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We Made It to Episode 200, iHeartRadio Awards Recap, Is Success Given?, Step Parent Problems, &More! · What More Can I Say?

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  Speaker 1: All right, y'all, welcome to it. Can I say podcast
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  Speaker 1: and everybody episodeut to? Wow?
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  Speaker 2: Wow?
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  Speaker 1: Wow, that is crazy. I at one of your hosts.
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  Speaker 1: But before we get into a two hundred as an episode,
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  Speaker 1: we're going to introduce other people first that helped out
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  Speaker 1: with our two hundredth episode. Uh. You hear him in
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  Speaker 1: the background. I ask you what episode? We are all
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  Speaker 1: the time? Go jump on, Kiki Camerara, get some camera
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  Speaker 1: time there we go, all right, Uh, and then we
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  Speaker 1: have a new member to the pod fam Uh. He's
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  Speaker 1: going to executive produce the pill on pod. Uh. He's
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  Speaker 1: a he's a producer and executiveroducer of the morning show
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  Speaker 1: and he's kept over to the podas right. Welcome, welcome,
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  Speaker 1: new additions. We're growing.
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  Speaker 3: We are growing, honey, we are growing. But you're the
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  Speaker 3: same though, So I.
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  Speaker 4: Don't feel about what y'all saw is two people that's
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  Speaker 4: willing to buy in to this dream.
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  Speaker 3: Don't keep going.
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  Speaker 1: They bonded to the dream like you bought it into
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  Speaker 1: the dream. We could not have got to this two
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  Speaker 1: hundred episode without y'all. Thank you so much. You already
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  Speaker 1: know what it is. I want your whole song ca
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  Speaker 1: Paul it's going and introduced the other members of the
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  Speaker 1: two hundred pod fam I couldn't think of that else
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  Speaker 1: to go behind that. Yep, he's fluffy and fine the
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  Speaker 1: first lady of the pot miss two hundred.
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  Speaker 3: Ki kids, Hey, friends, what's going on?
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  Speaker 4: Just like every other episode, shade honey, and if this
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  Speaker 4: is how y'all want to sell, we can get started
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  Speaker 4: because I'm ready for y'all to say so. Don't they
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  Speaker 4: get a few extracosies in the room and want to
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  Speaker 4: ask fun?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, hello, everyone missed the two Zach's bug what's up?
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  Speaker 1: Buddy? Whoa whoa? Damn started reading something?
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  Speaker 2: What's up y'all? Happy two hundredth episode. Man, I'm so
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  Speaker 2: happy to be here with you. Tone Ryan Kikey writer,
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  Speaker 2: It's good to have you all here.
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  Speaker 3: Hello, how are you acting like that you started it?
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  Speaker 4: I was in a great space, friends, I was ready
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  Speaker 4: to pie and have a good time.
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  Speaker 3: It's a celebration. You started with me.
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  Speaker 5: I didn't know.
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  Speaker 3: Well, don't get thirsty when he get my intro.
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  Speaker 5: I didn't know that you whenever I ever all one hundred,
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  Speaker 5: one hundred.
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  Speaker 4: Collectors, they just getting out of hand. They didn't text me,
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  Speaker 4: wouldn't to be a collector.
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  Speaker 2: Start texting this comcast. I just want to see if
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  Speaker 2: you had a little something on it. Oh lord, you
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  Speaker 2: got a little something on it, this little all right?
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  Speaker 3: Then talk about nickname.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we had to get happy two hundred episode
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  Speaker 1: man to PID fan President Man Fan President Mando. Happy
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  Speaker 1: thirty fourth birthday, my brother.
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  Speaker 3: Happy birthday.
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  Speaker 2: Appreciate proud of you, sodough Man. We appreciate you man
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  Speaker 2: and everything that you do. Keep them coming down.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: He's been supporting us since day once first started the pod,
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  Speaker 2: been at all the live events, even we have events separately. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. He pulls up, so shout
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  Speaker 2: out to happy birthday.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, very very good brother, Very good brother. Oh okay,
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  Speaker 1: So yeah, I wanted to go ahead and respond on
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  Speaker 1: the pod because I was getting I saw some of
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  Speaker 1: them clips. Oh, we had a lot of people talking
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  Speaker 1: about it when I was saying, you know what we're
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  Speaker 1: talking about, the Anthony Edward situation. Yes, so I was
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  Speaker 1: getting it in the comy.
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  Speaker 3: Yes you were.
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  Speaker 1: And again everybody it is if we just gonna get
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  Speaker 1: on here and agreed, I have to get It's my
• 4:01
  Speaker 1: job to give another spin to it. But I do
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  Speaker 1: believe in the spin that I was saying. I think
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  Speaker 1: what they think is that because I believe one side,
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  Speaker 1: I think the other side is wrong. So I like,
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  Speaker 1: I agree with what Zach saying. If anybody I got
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  Speaker 1: three baby mamas, I understand accountability. What I was saying
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  Speaker 1: for her, and I know you say what she wants
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  Speaker 1: to have the baby I'm saying for her is that
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  Speaker 1: we know that this is an obvious money graph. This
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  Speaker 1: is an obvious money grap right, That's what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: Like if you if a dude, because women always say, hey,
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  Speaker 1: I know a f boy when I see one, I
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  Speaker 1: know when a dude only wants something. If a dude
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  Speaker 1: is pulling up on you and saying, hey, what you doing,
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  Speaker 1: and then you think he's going to start a family
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  Speaker 1: with you, that's wrong. What's why. That's why I say
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  Speaker 1: it's a bit of a it's a bit of two responsibilities,
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  Speaker 1: because I get it, there's many women out there that God,
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  Speaker 1: it's gotten duped. Things hasn't worked out, and you create
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  Speaker 1: single paying family household. But when you're a part of it,
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  Speaker 1: when you purposely are a part of it, because you
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  Speaker 1: think when she kept a baby, well she had kept
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  Speaker 1: the baby if it was Anthony Jenkins. No, Anthony Edwards.
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  Speaker 1: She's keeping the baby. So you purposely creating a single
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  Speaker 1: parent household. That's why I said, there's when it's those
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  Speaker 1: type of situations that's the blame. That's what I meant.
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  Speaker 5: By Okay, Okay, brother, you got that off your I
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  Speaker 5: was you know.
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  Speaker 2: What that time is like, that's the thing that's usually
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  Speaker 2: you Usually I get told up and when you yeah,
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  Speaker 2: when you talk for a long time, you're gonna say
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  Speaker 2: something to make people mad.
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  Speaker 5: And that's what happens when we pod. You know what
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  Speaker 5: I'm saying. So we just we don't take it personally.
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  Speaker 5: It is what it is.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I felt I felt personally attacked.
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  Speaker 3: Man, it's you remember when they called me, what was
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  Speaker 3: our dad beat? Use our chemis stuff?
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  Speaker 1: Oh, I was all.
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  Speaker 5: Types of stuff. One time.
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  Speaker 2: It hurt my feelings. I was like, I hurt my
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  Speaker 2: feelings this week. But it's okay, y'all forget. We got
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  Speaker 2: two more clips. Y'all gonna forget.
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  Speaker 3: Y'all gonna forget.
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  Speaker 5: That's why you can't in two clips, don't they're not
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  Speaker 5: gonna care.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, you're happy when when it's the pie fam. I
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  Speaker 4: don't man get beat up by the pie fam. Won
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  Speaker 4: them shade room comments come back. I'll be sitting at
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  Speaker 4: home cleaning my gun.
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  Speaker 3: Y'all.
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  Speaker 4: I stopped looking at you got I was like, you know, way,
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  Speaker 4: I'm not gonna make it.
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  Speaker 2: Get so mad. Oh my god, I don't even look.
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  Speaker 2: I know the first coming. I'm gonna see this all
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  Speaker 2: y'all gonna talk about. But you hear people need to
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  Speaker 2: talk about something else.
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  Speaker 4: But under every you're under every clip, so you're here
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  Speaker 4: with us to talk about stop stop.
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  Speaker 5: I can't watch it.
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  Speaker 1: I don't.
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  Speaker 5: I just look at the views. I don't look at
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  Speaker 5: the coming, but.
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  Speaker 3: Keep them coming, keep them coming.
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  Speaker 1: We gotta check. We love it. But what I felt like,
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  Speaker 1: I felt like dang, I was y'all. Remember I got
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  Speaker 1: raised by women, so I don't you know, I don't.
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  Speaker 1: I don't have I just believe and sometimes there is
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  Speaker 1: accountability on both sides. Everything is not one sided. But
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  Speaker 1: let's go ahead, get to this. The iHeart Radio twenty
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  Speaker 1: five recap. Yes you watch it. I think you put
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  Speaker 1: up a recap. You posted something absolutely.
• 7:07
  Speaker 4: I recap all love war shows always all the time.
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  Speaker 4: I love an award show. I'm I'm gonna order me
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  Speaker 4: something to eat, get my living room right, and put
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  Speaker 4: my gown on and get my uh and getting ready
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  Speaker 4: to watch.
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  Speaker 2: And that's what I did for the iHeart Awards, and
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  Speaker 2: they were good. I had a good time watching.
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  Speaker 4: Mariah Carey is one of the most entertaining people to
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  Speaker 4: just sit back and watch, not even when she's performing,
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  Speaker 4: just watch her in general, like she's just making weird facts.
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  Speaker 4: She's high as a kite in my mad like. I
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  Speaker 4: don't know what planet she live on, but she make
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  Speaker 4: a lot of weird faces. She do shady stuff. She
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  Speaker 4: had Anderson Park sitting right there showing all thirty two teeth.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know what come on.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know what Mariah do to these men, but
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  Speaker 4: they always smiling when they would have. And so I
• 7:51
  Speaker 4: was just watching her and I figured out that I'm
• 7:54
  Speaker 4: gonna start when I get a certain age, I'm just
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  Speaker 4: gonna start acting like I can't walk right, because that's
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  Speaker 4: what Mariah do.
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  Speaker 3: Like she gets up and she was.
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  Speaker 4: Like, and everybody come run like holder, That's what I'm
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  Speaker 4: gonna start doing, like I need help, you know. So
• 8:05
  Speaker 4: I'm gonna start doing that because that's just being dramatic,
• 8:09
  Speaker 4: and she you know, it was cute, lady. Guy guy
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  Speaker 4: said some good stuff. Nelly performed and Nelly Wine forgot
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  Speaker 4: but you did good. Yeah, but we ain't forgot okay,
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  Speaker 4: but he did all right, And so it was it
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  Speaker 4: was a great show.
