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Things I've learned as a Spiritual Medium About the After Life · Spunky Spirit with Cari Mugz

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Welcome to the Spunky Spirit Podcast. I'm your host, psychic medium Carrie Mugs.
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Hello Spunksters, how are you? This week has been crazy. I got
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a new grand baby this week, so I'm gonna keep this one. I'm
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supposed to keep this one kind of short, but sometimes I go a little
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long because I love to talk about this stuff. So because I was because
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it's summer and it's been crazy, and I knew that there was a grand
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baby coming. I am only doing the podcast for every other week for right
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now, but as soon as September hits will go back to the normal schedule
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of every week. It's been kind of a nice little break during the summertime.
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Things have been crazy. So so got a grand new of grand new
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band baby, brand new grand baby. Things are good. Everything's awesome.
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So that will make five for me, four boy, four girls, and
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one little boy. So so it's been it's been a fun, fun week.
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So this week I just kind of we're going to talk about things.
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I was doing a reading, I had read schedule a reading. I was
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doing a reading yesterday, and there's some things that come through in readings quite
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often that that I just kind of thought this would be kind of shirt,
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kind of cool to share with everybody, these these things that come a lot
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that sometimes spirits will talk to me about. So this this episode's going to
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be things that I've learned as a medium. Throughout all the readings that I've
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done, spirits tend to come through and say, these things is a lot
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to me. Now that doesn't mean as always, I always want you to
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take this information that I give you with a grain of salt, right like,
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interpretation is everything. We can all read the same verse in the Bible
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and interpret it differently. So take what resonates with you, and take that
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and leave what doesn't and have your own experience. This is the thing.
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I don't want you to live the law according to carry or the law according
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to anybody. I want you to have your own experience and see what you
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think about it, and if your gut kind of goes with it, then
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that's a good thing. If your gut doesn't go with it, that's a
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good thing too. Just kind of listen to your own tuition about this.
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But so most of the time when I do readings, there's lots of different
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things that come through that are pretty general that are always the same. And
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first one is babies. So a lot of times babies will come through that
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miscarriages, mostly miscarriages or abortions. And for one, the abortions are never
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the spirits are never mad. And I know that might upset some of you
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because you have a have a belief that it's and that's okay, that's your
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belief. But you know what, I've never in my experience had a spirit
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come through upset or mad at the person who had an abortion, because they
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you have to remember, when they get to the other side, they see
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the whole picture. They see why, they see, you know, everything
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that led up to that. They see all sides of every story, and
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and they're at peace, and they're not the ones who are supposed to judge.
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They're not judgmental at all. All they feel I've ever felt is love
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and understanding. And miscarriages, like there's nobody's fault. Nothing. A lot
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of times too, miscarriage us will tell me that it mostly has to do
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with the spirit maybe not being ready, or the spirit being kind of,
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you know, a little bit nervous or things like that, or something's not
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because you have to think, when we're born, everything has to be in
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place, like the timing, the astrology, the stars, the stars,
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you know, everything has to be like it's so crazy because it's so perfect
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that it's beautiful, but it's so perfect that sometimes it's almost you feel like
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it's almost it's impossible. But everything has to be in place for the higher
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goods. So your soul contract, how you you know, the things that
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you wanted to do at all kind of has to go. So if something
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goes out of place, then sometimes the babies then sometimes we have a miscarriage,
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and sometimes us as mothers take that honest, us being our fault,
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and the grief is still very real. And that's the thing too. I
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don't ever want to make any of this lighthearted or spiritual bypassing, because miscarriage
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and abortions are very very real and they have they hold a lot of grief
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to them. So any of this information that I give you today. I
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don't want it to be like, oh, love and light, everything's good,
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because that's just kind of like ignoring it's all. This stuff is still
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hard to process and it's still you know, especially when you're the ones who've
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had these experiences and you're grieving. So it doesn't make it more lighthearted.
