Latest / Hurdle with Emily Abbate / #HURDLEMOMENT: An Important Conversation On Runner Safety With Jessie Zapo
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- 0:00Speaker 1: We're tired of women talking to women about being harassed
- 0:05Speaker 1: about all of the things we deal with because we
- 0:09Speaker 1: know already and the conversation now needs to push out
- 0:14Speaker 1: beyond that, in particular our male counterparts.
- 0:32Speaker 2: What is shaken? Emilyavadi?
- 0:35Speaker 3: Here, you are listening to another installment of Hurdle Moment
- 0:40Speaker 3: from Hurdle.
- 0:41Speaker 2: A Willness focus podcast.
- 0:43Speaker 3: Reconnect with everyone from your favorite athletes to top experts
- 0:46Speaker 3: and industry CEOs about their highest hies, toughest moments, and
- 0:50Speaker 3: everything in between. We all go through hurdles in life,
- 0:54Speaker 3: and my goal through these discussions is to empower you
- 0:56Speaker 3: to better navigate yours and move with intention so that
- 1:00Speaker 3: you can stride towards your own big potential and of
- 1:03Speaker 3: course have some fun along the way. For today's episode,
- 1:08Speaker 3: I am bringing in my girl, Jesse Zappo. She is
- 1:12Speaker 3: a performance coach for Adidas Runners as well as the
- 1:16Speaker 3: founder of Girls Run NYC and I would be remiss
- 1:22Speaker 3: if I didn't say that right off the bat. I
- 1:26Speaker 3: hate how relevant the topic of our conversation is today.
- 1:31Speaker 2: I had Jesse.
- 1:32Speaker 3: Come into the studio to record a couple of months ago,
- 1:37Speaker 3: shortly after we sat down for a forum panel discussion
- 1:43Speaker 3: on runner safety here in New York. I had Jesse
- 1:46Speaker 3: come in. We chatted one on one and as this
- 1:50Speaker 3: episode was slated to run this week. As I was
- 1:53Speaker 3: editing this episode, I caught the news that a twenty
- 1:56Speaker 3: six year old woman was shot during her run on
- 2:02Speaker 3: Monday night, January thirtieth in Nashville, Tennessee. And I just
- 2:07Speaker 3: sat here at my desk beside myself because it's like,
- 2:12Speaker 3: you want to ask, like, when is this going to stop?
- 2:14Speaker 3: And the answer is there is no answer. When we
- 2:19Speaker 3: had the conversation about runner safety back in twenty twenty two,
- 2:24Speaker 3: it was shortly after the murder of Liza Fletcher, and Liza,
- 2:30Speaker 3: as we say in this conversation, was not the first
- 2:33Speaker 3: person to lose her life on a run and certainly
- 2:38Speaker 3: not the last. And so in today's conversation, as I said,
- 2:43Speaker 3: a little too relevant this week, we talk about a
- 2:48Speaker 3: lot of things when it comes to runner safety. We
- 2:49Speaker 3: talk about how the two of us as New Yorkers
- 2:53Speaker 3: feel about running right now, both alone and in groups.
- 2:57Speaker 3: We chat about how you can be more safe on
- 3:02Speaker 3: the run and maybe tools that the both of us
- 3:04Speaker 3: are using. We also address the topic of allyship and
- 3:09Speaker 3: what it can look like for people to come together,
- 3:12Speaker 3: regardless of gender, women, men, non binary folks coming together
- 3:17Speaker 3: to show up for one another on the run to
- 3:20Speaker 3: make our communities safer. It's a timely discussion, It's an
- 3:25Speaker 3: important discussion, and I'm so grateful for Jesse's time and
- 3:29Speaker 3: truly insightful takes on how we can take care of
- 3:34Speaker 3: one another on the run. Make sure you're following along
- 3:37Speaker 3: with Hurdle over on social It's at Hurdle Podcast. I
- 3:39Speaker 3: am over at Emily a body. If you want to
- 3:42Speaker 3: chime in on this, if you have a listener question
- 3:44Speaker 3: that you want to share, I'm all ears. The link
- 3:47Speaker 3: to leave me a voice message and share a question
- 3:50Speaker 3: is in the show notes. Also of note, I'll be
- 3:53Speaker 3: hosting another panel discussion on runner safety the week of
- 3:57Speaker 3: LA Marathon on March fifteenth. More details to come, but
- 4:00Speaker 3: if your local save the date. And with that, let's
- 4:03Speaker 3: get to it. Let's get to hurtling Today, I'm sitting
- 4:13Speaker 3: down with Jesse Zappo.
- 4:14Speaker 2: How are you doing?
- 4:14Speaker 1: I'm doing well.
- 4:15Speaker 2: Thank you.
- 4:17Speaker 3: Your voice sounds so nice on podcast. Has anyone ever
- 4:21Speaker 3: told you have a nice podcast voice?
- 4:24Speaker 1: Actually no, but I send voice notes to people and
- 4:27Speaker 1: people like that, so.
- 4:28Speaker 3: Oh see, okay, well, Jesse, Jesse is your full last name, Zappo.
- 4:35Speaker 1: It is not so Zappo is my dad's nickname. It
- 4:39Speaker 1: became kind of a family nickname. My childhood name is Jesse.
- 4:45Speaker 1: When I got into my first career as an art therapist,
- 4:50Speaker 1: everyone knew me as Jessica Zappo Technie, which is my
- 4:54Speaker 1: full name. And then my little sister said, I'm going
- 4:57Speaker 1: to make you a Facebook account. You should get on Facebook,
- 5:01Speaker 1: and I said, okay, but I don't want my professional
- 5:05Speaker 1: folks to find me on Facebook. I want to keep
- 5:07Speaker 1: it separate. So I was like, let me use my
- 5:08Speaker 1: childhood nickname, Jesse Zappo. And then that's where the running
- 5:12Speaker 1: community found me and knew me as Jesse.
- 5:16Speaker 3: Well, I'm glad to have you, whether we go full
- 5:19Speaker 3: last name or partial last name. We are here today
- 5:23Speaker 3: to talk or continue our conversation on runner safety, you know,
- 5:28Speaker 3: for those of you that maybe out of the loop.
