Latest / Beyond Limits With Olivia Marie / Survival Mode With Money & Wealth, How To Break The Pattern & Exist At A Different Frequency
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- 0:01SPEAKER_00: Welcome to the Live Well Podcast.
- 0:03SPEAKER_00: I'm your host, Liv, a naturopathic doctor, a mentor, energy healer, a costume creator, intuitive, energetic business mentor, and honestly, so much more.
- 0:12SPEAKER_00: I help you heal on a physical and emotional level so that you can feel delicious in your health, body, relationships, career, and a bank account.
- 0:20SPEAKER_00: This show is for those of you who are looking to go beyond the basic wellness stuff, cut out the BS, and really create a life you love.
- 0:27SPEAKER_00: We talk about health, trauma healing, energetics, feminine energy, wealth, and magnetism so that you can live a life that feels delicious.
- 0:35SPEAKER_00: In these episodes, we will have an honest conversation without the fluffy bullshit.
- 0:39SPEAKER_00: You walk away with all of the insights, tools, and tips to truly live your best life, mind, body, and soul.
- 0:46SPEAKER_00: If you are looking to live well, you are in the right place.
- 0:49SPEAKER_00: For ways to work with me, visit keeupwithlive.com and follow me on Instagram at keep up with live for more.
- 0:54SPEAKER_00: And with that, let's get into the show.
- 0:56SPEAKER_00: Hello, everyone, and welcome back to the Live Well Podcast.
- 1:00SPEAKER_00: I am excited for another episode.
- 1:02SPEAKER_00: We are trying some things to improve the audio.
- 1:05SPEAKER_00: So bear with us as we try to figure stuff out and kind of minimize the echoes.
- 1:09SPEAKER_00: So hopefully there's going to be a little bit better sound.
- 1:12SPEAKER_00: We're working on it.
- 1:13SPEAKER_00: But today, no matter what, there's gonna be a ton of value, and you're gonna want to listen to this episode at least once.
- 1:20SPEAKER_00: If not, save it, send it to a friend because we are talking about survival mode with money and wealth, how to break the pattern and really exist at a different frequency.
- 1:30SPEAKER_00: So we're gonna go ahead and dive in because I find no matter who you are, there can be aspects of survival mode with money and wealth.
- 1:39SPEAKER_00: No matter where you're at in your journey, no matter how much money you make or how much you have, this episode is going to be relevant for you.
- 1:45SPEAKER_00: And I guarantee you're gonna have some aha moments when it comes to money and wealth.
- 1:50SPEAKER_00: So what I want to start off with is that your subconscious mind runs the show.
- 1:56SPEAKER_00: We've heard this before, but it dictates you and your nervous system.
- 2:02SPEAKER_00: And we all know your nervous system controls everything, and it runs your nervous system response, meaning what you think and feel in your subconscious will dictate how your nervous system responds.
- 2:12SPEAKER_00: And this is important because you can use your conscious mind to do affirmations all day long, to do the latest TikTok 3, 6, 9 methods, some lucky girl syndrome, whatever, and all the trends that go on on TikTok.
- 2:28SPEAKER_00: But they won't stick if your subconscious mind is in survival.
- 2:32SPEAKER_00: It will be like throwing spaghetti at a wall, hoping it's gonna stick.
- 2:36SPEAKER_00: Because those actions that you do all use your conscious mind.
- 2:41SPEAKER_00: The affirmations, 369 method, lucky or I don't care, whatever you use.
- 2:45SPEAKER_00: They're all using your conscious mind, which is only 5% of the show.
- 2:49SPEAKER_00: And your subconscious and is 95% of the show.
- 2:52SPEAKER_00: So no wonder it's not working.
- 2:54SPEAKER_00: You're working with the 5% when you should be working with the 95%.
- 2:59SPEAKER_00: Now, what's important is you identify your nervous system response to money.
- 3:04SPEAKER_00: Is it fight, flight, freeze, or fawn?
- 3:06SPEAKER_00: And if you haven't listened to episode 118 of the podcast, go back and listen to that one because I break them all down in detail.
- 3:12SPEAKER_00: So I won't go over it again here.
