Latest / The Bull Brotherhood / S02Ep24. - DON GIOVANNI : The Art of Seduction is The Way of Water
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- 0:00You've got to know how to turn on that sort of
- 0:04animal instinct in you and be self -aware not
- 0:08to go overboard and overwhelm her, right? Where
- 0:14she's suddenly in the middle of the scene, gives
- 0:18up consent and says, no, I'm stopping now. And
- 0:21if you can stop on a dime, then you can play
- 0:26again. And she won't ever say no again because
- 0:29now that she knows that you could be in the throes
- 0:32of passion and you can stop, she will fully submit.
- 0:38And that's amazing when you can get there. This
- 0:41podcast contains explicit adult content, mature
- 0:45themes, and candid conversations about sex, dominance,
- 0:50power exchange, and ethical non -monogamy. It
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- 1:35If you're not comfortable with frank talk about
- 1:38sex, kink, dominance, or emotional power, this
- 1:42probably isn't the show for you. But if you're
- 1:45ready to step into your masculine edge and embrace
- 1:48a lifestyle that demands mastery, welcome to
- 1:51the Brotherhood. Welcome to the Bull Brotherhood
- 1:56podcast, where we talk power, pleasure, and the
- 2:00art of dominance in ethical non -monogamy. This
- 2:03is not your average lifestyle podcast. This is
- 2:06for men who lead, men who master, and men who
- 2:09leave a lasting impression. If you're here, you're
- 2:13not just curious. You're ready to elevate. So
- 2:16to all the bulls, hot wives, stags, and open
- 2:20-minded explorers, we see you. Let's go. Ladies
- 2:36and gentlemen, good evening and welcome to another
- 2:39informative episode of the Bull Brotherhood Podcast.
- 2:42I'm one third of your podcast team. The man known
- 2:45as the Sigma male himself, Brian Morgan, along
- 2:48with the other two thirds of the family, the
- 2:51lovely Siren from the Siren of Freedom podcast.
- 2:54Hello, dear. Hello, Brian. How are you? Good
- 2:59night. Oh, it has been an amazing day. So I'm
- 3:03doing fabulous. Wonderful, wonderful. And her
- 3:07better half, her best friend, her husband, my
- 3:11nephew, the perpetual student, even though he
- 3:15has graduated from that, my boy Socrates. What's
- 3:18up? What's good? I'm excited about this one.
- 3:24I hear you. I hear you. Ladies and gentlemen,
- 3:27before we get started tonight. I have to give
- 3:30a shout out here. I am with you tonight doing
- 3:35this podcast, but I'm doing it with a very heavy
- 3:38heart. On Monday afternoon, I lost the most important
- 3:43lady in my life, my mother, Doris Morgan. Mama,
- 3:49this is for you. I love you. I know you're smiling
- 3:52down, and the good Lord has one beautiful angel
- 3:56in his stable right now. On that note, ladies
- 4:01and gentlemen, tonight we have a wonderful guest,
- 4:04and I do mean a wonderful guest. I, along with
- 4:08Socrates, have spoken to this gentleman, and
- 4:12I tell you what, it's very, very hard to get
- 4:16my nose up in the air, but this guy had me from
- 4:20the moment he said maybe two or three sentences.
- 4:23He calls himself the Maitre D. He also refers
- 4:27to himself as a high society bull. That right
- 4:31there had me when he said that because I knew
- 4:34that he had just said something about him that
- 4:38everybody wants to be. Ladies and gentlemen,
- 4:41coming at you, I give you Don Giovanni, a .k
- 4:46.a. the Major D. Sir, how are you doing tonight?
- 4:51Very good. I'm honored to be in your presence.
- 4:57And we are very honored to have you on the book
- 5:00of the podcast. Um, here again, I know we have
- 5:03talked, it was what a couple of weeks ago, but
- 5:05we had a very, very good conversation and, um,
- 5:09we had to have you on, uh, Socrates decided I'm
- 5:12excited. Siren is excited. Uh, and we just want
- 5:16to get to, to get to know you. Um, usually when
- 5:20we have somebody up here for the first time we
- 5:22like to have your or try to find out what your
- 5:25origin story is how you got into this lifestyle
- 5:29um how long you've been in it and you know what
- 5:33what um what makes you that high society bull
- 5:37i just love that i love hearing that okay well
- 5:45um what I'm a high society bull because, you
- 5:52know, I was born on third base and I'm hitting
- 5:56home runs. I was born into high society. I understand
- 6:02that sort of high society mindset and how I became
- 6:07a bull was in fact my first time. My first time
- 6:16was with the... I was 13 years old, and the woman
- 6:24was the wife of an international makeup line.
