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- 0:00Speaker 1: Welcome to Stuff you should know from house Stuff Works
- 0:03Speaker 1: dot com. Hey, and welcome to the podcast. I'm Josh Clark.
- 0:12Speaker 1: There's Charles w Chuck Bryant, There's Jerry so Stub. You
- 0:17Speaker 1: should know. This is it? Well, that sounded like you're
- 0:22Speaker 1: introducing the final episode my voice, this is it feels
- 0:26Speaker 1: like it's the final episode. You won't be able to
- 0:28Speaker 1: talk anymore. No, I'm getting there. That's not true. You
- 0:33Speaker 1: don't know that. How's it going? It's going pretty well? Man.
- 0:39Speaker 1: How about with you? I think both of us had
- 0:42Speaker 1: a bit of a dark time researching this article. Why well,
- 0:47Speaker 1: because and we're gonna get Well, we're gonna get flak.
- 0:52Speaker 1: That's a teaser from publicists, because what I learned is
- 0:57Speaker 1: that publicists are professional liars. I would say that depends
- 1:03Speaker 1: on the circumstance. Well, what do you mean, Well, you're
- 1:08Speaker 1: saying they're publicists who don't lie. No, I'm saying it
- 1:11Speaker 1: depends on um whether the publicist is going to the
- 1:15Speaker 1: media or the media is coming to the publicist, depending
- 1:18Speaker 1: on the circumstance. What I am saying is, no matter
- 1:22Speaker 1: what who you work for, if you're a publicist, then
- 1:27Speaker 1: a percentage of your job will be lying depending on
- 1:31Speaker 1: the circumstance. So so Billy Rays lie about something good.
- 1:35Speaker 1: Billy ray Cyrus is like, I am going to donate
- 1:39Speaker 1: a bunch of time and money to a local homeless shelter.
- 1:43Speaker 1: You don't about that. The publicist gets on the horn
- 1:45Speaker 1: starts letting everybody know, you guys should come cover this.
- 1:49Speaker 1: Billy ray Cyrus goes and does that, and everything's good.
- 1:52Speaker 1: Then on the way home, Billy ray Cyrus decides to
- 1:54Speaker 1: celebrate by drinking a bucket of tequila and runs his
- 1:59Speaker 1: car into a uh whatever. Okay. The publicist then starts
- 2:06Speaker 1: getting calls and says he didn't drink a bucket of tequila.
- 2:11Speaker 1: That wasn't even happen. That's overstated what really happened with this.
- 2:15Speaker 1: So the circumstances depend on the the whether the publicist
- 2:20Speaker 1: is or not. Oh yeah, I'm not saying that all
- 2:23Speaker 1: publicists do is lie. But I'm saying if you work
- 2:25Speaker 1: as a publicist, part of your job is to cover
- 2:28Speaker 1: tracks and to lie um and you know that. Don't
- 2:34Speaker 1: hate the publicists, hate the system, is what I say. Yeah,
- 2:36Speaker 1: they're definitely a part of a larger system. Yeah, a
- 2:40Speaker 1: larger system which includes all of us who digest news. Yeah,
- 2:46Speaker 1: especially say like entertainment news, that kind of thing. Um,
- 2:50Speaker 1: there's like there's a whole there's two. From my understanding,
- 2:54Speaker 1: there's two routes a person can take as a celebrity.
- 2:58Speaker 1: You can either just go off and be a normal person,
- 3:02Speaker 1: and depending on your level, you might have paparazzi following
- 3:06Speaker 1: your that kind of stuff. There's once you get to
- 3:08Speaker 1: a certain level, it doesn't matter what your decision is,
- 3:10Speaker 1: or you can hire a publicist and feed yourself right
- 3:14Speaker 1: into that machine to get as much publicity and as
- 3:17Speaker 1: much pressed as you possibly can. Yeah. Well, I think
- 3:21Speaker 1: any celebrity is going to have a publicist, but it's
- 3:23Speaker 1: really a matter of your directive and your goal. I
- 3:27Speaker 1: think some of those people like to be like that
- 3:29Speaker 1: the old adage there's no such thing as bad publicity. Yeah,
- 3:32Speaker 1: I I ran into that that that's more of a
- 3:35Speaker 1: PR term, where like, so if you're in the PR,
- 3:38Speaker 1: you're probably representing a company or an organization or something
- 3:42Speaker 1: like that. A publicist is somebody who typically represents a
- 3:45Speaker 1: single person, an artist and author, a musician, um, something
- 3:51Speaker 1: like that. That's really the only definition I confined for
- 3:55Speaker 1: a publicist, and the the job the goal of the
- 3:58Speaker 1: publicist is to you, um, help maintain and promote the
- 4:03Speaker 1: public image of that person that they represent. That's right,
- 4:06Speaker 1: by um having a good relationship with the media, Yes,
- 4:11Speaker 1: that's the publicist. Uh. And by the way, that no,
- 4:15Speaker 1: no such thing as bad publicity. I tried to find
- 4:17Speaker 1: the origin of that, and the closest thing I could
- 4:20Speaker 1: find was P. T. Barnum. But I don't know if
- 4:23Speaker 1: that's true. I don't think that's verified. We Twain, Yeah,
- 4:27Speaker 1: PT Barnum or Mark Twain. Everybody says Mark Twain saying uh.
- 4:31Speaker 1: And I don't think that's even true anyway. I think
- 4:34Speaker 1: maybe that used to be true, that it was a
- 4:36Speaker 1: Mark Twain saying no, that no such thing is bad publicity.
- 4:39Speaker 1: I think at one point that may have been sort
- 4:41Speaker 1: of true. Yeah, these days there's clearly bad publicity. So
- 4:47Speaker 1: you I said the word flak earlier as a teaser, apparently,
- 4:51Speaker 1: um too. Flak or a flack is a term originating
- 4:55Speaker 1: from Gene Flak, early movie publicist Hollywood, and that's right
- 5:03Speaker 1: f l a K to take. Flak is named after
- 5:07Speaker 1: a type of German gun in World War Two. A
- 5:09Speaker 1: German anti aircraft gun. Two different things, but in this
- 5:12Speaker 1: case it is a pejorative term for publicists. They don't
- 5:16Speaker 1: like it. Pr flack Yeah, you shouldn't say that to
- 5:19Speaker 1: someone that works in PR, or call them a liar.
- 5:23Speaker 1: They don't like that either. Um yeah, I looked it up.
