your friends, who you
• 43:13
  Speaker 4: value to a level that you respect each other enough
• 43:17
  Speaker 4: that that wouldn't be an issue.
• 43:19
  Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, So maybe I'm just using the term friend
• 43:22
  Speaker 2: to lose.
• 43:22
  Speaker 4: What I'm saying.
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's what men say, That's what our boyfriends say. Yes,
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: Because I think when you get married it's even different,
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: Like nigga, I'm your friend and you my friend. Like
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: that's all the friends we need. But when you like
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: still outside a little bit, you know, dating, you might
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: have a boyfriend. Like, like you said, things can change overnight.
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: So shit, when you married.
• 43:44
  Speaker 3: This shit can change overnight. I don't.
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a little bit more obligation and different things involved.
• 43:49
  Speaker 4: Especially in the state of North Carolina. Don't play.
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: You can't walk away overnight. So this article says there's
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: like it's a big difference between intent and access. So
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: why women struggle to have male friends. It says men
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: often befriended women with potential in mind. Right, so I'm
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: just waiting my turn if she ever break up. You know,
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: these are things that they may be considering where we're just, oh,
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: this is my friend, right, I'll be there for her.
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: I don't know if that's the black men do that.
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: The black men just hang hanging the cut and be
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: your Yeah, so this we're adsome. But it says men
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: can excuse me, excuse me, So it's not friendship is
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: positioning when men have women as friends, right, excuse me,
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: when women have men as friends, What do you mean
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: it's the man that's positioning himself in your life essentially, right,
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: Men confuse emotional intimacy with romantic opportunity. If she confides
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: in him, Vin's knees support. He reads it. He reads
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: it like we're bonding. So I'm next type shit. You
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Okay, it says a lot of
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: male friendships come with hidden entitlement. Men can be friends
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: as long as she's single, she's accessible. Remember you saying
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: like you're trying to figure out how you can get
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: rid of these people because you have been accessible to them.
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: I'm not for a long term. No, they're out loud,
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: but it's my same problem. Yeah, yeah, so cutting off accessibility.
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: There are like I'm in a relationship now, and and
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: I don't know that I needed to make an announcement.
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: I just started moving differently with the people, right, But
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: they are a couple of people will say, hey, I'm
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: in a relationship now, so that there was no there's
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: no area. Yeah no, because I had to because I
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: don't know, Like these people were used to mentally a boyfriend.
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: I always had to break up them to do this, right,
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: She doesn't reject him too hard. Once she draws boundaries,
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: he acts like she betrayed him. And then it goes
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: into why men have female friends easily because women are
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: capable of genuine friendship without needing access to the body.
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: It's just true. Women just have more friendships with people period.
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: You know, they always try to say, oh, you're gonna
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: dialogue with your cat. No I won't. You are more
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: likely to die in an old folks home by yourself
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: with no family or friends.
• 46:53
  Speaker 4: You know nothing about your friends.
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: Yes, women facilitate friendship, lifelong friendships with people. Not to
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: say guys don't have friends, but but they don't the time.
• 47:04
  Speaker 2: They don't like what I'm saying right now, Like we
• 47:07
  Speaker 2: were talking about girls, and and he wouldn't have like
• 47:13
  Speaker 2: I would.
• 47:14
  Speaker 3: Have to like get some of my male yeah, like
• 47:17
  Speaker 3: use family and to be his grooves.
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: Man, why is that? Why didn't he have any He
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: didn't grow up no childhood friends or anything.
• 47:24
  Speaker 3: No, he has some, he just don't have the number
• 47:26
  Speaker 3: to match mine.
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay, I mean you can have some of your.
• 47:33
  Speaker 4: Brother's cousins, not the whole boys he's trying to get
• 47:38
  Speaker 4: rid of over there.
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: Okay, So yeah, women are more capable of genuine friendships.
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: Women are socialized to listen, nurture, connect emotionally without expecting sex.
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: So this is why men like women. I think most
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: successful men have women around them first of all friends.
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: So yeah, men can, men can have women as friends.
• 48:06
  Speaker 2: We just but you know, I bet you if we
• 48:08
  Speaker 2: got some men on the show, they would be like, fuck.
