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FAN MAIL FROM TONY! LET'S TALK ABOUT VIRTUAL DOMINATION AND A SEX ADDICTION · CALL ME MISTRESS

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  Hi, welcome to the latest episode of Call Me Mistress.
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  I'm your Hostess, Mistress Mia, and today I bring you fan mail.
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  How exciting. Tony has written me again.
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  And for those of you who are not familiar with Tony, Tony has
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  written me for the last year and we have talked in great lengths
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  about his marriage, his life, his fetishes, his kinks, and his
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  exploration with a lot of things.
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  He's also struggled with past experiences in his bisexuality
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  and doing poppers and watching gay porn just like me.
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  So he writes to me and he says, Mistress, amazing picture
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  because I sent Tony a picture of me sucking Dick.
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  No, not everyone can have that picture.
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  I just sent it to Tony because he's special, very special to
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  me. You are Tony, so I continue.
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  Thank you for sending it. You got me wondering who that
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  lucky slave was. I didn't know you had a sex
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  addiction when you were younger. How did you overcome that
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  addiction? Or is it something you still
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  deal with? Thank you again for your advice
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  and wisdom. Writing to you has honestly been
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  very therapeutic and helpful. I was hesitant to reach out at
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  first for fear of bothering you, but I'm so glad I did.
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  I loved hearing you recount your doctor's story.
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  Lately I've been more open to cuck play again.
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  It's one of those things that looks more fun as I mature.
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  Like your doctor, I love hearing about your stories.
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  I attached a link to that Twitter account I mentioned.
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  They do really great bondage and it looks like a lot of fun.
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  We definitely share tastes in gay porn.
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  Everything I watch needs to have older bear daddies too.
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  Thank you for offering some virtual domination.
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  I'd love to try it sometime with you.
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  I'd love to hear what kind of session ideas you may have.
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  I bet we could create really fun scenarios together.
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  And pardon me for saying, but I think your husband was wrong.
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  I don't think you define me by my kinks at all.
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  I think you just know what feels and feeds people's kinks and you
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  know how to nurture it, and that's a gift.
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  Thank you for helping me nurture mine, Tony.
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  So at the beginning of this, and I sent you that picture that was
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  from a very good lover of mine before I was married.
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  It was really fucking hot. I remember one time I laid
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  across my bar just so he could eat my pussy.
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  It was one of those, you know, short lived experiences.
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  And short lived was exactly what it needed to be.
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  And I did talk to you about my sex addiction.
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  I mentioned that on a previous episode, and I'll tell you that
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  I still really have not overcome my sex addiction.
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  It's one of those things that I live with on a daily basis.
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  You know, a lot of people are just like, yeah, you know, going
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  through menopause or having issues as a woman when you get
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  older. Well, I haven't reached that
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  point in my life. I haven't gone through
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  menopause. I haven't dealt with any of
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  that. And I'm almost 50.
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  And so honestly, I, I, I fucking love sex.
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  I love sex. I love the attention, love
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  talking about sex. Very inappropriate at times.
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  And you know, some people just aren't matched to my level of
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  sexual behavior. You know, tonight I was really
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  fucking excited and I decided to write my Sissy and I said so
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  bitch, do we need to get extra dirty this weekend and make you
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  do deplorable things like eat my shit?
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  Or do we need to just play Patty cake and keep it simple?
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  Because honestly, my husband quite often pacifies me with
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  really knowing how to get me off.
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  But other times I know he's fucking exhausted.
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  I mean, when you work 50 hours a week, you really can't keep up
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  with Mistress Mia. So that's another reason why I
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  enjoy seeing people and catering to their fetishes.
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  So whether it's choking someone out or sitting on their face
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  playing with my friends or beating someone's ass, just
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  constantly fills that empty void of wanting it so badly.
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  Like you want to hump something all the fucking time or get
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  fucking plowed with a huge cock knowing you really couldn't take
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  it. But then again, life is life.
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  What do you do, Tony? You just fucking live with it
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  and you deal with it again. I am so glad that I hope I give
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  you useful advice. I'm not always right.
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  I try to be as helpful as I possibly can and that's why I
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  would never deter anyone from contacting me to ask me just my
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  advice or about my experience and and what I have experienced
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  in BDSM in the last 30 plus years.
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  Now as far as you reaching out to me, don't ever feel like
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  you're bothering me. Emails are not an inconvenience
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  to me, you know. It's inconvenience to me is when
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  I have some fucker that wants to message me or call me and try to
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  wake me up at two 3:00 in the morning.
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  That's why I have to turn my ringer off at night.
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  But times like this when my husband's in fucking Europe, I
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  really can't do that. So I have to leave my ringer on.
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  But it gives me the pleasure of calling someone back at a normal
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  time and say, oh, I'm sorry, did I wake you up?
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  Anyway, you got to be a bitch, you really do.
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  You have to be a bitch back at some inconsiderate fuck.
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  As far as my doctor goes, my doctor in Fort Lauderdale, he
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  was fucking hot. I love to hear him suck Dick.
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  He had his phone with him so much of the time.
