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REACTION TIME TUESDAY · BLACK HOT FIRE NETWORK SHOW'S

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  Speaker 3: And then she was just seeing like word to word,
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  Speaker 3: and I'm like, god, damn, just the action, you know,
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  Speaker 3: lyrics to it. But anyway, carry bony something that is
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  Speaker 7: Last got after but before got here. But you said
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  Speaker 7: it's just a quiet person.
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  Speaker 3: my new I don't like it's a gang tune or
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  Speaker 3: a drill. That's not a drill. It's like kind of
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  Speaker 3: a little dance on. Yeah, as a dancer. Yeah, you know, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: not carry boni? How are you guys doing? Thank you
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  Speaker 3: so much.
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  Speaker 7: You're doing amazing. I'm doing amazing, home blessed. Distraction came BALI,
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  Speaker 7: I'm being amazing blessed and yeah, great.
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  Speaker 8: I'm really great. Is in This is how I was
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  Speaker 8: feeling today. But this jack I was feeling it's the one.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, I was telling him to give me this jacket.
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  Speaker 7: Animal print is like my favorite prints.
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  Speaker 3: Literally what she said nice, nice to really really good things.
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  Speaker 7: I know I always passed. You know I am turning
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  Speaker 7: he has, but I've been going to the one I
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  Speaker 7: think I changed. Yes, I used to buy over there
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  Speaker 7: under the same price, so it's.
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  Speaker 3: Like also new word. But Nicole like because.
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  Speaker 7: The worst because I was there like last week I'm like,
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  Speaker 7: I bought a younger le a jacket. I didn't get
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  Speaker 7: anything nice, and I was like, I want to to
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  Speaker 7: you need to you know, Yeah, Camela, she has been
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  Speaker 7: pulling up with like really nice.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, a lot. I can't get enough as well. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: they just look good, you know, and then you can
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  Speaker 3: rock them with anything.
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  Speaker 8: The funny thing is across the road there's a guy
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  Speaker 8: selling T shirts at twice the price and what I
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  Speaker 2: Sh show show like.
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  Speaker 3: Can you you can by and this is just less
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  Speaker 3: than a dollar for those.
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  Speaker 2: I look.
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  Speaker 9: Period justly a marching brown and black. I didn't even
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  Speaker 6: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but anyway, carry BONI. I'm also doing amazing complain today,
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  Speaker 3: really feeling sated today. I don't know why I told you.
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  Speaker 3: I like expressing my feelings, like letting my whatever outside
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  Speaker 3: for the day, talking, talking so many talking. Woke up
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  Speaker 3: feeling that way. But I'm just feeling better right now. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I met a baby that was really looking so cute
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  Speaker 3: and chubby and just like you know, and I felt
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  Speaker 3: really good.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, and then babies and.
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  Speaker 3: Then so come less, you know, with this weirdness ignited
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  Speaker 3: my mode, you know, of course also having the show.
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  Speaker 3: I was personally also having my show. It just changes
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  Speaker 3: my brightens my mood and having someone like Kid who's
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  Speaker 3: always gonna always crack your ribs in different ways. So, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: don't be so poor and so black, by the way,
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  Speaker 3: that's the has But on today's conversation, she'll be talking about, Hey,
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  Speaker 3: there's a traumatizing video currently at actually three hundred and
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  Speaker 3: seventeen nine seventy two likes on TikTok. I bet millions
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  Speaker 3: of views currently, very traumatizing story. When I was listening
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  Speaker 3: to this, actually I asked myself, how did I even
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  Speaker 3: listen to this? It's the similar to to to where
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  Speaker 3: we had this lady were Once she was called by
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  Speaker 3: a famous radio station writing in the two five four
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  Speaker 3: and she admitted to be sleeping with her father. What
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  Speaker 3: I mean, norm she needed to be sleeping on radio. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: she admitted to be sleeping with her father, and she
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  Speaker 3: also admitted that she was she was envious of Mom.
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  Speaker 3: It came to the point where because they were going
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  Speaker 3: on the case of being like you know you no
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  Speaker 3: good times with the dad now private times, to the
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  Speaker 3: point where she now became super jealous of the mom,
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  Speaker 3: and I don't know the mom discovered and I remember,
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  Speaker 3: I don't know if she discovered. It was just a confusion. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: So this is this lady I've seen a couple of times.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe she might be familiar to you. She's I know her.
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  Speaker 3: She does make up, makeup stories and all that. So
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  Speaker 3: this is one of our I love our makeup actually
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  Speaker 3: because which I feel like she's simple, you know, I
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  Speaker 3: can't compareng We feel like it's more dog Yeah, like
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  Speaker 3: that's yeah, come make up, which I really really because
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  Speaker 3: I learned a lot of so when it comes to
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  Speaker 3: make up, articis in different ways because their clients. You
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  Speaker 3: know what people like eyebrows, what is trying? What is
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  Speaker 3: that coble? So she was telling this story. This is traumatizing.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know. It's the audacity of how many people
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  Speaker 3: also doing this out there. It's the similar story. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: she was sleeping with her father from when she was
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  Speaker 3: in high school and mom never knew. It became the
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  Speaker 3: first case it was weird. Then they apologized to each other,
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  Speaker 3: then comment and graduation and hug lives and then everyone
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  Speaker 3: was quiet. One of them, I think. So, I don't
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  Speaker 3: know if you've seen the reaction of the this this
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  Speaker 3: famous guy and social then the guy he was like,
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  Speaker 3: I was sleeping with you. What I'm gonna say is reaction.
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  Speaker 3: She was super super elate, but listened to this side.
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  Speaker 10: Check for the past years now story telling my father
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  Speaker 10: and I go together when I was really in high school.
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  Speaker 10: This is going to be a big complex to explain.
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  Speaker 10: But follow me closely, sir, you don't end up judging
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  Speaker 10: me wrong.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, you real judge.
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  Speaker 3: We're listening, and we're judging.
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  Speaker 10: The only girl you know that probably are very close
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  Speaker 10: to your dad, Granda, I wasn't the only girl, but
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  Speaker 10: I ended up losing my other sister.
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  Speaker 11: What's the other girl in the family.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like growing up with a very awkward dad,
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  Speaker 3: that's why we saw it was even we are there
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  Speaker 3: twenty viral of our father hanging his daughter very closely,
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  Speaker 3: and then everyone rose term tramps online was like, that
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  Speaker 3: is not the way to handle our daughter. That is
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  Speaker 3: not the way our father should handle our daughter. You guys,
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  Speaker 3: there's something going on? Or is this as great? I
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  Speaker 3: feel like personally so growing up from such a background,
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  Speaker 3: I'd be so quick to judge if I see reviews
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  Speaker 3: or parents, especially male male parents, was so close to
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  Speaker 3: their daughters. I don't know. It's because of growing up
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  Speaker 3: with a really cold father. That makes me reason it's
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  Speaker 3: sad to have that closure. That's closeness, yeah, closeness with
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  Speaker 3: your dad, you know, but not making it look intimate,
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  Speaker 3: because I feel like some really look intimate.
