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Bachelor Girl's Night with Rachel Recchia, Michelle Young and Caelynn Miller-Keyes · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast
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  Speaker 1: with our radio. Hello, welcome to a midweek almost name
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  Speaker 1: as podcast. It's gonna be a girl talk podcast because
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  Speaker 1: I got Michelle Young and Rachel. I'm gonna say your
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  Speaker 1: last name, right, Reia, She's right. We also have Klin
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  Speaker 1: soon to be Bell, Caitlin Bell coming on the podcast,
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  Speaker 1: so it'll be all of us with Kleen's going to
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  Speaker 1: enter in a little bit because you know what, she's
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  Speaker 1: watching the sunset with her fiance, which is so cute.
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  Speaker 1: I never felt so single. We watched the sunset? We did?
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  Speaker 1: You guys actually watched the sunset tonight with your ex,
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  Speaker 1: your mutual ex, quite did, and he took a video
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  Speaker 1: of us, a really good video, so you know, at
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  Speaker 1: least we have that. You know, Rachel, isn't weird that
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  Speaker 1: you are just hanging out this week with somebody that
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  Speaker 1: you said I love you too, and he said I
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  Speaker 1: love you back. I don't know, like, going into this weekend,
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  Speaker 1: I think I had no idea what to expect. I
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  Speaker 1: think we knew we were going to kind of be civil,
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  Speaker 1: but we were able to really actually have good conversation
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  Speaker 1: and talk everything through his adults and having both been
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  Speaker 1: through our own seasons, it's been really nice to see
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  Speaker 1: him as a friend now, and Michelle has been there
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  Speaker 1: to watch it. I know I've been by I've been
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  Speaker 1: by myself this weekend and I finally got my I
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  Speaker 1: finally got my best fie back because they talked through
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  Speaker 1: everything that they need to talk about, which they didn't
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  Speaker 1: need to talk now, and I did back. So if
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  Speaker 1: somebody amongst the two of you we're to get to
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  Speaker 1: get question more likely to be Rachel. I mean, she's giggling.
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  Speaker 1: My name is out of the question. I'm not even
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  Speaker 1: in the running. I don't even know if Michelle knew
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  Speaker 1: who clean was ever being honest, I'm not gonna lie.
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  Speaker 1: I Clayton and I joke about this and he knew
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  Speaker 1: that I was going to talk about this or mentioned this.
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  Speaker 1: But like you, when you go through the show, do
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  Speaker 1: you do like you? Some people fall behind and Clayton
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  Speaker 1: I really didn't know too much about and I was
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  Speaker 1: not very chipper at that point in Minnesota with going
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  Speaker 1: on a date with him. I was really really tired.
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  Speaker 1: You were tired, and I wanted to send him home
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  Speaker 1: much through the date. Then I was allowed, Okay, okay,
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  Speaker 1: and he knows this. Now, why do you think that
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  Speaker 1: they wanted him to be the Bachelor? Did you find
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  Speaker 1: it to be a weird choice when he was announced? Um, honestly,
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  Speaker 1: I feel like I was still very much in enjoying
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  Speaker 1: at that time, just like the relationship that I was in,
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  Speaker 1: and so I was happy for him, but I didn't
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  Speaker 1: know much about him. And it kind of always gets
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  Speaker 1: pinned on them, like it's like timing, right, because like
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  Speaker 1: a season, the roll over the season's comes so fast,
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  Speaker 1: and so they're like, well, Michelle, everyone else was in Mexico,
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  Speaker 1: so even if yeah, yeah, so I don't know it
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  Speaker 1: all works out, how it works out, but yeah, she
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  Speaker 1: was a little lose price. I just yeah, I was surprised,
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  Speaker 1: like we were like going into it originally that was
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  Speaker 1: never who we not that we like I thought anything,
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  Speaker 1: but you know, there were the obvious front runners, and
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  Speaker 1: like Katie season, Michelle's season hadn't even aired yet, so
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  Speaker 1: when we got the announcement, we didn't even see Michelle's
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  Speaker 1: Night one, so that was us all meeting him for
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  Speaker 1: the first time too. And it's just like I think
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  Speaker 1: people who watch The Bachelor and know that it's typically
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  Speaker 1: one of like somebody in the top four or just
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  Speaker 1: somebody who makes it further along unless they pull another
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  Speaker 1: like Matt James situation where they just like pull you
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  Speaker 1: out of the casting and making the next Bachelor that
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  Speaker 1: didn't really work out. For a lot of that doesn't
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  Speaker 1: really happen. Yeah, So yeah, okay, I can never you
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  Speaker 1: can never fully predict anything in this Branches. Well, I'm
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  Speaker 1: glad that you guys are all cool with Clayton and
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  Speaker 1: that you can hang out as exes together. Now, Rachel,
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  Speaker 1: we had when one of your ex is maybe I
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  Speaker 1: guess you and Zach would you consider yourself being more
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  Speaker 1: serious with Clayton or being more serious with Zach. I
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  Speaker 1: just from my viewing point of view, I would imagine
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  Speaker 1: it was Clayton, since you exchanged I love you, I
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  Speaker 1: would say Clayin Yeah, I mean not only that, but
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  Speaker 1: he met my family. I met his family vice versa,
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  Speaker 1: where Zach I only met his family and I never
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  Speaker 1: did get to that point with him. So yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: would say probably Clayton. So I would say it's intense
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  Speaker 1: feelings for different reasons. Oh really, okay, So what's the
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  Speaker 1: intense feeling for Zach? Then I think me and Zach
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  Speaker 1: had a really great relationship in the beginning. He was
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  Speaker 1: someone where he really made me realize this process does work,
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  Speaker 1: because it's very hard in the beginning, and I remember
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  Speaker 1: thinking like, maybe my person just isn't here, like I
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  Speaker 1: don't know, and he really changed that for me. So
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  Speaker 1: I think that was Zack's really big role on My
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  Speaker 1: Journey season in that way. But then feelings for other
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  Speaker 1: people I think did start kind of surpassing him a
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  Speaker 1: little bit. So when he was on the podcast, he
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  Speaker 1: seemed to still be a little spicy towards whatever happened
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  Speaker 1: in the Fantasies week with you. How did you react
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  Speaker 1: to that? Did you hear it? It has? He said
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  Speaker 1: it in multiple places? I don't know. Yeah, I mean,
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  Speaker 1: I'm actually shocked at kind of the things I have heard,
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  Speaker 1: not only what I heard on your podcast and mainly that,
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  Speaker 1: but even when I heard Night one all this talk
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  Speaker 1: about I want someone who's authentic on and off camera,
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  Speaker 1: as if me choosing or feeling stronger feelings for other
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  Speaker 1: people somehow made me not authentic, or if us not
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  Speaker 1: aligning on certain important views makes him wrong. It's just
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  Speaker 1: really honestly shocking to hear him still kind of paint
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  Speaker 1: me in this really negative light where I thought at
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  Speaker 1: our after the Final Roads, we kind of did make up.