- 5:26Speaker 1: Apparently it means that like, you can't be trusted, you'll
- 5:29Speaker 1: you'll do anything for money. That's what a flackist. And
- 5:32Speaker 1: then that's like they one article I read said that's
- 5:36Speaker 1: like calling a personal injury attorney an ambulance chaser. Just
- 5:40Speaker 1: not a nice term. So there you have it. Uh So,
- 5:45Speaker 1: a publicist, like you said, works for their client to
- 5:49Speaker 1: make them to get their good deeds out, and too
- 5:53Speaker 1: if they don't have good deeds, to spend things to
- 5:56Speaker 1: make it look like they do. You know, here, hold
- 5:59Speaker 1: this baby lamp. Yeah, we take your picture exactly, and
- 6:03Speaker 1: then they get photographed later eating euros down the block.
- 6:07Speaker 1: The two events were totally not connected. No, So the
- 6:11Speaker 1: what they do is they pitch ideas to the media
- 6:15Speaker 1: and they probably have to be good writers themselves because
- 6:19Speaker 1: the press release oftentimes is a starting point. But press releases,
- 6:24Speaker 1: as we know, I can get lost in the shuffle
- 6:28Speaker 1: and never see the light of day. Yeah, it seems
- 6:30Speaker 1: like a huge wasted time. It can be, but uh,
- 6:34Speaker 1: if you have a good publicist, um, they will be
- 6:37Speaker 1: well connected to the media to ensure that that uh
- 6:40Speaker 1: publicity blast is not lost, right exactly. So there's um,
- 6:45Speaker 1: there's direction one, which is from the publicists to the media,
- 6:50Speaker 1: and the publicist is going to have all these contacts
- 6:53Speaker 1: with different entertainment reporters and business reporters and anybody that
- 6:58Speaker 1: can possibly run the story. Yeah, anybody that could possibly
- 7:01Speaker 1: run a story on um their client rights. And they'll say, um,
- 7:08Speaker 1: Billy Ray is going to donate some money. He just
- 7:12Speaker 1: seems like the type who would donate a bunch of
- 7:14Speaker 1: money to a homeless shelter and go down there himself
- 7:17Speaker 1: and help out. So Billy Ray is going to be
- 7:19Speaker 1: down there. Plus it's it's it rolls off the tongue,
- 7:21Speaker 1: Billy Ray. Um, So why don't you send one of
- 7:26Speaker 1: your cover reporters down and and let's get some coverage
- 7:29Speaker 1: for this. And since their friends, since these people have
- 7:33Speaker 1: worked together for decades, now this reporter and this your
- 7:36Speaker 1: your publicist. The reporter actually might respond and show up
- 7:41Speaker 1: or the editor or the news producer, whoever the contact is.
- 7:45Speaker 1: That's great, Like that's you hired a good publicist and
- 7:48Speaker 1: now this story is going to make it out there
- 7:51Speaker 1: because they didn't just write up a press release with
- 7:54Speaker 1: a bunch of exclamation points in the headline and facts
- 7:56Speaker 1: it to every media outlet they could find and get
- 8:00Speaker 1: your response. Yes, so good. A publicist is only as
- 8:02Speaker 1: good as their relationships, I think. Um. The other way
- 8:06Speaker 1: on that street that you were talking about is from
- 8:09Speaker 1: the journalists fact to the publicist. If they hear I
- 8:12Speaker 1: heard Billy ray Cyrus drink a bucket of tequila and
- 8:15Speaker 1: ran over a prostitute with his car, they will then
- 8:18Speaker 1: get in touch with the publicist and then they go jack, buddy, Hey,
- 8:22Speaker 1: we go back a long way. What I lie to you?
- 8:25Speaker 1: What I lie to you? Uh So that's how that goes,
- 8:30Speaker 1: and they want they will be more forthcoming with people
- 8:35Speaker 1: who have it's a scratch your back, you scratch my
- 8:37Speaker 1: type of scenario. Yeah, like that reporter that actually showed
- 8:40Speaker 1: up at the homeless shelter and covered it and made
- 8:42Speaker 1: a nice piece and everything. I'll give you the scoop.
- 8:45Speaker 1: When that guy calls, he's he's going to get the
- 8:47Speaker 1: better treatment from the publicist than somebody who ignored the
- 8:51Speaker 1: pitch before. That's right, um scratching a lot of back
- 8:56Speaker 1: scratchings in the machine. I've seen a lot more women
- 8:59Speaker 1: as bblicists and men, and I've always wonder why that
- 9:02Speaker 1: it's true. I don't know that that is true. In
- 9:04Speaker 1: researching this, I saw about an equal amount. I used
- 9:07Speaker 1: to think that as well, Um, but it seems like
- 9:09Speaker 1: there's an equal amount these days. It seems like every
- 9:11Speaker 1: publicist I've ever known has been a woman. And I
- 9:14Speaker 1: just figured just because women maybe more level headed and
- 9:18Speaker 1: uh more able to like smooth out a situation has
- 9:22Speaker 1: some big dumb guy. Um, but I guess the guys
- 9:26Speaker 1: who were publicists aren't big dumb guys like me. I'd
- 9:28Speaker 1: be a bad publicist. Oh yeah, So what would your
- 9:32Speaker 1: response to be if somebody called to find out what
- 9:35Speaker 1: stupid thing you're your client did or why they did
- 9:38Speaker 1: some stupid thing. I'd say, you know, what's really none
- 9:40Speaker 1: none of your business, bad publicist. Yeah well that was
- 9:46Speaker 1: something I ran across, as you know, saying something like
- 9:50Speaker 1: my client needs to privacy respected right now, we just
- 9:53Speaker 1: immediately shut down a relationship that you've cultivated over the years.
- 9:58Speaker 1: Do you have to give as a publicist you are
- 10:00Speaker 1: like you, there has to be something that you give,
- 10:03Speaker 1: so you better have something that will play kate the reporter,
- 10:08Speaker 1: but while also is probably not the truth, because that
- 10:13Speaker 1: reporter will go off and write the truth about your client,
- 10:15Speaker 1: and your client will have just gotten horrible publicity because
- 10:18Speaker 1: of you. It's a balancing act. Yeah, or they'll just
- 10:21Speaker 1: say let me send you get back from pet Segal.
- 10:24Speaker 1: You like the last one, right, Uh. But publicist may
- 10:29Speaker 1: also and it depends people that have a staff of
- 10:33Speaker 1: people working for them. Sometimes the lines are blurred on
- 10:37Speaker 1: who does what. But a publicist can arrange uh interview
- 10:42Speaker 1: requests and set all that stuff up. If you have
- 10:45Speaker 1: like a book tour, or your politician or your band
- 10:48Speaker 1: with a new album coming out, they might arrange all
- 10:51Speaker 1: those interviews, in which case they are prepping two things.
