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You’re More Attractive Than You Think: 8 Insecurities That People Secretly Love · A Capture Deep Vibs A Positive Space For Inspiration And Embracing Of Heart

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  Speaker 1: Hey, Psych2Goers, welcome back to another video. Before we start,
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  Speaker 1: we would like to thank you all for the support
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  Speaker 1: that you've given us. As you know, Psych2Go' s mission is
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  Speaker 1: and you help us do that, so thank you. Now,
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  Speaker 1: back to the video. How attractive do you think you
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  Speaker 1: seem to other people? Are you insecure about certain parts
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  Speaker 1: of yourself? Everyone has their own insecurities about themselves and
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  Speaker 1: may fear how it may come off for other people,
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  Speaker 1: but you never know. Those very same qualities in yourself
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  Speaker 1: that you're insecure about are traits that some people may
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  Speaker 1: actually appreciate and find attractive. While there's certainly some truth
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  Speaker 1: in the saying, no one can know you better than
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  Speaker 1: you know yourself, when it comes to attractiveness, sometimes we
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  Speaker 1: just can't tell because we're so hard on ourselves. To
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  Speaker 1: help you with that, here are eight flaws that actually
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  Speaker 1: make you more attractive. Number one, you're shy. Do you
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  Speaker 1: speak in a soft voice but prefer to keep quiet
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  Speaker 1: most of the time? Are you the type to duck
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  Speaker 1: your head or fidget when people look at you? While
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  Speaker 1: you may have a hard time believing this, there are
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  Speaker 1: actually a lot of people out there who find shyness
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  Speaker 1: an attractive trait to have. In a world where sociable, talkative,
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  Speaker 1: take charge types of people are all clamoring to be
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  Speaker 1: the center of attention, there may be something refreshing about
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  Speaker 1: being with someone who likes to listen more than they
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  Speaker 1: like to talk. After all, shy people are often seen
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  Speaker 1: as more mysterious, intriguing, and down to earth compared to others.
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  Speaker 1: Number two, you're clumsy. Another trait that some find surprisingly
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  Speaker 1: attractive is clumsiness. In fact, psychology says that men in
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  Speaker 1: particular tend to find clumsiness in women to be attractive,
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  Speaker 1: not only because it makes them seem more genuine, youthful,
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  Speaker 1: and excitable, but also because it makes them feel needed.
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  Speaker 1: Clumsiness also makes people feel compelled to approach you and
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  Speaker 1: to help you out when you're in a rut. Number three,
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  Speaker 1: you're easily embarrassed. Do you often get flustered when people
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  Speaker 1: tease you or get embarrassed when your friends poke fun
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  Speaker 1: at you for something? Do you tend to blush, squeal,
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  Speaker 1: or cover your face when this happens? While this may
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  Speaker 1: seem like a flaw to some people, being easily embarrassed
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  Speaker 1: is quite an attractive trait to others, especially to men.
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  Speaker 1: Similar to the previous point, people who are easily embarrassed
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  Speaker 1: seem more genuine because they don't try to hide their
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  Speaker 1: true feelings. Number four, you're nerdy. Those who get called
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  Speaker 1: nerds or geeks often get a bad reputation for loving
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  Speaker 1: something deeply. But what's so wrong with that? whether it's
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  Speaker 1: comic books, anime, video games, Broadway musicals, or some other
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  Speaker 1: obscure interest not a lot of people can relate to.
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  Speaker 1: Being a nerd isn't something you should be ashamed of.
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  Speaker 1: In fact, there are some who find nerds attractive for
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  Speaker 1: the very same reasons they're criticized for. They're driven, excited,
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  Speaker 1: and most of all passionate about the things they enjoy.
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  Speaker 1: Number five, you're too honest. Do you always say what
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  Speaker 1: you mean? To those who are tired of listening to
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  Speaker 1: everyone telling them what they want to hear, it can
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  Speaker 1: be nice to have someone who always tells the truth,
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  Speaker 1: no matter what. Being honest can be a very attractive
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  Speaker 1: trait because it means that you're not going to waste
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  Speaker 1: their time by beating around the bush or by playing
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  Speaker 1: mind games with them. Despite how difficult it may be,
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  Speaker 1: you are able to just come out and say what
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  Speaker 1: they need to hear. Number six, you're an oversharer. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: I shouldn't have said that, sorry. I've been talking and
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  Speaker 1: sharing so much. Does this sound like you? Well, the
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  Speaker 1: good news is, one of the silver linings to being
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  Speaker 1: an overshare is that it makes you seem more sincere
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  Speaker 1: and approachable. While some may prefer a mystery, there are
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  Speaker 1: those who like it when someone is an open book.
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  Speaker 1: This may be because your openness creates a comfortable environment
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  Speaker 1: for them to open up and to share things about
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  Speaker 1: themselves they don't usually share. It makes it easier for
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  Speaker 1: them to develop closeness and intimacy in a relationship. Number seven,
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  Speaker 1: You take things slow. Do you always take a long
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  Speaker 1: time making decisions because you tend to overthink things and
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  Speaker 1: focus on all the details? Do you always have a
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  Speaker 1: lot going on in your mind? You're probably a deep
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  Speaker 1: thinker and the type who likes to observe the situation
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  Speaker 1: before forming an opinion. Unlike those who are always craving
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  Speaker 1: excitement or chasing one thrill after the other in their lives,
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  Speaker 1: you appreciate and savor the peace and quiet in your
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  Speaker 1: life and prefer to take your time with things. And
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  Speaker 1: to people who feel the same way, this can be
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  Speaker 1: a very appealing quality to have. And number eight, you
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  Speaker 1: crave support. As humans, it's normal to crave affection from others.
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  Speaker 1: Though it's true that sometimes people who openly desire warmth, sympathy,
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  Speaker 1: and encouragement from others can be a bit off-putting at times,
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  Speaker 1: especially when they seem too needy or desperate. There is
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  Speaker 1: something nice about being with someone who makes you feel needed.
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  Speaker 1: Whether it's kind words, sweet gestures, thoughtful gifts, or simply
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  Speaker 1: time and attention, having a partner who wants and asks
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  Speaker 1: for support can be a very attractive quality. Did you
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