• 48:10
  Speaker 4: Are y'all talking about Yeah? Absolutely, And I was just
• 48:13
  Speaker 4: about to say that, like, I feel like there's always
• 48:17
  Speaker 4: the same could be said about women, right because we
• 48:20
  Speaker 4: all know, we've all experienced, you know, being on the
• 48:23
  Speaker 4: other side of that, right, and and so and then
• 48:26
  Speaker 4: also we've we've also been on the other side of
• 48:28
  Speaker 4: having like weird female friends where you know, people are weird.
• 48:33
  Speaker 4: But I think, like, you know, we just I think
• 48:35
  Speaker 4: the problem is when we're having this these discussions, is
• 48:39
  Speaker 4: not leaving enough room for nuance and the fact that
• 48:44
  Speaker 4: every like, people are weird and people are bad friends
• 48:50
  Speaker 4: and people can be you know what I mean. So
• 48:53
  Speaker 4: as much as I want to say nigga shit, but
• 48:58
  Speaker 4: you know, people people like shit.
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: You always said that if it's a woman who says
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: like like they've never been with like every man you've
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: ever dated any shit, chances are you ain't shit either, right,
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: That's really what it boils down to, because usually you marah, right,
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: So you're attracting this thing that you probably need to
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: work on within yourself to attract what you think you deserve,
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: right right. So, and this other part says, so men
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: benefit from female friends emotional support, advice, care, validation, but
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: women don't always benefit from male friends the same way
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: because the friendship may have conditions.
• 49:36
  Speaker 4: I just think that the way that men connect with
• 49:39
  Speaker 4: each other can be like very unique to men. Like
• 49:44
  Speaker 4: the way that we connect in general allows for more
• 49:50
  Speaker 4: like human interaction. And because like you know, men go
• 49:54
  Speaker 4: sweat together, you know, and and they they don't shore
• 49:59
  Speaker 4: like men activities together. I connect.
• 50:02
  Speaker 2: I don't feel like they share their sexual experiences the
• 50:04
  Speaker 2: way women do.
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: Men. I don't know.
• 50:07
  Speaker 3: I don't know about that.
• 50:08
  Speaker 4: Or I think they might talk about sex.
• 50:10
  Speaker 2: Not with someone that they like. They'll talk about sex
• 50:15
  Speaker 2: with women that they don't like, but they're not going
• 50:17
  Speaker 2: to talk about sex with women that they like. We
• 50:19
  Speaker 2: will talk about sex with someone that we like with
• 50:21
  Speaker 2: our closest friends.
• 50:23
  Speaker 4: Let me tell you what he did, or maybe maybe
• 50:29
  Speaker 4: share about sexual experience with the woman that he cares. Yeah,
• 50:32
  Speaker 4: maybe they're they're less likely to be emotionally vulnerable with
• 50:37
  Speaker 4: each other with each other, which allows which is essentially
• 50:42
  Speaker 4: allows to unlock a deeper level of friendship. Right, and
• 50:45
  Speaker 4: then the women open that up as at a space
• 50:49
  Speaker 4: for a conversation because they're willing to ask those second
• 50:51
  Speaker 4: layer and third layer questions about whatever whatever men have
• 50:55
  Speaker 4: going on. Oh, I broke up my girl.
• 51:01
  Speaker 3: For five years and be like that's crazy. That's trying
• 51:03
  Speaker 3: to get a brew.
• 51:05
  Speaker 4: Yeah, right, Like I'm shocked, Like what happened to.
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: Get her back? Do you want what? I mean?
• 51:12
  Speaker 4: How did this happen?
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: Are you right? That was literally me this weekend talking
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: to my friend who I hadn't spoken to in a
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: while because him and the girl broke up. And when
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: he said and I didn't. I hadn't talked to her
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: since then, I was like so shocked, like wait what?
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: So y'all just didn't call each other? Like what the
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: fuck is happening? Like I'm invested, Yes, I'm super invested
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: in it, and not because I want to suck his dick,
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: Like right, I can.
• 51:39
  Speaker 4: See my friend hurting because you've been waiting for this
• 51:42
  Speaker 4: gard there?
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but where but the men were liked. What what
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: you're doing tonight? You need me come over there?
• 51:49
  Speaker 3: Right?
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: What y'all right?
• 51:53
  Speaker 4: Let me give you one.
