Latest / History Harpies: Pop Culture, Past and Present / Yes, Nicole Kidman Has Always Been a Sexy Bold Queen (Ft. Dead Calm, To Die For, Eyes Wide Shut, and Babygirl)
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- 0:00They say we're loud, opinionated, afraid Telling
- 0:05us to hush, dim our historical light But darlings,
- 0:09we're the Harpies, sharp and keen Unveiling the
- 0:12truth behind the silver screen History Harpies
- 0:17hear us roar And this is episode 13, which will
- 0:38be focusing on the illustrious and erotic career
- 0:42of Nicole Kidman. And the reason why, of course,
- 0:45we are looking at Nicole, who is my queen, the
- 0:49reason why we are looking at Nicole is because
- 0:51of the shocking news of the breakup of her marriage
- 0:54with Keith. Urban, which just broke a few days
- 0:58ago and really was a surprise, I think, to everybody,
- 1:01except perhaps Nicole and Keith themselves. It
- 1:03was almost the level of shock of when she broke
- 1:06up with Tom Cruise. Yes. And although there were
- 1:10always speculations, particularly during the
- 1:13filming of Eyes Wide Shut, that things were rocky,
- 1:16rocky among between the two of them. It seemed
- 1:20like Nicole and Keith were copacetic. It did
- 1:25seem that way. And certainly it was always easy
- 1:27to identify some perhaps strange in the marriage
- 1:31between Nicole and Tom, precisely that she never
- 1:34seemed really comfortable with Scientology. Right.
- 1:36But there weren't those kinds of dynamics as
- 1:38far as the public could tell about the marriage
- 1:41of Nicole and Keith. They were always seen together.
- 1:44Right. Red carpets. Award shows. She supported
- 1:47him at the country music awards. He supported
- 1:50her at the Oscars. They had two children. Affectionate.
- 1:55the social media messages to each other. Very
- 1:58supportive and very good looking together. As
- 2:02of course, Tom was too, but it was a very attractive
- 2:06and you know, endearing couple and everybody
- 2:10was rooting for them. Rooting for them. And especially,
- 2:13of course, have been sympathetic that everyone
- 2:15knew that the marriage had started in a kind
- 2:16of rocky way that Keith Urban had to go to rehab
- 2:20very soon after the marriage with Nicole. Nicole
- 2:22was also very open about the fact that when they
- 2:25met about 20 years ago that they were both in
- 2:27vulnerable places, they were both lonely. It
- 2:30really seemed to be this moment of kismet that
- 2:32they found each other and had this family, especially
- 2:36because, again, that everyone knew that her children
- 2:39with Tom Cruise apparently had cut her out as
- 2:42not being a Scientologist and that there had
- 2:45been that rockiness. One of the things that I
- 2:47think was most upsetting about the news the other
- 2:49day about Keith and Nicole was that Nicole was,
- 2:53the word that some presses used was blindsided.
- 2:58That is the exact same word, if we can remember,
- 3:01that was used about the breakup with Tom Cruise.
- 3:04Interesting. But that was also something that
- 3:06Nicole was... expecting it, that she also in
- 3:09that case wanted to work on the marriage. So
- 3:12Lauren and I thought that not only would we look
- 3:14at Nicole this time around, but that particularly
- 3:18we would look at the films that she has done
- 3:20in her long and super varied career, films that
- 3:23are more erotic, that lean more on her power,
- 3:28her sexuality, her beauty. And then also focus
- 3:31around the theme of marriage. Of marriage, absolutely.
- 3:34Most of the films that or all of the films that
- 3:37we're talking about today, deal with Nicole in
- 3:42marital situations, one case with her actual
- 3:45husband at this time. And she's made many films
- 3:49and TV shows and stuff on Netflix or HBO. And
- 3:53she has a long career and a very, very varied
- 3:57and diverse career in terms of roles. but the
- 4:01films today are really around the marriage and
- 4:05erotic genre. And it does seem to be the case
- 4:09if rumor holds that making these films has been
- 4:13a point of contention in both of her marriages.
- 4:16There is the rumor that it was Keith Urban's
- 4:20reaction against disapproval of the film Baby
- 4:23Girl that perhaps spurred a separation. Obviously
- 4:27we don't know, but that was the rumor. There
- 4:29was a rumor with the breakup of the Tom marriage
- 4:32that she had had an affair with Ewan McGregor
- 4:34during the making of Moulin Rouge. Okay, who
- 4:37knows? Who knows? But obviously there are lots
- 4:39of ways in which her work as an artist, as an
- 4:42actor in these films seems to be bleeding into
- 4:45real life and vice versa. At least again that
- 4:47is the rumor we should stress. Yes, absolutely,
- 4:50absolutely. So... Where do you think we should
- 4:54start Christine in? discussing this if we think
- 4:58about the chronology of these films We're talking
- 5:02about dead calm. We're talking about to die for
- 5:05we're talking about eyes wide shut and we're
- 5:07talking about baby girl and again one could argue
- 5:12that it all started with with dead calm and That
- 5:17we see how sort of fresh -faced, very young Nicole
- 5:20Kidman. So beautiful. So beautiful in dead calm
- 5:23with her Aussie accent. With her Aussie accent,
- 5:26which we don't often hear during her career.
- 5:28No, no. And that that film, again about a marriage
- 5:34and about a tragedy. Multiple tragedies. Multiple
- 5:37tragedies. But a tragedy that led to this alienation
- 5:41of the two of them on this. This boat. Right.
- 5:45Which then led to chaos and violence. And potentially
- 5:50murder. And murder. So for those who haven't
- 5:55watched this film, this is absolutely one of
- 5:56my favorite Nicole Kidman films. Yes. And what
- 5:59is remarkable about it is that she is so young
- 6:01when this movie comes out. It's 1989. She's what?
- 6:0521, 22. Right. And it really is an Australian
- 6:09film. Almost nobody is in this film. There's
- 6:13basically three people and a handful of cops
- 6:15and doctors at the beginning. And Nicole stars
- 6:19opposite Sam Neill, a huge star in Australia,
- 6:22who then also transitioned to American films
- 6:25and was very, very successful. Directed by Philip
- 6:28Noyce, who was a very successful Australian film
- 6:31director, who also then did a lot of mainstream
- 6:33films. And the setup is a really painful one
- 6:36that this is a couple who have lost their toddler
- 6:40child in a terrible car accident. We even see
- 6:43the child fly through the windshield. It's really
- 6:47terrible. And so we have this couple that goes
- 6:50off on a yachting trip in order to get over this
- 6:54grief. And so one thing that is interesting to
- 6:56me about this, and I don't know if you would
- 6:57agree, thinking about all films, this is a film
- 7:01where we have a married couple at the beginning,
- 7:05right? As strange as that sounds, that seems
- 7:08abnormal to me, right? There's no struggle really
- 7:11between the couple, right? There's no sense that
- 7:14it's two people who need to find each other.
- 7:16There's not even really a sense that it's two
- 7:17people who need to recover each other, right?
- 7:21It is a unified married couple who are struggling
- 7:24with grief, this unimaginable grief of having
- 7:28lost this child. And part of the reason for that,
- 7:31I suspect, this film is an hour and 30 minutes
- 7:34long and the Billy Zane of it all happens quickly.
- 7:39Quickly. And so there can't be too much, you
- 7:43know, talky talky marital strife because Billy
- 7:48Zane is going to come and terrorize them very
- 7:51quickly. So it's this interesting fusion of genres
- 7:53of of a sort of marriage and trauma within the
- 7:57marriage genre, but then you have a sort of serial
- 8:00killer genre as well, horror genre, thriller,
- 8:05whatever. However, we want to think of it in
- 8:07the Billy Zane character who comes on board literally,
- 8:11literally very, very quickly into the film. So
- 8:14we do see Nicole have the nightmare and we see
- 8:18Sam Neill comforting her. And obviously she hasn't
- 8:21gotten over that, but now she's going to have
- 8:23a lot more. to get over. And certainly the way
- 8:26that the film is framed, right, is that this
- 8:29is an episode, this terrible episode with murderer
- 8:32Billy Zane getting on the boat and Sam Neill
- 8:35being away from the boat, and we'll talk about
- 8:36that more in a second. But this is framed as
- 8:39a therapeutic... event for them as horrific and
- 8:43nightmarish and traumatizing. Yes, it is. The
- 8:45Billy Zane -ness is so awful, but nevertheless,
- 8:49this is something that helps, we are meant to
- 8:51think, right? I believe that this is something
- 8:54that helps pull them out of that. Helps them
- 8:56rebuild. Helps them rebuild because in part both
- 8:59of them, but especially Nicole's character, Ray,
- 9:02has to be so... active right so powerful and
- 9:06one of the things i love about this film and
- 9:08i i really really love it is that we have it's
- 9:12not just a cliche of saying we don't have a woman
- 9:14who's a victim but nicole she's not a victim
- 9:17in this film at all right she suffers things
- 9:19she saw of course but also by the same token,
- 9:23right? It's 1989. We don't have this kind of
- 9:26cliched girl boss, right? Like she's not like
- 9:29karate chopping him, right? Or I did my self
- 9:32-defense training, you know, my problem of God.
- 9:34It is this almost kind of homespun, right? I'm
- 9:37on this yacht. I am using the tools that I have.