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It doesn't make it like, oh, don't worry about it. This is
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just what I've kind of been told, and honestly, we might not be
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able to understand it here on earth, but I know that one day,
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when you go to the other side, you will understand it. That's what
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they keep telling me. So these miscarriages sometimes will tell me that they'll come
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back. They might come back. So if you've had like two or three
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miscarriages, it could be the same spirit trying to come back. It could
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be different spirits. It doesn't just kind of follow your gut. And also
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too, sometimes the baby spirits will say they're gonna wait for their moms to
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come to the other side, and sometimes the spirits will say they're going to
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come through as a grandchild. So as long as they stay in the same
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soul family, it's all good. So it just depends on the spirit and
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what's in the soul contract and what you've I've actually it's kind of cool.
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I've actually had an experience where my sitter has had the experience of losing a
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child and then feeling like her spirit and that she came back again. So
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you just never know, you just it's And the thing about it is is
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you kind of look at it and think, we don't know, right,
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And there's no proof in the pudding. There's no proof that we can prove
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this or prove this is. This is just what my you know, what
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I've been told by and my clients from experiences. So so babies do can
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if you have had a miscarriage, sometimes depending on your contract with them,
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they can wait for you to get to the other side to see them,
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or sometimes they can come back through as another child or as a grand child
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because they always will be in your same soul family. So I thought that
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was kind of interesting too. Also too, speaking of babies, there's a
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lot of times spirits will come through and tell me that there's times on earth
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that they their spirit can actually leave the body. And I thought this was
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interesting because a long time ago I had heard an interview by a guy that
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would be being attacked by a tiger, and he said, we have a
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very graceful God, because as I was being attacked, my spirit jumped out
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of my body and I watched it like from on the outside. And lots
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of spirits will tell me this happens to them, This happens to us a
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lot of times when there's trauma. Sometimes when we go through something pretty traumatic,
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our spirit can we disassociate. So a lot of times this white children
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can't remember childhood traumas because we were maybe pulled or are we disassociated. That's
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kind of a whole mental type of issue kind of thing. And I don't
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know where the proof is in that, but I just know it can happen.
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But spirits can't. Spirits say all the time that their spirit was out
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of the body or they watched it happen while they the spirit came out of
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the body and they watched it happen from above. This usually happens right before
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a trauma, like right before an accident of some sort. So this way,
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the spirit doesn't suffer unless it was contracted in your soul contract to experience
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that, which I very rarely get those, but you know, you never
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know, so but most of the time spirits will tell me that they leave
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the body before impact, so they didn't have the trauma, they didn't suffer
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the trauma, they didn't experience the trauma. And even there's other times too
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that they tell me that the spirit, their spirit can leave the body.
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So there's three mostly, and that's when Alzheimer's or dementia has set in.
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A lot like when it's like a lot of spirits will tell me when Alzheimer's
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and dementia and their body's just kind of like this battery or this thing that
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because their body just keeps going a lot of times when spirit leaves the body
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is when the body is malfunctioning or something's going on with the body, and
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the spirit can can come in and out through the veil, go in and
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out of the veils, what they say to me sometimes. But so during
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Alzheimer's really really set on dimensia Alzheimer's, a lot of times spirits will say
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I was already going in and out of the body by that time. Spirits
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will go back and forth. Oh, they'll be like I visited my husband
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who's already passed on, or I visited my child who's already passed on.
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I actually did have one experience where the mother came through and my st was
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like, but my mother's not passed, she's got really bad dementia or really
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bad Alzheimer's. But everything that the spirit was telling me was connected to the
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mother. So, you know, that's kind of hard to explain. I
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just know that sometimes that they can tell me that their their spirit can go
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in and out of the veil or in and out of the body during those
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times when the body's kind of not working properly. Also to another time that
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the spirits can say that they do that is during commas, and I've had
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had that experience too. I had a spirit come through before. He wasn't
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passed yet. He was in a comma at the hospital, but he came
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through. He did eventually pass But that those are kind of uncomfortable for me
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because I get nervous because what if, you know, I don't want to
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I think everything still has hope, but if the spirit's coming through, I
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still feel like there's hope that they can survive. So those are a little
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bit sticky situations during readings, but they have happened not very often out of
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all the readings I've had. That's like one or two times that's ever happened.