- 10:55Speaker 1: They are prepping the interviewer saying you can't ask about
- 10:59Speaker 1: the bucket of tequila. If you want this interview, i'll
- 11:02Speaker 1: give it to you, but this is off limits all
- 11:04Speaker 1: these things. And then, as we've learned when we've had
- 11:08Speaker 1: people work with us in publicity, they'll be prepping you
- 11:12Speaker 1: um on as the interviewee, like if they asked this,
- 11:16Speaker 1: this is how you should probably deal with it. Don't
- 11:18Speaker 1: answer that. Yeah, it's back to what you were And uh,
- 11:22Speaker 1: my favorite thing ever our videos where celebrities walk out
- 11:26Speaker 1: of interviews because the interviewer has asked something they weren't
- 11:29Speaker 1: supposed to ask. Those are great. Yeah, not to sit
- 11:33Speaker 1: around watch those all day. Yeah, you can probably find
- 11:35Speaker 1: a pretty good super cut of them. Yeah probably. So
- 11:39Speaker 1: all right, Well let's take a break and uh when
- 11:42Speaker 1: we come back, we will talk a little bit about
- 11:44Speaker 1: the skills you need as a publicist. All right, We've
- 12:01Speaker 1: mentioned lying and you know, I joke, but for real,
- 12:06Speaker 1: if you want to be a publicist, you better have
- 12:08Speaker 1: a certain comfort level with with stretching the truth and lying. Yeah,
- 12:12Speaker 1: because you're gonna have to do that. If you're not
- 12:14Speaker 1: comfortable with that, you shouldn't go into that line of work.
- 12:17Speaker 1: Is that safe to say? I think very. You need
- 12:20Speaker 1: to be good with people and cultivate those relationships. You
- 12:23Speaker 1: need to be a good writer. Well, not only do
- 12:26Speaker 1: you have to be a good writer, you have to
- 12:27Speaker 1: be a good journalist. And a lot of UM publicists
- 12:31Speaker 1: have a background in journalism because I kept running into
- 12:35Speaker 1: this in this article and another article you sent. The
- 12:39Speaker 1: number one rule of being a publicist is to think
- 12:42Speaker 1: like a journalist. Even better than that is to not
- 12:45Speaker 1: only think like a journalist, but be able to write
- 12:47Speaker 1: like a journalist too, because as we kind of demonstrated
- 12:51Speaker 1: that the publicist media relationship is a two way street.
- 12:56Speaker 1: The publicist needs the media to publicize and of adding
- 13:00Speaker 1: manner their client, But the media needs a publicist because
- 13:04Speaker 1: they've got deadlines and they need to come up with
- 13:07Speaker 1: story ideas. And if something is brought to them, that's great.
- 13:11Speaker 1: But that that media professional has a reputation to protect.
- 13:15Speaker 1: It can't be like, you know, Billy ray Cyrus got
- 13:20Speaker 1: off of his couch and mail to check for five
- 13:22Speaker 1: dollars to a local homeless shelter. Yeah, and they came
- 13:26Speaker 1: in a pressure release in a fax machine. That reporter
- 13:29Speaker 1: is not going to have a very good reputation. But
- 13:31Speaker 1: if a publicist comes to this reporter with a great headline,
- 13:35Speaker 1: creative pitch a good story that's tailored to that reporter
- 13:39Speaker 1: and they're beat and even more than that, tailored to
- 13:43Speaker 1: that reporters audience, there's a good likelihood that reporter will say,
- 13:48Speaker 1: I'm listening and that's just music to a publicist years sure,
- 13:52Speaker 1: just to be listened to. Yeah, that's when you throw
- 13:54Speaker 1: it into fifth year. Uh. You can't be afraid of rejection. UM,
- 13:59Speaker 1: you've got to be outgoing and you've got to take
- 14:00Speaker 1: your licks because a lot of your attempts are going
- 14:04Speaker 1: to fail just by nature of the job. So you
- 14:06Speaker 1: can't get your feelings all hurt. Yeah, you guess you could,
- 14:09Speaker 1: but you don't want to show that because then the
- 14:11Speaker 1: journalists would be like, jeez, Chuck, such a baby. You're
- 14:14Speaker 1: going to be eating a lot. I didn't run the
- 14:16Speaker 1: story and he's complaining I saw him choking up in
- 14:20Speaker 1: the bathroom. While they may get a good laugh out
- 14:23Speaker 1: of that, probably won't want to work with you as much. UM.
- 14:27Speaker 1: You gotta be very patient and you have to be
- 14:29Speaker 1: very flexible because if you're working for celebrities, it is
- 14:34Speaker 1: a very tough job. That's another thing too, So you
- 14:38Speaker 1: are Um, your hours are basically all hours whenever you're needed. Right.
- 14:43Speaker 1: So not only does your publicists frequently also have to
- 14:49Speaker 1: do other stuff or people associated with the publicist UM
- 14:52Speaker 1: have to do things like pick up things for the
- 14:56Speaker 1: the client, like um. In addition to that, like the
- 15:02Speaker 1: higher up you go on the food chain, which we'll
- 15:04Speaker 1: talk about in a minute. UM, the more that that
- 15:07Speaker 1: client feels a okay with emailing you at three in
- 15:11Speaker 1: the morning saying like, UM, I need to be reassured
- 15:15Speaker 1: about my celebrity status or whatever, um, and the publicist
- 15:19Speaker 1: needs to respond, you're basically on call all the time. Also,
- 15:23Speaker 1: at three in the morning, your client may have done
- 15:25Speaker 1: something really horrifically stupid and some paparazzi caught it and
- 15:30Speaker 1: now words starting to spread and you're fielding calls from
- 15:33Speaker 1: reporters at three in the morning to get a statement
- 15:36Speaker 1: on what your client did. Yeah. I mean when when
- 15:39Speaker 1: Twitter came out, I remember thinking at the time, like
- 15:42Speaker 1: publicists aren't gonna be around anymore because people are doing
- 15:45Speaker 1: this themselves. Well, they've actually figured out ways to use Twitter,
- 15:49Speaker 1: benefit ways to use Twitter. But Twitter is also their
- 15:52Speaker 1: biggest security blanket as well, because because of Twitter, more
- 15:56Speaker 1: and more celebrities are saying really stupid things at the
- 15:59Speaker 1: publicist is then going to have to cover their tracks,
- 16:02Speaker 1: so they'll take down the tweet and then try and
- 16:04Speaker 1: spend that or just you know, the apology is always
- 16:09Speaker 1: very funny to me awkward. Well, it's never like, did
- 16:13Speaker 1: you hear about Chris Carter, the NFL guy, he's a
- 16:17Speaker 1: former NFL player wide receiver. Yeah, he um is in
- 16:24Speaker 1: hot water this week because he spoke. Was hired by
- 16:27Speaker 1: the NFL to come in and speak to the rookies.