- 9:40Improvisation. Improvisation. And you get the
- 9:41sense that this is a normal woman who is trying
- 9:45to fight off this killer. But again, in a very
- 9:48realistic way. It's almost sort of Jamie Lee
- 9:50Curtis in Halloween. Do you know what I mean?
- 9:52And I find that refreshing. I agree. It's a normal
- 9:56woman, a woman who's been married to a man in
- 9:59the Navy for a long time who obviously has these
- 10:02nautical skills that is very important to the
- 10:05storyline and to her own survival. Nonetheless,
- 10:08she's not some sort of superhero. She is a normal
- 10:11woman. who is in many ways overpowered by Billy
- 10:15Zane in much of the film, who can't get away
- 10:18from him in much of the film, but nonetheless
- 10:21is able to, you know, take him out. Take him
- 10:25out eventually. Eventually take him out and to
- 10:28outsmart him and to find ways to survive alone
- 10:33on the boat with Billy Zane. You know what? I
- 10:37just I'm not. We won't get off on this tangent,
- 10:39I promise. But in some ways, and I hadn't really
- 10:41thought of this before, the film reminds me so
- 10:44much of this classic Audrey Hepburn film, Wait
- 10:47Until Dark, where Audrey Hepburn plays a blind
- 10:51woman who is alone in her apartment, right? Alan
- 10:53Arkin is the evil villain who has to come and
- 10:55get the heroin that's hidden in the apartment.
- 10:57And the entire thing is how this blind woman
- 10:59who has not felt particularly independent, she's
- 11:02recently blinded in the film, that she is able
- 11:05again to use both her ingenuity and her sort
- 11:07of of natural, use her blindness in effect against
- 11:09him. And Nicole's character in Dead Calm really
- 11:13reminds me of that, where we're given this exceptionally
- 11:15realistic in the sense of where she is on this
- 11:20boat, these particular tools, her own knowledge.
- 11:22She is able to use her sedatives against him.
- 11:25She's able to use the fantastic harpoon gun,
- 11:27right, the gun. And so I think that that's, what's
- 11:30great about that is we keep cutting right back
- 11:32and forth between, as you said, Sam Neal's character
- 11:35has these skills that he is using at the same
- 11:38time on the other boat to try to get back to
- 11:41her. And so we also then don't, she is neither
- 11:45super vulnerable, but it's also not the case
- 11:47that he is helpless either, right? They both
- 11:50are incredibly able people. They're both very
- 11:52resourceful people. And she most importantly
- 11:55is able to use her sexuality. in a way that will,
- 12:00you know, make him, Billy Zane the Hymn, very,
- 12:04very vulnerable. And she's able to read him in
- 12:08certain ways, but also know that if she resists
- 12:10him, that's going nowhere. And she has much more
- 12:14power if she works with him, if you want to use
- 12:18that, but works with him for a while and then
- 12:21can gain his trust and then can sedate him. Harpoon
- 12:27him and take him out. Hot tie him when he's unconscious.
- 12:33Right, right. And take him out in all kinds of
- 12:34ways. And again, the interesting thing for me
- 12:36about both Dead Calm and To Die For, the short
- 12:41time of both of them. Yes, absolutely. Both of
- 12:44these films are under, I mean, they're an hour
- 12:46and a half, an hour and 40 tops. The pacing is
- 12:49starting. And the pacing is quick. the writing
- 12:52is tight yes absolutely a lot of things happen
- 12:56uh and what's interesting is that the storytelling
- 12:59in both of them is one in which you see the empowerment
- 13:04of Nicole's character really kind of come to
- 13:09fruition very quickly but that she is adapting
- 13:13in both situations actually and that she is able
- 13:16to manipulate people but there is also this real
- 13:19arc right there's the arc of And we can get to
- 13:23die for it in a minute. But in Dead Calm, the
- 13:25arc of Billy Zane coming on and Sam Neill and
- 13:30Nicole trusting him for a minute. For a minute,
- 13:33a literal minute. Until they find out that, you
- 13:36know, terrible things happened on this other
- 13:38boat and he is not who he seems. And obviously
- 13:41they can't trust him and that he is out to, you
- 13:44know, do no good. And that that ability to shift
- 13:50gear so quickly is really admirable in the film.
- 13:56I agree. It's really remarkable. And again, I
- 13:58mean, Philip Noyce went on to do all of these
- 14:00action films. He did like all the Harrison Ford,
- 14:03Jack Ryan films. And I think that it's the economy
- 14:06is so great because we also feel like we have
- 14:08a great sense of their marriage so quickly. Right.
- 14:12A sense of the both of them so quickly. And as
- 14:14you say, Billy Zane is incredible in this movie.
- 14:19He's so frightening, genuinely frightening. And
- 14:23he's frightening in a way that's just so funny
- 14:25because he's shirtless and just walking around
- 14:27and he doesn't have a gun. There's nothing about
- 14:30him ostensibly that you would think would make
- 14:33him frightening, but he is. But he is frightening.
- 14:35He is frightening and especially the idea of
- 14:37this. vulnerable you think she's vulnerable in
- 14:40the beginning and she is vulnerable because of
- 14:41the grief from her son and also just a woman
- 14:44alone on a boat and that this man who you now
- 14:49know has you know maybe murdered dismembered
- 14:53people dismembered and murdered people on this
- 14:55other boat is now taking her captive and you
- 15:00don't know what he's capable of but he's just
- 15:03standing there like a bathing suit and not dancing.
- 15:06That's what's just so crazy about it is there's
- 15:08nothing on this and he's so good -looking. Yes.
- 15:11And there's nothing about him that is frightening.
- 15:15on the surface, which is why they take him in,
- 15:18of course, but then he turns so quickly. So quickly.
- 15:21And I do think one of the great, great suspenseful
- 15:24scenes, again, even though it's so simple, is
- 15:27when Sam Neill is... rowing the boat, right,
- 15:31back to his boat. And he's shouting to Nicole
- 15:33Kidman's character to jump off the boat. Because
- 15:35he knows now that Billy Zane is a murderer. And
- 15:37again, you're like, how do you get so much suspense
- 15:40out of this incredibly, this man is simply rowing
- 15:43a boat, shouting at his wife. And it's incredibly
- 15:46suspenseful. It's incredibly just so dramatic.
- 15:49But we do, I think, have to talk about... a little
- 15:52bit more about how Rey does use her sexuality.
- 15:56Okay. Because I think that what's, I was actually
- 15:58looking at the Wikipedia and the Wikipedia about
- 16:02the film, which I think is, I don't know if I
- 16:05agree. I just want to know what you think about
- 16:07this. So it says, all right, Ray uses her sexuality,
- 16:11right? She does start to kiss because she needs,
- 16:14we should make clear, she needs to buy time because
- 16:17she needs to return. She needs to get her boat
- 16:19back to where Sam Neill is. And Sam Neill tells
- 16:21her the boat is sinking. I have about six hours.
- 16:25And so she then has to basically keep herself
- 16:27alive, right? And find a way to get her boat
- 16:30back. to where Samuel is, which Billy Zane doesn't
- 16:33want to happen. And so she does start to kiss
- 16:35him. They do start to take their clothes off.
- 16:37This is a ruse because then she got, by the way,
- 16:40I'm really glad the dog dies in this film. Because
- 16:43the dog like basically stymies her at every turn.
- 16:45There are many, many examples. And the dog gets
- 16:47the key to the motor. Gets the key to the motor.
- 16:50The dog again is sitting there. The dog is not
- 16:51in her corner. He's barking when she tries to
- 16:53get the gun. And so, but we do have, and this
- 16:56is, I thought it was interesting, Wikipedia says,
- 16:59oh, she goes back. and she is coerced to have
- 17:03sex with him. And I would not describe it that
- 17:05way. I think that that's really what she's doing
- 17:08is so much more complex. She's willingly having
- 17:14sex with him. But again, as a means to an end.
- 17:17She's buying time. She's gaining his trust. She's
- 17:22trying to... establish a scenario where she can
- 17:26then later, again, she doesn't know she's gonna
- 17:29drug him, but where she can put him in a situation
- 17:33where she has the upper hand. And that if it
- 17:36were just a flat -out rape scene, she would never
- 17:41be able to accomplish the things that happened
- 17:45next. And even her saying, well, I'm going to
- 17:47get these cigarettes for afterwards, tells him,
- 17:51okay, she's... in it she's yeah she's up for
- 17:55this and we're going to then run off together
- 17:56right this is this husband is now dead he's on
- 17:59the sinking boat and we will go have this life
- 18:01together murdering people are doing whatever
- 18:02they're going to do right um and that he has
- 18:06a certain comfort level with her after the sex
- 18:09that again makes and again the economy i don't
- 18:13think can be underscored enough because after
- 18:15the sex happens right the time between his Demise
- 18:21is pretty quick. It is it is running all over
- 18:24the boat and she's starting to shoot And we see
- 18:28of course Sam Neill trying to struggle out of
- 18:31his predicament, but There just isn't that much
- 18:34time. And so I think the sex scene is used in
- 18:39a very, very effective way. I agree. I mean,
- 18:42it certainly isn't romantic. I mean, you see
- 18:44her. It's not romantic. You see her face. She
- 18:46is just plotting in effect. Yes. It's not exploitative.
- 18:49There's no nudity. You see her disgusted by it.