- 5:30Speaker 3: I hosted an event over New York City Marathon weekend
- 5:34Speaker 3: and Jesse was a part of that dialogue and we
- 5:39Speaker 3: chatted on runner safety, especially in the wake of events
- 5:44Speaker 3: that have happened recently. Jesse herself is the Adidas Runners
- 5:48Speaker 3: Performance coach and captain and also the founder of an
- 5:52Speaker 3: organization here called Girls Run NYC. And So, because so
- 5:57Speaker 3: many of you reached out to me and said that
- 5:59Speaker 3: you wished that you could have been a part of
- 6:01Speaker 3: that conversation or listened in on that conversation, I asked
- 6:05Speaker 3: Jesse if she would do me the honor of joining
- 6:07Speaker 3: me in the studio so we could kind of rap
- 6:10Speaker 3: about it and talk about some of our takeaways, but
- 6:12Speaker 3: also bring forth some of that information. I'd love it
- 6:16Speaker 3: if you could give the hurdlers a little bit of
- 6:19Speaker 3: information about you and your journey with running, because obviously
- 6:23Speaker 3: it's not like one day you raised your hand and
- 6:25Speaker 3: you said I want to be the Runners performance coach
- 6:28Speaker 3: for Adidas. So talk to me a little bit about that.
- 6:30Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 6:31Speaker 1: Thanks. So I think people reach out to me a
- 6:35Speaker 1: lot and ask like, how how did you get to
- 6:37Speaker 1: where you are? That's interesting. You're a woman, you're a
- 6:41Speaker 1: performance coach, you you know, work in the community space.
- 6:46Speaker 1: It was not a linear path by any means. I
- 6:49Speaker 1: think my journey definitely started. I was a teenager. I
- 6:55Speaker 1: ran track and field, I played volleyball, I had a
- 6:59Speaker 1: sports affinity and background growing up. Also was one of
- 7:04Speaker 1: eight children, so a lot of the time I was
- 7:09Speaker 1: playing with my siblings and also had an interest in
- 7:15Speaker 1: helping others. It's kind of always been a piece of
- 7:18Speaker 1: my identity was volunteering or tutoring or you know, always
- 7:25Speaker 1: sort of thinking social justice minded. So when it came
- 7:31Speaker 1: time to think about college I went to I had
- 7:34Speaker 1: a couple of different routes, like go play volleyball at
- 7:37Speaker 1: a school, or go to art school. I chose art school,
- 7:42Speaker 1: which led me down a path towards art therapy. I
- 7:45Speaker 1: was working in actually a maximum security facility with young
- 7:49Speaker 1: people outside of Detroit and as a teaching artist, and
- 7:54Speaker 1: so I just saw the importance of helping others. I
- 7:58Speaker 1: think I was kind of raised that way, and as
- 8:03Speaker 1: I moved to New York, studied art therapy here, became
- 8:06Speaker 1: an art therapist, but always had running as a thing
- 8:09Speaker 1: I did for myself. I got into distance running when
- 8:13Speaker 1: I was in my twenties, kind of for stress management.
- 8:17Speaker 1: Always ran alone until I was bartending in the No
- 8:23Speaker 1: Lita Ish Lower East Side area. Kept running into this
- 8:27Speaker 1: one particular person who was like, Hey, do you want
- 8:30Speaker 1: to come try my run group, and I think after
- 8:35Speaker 1: like six months, I was like, all right, fine, I'll
- 8:37Speaker 1: come try your run group. And that turned out to
- 8:39Speaker 1: be the New York City Bridge Runners in its infancy.
- 8:43Speaker 1: I started out running with them and just loved the
- 8:47Speaker 1: community aspect of being around other people who wanted to
- 8:52Speaker 1: push themselves to be better, but that were also kind
- 8:56Speaker 1: of like non traditional runners. So I don't think I
- 9:00Speaker 1: ever identified myself really as a runner, but had been
- 9:03Speaker 1: running ten years up to that point.
- 9:06Speaker 3: Right, isn't that funny that people do that all the time. Yeah,
- 9:09Speaker 3: it's like, oh, I don't know if I'm a runner,
- 9:11Speaker 3: but yet you go out three times a week and
- 9:13Speaker 3: you have shoes that you specifically run in.
- 9:16Speaker 2: It's just an identity, yeah, an identity thing. Yeah.
- 9:19Speaker 1: And I think even maybe, and that was like early
- 9:23Speaker 1: two thousands, there was a very different way that people
- 9:27Speaker 1: presented themselves in the world because this is pre social media,
- 9:30Speaker 1: so it was kind of hard to like give yourself
- 9:33Speaker 1: a title, like it felt like you had to earn
- 9:36Speaker 1: something to have a title. So I think this idea
- 9:41Speaker 1: of calling yourself a runner, you were like, can I
- 9:43Speaker 1: call myself a runner? I didn't do XYZ, right, and
- 9:48Speaker 1: I feel like we've moved way beyond that at this point,
- 9:51Speaker 1: and hopefully people who run can add that as part
- 9:56Speaker 1: of their identity.
- 9:56Speaker 2: Thank god. Yeah.
- 9:58Speaker 3: Yeah, it's really beautiful to hopefully empower people and access
- 10:03Speaker 3: point regardless of where they are on their journey. And
- 10:07Speaker 3: I feel like this sentiment keeps coming up on the
- 10:10Speaker 3: show lately, but that idea of in order to be her,
- 10:13Speaker 3: you need to see her. Now on social media we
- 10:17Speaker 3: see runners of all types.
- 10:19Speaker 2: Still.
- 10:19Speaker 3: That doesn't mean, though, that runners of all types always
- 10:23Speaker 3: feel welcomed in the running community right from the get go,
- 10:26Speaker 3: but I do believe that that at least empowers more
- 10:30Speaker 3: individuals to call themselves a runner. Absolutely.
- 10:33Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 10:34Speaker 3: Okay, so you were bartending, you say, fine, I'll try
- 10:38Speaker 3: your run group, and suddenly you're running with Bridge Runners.
- 10:42Speaker 2: Yeah okay, yeah.
- 10:44Speaker 1: And you know that was like, I don't know, two
- 10:47Speaker 1: thousand and four or somewhere around then. I was still
- 10:53Speaker 1: early twenties. I thought three miles was a lot, and
- 10:59Speaker 1: so I I think I ran four miles like the
- 11:01Speaker 1: first time I ever went with them, And there was
- 11:04Speaker 1: that moment, I mean, that's an unforgettable moment for me,
- 11:07Speaker 1: which was just like breaking the three mile barrier, which
- 11:10Speaker 1: to me is a real thing. Three miles is always hard.