- 16:29Speaker 1: They often do that for guys that had been in trouble,
- 16:32Speaker 1: to come in and say, don't do what I did. Yeah,
- 16:35Speaker 1: sort of and um he said in his talk to
- 16:38Speaker 1: the Rookie Symposium said something about, you know, if you
- 16:41Speaker 1: get caught with you know, da da da da da,
- 16:42Speaker 1: he just make sure you have a fall guy on
- 16:45Speaker 1: your team, like the guy in the car that's like,
- 16:47Speaker 1: it's my weed. And he got in big trouble for that.
- 16:51Speaker 1: And his apology. His apology was was like that that's
- 16:56Speaker 1: not the kind of advice I would ever give young people.
- 17:00Speaker 1: It's like, but that's the advice you exactly gave young people, Like,
- 17:04Speaker 1: how can you say that days later? It's just so obvious.
- 17:07Speaker 1: It's a forced, insincere apology. So we either had a
- 17:11Speaker 1: bad publicist didn't listen to his publicist, because part of
- 17:15Speaker 1: the publicist job is when you're going to make the statement,
- 17:19Speaker 1: the public statement, the public apology, or whatever, the reasoning
- 17:24Speaker 1: behind it, the rationale, the um, the wording of it,
- 17:29Speaker 1: just the logic behind the apology is probably going to
- 17:32Speaker 1: be crafted by your publicists. At least help they're going
- 17:36Speaker 1: to help you with it. At the very least, they're
- 17:38Speaker 1: going to want to help you with it, right because
- 17:41Speaker 1: they're probably scared stupid that you're going to make it worse. Right,
- 17:45Speaker 1: And it sounds like there's a lot of crisis management
- 17:48Speaker 1: and that is a part of it, But publicists also
- 17:51Speaker 1: are just trying to cook up opportunities. Um. I think
- 17:54Speaker 1: that that's way more the day to day. Yeah, yeah,
- 17:56Speaker 1: for sure, depending on the client, of course. Um but
- 18:00Speaker 1: I remember our former boss Connell was in a band
- 18:04Speaker 1: years ago and I read online somewhere that his band
- 18:09Speaker 1: was I went to Elton John's do you remember this story?
- 18:13Speaker 1: Went to Elton John's house and spelled out their band
- 18:17Speaker 1: name and fire on his tennis court. I hadn't to
- 18:20Speaker 1: try and get on his label or something. That's a
- 18:23Speaker 1: great way to do it, I know, And I went
- 18:24Speaker 1: and asked it. I was like, dude, I can't believe
- 18:26Speaker 1: you guys did that. And he went we didn't do that.
- 18:28Speaker 1: I was like no, and he was like no, these
- 18:29Speaker 1: our publicists made that up. It's like nothing true about it.
- 18:32Speaker 1: And he's like no, they completely fabricated that story as
- 18:36Speaker 1: a publicity stunt that never happened. Uh. Yeah, So why
- 18:40Speaker 1: even go to the trouble of it where you can
- 18:42Speaker 1: just release a story that says that you did that
- 18:45Speaker 1: you hadn't that amazing when something like that could so
- 18:47Speaker 1: easily be fact check, like by calling Elton John Well,
- 18:52Speaker 1: that's the other thing. Like, I don't know, I don't know.
- 18:56Speaker 1: So I'm curious. I wonder how many media stories are
- 18:59Speaker 1: just totally fabricated matter of fact. You out there in
- 19:03Speaker 1: podcast land, let us know if you know a media
- 19:06Speaker 1: story that was just totally fabricated that everybody takes his fact.
- 19:10Speaker 1: We want to hear it. I love stuff like that.
- 19:12Speaker 1: I do too. Alright. We mentioned earlier that you might
- 19:16Speaker 1: end up getting the laundry or dry cleaning as a publicist,
- 19:19Speaker 1: if you're the publicist intern. Yeah, that's probably what's going
- 19:22Speaker 1: to happen, is you might get asked to go get
- 19:24Speaker 1: the laundry and then you will say, sure, I'll take
- 19:26Speaker 1: care of that for you, and then you will go
- 19:27Speaker 1: down the chain until you find the underling who was
- 19:30Speaker 1: trying to be a publicist who still does things like that. Right,
- 19:34Speaker 1: this person may or may not be in college, but
- 19:36Speaker 1: it's probably college age. That's something that I ran across.
- 19:40Speaker 1: If you want a career in as a publicist, you
- 19:45Speaker 1: do not need to spend a single penny on higher education.
- 19:49Speaker 1: The entire career of publicists begins as as a hands
- 19:55Speaker 1: on experience. You need to be in. You need to
- 19:58Speaker 1: be literate, You need to prob have a knack for
- 20:01Speaker 1: writing um in a journalistic way and crafting good headlines
- 20:06Speaker 1: and by proxy good email subject lines. But you don't
- 20:10Speaker 1: If you have that already before college, you don't need
- 20:14Speaker 1: to go to college. No, Like you can go in
- 20:16Speaker 1: major in journalism or communications or PR. But it's not
- 20:19Speaker 1: like you get that diploma, that PR diploma, and you're
- 20:22Speaker 1: gonna get like some entry level job as a publicist
- 20:25Speaker 1: and you're still gonna have to work your way out.
- 20:27Speaker 1: See it says right here, I have a PR degree,
- 20:29Speaker 1: So where's my job? My advice is to skip college
- 20:33Speaker 1: and go straight into the workforce as early as you can.
- 20:37Speaker 1: If this is what you want to do, you know,
- 20:39Speaker 1: I feel and I hope that there is becoming a
- 20:41Speaker 1: bigger understanding that there are certain fields out there. There
- 20:45Speaker 1: are careers out there where you don't have to go
- 20:48Speaker 1: to college, and there are careers out there where, like
- 20:51Speaker 1: you should go to a vocational school to learn that trade.
- 20:55Speaker 1: That college is not necessarily this end all be all,
- 20:58Speaker 1: that you have to spend money after money after money
- 21:01Speaker 1: to get a degree that might even not be used
- 21:04Speaker 1: in your field. But I mean that it needed a
- 21:07Speaker 1: degree to do what I'm doing. No one ever has
- 21:09Speaker 1: to see it, all right, And this is a this
- 21:10Speaker 1: is a perfect example of that, Chuck, Like, to be
- 21:13Speaker 1: a publicist, you do not need a degree. You need
- 21:16Speaker 1: hands on experience. You need basically what amounts to an apprenticeship.