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  Speaker 3: Did y'all watch? What do you think?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah?
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  Speaker 5: It was good. I think that.
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  Speaker 2: Anderson Mariah Carey day. Yes, Okay, yeah, I think the
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  Speaker 2: iHeart radio. Okay, how did she pick her?
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  Speaker 3: That?
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  Speaker 5: What the criteria is to date Mariah?
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  Speaker 3: Mm hmm, that's a good question.
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  Speaker 1: Called her.
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  Speaker 2: I just don't feel like you would just catch Mariah somewhere,
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  Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, Like Mariah Carey seemed like
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  Speaker 2: like mysterious in a way, like she wouldn't be out,
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  Speaker 2: like for Anderson.
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  Speaker 1: To ride something you never know, or found somebody that
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  Speaker 1: knew and said to send something to her, you never know.
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  Speaker 2: It's just a Riah just don't seem like she be
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  Speaker 2: outside enough. She get pulled up on Ymber.
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  Speaker 1: She's smiling. It is the same reason why I said
• 9:11
  Speaker 1: about like Amon Shepherd back then, The same thing I
• 9:13
  Speaker 1: said is that is that it's a win. You can't
• 9:17
  Speaker 1: not you can never take that away from Annison pact,
• 9:20
  Speaker 1: like you said, for the simple reason is everybody can't
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  Speaker 1: just pull up on the Tianna Taylor. Everybody just can't
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  Speaker 1: pull up and bag Mariah Carey.
• 9:28
  Speaker 2: Okay, we ain't giving him all that credit yet, what
• 9:31
  Speaker 2: not just because he ain't you a hater?
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  Speaker 1: Bro?
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  Speaker 5: No, I'm saying he's he's I think he's dating her.
• 9:37
  Speaker 1: Is he dating?
• 9:38
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 9:38
  Speaker 5: I say we don't know.
• 9:42
  Speaker 3: He was.
• 9:42
  Speaker 2: He might be dating her, but he was sitting there
• 9:45
  Speaker 2: like a looking he ain't got no babies, saying that
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  Speaker 2: like a little kid all half me, like you can't
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  Speaker 2: like the respect that we give it to like Nick,
• 9:53
  Speaker 2: Nick got two babies by you know what. You know
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  Speaker 2: what I'm saying, why fit? I'm saying you just you
• 10:02
  Speaker 2: dating Mariah.
• 10:02
  Speaker 4: He's sitting row at the iHeart Awards with Mariah Carey.
• 10:07
  Speaker 4: That's a win, bro, no matter what, I don't give
• 10:09
  Speaker 4: damn if they was just on a blind day, you
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  Speaker 4: took me and set me front row and them cameras.
• 10:14
  Speaker 3: But next to your kids, he in there.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you?
• 10:17
  Speaker 3: In there?
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  Speaker 5: Okay he looked like one of the kids.
• 10:19
  Speaker 3: He did, He did look like one of the kids.
• 10:21
  Speaker 3: But that's my man to look.
• 10:23
  Speaker 4: If I bring my man to a ward show, I
• 10:25
  Speaker 4: want to see all thirty two teeth when they talk
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  Speaker 4: about me, like they would see.
• 10:28
  Speaker 2: The girls were singing and it's over there, like, yes,
• 10:30
  Speaker 2: Maria's just straight face. She ain't even smiling at the
• 10:32
  Speaker 2: girls that's performing for her. But Anderson is over here
• 10:35
  Speaker 2: jumping up and that that's how it's supposed to be. Okay,
• 10:39
  Speaker 2: So when y'all.
• 10:40
  Speaker 4: Girlfriends, take y'all somewhere, y'all need to do the same things.
• 10:43
  Speaker 3: Now, be happy for her.
• 10:45
  Speaker 1: You definitely got to smile when your lady getting honored.
• 10:47
  Speaker 1: You're supposed to smile and be the be the arm candy,
• 10:50
  Speaker 1: just the same way she's supposed to do the same thing.
• 10:52
  Speaker 5: You know how I sit on a pillow during the
• 10:53
  Speaker 5: shave room.
• 10:55
  Speaker 3: Now, why are you telling yourself?
• 10:57
  Speaker 2: I said, I never knew that was crazy. Yeah, I
• 11:02
  Speaker 2: was saying that for the documentary one day. You think
• 11:05
  Speaker 2: you think I don't know that I have a short
• 11:07
  Speaker 2: Torso I know my flaws.
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  Speaker 5: That's the thing. It's not that I'm too short for
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  Speaker 5: the chair. I have all my height as as much
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  Speaker 5: as he is.
• 11:17
  Speaker 2: It's in my legs, so I have to sit on
• 11:19
  Speaker 2: all my heights in my like, look at my chair right.
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  Speaker 5: Now, it's up to its highest it is. That's how
• 11:25
  Speaker 5: I have to sit.
• 11:25
  Speaker 2: I'm not ashamed, so you put in documentary teller, I
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  Speaker 2: don't care. But what I'm saying is I wish he
• 11:30
  Speaker 2: had a pillow because he could sit up a little higher,
• 11:32
  Speaker 2: because he just looked so young, so young, and like, yeez, like,
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  Speaker 2: he looked so young. He didn't look like her man
• 11:39
  Speaker 2: to me in that in that situation, and I know
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  Speaker 2: it doesn't matter, but he didn't.
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  Speaker 1: I don't care what I look like. I'm a Mariah
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  Speaker 1: Carey and I know, and you could talk your talk
• 11:50
  Speaker 1: like it ain'ate just for the exact reason you said it.
• 11:54
  Speaker 1: You know, it's not Mariah Carrey not giving everybody a shot,
• 11:59
  Speaker 1: but it's a lot of people shooting shots, and he
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  Speaker 1: got her. You gotta. I mean, hey, look, I don't
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  Speaker 1: care what I look like on that front road with
• 12:05
  Speaker 1: Mariah Kid, because I'm on the front road with Mariah
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  Speaker 1: cared period.
• 12:09
  Speaker 5: Okay, y'all gonna act like this is it is a right.
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  Speaker 2: I just want to let y'all y'all look like this
• 12:15
  Speaker 2: just the new powered couple.
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  Speaker 5: Go ahead.
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  Speaker 2: I can't wait till y'all start saying, ain't nobody talking
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  Speaker 2: about Answer Pot and Mariah?
• 12:22
  Speaker 3: But y'all, so was that the show last night?
• 12:26
  Speaker 1: That's wow?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, shout out to the iHeart Just Radio Music Awards.
• 12:30
  Speaker 2: I thought it was very well produced, like it's probably
• 12:33
  Speaker 2: one of the best producers.
• 12:36
  Speaker 3: Can we go? I would like to go. Okay, it's
• 12:39
  Speaker 3: getting a little embarrassing. We're working here a lot a
• 12:42
  Speaker 3: long time.
• 12:42
  Speaker 4: I didn't wait from every department in this I would
• 12:44
  Speaker 4: like to attend. I didn't been to the beautib BT
• 12:47
  Speaker 4: and Ward about three four times. Can I at least
• 12:49
  Speaker 4: come to the wars where I work.
• 12:50
  Speaker 5: And get me a ticket? And I don't want to
• 12:53
  Speaker 5: do that.
• 12:54
  Speaker 1: I think that should be, honestly think that should be.
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  Speaker 1: So we should get like we should get there every
• 12:59
  Speaker 1: every If you hold out a major day part for
• 13:01
  Speaker 1: the company, you should be at the heart.
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  Speaker 3: And like, no disrespect. They had ll cool J hosting.
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  Speaker 4: I know a bald guy, light skin, Okay, that could
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  Speaker 4: have done a great job hosting that for you know
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  Speaker 4: what I'm saying. I know a guy, so no shame,
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  Speaker 4: but yeah, I would like to go.
• 13:18
  Speaker 1: That's what we're you know a place where I work
• 13:20
  Speaker 1: there with that would be kind of cool. It's like
• 13:22
  Speaker 1: when I try to.
• 13:23
  Speaker 3: Go see that comedy show, you know what I'm saying,
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  Speaker 3: I could barely get in.
• 13:26
  Speaker 1: So that's got another comedy show, cup.
• 13:28
  Speaker 3: I know I'm gonna be at that one.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, we'll see.
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  Speaker 1: I'm supposed to do my first, my first ever three
• 13:33
  Speaker 1: minutes of comedy. I'm still debating.
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  Speaker 5: Now we got torn on the lineup.
• 13:37
  Speaker 3: I got to be there.
• 13:38
  Speaker 5: He's doing three minutes in the beginning.
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  Speaker 3: I got to be there. I cannot wait, I cannot win.
• 13:42
  Speaker 1: I told him yesterday, I have my beginning.
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  Speaker 3: You have, you have your beginning.
• 13:47
  Speaker 1: I have the beginning.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, oh a beginning.
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  Speaker 5: He's got the beginning of his set.
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  Speaker 1: Is that? What is that?
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  Speaker 3: What comedian is calling?
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  Speaker 1: Just at the beginning?
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  Speaker 3: You didn't make it an album. I got an intro like.
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  Speaker 2: The beginning beginning. But we are excited for tom out
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  Speaker 2: with you. He's gonna do, he's gonna do. We're gonna
• 14:11
  Speaker 2: put three minutes on the clock and let's see what
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  Speaker 2: he got.
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  Speaker 4: So you got a towel and I was like, all, look,
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  Speaker 4: community have like a little towel in the pocket about
• 14:18
  Speaker 4: him sweating.
• 14:20
  Speaker 5: I can't wait, you're gonna do five.
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna be the heckler.
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  Speaker 1: At least you gotta have a playing somebody to start
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  Speaker 1: the laught off.
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  Speaker 4: Like no, I got you, I got you. I was
• 14:33
  Speaker 4: laughing for he even got to the microphone.
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  Speaker 1: I was laughing.
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  Speaker 3: The people was like the three hundred level was like, girl,
• 14:41
  Speaker 3: I'm like, he's so funny. He is so funny.
• 14:45
  Speaker 1: All right, let's get Kanye is kind because I've seen
• 14:49
  Speaker 1: a lot Charlotte Mane saying something about Kanye West talking about,
• 14:53
  Speaker 1: you know, he's grand standing and maybe just being loud basically.