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  Speaker 7: I think it comes from a space of maybe the
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  Speaker 7: society how and of course also the society as has
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  Speaker 7: actually put it out there, and of course also from
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  Speaker 7: a space of maybe if you didn't get that or
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  Speaker 7: you didn't say that is not a familiar relationship because
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  Speaker 7: I've been into homeswell, because I also minim you know,
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  Speaker 7: nothing to do with like saying I love you, like
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  Speaker 7: yeahgain is that lay our body in three months later
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  Speaker 7: and I can be but it's not like every day
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  Speaker 7: we have and we tell picture that good night, I
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  Speaker 7: love you know, and be a good night. I end.
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  Speaker 7: So that's that, That's just the way. And then I
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  Speaker 7: go to families Nana how they're very close with their parents.
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  Speaker 7: I'm like, oh my god, you even tell your parents
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  Speaker 7: like that?
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  Speaker 3: And it got me thinking it just depends on on
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  Speaker 3: on on the family you come from.
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  Speaker 7: Literally because it actually exists their fathers who have like
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  Speaker 7: that good relationship with their daughters like me, now you're
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  Speaker 7: a boy. I don't know if you guys have seen
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  Speaker 7: men they're going to their mother's. Maybe my mom can
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  Speaker 7: watch TV and then and I'm going to the mother
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  Speaker 7: is gonna react, like for example, I'm just watching TV
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  Speaker 7: and then my boy comes, you know, and your son,
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  Speaker 7: my son, he comes and then is on my arms
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  Speaker 7: and then just to see all mothers react and most
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  Speaker 7: of them they're just like opening their arms and hugging
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  Speaker 7: them out. It's I've seen for boys and their moms.
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  Speaker 7: You know, dads and their daughters is the same.
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  Speaker 3: What about daughters and their moms.
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  Speaker 7: I've not seen as I've seen for boys, And I
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  Speaker 7: feel like most of also the relationship with moms is
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  Speaker 7: awkward apart from her.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, like remember your if your mom doesn't know how
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  Speaker 3: to be affectionate, like trust me, just grow up. This
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  Speaker 3: is my mom. That's like really that, but you really
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  Speaker 3: never felt that affection, like you know, it's.
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  Speaker 7: Maybe maybe they didn't show it by you'd of affirmation.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe not. Actually maybe you do. I don't know. The
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  Speaker 3: people should like.
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  Speaker 7: Their love language is different. Love language. You can maybe
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  Speaker 7: see poor evil, but maybe love language. You love language,
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  Speaker 7: you're through provision, provision, you know.
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  Speaker 3: And stuff like that. My mom used to be such
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  Speaker 3: a hard person. Also especially for me, you should give
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  Speaker 3: me like so used to that it was so normal.
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  Speaker 3: And then my dad, my dad, they're also staying with
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  Speaker 3: my step mom. She so didn't have that affection. She's
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  Speaker 3: supposed to be a mother figure, right, but I didn't
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  Speaker 3: see that apart from just me, also to our daughter.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like until last year when I went, but
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  Speaker 3: that was the first time my step mom actually had
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  Speaker 3: super almost like five minutes like hey, let go, it's enough,
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  Speaker 3: And it was weird expect that, you know that it
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  Speaker 3: felt so affectionate, like many minutes for me, but hey, okay,
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  Speaker 3: it's I feel like it's just not there, but let's
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  Speaker 3: continue with our lady. Sorry teller.
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  Speaker 11: So after that, she was my brothers and died as
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  Speaker 11: well as my parents.
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  Speaker 10: Now most of the time it would be my dad
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  Speaker 10: taking me up from school, and because I had just
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  Speaker 10: lost my sister at that time, it was very hard
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  Speaker 10: for me to process her death. So every time that
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  Speaker 10: you would pick me up, we would go to the park.
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  Speaker 10: We just sit in the car and just talk about
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  Speaker 10: the death of.
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  Speaker 11: My sister, and both of us would which are like
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  Speaker 11: get through it now. One day at the park.
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  Speaker 10: I would like to preface by saying that neither of
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  Speaker 10: us scores each other into what happened. But while was
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  Speaker 10: sitting at the park, the car got quiet and somehow
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  Speaker 10: my father and I ended up kissing. It was very unexpected,
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  Speaker 10: and the environment there after it became so awkward. We
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  Speaker 10: both apologized to each other. At this point that was
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  Speaker 10: quite old enough. I was actually in my final year
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  Speaker 10: in high school, so understood perfectly everything that had just
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  Speaker 10: happened and what it would do to our relationship. So
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  Speaker 10: both of us apologized, and the awkwardness did continue for
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  Speaker 10: a few months.
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  Speaker 11: Now.
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  Speaker 10: It was finally graduation day a few months after that
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  Speaker 10: initial kiss, and my father and I hanged. Unfortunately, on
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  Speaker 10: this day, my mother couldn't be around because she had
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  Speaker 10: to travel for work, so at my graduation it was
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  Speaker 10: just my father and I, as well as my brothers.
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  Speaker 10: Wile my father was congratulating me, we had and when
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  Speaker 10: we turned our lips stashed as we kissed.
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  Speaker 3: They kissed again for the second time.
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  Speaker 10: That became the second time that my father and I kiss.
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  Speaker 10: This time, none of us apologized. We just looked at
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  Speaker 10: each other and hoped that no one had seen.
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  Speaker 3: So no more awkwardness like the first time.
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  Speaker 10: Anyway, when it comes to school, my father is one
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  Speaker 10: heck of a serious man, does not play about education,
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  Speaker 10: especially that of his children.
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  Speaker 11: So after grateful, I never even took a gup here.
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  Speaker 11: Immediately I was enraged into UNI.
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  Speaker 10: It was during UNI that my relationship with my father
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  Speaker 10: became so serious because he would come over to where
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  Speaker 10: I was living. He had actually rendered me an apartment,
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  Speaker 10: which my mother was well aware of, even all my
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  Speaker 10: siblings were well staying. But somehow some days my father
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  Speaker 10: would come over and he wouldn't go. And you know
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  Speaker 10: exactly what happens when two adults of different genders share.
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  Speaker 10: So now, in case you're wondering, there was never really
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  Speaker 10: an official conversation between my father and I to say
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  Speaker 10: that we're now together, But just from everything we're doing,
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  Speaker 10: you could tell that we were together. We'ld go on
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  Speaker 10: holidays together, bear my none of my family members, and
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  Speaker 10: you're about this and to just constantly date the whole
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  Speaker 10: idea that I was officially his side cheek he would
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  Speaker 10: give me money after whatever would happen, and our relationship
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  Speaker 10: just continued that way. It didn't go to a point
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  Speaker 10: where he no longer just me as his daughter would
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  Speaker 10: call it other baby, and just from that it's enough
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  Speaker 10: to explain what.
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  Speaker 11: Was going on.
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  Speaker 10: Let me also mention here that at this point I
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  Speaker 10: had started to resent my mother so so much for
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  Speaker 10: reasons that I don't know up to this day, but
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  Speaker 10: just from logic, the reason why I started to resent
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  Speaker 10: her was the fact that she was the other woman
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  Speaker 10: in the relationship that I shared with my dad. Sometimes
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  Speaker 10: it would so happen that every time we're together, she
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  Speaker 10: would end up calling, and you would have to live
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  Speaker 10: and all those things just start to anger me. Anyway,
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  Speaker 10: while in UNI, my father would obviously give me a
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  Speaker 10: lot of money, or in this case, my.