- 21:20Speaker 1: That's right, Yeah, a good way to say it. So
- 21:22Speaker 1: go in and get that job in the mail room
- 21:24Speaker 1: or as an assistant or as an intern. Uh. And
- 21:28Speaker 1: it would be great if you still live at your
- 21:30Speaker 1: parents house at this point, because you're going to get
- 21:32Speaker 1: paid like next to nothing and you're going to be
- 21:34Speaker 1: doing all the grunt work. But if you are, if
- 21:38Speaker 1: you go in there with your mindset to I'm going
- 21:41Speaker 1: to learn this. I want to learn this and move up.
- 21:44Speaker 1: You're you're going to be in the right environment for
- 21:46Speaker 1: that absolutely. Uh. Like we said, you might be picking
- 21:48Speaker 1: up dry cleaning. You're going to be returning a lot
- 21:52Speaker 1: of phone calls, drafting a lot of um, probably not
- 21:55Speaker 1: so fun uh press releases that that is graduated from
- 22:00Speaker 1: the intern. Yeah. Well, I'm talking about being like a
- 22:03Speaker 1: junior assistant right after you get hired on. Yeah. Yeah,
- 22:07Speaker 1: and press releases that aren't like the sexy ones. You know, Um,
- 22:11Speaker 1: you're not gonna be writing like the press releases for
- 22:13Speaker 1: Billy Ray Cyrus in other words, No, those are sexy.
- 22:15Speaker 1: You'll be writing them for his dog, Okay, you know sure,
- 22:23Speaker 1: Freddie Freddie Cyrus, Freddie Freddie Cyrus. Okay. You are going
- 22:28Speaker 1: to be handling your publicists that you work for, their schedule, um,
- 22:33Speaker 1: their contacts. You're going to be putting together press skots
- 22:38Speaker 1: and epks electronic press skitts and blasting those out. Basically
- 22:42Speaker 1: all of the um nuts and bolts of the job
- 22:48Speaker 1: you're going to be doing as a junior uh staff
- 22:51Speaker 1: publicist or an assistant. Not a bad gig if that's
- 22:54Speaker 1: what you want to do and if you stick to
- 22:56Speaker 1: it and you're good at it, you're gonna end up
- 22:58Speaker 1: being a publicist. Not only are you getting the experience
- 23:02Speaker 1: you need on the job, you're also in a place
- 23:04Speaker 1: where your networking too, because that is probably tied for
- 23:08Speaker 1: first as far as like thinking like a journalist goes.
- 23:11Speaker 1: You need to be a pretty good networker. That's right,
- 23:14Speaker 1: And you know what, let's take a break and we
- 23:16Speaker 1: will talk more about networking and some of the skills
- 23:20Speaker 1: you still need. Cho Can I make a confession, I'm
- 23:38Speaker 1: possibly the worst networker on the planet. Uh, you didn't
- 23:44Speaker 1: have to tell me that I'm really bad at it. Yeah,
- 23:47Speaker 1: it's not your back, It isn't. Some people are good
- 23:50Speaker 1: at networking, pretty good at You're good at networking because
- 23:53Speaker 1: I enjoy it, and I don't consider it um networking
- 23:58Speaker 1: sounds like just doing something to serve you in the end.
- 24:03Speaker 1: I don't look at it that way. I look at
- 24:05Speaker 1: it like I enjoy making professional colleague, enjoy meeting and
- 24:11Speaker 1: getting to know professional colleagues, and then later on if
- 24:15Speaker 1: I can hit them up for something or if they
- 24:16Speaker 1: hit me up, that's great, But if not, it's just
- 24:19Speaker 1: something like you know, so, so the response to somebody
- 24:24Speaker 1: when they come and ask you for something you're like,
- 24:26Speaker 1: oh I saw this coming. That's not the way to respond.
- 24:30Speaker 1: Probably not. I'm trying to put myself out there a
- 24:34Speaker 1: little more. Oh yeah, yeah, Why is that just just?
- 24:38Speaker 1: I think that's a skill that everybody should have instead
- 24:41Speaker 1: of being like a misanthropic recluse, you know, put yourself
- 24:46Speaker 1: out there. I agree. Um, well, one of the skills
- 24:49Speaker 1: that I don't think we pinpointed was networking without seeming
- 24:52Speaker 1: like your networking, which is sort of the key what
- 24:55Speaker 1: I was just talking about. And I think maybe that
- 24:57Speaker 1: is it too, Like I feel like networking is a task.
- 25:00Speaker 1: Is if I just relaxed and enjoyed it and like
- 25:03Speaker 1: just you know, communing with a fellow human being, isn't
- 25:08Speaker 1: that what it's all about? It's all it is like that,
- 25:13Speaker 1: then I'm sure it would be much more relaxing. Um.
- 25:17Speaker 1: I read a blog and I sent it to you,
- 25:22Speaker 1: and I want to shout them out because they sonic
- 25:25Speaker 1: bids S O N I C B I D S.
- 25:30Speaker 1: It's a blog where they did an interview that was
- 25:33Speaker 1: pretty insightful. Actually, they did a double interview, a dual
- 25:37Speaker 1: interview with Julie Lichtenstein, a thirty seven Media and Lily
- 25:40Speaker 1: Golightly of Golightly Media, And I think they worked with
- 25:44Speaker 1: bands and musical artists mainly, but it was super insightful
- 25:49Speaker 1: and they said, Um, just some little tidbits here, Like
- 25:53Speaker 1: I was always curious how they get paid, um, And
- 25:56Speaker 1: I think if you're a publicist for a person and
- 26:00Speaker 1: like you were on retainer, then you just get a
- 26:02Speaker 1: salary um, or if you're part of a firm that
- 26:05Speaker 1: just works for that person. But you can also just
- 26:08Speaker 1: be hired for a campaign. Right, So if you're a
- 26:10Speaker 1: band and you have gone to the trouble of like
- 26:13Speaker 1: going in and hiring a producer to produce your album,
- 26:17Speaker 1: and like you've made a studio quality album that you're
- 26:19Speaker 1: proud of, you might want to hit everybody up or
- 26:23Speaker 1: gather around another two grand to hire a publicist for
- 26:26Speaker 1: a month to release that album correctly. And like just
- 26:32Speaker 1: hiring a publicist isn't going to automatically make it great.
- 26:36Speaker 1: Like you need to say, can we see some of
- 26:38Speaker 1: the other campaigns you've run? What are your ideas for
- 26:41Speaker 1: this campaign? Um? Who have some of your clients been
- 26:45Speaker 1: in the past? Um? What are what are what's some
- 26:48Speaker 1: of the press that you've gotten. Yeah, you don't want
- 26:52Speaker 1: to just be like throw a dart at a phone book,
- 26:55Speaker 1: do your research because it's too grand and you're an
- 26:57Speaker 1: upcoming band and that's just that's not chump change. But
- 27:01Speaker 1: if you if you look at it as a wise investment,
- 27:04Speaker 1: and you do invest in wisely and a good publicist,
- 27:06Speaker 1: it could make a huge difference for you. Agreed. Um.