- 6:33And so you can imagine this woman was absolutely
- 6:36gorgeous. You know, typical Mrs. Robinson, only...
- 6:42you know dustin hoffman was it was graduated
- 6:45from college oh yeah graduate nick yeah the hot
- 6:49wife movie right there exactly exactly um and
- 6:58uh you know uh i was a precocious as a kid but
- 7:03i guess this woman sort of acquiesced and uh
- 7:11She sort of took me under her wing and essentially
- 7:14mentored me. Now, it could have been just a sort
- 7:19of one time, first time, and that's it. But,
- 7:24you know, she was a lady who lunched. So she
- 7:29had her friends and they all talked. And because,
- 7:36you know, I knew the rules of high society. that
- 7:41you just don't talk about what you do in the
- 7:44bedroom. She noticed that no one knew when we
- 7:53were flirting. I wasn't bragging to anybody.
- 7:57And so she felt comfortable taking me on. And
- 8:02we were sort of lovers for maybe three months.
- 8:10And, you know, I gained the confidence and I
- 8:14thought I seduced her friend, but little did
- 8:19I realize that she was just telling all her friends
- 8:23about me and maybe not all her friends. And so,
- 8:29you know, in the space of three, four months,
- 8:31I had two. lovers and then over the summer i
- 8:38had sticks in you know the uh you know the sort
- 8:43of six weeks of summer vacation and that that
- 8:48just gave me the most incredible confidence um
- 8:53it was frustrating you know trying to translate
- 8:57that confidence with the girls my own age but
- 9:02i quickly learned to release that and you know
- 9:07not pay any attention to you know my peers because
- 9:12i was just having such a thrilling experience
- 9:15with older women and where i really i would say
- 9:21at first i was let's say you know just the third
- 9:24man i was uh i think bulls are the couples uh
- 9:29essentially uh a sex toy with its own mind. But
- 9:35when I went to college, she came to visit me
- 9:41like the week after my mother dropped me off
- 9:43in college. And she made some introductions to
- 9:49me in Swinger Society in Boston. I met her in
- 9:53London and we were friends in London. And when
- 9:57I went to college in Boston, she happened to
- 9:59be in New York. And so she came up to visit me
- 10:02in Boston and she made an introduction to a couple
- 10:08and she sort of like passed me off, let's say.
- 10:15And her and that couple really trained me, let's
- 10:22say, which is why I so connected with you, Sigma,
- 10:25when I heard your first story about we were in
- 10:27Germany. I totally connected. I totally related
- 10:33to that because I find a lot of black balls to,
- 10:39you know, women just sort of drop to their feet.
- 10:42And there's not much seduction involved in that.
- 10:46So when I heard that you literally were trained
- 10:49by a German woman with that sort of German technique,
- 10:54you know, that sort of German. Andrew kind of
- 10:57attitude, that discipline, that organization,
- 11:00that structure, I totally related to that because
- 11:04that's what I had. And so after this couple in
- 11:08college, that's when I really became more of
- 11:13a bull and less of a sort of energizer sex toy,
- 11:19energizer bunny. I did that for a long time,
- 11:26you know, let's say sort of 10 years. But it
- 11:33wore thin on me. It wasn't all that it's cracked
- 11:37up to be, you know. I defined my machismo in
- 11:43my ability to please women, which meant that
- 11:48I wasn't putting any emphasis in my own pleasure.
- 11:52uh because my identity was totally wrapped up
- 11:55in that and so you know in my late 20s early
- 12:0030s i tried to focus on being more normal and
- 12:06having more normal relationships and instead
- 12:09of just you know uh being a bull it was a it's
- 12:16like a saccharine sweet it's not a natural natural
- 12:21sweet it's a it's a fake sweet so i tried to
- 12:25get more let's say homeopathic and have more
- 12:27of a regular relationship um and then i would
- 12:34say in my late 30s that's when i managed to more
- 12:45balance being a bowl and being a normal person
- 12:51in normal relationships that's actually because
- 12:53i was i don't know if you've ever heard the term
- 12:58but soon as an easy rider that's yeah yeah okay
- 13:03so i was dating um very high -end escort and
- 13:09uh that gave me the sort of emotional love support
- 13:14of having a relationship and she accepted and
- 13:19she supported my bold nature um but you know
- 13:26her being an escort was not a great relationship
- 13:31for for marriage for the rest of our lives she
- 13:35already had kids she was older than me i gravitated
- 13:38to older women and i would say and then unfortunately
- 13:47My last serious relationship was my fiancée.