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  Speaker 11: Sugar daddy is well, he would give me a lot
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  Speaker 11: of money.
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  Speaker 10: And because I had seen how hard working my mother is,
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  Speaker 10: I think it robbed off on me that I ended
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  Speaker 10: up starting a business.
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  Speaker 11: Business has been quite a success, if I do say
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  Speaker 11: so myself.
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  Speaker 10: This business becoming a success meant so much to me
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  Speaker 10: because I knew that eventually our family members would catch
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  Speaker 10: onto what was happening and I no longer receive the
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  Speaker 10: money that you would give me, so I knew that this.
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  Speaker 11: Was definitely my chance to make it big with my
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  Speaker 11: father's money.
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  Speaker 10: It might be wondering why maybe you wouldn't have given
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  Speaker 10: me the money regardless, Honestly, I would never find out
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  Speaker 10: if he would give me the money if I wasn't
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  Speaker 10: his girlfriend, because at the time that I was old
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  Speaker 10: enough to handle money, I was already with him. We
• 19:09
  Speaker 10: shared an agreement that for my father to keep helping
• 19:12
  Speaker 10: me with the money that he would provide and keep
• 19:14
  Speaker 10: being the sugar that did that I had in my life,
• 19:16
  Speaker 10: I didn't have to have any other man, so it
• 19:18
  Speaker 10: meant no other relationships.
• 19:20
  Speaker 11: My father is the only man that I had ever known.
• 19:23
  Speaker 10: Now, I know this sounds insane, but this is exactly
• 19:25
  Speaker 10: what happened ten years enjoy this relationship. Last year, my
• 19:29
  Speaker 10: father officially keeped the bucket, and this traumatized everyone in
• 19:32
  Speaker 10: the family. I'm sure we all understand how a funeral
• 19:35
  Speaker 10: goes wing. It's a breadwinner that has died. Now, losing
• 19:38
  Speaker 10: my father was traumatic, and I thought it would eventually
• 19:41
  Speaker 10: bring my mother and eye close together. This was actually
• 19:43
  Speaker 10: the start of greater problems. That I'd never imagined for myself.
• 19:46
  Speaker 10: But the trouble was started by my grandparents at the funeral.
• 19:50
  Speaker 10: This part of Africa, once a man or woman loses
• 19:53
  Speaker 10: his wife or her husband, it's required of them that
• 19:56
  Speaker 10: they should be claimed from all the evil spirits of
• 19:58
  Speaker 10: their previous partner so that they I wouldn't see the
• 20:00
  Speaker 10: ghost of that person. Apparently, if you're not cleansed, allegedly,
• 20:04
  Speaker 10: you would continue to see the ghost of your spouse
• 20:06
  Speaker 10: and you'd never be free enough to move on to
• 20:08
  Speaker 10: another relationship. Now this is alleged because I have never
• 20:12
  Speaker 10: seen this happen to anyone my peers or anyone that
• 20:15
  Speaker 10: I know that has lost their husband or wife. Because
• 20:17
  Speaker 10: I have gone around to ask because this thing has
• 20:19
  Speaker 10: been bugging me. I'm sure you're all wondering how cleansing
• 20:22
  Speaker 10: of the widow or the widow I would bother me
• 20:24
  Speaker 10: in this sense because I wasn't even married to my father.
• 20:27
  Speaker 10: Now this is exactly how it happened. So on the
• 20:30
  Speaker 10: day that my mother was being cleansed, because it's case
• 20:32
  Speaker 10: she's the one that had lost her spouse when she
• 20:34
  Speaker 10: was being cleansed. Somehow, my grandmother was also my mother's
• 20:38
  Speaker 10: mother claimed to have seen a vision and in that vision,
• 20:41
  Speaker 10: I was my father's spiritual wife. Now, don't even bother
• 20:45
  Speaker 10: asking me out a spiritual wife. It's just gone read
• 20:47
  Speaker 10: about it, because I also don't know what it is anyway.
• 20:50
  Speaker 10: So after my grandmother believed that I was actually my
• 20:53
  Speaker 10: father's spiritual wife, I was called into the room that
• 20:56
  Speaker 10: my mother was being cleansed, and I was asked to
• 20:57
  Speaker 10: say the truth if I had known anything about my
• 21:00
  Speaker 10: father and if anywhere we had gone out together. I
• 21:03
  Speaker 10: don't know if this was attacktic they played on my mind,
• 21:05
  Speaker 10: but they told me if I don't end up coming
• 21:07
  Speaker 10: clean and I had actually slept with my father, it
• 21:10
  Speaker 10: would never be possible for me to move on to
• 21:12
  Speaker 10: another partner, and that my father's ghost would continue to
• 21:15
  Speaker 10: torment me. We know how all elders are probably superstitious,
• 21:18
  Speaker 10: but I don't come from an era where we believe
• 21:20
  Speaker 10: it's such superstititions. So according to me, just but you
• 21:22
  Speaker 10: know what, these people are.
• 21:24
  Speaker 11: Overthinking and nothing at all will happen to me.
• 21:26
  Speaker 10: This demands from my family kept on coming, and I
• 21:29
  Speaker 10: said no, because who's about to accept.
• 21:30
  Speaker 11: That they had been going on with their own father.
• 21:32
  Speaker 11: I mean that was just that same.
• 21:34
  Speaker 10: I continue to say no, and eventually they said, it's
• 21:37
  Speaker 10: up to you if you choose to say this or not.
• 21:39
  Speaker 11: But from what it looks like, it looks like you
• 21:41
  Speaker 11: have been going out with your father for a long time.
• 21:43
  Speaker 10: I believe that these were superstititions and just certain things
• 21:46
  Speaker 10: started to happen to me that haven't been adding up.
• 21:48
  Speaker 11: And this is why I'm here.
• 21:50
  Speaker 10: Every time that I come across a man that likes me,
• 21:52
  Speaker 10: bear in mind that this has been months after my
• 21:54
  Speaker 10: dad's death. Every time that a man approaches me and
• 21:57
  Speaker 10: he claims that he likes me, we will exchange numbers,
• 22:00
  Speaker 10: and immediately he texts me and I respond, this man
• 22:02
  Speaker 10: just ended up going am I And yes, I have
• 22:05
  Speaker 10: research phase where I would love to settle down. But
• 22:07
  Speaker 10: I don't know if this has any connection to what
• 22:10
  Speaker 10: happened between my father and I and what everyone claimed
• 22:12
  Speaker 10: that that feeling okay, now our good sits or whatever
• 22:16
  Speaker 10: will go has been going through a lot, and whatever
• 22:18
  Speaker 10: has been happening is obviously insane and it has been
• 22:21
  Speaker 10: insane tending this story.