- 27:10Speaker 1: This Julie said that, Uh, they try and get out
- 27:14Speaker 1: for for a major artist, three or four months ahead
- 27:17Speaker 1: of the release of the album is when they want
- 27:19Speaker 1: to start their job. So it's not like, hey, it
- 27:21Speaker 1: drops next week, let's think of some good ideas, you know,
- 27:24Speaker 1: they want some good lead time. Uh. And they said
- 27:27Speaker 1: that they like to work around goals. Um, if they're
- 27:32Speaker 1: if it's like a tour, like for us going on
- 27:35Speaker 1: our tour, we don't have a publicist, but we have
- 27:40Speaker 1: promoters working with venues that sort of do the job
- 27:43Speaker 1: of a publicist as far as trying to sell tickets. Um.
- 27:48Speaker 1: But if you are booking a tour and you have
- 27:50Speaker 1: a publicist, they're going to be the ones that are
- 27:52Speaker 1: getting you on the local radio stations, morning TV, getting
- 27:57Speaker 1: you in the local newspaper or alternative newspaper to get
- 28:01Speaker 1: you some pressed. And this is I mean if you
- 28:05Speaker 1: have um, like, this is stuff you can do yourself.
- 28:08Speaker 1: But one of the things that you are hiring when
- 28:10Speaker 1: you hire a publicists their contexts, Like you don't have
- 28:14Speaker 1: the context, you're just the band. One of the problems
- 28:17Speaker 1: is that you are it's going to be tough for
- 28:19Speaker 1: you to think objectively, like you're not gonna understand why
- 28:23Speaker 1: every journalist you talked to doesn't want to automatically do
- 28:25Speaker 1: a long form piece on how great your band is.
- 28:28Speaker 1: Publicists is going to be dispassionate enough and removed enough
- 28:34Speaker 1: that they can see it objectively through a journalists size
- 28:36Speaker 1: and then pitch it in a way that's probably going
- 28:39Speaker 1: to get better, um more more bites. Yeah, that's a
- 28:43Speaker 1: good way to put it. Because the artists we've even
- 28:46Speaker 1: experienced this is the ones who gets their feelings or
- 28:49Speaker 1: saying like, oh man, that you know they interviewed us
- 28:51Speaker 1: last time, why did they do it this time? And
- 28:52Speaker 1: they're always great about massaging the ego a little bit,
- 28:55Speaker 1: saying like it's okay, guys, there's no big deal, because um,
- 28:59Speaker 1: that doesn't do much for anyway. Lie, right, we got
- 29:03Speaker 1: this other thing that's better lie right. Um. The other
- 29:07Speaker 1: thing they're gonna be doing if they work for you,
- 29:08Speaker 1: is are gonna be sending you, uh weekly or bi
- 29:11Speaker 1: weekly reports on what's lined up, who passed on stuff,
- 29:15Speaker 1: who who bit um stuff like that, Like they're keeping
- 29:19Speaker 1: you informed. You're not just like in a black hole.
- 29:22Speaker 1: And some artists like to be well in touch on
- 29:24Speaker 1: that stuff. And some probably don't care about being bothered.
- 29:29Speaker 1: They just want to be on Man. Conan shot in
- 29:35Speaker 1: Atlanta fifteen minutes from our house where we live, and
- 29:40Speaker 1: we couldn't get on Conan and it was while our
- 29:43Speaker 1: TV show is debuting. You don't have to remind me.
- 29:48Speaker 1: Let's talk Penny C. Santi Vieri, Yeah, from HuffPo. She
- 29:53Speaker 1: is the author and CEO of Marketing Experts, Inc. And
- 29:57Speaker 1: she listed out nine things that a good publicist does.
- 30:01Speaker 1: What's number one? Chuck? Can you guess? I think like
- 30:03Speaker 1: a journalist? That's right. You already said that and you
- 30:06Speaker 1: were right. It's the number one rule. Number two rules,
- 30:09Speaker 1: know the rules, right, You gotta play within the game
- 30:14Speaker 1: if you start and you can bend rules, but if
- 30:16Speaker 1: you start breaking them, people have a long memory. Well here, yeah,
- 30:20Speaker 1: if you go on and read. Um, just type the
- 30:24Speaker 1: phrase rules of pitching and publicity into your favorite search
- 30:29Speaker 1: engine and it will bring up Apparently one of the
- 30:32Speaker 1: journalist things journalists like to do in their downtime is
- 30:35Speaker 1: right lengthy blog post mocking pr and publicists don't follow
- 30:41Speaker 1: the rules of pitching. So, um, one of the rules
- 30:44Speaker 1: is no phone calls. You just don't use the phone email. Yeah,
- 30:50Speaker 1: especially if you're cold calling people like I guess if
- 30:53Speaker 1: you have a relationship with somebody, you can pick up
- 30:55Speaker 1: the phone and column, but you you don't send an
- 30:58Speaker 1: email blast and then a day later follow up on
- 31:03Speaker 1: the email by phone. Apparently that's the worst thing you
- 31:07Speaker 1: can do. Yeah, you don't want to bug people, know,
- 31:09Speaker 1: and it's very easy to come off as like pestering
- 31:13Speaker 1: a reporter as publicist. So you need to know the rules,
- 31:17Speaker 1: or your publicist needs to know the rules. Here's a
- 31:20Speaker 1: good one that I didn't think about reading outside of
- 31:22Speaker 1: your market. I'm sure it's pretty easy to just think
- 31:25Speaker 1: New York in l A, Like, what else do I
- 31:28Speaker 1: need to know about? Well, not even that. It's like, um,
- 31:31Speaker 1: if you're a band outside of your industry, yeah, you know,
- 31:34Speaker 1: and just start to think of like, oh, well, we
- 31:37Speaker 1: actually sing this song about the oil industry and oil
- 31:41Speaker 1: prices are going through the roofs, so maybe maybe the
- 31:44Speaker 1: Today Show would want to talk to us about our songs.
- 31:46Speaker 1: I didn't think about that. I'd be a great publicist.