- 11:13Speaker 1: So that was a moment where I saw that there
- 11:17Speaker 1: was something more on the other side. And then I
- 11:19Speaker 1: think I continued to chase that idea of something more
- 11:24Speaker 1: with a group of people who were actually very supportive.
- 11:29Speaker 1: And it also happened to be a group that was
- 11:31Speaker 1: running at night. And you know, I worked in night life,
- 11:35Speaker 1: so I wasn't getting up early to go run. That
- 11:38Speaker 1: wasn't in my schedule. It wasn't really in my like
- 11:41Speaker 1: ability at that time. So to have a group that
- 11:44Speaker 1: was meeting at seven or eight at night and running
- 11:47Speaker 1: in the dark, like I could do that because it
- 11:51Speaker 1: was a group, and it was a group of guys
- 11:53Speaker 1: that I felt safe running with. And I think, you know,
- 11:58Speaker 1: I mentioned it on the panel because I was sitting
- 12:01Speaker 1: next to Coffee and he was talking about he loves
- 12:03Speaker 1: running at midnight, and I think a couple of us
- 12:06Speaker 1: women were like, Oh, my god, wouldn't that be nice
- 12:10Speaker 1: to be able to run at midnight as a woman
- 12:12Speaker 1: and not have to worry about it. And it was
- 12:15Speaker 1: being in that group that provided that access point for
- 12:19Speaker 1: me where I didn't feel afraid because of having the
- 12:22Speaker 1: men in the group who were supportive and protective. But
- 12:26Speaker 1: it's not lost on me that there are certain doors
- 12:29Speaker 1: that are shut for folks because of our gender, because
- 12:36Speaker 1: of our orientation.
- 12:39Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 12:39Speaker 3: Yeah, First things first, it's so interesting to hear you
- 12:43Speaker 3: say that when you first started running, you were exclusively
- 12:47Speaker 3: doing it alone. Knowing that now today, how often would
- 12:51Speaker 3: you say that you actually run alone?
- 12:54Speaker 1: Honestly, it's pretty rare. Although I will be going into
- 12:58Speaker 1: a training cycle in the off season right now where
- 13:02Speaker 1: a lot of those miles are probably going to be
- 13:04Speaker 1: alone because my running buddy moved to la oh gosh.
- 13:09Speaker 1: So it's a little daunting. Yeah, And it means I
- 13:13Speaker 1: have to think about what my day looks like.
- 13:16Speaker 3: I had that thought for the first time the other
- 13:19Speaker 3: day as well. I haven't been running a lot since
- 13:22Speaker 3: everything happened with Liza Fletcher, and the people listening to
- 13:26Speaker 3: this don't need me to tell them that. Obviously, Liza
- 13:29Speaker 3: is not the first runner to be injured, harassed. She
- 13:34Speaker 3: was unfortunately kidnapped and murdered. But she's not the first
- 13:38Speaker 3: and she won't be the last. And all of this
- 13:41Speaker 3: makes me think about how I feel about running early
- 13:45Speaker 3: in the morning, something that once gave me so much
- 13:48Speaker 3: solace and now the thought of it makes me truly
- 13:52Speaker 3: pretty anxious.
- 13:53Speaker 1: I think it's really unfortunate to keep having this conversation
- 13:58Speaker 1: over year after or year, and I think that's where
- 14:04Speaker 1: what kind of got me to the point of where
- 14:06Speaker 1: the focus of my energy is right now on the
- 14:10Speaker 1: issue of safety, which is that it's not a women's issue,
- 14:16Speaker 1: it's a human issue, and getting to the root of
- 14:20Speaker 1: why and really finding action oriented ways of approaching it,
- 14:27Speaker 1: because because we're going to keep having this conversation right
- 14:31Speaker 1: where we have a lot of power in the running
- 14:34Speaker 1: community that we're already living existing in is that we
- 14:40Speaker 1: have people coming together across gender, ethnicity, orientation and finding
- 14:45Speaker 1: some common ground and running. And so it already is
- 14:49Speaker 1: this like massive group of people who we could mobilize
- 14:53Speaker 1: towards doing something positive. And I think we saw a
- 14:58Speaker 1: lot of that, like you know, into twenty one, just
- 15:02Speaker 1: the social change aspect of being able to bring folks
- 15:07Speaker 1: in the running community together. And so I think this
- 15:09Speaker 1: topic of women's safety not just women's safety, it's safety
- 15:14Speaker 1: for people of color, for LGBT plus community, that that
- 15:19Speaker 1: is something that people can rally around that we could
- 15:22Speaker 1: actually make some really positive change towards But it's not
- 15:27Speaker 1: it's not going to end like it's not going to
- 15:29Speaker 1: end gender based violence. But I think the point is
- 15:32Speaker 1: that we want to feel like we have some power
- 15:36Speaker 1: to make some.
- 15:37Speaker 3: Steps before we dive a little bit more into that.
- 15:40Speaker 3: I want to bring up some statistics for us to
- 15:44Speaker 3: work off of. So in a recent Runners World survey,
- 15:48Speaker 3: eighty four percent of women noted that they'd been harassed
- 15:51Speaker 3: while running, seventy percent of men have not. Twenty five
- 15:55Speaker 3: percent of those surveyed said that they're regularly subjected to
- 16:00Speaker 3: sexist comments, are unwanted sexual advances, and one in five
- 16:05Speaker 3: have felt more harassed since the first national lockdown. Also,
- 16:10Speaker 3: let it be known that those that identify as BIPICK
- 16:15Speaker 3: or LGBTQ are more likely to experience sexual harassment, sex
- 16:20Speaker 3: based discrimination, and sexual assault. How does hearing all that
- 16:26Speaker 3: even make you feel?
- 16:28Speaker 1: It makes me feel angry.
- 16:30Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I would have.
- 16:32Speaker 1: To guess that many people have been pushing that anger
- 16:36Speaker 1: down for a long time just so that they can
- 16:40Speaker 1: get themselves to get up and go out and run.
- 16:43Speaker 1: There was a woman actually at our panel who's towards
- 16:47Speaker 1: the end was like all of this, like it's so frustrating,
- 16:51Speaker 1: Like how do we still feel hopeful to keep lacing
- 16:55Speaker 1: up and going out and running? Like it's it's really hard,
- 16:59Speaker 1: And I think it's true.