- 3:14SPEAKER_00: Go back, listen to that one.
- 3:15SPEAKER_00: I do also have I have some other episodes on wealth and money.
- 3:19SPEAKER_00: Go listen to those as well because everything we're talking about here is kind of newish.
- 3:23SPEAKER_00: So it's important to identify what your nervous system response is.
- 3:26SPEAKER_00: And you may already know if you follow my Instagram or if you've listened to that episode.
- 3:30SPEAKER_00: If your nervous system is in any of these states, then it is in survival mode when it comes to money and wealth.
- 3:38SPEAKER_00: It perceives it as a threat.
- 3:40SPEAKER_00: So why the hell would it allow you to receive a threat?
- 3:44SPEAKER_00: Your primal brain is like, fuck no, let me stay away from that.
- 3:47SPEAKER_00: And the thing is, because it is your unconscious mind, you may not even be aware of it.
- 3:52SPEAKER_00: And that's what makes it frustrating.
- 3:54SPEAKER_00: You're doing all these things with your conscious mind, affirmations, 369, visualization, blah, blah, blah.
- 4:00SPEAKER_00: And you're like, why isn't this working?
- 4:02SPEAKER_00: It's because your subconscious, your unconscious mind perceives money as a threat.
- 4:07SPEAKER_00: So it doesn't matter how much you do, and then you're getting frustrated being like, Liv, I'm trying to work on it, I'm doing all these things, but it's not working.
- 4:13SPEAKER_00: And it's not working because it's a problem with your subconscious mind, not the conscious part.
- 4:19SPEAKER_00: So if your system views it as a threat, it's going to be very difficult to attract it in or to hold it.
- 4:27SPEAKER_00: And why it views it as a threat is going to vary from person to person.
- 4:31SPEAKER_00: Everyone is different depending on your life experiences, your upbringing, the family you were born into.
- 4:36SPEAKER_00: Even siblings who grow up in the same house can have different perceptions about situations and events and can have different relationships with money based on that.
- 4:46SPEAKER_00: But if it views it as a threat, again, it's going to be difficult to bring it in.
- 4:51SPEAKER_00: Or if it comes in, it might leave just as quickly.
- 4:54SPEAKER_00: It might come in and then you manifest a bill to pay, or it has to go to this or that.
- 4:58SPEAKER_00: So anytime you feel like that is happening or it's hard to come in, use it as a point of curiosity, as oh, my nervous system is in fight or flight right now.
- 5:12SPEAKER_00: What do I need to do in order to get it out of that, right?
- 5:15SPEAKER_00: So if, for example, you feel like money is a threat, maybe because mom and dad fought about money.
- 5:24SPEAKER_00: So your brain, when you were younger, developed a story and structure of money equals mom and dad fighting.
- 5:30SPEAKER_00: Fighting makes me sad or anxious or scared.
- 5:34SPEAKER_00: Money makes me feel scared, anxious, sad.
- 5:37SPEAKER_00: And because your little brain is so sensitive when you're little, especially before the age of seven, you take these on as truths and they become subconscious programming that runs the show.
- 5:45SPEAKER_00: So your conscious mind is like, no, no, I feel safe with money.
- 5:48SPEAKER_00: I want more.
- 5:50SPEAKER_00: But your subconscious mind is like, no, money means anxiety, stress, sadness, being scared.
- 5:56SPEAKER_00: And so it's going to push it away.
- 5:59SPEAKER_00: Your subconscious will not feel safe until you dissolve the emotional attachment between money and wealth and whatever survival mode you are in.
- 6:07SPEAKER_00: Let me say that again.
- 6:09SPEAKER_00: Your subconscious will not feel safe until you dissolve the emotional attachment between money and wealth and whatever survival mode that you are in.
- 6:18SPEAKER_00: Star, underline, it will continue to run the show.
- 6:22SPEAKER_00: And the problem is that when you don't finish the trauma cycle, when you don't heal your repressed emotions, your brain doesn't actually know the difference between what was going on when you were seven and what is going on now.
- 6:33SPEAKER_00: Because until you complete it, there is no past, present, and future.
- 6:37SPEAKER_00: Your brain only knows the now.