- 13:52And at that time, I decided to have more of a,
- 13:57you know, I call it like build a bear or buy
- 14:01a bear, right? So you can either go to the store
- 14:06and buy yourself a bear, but you're limited to
- 14:09what's there. Or you can go to the Build -A -Bear
- 14:13store and build yourself exactly the bear. And
- 14:17so in 2016, I started dating a girl, a younger
- 14:26girl, and I built my own bear. I took a girl,
- 14:29I trained her to be my sub, to be my love. I
- 14:35grew her. I allowed her to be her nature and
- 14:41she allowed me to be mine. But I had that strong,
- 14:47solid love base. And that is when I think I completed
- 14:55my arc. And that's when I started becoming the
- 15:01make the be, right? The organizer, the orchestrator.
- 15:07of the scene and the environment and the dynamics
- 15:11that's when i sort of graduated to being not
- 15:16just a piece of the scene but i create the scene
- 15:20so there we go wow what a story what a story
- 15:27going back to to when you first started were
- 15:33you were you You're here again. I'm going to
- 15:37say it like the way I said my lady, your handler.
- 15:43She handled you. I bet. Were you her first that
- 15:51she had dealt with or she had been in the hot
- 15:57wifing thing for a little while herself? Oh,
- 16:00no. she knew what she was doing okay i was maybe
- 16:06her first that young yeah yeah that's really
- 16:11what i'm talking about yeah yeah yeah no i don't
- 16:15think no no no no no i don't think that she was
- 16:19into um i don't think that was she was into young
- 16:23boys i've never seen young boys i see with other
- 16:27lovers with other men and they're all like her
- 16:31husband is uh let's say 10 12 years older than
- 16:40her very loving very supportive very smart um
- 16:45they're great together they're in you know they
- 16:49do charity events together she builds um i was
- 16:55younger than her children i didn't know her children
- 16:58her children were older than me yeah um but you
- 17:03know my my my mom my parents told me said to
- 17:07me that when i was younger i was very precocious
- 17:11that i used to roll around on the floor and look
- 17:16up you know her friend's skirts um that i would
- 17:22try to climb up the tree and here in the window
- 17:27in the guest bedroom to see them getting changed
- 17:31so i'm sure what happened you know i don't recollect
- 17:35i don't know from her perspective i just you
- 17:38know when i was there i was there i was experiencing
- 17:40it but i think probably what happened was that
- 17:44i was constantly like flirting with her in a
- 17:49way that a 13 year old could and she just sort
- 17:52of said i think i'll take this guy on this will
- 17:57be a different experience and you know the first
- 18:01the first few times so you know the first time
- 18:07she uh she opened up her blouse to me and you
- 18:15know showed me how to caress her breasts i wasn't
- 18:20nervous at all i was like oh my gosh you know
- 18:25this is happening and i'm gonna i'm going to
- 18:28enjoy it um she was probably not she wasn't teasing
- 18:36me but she wanted to see if i would lose my cool
- 18:41and get overly excited it lasted very short of
- 18:47course um you know i pretended like you know
- 18:53we went back into amongst all the friends and
- 18:58stuff and i acted like nothing ever happened
- 19:01and i was no more attached to her no more possessive
- 19:06no more clingy to her than i was before and i
- 19:09think she just sort of said wow this this guy
- 19:12is someone i could mold he won't use his he'll
- 19:15listen to me he'll take direction and uh you
- 19:19know by the fourth or fifth time and i remember
- 19:22the first time i had sex with her we were coming
- 19:26back oh my god we were coming back from polo
- 19:30uh you know my mother's a polo player we were
- 19:34coming back from holo we were in the car she
- 19:37was sitting in the front seat my mother was driving
- 19:40and i said how much i loved michael jackson and
- 19:47she said oh you know and i was like oh yeah i
- 19:50got his like videos like oh i would love to you
- 19:53know watch the video and so when we got home
- 19:57she came up to my room and i was like This is
- 20:01a good excuse, but I know what's about to happen
- 20:04here. So we started watching Michael Jackson
- 20:10and I was sort of laying on my bed and she was
- 20:16sitting at a bed that had like a couch where
- 20:20the side of the bed was like the back of the
- 20:22couch. So I was sleeping above the couch, let's
- 20:25say. That was my bed and then right above my
- 20:27bed was sort of couch. So she was sitting in
- 20:30the couch and, you know, I was sort of looking
- 20:34down her blouse and looking at her breasts. And
- 20:38I was just like, I'm not going to wait for her
- 20:40to give me permission. I'm just going to make
- 20:43the move. And I, you know, I think that she knew
- 20:47she was waiting for me to do that. So she wanted
- 20:50me to sort of enter into that sort of space,
- 20:54let's say. She never directed me. I mean, I took
- 20:58control of the whole situation. I did what I
- 21:02wanted, how I wanted, how I liked it. It was
- 21:06extremely empowering. And it sucks. It was amazing.