- 17:00Speaker 2: I think.
- 17:02Speaker 1: It's almost like this topic is opening up a Pandora's
- 17:06Speaker 1: box because it's something we've been dealing with, or deal
- 17:10Speaker 1: with on a daily basis, that you put away so
- 17:13Speaker 1: that you can keep going out the door and going
- 17:17Speaker 1: to work. You can keep putting your shoes on and running.
- 17:19Speaker 1: You can sign up for another marathon and train for it,
- 17:24Speaker 1: and you know, we're we are fortunate we can keep
- 17:27Speaker 1: doing that. Not everyone has had that experience. For some
- 17:31Speaker 1: it can be debilitating and it means they're not going
- 17:34Speaker 1: out there and running.
- 17:35Speaker 3: Right right, And so this then brings us to that
- 17:39Speaker 3: conversation of how we can move forward despite at times
- 17:44Speaker 3: being so crippled, and that for you, with your work
- 17:50Speaker 3: at Adidas Runners, has really become a conversation about allyship.
- 17:56Speaker 2: So why don't we dive in there?
- 17:59Speaker 3: Why don't you tell me little bit about what allyship
- 18:02Speaker 3: looks like in the case of gender based violence?
- 18:07Speaker 1: Yeah? Absolutely, I mean to rewind a little bit to
- 18:14Speaker 1: twenty twenty one, there was a professional athlete who ran
- 18:18Speaker 1: for Adidas. Her name was Agnes tear Up. She broke
- 18:23Speaker 1: the world record in the ten k at this race
- 18:26Speaker 1: called Road to Records. She was a Kenyan athlete, young
- 18:31Speaker 1: at the beginning of her career, and several of her
- 18:34Speaker 1: fellow athletes also raced for Adidas. She was murdered a
- 18:40Speaker 1: few months later after winning the world record and by
- 18:46Speaker 1: her partner. So it was a domestic violence incident. And
- 18:53Speaker 1: when that happened, I think, you know, I'm as a
- 18:57Speaker 1: an athlete who works for Adidas, but just on a
- 19:00Speaker 1: different end in the community aspect. It shook up the
- 19:04Speaker 1: community within Adidas because they were like, it felt really
- 19:08Speaker 1: close to home. And so that sparked a conversation amongst
- 19:13Speaker 1: all of the women coaches and captains who were within
- 19:17Speaker 1: Adidas Runners globally around gender based violence. And once you
- 19:25Speaker 1: start the conversation, you'd begin to hear more and more
- 19:27Speaker 1: and more stories of incidences. So the initiative that we
- 19:35Speaker 1: basically came towards was we're tired of women talking to
- 19:40Speaker 1: women about being harassed about all of the things we
- 19:45Speaker 1: deal with because we know already and I think that
- 19:52Speaker 1: we felt the conversation now needs to push out beyond that,
- 19:57Speaker 1: in particular our male counterparts. And then when that conversation
- 20:02Speaker 1: started happening, people were like yeah, they started sharing things like, oh,
- 20:08Speaker 1: as a women coach, you know, some of my male
- 20:11Speaker 1: counterparts don't like support me and they don't support my voice,
- 20:14Speaker 1: and so like athletes don't listen to me and they
- 20:16Speaker 1: It just started this whole other conversation around like the
- 20:21Speaker 1: support from male or non women counterparts within our own
- 20:26Speaker 1: communities and how that was happening really great in some
- 20:31Speaker 1: places and then not as great in others. And so
- 20:36Speaker 1: we kind of started from there with this initiative and
- 20:40Speaker 1: it's called with Women We Run. And the idea is
- 20:43Speaker 1: one sort of identifying the issues. And I think you
- 20:49Speaker 1: know where gender based violence comes from, or violence against
- 20:54Speaker 1: others is is often someone feeling that someone else is
- 20:57Speaker 1: lesser than or that's societally people are lesser than or
- 21:02Speaker 1: othered and so it's a deep issue. But the idea
- 21:08Speaker 1: around creating allahship, whether it's for our BIPOC community members
- 21:15Speaker 1: or LGBTQ community members or women, that it's standing alongside
- 21:21Speaker 1: someone and saying like they actually deserve equal or more
- 21:27Speaker 1: support and representation at this time, and so I think
- 21:31Speaker 1: it's has started with conversations. It started with people sharing
- 21:36Speaker 1: personal stories and then listening, and then I think the
- 21:41Speaker 1: goal is to go further from there, which is like
- 21:46Speaker 1: also understanding like what are some of the issues that
- 21:49Speaker 1: women are facing on a daily basis, or what are
- 21:52Speaker 1: some of the ways that our counterparts are maybe contributing
- 21:57Speaker 1: to those issues or they're not contributing to a solution.
- 22:02Speaker 1: We're still in the beginning of it, but to me,
- 22:07Speaker 1: it feels like the type of work that is going
- 22:11Speaker 1: to need to happen for longer change and lasting change,
- 22:16Speaker 1: versus other things that we already have to do, which
- 22:20Speaker 1: is like take self defense courses or Carrie Mace or
- 22:26Speaker 1: Carrie abiity or tell people where you're running. Like there's
- 22:28Speaker 1: all these practical things that like we should do and
- 22:32Speaker 1: we know we have to do, and it's important to
- 22:36Speaker 1: identify those. So we're also like helping other women create
- 22:40Speaker 1: safe practices around running. But like that's only one layer,
- 22:45Speaker 1: and I think the deeper layer is okay, outside of that,
- 22:51Speaker 1: are what are our male coaches doing within our communities
- 22:55Speaker 1: to make a safe space. You know, what type of
- 22:57Speaker 1: behavior maybe goes unchecked even within our own groups. And
- 23:04Speaker 1: for me as a woman who's leading a community, a
- 23:08Speaker 1: lot of times it also feels not great to be
- 23:12Speaker 1: the one that's like calling out behavior that's bad because
- 23:16Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, then you're also you're continuing to put
- 23:20Speaker 1: me in this like space of being the mother or
- 23:23Speaker 1: being you know whatever, and that's not solving the problem.
- 23:27Speaker 1: And so it's been really cool to have these conversations
- 23:32Speaker 1: with other men who are like, yeah, I stand next
- 23:35Speaker 1: to you and like I'm going to call out that behavior,
- 23:40Speaker 1: like I'm going to make sure I'm not contributing to
- 23:43Speaker 1: it because I'm more aware of what you're going through.