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  Speaker 1: A lot of fans speculate that you had, like you
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  Speaker 1: found out some huge lifestyle difference or political difference in
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  Speaker 1: the Fantasy Suite. Is that true at all? I mean,
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  Speaker 1: I think we definitely talked about what a life would
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  Speaker 1: look like, how we would raise kids, and I think
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  Speaker 1: those conversations do come up. I mean, Michelle, you know,
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  Speaker 1: you start asking those really important questions off camera, and
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  Speaker 1: we I mean there were things we didn't align with.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm not saying that me and Tino and me
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  Speaker 1: and even aligned on everything, but our views. I think
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  Speaker 1: the way we wanted to raise families and the way
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  Speaker 1: we wanted to live life just aligned better, if that
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  Speaker 1: makes sense. When we interviewed Zack about two weeks ago,
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  Speaker 1: I heard some fan feedback that was definitely siding with you,
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  Speaker 1: being like, of course she asked tough questions. Of course,
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  Speaker 1: it's going to feel like an interview in there, because
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  Speaker 1: there's so much you guys haven't covered before you're supposed
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  Speaker 1: to get into an engagement situation. So what's your response
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  Speaker 1: to that? I mean, I think absolutely if you were
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  Speaker 1: going into the fantasy suite anywhere not asking those hard
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  Speaker 1: questions and what are you even doing? This is an
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  Speaker 1: engagement and this is serious and we've talked about it.
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  Speaker 1: I think maybe with Zach's situation, it felt maybe more
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  Speaker 1: like an interview because we have these amazing dates and
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  Speaker 1: then behind camera, I think we both just realized these
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  Speaker 1: amazing dates we were on maybe like that's where it
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  Speaker 1: was coming from. And then when it comes down to it,
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  Speaker 1: do we really align like can we really see this life?
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  Speaker 1: And I thought we were both on the same page
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  Speaker 1: of like maybe we're not, like maybe this isn't kind
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  Speaker 1: of gonna work. And I mean did we say that
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  Speaker 1: out loud? No, because I think Zach did deserve every
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  Speaker 1: single second he got off camera because we did have
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  Speaker 1: an incredible relationship and I did want to give him
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  Speaker 1: that time. It really didn't matter what I was feeling
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  Speaker 1: before that. But yeah, it kind of solid if at
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  Speaker 1: it for me. I think from like also like just
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  Speaker 1: even like a friend perspective, and yeah, it's a outside
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  Speaker 1: perspective and it's like a biased one, right, but like
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  Speaker 1: when you go into fantasy sweets, you do ask questions
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  Speaker 1: that you typically you're you're on this romantic date. You
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  Speaker 1: you do your everything's lovey dovey, But in relationship, everything
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  Speaker 1: is not always love You debby, like, you have to
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  Speaker 1: talk about finances. That's a hard conversation you have to
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  Speaker 1: talk about you actually ask the guys in your fantasy
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  Speaker 1: sweets about their credit score. I don't because I think, no,
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  Speaker 1: not me personally, not me personally, But like we have
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  Speaker 1: I've talked with the previous bachelorrets with just how in
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  Speaker 1: depth they get talking about sounds yes, um and and
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  Speaker 1: honestly rightfully. So you you talk about politics, you talk
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  Speaker 1: about all these other things and kind of like the
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  Speaker 1: not as cute side of relationships. You're going into an engagement,
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  Speaker 1: you're really trying to figure out how to spend the
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  Speaker 1: rest of your life with each other and every but
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  Speaker 1: he really prioritizes and like romanticizes vulnerability. Sometimes vulnerability is
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  Speaker 1: not crying and opening up your heart. Sometimes vulnerability is
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  Speaker 1: really being like, hey, look like these things are really
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  Speaker 1: important to me. And I think with my issue with
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  Speaker 1: what has kind of how it's been presented forward is
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  Speaker 1: the fact that it's okay that two people don't align
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  Speaker 1: with politics with you know, we saw that in Tassia's
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  Speaker 1: Tastia season with everything kind of moving with her and Ivan. Right,
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  Speaker 1: people are not going to always line up on politics,
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  Speaker 1: on religion and all these different things. But just because
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  Speaker 1: you don't like how somebody aligns doesn't make them a fraud,
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  Speaker 1: and doesn't you don't moving forward and using your platform
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  Speaker 1: and the spot the current spotlight to imply that they're
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  Speaker 1: a fraud, that they're not realistic, that they're not It's like, no,
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  Speaker 1: we we had to really break down, like you guys
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  Speaker 1: really had to break down and talk about those things.
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  Speaker 1: And it goes both ways. And so I think from
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  Speaker 1: an outside perspective, I've had just like an issue with
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  Speaker 1: just think what's being implied right, It's it's it's like
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  Speaker 1: as a character deficit when in reality it's like an
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  Speaker 1: un alignment. But you know, that's a great point, Rachel.