- 21:13You know, it was very, you know, I grew my manhood
- 21:18that night. So your confidence level was already
- 21:24there, even at that. young age it was already
- 21:27you already just i'm not afraid to go for it
- 21:31even though i was afraid i just overcame it i
- 21:35just went okay okay okay and then because of
- 21:39it i was it has resulted now in me being extremely
- 21:45self -confident like yeah it is it i i seduce
- 21:54I've learned to not doubt, right? It can fail,
- 22:00right? But the woman loves it when you don't
- 22:05hesitate, when you don't overcompensate for your
- 22:09anxiety and barge in. If you can just gently,
- 22:16softly, assertively, unwaveringly move in on
- 22:21her. If she's not half, if she's a quarter receptive
- 22:29to it, you can seduce her. I got that from my
- 22:38first experiences. If it was not for her, she
- 22:40built my self -confidence, right? I know now,
- 22:44and I knew then to a degree, but really now I
- 22:47know now. how much my formative experiences made
- 22:52me who I am today, which is in supreme self -confidence.
- 23:00Nephew, I know you have some questions. You've
- 23:03been quiet long enough. Yeah, I'm mad at you,
- 23:05man. You took this long. I was like, I have 25.
- 23:08I'm just playing. Okay. So, I was reviewing my
- 23:15notes while you were, because... I'm not like
- 23:18not paying attention guys, but I've been talking
- 23:22so much to Don. His stories are consistent and
- 23:26we, he'll plug each story into something that
- 23:31he's learned or what he believes now is very
- 23:34succinct. So while I was in the back of my mind,
- 23:37enjoying him, I'm looking up the notes that we
- 23:41had when we, you know, cause what we do guys
- 23:45is when we have a guest, We don't just say, all
- 23:48right, y 'all, I'm going to holler at you at
- 23:49530, man. Just be ready. We're going to talk.
- 23:52We're a little bit more professional. So what
- 23:55we do is we have a guest fill out a form, and
- 23:59we let them know how we do the show. They let
- 24:03us know information they want to provide or don't
- 24:06or a little bit more about them. It helps us,
- 24:08and it helps the show notes and my assistants
- 24:12and everything. We'd done this and I was going
- 24:16over those things. And when I looked up the name,
- 24:21I remember you'd said something and it blew my
- 24:25mind. And so now we've heard your story. We know
- 24:30the foundations of who you are. I want to kind
- 24:34of jump into something kind of heavy. We normally
- 24:38don't do this. We kind of let the guests kind
- 24:41of flow into the origin story and it kind of
- 24:43fizzes in something else. I just want to hit
- 24:46y 'all with the kung fu move, y 'all. You guys
- 24:48about to get a punch in the face right now of
- 24:51wisdom. And so at least in my opinion. So we're
- 24:55going to start with that. So here you said we
- 24:57were talking and you said the art of seduction
- 25:00is the way of the water. Number one. Yes. I want
- 25:06to put the special effects in of some clapping
- 25:11from the gods because I was like, what I know
- 25:14about, I read two of my favorite concepts, is
- 25:17the art of seduction. And I don't know if you've
- 25:21tied to this, but I do. The way of the water
- 25:24from Bruce Lee. And so I know both of those philosophies
- 25:31very well. And that caught my eye. So I wrote
- 25:35down these four things. I want you to, or three
- 25:38things. And I want you to confirm that I wrote
- 25:41this down accurately. So one, overcome fear of
- 25:47rejection. Two, persistence. And these are kind
- 25:52of like principles. And three, knowing when to
- 25:56pivot your approach. So did I get all of that
- 26:00accurate, brother? Yes, absolutely. All right,
- 26:05man, hit him with it. Let's hear, you know, where
- 26:09did you get that philosophy from? How do you
- 26:11utilize it? You asked me, how do you seduce women
- 26:17or whatever, right? Okay. And I said, there's
- 26:20no one way to do so in my mind, right? So I say
- 26:25it's the way of water, right? How does water
- 26:27get from the mountain to the sea? it finds its
- 26:31path. It goes down one way, and then it goes
- 26:34another way, and da -da -da, right? So as long
- 26:38as the... What women want to know, in my opinion,
- 26:43they don't want to be easy, right? They don't
- 26:46want to be easily seduced. So they'll put up
- 26:50their defense. They'll resist. And if you...