- 18:52But at the same time, you see her empowered by
- 18:55it. Yeah, absolutely. Absolutely. I really think
- 18:57it's a remarkable scene. And so we have then,
- 19:01if we can sort of sum up, right? Dead Calm, I
- 19:04think is remarkable for so many reasons, right?
- 19:06We see this strong marriage. They are so charismatic.
- 19:09I've always wondered why they didn't make another
- 19:11film together because they have so much chemistry.
- 19:14And again, Sam Neill is just so handsome. He
- 19:16is so handsome. So he's so handsome. She's so
- 19:18beautiful. Again, their chemistry is wonderful.
- 19:20You do believe that they are a... deeply in love
- 19:22couple. You do. You want them to go on and have
- 19:24a wonderful life together. You do. And as we
- 19:26talked about before, there absolutely is the
- 19:28sense that they are equal partners, right? Equal
- 19:31in resourcefulness, equal in their partnership,
- 19:34and lots of flare guns are shot at the end. And
- 19:36again, there's no more dog, which I think is
- 19:38a good thing. So what had Billy Zane's head?
- 19:43It blows off. I will say, and then maybe we should
- 19:46start talking about to die for, I do wonder,
- 19:49seriously, I'm not kidding, if in 1989, James
- 19:52Cameron sees dead calm and he says, all right,
- 19:56both that is sinking, a guy on this little piece
- 19:58of wood out in the ocean, Billy Zane, Titanic.
- 20:04Yes. Who knows? Who knows? I will say, one of
- 20:07my favorite scenes in this film, and a very,
- 20:10very memorable, probably the thing that sticks
- 20:12with me, is that hair washing scene at the end.
- 20:13Oh, it's beautiful. But then creepy. Well, again,
- 20:16when he comes back with his bloody hands and
- 20:21the blood in her hair, that to me is just priceless.
- 20:25It is priceless. But again, we have this very
- 20:27tender scene when it starts with Sam Neill washing
- 20:29her hair, and then he goes to get her breakfast,
- 20:31and you're like, Sam Neill's so fantastic. But
- 20:34so it's interesting though because of course
- 20:35dead calm we have Nicole's character using her
- 20:39sexuality in order to stymie a murderer but then
- 20:43of course we have a very different use of her
- 20:45sexuality in To Die For where she is trying to
- 20:48get someone murdered using her sexuality. So
- 20:51do you want to tell our audience a little bit
- 20:53about To Die For for those who haven't seen it?
- 20:56So To Die For, when did To Die For come out?
- 20:591995 okay okay so to die for is we have American
- 21:04Nicole American Nicole a much blonder Nicole
- 21:08she's not quite fully blonde but she is not core
- 21:12redhead Nicole. Not redhead curly Nicole. No,
- 21:15not. Sadly. She has straight haired Nicole. Straight
- 21:16hair. And American Nicole. Jane Pauli hair Nicole.
- 21:20Yes, yes. So Jedi 4 is about a very, very ambitious
- 21:25young woman named Suzanne Stone who marries a
- 21:30Matt Dillon. Matt Dillon. Who is again another
- 21:33gorgeous man. who is part of this Italian family.
- 21:37They own a restaurant. They're in New Hampshire.
- 21:40And she marries him. It appears they're in love.
- 21:45It's unclear. It's a little unclear. But she
- 21:49is going to be using him for something. It's
- 21:53clear she's going to be manipulating him for
- 21:55something. The film is told... Sort of as a flashback,
- 22:00a sort of over narration of Kidman's character
- 22:03and later you sort of find out why but she's
- 22:07really telling the whole story. The two are married,
- 22:13and then her ambitions to become basically the
- 22:16next Barbara Walters, Jane Pauli, any major kind
- 22:20of - Wants to be on television. Broadcast person.
- 22:22And even in a sensational way, it doesn't matter.
- 22:25She wants to be on TV. She wants to be famous.
- 22:27And she sees herself as much better than Dylan
- 22:33and Dylan's character and just using him basically
- 22:38to get ahead. And so over the span of the film
- 22:43she Does get a job at a sort of local TV network
- 22:48and they're sort of bunch of nobodies and she's
- 22:51still a nobody but she thinks she's a somebody
- 22:54and she goes into a high school to film a kind
- 22:59of quasi documentary or what she thinks is a
- 23:02documentary Anyway, which is going to be like
- 23:04the next great who knows what exploration into
- 23:08on I don't know Dateline or something. Yes, and
- 23:11she meets these three young people played Joaquin
- 23:16Phoenix and Casey Affleck. And I can't remember
- 23:19the actress. Alison something. The woman, Lydia.
- 23:22But anyway, she quickly gets into a romantic
- 23:27relationship with Joaquin Phoenix. They're having
- 23:30sex all over the place. He is hot and heavy for
- 23:33her. And she manipulates him and Affleck and
- 23:37Lydia, the other character to murder Matt Dillon.
- 23:41Now, Why does she want to murder Matt Dillon?
- 23:43Because Matt Dillon and his family are saying,
- 23:47Hey, you know, you're, you're too ambitious and
- 23:50settle down. We want you to run the restaurant
- 23:52with us and have babies. And we're not on board
- 23:55with you trying to like move to New York or LA.
- 23:58And we just want to stay here. And we want you
- 24:01to be basically a housewife. And she is not about
- 24:05that. She is not about that. And there very much
- 24:08is the sense that the reason why she starts the
- 24:10sexual really with Joaquin Phoenix's character
- 24:12is because she wants to manipulate him, right?
- 24:15There's no sense of like, I'm just doing this
- 24:17for kicks, right? Even sexual kicks that absolutely,
- 24:20this is the best way to get this 15 year old
- 24:23kid or whoever old he's supposed to be to murder
- 24:25my husband. And one thing that the movie doesn't
- 24:29really make super clear, although it kind of
- 24:31alludes to it, is why she doesn't just want to
- 24:33get a divorce. She's like, you're gonna take
- 24:35my dog away. You know, I won't get condo in the
- 24:38car. And so the... the art but of course what
- 24:41she tells Joaquin Phoenix and the other kids
- 24:43is that her husband is abusing her that she's
- 24:45being beaten and this is basically the hook that
- 24:47she uses to persuade them to or him to murder
- 24:51Matt Dillon's character. Right. The other thing
- 24:54about the divorce is that it's never made entirely
- 24:58clear that this couple although we know her motivations
- 25:01that they're fundamentally unhappy. Yes. I mean
- 25:03there is this point of contention between them.
- 25:07Absolutely. He wants kids. She doesn't want kids.
- 25:08She wants to be famous. We never see them blowing
- 25:11up. We never see them, you know, in some kind
- 25:14of heated, really heated argument. And so the
- 25:17film never gets to a point where you could see
- 25:20divorce as a sort of rational end to this. Yes.
- 25:24And they've only been married for a year. Right.
- 25:26When this whole murder plot begins. Right. And
- 25:29they are, I guess from his perspective, a seemingly
- 25:32happy couple. Yes. I mean, she may be a little
- 25:35off the rails in terms of wanting to be on TV,
- 25:38but he also is so enamored of her. He keeps telling
- 25:41his family, his sister. He wants to watch her
- 25:44broadcast every night. She's doing the weather
- 25:47and he's like, oh, she's so smart. She knows
- 25:49everything. She's going to be a superstar. And
- 25:52he's very encouraging of her in the beginning
- 25:54of the film. Yes, absolutely. But then it changes
- 25:57when it becomes clear to him that her ambitions
- 26:00are getting in the way of what he sees as a normal
- 26:03family. family life. Right. So we do have, I
- 26:05would say in some ways, I don't know if you would
- 26:07agree with me, to me, this is absolutely not,
- 26:11ironically, this is not Nicole's sexiest role
- 26:14in some way. Maybe it's because the sexuality,
- 26:18the sexual relationship is so instrumental and
- 26:22because the character herself is so unappealing.
- 26:24We're not supposed to like Suzanne. No. At all.
- 26:28No. She's not a villain, but she of course is
- 26:30a villain. She's not a villain in the sense that
- 26:32Billy Zane is a villain. No. But she is. She's
- 26:36the most manipulative person in the film by far.
- 26:40Yes. Unless we consider at the end, you know,
- 26:43the mafia person was going to murder her. Right.
- 26:47But she is certainly unlikable and she is and
- 26:52she's definitely portrayed as somebody who's
- 26:54conniving and taking advantage of these high
- 26:56school kids in a very obvious way. Including
- 27:01Lydia, who seems to have kind of half, I have
- 27:04a crush on you and half I want to, I look up
- 27:07to you and I want to be like you. Right. And
- 27:09this is something of course that Suzanne mocks
- 27:11Lydia for, right? Your quote unquote lesbian
- 27:13tendencies. She sort of throws this at Lydia
- 27:15at the end. And so we have sort of back and forth,
- 27:19right? This idea that Suzanne does pose as being
- 27:23sort of a friend, someone who's finally listening
- 27:25to these very kind of disadvantaged, even abused
- 27:28kids we have Lydia admit that she was sexually
- 27:31molested by what her stepfather or her mother's
- 27:33boyfriend and this is something that Suzanne
- 27:36knows about and really again uses in order to
- 27:38pursue her own ends. She also again by the end
- 27:42of the film says look I come from a good family
- 27:44I've gone to college even if it was junior college
- 27:47like who's gonna believe you yes basically dirtball
- 27:51white trash yeah yeah totally trash over me I
- 27:55am a member of the community married to this
- 27:58established family now and so there there is
- 28:02a kind of class dynamic as well in terms of her
- 28:04saying I'm going places and and maybe not to
- 28:09somebody on the outside or a real real broadcasters
- 28:12right she's a nobody but In this community, she's
- 28:15a somebody. She's a somebody, yes. And she's
- 28:17doing the weather, and especially when they start
- 28:21interviewing more people, more people that knew
- 28:23her, and even the Wayne Knight character, who
- 28:27is terrific in this film. He really is, yeah.