• 22:22
  Speaker 3: But if you're in the ship, yeah, so that's the story,
• 22:25
  Speaker 3: and why am I bringing it to the to the
• 22:29
  Speaker 3: to the light. Because this is the second I think
• 22:32
  Speaker 3: now viral story that I'm wearing about this, and that's
• 22:35
  Speaker 3: why it's really shocking too, and you need to ask
• 22:38
  Speaker 3: and maybe investigations should be done my friends or people
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: you know, are people really sleeping with their dad, especially
• 22:45
  Speaker 3: those with the money, you know, so that they can
• 22:48
  Speaker 3: keep sustaining those lavish lifestyles that we see, like your
• 22:51
  Speaker 3: dad is your own sponsor, like for really your own
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: sugar daddy, Like you're really not. You're really going back
• 22:58
  Speaker 3: to where you came from, Like you you're really going
• 23:02
  Speaker 3: back to.
• 23:02
  Speaker 12: Real going back to what you produced you as a
• 23:13
  Speaker 12: child too, You're basically going back home.
• 23:19
  Speaker 3: This is so And it's also the confidence, bro, this
• 23:24
  Speaker 3: is what I'm talking about, like I was talking about
• 23:27
  Speaker 3: and addressing the confidence of Kenyans specifically and online. Hey
• 23:32
  Speaker 3: Kenyon suggest over confident to even confidence over confidence, like
• 23:37
  Speaker 3: it's the audacity. Are you conformed? How are you comfortable
• 23:39
  Speaker 3: talking about this? Now? The question should come does your
• 23:42
  Speaker 3: mom now know about this? What happened? Because being honest
• 23:48
  Speaker 3: and going back to the spiritual African spiritual facts, yes,
• 23:51
  Speaker 3: there's there's consequences of it and have heard about it.
• 23:54
  Speaker 3: You can't sleep with that relative. That's what you've had,
• 23:56
  Speaker 3: You sleep with a relative. Cards in this regard. You know,
• 24:00
  Speaker 3: Oky you a Castro mother.
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: She di.
• 24:06
  Speaker 3: Poem. So it's not it's a taboo, like it's a
• 24:10
  Speaker 3: taboo you have if someone sleeps there. Also, like relatives.
• 24:16
  Speaker 3: After you go engage with other partners, they all, I
• 24:19
  Speaker 3: don't know die something like that. You know, you know,
• 24:23
  Speaker 3: it's just it's not superstitions. It's something things that have
• 24:27
  Speaker 3: been happening. Maybe your car, your karma is yet maybe.
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: To face you, but it is looking at you.
• 24:34
  Speaker 8: Listen, let me ask this like not Imagine you're a guy, okay,
• 24:42
  Speaker 8: and you married this girl and.
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: You don't know nothing about this story. I know she's
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: no no, no, no, he's not only dead.
• 24:51
  Speaker 3: Like after this, imagine the people updated her like like this.
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: Time it actually stakes my hand.
• 24:59
  Speaker 8: Everything.
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: So she gives you kids and whatever. And then one day.
• 25:06
  Speaker 8: She tells you this story, when you all have been
• 25:09
  Speaker 8: married for twenty five thirty years, she tells you this story.
• 25:14
  Speaker 10: What do you do?
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: What do you do? Come? No, I was asking you.
• 25:22
  Speaker 3: This picture to tell us what you're going to do.
• 25:26
  Speaker 3: What a man do?
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: I believe number one.
• 25:30
  Speaker 3: Number two, maybe you like you love her, she's your wife, but.
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: That changes everything.
• 25:38
  Speaker 3: You will sacrifice so much to be where you guys are, I.
• 25:41
  Speaker 12: Shall sacrifice something more to stay away.
• 25:44
  Speaker 8: Okay, like like this was a mistake. Okay, no, that
• 25:50
  Speaker 8: is that is like a mistake because how are you
• 25:55
  Speaker 8: sleeping with your dad?
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: Like what is wrong with you? Like like that?
• 26:02
  Speaker 8: And then energy were not scared of karma like whatever
• 26:09
  Speaker 8: she's saying. That means they were going at it through
• 26:12
  Speaker 8: and ship.
• 26:15
  Speaker 3: I'd also do the same.
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: So like you mean your dad, just do not offense?
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: Like what do you mean though? You mean you had
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: pregnancy scarce with your father?
• 26:28
  Speaker 3: Prom I don't know. You can't imagine if the dad was.
• 26:34
  Speaker 7: Long working on the American Now, so long as you're
• 26:37
  Speaker 7: having row sex with somebody, you'll.
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: Be listen, No.
• 26:42
  Speaker 3: Talking about pregnancy scare I'm talking about even then then
• 26:46
  Speaker 3: the audacity of he did all of that baby and
• 26:52
  Speaker 3: they're doing what towards That's what she said. You know,
• 26:58
  Speaker 3: it's it's crazy. It's crazy because why why? First?
• 27:02
  Speaker 7: And foremostit immral first because you know why Number one,
• 27:07
  Speaker 7: it's crazy. Number one, this is your father's comedy. If
• 27:14
  Speaker 7: he wanted, he supposed to, he should do it.
• 27:16
  Speaker 3: He should do it. Co coo pair pocket money should let.
• 27:20
  Speaker 7: You only causia, you know there's nothing you feel like,
• 27:25
  Speaker 7: I'm supposed to actually be repaying my father through sex.
• 27:31
  Speaker 7: That's his responsibility to you, is kid. And then the
• 27:33
  Speaker 7: crazy thing is they started doving this so I think
• 27:36
  Speaker 7: maybe when she was in high school, because when they
• 27:40
  Speaker 7: were in high school, so imagine in campus all that, like,
• 27:43
  Speaker 7: so it took you to adversity, it's it's it's I
• 27:47
  Speaker 7: can't fathom it. I'm like there's a lot of immorality
• 27:50
  Speaker 7: in both of them, Like because it was consensual nobody there,
• 27:57
  Speaker 7: So she really liked doing it exactly, Yes, she was
• 28:00
  Speaker 7: enjoying doing it because she's like it was concession nobody
• 28:03
  Speaker 7: first the other two adults who agreed on this and this,
• 28:06
  Speaker 7: how do you sleep with your father?
• 28:08
  Speaker 3: How?
• 28:10
  Speaker 7: And then you become jealous of your mom? Very imagine
• 28:14
  Speaker 7: your mom is innocent and you have to talk back
• 28:16
  Speaker 7: up and bele to talk a campo. Just oh, added
• 28:21
  Speaker 7: like innocent trips because there have been people who have
• 28:23
  Speaker 7: taken trips with their fathers and their mothers. Doesn't mean
• 28:27
  Speaker 7: they're going to sleep with them now, so even your
• 28:29
  Speaker 7: mom doesn't know men that tripped and I jumped up.
• 28:32
  Speaker 3: And it's sad. It's sad, but I see a man.
• 28:46
  Speaker 7: Literally maybe if I'm looking at your maybe too, you know,
• 28:49
  Speaker 7: and daughter. Nobody would think about it in any way.
• 28:53
  Speaker 3: Remember personally, there was an uncle of mine. Apart from
• 28:56
  Speaker 3: the one who attempted to read me, there was another one.