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: Alright here it says women don't trust me. Oh I don't.
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: Let's get that says men don't trust women with male
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: friends because men know how men think. They know he
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: wants you. They know he's waiting, even if he isn't.
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: This is what their mind is, right. They know he
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: will shoot the shot, shoot the shot eventually. Men aren't
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: afraid of your male friends because of you. They are
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: afraid of him because of them, because of men. Men
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: just know how men are. So this this last segment,
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: I want to do like a little uh truth bomb segment.
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: Are the real platon are? You are your male friends
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: real platonic friends? Like this is this is where we
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: green flag and reflag. Okay, green flags of a true
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: male friend. He never flirts, never flirt.
• 52:57
  Speaker 4: I'm single.
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: He respect ext your relationships.
• 53:01
  Speaker 3: I'm single, okay.
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: Uh, he checks himself and his boundaries. He doesn't compete
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: with your partner. He's consistent, not only available when you're single.
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: He treats your partner with respect. You feel bad, I'm failing.
• 53:27
  Speaker 4: That nigga man and then I remember.
• 53:31
  Speaker 3: My last this guy who was back for he'd be like,
• 53:35
  Speaker 3: what's up with your African? Not African?
• 53:41
  Speaker 4: He was like, real, oh my god, Yo, okay about
• 53:50
  Speaker 4: out the motherland. We wouldn't be here without y'all.
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: It's just a cultural difference, right. I just think we
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: how how how black men think they get better treats
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: from white women? Or I think African men are not
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: all of them, okay, because I have had some really
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: pushy African men that I've known in my life, like pushy,
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: like you won't even give me a chance to like you.
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: They just be so eager, like get out my face.
• 54:14
  Speaker 1: I'm disgusting now. But yeah, they just they just know,
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: you know, what the expectation is from them, I guess
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: or something. Anyway, So the last green flag is he
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: isn't per protective in a territorial way. This is green flags, okay,
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: red flags, red flax. He's not your friend. He texts
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: you late at night. Uh, he compliments you too much.
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: He dislikes every man you date.
• 54:47
  Speaker 4: Expressions because because of the.
• 54:51
  Speaker 2: More than one person right now, and like when I
• 54:54
  Speaker 2: think of Terry, he's like green egg elliots, like some
• 55:00
  Speaker 2: people that I'm thinking about like some of them, but
• 55:03
  Speaker 2: some of them they're just funny, Like I just think
• 55:05
  Speaker 2: they're joking people, and not necessarily like this is.
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: The next red flag bitch, he asked sexual questions. I'm
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: a joke. I just think they're funny. He suddenly disappears
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: when you get a man. He tells you you deserve better.
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: Too often he tries to come over when you're alone.
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: That's like last example of a red flag. If y'all,
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: friendship would end if you stopped being attractive to him,
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: That isn't your friend. Okay, okay, I.
• 55:49
  Speaker 3: Mean I'm getting some perspective here. I think perhaps.
• 55:53
  Speaker 4: So, I don't know.
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: I just I don't. I don't like the thought of
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: being told with the do not tell anybody else what
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: to do. If this is your true female friend, y'all
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: have been friends for a long time. I don't even
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: have a problem with people meeting new people. You know,
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: I know it might get sketchy again. We talked Thomas,
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  Speaker 1: our videographer, about you know, new friendships, new people you
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  Speaker 1: might meet when married. I don't see a problem with that.
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  Speaker 3: It just boils down to do you trust.
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  Speaker 1: Your parson and make sure that everything. I mean, if
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  Speaker 1: somebody is a habitual lines step or they're going to
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  Speaker 1: do the things regardless, there's really nothing you could do
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  Speaker 1: about it. So police and who someone talks to.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, and you said something, you said something profound
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  Speaker 4: earlier and I can't remember exactly how you said it. It
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  Speaker 4: was like, you know, people are going to be people
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  Speaker 4: or humans are going to human or you know what
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  Speaker 4: I mean. And there is no amount of safeguards that
• 56:47
  Speaker 4: you can put in place that's going to prevent another
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  Speaker 4: person from being to make whatever decision that they're going
• 56:54
  Speaker 4: to make right right, So.
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  Speaker 3: What can you do?