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So during comas, during Alzheimer's and this one, I know people are
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going to be like, what but this one. So again, during pregnancy,
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the baby is very much alive. The baby is connected and the spirit
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is connected. And but I also know that sometimes the spirit can come in
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and out of the body during pregnancy because the babies in the in the early
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stages, because the baby's just kind of still cook the body still cooking still,
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you know, being the battery still getting So I know that sometimes that
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spirits will come through and be like sometimes spirits like baby spirits will come through
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and say that they're on their way or they're inside their mom or things like
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that. So now again that is you know, you can take that for
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what it is, but that's just what I know. That's what I've experienced.
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And so those are the main times that spirits can actually leave the body
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before the body has actually passed or before the body the body has been declared
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deceased. And I do know that there was a guy that got in an
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accident with his family and everybody passed except for him, but he wrote a
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book about how he got to stay in heaven with his family for what seemed
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like a long time, and then the wife looked at him and said,
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you need to go back, and he realized he had only been gone.
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He had only been in a coma for like a week, and he was
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the only survivor, and he knew that his baby girl had passed at the
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impact of the scene, but the baby girl's body didn't pass until two days
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after. He wanted to get it changed on the desk cert to picket,
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but he couldn't because the body didn't pass, but he knew her spirit had
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passed. So that was kind of interesting because that was kind of validation to
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me. But I can ever find that book again. That was validation to
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me that what the spirits are saying is kind of actually true. And it's
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so crazy to me because it's so beautiful. It's so beautiful that you know,
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if we didn't want to experience those kinds of traumas, that we don't
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and that there is a God and they there is, you know, a
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graceful God and gives us grace and and you know, we choose before we
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come here if we how you know, sometimes and that's hard too, because
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I say a lot of times, you know, I'd say eighty percent of
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the times we choose how we pass. But there are some spirits that come
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through and say, you know, it really just was an accident, it
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really wasn't my time. So and I don't know sometimes if they're just saying
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that to ease their loved ones pain or if they're actually saying it because it's
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actually true. And I guess we'll never know, right until we get to
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the other side and we know the things. So I thought that was kind
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of interesting also to you. I do know that when spirits come through,
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they talk about emotions sometimes, and people are like, well, because they
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do keep their same personality, and sometimes they will share emotion with me,
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like and not disappointment because they don't they're not disappointing anybody and they don't judge.
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But sometimes they do show a little bit of disappointment in their selves.
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But here's the thing that I want you to realize too. They see when
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they go over and they see their life review, they see it with a
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different kind of perspective. They don't they're not hard on their selves. They're
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they're not judging themselves. They're seeing at it, they see the whole picture.
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They see why they did some of the things they did, They see
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why people did the things to them that they did. And there's a whole
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big understanding, more of knowing and understanding than there is scaredness or emotions.
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So when we are on Earth, because everything's a frequency in a radio station,
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right, everything's energy. So when we're on Earth, our energy,
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our emotions are at a level ten, like they're dialed up to level ten
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on the radio. The volume is like ten. That's why on Earth sometimes
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our emotions are so hard to deal with, because that's one of the things
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we're here to experience, is emotions. But on the other side, or
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at the frequency that the spirits are at, the volumes down to it too,
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they don't they're not overwhelmed with emotion. They're not like they're just they
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just want to experience it with us or explain to us what they And you
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have to remember, they have to explain these situations to us in a language
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we only we understand. So so when they're sharing these emotions, they're not
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actually like completely feeling them. It's just that that's how, that's how that
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they have that's the only way they know how to explain it. And when
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they feel these emotions, it's only like on a level two. It's not
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maybe even a one. It's not even like they're consumed with it or they're
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worried about it. So if the spirit comes through and says I'm sorry,
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they're not feeling They are feeling regret and sorrow, but not in a way
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that we do on earth. They're not like rehashing it and rehashing it because
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they heal over there and they process that over there, and they're processing that
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over there, and sometimes sometimes they can choose to wait to process it.