- 26:57Keep going at it at the same way. They'll see
- 27:04you as single dimensional. But if you can pull
- 27:08back and go at it a different way, right? So
- 27:11if you're coming at it from the sort of funny
- 27:14way, right? And then you just snap and go, okay,
- 27:19I want you. I was being funny. I could walk away,
- 27:24but I want you. So do you want to play? After
- 27:30being funny, just by being that different, it
- 27:34takes a guard down. They're like, oh my God,
- 27:38I wasn't expecting that approach, right? So if
- 27:43you can, and you have to want this, right? And
- 27:46if you can try to seduce a woman more than two
- 27:52ways, right? she'll know the depth of your desire
- 27:57and your sincerity and she'll see that you are
- 28:01persistent um and she can either acquiesce now
- 28:07or later but you will persist and when she realizes
- 28:14that it's it can overwhelm it can she can become
- 28:19overwhelmed with the with with flattery with
- 28:23seduction you know so that's why i call it the
- 28:27way of water you could try many different and
- 28:30you have to be confident to do it many different
- 28:32ways it can't just be one way i'll be your shtick
- 28:35so that's why i said the way of water confident
- 28:41patient adapt overcome the whole nine yards i
- 28:46love it i love it i love it man You are definitely
- 28:51not the norm, Major D. You are not the norm,
- 28:55and I like that. I really do. This is what we're
- 28:59talking about, gentlemen, gentlemen bulls out
- 29:02there who might be listening. This is what we're
- 29:05talking about. You have to, and you hear the
- 29:08Major D when he's speaking. You know that he's
- 29:11speaking facts. You know that he is speaking
- 29:15the truth because he's being his authentic self.
- 29:19He just happens to have been hit with that thunderbolt
- 29:25at a very young age. That's what's killing me
- 29:31right there, that you were that young to have
- 29:34that aura and that confidence to have somebody
- 29:40that much older than you, that you were like,
- 29:43hey, I'm not afraid here. I'm going for it. Um,
- 29:46it took me, it took me, it took me a couple more
- 29:48birthdays before I, you know, hit my stride,
- 29:51but before I hit my stride, but that is, that
- 29:55is, um, that's telling everybody right there
- 29:57though. You can, you know, guys, you can, you
- 30:00can do this. All right. You can do this. Just
- 30:03have that confidence. All right. You don't try
- 30:06to be something that you're not. Develop what,
- 30:09develop what, you know, what you have inside
- 30:11of you. And we all have something special. We
- 30:14all have some sort of charisma that's inside
- 30:17of us. But until we are confident enough, like
- 30:20Dimitri says, to just go for it. And here again,
- 30:24don't be afraid to fail. That makes you better.
- 30:28That makes you better. Being a bull is not about,
- 30:31oh, I get every woman out there and every time
- 30:33I go out here to hunt. Hell no. It's not like
- 30:36that. Hunting takes skill. Hunting takes patience.
- 30:42The art of seduction is not just, you know, I'm
- 30:47going to go out here and I'm going to speak or
- 30:49I'm going to look a certain way and I'm going
- 30:51to get everyone. Heck no. If it was that damn
- 30:54easy, we'd have a thousand bulls in the bull
- 30:59brotherhood already. So keep going. Go ahead.