- 23:52Speaker 3: It's about that time in the episode where I think
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- 26:03Speaker 3: I think that word the awareness is really just so
- 26:08Speaker 3: important because it isn't until someone maybe brings something to
- 26:15Speaker 3: someone else's attention that they can even begin to understand
- 26:21Speaker 3: how it feels to be the other. I shared this
- 26:24Speaker 3: example at the panel event. But I was going to
- 26:30Speaker 3: be biking uptown to support a friend that was running
- 26:33Speaker 3: an ultra marathon, and he was going to start running
- 26:37Speaker 3: at I believe like six forty five or seven am,
- 26:39Speaker 3: which meant that I had to leave where I live
- 26:42Speaker 3: in Brooklyn around five point fifty and a friend of mine,
- 26:46Speaker 3: a male, and I were going to bike up together,
- 26:49Speaker 3: but we were going to meet up in between our
- 26:51Speaker 3: homes and he suggested, how about on the Manhattan side
- 26:55Speaker 3: of the Williamsburg Bridge For those that aren't familiar with
- 26:59Speaker 3: New York that would have reques me to bike over
- 27:01Speaker 3: a bridge alone.
- 27:02Speaker 2: At five point fifty in the morning in the dark.
- 27:05Speaker 3: And I said to him, I was like, I want
- 27:07Speaker 3: to bike up with you, and I need to bike
- 27:09Speaker 3: up with you, because I actually don't feel safe doing
- 27:11Speaker 3: that on my own, and it was something that no
- 27:15Speaker 3: shade to him, but it's just not something he thinks
- 27:17Speaker 3: about as a man. And so it's bringing this awareness
- 27:22Speaker 3: talking about the things that we do right now to
- 27:26Speaker 3: feel safe, things that maybe others who aren't in the
- 27:31Speaker 3: position that I'm in or you're in, haven't really had
- 27:34Speaker 3: to think about before.
- 27:35Speaker 2: And there's no like, there's no shade in that.
- 27:39Speaker 3: It's genuinely just this is what I go through, and
- 27:42Speaker 3: I want you to understand what I go through so
- 27:45Speaker 3: that we can make better decisions together moving forward. Yeah,
- 27:50Speaker 3: and I also appreciate you bringing up like some of
- 27:53Speaker 3: those like loose maybe tools that we have within our toolbox,
- 27:57Speaker 3: the birdie carrying me, running with friends, knowing your route,
- 28:02Speaker 3: being able to turn on something like a beacon, or
- 28:04Speaker 3: the garment live track so that people can keep up
- 28:06Speaker 3: with you while you're on your run, Like all of
- 28:08Speaker 3: these things. I'm sure no one listening to this like
- 28:11Speaker 3: that's the first time you've heard of them. But again,
- 28:14Speaker 3: there are so many people that don't think about those
- 28:17Speaker 3: tools when they are gearing up to lace up and
- 28:19Speaker 3: get out, like we mentioned our friend whose nickname is
- 28:22Speaker 3: Coffee going out and running at midnight.
- 28:25Speaker 2: Yeah, oh midnight.
- 28:29Speaker 1: I know. But and you know, honestly, even for like
- 28:35Speaker 1: thinking about Coffee too, Like even for him, it's not
- 28:38Speaker 1: even necessarily safe to be going out running at midnight.
- 28:41Speaker 1: And so and that's the other thing is like this
- 28:43Speaker 1: is it's not just a women's issue. This is an
- 28:46Speaker 1: issue for like all of our counterparts who are bipoc.
- 28:50Speaker 1: It's an issue. It's a huge issue for LGBTQ plus
- 28:54Speaker 1: folks in particular. I think there were even more stats
- 29:00Speaker 1: that I saw when we were really creating them with women.
- 29:03Speaker 1: We run initiative around just how LGBTQ plus counterparts are
- 29:10Speaker 1: really at like the highest risk of being attacked. And so,
- 29:15Speaker 1: you know, I think this is like a starting point,
- 29:18Speaker 1: right is and we're coming to it as women, as
- 29:22Speaker 1: white women, so we're coming to it from our lens.
- 29:25Speaker 1: So even like there's stuff that we need to learn
- 29:27Speaker 1: by listening to others who are different from us. So
- 29:31Speaker 1: I think, really, you know, like we said starting the conversation,
- 29:35Speaker 1: it's hard, Like it's not a comfortable conversation. It doesn't
- 29:39Speaker 1: feel great because like we don't have all the answers,
- 29:44Speaker 1: but like starting the conversation is super important.
- 29:47Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, And and something else that we spoke about
- 29:50Speaker 3: at the event, which I heard after had a pretty
- 29:54Speaker 3: big effect was the idea of the different groups that
- 29:58Speaker 3: we can have within our communit for communication to encourage
- 30:02Speaker 3: safety between amongst one another. Right, So, there is a
- 30:08Speaker 3: group that is in Brooklyn and they have a WhatsApp
- 30:12Speaker 3: group that members can come in and chime in and say, hey,
- 30:17Speaker 3: I'm thinking about going running at this time, Like does
- 30:19Speaker 3: anyone around does anyone want to join? And of course,
- 30:21Speaker 3: like all the individuals within the group, they know each other,
- 30:24Speaker 3: so there's like some comfortability there. But upon sharing that
- 30:29Speaker 3: at our event, I ran into two women that belonged
- 30:33Speaker 3: to a different group that runs out of Manhattan and
- 30:37Speaker 3: they said, oh, we actually created a WhatsApp group after that,
- 30:40Speaker 3: and it's been super helpful, right, just so that people
- 30:42Speaker 3: know that if you want to get out, that you
- 30:44Speaker 3: don't necessarily need to run alone, and that like it
- 30:49Speaker 3: seems so small, but it can make such a major difference, right,
- 30:54Speaker 3: And I even think it's like the access to that,
- 30:58Speaker 3: it's the it's not having a stigma or about the
- 31:03Speaker 3: fact that you want to run with somebody else and
- 31:05Speaker 3: someone's like, you can't just go for a run. You know,
- 31:07Speaker 3: there's there's no input from other people in the club
- 31:12Speaker 3: saying like here's Emily asking again to see if anybody's
- 31:17Speaker 3: around for a run, Like no, like you're her teammate,
- 31:20Speaker 3: so like, if you're around for a run, then say
- 31:23Speaker 3: you're around for a run, and if you're not, there's
- 31:25Speaker 3: nothing to say about the fact that this person's just
- 31:27Speaker 3: trying to be safe in their execution.