• 29:01
  Speaker 3: Like like when you have this, like when you used
• 29:05
  Speaker 3: to have family gatherings during the holidays, like there's my
• 29:08
  Speaker 3: fun work, especially because in today's era, especially since I
• 29:13
  Speaker 3: think twenty twenty, but you were in the chain anymore,
• 29:16
  Speaker 3: like for holidays, like once we used to what you
• 29:19
  Speaker 3: only come especially born in Nairobi because you guys go
• 29:22
  Speaker 3: stay in New Shago for that whole month, interact with
• 29:25
  Speaker 3: yours whatever, so that you can avoid Actually this number one,
• 29:30
  Speaker 3: this was the number one main reasons of having family
• 29:34
  Speaker 3: gatherings or you're getting to know your extended family, you
• 29:39
  Speaker 3: know why you need to go visit them, and that
• 29:41
  Speaker 3: was actually cool before now so relatives became what we
• 29:45
  Speaker 3: have today, you know, distant people and all that to
• 29:48
  Speaker 3: avoid like when you go to Nairobi, you're not meeting
• 29:51
  Speaker 3: someone by accident. You know, this is my cousin, and
• 29:55
  Speaker 3: because there's also those cases people living with their cousins
• 29:59
  Speaker 3: being my read then years later you find out that
• 30:01
  Speaker 3: you're actually related. And it's because actually this marriage also
• 30:05
  Speaker 3: come with stay where you NASA familiar. I'm trying to
• 30:08
  Speaker 3: corn hours as like twenty years later or to actually
• 30:11
  Speaker 3: grown to introduce wife. You know, it's it's it's super
• 30:16
  Speaker 3: super crazy. But because I tried and I've lost the
• 30:20
  Speaker 3: train of the relatives. Yeah, there was an uncle of
• 30:24
  Speaker 3: mine after the a family gathering. Actually I think my
• 30:30
  Speaker 3: first family got in no second of now meeting all
• 30:34
  Speaker 3: the extended family members from my mom's side. Then I
• 30:37
  Speaker 3: met them, and then I had a phone and then
• 30:41
  Speaker 3: at that time, I think my mom gone. So I
• 30:43
  Speaker 3: had a phone to just communicate with people and everything.
• 30:47
  Speaker 3: This guy started hitting on me. He started hitting on me,
• 30:52
  Speaker 3: and there's an uncle started hitting on me. He's married,
• 30:56
  Speaker 3: he has kids. I know it's my uncle, and I
• 30:58
  Speaker 3: know from how close actually related you really are to
• 31:01
  Speaker 3: my mom. So I'm like, hey, this is wrong. You're
• 31:04
  Speaker 3: supposed to do this, I know, and asked to know.
• 31:07
  Speaker 3: You just need to go catch some coffee. I'm gonna
• 31:09
  Speaker 3: take you places? What do you mean? You and I
• 31:13
  Speaker 3: as who you know? And it's crazy because that actually
• 31:18
  Speaker 3: there are people and relatives are really like that they're
• 31:20
  Speaker 3: really praying on And that's something I was really questioning.
• 31:24
  Speaker 3: What happened to the shame of this is a taboo?
• 31:27
  Speaker 3: You can't do this, you know, even approaching an undermind
• 31:31
  Speaker 3: or under eighteen let me say under eighteen. You know,
• 31:35
  Speaker 3: come on lestory, your child sex trafficking. What happened to
• 31:38
  Speaker 3: that shame? And you're just being scared to not want
• 31:41
  Speaker 3: to do something that might get you jailed. Is it
• 31:44
  Speaker 3: because the system is not working or what really really happened?
• 31:48
  Speaker 3: It's it's something that actually needs to be questioned. This
• 31:51
  Speaker 3: also happening. It's also I think comes to the kidness
• 31:56
  Speaker 3: or also the moms or relatives because these things are
• 32:00
  Speaker 3: no but you know, innocently but I'm total you'd never
• 32:04
  Speaker 3: even think about it. That are supposed to be just
• 32:07
  Speaker 3: we are. That's what I'm saying. Maybe from where I'm
• 32:10
  Speaker 3: coming from the fact that I've not seen that love
• 32:13
  Speaker 3: and affection, you know, and I don't know because of
• 32:16
  Speaker 3: also so many generations being honest, talk about the percentage
• 32:19
  Speaker 3: of how many families money in Africa to be specific,
• 32:23
  Speaker 3: not ken, how many African families know about affectionate h
• 32:28
  Speaker 3: And I'm talking about rich and poor, you know, because
• 32:30
  Speaker 3: you know even among the riches aur hour, they're not
• 32:33
  Speaker 3: happy at all. How many families not about being you know,
• 32:38
  Speaker 3: having affection, being family, sticking with you know, with one another.
• 32:42
  Speaker 3: If it's not all about dynasty. And I'm talking about
• 32:46
  Speaker 3: dynasty because and it comes to the dynasty, I'm not choice.
• 32:49
  Speaker 3: I've been following up so many I think a series
• 32:53
  Speaker 3: of understanding how dynasties works and why these families will
• 32:56
  Speaker 3: stick together. Yeah, you have talker, I think when bad
• 33:01
  Speaker 3: you're thinking there, But I'm talking about us. The people
• 33:04
  Speaker 3: are just and in salary to salary, you know, mouth
• 33:08
  Speaker 3: to mouth, people can live I think a middle life
• 33:13
  Speaker 3: or can have a compound. And still, you know how
• 33:17
  Speaker 3: many people know affection within the African families?
• 33:20
  Speaker 8: Cause before we get there, let me let me answer
• 33:23
  Speaker 8: something I feel like we forget real quick that.
• 33:31
  Speaker 2: We are still badly.
• 33:33
  Speaker 8: Underage marriages or kids being married off in so many
• 33:38
  Speaker 8: communities across this country.
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: Okay, so old men praying on young.
• 33:47
  Speaker 8: Girls is something we're actually trying to get rid of it.
• 33:54
  Speaker 8: It was normalized in African societies. That's why you'd find
• 34:00
  Speaker 8: a forty something year old man back in the day.
• 34:05
  Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. Let me, let me finish, let
• 34:08
  Speaker 2: me finish this one. This one we are not even defending. Okay,
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: this one, yeah, Colligiac, I'm talking about when you said
• 34:19
  Speaker 2: I'm underage girls and old men and or that sort
• 34:26
  Speaker 2: of thing. We're actually trying to win a battle that
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: has existed for a long time.
• 34:32
  Speaker 8: Okay, because most girls got hit on by their high
• 34:38
  Speaker 8: school teachers. A lot of girls had sex with their
• 34:42
  Speaker 8: teachers in high school, okay, others even started.
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: In primary school.
• 34:47
  Speaker 3: So many confessions.
• 34:48
  Speaker 8: Okay, others you find she was in class seven or
• 34:53
  Speaker 8: for one and her boyfriend was twenty nine. Nakilla holiday
• 34:58
  Speaker 8: what people were to meet say, okay, you pick up
• 35:02
  Speaker 8: my lab nagari.
• 35:06
  Speaker 2: You get so it's something that with a.
• 35:10
  Speaker 8: Society need to take more seriously, because if you remember
• 35:14
  Speaker 8: as well, during the pandemic, there was so many cases
• 35:18
  Speaker 8: of tickets pregnancies all across the country, and the perpetrators
• 35:22
  Speaker 8: were middle aged men most of the time. You get
• 35:27
  Speaker 8: so like it's something that is happening in our society,
• 35:31
  Speaker 8: and it is not as acknowledged as when something perversed
• 35:37
  Speaker 8: and weird like this happens. Is when that conversation might
• 35:40
  Speaker 8: be sparked up. But most of the time it is
• 35:43
  Speaker 8: swept under the rug, like it doesn't happen, like it's rare.