- 28:31he becomes kind of enamored with her too. All
- 28:34the gumption, all the like pushiness. This is
- 28:37so admirable, right? That she's just kind of,
- 28:39she's a train, right? You kind of get out of
- 28:41her way or you don't as the case may be and as
- 28:44Matt Dylan finds out. And one thing I do really
- 28:46like about it, but it's also disturbing is that
- 28:48as you say, it is about class. We very, again,
- 28:51the whole sort of like New England sort of white
- 28:54trash working class stuff, you know, in some
- 28:56ways it's a little too close to home, right?
- 28:58I feel like I know all of those people. And,
- 29:01but we absolutely have, I have to say, I think
- 29:04Joaquin Phoenix is so unbelievable in this. Again,
- 29:08Billy Zane is so good in Ted Con. Joaquin Phoenix
- 29:10is spectacular. He is spectacular in this. And
- 29:14so, I mean, just so believable. And I think everyone
- 29:18at some point knew a high school kid. Yeah, absolutely.
- 29:21And that would become so sort of ensnared with
- 29:25Nicole Kinman. You understand why he's willing
- 29:27to kill her husband. Yes, you do. You understand
- 29:30why he believes he's going to run away with her,
- 29:33and everything she promises him, of course, you
- 29:36know, is a lie. But you understand where he's
- 29:39coming from. Where he's coming from. He's basically,
- 29:41he is a much, much, much less intelligent John
- 29:45Bender, right? No, seriously, right? Yes. But
- 29:48someone who has... sort of no paths, right? No
- 29:51pathways out of what he sees of this particular
- 29:53town, right? In this family and his own socioeconomic
- 29:57class. And yes, and she really manipulates it.
- 29:59And so that's what I think is so in some ways
- 30:01kind of weird about the film and Nicole in it.
- 30:05So Gus Van Zandt, right? Gus Van Zandt, he films
- 30:08Joaquin Phoenix. I don't know if you agree with
- 30:09me on this. He films Joaquin Phoenix as if basically
- 30:13Joaquin Phoenix is the object of his own desire.
- 30:17I think that's true, right? He films him as if
- 30:20he is sort of the kind of hustler that Gus Van
- 30:23Zant had River Phoenix be in my own private Idaho,
- 30:25right? If that made any sense. And so I do think
- 30:27that when we see... Joaquin Phoenix, you know,
- 30:30sort of shirtless with his little necklace on.
- 30:32That reads to me as like, Gus Van Zant wants
- 30:36to depict him as a sexual object, right? Not
- 30:38in a negative way. No, I understand. But then,
- 30:41but then I also think that the sex scenes, of
- 30:43course, with them, they're so disturbing and
- 30:46not erotic in the sense that because we do know
- 30:49her motivation is so venal, so awful, so manipulative.
- 30:53And that's, I think it's really hard, again,
- 30:55to read her sexuality in the film. Not that Nicole
- 30:59isn't fantastic, Nicole is fantastic. But her
- 31:01sexuality is what... attracts all of these people
- 31:06to her. And there's no question that, I mean,
- 31:10the guys are like, you know, their mouths are
- 31:12hanging open. Yeah, of course. Trying to look
- 31:14up her skirt. Right. Of course, Matt Dillon,
- 31:16you know, just like she's the sexiest thing ever.
- 31:21And she's hot in the film. Yeah, she's beautiful.
- 31:23I mean, she's gorgeous in the film. She's beautiful.
- 31:24She's super sexy. Her body is absolutely rocking.
- 31:27The costume is incredible. Her hair and makeup,
- 31:30even though it's supposed to be kind of gaudy,
- 31:32is still fantastic. It looks amazing. And so
- 31:36again, the interesting thing about Joaquin Phoenix
- 31:38is that he is so vulnerable, but at the same
- 31:41time, he is very sexual. And you wonder like,
- 31:46well, was he a virgin, right? Maybe not. I mean,
- 31:50because he is such a sexual being, but he's also
- 31:53just like a horny teenager. And that part of
- 31:57it, that part of just, she took this very naive
- 32:03and maybe stupid horny teenager and manipulated
- 32:08him and Casey Affleck who isn't much smarter
- 32:11to do this thing. is again it's it's it's really
- 32:17really interesting and that her sexuality while
- 32:19it it is conniving and it's manipulative and
- 32:23you know that scene where she's like giving him
- 32:25the blowjob and then she like keeps stopping
- 32:27keep stopping it's awful it's awful it is awful
- 32:30and then and then she finishes that by saying
- 32:32oh well maybe Russell is just more of a man than
- 32:34you are And presumably I'm just gonna do this
- 32:37with him instead. But it's a brilliant scene.
- 32:40It is a brilliant scene. We are always focused
- 32:43on Joaquin Phoenix. The shirtless Joaquin Phoenix.
- 32:45We just keep seeing her head move down. And then
- 32:48back up and did the shot. It's filmed in an incredible
- 32:51way. It really is. And again, he is a phenomenal
- 32:55actor in this film. And especially, again, when
- 32:57you think, you know, I just... You know, obviously
- 33:00for people our age, right? Who saw River Phoenix
- 33:03in films, right? And really can remember when
- 33:06River Phoenix was like the it guy. And all those
- 33:09siblings around River Phoenix were like a non
- 33:12-entity. And you really how, and it's so remarkable
- 33:14to me that if you're someone like Gus Van Zandt
- 33:16who got worked with River Phoenix and River Phoenix
- 33:19then tragically dies and you're like, well, okay,
- 33:21I'm going to put his brother in this film. And
- 33:23his brother is incredible. Amazing. And it must've
- 33:26just been like, who knew, right? He's just so,
- 33:29so remarkable in this, in this film. So we do
- 33:33have then again, so Nicole is. sexy, right? But
- 33:36I do think, right, with this edge that really
- 33:39is repellent at the same time, which is supposed
- 33:41to be the case, right? And so I think that you're
- 33:43right, that we are supposed to be treading this
- 33:45really weird line whereby we are repelled by
- 33:49her, but we are also supposed to understand and
- 33:51really sympathize with this attraction, right,
- 33:55that she exudes for other people, which is a
- 33:58really, really hard thing to do in a film. And
- 34:00in a satirical way. Yes, absolutely. Because
- 34:03the film is... satire yes it is and so that's
- 34:07another level of it where you're not really supposed
- 34:10to take this character seriously because she
- 34:13is so outlandish and she does seem, and again,
- 34:18the Ileana Douglas character, which is sort of
- 34:20the foil to Nicole Kidman, right? And it's a
- 34:23wonderful character, especially at the very end.
- 34:26It's brilliant. But the Ileana Douglas is like,
- 34:29I'm a real woman. I live in reality, right? This
- 34:32is what was going on. And Nicole is just in la
- 34:35la land, but in a way that's also, again, very
- 34:38convincing to everyone around her, even though
- 34:41she - is in La La Land by thinking she's going
- 34:44to be the next Jane Paul or whatever other people
- 34:49sort of bite into it yeah and again I love that
- 34:53scene where she's with um well what's his name
- 34:56the guy who was on I don't remember what it's
- 35:00on, but they'll see it about the letter where
- 35:02she goes to the hotel and he tells her about
- 35:05that letter that a famous person wrote. It's
- 35:09George Segal. George Segal. And in his cameo.
- 35:12A great George Segal. moment. Yeah. Okay. And
- 35:16I get George Siegel, actually, and Sydney Pollack
- 35:19kind of confused. Yeah. Understand. Okay. Yes.
- 35:22But when George Siegel tells her, oh, there was
- 35:24this famous person who, you know, everybody watches
- 35:28who basically said, you know, I just like Give
- 35:32the best blow jobs ever and that's why you should
- 35:34hire me and it turns out she was the one that
- 35:36wrote that letter Rather than the station manager.
- 35:39Yes, and if you haven't seen the film this probably
- 35:41makes no sense But it's but it's showing up Nicole's
- 35:45stupidity. The character does not understand
- 35:47what is happening and has to keep asking and
- 35:50so there is the sense that she she simply can't
- 35:53swim in the big leagues i think i just mixed
- 35:55my metaphors but no no and i think that's yeah
- 35:59that's right she's really not that smart yeah
- 36:01and that's the that's the i think it's a brilliant
- 36:05scene where you can yeah it can it conveys she
- 36:07doesn't she doesn't have the kind of sophistication
- 36:11to understand what George Siegel is saying to
- 36:15her, right? And somebody who is that manipulative
- 36:18in terms of writing the letter themselves and
- 36:21saying it was written by somebody else. And Nicole
- 36:23can't understand that. So for her, it's like,
- 36:28here's some dumb kids, and I'll get them to murder
- 36:31my husband. But they'll be so bad at it that
- 36:33they will leave clues all over the place. And
- 36:35they will tell everyone about it. And tell everyone
- 36:36about it, and then everything just completely
- 36:38falls apart. And we should probably mention that
- 36:40this, of course, is based on the Pamela Smart
- 36:43case in New Hampshire, where Pamela Smart, who
- 36:45I think that was much younger, did exactly this,
- 36:48started having a relationship, a sexual relationship
- 36:50with a 15 -year -old boy, and got him and his
- 36:53friends to murder her. And it was the same sort
- 36:56of thing, right? Does it incredibly badly, ineptly?