- 6:38SPEAKER_00: So it's experiencing this like it's happening right now.
- 6:42SPEAKER_00: And if it keeps experiencing it like it's happening now, all this is gonna do is reinforce the same cycle in your life.
- 6:48SPEAKER_00: And that's why things become patterns.
- 6:51SPEAKER_00: That's why year after year things can be the same.
- 6:53SPEAKER_00: Because if you don't break out of that and stop the pattern and dissolve it, cut it, break the cycle, it's gonna be the same show over and over because you're in fight or flight.
- 7:04SPEAKER_00: So I want you to at least start to become aware of these things.
- 7:07SPEAKER_00: And then, of course, if you want to dissolve it, that's where wealth read code comes in.
- 7:11SPEAKER_00: Or we can do this in one-on-one.
- 7:12SPEAKER_00: You can read about either down below.
- 7:14SPEAKER_00: It's kind of like the deep container to do the nervous system work to release and dissolve attachment.
- 7:19SPEAKER_00: I know it can be hard to become aware of yourself, and that's part of the power that I work, I do because it is unconscious, right?
- 7:27SPEAKER_00: So you might not even be aware that it was a fact of mom and dad fighting.
- 7:31SPEAKER_00: You might think it is, but you may not know fully.
- 7:34SPEAKER_00: And so unconscious, it's not in your conscious mind.
- 7:37SPEAKER_00: It can be difficult for you to locate on your own.
- 7:39SPEAKER_00: And so that's why it can be really powerful to be in containers that can help identify it for you.
- 7:46SPEAKER_00: And what I also want you to understand is that your system can be in survival mode if you are counting every penny, and it can be in survival mode if you are making quote unquote lots of money.
- 7:58SPEAKER_00: I've had clients at 100k months in survival mode with money.
- 8:02SPEAKER_00: So even if you feel like you can't break a ceiling, that could be your nervous system in survival mode.
- 8:08SPEAKER_00: It might have been safe up to a point to make a certain amount of income.
- 8:11SPEAKER_00: If you feel like you can't get above a certain amount, it's your nervous system.
- 8:15SPEAKER_00: Your nervous system is in survival mode, it is not safe.
- 8:17SPEAKER_00: So going even deeper, when you are in survival mode, your brain is primed to look for danger.
- 8:24SPEAKER_00: Anything that can be a threat.
- 8:26SPEAKER_00: It keeps your eyes peeled for it.
- 8:28SPEAKER_00: Like you are a gazelle walking, you know, in Africa, keeping an eye out for a cheetah.
- 8:34SPEAKER_00: So when you are in survival mode with money and wealth, your brain is programmed to look for lack.
- 8:38SPEAKER_00: Because if it can look for lack and see it, it might be able to protect you from it.
- 8:44SPEAKER_00: Mind blown, right?
- 8:45SPEAKER_00: So it's focused on finding the threat, the lack, the cheetah.
- 8:49SPEAKER_00: And that is very hard to see the abundance when you're looking for lack and threat.
- 8:53SPEAKER_00: But that's only because you're in survival mode.
- 8:55SPEAKER_00: Your brain will not let you because it needs to keep you safe.
- 8:57SPEAKER_00: So it needs to keep a lookout for the cheetah, for the lack, for the threat.
- 9:01SPEAKER_00: It needs to keep you in that because it believes that's what's going to keep you safe.
- 9:05SPEAKER_00: Because ultimately, well, if you can spot the cheetah, you can get away from it.
- 9:09SPEAKER_00: So if you can find the threat, find the lack, oh, there's lack here, let's protect.
- 9:13SPEAKER_00: Oh, we don't have enough here, let's protect.
- 9:15SPEAKER_00: So I just wanted it to pop on and let you guys know that wealth recode is officially open.
- 9:21SPEAKER_00: I am so excited.
- 9:22SPEAKER_00: This is the first wealth program I've ever done to deeply recode your nervous system to feel safe around money and wealth, which means live healing calls with me where we do the work so that your body can now feel safe to receive and be in overflow.
- 9:38SPEAKER_00: We are going to be doing all the stuff to reprogram all the loading beliefs, bringing safety around money, generational trauma.