- 31:07Have you heard the story about the young bull
- 31:09and the old bull? Do you know what I'm about
- 31:11to say? Hey y 'all. I came in here to interrupt
- 31:28this show. It's your boy, Socrates. We cut this
- 31:37show in half, y 'all. Y 'all want to know why?
- 31:42Because of your boy. I don't know about Brian
- 31:44Morgan. I haven't asked him. I don't know about
- 31:45Siren. I don't know about Don Giovanni. But I'm
- 31:51a gatekeeper, y 'all. That's right. You heard
- 31:53it. I am a gatekeeper. The reason why I'm a gatekeeper
- 31:59is I've been a part of many fraternities. And
- 32:03a fraternity has one universal principle. whether
- 32:07it's Semper Fi or sorority or, I'm sorry, fraternities
- 32:12in college or Greek fraternities or the Masons
- 32:15or the Skull and Bones. They all believe in one
- 32:20thing. Now, most of them are not secret societies.
- 32:22Maybe Skull and Bones is. They're society with
- 32:27secrets. And here's why. We believe that certain
- 32:33knowledge or I believe that certain knowledge
- 32:36can't be put in the hands of everybody. Like
- 32:39I liken it to operating heavy equipment, right?
- 32:45When you're operating heavy equipment, you can't
- 32:47be intoxicated. You have to be certified. You
- 32:50have a lot of experience because you can do a
- 32:52lot of damage with heavy equipment up into destroying
- 32:57property and death. When we were in the middle
- 33:05of this episode, past this point, I started realizing
- 33:09this is what Don Giovanni is talking about is
- 33:12high level mastery of seduction and being a bull.
- 33:18I'm a gatekeeper, y 'all. I personally know people
- 33:21in this town that I don't want to have this information.
- 33:26Because you get a person with bad character.
- 33:31You get a person who wants to extract from this
- 33:35community as opposed to add to it. You get somebody
- 33:37who wants to work out their personal emotional
- 33:40issues through wives or through couples or through
- 33:43other people. You get somebody who's a competitive
- 33:46bull who thinks he can measure his dick to yours
- 33:50and his game to yours and his ability to yours
- 33:53and what he's able to do to someone else. Those
- 33:56are bad actors in my opinion. After we had this
- 34:00show, I insisted, and they just respected me,
- 34:05that this should be the second half or the full
- 34:10episode will be the first of the Patreon Masterclass.
- 34:15So the Bull Brotherhood has goals and visions
- 34:17and dreams, and we won't talk about them now,
- 34:19but we're not just going to be podcasting. As
- 34:23you guys know, we will be doing events, and we
- 34:25will be doing coaching. And part of that coaching
- 34:28is our masterclass led by Don Giovanni and Brian
- 34:33Morgan. What Siren Media Productions, which is
- 34:38the company that produces these shows, including
- 34:40Siren of Freedom and other shows that we're talking
- 34:42to, is our purpose is to elevate the podcast
- 34:47and make everybody a brand because that's where
- 34:49we think the future is going. And we want to.
- 34:55Be bull centric. And we want to put out good
- 34:58quality bulls into the world. We want to find
- 35:02those who are already there, make them a part
- 35:05of our community, learn from each other. Iron
- 35:07sharpens iron. Everybody in my squad is obsessed
- 35:11with self -improvement, evolving. of getting
- 35:15better whether like me where i read a lot of
- 35:17books and studies and research and interview
- 35:19anybody i can and ask a thousand questions or
- 35:22somebody who just has 35 years of this shit and
- 35:24been doing it i don't think there's anyone here
- 35:27who hasn't read a book who hasn't listened to
- 35:32podcasts to get their craft better who hasn't
- 35:34had mentors above them teaching them but some
- 35:38you know that not everybody's learning scale
- 35:40is different go back to the episode when we talked
- 35:42about You know, certain ways to be a researcher
- 35:46and the type of research you can do. You know,
- 35:48you don't have to be a nerdy researcher than
- 35:50me. I'd be pulling up, you know, research papers
- 35:53on ethical non -monogamy and studying dating,
- 35:56vanilla, and lifestyle. So what we decided to
- 36:00do is cut this one short. We wanted to put this
- 36:04out there as soon as possible because of Brian
- 36:06Morgan's announcement in the beginning. This
- 36:08man has dedicated his life to his family. You
- 36:12know, we wanted people to know how precious this
- 36:15woman was in his life. So if you're interested,
- 36:18we will be making an announcement when the patron
- 36:21runs out and ready to go and you can take the
- 36:22masterclass. But this episode and the full episode
- 36:25will be the first one in that genre. So look
- 36:29forward to that. We're really excited about Don
- 36:32Giovanni. We're really excited about some other
- 36:34brothers that have joined the brotherhood on
- 36:36a high level. But we just wanted to let you know
- 36:39we usually don't cut these things apart. And
- 36:41it is a part one. Part two will be on the Patreon
- 36:45later on once it's done. And it will be either
- 36:48one of or the first episode in our packages to
- 36:53help make the bull -centric lifestyle come to
- 36:59the forefront. And again, well, not again. Let
- 37:02me say this. This isn't against the wife -centric
- 37:05lifestyle or the polycentric lifestyle or the
- 37:08king -centric lifestyle or the cuck -centric
- 37:10lifestyle. This isn't about being the authority
- 37:14over people or in comparison, we don't compete.