- 31:30Speaker 2: Yeah, which I think is challenging.
- 31:31Speaker 1: Yeah, it is. I love that people immediately coming out
- 31:37Speaker 1: of that conversation were like, oh, let's try it right,
- 31:40Speaker 1: like that openness to there are some other things we
- 31:44Speaker 1: can do and we know it's an issue. I love
- 31:48Speaker 1: that it's funny because well it's not funny. But immediately
- 31:53Speaker 1: after the Eliza Fletcher tragedy, you know, I brought it
- 31:58Speaker 1: up to one of my colleagues and not not specifically
- 32:04Speaker 1: like on the Adidas Runners Leadership team, but someone who
- 32:07Speaker 1: also runs, and they were the first thing they said
- 32:10Speaker 1: was like, why was she out at four am? And
- 32:13Speaker 1: you know I immediately was just like, ah, like I
- 32:16Speaker 1: like I had all these things I wanted to say,
- 32:17Speaker 1: and I was just like, oh my god, Like you know,
- 32:21Speaker 1: there was that immediate judgment of like, well, and I
- 32:25Speaker 1: think we get that too, which is like, what was
- 32:26Speaker 1: she wearing, why was she why was she wearing that,
- 32:29Speaker 1: Why was she out at this time? Why was she alone?
- 32:31Speaker 1: Why did she choose that route? And I think, I
- 32:36Speaker 1: mean obviously, like we know the answers to those things.
- 32:39Speaker 1: She's teacher, she's a mother, Like it makes sense, Like
- 32:42Speaker 1: we get it. Like I think a lot of women
- 32:46Speaker 1: were like, of course that's when she would run, so
- 32:48Speaker 1: she could get up then and you know, take care
- 32:50Speaker 1: of her kids and go to work.
- 32:53Speaker 2: But yeah, like.
- 32:54Speaker 1: Even like bringing that level of awareness to other runners
- 32:58Speaker 1: who like, don't it's not a concern of theirs, like
- 33:03Speaker 1: or they're not even thinking this is an issue, And
- 33:06Speaker 1: there are so many things like that. I think one
- 33:08Speaker 1: thing that was interesting after our panel discussion, a lot
- 33:13Speaker 1: of people reached out to me after that, like immediately
- 33:17Speaker 1: folks that I don't know that well, who either were
- 33:22Speaker 1: very thankful that the conversation was starting or who felt
- 33:25Speaker 1: like there was so much more that we need to
- 33:27Speaker 1: talk about. And I was like, oh, yeah, this is
- 33:31Speaker 1: really just a tip of the Iceberg.
- 33:33Speaker 3: To be honest, Yeah, was there like a prompting in
- 33:37Speaker 3: the other things that we should be talking about?
- 33:40Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm and this one kind of hits home for me.
- 33:44Speaker 1: But a couple of people were like, we need to
- 33:47Speaker 1: talk about our groups being safe, our groups feeling like
- 33:52Speaker 1: a safe space where women are not being sexually harassed
- 33:56Speaker 1: or worse. And I was like, oh shit, yeah, I
- 34:03Speaker 1: mean we were talking so much about, you know, strange
- 34:06Speaker 1: the idea of strangers being a danger, but like, what
- 34:10Speaker 1: about the people around you? What about the people that
- 34:12Speaker 1: are close to you? And how do we deal with that?
- 34:16Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 34:17Speaker 3: I don't have the specific statistic, but I know that
- 34:19Speaker 3: you're more likely to be harassed by someone that you
- 34:22Speaker 3: do know than someone that you don't. And that is
- 34:27Speaker 3: just so heartbreaking because for so many, myself included, I
- 34:31Speaker 3: often think of the run community as an outlet, as
- 34:34Speaker 3: a safe space, but you never know, you never know
- 34:38Speaker 3: what could happen, and so it's difficult and like frustrating
- 34:43Speaker 3: and heartbreaking to an extent to think about that place
- 34:47Speaker 3: that often we look to you for community being a
- 34:50Speaker 3: place that also could be troublesome or even triggering for some.
- 34:57Speaker 3: Now when you say the concept of we need to
- 35:00Speaker 3: be more maybe supportive or inclusive within our groups. I
- 35:04Speaker 3: know that that also extends, And this is a conversation
- 35:07Speaker 3: we had on that evening about even pace inclusivity, right,
- 35:13Speaker 3: because oftentimes many people are husband to show up to
- 35:17Speaker 3: different running groups because they're scared of being quote unquote
- 35:21Speaker 3: the slowest, being left behind.
- 35:22Speaker 2: No one wants to be left behind.
- 35:24Speaker 3: And perhaps I would argue more often than not that
- 35:28Speaker 3: the people that feel that way are women. So when
- 35:31Speaker 3: we say pace inclusivity, what do you what does that
- 35:37Speaker 3: mean to you? How can we be more conscious of
- 35:40Speaker 3: making sure that everyone within the group is safe and
- 35:43Speaker 3: accounted for.
- 35:44Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a great I mean, that's so interesting because
- 35:49Speaker 1: I'm it's making me think about lots of like early
- 35:54Speaker 1: running experiences I had, where especially if you're new, Oh,
- 36:01Speaker 1: you might be one of the slowest people, or you
- 36:03Speaker 1: might be one of the less fit people, because that's
- 36:07Speaker 1: kind of a common experience if you're new to a group,
- 36:10Speaker 1: like you may not have built up the fitness base,
- 36:13Speaker 1: you might not have years under your belts, et cetera.