- 9:44SPEAKER_00: It's going to be one JC program.
- 9:47SPEAKER_00: And I don't want you to miss out because I don't know the next time I'm going to be doing this live.
- 9:51SPEAKER_00: So if you know you want to heal your relationship with money, become a higher match for wealth of all kinds, and just bring nervous system safety into money, then this is the program for you.
- 10:01SPEAKER_00: So we're gonna leave all the links down below.
- 10:03SPEAKER_00: Check it out.
- 10:04SPEAKER_00: Let me know if you have any questions.
- 10:05SPEAKER_00: This is going to be one hell of a program, and I'm so excited for those of you already inside.
- 10:10SPEAKER_00: And with that, let's get back to the show.
- 10:12SPEAKER_00: Remember, when you are in survival with money and wealth, your brain is programmed to look for lack.
- 10:18SPEAKER_00: Because if it looks for lack, it will be able to protect you from it.
- 10:22SPEAKER_00: Star, underline, like that thing alone should have just like clicked something in your brain and been like, holy shit, Liv, you just explained my whole relationship with money.
- 10:30SPEAKER_00: So there's a great question in the portal, which if you guys don't know, it's kind of my free community on Telegram.
- 10:36SPEAKER_00: We also have a Facebook group where we do videos and lives and everything.
- 10:38SPEAKER_00: And I like to ask questions in there.
- 10:40SPEAKER_00: I post activations.
- 10:41SPEAKER_00: It's just a wonderful free, intimate community where I post extra things either before or that I don't post anywhere else.
- 10:47SPEAKER_00: So there was a great question in there about what is the best way to upgrade your frequency to be able to hold more money and believe it will happen to you.
- 10:56SPEAKER_00: The number one thing, if we have seen from this episode, is that you need to heal your nervous system and bring safety into it based on what specifically triggered your system.
- 11:06SPEAKER_00: So for you, is it the fear around mom and dad fighting about money?
- 11:11SPEAKER_00: So that is why you feel fear about money, right?
- 11:14SPEAKER_00: Everyone's trigger is going to be different.
- 11:16SPEAKER_00: So you need to have someone identified for you and/or do the work to heal your system to bring safety around what specifically triggers you.
- 11:24SPEAKER_00: And that's why there is no like one size fits all in terms of what triggers people.
- 11:28SPEAKER_00: There are trends in terms of fear, guilt, shame for sure.
- 11:32SPEAKER_00: But the specific memory is obviously going to vary from person to person.
- 11:36SPEAKER_00: And even if you're saying, but Liv, like, you know, my parents didn't fight about money.
- 11:40SPEAKER_00: Like we had money growing up.
- 11:41SPEAKER_00: That wasn't really, you know, a thing.
- 11:44SPEAKER_00: Children do not only pick up on like the front their parents face, but children pick up on the unconscious nervous system response of parents to money.
- 11:56SPEAKER_00: Parents might outwardly have been like said, oh, all is okay, but you can feel how they feel about money on the inside.
- 12:02SPEAKER_00: And or maybe that's why you can't break a glass ceiling.
- 12:05SPEAKER_00: So it's like you have money, you're comfortable, you're fine, but your nervous system wouldn't be able to receive maybe a million dollars a year or maybe$10 million a year.
- 12:14SPEAKER_00: It doesn't matter, right?
- 12:15SPEAKER_00: So just sitting with that and really doing the nervous system work to bring it into that.
- 12:19SPEAKER_00: If you already know, oh yeah, it was probably a little bit of this, a little bit of that, beautiful, we can start to heal it.
- 12:26SPEAKER_00: And so I want you to sit with the parts that believe it is not possible, right?
- 12:30SPEAKER_00: Because she asked, you know, believe it will happen for you.
- 12:32SPEAKER_00: Sit with the parts that believe it's not possible.
- 12:34SPEAKER_00: And whose truth is that?
- 12:36SPEAKER_00: And what can you decide instead?
- 12:38SPEAKER_00: Because it's all a choice and a decision.
- 12:40SPEAKER_00: The thing is that we tend to pick up the story structures and truths of other people when we're really young and our brain is a sponge and we don't know any better.