• 14:56
  Speaker 1: And he did another weird thing, Kanye. He had a
• 15:01
  Speaker 1: Diddy song with King Komb's and North all on the
• 15:07
  Speaker 1: same record and released it. Now they're said, Kim is
• 15:10
  Speaker 1: extremely mad about it. What do you guys think.
• 15:14
  Speaker 2: I think she has every right to be mad about it.
• 15:18
  Speaker 2: With the things that Diddy is going through right now,
• 15:21
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't want my child associated with it right now
• 15:23
  Speaker 2: in the heat of that, Like this isn't I don't
• 15:25
  Speaker 2: know why Ya is acting like this is like he's like,
• 15:28
  Speaker 2: Kim is wrong, you know in this situation, Like I
• 15:31
  Speaker 2: get it. You want to take up for Diddy or whatever.
• 15:33
  Speaker 2: But you can do that, you know, on your own
• 15:35
  Speaker 2: platform and do it the way you want to do it,
• 15:37
  Speaker 2: but don't drag the children into it.
• 15:39
  Speaker 5: The children are innocent, man, Lead the kids out of it. Yeah,
• 15:41
  Speaker 5: you should. You know better than that.
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: Yep.
• 15:44
  Speaker 2: And that's what I mean by what Kanye's doing right now.
• 15:46
  Speaker 2: It's not the oh, I'm going through something that's a
• 15:50
  Speaker 2: tough time. No, everything he's been doing has been on purpose.
• 15:54
  Speaker 2: Y'all ain't noticed that he's been doing this stuff on
• 15:56
  Speaker 2: It's like, how can I agitate people? What's the best
• 15:59
  Speaker 2: way to get a response? This man just went on
• 16:02
  Speaker 2: a whole rant about Drake before all that. You remember
• 16:06
  Speaker 2: how he hated Drake and he was talking about Drake.
• 16:08
  Speaker 2: Now he's switching that and going on a whole rent
• 16:10
  Speaker 2: against Kendrick right now.
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: Yep.
• 16:12
  Speaker 5: So whoever on top is who he ain't want to
• 16:15
  Speaker 5: go after.
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: He's just trying to evoke emotion and he's it and
• 16:18
  Speaker 2: it's starting to get played out and it's getting corny.
• 16:20
  Speaker 5: And this is I hate to say.
• 16:21
  Speaker 2: I'm one of your biggest fans, hey, I'm one of
• 16:23
  Speaker 2: the people who ride with you to the end.
• 16:25
  Speaker 5: But you you losing me.
• 16:28
  Speaker 4: Yeah, he's doing I mean, it's very corny, all the
• 16:30
  Speaker 4: stuff he's doing. And I, like you said, at first,
• 16:33
  Speaker 4: I was like, oh, you know, he misses Mama. You
• 16:35
  Speaker 4: know what I'm saying, He missus granny, and you know
• 16:37
  Speaker 4: it's hard for a black man. But now it's he
• 16:40
  Speaker 4: didn't done, He didn't. He has done so many things
• 16:43
  Speaker 4: that I just can't. There's no way to defend it,
• 16:45
  Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying. And like you said, it's
• 16:47
  Speaker 4: very calculated, you know what I'm saying. So you can't
• 16:49
  Speaker 4: even give the excuse of mental health or something like that,
• 16:51
  Speaker 4: like this is all very intentional and very calculated. And
• 16:55
  Speaker 4: I just thinking, in a Trump America, we're not worried
• 16:58
  Speaker 4: about you. We got a lot, a lot of bigger
• 17:00
  Speaker 4: things to worry about. We got big, real problems to
• 17:03
  Speaker 4: worry about and to be thinking about. And right now,
• 17:06
  Speaker 4: no matter what you do, whatever antique pull, it is
• 17:10
  Speaker 4: not gonna rock the world like it used to.
• 17:12
  Speaker 3: When you was back.
• 17:13
  Speaker 4: Saying you know, slavery was a choice, and you got
• 17:15
  Speaker 4: on TV and said, George Bush on like black people,
• 17:17
  Speaker 4: and you did all the things you've done before that
• 17:19
  Speaker 4: have really shook the culture. We shook for real now,
• 17:23
  Speaker 4: so we ain't got time to be worried about what
• 17:26
  Speaker 4: Kanye is doing. So I wish he would find another
• 17:29
  Speaker 4: angle and maybe put his efforts into some creativity and
• 17:32
  Speaker 4: some music that could.
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: Really be too talented to that, Yeah, to reach like this,
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: he too talented for that.
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: Like yeah, he playing what he's doing is you playing around?
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: And he gonna find out. And I keep trying to
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: explain to him, Explain to anybody you got kids, bro,
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: It ain't even about what you're doing to yourself or
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: what you his number one fan and all the you know,
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: all of us have been fans forever. It's about, bro,
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: what you're doing to your kids. You know what I mean.
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: You don't know what your son thinking. You don't know
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: what your daughter's thinking. You don't know what they got
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: going on in their head when they see they dad
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: constantly getting drug across the media, they got the internet.
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: It ain't nothing you can keep from your kids. Now,
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: they'll pop on that tablet. They know who their daddy is.
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: They know they know who their momy is. They're very
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: aware of that. And you know, and I don't give
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: a care what you're talking about rich kids, poor kids,
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: middle class kids. Kids are mean all across the world. Yes,
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: they are mean, and you have you putting your kids
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: amongst their peers in a wild position, in a wild position,
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: you should be caring about that, Like when that's the
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: purpose when you have In my opinion, when you have kids,
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: you thinking about somebody outside of yourself. And I think
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: right now, the behavior right now is still yay over everything,
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: And I don't think that's That's what I.
• 18:50
  Speaker 5: Think having kids is an overrated experience.
• 18:52
  Speaker 3: Who talk about is that? Talk about it?
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: Because when you said that's the reason you have kids,
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: and then I thought about it, I was like, well.
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: I mean it's the reasons, please, because.
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: I think that's something that we need to discuss in
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: our community. Why are we having children? Why a lot
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: of people feel this way, but they will never admit it.
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: So I love to hear what you have to say
• 19:14
  Speaker 3: about this.
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: Once you get them here, you love them, right, you
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: love them and you couldn't see your life without them
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: because they're here.
• 19:23
  Speaker 5: But before, why are they here? Does that make sense?
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: Like that's why God made them so cute and small,
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: because he knew they.
• 19:33
  Speaker 5: Would you would love them immediately and then they.
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: Just you know, they become a part of you and
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: you love them, you when you want to protect them,
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: and they just oh, you know what I'm saying. And
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: if you don't think about it, if you got kids
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: at ten, they came out at ten, oh, you never
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: went through that back. You wouldn't even want me. You'd
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: be like, the hell with these kids. You'd be like,
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: I'm not dealing with this. You have to get them
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: from a young age and see them grow and love
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: them first.
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: No way I want to in this room completely lost
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: when you overhead, yes, he said, y'all both said like
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: y'all been chewing on tree bark for crying. What are
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: y'all saying? What type of psychedelics are y'all saying?
• 20:15
  Speaker 3: That is being honest. Kids are meant ten.
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: Years are mean? Kids are meaning kids. But I'm saying no,
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: you have kids for all types of reasons. But my
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: thing is.
• 20:27
  Speaker 5: Why we need to start to say them, why do
• 20:30
  Speaker 5: you have them?
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: Because sometimes people want kids, they.
• 20:34
  Speaker 5: Want why other than you want them?
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: Zach, what are you talking about? I'm not going to
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: go into this typer conversation.
• 20:41
  Speaker 3: Be honest, Why do we have kids? Conversation.
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: People need to be honest about it because a lot
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: of people have kids.
• 20:48
  Speaker 3: They don't even be liking it.
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: Not about your kids. The thing about when you talk
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: about kids, most people talk about I'm being when you
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: when you talk about kids, people talk about their kids.
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: So when you start thinking about kids, you start thinking
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: about your kids, and then what comes in that love
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: that you have for them comes in, and love clouds everything.
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: What I'm trying to do is I'm trying to get
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: us to think before the love, what makes you have kids?
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: Because you're like, I want another version myself. I want
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: to see so it's about you. I want another version
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: of me.
• 21:18
  Speaker 3: The world needs more to the world needs more.
• 21:20
  Speaker 5: Meaty, So we have kids. We'll be like, the world
• 21:22
  Speaker 5: needs more meat Let me have another me.
• 21:28
  Speaker 3: So we have so we have.
• 21:29
  Speaker 5: Kids running around.
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: Reason you got three that I love and I just
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: gave it. I gave the world. I gave you all
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: some gems. Bro, My daughter already got food. Look at that,
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: she twenty five, twenty five, and she look at this.
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: I gave you the fans. That's that's I gave the
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: world one of them.
• 21:52
  Speaker 5: About you?
• 21:52
  Speaker 3: Why did you have Why did you decide to have
• 21:54
  Speaker 3: a child.
• 21:55
  Speaker 5: I was in love and all that. You know what
• 21:57
  Speaker 5: I'm saying.
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: To see that, and that's why I had it, because
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: you in love exactly, and you and you talk that
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: that's the thing you do when you're in love exactly,
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: you'd be like, oh, when you're in love, you should
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: have a child.
• 22:07
  Speaker 3: Who said that? I don't know why? Why can't you
• 22:14
  Speaker 3: just be in love and be in love?
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: I just want to know why we were like, you
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: know what, we need another person here. I mean, I'm
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: so happy that I'm so I love my son to death.
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: But what I'm trying to say is you're not having
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: any more kids.
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: No, I would have another one. I would have another kid.
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: Why would you have another kid? I don't know.
• 22:32
  Speaker 3: See, that's what I'm saying. They don't know.
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm trying to at least I'm admitting it.
• 22:38
  Speaker 5: I'm admitting that I don't know why.
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: Because it's it's a part of human existence to want
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: to continue your legacy. It's a part. It's built into
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: our DNA to pro create.
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: So let me take on another responsibility, the whole human
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: of a whole not like a human though it is
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: so cool it depends on you.
• 22:59
  Speaker 3: It's cool when.
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: It's Yeah, it's cool cool once you get started.
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: But I'm talking about before the step, before you get started.
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: It's fun to make them.
• 23:11
  Speaker 5: Now you onto something now.