- 36:16Speaker 1: So I can recall like plenty of times being the
- 36:19Speaker 1: last one in a group, even getting lost and kind
- 36:23Speaker 1: of just being like, uh, you know, good thing, I
- 36:25Speaker 1: know my way around like a little bit. It does
- 36:28Speaker 1: tend to I mean, there's lots of different reasons why
- 36:32Speaker 1: maybe the men, maybe men who are slower don't approach
- 36:35Speaker 1: groups because they feel the same way, you know, and
- 36:38Speaker 1: like I don't know, I'm sure there have been plenty
- 36:41Speaker 1: of times there are men in our groups that show
- 36:43Speaker 1: up in there in the back as well. But it
- 36:46Speaker 1: does tend to skew women, yeah, from what I've seen,
- 36:51Speaker 1: and that does it can become a safety issue from
- 36:55Speaker 1: a physical standpoint of getting lost or getting left behind,
- 36:59Speaker 1: and so well, yeah, thinking about that within our groups,
- 37:02Speaker 1: like who is looking after the back of the group,
- 37:06Speaker 1: And I can think of some actually power Malu stands
- 37:09Speaker 1: out obviously as like a really incredible figure in the
- 37:13Speaker 1: running community, who's if you ever ran with him, He's
- 37:17Speaker 1: super caring and he will always be in the back.
- 37:22Speaker 1: He's literally like making sure no one gets left behind.
- 37:26Speaker 1: And I appreciate folks like that who kind of set
- 37:30Speaker 1: aside their own maybe running goals for the greater good
- 37:35Speaker 1: of other people. So I love that. I love that
- 37:38Speaker 1: groups have spaces like that or they think about putting
- 37:43Speaker 1: people into leadership positions that are also helping out beginners
- 37:48Speaker 1: or people who are slower in the back.
- 37:50Speaker 3: Speaking of people in leadership positions, this also brings us
- 37:53Speaker 3: to that important conversation about groups having both male and
- 37:57Speaker 3: female leadership right making sure that individuals feel comfortable speaking
- 38:03Speaker 3: to whoever they may choose to speak to about how
- 38:07Speaker 3: they feel in the group, their safety in the group,
- 38:10Speaker 3: and things like that. So why would you say that
- 38:13Speaker 3: that is also important to have genders represented at the
- 38:18Speaker 3: group leadership level.
- 38:19Speaker 1: Diversity in representation in leadership is important for many reasons.
- 38:26Speaker 1: One of those reasons being that you have that person
- 38:30Speaker 1: to say or challenge, Hey, you just said we should
- 38:34Speaker 1: do it like this, but also what about this? So
- 38:38Speaker 1: there's an alternate perspective that's brought to the table when
- 38:43Speaker 1: you're even just planning something like a run, So already
- 38:47Speaker 1: there's that there's someone else thinking about others versus there
- 38:52Speaker 1: being one maybe one viewpoint or one perspective. In particular, also,
- 38:58Speaker 1: having women in leadership, I've witnessed it bring more women
- 39:01Speaker 1: into a group because they see a woman leading and
- 39:06Speaker 1: they're like, okay, so someone might be looking out for
- 39:09Speaker 1: my interests or this might be a safe space. I
- 39:12Speaker 1: think it sort of indicates even just from appearances, this
- 39:15Speaker 1: could potentially be a safe space to join. And then,
- 39:19Speaker 1: like you were saying, having someone else who could potentially
- 39:24Speaker 1: be a listening ear if something was going on, if
- 39:27Speaker 1: something was happening, and that might not always be the
- 39:32Speaker 1: coach or the leader. It might be a pacer, or
- 39:34Speaker 1: it might be a community member who's been there forever
- 39:38Speaker 1: and people confide in them and they feel comfortable to
- 39:42Speaker 1: share what's going on. I know within the groups that
- 39:46Speaker 1: I've led, there's always eyes and ears that like sort
- 39:50Speaker 1: of know what's going on, that will know way before
- 39:54Speaker 1: the coach or the captain knows. And so creating a
- 39:58Speaker 1: space where they feel safe enough to bring that to
- 40:01Speaker 1: you and that you could come up with a solution
- 40:04Speaker 1: for what happened, I think is super important.
- 40:08Speaker 2: Yeah, it is super important.
- 40:09Speaker 3: And this takes me too, or it makes me think
- 40:13Speaker 3: of kind of going back to that residual frustration that
- 40:17Speaker 3: was echoed across the room, this concept that we're still
- 40:23Speaker 3: having these conversations. I don't know what to do next,
- 40:26Speaker 3: and I think the best thing to do is really
- 40:30Speaker 3: just start, like just start having conversations like this one
- 40:36Speaker 3: with people that you care about, with fellow runners, and
- 40:40Speaker 3: then take any sort of action that you can to
- 40:44Speaker 3: make yourself feel at least one percent safer when you
- 40:47Speaker 3: head out there. Right, So, for me, last week, I
- 40:50Speaker 3: went to I go to an all women's strength class
- 40:54Speaker 3: once a week, and I love that space. And literally
- 40:58Speaker 3: the coach bought us all all pepper spray to have
- 41:02Speaker 3: a it. Like my heart feels some kind of way
- 41:05Speaker 3: that like that's the thing that we were distributing at
- 41:07Speaker 3: our women's strength class.
- 41:08Speaker 2: But I feel thankful.
- 41:11Speaker 3: Not only that now I obviously have this tool at
- 41:14Speaker 3: my disposal if I should need it, but also like
- 41:17Speaker 3: a space to air out how I feel about my
- 41:20Speaker 3: frustrations within this group of female runners who are making
- 41:24Speaker 3: time and it a priority to strength train also, which
- 41:27Speaker 3: is something that I haven't typically done in the past.
- 41:31Speaker 3: You know. The action item is like, how can you
- 41:34Speaker 3: make yourself feel one percent safer because of all those
- 41:39Speaker 3: reasons that you articulated at the top of how running
- 41:41Speaker 3: made you feel? Right, Like, all of those reasons are
- 41:43Speaker 3: why we keep running. I keep running because I want
- 41:46Speaker 3: to feel capable. I want to be reminded of my
- 41:48Speaker 3: own potential. I want to be able to de stress
- 41:50Speaker 3: about my day. And that is why despite this, these
- 41:55Speaker 3: tragedies happening every so often unfortunately, like we keep playing
- 42:00Speaker 3: sing up right. So I owe it to myself if
- 42:03Speaker 3: I want to keep doing the thing that I love
- 42:05Speaker 3: so much that makes me feel some kind of way,
- 42:07Speaker 3: to have these talks and think about what I can
- 42:11Speaker 3: do to get one percent safer. What would you say
- 42:16Speaker 3: is something that someone listening to this could do to
- 42:22Speaker 3: head in that direction?
- 42:24Speaker 1: Yeah? I mean as the community person, I'm always gonna
- 42:31Speaker 1: push finding a buddy.
- 42:33Speaker 2: Yeah, and you'll find.