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If it's really traumatic, they can be like, I don't want to process
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this yet, I want to wait for a minute, because there's no time
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over there. Time on the other side is not linear like it is for
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us. We are the ones who created time. It's all incumbent. So
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to them it's hard to explain. But it's like if they want to wait
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to process something, they can because they have all the time that they need
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to do that. So when spirits come through and say they feel sorrow or
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they feel like sorry, or they have regret, which they very seldom have
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regret, but sometimes they do because they see how they treated people on Earth.
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And sometimes they don't love the way they treated people on Earth because they
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see how it had that chain reaction. And so that though, is that
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a volume too emotion? So when your spirits come through, when they come
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through and say yes, I do kind of or sometimes they don't like to
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talk about how they passed because if they especially if they took their own life,
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because they're not like super you know, they're not the kind of seem
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a little bit embarrassed. But here's the thing. They're not embarrassed at a
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level ten. They're Mike maybe embarrassed at a level two saying, you know,
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maybe that shouldn't have happened. Maybe I shouldn't have done that because I
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didn't understand Earth very well, or I couldn't see past the veil, or
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I was I had more fear than I should have, or I didn't understand
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the whole thing, and so and sometimes, you know, drugs take a
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huge effect. Sometimes it alters your decision, alters their decisions, and sometimes
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they have remorse about that. A lot of addictions come through with lots of
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remorse and sorrowfulness, but they're not holding onto it. Like it's not consuming
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them, it's just at a level two and they're saying they're sorry because they're
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processing it. So because you when you process it on Earth, it helps
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you process it and then that just gets it that much more closure before you
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get to the other side too. And sometimes there are just things that sometimes
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spirits just come through and say, you know, this isn't going to be
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worked out on Earth. This is going to be something that needs to be
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worked out on the other side, because forgiveness is hard, and sometimes there's
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just things on Earth that you have a hard time forgiving. And that's okay.
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I know everybody's like, oh, you got to forgive as long as
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it's not consuming you and of longing you've have tried to process it and you
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can move on. Then you Sometimes spirits just say that's just going to be
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something we process on the other side, and that's totally fine too. Again,
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there is no rules we think that there are. We think that we're
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told, oh, you have to forgive, you have to forgive, and
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you know, sometimes that's just a really fine line. Forgiveness is really tricky.
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As long as it's not killing you and you're not the one drinking the
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poison every day then and you can move on and be healthy and you've processed
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on your own. You don't have to be best friends with the person who
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caused the trauma. So so trauma is a tricky thing. I kind of
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don't And you know, spirits coming in and out of the body during the
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trauma thing, that's something that you know that's got to be your own intuition,
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your own what you kind of feel about that. That's just what I've
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experienced in the readings that they've told me that I thought was kind of interesting
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that everybody should know that the spirits can leave the body, come in and
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out, especially during trauma. And here's another thing too, they tell me
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a lot you're here to experience things. A lot of times when I was
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growing up, I was told it was a test, it was a past
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or failed thing, and I continually thought, I am not passing this.
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There's no way I'm passing this. And now it's just so much better knowing
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that it's just about experience. It's not about testing. It's not about did
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I get this right or did I get this wrong. It's about experiencing these
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different emotions that we're going through. Experiencing joy, experiencing sorrow, experiencing grief,
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experiencing love. This is what we're here to Experiencing families, experiencing success
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or failure. All of that stuff is something that we are here to experience
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because it helps us grow spiritually. There is no growth and just being comfortable.
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And so but sometimes we are here just to be comfortable, because let's
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say there is past lives. There is I do believe in reincarnation, and
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sometimes some of our lives are a little bit harder and there's a lot of
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trauma, and so we come to Earth just saying I want it easy one
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this time, and we just are comfortable. And so that's why some people
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just don't have the desire to be to grow too. They just want to
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be simple and they just want it to be simple, easy, peasy.