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  Or he would go in and suck Dick and I would listen to it.
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  So I mean, how could you really complain about that?
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  It was hot as fuck. Now I do have a doctor here.
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  He's one of my oldest clients. It's been about 2025 years that
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  I've. I've known him and seen him, but
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  he's extremely needy. He's a little Sissy slave, and
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  again, I love to do deplorable things to him, but when you were
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  talking about being more open to cook play, everyone has their
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  distinct description or idea of what cook play should consist
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  of. Would you want to lock up your
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  cock and let your wife fuck another guy?
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  Would you be happy in doing it? Doesn't sound like she would be
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  a willing candidate on that. But I totally understand.
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  Sometimes I wish my husband would kind of crossover that
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  bridge. But it's not like I want to fuck
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  a bunch of people either. So that that kind of grosses me
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  out at the thought of that just because, you know, I had a
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  friend that recently got syphilis from unprotected sex.
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  And then it's like all the diseases that are floating
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  around. Yeah.
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  And especially in our kinky little lifestyle, you just don't
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  know. But condoms are only going to
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  protect you so much. So when you're thinking about
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  just playing and having fun, I'm thinking if we do any type of
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  virtual anything, we could probably exchange porn together,
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  talk about it. I could watch you masturbate.
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  I could watch you stick things in your ass.
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  I could make you do poppers. I mean, we can really set up any
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  type of scene you want to do. It's not about what I want.
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  It's really ideally about everything you want to fulfill
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  and what kind of fantasies you have.
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  I've done virtual domination before with different people
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  where I've had them go in and throughout their house and
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  gather things to stick in their ass.
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  But then I've had others where I've just done simple things
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  like my Sissy make him kneel on his knees or sit facing a corner
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  or stand facing a corner for a couple of hours at a time.
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  So it's really about what you want.
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  What kind of fulfilling scenario would really complete you?
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  OK, now, I think that when you said I think your husband was
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  wrong, he's probably quite wrong about that.
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  I really don't define people by their kinks at all.
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  But we were having a discussion and it kind of led into having
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  my Sissy slave possibly live with us at some point in time.
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  But he has got his own personal baggage that he's got to work
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  through. And when I tell my husband this,
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  he says things like, you know, do not see him past his kinks,
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  you know, like he has a life. And I said well here's the
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  thing, his true kink, his true fetish of what he wants is to be
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  a locked up Sissy cleaning my fucking house, sniffing my ass
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  and doing whatever the fuck I want.
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  Leaving his freedom outside of our life.
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  Like he can't fucking leave unless I want him to.
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  Whether or not that's realistic, I guess only time will tell.
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  It really just depends on how dedicated you are.
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  You know, I had a gentleman and he's a longtime friend of the
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  dungeon and he recently came for a visit.
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  He's over 85 years old. He's he's quite elderly, but he
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  still works and he's just a very wise kind, really a great man.
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  I really admire him. I like him very much.
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  I have a lot of respect for him. He is a slave and it's quite a
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  sad love story. But years ago he met this
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  couple, this husband and wife, and what I'm saying, quite a
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  while ago. This is like 40 years ago.
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  And he was their slave for 30 plus years.
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  Ultimately, they died. They've been gone in the last,
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  you know, 15 years that I've known of him.
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  So this is probably almost 50 years ago.
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  Jesus. Yeah.
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  Because he said he met them in his 30s, maybe his late 30s.
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  But he was never married, never had kids or anything.
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  But he met this couple and he was a slave for them, for, you
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  know, 30 plus years until they died.
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  And when he told me, he's like, yeah, I did this.
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  You know, I was very much in love with them, and we had this
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  great life together. But, you know, first the husband
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  died, and then just a few years later, the wife died.
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  And, you know, I lost my partners, and now I'm all alone.
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  And that's why he started coming to the dungeon like, 15 years
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  ago. So you can imagine how things
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  kind of go in that situation. But he gets fulfilling things
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  that happened to him here, and it makes him happy.
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  So that's all that matters. So Tony, you need to do what
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  makes you happy, you know, in a healthy, sane way.
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  And I think if you want to try virtual nomination and you want
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  to try to do a scenario or any type of scene, e-mail me.
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  Let's talk about it. Let's see what we can do.
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  I still have not spoken with you yet on the phone.
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  So anytime you want to call me, my number is on my website and
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  we can get down to business anytime you want.
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  Now I will say to all the listeners, I appreciate you so
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  much. My numbers keep going up.
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  We are again in 190 countries. We're all over the world and
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  it's because of you. I appreciate it tremendously.
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  I keep getting emails from people, more videos, more
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  videos. We will get out some fucked up
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  Fridays very soon. Right now I just have a party
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  planning in November. I just got through one party.
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  I lost my puppy and it's been a lot the last few months.
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  So as soon as I get a few things together, we'll do some fucked
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  up Fridays. I have some willing candidates
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  who want to join us and do some crazy fucked up shit as we need
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  to be doing anyway. Please feel free to post a nice
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  review on Apple or any podcast and think of me.
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  Thank you again for listening and this has been the latest
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  episode of Call Me Mistress.