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: Of making it, it's really fun.
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: That is why we have and that's probably why we
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: have kids. Because unprotected sex is great. Yeah, condom sex
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: is turkey bacon.
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: If you get that.
• 23:29
  Speaker 3: I'm not gonna say that. I'm not gonna get it's
• 23:31
  Speaker 3: good like that, Pope. People need to have.
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: The things get the thing was? Those are the.
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: Movie he always fashion. Now you're trying to tell you
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: in the cold to get the thin one.
• 23:48
  Speaker 3: What does that mean?
• 23:49
  Speaker 5: He mean condoms?
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: I thought he meant time you say something outside about.
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: Saying I told you it was.
• 24:07
  Speaker 3: You get that? Thing's like around that.
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: With me?
• 24:12
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I like turkey bacon and thin win total. Now
• 24:23
  Speaker 3: I don't like nothing.
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: Okay, all right, let's get to this. Every Mackie says
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: the American mail is dead and they killed masculinity in homes.
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: Do you agree anything? What y'all got to say?
• 24:38
  Speaker 4: I didn't hear you because Ryan was and I'm not
• 24:41
  Speaker 4: gonna lie. You got out of that or over that
• 24:44
  Speaker 4: in that corner where I can't see you distracting health.
• 24:48
  Speaker 3: Yeah, like I know what y'all do up in the morning.
• 24:52
  Speaker 3: We're not doing that up in here, so get it
• 24:54
  Speaker 3: together over there.
• 24:55
  Speaker 2: Yes, I mean the topic is introduced to, the pot
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: is supposed to. I'm sorry, I didn't know what. I
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: don't trust neither one of them. So I'm grabbing my
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: purse because they bus It looks like they're stealing. I
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: don't know because over my morning show we don't do
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: all that, you know, so I don't know what's going on.
• 25:15
  Speaker 3: Now what you ask it for?
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: For the here it is again, they weren't listening. Aftery back,
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: he says the American mail is dead and they killed
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: masculinity in homes. Do you agree?
• 25:27
  Speaker 3: Oh that's deed, that's deed, Tom.
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: Ahead, go ahead, as deep.
• 25:37
  Speaker 4: I'm really not.
• 25:38
  Speaker 3: Because the way you just read that.
• 25:41
  Speaker 4: I want to agree with him and on a certain extent,
• 25:44
  Speaker 4: but I'm scared to agree with Anthony Mecki because I
• 25:46
  Speaker 4: heard he's so mean. So I'm like, you know what
• 25:49
  Speaker 4: I'm saying, I'm taking I'm hesitant on saying it. But
• 25:52
  Speaker 4: the way you say that they have killed masculinity and homes,
• 25:55
  Speaker 4: if we look back.
• 25:57
  Speaker 3: Zach, I'm not I'm not trying to be deep, but
• 25:59
  Speaker 3: you take us back.
• 26:06
  Speaker 4: I'm not trying to be deep, but I'm you know,
• 26:08
  Speaker 4: there has been you know, the black male in the
• 26:12
  Speaker 4: home has not always been present and not always by choice.
• 26:17
  Speaker 4: A lot of it is circumstances and the way that
• 26:19
  Speaker 4: you know, we were set up after we were released
• 26:23
  Speaker 4: from slavery, and so I think when you look over
• 26:27
  Speaker 4: the course of from slavery to now, yeah, masculinity in
• 26:32
  Speaker 4: the home has been something that has not been heavily
• 26:35
  Speaker 4: promoted in our community. And I'll just leave it at that.
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: What you think I mean, I think I'm I'm gonna
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: go with it, just because of the single parent first
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: of all, single parent households, and just circumstances, how things happen, whatever.
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: I think a lot of times, I think me and
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: my boys talked about this before we just just shooting
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: and ship it came up with it. Like you think
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: about it. If you don't have a mail in your house,
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: your homies are raising you, teach you how to be
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: a man, or your friend's father's you know, they tell
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: me you hearing what they dad, it's mad at and
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: that I mean, I'm speaking even for myself or some
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: of my boys, Like okay, because I remember my best
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: friend's father would say, like he'd be like, man, he
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: like you you're a teenager. Don't walk out your house
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: without some money in your pocket. And I'm like, damn,
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: I ain't never heard that, Like I gotta get some
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: money in my pocket, because he's like, that's you a guy.
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: Guy's always supposed to have some money on the in
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: they pocket. You never know when it's something gonna go wrong.
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: And that's just a human thing anyway as well. So
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: you used to start learning and how you think a lot,
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: and you can always tell like when you got guys
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: and I think exact, man, I agree with this. That
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: never really hung around other men, so they don't understand
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: guide cold, so to speak. So you're or they or
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: their guide cold. It's different because of the type of
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: dudes that they hung around. So like I you know,
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: our fellas we hang around, you don't do this, you
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: don't do that, we don't do this, And you follow
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: that kind of guideline because your group of guys you
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: came up with teach you how to do it. And
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: then then I think on the last part of it
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: is that, you know, I've been accused of it, but
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: it's been from the female members of my family and stuff,
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: and now they understand it when I'm like, yo, I'm
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: when I talk about my son, like why are you tough?
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: Or you say certain things and you're teaching them certain things.
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: I like, cause he's a dude, y'all are talking for
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: Ain't nobody coming to save this dude. Nobody. He cannot
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: be trying to come up, trying to figure it out.
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: Pretty girl privilege, all of that. All because the women
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: in my family are attractive, you gonna have some pretty
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: girl privilege. They're gonna people gonna look out for him.
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: You a man, bro, Ain't nobody looking out for you?
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: Ain't you a black man? So I think those out
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: of I think some of the things that might have
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: gotten watered down along the way.
• 28:52
  Speaker 3: And even then, I.
• 28:53
  Speaker 4: Feel like mothers sometimes not just mothers, but parents sometimes
• 28:56
  Speaker 4: can coddle their boys. And I think a lot of
• 28:59
  Speaker 4: men are not being taught how to be men, but
• 29:03
  Speaker 4: instead women are being taught how to.
• 29:08
  Speaker 3: Be women. But also never need a man, right, you
• 29:12
  Speaker 3: know what I'm saying.
• 29:13
  Speaker 4: So I'm I'm trying to be careful with my words
• 29:15
  Speaker 4: because I want to make sure it comes through clearly.
• 29:17
  Speaker 4: Like I feel like a lot of like growing up
• 29:19
  Speaker 4: in your house maybe, and I know in my house,
• 29:21
  Speaker 4: my sister was a lot more strict on me than
• 29:23
  Speaker 4: she was on the boys because it was like and
• 29:25
  Speaker 4: she raised us, so she was like, you know, they
• 29:27
  Speaker 4: can have girls stay over early at an early age.
• 29:30
  Speaker 4: You know, she was helping my brother, you know what
• 29:32
  Speaker 4: I'm saying, with his girlfriend and stuff. But it was like,
• 29:34
  Speaker 4: you can never do that because you're a girl. But
• 29:36
  Speaker 4: I feel like boys need to be held to the
• 29:37
  Speaker 4: same type of standards, and a lot of our boys
• 29:39
  Speaker 4: are not being raised to be husbands. They're not being
• 29:42
  Speaker 4: raised to be providers. They're not being raised to you know.
• 29:46
  Speaker 4: It's unfortunate, but that's the truth. And that's why you
• 29:48
  Speaker 4: see a lot of women going on being successful, being
• 29:51
  Speaker 4: independent and not not even knowing how to coexist with
• 29:55
  Speaker 4: a partner or a man because our boys are not
• 29:59
  Speaker 4: being raised to do I.
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: Think I think that is I think I agree with you.
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: I think the independence part of it, I think they're
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: not you know what I mean, Like your mama tell you, hey,
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: you want some money, you figure out, Hey, I feel itself.
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: Get some gas. Now you got cut some grass. Go
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: see if people want to get their grass cut. Go
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: see if somebody need snow fall. Go see if there's
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: somebody need their driveway shovel. You know what I mean.
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: You think about it like you know you want Mike,
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: You want Mike's. I can't get you, George, I just can't.
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: I can't go get you a part time job and
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: figure it out. You was kind of forced at least
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: I was a certain and I believe this other guy
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: you was forced to kind of figure it out. And
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: those lessons transcend throughout your life. When you you want something,
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: you figure it out. And I think I think women
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: like you said, because you see way more. And it's
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: just like when I when I I look at it,
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: you see way more Black women up, way more. You
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: just see them. They up.
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: Lot of our fathers, a lot of not mine, faar.
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: I grew up in the house with a father, but
• 31:03
  Speaker 2: it's like a lot of people's fathers were not in
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: the home. And not to go deep, but when you
• 31:08
  Speaker 2: look at the welfare situation that we a lot of
• 31:11
  Speaker 2: us grew up on, because that's, you know, what we
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: needed it was encouraged that, like, if you had a
• 31:16
  Speaker 2: man in a house, you couldn't get you couldn't get
• 31:18
  Speaker 2: food stamps, you couldn't get welfare. So it's like, even
• 31:21
  Speaker 2: if there was a father that wanted to be present,
• 31:23
  Speaker 2: he couldn't fully be in that house because they needed
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: the government assistant and the government was not trying to
• 31:28
  Speaker 2: assist if there was a black man in the house.
• 31:30
  Speaker 3: It's that's crazy.
• 31:31
  Speaker 2: It's just I'm torn on this topic because I think
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: there's two different topics that were discussing right now, and
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: it all falls under the umbrella masculinity. So I look
• 31:41
  Speaker 2: at it like this, you've got masculinity that I think
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: Anthony Mackie is talking about is more of like leading
• 31:48
  Speaker 2: and teaching your sons and teaching young men, you know,
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: being a leader or whatever. I agree with that percent,
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: and I feel like that was purposely taken out of
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: our homes through systemic exact depression. Okay, that's what I
• 32:03
  Speaker 2: think he's talking about. But then there's another side of
• 32:06
  Speaker 2: masculinity that I think needed to be destroyed, which was
• 32:10
  Speaker 2: the toxic side of masculinity absolutely where it comes with men,
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: where we're like, oh, men, don't cry. You don't do
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: this as a man. You act like this, and I
• 32:20
  Speaker 2: think that is toxic and damaging, and then you end
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: up with these damaged boys walking around because they think
• 32:25
  Speaker 2: they can't cry, they can't do nothing, They don't know
• 32:28
  Speaker 2: what to do with their emotions, even though they have emotions.