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: It is not rare.
• 35:47
  Speaker 8: Actually, okay, this is very common in today's society. That's
• 35:53
  Speaker 8: why the entire whatever of Sugar Daddy is.
• 36:00
  Speaker 3: This to understand what you're saying is before I get
• 36:03
  Speaker 3: to give you money. Understand what you're saying is because
• 36:07
  Speaker 3: I feel personally understanding what this uncle, yeah, yeah, but
• 36:12
  Speaker 3: also saying that that's the existence of old men praying
• 36:16
  Speaker 3: on young girls has existed. It's something we're fighting personally
• 36:21
  Speaker 3: understanding it. I'll go back to what we're discussing cultures
• 36:24
  Speaker 3: and tradition, which was based on that, because we'll find
• 36:27
  Speaker 3: talk about Muslims talk about they're not about most, not
• 36:33
  Speaker 3: all most, not all of them promote that, not right now,
• 36:38
  Speaker 3: but previously previously. That's what I'm saying previously, but now
• 36:42
  Speaker 3: looking at now, what you're saying is that it's no
• 36:46
  Speaker 3: longer about culture and tradition or coming from this particular
• 36:50
  Speaker 3: tribe that practices this, everyone is included.
• 36:53
  Speaker 6: You know.
• 36:53
  Speaker 3: It's like an inclusivity of men from different outchairs and
• 37:00
  Speaker 3: tradition tribes within the continent, not just Kenya, but who
• 37:05
  Speaker 3: have normalized trained on young women to just become unknown.
• 37:09
  Speaker 8: Yes, that's exactly what I'm saying, because look at it
• 37:14
  Speaker 8: as in and it's it's like young girls, especially teenagers,
• 37:21
  Speaker 8: are rowdy, rebellious, and they feel like they're women, okay,
• 37:26
  Speaker 8: because they now have its and they get honey, and
• 37:30
  Speaker 8: they've made out a few.
• 37:31
  Speaker 2: Times with some boys somewhere right.
• 37:35
  Speaker 8: We're talking about the typical whatever like where you most
• 37:39
  Speaker 8: of them are rebellious.
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: They were now you get.
• 37:43
  Speaker 8: Now what I'm saying is you see whatever teenagers are
• 37:49
  Speaker 8: teenagers and then yeah, okay, so you'll find these old
• 37:57
  Speaker 8: men have the means to take advantage of this rebellious
• 38:01
  Speaker 8: nature and weaponize it for their using.
• 38:06
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 38:07
  Speaker 8: And it doesn't by old man, I mean anyone who's
• 38:11
  Speaker 8: got an idea the layer is too old for these kids.
• 38:18
  Speaker 2: You should let kids experiment and grow with their age sense. Seaty,
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: what was your first sexual experience? It was with this
• 38:30
  Speaker 2: forty year old guy?
• 38:31
  Speaker 8: How old are you fourteen, you get, or it was
• 38:36
  Speaker 8: with my uncle and I was twelve, you get or
• 38:40
  Speaker 8: you know, other sad sad.
• 38:42
  Speaker 3: Things, you know what I personally feel like.
• 38:48
  Speaker 7: Regardless, I'm just still looking at it from a space
• 38:51
  Speaker 7: of people have lost touch of morals.
• 38:58
  Speaker 3: And it's not even about also.
• 39:00
  Speaker 7: The old people. Also this young woman. You know, they
• 39:03
  Speaker 7: know what they're doing. Like the tower barber, they will
• 39:10
  Speaker 7: come to your face and they will tell you. They
• 39:12
  Speaker 7: will me, I don't mind now right now they even
• 39:14
  Speaker 7: telling me that's my type. The people are getting comfortable
• 39:18
  Speaker 7: saying that back then in a quite embarrassing and that's
• 39:20
  Speaker 7: how you know a barber sequez its sequez It's a norm.
• 39:26
  Speaker 7: Somebody tells you my type is eighty and you can't
• 39:29
  Speaker 7: do anything about it. And I'm like, it's not that
• 39:33
  Speaker 7: they'ren't telling you. They don't want the young ones. I'm like, no, me,
• 39:39
  Speaker 7: I can't deal with that shit again. And then you
• 39:41
  Speaker 7: look at it from a space of also poverty.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 39:47
  Speaker 7: We can say some people want more because I don't know,
• 39:50
  Speaker 7: but talk like check him in and they're.
• 39:55
  Speaker 2: Still wealthy girls. But like old man, yeah, you.
• 39:59
  Speaker 7: Know, I know it just it really just depends literally,
• 40:04
  Speaker 7: But again there's lack of touch of morality when it
• 40:07
  Speaker 7: comes to sleeping with the family member. Everybody knows at
• 40:11
  Speaker 7: a missus the African society, you phi at a cousin FI.
• 40:16
  Speaker 7: Once you realize you and this person are related, that
• 40:18
  Speaker 7: is how the relationship is supposed to be ending.
• 40:21
  Speaker 3: But it reaches a point where you're.
• 40:24
  Speaker 7: Like really comfortable dating your cousin, knowing even very well,
• 40:28
  Speaker 7: this is my cousin, and you're still sleeping together and
• 40:31
  Speaker 7: you know very well as it is, even don't work.
• 40:33
  Speaker 7: These things work most in the African traditionals when you
• 40:37
  Speaker 7: but doesn't a panason matter, Bob, maybe like so you
• 40:46
  Speaker 7: really have to be like really really super super careful.
• 40:48
  Speaker 7: So for me, it's just a raeducation of morality literally
• 40:51
  Speaker 7: in the society.
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  Speaker 2: But staying fact yeah, that is very true.
• 40:56
  Speaker 8: Staying factual, there is a lot of people in today's society,
• 41:01
  Speaker 8: in this country and this continent, okay, who have actually
• 41:07
  Speaker 8: had multiple sexual relations with their cousins.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, that's what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 2: You all know a friend or two who's done something I.
• 41:16
  Speaker 3: Don't know, I don't I don't know.
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  Speaker 8: They've never had especially especially and these are the things
• 41:25
  Speaker 8: in story And I'm saying two stories learning like young's
• 41:31
  Speaker 8: alcohol and you're like, god damn, you know, and it's
• 41:37
  Speaker 8: it's a very.
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  Speaker 2: Caucasian thing.
• 41:43
  Speaker 8: You get like, we never used to do this any way,
• 41:46
  Speaker 8: like with relatives, okay, you killed him, relations within you
• 41:54
  Speaker 8: would be sent to the end of yeah, like or
• 42:00
  Speaker 8: even like it wasn't even aloud. And that's why sometimes
• 42:05
  Speaker 8: you see that when girls will start of relating, she's
• 42:13
  Speaker 8: married off quickly, okay, because now how they used to
• 42:18
  Speaker 8: see it is now she's ready to be sexually active. Okay,
• 42:23
  Speaker 8: that's how they used to look at it. And if
• 42:25
  Speaker 8: you look at the age that you hear that girls
• 42:29
  Speaker 8: used to get married off, it's around that time.