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  Speaker 1: Do you feel like there's a specific thing that Zach
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  Speaker 1: is that like if you had to like say it
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  Speaker 1: in a sentence or two, that he keeps repeating that
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  Speaker 1: is particularly bothers him. I mean, I think for me,
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  Speaker 1: it's just mainly him saying that I'm a different person
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  Speaker 1: off camera, that I'm inauthentic that this was acting. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: it very obviously wasn't. People watched me time after time
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  Speaker 1: send people home on the spot when I knew it
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  Speaker 1: wasn't right. And I genuinely cared about Zack so much
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  Speaker 1: that I wanted to give him this time and I
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  Speaker 1: wanted to see if we can align. And like Michelle said,
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  Speaker 1: these dates are fun and they're cute, and you're the
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  Speaker 1: bachelorette and you're having fun, and when you get behind
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  Speaker 1: closed doories, you're like, okay, let's honestly have a conversation.
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  Speaker 1: And so because it didn't go his way, the fact
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  Speaker 1: that I mean, even after an apology, it's still being
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  Speaker 1: painted like this, it just really is so hurtful. So
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  Speaker 1: that's kind of my main It's just frustrating, Like it's
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  Speaker 1: not even a female perspective, right, but like it is frustrating.
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  Speaker 1: People walk into fantasy suits expecting intimacy a lot of times,
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  Speaker 1: and it's presented that way a lot of times, and
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  Speaker 1: like dos, like you can't walk in and just expect like, okay,
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  Speaker 1: physical you know, an issue like physical contact has to
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  Speaker 1: take place or should take place, or like all these
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  Speaker 1: different things. Like I think that's an expectation that I
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  Speaker 1: definitely saw even too when when people are just walking
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  Speaker 1: into these situations and it's like no, like just because
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  Speaker 1: you made it to this point doesn't mean you're granted anything,
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  Speaker 1: access to anything, and like, yeah, well, because we truly
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  Speaker 1: use the fantasy suites for like would I think that
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  Speaker 1: says it all right, makes its wonder because we do
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  Speaker 1: truly use the fantasy suitets more I think than for
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  Speaker 1: anything intimate conversation exactly should we have some other portion
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  Speaker 1: of the show that is you know, it becomes a
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  Speaker 1: normal part of the process where it's like and this
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  Speaker 1: is the room in which we talk about serious things
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  Speaker 1: that we don't feel comfortable TV and there's no sexual
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  Speaker 1: expectations and there are there no cameras, and like that,
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  Speaker 1: should we should we be showing these conversations more or
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  Speaker 1: should we have the lead and like their for their
• 12:34
  Speaker 1: first couple of top picks, yes, be able to have
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  Speaker 1: a place where they can have these conversations off camera.
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  Speaker 1: I think that is a rip off, like the sex
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  Speaker 1: part of it, because then that means when you go
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  Speaker 1: to the fantasy sweets and that is part of it,
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  Speaker 1: it's like you as a couple in life have to
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  Speaker 1: decide what you're prioritizing, like do you like like some
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  Speaker 1: people valance, some people really want to seek out the
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  Speaker 1: physical intimacy, which is that's not a wrong thing, and
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  Speaker 1: that's what they go for. But it's like how you
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  Speaker 1: use your time, like that's how we you know, present
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  Speaker 1: it and having having political conversations on TV. You just
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  Speaker 1: don't want to good luck religious? How do you want
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  Speaker 1: to raise kids? Like you you guys know you really
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  Speaker 1: that is the time where you have to do it.
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  Speaker 1: And like, going off of what you said to I think,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, it would be amazing if you could have
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  Speaker 1: that full night and then maybe have one conversation off
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  Speaker 1: camera before an engagement, because I think that was something
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  Speaker 1: I could have benefited from just in my even situation
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  Speaker 1: where if maybe we were off camera for ten minutes,
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  Speaker 1: I think he could have maybe gotten across to me
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  Speaker 1: a little bit more like just looking back at things
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  Speaker 1: like that, I don't know, I think it could have
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  Speaker 1: been helpful. It's definitely one of the hugest reasons as
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  Speaker 1: to why I think paradise couples are more successful is
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  Speaker 1: because we really don't have to seek out that private
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  Speaker 1: time you're you have it like there's rooms that you
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  Speaker 1: can go into and the camera is not going to
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  Speaker 1: follow you, so intenlee and you have multiple like you
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  Speaker 1: can you can make your own fantasy suite. You can
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  Speaker 1: have those conversations and they probably won't get aired. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's like I think that it's almost I'm curious, like
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  Speaker 1: when moving forward, if it will ever if the show
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  Speaker 1: will ever become less restrictive, because there is this you
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  Speaker 1: hear people like sneaking out of there, um you know,
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  Speaker 1: even like mid filming or whatever, sneaking out of their
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  Speaker 1: rooms to go see the other person or just just
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  Speaker 1: different things happening, and it's like it would be so
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  Speaker 1: I'd be so curious if they would start to allow
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  Speaker 1: those conversations to take place, because at the end, it's
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  Speaker 1: not so much of a gamble, like you do you
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  Speaker 1: want this beautiful love story that you've been amping up
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  Speaker 1: this entire time, and this balance of drama and excitement
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  Speaker 1: of we don't know what's gonna happen, and she's gonna
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  Speaker 1: she's torn between two people or he's torn between two people,
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  Speaker 1: and then they choose one and then it's like it's
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  Speaker 1: still truly like a gamble because it's like you're not
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  Speaker 1: allowed that extra time, So it's like, why why not
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  Speaker 1: compromise a little bit more so then we can have
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  Speaker 1: more successful relationships and like support those ships. Yeah, how
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  Speaker 1: much time do we have and support and support the
• 15:07
  Speaker 1: successful relationships? You know, like yeah, help them flourish. Because
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  Speaker 1: if you do look at the success right of Paradise
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  Speaker 1: versus the main show, it's maybe they should take note
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  Speaker 1: and be like, maybe we need to allow a little
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  Speaker 1: bit more like fluidity in the main show so that
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  Speaker 1: these people can actually get to know each other better,
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  Speaker 1: Like so that like, the more successful couples, the more
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  Speaker 1: people are going to be bound to continue to watch
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: the show. Like take a look at what is the
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: last successful couple of Bachelor that rael, you know, Like,
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  Speaker 1: but I'm like talking about like engagement successful because they
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  Speaker 1: broke up and they got back together. Okay, so the
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: whole premise of the show is like you get there
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  Speaker 1: and you get engaged, and you live happily ever after.