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And that's fine because that could be this lifetime. They could have had a
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very traumatic lifetime in a past experience or a past lifetime. This is why
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we never judge people because we never know what they've gone through or what they've
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really gone through in past life experiences. So I do know that our loved
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ones on the other side do try and talk to us all the time,
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all the time, signs and symbols everywhere, and at first when they first
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passed, they are their spirits are around a little bit more. That's why
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you feel them a little bit closer right when they pass, because their their
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frequency isn't all the way rays. They get to stay and make sure that
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their loved ones are okay and that they're processing it okay. That's why sometimes
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after sometimes afterwards, right after a death, you can feel them around quite
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a bit, and then more time passes and you feel like they're more distant.
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It's just that they're raising their frequency constantly and they're growing constantly, and
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so sometimes it might be harder because it's all about frequency and energy. But
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they're still always around. And I know that some mediums think that they need
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permission to come see us, or they need permission or they're doing which I've
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never experienced that. I've always been told there with us always. They always
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kind of say, you know, they're just a thought away. It's because
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once you think about them, you're tuning into their frequency. But other mediums
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think that sometimes that holds them back, and I don't. I've never had
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that experience. They've never told me that they're getting held back. They tell
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me that they are a frequency and they can be ten percent with one person,
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ten percent with another person, twenty percent with the one person who needs
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them the most. I've never had any issues with I mean, I have
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had spirits that are hard to communicate with, but I've never had issues where
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they don't show up for somebody. Or I did have one time, but
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it was because she was a medium and they didn't want to really go through
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me. So I don't know what that I've never They've never told me anything
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about needing permission. They just tell me that you talk to them out loud
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or you think about them, and it's like tuning in their frequency and they're
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right there. Because to me, they've told me that they can tune in
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their frequency and be there for you, but also be somewhere else because they
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can have you can have two percent of their frequency, well, ninety percent
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of their frequency is somewhere else. This is why they love family get togethers
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because when everybody's there, they can just tone in their frequencies. So when
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you have big family get togethers, just be aware of what's going on.
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Watch watch for the signs and symbols. And when I talk about signs and
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symbols, I'm talking about animals acting weird, butterflies, birds, electricity going
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off and on, lights turning off, appliances being played with, any kind
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of that stuff. And they can do that anytime, but when you're all
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together, it's kind of more prominent, just because that they can focus their
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frequency there. And I've had spirits tell me that they sit on the porch
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with their loved one every morning before when they have their cup of coffee.
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So to me, I don't feel like I mean, I'm sure that on
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the other side they're over there processing things and they're going through some things.
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But I feel like if my dad can't be around, either my Grandpa shows
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up for him, or I just don't ever feel like I'm ever just left
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alone. I feel like they're always there. And there are times when I'll
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be like, hey, Dad, I haven't felt you were around very much,
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and then like the next day he's like signed after sign up sign,
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I see moves everywhere, So you know, they just they because here's the
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thing, they're still their eternal, their eternal right are we are eternal,
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our souls are eternal, We are eternal, And there are things that they
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can't get involved in our life because we have chose to experience them. But
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if you were to pass over tomorrow, what would you want to do?
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You would want to visit the left ones on the other side, but you
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would also want to be here with your friends and family, helping them and
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helping them on earth, knowing that, knowing that you could help them,
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knowing that you could make you know, as long as you didn't mess with
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our free agency, help them to grow and help them and to be there
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for them. That's what we do here on earth. That's what I just
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don't understand why we wouldn't be able to continue to do that, or why
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we would need permission to do that. So for me, I've never had
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any spirits say I need permission to do that. So so that's not If
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I do ever have a spirit tell me that, I'll let you know.