- 37:18The Bull Brotherhood competes with ourselves
- 37:20and only that. I don't compete with other podcasts.
- 37:22I don't care what y 'all doing. I don't compete
- 37:24with other coaching. I don't compete with other
- 37:26events. I learn what works. I find what fits
- 37:30us and our vision and our... and our values and
- 37:34our standards. I apply the principles and the
- 37:38actions and the steps and ideas without stealing
- 37:40people's thunder or their stuff, and we move
- 37:43forward. So thank you guys for hearing this out,
- 37:47and we look forward to some things with the Siren
- 37:51of Freedom podcast and travel and slut weekends.
- 37:54We're looking forward to events, cuckold events,
- 38:00stag vixen events. what we call big dick energy
- 38:02where there's, you know, like our, I have a party
- 38:05coming out on October 17th in the Pacific Northwest
- 38:10BBC slash black bull party, but that's bull centric
- 38:16and black bull centric. But I also want to have
- 38:18a big dick energy party where I know some great
- 38:20white bulls. Don Giovanni is one of them. I know
- 38:23a local guy out here is pretty dope. You know,
- 38:26we're meeting new non -black. Bulls to add to
- 38:30every bull of every race and every style, right?
- 38:34Because we're all individuals and we all promote
- 38:36being your authentic self. So we're really excited
- 38:38about that future. Thanks for hearing us out.
- 38:41We will definitely let you know when the first
- 38:43full complete episode of Don Giovanni comes out
- 38:46where you're going to hear some masterful stuff,
- 38:48at least in my opinion. You might be like, ah,
- 38:49that's basic. Well, that's cool. If you think
- 38:52that way, please hit us up. Please join the Brotherhood
- 38:55because we haven't hurt anybody on this level.
- 38:59So we excited. Now, reason why I played my Socrates
- 39:03philosophies and hypotheses in the middle of
- 39:05this bull brotherhood segment is because this
- 39:07is just me. The guys have respected my decision.
- 39:10This is my philosophy and my hypothesis on how
- 39:15we should cover things. And I'm standing 10 toes
- 39:17down on being a gatekeeper. You know, I'm going
- 39:20to make you earn. There's a guy in my town I'm
- 39:23specifically thinking about. I don't want him
- 39:24to get this information, but. I don't want to
- 39:26hide it from anybody either, so you're going
- 39:28to pay a premium. I don't want bad actors, unorganized
- 39:32event planners, people who want to distract,
- 39:36and I'm not putting you down. If you're that,
- 39:38if you're like, I'm here to get this money, content
- 39:40creators that act like your lifestyle and not
- 39:42real life, I'm not hating on you. I don't want
- 39:44you on the podcast. But our brand is authentic,
- 39:48real, high -quality, high -level operator. or
- 39:52aspiring high quality and aspiring high L -level
- 39:55operator bulls. If you don't have time and you
- 39:58just get in and get out, well, I want you to
- 40:00have the most skills possible. If you want to
- 40:02dedicate your life to this, to what we have,
- 40:04right? Like eventually I'm going to be coming
- 40:06out. I'm going to let everybody know my real
- 40:08name. I'm going to be, my face is going to be
- 40:10on socials, but we still have a policy, which
- 40:13is behind a warning. That's why we have a warning
- 40:16and a disclaimer in every show. Behind a paywall.