• 32:30
  Speaker 2: So that's why I get torn on this conversation because
• 32:33
  Speaker 2: I see it both ways. I see the way masculinity
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: was taken out of our home systemically, but then I
• 32:38
  Speaker 2: also see how what was called masculinity and being a man,
• 32:42
  Speaker 2: which it really wasn't, you know what I'm saying, being
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: this tough, macho, ego driven person, and that's what you
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: see in the streets, and that's why you see dudes
• 32:50
  Speaker 2: killing each other over.
• 32:53
  Speaker 5: A color or sign, because that's toxic masculinity.
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: It's my block on either one. I'm on it, you
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying.
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: And we sitting here arguing about shooting each other, killing
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: each other over absolutely nothing, you know what I'm saying.
• 33:05
  Speaker 2: I think that's a toxic way of it. So it's just,
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: you know, I think it's a fine line. But I
• 33:09
  Speaker 2: do give our generation and millennials, the boomers over there,
• 33:15
  Speaker 2: but us millennial dads I see are way more present.
• 33:25
  Speaker 2: They are definitely doing things even if the relationship don't work.
• 33:28
  Speaker 2: As you know, like we go through the ends for
• 33:31
  Speaker 2: our children. You know what I'm saying. I sell more
• 33:34
  Speaker 2: with our general than our parents, than the people who
• 33:36
  Speaker 2: raised us. I feel like we're getting better at that.
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: And we see even guys who don't have fathers. I
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: see guys who don't have fathers being fathers. You didn't
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: have one or didn't have an example of that, But
• 33:48
  Speaker 2: like you say, it takes. Don't think that you don't
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: know how to be a father. Fellas if just because
• 33:52
  Speaker 2: you didn't have one, if you had coaches and you
• 33:54
  Speaker 2: had uncles, or you had different types of positive men
• 33:57
  Speaker 2: in your life, you learn different things from them, and
• 33:59
  Speaker 2: you can instill that to your child.
• 34:00
  Speaker 5: Because one thing.
• 34:01
  Speaker 2: About it, a dad being there is just existing, exist,
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: just existing. You ain't gotta have no lessons, You ain't
• 34:09
  Speaker 2: gotta have no cool sayings. You ain't gotta take a
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: dad being there a child being able to say that
• 34:16
  Speaker 2: gon my dad, ye means a lot.
• 34:19
  Speaker 5: And don't think that you're just you know, your presence,
• 34:21
  Speaker 5: just your presence.
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: But you know what I'm saying, it's so much that
• 34:24
  Speaker 2: comes with being a man that you get, especially if
• 34:26
  Speaker 2: you got kids. You know what I'm saying, You walking
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: with your kid down the street, your kid just feels
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: more free and safe, you know what I'm saying.
• 34:32
  Speaker 5: And they would if they were just walking with their mom.
• 34:34
  Speaker 5: Y'all just going down the street.
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. You didn't do nothing special,
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: but it's just something that comes with that.
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: And that's why I say when I was saying before,
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: when people you hear that the quarter, it's funny, I'm
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: looking for a stepdaddy and all of the different things.
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: But I said, like, I know firsthand what it could
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: do if you're putting different people in front of your
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: kid's face, especially at a young age, until they've had
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: a chance to really have a solid, strong relations and
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: ship with their father. If you and if the father
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: wants to. This is because I know first thing, somebody,
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: what if he don't want to, then don't be bothered
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: with him. You are jerk. But I'm saying with somebody
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: that you gotta you could call him, he gonna pull up.
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: Y'all got a good relationship whatever, but you're putting your
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: putting other men in my kids face when they two,
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: and they three and they four, and not only in
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: their face, but they waking up with them. So if
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: builds a false sense of home, they're waking up with
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: them in the same household with them, sitting down, eating
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: breakfast with them, dinner with them. That that fogs. And
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: then the first thing people want to say is, well,
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: if you want to be around your kids, you would
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: have made it work for you with your with your
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: baby mama. What if she's a kid, or what if
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: or what if being or both of us being around
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: each other turns us both into the kids, right And
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: we can't and we can't even stand each other the
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: sight of each other's face, so we so we should
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: be both put up with that in fortunately, so it's
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: it's a lot. I just that's the one thing that
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: I that I will say because I've seen it first hand,
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: and I've seen it firsthand. When you introduce another man
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: into your child's life, or if you got your child,
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: if you a guy and you introduce another woman into
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: your child's life, it will mess up their relationship with
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: their mama. You should not be doing that when they're young.
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: It just will skew it.
• 36:28
  Speaker 4: Not unless they are the husband or wife or staying
• 36:32
  Speaker 4: like it's a it's a relationship that.
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: It was a husband and wife. Unfortunately, and I know
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: that my baby, Trinity's mama got married right away. I
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: won't go into that one. She got married right away.
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: And Trinity even said, and I was around Trinity a
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: lot for her to be out of state, like spending
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: entire submerge with me every other holiday and and never
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: played and mama never played with none of my visitation
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: even and I would just pop out there sometimes. She
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: never played with it. But even at that point, Trinity
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: still says, she's like, it was hard for me, And
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: she says, a grown woman, it was hard for me
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: to kind of like, Okay, he here with me every day,
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: but I know this is my dad, and it's like
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: it's hard for me to figure it out who's like,
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: who am I like really locked in with. So that's
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: why I'm saying, when you introduce those new people, it's tough.
• 37:26
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I've been with you on that.
• 37:28
  Speaker 4: Like my parents, you know, they was to separate when
• 37:32
  Speaker 4: no other man coming up and in and out of
• 37:33
  Speaker 4: my mama house, none of that.
• 37:34
  Speaker 3: So I'm totally with you on that.
• 37:36
  Speaker 4: I'm just I don't want to give step parents a
• 37:38
  Speaker 4: bad name, because if you find a good partner that
• 37:41
  Speaker 4: wants to be like Russell Wilson, that want to be
• 37:43
  Speaker 4: there for your kids, then he has established hisself, he
• 37:45
  Speaker 4: has earned the trust of your trust, your kids trust,
• 37:49
  Speaker 4: and it's.
• 37:49
  Speaker 3: Okay to.
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: Be dated again. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. You
• 37:53
  Speaker 2: can't just tell your baby mama because we ain't together. King,
• 37:55
  Speaker 2: nobody ever come in my child life. That's what happens
• 37:58
  Speaker 2: when you split up and different examps.
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: I don't agree with it. I think it wait.
• 38:02
  Speaker 2: I can wait when they're that young, it can wait.
• 38:05
  Speaker 2: Like I've seen different wait for me. I've seen different
• 38:08
  Speaker 2: examples where it all turns out to be a good
• 38:12
  Speaker 2: thing and a positive thing. I've actually seen more examples
• 38:16
  Speaker 2: of saying not a woman dating somebody else or man
• 38:19
  Speaker 2: dating somebody else, but when they locked in, I've seen
• 38:22
  Speaker 2: more examples of the stepfather actually being the role model
• 38:25
  Speaker 2: or the stepmother being actual, actual positive influence in the
• 38:34
  Speaker 2: kids life. I just think that it has to be
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: done right, Like I think it has to be done
• 38:39
  Speaker 2: without hiding. I think it needs to be done without
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: with everybody seeing everybody get along. A lot of times
• 38:45
  Speaker 2: the confusion comes in, I believe, is when adults are
• 38:48
  Speaker 2: confused and adults aren't talking. A kid doesn't can only
• 38:51
  Speaker 2: sense when something's wrong, and they can con sense when
• 38:53
  Speaker 2: something's wrong through the adults. But we don't know norms,
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. A child, especially a young child,
• 38:59
  Speaker 2: doesn't know what's normal or what's not normal, or what
• 39:02
  Speaker 2: this view of things is. It's that's what we do.
• 39:06
  Speaker 2: That's what we do to them. So if I see
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: if I see my stepdad and my dad shooting basketball outside,
• 39:13
  Speaker 2: and I'm a young kid and I see them getting
• 39:15
  Speaker 2: along and smiling and everybody happy, and this is I'm
• 39:18
  Speaker 2: not gonna feel slighted. That's my dad, that's Chuck, and
• 39:22
  Speaker 2: that's my mom. Chuck' still live with my mom. When
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: I go to my dad's house, this is this friend.
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: Everybody gets along, we go Christmas and everybody got gifts.
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: That person can grow up with a sense of community
• 39:33
  Speaker 2: opposed to a sense of like, oh, I feel away
• 39:35
  Speaker 2: now if every time Chuck see my dad is a thing,
• 39:39
  Speaker 2: or they talking shit about them, or this person saying something,
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: Now the kid is experiencing trauma because they like.
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: Ah, who's right, who's wrong?
• 39:47
  Speaker 3: Who do I love?
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: Blah da da dah.
• 39:49
  Speaker 2: I think that comes more from the parents than just
• 39:52
  Speaker 2: having another But what about this that you've experienced this
• 39:55
  Speaker 2: you will see it. I think we've all probably seen it.
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: It is where it's where the new person trumps the
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: dad because he's he's he's around all the time. So
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: now they're trying to build a pseudo family and and
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: and so it's dad's weekend. Now we're planning were planning
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: to go to the Great America. Sorry you skipped it.
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: Now you skip it. We got this going on now
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: you skip Now you instead of seeing like your normal schedule.
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: Now then now they got down there once a month,
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: Because now.
• 40:28
  Speaker 2: That should be I think that should be handled. The
• 40:30
  Speaker 2: child shouldn't even know about the the.
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: Child that was gonna know about it. But I'm saying
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: you've seen it the child people.
• 40:36
  Speaker 2: Because if you're saying, if they having that conversation in
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: front of the child, and the child hears, no, he
• 40:42
  Speaker 2: can't go we going here, that's the that's what the
• 40:45
  Speaker 2: child shouldn't hear.
• 40:47
  Speaker 5: That's the issue.
• 40:48
  Speaker 2: It shouldn't. The child should never hear that conversation. Child
• 40:51
  Speaker 2: should get directions. The child should hear from there. Yeah,
• 40:55
  Speaker 2: it does happen, for sure, but the child should hear
• 40:58
  Speaker 2: from their dad, mom and stepdad that they either going
• 41:01
  Speaker 2: or they ain't. And it should all be one unified front.