- 12:49SPEAKER_00: And so we look to people normally caring after us.
- 12:51SPEAKER_00: And if mom and dad believes that you have to work hard to make money, then that's probably what we're gonna believe.
- 12:56SPEAKER_00: If they believe that money is stressful, that there's never enough, that it isn't growing trees, it always comes and then it goes, you know, we can see how that starts to program into your mind.
- 13:07SPEAKER_00: So you need to choose a new truth for yourself.
- 13:09SPEAKER_00: So figure out what those are, what parts believe it's not possible, whose truth is that?
- 13:14SPEAKER_00: Because you did not come into this world believing lack.
- 13:17SPEAKER_00: You did not come into this world with limiting beliefs.
- 13:19SPEAKER_00: You pick them up from parents, society, people you surround yourself with when you were young.
- 13:24SPEAKER_00: You picked up whatever projections they were throwing out at you.
- 13:28SPEAKER_00: Not your fault, not their fault.
- 13:29SPEAKER_00: That was their truth, doesn't have to be yours.
- 13:31SPEAKER_00: But it's all a choice and it's all a decision.
- 13:33SPEAKER_00: However, it does require to do the deeper work around money and wealth.
- 13:38SPEAKER_00: Which brings me to the next one, which is to refine who you surround yourself with.
- 13:43SPEAKER_00: And this kind of goes into being able to hold more and believing it will happen for you.
- 13:48SPEAKER_00: When you surround yourself with expanders, and I've said this before about anything, whether it's expanders in your health, in your relationships, in your physique, in I don't know, someone who can run marathons or it doesn't matter.
- 13:59SPEAKER_00: In any aspect is going to change and upgrade your frequency to be able to hold more and make you believe it will happen for you.
- 14:08SPEAKER_00: Look at who you surround yourself with.
- 14:11SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna give a client example.
- 14:12SPEAKER_00: So I have a client, she is an entrepreneur, she is a mom, a single mom, killing it, I will say.
- 14:19SPEAKER_00: But she's starting a new business and she's the only one she knows who's an entrepreneur out of her friends starting a business, running an online company.
- 14:28SPEAKER_00: Like she's the CEO, she's the founder, she's launching product, like it's a big deal.
- 14:33SPEAKER_00: But it's hard for her because all the examples around her are people who believe she can't do it, it's going to be too hard, you know, she won't be able to make X amount of money, whatever it is, because that's their truth, and that's the representation she has around her.
- 14:48SPEAKER_00: Versus now surrounding herself and getting into my world and getting her to make more friends with like entrepreneurs, people who are representation of that.
- 14:57SPEAKER_00: Because you can believe it will happen for you once you see how other people like live that way, and it's just kind of common.
- 15:04SPEAKER_00: So, one of the best ways to just upgrade your frequency and to believe it will happen for you is to surround yourself with expanders.
- 15:10SPEAKER_00: I mean, I do the same way with my friends, with my mentors.
- 15:15SPEAKER_00: You know, surround yourself with people who are making million dollar months, and yeah, you're gonna believe it's possible because it's like if they can do it, why can't I?
- 15:23SPEAKER_00: So, where do you need to look at who you're surrounding yourself with?
- 15:26SPEAKER_00: And that doesn't mean that these other people are bad or wrong, but if they have a limited view of the world and they don't believe it's possible, you're going to be subjecting yourself to unnecessary projections that you're then going to have to make sure you don't absorb, especially if you're having open sacral in human design, you really don't want to be absorbing that.
- 15:46SPEAKER_00: And so you're gonna have to be very careful.
- 15:48SPEAKER_00: So really look at who you surround yourself with.
- 15:50SPEAKER_00: And can you get into the energy environment of people who have something you desire?
- 15:54SPEAKER_00: Can you listen to their podcast?
- 15:56SPEAKER_00: Can you follow them on Instagram?
- 15:57SPEAKER_00: Can you get in their energy?
- 15:58SPEAKER_00: Can you get a program from them?
- 15:59SPEAKER_00: Can you be able to ask them questions?