- 40:21which is Patreon or OnlyFans or whatever, mini
- 40:25-vids, whatever, and behind closed doors. Now,
- 40:31like I said, that's my philosophy as far as the
- 40:34Siren Media Productions is concerned, but anybody
- 40:36can do their own thing. I don't even know if
- 40:38Brian Morgan agrees with that part, but some
- 40:41people love to do shit. I'm one of those guys.
- 40:43I'm not going to fulfill my wife's fantasy of
- 40:45doing shit in public the way she wants because
- 40:47I don't think the public can send it. But I'm
- 40:50not here to judge you. Do your thing. I'm not
- 40:52here to judge you. But there's three kinds of
- 40:54bulls we want. There's the BBC bull or the big
- 40:58dick energy bull. That's the guy with either
- 41:01big dick or has the kind of attitude where it
- 41:04feels like he has a big dick. He's respectful.
- 41:07He understands the fundamentals of lifestyle.
- 41:09He gets in and gets out. And he gives that couple
- 41:12a great time. Then there's the bull. So there's
- 41:18the BBC guy. And then there's the bull. The bull
- 41:20is all the things that the BBC guy is. Doesn't
- 41:23make the BBC guy wrong, bad, or less quality.
- 41:25It means he's great for the people that want
- 41:28that or the couples that like the other ones.
- 41:30But every now and again, one guy just come in,
- 41:32pound it out, or do a good job and go about their
- 41:35business. Then there's the bull. The bull does
- 41:38all those things, but he's the authority in the
- 41:40room. He takes responsibility for the night.
- 41:43Now, he's not going to be accountable for if
- 41:46you fuck up. We don't teach that. If the cuck
- 41:49or the stag and the hot wife or cuck holder is
- 41:53an act of fool, the bull is going to straighten
- 41:55you out respectfully, right? But like I talk
- 42:01about the triangle debates, right? I look at
- 42:04this as even though the bull is the authority
- 42:05in the room, the cuck or the stag or just the
- 42:08regular husband and the cuck holder is the wife
- 42:12or unicorn or single woman. They have responsibilities
- 42:16and accountabilities as well. But we want to
- 42:19be the bull centric authority. Even though we
- 42:23have a woman on here, my wife, because what is
- 42:27this game without a female? This is what it's
- 42:31all about. We believe women run the lifestyle.
- 42:34They run the pace. They're the ones that say
- 42:36stop and go. They're the ones that are gatekeepers
- 42:38of their punani. Right? That raw, ta -ta -ta
- 42:44-ta, right? Then women, y 'all got us going crazy
- 42:48for that poon and na -na -na, right? So I just
- 42:52wanted to end this very elegant, very high class,
- 42:55very high society one with some realness. I'm
- 42:58gatekeeping. I don't want you to learn the way
- 43:02of water, the top or echelon, super powerful,
- 43:07even though beginning, high level advice he gives
- 43:11in the second part. Straight up. So if you live
- 43:15in my town, you know me, and you're a bull, then
- 43:17yeah, I might be talking about you. I'm not judging
- 43:20you. I'm not making you wrong. I'm not making
- 43:23you bad. I'm saying, sorry, but I want some kind
- 43:29of... barrier between bad actors or people who
- 43:32are just not organized that don't really get
- 43:34it, or people who are trying to extract more
- 43:37than they're trying to give to this community,
- 43:39I want you to pay a little, I want you to pay
- 43:41a premium to get this information. And when we
- 43:44do it, we're going to give people warnings. Hey,
- 43:45if you're not authentic, if you're not trying
- 43:48to add value to this community, do your thing.
- 43:50We don't judge you, but that's not what the Bull
- 43:51Brotherhood's about. So I'm out of here, y 'all.
- 43:54Thanks for hearing us out. And we look forward
- 43:56to... Chatting with you guys. If you're an aspiring
- 44:00bull and you like what we're talking about, please
- 44:02hit us up. We've gotten Darv Giovanni and Trey
- 44:06War, which you'll hear about, as new additions
- 44:09because they reached out and they identified
- 44:11with us. If you have questions, you have doubts,
- 44:13and you want to ask us, please do. And if you
- 44:16want to hit us up, you know our socials. It'll
- 44:18be in the show notes. Hit us up. I'll holla.
- 44:27And hypotheses and hypotheses Can't define how
- 44:29I be dropping these mockeries