• 41:04
  Speaker 2: And if it's all you, the one unified front, it
• 41:05
  Speaker 2: can be fine, yes, but if it's not, that's where
• 41:08
  Speaker 2: you start. That's where the child is confused.
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: I've seen it on when somebody is playing with it
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: doing that way, where they become that situation, the new situation.
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: Trump's your normal routine. Yeah, I c and I've been
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: in a situation where a they don't play with my
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: normal routine, they don't play and it's and it's and
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: the one where they did not play with my normal
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: routine no matter what they had going on, is there.
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: It's the more successful situation, right.
• 41:39
  Speaker 4: And so the issues that that child will develop from
• 41:41
  Speaker 4: their relate from the mother playing with with whoever. You
• 41:44
  Speaker 4: know what I'm saying, those are that's on the mother's part.
• 41:47
  Speaker 4: That's completely on the parent that moved on. And if
• 41:49
  Speaker 4: they want to start playing games with their new partner
• 41:51
  Speaker 4: and telling them and discrediting the birth father. That's on
• 41:54
  Speaker 4: the mother that your child may feel issues from that
• 41:56
  Speaker 4: because you play those games. And that's why when you
• 41:59
  Speaker 4: leave a home, when a couple breaks up after having
• 42:01
  Speaker 4: a child, y'all have to both agree to put the
• 42:04
  Speaker 4: child first, take your feelings out of it, take all that.
• 42:07
  Speaker 4: Everybody got to be mature and come together and agree,
• 42:10
  Speaker 4: Like you know, there's no way the man should have
• 42:12
  Speaker 4: the new man should have came into the relationship and
• 42:14
  Speaker 4: wanted to play on your top. He should come in
• 42:16
  Speaker 4: and want to give you nothing but respect and gratitude
• 42:18
  Speaker 4: if he truly loves that child, you know.
• 42:20
  Speaker 3: What I'm saying. That's why I hate when women get
• 42:22
  Speaker 3: with men who have kids and.
• 42:24
  Speaker 4: You come into the relationship thinking you're finna play on
• 42:26
  Speaker 4: his baby mama top, Like, no, that's that's that's their mother.
• 42:30
  Speaker 4: You should come in ready to offer them for respect.
• 42:33
  Speaker 4: And as the mother, you may not like that your
• 42:35
  Speaker 4: partner moved on, but you also got to put your
• 42:37
  Speaker 4: feelings aside and come into the situation and be a
• 42:40
  Speaker 4: leader and be and be respectful of every the new situation.
• 42:44
  Speaker 4: So it's all about putting the kids first. And I
• 42:46
  Speaker 4: think when we when both parties agree to do that,
• 42:48
  Speaker 4: it can be a successful situation.
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: I love that. I love that. Say that, I love that.
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: Let's put on. Also to Anthony Mack, he said something
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: and we don't have to stay too long on this one,
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: but he also said success is given, it's not earned.
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: So he was like he sees basically like, yo, I
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: see people in Hollywood. They act, and they've been acting
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: their whole life, and then they meet the right person
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: and then now they bla. He was like, I've been acting,
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: I've been doing the Broadway shows, I've been doing this,
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: and I met the right person. Now I'm Captain of America.
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: So what do you think about that?
• 43:24
  Speaker 4: It's a mixture of both. I won't I won't say.
• 43:27
  Speaker 4: You know, it's not completely given. You gotta have because
• 43:29
  Speaker 4: you can be given the opportunity. Once you get it,
• 43:31
  Speaker 4: you gotta show up, and if you can't show up,
• 43:34
  Speaker 4: it won't last long. We've seen it with people getting
• 43:35
  Speaker 4: record deals.
• 43:36
  Speaker 3: We've seen it.
• 43:37
  Speaker 4: They come out, they do something viral, they get a
• 43:39
  Speaker 4: record deal. After that song is done, it's overweight because
• 43:42
  Speaker 4: you couldn't you couldn't rise to the occasion. And that's
• 43:45
  Speaker 4: where I kind of feel comforted even in all of us.
• 43:47
  Speaker 4: Like you know, we may meet somebody and get a
• 43:50
  Speaker 4: great opportunity, or have a friend in a high place
• 43:52
  Speaker 4: and get a great opportunity. But the true test is
• 43:56
  Speaker 4: if I can sustain where I'm at, you know what
• 43:58
  Speaker 4: I'm saying. So, yeah, if I knew somebody, if I
• 44:01
  Speaker 4: wish Oprah was my auntie, you know what I'm saying.
• 44:04
  Speaker 4: But if Oprah gave me a show on the own network,
• 44:06
  Speaker 4: if I don't have any.
• 44:07
  Speaker 3: Talent, it ain't gonna last. So that's why I think
• 44:10
  Speaker 3: he was what he said.
• 44:11
  Speaker 4: It is true to some aspect, but it's nothing to
• 44:13
  Speaker 4: get worked up about, because at the end of the day,
• 44:15
  Speaker 4: the cream gonna rise to the top and everybody else
• 44:17
  Speaker 4: gonna It's like everything done in the dark, it will
• 44:20
  Speaker 4: come to light. The lights are gonna come on. And
• 44:22
  Speaker 4: if you if you don't have the talent and you
• 44:24
  Speaker 4: can't perform, it's gonna it's gonna read that. So when
• 44:27
  Speaker 4: you when you taken opportunities knowing that you're not prepared
• 44:30
  Speaker 4: for him, just know the repercussion after that, it's very
• 44:32
  Speaker 4: hard to come back for because once we see you,
• 44:34
  Speaker 4: once you get that first impression and you don't show
• 44:37
  Speaker 4: up to it, to the occasion, we're gonna look at
• 44:39
  Speaker 4: you like a clown, like look at I hate to
• 44:41
  Speaker 4: bring him up, but Jello y'all was like, the songs
• 44:43
  Speaker 4: are hit and then he started performing at all stun
• 44:46
  Speaker 4: and y'all like, what the hell is this?
• 44:48
  Speaker 3: I think you never forget those first impressions.
• 44:50
  Speaker 2: I think what Mackie was talking about, though, was once
• 44:52
  Speaker 2: you're past that level where everybody's talented, when you get
• 44:55
  Speaker 2: into the rooms where everybody's talented, he was saying that
• 44:59
  Speaker 2: you talented on to you talented, you talented, you talented.
• 45:01
  Speaker 5: Black and only take one. And he was saying I
• 45:04
  Speaker 5: think he was saying, like, it's.
• 45:05
  Speaker 3: Given, but you can't give me nothing. If I have
• 45:07
  Speaker 3: the talent for it, I deserve it.
• 45:08
  Speaker 2: I earned it right. But he's saying, you're picked. It's
• 45:12
  Speaker 2: more what he said, but he said in the clip
• 45:14
  Speaker 2: was that you're picked. Okay, you know what I'm saying.
• 45:16
  Speaker 2: I can't get mad at that, which is fine, so
• 45:18
  Speaker 2: it does. I agree with him in that sense. But
• 45:21
  Speaker 2: on the other hand of things where you talk about this,
• 45:24
  Speaker 2: I don't like when we when we put success as
• 45:30
  Speaker 2: being on television or success is being Captain America or
• 45:35
  Speaker 2: a success?
• 45:36
  Speaker 5: You don't what is success because objective to everybody objective.
• 45:40
  Speaker 5: So when you say when.
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: He's Captain of America is kind of successful.
• 45:44
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying when you're saying he's successful,
• 45:49
  Speaker 2: but Captain America but so, but but being Carrius Johnson
• 45:55
  Speaker 2: ain't being successful?
• 45:56
  Speaker 5: Yes, it is that success.
• 45:59
  Speaker 2: I'm just very could come. I mean, I get what
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: you're saying. But it's success, success and success, you know
• 46:06
  Speaker 2: what I'm saying. Like somebody like I, there's levels to success.
• 46:10
  Speaker 2: It is level No, it's levels to fame and money.
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: Yes, the success is a part of fame and money.
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: That's all.
• 46:16
  Speaker 2: The success is your successes. That's what we disagree. Success
• 46:19
  Speaker 2: is your mentality. Success is what you think. Do you
• 46:22
  Speaker 2: think you successful?
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: Yes?
• 46:24
  Speaker 2: I think I think I'm successful. But if Oprah walk
• 46:26
  Speaker 2: up with our bank accounts, she would probably think she
• 46:28
  Speaker 2: was unsuccessful and something went wrong.
• 46:30
  Speaker 5: Exactly, but you're successful.
• 46:33
  Speaker 4: He.
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: Would be up.
• 46:38
  Speaker 2: She wouldn't be able to get out of bed with
• 46:41
  Speaker 2: our bank accounts. But we think we're successful. So that
• 46:43
  Speaker 2: tells me that success isn't necessarily a thing. Success is
• 46:47
  Speaker 2: a mentality level.
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: It's levels. You just saying that, but you just said
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: that you feel successful? Is I feel successful at my level?
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: I feel success? Does this somebody that it's somebody that
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: just got their first first college radio station and they
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: just successful and they successful. But if so, let's go
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: back to what Mackie just said. Mackie said, people were picked.
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: I'm taking it back to what Mackie said.
• 47:13
  Speaker 2: Mackie said, people were picked and only certain people are
• 47:16
  Speaker 2: going to be successful. And that's why I disagree with him,
• 47:19
  Speaker 2: because you don't know what people's level of success is
• 47:22
  Speaker 2: and what they even want and what they deem successful.
• 47:25
  Speaker 2: If you're talking about Hollywood, then yes, only some are picked.
• 47:29
  Speaker 2: The most talented might not even be picked. But that's
• 47:32
  Speaker 2: in but that's in every that's in every genre, which
• 47:35
  Speaker 2: you can't say that somebody else is less successful. And
• 47:37
  Speaker 2: what he was trying to do was say that with
• 47:40
  Speaker 2: that whole clip, bringing context to that clip. What he
• 47:42
  Speaker 2: was saying is that we're lying to kids.
• 47:44
  Speaker 5: That's what he said.
• 47:45
  Speaker 2: He said, we're lying to our kids and telling them
• 47:47
  Speaker 2: that if they work hard, they'll be successful.
• 47:49
  Speaker 5: And they that that people are And I disagree because.
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: Let me say this, I do the hard work. That
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: hard work the point of the clip. The hard work
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: you tell your kids, the hard work you become successful.