- 36:59And she is, I think, still in prison, actually,
- 37:03today. And I wonder, though, about the 15 -year
- 37:05-old who actually did the murder. I don't know.
- 37:07I'm sure someone knows. But so we have, then,
- 37:11a still sexual Nicole, but in a way that, as
- 37:14you say, is very satirical. It is interesting
- 37:17to me to think about... Because of course that
- 37:20is still in a world right of the big three networks
- 37:23It's in a world of the big three networks of
- 37:25things like Inside Edition like those kind of
- 37:28sort of true crime no internet no internet and
- 37:31so of course Gus Van De Zandt is saying in not
- 37:33a subtle way at all right that TV is not just
- 37:36this sort of addiction for the people who watched
- 37:38it but that people are willing to do anything
- 37:39to get onto TV and their five minutes of TV fame
- 37:42and Of course, it would be a very different kind
- 37:45of film now, in terms of social media or whatever.
- 37:50And she could be famous in five seconds on TikTok.
- 37:52She could, right? And basically just, you know,
- 37:55join OnlyFans or whatever and become super famous
- 37:57at OnlyFans. OK, so now maybe it's time. I mean,
- 38:02it's time chronologically in terms of order of
- 38:05film to talk about Eyes Wide Shut, a film which,
- 38:11as I think you pointed out, Nicole is actually
- 38:13not in Eyes Wide Shut very much. It really is
- 38:17the Tom show in terms of actual screen time.
- 38:20For sure. It is his journey. It is two hours
- 38:23and 32 minutes and I would clock Nicole's presence
- 38:27in the film at 40 minutes at most. That's a generous
- 38:31read of the Nicole screen time. She is bookending
- 38:35his particular journey. We see her at the beginning
- 38:38and we see her then again at the end. And in
- 38:41his fantasies... or however you want to think
- 38:45about them, or nightmares. Nightmares. And we
- 38:49see her on the phone or something like that,
- 38:52but as just a touch point. Yes. Not having...
- 38:55Active partner doing stuff. No, no, no, no. So
- 38:58very, very famously, as some of you may remember,
- 39:04this was Stanley Kubrick's last film. He died,
- 39:08I think, what, when they were in post -production
- 39:10or something, soon before it was going to be
- 39:12released. Also famous, of course, because this
- 39:14is the film that everyone was waiting to see,
- 39:17Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman, together again,
- 39:19after what, far and away, Days of Thunder, films
- 39:22that were not super, super successful in lots
- 39:25of ways. So this was a big prestige film, working
- 39:28with Kubrick. And also, Kubrick had only made
- 39:30what, like, five films total. And wasn't someone
- 39:34who was super productive during the 1980s, that's
- 39:37for sure. And so lots of reasons. And famously
- 39:41also it took forever to make, right? It was something
- 39:44like a two year shoot. And the fact that it is
- 39:48about a, in some ways disintegrating married
- 39:50couple or married couple that has issues surrounding
- 39:52sort of sexuality and commitment and infidelity.
- 39:55And then Tom and Nicole ended up getting a divorce.
- 39:57in its immediate wake, got tons of press. But
- 40:02it was also a film that I think, if you would
- 40:05agree with me, when it first came out, people
- 40:07really were waiting for, I think this is fair
- 40:10to say, they were waiting for hot scenes of Tom
- 40:14and Nicole doing it in this movie. And we were
- 40:18all disappointed. Yes, the film was billed, or
- 40:23at least the clips, the trailers, however you
- 40:25want to think about it, as this super hot sex,
- 40:29almost a sex tape, of Tom and Nicole. And potentially
- 40:35also others. Because we saw some, again, if I'm
- 40:39remembering the trailer right, which I saw a
- 40:41million years ago, we also saw little clips of
- 40:44the orgy scenes or little clips of the... Like
- 40:47Lili Sobieski with the businessmen. We see that
- 40:50things are tantalizing them and that maybe Tom
- 40:54and Nicole will have sex with other people. Yes,
- 40:57yes. And again, with Kubrick, you just never
- 41:01know. You just never know. So because he wasn't
- 41:03he was not a filmmaker who was known for being
- 41:06a particularly erotic filmmaker right again had
- 41:08done several of course like super huge films
- 41:11very influential throughout the 1960s and 1970s
- 41:14but yes this was not Kubrick wheelhouse. Even,
- 41:17I mean, obviously A Clockwork Orange, not an
- 41:20erotic film, but a disturbing one in a lot of
- 41:23ways. The Shining also, not a film known for
- 41:25its, even though it has nudity, right? Not a
- 41:28film, certainly, that anyone would ever, I hope,
- 41:31describe as an erotic film or a film dealing
- 41:33with sexuality in any way. And so this was really
- 41:36a surprise. Everyone was so excited. Everyone
- 41:39was so disappointed. But we do have, we do have,
- 41:44Tom's character, I don't even remember his name,
- 41:46Doctor whatever, Bill, thank you, who ends up
- 41:50on this weird sort of sexual journey after he
- 41:53has had this conversation with his wife, Nicole,
- 41:56who admits that at a dinner party, wait, no,
- 41:59not a dinner party, they were on vacation. They
- 42:01were on vacation. She sees a man at the hotel.
- 42:03Another, a naval man, interestingly, harping
- 42:06back to Sam. A naval, interesting, dead calm,
- 42:09yes. Right, right? and that their sexual attraction
- 42:12is so immediate, so overwhelming that she is
- 42:15prepared to leave Tom Cruise and their daughter
- 42:18forever just to basically go spend one night
- 42:21with this man. And I will say, I have always
- 42:25thought that Tom's reaction shots in when obviously
- 42:30Nicole has this amazing monologue, but the reaction
- 42:33shot when we go back to Tom, I actually think
- 42:35that's like Tom's best acting. Ever. Maybe not.
- 42:38I mean, I do love Frank T .J. Mackie in Magnolia,
- 42:41and I mean, that's a fantastic girl. But the
- 42:43fact that Tom is able, I think, really to convey
- 42:47this incredible shock. Right in the sexual jealousy
- 42:50and this because of course doesn't he start remind
- 42:53me doesn't he kind of start at the conversation
- 42:55and sort of this light hearted. They just smoked
- 42:58pot yeah they maybe had sex I mean we we don't
- 43:01know because again this this kind of cuts off
- 43:04of another scene of them having sex but she's
- 43:06she's in like her underwear and they're smoking
- 43:09pot and. He's sort of like, oh, you're so high.
- 43:12Like, what are you talking about? And it starts
- 43:14out by him basically saying, you know, men have
- 43:17a sex drive and women do not. Oh, yes. And that's
- 43:20where it all comes from. She's sort of like,
- 43:22oh, we went to this party last night hosted by
- 43:25Sidney Pollock and he was with these two women
- 43:28just kind of casually flirting and she was with
- 43:31this Hungarian guy, again, who very much wanted
- 43:34to sleep with her. And he's like, well, you're
- 43:37never going to do that because it's just not
- 43:39in you. Like I trust you you're you know your
- 43:42mother you're a wife and you he basically implies
- 43:47that she doesn't have the sexual motivation or
- 43:51the sexual inclinations to be unfaithful to him.
- 43:54And that also she just doesn't even have the
- 43:56sex drive to do it. He basically makes a generalization
- 43:59about all women. And she's like, what are you
- 44:02talking about? And there was this time where
- 44:04I basically like almost slept with this other
- 44:08guy. And of course it doesn't happen. And she's
- 44:11like, well, when he left I was relieved, but
- 44:12I almost did this. Or I thought about. doing
- 44:15it. And this tends, Tom, on a journey. A nighttime
- 44:21journey. Throughout the village, or the fake
- 44:23village, I should say, in New York City, because
- 44:25it was not filmed in New York. But throughout
- 44:28the village, where basically everyone who encounters
- 44:31him is sexually, like, all over him. All over
- 44:36him. I mean, from the... Daughter of a patient
- 44:41who has just died who's making out with him This
- 44:45sex worker he meets on the street who is inviting
- 44:48him up The temptation is everywhere and it is
- 44:52almost I mean I was laughing because it's just
- 44:54so ridiculous that everyone who meets Tom Cruise
- 44:57is just throwing themselves at him He is Tom
- 45:00Cruise. Yeah, but also in non -organic ways.
- 45:04In a non -organic way. He's walking around and
- 45:06all of a sudden all these people are throwing
- 45:08themselves. Anyway, he meets, or he re -meets
- 45:12rather, a guy that he knew in med school whose
- 45:16name is Nick Nightingale who tells him about
- 45:20this party that he'll, he's a piano player now,
- 45:23he's not a doctor, that Nick Nightingale will
- 45:25be... playing the piano at a later hour. By the
- 45:30way, can I jump in? Yes. And this is Todd Field.