- 42:35Speaker 1: Buddies in the unexpected places. I've had people become my
- 42:39Speaker 1: running buddies who never thought they would want to ever
- 42:43Speaker 1: run in their life. And there were different reasons why
- 42:46Speaker 1: we got together and did it. One in particular, I'm
- 42:50Speaker 1: thinking about my friend Anna, and I was like, she
- 42:53Speaker 1: wanted to get coffee in the morning before work. This
- 42:55Speaker 1: is years ago, and I was like, cool, we will,
- 42:58Speaker 1: but we have to jog, like to we have the
- 43:00Speaker 1: jog two miles and then we'll get coffee and a bagel.
- 43:03Speaker 1: And she was like, okay, I could do that, and
- 43:06Speaker 1: it became a thing. It turned into a whole group
- 43:08Speaker 1: like of folks, and we used coffee and bagels and
- 43:12Speaker 1: donuts and whatever at the end, but it really became
- 43:15Speaker 1: this like camaraderie of folks getting together just to move
- 43:20Speaker 1: and definitely like, can you enlist someone right, like to
- 43:24Speaker 1: be your accountability partner, to be that person that you're like, hey,
- 43:28Speaker 1: I'm going out for a run. Maybe you meet me
- 43:32Speaker 1: like part of the way, and then we text each
- 43:34Speaker 1: other when we leave, and we text each other when
- 43:36Speaker 1: we get back. Like, it doesn't always have to be
- 43:39Speaker 1: that you run everything together, right, Maybe you find a
- 43:42Speaker 1: group that feels comfortable for you to join. And there's
- 43:47Speaker 1: so many different groups, at least here in New York
- 43:50Speaker 1: where it's a luxury. Outside of New York, it's not
- 43:54Speaker 1: like that. I know, there's plenty of friends of mine
- 43:57Speaker 1: and people who live elsewhere where there's like one run
- 44:00Speaker 1: club in the whole city, right, So that's tough, right,
- 44:04Speaker 1: And so I think, you know, if you can find
- 44:08Speaker 1: a buddy and that they somehow are your partner, that's great.
- 44:14Speaker 1: If not, then it does become those things where you're like,
- 44:19Speaker 1: all right, when are the safe times for me to
- 44:21Speaker 1: be out? What are the safe places that I feel
- 44:24Speaker 1: comfortable in? You know, I'm going to Austin for the holidays,
- 44:28Speaker 1: and I like to run when I'm there, and I
- 44:30Speaker 1: actually find that it's a little bit harder to find
- 44:34Speaker 1: running routes there, even though people are like, there's such
- 44:36Speaker 1: a big running city and like, but where, But Ladybird
- 44:39Speaker 1: Lake is one place I'll go run because I know
- 44:42Speaker 1: that it's all runners there, Like people are running walking,
- 44:45Speaker 1: and I know when they're going to be there, and
- 44:47Speaker 1: so I plan. I'm like, Okay, I've got this amount
- 44:50Speaker 1: of distance I'm going to do. If I have to
- 44:53Speaker 1: loop it, I loop it. But I just stay in
- 44:55Speaker 1: the most populated area. I go during daylight hours my
- 45:00Speaker 1: day around it. And I do that because it's a
- 45:03Speaker 1: priority for me, and I understand like everyone doesn't have
- 45:06Speaker 1: that luxury. But those would just be like a couple
- 45:10Speaker 1: of tips. But I feel like there's so many things
- 45:12Speaker 1: we could do.
- 45:13Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that that one of knowing your route,
- 45:16Speaker 3: like really at its foundation, is just so important, right,
- 45:19Speaker 3: Like just so important to know where you're going and
- 45:22Speaker 3: have an awareness around you. For sure, I'm like sitting
- 45:26Speaker 3: here chuckling a little bit, not because of our conversation,
- 45:28Speaker 3: but literally for the last I think forty one minutes
- 45:31Speaker 3: for a better part of it, there's been like sirens
- 45:33Speaker 3: outside and I feel like it's like oddly fitting for
- 45:37Speaker 3: the topic. So apologies to anyone who has been hearing
- 45:41Speaker 3: those as we record. I'm glad that we were able
- 45:45Speaker 3: to like sit down and jam a little bit about
- 45:47Speaker 3: this and to you know, your point and what's been
- 45:50Speaker 3: said so many times throughout this episode is like, really,
- 45:52Speaker 3: this is just the tip of the iceberg, and the
- 45:55Speaker 3: best thing that we can do is continue to have
- 45:58Speaker 3: conversations like this. I know that I will be hosting
- 46:03Speaker 3: some sort of a large format conversation on safety during
- 46:06Speaker 3: LA Marathon weekends, so stay tuned for that if you're
- 46:09Speaker 3: out in that area or plan on running. Jesse, how
- 46:13Speaker 3: do the hurdlers keep up with you? How do they
- 46:16Speaker 3: follow along with you? Give us some information?
- 46:18Speaker 2: Can they run with you?
- 46:19Speaker 1: I r L Yeah, So a couple of things. I'm
- 46:24Speaker 1: Jesse Zappo on Twitter and Instagram. More active on Instagram.
- 46:31Speaker 1: Probably the easiest way to find me is also at
- 46:34Speaker 1: Girls Run NYC. We do a weekly workout on Wednesdays
- 46:39Speaker 1: at six Where do you directly mccaren track, which also
- 46:44Speaker 1: that was another thing we created Girls run as a
- 46:47Speaker 1: women's specific space, and we made it on the track
- 46:52Speaker 1: so that no one would ever get lost or ever
- 46:54Speaker 1: get left behind. So that was our pace inclusive strategy.
- 47:00Speaker 1: And yeah, I mean you can find us on Instagram.
- 47:04Speaker 1: We always post. If we're taking a day off, we
- 47:06Speaker 1: usually post it there, but we're once a week. And obviously,
- 47:12Speaker 1: like you know, for folks who aren't in New York City,
- 47:17Speaker 1: sometimes just following along and seeing what other people are
- 47:19Speaker 1: doing can make you feel like you're a part of
- 47:22Speaker 1: something bigger. So yeah, keep it active, follow along, keep up.
- 47:27Speaker 3: I'm over at Hurdle Podcast and at Emily a Body
- 47:30Speaker 3: Another Hurdle Conquered.
- 47:32Speaker 2: Catch you guys next time.