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  Speaker 4: Like why even right your brain and like you know,
• 57:01
  Speaker 4: potentially caused all this disrupt and all this stuff. You
• 57:04
  Speaker 4: can't trut your partner then, like maybe a partner for you.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, and my same guy, what if you could take
• 57:10
  Speaker 5: your coochie off and leave it with your nigga, like
• 57:13
  Speaker 5: like having dick with you, Like, oh, you're going on vacation,
• 57:17
  Speaker 5: give me the I Dominican Republic.
• 57:22
  Speaker 3: You don't give me that dick, I'm gonna put it
• 57:23
  Speaker 3: in the freezing Okay.
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  Speaker 4: Lorena Bobbit, they found it out in the grass that
• 57:33
  Speaker 4: she's running. She discarded like a piece of chewed up
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  Speaker 4: bubble gun. All right, I'm saying, silly ship.
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  Speaker 3: So you are.
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: We're now near the end of the conversation. Clearly, do
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: you think women can have? Yes, male friends? I still
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: think I still think so too. We're just women, We're
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: just girls, just right. That's what I understand them perspective
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  Speaker 1: around male friends. I definitely understand it because I mean, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: y'all want y'all want trust men for the same reason
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  Speaker 1: as we don't. Y'all act like we weren't crazy when
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: we talk to this shit about men, the same reason. You
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  Speaker 1: wouldn't leave your girl in the house with your home.
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  Speaker 1: But why is that your friend? If you can't leave
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  Speaker 1: your family with him?
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  Speaker 4: That's not a man baby your daughter?
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: No, yeah, but that's your friend. Why would you have
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: a male friend that you couldn't leave and charge of
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: your family if something were to happen.
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  Speaker 3: That's not true.
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  Speaker 1: Like, that's not your friend either, nigga, What are we
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: talking about?
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  Speaker 4: So?
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: I feel like the bottom line, I don't know men
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: needed y'all need to do better so people can trust
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: y'all more. Y'all can trust y'all more.
• 58:46
  Speaker 4: If you're feeling and feeling. If you're feeling a little touched,
• 58:50
  Speaker 4: then you're this is about you. You looking at your.
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  Speaker 3: Like, what's your last last Uh?
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: I don't know you. You you have to know your personnel, right,
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: you know, you have to know what you're dealing with
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: or who you're dealing with in a relationship. And I
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: just feel like, if this is something your partner is
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: not comfortable with, and it's a boyfriend, may husband, whatever,
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: and this is something you don't think should be your
• 59:19
  Speaker 1: problem in your relationship, then you might have to evaluate
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: your whole shit because I am and I say this often.
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: If I'm on a plane sitting next to a man,
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: right and we are talking about random shit, and I
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: realized we got all these things in common. Maybe he
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: has some resources that I might need for a thing.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not not going to get his number because of
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: my significant other. I'm not New friends get your places.
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: Old friends can't. Sometimes. So if I spend my I'm
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: married to you, I'm with you. So that means I
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: cut myself off from learning new things you can't teach me.
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: And I think that's another thing. Men don't like other
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: people teaching a woman shit either, Like that's the problem
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: I remember when I was doing the stock's last last.
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  Speaker 1: Oh ship, that's how.
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  Speaker 4: You last last last?
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 2: Sorry, we gotta do. No you were doing that was good?
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 2: No God, because now I feel it.
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: Your last last. Don't do what you want to do
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: then feel bad about it. No, I just I didn't
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  Speaker 1: know what.
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 3: I didn't know you would be.
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm just sucking aund I go ahead and
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: give your last. Okay, that's my last last. Just if
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: you were in a relationship with me, don't do some ship.
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 1: I don't I wouldn't do. Don't do ship you wouldn't
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 1: want me doing.
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 3: That's just you know my last.
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 2: My last last is just you gotta If y'all don't
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 2: have trust in your relationship needs to dissolve anywhere or
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 2: you need to work on it.
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 4: Last last, for sure, mine is do better about creating
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 4: boundaries about who is your actual friend?
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 3: Good one, good one?
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: Good one? Co host?
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  Speaker 4: Bitch?
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: She is a Today subco is she not?
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 3: She again?
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  Speaker 4: Assistant?
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: She was a guest co host?
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 4: You are.
• 1:01:11
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  Speaker 4: Oh well, yes, I don't. I don't even think we did.
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