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  Speaker 1: So it's racially it's chel So that's like five to
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  Speaker 1: six years, multiple season. And I will also say this,
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  Speaker 1: what's super interesting about their relationship is that they really
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  Speaker 1: do work to kind of almost keep each other off
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  Speaker 1: so social media in a healthy way to protect each other.
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  Speaker 1: Like that's one thing that I is so interesting, but like,
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  Speaker 1: it would be so nice to see a couple who
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  Speaker 1: doesn't have to like like, of course you're always going
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  Speaker 1: to protect your significant other, but like you don't have to.
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  Speaker 1: You can share which you want to share, and don't
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  Speaker 1: let you don't and it's not like you have like
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  Speaker 1: people licking their chops out for you, Rachel. I want
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  Speaker 1: to go back to his actors for one more second.
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  Speaker 1: There's so many girls, you know, around our age dating
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  Speaker 1: and there's this thing that we like to call the ick.
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  Speaker 1: I used to call it being grossed out because I
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  Speaker 1: used to always be like, oh, I want a couple
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  Speaker 1: of days, and I'm like he's nice, he's get on paper,
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  Speaker 1: but likes me out. But whatever. Gen Z has kind
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  Speaker 1: of made the word the ick, so we'll continue with that.
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  Speaker 1: Lots of fans think that you got the ick from
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  Speaker 1: him in the Fantasy Suite and you just couldn't hide it,
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  Speaker 1: and he was like, oh, get this guy out of here.
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  Speaker 1: Just kind of like dawned on you and you just couldn't,
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  Speaker 1: you know, you couldn't even keep a smiley face around him,
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  Speaker 1: was there a little bit of that? I truly like,
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  Speaker 1: do really like Zack. I think he's a great guy.
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  Speaker 1: I think by the time my fantasy suits came around,
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  Speaker 1: my feelings for Even and Tino were just so much higher.
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  Speaker 1: That is which unfortunate for Zach and unfortunate for any
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  Speaker 1: of those guys, because girls get it for from very nice,
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  Speaker 1: gentlemanly men and like guys who are kind and respectful
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  Speaker 1: and all that. But it's just like, but you're not him,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I mean, you're just on that conversation the
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  Speaker 1: morning after. It wasn't that bad. It's just especially really
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: comparing a guy to like somebody body in your past
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: or somebody you wish you could be with, and that's
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: what was happening. But you also can get the ick
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: from like the I can still grow, especially once it
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: can grow like let me like, once you tell them
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: no and then the way respond it can grow then't
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: respond in like a kind way? Who are you referring to? Oh?
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: Manout my question? I have a question for you too, though.
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: Once you start to get the yeah, does it ever
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: go away? Refers itself? Can you personally come back from it? Never? Ever?
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: I know some people who can get past it? Wow,
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: that's delusion, that's like a real that's desperation too. I
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: feel like that's like somebody really wanting to be with someone.
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: Do you think you can get pastick? Hell no? When
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: I once I get the egg, like, I will do
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: anything to get out of that situation. Yeah, nope, I'm gone.
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: Was there that happened to dear season? Did you ever
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: get the egg on a one on one? Um? What
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: about that guy? Was? So it was yours, the gross guy,
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: the one that you went on the cliff with, Oh, Jamie, Yes, okay,
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: so okay, so so but here's the thing though I
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: didn't I didn't actually learn about how nasty and like
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna say it, narcissistic this person was because you
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: were only like you only spent such a small amount
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: of time with that. And I see my person as
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: like I'm good at reading people, but also when they're
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: only in front of your face. Yeah, our our first
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: one on one. We're both getting our first one on
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: one date. Legs underneath us, me as a lead him,
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: Like there's a lot going on where in the hundred
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: degrees on trying to freaking climb up this wall? Um,
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: or this rock formation, and so it's like I didn't
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: really peep it out there at all. And then there
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: was one moment where I actually got pulled aside and
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: I was told what was going on, um, and that
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: right there when I sat down in the conversation and
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: when I addressed it to him, and the way he
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: handled it, that right there, like he showed him or
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: showed who, like what kind of person he was for me.
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: I will yeah, I got the ick. But like, especially
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: when we're sitting there, all the cameras around us, I'm like,
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: I'm just gonna let your two colors shows, Like you
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: keep running around in circles, you keep calling me names.
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: There's a lot of things, of course that we're not
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: shown or anything like that. There's just a lot of
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: lies and deceitfulness. Um. But when you have like the
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: cameras on your side, I'm like, do yourself a whole
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: keep going whatever. But that that's not really the ick.
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: That's like the you're not even disappointed. I'm just more
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: like boy By, Like boy By, like you just don't
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: deserve any time or energy or like treat women that way.
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: So that's not even I see it as like for
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: no reason. Sometimes for no reason. Ok yeah, yeah, that's
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: probably what the definition is. It's like a poor guy's
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: things and give me out of here. They're like, I
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: don't think that guys experienced this feeling. I think they
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: have no idea why the head intuition at the end
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: of the day, it's like a women like women have intuition,
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: and like maybe we just like no, deep down, like
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: they're not the one and that's like the feeling and
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: they don't listen to that, Like I don't even think
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: they have that capacity. Maybe they don't because I feel
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: like they're thinking about the physical intimacy or touched more
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: than a lot of guys are. You know. Yeah, I
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: think the hormones and the testosterone and stuff gets in
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: the way. Okay, So like even like speaking of X, right,
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: I feel like we prioritize or like level the types
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: of X. So I have a would you rather so
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: you said? You said a spray Tan or Kalin you've
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: been talking about like Cain has entered the room, fool.