• 42:35
  Speaker 3: But anyway, as we want talking about still but that weird.
• 42:41
  Speaker 3: That was really really weird. But also what is weird
• 42:44
  Speaker 3: is also married men not keeping off you know, also
• 42:48
  Speaker 3: young girls. That is the same relation. Like you say
• 42:51
  Speaker 3: in the say you're comfortable of saying my type is hated,
• 42:55
  Speaker 3: my type is my type is and then talking about
• 42:57
  Speaker 3: the rate of HIV literally the writ of percentage of
• 43:01
  Speaker 3: HIV is increased globally. I was looking at another update
• 43:05
  Speaker 3: of today in the UK. In the US part of
• 43:08
  Speaker 3: New York is super super crazy, and it's running mostly
• 43:14
  Speaker 3: amongst married people according to the data, like married people
• 43:18
  Speaker 3: are the ones who are literally so outside and with
• 43:21
  Speaker 3: young people, like older men with super young girls like
• 43:25
  Speaker 3: I'm talking about nineteen eighteen seventeen, you know, especially June
• 43:30
  Speaker 3: or June I got to like the pedophile behavior is
• 43:33
  Speaker 3: so super active in terms of has something to say
• 43:36
  Speaker 3: about it, not someone mostly of course, i'd say take
• 43:40
  Speaker 3: advice from, but sometimes she does speak sense. To be honest,
• 43:43
  Speaker 3: that is just something i'd literally give up. They sometimes
• 43:46
  Speaker 3: if you listen to us, she speaks nothing but facts
• 43:48
  Speaker 3: about some reality of life. But yeah, she's addressing how
• 43:53
  Speaker 3: married men need to keep off especially number one.
• 43:56
  Speaker 11: Try to.
• 43:59
  Speaker 3: Listen to jack Hanna TikTok.
• 44:08
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 44:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah, she said, if your wife is not comfortable something
• 44:11
  Speaker 3: like that, you can't come approach me. That's the same
• 44:14
  Speaker 3: thing she's saying, and I feel like that is something
• 44:15
  Speaker 3: needs to be addressed. So for you, as a lady
• 44:17
  Speaker 3: who's going out with a married person, you need to
• 44:21
  Speaker 3: find out the status of which I think the wife
• 44:23
  Speaker 3: is at, like of which you don't need to go digging.
• 44:27
  Speaker 3: But most of the how many women are so unhappy
• 44:32
  Speaker 3: because a side cheek is benefiting. Marriages are being broken
• 44:35
  Speaker 3: because of that. And I'm not saying their men, you're
• 44:39
  Speaker 3: capable of making the wife and the side cheek both
• 44:41
  Speaker 3: of them happy. But and sure also your wife is
• 44:45
  Speaker 3: well kept. Don't let your wife look rusty and dusty.
• 44:48
  Speaker 3: And yet you're keeping a young girl who's not even
• 44:52
  Speaker 3: the one you're gonna settle for. Probably they're gonna you know,
• 44:56
  Speaker 3: I'm just saying I.
• 44:57
  Speaker 7: Agree because first and foremost, let's not forget pull is
• 45:00
  Speaker 7: part of African culture. It is there the first reason
• 45:03
  Speaker 7: as to why, because that is a side cheek. The
• 45:05
  Speaker 7: people have upgraded their side chick to their second wives
• 45:08
  Speaker 7: right in the rightful way. First, you do it in
• 45:11
  Speaker 7: the rightful way. First, the rightful way that was being
• 45:14
  Speaker 7: considered is being taken care of well. So you can't
• 45:17
  Speaker 7: tell me if you really can't take care of the
• 45:20
  Speaker 7: first wife, what makes the second wife or the side
• 45:23
  Speaker 7: check that she's going to be taken care of, you know,
• 45:26
  Speaker 7: because for home to be peaceful so that the wife
• 45:28
  Speaker 7: can be comfortable. And that's why Muslims say you can
• 45:31
  Speaker 7: marry as much even four whatever. But it has to
• 45:34
  Speaker 7: be equal everything so that a Kunagasti affility chicky more
• 45:40
  Speaker 7: than me. And that is where the problem is at people.
• 45:45
  Speaker 7: When you're a shit, you don't have evenly your life
• 45:47
  Speaker 7: figure together. You still have like a site. You have
• 45:50
  Speaker 7: a girlfriend and a side cheek, you have a wife
• 45:53
  Speaker 7: and a side chick, and you're suffering. Can we just
• 45:56
  Speaker 7: can we please? Can we not even call your sugar daddy?
• 45:59
  Speaker 7: You not you know, not anything close to that. In short,
• 46:03
  Speaker 7: what I'm trying to say is you have to take
• 46:05
  Speaker 7: care of anger let comedy mona when you are most
• 46:09
  Speaker 7: of them you said like they're well taken care of
• 46:12
  Speaker 7: after you couldn't end up going, but you're out there whatever.
• 46:15
  Speaker 3: You were very comfortable for me. I've dealt with someone
• 46:20
  Speaker 3: a bit older personally immediately after high school, a bit
• 46:24
  Speaker 3: all of them, my dad are that point. And I
• 46:28
  Speaker 3: remember with I was very straight, like, you know, this
• 46:31
  Speaker 3: is no relationship. I want nothing to do with you,
• 46:34
  Speaker 3: like sturky story.
• 46:36
  Speaker 7: You know.
• 46:37
  Speaker 3: But he was there to offer, gave did Iver sleep
• 46:39
  Speaker 3: with him before it got to that, I'd already like hint, hint.
• 46:43
  Speaker 3: And I just love the fact Number one he was
• 46:45
  Speaker 3: always keeping me on toes like, hey, even like that
• 46:51
  Speaker 3: just showed Number one is someone who prioritizes family before
• 46:55
  Speaker 3: anything else, which personally I did like son stories as hell,
• 47:01
  Speaker 3: that is not gonna happen, that is not to book
• 47:04
  Speaker 3: and don't even know anything to do with many will
• 47:08
  Speaker 3: tell so whatever we take take what take a shower
• 47:12
  Speaker 3: and then after a shower, what is happening? That is
• 47:14
  Speaker 3: stopping with my mindo And then like you said, total
• 47:17
  Speaker 3: like they're gonna as a woman, like you said, when
• 47:20
  Speaker 3: you start up relating, the more in a react. So
• 47:25
  Speaker 3: someone tells you you navy and you know the consequences
• 47:28
  Speaker 3: of you being too in a room, don't talk stupid
• 47:32
  Speaker 3: to be sharp, I feel like b B sharp. I
• 47:36
  Speaker 3: feel like we mean just because what's wrong? Stay educated,
• 47:45
  Speaker 3: stop anting booking, you go crazy and there's only someone
• 47:50
  Speaker 3: for you.
• 47:52
  Speaker 11: Comes to come and.
• 47:57
  Speaker 13: Uncle smart congrenition and who is your tongue? Was smart
• 48:08
  Speaker 13: to be to supper?
• 48:10
  Speaker 3: And can I can? I can?