- 45:32Yes. The director of In the Bedroom, which we
- 45:35talked about a few episodes ago. Yes, yes. Okay,
- 45:37right. So Todd Field tells him that he will be
- 45:42playing the piano at this very, very secretive
- 45:46and... Out in the country mansion. And that he's
- 45:51blindfolded when he plays the piano. but the
- 45:54blindfold wasn't on so tight the last time he
- 45:57played and so he saw insane things happening
- 46:01and these amazing women and tantalizes Tom Cruise
- 46:04enough to make him want to go. and he has to
- 46:08rent a tuxedo in order to go. And take a cab
- 46:12out to the - And a mask. And a mask out to the
- 46:14boondocks. And so we have this element of mystery.
- 46:17Again, are these women being sacrificed to these
- 46:20sexually licentious elites? They're wearing these
- 46:22cloaks, they're in these masks. It's like satanic,
- 46:26right? Is it a black mask? And basically, as
- 46:29far as we know in the film, or what the film
- 46:30argues, is that it's pretty much a whole bunch
- 46:32of nothing. This is what Sidney Pollock's character
- 46:34says, that it's just this play, it's cosplay,
- 46:37and that there is basically an orgy going on,
- 46:40or at least a gangbang. But nobody's getting
- 46:43murdered, there's no ritual sacrifice, it's a
- 46:45bunch of basically sex workers having sex with
- 46:49all these prominent people from New York and
- 46:52maybe elsewhere. And getting great tips. Right.
- 46:54And getting great tips. Right. and so but then
- 46:56we we do have then this sort of turnaround to
- 46:59the end where Nicole's character comes back and
- 47:03this attempt at sort of this return to what she's
- 47:07resistant to the idea. He wants, right, this
- 47:09kind of emotional security from her, right? This
- 47:13promise of sexual fidelity. At the end of the
- 47:15film when they're kind of walking around, right,
- 47:17before Christmas. When they're in FAO shorts.
- 47:19Or what's supposed to be FAO shorts. Looking
- 47:22at the toys with their daughter. And she is not
- 47:25willing, right, we have the exchange where he's
- 47:27like, oh, forever. And she says no. And so there
- 47:30is then this sense that certainly they are still,
- 47:35that they're their sexual life has been maybe
- 47:38reinvigorated, right? Of course, very famously,
- 47:41the last word of the film is fuck, but still
- 47:46this sense of kind of tension and dissension
- 47:49under the surface. Would you agree with that?
- 47:52Yes. There's definitely like... the message,
- 47:57this may have made our marriage hotter. Yes.
- 48:00And again, a kind of strange way because when
- 48:05he confesses to her that all of this has happened
- 48:09and that he was tempted, she's crying and she
- 48:12has to make sense of it. But then she's just
- 48:14like, well, you know, you were tempted. I was
- 48:17tempted. Sometimes there's fantasies. Sometimes
- 48:19there's realities. You've sort of made it through
- 48:21it. And now, yeah, let's just like get it on.
- 48:25In our incredible New York apartment. Right.
- 48:27Right. And we're so rich and you're just like
- 48:31a basic doctor. That's the other thing. I mean,
- 48:33he's just like a basic like house call doctor.
- 48:36He's not like the chief of, I don't know, whatever
- 48:39neurosurgery at Beth Israel or something. No,
- 48:42he's just like a basic doctor that makes house
- 48:44calls and has this incredible apartment on Central
- 48:46Park West. She doesn't work. OK, so there's all
- 48:51that. Well, and then we do have this kind of
- 48:53class moment where it's made very clear. Right.
- 48:56Because, again, Sidney Pollock's You had the
- 48:58rental tag for the tuxedo in your pocket or whatever.
- 49:01And you took the cab. And basically, you're not
- 49:04at this level of elite. And nor are you somebody
- 49:08famous or important. You're just this lackey
- 49:12that make house calls. We call up with drug overdoses
- 49:15and stuff, like with the women at the beginning
- 49:17of the party. So this, again... the film is closely
- 49:23followed by their divorce. There is also the
- 49:26conspiracy theory, I don't know if you've ever
- 49:28heard this one, that Stanley Kubrick is murdered
- 49:32because the elites are really having these sex
- 49:36parties where they're murdering people. And this
- 49:39is an exposé. Exposé, right, he uncovers this
- 49:42dark secret world. But I do have to tell you.
- 49:44Christine okay, because I was underwhelmed by
- 49:46eyes always shut. I was too. Okay, and here's
- 49:49the thing having seen it now last night. Yeah
- 49:51After Eyes Wide Shut, I watched SVU, in which
- 49:56the second episode of the new season actually
- 49:59has a sex orgy club. And one of the reasons why
- 50:03Eyes Wide Shut seemed underwhelming is because
- 50:06now it's just like, what? We see this all the
- 50:10time. We see this all the time now. I mean, not
- 50:13me personally, but these ideas of people going
- 50:17into these sort of secret, maybe satanic, ritual.
- 50:21It is a cliche above cliches. And so while that
- 50:26may have been shocking at the time, and certainly
- 50:29with Tom and Nicole in it, it upped the ante,
- 50:32watching it again, the SVU episode was more suspenseful.
- 50:38And the other thing about the film that was underwhelming
- 50:41to me watching it now in the... as I said, post
- 50:45-dance average or whoever, right? Is the idea
- 50:48that Nicole's like, well, I thought about another
- 50:50guy. I thought about having sex with another
- 50:53guy. And he just goes, he goes on this like crazy
- 50:57journey because his wife is like, yeah, I'm attracted
- 50:59to other people sometimes. That just felt like
- 51:03it was so hollow to me. Although I understand
- 51:06that's the point of the film. Again, later, now
- 51:10that we're talking about, again, all kinds of
- 51:13arrangements and there are, you know, all kinds
- 51:16of marriages and all kinds of marriages that
- 51:18are depicted on film or on serial prestige dramas,
- 51:24however you want to think about it, that the
- 51:27impetus for the journey to me isn't as believable.
- 51:33I agree, I agree with that. But I also think
- 51:36it's in such a weird, I mean, you're absolutely
- 51:38right, right? That we don't have sort of, I don't
- 51:40know, when Kubrick is making this film, we don't
- 51:43have national newspapers talking about polygamy
- 51:46or whatever, or open poly relationships or whatever.
- 51:50So we're not in that moment yet, right? But we
- 51:53are in a moment, right? When Eyes Wide Shut comes
- 51:56out. So obviously we have Sex and the City, right?
- 51:59We've had also that whole span of 1970s films
- 52:02that - ruined sex scenes when they didn't even
- 52:04need to exist. The whole idea of every single
- 52:061970s film is that someone is having an affair.
- 52:09Maybe they're trying to hide it. But they are
- 52:11having affairs. We have this kind of whole post
- 52:13John Updike, right? Erica Jong moment. And Kubrick
- 52:16is coming out of, he's that generation. He's
- 52:19that generation. And so that's what I do, I agree
- 52:22with you. That's what's kind of funny is that
- 52:24we are presented with a scenario in Eyes Wide
- 52:27Shut that actually doesn't seem that shocking.
- 52:30I mean, the sex, the murder part, notwithstanding.
- 52:33But the idea that, as you say, this confession,
- 52:36I wanted to sleep with this other person, that
- 52:39it's presented to us as so destabilizing for
- 52:42Tom Cruise's character. And in a sense, you're
- 52:45kind of like, well, did Kubrick really think
- 52:48that? That that is a reasonable, and if Kubrick
- 52:51did think that. Again, he's not, I mean, even
- 52:55though Kubrick started making films so young,
- 52:57but we're not in 1945. And we're not in an Adrian
- 53:00Lin - No, no. Sex thriller. And we're not in
- 53:05Indecent Proposal. Yes, exactly. Which, of course,
- 53:08she does have sex with him. And then you have
- 53:11to deal with the ramifications of that. this
- 53:14is about a kernel of an idea. And I think, again,
- 53:19what we were all teased by was that it was going
- 53:23to turn into, hey, Nicole is part of the orgy,
- 53:25right? Like, he's going to go there and she's
- 53:28going to see her and she is going to be one of
- 53:30those masked women. And of course, that is not
- 53:32the case. It's not the case. But that's when
- 53:34I think, when I think back to that rumor, and
- 53:38maybe more than a rumor, who knows, that... Kubrick
- 53:42is mining their own marital difficulties, right?
- 53:45And on top of that, the totally unproven rumor,
- 53:48right? That she had an affair with Ewan McGregor.
- 53:50And so that makes some kind of sense, right?
- 53:52If it becomes not a cultural moment thing, but
- 53:55it becomes a much more zeroed in Tom and Nicole,
- 53:58right? That Tom Cruise as a person is like, what?
- 54:02You are possibly sexually attracted to someone
- 54:04else who's not me, Tom Cruise. And so that is
- 54:06what makes more sense to me. It does, it does.
- 54:09It also, as I said, before, maybe not on the
- 54:11pod, but Kubrick's kind of fascination with Nicole
- 54:16and his zooming in on her body, on her face,
- 54:20the voyeuristic viewpoint of Kubrick on Nicole.
- 54:25I mean, it's clear that he is infested in her.