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: Caitlin is entered the room and we're going to play
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: this game with her now, so welcome her. And Okay,
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: so caitl and you mentioned that like, what gives you
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: the I is that if like men get regular spray
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: chance does any okay? My okay? So would you rather
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: date somebody who regularly gets spray chans regularly or who
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: has chronic bad breath? Spray tans are touching chronic bad breath. Also,
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: I don't think it comes from something that they do
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: necessarily as much as it is just like a vibe
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: that you get from them. It's almost overly friendliness. But
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: I'm like, but just like I'm not sure about you,
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: but you don't like over friendliness. I don't want somebody
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: to be overly this is me is a single like
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: me in a single mind. I don't want people to
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: be like overly excited around me and friendly around me,
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: like eager to get to know somebody shared. Are you listening?
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: I guess it comes back to the fact that I
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: do like hard to get to a certain wanting what
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: you can't have. Probably I love the chase and me
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: and Jeney've actually talked about this and like, if a
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: guy is playing games with me, like, oh, this is
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: like fun, you guys, why do you want to play games?
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: Like this isn't fun? Like no, I like it I
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: like it when he's like keeping me on my toes.
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: My sister. My sister secretly like she not so secretly
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: wants her fiance to just not text her back sometimes
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: so that she can she'll be freaked out and worried
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: that he's going to leave because that hard to get
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: is like what she wants. You're you're married and you
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: still like the chase or no, now it's different. No,
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: now it's totally different. I'm just trying to put myself
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: back in the day. If a guy was like making
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: some extreme icounts, say it's a second day, okay, and
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: he is showing so much interest in me, body language,
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: icon tacked, everything is just like I want to get
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: to know you. I want to touch your hand, you know,
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: put my hand on the smell of your back. If
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: he's doing that and I am not sold on him,
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: I'll be like I feel like that's true though, because
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: because show, like I think the guys were feel slower
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: to open up, Like I was more like, oh what
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: are what you know? What are they about? Even he
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: was like more slow And there were guys like immediately
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: were like I like you, like you don't even know me,
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: Like you just you just met me, and I don't
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: know I get you. I see you want to I
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: want to feel like I'm winning the affection. Also, it's
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: funny coming from you because like that's how you dared
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: were yea and more like happen happen is not gonna happen. Okay,
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: But I feel like you guys are describing like almost
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: like two different types of the chase, Like would you
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: prefer to chase somebody who's playing hard to get or
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: would you prefer to be the person since playing hard
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: to get and feel that someone's chasing you. I see,
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: that's that's that's my problem. I wish that I want
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: that I liked the feeling of being chased, but I don't. Yeah,
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: I didn't think I'm wired to be the chaser. However,
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: none of the guys in my life that I really
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: really liked them more interested in They all liked me
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: to a certain degree back, like they'd hang out with me,
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: they'd make out with me, blah blah blah, but like
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: nobody would ever be like I want to be my girlfriend, right,
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: So like that would make me want them way more
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: and okay, okay, wait, wait, okay, So how hard do
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: you chase because if you remember, you said you get
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: the IG from somebody who's like, hi, I know that
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: person to them, Yes, problem, I know. I don't take
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: my own advice advice, but I would also try to, Like,
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: I think the only time I was very much not
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: cool was with Jared, where it was just like I
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: guess that was like the only situation like that. I think.
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: Otherwise I was a little bit more subdude, but also like,
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: you know, you always think you're cool and sub dude
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: until you go back and you read your diary or
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: you have to watch yourself. I always like, I never
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: thought I was like that bad, and then I'm watching
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: myself and I'm like, who are you? You're scared. I
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: wouldn't want to be with you. It's the same thing
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: I came back from the Bachelor. My parents were like, so,
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: how are you going to be? And I was like, you, guys,
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be so cool. I'm so proud of myself.
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: And then I watched myself back and it was like
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: that craziness. Oh my god, that's we'll give me another
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: all other would you rather either or okay, wait does
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: anyone else? What do you guys? What is your take. Well,
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: I know it's like a little bit different because we're
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: all in the bachelor world and we all are on
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: social media, But what is your take on a guy
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: who was like obsessed with so media and it's like
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: constantly posting, constantly like worried about things, Like what's your
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: take on that. I want the guy to be into
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: it to a certain extent, but only be on it,
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: but not obsessed or very interested. But if he's not
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: on it, doesn't that almost kind of raise a red flag,
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: like what are you hiding? Do you have another girlfriend?
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: Because my sister always goes cheaters don't have Instagram. I mean, yeah,
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: well I'm with Dean and it's like he's on it,
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: but he doesn't post and he hates posting, and I
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: think that's like the perfect thing for me, Like he
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: hates being in the scene and he hates like all
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: the things that we do to get money, and I
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: kind of like it, like it doesn't pay the bills,
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: but it's nice. Like the opposite would be so much worse,
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: Like a guy that is just so obsessed with TikTok's
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: and views and engagement. If you're like person was into
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: making TikTok's like your guy and like he was so
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: excited to double over some trending audio. That's me, Okay,
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: I want somebody. I want somebody who will literally I
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: want somebody who will have fun and like you know
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: those couples that you see the couples on TikTok to
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: in the dance trends and doing things together and having
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: fun together like TikTok. And actually I love TikTok more
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: than Instagram because it's just so much less pressure pressure.
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: I feel like it's less harsh on your mental health.
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: But like someone who will make content with you, have fun,
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: not be so not be miserable doing and if you are,
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: that's totally fine. I don't it's miserable doingthing are but
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: like this is kind of part of our life right
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: now anyways, and so it's like let's just like embrace it.