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: I truly believe. And yes, you do get picked. But
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: the hard work puts you in the room to get picked.
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: And so the hard work puts you in the room
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: with all the other hard working, talented people. And now
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: that's where okay, maybe the uh you're being able to
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: have a great conversation with somebody or they just like
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: you a likable person. That's what it starts, weeding people
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: out of it. But if the hard work gets you
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: into the room to get picked, that's what I'm And
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: so when he said that, I was just like, now
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: I'm not lying to my kid. By telling hard work,
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: you immediately get rid of the lazy people. You immediately separate,
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: separate yourself from a lazy talented people. And now you
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: start to put yourself into the room of the talented,
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: hard working people. And that's what the picking happens.
• 48:50
  Speaker 5: Can you why you say you agree with that?
• 48:52
  Speaker 4: I don't remember, because I didn't agree with so much
• 48:54
  Speaker 4: suff today. All right, but what I like it where
• 48:58
  Speaker 4: tone is going?
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: Because he said what you say, I just said the
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: hard work with you in the room.
• 49:03
  Speaker 3: With all the other times the hard work puts you
• 49:05
  Speaker 3: in the room.
• 49:06
  Speaker 5: Don't worry about that. Don't worry about.
• 49:10
  Speaker 3: If Johnny had two.
• 49:11
  Speaker 6: Apples, Jesus could she started doing this. Can get on
• 49:15
  Speaker 6: the edge and put her hands up. She don't know
• 49:17
  Speaker 6: what's going on. What I say said okay, okay, so
• 49:22
  Speaker 6: so what you say.
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: I said, hard work, But.
• 49:27
  Speaker 5: Don't next topic, Let's talk about something else.
• 49:31
  Speaker 3: I agree with you.
• 49:32
  Speaker 4: I mean all I know, and I work hard. Okay,
• 49:39
  Speaker 4: I work on it worked out for me. Get your
• 49:42
  Speaker 4: ass up and do some work. Stop all that think
• 49:45
  Speaker 4: you're supposed to get something and it's supposed to be
• 49:47
  Speaker 4: given to you.
• 49:47
  Speaker 3: Got to do some work. No nobody want to talk
• 49:49
  Speaker 3: to you if you ain't doing the work. Okay, that's
• 49:51
  Speaker 3: what I want to say.
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: That is true. That is the fact. And I do
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: like what you say. If we see people get TV shows,
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: podcast deals, all types of stuff, if you don't show
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: up when they give it to you, it's not happening
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: for you.
• 50:04
  Speaker 4: And you have to be honest with your kids. I
• 50:06
  Speaker 4: think too, and tell them though it's more to hard work,
• 50:10
  Speaker 4: because I ain't gonna lie. I wanted them people that thought,
• 50:12
  Speaker 4: if I just work hard, it's gonna happen. Somebody's gonna
• 50:16
  Speaker 4: look and say, she works hard, she deserves it.
• 50:19
  Speaker 3: That's not the case.
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: That's not the case.
• 50:21
  Speaker 3: You have to ask for what you want.
• 50:24
  Speaker 2: But when you ask, please have the hard work there
• 50:28
  Speaker 2: that people can reference back to. Yes, because you look
• 50:31
  Speaker 2: like a fool when you ask for stuff that you
• 50:33
  Speaker 2: haven't earned.
• 50:34
  Speaker 4: And I think so, I think honestly, that's why I
• 50:36
  Speaker 4: was confused, because you need to add both pieces.
• 50:39
  Speaker 3: You could tell your kids to work hard, but work
• 50:41
  Speaker 3: working hardest.
• 50:42
  Speaker 4: There's a lot of people working hard that's been working
• 50:43
  Speaker 4: for forty years in the same position because they never
• 50:46
  Speaker 4: opened their mouth and ask for more.
• 50:48
  Speaker 3: I had that real bad, like real bad.
• 50:50
  Speaker 4: Like if I just sit here and look pretty and
• 50:51
  Speaker 4: work hard and then work my ass off, somebody's gonna
• 50:54
  Speaker 4: give me something for sure, right because work, hard, work
• 50:57
  Speaker 4: gets it.
• 50:57
  Speaker 3: No, you have to ask.
• 50:58
  Speaker 4: It's a lot of people that are way less qualified
• 51:02
  Speaker 4: and less talented than you that are asking for stuff
• 51:04
  Speaker 4: they ain't got no business asking for. So my advice
• 51:07
  Speaker 4: is doe to work, but also advocate for yourself. And
• 51:10
  Speaker 4: when you advocate for yourself, have the credentials to be
• 51:14
  Speaker 4: asking for the stuff you're asking for, so that you
• 51:15
  Speaker 4: don't get opportunities that make everybody look at you like
• 51:18
  Speaker 4: you delutionional but asking for I.
• 51:20
  Speaker 1: Should tell my boss all the time, my first boss
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: at radio, Hey, I don't want to keep pushing buttons.
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: Got my whole career. I'm not pushing my but I'm
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: not pushing, but I gotta talk. I gotta be a radio.
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: And while I was saying it, I was practicing and
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: also preparing to say, hey, if you ain't gonna give
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: me an opportunity, I'm putting stuff out here because I'm
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: getting this opportunity.
• 51:42
  Speaker 4: And people leaders know that leaders can look around the
• 51:46
  Speaker 4: room and say and see that person is a hard worker,
• 51:49
  Speaker 4: but they haven't advocated for theirselfs, So maybe they happy
• 51:51
  Speaker 4: just pushing buttons. But when you speak up and say
• 51:54
  Speaker 4: I want to do more, then that's when they look
• 51:56
  Speaker 4: at the work that you've put in, and good for
• 51:58
  Speaker 4: all of us, we have put that work in.
• 52:00
  Speaker 3: But if you don't have the work, then you just
• 52:01
  Speaker 3: look chrazy.
• 52:01
  Speaker 2: So here's the thing that I learned very early, and
• 52:04
  Speaker 2: I think that helped me through life. And I don't
• 52:06
  Speaker 2: want to teach this to y'all real quick. Nobody gives
• 52:09
  Speaker 2: a damn about what you got going on. So in
• 52:13
  Speaker 2: Key's example where she said, I just gonna come to
• 52:15
  Speaker 2: work and if I work hard, I'm gonna do that,
• 52:17
  Speaker 2: ain't nobody sitting in their meeting.
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: I wonder what Kiki want to do.
• 52:24
  Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure that she wants more and she would
• 52:27
  Speaker 2: like to do this and do that, because guess what,
• 52:30
  Speaker 2: they're doing their work too. So everybody lives in their
• 52:33
  Speaker 2: own world, but a lot of times we think that
• 52:36
  Speaker 2: everybody sees us like we see ourselves, and we think
• 52:40
  Speaker 2: everything is personal. That's why I don't get mad when
• 52:42
  Speaker 2: people do stuff. It feels like I don't give a
• 52:44
  Speaker 2: damn because I know you mad it has to do
• 52:47
  Speaker 2: with you. Ain't gonna do with me about me that
• 52:49
  Speaker 2: much to be mad at me, And for real, you
• 52:51
  Speaker 2: know it's something that got to do. Something I said
• 52:54
  Speaker 2: or something that happened triggered you to react this way
• 52:56
  Speaker 2: that ain't got nothing to do with me, And I
• 52:58
  Speaker 2: know it don't cause you don't think about me like
• 52:59
  Speaker 2: that because it's you and your world, and that's what
• 53:02
  Speaker 2: we have to realize. That's why we can't get emotional,
• 53:04
  Speaker 2: overly emotional about anything.
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: You can get.
• 53:07
  Speaker 2: Overlea this and overly that, because no body decay.
• 53:11
  Speaker 3: We are trying to clock out.
• 53:12
  Speaker 2: Everybody's going to everybody has their routine, and everybody's doing that.
• 53:17
  Speaker 5: There's the same thing.
• 53:18
  Speaker 2: Everybody's trying to figure out the same twenty four okay,
• 53:21
  Speaker 2: and then once you figure that out, then you be like, oh,
• 53:23
  Speaker 2: so to move up, I have to actually say something
• 53:26
  Speaker 2: to the people who can actually make something happen for me,
• 53:29
  Speaker 2: and then give them a reason to want to do
• 53:32
  Speaker 2: that for you know, for you to be its be
• 53:35
  Speaker 2: mad if they say no, you gotta have They say,
• 53:37
  Speaker 2: you gotta have the hard work, and you gotta advocate.
• 53:41
  Speaker 2: If you don't have, you gotta know somebody, You gotta network,
• 53:43
  Speaker 2: you gotta get in these rooms. If you don't know,
• 53:45
  Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, If you just work, if
• 53:46
  Speaker 2: you so in the sense of him saying, if you
• 53:48
  Speaker 2: just work hard, yeah, you probably not gonna get nowhere.
• 53:50
  Speaker 2: You're just gonna be a hard worker.
• 53:52
  Speaker 5: Yeah, my uncle worked forty years your worker. Yeah, I'm
• 53:55
  Speaker 5: pretty sure he worked hard every day, right, shout out
• 53:59
  Speaker 5: to way harder me.
• 54:01
  Speaker 3: It's a it's a it's a mix.
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: Absolutely all right, before we get about it, here episodes
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: we got two hundred episodes. It's an educational two hundred
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: episodes we got on our soap boxes. But I would
• 54:14
  Speaker 1: like to say this podfam, listen, we get it important
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: out here in this podcast is space and media space.
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: I got cursed out by celebrity over last week.
• 54:31
  Speaker 5: Are bringing it up.
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: We cannot say who why, Let's play out of No,
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: and I guess no, No, we are not saying nothing,
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: but we got cursed out, but we mean and me, uh,
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: it was it was cool, It was a it was
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: an interesting conversation conversation about it. No, I don't want
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: to No, I don't want to talk about it, but
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: you know what I what I do know is that
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: we getting it, We're getting important. And then I do
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: like and when we have when people call me, I'm
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: gonna we're gonna have a very spirited debate about what's
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: going on.
• 55:12
  Speaker 5: That's the way saying, don't piss me off.
• 55:15
  Speaker 2: But I tell y'all, man, people gonna feel how they feel,
• 55:18
  Speaker 2: and that's how they have the right to feel how
• 55:20
  Speaker 2: they want to feel.