- 54:29Even though she is not in most of the film, the
- 54:33scenes that do have Nicole, I mean, he is...
- 54:36into her. She's naked and of course I mean this
- 54:38is the first scene of the film is her naked.
- 54:40Yes and this is something of course I mean just
- 54:42in terms of her career right this is something
- 54:44that her she has always been comfortable with
- 54:47nudity right very famously did a play where she
- 54:49was naked on stage right every single night and
- 54:53so and we have sort of again she's not nude in
- 54:56dead com but we see her back right sort of we
- 54:59see sort of she is taken off her top um we don't
- 55:01see her from the front right and so and there's
- 55:04not a ton of nudity in to die for if i remember
- 55:07correctly right we have all those scenes of walking
- 55:09phoenix's bare chest that right that gust van
- 55:12sent clearly loves but She's always been comfortable
- 55:15with that. And so, I mean, I agree with you,
- 55:18Kubrick does seem very infested, right? But again,
- 55:22not in this kind of sense that she is this unfeeling
- 55:25statue, right? That's what Tom Cruise's character,
- 55:28in a sense, might think about her, right? That
- 55:30she is this object of beauty. But of course,
- 55:32the whole point of that film is that she is not
- 55:35that, right? She is, in fact, has this sexual
- 55:38imagination, this sexual life, apart from her
- 55:41husband. Okay, so. Uh, we only have a little
- 55:44bit of time left. Okay, but in some ways, we
- 55:46don't need a whole lot. We don't. We don't. We
- 55:49don't. And it suffice to say, we hated Baby Girl.
- 55:51Hated it. Hated it. And I would much rather spend
- 55:54an hour talking about these other three films.
- 55:57Yes. Although, again, underwhelmed by Eyes Wide
- 55:59Shut. But it, Kubrick is worth spending the time
- 56:02on. It is. Yes. Yes. And, again, the historical
- 56:05resonance of that film. Yes. All of it is worth
- 56:08talking about. Absolutely. Absolutely. Baby Girl
- 56:10was a piece of shit. Dunk. Total junk. And again
- 56:13Nicole... has recently also, one of the theories
- 56:16behind the breakup too is that she's just been
- 56:18working too much. She's in everything now. TV
- 56:21series, terrible series, all this stuff. Terrible
- 56:24things, good things, everything in between, she's
- 56:27in it now. And so baby girl to me falls into
- 56:32one of those scripts that who knows who put it
- 56:34on her desk and she's like, this seems kind of
- 56:37cool and this seems kind of subversive and it
- 56:40can be like this BDSM thing. Taboo. I'm up for
- 56:44it. I'm up for it. And I'm up for like being
- 56:47naked again and like short. Looking amazing.
- 56:50I'm looking amazing. Looking amazing. But the
- 56:53problem with baby girl, which again, I mean,
- 56:56do we need to summarize baby girl? No, not really.
- 56:58She has a woman, she's married to Antonio Banderas,
- 57:02theater director. She is un -orgasmic. She cannot
- 57:05experience orgasm with her. Totally hot husband
- 57:09that she's been married to for 20 years, right?
- 57:11Masturbates to porn on the internet. She ends
- 57:13up having a sexual relationship with a much much
- 57:15much younger intern She's like a head honcho
- 57:18at some company and he is her Dom, I guess. Yeah,
- 57:25he is her Dom. Yeah, okay and she is his sub
- 57:30and they have the most uninteresting, dumb sub
- 57:35-relationship that I have ever seen. Totally
- 57:37boring. Totally boring. And they have, as far
- 57:40as I'm concerned, they have... little to no chemistry,
- 57:43the characters are completely undrawn. He isn't
- 57:48even, I mean, he's very handsome, right? But
- 57:51we don't have enough of a sense of him as a character
- 57:53to understand his sexual appeal, other than the
- 57:56fact that he puts himself immediately in the
- 58:00position of bossing her around, basically. And
- 58:03with fearlessly, right? Fearlessly. And that
- 58:05this is so upside down, right? This is so almost
- 58:08like carnival, right? We are upending these particular
- 58:11norms of the workplace, that it's such a shock
- 58:14that this is his appeal, simply that he dares
- 58:17to do these things. Right, right. We're also
- 58:19supposed to have some sort of political takeaway
- 58:23here about... you know, sexual harassment in
- 58:27the workplace and power dynamics. Dominant women
- 58:29who just want to be bossed around at home. I
- 58:32don't know exactly what, but we're supposed to
- 58:34have some kind of takeaway about, you know, a
- 58:37reverse me too, or I don't know. It's unclear.
- 58:41It's unclear. And this is also, I mean, it really,
- 58:44much like Eyes Wide Shut, it's a film that...
- 58:48claims to be daring. Yes. And obviously this
- 58:50director is not Kubrick. No. But it's a film
- 58:52that claims to be daring but is so unerotic,
- 58:56right, we actually we have what just maybe a
- 58:58couple perhaps the best scene in the entire film
- 59:01is when they're dancing to Father Figure by George
- 59:05Michael. And it's kind of the only moment where
- 59:07we have, and again, it's never clear in terms
- 59:09of their kind of compatibility, I mean, as people,
- 59:13right? Because we do have a scene like that that
- 59:14looks kind of tender, but then we have other
- 59:17scenes and then she's kind of, I don't know,
- 59:19I don't want you to see other women. It's completely
- 59:21unclear. But the big mystery, of course, that
- 59:23we've talked so much about Baby Girl is... why
- 59:27isn't she sexually satisfied with her husband?
- 59:30Not just because he's Antonio Banderas, but we
- 59:32are supposed to think that a Spanish theater
- 59:35director is himself completely closed up in terms
- 59:40of sexuality. She cannot speak to him openly
- 59:42about it. When she does try to kind of playfully
- 59:46talk to him and say, this is kind of what I want,
- 59:49he's like, why are you doing that weirdo thing?
- 59:52What's wrong with you? She's not married to an
- 59:55accountant, you know, an evangelical Christian
- 59:57account from Ohio. No. She's married to a Spanish
- 1:00:00theater director. Right. In New York City. Played
- 1:00:02by Antonio. Played by Antonio Banderas. And that
- 1:00:06is never answered, right? No. Why is their sexual
- 1:00:11relationship the way that it is? And so we do
- 1:00:14have a very different dynamic as in Eyes Wide
- 1:00:16Shut, right? Eyes Wide Shut, we're supposed to
- 1:00:18think they are banging. They're banging, they're
- 1:00:21doing it, they have an active sex life. There
- 1:00:23just is, again, this current. And actually, in
- 1:00:25the other two films as well, I mean, we don't
- 1:00:29get any sense in the other two films that those
- 1:00:32characters also aren't having a very healthy
- 1:00:35sex life. This is the first one where you're
- 1:00:37seeing her as... Again, having these expectations
- 1:00:40or having these wants and needs that can be unfulfilled
- 1:00:43by this kind of, I don't know, buttoned up husband
- 1:00:47that can't communicate with her, but seemingly
- 1:00:51can communicate on all other levels or I don't
- 1:00:54know. I mean, there's just not enough information
- 1:00:56in this film about, from my recollection of it,
- 1:00:59which I cannot watch it again. Which I did do.
- 1:01:01I don't know, you watched it again. You watched
- 1:01:03it again. And I won't say that I, the only thing
- 1:01:06that made me like it a tiny bit more, is that,
- 1:01:08of course, again, much like Eyes Wide Shut, you
- 1:01:11walk into baby girl thinking that you were going
- 1:01:13to get a sort of 1980s era, right? This kind
- 1:01:17of sex thriller, nine and a half weeks, again,
- 1:01:19indecent proposal, right? All of this stuff.
- 1:01:22And it's not that, right? But I do think when
- 1:01:26you sort of compartmentalize that and say, this
- 1:01:29is just not that film, the film thinks it's super
- 1:01:31erotic and sexy, and it's just not. But when
- 1:01:33you kind of get over that, you can say, okay,
- 1:01:35is this offering me anything else? And it's still
- 1:01:37really not, but at least you don't experience
- 1:01:40that. You know what you're getting. You know
- 1:01:44you're getting her on the floor, on all fours,
- 1:01:47and then that's it. And that's it. And we talked
- 1:01:51at the time when we saw it, the obvious comparison
- 1:01:55is Nine and a Half Weeks. Sure. Right. A film
- 1:01:57that came out, what, 40 years ago? that is so
- 1:02:01interesting in terms of a woman who does not
- 1:02:05think that she is interested in BDSM. This man
- 1:02:09drags her into it. She becomes his sub. They
- 1:02:11have this incredibly charged sexual relationship
- 1:02:14that is very damaging in a lot of ways to her.
- 1:02:16She doesn't really flourish because of it. And
- 1:02:19in some ways you want baby girl to be sort of
- 1:02:21like that. But the only thing we learn in the
- 1:02:26film is that Antonio Banderas learns how to use
- 1:02:28his hand. And that's it. That's it. That's the
- 1:02:32happy ending. So correct me if I'm wrong again.
- 1:02:34We saw it a while ago. The end, the guy that
- 1:02:38she's having the affair with comes to their house.