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I'll get on here and I'll be like, hey, somebody tell me they
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didn't. Now, there have been like lower frequencies that my spirit guides have
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not allowed to come through. I've had experiences like that, but other than
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than you know, And a lot of people get nervous because they do go
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to readings and and they're afraid they're loved ones not going to come through.
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And sometimes sometimes they're loved ones, the ones that they want to talk to
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don't. And that's that's because usually the ones who do show up are louder
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than that than that spirit. I've only had a couple where i've because you
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have to remember, spirit tells you what you need. And at very the
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beginning, I did like if a spirit came through, and I would focus
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on that one spirit the whole time and not and not see if there were
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other spirits that wanted to come through. And that was my mistake. So
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just know too, how seasoned the medium is or and I hate to say
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that too, because every medium needs needs practice, or every medium needs that
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growth. And I don't want you to judge a medium on if whether or
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not your loved ones come through, because sometimes if your grandfather is louder than
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your dad, because my dad was pretty quiet, my grandma was very loud,
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So a lot of times my grandma will be the first one to come
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through because she's louder than so if you ever go to a group reading,
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I always ask your loudest spirit to come through. And then sometimes the medium,
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we'll just focus on the grandma. And obviously my dad would just probably
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sit in the background and just be like, hey, I'm kind of here
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and not say anything. So don't think that your loved ones don't show up
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if you go to your reading, because I know that some people get nervous
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about that. It could really just be that they are just keeping their same
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personality and they're kind of quiet. Because sometimes when I do readings, it
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is really hard. For the more quiet ones. It's like pulling teeth.
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I'll be like, there's a spirit here, but they just want you to
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know they're here, but they don't really want to talk, and that's kind
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of hard too, But that's just how they are. That's just how it
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is sometimes, So just watch for the communication with them when they first pass.
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They do use electronics and dime and birds and butterflies and feathers and heart
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shaped rocks and things like that. The reason why they use those things is
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because those things are easy to manipulate. Those things are easy for them to
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move, pennies, things like that. But as time goes on and as
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they've been over there longer, they can use other things like now, my
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dad use moose. Anytime I see a moose or anything like that. If
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you guys know me, moose is like my thing. So so just know
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that they're always trying to talk to you. Signs and symbols. Signs and
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symbols are huge, And I honestly would just say, to be honest,
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if you see like a bird and exacting weird, just kind of check your
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environment, what are you going through and were you thinking are you going through
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a hard time right now? Is you know, were you thinking about your
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grandfather or your grandmother? Kind of check your environment, trust your gut,
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and ninety percent of the time it's going to be somebody that's on the other
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side trying to reach you. Just go with that because honestly, our family
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is always going to be there for us, their eternal so are we.
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So just yeah, so that's I just feel like they're going to be with
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us all the time, and that's what they kind of tell us. I
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mean. And that's the thing too. They don't watch you take showers,
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they don't watch you do intimate things. They don't they're not into that stuff.
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They're just there to be with you and guide you and help you grow.
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And so speaking of that some people, some mediums, think that the
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more you grieve, or the more you're in sorrow, the more you're holding
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them back. I don't know if there's any truth to that, but I
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do know that they do. This is a tricky one because grief is real,
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and grief is no joke, and grief is so hard, and it
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hits you like waves. You can really be okay one day and then just
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like it can knock you down flat on your flat on your butt the next
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day, and just or a trigger, just a song or something will come
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through and you can just all the emotions just come right back up. That
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doesn't mean sometimes you're not holding that spirit back when you grieve for them.
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They understand it and they get it, but they don't want it to stop
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you from living your life. They don't they and you're a lot of people
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feel guilty when they do become happy, or when they do start to date
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again, or when they do find love again, or when they do move
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on or the first time I remember the first time I laughed after my dad
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passed, I felt so guilty. I felt so guilty that I was happy
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after my dad had passed. And then I realized that's what he would want.