• 48:11
  Speaker 7: I sorry to say, but this when your mate and
• 48:15
  Speaker 7: could you experience gonna shall go and you one and
• 48:24
  Speaker 7: I don't know if you guys so treat his side
• 48:27
  Speaker 7: cheeks so good like that's what you got to a
• 48:33
  Speaker 7: point where I got so mad, and I like you.
• 48:35
  Speaker 7: I'm gonna like him what too much?
• 48:38
  Speaker 3: Keep on bringing to your young people here while you're
• 48:41
  Speaker 3: he's there wearing my dad, Oh Jesus, and many men
• 48:45
  Speaker 3: may life as Carl remember Scarla taking up on glacier
• 49:04
  Speaker 3: and smells so good like for men, it's like a
• 49:07
  Speaker 3: man perfume oil. It's really really good in younger poor
• 49:14
  Speaker 3: but because absactly, So you've got to a point, really
• 49:18
  Speaker 3: got super tad and told my step mom she was
• 49:21
  Speaker 3: into a key, super crazy because it's shoes and that's
• 49:29
  Speaker 3: a dream. I will tell you to do number I
• 49:31
  Speaker 3: could you should be when I want to go, uses
• 49:40
  Speaker 3: my time to go take this side, chip outside, maybe.
• 49:44
  Speaker 8: Send the from But let me ask this, so like
• 49:46
  Speaker 8: there's a qualification to being to indulging in infidelity. So
• 49:56
  Speaker 8: let's assume, let's assume will be a comfortable So then
• 50:01
  Speaker 8: there's a handle.
• 50:03
  Speaker 2: On the side. Does that qualify need to cheat?
• 50:08
  Speaker 3: And I'm not saying on our face no, not face respectful.
• 50:12
  Speaker 2: I'm saying like a upon.
• 50:17
  Speaker 7: No no, like.
• 50:20
  Speaker 8: You just in this case, we're trying to find the qualifications,
• 50:25
  Speaker 8: not like the morality of it, but the qualifications don't.
• 50:29
  Speaker 7: Say say a second one. You know, yeah, you're not
• 50:32
  Speaker 7: very open exactly. No, it doesn't qualify just because I'm comfortable.
• 50:38
  Speaker 7: Why you're not comfortable? Why what are you thinking outside?
• 50:45
  Speaker 3: Into hey?
• 50:50
  Speaker 13: Pretty which pretty minimyth accustmat.
• 50:58
  Speaker 11: Accustment nowise spend.
• 51:05
  Speaker 3: And also I also don't like that. Trust me, I
• 51:13
  Speaker 3: don't care which car you're driving. I'm not giving you
• 51:15
  Speaker 3: my attention always recio canna be I swear yes, you
• 51:22
  Speaker 3: always don't like assuming. Also what you know, because kill
• 51:27
  Speaker 3: economic dame, those have that thought. Everyone is trying to
• 51:30
  Speaker 3: stop you. They're just to heat on you.
• 51:32
  Speaker 6: You know.
• 51:33
  Speaker 3: Sometimes it's always you never know. Maybe when I do
• 51:43
  Speaker 3: that certainly different ground, so.
• 51:47
  Speaker 2: Underground, you know, I like do that's mama.
• 51:51
  Speaker 3: There's the time, like I like giving an example what
• 51:54
  Speaker 3: happened right outside the studio. There's the time I think
• 51:57
  Speaker 3: I was waiting for delivery country, Remember I was looking
• 52:00
  Speaker 3: for delivery. Then there's a guy was coming with I
• 52:03
  Speaker 3: think this or something a classical Hey mumble fitty, you
• 52:09
  Speaker 3: look nice? Thank you? Uh to do I'm waiting for
• 52:19
  Speaker 3: a delivery.
• 52:20
  Speaker 8: End.
• 52:20
  Speaker 3: Plus I don't know you, So what do you mean
• 52:23
  Speaker 3: we're gonna come back? You don't we're gonna come get
• 52:25
  Speaker 3: the listen like men, I just walked away because it's
• 52:31
  Speaker 3: I don't know, it's the assumption of killer Dame already
• 52:35
  Speaker 3: took when.
• 52:36
  Speaker 7: Eyes I think guarding opensition. I don't know, because in
• 52:40
  Speaker 7: terms and that is not what happens.
• 52:42
  Speaker 2: What happens, it's crazy.
• 52:51
  Speaker 3: Literally, as we come to the end of today's conversation,
• 52:54
  Speaker 3: I hope you guys have enjoyed. For those who shall
• 52:56
  Speaker 3: be catching this, let us know what you think about
• 52:59
  Speaker 3: the first because that is literally a whole taboo in
• 53:02
  Speaker 3: Africa today and it's it was and still a taboo.
• 53:06
  Speaker 3: But the fact that this is happening, we don't know
• 53:08
  Speaker 3: where this behavior is literally outgrowing from. And of course,
• 53:11
  Speaker 3: last but not least, if you're a married person, keep
• 53:14
  Speaker 3: your pants to yourself and to your wife. Okay, we
• 53:16
  Speaker 3: don't want your husi kuchi or whatever. We don't want
• 53:20
  Speaker 3: nothing to do with you. You know, keep your boxers
• 53:23
  Speaker 3: to yourself and to your wife. That is well we
• 53:25
  Speaker 3: literally ask about. With that being said, see you guys
• 53:28
  Speaker 3: later on the Africa Today Show and home Less she's
• 53:31
  Speaker 3: coming back with sports runa.
• 53:33
  Speaker 7: Thank you guys so much for tuning in. Kindly kindly
• 53:36
  Speaker 7: take care of yourself first that you can take your brothers.
• 53:39
  Speaker 7: So even you as a man, you're not well kept.
• 53:41
  Speaker 7: Your wife is not well kept, and you're coming for
• 53:43
  Speaker 7: a second wife. Kindly mussanna but much love, take your
• 53:48
  Speaker 7: yourself and see you same time, same place on past day.
• 53:52
  Speaker 3: Before you answer a very weird question. Do men who
• 53:59
  Speaker 3: have slept ad boxes in my whole hum?
• 54:05
  Speaker 2: In supposed to the guys, hey, how are your balls.
• 54:17
  Speaker 3: Around? That?
• 54:21
  Speaker 2: That question is best answered by a woman.
• 54:24
  Speaker 3: Okay, we don't got bo so and it's called money.
• 54:30
  Speaker 11: Money like.
• 54:36
  Speaker 3: I supposed to like going to.
• 54:58
  Speaker 2: You're not.
• 54:58
  Speaker 3: I'm going to tell us.
• 55:06
  Speaker 2: Jules those times, but.
• 55:14
  Speaker 11: There isn't.
• 55:17
  Speaker 3: Ask another guy like co how I doing know? Someone
• 55:22
  Speaker 3: else told me someone else?
• 55:26
  Speaker 6: Yeah?
• 55:28
  Speaker 2: When money?
• 55:29
  Speaker 3: But when you like like shrinks school, I read school
• 55:46
  Speaker 3: much love and really have.
• 55:49
  Speaker 11: Africa.
• 56:04
  Speaker 3: They look bad happy lording.
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  Speaker 8: They basic overt laughing back laughing.
• 56:15
  Speaker 3: Yeah be could yeay joby boster my hands, Oh my
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  Speaker 3: god that next year to come, boby my n