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: And so I don't know, it would be nice having
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: someone that would be like, yeah, let's jump on board
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: and do this fun dance TikTok because it's actually becomes
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: less about the video in the TikTok and more about
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: the fun time. Because when we're actually filming TikTok's and
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: like do we whether it's a dance chand whether it's
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: a dog, whether it's or whatever, like it's actually you
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: end up laughing because then she just brought up like
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: another thing like when Jared and I make like our
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: silly skits, like we did one for like we did
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: a Gremlins one for Halloween and a Batman one for Halloween,
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: and he loves editing them and they're just they are
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: really fun to get our creative juices and just something
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: fun to do. But I guess that's just consumed. If
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: you become consumed with the likes that we have to
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: do this, we have to do it this time. Oh
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: we haven't posted in this many days. Like that's where
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: it becomes intense, and like when it goes beyond a
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: creative project. Yeah, sometimes I'll just see something that they
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: post and I'm like, you had to set your phone up. Okay, okay,
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: shirtless pictures also, like I'm sorry, but the the guys,
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: the new guys on these these seasons, like yeah, like
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: the guys that were on your season, like Rachel know,
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: like and I've been telling you this a bunch, Like
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: the guys that they're casting now are so different from
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: the guys like the Deans, the Jared's because social media
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: wasn't a thing. So now these new guys are having
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: professional photo shoots and the TikTok's they're creating, and like
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: again setting up the phone, like you really thought this out.
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: And I know I'm being judgmental right now, but I'm like,
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: I'm just I'm just being a little judge. I don't
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: like it. It isn't it. And I will say from
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: somebody who like just even he and I have talked
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: about this, Rach, but like when you go through public
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: breakups and then they have social media, and especially with TikTok,
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: now where you like there's like storytelling, there's all these
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: other avenue or things that come out. It's like, shit,
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: I didn't know that you believed. I don't know how
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: you believe in certain things because that's not what I
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: was told, which is totally fine, but it's like, damn okay,
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: like ship, you're not even like there's so many different
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: things that you learned about somebody that I'm like, you
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: told me the exact opposite, which is no, we're going
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: to go tear up its Instagram and TikTok. After that,
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: it's not even him. I'm not I'm gonna say I
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: want I won't even name drop, but like it's just
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: like it's really funny watching these things because it's like, Yo,
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: why did you tell me things I could get opposite?
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: Or like wait, what do you believe in this? And
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: not this? Wait? You made fun of this? But then
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: like it's just so weird, like sit there and process,
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: like I don't know any of these people that walk
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: on the show because so many people to my point,
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: it's not even about like an X, but like where
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: are they lying to you? Are they like lying to
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: their heart? Are you doing it for views and likes?
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: Are you doing it because people will get people talking?
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: Or you doing it because that's what you believe, Like
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: it's really confusing, and it's even more so confusing like
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: even moving forward and getting to know new people and
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: seeing their TikTok, it's just like do you take what
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: they're saying like face value, entertaining enter Like that's my
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: whole point, and it's just like it's weird. Was it
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: Michael B. Jordan's Instagram we were looking at because we
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: know I look at that all the time. That's her,
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: that's her guy? I clearly missed my chance because why
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: you're seeing a relationship is not in a relationship new one? Yeah? No,
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: are we sure? It's okay? I'll keep that out. We'll see.
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: I really know if just shoot me a text so
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: that I can slide, but we're respectful. So yes, did
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: you slide? No? You should have. I know I found
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: out too late. I respect to get Instagram slide, I
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: really do. I think Instagram is the new like dating app.
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: I think it's I think that's Ben and Jess met
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: Diana and I our relationship Iceland in like Ben and
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: Jess are married. I think you go into dating apps,
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: you could go look at their social media and then
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: you like message him after So why not just cut
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: at the middleman and send a day so so? But
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: like from somebody coming And I actually don't know who
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: to ask us because we're all in Basterlination and we're
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: at one point. But do you, like, have you ever
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: thought about what other people outside of Vasterlination think of Vasterlination?
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: Like if if a girl are the girl, if a guy,
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: if a girl or a guy like slid into your
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: d M s and they're from bastelorin nation went through
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: this whole process where it's like, yeah, I love you, engaged,
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: this is the present, there's my life with Would you
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: be like, out, yeah, that is difficult to in like
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: dating now, I think with like especially being in Michelle
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: and I's position of like having to go on these
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: dates with people who might not necessarily know the show,
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: and you just be like, oh, yeah, I was engaged,
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: but like, you know, it's okay, Like it's fine, like
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: it was three months ago, but like it's okay, it's
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: okay because I knew them for less than three I
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: only saw him three times total, but and they're just
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: what is going on? So it is kind of interesting
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: yet to your point, like what you know, we like crazy,
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: We are crazy. When you guys do get engaged for real,
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: will you consider it? Will you consider the engagement from
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: the show a real engagement or kind of like an
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: annulled engagement? Was Honestly, I'll say, I don't know even
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: I'm not going to speak for you, Rache, but like
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: for me tainted because it was like it was my
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: dream ring. It was I wanted the relationship to work.
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: I was willing to put in work for the relationship,
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: and I had the person take off and you know,
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: like that's not something that I've bluntly said because Instagram
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: and there's all these other things on you. But it's like,
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: I know what it looks like to work through relationship,
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: and I know how hard relationships can get, and but
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: both people have to be capable of doing that, and
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: so for me it was, yeah, I feel like that
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: was literally kind of stripped away from me. So it
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: pisces me off, but I also I'm like, great, I
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: can't wait to do it like for real this next time,
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: like with somebody who really, like I know, will be there.
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to figure out a different cut of
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: a ring because it happening. I will tell you, you know,
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: the stars happening, the styles, and we always decide we
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: like something else when we already have it, Like I
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: love my ring, of course, but then it's like two
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: years after my ring, a whole other style is getting popular,
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, wait, I don't want that ring to
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: find something we should all get kill. I love that
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: in my mom much less. Just keep getting new voice
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: night because it's fake rock. Yeah, I think call me out.
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: You wouldn't have known, nobody would know. And know what
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: they have. They have a healthy relationship, so exactly, it
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: doesn't if you bring up the vois Night ring to him,
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: he gets very upset because he paid for a real
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: diamond that he lost. Yeah, so anyway, being in a
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: jump drawer is a problem. Yeah, and that was blaming Dean.
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: I know. Is there any chance that story in the
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: laundry is there anything's going to be a dry or
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: or filter? Is there any chance you need to pull
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: out all of the tubing and everything that's on his list?