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He wants he wants me to be happy. Our loved ones want us
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to be happy. They want us to grow, they want us to have
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these experiences that we said we were going to have. And the thing is
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that's so hard is they don't really miss us because they're with us. They
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can still be with us whatever they want. We're just a thought away or
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but we are the ones who are going through the pain and the grief because
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we miss them. We can't see them, and sometimes, you know,
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these feathers and these dimes, they just don't cut it. They just don't
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cut the emotional you know, the hurt and the pain and the arms like
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I've just by Dad's arms just around me, like hugging me, and so
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so they know and they understand our grief. What they don't want us to
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do is stop it from helping us live our lives. They don't want us
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to be so depressed and so missing them so much that we can't move forward.
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And I do kind of feel like, and I don't want to put
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any pressure on anybody because that's not what I mean, but I do kind
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of feel like if we're constantly grieving or constantly in depression. I feel like
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the spirit will try and help us so much that it can. I don't
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want to say that because I don't know that for sure. I don't know
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that for sure. That's just what some medium say. I don't ever want
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you to feel like you're hindering their growth by grieving, because grieving is a
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natural process and it's something you're supposed to do. But I do want you
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to know they love it when you're happy. They do love it when you
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find happiness, or they do love it when you grow and when you're growing
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spiritually, and they do love it when you hear them. So when you
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do see the signs and the symbols, acknowledge it and say I know you're
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there because they love that, and it's like a game, then you'll continue
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to keep playing it all the time. So so that's what I know.
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That's what I from my experience and the readings that I have, this has
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been the general consensus. Few times have spirits come through and said something different,
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But you know it's cool. That's some spirits, maybe out of one
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out of a Brazilian gosh. I was trying to figure out how many readings
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I've done in my lifetime. I think it's over like six or seven thousand
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hours of readings. I do feel like they, you know, there is
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that one exception because we can't control everything, not even on the other side.
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There's always that even spirits say they can't, you know, psychicness.
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Being a psychic is really hard for future stuff because our emotions are so crazy
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that they can never guarantee what we're going to decide. They can pretty much
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think, Okay, I think they're going to go this direction. But at
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the end of the day, especially with relationships, people can decide things on
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a whim out of the blue and it can change the whole trajectory of things.
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So it's kind of there is a plan, but sometimes there's always leniency
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in the plan, And I think that that's why spirits can come through once
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in a while and say something different from what the majorities say, because there's
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always that little tiny bit of little tiny bit of leeway. So never nothing's
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ever set in stone, and just go with your gut if you feel like,
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you know, if you feel like the bird that's sitting on the window
33:06
is your grandfather, it probably is ninety percent of the chance it is.
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If you feel like that your loved one wasn't supposed to leave yet and it
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was taken too early. Then that was probably the case, but it doesn't
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make it. It's it, but it can't change. It is the thing.
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So they do want us to at the end of the day, they
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are with us to help us to be happy and to find joy, and
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it's not it's really just trying to live with the love that they left us,
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right, and they want us to move on in that way. They
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don't want you to forget them, that's not and they but they want you
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to be able to move forward without them. It's so hard. That's what
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grief is, and that's why grief is so complicated. So those are the
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things, just the general things that come through and all the readings you know,
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and like I always say, you take what resonates with you because I
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could have interpreted some of this wrong. And so you find out for yourself.
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You have a spiritual experience, You ask your loved one, you pray
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about it, you you have that experience, because a spiritual experience is something
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you have, not something somebody else tells you or gives you. So there
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you go, you guys, I love you so much, and I will
34:29
not see you next week because I'm I will be off, but I will
34:32
see you the week after that and then in September will start the regular programming
34:37
again. And I love you so much. If you, guys, do
34:40
feel like you're going through awakening though, I do have an awakening course on
34:44
my website and it talks about the chakras, the protection. It has eight
34:50
different your guides, talking to your loved ones, signs and symbols, all
34:53
of that stuff. So if you feel like you're kind of just starting this
34:57
journey, you can go to my website and it's a it's a course that
35:01
goes to your email. Every week you have access to it and every week's
35:07
a different subject and there's homework and it's actually kind of cool. So so
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