- 16:01SPEAKER_00: Like, how can you get more in their energy?
- 16:03SPEAKER_00: And how can you refine and remove any kind of lack?
- 16:07SPEAKER_00: And then the last thing I want to say in terms of like the best way to upgrade your frequency to hold more and believe it will happen to you, is to look at generational trauma.
- 16:14SPEAKER_00: Now I'm actually gonna be doing a whole separate episode on this, but I want to kind of sprinkle it in here because it's very relevant.
- 16:19SPEAKER_00: This is something that I worked with a lot.
- 16:21SPEAKER_00: Was it the beginning of this year?
- 16:22SPEAKER_00: Last year, end of last year?
- 16:24SPEAKER_00: Time is weird.
- 16:26SPEAKER_00: Working with generational trauma when it comes to money, because we are all born into different family scenarios.
- 16:30SPEAKER_00: What A, you have to understand is you chose it.
- 16:32SPEAKER_00: So as much as we probably all would have wanted to maybe be born a what is it, a Kardashian with like lots of money, privilege, whatever.
- 16:41SPEAKER_00: We also chose the families you're born into to probably heal and do things.
- 16:45SPEAKER_00: If you look back at not just your mother and father, but your grandparents and the generations that lived before them, was there any famine?
- 16:54SPEAKER_00: Was there any poverty?
- 16:55SPEAKER_00: Was there any lack of money?
- 16:56SPEAKER_00: That stuff is coded in your DNA.
- 16:58SPEAKER_00: And like I said, we're gonna do another little episode in that.
- 17:00SPEAKER_00: So stay tuned for that one.
- 17:01SPEAKER_00: It's gonna be one of the next ones.
- 17:03SPEAKER_00: But to upgrade your frequency to behold more, if you are a groundbreaker, if you are the first person in your family, in your line to do this work to break the ceiling, to set this new standard, it's going to be a little harder.
- 17:18SPEAKER_00: It's going to require a little more effort because you are the first one in your line to do it.
- 17:23SPEAKER_00: And I get it.
- 17:24SPEAKER_00: Having being that person, I get it.
- 17:26SPEAKER_00: First one.
- 17:27SPEAKER_00: So even understanding your family history, we can also do like in Wealth Rico, we're actually going to be doing some generational trauma work around money and going back not only into like parents and grandparents, but we're going to be going back into generations and generations, like thousands and thousands of years back to kind of clear it out.
- 17:45SPEAKER_00: Because those people can make vows, those people can make vows of poverty, those people can make vows to never be rich, depending if they believe rich is greedy, if they had money and lost it all.
- 17:54SPEAKER_00: Like there's so much that your soul came into this world with holding that we need to dissolve that may be influencing your nervous system beyond what happened to you in this life.
- 18:04SPEAKER_00: So, with all of those four points, those are, I would say, like the best way to be able to hold more money and believe it will happen for you.
- 18:12SPEAKER_00: And yeah, so those of you in Wealth Recode, we will be doing all of this work live with me.
- 18:17SPEAKER_00: I'm so excited.
- 18:18SPEAKER_00: I actually don't know if I will run this program live again this year.
- 18:22SPEAKER_00: We got some other fun stuff in the works.
- 18:23SPEAKER_00: So if you want to get in, especially live, I don't know if I'll ever make it in Evergreen.
- 18:27SPEAKER_00: We'll see.
- 18:28SPEAKER_00: If you want to get in live, do the work around wealth and money, not just for yourself, but honestly for your kids, for future generations, for your whole family line.
- 18:36SPEAKER_00: It's going to be one hell of a powerful experience.
- 18:39SPEAKER_00: If you have any questions about kind of like survival mode, nervous system money and wealth, please let me know.
- 18:44SPEAKER_00: I'm happy to clarify anything for you.
- 18:46SPEAKER_00: If you're wondering whether wealth recode is a bet, just ask me any questions on Instagram, and then we can go from there.
- 18:52SPEAKER_00: But with that being said, I hope you guys now understand survival mode, money, and wealth, how to start to break the pattern, become aware of things, and existing at a different frequency.
- 19:01SPEAKER_00: And I will see you guys in the next episode.