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: But he has so tell me needs to prioritize it
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: before he leaves for Antarctica. I know. But the thing is,
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: we went through hours and hours of camera footage that
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: overlooks exactly where the junk drawer was, and it was
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: never taken out. So then we have people sliding into
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: our d m s where like maybe a mouse took
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: it and like thought it was because it was wrapper,
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: and they're like, maybe you dropped it somewhere in your
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: house and I was like, that probably didn't happen, but
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: you have stolen it. No, like it was never We
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: cannot find the video footage of when it was taken
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: out of the drawer, like we're looking at night We're looking.
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: I don't know, did you tear it? Like, did you
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: just take a jackhammer to of freaking night stand drawer
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: to break it apart? No? No, it's um it's in
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: a drunk drawer like in the middle of our island,
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: could be behind the drawer. Checked everything we like, can
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: you like break the like did you you physically took
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: apart every piece of the drawer? Well? No, but it's
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: like it's like a you know, well constructed it can't
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: fall in the crack like I don't know. But and
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: he's so upset about it. But at the end of
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: the day, we decided because I wanted to buy my
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: own engagement ring, um, because I'm a bread winner, and
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: I was like, I make more money, I want to,
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: like I want to, and I'm gonna be wearing this
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: every day. So we came to the decision that I
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: would buy him a truck and he would buy me
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: a ring. So he got a truck and he's like,
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: your truck. Uh, well, I put the amount towards the
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: truck that he put into the ring. Okay, gotcha, I
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: got it. I think is down the road is going
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: to be do you guys want kids. Yeah, I think
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: down the road, this is gonna be like a funny story.
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: Maybe it might be a little funny for you before him,
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: but like, I think it's a funny story that you
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: guys are gonna know he doesn't care. You would think
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: that he cares, and he doesn't like he hates the
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: fact that he spent money on something. And now I
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: have a moist night ring that I love, but it's gorgeous.
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: He doesn't care that he lost it. And also it's
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: like the most deemed thing ever I know. Also, if
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: you were to find the ring, would you be more
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: attached to that ring than the other one? Would you
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: be like at that point, would you be like, let's
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: sell the ring back, use something else with it, and
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: keep that one. It's a good idea, yeah, honestly. But
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: this is the thing that I have been telling everyone
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: who's about to get married and about to get engaged,
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: Like we're now paying for a wedding, and I wish
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: he didn't spend that much. And I wish I didn't
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: spend so much on a truck because like, weddings are
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: so expensive at the end of the day, like a
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: ring's ring, I like I love Jey, but I don't
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: care that much, so I wish we just wouldn't have
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: spent that and saved it for the wedding. Well, there
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: you go, saw a part of the drawer so that
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: you can sell it back to Tom your wedding. Yeah,
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: m all right. I want to wrap up this podcast,
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: which I actually don't want to wrap up because this
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: is really fun. But sorry to the audience. We're just
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: gonna go have fun off the mic and do it
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: with food and drink. But first I want to just
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: put your guys. So, I'm really into celebrity crushes. Okay,
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: I've always been into them, and like everybody who follows
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: me on Instagram knows that I love Joe Burrow. But
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: it's okay because Jared approves um, and I'm trying to
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: turn Kaylin onto him. And that was a really good conversion.
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: She's she's all in. She's gonna be part of the
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: group message it's Burrows pitches. But now I want you
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: to to put out your select your single, and I
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: want you to put out your celebrity feelers so that
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: like we can get that into us weekly like a
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: headline and so that they can photos. Yeah, exactly, and
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: then do we gotta pick We probably should pick one
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: of the single thing. I will have to say that
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: me and Ashley talked earlier. I Joe Burrow is definitely
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: my crash. He is just so sexy. I don't care
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: Joe Burrow if he ever break up with your girlfriend.
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: Joe Burrow obviously so hot. Jacob Lordy, who's ja? He's
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: in Euphoria? Okay, okay, who's said that before? Is he's single?
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: I don't know. He's dating Sidney Crawford's what's her name?
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: No guys with Austin Butler. He's with someone. Maybe I'm
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: getting the wrong nep for a minute, so it was right.
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: And then obviously Pete Davidson. I feel like maybe I
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: could pull Pete Davidson if I was in the same
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: room with him. Possibly that's me just stretching. It's just
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: we gotta get you in the same Yeah, that's the present.
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: Have any ideas he think he's a hard get, because
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: like it's a hard we all know that he has.
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: He's obvious pick of the whole world. There's no true
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: but you wheel you really quickly. I could Maybe you
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: can't do it, Rachel, you could do it. You could,
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: you know, let's see what Michelle obviously Michael okay, well
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: it was Michael v. Jordan. But now he's with somebody.
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: So by the time it's cons in us weekly, if
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: he's single by that time, cool use this vision. If
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: he's not, I guess no. I don't want to say
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: a second choice. That sounds bad. Travis Kelsey, you know
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: the Chiefs, all the heart throbs. I'm gonna tell you this.
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: I will tell you this. I have become a Chiefs fan.
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: I do have a lot of connections the Chiefs. I
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: have been at the games and yeah, we're going to
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: the super Bowl and super Bowl and he sent me
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: he sent me a pr package the other day. They
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: had all his sweatshirts in it. So I always tell
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: everybody that Travis, wait, wait, do you know that? You
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: you know what you know? Are you inn a war
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: with Tassia over Travis Kelson. I'm never in an evil
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: war with Tassa oay or I'm never in an evil
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: worth anyone. Does she have a crush on him? Yeah,
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: she's like throwing her bids out there, she's shooting her
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: shotting her shot. Yeah. Okay, do you a girl Okay, yeah,
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: I I think I don't know. He's got the same
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: street spag that I get. But I was at you
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: know what I mean, like that like so into this?
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: No see, I see, I won't go. I won't go directly.
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: It's one of my girls. But oh you know if
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: she if you guys are gonna have to hash it out.
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: I think, what okay, Kaylen, what were you just saying?