- 31:50Speaker 1: I'm terrible at networking. UM, Google alerts. That's kind of
- 31:55Speaker 1: a no brainer. I would think. UM, understanding the importance
- 31:59Speaker 1: of local met the that's a good one because while
- 32:02Speaker 1: your artist is not gonna be super stoked about appearing
- 32:05Speaker 1: on Good Morning Toledo, Hey, if there's a tie like
- 32:09Speaker 1: you're from Toledo, like you, then that's probably a smart
- 32:13Speaker 1: thing to do because the local media loves people that
- 32:16Speaker 1: were from there that moved away. Plus, UM, Mrs sance
- 32:22Speaker 1: Cvari makes this point or miss santy Viry sorry, um
- 32:26Speaker 1: makes this point that, Um, you never know where a
- 32:29Speaker 1: local contact is going to end up. Sure might hit
- 32:32Speaker 1: the big time. They might work for USA Today in
- 32:34Speaker 1: a couple of months. Yeah, it doesn't get bigger than that. Uh.
- 32:38Speaker 1: And if they if they hit the big time on
- 32:40Speaker 1: their end and they have you as like a contact,
- 32:43Speaker 1: it could help you out big time. That's right. Uh.
- 32:45Speaker 1: And then earlier you mentioned something about subject lines for emails.
- 32:49Speaker 1: I never really thought about this, but um, Penny says,
- 32:54Speaker 1: can I call her Penny? You can't in the first
- 32:56Speaker 1: name basis I call her miss san Sivilleri. Okay, what's
- 33:00Speaker 1: She says that crafting a subject line is one of
- 33:02Speaker 1: the most important things that you can do as a publicist,
- 33:06Speaker 1: and that they agonize over this, and it makes total
- 33:09Speaker 1: sense with the glut of emails that people receive, especially journalists. Uh,
- 33:15Speaker 1: you want to grab their attention otherwise it's just going
- 33:18Speaker 1: to be by bye time. So but you also have
- 33:22Speaker 1: to redrafting, editing, tweaking, she says. It's just like maddening
- 33:26Speaker 1: how much you have to do that. Yeah, that would
- 33:27Speaker 1: drive me crazy. Yeah, because it's the minutia. So much
- 33:31Speaker 1: importance on the minutiae. But it's true, and you have
- 33:35Speaker 1: to you have to put a lot of thought into it.
- 33:38Speaker 1: But you also probably can't come off as having put
- 33:40Speaker 1: too much thought into where else it seems desperate, which
- 33:43Speaker 1: she'll turn somebody off. Publicists want to kill journalists and
- 33:47Speaker 1: vice versa. Yeah, it sounds like a weird relationship for sure,
- 33:51Speaker 1: you know, and then also, did you look up media leads?
- 33:55Speaker 1: So basically there's services out there where journalists say I
- 34:00Speaker 1: need a quote on I'm doing a piece on nuclear fusion,
- 34:04Speaker 1: and I don't even know what that is. So the
- 34:06Speaker 1: source and then this this this UM service that the
- 34:11Speaker 1: journalist calls puts out like a daily year's you know,
- 34:15Speaker 1: maybe even more than once a day newsletter blasts to
- 34:18Speaker 1: PR people who pay for the service, and then they
- 34:21Speaker 1: go through and say, oh, I've actually got a nuclear
- 34:24Speaker 1: physicist on my payroll, and I'm I'm going to connect him.
- 34:28Speaker 1: We've been connected that way before, huh, when we had
- 34:33Speaker 1: different PR firms working for worth US at times UM
- 34:37Speaker 1: they've gotten in touch and say it said so and
- 34:39Speaker 1: so at SpaceX UM wants to know if you want
- 34:42Speaker 1: to come on and talk about this or when we
- 34:44Speaker 1: did that stuff on ABC about when the housing crisis hit. Yeah,
- 34:48Speaker 1: because we're financial experts. Yeah, so stuff like that. Yeah,
- 34:52Speaker 1: I guess it used to come across our desk every
- 34:54Speaker 1: now and then. Well, there's there's subscription services that connect
- 34:58Speaker 1: people through leads. From what I'm seeing is Twitter is
- 35:01Speaker 1: now I'm filling that void a lot where you can
- 35:04Speaker 1: just search Twitter for the hashtag h A r oh,
- 35:07Speaker 1: help a reporter out the reporters um. And then also
- 35:12Speaker 1: I guess there's a lot of PR tastemakers out there
- 35:15Speaker 1: um that are just super connected and will basically tweet
- 35:20Speaker 1: a lead and you don't have to pay a thousand
- 35:22Speaker 1: dollars a more for that subscription service. You just follow
- 35:24Speaker 1: certain people on Twitter, and as a PR person, you
- 35:28Speaker 1: might have somebody that's a client that you connect. Yeah,
- 35:31Speaker 1: the whole that whole new job of being an aggregator
- 35:34Speaker 1: a curator like that. Yeah, like people do that and
- 35:37Speaker 1: that's all they do. But we also live in an
- 35:40Speaker 1: age where people are famous for being famous. Man, I
- 35:45Speaker 1: need to take back a little bit about my tirade
- 35:47Speaker 1: about liars. I think that what I'm talking about our
- 35:52Speaker 1: people publicists for like big celebrities and stuff like that.
- 35:56Speaker 1: Like we've had publicists work with us and at that
- 36:01Speaker 1: of the clients that they work with are like people
- 36:04Speaker 1: like us, where you don't have to like lie and spend. Yeah,
- 36:06Speaker 1: we're always on our best behavior. Yeah, it's just you know,
- 36:08Speaker 1: regular stuff like let me find a good opportunity for
- 36:10Speaker 1: you and connect to you. And so it's I was overstating,
- 36:14Speaker 1: and I think that's just the far edge of the
- 36:16Speaker 1: celebrity end of things, because I just got to thinking
- 36:21Speaker 1: about what if they're listening. I don't want them to
- 36:22Speaker 1: think I didn't think they were doing a good job.
- 36:25Speaker 1: He did a great job. We'll wait to back off
- 36:27Speaker 1: of that one, Chuck. I got one more little thing
- 36:30Speaker 1: on Jim Moron Moran. You just said moron m O
- 36:36Speaker 1: R A N. I think Moran not the way the
- 36:39Speaker 1: friends say moron. Uh. He is was known as the
- 36:43Speaker 1: master of the publicity stunt back in the day. Like
- 36:47Speaker 1: he did things. What his big thing was was to
- 36:49Speaker 1: take a saying and try and disprove it, like for
- 36:52Speaker 1: a company. So he literally went to Alaska on behalf
- 36:56Speaker 1: of g E to sell a refrigerator to Uh, well
- 36:59Speaker 1: it says an s come out. But I guess in
- 37:00Speaker 1: any wits what you would say today. Um, he walked
- 37:04Speaker 1: a bull through a china shop in New York City
- 37:07Speaker 1: is a stunt. I think they broke some things. He
- 37:11Speaker 1: got on a horse for a politician and changed directions
- 37:14Speaker 1: midstream on the horse like rode it through a river
- 37:18Speaker 1: and change directions like you can't do this. Uh. And
- 37:22Speaker 1: then in nine nine for the Premier of the Mouse
- 37:24Speaker 1: That Roared the Great Peter Seller's movie he opened an embassy.