• 55:21
  Speaker 5: Okay, and that gets what that change what we say but.
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: I will want to say this out loud. I do
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: say this out loud. We don't ever question me about
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: how I do this. I've been doing this for a
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: very long time and making money at it. I'm a
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: professional personality. I don't do I don't know, I ain't
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: doing no. I don't got no deals, I don't got nothing.
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: I got this and they pay me to talk. Don't
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: ever question me. I've been doing this since you ask
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: your mama, can you go outside? That's really all I
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: want to say.
• 55:57
  Speaker 4: That didn't really eat you, ain't really eating up friend
• 55:59
  Speaker 4: like you. That look, we got it, We gotta What
• 56:02
  Speaker 4: he wanted to say was, don't play on his top. Okay,
• 56:06
  Speaker 4: he talked with palm baby. You better ask about him
• 56:08
  Speaker 4: in these streets period.
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: Okay, Hey, look I I when I'm talking about you,
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: I'm usually trying to turn, especially if i know you,
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: I try to turn the the angle away from you,
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: if that makes sense, and make it a joke and
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: have fun with it. I'm never trying to be malicious
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: and honestly man, like you said, we said the beginning
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: of the pod is after we finish these stories, we
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: don't get it at all.
• 56:35
  Speaker 2: On to the next You know, I don't even remember
• 56:38
  Speaker 2: what I said, but you know that's my father thought. Yeah,
• 56:42
  Speaker 2: don't take it, don't take it personal.
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: Don't take it.
• 56:45
  Speaker 2: I don't got no edges when you go to bed.
• 56:47
  Speaker 2: If I ever said something about you at night like,
• 56:49
  Speaker 2: I don't have edges. So just know that that's why
• 56:52
  Speaker 2: I talk how reckless like that. So please don't get
• 56:56
  Speaker 2: upset with me because sorry, yep, Zach, I thought, well,
• 57:01
  Speaker 2: I thought that we were going to give an announcement
• 57:03
  Speaker 2: on this podcast.
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: Damn for god, you maybe keep it sitting so long
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: I forgot.
• 57:10
  Speaker 2: I thought we was giving a big two hundred episode announcement.
• 57:16
  Speaker 5: But y'all want to just forget about it.
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: No, it is time for the two hundredth episode.
• 57:20
  Speaker 3: Come on, please, okay, tones getting married?
• 57:31
  Speaker 5: You moved your camera, moved my camera?
• 57:33
  Speaker 3: All right. The announcement is.
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: We heard you.
• 57:42
  Speaker 2: We've heard you, potfam, We've heard how you said you
• 57:44
  Speaker 2: wanted more? What more can I say? Podcast?
• 57:47
  Speaker 5: And guess what?
• 57:48
  Speaker 2: On the two hundredth episode, we want to announce that
• 57:50
  Speaker 2: we're here to deliver that. Not only will we be potting,
• 57:54
  Speaker 2: we are moving from potting once a week to now
• 57:58
  Speaker 2: three times a week.
• 58:00
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yes, this is for you guys.
• 58:06
  Speaker 2: We will be potting on Mondays, Tuesdays and Wednesdays, giving
• 58:10
  Speaker 2: you three episodes or what more can I say podcast
• 58:14
  Speaker 2: a week.
• 58:14
  Speaker 5: Make sure y'all share it, make sure y'all like it.
• 58:17
  Speaker 2: But we've been seeing it and we've been wanting to
• 58:18
  Speaker 2: increase the volume for you guys, and we're happy to
• 58:22
  Speaker 2: do it.
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: And then on.
• 58:22
  Speaker 2: Thursdays you can always catch us on the Shade Room Live,
• 58:25
  Speaker 2: so you get us a lot. Okay, so things you
• 58:28
  Speaker 2: want to talk about, nothing's off limits, man, Like you
• 58:31
  Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, Send in what you want us
• 58:33
  Speaker 2: to talk about.
• 58:33
  Speaker 5: And that's all I got to say. Man, I'm excited.
• 58:35
  Speaker 5: What you think?
• 58:36
  Speaker 3: I'm excited? You know I am so excited.
• 58:39
  Speaker 5: You are not excited? Excited? What about you?
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: Ton? I'm excited, man, because the stuff that happened on
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: Monday or over the weekend, I don't have to wait
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: and you know, my short term memory messed up wait
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: to get it offs on Wednesday with y'all. So it's finally, man,
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: we get a chance to give everybody a pod every
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: day of the week pretty much for Friday, and y'all
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: all doing stuff anyway, so you could just go back
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: and rewatch some of the stuff that you missed.
• 59:05
  Speaker 3: And it's not like the T shirts were really gonna do.
• 59:07
  Speaker 2: This, right, We're really gonna do this, you know what
• 59:10
  Speaker 2: I'm saying. We've we've we've added to our team, we
• 59:15
  Speaker 2: have done the preparation. We have discussed this for weeks.
• 59:19
  Speaker 2: And y'all seen the flyer? Did they see it?
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah? They saw the flying You didn't make a fly
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: did you? Okay? Because we got new pictures to a
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: whole vote on debuting the new picks, So what do
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: we do? So I think this is what we should do.
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: We should put the three We should put the three
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: or four picks up and let the pot vote on
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: on the on the on the picks that we're gonna
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: use for the promo, and hopefully y'all pick a good one,
• 59:53
  Speaker 1: because not we're just gonna use it, won't we want to?
• 59:56
  Speaker 3: Maybe this is what you call the staff me there
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 3: and I love it. No idea is a bad idea, Tom.
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 3: So yes, we're gonna put up no prost.
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 1: We're gonna fike the last graphy.
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 3: We may have misspellings on it and a kind of stuff.
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: I definitely not I'm telling because I mean I mean
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: off of edible making.
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, we learned we had a live tapping, live tapping.
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, but yeah that was the news.
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 2: Though. You know what I'm saying. How have we we
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 2: we presented to you. We did want you to know
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 2: that we are gonna be pining three times a week.
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 2: So Monday, Tuesday, Winday, expect way Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday expect
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 2: new content from the what more can I say?
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 5: Podcast?
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and watch it and like it.
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you, if y'all don't watch it, maybe
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 2: we're going back. We're going back to till we're going
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 2: back to one. Okay, so y'all better watch it. Ain't
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 2: doing all this work and y'all ain't gonna be watching
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 2: like four of you. Yeah, we get views we like.
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 5: Nah, you know what, too much for him?
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: Too much, too much, So thank you, y'all. All right,
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: we're wrapping it up. That was it for the two
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: hundred episode. Oh man, let's go to two oh one
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: and three hundred and four, one and five oh one.
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: Let's get to it's.
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 3: Your favorite podcast memory?
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 5: Oh man, it's so many.
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: My favorite podcast memory.
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 5: Yes, this whole thing, from this whole journey. Yes, well
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 5: from starting.
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 2: It's just like I love going back sometimes and watching
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 2: us when we were on Zoom and then seeing like
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 2: how far we've come, and you know, how much chemistry
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 2: has grown and how we know each other so much
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 2: better than when we first started four or five four
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 2: years ago. That's crazy to me seeing that growth. I
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 2: really enjoyed. One of my highlights is when me saying
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 2: three piece oh together, the live, the live at the
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 2: live tapping.
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  Speaker 1: That was fun.
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  Speaker 2: The live events always you know, make me happy. And
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  Speaker 2: then as far as like like tense stuff. I mean,
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  Speaker 2: you gotta think when tone was Puerto Rican.
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  Speaker 3: I watched that the other day. The DNA results.
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  Speaker 2: Results episode is one of my favorites. I mean it's
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  Speaker 2: a lot y'all broke friends.
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  Speaker 3: Broke friends took us up. Yeah you sure did on purpose?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, Yeah, that was crazy. I think when we travel together,
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  Speaker 2: it is the funniest thing I have ever seen. From
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  Speaker 2: me sleeping at the airport at in Atlanta to zach.
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  Speaker 3: And where we at We're back in Atlanta.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, we went back to Atlanta, so that I think
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  Speaker 2: it's always funny when we travel.
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  Speaker 5: It's we really should start blogging when we travel.
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  Speaker 3: I tried, but y'all, don't y'all tell thee because.
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  Speaker 1: We gotta blog the next travel.
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  Speaker 2: The next travel is gonna be hilarious, and we gotta
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  Speaker 2: have tone getting on next.
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  Speaker 3: Win right and send him in the window seat both, y'all.
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  Speaker 1: I definitely I'm getting ship that scared me away from
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  Speaker 1: window seats for a long time. I will not be
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  Speaker 1: anywhere near window at all. Always in an hour, get
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  Speaker 1: my shoulder knocked over by a little thing to come
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  Speaker 1: down the aisle. It's all good. I think my favorite,
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  Speaker 1: My favorite was when well, I would say the moment
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  Speaker 1: that I always remember, it's probably the funniest is what
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  Speaker 1: Keiky said she would she went, she went to been
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  Speaker 1: the fourteen and woke husky.
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  Speaker 5: Oh god, I would love to put like a compilation
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  Speaker 5: of Kiki.
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  Speaker 1: Is yeah, yes, funny, just like she called me a colonizer. Everybody,
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  Speaker 1: that was funny. It's been so many like dumb ass
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  Speaker 1: funny moments on this Uh, the DNA results was always funny, man,
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  Speaker 1: just just I think. I think my favorite party about
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  Speaker 1: the whole journey is that you just we being here
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  Speaker 1: talking and having a good time. We on zoom in
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  Speaker 1: here talking and just to look at where it grew
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  Speaker 1: from the basement to this, and then people coming up
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  Speaker 1: to us like, hey man, I rock with that. I
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  Speaker 1: rock with that. Like man, well people like yo. We
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  Speaker 1: was when we was in Atlanta and I'm like, hey man,
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  Speaker 1: I listened. We listened to that and like we had
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  Speaker 1: pop fan pulling up on us in Atlanta. Was crazy.
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  Speaker 1: That was crazy. That was I was like, Yo, that's crazy.
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  Speaker 1: So that was that was that was a real thing
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  Speaker 1: for me.
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  Speaker 3: Well, cheers to two hundred more episodes.
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  Speaker 1: Yeers, cheers, cheers. I got to take my gun off
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  Speaker 1: of it. Okay there, Well, it's all water. It's water,
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  Speaker 1: all right. You already know what that being said? What
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  Speaker 1: more can we say