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: Get why it goes going to super Bowl? I've been
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: too super Bowl, so I don't know why I'm saying it,
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: Like what you can. I just want to be like,
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: why are you going? Um? I like sports? Who are
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: you going with? Are you buying your own tickets or
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: somebody giving you? Like a sweet Yes, somebody's giving you.
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: I mean I'm going to Wilson Tennis. Where is it
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: in Phoenix? Yeah? Who are you doing? I'm literally just going.
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: I have some friends back in Minnesota who have a
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: lot of connections, so I'm going with them for that
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: and we'll be there actually leading up to it, like
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: waste management and all that stuff is is leading up
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: to it. I believe waste Have you heard of waste management?
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: Have you heard of waste management? I'm never but I'm excited.
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: Is it garbage cans? Is it sounds so stupid right now? Okay,
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: but like waste management, like what it like it's I
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: know that it's a turn tournament. Like the company, it's
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: the company, Okay, is the company garbage cans? I don't
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: know what it is? Literally though, it is so every
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: year in Phoenix, Arizona. It is like the biggest attraction
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: that like Phoenix Hole or Arizona holds, and people flock
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: there because there's just these massive these masks adge cans waste,
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: which is crazy because that explains why everyone falks there
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: because everybody needs garbage disposed. Okay, whether you're throwing away
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: your trash, where are the throwing women whatever? But really
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: it's the biggest party of the year and it's it's insane.
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: It coincides with the super insane, and that's never happened before.
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: So like people like they always had this going on
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: and every year every year, and legitimately people fly from
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: all over the world to come to this event because
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: this massive networking party, like everybody goes rampant. There's like
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: golf tournaments things like that. And now it's backing up
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: to the super Bowl, which is a little bit alarming
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: because like a lot of people don't come out of
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: waste management PA drinks so much. Like it's crazy. It's
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: back to back, But I knew I was on the
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: right track with the garbage, Oky, So are you going
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: to the actual game? So I have a ticket to
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: the game, but I'm actually going to be launching my
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: own brand on February. What kind of bread It's gonna
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: be around everything that I've kind of teased with motivational speaking,
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: giving back to Foundations UM and gonna be having an
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: event on the thirteenth. And so I my team that
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: works behind me is like, we've done so much to
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: get you, Like we've had a putt in crunch time
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: so much time. Have a little bit of fear of
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: not being able to get back on the thirteenth. So
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: I'm maybe skipping the game UM to make sure that
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: I can fly back in case we run into any issues. Kelsey,
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, but you never to find me. All right, Well,
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: Kaylin Wilson, you're going, Wilson, You're going in the game? Yeah?
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: Is Dan going in the game. He'll be in Antarctica.
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: This is the crazy, Like she said, ever, I will
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: not be going to this er. Well, I'll be in Antarctica. Yes,
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: this is his first trip to Antarctica, And like, is
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: how do you live there? Like do they have hotels
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: or is it like you live with scientists while you're there. No,
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: he's going to be on a boat the whole time,
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: and then then they'll like go onto land and like
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: take photos and then come back to the boat. And
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: it's just straight up ice, Like you're basically on ice
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: when you're on the continent. A question I think, So, Okay,
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: have you seen have you seen all over social media
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: about how just people are flocking to you? My other
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: friend is there, and you know, do you know Candice
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: the facial facialist. Yes, yeah, she's there right now. Really
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: yeah yeah. And they are traveling through the drink passage,
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: which is like crazy. I saw that rough waters you
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: have to travel, and then there's rogue waves that hit
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: and like have killed people and like just like the
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: intense waves that are smashing into these like boats, and
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: people are just going there and I'm like, wow, I
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: could never are they going there because it's like and
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: near death experience. No, like nat Gio host trips, like
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: it's a lot of retirees go really yeah, but Jean's
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: going for like a photography trip. People are like sliding
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: on the cruise ship because you literally have to be
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: in your room so bad, and there's like that. I'd
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: have so much anxiety leading up to it of like, Okay,
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: when we go through the drink passage, are we just
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: gonna completely get smacked. Everyone's gonna be vomiting everywhere, like people,
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: I can't do that. That's not worth it for for me.
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: That's why I'll never go because of the passage. But
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: then Dean like whatever, he's obviously a daredevil. He also
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: went to Pakistan and Paul and Nepaul just there. It's
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: the most dangerous airport in the world and they just
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: had a plane crash the airport that he was at
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: like three months ago and everyone died, like how are
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: you doing like such unsafe things and like, I swear
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: he's a cat with nine lives. Okay, So question for you,
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: when you guys have kids, will you let him continuously
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: do these dangerous missions. It's so funny. If he listens
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: to this, we'll be like, you won't let me? Um
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: he doesn't like, Yeah, I support. Support is yeah, um no,
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: I think like get it out now and then when
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: we have kids, you just have to be safer, Like
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: our kids need a dad mhm. And like the stress
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: that it puts on you while like he's over here
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: zip lining on a freaking thread of foss right, like
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: exactly you're taking care of the kids at home. Really
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: not fair. Well, when he was in the hall, he
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: was in the desert for like fourteen days without a phone. Yeah,
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: that's the scariest thing I know. He and we bought
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: him a phone, a sat phone that like it's connected
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: to satellite so like you can call from anywhere. Um,
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: and he forgot it. He's like landed in Pakistani. He's goes,
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: oh I forgot. There's a common denominator here. I'm forgetting
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: things and not Galen. Alright, good girl chat guys. I
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: hope you enjoyed this at home and you felt like
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: you were around the table with your girlfriends. Let's see
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: this more often. I love a girl chat pod. Anything else.
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: Final words, you'll um, you need to find I need
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: to come to check out your whenever we need to
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: come to come when it gets nicer. Yeah, I definitely
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: want to do that for sure. We would love to
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: have you. We always say we'll cover your trip if
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: you come to us. Hey, let's go, Me and Rachel
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: around once we get there. My girl Jill's there too.
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: Let's go for sure? All right? See you guys. Follow
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