- 37:29Speaker 1: Remember the movie was about a small country that declared
- 37:32Speaker 1: war in a big country because they wanted to declare
- 37:35Speaker 1: war in the US and then surrender and then get
- 37:38Speaker 1: financially from around the world because their economy was but
- 37:41Speaker 1: they ended up winning or something. I don't he opened
- 37:44Speaker 1: an embassy in Washington for a mythical country. Yeah. Speaking
- 37:48Speaker 1: of By the way, I finally saw a Doctor Strangelove. Oh,
- 37:51Speaker 1: really great movie, one of the best. It's up there
- 37:55Speaker 1: for sure, one of the best satires. Let's say it
- 37:58Speaker 1: is a great movie. Great movie. And Peter Seller's man
- 38:02Speaker 1: just he did great. But also I mean, like George C.
- 38:06Speaker 1: Scott was amazing, and he was amazing. And the guy
- 38:08Speaker 1: I can't remember his name that played the colonel or whatever,
- 38:11Speaker 1: the one who lost his marvels. Yea, yeah he was.
- 38:13Speaker 1: He was so good. Everybody was slim Slim Chills or
- 38:18Speaker 1: slim Pickins, Slim Pickins Chills. Yeah, there's Chili. Chill Wills
- 38:24Speaker 1: was another like what country Western actor, Chill Wills, I
- 38:29Speaker 1: think is his name, Chill Wills. You'd recognize him if
- 38:32Speaker 1: you saw his face, Okay, Chill Wills, All right, of course,
- 38:37Speaker 1: Chill Wills makes an appearance and How Publicist Works episode No,
- 38:42Speaker 1: I got nothing else, Thank goodness. If you want to
- 38:44Speaker 1: know more about publicists, you can take this word in
- 38:47Speaker 1: the search part how stuff Works dot com? And I
- 38:49Speaker 1: said search parts was time for listening to mail Did
- 38:54Speaker 1: have one more thing? What was that movie America's Sweethearts?
- 38:57Speaker 1: Did you ever see that? With John cusack Down? You
- 39:00Speaker 1: know Billy Crystal was played a publicist a pain in
- 39:04Speaker 1: the butt Hollywood couple. Oh, best, best portrayal of a
- 39:10Speaker 1: publicist is on Seinfeld. The mom from that seventies show Members.
- 39:13Speaker 1: She played Seinfeld's publicist. Oh she was. Yeah, she tried
- 39:18Speaker 1: to get the airline pilot kicked out of Jerry's show
- 39:20Speaker 1: and he ended up getting I think it's the one
- 39:23Speaker 1: where Kramer's at JFK or LaGuardia. He's making bets on
- 39:29Speaker 1: arrivals and he ends up using the son of Sam
- 39:31Speaker 1: mail Bag as collateral. Right, great episode, but the mom
- 39:35Speaker 1: from that seventies show played Jerry's publicist. Yeah, who was
- 39:40Speaker 1: also on Friends? What was she friends? She played Phoebe's
- 39:44Speaker 1: half brother. Giovanni Ribisi played his girlfriend or wife, Oh yeah,
- 39:49Speaker 1: which is a weird like a mismatch couples, and I
- 39:52Speaker 1: think they were. They got her to be a surrogate
- 39:55Speaker 1: for them. Okay, when Lisa Kudro got pregnant realized, I
- 40:00Speaker 1: think it's how he handled it. We have watched a
- 40:02Speaker 1: lot of all right, I'm gonna call this one. Uh uh.
- 40:09Speaker 1: We were actually right, and this lady was nice at
- 40:12Speaker 1: the dinner party. How's that perspic luve? Okay, hey, guys,
- 40:16Speaker 1: have a little story. I was at a small dinner
- 40:17Speaker 1: party where the host was making his own sea salt.
- 40:22Speaker 1: The topic about It's one of those dinner parties. The
- 40:25Speaker 1: topic of kosher salt came up, so I dropped the
- 40:27Speaker 1: fact from Your Salt episode that Kasher salt is actually
- 40:30Speaker 1: just salt used for drawing blood out of meat to
- 40:32Speaker 1: make a kosher not salt blessed by a rabbi, and
- 40:35Speaker 1: the fellow guest disagreed, which I responded, I'm quite true
- 40:38Speaker 1: about this. The host then said, raise your hand if
- 40:40Speaker 1: you're Jewish, and the guy that disputed me raised his
- 40:43Speaker 1: hand felt rather embarrassed while he explained to me what
- 40:47Speaker 1: kosher means and that salt also goes through the same
- 40:50Speaker 1: kosher process that would ever explained how I backed down
- 40:53Speaker 1: and didn't try to defend the fact that I just
- 40:56Speaker 1: told It's not that I doubted you guys, though I
- 40:58Speaker 1: jokingly said I'd write any mail to complain, but it's
- 41:01Speaker 1: because appeal is disrespectful to correct someone on their own heritage.
- 41:04Speaker 1: Good move. I also didn't want to start any petty
- 41:07Speaker 1: debate with someone at someone else's dinner party, also a
- 41:11Speaker 1: good move, so I decided to take in the embarrassment
- 41:14Speaker 1: while he was explaining what pocher is at the same
- 41:16Speaker 1: time eating a splite of pasta with Rizo. I hope
- 41:20Speaker 1: you find this amusing. Please keep up the good work.
- 41:22Speaker 1: If you read on the show, please give a shout
- 41:23Speaker 1: out to my friend Amber, who introduced me to the show.
- 41:26Speaker 1: And that is from Chloe uh to say. So, wait
- 41:30Speaker 1: a minute, Chuck, were we right and the guy was wrong?
- 41:33Speaker 1: We were right. The Jewish guy was wrong because I
- 41:36Speaker 1: looked it up today just to be sure, and apparently
- 41:38Speaker 1: kosher salt is kosher because in fact, they said it
- 41:42Speaker 1: should be called koshering salt. Yeah, because it's used to
- 41:45Speaker 1: make things kosher. It is not the salt itself, it's kosure.
- 41:48Speaker 1: It would have kept Chloe out of that kind of
- 41:49Speaker 1: suspostion Chloe, it sounds like you have a lot of
- 41:52Speaker 1: tact and dignity, yes, and that it sounds like, yeah,
- 41:56Speaker 1: the guy's a bit of a chlow part. I'm not
- 41:58Speaker 1: ruining the dinner party. So that is from Chloe in Sydney, Australia.
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