- 1:02:40So that's sort of in the middle of the film,
- 1:02:43right? So he comes to the house to return her
- 1:02:45laptop, her country house, right? The beautiful,
- 1:02:47gorgeous country house. And it really is when
- 1:02:50she freaks out that he is having a sexual relationship,
- 1:02:54right, with her... kind of underling remember
- 1:02:57and the underling then threatens her right and
- 1:03:00so and that's when it becomes workplace drama
- 1:03:04whatever but not much happens with that right
- 1:03:06because in effect the only thing that happens
- 1:03:09is that they Antonio Banderas finds out about
- 1:03:12the affair because she tells him right right
- 1:03:14he has a heart attack or a quasi heart attack
- 1:03:17or panic attack and so that's pretty much it
- 1:03:21the Samuel the young intern character he gets
- 1:03:24a job and like The Netherlands or someplace.
- 1:03:27And the only thing is that we have the scene
- 1:03:29where one of her employees, sort of a hype executive,
- 1:03:33basically says to her, well, I hear you're hot
- 1:03:35to trot in effect and we should have sex. And
- 1:03:37she shuts him down. And that's it. Right. That's
- 1:03:40it. That's literally it. So we never get a sense
- 1:03:43of her sort of sexual evolution or revelations
- 1:03:48based on this relationship or the ways in which
- 1:03:50it's changed her or... Well, the only thing is
- 1:03:53that at the very end, the last scene, her husband
- 1:03:55is able to bring her to orgasm. Because yes,
- 1:03:58because he has, again, discovered the use of
- 1:04:00his hand. Which apparently in 20 years, she has
- 1:04:03never once thought, maybe I should have an honest
- 1:04:05conversation with my incredibly sexy and handsome
- 1:04:08husband. He still looks amazing at like 60. He
- 1:04:11does, he does. Like gorgeous, gorgeous man. Yes.
- 1:04:13And so that's the only sense, right? That her
- 1:04:16having... But it didn't, of course, need to be
- 1:04:18a BDSM affair in order for her... No, it was
- 1:04:22never that she wanted to have a BDSM relationship
- 1:04:25with Antonio Banderas. No, not at all. She just
- 1:04:27wanted to have an orgasm. Yes. And so we table
- 1:04:31all of that, right? Because there's no indication
- 1:04:33that she's going to have that kind of relationship
- 1:04:35with Antonio Banderas. Just that he now says,
- 1:04:38oh, wait a minute, my wife had an affair and
- 1:04:39so maybe we should have a frank talk about our
- 1:04:41own sex life. And so it's a mystery. It is a
- 1:04:44mystery. And a real injustice to Antonio Banderas,
- 1:04:48I will say. I mean, who really, one does not
- 1:04:53have to imagine. a bridge too far and getting
- 1:04:55Antonio Banderas to be up for whatever. Well,
- 1:05:00and of course, it's so remarkable. I mean, for
- 1:05:01anyone who saw sort of the Almodovar films, right,
- 1:05:04that he did in the 1980s and 90s, where it's
- 1:05:06like... You know, these absolutely sort of, again,
- 1:05:09I don't know, frontier jumping, right, counter
- 1:05:11-cultural, just absolutely over -the -top, you
- 1:05:14know, films, and then, I don't know. It is the
- 1:05:17oddest casting ever. It is the oddest casting.
- 1:05:19It should have been, I hate to impugn accountants
- 1:05:22from Ohio who are, you know, Mormons or whatever,
- 1:05:24but it's just, it made absolutely no sense. So,
- 1:05:28we would say, and we probably should wrap up
- 1:05:31very soon, But to go back to the beginning, this
- 1:05:37supposedly is the film. that Keith Urban objects
- 1:05:41to, of all the things, right? He objects to baby
- 1:05:44girl, that it's too frank in its sexuality, too
- 1:05:47many orgasm scenes. Or that she was so method,
- 1:05:49that was the thing that I, she could never get
- 1:05:51out of that character and wanted to, I guess,
- 1:05:55like drink milk off the floor, who knows, all
- 1:05:59the time. And that that was problematic for him.
- 1:06:04Again, it's very unclear about, what exactly
- 1:06:09is going on. I mean, again the idea of her, I
- 1:06:12can see... You know, just as a spouse, why it
- 1:06:17would be hard to watch your spouse. But I mean,
- 1:06:19she is, but she is an actress. She's an actress.
- 1:06:21She's been doing this in a million. What's the
- 1:06:22surprise? She's been doing this with Hugh Grant
- 1:06:24and Lee Shriver recently, and a million other
- 1:06:29people in other films. And this is like, again,
- 1:06:32she's always been an incredibly bold actress.
- 1:06:34Yes. Again, as we said, frank with nudity, frank
- 1:06:37with sex scenes. And the idea that you're married
- 1:06:39to someone for 20 years and after 20 years, you're
- 1:06:42like, oh, wait a minute. I have a problem with
- 1:06:45this one. That just seems very odd to me. She's
- 1:06:48also an experimental actress. She's in a lot
- 1:06:51of different kinds of films. She's willing to
- 1:06:54go for it. And some of her films are better than
- 1:06:56others. But again, if you're married to Nicole
- 1:06:59Kidman, you would think, yes, this is somebody
- 1:07:02who is... Makes lots of choices. Yes, and there's
- 1:07:06no problem Sarah Jessica Parker. No, no This
- 1:07:09is somebody who is comfortable with their body
- 1:07:11who's a great body. Yes, I got beautiful exquisitely
- 1:07:15beautiful Yeah, and and who is willing to kind
- 1:07:18of up for anything up for anything interesting
- 1:07:21up for interesting upper And again, this is we
- 1:07:23didn't even talk about dog about no, right? No,
- 1:07:25and but then also I think the movie that she
- 1:07:28made What is it called birth where she plays
- 1:07:29the woman right? Who's she's in a? bathtub with
- 1:07:32like a 10 -year -old boy who supposedly is like
- 1:07:34the reincarnation of our husband. These are bold,
- 1:07:37bold choices. And again, choices having to do
- 1:07:39with eroticism, with nudity. Yes, and it's just
- 1:07:42so amazing to me, and I think probably amazing
- 1:07:46to most people, that this is, as you say, this
- 1:07:48isn't Sarah Jessica Parker. Not to appear in
- 1:07:50SJP. No, but we know that very, very famously
- 1:07:53she has a nudity clause. Wearing the bras and
- 1:07:56the sex scenes, the whole shebang. She's uncomfortable
- 1:07:59with it. The whole shebang, no pun intended.
- 1:08:01So, but the last thing I think I do want to say
- 1:08:03about Nicole before we leave is that, so we do
- 1:08:06have, I mean, she really is, she's maybe the
- 1:08:09first superstar Australian actress. And as you
- 1:08:13say, has made so many varied films. We do maybe,
- 1:08:17I think we're going to talk next time about Diane
- 1:08:19Keaton, who also in some ways has a very similar
- 1:08:22profile of making these radically, as much as
- 1:08:25someone might think of Diane Keaton as making
- 1:08:26those sort of, I don't know. like House, not
- 1:08:29Housewife, the Nancy Meyers sort of films, right?
- 1:08:33Her films in the 1970s and 1980s so different.
- 1:08:36And I think that Nicole really has that kind
- 1:08:38of palette in terms of her films, which is so
- 1:08:41incredibly rewarding. I mean, I think she's so
- 1:08:43remarkable. And again, we didn't even talk about
- 1:08:45the hours where she wins an Oscar for best actress
- 1:08:49and wears a prosthetic. Yes. But although, of
- 1:08:52course, if I remember correctly, the only sort
- 1:08:54of sexy thing in the hours is where she kisses
- 1:08:56her own sister. It's been a while for me with
- 1:08:59the hours. I'm never going to watch it again.
- 1:09:03That's a no for me. And as fantastic as Nicole
- 1:09:06is. And again, she's a queen and we certainly
- 1:09:09hope that she moves through this. Todd might
- 1:09:13be single now. Well, the other thing about Nicole,
- 1:09:16which we haven't talked about, but I'll just
- 1:09:18bring up because we're... it would be remiss
- 1:09:22to leave this out, is that Nicole not only became
- 1:09:24a superstar for her roles, but also for her fashion.
- 1:09:29Yes, absolutely. And Nicole is, I would say,
- 1:09:31as well known for her choices in roles as for
- 1:09:35her choices of red carpet outfits and wearing
- 1:09:39some of the most iconic red carpet outfits ever.
- 1:09:41And because she has such a beautiful figure,
- 1:09:43right? So tall, so exquisite. She can pull off
- 1:09:45anything. Anything. Anything. And I think the
- 1:09:48one thing I would wish for Nicole, if she moves
- 1:09:50on to husband number three, she needs someone
- 1:09:52who is tall. I think we can agree. I think we
- 1:09:55as a nation can agree with that. She should move
- 1:09:58beyond five foot six, five foot seven, aspirationally.
- 1:10:03I want like a six, four athlete or actor for
- 1:10:07Nicole. Like an A -Rod or something. Yeah. Well,
- 1:10:09not because I... Right, right, right. But yes.
- 1:10:13But yes. Okay. Well, I think that's all the time
- 1:10:14that we have, Lauren. Okay, Christine. But I
- 1:10:16could talk about Nicole for hours more. And there
- 1:10:18are so many more films and maybe she will, and
- 1:10:21TV and all of it, and maybe she will return in
- 1:10:24another podcast. But until then... Until then,
- 1:10:27Harpies out.